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On this blog I’ll be sharing information and resources which will help you in your journey of living life on your own terms. Whether that be finding a better balance between your job and your life or escaping it all together and pursuing your passions.</description><title>REALITY IS NEGOTIABLE</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @danboudwin)</generator><link>http://realityisnegotiable.com/</link><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/RealityIsNegotiable" /><feedburner:info uri="realityisnegotiable" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" /><item><title>What's New, What's Not</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dboudwin/6939688354/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2lmyiOJR91r8rdmh.png"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Visual notes from the third chapter of &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004KAB596/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=realiisnegot-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B004KAB596" target="_blank"&gt;Hacking Work: Breaking Stupid Rules for Smart Results&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=realiisnegot-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=B004KAB596" width="1"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(I&amp;#8217;m happy about the new look of the sketchnotes. Very excited that &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/itslilpeanut" target="_blank"&gt;@itslilpeanut&lt;/a&gt; is going to be working with me on typography and layout design.)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/7ZPdNwJKHbI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/7ZPdNwJKHbI/21242439171</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/21242439171</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 21:06:00 -0400</pubDate><category>visual notes</category><category>books</category><category>sketchnotes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/21242439171</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>You Were Born to Hack</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dboudwin/6939686810/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2lmk5XOzm1r8rdmh.png"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Visual notes from the second chapter of &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004KAB596/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=realiisnegot-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B004KAB596" target="_blank"&gt;Hacking Work: Breaking Stupid Rules for Smart Results&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=realiisnegot-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=B004KAB596" width="1"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/Bzh1VOrTdO0" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/Bzh1VOrTdO0/21241767541</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/21241767541</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 20:57:00 -0400</pubDate><category>books</category><category>sketchnotes</category><category>visual notes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/21241767541</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Do It Now!</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dboudwin/6939675606/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m22qbehqK01r8rdmh.png"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Quick sketch of the awesome quote by Joel Brown (&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/addictd2success" target="_blank"&gt;@Addictd2Success&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/Frwz3_rXNyg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/Frwz3_rXNyg/20606639904</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20606639904</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 16:08:00 -0400</pubDate><category>quotes</category><category>sketchquotes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20606639904</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Saving Business From Itself</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dboudwin/7048399579/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m20q8pn38R1r8rdmh.png"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Visual notes from the first chapter of &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004KAB596/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=realiisnegot-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B004KAB596" target="_blank"&gt;Hacking Work: Breaking Stupid Rules for Smart Results&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=realiisnegot-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=B004KAB596" width="1"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/lS3kH8ZWHgo" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/lS3kH8ZWHgo/20541242837</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20541242837</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2012 15:51:45 -0400</pubDate><category>Books</category><category>Visual Notes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20541242837</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1wzzv6t5Q1rqfqe8o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/Cp-9LsAXG5w" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/Cp-9LsAXG5w/20415696759</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20415696759</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 13:49:12 -0400</pubDate><category>quotes</category><category>sketchquotes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20415696759</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1pjxq8XTL1rqfqe8o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/Aj_Uf7DmNY8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/Aj_Uf7DmNY8/20175886245</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20175886245</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 13:18:30 -0400</pubDate><category>sketchquotes</category><category>quotes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20175886245</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Hand drawn on an iPad3 with a Bamboo stylus using Autodesk...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1m2m5aE1A1rqfqe8o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Hand drawn on an iPad3 with a Bamboo stylus using Autodesk Sketchbook Pro.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/js6BKd2yLys" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/js6BKd2yLys/20076570014</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20076570014</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 16:41:00 -0400</pubDate><category>sketchquotes</category><category>quotes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/20076570014</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Here’s To The Crazy Ones
Short but powerful...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="299" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/8rwsuXHA7RA?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Here’s To The Crazy Ones&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Short but powerful message…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes, the ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules and the have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. While some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. &lt;strong&gt;Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world…Are the ones who do.&lt;/strong&gt;”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Does this describe you? If so, what are you doing to change the world?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Share with us in the comments.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/L6dJP_7_omE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/L6dJP_7_omE/18959838600</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18959838600</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 15:25:00 -0500</pubDate><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18959838600</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>The Happy Secret to Better Work
Here’s a fantastic Ted...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/GXy__kBVq1M?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h2&gt;The Happy Secret to Better Work&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here’s a fantastic Ted Talk given by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/@shawnachor" target="_blank"&gt;@shawnachor&lt;/a&gt;. It’s only 12 mins and definitely worth watching. Not only will you learn something important you’ll also get some good laughs as well.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here are some of the key takeaways…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;It’s not necessarily reality that shapes us but the &lt;strong&gt;lens through which your brain sees the world that shapes your reality&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;90% of your long term happiness is predicted not by the external world but by the way your brain processes the world. &lt;strong&gt;If we change our formula for happiness and success, we can change the way that we can then affect reality.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;75% of job successes are predicted by your optimism levels, your social support and your ability to see stress as a challenge instead of as a threat.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Your brain at positive performs significantly better than it does at negative, neutral, or stressed.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/Skni6lSZyno" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/Skni6lSZyno/18911791083</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18911791083</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 14:59:53 -0500</pubDate><category>Reality</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18911791083</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>There Is No Reason To Do Something You Hate
Here’s a...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="299" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/EhqZ0RU95d4?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h2&gt;There Is No Reason To Do Something You Hate&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here’s a classic keynote from &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/garyvee" target="_blank"&gt;@garyvee&lt;/a&gt; which I watch frequently. It’s a great reminder and challenge to not settle for anything less than being 100% happy. Here are some of the key takeaways…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;There are way too many people doing stuff they hate. Please STOP doing that!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;There is no reason in &lt;strike&gt;2008&lt;/strike&gt; 2012 to do sh*t you hate.  NONE!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Gary became 1% unhappy and that is when he changed his life.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Look at yourself in the mirror and ask, “What do I want to do everyday for the rest of my life?” DO THAT!  You can monetize it.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Legacy is greater than currency.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;We only get to play this game one time…one life.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;You need to build brand equity in yourself, but you have to do what you love…If you love it, You will win.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;If you want this, if you’re miserable, or if you don’t like it, or you want to do something else and you have a passion somewhere else…work 9 to 5, spend a couple of hours with your family…7 to 2 AM is plenty of time to do damage.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How Do you get money to do what you love? - You Don’t…You position yourself to succeed. Do it after hours. Start building equity in your brand or whatever else you want to accomplish. Everybody has time. Stop watching F-ing Lost. If you want something…WORK…that’s how you get it.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/IGsbEXdYmrA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/IGsbEXdYmrA/18799393530</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18799393530</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 14:09:30 -0500</pubDate><category>Do What You Love</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18799393530</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>"The only reason you do not do great things is because you timidly cling to small things. Will you..."</title><description>““The only reason you do not do great things is because you timidly cling to small things. Will you let loose of small things and bear the uncertainty of having nothing for awhile? Do this and eventually you will do great things.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Vernon Howard &lt;br/&gt;&lt;a href="http://amzn.to/AyznZK" target="_blank"&gt;The Mystic Path to Cosmic Power&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/91s2H4e2GEc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/91s2H4e2GEc/18618078187</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18618078187</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2012 15:26:00 -0500</pubDate><category>Quotes</category><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18618078187</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>No One Can Piss For You
Here’s a great video from...</title><description>&lt;iframe width="400" height="300" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/Sqlr2XBfcWo?wmode=transparent&amp;autohide=1&amp;egm=0&amp;hd=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;rel=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h2&gt;No One Can Piss For You&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here’s a great video from &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/joshuaklein" target="_blank"&gt;@joshuaklein&lt;/a&gt; &amp; &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/simpletonbill" target="_blank"&gt;@simpletonbill&lt;/a&gt; the authors of &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004KAB596/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=realiisnegot-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B004KAB596" target="_blank"&gt;Hacking Work: Breaking Stupid Rules for Smart Results&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=realiisnegot-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B004KAB596" width="1"/&gt;. This is a message that all employees and company leaders alike need to take to heart. It’s up to everyone to help change the shape of the work world.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~4/39womF015-A" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/RealityIsNegotiable/~3/39womF015-A/18590610435</link><guid isPermaLink="false">http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18590610435</guid><pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2012 22:50:14 -0500</pubDate><feedburner:origLink>http://realityisnegotiable.com/post/18590610435</feedburner:origLink></item></channel></rss>
