Rear Window

A Single Act That Changes Everything

2012-01-08T17:45:00.000-06:00

“Remember when we said that grief was the strongest thing a person could feel? Well, it isn’t. It’s forgiveness, because a single act of forgiveness can change everything.”
-The Tale of Despereaux

I’m not even sure I took the time to examine that saying the first time I heard it. Like I’ve acknowledged many times before … I’m a "lover" - that is, I believe in Love. If love is the most important thing to feel, how can forgiveness be the strongest?

We know with absolution that life inevitably wounds. We’ve been rejected. We’ve been torn down. We’ve been victimized by ignorance and arrogance. We’ve seen fresh, young life fade away. We’ve watched love’s clones be forged and slowly decompose.

Worse yet …

We’ve victimized. We’ve broken. We’ve destroyed.

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
-1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Does our idea of love – the love we hand out – look like that? If not, why?

I think I’ve figured it out. Forgiveness has to be the strongest thing we feel, because without it, we would never be able to love our enemies. We would never be able to put away the past – past failures and regrets would chase us off the path that leads to our potential. Our love would never be able to look like the Love the Word of God describes. Forgiving … ourselves, others, and happenstance … is the only act we can perform that can, in a moment, send us spiraling into a life that begins and ends with embracing the infinite nature of Love.

I believe in love, because I believe in a Divine Being that is Love. I believe in forgiveness, because I believe in a Love that forgave me.

Winners!

2011-11-26T20:03:00.001-06:00

First off, I have to say that (in regards to my last post) you all have great taste in Thanksgiving food! I agree with my "Auntie Em" (September) that the very best is a warm, buttery roll ... which, I didn't actually get this year. I did have rolls with butter, but none of them were fresh and warm, which was sad ... but luckily, that's not something I only ever get on Thanksgiving! As far as "Thanksgiving only" food goes, I agree with Joni - stuffing is delicious! See how addicted to bread I must be? :P

Ok, on to a subject that won't exacerbate the condition of my rapidly expanding waistline. :)

Who's ready for me to announce these winners?

...(1)...

Bag of your choice from Luckycann {Up to $55 value}

#116
Emily @ The Little Things In Life!

...(2)...

Handmade Oil & Vinegar Bottle from Creative With Clay {$48 value}

#92
Shelley @ Maranatha Girl!

...(3)...

Gift Certificate for Elegant Rose Boutique {$30 value}

#10
Maria @ All American Girl!

...(4)...

Plug-In Warmer & Scent Bar from Scentsy {$25 value}

#77
Marcia @ Enchanted Musings!

...(5)...

11"x17" "The Beauty We Love" Letterpress Print from Happy Deliveries {$20 value}

#95
Emily M Voss!

...(6)...

Set of 5 Square Doily Coasters from Uncommon Handmade {$20 value}

#65
Sveta @ Nature's Light Photography!

... ... ...

BONUS PRIZES

Scentsy scent circle of your choice (for the car)

{Winner #1}
#13
Joni @ With Colors Bright!

{Winner #2}
#59
Sarah Dawneé @ Odds & Ends with Crafts & Pens!

{Winner #3}
#110
Jennoelle @ Unoriginal Originality!

Surprise gift for spreading the news about the party
(from me) :)

Rachel @ Dramatic Elegance!

Email me at abigail[at]abigailkraft[dot]com for further instructions on how to claim your prize. :)

Congratulations to all of you!

Because I'm Makin' Pie, That's Why!

2011-11-25T22:41:00.001-06:00

You might have noticed that I haven't announced the winners for the Authentic People Blog Party giveaways yet ... and I DID promise you I'd get that done today.

*gulp*

However, I've been busy baking pies for about the past 4 hours, and was gone most of the afternoon, so unfortunately I've been delayed. I promise I will post the winners at some point tomorrow. So sorry, loves! I hope you're happy to be patient with me. *cheesy grin*

Happy Belated Thanksgiving!

What's your favorite Thanksgiving dish?

Authentic People Blog Party!

2011-11-11T00:00:00.000-06:00

The day has come for our Authentic People Blog Party to begin! I'm so excited to get to visit all of you and get to know you better!

Here's how this works...

{write a post}

Introduce yourself. If you want, tell us a bit about who you are & why you blog.

Then, tell us some of those weird things that not everybody knows - the things that make you unique.

Below is a list of questions that you can answer any or all of. Or, if you're feeling creative, answer some of your own questions!

Make it wordy or brief, picture-full or not, fun or funny...whatever floats your boat!

{post your link}

At the bottom of this post, you'll see a form where you can enter the link to your blog post. Make sure to add your post to the list, so we can find you!

{meet new people}

Hop around and get to know some of the authentic people who are joining in. It's more fun if everyone comments on a few blogs!

{win a prize}

The day after the blog party ends (November 25) I'll be announcing the lucky winners of six fantastic giveaways, including a items from each of my wonderful sponsors (see sidebar)! Plus, one bonus prize will be awarded to someone who shares about the blog party via Facebook or Twitter, and comments on this post telling me.

See complete list of prizes here!

And so, it begins!

{Click here for a list of questions you can copy and paste into your party post}

Hello, I'm your host...Abigail. :)

1} What's the nerdiest/geekiest/weirdest thing about you?
Where to start? My brother, Jared, always likes to tease me about the "nerd cackle" that slips out of me sometimes ... but overall, the nerdiest thing about me would have to be my adoration for all things Apple.

I even name my Apple products. My iPhone 4 is Carl Mason, and my iMac is Rico Phillip "Robbie" Bates III. They're not the first of their kind either. I've been hooked on Apple products since I was about 12 years old.

2} If you could live in a fictional universe from any book, movie, or television show, what would it be?

Well, this would have to be the second nerdiest thing about me. I would choose to live inside of Smallville. Lois and I would fail at making pancakes together, and then I'd go and geek out at Watchtower with Chloe Sullivan. After that, I'd have a little chat with Clark, BEGGING him to tell Lois that he's the red-blue blur (even though I know he's only trying to protect her), and in the end, we'd all sit around the Christmas tree in Clark's living room, drinking steaming mugs of black coffee and wearing awesome Christmas sweaters, talking about all of our greatest memories, and how family is so important.

Yes. Smallville.

(NOTE: For those of you who watch Smallville, I haven't seen season 10 yet, so please, no spoilers!!! That ... might just kill me.)

3} Little or big, practical or frivolous, what is one of your favorite items in your house?
This wall. In my room.

Something about it completely thrills me. Not totally sure what, but for sure, something! Ha!

4} Do you like animated movies? If so, what is your favorite?
YES! Oh my word, yes I do. Some of my absolute favorite movies are animated. "Shrek" is a consistent favorite of mine - I love that entire series with a passion. I've probably seen those movies 50 times each. Ha! However, I'd have to say my all-time favorite animated movie is "Ratatouille". Love it love it love it.

5} What is your favorite household chore?
At first, I thought this was an easy question, because I love doing laundry. But then, I remembered vacuuming, and I got all confused. So, I'll just say vacuuming AND laundry. Final answer! (P.S. Fun fact...my brother and I wrote a goofy song and made a video about our amazing Oreck Forever Series Gold vacuum. Check it out here if you want to see the most epically ~~awful~~ AMAZING salsa dancing ever!)

6} What's your favorite thing to get at Starbucks (or your favorite coffee shop)?
That really depends on my mood. I think my consistent favorite is a triple grande peppermint white mocha with half the syrup, but I love them all! Triple grande caramel macchiatos might be tied for first, though.

7} What is your favorite pizza topping?
If I had my way, every pizza would be made with pepperoni, anchovies, and jalapeños! I like strong flavors.

8} Waffles or pancakes?
WAFFLES! Breakfast, lunch, or dinner, waffles.

9} Do you like to play games? If so, what is your favorite?
I love to play games. Especially with my momma, who is just as competitive as I am. My favorite game is probably Boggle. Mainly because I can't really remember the last time anyone beat me at Boggle. I'm a warrior. :]

10} Have you ever let anyone win a game?
Only a couple of times. Hardly ever. I like to win too much.

11} Have you ever dyed your hair?
No, but the fact that I'm 18 years old and have had sporadic grey hairs since I was 14 makes me think I probably will someday.

12} Do you make your bed every morning?
Pffff!!! (no.)

13} Picasso or Norman Rockwell?
Picasso. Norman Rockwells paintings are eerily perfect. Also, I find it strange that every time I try to type "Norman Rockwell", my fingers automatically type "Normal" instead. It's suspicious.

See what I mean?

14} Do you like carpet, tile, or hardwood floors?
Hardwood in every room, except for the bathroom. The bathroom gets tile. Carpet is blah.

15} If you could put one thing in a safe under your bed, what would it be?
Multiple digital backups of old family videos. I hate the thought of losing those!

16} What's your favorite condiment?
Horseradish mustard, all the way, baby!

17} Have you ever thrown up on someone (excluding when you were a child)?
... I don't think so. Leastwise, I don't remember if I did. I did vomit all over the place one time though, and my mom had to clean it up. My mom loves me a lot. Ha!

18} What was the last thing that made you laugh?
Ok, don't make fun of me. "Fred 2: Night of the Living Fred". Yes, it's true.

19} Think fast...what's the first song that pops into your head?
"I Have a Dream" by ABBA. I swear, that song never leaves my head!

Happy blogging, buddies! I'm looking forward to reading all about the "authentic you's" out there!

Click here to view full list of prizes!

Authentic People Blog Party Giveaways!

2011-11-10T23:59:00.000-06:00

To be entered to win any of these incredible prizes, just write a party post and add your link to my Authentic People Blog Party! Best of luck, friends!

...(1)...

Bag of your choice from Luckycann - Up to $55 value!

"My bags are stylish, elegant, durable, functional and washable. They are
also big enough to accommodate my “everyday mom essentials” including
books, iPhone, sunblock, swimming goggles, clothes, food, toys, daipers,
shoes and more.

"Whether you are a busy mom, an executive or a college student, I have a
suitable bag (offered in a range of bright and funky colours) to meet your
work and lifestyle demands."

source (left)
source (right)

...(2)...

Handmade Oil & Vinegar Bottle from Creative With Clay - $48 value!

"Here you will find unique one of a kind handmade colorful pottery inspired by Indian designs, fabrics, embroidery, colors and Bollywood handcrafted by yours truly, Charan Sachar."

source

...(3)...

Gift Certificate for Elegant Rose Boutique - $30 value!

"Enjoy natural beauty products including handmade soap, moisturizing body butter, lip balm, bath bombs, lotion, natural deodorant and so much more, you can find all of your pampering needs in one place!"

source (left)
source (right)

...(4)...

Plug-In Warmer & Scent Bar from Scentsy - $25 value!
+
Bonus Prizes!

3 readers will receive a scent circle of their choice (for the car)!

NOTE: Additional entry options apply. Check back soon for details!

"Scentsy Wickless Candles are ceramic warmers that are a safe, decorative alternative to a candle. There's no flame, no smoke and no lead – so that means no worries for you! They are safe around kids and pets, and are safe to use in your home, classroom, office, or anywhere! How are they so safe? The ceramic warmers use a low watt light bulb that melts specially formulated Scentsy wax, creating a long lasting aroma that fills any room. There are so many beautiful warmers to choose from and they come in a variety of sizes ranging from plug-ins, which are perfect for bathrooms and laundry rooms all the way to full-size warmers, which are perfect for any size room. And with over 80 scents, you are sure to fall in love with several scents."

source

...(5)...

11"x17" "The Beauty We Love" Letterpress Print from Happy Deliveries - $20 value!

"This print was created using antique wood type from the early 1900s and grey ink. The type (wood and metal letters) is hand-set in my mid 20th century press and inked with a brayer. Then the paper is pulled throught the press, one sheet at a time, to create a perfectly imperfect print."

source

...(6)...

Set of 5 Square Doily Coasters from Uncommon Handmade - $20 value!

"Your source for colorful, cleverly designed decor in the style of anthropologie and urban outfitters. Our inspiration is danish and midcentury modern with some eclectic vintage in there, too."

source

I'm a Candle Junkie...

2011-11-10T23:58:00.000-06:00

Yes, it's true. I'm a candle junkie ... How 'bout you?

Cheesy. I know. Sorry.

More often than not, I have a candle burning in my room. Something about walking into a room and being greeted with a comforting and homey scent just makes me feel fantastic. However, I simply can't get myself to leave a lit candle unwatched. You never know when that right air gust is going to come from a vent, sending a highly flammable object flying towards the open flame...Eh. Can't risk it.

For this reason, the concept of Scentsy Wickless Candles makes me a very happy girl!

In the words of Scentsy consultant, Rachel Antone...

"Scentsy Wickless Candles are ceramic warmers that are a safe, decorative alternative to a candle. There's no flame, no smoke and no lead – so that means no worries for you! They are safe around kids and pets, and are safe to use in your home, classroom, office, or anywhere! How are they so safe? The ceramic warmers use a low watt light bulb that melts specially formulated Scentsy wax, creating a long lasting aroma that fills any room. There are so many beautiful warmers to choose from and they come in a variety of sizes ranging from plug-ins, which are perfect for bathrooms and laundry rooms all the way to full-size warmers, which are perfect for any size room. And with over 80 scents, you are sure to fall in love with several scents."

I'm excited to say that Rachel is not only offering a Plug-In Warmer and Scentsy Bar of your choice to a lucky one of you, but she is also offering a Scent Circle to three more readers!

Along with the mandatory giveaway entry of participating in my Authentic People Blog Party, Rachel has requested a couple of additional entry options - so your chances of winning this great gift from Scentsy are even better!

Additional Entry Options...
1
Go to Rachel's website, come back to this post, and leave a comment about which warmer and scent you would like most.

2
Visit Rachel on Facebook (Rachel Antone - Scentsy Consultant), and LIKE her page, then come back to this post and leave a comment saying you did so.

By "liking" Rachel's Facebook page, you will automatically be entered in future giveaways that are done on a regular basis, only on that page. Orders can be placed from her website, and will ship directly to your home within 7-10 days.

Deadline for entries is 11:59pm CST on November 24 - Winners to be announced on November 25.

Good luck!

Natural Feels Better, Right?

2011-11-09T15:23:00.000-06:00

For a long time, I've had skin issues. Not so much acne and such (although, I have struggled a little with unwanted pimples, zits, etc. in recent years), but dry hands, random rashes, temperamental oils in my face (sometimes my skin is dry, sometimes it's oily), and other such annoyances always seem to affect me. As such, I find myself needing to be careful what kind of soaps, lotions, and other skin care items I use. Have you looked at the labels of some of the commonly used products? Many of them even boast their natural ingredients, however there are so many chemicals and additives it doesn't really mean anything.

So, needless to say, I like to buy natural.

Let me introduce you to Elegant Rose Boutique. A truly natural way to care for your skin and make you feel naturally rejuvenated.

My experience with these products so far has been exquisite. There aren't many things that feel quite as fantastic as hopping out of a warm shower, the scent of coconut oil and shea butter following you, and enlivening your skin with all natural whipped body butter. It's a new kind of clean. Not stripping down all of the natural oils in your skin, but reviving them.

Have you ever tried using natural deodorant? It's no secret that it seems to lack a certain protective quality that the popular store-bought varieties possess. Elegant Rose Boutique's deodorant, from my experience so far, has not failed me. That's a big "yay!" from me!

Melissa, the owner of Elegant Rose Boutique has offered an amazing prize for me to give to one of you, if you participate in my Authentic People Blog Party! Be sure to check back between November 11 & 24 to find out how you can be entered to receive some of her quality products!

UPDATE: Click here to find how how you can win a $30 gift certificate for Elegant Rose Boutique!

More Handmade Lovelies - Who Likes Clay? raises hand

2011-11-08T16:28:00.000-06:00

Remember what I said in yesterday's post about handmade things? I LOVE THEM.

So, it's no surprise that I adore this Etsy shop, full of unique, handcrafted pottery items.

These creations are handmade by Charan, who lived in India for a significant part of his life. You can see so much of India's influence in his beautiful, ornate, and unique work. I'm in love with each and every piece in his shop!

It took me a little while to actually use my square dish, because all I really wanted to do with it after receiving it in the mail was...look at it. Ha! It's absolutely stunning.

I'm happy to say that I will be giving away one of Charan's products during my Authentic People Blog Party! So, make sure to stop by my blog between November 11 & 24, to enter for a chance to win! I'm sure you're all excited to know what exactly it is that he will be giving to a very lucky one of YOU, but until the big reveal, go and gawk at all of the work in his shop, Creative With Clay.

Who's excited!?

UPDATE: Click here to find how how you can win a Handmade Oil & Vinegar Bottle from Creative With Clay!

My New Favorite Bag

2011-11-07T15:13:00.000-06:00

They say you can tell a lot about a person by their purse.

Ok, so I don't really know if "they" say that, but I certainly believe it to be true. From the inside out, a purse definitely seems to hold many glimpses into the personality of the owner. I don't prefer to call my purse a "purse"...I like to be able to call it a bag. For some reason, the aesthetic qualities of the word bag just seem to fit my personality a bit better. Along with that, I like to wear bags that are casual and stylish simultaneously - think canvas. Yes, I adore canvas. Don't you just love the texture of canvas? It's smooth and consistent, but always maintains that appealing, natural feel.

Friends, I'm here to tell you that I've found a bag that fits all of my desires.

It's got tons of pockets, it's roomy, and mine is a gorgeous brick orange color - perfect for autumn.

I love the long strap, and (my goodness) it's so comfortable!

Last, but certainly not least, it's 100% handmade. That fact, I admit, completely sells me on my gorgeous Aster bag. I'm a sucker for handmade things. Who doesn't love knowing that they're using something that's been specially crafted by one set of hands?

Love it, don't you?

Come back on November 11 and join my Authentic People Blog Party for a chance to win a gorgeous bag from Luckycann!

In the meantime, make sure to go to her store and check out all of her bags. I guarantee you'll be in love by the time you leave.

(More details on this giveaway coming soon!)

UPDATE: Click here to find how how you can win a bag of your choice from Luckycann!

Amazazing Giveaways + New Friends = Authentic People Blog Party!

2011-11-03T08:26:00.000-05:00

I've been thinking ...

... and after hearing all of your opinions on what makes a blog special - worth reading - I've decided that I need to do something to help promote real blogging.

People who are willing to bare their souls to one another, speak frankly and honestly, and sing their own song - whether it is one of pleasant routine, victory over adversity, struggle and sorrow, or any unique melody - those are the people that I'm proud to know. Those are the voices of hope through every melancholy, tragic, humorous, and wonderful moment in life.

I want to praise my Lord and Savior for a world full of souls worth truly knowing.

The Authentic People Blog Party has begun! Click here to join in!

The Authentic People Blog Party has begun! Click here to join in!

Starting on November 11 (12:00 AM CST), I will be hosting a two week long blog party (ending on November 24 at 11:59 PM CST) that is all about the authenticity of living souls. Yours & mine ... collectively, the divinity and nature of Christ, displayed in His cherished creation.

Each moment is a new opportunity to bring glory to God. The smiles that flash across our faces defy the fallen state of humanity. The hope that emanates from our hearts when we're moved by a special melody, statement, or written line, exposes a Creator that dwells in the soaring moments of epiphany. Those special moments of looking into the wide eyes of a loved one that whisper a requite, or letting the wind blow your hair where it may, rather than fighting against it ... in those moments, our spirits are revealed to us.

I feel like my purpose in blogging is and always has been to encourage people to be honest with themselves and with others. In honesty, friendships are formed that may have never bonded otherwise. I want the opportunity to get to know YOU in this way.

There will be

giveaways,
a fun questionnaire,
photo prompts,

...and most importantly, the opportunity to find and bond with people like you ... and unlike you. The only catch is that you must be completely and unapologetically yourself! :)

I'm extremely excited about this! If you're not already a follower here at Rear Window, make sure to subscribe, so you can stay updated on developments! Check back soon for fun questions to answer in your party post, and giveaway announcements!

The Authentic People Blog Party has begun! Click here to join in!

Want to win a surprise gift?

{To enter...}
Spread the news about the upcoming Authentic People Blog Party via your blog, Twitter, or Facebook, and let me know you did in a comment on this post.

See you there!

The Authentic People Blog Party has begun! Click here to join in!

{Party Questions}
1} What's the nerdiest/geekiest/weirdest thing about you?
2} If you could live in a fictional universe from any book, movie, or television show, what would it be?
3} Little or big, practical or frivolous, what is one of your favorite items in your house?
4} Do you like animated movies? If so, what is your favorite?
5} What is your favorite household chore?
6} What's your favorite thing to get at Starbucks (or your favorite coffee shop)?
7} What is your favorite pizza topping?
8} Waffles or pancakes?
9} Do you like to play games? If so, what is your favorite?
10} Have you ever let anyone win a game?
11} Have you ever dyed your hair?
12} Do you make your bed every morning?
13} Picasso or Norman Rockwell?
14} Do you like carpet, tile, or hardwood floors?
15} If you could put one thing in a safe under your bed, what would it be?
16} What's your favorite condiment?
17} Have you ever thrown up on someone (excluding when you were a child)?
18} What was the last thing that made you laugh?
19} Think fast...what's the first song that pops into your head?

Happy Thoughts & Sad Faces

2011-10-21T11:32:00.000-05:00

It seems, at points, we all have been personified by this ironic exchange of happy thoughts and sad faces. Walking down the dirt road at sunset, I witness the brilliant rays of almost expired light, streaming through the hints of steam that rise from the surface of the cold ground. In that moment of beauty, I see a thousand moments of beauty that have come and slipped by too quickly. My one consolation?

This life and its beauty were never meant to last.

This is a mere shadow of the glory in store - the home that I was created for. The sun set on this earth the day man overstepped his boundaries and disobeyed his Master and Creator. Now, we live in this dark, ever darkening, world...bright stars, glowing elegantly against the blackened earth and sky.

I passionately await the dawn.

Until the hour of its arrival, I choose to shine this light of spirit and life with the power of Hope, pent up inside of my enraptured soul. On the day the Sun meets the horizon, all will be bright. On that day, my oneness with Beauty will solve its contrasts, and I will forever be...limitless.

Spirit of Truth. light my soul. let it burn for You.

Look What I Got In The Mail!

2011-10-15T12:48:00.000-05:00

Some things just totally make you feel special and loved, you know?

That package I'm holding contained a very appreciated creation from my friend, Kaitlyn, who lives half way across the country, in Washington. We joke about switching states, because...let's face it...Washington is the home state of Starbucks!
(No, I wouldn't really move to Washington just for Starbucks. Kansas has enough coffee to appease me.)

What's inside??

Watch this, and find out!

As you now know, yes...it's true...my mother has a beautiful, magnificent, amazazing, perfect (ok, maybe not "perfect"), iPhone 4S, and I do not. However, after her bathtub incident, and the fact that she had to go without her own phone for over a week...yeah, she deserves it.

...and, you know...I get to play with it.

"Healthifying" & Your Answers on Blogging

2011-10-11T12:51:00.000-05:00

First off I'd like to ask you a question...

Why does sugar have to be so darn delicious?

Actually, don't answer that. It really doesn't matter. With or without the delicious factor of sugar, other things are just as delicious, and I'm choosing the alternative deliciousness, so as to avoid the detriment caused by overdosing on the deliciousness of sugar. Make sense?

I like to call it healthifying.

My breakfast this morning - complete with spinach, matcha tea, frozen fruit, & a raw cage-free egg. Yum! (No, really...YUM!)

Praise the Lord tea and (black) coffee are healthy! Although, I must admit, I don't always choose to take them the healthy way.

Oh, and do you see that book next to my colossal cup of Yogi Kava Stress Relief Tea? (Yes, that was a shameless plug, because it is my FAVORITE tea!)

It's called The World's Greatest Book of Useless Information, and it's truly full of amazingly useless information.

For instance, did you know...

"One brow wrinkle is the result of 200,000 frowns."

"In 1983, a woman was laid out in her coffin, presumed dead of heart disease. As mourners watched, she suddenly sat up. Her daughter dropped dead of fright."

"Children born in the month of May are, on average, seven ounces heavier at birth than children born in any other month."

It's magically entertaining, and it's given me excellent silence breaking conversation topics ever since I bought it. Fun!

Ok, onto topic #2.

A few weeks ago, I wrote this blog post asking for your opinion on blogging - specifically comments, effort, and trends. You all gave me some great insight, and shared your opinion in much appreciated detail. I encourage you to go and read through the comments on that post - getting into each other's minds and understanding one another can really help us improve our blogs - but, I would like to offer a summation here.

Comments
In general, it seems that people are most likely to comment when they can either relate to the topic of the blog post, or if it's just a high quality and entertaining post. So, how does this help us? In posting, I really want to offer something to my readers; whether it's in relating to each other, and getting to know each other (encouraging the community aspect of blogging), giving someone a little something to cheer up their day, or a host of other things... The important thing is that readers leave having gained something from their visit. The more we focus on this, the more, I believe, we'll be blessed by comments, and really getting to know our readers on a personal level.

Effort
I think we're all in agreement that effort really needs to be focused on being yourself, and providing quality content that reflects that. Growing a blog isn't really worth anything if you don't stand firm in the integrity of your own uniqueness. Blogging is an amazing way to share the things that you've been blessed with the ability to share! When we're willing to show exactly who we are, unabashed, it makes people feel at home. We all crave a little "realness", right?

Trends
Well...first of all... *fist pump* You noticed them too! Ha! Most of your comments stressed the importance of good judgement when it comes to trends - some, are definitely great for engaging readers and enhancing the aesthetic of a blog, but we need to be careful that we don't do specific things, just because so-and-so with 10,000 followers does it. Once again, our blogs are reflections of us, and we should consider the trends that allow that to come through.

So, thank you so much for all of your input! I really appreciate it. Now, off to make myself french pressed coffee, and get to work on some things. Have a lovely day, friends!

My Momma's Birthday - A Recap

2011-10-06T22:49:00.001-05:00

Some of you may have seen the post that I smuggled onto my Momma's blog this morning, in honor of her birthday. She didn't know I'd done it until this evening, when she had 30 comments already! I'd say that's some successful surprising! Thank you to all of the lovely people who commented on it, and helped make her day special!

Well, after a full day of...

thrift-shopping,

delicious food,

coffee,

cheesecake,

chilling,

{and}

spazzing, here and there

...we're done, and happy!
(I don't like cheesecake, but I took the time to make it, because it's Momma's favorite dessert.)

Momma and I did a vlog to tell you a little bit about her day, but to read more (and see a bunch of photos) go check out her blog post. :)

I've Got Pumpkin, I Need a Recipe, & I Have a Recipe for You!

2011-10-05T10:58:00.000-05:00

Pumpkin can get a little overwhelming. You stick "pumpkin" in front of anything (e.g. scones, pancakes, bread, cake, waffles, muffins... people, lamps, unicorns, etc. etc.) and it automatically makes it sounds incredible.

My predicament is found in the massive collection of pumpkin recipes that I've found. How in the world am I supposed to make just a few of these ridiculously good-looking recipes?! So, I need your help.

Would you, pretty please, share your favorite pumpkin recipe with me?

You can...

post it on your blog and give me the link in a comment
leave the recipe in a comment
(tell me if you want me to delete it once I've got it saved somewhere - just in case you want exclusivity)
or you can email it to me
(you can right click on the previous link and choose "copy email address" if the link doesn't work for you.)

Of course, whenever I make them, I'll post about them here, and send the love your way. :)

Now, I've got a recipe to share with you!

I don't know about you...but scones are a huge weakness of mine. Can't really get enough of them. Especially when they've got a thin, hard shell of icing on the outside.

Mmm.

So, the other day, I created a to-die-for pumpkin scone recipe, based off of my family's favorite chocolate chip tea scones.

(Do you pronounce "scone" as skōn or skän?)

We don't eat chocolate too often anymore, but these didn't need it. They were lightly sweet, just pumpkin-y enough, and filled with the beautiful essence of autumn... and yes, they had a lovely cinnamon glaze on top.

Pumpkin Spice Scones

3 C. Flour
1/4 C. Sugar
4 t. Baking Powder
1/2 t. Salt
1 t. Cinnamon
1/2 t. Nutmeg
1/2 t. Ginger
1/4 t. Cloves
1/2 C. Butter
3 Large Eggs
1/2 C. Pumpkin Puree (not pumpkin pie filling)

Preheat oven to 450 degrees F. Grease a large cookie sheet, or use an un-greased baking stone.

Mix together all dry ingredients, then using a pastry blender, two knives, or an electric mixer, cut in butter until course crumbles form. Beat the eggs in a small bowl with a wire whisk or fork, then add eggs and pumpkin to the dry ingredients and mix until just blended.

Remove dough from bowl and place on a floured surface. With lightly floured hands, shape dough into a round, until it's about 1 inch thick. Score the dough into 8 equal wedges, and bake for 20-25 minutes (until golden). Let sit for a few minutes, then glaze. Cool completely on a wire rack, then cut along score lines.

Cinnamon Glaze

Approx. 3 C. Powdered Sugar
Approx. 3-4 T. Milk
1/2 t. Vanilla
1/4 t. Cinnamon

Mix all ingredients together, adjusting amounts of powdered sugar and milk until it's a fairly thick, sticky consistency. While scones are still warm, spread glaze evenly on top.

Enjoy with a cup of your favorite roast of coffee!

Our only variation to that was that we used a biscuit cutter instead of scoring the dough and cutting it into wedges - if you do that, reduce the baking time to about half.

Hoping you like them as much as we did! Crazy delicious, they were. I'm looking forward to trying your pumpkin recipes! :)

P.S. I'm planning something exciting, here at Rear Window! Come back soon to find out what. :)

Bedhead...That's About It!

2011-10-03T14:32:00.000-05:00

Before I start, I'd like to say...I WILL return as soon as possible to give you the two posts that I promised you!

But, for now...

Random things keep Momma and I inspired to do more vlogs. For instance...this morning went something like this:

"Mom, look at my bedhead... Hey! We should do a vlog in our pajamas!"

(I just checked, and yes, there IS a link to my artwork in my sidebar... but, you could just click here.)

Oddly enough, we forgot to say anything about our appearance in the video itself. Ha! I guess we were too interested in talking about randomocity. Either way, a very good (belated) morning to you! Watch it again tomorrow morning, that way it's at least somewhat applicable to your day. Ha. :)

See you soon, Loves!

Wedding Photos, Plus a Spaztastic & Deadified New Vlog!

2011-09-28T23:25:00.000-05:00

It's been almost an entire week since I've posted! I have a legitimate excuse for this. That excuse being that this last weekend, we took a trip up to Kansas City for the wedding of the two friends we visited a couple of months ago. (remember?)

Momma and I were asked to photograph it, which we were so glad to do. We got some shots that we were extremely excited about!

It was a wonderful wedding. Of course, many members of my family (myself included) shed a few sentimental tears as Jared's lifelong friend, Tim (like a cousin/nephew to all of us) married his lovely bride, Stephanie. These two were so made for each other. :)

(See more photos on our Facebook page)

So, that's where I've been & what we've been doing. Now, on to some craziness.

I had the spaz attack of the century tonight. I'm not really being dramatic. You know it's legitimate when you find yourself jamming to Demi Lovato at insane volumes...by yourself. Alone. (No, I don't listen to Demi Lovato. Ever.) Ironically, my momma was experiencing an unusual lack of energy, simultaneously. So, naturally...we did a vlog.

According to Jared, if I wasn't his sister, he would have been extremely annoyed by me during this. So, seeing as I'm not your sister...you might be annoyed. Hey, you can't say I didn't warn ya, now!

So, my questions for you are...

Are you prone to spaz attacks?
What's your least favorite song?
How do you say YOWPAH!?
(That last question could be a prompt for video responses. Seriously.)

P.S. Thank you for all of your insightful comments on my last blog post! I'll be sure to post a follow-up soon. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts!

Homemade Pumpkin Spice Lattes & Questions

2011-09-22T11:13:00.000-05:00

This post is going to be seriously awesome. Why? Well, it delivers some food for thought, to be taken with...coffee...AND it tells you exactly how to make aforementioned delicious...COFFEE.

Are you excited? You should be!
(I am.)

You know how I love Starbucks. I'm also pretty sure you know how I love Starbucks' seasonal beverage, the infamous pumpkin spice latte. Actually, I kind of wonder how the world keeps spinning when it's not in season - it must simply spin in anticipation of the season when it comes back. Either way, as you can see, my insatiable love makes the 25 minute drive and $5+ needed to acquire one quite disheartening.

So, I've been messing around, trying to make my own version at home, and I found a recipe for one that (while not quite the same) satisfies the craving quite well. Even better, it starts with making a syrup that you can just stick in the fridge, ready to break out whenever autumn whispers tempting in your ear, "pumpkin spice latteeeee..."

I might make some adjustments next time I make it - see if I can make it taste more like the original. It's hard to get that rich, delicious pumpkin flavor using real pumpkin. But, using real pumpkin adds charm, don't you think?

Pumpkin Spice Latte Syrup
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1/3 C. Pumpkin Puree
1 C. Sugar
1 1/4 C. Water
1 t. Vanilla
1 t. Cinnamon
1/2 t. Nutmeg
1/4 t. Cloves
1/4 t. Ginger

Start by placing all ingredients in a sauce pan on medium high heat. Stir ingredients and bring to a boil. Stirring every few minutes, let the mixture boil at a lower temperature for 10-15 minutes, until it becomes slightly thick and sticky.

Remove pan from heat, and let cool. To store, refrigerate in an airtight container.

To make your pumpkin spice latte...

Heat up a couple of tablespoons (more or less) of pumpkin spice syrup with the milk for your latte (a true latte is about half steamed milk, half espresso). Pour milk & pumpkin syrup mixture into a mug, and pour your espresso shots (or whatever form of coffee you like to use) into the milk and stir it. Top with whipped cream (if desired - I didn't have any, but it would be delicious), and a sprinkle of cinnamon & nutmeg.

Enjoy!

If I find a way to make it better, I'll update this recipe later to include the changes. As is, you should still try it, because it is delicious in its own special way!

"Okay, question..."

My family always jokes that I start way too many conversations that way. Actually, it's usually not followed by an actual question, but rather a string of bold and very much unproven statements, treated as absolute fact. I'm not sure why I do that, but either way...that's not what I'm here to talk about.

I want to know what you people think about...

For fear of making this post ridiculously long, I won't go into too much detail here - I want you guys to answer a few questions for me, and we'll continue this conversation in another post after I hear from you all.

^{FIRST}Comments
How do you comment? Do you comment on every post you read? If not, what type of content are you most likely to comment on?

I've found that the percentage of readers that comment consistently has been rapidly going down, across the web, over the past several months. It could be because the blogosphere is simply evolving into less of a community activity, and more of an author-powered source of entertainment... or it could be that bloggers are simply pooping out. Ha! What do you think?

^{SECOND}Effort
What do you do to grow your blog? What do you consider a fair way to gain readers? How much effort is too much, & how much is not enough?

I think we can all agree that feeling like we're being pulled away from our own lives, just to keep up with the content a blogger is putting out is not a good thing, in general. Still, there's the aspect of dependability that says we need to be fairly consistent in our posting - after all, if the point of blogging is to offer something to our readers, then we should keep that focus when we consider the effort we put forth. Where do we reach that balance?

^{THIRD}Trends
What do you think about blogging trends? Are they really valuable to gaining more long-term readers?

All trends have to start somewhere, and when it comes to blogging - an effusion of original souls creating original material - I can't help but wonder if some of these trends are really productive. Nice design, creative wording & photo heavy blogs... all trending, but they can be personalized. But then there are trends like vintage photos, fashion photography, specific aesthetic models for wording...unfortunately, people who follow these trends are diverting attention from the pioneers of these styles of blogging. It's a good way to get followers quickly, but will they last?

Let me know your thoughts, and we'll continue this conversation in a few days.

Happy Thursday, Loves!

Cheeky Children & A Senior Photo Shoot

2011-09-21T06:00:00.000-05:00

Those of you who have experience with children probably agree...

...sometimes, it's like they're just begging to have their picture taken!

Extraordinary cuteness is probably to blame. Ya think?

Or maybe it's just blatant cheeky behavior...

Either way, I'm convinced, God gave Harrison the innate desire to pose for the camera, because he knew that Momma and I - the relentless camera wielders that we are - would need this adorable and cheeky child.

Don't get me wrong, we LOVE getting photos of anything, everything, everyone, and their grandma... but it's nice to have natural, spontaneous posers every once in a while.

Speaking of natural posers (that sounds wrong...I mean it in a good way, of course!), Momma and I had our first downtown photo shoot today! We've been wanting to get some shots down there for a while now, and we finally got the opportunity, in getting some senior photos for this lovely young lady.

Such a beautiful subject, isn't she? I'm brilliantly excited to do more editing. Nothing feels quite like having a new folder, full of freshly edited photos.
Ah. Lovely.

"Twoooo can be as bad as one!"

2011-09-16T14:12:00.001-05:00

...Well, in this case, "Threee can be as bad as two!"

Either way, the reason it came to mind is because in our newest vlog, we've got a special guest - well, he's not THAT special, but don't tell him I said that...I'll tell him myself.

On that note, sensing the sibling rivalry, you might've guessed that our guest is none other than my brother, Jared.

Jared...

Makes a mean cappuccino.
Makes a mean cup of french pressed coffee.
Understands that true coffee drinkers like some of the fru-fru stuff too.
Has outrageously talented eyebrows.
Reminds my family of Thor (from the movie...because he's so cheeky and manly).
Writes music, plays music, sings music...
eats music, breathes music...

...you get the picture.

That being said, enjoy!

Ok, so there were two guests... technically. But then again, Harry can't really be considered a guest, because he seems to always wiggle his head into the limelight. Ha!

As for the song (rap) towards the end of the video... if you know what it is, then you're awesome. If not, well you can just go find out what it is, and you'll be equally as awesome!

Home Again, Home Again, Jiggity Jig!

2011-09-14T11:45:00.001-05:00

At 2:10 am on Monday morning, we stumbled into our house, home from our whirlwind vacation. What a blast!

We spent the first six or seven hours of vacation in the van, which is actually a hugely fun part of the trip, in my opinion - at least, it is when you've got seven other people in the car, and everyone's laughing, smiling, singing, and spazzing! Yes. It's fun!

We stopped along the way to eat the sandwiches we packed for lunch. I'm a little jealous of my little bros... Remember the days when eating pictures were cute??? Ha!

We didn't expect much out of our motel (just picked one that we could stay in for free with points), but the wooded hill behind it, filled with natural beauties, made it brilliant!

We had fun romping around and taking photos... that is, until I came dangerously close to sticking my face right into this spider web - looking through a camera can mess with perception of your surroundings.

So, after a mild (half hour) panic attack (there wasn't even a spider on the web to justify my freaking out - I think I legitimately have arachnophobia), I patted myself on the back for having the sense to take a photo of it, even with shaky hands and nausea.

When we headed back to our room, it started raining, and I got random inspiration from the wet pavement.

After hanging out for a little while...ok, so maybe we all wasted time on the same iPhone/iPad app...

(You'd have to play it to fully understand its addictive qualities.)

...We headed to dinner at a fantastic pizza kitchen, and then to Branson Landing. While at Branson Landing (and after spontaneously dancing and singing our favorite ABBA and Hall & Oates songs), we found the. coolest. store. EVER.

(See the salt lamps in the window? *swoon*)

Earthbound Trading Company. If you ever see one, go in...but, be prepared to die of delightfulness. Momma and I didn't ever want to leave.

Then, we watched a cover band/light & water show thingumajig. The band did a Sting cover (and fist pumps ensued), and I got the photo, below (no editing).

Have I told you how much I stinking adore our new camera???

Branson Landing will definitely be a stop in all future Branson trips. Such a great atmosphere!

The next day, we spent playing hard at Silver Dollar City!

First ride of the day was one of my favorites, Wildfire!

(Can you tell I'm excited? Ha!)

Later, Momma and I went on the Giant Barn Swing alone, because nobody else will do it with us. :)

(Standing in line for the Giant Barn Swing)

...So, by the end of the day, we all felt a little bit like this...

...But, some extra shots of espresso in our Pumpkin Spice Lattes from Starbucks that night kept us awake for the trip home. As a matter of fact, they were so good, they inspired me to come up with a new form of dancing!

Do you love it!?

Yes, you do. So, if you try leg dancing, you should tell me. Bonus, if you try leg dancing outside of Starbucks, you should get it on video. It could be the new thing, right? Well, now don't shake your head so fast...just give it some time.

Now, I shall end this ridiculously long post by saying... my momma and I are good camera sharers. Good camera sharers, indeed.

To see some of my momma's photos from our vacation, read her post here.

A Much Anticipated Vacation

2011-09-09T20:31:00.000-05:00

Tomorrow morning, my family sets forth on our shortest vacation ever! Two, short, fun-filled days that have been wildly anticipated (especially by the boys, who squeal with delight at every mention of it). We're heading out to Branson, Missouri for the weekend.

Branson is our most frequent vacation spot. It's close, it's brimming with tourist attractions, and it's home to Silver Dollar City - one of our favorite theme parks. We'll be spending Sunday there.

Fresh cinnamon rolls are in the kitchen, awaiting our departure.

Cinnamon rolls have such a whimsical appeal, don't you think?

And now, after witnessing a perfectly elegant sunset, we await its reprise in tomorrow's dawn.

No doubt, the three munchkins won't sleep a wink. :)

I'll see you on Monday, with lots of photos!

Autumn's Coming & It's Bringing Me a Shiny New Sweet Tooth!

2011-09-07T23:01:00.001-05:00

How does the arrival of autumn make you feel?

Nostalgic?
Poetic?
Cozy?
Happy?
Melancholy?
...or just plain old HUNGRY?

It's a heaping spoonful of all of the above, for me! See, I'm talking in food terms now. "A heaping spoonful"? Nope. Not a good sign.

It's true, Momma's and my seasonal sweet teeth have taken over. It's taking great self-control not to go and snag a mug of hot cocoa right now (at 10:45pm). Don't worry, loves. I will resist.

...Now, to make us feel better about ourselves, we want to know...

What are your favorite autumn treats?

To read Momma's comments on this vlog, click here.

An Evening I Might Have Missed

2011-09-05T16:56:00.000-05:00

Yesterday evening, Harrison asked me (as he often does)...

"Abigail, will you swing me?"

I used to swing him almost every day.

I've gotten in the habit of saying no to him.
"I need to make dinner, Harry."
"Not right now, Harry."
"Have someone else swing you, Harry."

But, last night I said yes.

We went outside, and he talked, and swung, and laughed. It was precious.

Afterwards, Harrison and I went for a walk.

"Harrison, can we hold hands?"

Just the two of us. Just for about half a mile, hand in hand.

He kept on telling me stories that started with, "When I was little..." I didn't dare tell him that he was still little. So, I just smiled.

"Can you give me a piggy-back ride, Abigail?"

I swung him onto my back, and took off my shoes. I walked barefoot in the gravel and the autumn air, praising God for the purity of the moment.

As we got closer to our driveway...

"Ab, can you let me down, so I can race?"

So, I let him down, and he raced himself home, looking back behind him occasionally to make sure I was watching.

Going through our front door...

"Thanks, Ab."
"I love you, Harry."
"I love you, too."

"So this is love...Hmmhmhmhmmm..."

2011-09-03T12:40:00.000-05:00

This photo is proof...

There are two happy photographers in Kansas right now, unable to put down their new Canon Rebel T3i!

Upon its arrival, Momma and I immediately started snapping away... But, there was a little dilemma. We had no memory card. (One of those "Oh yeah..." moments.) So, we made the twenty-five minute drive to Best Buy and couldn't wait to get home - hence, we started playing in the car.

Mom says, "Quick! Get a photo of the two of us while the light's still red!"

I'll admit...thus far, I've been a bit of a camera hog.

This morning I spent outside, laying in the grass, still clothed in my pajamas, making Jonas & Harry pose for me.

I kept hearing, "Ab...can we pleeease be done now???"

...and replying, "Oh, don't be such a baby. You're going to appreciate these someday!"

Aren't I a nice big sister?

(Momma, I promise you can have it for the rest of the afternoon. You can hold me to that.)

Last night's tweet...

"Today has been a crazy good day. Also, Momma and I got our new Canon Rebel T3i in the mail. :)) YES. So in love. #canon #sharingishard"
follow me on Twitter @AbGK007

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I've Got Pumpkin, I Need a Recipe, & I Have a Recipe for You!

Bedhead...That's About It!

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Homemade Pumpkin Spice Lattes & Questions

Cheeky Children & A Senior Photo Shoot

"Twoooo can be as bad as one!"

Home Again, Home Again, Jiggity Jig!

A Much Anticipated Vacation

Autumn's Coming & It's Bringing Me a Shiny New Sweet Tooth!

An Evening I Might Have Missed

"So this is love...Hmmhmhmhmmm..."

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