McConnell, Kane Vast and I have been really slacking on these podcasts--the coronavirus has caused us all to make many adjustments to our lives in 2020 and those continue this year in 2021.

We'll probably talk about that stuff in a future podcast episode. We've already recorded the next podcast which is an interview with Aaron Darko of HealthMastery.com who you can find on Instagram. So keep a lookout for that soon too.

Kane goes pretty in depth about getting your woman onto threesomes, and we give some updates on how the dating scene has been during corona-time and more including:

• How do women think about threesomes
• Reframing threesomes so girls will try it
• Ideal relationship frames and dynamic
• The power of positive reinforcement
• Why developing your sex skills is an easy win
• Use your skill stack to make your relationship better
• How qualification makes picking up and dating easier
• The emotional elements of being good at sex
• How have travel restrictions affected the dating market
• Guy gets caught texting another girl and improves his relationship
• How has coronavirus affected the dating scene in major Asian cities?
• How prevalent is birth control in Asia?
• How common are sexless marriages in Asia?
• Is it good to be a "player"?
• What is a pickup artist to do during corona time?
• Quadrant II: what it is, and why you should focus on it
• and a whole lot more...

See the rest of the show notes at

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In episode 39 of the Asia Dating Podcast McConnell, Kane Vast and I sat down to discuss Rollo Tomassi's "The Red Pill Lessons of Will Smith," an episode of his podcast where he discusses the Will Smith and Jada Pinckett-Smith "cheating" scandal. And I put cheating in quotation marks because they were separated at the time, but more on that in the podcast.

It was a great conversation that got pretty emotional at times and hearing McConnell get all worked up was a big part of the fun:

• The manosphere and what it is
• structured game vs natural game
• outer game vs inner game
• The red pill
• female nature vs environment and technology
• Men's rights activists
• The internet echo chamber
• MGTOW and why you should stay away from women
• Incels
• Why you should love feminists and they are the best thing to ever happen to men
• Real life vs internet life
• The chad Alpha >> Beta and the problems with red pill thinking
• Find a dominance hierarchy you can succeed in
• Blue pill
• Choose your own value structure
• Who has the sexual power?
• Do guys want to have sex with their wives?
• Female privilege and double standards
• Feminists are wrong...not all societies need them
• Were the 1950s the best time?
• Men get so screwed by the legal system
• You can determine how your relationships are by how you setup your life
• Why you should create your own rules
• Always seek to make your life better
• The problem with hyphenated last names
• #1 question: are you getting what you want?

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McConnell and I sat down with a special guest, Sona, who has been living in Taiwan for 14 years, and is so plugged into the culture that he runs a Chinese YouTube channel where he talks about Chinese and American hip-hop music and culture .

It's a great conversation where we cover everything from slang and language learning to parkour to the local Taiwanese dating scene:

• weird Chinese slang: the meaning of "cow cunt" and "good dick"
• learning Chinese
• Sona's origin story"
• A man must go on a quest, and my quest will be THERE!"
• DJing around Asia
• Acting in Asia
• Building a Parkour business in Taiwan
• Korean hustle
• The Taiwan dating (horror) scene
• RedpoleQ's scummy dating stories
• Is it you or do Taiwanese girls suck?
• Having standards and setting boundaries to have a sustainable relationship
• Teach people how to treat youTaiwanese girls gone wild: temper tantrums
• Be willing to lose someone great in the name of your own self-respect
• Taiwanese girls and their crazy expectations
• and a whole lot more...

Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage.

It's a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including:

• How to lay down a great routine
• DHV - Display of Higher Value
• American ideas about sex, dating and relationships
• Let the girls get ready instead of encouraging them to be ugly
• Western delusions about sex and relationships
• The post-consent dating world of Tinder
• Why dating apps are not your friend
• Sex addiction...is it a real thing?
• The dangers of porn and masturbation
• Is it trauma or is it life?
• Successful enough to fail rather vs failing enough to be successful
• Bandaids for your dating lives and how to avoid them
• It's important to make your sexual fantasies come true
• Rules vs intents in relationships
• Compersion - Is it possible to enjoy your partner's sexual pleasure with someone else?
• Swinger's parties and the many ways to enjoy them
• Relationship Management and how to do it all wrong
• To live your fantasies, you have to think practically
• Is being divorced with kids, the best life?
• and a whole lot more...

The usual whackiness ensues in this podcast, including:

• Open minded dinner parties
• Naked yoga
• Vonny's matchmaking
• Fire breath orgasm
• How she met her husband aka Superman
• Don't let your ego stop you from getting the women you want
• Vonny's road to monogamy
• Jealousy is healthy feeling
• Muse Vonny inspires "love" poems
• Who licks pussy better, men or women?
• How to know you're ready for marriage
• What's so great about marriage?
• A pep talk from Vonny
• Let's talk about monogamy
• and a whole lot more...

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to answer questions from a Japan Lair member who is just getting started with women and has a lot of fundamental misunderstandings and internal conflicts about women, dating and sex.

In addition we answered some questions from other listeners as well, and talked about a WIIIIIIIIIDE variety of topics including:

• How do I avoid gold diggers and money wasters?
• I want to find a nice, pure girl. Any tips?
• Why you shouldn't sleep with "easy" girls
• I'm a virgin, what should you do?
• Any tips on avoiding ladyboys, shemales and transgenders?
• I'm not white, do I still have a chance with East Asian girls?
• What are the easiest places to meet Asian girls in Asia?
• How to guarantee that girls will lie and take advantage of you
• The 3 things that could be standing in your way of success with women
• Why you may need to stop being you
• Why you need to be around who you want to become
• What to do when a girl sees your messages with another girl
• How to keep both girls happy after a 3-some
• and a whole lot more...

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I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics. We talk more about relationships, the idea of "open" relationships, how to stay young and relevant, and of course share wacky stories from our past.

In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including:

• How to be a black male in Korea
• Do you really want an "open" relationship?
• Friends with benefits, girlfriends and other arrangements...
• Is communication about everything always the best way?
• Adventures in compersion
• "Mimes are the bagels of entertainment."
• Offline to online shift
• The secret to staying young
• Why young people don't respect older people and how you can avoid that
• As an older guy, the pitfalls to avoid to keep smashing young puss, lols!
• and a whole lot more...

See the full show notes and get all the links to everything mentioned in this episode AND ask a question you want answenred on the show at

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In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including:

• Christmas in Japan
• Girls touching themselves and getting a hard pounding
• Multiple orgasms
• How and why to be tough on yourself but compassionate with other people
• Game giving you a bigger toolkit and a bigger toolkit can fix more issues
• Girls dating multiple guys
• How live streaming is like dating
• Find out if guys really cheat more than girls do
• McConnell's fellatio taxi and fellatio cinema double feature!
• Why you should ask why first
• How to PROACTIVELY manage your relationships
• Girls can be annoying when they really like you
• Look out for those "yes ladders," they're a slipper slope to hell
• How telling the truth can get you into trouble
• McConnell's trixy tactic
• and a whole lot more...

To get links to all of the books, videos, concepts etc that we mention in the podcast, go to the episode page at RedpoleQ.com

As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre, educational and hilarious tangents and you'll learn why we think that having a side-piece is so advantageous in many relationships, including:

• The practical aspects of having a side piece
• Mini "side ho" holidays keep you sane
• A great way to cure your scarcity
• Don't think with your emotions
• Why and when to use a "safe word"
• Gives men leverage in the relationship
• Side girl makes you appreciate your main girl more
• Be a man with a plan
• Developing your relationship guidebook
• Date more people to get more relationship experience
• Now what you will and won't compromise on
• Is it weird not to want to get married and be single forever?

I sat down with McConnell and Kane to discuss how marriage impacts dating and relationships and all the various setups possible and then we dive into a discussion of Tinder that was sparked by an interview with Jordan Peterson on Femsplainers (linked below).

We also spent some time talking about the book, Selfie, which was a book club book for our Approach Mastery boot camp alumni that charts the evolution of the ideal self from the Greeks until the present moment of personal development, and even throws in some comparisons with Asia for good measure!

As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre educational and hilarious talents and you'll learn why we think Online game is bad for men, including:

• Who McConnell would trade lives with
• Kane's marriage setup (Yup, he's married!)
• How to decide what you want then plan for the worst to get the best
• Why it's harder to make changes in marriage than when you're dating
• Kane on turbulence theory
• How online game makes men weaker and women cheaper
• How girls can use Tinder to their advantage
• That great pictures can get you laid, but it's great social skills that get you a relationship
• How women miss out on valuable social experience because of Tinder
• How to be the best human you can be according to western civilization
• The cutting edge of personality research---The Big 5 Personality Traits---model as a key and a map to yourself and others
• and a whole lot more...

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This podcast was actually recorded quite a while ago but we made a shift to a new podcasting service so it's taken a long while to get out.

This one was recorded with Kane while I was in Shanghai so the audio quality isn't quite as good as usual so please bear with us. It was a top notch discussion and in it you'll learn:

• The difference between "game" and "a game" and why it's important to understand for life and relationships
• What a Swiss army knife and game have in common
• How game lets you "choose your own adventure"
• Why sex with new girls is good but sex with the same girl(s) is even better
• How learning pickup will help you make more money
• How Vonny Lang deals with jealousy in swapping and swinging
• The real way to measure relationships isn't by "love"
• and a whole lot more...

This 2-day 16+ hour seminar will make sure that you are in control of your relationships so that you get more of what you want from the women in your life with minimum hassle and drama.

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We'll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often.

If you like it and want to see more of these, let us know in the form below!

In this session you'll learn:

• Why you should read up on evolutionary psychology–even if you're a creationist!
• Variable rewards: what they are and why you need to start doing this with your girls ASAP
• The allure and mystique of older men, explained!
• The life of alpha males
• Society vs Reality: see beyond what people want you to see
• Does size matter?
• Big fish, small pond strategy
• and a whole lot more…

We'll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often.

If you like it and want to see more of these, let us know in the form below!

In this session you'll learn:

• Why you should read up on evolutionary psychology–even if you're a creationist!
• Variable rewards: what they are and why you need to start doing this with your girls ASAP
• The allure and mystique of older men, explained!
• The life of alpha males
• Society vs Reality: see beyond what people want you to see
• Does size matter?
• Big fish, small pond strategy
• and a whole lot more…

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*as it turns out, the size/length of the sheath has nothing to do with status, oops!

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This is definitely one of the more exciting Asia Hang Suite Sessions where we'll hear all about covert cat wars (ie girls vs girl action) and McConnell's very cougar introduction to the world of S&M as a sub PLUS we answer YOUR questions!

In this session you'll learn:

• The best spots for gaming girls in Asia
• That girls are going to be disappointed, so you might as well decide how to disappoint them for your own benefit
• Holiday musical chairs and how to manage multiple girls
• The dangers of honesty as the best policy
• Cat Wars!: When women go head to head
• Why you should replace your lidded trash cans
• How to control your nest so you don't get busted
• Asian Anal Adventures
• Frame games
• That sex is a dirty business so let's party!
• McConnell's young cub S&M adventures: origins
• and a whole lot more…

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This 3-day long intensive course teaches you the important steps from meeting girls to getting dates while giving you the foundation for running first dates that lead to sex. Ready to kickstart your dating life NOW?

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And even better, that means that YOU get to hear straight from the man as we answer your questions.

In this one, we talk about why you don't want the girls that come to you, and give you a few things you can do to get your ready to approach women, PLUS:

• How to get out of your negative mind looops
• How to use real live evidence to change your mindset–it's SCIENCE!
• You're boring, and how to fix it
• How do I get women to come to me?
• Are Asian girls shy? Maybe…maybe not
• Date more girls before you look for the one(s?)
• Be weak or get what you want–you decide
• Are Asian girls easy?
• and a whole lot more…

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And lucky for YOU (and me) a guy named Daniel Peleg gave an amazing talk about how to manage your psychology and emotions for success in business. Listening to the talk, I thought that you guys could definitely use these tools!

Dating is tough and women know exactly how to destroy your mind. In this session, you'll learn how to build the mental armor you need to protect youself against the slings, arrows and heavy artillery that will come your way when you try to do better with women.

In this one, we talk about tools you can use to control your thoughts and emotions including:

• Why you should get a coach
• How you can control your thoughts and emotions
• Why you should start meditating, TODAY!
• The focus principle and how it makes or breaks you
• How to destroy the inner critic that's crippling your success
• How to keep a close eye on your emotions so you can feel good more often
• Three tools you can use for mental and emotional health
• and a whole lot more…

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The shoot turned into a lot more than a few pictures after she revealed that she's a swinger and organizes swinger's parties. This interview is the result. So dig in, and let us know what you think and if you have any questions for her, we'd be glad to have her on again to answer them for you.

In this one, we talk about what swinging is, how she got into it, how you can get into it and more including:

• The pros and cons of swapping vs threesomes
• What it means to be vanilla in bed
• Best apps to meet swingers and the singles who love them
• The differences between swinger parties in Asia vs America
• How to get selected as single guy for a swinger's party
• How to get into the swingers lifestyle
• The degrees of female orgasms
• Roommates "with benefits"
• If honesty is the best policy?
• What a serious relationship is when you're sleeping with other people?
• and a whole lot more…

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Despite our busy schedule and a late night emergency room visit, we found time to sit down together to record a session.

In this one, we talk about how important it is to find the right people to support and help you make the changes in your life to reach your goals, including:

• You're the average of the 5 people most around
• Outgrow the box your "friends" keep you in
• Why you have to yank out the emotional triggers they use to control you
• Upgrade your life with new mental models
• Why you'll feel uncomfortable at first with the right people
• How to weigh the knowledge and experience other people have to offer
• You can't make the right people, you have to find them
• Find people who will support new habits–and stay away from those who support your worst tendencies
• How the right community can keep you moving toward your goals
• Why you need to always raise your hand
• and a whole lot more…

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Including:

• How western girls can get in on the Asian action
• Are Vietnamese girls where it's at?
• Pass around packs–are we into sharing girls?
• How hard is it to pickup Korean girls?
• How to do cosplay, role-plays, and anal-ize girls
• What to do if you get caught with another girl?
• How to win over your girl's friends
• and a whole lot more…

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I originally met her when McConnell went for a drink with a skinny flat chested Brazilian girl (exactly what he likes!) and she brought along her friend, Elli.

While at the bar, she told me that she had been dating "her guy" for 12 years and she was hoping he would find another girl so they could have a 3-way relationship!

My interest was piqued so I asked her more and ultimately invited her on the podcast so I could share all the details with YOU!

In this rather longer discussion than usual we'll discuss:

• What marriage really means
• What's the use of relationship labels?
• Negotiating relationship rules
• What about jealousy?
• Doing the hard work of long term relationships
• If open relationships are better relationships?
• How they bring someone new into the relationship
• How good communication is the key to expanding boundaries
• and a whole lot more…

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• how important is height? From a guy who is 168cm (5'6″)
• the downsides of being an attractive guy–yes, there are downsides!
• You don't need excuses…you need to get out there and try
• Sleeping Beauty–the adult Disney land, complete with costumes
• How to introduce kink to your girlfriend without her flipping out
• and a whole lot more…

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• traveling while dating—is out of sight out of mind?
• how to keep dating cheap when you're broke
• cougar hunting for fun and profit
• tales from the bloody trenches by Mr. Ballz Deep aka the MILF hunter
• how to use (fake) jealousy to keep your relationship strong
• how you can beat out the competition to get and keep your perfect 10
• and a whole lot more…

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• Why we hate dogs–and the girls who love them
• You should try for girls that are "out of your league" and here's why
• Proof that Asian girls don't care about money!
• Ever wonder why she's with that loser?
• Should a girl sleep with you on the first date?
• What messaging apps do you need to use if you want to be successful with Asian women?
• How often you should you text and what kind of messages should you send
• and a whole lot more…

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"I make up in numbers what I lack in skill."

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• Japanese house wives gone wild!
• No wingman, no problem–how to go out clubbing alone
• Alcohol free dating–you don't need it
• Living in Bangkok isn't all fun and…what you need to know before moving there
• First time in Asia? Start here!
• How to get 9s and 10s in Asia
• and a whole lot more…

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• how to get girls sexually excited at the right time–get this wrong and your horny girl will go home with someone else
• the right way to show interest in Asian women and answer if you can show sexual interest
• how to give women a squirting orgasm
• how to keep a good reputation at work while still meeting women if you go out with co-workers
• tips on working with an inexperienced "wingman"
• our dating coach/PUA all star lineup
• how to re-engage a girl on a different social network who has deleted you on a different social network
• why you need to make it clear to women that you're interested in more than just sex
• why waiting for signals from Asian women is a losers game
• and a whole lot more…

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• How to understand the difference between strategy and skill with women
• What plausible deniability is and how to use it so women feel comfortable coming to your home
• How to make women feel like you REALLY like them–the power of qualification
• How to know if a girl likes you? Check her compliance levels!
• Harem game–how NOT to date multiple women
• How to introduce your girl to friends when you're seeing more than one
• Whether dating multiple women bad for your game
• How to make your own rules for your relationships
• and a whole lot more…

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• Tactics for winning over in-demand girls and how long it can take
• How to get girls to send you naked pics
• Day game vs night game–pros and cons
• Why phone numbers are obsolete in Asia
• How to deal with flakes
• Why Instagram is better than Facebook
• Why your texting has to be TIGHT!
• Asian girls like it when you're interested
• and a whole lot more…

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• Pros and cons of online dating
• You'll hear about Mr. Right's virgin adventures
• The hazards of online dating–it can be a real haunted house!
• How to build a social circle with online dating apps
• How online dating can be layup city
• The advantages to cold approach
• Where YOU can meet meet women through cold approach
• Pros and cons of bars and lounges vs club
• How to cold approach women (for beginners)
• How to feel good about bothering people
• Getting past your internal "no"
• A simple and easy improvement method pioneered by the Japanese, kaizen
• and a whole lot more…

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

Listen to my IN DEPTH discussion with McConnell about Sex at Dawn: Part 1 Part 2

(Unfortunately not free anymore–but still cheap)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaizen

https://www.englishintaiwan.com/life-in-taiwan/culture-and-arts/betel-nut

Not the best that Asia has to offer…

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• getting girls from your social circle
• how to stay out of the friend zone
• maintaining long term sexual tension
• being the new kid on the block
• the problem with cockblocks
• easy cold approach environments
• because that's where the ladies are
• why cold approach develops your character
• Korea vs Japan: differences in the sexual cultures
• Korean girls don't get to have any fun?
• How demanding are Korean girls?
• and a whole lot more…

http://www.asiadatingexperts.com/ultimate-sex-guide/

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• The basic, foundational skills you need to be successful with women
• How to learn to get sexual with women (especially when you're a virgin)
• Is there any benefit to sex with hookers?
• The right way to be aggressive–and why it's so important
• It doesn't "just happen," especially for YOU!
• "There's always some bullshit"
• The perfect role model for success with women
• and a whole lot more…

(Lord Byron's got nothing on this guy!)

A poet paralyzed from the neck down due to polio, hires a sex surrogate to lose his virginity

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• Hong Kong's 25 floors of whores
• Why you should get in touch with the local pickup community when you land in a new country
• Japan's sex clubs
• Taipei's Commander D sex party
• McConnell find BDSM on the bus
• Julien Lacome schools us on the blow job technique you must teach all your girls
• The All Japan Pussy Licking Tournament
• Julien's anal only adventures
• McConnell gets all tied up
• Dealing with language barriers
• and a whole lot more…

"Who got that good D?!"

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_bondage

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• Golden Fox on how he ended up drunk in Daegu, S. Korea—for a FULL YEAR!
• McConnell's Asia love affair!
• How to make friends and build a social circle when you first move to Asia
• RedpoleQ's first journey to Japan
• McConnell dials for love at 15 years old
• RedpoleQ on how desperation pushed him past discomfort
• Why you don't need to have sex with lots of different women
• Is all fair in love and war?
• and a whole lot more…

The classic, MUST READ" personal development classic. The digital download is so cheap, it's like they're paying YOU to read it!

My favorite "success philosopher" and the only celebrity I regret never meeting…

Your road to an awesome life and hot ASIAN women!

The definitive documentary about the Japanese hosting business and what it's like to be a real life gigolo in Asia

(Right Click and "save as" to download)

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• More on 3-somes
• How getting graphic will help you improve your success with women
• "I'm a hefty guy, can I be successful with Asian women?"
• Are you suffering the dreaded one-itis?
• Girls aren't responsive? Learn to plow!
• Why she has more value than you do when you meet her…and how to flip that
• The right way to use indicators of interest
• and a whole lot more…

1. the fixation by a guy (usually) on one girl who he imbues with positive qualities (that she may not possess), or whose positive qualities are imbued with such value, that all negative qualities are overlooked and/or rationalized away to the point that she seems to be totally irreplaceable as a potential partner for sex, dating, a relationship, marriage, or all of the above.
2. a woman who a guy has one-itis for
3. (adjective) the state of having one-itis

Read my full article at http://asiadatingexperts.com/get-blown-or-blown-out/

Just how big is AKB-48?

Man spends US$82,000 on iPhones in a grand gesture

Man commands fleet of 20 luxury cars for grand marriage proposal but embarrassed girl still says NO

From Wikipedia:

According to the biblical account, Samson was given supernatural strength by God in order to combat his enemies and perform heroic feats such as killing a lion, slaying an entire army with only the jawbone of an ass, and destroying a pagan temple. Samson had two vulnerabilities, his attraction to untrustworthy women and his hair, without which he was powerless. These vulnerabilities ultimately proved fatal for him.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samson

From Wikipedia:

Delilah is a woman in the Hebrew bible Book of Judges, where she is the "woman in the valley of Sorek" whom Samson loved, and who was his downfall. Her figure, one of several dangerous temptresses in the Hebrew Bible, has become emblematic: "Samson loved Delilah, she betrayed him, and, what is worse, she did it for money," Madlyn Kahr begins her study of the Delilah motif in European painting.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delilah

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• Whacky adventures in Asia: Qataris and the ship of the desert, Hong Kong, and Japan
• Setting goals so you can get back into meeting women (or get started!)
• Baby stepping your way to success–so you don't get discouraged and throw in the towel
• How to harness jealousy and fear to reach your goals
• Winning through entitlement–feel you're owed, and put in the work to make it happen
• Why god must love ugly
• 3-some primer (2 girls, one guy!)
• the 3 types 2 girl 3-somes
• how to make your girl a partner in crime
• how to find the right girl to share
• an easy setup to get her in the bed and the clothes off
• what to look out for that might trip you up
• and a whole lot more…

Overcoming Our Irrational and Sometimes Crippling Fear of Rejection with Jia Jiang

This article gives a glimpse into one man's relationship with his silicon sex doll. When I read it last year, it really gave me a clear picture of what I don't want my life to become and why I spend so much time working on building my relationship skills.

Developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder, it was popularized by Anthony Robbins, NLP has many useful and easily applicable techniques, concepts, mindsets and ideas.

Another must-read classic from Robert Greene about what it takes to succeed

Have a question that you want us to answer in a future episode? Scroll down to the bottom of this page, type it in and we'll get to it in a future chill session.

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Doing well in social interactions and with women is all about psychology and there's so much to learn. Recently, I convinced McConnell to read Sex at Dawn which is a book that I found so interesting because they really interpret a lot of things very differently from the conventional view.

It suggests that monogamy is actually not the norm for our hunter gatherer ancestors and points to all sorts of anthropological and biological evidence to support the view that we are indeed a sexually wild species!

Here's what we talk about in part 2 of this discussion:

• What Bonobos and WWII Fighter pilots have in common
• Women have periods and that means more sex for everyone!
• You don't have to be jealous–there's plenty of love to go around!
• Women don't know what turns them on, and you can use that to get what you want
• Sexuality hacking–learn more mindsets and cherry pick for the sex life you've always wanted
• and a whole lot more…

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

Read my Review of Is There Anything Good about Men? on Asia Dating Experts.

Have a question that you want us to answer in a future episode? Scroll down to the bottom of this page, type it in and we'll get to it in a future chill session. And now I'll kick you over to the video I mentioned in the recording…

This is a series of really eye opening and enlightening lectures about what human biology says about our mating habits, and how culture intersects with and shapes our tendencies in different ways to explain a lot of our common behaviors.

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Doing well in social interactions and with women is all about psychology and there's so much to learn. Recently, I convinced McConnell to read Sex at Dawn which is a book that I found so interesting because they really interpret a lot of things very differently from the conventional view.

It suggests that monogamy is actually not the norm for our hunter gatherer ancestors and points to all sorts of anthropological and biological evidence to support the view that we are indeed a sexually wild species!

Here's what we talk about in part 1 of this discussion:

• How reading makes you a better thinker by giving you new ideas and frameworks to try on and apply
• Confirmation bias is destroying your mind and here's how to overcome it
• What evolutionary psychology says about your sex and love life
• The actual love lives our hunter-gatherer ancestors
• Why sexual dysfunction is a myth
• What your body says about your sex life
• and a whole lot more…

The Mosuo of China don't practice marriage or the "tradition" of the nuclear family–among the Mosuo, husbands and wives don't exist. Instead the practice what anthropologists call, a "walking marriage".

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

Read my Review of Is There Anything Good about Men? on Asia Dating Experts.

Have a question that you want us to answer in a future episode? Scroll down to the bottom of this page, type it in and we'll get to it in a future chill session. And now I'll kick you over to the video I mentioned in the recording…

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• How to handle her concern that you're going back to your own country
• Do you need to last a long time to sexually satisfy her?
• Find out some sexual differences between Asians and Westerners
• How to treat a woman after the sex is over so she comes back for seconds, thirds and beyond
• and a whole lot more…

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Get this MUST READ classic by Robert Greene.

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• How to maintain relationships with Asian girls while traveling
• Does having sex quickly ruin your chances of having a real relationship?
• Why Asian girls flake and how to handle it
• How to deal with getting jealous
• The foundation for stable relationships
• and a whole lot more…

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

Get this MUST READ classic by Robert Greene.

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• Golden Fox talks about his text messaging disaster—don't make this mistake!
• Why you shouldn't go to Thailand
• Does race and ethnicity matter in dating Asia?
• How to get girls that are out of your league
• How to win at life
• How to stimulate the inner vagina
• and a whole lot more…

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NOTE: The three diagrams above illustrate the location of the AFE and PFE as discussed in the podcast. As also mentioned in the podcast it NOT TRUE that you need a huge penis to stimulate the AFE and the PFE. An average size penis will certainly do, and even a small penis in certain positions.

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