REFLECTION.....EVENTUATE

DO NOT QUIT

2013-01-09T05:40:00.001-08:00

DO NOT QUIT........................
COURTESY : (GSB elder brother)

One day I decided to quit ……………………….

I quit my job…My relationship…My spirituality….I wanted to quit my life…I went to the jungle to have last talk with GOD..”GOD” I said “can you give one good reason not to quit? His answer surprised me “Look around “He said “Do you see the fern and bamboo?

“Yes” I replied

When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light..I gave them water..The fern quickly grow from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor..Yet nothing come out from bamboo seed But I did not quit on the bamboo.

“In the second year, the fern grew more vibrant and plentiful..and again nothing come out from bamboo seed but I would not quit on the bamboo.” He said “In the third year there was still nothing from the bamboo seed But I would not quit..Again in the fourth year there was nothing from the bamboo seed But I would not quit” He said.

Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged fro the earth. Compared to the fern It was seemingly small and insignificant. But just six month later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent five years growing roots.

Those roots made it stronger gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.

He said to me “Did you know, my child that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots?”

“I would not quit on the bamboo neither will I ever quit on YOU..Don’t compare yourself to others” He said “The bamboo has different purpose than the fern, Yet they both make the forest beautiful.

“Your time will come.” God said to me.

You will rise high..

“How high should I rise?” I asked

How high will the bamboo rise?” He asked in return.

“As high as it can?” I questioned.

“Yes”, he said “Give me glory by rising as high as you can”

I left the forest to bring back this story. I hope these words can help you see that GOD

will never give up on you .Never Regrets.

NEVER BE WORRIED ABOUT THE DALAY IN YOUR SUCCESS AS COMPARE TO OTHERS.BECAUSE CONSTRUCTION OF WONDERS TAKE MORE TIME THAN ORDINARY STRUCTURE.

SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ALWAYS HAVE TWO THINGS ON LIPS.SILENECE AND SMILE.SMILE TO SOLVE THE PROBLEMS AND SILENCE TO AVOID THE PROBLEMS.

SCIENCE & SIKHISM

2012-01-15T04:13:00.000-08:00

Science & Sikhism

Sikh teachings do not disagree with science, as it does not conflict with Sikh Scriptures or beliefs. In fact scientists are just now discovering the concepts that were written in Sikh scriptures centuries ago. Sikh Gurus told Sikhs not to smoke, do drugs or drink alcohol centuries ago. Scientists confirm that drinking alcohol, smoking and consuming drugs have harmful effects on the body.

Sikh beliefs have not been disproved by science in any form. Scientific facts support the teachings of Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Guru Granth Sahib Ji states, "There are planets, solar systems and galaxies. If one speaks of them, there is no limit, no end. There are worlds upon worlds of His creation. As He commands, so they exist. He watches over all, and contemplating the creation, He rejoices. Nanak says, it is really hard to describe" (Guru Granth Sahib Ji, 8). In addition, it is stated that God created the entire Universe including the Earth. "You Yourself created the Earth and the two lamps: the Sun and the Moon" (Guru Granth Sahib Ji, 83). Furthermore, "There are billions of regions and planets. There are billions of moons, suns and stars" (Guru Granth Sahib Ji, 275).

Clarification: The reference to Sun and the Moon as lamp is figurative not literal. Both give us light, Sun during the day and Moon during the night. But in no way Guru Granth Sahib Ji is saying that Moon makes or generates its own light.

"He created the Sun and the Moon; night and day, they move according to His Will" (Guru Granth Sahib Ji, 580). "Many millions are the fields of creation and galaxies. Many millions are the skies and solar systems. Many millions are divine incarnations. He has unfolded Himself in so many ways. He has expanded His expansion of creation many times. Forever and ever, He is the One, the One Universal Creator. Many millions are created in various forms. From God they emanate, and into God they merge once again. His limits are not known to anyone. O Nanak, God exists by Himself." (Guru Granth Sahib Ji, 276).

Furthermore, "He established the Earth, the sky and the air, the water of the oceans, fire and food. He created the Moon, the stars and the Sun, night and day and mountains; He blessed the trees with flowers and fruits. He created the demigods, human beings and the seven oceans; He established the three worlds (life in water, on land and in the air)" (Guru Granth Sahib Ji, 1399). God created the gases and everything came from God’s creation. For example, water (H2O) came from the gases. When two hydrogen atoms and one oxygen atom combine, they form water. Life in the ocean, on land and in the air is based on water. Within all life, He has infused His Light, the soul, which is a part of God. God created the entire Universe including the Earth and life on the Earth.

Sikhism states that God created this Universe billions of years ago. The Universe including the Earth has been evolving since. Furthermore, this is not the first time God created this Universe, He has done so many times. The life not only exits on Earth alone but many other planets.

Scientists have found that there are billions of galaxies, each galaxy containing billions of starts and millions of planets revolving around those stars with millions of moons revolving around those planets. Our galaxy, the Milky Way, has approximately 200 billions stars and millions of planets from which few are known. There are billions of galaxies like ours in the universe and this is just now being realized by modern science, where as Sikh Scripture mentioned it long before its discovery.

Scientists are slowly attempting to unravel the creation of God but the whole creation is so vast that currently it is beyond what humans can explore. Scientists study the creation of God and try to comprehend the mysteries of His creation. The more they learn, the more they are amazed. Some spend their entire life studying God’s creation and yet they are unable to find His limits. However, when one meditates on God, God Himself unfolds the mysteries and reveals the galaxies, the stars, and all of His creation.

HAVE I MADE IT LARGE................

2011-09-17T00:15:00.000-07:00

Have I made it large………..

When was the last time you sat with your old buddies and played Antakshri and flowed you emotions out?

When was the last time you sat with your family and enjoyed the stress relieving chat ?

When was the last time you actually went out for a vacation with out your cell phones?

When was the last time you had that unhygienic street food which you used to have when didn’t have enough money in your pocket?

Probablly the answer would come “I DON’T REMEMBER”…….

These are more questions and the list goes on and on…… there used to be little little things which used to make us happy.

Have we forgotten those things ????????

In this jungle race of survival of the fittest we have actually formatted our old memory devices which restored the data of little things which used to make us happy.

Happiness doesn’t used to come from big things, it used to come from silly acts, fun pranks and those polling in of last saved coins to eat something out.

We work morning till evening like donkeys, we run here and there like horse, we quarrel on each other like dogs and many other animal attributes. We have actually become an animal in this race to earn money…..

But the question which is running in my mind is HAVE I MADE IT LARGE…………….. after all this!!!!

KOSHISH KARNE WALON KI HAAR NAHIN HOTI.....

2011-09-14T21:58:00.000-07:00

Was feeling a little low on morale today, with all the usual nuances of life, end up asking the inevitable question i.e. why do i do all this?

Surely there’s more to life than just doing all this routine crap Or live it just for the sake of doing it ??

So i ended up remembering a poem. It is considered one of the most inspirational poems ever and has been authored by HariVansh Rai Bachchan

Here it is:-

Lehron se Darkar nauka par nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahin hoti

Nanhi cheenti jab daana lekar chalti hai,

chadhti deewaron par, sau bar phisalti hai.

Man ka vishwas ragon mein saahas bharta hai,

chadhkar girna, girkar chadhna na akharta hai.

Akhir uski mehnat bekar nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahin hoti.

Dubkiyan sindhu mein gotakhor lagata hai,

ja ja kar khali haath lautkar aata hai

Milte nahi sahaj hi moti gehre paani mein,

badhta dugna utsah isi hairani mein.

Muthi uski khali har bar nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahi hoti.

Asaflta ek chunauti hai, ise sweekar karo,

kya kami reh gayi, dekho aur sudhar karo.

Jab tak na safal ho, neend chain ko tyago tum,

Sangharsh ka maidan chhodkar mat bhago tum.

Kuch kiye bina hi jai jaikar nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahin hoti.

– Harivansh Rai Bacchan

EMPTINESS ( KHUSHI KI TALASH MEIN……)

2011-09-14T08:28:00.000-07:00

EMPTINESS ( KHUSHI KI TALASH MEIN……)

TANHA IS ZINDAGI KE SAFAR MEIN HUM CHALE JA RAHE HAIN; KUCH KHABAR NAHI HAIN KYA KAR RAHE HAIN.

ZINDAGI KI KHUSHI KI TALASH MEIN HUM YUHE BHATKE JA RAHE HAIN….KYA PATA KAB KIS MOOD PAR KUSHI MIL JAYEN.

PAR KYA KHUSHI ITNI MUSHKILO SE MILTE HAIN……

AAJ LAGTA HAIN KHUSHI KISSE BADI CHEES SE NAHI MILTE YEH TOH CHOTE CHOTE CHEESO SE MILTE HAIN……..

WHO KEHTE HAIN NA……

KHULE ASMAAN MEIN PANCHI KI TARAH UDAH RAHE HO; AUR GUNGUNA RAHE HO TUM TOH KHUSH HO…….

PED SE TUTE HUA PATTE KI TARAH HAWA MEIN LEHRA RAHE HO TOH KHUSH HO TUM…….

LEHRO KI TARAH UCHAL KAR KHEL RAHE HO TOH KHUSH HO TUM……

HAPPINESS DOES NOT COME WITH BIG THINGS IT ALL ABOUT SMALL THINGS YOU DO WHICH BRING CHANGES TO YOUR LIFE.

GOD BLESS STAY HAPPY

ELEVEN HINTS OF LIFE !!!!!!!

2011-05-11T00:02:00.000-07:00

Some things are meant to be treasured these 11 hints of life are one of those, I was going through these lines felt like these are one to be restored over the blog.

"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

WHO WILL CRY WHEN YOU DIE????????

2011-04-10T21:58:00.000-07:00

When we were born at the tine of our birth we cry and other rejoice. But the biggest question lies in life who will cry when you will rejoice the last moment of your life.

“The tragedy of life is not death but what we let die inside us while we live”

Today in pursuit of happiness in the rat race of life we have forgotten the real happiness of life, Money is some thing we are running for and we all think that’s the penultimate happiness in life. Alas we are all here for some unique purpose, some noble objective that will allow us to manifest our highest human potential while we at the same time add value to the lives around us.

Likewise a great saying:

“Happiness is not about how happy you are but its about how happy others can be because of you”

Be the change you wish to see most in your world an ones you do your life changes.

I always thought life is gonna be like this sadist, rude, mean and asking for something or the other, but you never know what plans god has crafted for you. No wonder suddenly a change starts again through some one in your life as there are no great acts in life, there are small acts done with great love. Yes that’s your attitude, compassion, your special thing for which you are here a special meaning a change to happen.

Like wise said who will cry when you die, its all your acts in life that’s matter in life.

“Time decide whom you meet in life, your heart decides whom you want in life your behaviour decide who will saty in your life”

IN RACE CALLED LIFE....................

2010-05-17T06:51:00.000-07:00

IN A RACE CALLED LIFE .............................

We make so many friends.. Some become dearest.. Some become special.. Fell in love with someone......... Some went abroad Some changed their cities......... Some go far from us.......... Some left us.... We left some..... Some are in touch Some are not in touch..... Some don't contact because of their ego..... We don't contact because of our ego..... Whtever they are.. However they are..... We still remember,love, miss,cherish them cos of the part they played to make our

"PRECIOUS MEMORIES":-)

MISCONTURE... ALMIGHTY INTENTION

2010-05-16T11:46:00.000-07:00

After a long time I met one of known person from Amritsar in Gurudwara Sahib , I saw him and we greeted each other as if we were meeting after a long time the Punjabi way, I asked him veerji how come you are here???? He didn’t sounded good I after asked this question …..

He replied I am here to see a heart specialist from Escorts and AIIMs , as there is a hole in her younger daughters heart and she needs to be operated…… I was like shocked totally thrashed after I heard this….. that man said you know its all gods play you cant even judge what is happening in and around you. Then we exchange our greetings and went of to our home.

The whole night I couldn’t sleep’ I was in deep thought and pain…… I was actually feeling the pain that man would have been feeling, I was sleepless …. No feelings there isn’t any thing that could excite me after that I was in a state of deep thought.

Every now and then we people complain we are not getting what we deserved or this what I never desired for, my luck is not running my way the way I wanted it to be, instead of thanking god we are always complaining we should have little bit of this and loads of that.

We human beings and me specially part of that race we are thankless creatures of God…… putting myself into that mans shoe I felt so small today that I have no right ….yes no right to ask god what is happening with my life or why I am like this or in such phase of life….. The real pain is not what’s happening with us I can surely say the real pain is actually what man is feeling, how any one can see his or child in pain like this and that to in such a small age ….. animals can’t see that after all we are humans….

More of all we all must go and thank god for what ever he has given to us and all his blessings to us and protecting us from all the pain.

Last but not the least “ I request all of you to pray for that child so that she gets all well after she is going to get operated in few days and live her normal life like other children” ……..

WORLDS IS GETTING APPREHENSIVE ABOUT INDIA

2010-03-19T10:25:00.000-07:00

LIFE IS TOO LIVE .................NOT TO HATE

2010-03-13T00:00:00.000-08:00

Hi...i have a question for all of you.

What is the point of:

Having grudges!
Keeping your emotions to yourself!
Fighting with your loved ones!
Not doing what you want to!
Living for the future!

Confused???

A few days back while coming back home in the middle of the night i got stuck in a small jam.
A crane was moving a long iron girder on the road causing the traffic to come to a halt...
and then all of a sudden the crane fell...just simply toppled.
The crane fell on a few cars at the front.
The occupants of 2 cars, entire families, had a very narrow escape.
But the long extended arm of the crane fell on top of a third car, infact right on top of the driver on the wheels.

Over the next 2 hours we tried hard to get the driver out by trying to lift the crane,
but 50 odd men were no match for the heavy crane.
It was only after the fire fighters came with their equipment that the man was taken out of the car.
But by that time he wasnt a living, breathing, thinking man anymore, it was just the body of a man!!!
A man who was once a son, a brother,
a man who once had desires, a man who once had ambitions,
a man who above all was once a human being....just like us!!

He was alive one second, planning his next moves in life, planning to say or do things the next day for his loved ones, and the very next second all his desires, ambitions, hopes, aspirations, emotions et all were crushed....literally!!!!!!
Everyday i still think about and my thoughts go out for the 29 year old or i should say 29 year "young" guy returning home after work....
but this mail is for you people...
people who are my friends, people i work with, live with, party with, people i know and care about and would like to make a difference in whose life...IF I CAN.

So take a moment here with me.

Now i ask once again..what is the point of:

Having grudges or running hate games or campaigns.
Fighting with your loved ones over petty, trivial or ego issues.
Keeping your emotions to yourself....not expressing your love, true feelings etc to your near and dear ones...or not being there for them...everyday!!!
Not doing what you want or have always wanted to do.
Living only for the future.

Life is unpredictable.
We never know when whose time will be up....
So try and answer those questions and any other which may come to you individually and change, improve or do whatever you deem right.
Just remember...there is only one truth...

"Life is...right here...right now...live it in this very moment...tomorrow may never come.

MANTRA TO CRACK VENTURE CAPITALIST....PROPOSE LIKE FINAL GIRL IN YOUR LIFE

2010-01-31T04:57:00.000-08:00

its been running through my mind long time how can any one impress a venture capitalist and have a best chance of getting YES.....from his side saying you are the one i was looking for.

i moved back in life old days and recalled what all crazy things i have did in my life, and finally was able to recall the time when i actually proposed a girl with whom i used to think she is going to the last resort of my life and i should not leave any stone unturned just to impress her and make her belive that YES he is the man of my life.....

you why i flash back to this story this gave me an inspiration and thought that a VC is just not any different from a GIRL of your life as need both of them desperately in your life .........

YOU know ur Business Plan is suppose to be like your Life Plan how are you planning to live with her in your future and how are you going to come with every exectation of her and growing with every next step you take.

You ought to present your plan like no one has ever does it ( innovation).

In the end you should up building trust in her heart that YES he is the one who can make me happy till the end thats what we called as gaining credibility.