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	<title>RELATIONAL AGGRESSION and COVERT BULLYING</title>
	
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		<title>Unintended Consequences?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2009 15:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>At home school co-op a few days ago, one of the mothers talked about her friend who knew of a child, going through bullying in first grade. She said this child suffered alienation and was treated meanly by the other kids. The alienation was orchestrated by one child, whose lead the other children in the [...]&lt;br/&gt;
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		<title>Chinese New Year</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 01:57:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Chinese New Year! 


Year of the Ox.
The ox stands for persistence and tenacity. I hope for you this year the strength and perseverance to be true to your ideals and principles, and your own healing path. 
Where there is duplicity and manipulation, may there be clarity and empowerment.
Where there is usury and slander, may [...]&lt;br/&gt;
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		<title>When we hesitate to define our boundaries</title>
		<link>http://www.relationalaggression.net/blog/2009/01/23/when-we-hesitate-to-define-our-boundaries/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 05:26:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So many of us feel guilty about setting boundaries, as if somehow it&amp;#8217;s just not a nice thing to do.
We feel guilty, because most people are basically caring people. When people try to intrude into our space, we can sense on some level their desperation. We know they are feeling pain, and it&amp;#8217;s hard for [...]&lt;br/&gt;
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