<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10880571</id><updated>2024-12-18T22:27:58.338-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Responsive to Stimuli</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10880571.post-6081627572365840827</id><published>2021-05-11T13:20:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2021-05-11T14:07:58.616-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Sharenting: You might not &quot;like&quot; the effects</title><summary type="text">For those who came of age before the internet, the right to be forgotten was an unrecognized privilege. But now that the possibility of an analog childhood has all but been erased, the question of how to reconcile a parent’s right to share content about their children online with a child’s right to develop their own digital identity has raised the eyebrows of advocates for child privacy.Parents </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/feeds/6081627572365840827/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2021/05/sharenting-you-might-not-like-effects.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/6081627572365840827'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/6081627572365840827'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2021/05/sharenting-you-might-not-like-effects.html' title='Sharenting: You might not &quot;like&quot; the effects'/><author><name>Julia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16769049703330413237</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhTI-IzsGz4g-k3xS_sSO6i228edzR8Erm9vhO8UmKHetFH4WqXKgk6YrXYxEj2SDHIzRt0vBnkBolh0hnnIMj0fw-M6cYxmPOj-mNKlKzEPYrWRqHul6xeHoLO9fa309XbTAUSg/s72-w427-h640-c/crowd+of+smartphones-gian-cescon.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10880571.post-1168947411462601416</id><published>2021-05-05T13:21:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2021-05-12T15:15:20.801-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Productivity hacks for working from home</title><summary type="text">&amp;nbsp;Get out of your pajamas and into an actual outfit, but nothing with a zipper, button or collar.

Turn on the TV, sit in front of it with your laptop and all your resources and apps open. Write one sentence per hour. Panic after 4 hours, wondering why you only have a paragraph’s worth of work.

Take regular breaks -- a quick walk around the block, work out, throw a load of laundry in while </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/feeds/1168947411462601416/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2021/05/productivity-hacks-for-working-from-home.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/1168947411462601416'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/1168947411462601416'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2021/05/productivity-hacks-for-working-from-home.html' title='Productivity hacks for working from home'/><author><name>Julia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16769049703330413237</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiFqxXvOQFXusFvaD6eojltGsJDADVNF-cz94xa6Us1c_I8TFY3QMIv8Qlw7jqS7DsLY1X-odmM6PR1HgXfvujHWfmxQYQsYnO-LkfI0TP_AsJmW20jVq2qe_YYh2tILASIC7YWQ/s72-c/working+from+home-paico-oficial.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10880571.post-6886986036149288070</id><published>2021-05-05T13:06:00.014-04:00</published><updated>2021-05-11T14:18:00.485-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Soda costs extra, but they&#39;d never know it</title><summary type="text">Being a first generation child who then becomes a parent is an interesting experience. It makes you particularly reflective about your own upbringing, mostly because as a child of immigrants, life can be pretty frugal and focused on making sure your life will never be as terrible as your parents’ life in the motherland, and quite frankly, as an “other” in the US. That manifests into the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/feeds/6886986036149288070/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2021/05/to-order-water-or-not-order-water-that.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/6886986036149288070'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/6886986036149288070'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2021/05/to-order-water-or-not-order-water-that.html' title='Soda costs extra, but they&#39;d never know it'/><author><name>Julia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16769049703330413237</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmkvsrYSOiJnqqYWC2uydns-lCH05DW8Poi8QyRN8r-AE51rGeh1o9xsGEGtZN3ov5pLRkM-hQulhsUxszxoC3V46mYRJ8U7zZnHkZ2SS3nogfC3kR5j-h0uE1pC-Pd6v3fWPG9g/s72-w427-h640-c/water+glass-laura-mitulla.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10880571.post-222485003100525192</id><published>2020-12-22T15:43:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2020-12-22T15:56:19.939-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A grief not of my own</title><summary type="text">&amp;nbsp;A very good friend&#39;s father recently passed away. This was the first time any of our inner circle of friends experienced a loss of a parent. We helped in the tangible ways we knew how: Texting/calling for updates, meal trains, gift cards, engaging our network of medical professionals. They were all deeply appreciated. We couldn&#39;t treat his illness, but we could solve for the consequential </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/feeds/222485003100525192/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2020/12/a-grief-not-of-my-own.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/222485003100525192'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/222485003100525192'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2020/12/a-grief-not-of-my-own.html' title='A grief not of my own'/><author><name>Julia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16769049703330413237</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/l2zLCCRT-nE/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10880571.post-5865302017776252402</id><published>2020-12-21T11:28:00.011-05:00</published><updated>2021-05-11T16:11:40.478-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A relationship must-have</title><summary type="text">&amp;nbsp;My husband and I have been married for several years. We once asked each other what we thought was the most important trait to look for in a partner. We both agreed it&#39;s self-awareness. If we had asked ourselves this question in our 20&#39;s, we likely would&#39;ve answered with a litany of features as if buying an iPhone or winter jacket. Even though dating apps have made filtering for a partner </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/feeds/5865302017776252402/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2020/12/via-httprudyfrancisco.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/5865302017776252402'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/5865302017776252402'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2020/12/via-httprudyfrancisco.html' title='A relationship must-have'/><author><name>Julia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16769049703330413237</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqfBz_dAdY1vl-cXNbQkbYQD5HDurkz-5RWa5XbCetrkJH6Y6zJI4Vfv0YEWsahlKBQB6y7tUt0qRM_Z0ucJDMUYnDxceQob5kfGG8cFIdoaOwARAF22qASiQixImVf7qcAnJ2og/s72-w608-h629-c/of+all+the+things_rudy+francisco.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10880571.post-9158939019255805509</id><published>2020-12-21T11:19:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2021-05-05T13:27:37.650-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A mote of dust</title><summary type="text">“Look again at that dot. That’s here. That’s home. That’s us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/feeds/9158939019255805509/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2020/12/a-mote-of-dust.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/9158939019255805509'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/10880571/posts/default/9158939019255805509'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chiulander.blogspot.com/2020/12/a-mote-of-dust.html' title='A mote of dust'/><author><name>Julia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16769049703330413237</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBBWomVFPU4UDl1qzh_xKeLqPhHtx847h4erdzUsuFHXilS2A3du1HKWmgpRxQx4HOMpfjMhs-q8twu8MsVni62-qN839Q1wv2Sv7M2H5PqSfix76lxNYWIRGM95Run1nxm4tReA/s72-w798-h531-c/max-mckinnon-c9OCWLka764-unsplash.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>