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	<title>Reality Me</title>
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	<description>A juggling technophile shares personal stories, challenges, humor and perhaps some political commentary.</description>
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		<title>Neglected</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2026/05/15/neglected/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2026 12:13:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love sharing stories and information. I love blogging. This theme is dated. The site is infected with malware that is showing ads unrealdet to me. Tiem to clearn things up. I cannot even see what I am typing so please pardon the typos. My life is broken. I have done terrible things. Time to [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>I love sharing stories and information. I love blogging. This theme is dated. The site is infected with malware that is showing ads unrealdet to me.  Tiem to clearn things up. I cannot even see what I am typing so please pardon the typos. </p>



<p>My life is broken. I have done terrible things. Time to return to reality! si </p>



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		<title>So you want to be a programmer?</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2026/05/08/so-you-want-to-be-a-programmer-8/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2026 16:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Software development is a lot like completing the Boston Marathon only to be yanked over to the train tracks and asked to fix the rail and getting it fixed just in time for the train to run you over then it jumps the tracks anyway and you have to get it back on the tracks [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Software development is a lot like completing the Boston Marathon only to be yanked over to the train tracks and asked to fix the rail and getting it fixed just in time for the train to run you over then it jumps the tracks anyway and you have to get it back on the tracks before the next train to run you over hits the first train.</p>
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		<title>No reward without risk, right?</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/11/17/no-reward-without-risk-right/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 16:53:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I bought the ticket I am taking the ride. Hope I’m on the correct train.]]></description>
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<p>I  bought the ticket</p>



<p>I am taking the ride.</p>



<p>Hope I’m on the correct train.</p>
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		<title>Metric</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/11/12/metric/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 12:18:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Anyone else enjoy converting Celsius to Fahrenheit in your head or is that just me?]]></description>
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<p>Anyone else enjoy converting Celsius to Fahrenheit in your head or is that just me?</p>
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		<title>Social media timeout</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/11/10/social-media-timeout/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2025 15:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This week, when I have the urge to social media, I’m instead forcing myself to open Seterra and quiz myself on world geography, practice a language, or practice Morse code. So far I’ve learned that if I ever leave the United States I’ll be pretty lost and I’m more likely to succeed ordering a taco [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>This week, when I have the urge to social media, I’m instead forcing myself to open Seterra and quiz myself on world geography, practice a language, or practice Morse code. So far I’ve learned that if I ever leave the United States I’ll be pretty lost and I’m more likely to succeed ordering a taco in cw than Spanish.</p>
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		<title>Geography</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/11/10/geography/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2025 13:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I’m studying world geography. Let’s just say there is no doubt I’m an American.]]></description>
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<p>I’m studying world geography. Let’s just say there is no doubt I’m an American.</p>
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		<title>State of me</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/09/23/state-of-me-63/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 00:10:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I’d like to think I wasn’t always a dumbass but there isn’t a lot of evidence to support that assertion]]></description>
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<p>I’d  like to think I wasn’t always a dumbass but there isn’t a lot of evidence to support that assertion </p>



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		<title>Coming to terms</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/08/31/coming-to-terms/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2025 02:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[At some point you just have to come to grips with the fact that you will never matter to others as much as they matter to you]]></description>
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<p>At some point you just have to come to grips with the fact that you will never matter to others as much as they matter to you</p>
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		<title>Being the calm</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/08/22/being-the-calm/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2025 11:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[After all the chaos, I am returning to chanting]]></description>
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<p>After all the chaos, I am returning to chanting </p>
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		<title>To those who want to help</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/08/19/to-those-who-want-to-help/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 16:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The outpouring of love and offers of assistance during Evan’s plight touches our hearts. The doctors are pleased with Evan’s progress but are having him stay another 24-48 hours. Evan is quite done with it all and would like to go home today. A good friend has been counseling me on accepting offers of help. [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>The outpouring of love and offers of assistance during Evan’s plight touches our hearts. The doctors are pleased with Evan’s progress but are having him stay another 24-48 hours. Evan is quite done with it all and would like to go home today.</p>



<p>A good friend has been counseling me on accepting offers of help. He has encouraged me to publish my Buy Me a Coffee link.</p>



<p>Our physical needs are met. I joked about needing a massage and someone has arranged that! Cathy wants our sidewalk finished so grab your shovels! <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f609.png" alt="😉" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>



<p>Evan and I were supposed to be taking this past week and next week to make repairs on his car for his return trip. A beloved friend has offered to get the car to a mechanic to make it roadworthy and assist with some of the cost of repairs. If you would like to lighten his burden or help with our unplanned travel expenses, please see the Buy Me a Coffee link below. Thank you all! Each of you have already helped us through this trying time.</p>



<p>If you wish to help financially, this is my Buy Me a Coffee link: https://buymeacoffee.com/djuggler</p>
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		<title>Protected: Friendship</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 09:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Protected: Abandoned</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/08/16/abandoned/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2025 17:18:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>New tombstone idea</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/07/25/new-tombstone-idea/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2025 18:21:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[“Overcomplicated it”]]></description>
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<p>“Overcomplicated it”</p>
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		<title>Better choices</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/07/16/better-choices/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 01:37:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are days that I cannot help but wonder if choosing sobriety wasn’t the biggest mistake of my life]]></description>
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		<title>The rules are simple</title>
		<link>https://realityme.net/2025/05/20/the-rules-are-simple/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Doug McCaughan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2025 16:27:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You must be perfect all the time. Anything less is unacceptable.]]></description>
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<p>You must be perfect all the time. Anything less is unacceptable.</p>
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