<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6792821957394549247</id><updated>2024-09-24T22:08:51.432-07:00</updated><title type='text'>READERS VIEW</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://knowledgeprints.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6792821957394549247/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://knowledgeprints.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6792821957394549247.post-2982065565638853716</id><published>2012-04-17T04:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2012-04-17T04:41:19.910-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I Just Can&#39;t Seem to Get My Girlfriend To Come Back - She Does Not Even Want to Talk to Me   by AJ Smith</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;http://gainmoneyfast.com/-137033.htm%20&quot;&gt;Things to do to get Ex girl Friend Back&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The silent treatment can be tough to deal with. You have to have nerves of steel it seems to be able to deal with an ex girlfriend who seems to be intent on giving you the silent treatment. If your ex girlfriend just does not seem to be in the mood to talk to you at all, what you might have to see it as a pretty good indication that she is not ready to deal with any heavy discussion about the break up, nor your desire to win her back. It&#39;s rough, I know that. However, you do have to look at things for the way that they are and not the way that you want them to be. Your ex girlfriend&#39;s reluctance to speak to you is probably the best sign that she thinks that she can give you that for right now, getting back together is not something that she really wants to deal with.&lt;br /&gt;
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So, you might feel a bit scorned by her because of all of this silent treatment. That does not mean that she has to give you a second chance. It also does not mean that you should continue to try and woo her back to you, because too much of that and you are going to wind up being someone that she wants to avoid at all costs. If you have any hope that you might be able to win her back one day, then for now you need to be able to back off of her and respect the fact that she wants to stay quiet at this moment in time.&lt;br /&gt;
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What would be a good thing for you to do if you are dealing with a situation like this, would be for you to find a way to become less needy of having a woman in your life, particularly your ex girlfriend. It&#39;s good for a man to feel like he does not need to have a specific woman in his life in order to be happy. You are never going to really be able to control what your ex girlfriend is going to do, but what you can do is to control the things that you do right now. Now, that does not mean that you can&#39;t find a way to get back into her good graces later on down the line. It is much more likely to happen if you are cool with the idea that she wants some time where you and her do not speak. Another thing that would be good for a guy like you to do in this situation is to use your time to socialize with some new women. Maybe even date a little bit.&lt;br /&gt;
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You are going to have to learn to bounce back from a break up if you are going to have any fun when it comes to dating. No one is immune to the possibility that the relationship that they are in could come to an end. The worst thing that you can do is to allow a break up to wreck your self esteem and your confidence and turn you into someone who is afraid to move on with his life. We&#39;ve all seen men that have allowed this to happen to them and it is usually NOT a pretty sight.&lt;br /&gt;
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Another thing that you may not want to have to consider, but probably should, is the likelihood that this really could be the final act for you and her. You may not be able to patch things up with your ex girlfriend. As hard as it may be to think of things in that way, you can still do well without her specifically in your life. It&#39;s not like there are not a lot of women out there that you could have some fun with and maybe even connect with and have a meaningful relationship. And you never know what the future holds. You may go your separate ways for now, only to end up back together a few months from now.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://knowledgeprints.blogspot.com/feeds/2982065565638853716/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://knowledgeprints.blogspot.com/2012/04/i-just-cant-seem-to-get-my-girlfriend.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6792821957394549247/posts/default/2982065565638853716'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6792821957394549247/posts/default/2982065565638853716'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://knowledgeprints.blogspot.com/2012/04/i-just-cant-seem-to-get-my-girlfriend.html' title='I Just Can&#39;t Seem to Get My Girlfriend To Come Back - She Does Not Even Want to Talk to Me   by AJ Smith'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>