Pure Modesty

You Make a Difference!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 13:44:00 +0000

A Final Giveaway

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 03 Aug 2012 13:02:00 +0000

As you know, I will no longer be blogging and so I wanted to close this chapter the same way I opened it. With a fantastic giveaway!!!

As a first generation Christian, books have often been my mentor. Today, I wanted to give away a wonderful book that has encouraged me along the way!

Simply fill out the form below for your chance to win!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Another resource that you can get for FREE through Google Books is The Beautiful Home by JR Miller.

Best Wishes!

Six Reasons to Quit

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Mon, 30 Jul 2012 14:06:00 +0000

"Mommy, can I change my dress?"

"No, why?"

"Jenny, (the neighbor-girl accross the street) said she didn't like my dress."

"She said that?"

"Well no, but she said she liked Anabelle's and didn't say anything about mine."

Tears starting to swell in her beautiful brown eyes...

My four year old is worried about her clothes.

I have work to do, and it's surely not here.

When I began Pure Modesty, I had no idea I would end up with over 1500 fans and friends! (I'm seriously amazed!)

Because we are all given the same amount of time in which to use our day, I need to be a good steward of every minute I am blessed with. I want my Heavenly Father to say to me,"Well done..."

With prayer and counsel from my husband, this season of blogging for me has come to an end.

It has been my prayer from the beginning, you would find encouragement and resources to help you along in your journey, where ever it may be, to glorify the Lord through feminine dress, and homemaking by breathing life into your home.

Even though I will no longer write post or share other wonderful links, this site will remain open as a resource for you.

If you notice, there is a new tab titled, "31:24 & More" If you have a cottage industry, web-site, ebook, Etsy store, or you are a "consultant" working from your home, I would love to have you listed under this tab. I created this tab to help women who are contributing from home to aid in their "home economy" Please email me at puremodesty info at gmail dot com. If you would like to be listed.

I will also be removing my Facebook account, as it is one less responsibility to look over.

Just as I began this blog with a giveaway, I would love to end it with one as well! Stay in touch this week to see what the prize will be!

Thank you for your loving support!

In His service,

How to Grow Your Blog Review & Weekend Links

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 27 Jul 2012 18:19:00 +0000

Here are a couple of links I wanted to pass along, but first I want to share with you my review of, "How to Grow Your Blog, and Manage Your Home" by Jacinda from Growing Home.

When I began blogging three years ago, I had no clue what I was doing, I just wanted a place to write. Write what? I had no idea, but everyone was doing it and I wanted to as well. Big mistake!

Once I figured out what I wanted to write about, I still did it poorly, and what I did learn, I learned the hard way!

How to Grow Your Blog, and Manage Your Home is perfect for women who want their blogs to thrive without compromising the well being of their homes and families.

First thing first: Should You Blog? This is the first and most important chapter in her book. I don't think this is a chapter written solely for the newbie blogger. Every blogger needs a heart-check from time to time. The truth of this chapter is convicting and loving all at the same time!

Jacinda writing is easy to read! I will be the first to admit, I am a computer nerd but in the wrong sense of the word. I'm not techy at all, so I am thankful when I have something in front of me I can easily understand and follow through with. From your blog layout and design, to making money blogging, Jacinda walks you through each step to having a better blog.
I wash I had this book three years ago!

If you are considering starting a blog, or want to give your current blog a fresh look, I would recommend you also purchase Jacinda's other ebook, "How to Design a Blog for FREE." Again, Jacinda breaks down all the computer lingo into easy to understand how-to instructions.

Easy-peasy, I promise!

p.s., Jacinda gave me a free copy, but all opinions are my own. :0)

Now for the links...

If you scroll down my sidebar to "Kindred Spirits" you will see "Heroines of the Faith"
JES is so lovely and delightful and encouraging and I simply hope that you will subscribe to her blog. My daughters and I have been working through the Bible very slowly so we can soak in as much detail as possible when it comes to the places and people we are reading about. JES has a wonderful post about Why Noah's Flood is Important for Mothers and Maidens. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! You should also consider reading through her Godly Princess Unit Study!

Visit Life With jack for some encouraging words for mom's from 1 Corinthians 13. I really enjoyed this!

Last night our family was able to listen to some beautiful Bluegrass music downtown. I am still in awe that the Lord has brought us here! Isn't this beautiful!?

Whatever your plans are, I pray you have a great weekend!

Be sure to visit my lovely sponsors, Joyfully Sewn Designs and Sunny Patch Cottage! Modest clothing for the little girls in your life!

Lilla Rose Clearance Sale!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 25 Jul 2012 17:10:00 +0000

I just received word from Paula Ramm about this fantastic clearance sale for Lilla Rose!

Now is a great time to stock up on the wonderful Flexi Clip!

CLEARANCE ITEMS are specially marked items with reduced pricing by at least 30% for the next 4 days.

Offer starts at 12:01AM on July 25, 2012 and ends 11:59PM on July 28, 2012 Pacific Standard Time.

APPLICABLE ITEMS: 1-0490, 1-1434, 2-0288, 2-0289, 2-0523, 3-0429, 3-0541, 4-0180, 4-1425, 6-0720, 6-0930, 6-1359, 8-0318, 8-1054.

Have fun shopping!

Be sure to visit my lovely sponsors, Joyfully Sewn Designs, Sunny Patch Cottage, Victorian Rose Soap, Co., and Like a Mustard Seed!

Almost is still good, right?

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Tue, 17 Jul 2012 13:04:00 +0000

I may not be there yet but I’m closer than I was yesterday – Natalia Campbell

Sometimes I give myself a big fat, Sharpie red, letter "F" for failure.

Do I set myself up to fail?

Or maybe I expect too much of myself.

I am a visionary. I have a whole lot of ideas floating around my head with no outlet. What is dangerous about being a visionary, is having the vision then for whatever circumstance, the vision is blurred. (No outlet.) Each month I am supposed to read two new books and learn one new skill. Then I changed it to one new book and one new skill. Now it's just one new book.

But it doesn't stop there...

I still haven't ordered my book for this month and the skill I had hoped to learn

is still in the packaging on my nightstand!

{sigh}

Almost counts, because in all things I want to please Him. Because in all ways, He directs my paths.

Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails.~Proverbs 19:21

I am one step closer to a greater prize!

That of understanding Jesus and this faith walk He is guiding me on.

And for that I am thankful!

(A+ with a gold star.)

Be sure to visit my lovely sponsors, Joyfully Sewn Designs, Sunny Patch Cottage, and Craving's!

Weekend Links

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 13 Jul 2012 15:25:00 +0000

Ahh the weekend. How I adore you!

Here are some great reads I wanted to share with you...

Ordinary Moments has written a beautiful piece to her daughter. Here is a quote: "Having THE PRINCE OF PEACE is what makes you a princess. You are loved more abundantly by your Heavenly Father and you are complete in Him alone." Thanks to one of my dear readers for introducing this lovely blog to me!

Even though this next post has to do with ranching, I love it! The Sagebrush Sea gives a list of 25 Things I Want My Ranch Kids To Know. My favorite is number 10.

Speaking of judging...I get hate mail. Lot's. Who knew that wearing clothing would be so controversial. The main theme within those emails is the "judging" word. I'm sorry, have we met? Do you know who I once was? Certainly not one to judge. Head on over to In the Nursery of the Nation to listen to a short clip on The Verse Pagans Love to Quote.

I woke up this morning to Jacqueline's Post, "Cracked Vessels" in my inbox. Her words were like a balm to my heart.

Living in the south has given us so many adventures! Are we really even in the south? I'm still trying to figure that one out. Anyway, sweet tea, chiggers, hurricane force winds...good times! I started a new blog called White House, Black Shutters so I can keep an account of it all. It's a work in progress since I will be writing it to and for my children. In the mean time, here is a short clip of something new and exciting to us!

Have a great weekend!

Joyfully Sewn Designs

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Mon, 09 Jul 2012 12:35:00 +0000

Price.

Quality.

Durability.

These are three key components I look for when I shop for clothing for my family.

Last fall I had the privelage of reviewing a lovely twirly skirt for my eldest daughter. Today I am honored to bring you another review for two more adorable, and modest skirts for little girls from Joyfully Sewn Designs!

There are hardly words to describe how cute this is! Here is my sweet Ellie wearing an adorable tiered, mint green little girl skirt with rick-rack trim. (squishy cheeks not included)

You can see that while playing, the skirts still remains modest and discreet.

Charlotte is wearing the Girls Patchwork Peasant Twirl Skirt

A few days later, you could find her in the yard practicing her twirly skills!

My favorite part of this skirt? The BLOOMERS!

A secret weapon for dressing modestly!

Sarah, from Joyfully Sewn Designs really is a "joy" to work with. Not only were my items shipped quickly, but they were just as described and fit my daughters measurements perfectly! Her craftsmanship is stellar and the fabric washes excellent. (No fading or fabric balls.) Sarah also sews custom orders as well as skirts for ladies!

Be sure to browse Sarah's gallery of photo's to see even more of her gorgeous creations!

Right now, Sarah is graciously offering a 10% discount on your entire order for all new and returning customers. Simply use the code MODESTY10 at checkout!

Happy Shopping!

Disclaimer: I was given one product piece in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.

Happy Independence Day!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 04 Jul 2012 11:50:00 +0000

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IN CONGRESS, July 4, 1776.

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.--Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:
For Quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies:
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:
For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our Brittish brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which, would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.

Sunny Patch Cottage

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 13:18:00 +0000

Sunflowers and Polka Dots!

What could be more sweet?

You can imagine the squeals I heard when the package from Sunny Patch Cottage arrived, holding this adorable dress!

All four girls wondered who would get to wear it!

Angela from Sunny Patch Cottage offers a variety of modest skirt's, dresses, and bloomers for little girls. Her craftsmanship is detailed and of very excellent quality. I know this dress will wear well enough to pass down to another lucky girl!

As you can see this dress is perfect for playing, climbing or swatting down to look at roly-poly's!

I highly recommend Sunny Patch Cottage for finding modest clothes, and keeping the "little" in little girl!

Would you like a dress from Sunny Patch Cottage?

Head over to Growing Home to find out how you can win $20 to Sunny Patch Cottage!

Disclosure: This post is generously sponsored by Sunny Patch Cottage. I received product for the purpose of this review. All opinions are my own.

Honey

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 13:12:00 +0000

Get this free printable at Wool & Flax!

Have I mentioned how much I love my gracious Sponsors? Be sure to stop by Victorian Rose Soap Co., Joyfully Sewn Designs, Sunny Patch Cottage, and Craving's!

Slip Extenders

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 12:45:00 +0000

I have to confess...

I really wanted this fabulous item to be in my soon to be fabulous Etsy shop. But the more I looked into it, the more reality became clear to me.

Six children...homeschooling...blogging...summer...the pool...the fun...

Really? When am I going to have time for Etsy???

I'm still working on the shop and it may take ages but I will get there. In the mean time, here are two equally fabulous gals with slip extenders on the market.

What is a Slip Extender?

Well, think about that super cute skirt you wanted to buy, but it was just a little too short for your morals so you had to pass it by. With a slip extender you wouldn't have to say goodbye to said cute skirt! The slip "extends" the skirt length!

I love this idea!

A Slip Shop

Here is another beauty from A Slip Shop

Babbling's and More also has extenders:

Or you can make your very own!

iCandy Handmade shows you how and it really is 'sew' simple!

Do you have an Etsy store? Feel free to share the link!

(Please respect my Christian belief's and keep it clean.)

Have a blessed weekend!

Dont' forget to enter my current giveaway and be sure to visit my sponsors, Victorian Rose Soap Co., Joyfully Sewn Designs, Sunny Patch Cottage, and Craving's!

Surprise Post!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 13 Jun 2012 12:43:00 +0000

I am so happy to share with you a surprise post!

Cheryl from Treasures From a Shoe Box has offered her thoughts on modesty for the Modest Mentors Series, and I am so honored! Cheryl has been a faithful reader,(and friend) for a few years and I'm delighted she is here to share in her wisdom!

The term Modesty has a broad definition these days. What does Modesty mean to you?

I believe modesty begins in the heart and involves much more than simply how I dress, but encompasses how I present myself through my behavior, the words I speak and my attitude, as well. Modesty means not being forward or showing off. It means to be pure in thought and in conduct. It is possible to be completely covered and still behave immodestly.

Have you always dressed modestly? Why? (if not describe briefly what changed.)

I have not always dressed modestly. I was never much into name-brands or dressing fashionably, but I did wear tight jeans, shorts and inappropriate tops at times. I did not possess any sense of discretion, which landed me into some embarrassing situations. When I was thirty-two years old, during the darkest moment of my life I fully surrendered to Jesus Christ. The first Sunday I attended church, I borrowed a dress from my neighbor, because I didn't own one and felt that I should wear a dress. I soon began to reject everything that represented who I had been before coming to Christ; drugs and alcohol, foul language, cigarette smoking, rock and country music, and finally in the area of my dress. Conviction was slow, but steady until eventually my husband and I both prayerfully decided that it would be best if I traded in my shorts and jeans for dresses and skirts. Dressing in this new way caused me to feel feminine and it truly impacted my behavior. I didn't know much about being "lady-like", but I had a sudden desire to learn.

How would you answer, "I can dress how I want because Jesus looks at my heart!"

I believe Jesus is very concerned with my heart, but what is in my heart will be demonstrated in the words I speak, my behavior and how I dress. As a child of God, I do not want to dress in a manner that would cause another person to have wrong thoughts. In Matthew 5:28, Jesus says, "Whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." (Emphasis mine). WITH HER, not against her; giving the connotation that she bears some of the responsibility and has done something to cause him to lust. In 1 Timothy 2:9, we are told that women are to "adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly." I want to dress to please my Savior.

What do you think is the greatest challenge women face today when it comes to purity and virtue?

Purity and virtue are counter-cultural in our hedonistic society. High-profile role models dress provocatively and behave indecently on one end of the spectrum, while at the other end, there are precious few Titus 2 women who are willing to mentor the younger ladies who are raising the next generation of girls. It has become a downward spiral.

Did you have a mentor? If not who was your greatest womanly influence?

My Pastor's wife was my first Christian woman mentor. There are a few precious older women in our small congregation, whom I consider "treasures" and several other women in our church who are great examples of the virtuous woman of Proverbs 31. We feel very blessed that the Lord put us in the midst of so many other Godly families.

Would you like to share any other wisdom with my readers?

A thought that has stuck with me that greatly impacted my thinking are words I heard soon after coming to Christ: If the world is going one way, followers of Christ should be going in the opposite direction. It seems women who dress modestly are like fish swimming upstream. It helps to remember Who we are dressing to please.

If you want to know what the Lord thinks about your manner of dress, just ask Him! Some helpful verses to aid your study:

1 Timothy 2:9

1 Peter 3:1-4

Matthew 5:28

1 Corinthians 6:19

Cheryl is an unashamed follower of Jesus Christ, wife to Terry for 24 years, mom to ten children (several of which are adults already!), grandma to two precious grandbabies, so far, and an occasional blogger. She blogs to give hope to those who are hurting, to exhort and encourage women in their high calling as wife and mother, and to bring glory to her Savior. You can read more about Cheryl at her blog, Treasures From a Shoebox.

Dont' forget to enter my current giveaway and be sure to visit my sponsors, Victorian Rose Soap Co., Joyfully Sewn Designs, Sunny Patch Cottage, and Craving's!

Lilla Rose You Pin Giveaway!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Mon, 11 Jun 2012 05:45:00 +0000

I am over the moon for this giveaway!

For about six years, I have been in a pony tail rut.

Every day is the same.

Pony tail after pony-tail...
Boring old pony-tail!

So I thought I would mix it up a bit and try a bun. I love having my hair in a bun but after a while, the bobby pins would give me headaches. What transformed is what I have now named " the workout bun."

Not quite a pony tail and not quite a bun. A little bit of both with a lot of lazy mixed in. Some wear them high, some wear them low. Either way, after a while it just looks like a big mess. In fact, if you type in 'messy bun' in any search engine, there are a ton of how-to's and images!

Here is the really good...

(The Small Things Blog)

The oh so bad...

source

And the reality of a stay at home mom, using the ahhmazing Lilla Rose You-Pins...

Yes, this is me!

I put this little collage together so you can see how beautiful (and easy) the You-Pins are!

I styled my hair with braids on each side, then attempted the messy bun. Adding the Etched Daisy's You-Pins made my style more elegant and held the "mess" together!

Here is a quick tutorial on using the You-Pins:

Wouldn't you love to win a set of You-Pins for your self?

Thought so!

Many thank you's to Independent Consultant, Paula Ramm for sponsoring this fabulous giveaway!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

If your not sure what size Flexi Clip to order, be sure to watch this quick video on choosing the correct size for your hair type!

Best wishes!

Modest Mentor Series~Melinda

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 06 Jun 2012 05:36:00 +0000

Welcome to Pure Modesty’s, Modest Mentor Series!

In the spirit of Titus 2, I have asked women whom I greatly respect and admire to answer a few questions that relate to modesty. I’ll be the first to admit that I don’t have all the answers nor have I arrived at being a “Modest Mentor” myself, because dressing modestly is more than just skirts!

I hope the interviews in this series will be helpful wherever you are in your journey of becoming a virtuous woman!

I am happy to have Melinda from Musing's of a Minister's Wife finish this wonderful series!

The term Modesty has a broad definition these days. What does Modesty mean to you?

Modesty is more than just covered knees and elbows. True modesty should affect more than just our wardrobe. Our modesty should be evident in our glance, in our walk, in our attitude, and in our speech—all of which stem from the heart. As any farmer knows, it doesn’t matter what crop you are planting if the soil is not right. It really is a matter of “from the ground up.” You have to dig, you have to add, you have to take away, and you have to water before you can ever grow healthy fruit with a healthy root system that will endure through all phases of life.

Have you always dressed modestly? Why? (If not describe briefly what changed.)

I most definitely was NOT a modest dresser. There was no such thing as too tight, too low-cut, or too short for me. I looked good, and I knew it. I envisioned myself as tastefully but scantily clad. I was the girl that everybody stopped and stared at when she walked in the room. It was more than just my nice clothes on my nicely aerobicized body—it was the attitude that permeated from me. I was a girl that got what I wanted, and what I wanted was every man’s attention. It sounds silly to say all of that now, but it needs to be said to validate the extent of my testimony.

When my husband and I joined a church, no one said anything to me about my style of dress. Of course, I knew better than to go to church in a leather halter top, but changing clothes doesn’t change the heart. God started to really convict me about my attitude and my touchy-feely, flirty ways and my wardrobe. I blush just thinking about the person I once was. Who was that girl that I used to be? That’s right—she’s buried in the water in the precious name of Jesus!

How would you answer, "I can dress how I want because Jesus looks at my heart!"

Some of you may have read my Personal Guidelines for Modesty article, so this will sound familiar to you. But it bears repeating : )

Jesus loved me in my sin, but He doesn’t want me to keep living in it
If my heart is right, it will show up on the outside at some point
Guys are going to look, especially if I am putting my goodies on display
Don’t act like you don’t judge people. If I see a man dressed like a police officer, I’m going to assume that he’s a policeman.

What do you think is the greatest challenge women face today when it comes to purity and virtue?

The greatest challenge that Christian women face today is that being impure and without virtue is so acceptable in the Christian community. The pastor’s wife is the example to the women in the church. If she can’t even get her act together and cover up her own boobs and show a work ethic, why would we expect the women in her congregation to do so?

The greatest challenge that non-Christian women face today is that there are so few Christian women with purity and virtue to set an example for them and to be available to them with a Christ-like attitude for counseling/questions/friendship.

Did you have a mentor? If not who was your greatest womanly influence?

The church that we are affiliated with upholds a modesty standard. (Don’t hate—appreciate : ) How awesome it is to go to a church where all of the women are covered! (Now that I’m under control, lol.) So while I did not have one particular woman that really took me under her wings, I am just thankful for all of the women that have followed God’s conviction on their own heart to dress modestly AND FASHIONABLY! I am not a modest, fashion guru, I’m afraid. I look nice, but no one is chasing me down asking me where I got those killer pair of shoes. And I’m okay with that : ) I’m not after anyone’s attention anymore.

Would you like to share any other wisdom with my readers?

Study God’s word, and ask Him to place the convictions on your heart that He wants for you. It does not say anywhere in the Bible that you have to wear a skirt. However, in our culture, skirts are associated with modesty and feminine behavior. If you view your walk with God as “What all do I have to give up”, chances are you won’t stay the course.

When I was a pants-wearing Christian, I NEVER had anyone walk up to me and ask me, “Where do you go to church?” As a modestly dressed, skirt-wearing woman, I have people come up to me all of the time asking where I go to church. If I can win people to God just because I honor the conviction to dress modestly, then glory, hallelujah! Everything I do is for His glory, not mine.

Melinda Martin has lived a life full of mistakes and has only survived by God’s amazing grace. She “retired” from the corporate world four years ago and has since been making more mistakes in the avenues of homeschooling and housewifing. God has recently blessed her and set her peace-shod feet on a journey to becoming a minister’s wife. However, the ministry she shares with her husband is a bit different—he is a prison chaplain at a maximum security prison in Texas. To offset her serious posts, she supplements with fun things like recipes, sewing tutorials, music ministry, and how to siphon gas from your lawnmower.

Modest Swim Wear

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Mon, 04 Jun 2012 12:01:00 +0000

(Originally posted June 11, 2011)

Today is the first day of summer! 1:48 pm Eastern Standard Time to be exact!

With the onset of swim-suit season upon us, I wanted to highlight some of the merchants I have listed. These companies offer wonderful resources as an alternative to the one-piece, the tank-kini and the bikini.

But first...a history lesson.

: 1858 Bathing Suit

Here are few notes I plucked from the Internet:

The term "Bathing Suit" came about because men and women typically bathed in public (in the buff.) There were no laws against this practice until 1860. When the law came into effect, "suits" were necessary.

Men and women's suits were different in style. In the 18th century women wore "bathing gowns" in the water; these were long dresses of fabrics that would not become transparent when wet, with weights sewn into the hems so that they would not rise up in the water. The men's swim suit, a rather form-fitting wool garment with long sleeves and legs similar to long underwear, was developed and would change little for a century.

In the 19th century, the woman's two piece suit became common the two pieces being a gown from shoulder to knees plus a set of trousers with leggings going down to the ankles.

: c.1915

In 1907, the swimmer Annette Kellerman from Australia visited the United States as an "underwater ballerina", a version of synchronized swimming involving diving into glass tanks. She was arrested for indecent exposure because her swimsuit showed arms, legs and the neck. She later invented the one-piece, considered the most offensive style of swimsuit in the 1920's and became the focus of censorship efforts.

The first bikinis were introduced just after World War II. Early examples were not very different from the women's two pieces common since the 1920s, except that they had a gap below the breast line allowing for a section of bare midriff. They were named after Bikini Atoll, the site of several nuclear weapons tests, for their supposed explosive effect on the viewer.

Through the 1950s, it was thought proper for the lower part of the bikini to come up high enough to cover the navel.

The bathing-suit has shrunk over the last 50 years to the point that people are basically walking around in their underwear! The only difference I see between our underwear and bathing-suits is simply the fabric it's made of!

Wikipedia exposes our cultural norm of nakedness when they state: "Swimsuits are also worn when there is a need to display the body, as in the case of beauty pageants or bodybuilding contests."

Really, there's a need?

So how do we cover up?
Today we are fortunate to have several alternatives to the bikini!

We have choices!

Hydro-Chic offers mastectomy and maternity suits!

Swim Modest offers suits for girls and boys.

Princess Modest Swimwear also carries swimwear for men and a large selection of sizes!

I know that some of these companies listed may be out of your price range especially if you have several daughters in your family. (eh hem)

Fresh Modesty is for you!

"Fresh Modesty: Creating Custom Swimwear is a 34-page tutorial with step-by-step directions for sewing an individual, well-fitting swimsuit for yourself, a friend, or a family member. I share how I draft a pattern from a series of measurements to make the various pieces of the suit as well as how to sew it all together. Countless modest style options are given including a maternity option..."

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You can find these companies, and more listed under the "Clothing" tab then drop down to "Undergarments"

I also recommend you listen to or read "Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of America" by Jeff Pollard.

Update: Etsy also has several alternatives for suits. Simply type in "Swim Wear" or "Swim Suit's" and several merchants will pop up!

Be sure to enter our current giveaway!

Weekend Freebies!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Sat, 02 Jun 2012 22:18:00 +0000

I hope you are having a delightful weekend! The hubs and I are piddling around the house doing chores and attending to some late-season Spring cleaning!

I came across a few freebies I think you will appreciate...

The Moore family is sharing their love for families once again! This time you can watch "This is Your Life: The Moss Family" for FREE from now until the end of June! I love the Moss family. Even though I do not personally know them, their family story is very similar to mine. Go here to watch this beautiful family walk in faith when it comes to their family size.

Frugally Sustainable is a new website to me and I'm so happy I found it! If you subscribe to Frugally Sustainable, you can get "Herbal Rescue: Your Guide to Creating a Homemade Herbal First Aid Kit" Trust me! You will be so happy you did!

For my fellow bird watchers...We ordered a Free Nesting Birds Poster a few weeks ago and we can't wait for it to get here! I just checked and you can still order this:

Have you found any freebies or deals? If so, I would love for you to share!

Cravings Giveaway!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 01 Jun 2012 05:20:00 +0000

What can be better than a cupcake?

The Word of God and a cupcake, of course!

I recently stumbled upon another website hosting a "scrumptious" giveaway for Cravings, the Devotional and I had to have one of my own!

This is so brilliant for busy mom's!

Craving's, the Devotional is a collection of 40 cards, written by a mom, based on the Psalms to encourage and nurture our relationship with the Lord when we crave Him, but somehow life get's ahead.

Let me explain where I am, and why I love this idea.

I have six children, three of whom I am teaching.

I have an infant who I nurse on demand, and two other toddlers. One who is still in diapers, so that is two in diapers, and all three nap, all at different times of the day.

Add in houseworks, meals, swim lessons and other various play and crafts.

Also, my husband works twelve hour days.

Please don't get me wrong, I am blessed beyond measure and LOVE the life I have be given!

I pray throughout the day. For my husband, my children, family and friends.

I have tried to get into some routine of fitting in the Word, but for me, it doesn't always happen.

It's a challenge to get up at six in the morning to have some quiet time when I was already up three other times for nursing the baby or someone wet the bed or had a nightmare.

I cherish the moments I have with my children when I read the Bible to them each day before we begin our lessons, however I crave time alone with God.

Craving's the Devotional is just that for me.

Because even when I'm not constant, He is!

Little morsels of the Word, resting on top of a cupcake, sitting next to the sink while I do dishes. The funny thing is, no one interrupts me while I'm doing the dishes!

Craving's, the Devotional is a great way to supplement your daily reading for a season if you need it.

This sweet little cupcake would also make a wonderful gift!

I was given a free cupcake in exchange for my honest review of Craving's. If you would like to purchase your own delightful cupcake, you may do so by going here.

Or you have a chance to win one of your very own!

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Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus~ Thessalonians 5:16-18

Modest Mentor Series~Jasmine

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 30 May 2012 04:13:00 +0000

Welcome to Pure Modesty’s, Modest Mentors Series!

I hope the interviews in this series will be helpful wherever you are in your journey of becoming a virtuous woman!

Today's interview is with Jasmine from Far Above Rubies!

What does Modesty mean to you?

It is a woman or man who perceives virtue, humility, discretion, and prudence to be characteristics that are revealed inwardly and outwardly.

Have you always dressed modestly? Why? (if not describe briefly what changed.)

I was not raised with an awareness of the appropriateness of dress and conduct. I also did not know Jesus as my personal savior and my spiritual eyes were blind to the fact that I could make another person stumble by advances unsuitable for a young lady.

When I accepted Christ as my Savior, God began a work of sanctification in my life which allowed for many changes. Dressing and behaving modestly was a very slow process because my heart was in dire need (and still is) of healing in this area. It is a complete transformation of how do I please God rather than man and my selfish desires.

How would you answer, "I can dress how I want because Jesus looks at my heart!"

A heart that has been transformed in the area of presentation and conduct will say, "Jesus, how do I look today? Am I pleasing to you? Is this outfit and my actions discreet and excellent in Your eyes?

It's a totally different heart attitude when a woman has surrendered control of her appearance and behavior to God.

What do you think is the greatest challenge women face today when it comes to purity and virtue?

I believe our greatest challenge as women is the constant message of perfection we receive from critical Christians. Instead of extending grace we hit with judgement that is harsh and cruel. Women turn from purity and virtue believing that God is this cruel judge wanting perfection from imperfect sinners.

Secondly, the world's secular and deceptive message that a woman must look and behave a certain way to be accepted. I find this to be destructive and harmful to all women, but especially younger girls coming of age. If God's truth is not planted firmly in our hearts and minds, the lure of vanity and plastic beauty is extremely attractive.

Did you have a mentor? If not who was your greatest womanly influence?

No, I did not have a mentor early on in my christian walk. Unfortunately, many "Titus 2" women turn from a new believer who is dressing and behaving seductively instead of embracing and gently guiding the babe in Christ. Or, they are harsh and judgmental making one think twice about Christianity.

Books became my mentors and I read everything on femininity and social graces.

It is only recently that I have had the privilege of being mentored by a 75 year old Christian woman. We meet weekly for accountability.

Would you like to share any other wisdom with my readers?

I am well acquainted with the Samaritan woman who saw and tasted of the Living Water. Mary who was filled with demons and mad wild for the healing of One. Mocked and judged for her sensuality and insanity; Jesus made her whole.

It has taken years for me to believe that beauty and modesty is something more right and holy than a seductive spirit set to accomplish its own wicked desires.

Our hearts need to be checked constantly before the mirror of God's word, so we can say, "Am I pleasing you today, Lord? Did I speak that which was good? Are these pants a bit too tight for me? Is this blouse appropriate for my body? Is this dress depressing and dark for me? Was I kind to my husband today? Was I careful with my eyes and what I allowed my mind to take in?

We must understand that God's standards are high, but they do not overwhelm. They give life to the thirsty and broken.

Jasmine is a wife and homeschooling mom of 10 years. She is passionate about mothering and raising children who are compassionate, confident, and loving individuals. Jasmine's newest adventure includes homeschooling and training her youngest child who has Down syndrome.

She is the author and founder of Far Above Rubies, a website dedicated to promoting biblical womanhood and was recently featured in Nancy Campbell's Above Rubies Magazine issue #84, April 2012. Jasmine has had the privilege of writing for Raising Homemakers and numerous other websites who are dedicated to mentoring and teaching women to embrace their highcalling as wives, mothers, and homemakers.

You can connect with Jasmine on Facebook and Twitter.

Modest Mentor Series~Natalie

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 23 May 2012 04:54:00 +0000

Welcome to Pure Modesty’s, Modest Mentors Series!

I hope the interviews in this series will be helpful wherever you are in your journey of becoming a virtuous woman!

Today's interview is with Natalie from Visionary Womanhood.

The term Modesty has a broad definition these days. What does Modesty mean to you?

I believe modesty means NOT dressing, doing, and saying things that would draw attention to myself and glorify myself in the eyes of others, but rather, dressing, doing, and saying things that would draw attention to Jesus Christ, the King of the Universe, and bring glory to HIM.

I can be all “covered up”, and yet have an immodest attitude or say immodest things that cause others to “notice” ME. I can be all covered up, but be wearing something flamboyant that draws attention to ME.

Modesty is loving and serving Jesus and others rather than selfishly serving SELF.

Have you always dressed modestly? Why? (If not describe briefly what changed.)

I grew up in a new Christian home (my parents got saved when I was a little girl), and was blessed to have a mom and dad who taught me to put others first and to dress in such a way that would SHINE for Jesus Christ and bring Him honor.

I was taught that we are ambassadors for the King, and as such, must dress and act nobly as His royal representatives. We did not have set “rules” like “wear skirts only” or “don’t wear jewelry”. But we were taught the principle of dressing modestly and nobly in our generation, so I’ve embraced a vision for that most of my life.

How would you answer, "I can dress how I want because Jesus looks at my heart!"

My response would be, “It is true that Jesus sees your heart; however, it is NOT true that you can dress “how you want” UNLESS you WANT to dress to please Him! Those who love Him, will seek to please Him. He sees the motives of our hearts…whether they are noble and pure…or selfish. If they are noble and pure, they will act in perfect accordance with His Word and His will, which speaks in many places of the way we dress and carry ourselves. The Word of God is clear on two things: Dress like a woman. Dress in such a way that you will avoid stumbling your brother in Christ. This is love.

In addition, the Word of God says “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” (Jeremiah 17:9) So tread carefully whenever you speak of your heart. Jesus DOES know your heart. To boast that YOU do… is folly.

What do you think is the greatest challenge women face today when it comes to purity and virtue?

Our greatest challenge is our own sinful, selfish hearts. We cannot blame society, our parents, other Christians, our husbands, our churches, or anyone or anything outside of ourselves. It all comes from inside our hearts. Our flesh desires to be noticed and admired. If dressing flamboyantly or in such a way as to reveal our curvy features brings us the admiration we crave, we will pursue that…UNLESS the Holy Spirit gives us grace to pursue God’s good pleasure rather than our own.

Did you have a mentor? If not who was your greatest womanly influence?

My mentor was my mother. She passed on to me all the things that God was teaching her as a new believer. God was HUGE in my mom’s life…and I grew up knowing that He was the center of the universe. I’m so grateful for that perspective…what a blessing. We moms have such a critical impact on our children for good or evil. She always dressed in lovely clothing that did not draw attention to herself in any way. She was (and is) a noble woman of God.

Would you like to share any other wisdom with my readers?

Rather than focusing on “self”, keep focused on the beautiful Savior, Jesus Christ. He was a meek, holy, powerful, noble, kind, loving, self-sacrificing, gentle, and obedient servant. And He was (and is) God. The King of the Universe. We are not above our Master. We must ardently pursue Him (by studying and obeying His Word and communicating with Him in prayer) as our greatest Treasure…and the more we follow, trust, and love Him, the more our lives will be affected in all facets…including how we dress.

Do you seek to be beautiful? Put on LOVE. Love is always beautiful!

Natalie Klejwa is a child of the King, wife of 20 years to Joe, and mother to 9 miracles ages 0-18.

Natalie is the creator of Apple Valley Natural Soap, which gives her children an opportunity to earn money at home and expand their own entrepreneurial endeavors. Passionately believing in the sovereignty of God and the sufficiency of Scripture for all of life, she has rejected the Wemmick culture box and prefers the ancient paths found in the Word of God. Natalie taught high school English when she was single and has been discipling women for 25 years through full time campus ministry, personal mentoring, writing, and Bible studies. More recently, she is the founder of Visionary Womanhood Gatherings in the Twin Cities area, which began almost five years ago, and she is also the administrator of the Visionary Womanhood blog and author of Visionary Womanhood Gatherings, A Family Strengthening Mentorship Tool for Women and Maidens. You can hear her being interviewed on Kevin Swanson's Generations with Vision radio program.

Modest Mentor Series~Jordan

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 16 May 2012 06:46:00 +0000

Welcome to Pure Modesty’s, Modest Mentor Series!

I hope the interviews in this series will be helpful wherever you are in your journey of becoming a virtuous woman!

Today's interview is with Jordan from Choosing Home.

The term Modesty has a broad definition these days. What does Modesty mean to you?

Modesty, to me, means dressing and behaving in a way that glorifies God. Having regard for decency of behavior, speech and dress, with the intention to bring attention to my character, above all else.

Have you always dressed modestly? Why? (If not describe briefly what changed.)

Since I was little, my parents taught me the importance of dressing with decency. I tried to glorify God on the subject of modesty, and I believe that I did. But over this past year, God has revealed to me that I should not be comparing my modesty to others' modesty. That I should seek His Word for defining what He requires of me. As a result I have become more aware of my behavior. I have also slowly removed items from my closet that I feel could bring attention to something other than my character. And the Lord has blessed me with new items to replace them.

How would you answer "I can dress how I want because Jesus looks at the heart!"?

I believe that Jesus cares very much about our hearts. But, my outward appearance should be a reflection of my inward commitment to Him.

1 Samuel 16:7 says "... The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

This verse tells me that my heart is the most important, to the Lord. But, if man looks at my outward appearance wouldn't I want that to be a reflection of my commitment to Jesus? To me, modesty is as much about my heart as it is my wardrobe. I pray that strangers would look at me and think that I must be a follower of Jesus, because of what they see on the inside and the outside.

What do you think is the greatest challenge women face today when it comes to purity and virtue?

I believe some women do not have a Godly role model, setting examples of how and why to be modest. If purity {freedom from anything that contaminates} and virtue {moral excellence} had never been shown to me, it would be easy to live with no standards. It can also be easy to place your self-worth in what others think of you, instead of what God says about you.

Did you have a mentor? If not, who was your greatest womanly influence?

I guess I would consider my momma my mentor. She has definitely been the greatest womanly influence in my life. She taught me stories of the virtuous women of the Bible including Esther, Ruth and Sarah. And she lives them out daily. What a privilege to learn from her.

Would you like to share any other wisdom with my readers?

Please do not think that my answers are how you should live. The Lord is still pruning me into His beautiful creation! I pray that my contribution has encouraged you to seek the Lord’s approval for your modesty. Some verses to think on: Colossians 3:12; 1 Peter 3:3-6; 1 Timothy 4:12; 2 Timothy 2:9-10.

Jordan is a 21 year old Stay At Home Daughter, by choice, being trained in the things of the Lord by her wonderful parents. She is the 2nd oldest of 6 children and has the privilege of staying home to enjoy her family every day. She is striving to become who she feels the Lord wants her to be. Realizing that being a stay at home daughter may not be the Lord’s calling for everyone, she loves it! She is biracial and left-handed. She enjoys worship, modest dresses, scrapbooking & photography. She prays that she will be an encouragement to others.

Things to do this weekend

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Fri, 11 May 2012 16:16:00 +0000

Watch this trailer then buy the movie.

Read Doug's Blog
Understand what Secular Humanism is and why it is so important:
"If you pay attention, you might notice there is a war against biblical marriage. We keep seeing the courts trying to redefine words, especially when it comes to family. We saw this when the word "baby" became "fetus". When we use this definition, it is easier to make people believe a baby is not a real, living soul, but only a clump of cells.
This is the same reason people are trying so hard to change the meaning of the word "marriage." Since marriage is a biblical concept and the method through which God builds societies, people who reject God need to separate the word from it's religious source. They need to replace it with their own "modern" definition so they don't have to be accountable to anyone. They want to do their own things.
The courts also keep trying to change the meaning of other family definitions like "mother," "father," "boy" and girl." We are seeing this take place more and more in schools in America.
In reality, this type of maneuver seeks to destroy God's pre-ordained order. When we pass laws saying every public school child will learn that gay, lesbian and transgender lifestyles are "normal" and appropriate ways of defining "family," this is the work of something evil. The issue is not "human rights"... it is more insidious than that. In a general sense, the Bible calls it rebellion against God. More specifically it is a philosophy called "Secular Humanism""~Leah D. Smith, "Diapers, Dishes & Dominion. How Housewives Can Change the World."
Pray fervently for our fallen world. That the Creator of the Universe will bestow His Mercy upon us.
Who will rise up for me against the wicked? Who will take a stand for me against evildoers?~ Psalm 94:16

Modest Mentors Series~Jenny

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Wed, 09 May 2012 05:30:00 +0000

Welcome to Pure Modesty's Modest Mentors Series!

I hope the interviews in this series will be helpful wherever you are in your journey of becoming a virtuous woman!

Today's interview is with Jenny at A Mother's Heritage.

The term Modesty has a broad definition these days. What does Modesty mean to you?

Modesty means to me not only my dress, but my deportment and attitude as well. I can be wearing a modest attire, but if my behavior is not prudent and wise, if I do not carry myself in honor, then I am not truly modest.

Have you always dressed modestly? Why? (if not describe briefly what changed.)

I was introduced to dressing modestly early on in my life. As I grew that grew in different particulars. From my teen years I wore skirts or dresses only, having worn pants before that. But I was also taught that it was not just wearing a skirt that made me modest, but the heart of the matter. We have seen too many times where there is outward "modesty" but the behavior is far from pure.

The last few years after much prayer, thought and counsel our family decided to reintroduce pants into our family for me and my daughters, although we still wear skirts and dresses often. Even with this decision though, we are very conservative in our choices. I am teaching my daughters how to wear longer tunic-type blouses and attire that are modest as well as lovely.

How would you answer, "I can dress how I want because Jesus looks at my heart!" It is true that the Lord looks on the heart, but we are also known by our fruits. Others cannot see our hearts, and our outward attire reflects much to others.

What do you think is the greatest challenge women face today when it comes to purity and virtue?

~We are in a time where we are losing even basic propriety as women. It is now socially appropriate for girls to initiate in relationships with boys. Flirting and general casual behavior are common place. In our society girls are so masculine in their behavior, and our young men no longer honor the ladies. We need to be teaching our young girls to behave with dignity and propriety, in ways that do not tempt others, modesty of heart, dress and behavior.

~I read an article recently that really hit the nail on the head when it mentioned that instead of wanting to be pretty, now girls want to be "hot". It is my opinion that this trashy look that girls now are wearing is not even "pretty" but is giving more of the appearance of a street woman. Is it any wonder when they lose their purity at an early age? Does their dress speak to others words of invitation or words of wholesomeness? Do our daughters value their femininity as from the Lord? We need to teach them to remember the "A gracious woman retains her honor." Proverbs 11:16

~We need the fathers to be more aware of their daughters' attire and give them feedback. A young lady does not always know how a young man thinks and what might be a stumbling block to them. I believe the Dads should be often having dialog with their daughters as to what is appropriate, no matter what age they are. I regularly ask my husband for feedback on certain clothing, styles, etc.

Did you have a mentor? If not who was your greatest womanly influence?

I would have to say my mother has been my greatest influence. She has been and still is a huge blessing from the Lord in my life. God has also given me other friends over the years that have been such an encouragement to me. But I will say that one of the best lessons the Lord taught me was to love being a woman and prize that gift. It has required standing alone many times, but this will often be the case in the Christian life.

Would you like to share any other wisdom with my readers?

~Keep at the forefront of your heart and mind these few questions:

Is my choice of clothing...

loving my brethren around me?

consistent with my profession as a follower of Jesus?

retain my honor as a woman?

does my husband or father feel it is modest?

and most of all...does my dress AND behavior bring glory to God?

Jenny is an ordinary mom with an extraordinary God. Following a beautiful courtship, she has been married to her best friend for over 16 years. Jenny homeschools her 7 children (ages 14-10 mo). This means everything from teaching basic phonics, to assisting her oldest through CollegePlus! When she is not teaching, playing with her children, or changing diapers, she loves to sing, write, blog and clean...yes, clean. As a recovering OCD perfectionist and "neat freak" she still has unmatched socks, messy closets and is allergic to mornings. Jenny is also the author of the ebook Embracing the Mess. Come and be refreshed, blessed and challenged in your high calling as a wife and mother over at A Mother's Heritage. You may also follow her on Facebook, or Twitter.

Scripture Lullabies Giveaway!

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Mon, 07 May 2012 13:09:00 +0000

A few months ago when I hosted my baby shower I had the privilege of giving away Volume I from Scripture Lullabies ~Hidden in My Heart!

Today I am giving away BOTH Volumes to one blessed reader!

Listen to samples of Vol. I

Listen to samples of Vol. II

Scripture Lullabies is so poetic and beautifully inspired by Scripture, you won't just want to lay your babes to bed with it playing. I guarantee you will play this music throughout the day! In fact, I have Volume I in the girls bedroom, and Volume II in the car to help me relax while I drive through the curvy West Virginia hills.

Did you know that 1 in 10 CD's purchased goes to a pregnancy resource center?

Before you enter, be sure to download a free song, and send someone you love an encouraging E-Card!

Best wishes!

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Give Me Jesus

noreply@blogger.com (Stephanie) — Sat, 05 May 2012 20:32:00 +0000

And God is able to bestow every blessing on you in abundance,
so that richly enjoying allsufficiency at all times, you may have ample means..~2 Corinthians 9:8
For he satisfiess the longing soul. He fills the hungry soul with good.~Psalm 107:9