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How To Make Things Happen

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 11:59:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered how such people made things accordingly to what they had planned for or something like they just wished for it then all of a sudden, they perceived it. That's because they've fallen under the category of "People who make it happen;" There are only 3 kinds of people here on Earth,

People who make it happen
People who watch it happen
People who have no idea what happened

I will discuss the odds first before "we can make it happen"

Honestly, I don't want to discuss and explain on how just "people watch it happen, and people who have no idea what happened." I'm not trying to scold it down to them, but if the reality bites, then so be it. (I'm just trying to hit your soft spots.)

PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT HAPPENED
Yes, we don't have to figure out every single thing in this world, and be hurt when someone says you are "arrogant" and "being ignorant" by the way things designed as they should be. Then if the reality bites you with these words that have been said to you, you also bite the trap they set for you and that trap will only lead you to what they really want you to do. Then if you just do what they want you to do, then you are out of your focus to do something you really need to do. They will throw words that is hurtful enough just to manipulate every single thought you have in your focus, in order for you to join the "people who have no idea what happened." Those people will just discourage you to your dreams seem impossible to reach. Because they will set themselves as an example on how their limitations blocked their way to their dreams (but if they truly dream of it, they will have faith on it because faith removes limitations!) Example of this is "peer pressure" where you can only hear things that is negative and discouraging enough to make your dreams enlightened by faith turn into fear, and get you out to your uncertainties/risk you invest for that dream. Something like "brainwashed" thing, but they just only give you an idea that you must just sit down and relax to your comfort zone (physically and mentally) but not spiritually and give up on how far you've gone rather than helping you to get through with all of these trials. And that's how you will belong to the "People who have no idea what happened" because you just give up on making things you really want to happen.

And that's why I changed friends, actually my 2 best friends. I changed them because in the first place they are not believing on how can I make that particular thing happen, they just know how to console with me when I stumble but still they can't get the best out of me, only by believing and pushing me to accomplish what I really want to happen. And I think that best friends really mean is that bringing out the best in both of you, and still they won't let me to bring out the best in me even just a little bit, but I wish the both of them well.

PEOPLE WHO WATCH IT HAPPEN
I think this is less serious than the first odd, because people who watch it happen don't bother themselves to the possibility that they can make things happen. Let's talk about the "talent" they have in themselves which make them capable of making things happen, but still they stay with that timid personality so that they won't bother much as they do. They just watch how it happened even though they really know how to make it happen that's why they're just one-step away to make it happen so I won't elaborate it that much.

PEOPLE WHO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN
People who make things happen starts with a "single thought" in their minds then it just so happen to be a "sound idea" to what they really want and fit for them thus make them complete, if they attain such goal for themselves. I will go straight to the point, that desire, faith, imagination, and persistent is all you need to make things happen, so how?

DESIRE
You know how to desire things thus making it exciting when you really want something to have. Desire should never be tired and shook off, you should have that consistent tenacity to achieve things when opportunity comes to your way. Yes, you will lose some, win some opportunities but those scars shouldn't take your focus away to that particular thing you want to happen. A single defeat doesn't define the whole battle you are dealing with, take a sit back and evaluate yourself then go again to the battlefield where you should spit the bad taste in your mouth and be good at it the next time around. Desire makes non-sense sort of things don't worth to think about when all you do and cared about is to go "get-it" the things you want to achieve right from the "get-go" opportunities.

FAITH
I'm always about it, when I do things accordingly to what I just want to happen. This is the first and foremost foundation when you really want things happen as good as it gets. (If you don't have any faith in God, then get out from this blog and get some experiences where you should have faith in God, then if you have much faith to believe what you want to believe then you can attract and absorb some positive vibrations that will lead you to make things happen.) You can't be ready, if you just can't believe. You've got to be sure of yourself before you can ever win a prize.

IMAGINATION
When you imagine, there's nothing between you and your dreams (do you agree with that?) If not, then you should, and dwell about it everyday if you really want to make things happen. Things already happened with a "single thought" that became a "sound idea" when you put all the ingredients into the melting pot of your thoughts and make yourself satisfied as you get what you really want to get. There is no such thing, where a particular person is born to be great, as I've already illustrated in Be A Great Person Just The Way You Are that "Everybody can be great because anybody can serve." Everybody can imagine on how the way things will happen. Success is not an accident, when you just got lucky and have it consistently, it's just not the way it goes. Success starts with a thought and imagination that will become your discipline and it will set a definite amount of happiness which can satisfy the way you are living, so "think positive" and "be careful what you wish for cause you just might get it all."

PERSISTENCE
Those 3 keywords won't matter if you don't persist. No one will ever make a thing happen and then just credit it into you for giving him an idea to do so (and that's not the case because you are the only 'who watch it happen' and he is the one 'who make it happen.') Persist is to make it happen, to make things accordingly to what you desire, imagine, and have faith on. Just "Keep on keeping on" and "Hold on to your possibilities" because "Possibilities keep all of us going."

Hope that you can make everything happen just the way your Divine Plan was designed the way you want it to happen. God Bless!

How To Face Your Fears

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 13:54:00 +0000

What is fear?
According to Webster's Dictionary
Fear is
- "the instinctive emotion aroused by impending or seeming danger, pain, or evil"
- "to be afraid of"
- "to regret politely or conventionally"
- "reluctant through misgiving"

Ultimately, fear is just the "inverted faith" we have towards to a particular thing or situation we wouldn't want to be in. Fear is somewhat related or we can call it as the root of all anxieties, worries, dreads, and any kind of words you can think about of why you hold yourself out to the uncertainties you're not sure of, that might as well turned out to be good and not bad as you think it is. I think fear starts within yourself and not to a particular thing or situation that you have to face because those situations or things haven't done anything yet to make your heart skip a beat. Or in other cases, you hold the rights to have that kind of fear on those instances because you've already encountered those frightful things that made you feel bad. But this point and time you are reading this, make sure of yourself that you want to remove the fear you have in a particular matter so that you can absorbed the following words on how to remove your fears.

I'm not the one who will take the fear out from you, or do any hypnotizing thing just to forget the fears you dread. "You" are the only one who can take away the fear out of your system, and I will only lay some sort of thoughts for you to realize on how to fight your fears.

FAITH
I've already told you that fear is the inverted faith, so you have to realize that you've just flipped your faith into fear, that's why you look on that particular situation with fear that is totally different to what you have seen the last time you look it with faith. The faith that I'm talking about here is the good that will come in that particular situation, so if you invert thy faith into fear you will just expect that particular situation to be worse as it gets. In the higher sense, put your faith into God, then if you fear again it only means that you do not believe or trust God in any sense. Read the bible and you will see a lot of promises ahead of you, if you only just believe and keep that kind of faith in Him. Please be reminded that "Faith removes limitations!"

EXPOSURE
Of course, if you still have that kind of fear on a particular situation, you tend to back off your feet or distance yourself to the incoming situation you dreaded most. You will do anything at all costs just to get rid of that incoming dreadful situation because you know in yourself that you will feel bad if it does happen. Then after you get rid of it, you feel that you're back to your good ol' comfort zone? Well it isn't, because those kind of things will haunt you back because those fears you have within you is deeply rooted to your subconscious mind. So we have to get rid of that fear where it is deeply rooted, in your subconscious mind, by exposing yourself to your dreadful situation. So, how can you help yourself to be in your feared situation (you will know it later, after you read Reinforcements.) You won't be able to get rid of your fears without exposing yourself to that particular feared object or situation. Let me give an example, although it is not the usual phobic thing to fear, but at the time you want to learn how to drive a bicycle way back to your childhood days, (of course without those two safety wheels behind your back) you are sure to have that kind of worry if you just fall down or turn the bicycle loose. (Especially if you have fears that is inevitably comes to your way, you have to remove it for once! And for your sake, of course.) You will stumble yourself and have that down feeling to not try again but that's not the case if you are willing to learn how to drive a bicycle and so, if you really want to drive out your fear. Scars will make others be able to mock you around but as you look inside yourself, you can see of how far you've gone as a student of your desire to bike yourself out to the wilderness of life experiences. There is much desire if you really want something to be labeled under your belt, in this case, to learn how to drive a bicycle. You know in yourself that you can't learn it only by staring at it and imagine of how good you are driving your bicycle, you must learn it the hard way! And that's how exposure works for your fear. Perfect practice makes perfect, and it will only be hard for you when you don't practice and expect the good things where it count most.

ACCEPTANCE
Accept that you have a fear on that particular situation when you just hide yourself and deny that there is nothing that bothers you. You don't have to say to your peers that you have a fear so that they will console and give a special treatment to you because the truth is it will only be hard for you to remove your fear if there is at least a person that console you to the thing you feared most. Just accept it to yourself that you have a fear on this particular object or situation, and when you do that, you just also accept to yourself that you are willing to remove that anxiety within yourself that only hinders you to the possibilities of good opportunities ahead of you. Accept that there is something needed to be changed if you imagine yourself to the moment from where you are exactly positioned to your dreams. Because in usual dreams we wished, there shouldn't be any substance or ingredients of fear at any degree on that moment we dreamt for. In fact, we didn't choose what to fear, it is the collective instances that put us in a situation that we have to have that kind of fear on that situation the next time we encounter such trick of the devil just to invert our faith into fear. We are living on Earth, not yet in Heaven, that's why we must figure out the tricks and traps presented on us as we go through life. Falling on traps, and be tricked on tricks only shape our minds that there is a limitation, and you've just got to accept the fact that you have been tricked the way they want you to invert your faith. You've got to be sure to accept it within yourself before you get the prize of getting rid of that particular fear.

REINFORCEMENTS
Your reinforcements may come in different kind of forms; it may be a thing, a hunch, a prayer, or a buddy/friend that will help you to make yourself believe that there is nothing to be feared. In this case, I will just illustrate how "Buddy" reinforcement be effective on how to help you in dreadful situation, because the thing, the hunch, and the prayer will carry its load in terms of faith you had put on it. Of course, you also have faith in your buddy that he will give his best to your situation so that he can bring out the best in you. Choosing a buddy is not as easy as it gets, your best friend or a relative might not be qualified as your buddy because your buddy must not console you or give any special treatment for your fear because your buddy is just there to remind you that you have to "keep on keeping on" to the situation you have to expose yourself with. He must not cared about how scared are you at the time you are exposing yourself to that particular fear, but he must take the off-limits that he feels that the situation will hurt you so bad or something that will make you go wild. He shouldn't be the protector or safety, he could only be a supporter, a coach, that believes in you that you can go there like he had just done it his way (of course, your buddy shouldn't have any anxiety to do those things you feared so that he can make an example on how to do it.) Then your buddy must evaluate you as you evaluate yourself, and see if you have the same tallies on how much anxieties left in you, (or how comfortable are you in the situation) and see if you are totally free from your fear (because you can't do the judging only by yourself, if you have any fear left or not, because you may cheat yourself out.)

So that's it,

F - Faith
E - Exposure
A - Acceptance
R - Reinforcements

First and foremost, you must have that kind of faith on the "Infinite Intelligence" above and that is God, that He will guide you through these kind of trials as you go on to fight and face your fears. Accept that you have weaknesses but not weak, because as you lay all those fears above, you will have that kind of inner strength from God as you expose yourself out to your fears. Have faith in your buddy as your reinforcement as he got your back when you go down. That he will not leave you in any point and time when you are about to face your fears. After all, you will notice that you've just invert your fear into faith. God Bless!

Be A Great Person Just The Way You Are

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 02:00:00 +0000

"Teachers often teach which they need to learn from themselves. I am no different." ~ Deborah Smith Pegues

Honestly, I'm not yet a great person in any stretch of imagination but what I could tell you is that I'm progressing to where my vision is, and to what kind of person I want myself to be at the mere future. I wrote this blog first and foremost for myself and for those people that aspire to be a great person just the way they couldn't think about of what would it take (at least) to be a great person.

I will credit these words of wisdom to my professor in college, that he had laid out all the words, personalities that we should possess in order to be a great person. (I will not mention my professor's name but what I could always remember about him is that he was a co-author of one of the "Republic Acts" here in the Philippines, just to mention how great he was, and still he is.)

He mentioned that, in order to be a great person, you must...

Always look of what is "Good" in each person.
Not in any material or physical characteristics, but try to peek the "goodness inside" in every person that you meet. Even the meanest, most bitter, most wicked people living in this world possessed at least a bit of goodness if you can hit their soft spots. Look of what is good, realize that it won't always gonna be pretty (not in any particular face that I'm saying) but in every incidents and instances you are about to face, look of what is good and if you ever don't seem to find anything good to those situations, you should read the following paragraphs.

Be "Responsible" to other people.
Not by giving them of what they want out from you, but to give them of what they just expect you to give, not in any "obliging" or "guilt" sense, but you should realize of how are you supposed to deal with them especially if that includes your love ones. So if you have any love ones, you are supposed to love and care them at all costs, and not supposed to give any hard feelings that will make them feel hurt, but hard feelings and situations are part of the equation when you commit yourself into love, what you gonna do is to console each other and accept everything as it is, you should only give love and care and not to help them to pinpoint of what and why it is, and make a lot of excuses just to make them feel understood. Be responsible of the things you are supposedly dealing with your love ones, especially in terms of love, care, understanding, and acceptance (there's a little bit difference between understanding and acceptance, that's why I stated them differently. You can understand someone but you just can't accept them, and you can accept anyone but you don't even understand their situation.)

"Evaluate" yourself.
Not to look all the bad things that had happened in your life because it gotta have happened to make yourself realize of how you've done good or bad in the past, to realize that there are areas in your life that got to have fix as early as you want to make it possible. Evaluate your good, if you want things to be consistently good, make sure of yourself that you ain't going to be a smug in every little sense. As they say, "you are, what you are doing consistently" and two of the factors that you are a great person is that you are content and not complacent. Evaluate your bad, one great person said "Don't be ashamed of the struggles. It is the struggle that counts." Being disappointed is understandable but being discouraged is not an option you would want to take because later on in your life, when you look back to the things you get discouraged at, you will realize that you've just take away the chances of what is good ahead to that direction. Evaluating it all in all, you have to figure out of how much time you steal for yourself just to live your life for fun. But the truth is, you are not happy enough to feel that "joy inside." I think "joy" can be measured by how much it worth, as Vince Lombardi said that we have to "Sacrifice the little things in life and pay the price for the things that are worthwhile." Evaluate yourself if you are doing things that is worth enough to do so.

If you can't change facts, try bending your "Attitudes."
You don't have to feel totally different on how your initial attitude reacts on the point of reaction. As I have stated earlier, things won't always gonna be pretty. Things won't always go the way you want it to happen, but it doesn't mean that we have to go the other way just to follow where things happen pretty good as of late. I think good thing starts within yourself, and not when you do perceive it. It starts within the state of your mind, if you want good things to happen, you just have to imagine it first inside then afterwards look it out in the outside. Look with wonder in your eyes open, even if things don't change in an instant because later on in your life, if you do it with consistency, you will see the good things that you are looking for.

Be "Thankful" of what you have.
Sometimes we are being grateful to God only when big things and surprises are happening the way we couldn't expect to have happened. When things are going smooth on the way you want things to happen and when you have your "Answered Prayer" in your hands. After that, we tend to forget to thank God on every single day that He gave us just to live the life where we are right now. Every single day is a "Present" to what you call "Life." There will be good days and bad days but in the bigger picture in life, you can see that everyday is a present we have to be thankful for. You can't have too many good days because you have to go through bad days and experience bad things then reflect. But you can have too many bad days if you don't even reflect of how bad your yesterday was. "Count your blessings, not what you are missing." There will always be a good side and a bad side, and what you need to do is to focus yourself in the good side of life (not in any earthly manner) and be thankful because you have such reasons to thank for.

In short terms,

G - Good
R - Responsible
E - Evaluate
A - Attitude
T - Thankful

Believe me when I tell you, "Great things happen to great people."
Be a great person just the way you are means that you don't need to walk the same path where a particular great person walked his way to his greatness. You don't have to alter the way you are living your life just to be great, you just have to realize those five things and be reminded that everyone can be great because anybody can serve. "When you follow the Law of Nature, you follow the Law of God." God Bless!

How And Where To Watch Live NFL Games For Free Via Online Live Streaming

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sat, 03 Dec 2011 12:00:00 +0000

Tired of searching on how and where to watch live NFL Games through the use of internet? Watching your favorite football team even if you are outside the country of United States of America.

Actually, I'm an Oakland Raiders-fan from the Philippines and watching each Raiders Scheduled game simultaneously to the live game is such a privilege for an avid fan like me. So, I will not hang your crave up just to watch your favorite football team live in action.

*How To Watch Live NFL Games Simultaneously

Okay, I will cite some specifications regarding to actual football schedule so that you can watch it simultaneously to what is happening in the live football game. So, in order to watch live National Football League Games, you have to;

1) Know the timezone of your country as well as the timezone of the scheduled football game. See Time Zone Converter - Time Difference Calculator and manually put the specifications of your country's timezone and the actual game's timezone. Timezone are usually in the form of a 3 letter combination (but in other timezone, they have 5 letter combinations.) Like, PHT - Philippine Time (this time zone offset is used all year in Philippine Timezone) unlike PST - Pacific Standard Time (this time zone offset is used during winter in the Los Angeles Timezone.)

Example: when you are at the actual link of Time Difference Calculator, specify each time and place to convert from; Day, Month, Year, Hour, Minutes, Your Location and Football Game Location. And if you don't have an idea of what is the actual location of that football game, you have an option to click on "Time Zones" located on the right side of "Other Locations" then right after, search for the exact timezone for that football game, "Select" it and click "Convert Time."

2) Know the difference between two time zones. By then, after you click the "Convert Time" you can actually see the "UTC offset" between the two time zones like UTC +8 hours and UTC -8 hours. But sometimes, in other Time Zone Calculator, you can see it as GMT +08:00 and GMT -08:00 but still they have the same meaning of what it is.

Example: at the time you just know of what are the "UTC offsets" of the two time zones, you can just count the difference between them, beginning with -8 or -08:00 up to +8 or +08:00. And it goes like this and it starts with, -7 -6 -5 -4 -3 -2 -1 0 +1 +2 +3 +4 +5 +6 +7 +8. It must up to +8, to know their difference, simple mathematics. Then you count those difference, and we just count 16. So, the difference between both time zones as we count is 16 hours. Obviously, the higher time and date is determined with the plus (+) and the lower date has minus (-). And if ever you have to minus time zones to convert, like -7 and -2, the higher time and date is -2, and the difference between -7 and -2 is 5 hours.

*Actual example for Fellow Filipinos,

So, obviously we are at the Philippines so we must use, Philippine Time (PHT) as our actual location to date, and since I'm an Oakland Raiders-fan, I have to go their site, and see their schedule. The scheduled game for the Oakland Raiders this week is that they will go to face Miami Dolphins @ Sun Life Stadium (Miami Dolphins' Home Stadium) in Sunday, December 4 at 10:00 AM PST. So, i will go to Time Zone Converter - Time Difference Calculator site to know the difference between PHT and PST. And it has a difference of 16 hours per se. And since PHT is more advanced time as to what PST was, I have to take PHT as the higher time and date. So, what I have to do is to add 16 hours to the PST to make it PHT, then in actual football game schedule as I've said above, Sunday-December 4 at 10:00 AM PST (add 16 hours to know the actual time for the Philippines and that is) Monday-December 5 at 02:00 AM PHT. So, I have to watch on Monday, December 5 at 02:00 AM since I'm in the Philippines. Actually, I go over the net 1 hour before the actual game so that I won't miss any play for that game, and see what is happening around the league if the Raiders game is just about to begin.

3) You have to wait and focus your mind to the schedule because you have to put it in your mind (if you are an avid fan like me.) Then watch to it and make sure you cherish every single play!

I have to put it into my mind and focus myself to the schedule because it was about midnight-early morning schedule if you are watching here in the Philippines. I have to sleep early in the afternoon and alarm myself at midnight to awaken myself that I have to watch Oakland Raiders Football. It was hard for me because I have to go for school in the morning but still it has been worthwhile just to watch Raider Football.

*Where To Watch Live NFL Games Simultaneously

I'm watching National Football Games in this sites:

FirstRowSports - Here you can watch football , Myp2p, basketball, hockey , nfl , nba , rugby and all other sports live streams for free.

The website is down for a while but I suggest that you check on it every week if it is working or not because they have all the access of all the broadcasting network for watching online sports. This is where I watch my first online livestreaming NFL game and I will always credit them for that but now that everything's changed and I can't watch any streams from their site, I have to look for some sites that can satisfy my hunger of watching Raider Football.

Justin.tv - Watch live video and chat with friends. Create your own live broadcast channel.

I put Justin.tv here because they broadcast a high quality live stream and smooth flow of streaming. I recognized their streams inside FirstRow because FirstRow has a lot of connections and links to other streaming sites.

Wiziwig - Brings to you live sports on your PC for free. Live football , Live MLB and NBA. Just for free tv on your pc.

I noticed this site when at the time where I have to go find another livestreaming site other than FirstRow (because they banned our country from watching there.) If you click the link Wiziwig and intended to watch live NFL Games, scan the Wiziwig site and click NFL + CFL + AFL thread and click the thread that contains [Streaming] and there you can watch confirmed streams that the sites offer to you.

MyP2P - is one of the best guides for all your Live Sports. Visit our site to watch almost every sport live and free on your pc.

Last but not the least, this is my alternative for FirstRow, this is where I'm currently watching Live American Football Games without scratching my head for once. It's so nice to find another great sport livestreaming site like this, I'm just hoping that they would not hinder my desire to watch Live American Football games soon.

God Bless!

How To Create a Character For Yourself

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 14:15:00 +0000

Have you ever tried to create a character out of yourself so that you know what and who you really are inside out. That you want to be recognized for possessing that type of mentality that you have and a character that always fit your personality through identification and verification of your friends in you.

Characters and types of personalities with regard to respecting yourself and not to impress someone who can recognize it in you. And if you ever have had qualities you want to maintain or be consistent at, you should think that you could be labeled as "that guy" primarily to what you just acted towards the "initial reaction to the situation" and not being shrewd about what you're supposed to play in terms of characteristics you have in your bag full of emotions. I'm just saying that you should act accordingly to your personality and it should be based on your experience less the negative characteristics that you possessed. I will not mold you in any perfect mold you could imagine, you are the only one who can shape yourself up. I guess each one of us should shape our inside and outside world before it shapes us.

Now, I want you to think about the characteristics that you want to be known for. You have to scan yourself out if you haven't recognized any positive attitudes for yourself and point out some characteristics that you want to improve so that you can suit that personality consistently.

The best way to create a character for yourself is to put your first name vertically and make it as an acronym for the initials of your wanted personality for yourself. Taking your name as an acronym for your characteristics is the most effective way of having particular characteristics because,

1) You carry your own name. You can only remember by your own name and the way you act accordingly to your characteristics that your personality has.

2) You will never forget your name unless you suffer an amnesia.

3) You know yourself. You even ask your parents on how they got those kind of words to make it your name. So you should have quite of an idea of what you are and what they expected out of you in terms of characteristics you might possess for yourself and for your name.

You can even use your whole name if you can remember all the characteristics that you could put on it. For the meantime, I only put my very first name as an acronym for the characteristics I possess and for the qualities I need to have for myself.

For example, I take my first name, J-O-S-E-P-H, into these words;

J - Just

O - Offbeat

S - Self-less

E - Efficient

P - Punctual

H - Humble

Now that you have just layout some keywords for your personality, you have to verify in yourself that you are that kind of person and if you really want to have that kind of personality for yourself.

*How to get the right words for the characteristics you just picked for yourself.

Just - (for being open-minded about the things that are happening and I don't want to be bias, for not listening to the critics especially if the reality really bites into the occasion. Not that I want to impress those type of critics or to look so good for everyone in order to not receive any form of criticism, I just wanted to know if I have something to improve or to be better at, and I know that there will always be a room for improving and kudos for the critics for helping me to cite some that seems to obvious for me. Bad for them if they elaborated some and make it exaggerated for others who can't understand, which could make me looked bad in both sides.)

I pick "Just" because I don't have any letter "R" in my name for the word "Realize." So I have to put some words that are synonymous enough to that word.

Offbeat - (for having a style or mentality that is far from the usual. When maturity takes place, not only in the physical aspect or stage, which is natural part of a human life, but in every experience that I've encountered that shaped the way of who I am right now.)

I pick "Offbeat" because being "Open-minded" is in the scope of being "Just." You don't have to be redundant to be consistent on a particular personality and stuff. Take chances for every other personalities you could possess so that you can bring out the best in you.

Self-less - (for giving all that I can give as well as being concerned for anyone who are in need. Helping to bring the best out of someone's life even if it was a risk for my time of self-developing. Adjusting on the way things that are happening not according to what I just planned for my foremost present and future, and take everything as it is, what, where, and when it is. Trying my best not to be a burden for anybody who takes me as I am.)

I pick "Self-less," to make way for the "Obedient" word that should be in the "O" initial and since they possess arguably the best description pertaining both of each words, I consider "Self-less" for my personality. Guess what, there's a time when I'm thinking about me being "Self-less," an incident struck and test me if I really possessed such selfless personality. First, I take a look on the disposition of my emotion if I will stand firm and take the burden of that principle and see where I am in that incident, if I'm supposed to do it or not. I'm not obliging myself to commit in such things I know that is somewhat different to what my heart feels, then at the same sense, I can determine of where I am on that incident with my particular personality. Back to that incident where they test me if I'm about to hold that personality, I just overcome that and give what they want out of my personality test and give the "Self-less" personality a point of improving.

Efficient - (for not using too much of the things I can just use to achieve a certain goal. For being innovative in the way I just use those kind of things effectively. For having that kind of ambition to achieve goals and for not using "Insufficiency" as an excuse.)

There's a time when I just realized in myself that I have "more than enough" compare to what others have where they lived a life to its fullest even if they have "something that is enough for them to be happy with" - a simple life. Then I just try myself out to what simple life is, trying to adjust and just being myself of what I am and what I wanted out of my life. And now, back to where I was before, I can see the difference and relive some of my experiences and make sure of myself that I'm not going to commit this kind of stuff again for my life and that is to "WHINE about everything that happened not according to what I just wanted as a result or in any other sense like, on how things change/happen in an instant" but to realize that everything happens for a reason. Back to "E", I'd rather use the word "Excellence" for this initial but "Efficient" takes place as part of being "Excellent on things done with Efficiency." Being "Excellent" means that you are effective but I'd rather be effective on things for being "Efficient."

Punctual - (for not rushing in to buy a little bit of a time just to be where I should be at that particular point in time. When I have to realize that there is a time for everything and have that kind of mindset and discipline for a particular task I am assigned to. "Where being punctual beats hard work in every little sense you could imagine.")

Actually, I'm not the punctual kind of a guy. I put this to my characteristics so that I can illustrate it to myself that I have to be punctual as always. In deeper sense, putting emotions on it and prioritize that I should possess this kind of personality for myself. And yes, for having this kind of personality brings a lot to the table for the great things ahead of me. Only two things can beat the "Hard work" personality, being "Punctual" and being so "Kind" and that's why I picked this kind of word for letter "H."

Humble - (for keeping my feet on the ground by not getting too high with the high's and too low with the low's, for appreciating things I'm currently having right now, and for having that kind of a reason why having faith in God makes every difference in my life. For being kind to everyone especially to my enemies, as the old saying said it simply the best, "The enemy is best defeated who is defeated with kindness.")

I'd rather put "Hard work" or "Helpful" but my personality list won't be completed if it doesn't contain such "Kindness" or being "Polite" where every other characteristics must be connected and should have a foundation of those characteristics. So, I put the "Humility" or being humble when it sounds so sweet on being kind and having that kind of acceptance of how things go accordingly to the divine plan that God has planned for our lives.

So there you have it, a complete example on how to put such keywords for your personality and please be reminded as always that you have to be consistent on the things you want to be accountable for.

And after you confirmed all the qualities for your personality, say to yourself, say it to your sub-conscious mind that "I declare victorious for the things I need to achieve for myself and more!"

"God Bless Us All"

I Never Thought Life Would Be This Sweet

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 12:07:00 +0000

Have you ever thought of something sweet that will never happen to you? Because of having such kind of a thing that you want to get rid out of your possession or something like, you ain't have such a thing like a lack of anything, you could think that if you have that kind of stuff, you will be liken by many only by pleasing them because of possessing such thing that will hit their soft spot. But in the other side of a view, you can please someone not because you have such things that could only please them but in a way you've done something out of your guts and will see by many that you are a force to be reckoned with. Not that you just scare them outside in to their shell but a force that they know that they can never push it back to you and hurt you because they know in themselves that they don't possess such a power to bounce it back to you. The power or the force that I'm talking about is "thy faith", yes they can never sustain that power and put it back to you because they know that they have to put a little more muscle to their faith so that they can outmuscle your faith out.

I guess I'm getting far off the fetch, okay back to the things that you could do to please or impress someone by not having anything that will shine their eyes out. I don't know if you are with me, if you ever seen such a scene where this particular person have done a thing that you want to do by yourself and the reason why you have not done it before is because you are afraid of being criticized by somebody that ain't even know the real story behind why you have done that or in a deeper sense, they are just somebody that ain't even know the real person you are. On the positive note, back to the person you just want to become or do things like they do, you have that kind of respect to them because of having that kind of guts by not seeing those people who could mock them at any point in time, the thing that they could only see is the glory behind the reality that there will be people that can understand and will always love them for who they are, and the great example for that is your family. Everything will go down to its END, like fri(END), bestfri(END), boyfri(END) or girlfri(END)... except fam(ILY) it has 3 letters that says, I LOVE YOU (so if you are with your girlfriend tonight, do the dumb thing and marry her so that you could never end that relationship over the night, kidding.)

Anyway, "I never thought life would be this sweet." You said to yourself, that you don't have to please someone in order to have that kind of belonging where in the first place you already have that. Sometimes, we like to go far better beyond and look past to those people who really love us deeply in a manner we like it. We please somebody because we think that they will love us in a way we like it, but in the long way it will only hurt us instead. It's not bad to please somebody if that's the only thing you could only do to be recognized by someone that is so special to you and the way you are doing, because doing such things for them could also make them feel that they are loved. Life is sweet, if you could realize that we are all equal in God's eyes.

Love yourself first.
Because you just can't force someone to love you.
What you can only do is to make yourself someone who can be loved.
God Bless!

I'm Just Proud of The Fact That You've Done It Your Way

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 13:03:00 +0000

Have you ever been proud of your girlfriend? That you were lucky enough to know exactly the real her, where everybody else in the building wants at least to be up close with her at that particular moment where you know in yourself that you have had enough of what they are currently craving for. Not only in the physical standpoint of why they crave for your girlfriend just to be up close with her, but the every little thing that flashes the eyes of the crowd and the way she astonishes everybody just the way she is.

Maybe in some point in time, you got jealous of what she shouldn't sell too much for the crowd, but you have to accept the fact that you two have both different kind of a lifestyle or work to deal with. Some little things that can make us jealous are the things that surprisingly been taught to us to let us understand something we shouldn't be jealous about. But at the end of the day, you are just proud of the fact of what she is with her own world, times that you aren't with her and have to live her own life, and you're proud because she didn't change a bit of the way she is with you and without you.

"I'm just proud of the fact that you've done it your way." You said to your girlfriend, when you don't have to be somebody you aren't, inside her world when you see her recognizably doesn't changing the way she is of the way she was with you before that minute.

You never know that she has the same proud that you have with her, and maybe that's the main reason why she only have to be herself, because you are proud of each other accordingly. And what's more sweeter than that? God Bless!

I Got Time If You Got Me

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 14:30:00 +0000

Have you ever felt that you never have enough time to be with your girlfriend? That you only have done what you could and probably what you only should because you have had set restrictions and rules about that relationship and it makes so much hard to do things you wanna do in short span of time. Time you could only have as an asset to that relationship, and that should always come down to that, having time with your loved ones especially to the people who made you feel that you are loved.

Getting time is not we are all about to, because time doesn't wait for anything or anyone. There's no such thing for "crazy time" when you have this kind of a time where you should be wide awake for anything that you should focus about or something like you have this reserved time of yours to have that extra time for you to reground yourself of what's happening around. Time won't wait for you, but time proved time and time again that he will always be there no matter what happens.

"I got time if you got me." You said to your girlfriend that you could give your time to her at any point in time if she ever got you at your point. Point where in, those rules and restrictions that you've made for that relationship is for the goodness of your relationship and nothing much of a hinder or whatsoever that can make that relationship break for that reason. That you set those rules and regulations not for suspending the warm, spark or magic of that relationship but to let her know that you have this kind of an idea that you are willing to wait for something good, something that is more worthwhile.

Is it worth to wait for something you're not sure of? Yes, you have had that questions in your mind but let me tell you this, you just keep your cool and faith. You don't have to think about what's negative will happen if you know that you have your chances right now to do that thing. Might as well if this time is the right time for you to do those things, and so you may, because God gave us time for everything. It isn't coincidence or an accident that you are doing things right now you probably or should do at this point in time, but God gave us a lot of time to do things in the right place and in the right time.

Well, we could only live once and try to know in yourself where to put those "to-do things" in place and time where you should execute it and play for it. Time is an exclusive thing, others had their time while your's to wait. We gotta do what we should supposedly doing right now and try to have that feeling of living that moment as it is so that you can't worry about yesterday and thinking for tomorrow. God Bless!

So If Tonight is an Accident, Tomorrow We'll Recover

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 11:00:00 +0000

Have you ever felt that you are in an adventure to that relationship you are having right now with your girlfriend? That you feel like you the both of you are having that young drive and enthusiasm for that relationship, thinking that everything will be alright and doesn't have anything to worry about. You are in a smooth drive, thought of the right path you are now heading to, thinking about going to wherever the next destination of your relationship.

But one incident happened to that relationship, an inevitable one so that you can learn the grudges in life and be ready for the worst to come. Not to have that fear or anything that you will avoid in order to not have that incident again, this will always serve as a reminder to you that you will have that kind of incident in your relationship again if you will let it to.

"So if tonight is an accident, tomorrow we'll recover." You said to your girlfriend that your adventure in your relationship has its full stop, trying to recover in an accident you have had. Trying to calm down and think about what you have to thank God because of nothing had happened worst to that accident. And if you ever think to stop that adventure and go different ways just to not have that kind of adventure again, then you wouldn't recover out of that trauma. You wouldn't, because you just can't accept the fact that you have to learn to that accident and move on. Exposure to that kind of accident will be helpful to get you going and will not limit your space to move on.

Keeping you in the same page of accident is not a bad idea, because you just have to know of what had happened of why things happened. You will be lectured and at the same time, realized to yourself of what have you done and things that you should have done in that particular accident in that relationship.

Preceding things that worry you and failures, will only help your fear to grow of something like a habit that you just can't break. Keep thinking things that you don't want to happen in the future because of something bad came out of it, will not help you to move on and will only console you into a smaller zone. Zone that you just couldn't run out and jump out to that shell, because you avoid things that you think will hurt you if you do so. Try to test yourself out to the waters and see where you are of having that fear you don't want to happen to. God Bless!

I Probably Live The Life That You Wish You Could Everyday

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 00:53:00 +0000

Have you ever lived the life you aren't used to live just to be with the girl you love the most? Probably, you just sacrifice everything you have just to be fair to her world and to not let her feelings down towards you. Yes, you could have every little thing that the world can imagine and your girlfriend is getting what's the best and most out of her things, but could you have those intangible things that you want to feel if everybody sees that you are just imbalance for each other.

Thinking that you are in different state trying to adjust of what can be fix at this point in time, in order to not pinpoint of something they can't understand. Yes, they will say that you are not right for each other and you will realize in yourself that you should let go of that relationship in order to not hurt your girlfriend deeply, if it was about to sustain that kind of relationship.

"I probably live the life that you wish you could have everyday." You said to your girlfriend, not to tease her or something but to make her realize all about your sacrifice she didn't recognize at any point in your relationship. Yes, you have had your adjustments and stuff to be with your girlfriend but she ain't have no comments or suggestions of how you just doing in order to be with her. And yes, you just quit, you surrender that in every sacrifices you are making, you didn't get the award that was supposedly for you.

To recognize that "hey, can't you see that..." and "hey, don't you know that" connected by these words "I'm just doing this for the sake of our relationship" and every other words just to make it bittersweet. Bitter in a sense that you are just having a hard time just to please or just to make your girlfriend feel sweet.

Maintaining a relationship is hard work. Not that you have to work hard just to have that, but in every step the both of you will take, you would have to lift and help each other's foot in order to get to the next level of your relationship. And if you ever did that, you will find yourself that you are clicking and perfect for each other. God Bless!

Baby, Please Don't Go

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 05:41:00 +0000

Have you ever begged for your girlfriend not to leave for the night? That you know that she have to go but there is something within you that is eager enough to pull her back to your arms again and never to let her go. You just can't accept the fact that she is about to leave and supposedly leaving because she wouldn't have the right to live with you for the night cause you know that you aren't married yet.

You just don't aim to manipulate of the way she is supposedly doing, but you know in yourself that you have that right to be with her and nothing's gonna stop you from doing that. But you have to back off a little bit and you just can't argue with the fact that she has something to do, maybe it will not be related to that relationship you are having with her in any point but you have to give that healthy respect that she needs to grow off a little bit for herself until you've done deal with that marriage.

"Baby please don't go." You said to your girlfriend that you want to be with her just a little bit of her time to make yourself ready that she is going to leave you for that night. Not to make plans and excuses to be with her over the night, you just want to make sure that you've done what you've plan for that day and make sure that she is the only one who can complete that day at that point in nighttime.

Yes, we know that we hate goodbye's as well as goodnight's, but goodnight is much lighter than goodbye so we don't have to worry on our state in that relationship, we should get what we just left off. You don't have to fear it that way cause it might just happen, even if it ain't happen over the night, but if you keep worrying about that she's going to leave you (in this case, leaving that relationship), maybe she will.

You have to keep a little faith, confidence, and trust to have that healthy relationship you craved for. Yes, we are not right there beside her the whole time but you have to leave her a love stuff (intangibles) that she will always be reminded that there is always one person she knew that she will always be loved and being love as of right now. That you have to give her a hunch that at the end of the day, there is always one person who is waiting for her and who truly cared about how and where she is. God Bless!

If I Wake Up Tomorrow Will You Still Be Here?

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Thu, 27 Oct 2011 05:43:00 +0000

Have you ever worried about your partner leaving you in the morning or somewhere along in the wilderness that she will leave you any point in time? That you know that the night was a dream for you, and you know that if she ever leave you that easily, you will now be awaken of a reality seems to be a dream. Uncertainties, when you don't know how much of a time she will buy to be with you, but you know in yourself that you have had enough of what you craved for.

I'm not pertaining to the 'sleeping with' thing but to the other side that you worry, that you know that she will leave you when you know with all your heart and soul that you gave the whole self to her. You just ensure yourself that you are a part of her and so she is with you. You should know that if you have something to share or something to impart within each other, not only that sexual thing but also the little things, you know that you just affect her of the way she is and the way she will be if you ever see each other again. The way she is when she is with you, now being unfold of what level of confidence and trust that she could give in to that friendship or relationship you are having. A moment you realize that you are "in-theirs" and "in-there."

"If I wake up tomorrow will you still be here?" You said to her, when you know in yourself that you just don't execute all the plans you had in your mind and that's why you ask her if she ever come back so that you will have some other time to complete of what you've started. Yes, you want to end every single conversation in a high note, so you let her know that you have had a great time and expecting to have another time to spare with each other. You can't help yourself but to wait for tomorrow and have it bring that feeling of excitement and rush you want to pour in so you could execute of what you should do at the right kind of a time.

After she just leave you, the moments that you have missed or something you regret will haunt you right at that moment. You know that you have to wait for it tomorrow to have a chance to do it, but your inner drive to drive out that regret immediately will just make you think that you are pathetic enough to have that time again that you just lost. You know that there will be next time, but you just make the most out of all the confidence you had right at that moment. And now that your confidence is up right now, that you now have that will to pull her back to you makes no sense because it isn't the right time for you to do it. But you never know if she will ever like that way or the other way around, still you have to respect as it is.

Now that, once you keep it going you will realize that you will never have enough of a time, every time you meet to have that wonderful conversation. And then, you make it as a habit and make it to the point that you can never live without it, and you choose to have it to live for the rest of your life. And that's how you end life, you find things that you want to live for the rest of your life and the fact that it all started as a dream, but now you are leaving a dream you've never imagined to happen. Life is too short, so we have no time to spare for the things not necessarily to live a life to its fullest. God Bless!

I Know This Ain't Your First, But It's Better Than Your Last

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Wed, 26 Oct 2011 10:34:00 +0000

Have you ever experienced something like a first time for you to do? I'm not directing it to the sexual thing but rather to the things that makes your adrenalin rush a little bit more than the sexual kind of stuff. Things or moments that you experienced where you can't help yourself to subscribe on the things that is happening on that particular moment, way back before you experienced that particular moment and have it experience first-hand.

You just know what to expect, but you know that there will always be a different kind of a feeling where you know that you are right there at that moment where you wished to be at way back then. Your mind was set not to miss a single beat in that moment, but you will always have that feeling where you could think or blink in just for a second that "Am I dreaming or what?" Then you let others to just tap you in, and let you realize that you should have to live that dream for a moment, and I guess that's the only split-second where in you miss a single beat for that particular moment.

"I know this ain't your first, but it's better than your last." Your friend told you, not to wonder the whole time on why and how you get there, where you know in yourself that it's your will that push you through in a particular place where you believe that only miracle could make you go there. It's a little kind of things, where you focus on things that is not pertaining to that subject but still you know in your heart and mind that, that particular is what you up to, why you do such things, and where you know in yourself on where you will end up, and that is being there.

You know that you won't live there for the rest of your life, but the memories and things you brought up from where you came from, will save just a little bit of the heartstrings that you know that you've gone there. Sentiments where you know, that it was baptized by the feeling of fulfillment, where you have these things not too important for others but for you and from where it's value standpoint, you know how much of a thing it was.

There's not a material thing that's gonna last forever only moment last forever. There's no "everlast" thing, but only a moment where in you know in yourself that you craved for it before you experienced it, something like a once-in-a-lifetime chance where there is nothing else to do just to not have that moment be a regret. Cause as we walk through life, the only thing we should only do is to pick up things that is quite important for us, we just don't need it all to survive, we only need one direction that you can call the latter part of it as your "life." God Bless!

Life is Too Short To Have Regrets

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sat, 22 Oct 2011 06:40:00 +0000

Have you ever had a moment where in, you want to do it at all cost but something or some other thoughts hold you back because you just don't the worst to happen in that moment. Moment you think not important as it is a casual type of stuff, and you think that you will always have that moment where in, you can execute the thing you want to execute whenever you are ready to do so. You never know that you always take every single moment for granted because of that mindset, your mind was set to relax off a little bit and take your time to muster your confidence at the level you think where that moment fits for it.

You will never have that confidence if you know in yourself that you don't have any kind of will to do so. Your will, will only outjump that confidence, because confidence in the first place is where you thought for your inspirations to perseve so. And in some cases, confidence will be awaken at times when you encounter some other people that have that enthusiasm and confidence that is contagious enough to bring out the confidence in you.

"Life is too short to have regrets." You realized in yourself, where you find yourself at the moment you shouldn't have to miss or to regret. Moment that you should live as you want it to happen as good as it gets. Living yourself wide awake to your good and a thought that, "this is my moment!" and "I should have never regret this moment!"

Now, there's the will, there's the encouragement that comes from your own words or affirmations and there's the guidance of the Holy Spirit where in you are doing it for the greater good and under your divine plan that God gives you.

No one knows what is our divine plan for our lives, but as you realized that there is God, your first thought is for goodness and kindness for everybody. As the bible always remind us that we have to "love our neighbor as we love ourselves and love the Lord your God with all your heart and soul with all your mind."

So as living that moment as it is, you have to pray it first if it is for you or the other way. Yes, sometimes we do other things using only our mind and our will to succeed so, but you have to think that, "Is this for me?" Yes, you know that you have the capabilities to succeed in a particular field but can you think that you will always have that fire in your heart to be in that field when you know in yourself that you just don't pray it for God if it is your purpose or some sort out of it.

Do you ever noticed some other people that leaving their profession for some other things because they found themselves trapped in a situation where they just don't love the way they are doing. It's not only about the professional thing but for every other field that, they think that their "commitment to excellence" in that particular field is gone. So be enthusiastic about the things you supposedly doing and think about it as your purpose here on Earth. Keep that fire burning! God Bless!

You Can Count On Me 'Cause I Can Count On You

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 14:29:00 +0000

Do you have friends that are always counting on you? And you do not have any problems about that because in your point, you know that you can also count on them. Not in materialistic standpoint, but in terms of having them when you need somebody to lean on to. When you know that you can have them to turn on to, to express the feelings you just want to disperse and just to clean the slate of emotions after the whole day by playing/doing things you used to.

They can count on you on terms of having you exactly the same way, no more and no less. Yes and at this point of time, they should have known of what to expect from you and that is to be with them whenever they need you, especially if they know that you are the only who could miss the things they could possibly doing without you.

"You can count on me 'cause I can count on you." You said to your friends in a particular moment where in, they are not quite sure if you would be available in a particular event not necessarily to be at that stuff and you know that you have things to prioritize first before going on that event, but still you have this friendly-ego where you have to enjoy the things first with your friends before the worst to happen. Not the stuff, that if you don't go they would have say things to you that can hurt the relationship between you and them, the worst case is being with your friends rather than things you should prioritize first or something like you might have a conflict with your girlfriend if you choose to be with your friends rather than to be with her.

Prioritizing not so important things you have to do in your work or in your studies might affect the relationship with your friends if you just keep it as an excuse to be as important as it is. Try to balance things in and things out, you know what's important than the other, and I'm quite sure that your friends will understand if you can't go if that will hurt your performance in your school or in your work.

You just can't have two bodies at the same time at different places so, you have to make a decision where in, that decision will be a bigger regret than the other if you don't do so. And see to it that you let your friends imagine the bigger picture where you have this libra scale to weigh things you should do, in terms of effectiveness for using your time for it and something important that you know that will help you to make a progress. God Bless!

So Keep in Mind All The Sacrifices I'm Making That Will Keep You By My Side

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Wed, 19 Oct 2011 08:02:00 +0000

Have you ever wanted your girlfriend to remember all the things you have done just to have that kind of relationship you are having right now? Not to upbraid that you are the only one who exerts so much effort to have that relationship going because you know that you love her, more than the love you received from her. It's better to realized on how far you've gone or something that became a fruition of your hard work to get that status you are having right now, to just don't break that relationship out in a non-sense of a manner.

Those sacrifices that became a habit for you to make where in, you have to be consistent so that you can have that relationship as it is, and the worst case scenario might be, it won't change until your girlfriend will realize of how much it hurts to endure all the wounds made out of those sacrifices. Yes, maybe she think or see the other people first, of what they could probably think or say about the relationship she is having with you.

"So keep in mind all the sacrifices I'm making that will keep you by my side." You said to your girlfriend when she is about to let go of that relationship because she might have a hard time staring at you when she already know how much hurt you've taken just to have that relationship.

And of course, you just don't agree with that, when you know that you are almost there, not in your pain standpoint, but you know that you've gain a lot to out-muscle all the little things that will come to your relationship's way. That you know that you've gone through all of these, and you said that it doesn't make any sense if you just throw away all the things you've work for just to make all these things right.

You don't have to please all the people that simply don't matter in your life in the long run. Yes, you know that you will not be 'the favorite' of her friends and families to be his boyfriend, and yet you know truly in yourself of who is the only one inside your girlfriend's heart in spite all of the things, trouble and trials inside your girlfriend's mind. You just have to believe that true love conquers it all. God Bless!

I'm Just Like The Clouds, My Eyes Will Do The Same If You Walk Away, Everyday It'll Rain

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 18:53:00 +0000

Have you ever missed someone so much that you almost cried? That she is about to leave and at that moment you already missed her or something that you know in your head that you had a lot of regrets you want to fix but still you can't change the fact that she's leaving. When you know that you're not quite sure enough to know when she will come back to you at the moment she would say goodbye.

"I'm just like the clouds, my eyes will do the same if you walk away, everyday it'll rain." You said to your girlfriend, not to threaten her not to leave but to let her know how much will it hurt if she ever walk away. Hurt, where you can only do is to cry it out all the pressure you have in your chest like the clouds where they have this low-pressure area where they can put all the rain out so that they can have a new kind of a cloud where is white, and that means a new beginning.

But it seems that everyday will be rainy for your cheeks to accommodate until you get healed and realized that it is time to move on. That you have to accept the fact and that everything happens for a reason. It will only be hard for you to realize what you have or something that who loves you rather than who you love. Yes, there are people we overlooked for some kind of a reason because we know in our heart and soul that we truly love someone and promised not to hurt them, but if the case is that they are the one who choose to hurt us, it's not favorable enough if you still be arrogant and not recognizing the ones who cared for you no matter what happens to you. That you already know that the one you truly love is not loving the way you supposed to be loved and realized that you can find and feel it to those people who treasured you most, just like your family and friends.

There'll be no clear skies, let's say for a week, or a month or for a year, but I will tell you this, that there will be moment in your life that you will realize that it isn't worth the time and love lost to a person who doesn't have loved you at all. Kind of a let down, but still you have to move it on, cause the world keeps spinning no matter what you are doing, so you have to go for what you can do best for yourself and not for others that didn't deserve it in the first place. God Bless!

To Realize What We Used To Have, We Don't Have It Anymore

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sun, 16 Oct 2011 15:10:00 +0000

Have you never realized about such thing you used to have? You used to overlooked it and knew that it won't never be much of a regret because you have it right now and just set it in your mind that it will always be there and it will never be gone. Enter, your relationship, you used to have way back before you became broke and make it a concern when you know in yourself that in the first place, the time you have that relationship in your hands, you don't have any concern about it's progress and stuff.

"To realize what we used to have, we don't have it anymore." You mentioned it as a regret while you are talking with your ex-girlfriend. That the both of you know that you can't do anything about it, and just make each other busy to different particular business in order to find a new doorway to love and won't hold it just for anger and resentment. Promising each other not to resent it, and have it move on so that you can't worry about for future circumstances.

If you worry about a single thing for a second, you might miss a bit of a second where in you should cherish it because in life, there is a time for everything. Time to do something special for a special moment in time of your life. Time to suffer so that you can have the fruition out of it, and it tells it all, a better example of why we should live every single second just wide awake to our good because the time is now. God Bless!

Cause There'll Be No Sunlight, If I Lose You Baby

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 14:26:00 +0000

Have you ever find yourself in the blind-side of a situation of your relationship where in, you are the only victim if she ever leave that relationship despite all the sacrifices you've done just to have that relationship you think worth having for. Worthwhile, in a sense, that the time you had sacrifice just to have that relationship is the only limited time you will have inside that relationship because she just sent mixed signals where she might end that relationship more likely than not. It's not statistically that she doesn't have that love anymore because there's no more elapsed time to have love again, it's just she realized it far more early than you thought it was forever.

"Cause there'll be no sunlight, if I lose you baby." You said to your girlfriend after you realized, recognized those mixed signals that will let you know that you will be left soon in that relationship you only insist in the first place. Yes, she is the sunlight that can make you feel energized every time you just have contact with her in any sense and can make you feel rejuvenated when everything else seems to fail. When every little thing about her just mean so much to you, where every single thing about her makes you feel that you are complete and fulfilled. That you like yourself better when you are with her and more.

There will be no sunlight, the right path or the right direction, where you know in yourself that you have no inspiration to go through all the things and stuff not necessarily enough to live the life where you need is love. You can't have that courage to persevere where you know at the end of the life tunnel, there will be no light or path to follow and live with. Something like, where you find yourself on a purpose then suddenly someone have to turn your services down and just thank you. God Bless!

If You Ever Leave Me Baby

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 13:38:00 +0000

Have you ever noticed that your girlfriend will leave you at any moment in time you are having in that grueling relationship? That you know in yourself that you are not the problem, that she wants the perfect relationship where she demands a perfect understanding of whatever things seems not understandable enough to console with. Reasons, that can be an integral part of what we called "heartbreak" not in a sense that the 'magic' runs out on that relationship, we just can't understand of why it went wrong.

"If you ever leave me baby." You just said to your girlfriend when you know that she is about to leave that relationship for a moment. You don't want her to feel threatened but, the way you just spoke those words out made her feel to just hold it back and somewhere between your heartstrings pull her emotions of "why should I have to do this" stuff or things not necessarily to live the love to its fullest. And still she insisted to find herself out, not to find a way to sneak out on that relationship, but to find herself of where she is in that relationship.

It's better to give them notifications of what would happen if they ever done something they might regret. You just don't want to feel that you win, because you know that you will lose some, so you have to be careful of the words you'll be speaking because it might worsen something you just don't want to happen. Just say the words positively to let her feel secured and loved on her way to find herself in the wilderness. God Bless!

I Hoped You'd See My Face And That You'd Be Reminded

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 18:42:00 +0000

Have you ever tried to forget someone who was meant the world to you? That you thought that she is your "better-half" (as they used to say it) when all the things are going smoothly as you've ever imagined and now that everything gets so complicated, you could thought of her as your "worst-half" you've never think of. Now, you are always thinking of what is negative and how to make it worst, to you and in the relationship you will never wanted to have it back again.

"I hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded." Your girlfriend wished or something that hit you in her text message for you, trying to bring back the first time you see each other where she knows that you are in love at first sight to her. Not in particular to have it remembered, but the first impression will be there and how it developed as she became your girlfriend and know the stuff that can make you love her more than you did. The impressions, not in a sense that she is trying to impress you, but in a way she just acted it naturally to you and that is what you will always reminded about her.

When you and a particular person are mad at to each other, you will do anything just to flee from that person, not that you have that kind of fear to that person but rather you are afraid to lose that person the way things supposedly not to have happened. Things that are not intended enough to happen but still lingering of what could be the best test for your relationship. You have to see and face each other, face the challenges and see the solutions that you think will hit the question of what went wrong thing, and be reminded of how far you've gone to mess up on one thing not worthy enough to dwell for. God Bless!

They're Just Afraid of Something They Can't Understand

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 14:18:00 +0000

Have you ever been disappointed by the way the parents of your girlfriend acting towards the relationship you are having with their little girl? That they just can't even understand on how their daughter have that kind of love in you when they think that you are not lovable enough in materialistic standpoint. They think that you don't have the right kind of tools for having their daughter as your girlfriend. Simply, you don't meet their expectations either.

"They're just afraid of something they can't understand." When you try to explain to your girlfriend and show her that you still have that little confidence and faith that you can change their minds by showing to her parents on how you worth their daughter more than they know about it. They just don't know on how you just courted their daughter, what were your sacrifices, and the lot of tests that you should have to pass in order to get to the place you are right at that moment.

They should know first at themselves that, they've not raised their children on what they think they are right now, they should have confidence and trust on them that whenever they have to decide on themselves, there are their teachings that will guide them through whatever they think they will encounter in their mere future.

Wise men say that "when you can't understand something, it doesn't mean that they are wrong" and "trust on the person, and not on things that they know well, for you have this person that can make things for you just the way you want it." It's like, for me, you have to have confidence and trust in yourself in order to put and give your trust and confidence to another person, for you knew what confidence and trust really are and how they will mean to them. God Bless!

Sometimes It Lasts In Love, But Sometimes It Hurts Instead

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 07:54:00 +0000

Have you ever imagined the future of the relationship you are having right now with your girlfriend? That you think that it will last in love when you already said the words like "forever's not enough for me to love you" just to make her feel loved and secured about the way you will love her in the future. Yes, we love to say those things just to tighten up the heartstrings and took the rust off to that relationship to know where you (both) are in that relationship.

"Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead." You said to your girlfriend when everything you've said on what will happen good to your relationship, fails. When you know that you are not the problem on why or what went wrong in the relationship you've just visioned as perfect fit and not to open up ideas to be that misfit.

Maybe your partner just testing out the relationship, if it will last or have the foundation within it no matter what happen or something that the both of you had that misunderstanding thing. Stuff or games she used to set to have borders in that relationship, not in the sense that it is her own way to escape that bonds, but to test it if you are going to love her still, in spite of this cheap tricks.

Sometimes it will last in love, when you just survived some sort of an adventure in that relationship, just letting her know how much you love her, not in words but the way you just reacted on those.

Sometimes it will hurt instead, when you can't take that much of a hardship you think, isn't necessarily enough in that relationship (when you imagined a smooth sail on how the relationship will go to its finish line.)

There is no success without sacrifice, and if you think that everything will go on your way or the way you want it to be, it won't happen. Adjusting and sacrificing is the key to unlock the secret of your hidden success, when you know you have all your chances around you and not missing any beat of it. The real success was defined by your relationship (any kind to anyone.) God Bless!

How You Got All That Mouth And Your Heart is Missing

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 18:33:00 +0000

Have you ever been counter-attacked by the secret you said to a certain person and just exploited your weaknesses that easily? That he just can't control of what he is going to say when all of a sudden, about a point blank space between his tongue and thoughts, he pointed out your secrets. Secrets that are defined and refined for people that you thought they can be trustworthy enough to keep those words. A sign that you give a part of you where they can make or break the friendship you have on them, or something that you let them choose of what type of friendship you will be having on them after you said those words that are precious enough, or kind of a basis where real companionship begins.

"How you got all that mouth and your heart is missing?" You said to your companion which you entrusted your secrets on. Yes, you are the only one to blame for giving him a piece of an information you've been hiding since you found a person you think that will carry up some sort of a burden from that given load. You wondered on how he just drive it out of his tongue without realizing on how it would affect his own heart to just exploit someone's secrets. He is the one who put away the entrusted feeling he used to feel, without further thinking on what would be the effect of it to his own personality.

We told our secrets to those people we trust because we thought that they won't use it for their future weapons against us (if all else fails.) Be patient, for those people that were counter-attacked by the punch-in-the-face secrets you told just only for them, your not-so-good-companion might always thinking of what they have said and told, he might not rested well in days like the counted days after you said your secrets and after he said it to another. God Bless!

How Could You Promise Something That Can't Be Done?

noreply@blogger.com (Joseph Mario Medillo) — Sun, 02 Oct 2011 13:35:00 +0000

Have you ever kept the promise of your loved one? That she promised that she will keep those promise until you meet again where you can uncover all the things you should have after all these times you've been waiting for something worth waiting for. But it seems that you are not the problem of not having those things you deserve, your faith are still there but it doesn't match what exactly you are expecting for, a false hope.

"How could you promise something that can't be done?" You said to your loved one after all these years waiting and hoping for something you know that in first place, can't be done or something that can't resist because of not having you by her side. Yes, we are people that are subjected to fall in the temptation of the world's offer to us, but it ain't seems to be the problem when you truly love the person, where or when that person should be, when you know that there is one option for condition to love someone wherever or whenever she has to, and that is unconditional love.

You know in yourself, that if you are in love, there is hesitancy to do something against or something that can damage the love or bond between you and your loved one at the moment when you are about to do it, or something like a conscience of love when it struck straight to the heart when you know that if you do that, is like hurting your loved one only by your means.

Yes, when everything about your love to your loved one gets so complicated, there is a higher chance that you do all those things that you resist when you are at love, and now you are just bursting it out and take it as a deal like it is your own way on how to revenge to your loved one. But you never know that you're just hurting your own emotion because of not having to let her know about that.

Sometimes, we are just a victim of our own optimism for love. When you thought that everything would be fine by having thinking all the time about positive things, when you just disregard about having that intimate feelings needed to feel between that relationship you are having. No, I'm not saying that you don't have to be optimistic all the time that you are in love, I'm just saying that you have to be positive and confident about giving the love to your loved one without expecting negative outcome from what you've given for that relationship. Giving and taking of everything you are accountable of, as well as your partner, is the key to have that relationship going. God Bless!