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A LOVE LETTER FOR A BETTER RELATIONSHIP...LEARN FROM IT!

2010-05-12T03:09:00.001-07:00

A LOVE LETTER THAT YOU MUST READ! MAKE YOUR COMMENT AFTER READING!

MY LOVE LETTER TO TARA...HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
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Today marks Tara and I's 9th year wedding anniversary as well as my 39th birthday.

Every year, I share a letter that I wrote to her several years ago, which subsequently got published in a magazine. This has become a bit of a tradition between Tara and myself.

It reminds me of where we're coming from; our one bedroom room where we shared a toilet and bathroom with 6 families, to where God has brought us, to a really nice home in Victoria Garden City and an awesome present with an unprecedented future.

Don't give up on your dreams.

I hope it inspires you.

FD

NOW THE LOVE LETTER!

Tara my darling,

Let me quickly confess that the idea to write you a public love letter is Debbie’s (Ogunjobi – EveryWoman) idea but I think it’s a great one! The lady’s simply brilliant. The contents of the letter on the other hand, come straight from my heart and I hope it pleasantly surprises you as much as the thought excites me as I write.

As my pen meets the paper, my mind travels back a few years to July 1999, just before we started dating. We were walking down together along Ilabere Avenue, Ikoyi, just as the sun was setting and we were playing those mind games “what do you want in a marriage?”

I remember how startled you were when I told you that I was going to be a HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL HUSBAND OF A HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL WIFE. At that time, you mentioned how the world thinks this is impossible, either the husband succeeds and the wife does not or vice-versa.

I remember you told me how intimidated most men could be with highly successful wives. “But ………….”, you said with a smile.

Well my darling, time has proven me right …… Today, God has been fantastic and wonderful to us both and not only have we been blessed with great success in both our endeavors, I strongly believe that the greatest success we’ve seen so far is in the beauty of our marriage.

I mean every word when people ask me all over the world what my best decision has been and I reply “it’s following God’s instruction to ask you to marry me”.
You are the greatest of God’s blessings to me ………….., more than life itself.

I keep saying that no other woman could have been meant for me. How many women do you know that would marry a guy in a boy’s quarter that serves as a bedroom and office at the same time? Not many, if any would bet their life on a man who had not much more than a great vision of his future.

Tara darling, almost everyday you say that, I’m the best husband that any woman could have asked for but quite frankly, I think you make the best man that I can possibly be.

You’ve been my best friend since the first time we spoke while I was on that Phillips Consulting assignment to Bauchi. Four years (now 9) later and you are still my best friend and closest confidant today. It’s amazing!

We’ve defied the law of “love fades away’. With you, it’s LOVE GROWS. I don’t know how you make me but I find myself waking up each day loving you more. You know it’s true every time I tell you that I love you greatly but I also like you amazingly. Remember the text I sent to you on how much just speaking to you on the phone is like oxygen? Perhaps, that’s why we call each other every hour we are not together.

(Just for your information dear reader, I just took a 3-minute break to take Tara’s call. She just wanted to hear my voice and tell me she loves me. See what I’m saying?) How could I not be a fantastic husband to such an incredible wife? I really don’t have any other options do I?

My darling, this is just to let you and the whole world know that the last three years since we’ve been married have been the most wonderful of my life and it keeps getting better each passing year. It is true when the Bible says, “the path of the righteous shines brighter and brighter …………” I love how we rededicate our vows each year. You are the best birthday present God ever gave me.
(Dear reader, Tara and I got married on my 30th birthday)

And how can I thank you enough for those two wonderful boys (now 3) you’ve given me? I wonder what I’ll do when my daughter arrives. Get ready for unprecedented pampering.

I think with excitement of how we will grow old graciously together. Every time I think of you in your seventies, it puts a smile on my face. I’m sure you’ll be the funkiest 70-year old chic on the face of the planet. And you can be sure I’ll be the grooviest 76-year old bloke to ‘represent’.

Our children need to watch out for this ‘never grow old ‘ lovebirds they call their parents but the real trip for me is that we’re chosen to be role models for our future generations and I think we are well on our way to doing this.

You know I always say that a husbandman is a ‘Grooms’man, a gardener who tends his plant (his wife) into a beautiful vineyard. That is where a ‘Grooms’man differs from a ‘hunter’. The hunter takes a beautiful thing and kills it but the ‘Grooms’man takes a seed and tends it into an incredibly beautiful garden.

I am committed to working with God to bring out the best you that God has put in you. I am determined on seeing all of God’s dreams for you come to pass. Today, it’s House of Tara, in a short while, the WORLD OF TARA would soon become a reality, the multi-national empire that reveals the real beauty in every woman from the four corners of the world.

The WORLD OF TARA is truly a beautiful world where every woman has been "Tara-rized" into the beautiful queens and princesses that God made them to be. I won't reveal the strategy, but you can trust God it will be real.

It’s amazing how real you have remained despite all the hype. Stay real girl because the world hasn’t seen anything like what the Lord is about to do through your life. Mary Kay would rise to salute you on the day of rapture.

My darling, I remember that night in Jo’burg, South Africa back in October, 1999 standing alone in God’s presence and asking Him about you. He had asked me to read through Proverbs 31 woman and as I read through, your image was being captured from the pages of the scriptures.

I’m convinced God had you in mind when He inspired the writing of Proverbs 31’s wife of noble character.

I am so happy to praise you publicly and say, “many women do noble things, but you surpass them all”. Indeed, Tara is a woman who fears the Lord, therefore, dear reader; join me to give her the reward she’s earned.

I love you baby, for the rest of my life.

With all my love in my heart,

Your husband,

Fela.

This was written by Fela Durotoye on his Birthday and Wedding Anniversary...

It is not just about marriage; it is about understanding and conscious commitment both of them have put into it. In life you get what you put in life! I love this and I ask for the grace to have a good and better love life like yours. Enjoy!

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HE DIED FOR YOU!

2010-04-02T13:45:00.000-07:00

I'm really humble for this day...He payed real price for us all. I just hope we don't waste it...He died for you and me...Thank you Jesus!
If you need Jesus in your life; pleas say this with consciousness. It will change your life. Say Lord Jesus, I come before you as a sinner, please forgive me of my short comings, I need a fresh beginning in my life, I know you died for me, wash and cleanse me with your blood. Thanks for dieing for me. Come in to my life Lord Jesus, Amen. After this please send us a mail to fandplove@gmail.com to tell us how you feel and we will help you further! Heaven is rejoicing for the choice you made today. Congratulations friend!

IN THE DAYS OF THE NEW NIGERIA

2009-10-26T10:07:00.000-07:00

IN THE DAYS OF THE NEW NIGERIA

Dreams come true, come through and leave you in the world of your dream. That is why the best author who has the widest read book, said we are a product of our thought. What you are about to read is my story for the New Nigeria.
In the days of the New Nigeria there were preparation for election and surprisingly there was no ‘god father’ interference, no sidelining, kidnapping, bribery and election rigging. The people were in their right senses, influenced and were assured of their several choices. The media took interviews of some positive and patriotic Nigerians and they found that every one’s choice was based on a well thought choice. The Election Day approached and the people could not wait to cast their well thought vote. On the 8th of April was the election and everyone was out to cast their vote, and it want all well. Few days later the result came out and the choice president, Ass-President, Governor, senators, house of assembly and local government chairmen were chosen and their qualities were pure, truthful, and all motivated by the passion for work and not for embezzlement.
The New Nigeria surprised us all because our educational system became the world standard; Jamb illegality were eradicated so that hard working students who read and wrote well were given the opportunity to enter the university. The heartbeats of students were to read for knowledge and not to impress anyone but that they may be able to prove what they read anytime they are tested. Honestly the least score was c5 and then D7, C6, F9 was only a choice. At this time almost half of the class had A1 and B3. So the medium for reward was award by the government for one year scholarship each.
On the fifth year which was the shock of Nigerians, we all looked closely and were happy that for good five years there was no power failure and we Nigerians marked it with a celebration tagged ‘THE NEW NIGERIA, A REALITY’ and it had a strong saying ‘A step forward!’. Automatically our economic value increased so much that we no more owed World Bank. Our debts were paid, with ease. So there was no scare in ironing our clothes because the light was always stable. This automatically reminded me of a journey I had in Europe. My friends and I were had a scheduled meeting and all of a sudden we shouted ‘hey we have not ironed our shirts, NEPA will take light’ and then I laughed and reminded them that we were in Europe, not Nigeria. But we were glad that Nigeria had a stable light.
The availability of light gave rise to many developments in our country. It lead to no export because we now had our processing factories round the 37 states of Nigeria. This automatically made things cheap and affordable.
It, lead to self employment and more of entrepreneurs. This lead to high income yield in our financial sectors, as patriotic business owners solved challenges of the nation as much as they can, making a full support with the Nigeria Government and it made a more rapid growth in the nation. And then we saw ‘that with all for all, the desired all becomes a reality. Saying by Pjbass!
It is true that Nigeria was voted to be one of the most illegal sexed nation; a corrupt people and dirty in our dealings. Yes, it was said but right now it became a model for right relationship (marriage, dating, courting, gigolo, and end to abortions, unwanted pregnancies, gay (male and female same sex), commercial sex workers )harlots) and AIDS/HIV nation. I couldn’t express how happy I was; the constant reality of our youth’s positive sex lifestyle and non corrupt attitude further made me believe. Then there was no need for scare of insecurity, rape and sex camping. Because 95% had positive mindset and were all burned with the passion for change, the change we see now but never ending.
While abroad back then, I came to understand that even though Africa (Nigeria in view) is painted as a black negative nation and most corrupt, I found that we were abroad. But in the New Nigeria I was happy that the world publicized Nigeria, Africa as the best nation and continent to live in. They further said; the secrete to our success was that ‘we took a step at a time’. While they mocked us and said things about us, we kept moving and now they are behind us, far away. Now we were known as 1st World citizens and whatever name for themselves.
Looking intently, I remembered when an African president (B.O), Ex- president (B.C), and the president’s wife talked to us on international cables, for getting that Africa had change agents in the white countries making their economy what it was, but unknowingly we had change agents here who had a better picture for Nigeria and so it made the words of this white ungrateful folks futile. Until the whites remember that without the blacks (Africa, Nigeria most impactful) they wouldn’t have been that successful. But in my mind continued by my dream for The New Nigeria, I knew someday Africans and Nigerians would come back to their mother land, because their mother land was better than abroad. They came and gave what they gave the whites in their own land and then the secrete was revealed that before you talk against or talk about someone, first of all apply the principle of Pjbass Talk Pattern, it states; Recognize the positive things before the negative, weigh it and dwell on the best. Well it is my happiness to announce that what makes the world what it is has left the offshore and flown back into Nigeria and now we have the best models in all of lies diversity. Oh how happy I am, even though I have narrated the story, which is my dream for Nigeria in Africa.
In this New Nigeria; Naira had more value more than it was back then when $2 equals N1, but in This New Nigeria N1.00 is valuable than the dollar and pounds. Because our N1.00 to dollar and pounds became $300, 500 pounds. It was mind blowing, but we Nigerians and Africans transacted with this Naira value, no joke.
Nigeria became a farming nation, we had everything the best standard of agriculture. It gave rise to our economical value. What a New Nigeria.
Fuel, oil and gas became so cheap to N5.00 per litre. What a new Nigeria we now live in. Where security, good roads, nice infrastructures, crimeless government, open minded indigenes, harmless Police and the military lived and did their job very well. There was not more extortion of money and waste of lives but they secured and protected lives of the indigenes of Nigeria and Africa as a whole.
Universities and all 3rd level education became very cheap, because the economy of the universities was no more needed to affect the economy of Nigeria but to take care of the universities, modernizing it and payment of the staffs so that teaching became the highest well paid job in all levels of educations. This became a reality because the teachers where the farmers of the leaders of tomorrow.
In the days of the New Nigeria, more than this happened. I am glad it is story of change that stood as the world’s legacy.
OUR REQUIREMENT
Give the positive attitude you can to Nigeria and let all Africans give their best
Our concentration is on Nigeria, so positive behaviours, confessions and healthy mindsets should be kept
Remember we are a product of what we’ve been saying, so if you need change; say what you want
I have one evil world for all that won’t admit to this dream of the New Nigeria, you will grow worse never finding peace and you will never be known for something tangible. Evil will be your path and darkness your world.
But if you are interested in Then New Nigeria, then say this together...
Nigeria, the positive model of the world, Africa the best continent of the world, The New Nigeria, a land with peace, abundance and fulfilment!

Nigeria A Step Forward... By Peter Ibeji (Pjbass, Serving Director www.fandplove.blogspot.com, www.fandplove.blogspot.com, Creative writer, Strategist, Solutions Catalyst, Idea seller and world Change Model!-08072996739, 08067379916)

2009-10-01T06:40:00.001-07:00

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INSPITE YOUR HEIGHT, BE YOUR SELF...

2009-08-18T08:15:00.000-07:00

Let us learn from this friend.

Jenny Sanford is a woman of honor to be modeled. I do not know her past life, neither do I know what she is in full, but I know that she is a woman that understands what love is all about. Inspite her husband infidelity, she still believes Gov Mark is the best thing that ever happened to her as she is still ready to keep the relationship going. She has done what most women can't do, but I am very sure she will reap this good thing she has done to Governor Mark Sanford of South Carolina. I pray every one learns from this.

Gov Mark also made me happy as he believes that it is well, just a matter of time. I believe this is real and will definitely come to be. He was not made that way by his creator and so anything that is not a representative of his creator is off his body. Congratulations sir and ma. Blissfulness shall be yours continually. Do have blessed days.

Peter Ibeji
Serving Director (FANDPLOVE-RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS)
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Live Your Best Now!

HIV/AIDS/SEX CHALLENGES FROM HEALTH ICONS

2009-07-31T06:03:00.002-07:00

HIV/AIDS/SEX CHALLENGES FROM HEALTH ICONS

I start to say shame to you so called health leaders. Your destinies have only lasted for reasons known to me. Show me a leader and I will show you his products, show me a positive leader and I will show you his positive fruits. It beats my imagination but pleases my curiosity when I see mega organizations that have the power, network and influence in changing evil, but see them behave like children who need help, indirectly leading the mass public into negative behaviors and bad results to show for; a matter of time

The surprising thing is that this so called organizations are woe sayers, foreseers of the future of this innocent and stupid ones that will be the sole receivers of the negative feedbacks, they begin to cry why me, but never know that the people they look up to are evil but wolfs in sheep clothing.

I have counseled lots of people and most of them all innocent about what they do; they only took the lectures from what they were thought. We have got lots of abortions going on every day and it doesn’t reflect the fact that the leaders of these organizations to the nation as a whole will never experience peace when there is physical and spiritual murder everyday in the country, because they have thought people to use sex with condom, because while it goes on the people can’t control themselves but remove the condom and use it life, because we have forgotten to tell them that condom is just 15% secured and not hundred percent secured.

We expect the nation to be what it is and we do not know that a guy or girl who has chosen to avoid sex till they marry will not do so when they have been given condom, for some they say since it won’t make her pregnant, I have to rape her because she is stubborn, and she cries and they tell her you can cry I have had my way for you won’t be pregnant and we are not there to feel the trauma, the pain and the limitation it places on the victim towards their future relationship.

I have much to say, but with time I will. Right before me is a publication titled HIV/AIDS & SEX PRACTICAL ADVICE that teaches about HIV and the enhancer of sex for that same HIV they are stupidly trying to cure. In it is a subtopic titled: HOW CAN I CONVINCE MY PARTNER TO USE CONDOM, not their wife but partner. Another subtopic is OTHER THINGS YOU CAN TRY which teaches on how to stay in the mood playing with each other, advices that states the woman can help the m an put on the condom, and the truth but not from their heart that says a difficult partner should say “no condom no sex”. Is this the way to call a spade a spade, forgetting that with persistency they will agree just a matter of time!

Then another subtopics that states ANSWERS TO COMMON COMPLAINTS where they advice to make sex fun, telling them to follow condom rules, that trust is not enough because we both have a sexual past (which is a wrong statement for a love foundation) I will treat this later. Wicked idiots and organizations leading the people astray, you don’t even know what you are doing.

What made it worse in this publication is that they gave a sub topic titled IMPORTANT CONDOM RULES: it reads;
 Open the pack carefully, don’t use nails or teeth
 Never use petroleum jelly or oils on the condom
 Use only water, saliva or a special made lubricant like lubrica
 Wait until the penis is fully erect before putting of the condom. Hold the tip to push put the air.
 Roll the condom all the way down.
Another of their advice reads, don’t be shy, condoms can save your life, always have your own pack, instructions on proper use are in each pack. Another reads use a condom (if you must have sex while you have symptoms or are being treated for STI diseases. Meaning that even while you are treated on a disease you should still continue to have sex with condom at pain, is this not plain madness of this so called leaders?

When an innocent person or those in practice do this don’t you think that the negative sex lifestyles will increase the harlots? Sex cheaters, fake relationships for sex and the rest of them? Abortion becomes a norm and unwanted pregnancies, the lives of this ones ruined, HIV/AIDS contacted the more. Their education and their future being dashed with stains that can unbalance their mega dreams. Or why waste the precious destinies of these ones?

THE REASON FOR THE ECONOMIC CHALLENGES
USA is where it is because they spend their money on health problems. Nigeria would have become better if the funds for curing these conscious negative diseases are diverted to farming. USA is meant to be the leaders for all whites and Nigerians and this two play the wrong roles. Before I was born Societal for Family Health has existed, so you have 26 years of evil influence and Unites States Agency Intervention Development. A shame with all your development you developed diseases all this years, including the Society for Family Health. That is why your economy is this way. USA your nation can never get better if you don’t teach people to live a sex right life, if you say no watch, because your economy and country will fall more and more because all your money goes in to fighting sex and USAID is 38 years old but have not used this years positively. That is why the teenagers feel easy to sex at 13 get married at 16 live their parents and live a miserable life, because or lack of proper training. Nigeria the same goes to you.
I am tempted to mention the trustees and leaders of these organizations. But I won’t till the next time I write, if they do not put a stop to illegal sex vices then I will descend mightily the next time I write.

QUESTIONS TO USAID AND SFH/PARTNERS
 Why have you established an organization because you want to destroy the people?
 Why have you created all sex substitution for money sake and not for the truth?
 Why have you gone around sharing condom to innocent and evil people who because of it have sex?
 Why have you made it legal to haves sex before marriage
 Have you the CEO, board of trustees, partners lost your senses?
 Why have you been the reason for rape?
 Why have you been the reason for commercial sex hype (harlots)?
 Why have you chosen to increase lesbians and gays lifestyles?
 Why have you chosen to give the peoples diseases they can’t cure?
 Why have you refused to call the truth, truth?
 Why have you ruined the life of the future leaders, CEO’s of mega companies, CBN governors and great entrepreneurs?
 Why have you sown subliminal believe in using substitutions for an answer?
 Why not be real and teach the people the truth, than wasting our money on printing manuals for illegal sex?

Guess what you all will be ruined if you don’t do the right thing! You all have got the chance to make a change, do so or else, your end will be brutal, in your family, generations and life fulfillment. You will all live miserable as the repercussion of the aborted and diseased ones will fall on you, your organizations and your partners. I remain Peter Ibeji (Serving Director of RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS)

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2009-04-08T02:18:00.000-07:00

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NO MORE RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES!

2009-02-21T12:22:00.000-08:00

NO MORE RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES! JUST VISIT www.fandplove.blogspot.com or send relationship challenges to fandplove@gmail.com, CONGRATULATIONS LOVERS!

It is a new year, a new phase, new approach, new priority and constant commitment to what ever you set your hands to do. I am concerned about happiness and maturity in relationships. So for this year feel free to send in your mails and blog to RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS and you will be glad you did. Have a prosperous 2009. I love you!

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You Remain the Best!

2008-12-23T19:17:00.000-08:00

RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS, COURTSEY PJBASS LIFE TRANSFORMATION WISHES YOU A HAPPY SEASON OF CHRISTMAS AND NEW 2009. ACT, EAT AND LIVE RESPONSIBLE LIFE!

HOMOSEXUALS, LESBIANS AND SEX TRUTH

2008-12-23T17:36:00.000-08:00

HOMOSEXUALS, LESBIANS AND SEX TRUTH

How long will we keep deceiving ourselves from the truth we know?
The big truth is that we are all accountable for whatever values, principles and happenings of our lives. We have got our mind that helps us to discern which is right or wrong.
So why not take responsibility of every single thoughts and events that takes place in your mind? If God created Adam and Eve and not Adam and Henry, Eve and Jessica then why do we keep listening to the misleading happenings that we see in our relationships today? If the world was to be men to men and women to women who would have made up this world. How long will we try to make an artificial of the original? How long will we try to sustain the wrong thing we know about? Will we be wrongly sex active with same sex like we? I am sure someday we all will be judged by the truth we know. The enjoyment of today is not most time the lasting enjoyment of the future. The right principles, values and right choice give us a lasting enjoyment.

Sex before marriage is not good. Sorry if you have been a victim of this but you can bear witness that he no more respects you, loves you, and admire you like before. For some they have been dumped, used to a level of no value, heartbroken, made to become a mother before your time, had abortions (spiritual murderers), turn into harlot, a future destroyed by illegal and untimely sex activity. Listed up there is just a little of the physical damages illegal sex has caused you! I deeply weep for you because you cannot turn the hands of time again, what have been damaged is now a life style for you. Your shyness has become very obvious; you now have to repair your respect, integrity and dignity, just because you refused to listen to your personal guide. What a mystery...
Had I know now the title of your album! Once bitten twice shy.

The companions of fools (gays, homo's, lesbians, and untimely sex partakers) shall be destroyed. It's a matter of time friend. That truth you know and refuse to live by will stand against you, make you unable to fulfil your destiny, make you not to be fulfilled, remove pure happiness from your life, and make you regret never to be born. What else...Hiv/Aids being your mind guide, since you refused to listen to the mind guide that told you the right and the wrongs, STD's that helps you on the right track and more diseases that will pop up just because human beings won't want to the right thing. What will you gain friend? After all we know that vanity upon vanity is vanity!
The only happiness comes when you are able to live the right life style, affect lives positively, live a fulfilled life and make HEAVEN where you will be rewarded greatly! We are sent to this earth as Ambassadors of Change and not fans of evil! I need not write much as our heart personal guide will help us do the rest.

ONE ADVICE, ONE TRUTH, AND ONE ENTERNITY:
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST. He died for you years ago, still willing to make your life meaningful if you will give him the chance to do so. He does not want you to burn in the lake of fire for eternity. He wants you to rule and be happy in HEAVEN if you will make that choice today. The question here is are you yet not ready to make this commitment to giving your life to JESUS CHRIST WHO DIED FOR YOU? A STORY TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND THE NEED OF GIVING YOUR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST. There was a man who was a friend to my Pastor. He and my Pastor were drug addicts, gangsters and devil advocate.
Later on my now Pastor gave his life to Jesus Christ and stopped all the evil he was doing. Went to preach the news of eternal life to his friend. Unfortunately his friend refused
and told him he still had enough time to enjoy his so called life and told him later on he will give his life to JESUS CHRIST. Three days later my Pastor went to visit his friend, only to find out that his friends elder brother was crying and he asked what the problem was...Your guess is as good as mine.

His friend was dead. How! But he had enough time to enjoy his life, if only you know that the enemy will tamper and take the life of someone who doesn't know Jesus Christ.
Those that know him have a sense of responsibility to be world changers. His friend's death was a tragedy. He went to a party, was drunk and while going home laid down on the rail way line and then the train passed and crushed him, converting him into identifiable pieces and when my Pastor heard it he felt bad because his friend died a mysterious death, certainly burning in fire. Except you know that you can put your hands in to the fire for 2min please keep the evil lifestyle you have now. If you are tired of the kind of lifestyle and you are sure you need JESUS CHRIST then welcome to the gathering of peace.

Say this and do the following:
Lord Jesus I come before you now
I am a sinner
I have worn out my life all this while
I believe that only you can make me who I am meant to be
Forgive my sins
Give me a brand new life
Make my life have meaning and let it be of value from this day
As I make a promise to follow you till you come
Thanks for being merciful to wash my sins with your blood
Thanks for accepting me as your son and daughter, NOW I AM FREE!

Go to a positive living church. I know that God will direct you to the right church. You can contact me on +2348067379916, +2348072996739 or petertony1610@yahoo.com (mail or chat). Or P.O.Box 822, Agege, Lagos, Nigeria. I can't wait to hear from you dear friend. You remain the BEST. I Love YOU!

COMMENTARIES YOU WILL BE GLAD TO READ by Pjbass (Serving Director PJBASS LIFE TRANSFORMATION)

2008-12-23T16:43:00.000-08:00

Pjbass commentary towards THE SUPPORT FOR GAY AND LESSBIANS: 'After God created man he created woman'

Its not what we feel like that makes up the values of life. But taking reality to be reality. The truth being undilluted but made plain. I want to have you know that your views makes up the nation and witht the influence you have; you can affect another life. So why not remove centiments and make the truth what it is. We will all be judged for the wrong information we give to mankind. The grace you have today is of God. Use it well and God will lift you up more and more. Gay and Lesbians are governed by illegal friends, wrong timing, wrong place and wrong values. Its not right or else you wouldn't have been to this world. After God created man he created woman. Why not a second male. May you that know the truth and refuse to live the truth be destroyed by the mighty hands of God. By the Serving Director of PJBASS LIFE TRANSFORMATION, as you can type FANDPLOVE in google and you will be with relationship solutions, my support towards relationship. Do, live and be the right thing. Thanks friend.

Pjbass commentary towards THE RESEARCCH TO MAKE A FEMALE PRODUCE STERM: 'Lesbianism is leaving your Heavenly grace to reproduce when you get married'

Stress is the sign that what we are doing is wrong or not the right way. You can make the researches but you know deep down that those research is against the right principles so why create it? Lesbianissm is leaving your Heavenly grace to reproduce when you get married. Stop decieving your self. Get married with the right man. For how long can you be a lessbian? My heart aches seeing this article and thats why I am commenting on it. My mum has done a lot for me. Some day your children will say this of you. Stop injuring and decieving your self. Do the right thing. Type FANDPLOVE in google and you will be there with relationship solutions. Love you and want the best for you. My contact is on fandplove. Take care and have a blessed season of celebration.

Pjbass commentary towards DO YOU THINK TEENS SHOULD BE TAUGHT TO ABSTAIN FROM SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE?

Adam an d Eve were not teens when they were created. Why will you venture into a lifetime enjoyment from now? Why illegal sex with the person you won't get married to? even if you will, it reduces the respect he has for you. So why act based on the naturality of your body. The fact you feel like having it means that your body is functioning well. Why use it as an opportunity to have sex. So every time you feel your body sex naturality, you immediately go have sex? Nonsense friend. until you value your furture marriage you will keep being an inhouse harlot. For your information the harlot is better than you. Do the right thing. zzow great your future is depends on what you will do with it from now on.Do the right thing and you will be glad you did. Sex is for the married and not the spoilt brats with non valuable reserves for their future husbands, Stay with your husbands and you will be glad you did.

COMING UP SOON: GAYS/LESSBIAN/SEX SHOUT! by the Serving Director of PJBASS LIFE TRANSFORMATION!

YOUR NATIONAL COMMITMENT

2008-12-22T18:41:00.000-08:00

PAINFUL ASPECET OF THE CURRENT AGE RELATIONSHIP LIFE STYLE

The basic problem of the nation is the upcoming children who out rightly misbehave; trying to behave they are matured and know the best than their elders. This altitude has played lot of negative roles in the making of the nation. Because where there is no respect, there is no peace and definitely judgement standing for such behaviours. Making it worse as the elders are not able to correct their children. So double repercussion as a result of the shouts the parents uses towards them, the ‘had I know’ syndrome that comes as a result of the children neglect. A repercussion they wished never came their way, wishing they could turn the hands of time.

Until we begin to address issues instantly, then pricing and habitual living in this negative life style is not an option but a norm in the teens and youths life.

Why should a nine year old child be a victim of rape?

Why should an elderly man try to rape young teens?

Why should young teens be seen as the harlots’ leaders?

Why should they stop schooling due to sex?

Why should governors, presidents, commissioners and leaders to mention but a few arrange teens for sex and abortion after negative exercise?

Living this people in a general life mess?

As though they do not have children?

The evil of the nation is not because no one does not know the truth, but because everyone has been trained to satisfy his or her feeling with the constant saying ‘nothing they happen’ BIG PITY READER!

The nation's success is the joint work of every single person in that nation. The problem is not the president but you friend. You are a born leader so live the right kind of life. For some day you will rule as you are already rulling in different sphers already. Help avert the cause of a nation for the positive good that will reach every one.

You are the best...Pjbass.

Giftstud Comment On My Love Flower

2008-12-22T17:15:00.000-08:00

Giftstud Comment On My Love Flower

Nice article on flower languages. I never heard this much amount of information on flower colors and meanings. Such a mind blowing moment to read about each color of rose has its own meaning. Thanks you very much for providing an informative blog which is more relevant for lovers.

Thanks for your comment. (Pjbass)

I AM BACK FRIENDS

2008-05-02T07:47:00.000-07:00

How you doing great friends?

Sorry for not being opportuned to post another useful relationship message for some time.
This was due to the fact that I was on a trip to Ukraine, Europe. Also after I got back I had to fix up things. Miss you all friends and visitors.

I am back and we have lots to learn fromt he experience I had in the www.godembassy.org

It is an experience I will be sharing with every one soon.

My prayer is that you prosper in all you do and also do the right thing @ the right time in the right place.

Your hands are blessed.
Soar High!
Peter Ibeji.

YOU WILL BENEFIT FROM THIS. A MUST READ!

2008-03-04T01:19:00.000-08:00

Hello, I saw your mail through your website. I really want to be enlightened on some things that is giving me
concern. Firstly, how do I know that I'm in love and not infatuation or lust? Secondly, do you believe in love at first sight, this kind of love does
it really work? Thirdly, does short courtship really leads to happy marriage? I will like to hearing from you soon. Thank you. Tosin

Good day Miss,

Nice reading from you. What I will be shairing with you is what you really know friend.
The problem most people are having is that they do not really
understand much about relationships, and they jump into it and jump out either hurt or pretendly hurt. Well these are the answers to your
questions:
How do you know if you are in love: Love is actualy deep, and only the deep can relate with the deep. In the first place infatuation is
different from lust. But to differenciate in a summary form. I will say
that love is a magnet that magnets its type (true love, friend). Infatuation does not last, it is only a problem of too much thinking
about the person you are infatuated of. In the sense that either he
sights you first or you did. Now what makes it a sign of infatuation is
when you think about him so much that it gets to a sexual charge
surrounding about it. Now most times the guy thinks about breaking in to the girls precious part due to much thoughts of the girl. The girl
may have a holy heart in the sense that she is expecting the guy to
make his feelings known to her so that she can respond back. But guess what even if the girl is not thinking about sex, the atmosphere of the guy gets into her and it is a "if he ask for it I will give it to him"
I wouldn't want to miss this guy and I will do what ever it takes and
then something is getting wrong.

The truth about infatuation is most times tired on conditional love. In
the sense that they both see each other often. So the guy becomes a
constant in her heart and subconcious mind. But to test infatuation,
let the girl leave that location, I tell you with time she will stop
getting used to him and then she can now differenciate. But if she does leave and keeps thinking of him it will increase.
Love is deep and if you care to know, call a spade a spade and you'll
get it. There are lots of signs to know what real love is but that will
be some day. It has been notted that most people that seem to be
matured still fall. So it shows how deep it is. I pray you get the righ
person friend.
Question two is love at first sight: Love at first sight is real but to
test its realness is when both can feel it at almost same time. Most
people have taking attractiveness and matured dressing as this is my
type and they think it is love at first sight. I hope you get what i
wrote here. Love at first sight is actually nice if you can abstain
from some certain things. It test it very well. Love at first sight
most times is tired to levels by levels and I feel its not that a valid
love completeness.
Question three says does short courtship really lead to marriage:It is not that valid except both individuals are matured about
relationships, where they can have a short courtship. With the few
times they can see what will happen at the end. But most times people
say that women or men change when they get married. Hmmm I will advice you get to know the best basic that matters to you before you get married to see those things that are not real points to end a
relationship.
You can know what he can do even in short courtship. I
will let you know another point that will help you when i speak with
you on phone.

The bottom line is that love is deep and so do not jump but crawl till
you can stand and then look well and stand well! Also infatuation is lasted bye sex making( I will talk about sex making some time). Abstain from sex from beginning till the marriage time and you sill see most will run away from you. Hahah is it hard to do? SOAR HIGH!

Have a blessed relationship friend.

2008-02-12T12:13:00.000-08:00

HAPPY VALENTINE LOVERS!

How wonderfull it is to be in love. Relationship Solutions wishes you a happy valentine.
Pjbass advices that good conduct and sensiticity be the order of the day. As we know several untruthful relationships will crop up, illegal sex and lust will rule the day...But I pra you be in the hands of your true lover. One again HAPPY VALENTINE LOVERS!

Catch your fun and let me know how your lovely val was...KISSES YO YOU ALL!

IS WHAT I AM FEELING INFATUATION OR LOVE

2008-02-12T10:57:00.000-08:00

IS WHAT I AM FEELING INFATUATION OR LOVE

There are some feelings we have when infatuated। Some of the symptoms
are feelings of uncertainty, panic, impatience, and jealousy. When
infatuated, we are thrilled but not happy because you want to trust yet
suspicious. There are lingering nagging doubts in your mind concerning
the partner you are infatuated for. You look miserable when they are
away almost like feeling being incomplete when you are not with them. I tell you it is a rush and it is intense. SOmetimes you find it
difficult to concentrate.

Infatuation relationship has a degree of sexual charge around it and
you find out that when you are with the person you are infatuated. For
you feel incomplete when you do not have a sexual encounter with them.You do not feel satisfied just because you have allowed your thinking
to go far and you think of satisfying your sexual urge.
Infatuation has become a popular model for love moments and its
misdirecting the most critical intimate choices of an enormous
sub-culture of singles।

Think about what it really means to be infatuated। Plainly the word
itself is officially defined as a kind of affection best known as
"being a fool for love".

Most of us recognize it as a state in which a person's normal ability
to think clearly and act rationally is weak.
The over result of infatuation is reduction in right mental capacity!

WILL YOU LIKE TO BE FREE FROM INFATUATION? IF SO POST YOUR CHALLENGES
OR RING ME AND I WILL POST ANSWERS OR PICK YOUR CALL.
IS WHAT YOU ARE FEELING INFATUATION OF LOVE? SOAR HIGH!

THE MISLEADING POWER OF INFATUATION

2008-02-11T12:16:00.000-08:00

THE MISLEADING POWER OF INFATUATION

The mistake most teens and youth make has been that of infatuation। Most strongly believe that they know what they are doing and bodly say they are on the right track but later on they get to have a bitter story to tell; which leaves a stigma in theit heart।Some vowe to take revenge but those who do not have the courage to do so end up with a decision of not having anything to do with the opposite sex and if they do, they have rigid approach to them which tend to lead to delay in their marital life।Let us take a look at these important words: 1)Infatuation 2)Love.(1) INFATUATION: iS a powerful but superficial feeling of love and desire. It is also a short-lived feeling of the heart. It is to affect with folly. It is a very strong feeling of superficial love or attraction for someone or something. It is powerful that a times one cannot think clearly in a sensible way when being infatuated.It does not last long. It is not love.(2) LOVE: Love is an assurance in a warmth interest for enjoyment, for good and not for bad. It is a person's adoration, admiration, and glory of God's love over one's life.It is a strong feeling of deep affections.Though a lot of people have different definition for it; I define it as laying down everything for one thing; which is : going the extra mile for the one you love.(compare the love of Christ to man)To be continued...For more of relationship advice, I will refer you t this site.

www.fandplove.blogspot.com

Q1: WHAT IS INFATUATION TO YOU?

Q2: WHAT IS LOVE TO YOU?

Q3: HAVE YOU EVER BEEN INFATUATED?

Q4: IF SO WHAT WAS YOUR SOLUTION TO IT?

Q5: GIVE ME AN ADVICE ON INFATUATION?

PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU PLACE YOUR ANSWERS ON THIS TOPIC "INFATUATION". I WILL REPLY YOUR QUESTIONS IF ANY AND ADD THE LITTLE I KNOW TO YOUR ANSWERS. THANK YOU.

2008-02-08T12:04:00.000-08:00

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WHAT IS LOVE TO YOU?

2008-02-07T07:45:00.000-08:00

What is love to you

It is nice to let you know that love is one deep and respectable need in every one's life...
Which have been misunderstood; proper guidiance and the understanding of it will be of great help to our several relationships.

What do we gain being a fool for love?

What do we gain in causing heart breakes all arround; even though 80% are ignorant of the fact that innocently they are causing this problems due to the lack of proper information in relationship.

It is deep and "deep calls for deep"

Two blind men can't lead them selves, but even if one is seeing...he will be of help to the other blind one. Coming to think of it...if both are seeing very well; it is evident that the result can not be compared with the blind or the two people that has a seeing and a blind friend.

What this means is that it is of more importance to have two matured lovers in a relationship; than to have one out of the two matured or to have both unmatured.

So what is love to you? Give your reply and I will humbly provide answers that wil satisfy your questions. If you are also into relations ships; reading from you will be of great joy and nice to me...

What is love to you once again? Till I come your way, Take Charge!