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		Comment on Using FormData to send forms with XHR as key/value pairs by Aditya		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Aditya]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2016 07:52:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi, how do you retrieve the &quot;myName&quot; key pair that is &quot;Robert&quot; data on server. we also appended that in form. But how to retrieve that?????????]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, how do you retrieve the &#8220;myName&#8221; key pair that is &#8220;Robert&#8221; data on server. we also appended that in form. But how to retrieve that?????????</p>
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		Comment on Utilizing the HTML5 File API to choose, upload, preview and see progress for multiple files by Robert Nyman		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2010/12/16/utilizing-the-html5-file-api-to-choose-upload-preview-and-see-progress-for-multiple-files/#comment-1624292</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Apr 2016 08:04:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2010/12/16/utilizing-the-html5-file-api-to-choose-upload-preview-and-see-progress-for-multiple-files/#comment-1624251&quot;&gt;BDavis&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi,

As with any HTML, you have it directly in the PHP file, and as for the JavaScript code you either include it from that file or have it inline.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2010/12/16/utilizing-the-html5-file-api-to-choose-upload-preview-and-see-progress-for-multiple-files/#comment-1624251">BDavis</a>.</p>
<p>Hi,</p>
<p>As with any HTML, you have it directly in the PHP file, and as for the JavaScript code you either include it from that file or have it inline.</p>
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		Comment on Utilizing the HTML5 File API to choose, upload, preview and see progress for multiple files by BDavis		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2010/12/16/utilizing-the-html5-file-api-to-choose-upload-preview-and-see-progress-for-multiple-files/#comment-1624251</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[BDavis]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2016 15:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Robert,  Greetings from 2016!  As a intern working on a project, how do you implement the HTML and JavaScript code to be used in a PHP file?  Do I have to import the html and JS files into my php file?  Or do I simply insert the code with the rest of it?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,  Greetings from 2016!  As a intern working on a project, how do you implement the HTML and JavaScript code to be used in a PHP file?  Do I have to import the html and JS files into my php file?  Or do I simply insert the code with the rest of it?</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Robert Nyman		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624243</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2016 09:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624222&quot;&gt;Guilherme Zühlke O&#039;Connor&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624222">Guilherme Zühlke O&#8217;Connor</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Guilherme Zühlke O'Connor		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624222</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Guilherme Zühlke O'Connor]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2016 00:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Yes!

Congratulations!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes!</p>
<p>Congratulations!</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Stuart Mendelsohn		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624207</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Stuart Mendelsohn]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2016 15:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Robert Nyman		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624184</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:50:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624039&quot;&gt;Stuart Mendelsohn&lt;/a&gt;.

Yep, definitely believe the web will play an important role for IoT.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1624039">Stuart Mendelsohn</a>.</p>
<p>Yep, definitely believe the web will play an important role for IoT.</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Stuart Mendelsohn		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Stuart Mendelsohn]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2016 19:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think we need an open semantic web standard that will identify and allow sensor data interchange between different platforms. I think the Internet of Things (IoT) will need this.

How will machines/people know what IoT devices out there can do? How can we share or link sensor platforms without a standard?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think we need an open semantic web standard that will identify and allow sensor data interchange between different platforms. I think the Internet of Things (IoT) will need this.</p>
<p>How will machines/people know what IoT devices out there can do? How can we share or link sensor platforms without a standard?</p>
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		Comment on I&#8217;m afraid of dying by Robert Nyman		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1624001</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2016 09:09:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1623979&quot;&gt;Nad&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for sharing, Nad.

For me, a number of years after this, what has helped for me at least has been focusing on other things. Friends, family, what I want to do and get out of life. Hope it works for you too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1623979">Nad</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing, Nad.</p>
<p>For me, a number of years after this, what has helped for me at least has been focusing on other things. Friends, family, what I want to do and get out of life. Hope it works for you too.</p>
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		Comment on I&#8217;m afraid of dying by Nad		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1623979</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nad]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2016 02:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Robert,

I&#039;m amazed at how your text mirrors what I feel. I am deathly afraid of dying for all the same reasons as you. It also hits me in waves, sometimes so bad that I need to stop doing whatever I am doing. I still have not figured out how to stop thinking about it, or learn how to live with the idea. Like you, I love my life, I love living, and that what makes it so hard. I cannot imagine not being here, even though I know I will probably not realize it.

I am by no means a religious person, even though I do believe in something (just not quite sure in what exactly). I don&#039;t think I believe in life after death, which makes it that much harder to think about dying...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Robert,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m amazed at how your text mirrors what I feel. I am deathly afraid of dying for all the same reasons as you. It also hits me in waves, sometimes so bad that I need to stop doing whatever I am doing. I still have not figured out how to stop thinking about it, or learn how to live with the idea. Like you, I love my life, I love living, and that what makes it so hard. I cannot imagine not being here, even though I know I will probably not realize it.</p>
<p>I am by no means a religious person, even though I do believe in something (just not quite sure in what exactly). I don&#8217;t think I believe in life after death, which makes it that much harder to think about dying&#8230;</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Robert Nyman		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1623936</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2016 07:30:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1623898&quot;&gt;Carsten Berggreen&lt;/a&gt;.

Naturally, that is ongoing work. We are looking into many ways of keeping it as fast as possible, it&#039;s one very important objective for us.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1623898">Carsten Berggreen</a>.</p>
<p>Naturally, that is ongoing work. We are looking into many ways of keeping it as fast as possible, it&#8217;s one very important objective for us.</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Robert Nyman		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1623935</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2016 07:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1623894&quot;&gt;Reegoo&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you! And yes, we need to work hard to keep that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1623894">Reegoo</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you! And yes, we need to work hard to keep that.</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Carsten Berggreen		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2016/04/06/my-new-role-at-google-returning-to-the-web/#comment-1623898</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carsten Berggreen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2016 21:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Please make Google Chrome browser less memory heavy again.
It has been my favorite browser for years, but it feels like it only runs well on really modern computers now. Especially the Android version is hungry.

I love the browser, and it&#039;s still my favorite choice, but I also use Firefox or Opera when I need many windows open.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please make Google Chrome browser less memory heavy again.<br />
It has been my favorite browser for years, but it feels like it only runs well on really modern computers now. Especially the Android version is hungry.</p>
<p>I love the browser, and it&#8217;s still my favorite choice, but I also use Firefox or Opera when I need many windows open.</p>
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		Comment on My new role at Google: returning to the web by Reegoo		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Reegoo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2016 20:37:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Plus one. We&#039;ve definitely lost something. I got attached to the idea of the open and egalitarian web platform many years ago. And I miss it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Plus one. We&#8217;ve definitely lost something. I got attached to the idea of the open and egalitarian web platform many years ago. And I miss it.</p>
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		Comment on GMDesk &#8211; run Gmail as a stand-alone application by Bob		</title>
		<link>https://robertnyman.com/2008/06/10/gmdesk-run-gmail-as-a-stand-alone-application/#comment-1622674</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bob]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Mar 2016 02:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When I use GMDeskto read my gmail, Google complains that I am using an outdated, obsolete version of Safari.  Is there any fix for that?


     .....Bob]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I use GMDeskto read my gmail, Google complains that I am using an outdated, obsolete version of Safari.  Is there any fix for that?</p>
<p>     &#8230;..Bob</p>
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		Comment on I&#8217;m afraid of dying by Robert Nyman		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2016 09:51:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1622298&quot;&gt;Leanna&lt;/a&gt;.

Interesting questions, Leanna. I believe I think a lot less about it nowadays. Now and then it hits you, but generally I&#039;m focusing more on making the most out of things. Being with my family, traveling and seeing the world, trying to be as good and kind to other people as I can.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1622298">Leanna</a>.</p>
<p>Interesting questions, Leanna. I believe I think a lot less about it nowadays. Now and then it hits you, but generally I&#8217;m focusing more on making the most out of things. Being with my family, traveling and seeing the world, trying to be as good and kind to other people as I can.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Robert Nyman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2016 09:11:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1621752&quot;&gt;John&lt;/a&gt;.

John, thanks for sharing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1621752">John</a>.</p>
<p>John, thanks for sharing!</p>
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		Comment on I&#8217;m afraid of dying by Leanna		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leanna]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2016 22:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1621752&quot;&gt;John&lt;/a&gt;.

Perfect response. Thank you John


Robert...thank you for your post and for keeping it up. Do you have a follow up to it now that it has been ten years? Has your perspective or beliefs changed? More anxiety or acceptance? It would be interesting to read how your views on death have or have not changed.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://robertnyman.com/2006/04/22/im-afraid-of-dying/#comment-1621752">John</a>.</p>
<p>Perfect response. Thank you John</p>
<p>Robert&#8230;thank you for your post and for keeping it up. Do you have a follow up to it now that it has been ten years? Has your perspective or beliefs changed? More anxiety or acceptance? It would be interesting to read how your views on death have or have not changed.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Thomas]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[Is there any way to make the space bar pause the slideshow when using slideshow screen saver in El Capitan? I was able to use the space bar to pause and the left and right arrows to scroll backwards and forwards in the slideshow before I upgraded.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there any way to make the space bar pause the slideshow when using slideshow screen saver in El Capitan? I was able to use the space bar to pause and the left and right arrows to scroll backwards and forwards in the slideshow before I upgraded.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Mar 2016 14:06:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I fully empathise with the feelings and thoughts shared at the top of this page. What follows is my best attempt to deal with this issue ... 

Suffering (physical and mental), tragedies, unkindness and death are all part of the reality of the universe that I live in. To come to grips with life, accepting it for what it is, requires coming to grips with death, suffering and injustice. This is perhaps the most difficult, and most important, of all of life’s tasks. 

There are times when I can do something to mitigate these upsetting truths and by doing this I will create and experience much satisfaction and fulfilment. Yet there are other times when such disappointing circumstances are outside of my control. However, to allow myself to worry about things which are outside of my control is to choose anxiety and this can lead to giving up on life (thus creating a far greater tragedy). 

A more helpful approach would be to accept the bitterly disappointing truths about life, while at the same time choosing to focus on all the things that I can change, rather than on the things that I cannot change. I cannot change the fact of death, but as long as I’m alive and conscious I can choose how I live. There is no purpose or value in letting my awareness of death destroy me and dishearten others. I want to maximise the value of the experience of life shared by myself and by others right now in the present time (in this way refusing to let the future steal from the present). 

I think this approach is useful and sensible, but it is not always easy to follow and to remember. I try to remind myself about the great value (to myself and others) that exists in the choices which I make. Even if this value and meaning will not continue into the future, if it matters now then it still matters! 

Even if I find myself in the worst possible circumstance or with the worst possible perspective on life, I ought to still be able to find value and meaning in my life by recognising that I have the power to take control of how I respond to the circumstance or perspective. Whatever I want to be will define the choices that I make. 

If life seems like a Nazi death camp (after all, no one is getting out alive), then what kind of prisoner am I going to be? I want to be the prisoner who is looking for a way of escape (such as by testing the trustworthiness of religious claims). Yet while there are none to be seen (which seems to be the case to me at present), I want to be the prisoner who is more concerned about helping others to be as comfortable as possible rather than being paralysed with fear. I want to play games with the children, who are somewhat oblivious to it all. I want to let laughter ring out and break the cold silence, even if only for a moment.


All I have is now		
Not the future or the past
But I’ll seize the day
And make it count
To make the good things last.

I don’t get to choose 
My beginning or my end
But my thoughts and acts 
Are always mine
To these I will attend.

My candle burns at both ends
It will not last the night
But at my feet and on my friends
It gives a wonderful light.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I fully empathise with the feelings and thoughts shared at the top of this page. What follows is my best attempt to deal with this issue &#8230; </p>
<p>Suffering (physical and mental), tragedies, unkindness and death are all part of the reality of the universe that I live in. To come to grips with life, accepting it for what it is, requires coming to grips with death, suffering and injustice. This is perhaps the most difficult, and most important, of all of life’s tasks. </p>
<p>There are times when I can do something to mitigate these upsetting truths and by doing this I will create and experience much satisfaction and fulfilment. Yet there are other times when such disappointing circumstances are outside of my control. However, to allow myself to worry about things which are outside of my control is to choose anxiety and this can lead to giving up on life (thus creating a far greater tragedy). </p>
<p>A more helpful approach would be to accept the bitterly disappointing truths about life, while at the same time choosing to focus on all the things that I can change, rather than on the things that I cannot change. I cannot change the fact of death, but as long as I’m alive and conscious I can choose how I live. There is no purpose or value in letting my awareness of death destroy me and dishearten others. I want to maximise the value of the experience of life shared by myself and by others right now in the present time (in this way refusing to let the future steal from the present). </p>
<p>I think this approach is useful and sensible, but it is not always easy to follow and to remember. I try to remind myself about the great value (to myself and others) that exists in the choices which I make. Even if this value and meaning will not continue into the future, if it matters now then it still matters! </p>
<p>Even if I find myself in the worst possible circumstance or with the worst possible perspective on life, I ought to still be able to find value and meaning in my life by recognising that I have the power to take control of how I respond to the circumstance or perspective. Whatever I want to be will define the choices that I make. </p>
<p>If life seems like a Nazi death camp (after all, no one is getting out alive), then what kind of prisoner am I going to be? I want to be the prisoner who is looking for a way of escape (such as by testing the trustworthiness of religious claims). Yet while there are none to be seen (which seems to be the case to me at present), I want to be the prisoner who is more concerned about helping others to be as comfortable as possible rather than being paralysed with fear. I want to play games with the children, who are somewhat oblivious to it all. I want to let laughter ring out and break the cold silence, even if only for a moment.</p>
<p>All I have is now<br />
Not the future or the past<br />
But I’ll seize the day<br />
And make it count<br />
To make the good things last.</p>
<p>I don’t get to choose<br />
My beginning or my end<br />
But my thoughts and acts<br />
Are always mine<br />
To these I will attend.</p>
<p>My candle burns at both ends<br />
It will not last the night<br />
But at my feet and on my friends<br />
It gives a wonderful light.</p>
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