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Shewryrape apologistsfatherspolice officerdomestic violence as supported by the united stateshttp://www.randijames.com/noreply@blogger.com (Rj)Blogger826125redistribution with permissiondomestic,violence,sexual,assault,rape,intimate,partner,violence,marital,rape,family,court,corruption,protective,parent,child,support,violent,relationships,court,raped,survivor,intimate,terrorism,domestic,abuse,legal,abuse,domestic,terrorismKids & FamilyHealth/SexualityNews & PoliticsSociety & Culture/Personal Journalsinfo@randijames.comRandi JamesRandi Jamesyesdomestic,violence,sexual,assault,rape,intimate,partner,violence,marital,rape,family,court,corruption,protective,parent,child,support,violent,relationships,court,raped,survivor,intimate,terrorism,domestic,abuse,legal,abuse,domestic,terrorismexperiences of a domestic violence survivorexperiences of a domestic violence survivorRandiJameshttp://feedburner.google.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-4058860531167698972Mon, 18 Jun 2012 22:04:00 +00002012-06-18T18:07:51.042-04:00I just happened upon this opinion piece by Judge Jeremy T. Simmons. Let me know what you all think. The Limitations of a Domestic Violence Injunction: The Rebuttal   On June 6, 2012, the Tampa Bay Times reported this story regarding the matter of Agbebaku vs. Agbebaku. You can take a look at the article and more importantly the comments to the story. This is my rebuttal to what, in my opinionhttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/0KCQY0p_4mU/judge-explains-why-domestic-violence.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/0KCQY0p_4mU" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2012/06/judge-explains-why-domestic-violence.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-1208975632393117772Mon, 07 Mar 2011 13:31:00 +00002011-03-07T08:31:00.062-05:00Parental alienation theories continue to be used in the family court systems. The more battered women advocates continue to fight against it, the more it morphs and expands. It is not a matter of who is doing it more often or whether it exists. It is a convenient tool that attempts to explain basic human parental behaviors while making money for the court system, attorneys and Guardians Ad Litem,http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/bhZesO_DQr8/how-to-apply-theory-of-parental.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/bhZesO_DQr8" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2011/03/how-to-apply-theory-of-parental.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-2258417469450997569Fri, 04 Mar 2011 13:37:00 +00002011-03-04T08:44:54.861-05:00Have you ever asked why we need domestic violence shelters? We have many shelters for women throughout the U.S., and yet, it is supposedly not enough. And apparently we need more for men, because there really aren't many. If men have been getting abused all along, where have they been going? Women go to shelters in order to seek safety from danger, but that threat has to be imminent--likely to http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/UxpUpDM3xMs/why-do-we-need-domestic-violence.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/UxpUpDM3xMs" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2011/03/why-do-we-need-domestic-violence.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-8254295590468136322Thu, 03 Mar 2011 13:52:00 +00002011-03-03T08:52:06.787-05:00First, let me thank Peter Jamison for his extensive article California Family Courts Helping Pedophiles, Batterers Get Child Custody . Please, go read it. Understand that what he describes is not unique to the State of California. I want to point out a couple of things in Jamison's article: First, let's talk about Amy Baker who works in the New York/New Jersey area. Actually, I have talked http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/6KEo_U5es2A/money-is-helping-pedophiles-and.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/6KEo_U5es2A" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2011/03/money-is-helping-pedophiles-and.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-8114444648703315128Sun, 16 Jan 2011 02:26:00 +00002011-01-15T21:28:27.954-05:00It appears there is an entire industry that profits from the misery of women who have been in abusive relationships and are desperately seeking justice in the court system that is supposed to protect them and their children. For many of them, that justice will never come because they are unaware that with all the knowledge and understanding they are seeking for themselves, the system which holds http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/WCoP8V0MfSo/marketing-to-survivors-of-domestic.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/WCoP8V0MfSo" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2011/01/marketing-to-survivors-of-domestic.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-5557944116655813148Tue, 14 Dec 2010 20:13:00 +00002010-12-14T15:13:51.263-05:00Dear Dr. Warshak: In a porn sting, FBI raids home of parent and finds images of child porn including "bestiality, bondage and other sexually deviant acts." The parent spends time in prison. The parent gets out of prison and files for full custody because the other parent didn't bring the kids to prison visitation. Is this what parental alienation looks like? http://dastardlydads.blogspot.comhttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/Vfm83Uh1N_c/part-4-questions-for-richard-warshak.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/Vfm83Uh1N_c" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/12/part-4-questions-for-richard-warshak.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-2889497256945443698Wed, 08 Dec 2010 13:49:00 +00002010-12-08T08:49:02.389-05:00If "parental alienation" existed in the the intact family (which you theorists have verified that it does occur in absence of divorce), why should it be such a focus now that the parents are separated/divorced? And who are you going to rely on to tell you the truth about what occurred within the family: the "alienated parent" who may have an agenda, the "alienator" who has no obligation to http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/yRquZGy9FR4/part-3-questions-for-richard-warshak.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/yRquZGy9FR4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/12/part-3-questions-for-richard-warshak.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-848340715187019680Tue, 07 Dec 2010 14:34:00 +00002010-12-07T09:34:00.654-05:00Dear Dr. Warshak, I have been accused of parental alienation because my adolescent child won't visit his father, my ex husband. If my son's father is an alcoholic and chronic cheater that is into child porn, and my son knows about at least 2 out of 3 of what I mentioned, how do you suggest that I promote the relationship between father and son in order to remove the parental alienation label? I http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/fBTnW-O4pZQ/part-2-questions-for-richard-warshak.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/fBTnW-O4pZQ" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/12/part-2-questions-for-richard-warshak.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-6663230303845501360Mon, 06 Dec 2010 17:31:00 +00002010-12-06T12:31:41.201-05:00Dear Dr. Warshak, Dr. Amy J. Baker's research confirmed that "parental alienation" occurs in intact families--that is, families that have not been through a divorce or separation. I am sure this must have been found in other literature as well. My question is, if parental alienation is a mental health diagnosis serious enough to warrant inclusion in the DSM V, how do you propose to treat it http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/nKRzA2hg6lo/questions-for-richard-warshak-and-his.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/nKRzA2hg6lo" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/12/questions-for-richard-warshak-and-his.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-3108525213201484384Wed, 10 Nov 2010 11:50:00 +00002010-11-10T08:11:26.099-05:00fatherlessnessdomestic violence awarenessUpdated! I, like the writer at Dastardly Dads, thought that this article was about to be pointed in the right direction because of the name of the title. I'm not sure why the fuck I thought that. In fact, I'm almost laughing my ass off at the "false journalistic balance" that is presented. Here are some great excerpts with my commentary on the info presented: Education and awareness are http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/U-W5LUJLHR4/keeping-moms-safe-is-best-for-kids-but.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/U-W5LUJLHR4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/11/keeping-moms-safe-is-best-for-kids-but.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-2898832858835246877Sun, 26 Sep 2010 14:15:00 +00002010-09-27T10:35:43.259-04:00CanadafatherlessnessI am always so excited when Barbara Kay has an article published. She is so truthful and factual in her support of father's rights. Let's take a look: We have British Columbia's first review of family law in B.C. since the Family Relations Act came into force more than thirty years ago. Their July "White Paper on Family Relations Act Reform" (accepting submissions until Oct. 8) contains http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/-XY4XQqA4cQ/wed-like-to-give-father-their-rights.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/-XY4XQqA4cQ" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/09/wed-like-to-give-father-their-rights.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-6071916551226914096Fri, 24 Sep 2010 12:23:00 +00002010-09-24T08:23:00.647-04:00Florida and childrenFlorida legal systemchildren's rightschildren“Nationwide studies have proven that the judges follow our recommendations 80 to 90 percent of the time..." Oh really? "The court decides the fate of children who are victims of neglect or abuse. In such cases, both the mother and father are each represented by a lawyer, one the state is required to provide if they can’t afford it." Well, except in family court--if you are a parent and you don't http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/I5hT_BiWb70/get-you-florida-guardian-ad-litem-today.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/I5hT_BiWb70" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/09/get-you-florida-guardian-ad-litem-today.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-4578007998467452197Thu, 23 Sep 2010 15:31:00 +00002010-09-23T20:22:01.564-04:00parental alienation fraudTexasYou never know how your kids will turn out. You give your life for them and sometimes they turn around and stab you in the back. A now adult child discovered that he was on the missing kids list. It has been 17 years since his mother has seen him. This man decided to turn his own father, Stephen Palacios, in to the federal authorities. What an ungrateful individual. Even his father's attorney, http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/QJcAmo5tMYo/missing-child-turns-father-in-to-feds.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/QJcAmo5tMYo" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/09/missing-child-turns-father-in-to-feds.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-7286384257702153394Thu, 23 Sep 2010 02:36:00 +00002010-09-23T00:01:42.844-04:00child killed by fatherchild visitationfathers murdering childrenviolent menTexasKeep in mind that this is The New Randi James In Texas, two girls and one boy were recently shot to death by their father, Mohammed Goher. (This really isn't news and this isn't a special case, it happens all the time.) The father was a convicted wife beater. The father had previously threatened to kill himself if he lost custody of his children. The children's lawyer, SYED IZFAR, was about to http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/-RiWHhpj57k/please-let-fathers-keep-custody-of.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/-RiWHhpj57k" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/09/please-let-fathers-keep-custody-of.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-4086391246376282406Wed, 15 Sep 2010 15:14:00 +00002010-09-15T11:36:12.410-04:00Those "Mommy and Me" classes are so exclusionary. What's with all this stuff for moms only? We have fathers, grandparents, aunts and uncles, sisters and brothers, step-parents, babysitters and other persons who are caregivers of children who would benefit from these classes. There's a famous quote by Gloria Steinem that I think is worth repeating here: "Women are not going to be equal outside thehttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/9SflBbu-H84/no-more-mommy-and-me-so-lets-go-for-fit.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/9SflBbu-H84" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/09/no-more-mommy-and-me-so-lets-go-for-fit.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-8606631048589289686Tue, 14 Sep 2010 11:30:00 +00002010-09-14T07:39:03.004-04:00your tax dollarsDHHSdomestic violence blogCPSdomestic violence awarenessIn the next few days I'll be changing things around. I have a new outlook on domestic violence that I would like to share. This outlook is pretty much supported by our U.S. government, the institutions therein which include the people who make up these institutions and mainstream society at large.I urge you not to get upset with me and not to try to censor this site. The old material will remain http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/Q9aoTgxFe-Y/new-blog-new-paradigm-shit-is-changing.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/Q9aoTgxFe-Y" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/09/new-blog-new-paradigm-shit-is-changing.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-8169858618738122153Sun, 05 Sep 2010 01:22:00 +00002010-09-04T22:17:46.079-04:00DHHSdepressionfatherlessnesschild supportFrankly, I'm tired of blogging domestic violence. I'm tired of blogging homicide news. The picture is so bleak because it is multifaceted. The d.v. "industry" is about getting grant money for salaries and trainings and doing the [important] front end work of sheltering abused women who seeking shelter...but they stop short of telling women what happens afterward when she is forced to continue http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/OeAMe7Z-WHU/depression-in-mothers-not.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/OeAMe7Z-WHU" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/09/depression-in-mothers-not.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-4065447284888807086Sat, 28 Aug 2010 20:28:00 +00002010-08-28T16:43:35.891-04:00Medicaidhealthcarechild supportchildrenIn most states that I have been aware of, when the mother's child support case is handled through Child Support Enforcement (CSE) (mainly when she receives any type of welfare benefits), the father is made responsible for covering the children's health insurance. In my own experience, this was not specifically enforced and the kid just got Medicaid anyway--no money out of my pocket. If there http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/7ElaS3CGl30/fathers-responsible-for-childrens.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/7ElaS3CGl30" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/08/fathers-responsible-for-childrens.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-5764005006942880020Thu, 12 Aug 2010 23:56:00 +00002010-08-20T22:38:43.826-04:00sexmarital rapemisogynysexual abusemarriageYes, I'm really about to talk about the withdrawal method aka pulling out. I've recently written about abortion, so I might as well amp it up a bit. Please read on if you have an open mind only. I don't care if you call me all types of whore, nasty, trifflin, or whateva; I'm going to tell you what I know. I'm really upset about the comments I've read on Bianca I. Laureano's post on RH Reality http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/TdM1UqkgOO4/withdrawal-method-aka-pulling-out-does.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/TdM1UqkgOO4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/08/withdrawal-method-aka-pulling-out-does.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-4671880598005534271Fri, 06 Aug 2010 13:13:00 +00002010-08-06T09:42:15.928-04:00shared parentinginfantschildrenAustraliaH/T Janet LangjahrOkay, folks, this isn't news, really. This isn't groundbreaking. People who deal with children....have been dealing with children....People who are genuinely interesting in CHILDREN'S well-being already know what they need. And it doesn't involve flipping back and forth and accommodating the needs of their parents. The father's rights camps, joined by some women's groups, have http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/krEtAnT3VO8/what-australia-says-about-shared.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/krEtAnT3VO8" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/08/what-australia-says-about-shared.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-1301164138016881837Thu, 29 Jul 2010 12:11:00 +00002010-08-01T18:38:32.367-04:00your tax dollarschild supportFlorida legal systemMissouriUPDATED AGAIN 7/30, 7/31H/T Janet LangjahrMost women I know, including myself, receive child support. Additionally, most women that I know, do not receive the court-ordered amount of child support. So what happens? We get by by whatever means necessary. As for these fathers, at least as far as Florida Child Support Enforcement (CSE) is concerned: At 30 days, CSE can suspend the father's driver's http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/fw785sqzcKQ/felony-charges-for-past-due-child.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/fw785sqzcKQ" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/07/felony-charges-for-past-due-child.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-7763191085719366332Wed, 28 Jul 2010 18:39:00 +00002010-07-28T14:59:54.487-04:00single mothershatred of womenchildrenassault on Black familiesThanks to RH Reality Check for bringing this to my attention. Phyllis Schlafly said,"One of the things Obama's been doing is deliberately trying to increase the percentage of our population that is dependent on government...For example, do you know what was the second biggest demographic group that voted for Obama? Obviously the blacks were the biggest demographic, yall know what was the second http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/-u6WChFOj_4/how-phyllis-schlafly-really-feels.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/-u6WChFOj_4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/07/how-phyllis-schlafly-really-feels.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-5417717932212801185Wed, 28 Jul 2010 14:28:00 +00002010-07-28T10:16:22.113-04:00shared parentingchild custodyinternationalGermanyWe know joint custody/shared parenting/50-50 timesharing is a major hot button issue right now. Interestingly, there really is no unified definition of these child custody arrangements. Even more interestingly is that there is no research the proves that splitting of the children is in children's best interest.In Germany, Justice Minister Sabine Leutheusser-Schnarrenberger is preparing to give http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/gtDOYh-mFK4/justice-minister-sabine-leutheusser.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/gtDOYh-mFK4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/07/justice-minister-sabine-leutheusser.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-2245490166784719085Wed, 28 Jul 2010 13:07:00 +00002010-07-28T09:36:15.739-04:00Massachusettsfamily courtchild custodyIn the family court arena, the Department of Children and Families (DCF) has been helpful to some and an obstruction/destruction to others. Where mothers have reported suspected or actual abuse by the father, sometimes DCF comes in an substantiates the abuse and therefore provides evidence to the court that the mother may not have had or been able to obtain on her own. Sometimes it isn't the http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/vqXsAb4qHCY/massachusetts-cant-look-at-dcf-files-in.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/vqXsAb4qHCY" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/07/massachusetts-cant-look-at-dcf-files-in.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4683520057411451160.post-7656830394090832048Fri, 23 Jul 2010 13:45:00 +00002010-07-27T12:09:12.115-04:00restraining orderdomestic violence murderFloridaOn another deadly day in Florida where history of domestic violence is after the fact:Domestic dispute turns deadly on I-4FHP: Driver of a Ford pickup rams another carUpdated: Tuesday, 20 Jul 2010, 11:47 PM EDTPublished : Tuesday, 20 Jul 2010, 3:59 PM EDT * Kelly Joyce By Kelly Joyce FOX 35 NewsLAKE HELEN, Fla. (WOFL FOX 35) - Officials with the Florida Highway Patrol are investigating http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RandiJames/~3/jBEMyW2_dOw/ex-boyfriend-rams-trucks-into-ex.htmlinfo@randijames.com (Randi James)<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RandiJames/~4/jBEMyW2_dOw" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.randijames.com/2010/07/ex-boyfriend-rams-trucks-into-ex.htmlen-usredistribution with permissionRandi Jamesadult