Robyn's Rules... by robyn corum

2018-06-01T22:06:00.001-05:00

Hello, there!

Lately, I've been working on a series of "Life Lessons" -- things I've learned in my travels through this wonderful life and that I want to pass along. Of course, if you know me very well at all, you'll surely realize that there's nothing earth-shattering here. *smile* Just a few basics that I was a little slow to pick up on. It would thrill me to no end if I could help someone else cut a few corners. hahaha!

This is actually lesson #5 -- let me know if you enjoy this and I will share more.

Let's begin...

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SOMETHING TO CONSIDER:

These things happen in an instant.

In the middle of a normal day, you turn, and find one of your most prized possessions -- perhaps a plate from the set of china your great-grandmother left you -- lying in pieces on the floor. Your youngest child stands nearby with wide and terrified eyes. He's obviously guilty, but you've told him countless times not to use those plates. This is why.

And you lose it; vomiting your wrath all over the boy.

Each of us has our own set of 'hot buttons': relatively small things that tend to send us to the moon. It's so easy to lose our temper -- and then say or do things we'll regret.

But I've learned a trick for handling some of these tricky situations: Just take a breath and ask yourself a simple question -- 'How much will this matter in five years?'

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For example:
Your husband has a tendency to toss his socks on the floor instead of placing them in the hamper --

Your child typically leaves her empty drinking glass in the living room instead of taking it to the kitchen sink --

Your best friend always arrives ten minutes late for every lunch date.

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Now, you could let your emotions rule in each of the above situations -- or you can choose to just breathe and keep your perspective (and your cool.) It's certain none of these things will matter in five years' time, so shake it off. I know this may seem difficult at first - but it gets easier with practice.

Give it a try. I think you'll like the results~!

[BTW, to answer your question -- almost NOTHING matters in five years. *smile*]

Good luck!

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2017-11-27T13:23:00.002-06:00

Dear Friends and Fellow Writers,

I'm excited to announce that I've been updating my Resources Page lately. Please check it out! There's a whole new section on Flash Fiction and a bit for Poetry, as well. I will be adding more as I'm able.

If you know of a resource that should be included, let me know. You can reply here or send an email to -- robyncorum@aol.com

Here's my poetry offering of the day:

A Serpent's Tongue

A serpent’s tongue,

a wasp’s cruel sting,

a beastly wind

in fresh new Spring;

a mad dog’s growl,

a smut-filled flue:

these all remind

me oft, of you.

A bear’s sharp claws,

coyote’s teeth,

a frog’s old warts,

a rocky reef;

Thunderstorms

that scold and shoo

these all remind

me oft, of you.

You’ve left your mark,

you’ve made your stand,

tattooed me with

your evil brand.

My hope is gone,

my life is through:

and all because

I once loved you…

by robyn corum

November 21st, 2017

Thanks to Pixaby for the free artwork!

2017-08-31T15:08:00.000-05:00

DEAR FRIEND:

Soft and sweet and comfortable;

you're one of my best friends.

You offer peace and joy and rest;

my troubles, you suspend.

My children love to see you,

they light up when you're near.

We huddle close together

to chase away their fear.

My doggie jumps to kiss you,

the moment you appear.

If he loves me best--or you--

isn't quite so clear.

You take us on enchanted trips,

where nothing can compare…

It makes my heart rise up in joy

to ever see you there.

Soft and sweet and comfortable;

you're one of my best friends.

I love my bed and its so true...

can't wait to get back in!

teehee

2017-07-12T08:15:00.000-05:00

This month (July) celebrates National 'Cheer Up the Lonely' Day. What a great idea! Here is the poem I wrote to honor this occasion:

Cheer Up the Lonely

Cheer up the lonely,

offer them hope.

You may just become

their reason to cope.

Offer them love and

a hand to seek out

when swamped by waves of

fear, grief and doubt

Liven their days with

bright bits of aid,

something they’re needing

when doubt pervades.

Cheer up the lonely…

remember it’s true--

what you give to others,

they’ll give to you.

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Wherever you are and whatever you're doing, I hope that you aren't lonely. If so, here's someone who cares. Sending hugs to all!

--robyn

2016-02-16T11:58:00.000-06:00

Hello again.

Wow. You thought I had forgotten about you. But no, no. Things have been rather busy at the Corum household - and I'm sure you can all relate. And though I'm not promising to write again everyday, I did have something to share that I wrote recently in honor of the lovely weather we've been enjoying. *smile*

The photo is by a talented artist named suzannethompson2 on FanArtReview.

Pit! Pat!

Hear that?

Plip! Plop!

Wet drop.

Plunk! Splat!

Rain-chat.

*

Clack! Whack!

   Sky black.

Bang! Smack!

Thunder crack!

Winds blow –

Light show!

Rain slows

Cloud goes.

*

Predawn…

Wet lawn.

Clean street.

   Birds tweet!

Please have a super spring!

--robyn

The Learning Curve

2013-04-30T16:34:00.000-05:00

I don’t know about you, but when I was young, I couldn’t wait to grow up, get married and have a baby.

A baby. [sigh]

That image was so appealing: the freshly-soaped and powdered scent, the gurgling smiles, the naps on my tummy. I truly wanted a baby.

I never considered wanting a toddler, a preteen, or a teenager, for heaven’s sake! And I didn’t realize at the time it was a package deal. Somehow, I missed the fine print. I must have been in a baby powder haze.

My husband and I were young, and eager to get started. We had grand notions of growing up with our child, ‘being friends as well as parents.’ We planned to be kind but strict. Oh, I had it all worked out in my mind. I once saw a preschooler at a grocery store who laid in the floor, kicking and screaming at the top of his lungs, because his mom wouldn’t buy him what he wanted. “Oh, no, no,” I thought in a smug, self-righteous way. “My child will never do that.”

I was right. At least, not in a grocery store, anyway. It was in a filthy convenience store just down the street from our home. My two-year-old threw herself onto the disgusting black and white(ish) tile and proceeded to pitch a fit that would have embarrassed Dennis the Menace. I think my bottom jaw hit the floor as well.

With three kids--two girls and one boy--there was a giant learning curve to master. I had to be taught children try to kill themselves. It’s true. With forks and vans and animals and roofs, and so many other ingenious devices. I learned you spend a lot of time on your knees. And running. Someone once said, “Deciding to have a child is like deciding forever to have your heart go walking around outside of your body.” I think that sums it up rather well.

A couple of interesting highlights:

Our two-year-old daughter totaled the family van (You read correctly.)
Our sixteen-year-old daughter totaled her vehicle.
Our three-year-old son decorated the new, white carpet with blue and red permanent markers. (My fault. What was I thinking? White carpet?)
One of the children dropped the family dog off the top of the stairs to see if it would land on its feet like a cat.
One of the children painted the newly finished hardwood floors.

Fast forward twenty-six years. I don’t have babies anymore. My children are all rather large people now. But I know a lot more than when I started. Now that it doesn’t matter. [sigh]

If you’re interested, I’ll share a couple of things I’ve learned in these past, very enlightening years.

The key thing my husband and I discovered is that we’re the parents. We were not put here to be friends or buddies to our kids. They have a whole host of people, generally speaking, clamoring for that job. Unfortunately, there are only two…count them TWO…who can ever serve the roles we’ve been given. If we abdicate, it creates huge holes in a child’s life. Regardless of what they say now, regardless of what their friends’ parents are doing, your children need parents who parent.

We also learned not to train our children to disobey us. Seems strange? Yet when the kids were young, we had a habit of counting to three before unleashing our ‘wrath’. Have you ever done this? (I see heads nodding.) If you pay attention, you may notice that your child continues the negative behavior until you reach that magic number three. (And, tell the truth, have you ever found yourself saying in frustration, 'two and a halllllf'?) One day, it dawned on us we were actually giving our children an extra count of 2 or more to disobey us! After that, it was so long to counting three!

Hold onto your hats for this one: We were surprised to learn that our kids wanted discipline. I know – crazy! But the world is a big place, and it’s really nice to know where the boundaries are. Knowing there are fences can offer safety and security. As parents, we clearly laid ground rules, and shared what the consequences would be for crossing the lines. But I can remember several occasions when our children came home and admitted something to us. We were so proud of them for being open and honest, we were willing to forego the punishment. Invariably, they would remind us! 'Don’t you remember what you said?' The punishment would be meted out.

Another thing I’ve realized is that we need to let our kids learn-and-do as much as possible without our help or interference. In fact, our whole ‘job’ as a parent is to prepare them to be independent, and to no longer need us. In the book, “Sacajawea,” by Anna Lee Waldo there’s a rather harsh example of this theory.

While on the trail with Lewis and Clark, Sacajawea gave birth to a baby boy. One night, as the group sat around a large camp fire, Clark noticed the toddler easing his way toward the fire, fascinated by the flames. Clark watched carefully, waiting for the child’s mother to stop him. Though Sacajawea watched as well, she did nothing.

Finally, Clark couldn’t stand it any longer. He jumped up and shouted at Sacajawea to rescue the child before he was burned. The calm Indian woman shook her head. “If I tell him no, he will resent me and still be intrigued by the fire,” she said. “But if he touches the flames for himself, he will learn that they are hot and the lesson will be that much stronger.” (paraphrased)

Clark was dumbfounded at that reasoning, and me too, a little bit. But when I see mothers who help their children with every step, every sip, every movement, I understand the logic.

Finally, I learned that “No’s” should be precious and few. When your child asks for something, really think about it before you answer. If at all possible, say yes, especially if it means you’ll be involved in an activity with them. And when you do say No, be ready to back it up, because it’s the consistency that matters.

For example, you told little Leah that she couldn’t have a snack before supper, but while you’re in the living room watching your favorite TV show you hear her come toddling past. She’s covered in chocolate. Oops! But, your show is at the best part…and she does look so cute. You glance from the TV to Leah and from Leah to the TV. Finally, you say, “Okay, I’m going to let it slide this time, but next time, it’ll be big trouble, understand? Now, go wash your hands.” Then you make sure you throw in a stern look.

Leah just learned a big lesson. She can get away with anything when Mommy’s watching her show! Hurray! Party-time in Kid-Land!

So, choose your No’s carefully. Ask yourself: ‘Am I willing to enforce this no-matter-what?’ The good news is it won’t take long to train your kids that when you say it, you mean it. If you act on it. Every time. Without fail. (Now that’s for the moms who are starting out. Sadly, it takes a little longer to RE-train.)

Well, those are some of the highlights. Yes, parenting is a big job and a thankless job. And it often feels like that terrifying moment when a paratrooper has just been pushed out the door of a rushing airplane at ten thousand feet. But there are those moments…those heart-stopping moments when you can barely breathe because your whole body is so filled with love, joy, and pride.

It is worth it? The baby? Who becomes a teenager? Who becomes an adult? Who gets married? Who…. Oh yes. Heavens, yes. And I highly recommend it.

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What lessons have you learned in your journey as a parent? What wild experiences have you had? And what would you want a new parent to know (that perhaps you wish you had known)? Share your thoughts in the comment section. And don't forget to feed the fish!

Chatting with Author Peggy Bird

2013-01-11T22:01:00.000-06:00

Well, friends! It seems like I’ve been on a month-long hiatus! And I feel as if I’m still a bit jet-lagged from the holidays…is that a reasonable complaint? Or am I simply inventing excuses? *smile* At any rate, I’m glad to be back.

We have a special treat today. I’m excited to be hosting Peggy Bird, a Crimson Romance sister, and a very prolific writer. Although Peggy and I are only just beginning a friendship, I’ve watched her interactions with other writers for a while now and can honestly say she is a wonderful, tireless cheerleader and a never-ending source of light and inspiration. I admit I haven’t had a chance to dive into her books yet, but they are definitely on my TBR list! (If you’ve sampled them, please comment!)

Greetings, Peggy! Thanks so much for stopping by. It’s wonderful to host such an experienced writer as yourself! I know my readers – like me – are anxious to find out a few intimate, intrusive things about you, such as… what your workspace looks like…?

Actually, I have two desks and at the moment, one is tidy and one a mess. On the neat one, I have my MacBook and a cup full of pens along with my latest manuscript in two piles—already edited and to-be-edited. So far, so good, right? Take a glance at the other desk that sits at right angles to my smaller one, the one I use when I handwrite. On it I have two iPads, one iPod, a stack of books to be mailed to my Bookmooch buddies, my “to-do” pile (unattended over the holidays, it apparently reproduced and created new baby “to-dos”), and my paper calendar. Oh, and my printer. And the new ink cartridges I just bought. And the box for the new iPad. And the labeler my husband just returned. This week’s task? Clean it all up, of course.

I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one who ‘foundered’ a bit over the holly-days. You’ve helped my spirits already! Now, let’s see, one MacBook, two iPads, one iPod, and a labeler. Sounds like you’re a die-hard techie. I love it!

Can you share a favorite quote?

One of my favorite writing-related quotes is from E. L. Doctorow: “Writing is like driving a car at night. You can only see as far as the headlights, but you can make the whole trip that way.”

Brilliant! (And mighty encouraging, too.) Peggy, it’s a given that you write Romance, but do you dabble in other genres? Do you write other things besides novels?

I have written a mystery that got very good rejections from agents and editors and I have a half-finished YA (Young Adult) historical I co-wrote with a writing buddy. Both are buried someplace in my filing cabinet. I have had memoir pieces published in a dozen or more anthologies, stories in several children’s magazines and three plays produced locally, one in a grade school and two as scripts for puppets in the Kids on the Block Awareness program.

Sounds like you are equally at home in many genres. That’s great! I’m sure that adds a lot of diversity and range to your work. And I love the ‘very good rejections’ comment. Often an acceptance comes right on the heels of an encouraging rejection.

Tell me, how much of your books are based on real life?

My latest book has a number of elements of my real life. Together Again is the story of Margo Keyes, a woman born and raised in Philadelphia who moves to Portland, Oregon and never wants to leave. We share a birthplace, an addiction to sticky buns from the Reading Terminal Market and a love for Portland and the Columbia River Gorge. That’s where it stops, however. I didn’t marry my childhood friend, am not a lawyer and have never, to the best of my knowledge, met a Russian mobster.

That’s probably a blessing! What books would you say have influenced your life most?

For my novel writing, two books I read when I was young from an old box of my mother’s books were probably formative—one was Forever Amber, the other was a British romance, The Sun and the Sea. I changed the way I looked at the world after I read Guns, Germs and Steel and The Feminine Mystique. And I’m a great admirer of/believer in Karen Armstrong’s books, particularly A History of God.

What are your current projects? Can you share a little here?

I can just about see the end of my six-book series, Second Chances. The third book, Together Again, will be released on January 14^th. The fourth book is under contract with Crimson Romance. Book #5 is in the process of final editing before submission to Crimson (see question re: what’s on your workspace?) The first draft of the final book, number six, is finished. The book I’m editing is Believing Again which is, of course, a romance, but it is also the story of two people who have lost faith—in themselves, in their vocations or their loved ones. When they meet, their attraction calls into question their cynicism about life and love. It may be my favorite of the series. But then, I always say that about the one I’m working on.

You are definitely a brave soul. A six-book series! Wow. Sounds like a project that keeps you hopping! Thinking back, what do you think was the hardest part of writing your latest book?

I just finished a blog post about how hard the research was for Together Again. The story is set in Philadelphia, where both Margo, the heroine, and I were born, and Portland, where I’ve lived for most of my adult life and where Margo now lives. I know Portland’s quirks and pretensions quite well. But I haven’t lived in Philly for some time. So I did lots of research online. Took me hours. Not because the subjects were arcane or obscure. But because I kept getting sucked into the vortex that is the Internet, bouncing from one shiny object that distracted my attention to another. To justify the time I spent, I’d have to set at least two other books there!

I can so relate! I always think of the Chip and Dale cartoons…wasn’t it Dale who was always distracted by the shiny, sparkly objects? That’s definitely a danger in our line of work! *smile*

I realize you’re a prolific writer. Have you ever hated something you’ve written?

On a daily basis, some weeks, it goes with the territory. Some days, if I wind up with one decent sentence, I’m lucky. On the other hand, sometimes scenes I delete because I think they suck turn out to be not so bad after all six months down the line and, with a little revision, can be used in something else I’m writing. And I’d bet I’m not the only writer who, at a public reading of his/her work, changes a word or two because he/she realizes how much better it would be if THAT word was just different.

I agree. I’ve learned not to permanently delete any passages. It’s best to let everything ‘percolate’!

What was your last Tweet, Peggy?

I have resisted Twitter because I couldn’t handle the idea of Peggy Bird tweeting. However, I finally caved. I’m not as addicted to it as I am to Facebook and Pinterest—yet—but I can feel it coming. My last tweet was to RT (re-tweet) an announcement about Crimson Romance sister Synithia William’s newly released book Worth the Wait.

One of the things I’ve learned is that a truly blessed writer has a great support system. Who makes up Peggy Bird’s support system? What do you do when the support isn’t there?

I have the most amazing group of women friends anyone has ever been blessed with. Some of the women I’ve known for decades, others for only a few years. Some I’ve lived next door to, some I’ve worked with, others I’ve met through my art interests. In addition, my husband and I have three adult daughters between us who are as close to me as friends. I have no idea what I’d do without this fabulous group of females. I’m lucky enough never to have had that experience. They can interpret my emails and Facebook posts to know when I need cheering up or a celebration—and they provide it. They show up for readings, launch parties, birthdays, holidays or just because. We hash over books, problems, music, politics, theater, children, and health on a regular basis, in person, on the phone or electronically.

That is awesome. Sounds like you know just exactly how lucky you are!

Now, Peggy, I have some fun and unusual questions for you.

Please fill in the blanks:

If my closest friends could describe me they’d say I was smart and well read.

Don’t be surprised to find me bragging about my perfect grandchildren.

If I had a super power, it would be: the ability to make peace between people and nations.

It’s the simple things that mean the most! A “small” thing that I adore is: chocolate.

Most days I smell like clean clothes.

When I grow up, I’m going to be surprised.

You will never, EVER find me willingly in a grocery store. Except to buy more chocolate.

I want to send a Shout Out to someone special. My life is more extraordinary because of all the women friends who always have my back.

And finally, for your fans – let’s leave our readers with ways to get in touch…

Find Peggy Here:

Blog

Facebook

Twitter

Link to order Together Again: Amazon

Thanks so much for spending time with us Peggy, and for patiently answering our questions. You’ve been a great sport! Good luck with your series! --

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An Interview with Author Amanda L.V. Shalaby!

2012-12-21T13:03:00.002-06:00

Hi Amanda! Thanks for joining us today. I have lots of questions for you - let's get to them...

What does your work space look like?

Oh, it’s a terrible mess. I’m obsessed with post-its, and all the note blocks I can buy at Home Goods. It must be the influence of my historical England stories, because I love my office space to be deliciously cluttered!

Tell us 3 interesting things about you.

My Shih Tzu dog, Bella, has a larger wardrobe than I have.

I buy Clinique makeup during every Bonus Time, whether I need makeup or not (always not).

I should own stock in Smash Burger.

What is one favorite quote?

“A desk is a dangerous place from which to view the world.” – John le Carré

What inspired you to write your first book?

A dream, of course! But that little number (written when I was fourteen years old) is right where it ought to be – in a special drawer, not to see the light of day until the time comes when I can do some serious polishing! My Crimson Romance novel, Rhianna, published this year, was inspired by my very dear grandmother, Catherine M. Fisher, and would not exist but for her request. It is to her and for her.

Do you write in more than one genre?

Right now, I am enjoying writing historical romance. My current project, which is nearing completion, continues in that genre. But I have a special place in my heart for fiction with coming-of-age and loss of innocence themes. As I anticipate a much-needed break from historical romance, I plan to polish some of my unfinished works in that area.

What book are you reading now? What rating would you give it?

I’ve been re-reading the classics, even reading some for the first time. Right now, I’m enjoying Little Women, and I give it four stars!

What are your current projects? Can you share a little of that here?

Sure! Here is a short synopsis of my current project:

Audra Kingsley, a wealthy heiress, may not have seen much of the world, but she knows exactly how she wants her future to play out – and a coming out ball held at her country estate, Kingsley Manor, would suit her just fine. Her father’s wish that she be presented at St. James in London seems silly and an awful lot of trouble, since she is to marry her neighbor and childhood sweetheart, Lord Crispin Brighton.

Obligingly, she travels to King Street with her patroness, the eccentric Lady Sutherland, with the intention of returning home to her beloved as soon as the affair is completed. Unknown to Audra, Lady Sutherland is in no rush to leave London, and intends to spend the Season in town with friends and relatives – and show Audra she has more options in the suitor department than Crispin, a second son.

Thus imprisoned, and receiving no correspondence from home, Audra finds herself surrounded by few friends, and is forced to attend parties, balls and operas – all while becoming the object of a secret admirer’s obsession.

Suspense, deception and the power of true love are laced through this adventurous tale. Will Audra escape? And to what lengths will she go to return home?

What were the challenges (research, literary, psychological, and logistical) in bringing your book to life?

When I began forming the story of Rhianna, I literally knew nothing of 19th century England. I had not watched a single period movie, or read a single Jane Austen novel. I had to do years of extensive research just so I would feel comfortable writing about the period.

Do you ever experience writer's block? What do you do to overcome?

I think every writer gets writer’s block from time to time. I find the best thing for me is to walk away from the work for a while, or discuss it with a trusted companion. My mom happens to be both my “ideal reader”, to quote Stephen King, and my first critique partner. A hot cup of coffee helps, too!

Here are some "Fun Questions":

Fill in the Blanks:

I love pizza with extra cheese & sauce!

I'm always ready for a movie night with my hubby.

When I'm alone, I write, read, cook or dress up my dogs.

You'd never be able to tell, but I write novels!

If I had a halo it would be pretty straight.

If I could travel anywhere I'd be in London right now!

I can never try out for American Idol because singing is not my gift!

For your fans;

Find Me Here:

Facebook: www.Facebook.com/AmandaLVShalaby

Twitter: www.Twitter.com/AmandaShalaby

Blog: http://AmandaLVShalaby.wordpress.com

Pinterest: http://www.Pinterest.com/AmandaLVShalaby

To order the book: Crimson Romance ebooks | Amazon | B&N | iTunes

Thanks for visiting! Good luck and great sales!

Author Molly Kate Gray Visits!

2012-12-04T09:04:00.000-06:00

Hi Molly Kate! It’s wonderful to have you visit with us today. I have lots of questions for you. Let’s get to them…

What is one favorite quote?

It is not our abilities that show what we truly are...it is our choices. Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

What inspired you to write your first book?

My first “book” will never be published. My daughter had been really sad that the Harry Potter series ended. As a fun challenge for myself (and a treat for her), I wrote “my” version of what the next year would entail for the Harry Potter characters. It was simply for fun, but it showed me that I could write a novel-length story. I also learned just how much I enjoyed writing. After completing that story, I began working on original fiction.

Do you write in more than one genre?

Yes, although I’m currently only published in romantic suspense. I have a young adult romance (with a dash of paranormal) in the works. I’ve also just begun a contemporary romance that I hope to develop into a series.

How much of the book is realistic or based on real life?

Small Town Secrets is somewhat autobiographical. I hadn’t realized how much of myself I’d put into the story until my husband read it and commented on it. I knew that I found writing it to be oddly therapeutic, and I suppose that’s because I’ve seldom discussed that part of my background with others.

Are there any new authors that have grabbed your interest?

I recently finished reading Deep Autumn Heat by Elisabeth Barrett. I really loved her writing style and the small town she built as the story developed. I haven’t had a chance to read the next book in the series yet, but I really thought the first story was excellent.

If you had to do it all over again, would you change anything in your latest book?

Originally, Small Town Secrets contained an epilogue that wrapped up the story that didn’t make it in the final, published version. I wish I’d worked harder to keep that last chapter in the book, since I really miss the sense of completion the epilogue gave.

Who is your favorite author and what is it that really strikes you about his/her work?

I’m incredibly fond of Kimberly Derting’s work. I read a lot in the young adult genre, and I’m always impressed with the element of suspense she’s able to bring to her books. Also, watching Jay and Violet’s friendship evolve and change throughout the series has really been a beautiful story to read.

What was the hardest part of writing your latest book?

I started writing Fade to Black last spring. When I first began working on it, I had no idea what my summer held in store. I lost 3 family members in 6 weeks – one being my sister in law and the other was my father. Being emotionally drained really brought my writing to an unexpected halt, and then it was really difficult to get started again. Simply completing the story proved to be a huge challenge, and it was a relief when I could say that I’d finally worked through it and finished the story.

Do you have any advice for other writers?

I’d love to say that writing is easy, and while I truly enjoy bringing characters and stories to life – writing is still hard work. You’ll have times when writing flows like melted butter on hot toast, and then you’ll also hit patches where your books are developing at glacial speeds. People who are successful are those who just keep going, even when they’ve hit a difficult point in their work.

Do you write an outline before every book? Are you a plotter or a pantser?

I’ve been told I write in a kind of unique pattern. While I don’t plot my stories out completely, I do write my final chapter first. That way, I know my final destination. After the conclusion, I write the climax of the story. Then, I build my “novel journal” where I keep character sketches, pictures of actors who look similar to my characters, and photographs of buildings or other settings in the town I’m trying to build in my novel.

If you had to go to a deserted island with only five books, which ones would you take?

Little Women, The Little Princess, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, The Body Finder, and whatever story I’m reading at the time (I hate to stop a book in the middle).

Now for the Fun Stuff! Please Fill in the Blanks:

I love pizza with Italian sausage and banana peppers.

I'm always ready for pictures of Ian Somerhalder.

When I'm alone, I’m almost always plotting my next scene (or chapter) in my head.

You'd never be able to tell, but I really hate drawing attention to myself in public.

If I had a halo it would be safely tucked away somewhere, since I’d never dare to wear it (see my answer to the statement above).

If I could do anything I'd find a cure for food allergies. (It’s really sad when my kids are limited in where they can go and what they can do because they might accidentally be exposed to something they can’t eat.)

I can never visit Australia because I’m incredibly claustrophobic. (I could never stand to be on a flight that would last that long.)

Where can Fans Find you?

Website: www.mollykategray.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/MollyKateGray

Twitter: @MollyKGray

Blog: www.mollykategray.com

To order the book: Playing with Fire

Thanks so much for being here, Molly! We're wishing you success and many sales.

Thoughts on Thankfulness

2012-11-29T14:26:00.000-06:00

Today I’m writing about Thanksgiving. I know I’m tardy, but that’s not too surprising. My license plate reads, “ILBL8.” *smile*

How was your holiday? I hope it was filled with moments that will become warm memories of family and food and perhaps, football. That’s what Thanksgiving is all about in the South, at least where I come from.

We celebrated on Thanksgiving Day with a feast at my hubby’s folks.’ His ninety-one-year-old grandmother was there. I have to wonder what she thinks of the world today. It’s so different than the one she grew up in. In many ways, the world of her youth was more like the books I write – a simpler time, a less ‘sophisticated’ time, perhaps. She watched very patiently as we all glanced at our smart phones throughout the afternoon, while my daughter and niece took lots of photos for “Snapchat” and sent them off to friends, and then while we all checked our Twitter feeds for the latest news on games and players. Yes, the world has changed.

Thanksgiving is a day to spend celebrating your blessings, big and small. It seems ironic to me how our society has managed to change the day after Thanksgiving into one of the biggest shopping days of the year. Of all days, it seems that Friday might be a day to say, “No, I just realized I’m at peace with what I have. Thanks anyway.”

I know, I know – it’s about the sales – and the opportunity to get a head start on Christmas. But it just seems funny to me, juxtaposed as it is with a Day of Thanks.

In honor of the occasion, I wrote a silly poem that I want to share with you today.

Dear Lord,

On this sweet Thanksgiving Day

I bow my head low and take time to pray

For I, among all, am so richly blessed --

As You can well see by this house’s mess

I have boxes and bags that lie in piles

From my last two trips to the mercantile

Fripperies that I shall never quite use --

But I purchased them because they amused

Thanks for being so generous to me

For a credit card with no yearly fee

Now I need Your help more than before

Preparing to shop the Black Friday stores

Please give me true WISDOM and the FORESIGHT

To pick the best stores to purge at midnight

Send me the STRENGTH I'll need to see me through

When I must fight for a pair of new shoes

I’ll need ENDURANCE for this tiring day

And the host of troubles that’ll come my way

Please give me COURAGE to push to the fore

So I’ll be first shopper inside the store

Then please grant me HEALTH, don’t let me linger

I must take good care of my ten fingers

In all the bustle of this busy day

I can’t forget…

Cyber Monday is just two days away!

*smile*

However you spent your holiday, I hope it was happy and filled with family and friends. I hope you created memories to hold close in the years to come. And if you went shopping on Black Friday – I hope you found some crazy awesome deals. You’re braver than me!

Special Notes:

My historical romance, Melinda Heads West is up for Sizzling Hot Book Cover, a reader’s poll that begins Saturday morning, December 1^st, at http://www.sizzlinghotbooks.net. I’ll need all the help I can get, so PLEASE visit the website to vote and then pass the info on. Thanks!

I’ll be back on Wednesday with another Author Interview. See you then! (P.S. Don't forget to feed the fish!)

-- robyn

An Interview with Romance Author Becky Lower!

2012-11-19T18:54:00.000-06:00

Hurray!

Today, we have romance author Becky Lower visiting with us. Thanks for stopping by, Becky! I have lots of questions for you – let’s get to them. First of all, please tell our readers three interesting things about you that they might not know.

I am single and have never been married…I liked to play too much to settle down.

I know how to handle a chain saw.

I am an amateur interior decorator.

Wow~ Those are certainly interesting facts! I almost need to ask about all three, but I’ll try to stay focused. *smile* So tell me what inspired you to write your first book?

It was the fulfillment of a life-long ambition. I had just finished orchestrating a designer show-house as a fundraiser for a local arts council. I worked with fourteen different designers who each took a room and put his/her spin on it. I was fascinated by the process, so I decided to write a book about a woman who takes on an old Victorian home and renovates it to be her showroom and living quarters. After a few attempts to interest an editor, I shoved it under the bed and moved on.

Do you feel you have a specific writing style or genre?

With my historical novels, I like to take ordinary people and plunk them into events that were happening in their day--some big, like the wagon train migration, some small, like the introduction of the silk top hat and the subsequent collapse of the beaver pelt industry. Then, after I surround my characters with these events, I consider how they would react by asking myself how I would respond if placed in the same situation.

If I ran into a young black woman with a baby in an alley, and knew she was being tailed by slave mongers who wanted to return her to her plantation, would I be able to turn my back on her and walk away? Then, I transfer my response to that of my character.

I like to take a break from the heavy research involved in writing historicals by having a line of contemporary books. The baby-boomers of this world are about to rebel against every heroine being in her twenties, so my books are about the over-40 woman who is ready to move into a new phase of her life. The first one, Blame It On The Brontes, will be released in the spring by Soul Mate Publishing.

How do you come up with your titles?

The first book in the historical series, The Reluctant Debutante, was a collaborative effort between me and my best friend. When Crimson said they needed a better title for it, she and I just kept bouncing ideas off one another and came up with the title. The very next day, another person, from my critique group, suggested the very same title, so I figured it was a perfect choice. The Abolitionist's Secret was my own creation -- not the first title I had for the book, but I think it fits both Crimson's style and the book. For the contemporary, I had the title banging around in my head for a couple years, and tried several times to write a story connected to it, but could never get it to gel until I created the fractious and contentious Bronson sisters.

Where do you get your ideas?

My ideas come from all over the place. The Cotillion series was prompted by my love for Regencies, but I didn't want to have to learn about English royalty. Too time-consuming. I was watching ice skating on television one night, and the commentator was filling in the backstory on one of the lovely young ladies. He said she was planning her debutante ball, which would take place at the end of her skating season. That got me to thinking about the Debutante balls as part of American culture, and the series was on its way.

For my contemporary book, my sister drug me to a class on jewelry-making using sea glass, or ‘beach glass’, as it's referred to in Ohio. The instructor told us a poignant story about her love of collecting the glass and how it bound her family together, and I was inspired -- not to make jewelry but to write about how sea glass could bind a family together.

Do you mind telling us what book you’re reading now? What rating would you give it?

I'm struggling to get through Gone Girl right now. As my sister says, I should read these best-sellers to see what they're doing right, but I am to the point where I'm just skimming through it and can't wait for it to end. The writing is fine, but I don't care enough about either character to want to know if they live or die. I felt the same way about Fifty Shades of Grey. Hated the book, and only got one-third of the way through the first one before I gave up on it. So, to answer my sister's question of what these authors are doing right, I'd have to say they are hiring great publicists.

What are your current projects? Can you share a little of that here?

My next book to be published will be the third book in the Cotillion Ball series. It's about Basil Fitzpatrick, one of the brothers in this large family, and I truly enjoyed writing it, since it was written from his perspective. That's the first book I've written from a man's point of view, and I enjoyed sitting down every day and working on it. It's due for release in May, 2013. I just began working on Book 4, which is all about Jasmine, the other twin. It's a bit unusual for me, too, since she's the one who needs to change, not the man. I can't wait to see how it unfolds.

Do you have any advice for other writers?

Take classes on craft, enter contests, and join a critique group. Don't be afraid to let others take a look at what you're working on. Oh, and develop a thick skin.

Do you write an outline before every book ? Are you a plotter or a pantser?

I started off being a full-blown pantser, but I kept painting my characters into corners from which there was no escape. I kept hearing about Blake Snyder's book on plotting called Save The Cat. It has a simple, 15-beat outline, where you fill in the major events in your story. It's a very loose outline, but it allowed me to work the kinks out before I began to put words on the screen. I used it for the first time in my story about Basil. I outlined it and then put the outline away. Didn't look at it once as I wrote. But because I had the major points already in my head, I was able to write quickly, and get it done. I went back after I was finished and compared the outline to the actual story, and it was really close. So, I'll probably be a loose plotter from now on. I kind of like that moniker.

Okay, Becky, if you were marooned on a deserted island and could have only one of your heroes with you, which one would you choose and why?

Sigh. It would have to be Joseph, the hero from my first book in the Cotillion series. When I was a teenager, I dreamed about finding a strong, tall, muscle-bound Indian in my backyard and falling in love. Obviously, since I'm still single, it hasn't happened yet. And now that I've created my ideal man in Joseph, something tells me it's not ever going to happen.

Okay, now for some fun stuff. Please fill in the blanks:

I love pizza with pepperoni and bacon--not the Canadian kind but real, cholesterol-laden bacon.

I'm always ready for a night at the movies.

When I'm alone, I cuddle with my dog by the fire.

You'd never be able to tell, but I would love to be able to tap dance.

If I had a halo it would be bent.

If I could go back in time I'd be an outlaw.

I can never grow up because that would be boring.

Finally, where can fans find you?

Website: http://www.beckylowerauthor.com

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/becky.lower

Twitter: https://twitter.com/#!/BeckyLower1

Blog: http://beckylowerauthor.blogspot.com

Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/authorbeckyl/

To order the book: Keep checking Amazon.com. The Abolitionist's Secret should be available for pre-orders by November 26.

Thanks so much for being with us, Becky! Good luck to you and many sales!

Okay, now it's YOUR turn to ask Becky anything you want! Use the comment section and have fun! *smile*

In a Perfect World...Part II

2012-11-14T16:42:00.002-06:00

In February, I posted a small piece about life in the Perfect World. Here are a few more thoughts... Enjoy!

In a Perfect World...

You could eat all you wanted on special occasions, without the miserable, bloated feeling afterward.

Children would never have homework - so you wouldn't have to show how stupid you are.

Hair would never need cutting, coloring or styling. Great hair days, every day! (no gray!)

We'd all be fabulously rich, widely acclaimed, published authors and poets. (*smile*)

The faucet would never drip.

No one would have to take meds.

There would be no such thing as wrinkles.

Your neighbor would carry all your favorite brands of food! (For when you borrow, get it?)

Krispy Kreme donuts would be healthy. (Or -- fill in your favorite brand.)

All flowers would be perennials, and there would be no such thing as weeds!

Your scales would lie. (So would your mirror.)

You'd soon find the hair on your shirt that has been tickling you for hours!

Onions would never make you cry (and neither would your children!)

There'd be no such thing as computer viruses!

God would answer every prayer immediately.

Your bathroom would clean itself.

You really COULD earn $5000 a week from home.

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"Tag, You're It!" with me - Robyn Corum!

2012-11-10T07:35:00.002-06:00

Hey all! I’m participating in a fun round of interviews with sister authors this week! We’re all part of a dynamic campaign called, “Tag, You’re It!” I’m posting my interview questions and answers here today and at the bottom, you’ll be able to (come back and) find the links to the other girls’ interviews!

Questions for Robyn Corum for Tag – You’re It!

What is the title of your book?

Melinda Heads West

Where did the idea for the book come from?

The idea actually came from a flash fiction contest on a writing website. I created the first chapter and really liked the character of Melinda. I decided to ‘play’ with it, and more chapters followed. Soon, I was in the middle of a novel!

What genre does your book fall under?

It’s a Historical Romance/Western

Which actors would you choose to play your characters in a movie rendition?

I am so bad at this. Matt Damon as Boone, maybe, and Jennifer Lopez as Melinda. The only problem is that I don’t see Melinda as classically ‘pretty’, and her hair is always a mess!

If anyone can come up with better characters, let me know! I’d be interested to hear your ideas. *smile* (Leave them in the comments section!)

What is the one sentence synopsis of your book?

A young girl traveling across three states for a family deed finds misadventure, danger and love.

Will your book be self-published or agented?

It’s published by Crimson Romance, a division of Adams Media! It was released October 8^th, 2012. The paperback should follow in about a month.

How long did it take you to write the first draft of the manuscript?

About seventy days.

What other books within your genre would you compare your WIP (writing-in-progress)to?

I can’t think of a single book similar to the one I’m currently writing, except that it has a very loose mail-order bride plot!

Who or what inspired this book?

I have often heard about the tenements in New York City at the turn of the century. I wanted to try to capture the harsh realities of that life on paper and in a character people could relate to. “Ama” was born.

What else about your book might pique the readers’ interest?

It’s a hard story to tell. I threw myself couple of hard curves, which I can’t really share or it would give away too much. But suffice it to say that like today, the mail order ads in the 1800s didn’t tell the whole story either! *smile*

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Here are some ways to catch up with Robyn after the interview:

To purchase Melinda Heads West: Melinda-Heads-West

Authors Den: authorsden

Pinterest: pinterest.com/robyncorum

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/pub/robyn-corum

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/MelindaHeadsWest

Twitter: @robyncorum

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Here are the links to other authors participating in the Tag- You're It! Fun:

Suzanne Barrett      Molly Kate Gray

Galen Rose       Pam B. Morris     Susan Blexrud

Nancy Loyan       Shelly K. Wall        Traci McDonald

Tara Mills

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Thanks so much! robyn

An Interview With Galen Rose!

2012-11-07T08:17:00.000-06:00

Hi Galen! I’m so happy to have you visiting with us today! Thanks for taking the time out of your busy schedule to answer a few quick questions. Let’s get right to it:

Can you tell us what your work space looks like?

Hi, Robyn! Right now, my workspace is a mess. I’m not sure what happened because last week it was clear. Can I blame my cats?

Sure! *smile* What do you think are the best and worst parts of being a writer for you?

The best part is seeing people reading your work. Having them tell you how much they enjoyed it and ask when the next book is coming out.

The worst part for me, is the promo. I don’t enjoy it and find it tends to get in the way of writing.

Yes, I’m learning that the marketing side of things isn’t nearly as much fun as the writing! Do you have a specific writing style?

I like writing in first person. I know it is not everyone’s cup of tea, especially in romance, but I feel I can get inside the head of the main characters that way.

That’s so unusual! Makes me want to read your book even more! Please tell us how you came up with the title for A Place to Rest My Heart.

For most of the time while writing A Place to Rest My Heart, the title was ‘Laney’s Law’. But at the end that title made it sound more like a western theme. I had to think about what my main character wanted most in life, and that was a place for her to truly allow herself to love and trust someone.

Where do you get your ideas?

I watch people all the time. Then I throw in what-if scenarios and go from there. The idea for A Place to Rest My Heart just popped into my head on a long drive and then would not leave my head, so I had to write it down. At the time I had no idea a novel was being born.

Do you read much? If so, what book are you reading now and what rating would you give it?

Lately, I have been reading a lot of Carla Neggers books and Catherine Coulter. They are both five-star writers and I really enjoy their characters.

Are there any new authors that have garnered your interest?

Nikkie Locke, I really enjoyed Unbound and can’t wait for more.

What are you working on now? Can you share a little of it here?
I am working on two projects right now. One is a left-at-the-altar adventure in Maui and the other is set in Washington about a woman who has not left her house in years and the man who helps her take that first step to love.

They both sound like something worth exploring! Do you ever experience writer's block? What do you do to overcome?
Writer’s block is my arch-enemy, and it is a sneaky one too. To overcome it, I make myself step away from the project and do something that requires some manual labor. And if that doesn’t work, I head to the beach and take a long walk.

One last question, Galen: What advice do you have to help other authors improve their writing?
Take advantage of all that RWA has to offer with writing classes, read your genre and don’t hesitate to work with a critique partner.

I know readers will want to find you and your book, A Place to Rest My Heart. Can you leave us information on that?

Blog: http://www.galenrose.com

Facebook: http://www.galenrose.com

Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/galnrose/

To order A Place to Rest My Heart:

Kindle: www.amazon.com/Place-Rest-My-Heart-

Amazon: www.amazon.com/Place-Rest-My-Heart

B&N: www.barnesandnoble.com/w/a-place-to-rest-my-heart-

Thanks again for spending time with us, Galen. Good luck with your new projects and with your marketing!

To our readers, what project are YOU currently working on? Can you share a little of it here? Or if you’ve read Galen’s book, tell us what you thought of it, please. Thanks!

Romance Novel Love vs. Real Life Love

2012-10-31T10:05:00.000-05:00

- Photo coutesy of Gregory Jordan-

What’s the difference between real love and romance-story love?

I’ve been thinking lately. I like to write romance novels. But I’d much rather live out my own life than the lives of my characters, as much as I enjoy ‘visiting’ their times. A sweeping, life-altering romance is exhausting, to tell the truth.

What’s wonderful is when the romance turns comfortable. The fire still burns, as hot as ever at times, but it doesn’t have to be tended every moment. You don’t have to worry about the tedious little things that trouble you when the romance is new.

Does he love me? Yes or No? Up or Down? Left or Right?

He loves me. I know it. If we get into a serious discussion, I don’t have to worry he will slam out the door and leave for good. He’s mine. Forever. That’s a remarkable feeling. Even when I put on a couple of pounds and start to feel the effects of gravity, I know that he’ll be there.

Can I say what’s on my mind?

With a new romance, you tiptoe. When my husband and I were first married, I would get upset and hold things in. He convinced me it was better for our marriage to express what I felt right when the situation occurred instead of letting things fester. Now we solve issues right away, and stay happier. Note: We are always careful to use loving words, and we never scream or blame -- but keeping the air clear is a big help.

But romance-books make it seem so appealing!

That’s because they are created by writers! Who write about idealized situations. The perfect scenario --which never exists in real life. If you’re looking for romance-book love, you’ll probably be disappointed. And/or exhausted. *smile*

Here’s to real love – and Happily Ever After!

For today's offering, I thought it fitting that I share a love poem (written in honor of our 20 years together):

~ A Love Story ~

On this day...but even more-
Every day of our double-score -
Written sweet on vellum page
A love to last for endless age

Light and delicate, even strokes
Prove we're blessed beyond average folks
Sweeping lines and lilting phrase
Captures our romantic days

The tale continues, and evermore
It's you I'll love, excite, adore
The page grows long, the ink still runs
Our simple story just begun

My Prince, I thought, when we first met
But then I hardly knew you yet
My Prince and more, you've proved to be
You've made a Princess out of me

by robyn corum

2/13/2012

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Leave a comment and tell me what's YOUR favorite thing about romance-novel love!

Various and Sundry

2012-10-27T13:52:00.000-05:00

Doing a new dance…?

Where has the time gone?! I stay so busy these days…and I’m sure you can relate. The world is spinning faster, don’t you think? Or is it only me that stays a bit left of center and off-balanced?

I’m diligently working on the marketing portion of Melinda Heads West and churning out at least one thousand words a day for my new book, ‘Ama.‘ I’m keeping my nose to the grindstone/keyboard/internet. *smile* But, in doing so, I’m finding the most remarkable things! And of course, I want to share! Let me give you a brief run down on some of the goodies I’ve discovered:

The Page 99 Test – “One Page of a Book. One Moment to Grab You”

You’ll find Page 99 at: http://page99test.com/index.php A free site, it’s been created to let authors post a sample of their book for the reading audience -- page 99, to be exact. The randomness is what makes it so brilliant and so fun. Readers get true, inside, look at a book!

I highly recommend it for readers and authors!

The Food Timeline -FAQs: 19th century American foodways

You’ll find this at: http://www.foodtimeline.org/foodpioneer.html#popularbrands

It’s a site devoted to food! A timeline of what was eaten and how it was prepared, from chuck wagons to Victorian dining. Whether you’re just flipping through or doing research for a project, this website delights and entertains.

The NANOWRIMO – November is National Novel Writing Month!

Do you have a great idea for a novel, but have been putting off the writing of it? Well, Nanowrimo may be just for you! http://www.nanowrimo.org/ It’s when writers of all genres get together to work on completing those manuscripts – in one month! The goal is 50,000 words in one month, or an average of 1500-1600 words a day. Can you do it? Sure you can! And the prizes and rewards are awesome! Check it out!

A special shout out to Ashlyn Mathews for the author interview this week!

And thanks to all of you for dropping by. Please visit my other tabs for lots of extra cool stuff! And remember that I add stuff almost daily! Have a great week!

Today’s offering is a poem I wrote a little while back when I was having one of THOSE days. I’d like to share it with you. Hope you enjoy!

Keep On Keeping On

It's one of those hazy days
It's one of those hazy days
When no one seems to care
Things are going wrong
And lots of tempers flare

You need to take a break
You need someone to call
But you haven't got the time
And you're up against the wall

Remember these few words
Say them nice and slow
"Hey! Hang in there, girl ~
'cause you're a dynamo!"

No matter what the odds
You can pull it through...
Remember that there's folks
Who still believe in you!

You're stronger than you think,
And braver than you know,
And somewhere deep inside
You've got that inner glow!

So keep that fight alive ~
You're never quite alone...
You'll always win the day
So keep on keeping on!

- by robyn corum

9/1/2012

God bless !! Til next time, robyn

Author Visit: ASHLYN MATHEWS

2012-10-24T08:44:00.000-05:00

I'm excited to share something new with you today. I'm interviewing Ashlyn Mathews! She's a sister author at Crimson Romance and she's agreed to take a minute and answer some questions for us today! She has two books, one of which, Shadow Watcher, is available now. The other, If Only, will be available in December. And, of course, she's busy at work on another! (Or two!)

Hi Ashlyn! It's great to have you with us today!

Hi Robyn, thank you for having me on your blog. I feel special to be your first guest J.

Please make yourself comfortable. Then, if you will, tell us three interesting things about you.

I’m actually a very boring person, so here goes. I love to watch Japanese Anime. In a past life, I was an ER/trauma nurse. I absolutely love roses, and my favorite is the Blue Girl.

What is one of your favorite quotes?

“Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise,” by Victor Hugo from Les Miserables. This is one of my favorite quotes because when I rewrote and revised Shadow Watcher, the quote spoke to me. No matter how much our characters misbehave or give us the silent treatment, the dark moments do end and a new day begins. BTW, this works in my non-writing life too, lol.

It's funny how our characters can come to life in our minds, isn't it - and take on certain irritating characteristics!

What do you think is the best and worst part of being a writer?

The best part is all the stories in my head that I would love to put on paper. The worst part? Not having the time to write. I have four active young boys and a very involved husband plus a full-time job. Our weekends are filled with soccer games while week days are practices and school work.

Sounds like you are are busy lady!

Do you have a favorite resource site you can share?

I wouldn’t say a site, but my two RWA (Romance Writers of America) chapter groups, the Greater Seattle RWA and Rose City RWA’s yahoo loops, are my favorite resources. They’ve been a wealth of information. That’s how I found my current publisher, Crimson Romance!

Do you have a specific writing style or genre?

Currently I write paranormal and contemporary romance. I love to world-build and stretch my imagination with paranormals while contemporary gives me an outlet for the angst I went through during my high school years – the insecurities, wondering if I’d find the right guy, searching for who or what I wanted to be, and learning how to live and interact in the real world. That’s why the heroines in my contemporaries will be in their early twenties.

Do you write other things besides novels?

Aside from posts on my blog, no.

How did you come up with your title?

Shadow Watcher is the name of the supernatural fighters in my paranormal romance. Since this is the first book in a series, I felt the title was appropriate to introduce the series. Each book will have a different couple searching for their happily-ever-after while the world-building from the previous book remains the same.

Is there a message in your novel that you want readers to grasp?

My message for Shadow Watcher is that greater good should prevail, even over love, when one is born to protect the weak from the strong ,while a compromise between parties can lead to a happily-ever-after. In the end, my heroine chooses to stick with her duty to protect humans from demons for the greater good of mankind while my hero chooses to compromise. By compromising, he gets his woman (my stubborn, noble heroine), and they live happily-ever-after.

That sounds awesome!

What are your current projects? Can you share a little of those here?

My current project is the second book in my Shadow Watcher series. It’s entitled 'Echo UnMarked' and is still in the early stages. I’ll also be starting on another contemporary novella as part of my Willowbrook (a small fictional town in Oregon) series.

Here's a strange question. If you had to do it all over again, would you change anything in your latest book?

I’d make my contemporary novella, If Only, longer and with more hot sex scenes. If Only releases December 3^rd. An excerpt is available on my blog along with a piece from 'Echo UnMarked'.

Last question. There will be a lot of writers reading this. Do you have any advice for them?

My advice is to never doubt yourself or let others’ doubts in you get you down. Surround yourself with people who have your best interests at heart, and if you work hard enough and seek the answers rather than waiting for the answers to come to you, then you will realize your dreams of becoming an author.

Thanks so much for stopping by, Ashlyn! If people want more information, where should they look?

Feel free to stalk me at the following sites. J

Blog: www.ashlynmathews.com

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/ashlynmathewsauthor

Twitter: @ashlynmathews

I’m also on Pinterest and Goodreads. On Pinterest, check out my Happily Ever After models. The men and women pinned are my inspiration for my characters. I also have two boards titled Fairy Tales and Fast Rides. The title says it all .

Thank you Robyn!

Have a great day, Ashlyn! Happy writing -- and much success with all of your books!

robyn

~ Ashlyn is currently hosting a contest for

FREE BOOKS on her blog! ~

** Check it out! **

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Learning I Have a Lot to Learn...

2012-10-19T09:56:00.000-05:00

LEARNING and GROWING!

Well, I’m getting a fast lesson in marketing with the release of my ebook, Melinda Heads West! Did you know that when you purchase a book at Amazon there are all kinds of things you can do to help ensure the author’s success while you’re there? It’s true!

Near the title of the book, there’s a ‘Like’ button, similar to the one on Facebook. By clicking it you help advance that item up the charts when people are doing searches. Encourage your friends to do the same.

Next, waaayyy down at the bottom of the page are ‘tags’. By clicking on the tags you think correspond to the book you again help it move up the ranks. It’s amazing how these little things add up!

And reviews are so important. Even 10-20 words, in your own everyday speech do wonders! – Don’t be intimidated by those folk who write the equivalent of a novel! People who are considering buying a book are more likely to read the smaller chunks of writing anyway!

HOW ARE SALES?

People keep asking me how sales are going, and to tell the truth, I have no idea. If I counted the actual people who have TOLD me they’ve purchased books, I would say there have been about 50 sold! But I hope there’s been more than that. It’s a scary thing. I just have to post notices on Facebook, send a few emails, and then sit back and cross my fingers. I’m not too good at that! *smile*

How’s NEW YORK, Robyn?

In the meantime, I’ve been spending a great deal of time in New York, at least in my mind. That’s where my newest book takes place. And I love it! I’ve been doing so much research! You know, a historical romance takes a ton of work. For the last few chapters, it seems like I’ve researched two days for each paragraph of writing! But in the end, I hope it will be worth it. I love to read a book and learn something at the same time, and I hope my readers will feel the same way…of course, that is, if I’m lucky enough to get “Ama” published.

It’s the story of a girl who grows up in the tenements of New York with her younger stepbrother and stepsister. Their life is not pretty. It’s the late 1800s and times are hard. Living conditions are barely tolerable. Most of us can’t imagine an existence like this.

I’ll keep you posted on the story line. From the reviews I’ve had so far, it has potential. I just have to do the story the justice it deserves.

Until next time -- I'm going to leave you with a 'thinking poem' I wrote recently called,

Faith in the Fall

does that one falling leaf
look back?

or does it rejoice
in the experience of
the fall?

exhilarating
in the twists and turns
of its new journey?

does it pine
for lost aquaintances?

or reach out to earth
where millions of new
friends await?

does it mourn what was?

or see what will be?

- robyn corum

10/12/2012

Thanks for stopping by! Please leave a comment to let me know you were here. Tell me what YOUR favorite part of Fall is.

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Make it a great day!

A Crazy, Blessed Week!

2012-10-12T19:43:00.000-05:00

WHAT A WEEK!

This week has been hectic but wonderful. It's official, my cup of blessings runneth over. This past Monday, my historical romance, Melinda Heads West, finally debuted in e-format with Amazon, iTunes and other vendors.

To mark the event, Monday morning I planned to have a very small group of women (4) to my home to share the moment as I downloaded my own copy. Hurray! Then we took turns reading through several of the short chapters. I offered the ladies a delightful (catered) lunch on a rose-laden table with flowers fresh-picked from my garden -- and then forced them to listen a bit more as I read them the first five chapters of the novel I am currently working on. To me, it was a heavenly way to spend a couple of hours! I imagine my friends (DEAR friends) could have found something more productive to do. But…that’s what good friends are for. Right?

The ‘celebration’ continued Monday night!

My eldest daughter planned a little ‘get-together’ with a few friends in honor of the book release and my birthday. (It was a big one. My 50^th birthday was on Wednesday, October 10^th). The ‘theme’ was mixed and fun: “Melinda Heads West and Robyn Heads Over the Hill!”

The cake, as you can see in the picture, was amazing! It looked EXACTLY like a book – my book! As a matter of fact, one of my guests tried to open it and only found their mistake when they got a bit of icing on them!

Once again – my dear friends (some of them were the same from the morning! EEK!) allowed me to read them a few sample chapters from the book. Am I blessed with good friends, or what?

A local celebrity! - ME! -

On Wednesday, my birthday, an article appeared in our local newspaper featuring yours truly. (I’m afraid I’m going to be a sad case next week when no one is paying any attention to me! *smile*) It spoke about Melinda and the poetry book that’s due out in November,entitled, Pieces of Her Mind. More information about it follows. It was a great article.

Whew! What a week!

A definite distraction …

On October 1^st, I started a new book project that I’m really excited about. It’s features a young woman named Ama who ends up being a mail order bride. Her story starts out in the gritty tenements of 1870’s New York City. It’s not a pretty beginning. It’s a tough story to put into words and I really want to tell it well. I’ve entered a contest to write 50,000 of the words in 50 days! That's an average of 1,000 words a day, and needless to say, this week has put me off my mark. With all the hoopla and carryings-on – I’m 5,000 words behind schedule! UGH. That will mean several days of doubling up, but it can be done.

Wish me luck, please!

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For more information on Melinda Heads West, my newly released e-book, please check out the following:

For “Look Inside”/Reviews/Ordering info:

http://www.amazon.com/Melinda-Heads-West-ebook/dp/B009979330/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1350085930&sr=1-1&keywords=melinda+heads+west

For my Facebook Fan page about the book, where you can WIN a FREE BOOK or GREAT WESTERN JEWELRY:

http://www.facebook.com/MelindaHeadsWest?ref=hl

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For more information about Pieces of Her Mind, the poetry book dedicated to Japanese short-form poetry written with seventeen other women-poets, please check out the following:

http://www.facebook.com/PiecesofHerMind

http://www.missy-piecesofhermind.blogspot.com

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Please notice that I've added more 'idea' and prompt links, so we should never be without ideas for our writing!

I know today is a long post, but if you'll indulge me, I felt that the following poem was appropriate for this 'colorful,' extraordinary week. May God bless you as you follow your dreams!

My Life in Color

It’s time to live my life in color!
No more washed out black and white ~
I long for bold and vivid brushstrokes...
That can’t fail to bring delight.

I want a grand and massive canvas -
I want to cover it with paint!
I’m tired of timid, pastel palettes,
And there’ll be no more restraint...

I’m tired of hiding in the shadows --
So I’m stepping in the light,
Where the blues and greens and yellows
Entertain, tease and excite ~

So I’ll do away with sepia -
Say goodbye to puce and rust!
It’s time to live my life in color!
- My new life, full and robust -

--by robyn corum, 8/31/2012

(Leave a comment and tell me what your most immediate dream is right now! I'm crossing my fingers for you!) And don't forget to feed the fishes! Make it a great day! robyn

2012-09-18T09:49:00.002-05:00

Hi Friends! I have something really special to tell you about today....Coupons and Free stuff! What do we like better than that? Okay, well, there's a couple of things...like chocolate and romance novels (hint, hint), but that's for another time.

I have a friend who's a member of a consumer testing panel. She gets to review new products and tell the public what she really thinks about them. And her readers reap the rewards! She includes details about coupons and (intermittent) goodies in her posts!

Here is the website:
http://bzzingworld-wide.blogspot.com/
I will make a permanent link to it here for you, but run over now and check it out. She's giving away THREE sets of Glade fragrance for the home! But hurry, once word gets out, the competition will be fierce!

Enjoy!

Please let me know if you can relate to my poetry offering for today…

Five O’Clock Freeway!

Five o’clock freeway:

tempers and tires.

Drivers whose patience…

is stretched to the wire.

Darting twixt Dodges

—a new “car” roulette—

‘cause meetings and schedules

all have to be met.

Tense hands strum a gearshift

while rocking to Kiss!

Now, who remains sane

when living like this?

Please have a great week. Stay safe. Don't forget to sign up for my email list (at the top, under the magnolia branch) or sign up to "Follow" so you'll receive each message. And remember to FEED the FISHIES!! Thanks! *smile*

2012-09-14T09:10:00.000-05:00

~ ~ TA-DA! ~ ~

Well, it's here... Crimson has released the cover of my book! Melinda is due out (in ebook) on October 8th. I still can't believe it's happening...but from the looks of things, it's real. *smile* There seems to be a book with MY name on it being manufactured. Though you have to look pretty hard to find that name. (heehee) Have you ever noticed that as a writer gains in popularity, his name grows on the cover of his books? You haven't? Well, next time you have the chance, check out the latest John Grisham book, for example. You might be surprised to notice that his name is ALWAYS larger than the title of the book! (Because it's what 'sells.') The title of the book - and the art (which is pretty nonexistent at this point) matter little at all. It's the Grisham name that does the work.

But it makes no difference to me. My name is on there, and it's a challenge to see how big it will be on the next cover. *smile* One baby step at a time.

Please celebrate with me! If you're a writer, let me know whether you've experienced this part of the journey, or if it's still an expectation. Have faith - if it can happen to me...it can happen to YOU!

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Today's offering is a fun one.

The Common Sense Rules for Life.

Enjoy....and OBEY!!!

A- ct like a grown-up.

B- elieve in Something bigger than you.

C- all your Mother.

D- o not lie.

E- at your veggies.

F- ollow your conscience.

G- row a little - in some way - every day.

H- onor your name.

I- nvest in a child.

J- ust put the buggy back, already!

K- eep love alive.

L- ive in the moment.

M- ake people laugh!

N- ever stop dreaming.

O- riginals welcome!

P- ress on.

Q- uit using excuses.

R- emember one good joke.

S- top and smell the flowers.

T- ry harder next time.

U- se your noggin.

V- alue the elderly.

W- hining is not allowed.

X- tend grace and be willing to accept it.

Y- ield good fruit.

Z- ap hate!

Thanks for reading! Please make it a great day!

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Oh, yeah - and PLEASE don't forget to feed the fishies! They get hungry!! Thanks! Leave me a note so I'll know you stopped by --

robyn

2012-08-27T10:30:00.001-05:00

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT CHALLENGES?

I know, you're thinking not now! School just started back and I can't even begin to consider adding something new to my schedule. But perhaps this is exactly when you should do it.

While we're trying to adjust to routines and schedules and a clock demanding our attention again, it's easy to let our writing time get the worst end of the deal. Allowing whatever hurried thoughts we scribble on paper napkins, the back of a cereal box or our child's forehead suffice as quality writing or journaling time in our scramble to fix lunches, help with homework and get everyone to their respective appointments. Before you know it, that great idea is being washed off in a first period classroom, and you're left clueless. (An extreme example, but is it so far from the truth?) *smile*

I have a treat for you! Join me in taking the

27 Days Self-Discovery
Journaling Challenge

by Mari L McCarthy

We'll let someone else lead us by the hand through an amazing journey of discovery AND make sure we squeeze in time to write each day! What could be better? I've heard and seen rave reviews of this program, so I'm willing to give it a go. And you know they say it just takes 27 days to make a habit, so...whaddya say? Are you willing to try it with me?

While you're at Mari's website, (here: http://www.createwritenow.com/) be sure to check out the other FREE items she offers for new friends, like ebook chaps, Journaling Tips, Writing Prompts and Ideas - priceless! September 3rd, here I come!

Let me know if you plan to participate, so we can encourage each other! BONUS: I have a great inspirational file from Creative Writing Now that I'll pass along to anyone who contacts me and says they'll take the challenge. It's called "Photo Prompts With Secrets," and is filled with delightfully mysterious, thought-provoking writing prompts.

Today's selection from my portfolio is one you can share with the kiddies. I hope you enjoy! Remember to make it a great day!! (You're in charge!)

Special Me!

I can't do what the bumblebee does
But I'm special just the same
I can't flutter or fly or softly buzz
But the Lord God knows my name

I'm not strong like the elephant
That roams in the tall, tall grass
But the Lord God thinks I'm relevant
And draws close each time I pass

I'm not as tall as a giraffe's brown nose
And I'm not so lovely to see
But the Lord God hears and always knows
I'm special because I'm me!

And hey! Don't forget to feed the fishies! They get hungry down there..... *smile*

2012-08-24T16:38:00.000-05:00

NO EXCUSES !!  heehee

After I completed my book, Melinda Heads West, I found that I had actually worn the printing off several of the keys on my poor keyboard. I couldn't tell my 'o' from my 'i' any more! You'd think that wouldn't make a difference, but believe me, it did. When I went to the store to buy a new keyboard, what did I find? A hot pink, jeweled version -- and it just screamed my name!

So now when I'm at my keyboard, I'm inspired in a whole different way than ever before. I highly recommend it. The cost was reasonable (Hobby Lobby, $30.) And it makes typing even more of a pleasure ~   They have matching desk items to go along: pencil holders, calculators, scissors, etc.   --- No, I was strong. I didn't purchase any of those...yet.

Today, I have been suffering the after-effects of a migraine, so I thought I'd share one of my more tongue-in-cheek pieces with you. Hope you enjoy. Please remember to Make it a Great Day -- you're in charge!

The Art of Over-Reaction

It's never too early -- or too late -- to learn to over react.

Take steps to hone your skills or you will soon be left behind in this ever-advancing, impatient population. Here are a few quick tips:

Never get all the facts. Always assume you understand every situation exactly as you see it.

Expect the worst. Never let positive attitudes undermine your over reaction.

Jump to conclusions.

Always speak before you think. Your friends and family expect this.

Never completely trust anyone, including your husband, friends or children. Many wonderful opportunities to over react have been lost in this way.

Marry someone who over reacts. Make sure in every situation one of you over reacts. You may take turns if you like.

Finally, teach your children to over react. Someone must carry on the tradition

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2012-08-20T14:04:00.005-05:00

Hello blog, old friend.

My goodness -- There's been so much going on lately I've been very neglectful. It seems my upcoming books and new facebook pages have been demanding too much of my time. Nope - those are just excuses. I'll do better, I promise.

Let me catch you up.

My historical romance/western, "Melinda Heads West", is set to be released as an e-book on October 8th, 2012. A POD (print-on-demand) paperback will follow, but I'm not quite sure of the date (rats!).   The story follows a young woman (Melinda) who travels from Mississippi to Kansas to pick up a family deed. Trouble with a capital "T" nips at her heels the whole way. Lucky for her she makes the acquaintance of two 'gentlemen' to help see her through the dangers. One is tall and blond (Lucas), and one is tall and dark (Boone). Poor Mindy struggles to decide which man will win her heart...though Boone is married. Or is he?

I am blessed to say I have a second book coming out in November! It is a collaboration with 17 other poets and is a collection of Japanese short-form poetry. (senryu, kyoka and haiga)   It is FABULOUS and I am honored to be in such esteemed company! I can't wait to share it with the world!

In trying to prepare for the release of the books, my editor told me to find people to write endorsements/blurbs for the book cover. Little did she know what a firestorm she would create. I've been writing, emailing and calling everyone I can think of! Starting with my favorite writers, of course -- why not shoot for the best, right? All they can say is no and I haven't died from one of those, yet.

Imagine my surprise and shock when I received a return phone call last night from one of my favorite authors, Lavyrle Spencer!  She kindly informed me that although she no longer read manuscripts or participated in the book industry in any way, she would be happy to share a few of her best writing tips with me, a beginning writer - IF I WAS INTERESTED.   I barely managed a garbled yes through my tears.   What followed was probably some of the most gracious few minutes I've experienced, while Mrs. Spencer shared some fab tips she had learned in the trenches. And yes, they are now CLEARLY printed and posted above my writing area where I can see them at all times.

This has been an adventure of the best sort. While it has included some of the things I expected and looked forward to, the odd and unusual rabbit trails that have popped up have made the journey even more thrilling.

It's been a happy day, so I'll close with a happy poem, if you don't mind.

What makes me happy? Let me say:
Watching children hard at play

Blowing bubbles in the air
Going to a county fair

Little pups that fall and run
Lying in the summer sun

Stealing kisses from Granddad
Four-leaf-clovers make me glad

Pushing children on a swing
Seeing the first flower of spring
Christmas gifts under a tree
(The biggest one marked for me!)

Canoeing down a river stream
Having the best sort of dream

Getting the last slice of pie
Fireworks glowing in July

Best friends who will see me through
Spending extra time with you

What makes me happy? Let me say:
Another day just like today!

Thanks so much for reading. I hope YOUR day is inspirational, and that you have steamy, dreamy nights!

robyn

photo credit: geishaboy

To You, Dad

2012-07-14T16:24:00.003-05:00

THERE'S SOMETHING ABOUT A DAD...

Don't get me wrong...little girls love their mommies. When they're hurt and need a Band-Aid, they'll run to mom. When they need a new dress, they'll run to mom. When they have exciting news about that boy in second period, they may run to mom. But do not misunderstand. It's dad that makes the world go 'round. When dad says 'you look nice tonight', THAT'S what puts the warm glow in a little girl's heart.

Never, never, never underestimate the power of a father's influence. Never think it is trivial to the rest of her life, no matter how she acts or what she says. Never think it's unimportant. And never, never, never think it's too late.

You must become involved in your daughter's life. You need to know who her friends are and where she goes. You need to tell her how you feel about her actions, and spend time talking to her about consequences. It WILL make a difference. Take the time to find common ground. It's not an easy thing to do, but parenting isn't for cowards, and your little girl is worth it. Besides you'll enjoy the view from the pedestal.

Some ideas:
Text her. Phone her. Take her out to lunch. Take her to work with you. Go fishing. Go to the movies. Let her practice driving. Have a picnic. Play cards. Text her. Write her a note. Play chess. Go bowling. Go for a hike. Go to a museum. Have a movie night at home with popcorn. Play board games. Take funny pictures together. Text her!

Good luck, Dad. You won't regret it.

Thanks for reading. If you like what you see, please insert your email address in the box above (just below the dogwood photo) so you won't miss a post. Make it a great day! ~ robyn