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New Roxy Harte Blog

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Tue, 11 Sep 2018 21:51:00 -0700

As I look at moving into 2019... it's time to centralize all things Roxy Harte and the easiest way for me to do that was to figure out WordPress...

After months of toying and tinkering...
www.roxyharte.com is functioning as well as it's going to until I learn how to use all it's bells and whistles.

The blog is the upper right Tab titled Thoughts, Updates, What's New

Eventually (it's a work in progress) all of my books will be available through the site under the tab far left tab titled Book Table

I hope you will stop by and give the new site a try and as always feel free to contact me through any of my social media links or email me at roxyharte at gmail dot com to let me know what you love/hate about my new home base...

Van Zant Sibling Alexandra Book 2 Now Available

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Wed, 18 Jul 2018 11:18:00 -0700

Alexandra Van Zant Book 2 is now available.
#NewRelease #KU #KickAssHeroine

A dangerous foe, multiple super-sexy temptations, and a president with an agenda are a few of the consequences caused by the big mistake.

A madman planning an Extinction Event wants geneticist, Alexandra Van Zant, to help him usher in a new era in earth’s history, where humans are the endangered species. And he will kill every single person she cares about to gain her cooperation. With the body count climbing, Alexandra’s betrothed Patrick “Gabe” Gowan asks his Irish pub’s co-owners to be her bodyguards, only slightly awkward since the four’s sex tape is still trending on social media. Faced with three hot men guarding her body day and night, this sexual novice is completely unaware two are skilled dominants hoping to tame her, and one is a submissive hoping she can learn to dominate him.

How long does Gabe really think he can keep her in the dark, when his two best mates are intent on bringing all his kinky secrets out into the light of day? When Alexandra is attacked with a biological toxin and believes she's dying. The decisions she makes during that ninety minutes will change the game for everyone.

BUY LINK AMAZON

Click for Chance to Win

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sat, 23 Jun 2018 15:15:00 -0700

Click for a chance to win: Surviving the Big Mistakes: Alexandra Book One
(Van Zant Siblings 2) (Kindle Edition). https://giveaway.amazon.com/p/90b81bc7ddc2eba0
NO PURCHASE NECESSARY.
#ContemporarySuspense #Erotica #romancenovels #BDSM

FREE EBOOK NEW RELEASE CELEBRATION

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sat, 9 Jun 2018 12:52:00 -0700

New Release Celebration!
SURVIVAL INSTINCT is FREE ebook download

Grab your copy now!
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DJ8B1MC

"look inside" enabled at link!
#MM #ContmporaryRomance #ComingOut #BDSM #KU

Meet Brian - Van Zant Siblings Series

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Thu, 7 Jun 2018 16:08:00 -0700

2018 Survival Instinct

When I started writing for the publisher Loose-Id in 2009, it was in response to an call out: Basically gay men in any setting, action/adventure, danger 40K words or less...

I was ready for something new. My Chronicles of Surrender were doing well, I was getting lots of fan mail, but I wanted to hit the big time, or something close...
I sent out more manuscripts to Harlequin than anyone should have to send and I always got very nice "We pass at this time, but please submit again" letters...
Then I went to a Writer's Convention and one of the editors who had rejected my work had open calls to Talk To An Editor and Pitch your book! I was memorable apparently, because this very nice woman explained that my novels were a little to daring, a little too risque, and maybe "tone them down a bit... and for the love of all things holy stop writing in First Person, Present tense."
So, I dusted off my favorite Harlequin submission, "Just Tobias" changed the female heroine to male, addressed all the gender issues inherent to that decision, rewrote it as third person past tense and rewrote every sex scene to gay sex... trust me, my melancholy is making it seem so much easier than it was...

2016 review, by Delta, The Romance Review

SURVIVAL INSTINCT was born.. .
Just Tobias became Just Brian... don't worry, Tobias Red Hawk, Native American medicine-man-in-training, paramedic, and park ranger is still my lead alpha. The original female lead "Tobias" became my male lead "Just Brian"... as in Dr. Brian Van Zant, archeologist and Cincinnati Natural History Museum curator, and recently widowed...

2010, Survival Instinct

A few years later, I pitched a series to my Loose-Id editor to create the Van Zant Siblings series and rough drafted three siblings (Alexandra, Jessica, and Jake) with sample chapters.
They loved the idea and the diversity of the characters and stories I had planned. Survival Instinct then became the first story in the series Van Zant Siblings. The reviewers who read it loved Brian and Hawk's love story. The Review by Delta at The Romance Reviews .
Now, here I am, dusting Survival Instincts off, updating, expanding by 30% with hotter and sexier scenes...

Meet Brian:
After discovering his husband was sleeping with his twin brother, museum curator Brian Van Zant's faced with another shocking loss. Both men are killed in a car accident, leaving him no answers, no closure. No chance to say, "I hate you," or "I love you," and not sure which he'd have said if given the chance. Now, months later, Brian still hasn’t put his life back together. Without a plan or a destination, only knowing he can’t face his lonely present until he frees himself from the past and starts over somewhere else, he runs away.

Meet Hawk:
Tobias Red Hawk is a Park Ranger in Montana, where being out of the closet still seems like a dream. After saving the life of blatantly gay and thoroughly attractive Brian, he begins to question his conviction of staying secretly gay. But before he can face his own identity crisis, there is a mystery to be solved at the top of the Bitterroot mountain range and the answers may lie in the myths of his childhood.

When Hawk’s past returns to kill him, both men discover there’s nothing like facing death up close to make a man find his Survival Instinct.
Now, Fast forward... 2018 has become the year The Bottom Fell Out of the small publisher market. Loose-Id announced their closing... becoming the 3rd publisher to close on me in a year ... and leaving me with a backlist of 33 books to find publishers for, but I decided no can do and jumped into self-publishing with both feet.

This year is dedicated to my back list and getting all of my novels back on line, including the Chronicles of Surrender, which readers have been clamoring for!

Cover Reveal

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Wed, 23 May 2018 15:50:00 -0700

Working on getting all of my books online, following the closure of Loose-Id, Samhain, and Ellora's Cave. Damn, it's been a hard year! and left me with 33 novels without a publishing house. So, I am publishing them all myself...

All three of Koko's current books in the A Little Bedtime Story/Van Zant Siblings-Julian and Liam series crossover are now available:

Now for the cover reveal! Quite different from the original Loose-Id cover, yes?

Now in PRINT! Now In PRINT! Now in PRINT!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sun, 20 May 2018 18:42:00 -0700

Yes, you read that right! You can now get Koko, Julian, and Liam in print! You can read the first few chapters with the “look Inside” feature at the link :)

Koko wanted a Daddy, now she has two!

Ebook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D67VKBH
Print: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982946385
Koko is a Lolita J-Pop mega star, facing a Eurasian Tour after the death of her guardian. Mentally, physically, and emotionally not ready to face a grueling road trip, her doctors insist she renege on her professional obligations, but an attempt to delay the tour results in threats from her record label’s owner.

Julian Van Zant is an aging rock star who had one great experience in his life that outshone all others: an age-play relationship with a woman named Angélique. However, she fled for a normal vanilla life.

A chance encounter with a woman he knows only by reputation leaves him worried about her safety. When she offers him the chance of a lifetime to be both her travel companion and Daddy, it seems like he’s finally been given a second chance.

Will Koko’s learning that Julian and his brother Liam are a package deal ruin everything? And will once burned and far less-forgiving Liam be willing to risk his heart to the little who has the power to rip him to shreds?

Author's Note: Although the protagonist, Koko, is well beyond the age of consent, she presents part time as a "little"; that is, she acts like a young girl. The sex in this series takes place between consenting adults, but those with a history of childhood sexual abuse or incest may find this triggering.

My Career As An Author Now Faces A Cross Road.

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Fri, 18 May 2018 18:57:00 -0700

Loose-Id is now closed!
Andmy career as an author now faces a cross road.

Asking for patience dear readers…
As all three of my publishers have gone out of business in the last 12 months, I have 33 titles I am now going to be self-publishing because I am fed up with indie publishers going belly up. My Chronicles of Surrender have now been “published” by three publishers and been unavailable due to the editing and relaunching process more YEARS than they’ve actually been listed as available … so unacceptable!

As such, self-publishing and relaunching one book takes time, energy, money and is high stress … doing my entire back list is … holy wow stressful. So please be patient.

In addition to the 27 titles still waiting for revisions and updates, new cover art, and relaunch (4 novels are currently available) https://www.amazon.com/Roxy-Harte/e/B00J496FIE

I am also writing … because that’s my number one focus of being an author and I honor my muse by writing when the words are spilling from my brain like a waterfall.

I am so thankful and so appreciative of all of my readers!
I know some of you have emailed asking when this or that title will again be available and I try to reply to each and every one of my readers, so if I missed your note, message, email, or blog comment-- please forgive me for missing it and try to understand that I am doing as much as I can do while also trying to balance family and health issues.

NOW AVAILABLE IN Ebook and PRINT!

Being Little In Public (Embracing the DDLG Lifestyle)

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Thu, 5 Apr 2018 17:33:00 -0700

Okay, so you've decided you definitely want to try out or dive deeper into the DDLG Lifestyle...
For those of you uninitiated into this particular BDSM subset: DDLG stands for Daddy Dom Little Girl (Substitute Mommy and Little Boy for multiple variations on the theme) ...may find this article of interest: Understanding DDLG Relationships)

*As always I use male gender pronouns for Daddy and female for little because that is representative of my current dynamic.

You may be wondering just how to be your beautiful little self in public, or when you know you will be around people who have no idea you are in the lifestyle, or are totally clueless DDLG exists, and you don't want to clue them in (Think grandma, your boss, your clergy, the lady at the checkout counter wondering if you are a pedophile)

You may be worried about accidentally regressing in a public place and need to have ways to blend in so as not to be obvious (I understand the concern. For me a PTSD Trigger or Random Panic Attack, or Garden Variety Anxiety kicks in and I'm suddenly clinging to an alternate reality and feel like I have one foot in both worlds.) Have a game plan in your mind for if the worst happens, how you can escape the situation until you are ready to deal with it.

If either of these headspaces Curious to Explore or Worried About Being Outed, feels authentic to you, it might be time to explore a few easy to incorporate practices that will subtly allow you to be little in public places that can become easier with time. Remember, start small, don't panic, remember to breathe... and own your identity with pride (even if you're being covert about it)

Keep in mind, everything from here on is merely suggestions or inspiration to be personalized by you based on your little-age and relationship status. If you are a single little, maybe seek out a community friendly caregiver to take you out or even a very close friend to be your accomplice.

Subtle Ways to be in Little Space and not clue in the world...

Behavior:

Getting ready to go out is hard! Daddy can help choose the outfit, put on your shoes, and fix

your hair. Of course you will probably try Daddy's patience by dragging your feet and/or waiting until the last minute... and if Daddy doesn't remind you to potty before you leave the house, he can't get too angry when you immediately have to stop somewhere to potty. JS.
Always hold Daddy's hand. If daddy forgets about hand holding, he can't be surprised when bright and shiny, or yummy sweets distract you from whatever boring thing he is looking at and you walk away...
Ask for help opening and closing containers
Wait for help opening all doors, including car and stores
Wait for Daddy to buckle your seatbelt, or remind you to do it
Singing, humming, carefree playing. Run, jump, skip, don't step on any cracks...
Running normal errands and grocery store runs? Leave time for the toy section, book section, candy section, ice cream section.

Dining Out:

Ask Daddy to order for you
Order off of the Kid's Menu
Order off the regular menu but order Kid Friendly items like french fries or tater tots
Order a kid friendly drink: milk, juice, Hi-C, or a milkshake
Find yourself at a dinner party? Appetizers and Snacks Tables offer finger foods easily imagined as Little Offerings! (I've been known to only eat grapes and pretzels because I'm "finicky" ...technically I'm not, but it's an easy sell.)
Always be on the lookout for an Ice Cream or Frozen Yogurt Shop!
Always have quarters ready for the bubblegum machine! Or Daddy better have some spares!

Clothing:

Pull-ups under clothing
Onesie worn under clothing
T-shirts with animated characters: I have a few really old Sesame Street T-shirts featuring Big Bird and Cookie Monster, one from the World of Pooh, cause Eeyore (Vintage is in)
T-shirts from the Gaming World... anything from Mario and Tetra to World of Warcraft and Call of Duty Works (Gaming is cool)
Hoodies, Winter Hats, and Summer Ball Caps with Ears (I have every season covered)
Furry or Elf Ears (Not just for Renfairs or Conventions)
Plush anything (Tactile is everything, think soft, cuddly, warm)
Flannel anything
Cute socks (these run the gamut from knee socks, cute cartoon characters to lacy anklets)
Always choose colors that make you feel younger...that may be pastels, or rainbow bright, or glittery, or varying shades of black. This is you claiming your version of little and it doesn't have to look like anyone else's version of little because You Do You best always!
Look for reasons to wear your Kigurumi anywhere and everywhere... Pub Crawls, 5-K races, Movie Premiere's etc

Accessories:

Backpacks instead of a purse (This is a plus because backpacks come in every style and color imaginable. Dig animation? There is a backpack for that -- fav cartoon character, Disney princess, or anime hero? Furry details? Glittery? Black leather and studs?)
Tiny, tiny purses...shop the kids section of any department store, or order from a specialty shop online
Bring along a stuffy or doll. If you are in college, this is easy peasy...claim your emotional support stuffy is easier to manage than keeping alive a support animal. If you hang out in boardrooms, this might be harder, but still doable. I've kept a Kid Meal doll in my for years.
Ink Pens with fun ink colors!
Pens/Pencils with Fun Toppers! (Bonus: no one will walk away with your unique item)
Stickers on Everything and left everywhere... cause stickers
Hair bows, Fun Headbands, and Clips
Bubbles ... keep a small bottle of bubbles in your purse to leave a little happy floating on the air wherever you go
Glitter ... glitter on your face and body, in your hair, on paths ... sprinkling glitter lets like minds no you are in the area

Activities:

Playing at a park
Coloring outside sidewalks with chalk
Arcades
Find a Local Coloring Club (or start one to meet once a week at a library, community center, or bookstore, because adult coloring books are big business and everyone needs stress relief!)
Join a role playing or reenactment group
Theme Parks
Water Parks
Join or Create a Young Adult Book Club and mix classics like the Harry Potter series, with newer releases (if this becomes your personal project you can personalize even more with reading prizes and games to amp up the fun!)
Monthly Fun Field Trip! Go with your significant other, or friends who don't even have to know your lifestyle to do a monthly activities like attend a Disney movie premier, go to the zoo, aquarium, laser tag, putt-putt golf, or nature center)
Bicycling! Discover your local biking trails!
Little Day is all about you from beginning to end and should include fun food, fun outing, and fun small treat (even if its just a $1. kid toy from the Dollar Store)

©Roxy Harte

Unabashed Self-Promotion: I love writing DDLG inspired stories. Find them on Amazon.com

A LITTLE INDULGENCE,

A LITTLE IN DANGER,

A LITTLE KINKY WEEKEND

and coming summer 2018

A LITTLE TEMPTATION

Plus...

more DDLG Stories are coming when I introduce Josie in A LITTLE RAGE ISSUE

so be sure to find me...

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Roxy Harte VIP Team

Littles Group (pm Roxy Harte for invite to this secret group)

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RELEASE DAY! PRODIGAL SLAVE

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Mon, 2 Apr 2018 10:06:00 -0700

A summons from the man she once called Master turns this soccer mom’s world upside down.

Recently divorced soccer mom and paralegal extraordinaire Charlotte Sullivan has a secret past life that returns to haunt her on her birthday in the form of a perfectly gift-wrapped, blood-red velvet bustier, followed by a summons from her once master, François Rene de Hart.

Pure lust awaits a mere train ride away, but she fears the journey may break more than her heart the second time around. With her twin teenage daughters in Europe for the summer, the opportunity to relive her youth with a man she once loved seems too good to be true. Curiosity and temptation win out over logic. It’s also a chance to be bad, and she hasn’t been bad in a very long time.

But more surprises are in store for Charlotte than merely a reunion and quick hook-up. François’ current lover, Pierre-Louis, is very much a part of his life, and if she wants to be truly reunited with her Master, she must learn to love the other man as well. The fact he is a much younger man is daunting to say the least.

Available in ebook and print!

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CDDNZ9R

This is a rerelease of a previously published novel that has been updated and expanded with even sexier scenes!

Guilty Pleasures reviewer Kitty gave Prodigal Slave 4 STARS and said:

"Prodigal Slave is a look at the darker side of BDSM. It was a very alluring book right from the beginning. It tells the story of a woman, Charlotte, who gave up her life as a Slave to fulfill her dream of having children. ...Roxy Harte weaves a beautiful tale of love lost and then found again. She incorporated Charlotte’s children into the story and found a way for them to accept the life that their mother has now decided to lead. You go through the emotions of all characters right with them, the love, the hate, the sexual needs of all three of the main characters. It was a story that grabbed you right from the beginning and didn’t let you go until the end. I would highly recommend this book if you are interested in romance with BDSM on the side.

LOVERS # 1 on Amazon Kindle LGBT

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Fri, 30 Mar 2018 21:50:00 -0700

LOVERS is Numero Uno! Buy today for $0.00!! Save $3.99
Amazon Best Sellers Rank:
#1 in Kindle Store > Kindle eBooks > Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender eBooks

https://www.amazon.com/LOVERS-Roxy-Harte-ebook/dp/B077CZX49X

Just who is sleeping with whom?
Bianca Castillo is tangled up in love, lust, hate, revenge, heartbreak along with the five men and four women who share her polyamorous life, Los Angeles style. They’re not above wading into each other’s drama, wallowing in each other’s misery, offering unsolicited advice or swapping romantic partners. The sex is hot, the lust hotter and the jealousy scathing in this tale of personal evolution where everyone has a stake in who ends up sleeping with whom and everyone wants to know who the mysterious stranger is that whisked Bianca away from it all. For Bishop Farrington the only question is if Bianca will leave it all behind for him. .

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Fri, 30 Mar 2018 12:22:00 -0700

LOVERS!!!
Free Ebook available TODAY!
Save $3.99

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noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sun, 25 Mar 2018 13:09:00 -0700

Free Ebook Today!

Bound by Tradition -Roxy Harte

https://www.amazon.com/Bound-Tradition-Roxy-Harte-Quickie-ebook/dp/B07BMMTGLY

PORN STARS fall in love, too

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sun, 25 Mar 2018 12:14:00 -0700

Published 2018, epub and print

Published 2011, epub and print

When I published PORN STARS fall in love too with Samhain Publishing (now closed) ... the publisher insisted I rename the story Heart of Change to appeal to a larger demographic. I hated the title then, I hate the title more now! Because it symbolises all that's wrong with America...

Prettying things up for "conservative America"... as if this story was in any way written toward that market. Fuck that. That America tries to steal the rights from and shame every individual under the LGBTQIAPK label. That America normalizes PREJUDICE, HATE, HOMOPHOBIA, MISOGYNY, CONVERSION THERAPY, RAPE CULTURE...
and to every bit of that America, I say, FUCK YOU.

I wrote the story to equalize Sex Workers as men and women who work hard for a living.
I wrote the story for every over forty woman who has ever questioned her sexual identity and decided to stand up and declare that her needs aren't being met by being normal...

When I wrote PORN STARS fall in love too it was never really targeted to the larger audience of erotic romance readers, but it received favorable reviews. Like the one by SALLY from Queer Magazine Online: who wrote,

"Deep and sorrowful, Heart of Change is an empowering read that is more about questions than it is about answers. It’s about questioning every aspect of your identity, and about finding the courage to look deep inside yourself, even when the answers you find aren’t necessarily the ones you were seeking. As the title suggest, it’s also a book about changes, the emotions that drive them, and the emotions they elicit in the reader."

and...

"For me, a significant part of the appeal in Heart of Change was the development of Simone’s sexuality. I thought her transition to bisexuality was handled very well, and I had no trouble accepting such a significant change in her lifestyle after 40+ years. I also appreciated the fact that the story ultimately led her to question whether she might really be a lesbian, as opposed to arbitrarily making some bold declaration. We may not be left with the happiest or tidiest of endings, and there are still questions remaining, but it’s a story that comes across as real. When you’re dealing with porn stars, lesbians, and a mid-life crisis, the fact that the characters and choices do come across as ‘real’ is a testament to Roxy’s talents as a storyteller."

So to summaraize:

PORNSTARS, fall in love too has history... it's been expanded and updated from it's original release.

Please let me know if you Love It, or Hate It... I really love to hear from my readers!!!

Contest! Amazon! Book Giveaway!

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 18:02:00 -0700

Time Sensitive so jump on over to Amazon by clicking the link!
Win an ebook giveaway!! Enter for a chance to win!
Top 20 in LGBT Books!
(it is time sensitive so go now!)
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noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sun, 18 Mar 2018 14:10:00 -0700

NOW AVAILABLE in ebook and print **print link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1980588783 **ebook link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BJHMFML

Danson O’Brian, renowned writer and gender educator, is recognized as the most eligible lesbian in New York. Strong, confident, sexy, she embodies genderqueer in a dramatic fashion. She loves her life, loves her women and really, truly loves the excitement of the city.

However, life hasn’t always been so perfect. Growing up in Kansas, Danni felt like an outsider, preferring cars to dolls and, as a teen, rebuilding car engines was more her thing than a day at the mall. She never fit in. After her father experiences a stroke, she’s needed to keep the family business going until he recovers. She doesn’t think twice about boarding a bus, but even though she’s changed, the people in town haven’t.

Jessica Morrison, the “town whore” and the sexiest woman Danni’s ever seen, may be her only salvation, especially when she learns Jessica secretly likes girls and might be interested in a few discreet rendezvous. Except Danni gave up keeping secrets long ago, and she isn’t about to go back in the closet now.

#LGBTQIA #EroticRomance #ContemporaryRomance #LesbianRomance

In The Beginning

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sun, 18 Mar 2018 01:06:00 -0700

SNEAK PEEK!
This is big, I mean really, really big news for fans of the Chronicles of Surrender… js.

Whoa!

Coming in 2018… I don’t have a release date yet, because my life fell over a cliff and I’m still climbing out of the hole but I wanted to let y’all know this is in the works because… yeah, I’m totally excited about the Chronicles of Surrender Rerelease and so …

May I present… the Prequel … Garrett, Tony, and Lord Fyre’s story.

HEALING FROM THE BIG MISTAKES

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Tue, 6 Sep 2016 06:20:00 -0700

Alexandra's story continues in ...

HEALING FROM THE BIG MISTAKES...

Geneticist and science advisor to the president, Alexandra Van Zant is marrying her lifelong love, Patrick “Gabe” Gowan. But will the most anticipated wedding of the year a global media event become the stage for her nemesis's most daring attack? Having proven again and again she can foil the madman and prevent his use of biological weapons, she may not be prepared to battle both the demon in her mind, whispering lies, and the madman, when the enemy decides the easiest course to end game is to recruit the only scientist who can make the dream a reality.

The longer Alexandra remains medication-free for the sake of her unborn twins, the more her mind becomes her greatest foe. Conor Larkin becomes her mental health advocate, but when her alternative treatment plan includes Conor becoming her full-time Dominant, the power dynamic shifts in chaotic proportions. Will the four lovers' commitment to each other be the foundation from which they can finally unite when the time comes to save the world or will their competing needs and interests rip them and their world apart?

(excerpt and buy info at link)

http://loosenyourid.com/new-releases-september-6-2016/

KISSING LESSONS

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sat, 13 Aug 2016 16:09:00 -0700

Okay Ladies...
Point your man here...
and
Men reading... just do this...

Celebrating Koko from A LITTLE INDULGENCE

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Wed, 10 Aug 2016 17:48:00 -0700

Coming Tuesday August 16th!

A LITTLE INDULGENCE

AVAILABLE AUGUST 16 2016

MEET KOKO

· Koko is a 22 year-old Famous J-Pop Artist.
· Koko loves Lolita Fashion.
· Koko was born with Androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS) and considered Intersexed.
· Koko is a Hmong-American and is a rare blond among Hmong people. She was born in the US, after her mother arrived as a part of an amnesty program that relocated many Hmong refugees from China, Laos, Thailand, and Vietnam to escape genetic cleansing.
· Koko is Little.
· Koko wants and needs a Daddy.

What is a Lolita?

On the fashionable streets of Japan, women and girls of all ages dress in mid-list couture dresses adorned with frills, lace, and intricately patterned fabric. The baby-doll dresses end in sea of ruffles just above the knees, and giant bows pin their long hair into place. The fashion is “Lolita.” Fans all over the world have embraced the trend.

Famous Lolita's include the band Baby Metal in Japan and Melanie Martinez of Voice fame now with Atlantic. With titles like Cry Baby, Sippy Cup and Play Date.

MELANIE MARTINEZ

What is AIS?

Androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS) is when a person who is genetically male (who has one X and one Y chromosome) is resistant to male hormones (called androgens). As a result, the person has some or all of the physical traits of a woman, but the genetic makeup of a man.

What is Hmong Gene?

According to geneticists, there is a particular Hmong blond gene that is a very specific gene only found in the Hmong. This Hmong blond gene has very little to do with the Caucasian blond gene. It’s completely different from the Caucasian one, thus contrary to assumptions,

blond Hmong children are not the result of the mixing of the two groups of people.

What is a Little?

A little is an adult who behaves in the role of a child at a certain age, and there can be different ages from infant (AB-Adult Baby) to a LG/LB-Adult Little Girl or Little Boy: There are also older adult littles who identify as teenagers and are typically referred to as Middle or Brat. A little typically adapts to their circumstance, at home alone, or with their Daddy and close, trusted friends, they can be at their littlest. At work most littles act their age or manage to find jobs that support their personality. During a single day many littles drift somewhere between the spectrum of the two...

In the BDSM community age or role play for a single scene isn’t terribly unusual. Age play is not DDLG and DDLG is not age play. For an adult who is little, little is their identity. It's a mix of feelings and emotions, it’s a way of interacting with the world from their most innocent center. For an adult who identifies as a Daddy Dom or Mommy Domme, being a nurturer and caregiver is the essence of their soul expressed.

DDLG has nothing to do with the mental status of a Pedofile and is in now way related to pedophilia. Please go to the bulleted link because there is an abundance of info beyond the space of this space intro to the identity/lifestyle.

What is a Daddy Dom?

Daddy Doms are a lot alike typical dominants in a BDSM relationship. They take charge of their little as a Master would their submissive; they enjoy being in control of the scene.

However, like for littles, the Daddies aren’t roleplaying either. Caregiver is an integral part of their personality.

The greatest difference between Daddy Doms and a Dominant seems to be their approaches, caregiver vs controller… both have rules they expect to be obeyed. But like their approach the rules have different purposes.

A Daddy’s rules will reflect his and his littles goals for the little’s personal growth, may address an abusive or fatherless past, and may address a little’s worst habits. In many cases the little’s in their care have fallen onto one or more self-harm paths, including but not limited to cutting, eating disorders, addiction.

A LITTLE BEDTIME STORY BK 1

A Little IndulgenceBuy at Amazon

**A LITTLE INDULGENCE is labeled as age-play for marketing purposes. It seems

retailers and publishers have not quite adapted to the many changing dynamics within

the genre of erotica. DDLG 24/7 Dynamic portrayed as a work of fiction .

WARNING: SPANKING, BAD VS GOOD DADDY BEHAVIORS, GRAPHIC
SEX, including anal play, IN AGE PLAY ENVIRONMENT

Primal Identity, Primal Scene

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Tue, 9 Aug 2016 15:49:00 -0700

Ever want to know what Primal is or how it started?Are there any Primals in my FB Family?

The author of this particular article only acknowledges that Primal as a kink only made it onto FetLife a few years ago, but older kinky fellows may giggle and smile because Primal is a state of mind you reach with your partner.

There are not a lot of articles out there as of yet...

I did find this one:

What Does It Mean to be Primal?

and this one:

Put Down Your Flogger and Get Really Wild!

You were born with all the kink toys you need for playing primal: teeth, nails, hair and skin.

It's been a bit ago, alright a long time ago... first husband, ancient history ago... that I first experienced hard-core rough play, all caution tossed to the wind, non-verbal... scratching, growling, screaming...

It was only after as he tended my scratches, and I his, that we thought clearly enough to say, "I could have really hurt you." ... a nervous giggle and the agreement "I would never really, hurt you" assured us.

The tenderness and care afterward, I've never felt since that first

time...and it was probably more the extreme contrast, than actuality ...

We didn't have role-models, or kink groups outside our small kinky circle... we didn't have internet or cell phones... all we had was sexual instinct and a chemistry that would make even our closest friends turn their heads to give us privacy when we became too deeply connected by each other's gazes.

So the Question is, "Have you, Would you?"

Answer with Yes/No or Definitely Would/Wouldn't if you wish...

Or elaborate as indepthly as your comfort level allows in the comment section...

POLYAMOROUS EROTICA

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Mon, 8 Aug 2016 23:04:00 -0700

I won't say all, because it's not all, of my erotica has some version of poly commitment...
Not Swingers
Not Cheaters
But Some Version of Triad, Quad, or Complex Arrangement...

Here's a small look... at why the partners in my stories are a hot mess...or mostly functional most the time working unit of love and happiness...

Let's Talk Oral Sex

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Mon, 8 Aug 2016 07:01:00 -0700

Stepping away from talking erotica today... let's talk about you, in the bedroom, and how is it going in I know every woman wants to believe she is the best little cocksucker on the planet... men will tell you, not all BJ's are a skyrocket to delight; so, how do you become the one and only because no one has ever done it better. Do get better!

Research...read, practice, read, practice more... and before you know it that gag reflex is under control and so is that cock straining for your mouth...

You will be ready, willing, and able... oh, and for the love of all things holy...

swallow and keep sucking because a man can have a long torturous orgasm despite claims to the contrary, just because he never has, doesn't mean he can't.

Fellatio

A Guide to Blowjobs

But maybe you're in public or situation where going down might be noticed...

That's right, be ready, willing, and able to give the man a hand ;)

A Guide to Best Handjob

The best sex lessons I ever received were from a Dom who was a big fan of the hand job. Tips included experimenting with different oils or lubes, because nothing ruins a handjob like a sticky ass lube that is more like wall paper glue than sex aide..

there's a brand of Apricot Oil has a fun little grit that is especially appreciated by the older man who has lost a little sensation...no I'm not sharing the brand... your homework is to find the oil or lube right for your man...

The other tip was to literally man-handle that length of turgid flesh ...

**I read that descriptor in a competitor's erotica and laughed my ass off, then vowed to never use

turgid flesh in a novel ever... so I'm using it here because my edits are done, my stress relieved,

and I can laugh and be joyful again...or at least until the next round of edits...

In other words, don't be afraid to bite, pull or ring that gloriously hard cock like a dishrag.

Cunnilingus

Let's face it, a lot of men are not great clit lickers...

And then there are men who barely go down and you're body is taking off like it's the Fourth of July....

This next link, is one I really enjoyed...

Maybe its the author's imaginative references like:

"that motherfucker smells sweeter than a bowl of steamin’ crawdaddies."

or...

"Pubic hairs are to eating pussy what cavities are to dental hygiene."

I found the entire read entertaining an after two days of edits, my brain enjoyed very, very much...

have your man read A Guide to Pussy Eating at Tickleberry

Now go make someone's day...

Van Zant Siblings Series: Jessica

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Sat, 23 Jul 2016 14:55:00 -0700

Van Zant Siblings Series: Jessica

LEARNING TO BREATHE and LEARNING TO BREATHE AGAIN

NOW AVAILABLE!

Jessica MacKenna (Van Zant) Williams Bk 1: LEARNING TO BREATHE
The celebrated widowed wife of a hometown hero, Jessica leaves Boston for a fresh start in a Cape Hatteras beach house with her teen children. She never suspects to fall hard for her new boss, Joe, at the fish and beer shop where she bartends. When he accidentally triggers her need for rope, she needs a quick fix for a shibari addiction she’d believed herself long cured of.

A drunk dialing moment leads to her sister’s fiancé—a man who has tied her in the past—delivering Francisco, the man he considers to be a shibari-master perfect match, and Jessica has a great long weekend in and out of his rope. But then Francisco asks her to allow him to dominate her full-time.

Jessica runs scared and ends up in bed with Joe. When she shares her secret love of bondage, Joe insists she’s the victim of deviant men and he would offer her a normal, healthy love. Wounded by his misunderstanding, she runs again.

As if her sex life isn’t complicated enough, a case of mistaken identity catches her in the crosshairs of an assassin. While Jessica’s seeking sanctuary in Cincinnati for the holidays, her sister gifts her with a night with a shibari master who goes by the name of St. Nicholas. She quickly finds herself on the naughty list but will she also find a man willing to be the guy who makes her laugh, keeps her tied in knots, and give no demands for more?

Jessica MacKenna (Van Zant) Williams Bk 2: LEARNING TO BREATHE AGAIN
Determined to win her trust, Shibari Master Francisco calls Jessica twice a day every day. In a moment of weakness Jessica finally admits she wants to fulfill a promise she made to Francisco to allow him to help her heal from the traumas in her past. When Luc leaves Jessica with no date for an upcoming ball, Alexandra’s fiancé intervenes and arranges for Francisco to arrive in time to escort her to his and her sister’s wedding.

Finding herself alone at the ball, Jessica amuses herself until learning Shibari Master Francisco is on a flight from Curaçao leaves her on edge. As if that isn’t enough Joe, her boss in Cape Hatteras, unexpectedly arrives to confront her once again about her rope addiction, hoping to take her away from the deviant men and rope perversion she surrounds herself with--and convince her that she could find happily ever after with him in Normalville.

As Jessica’s travels take her from Cincinnati to Washington DC, Curaçao to Paris, will she finally drop all of her shields and allow the right man into her heart to help her heal her broken soul?

The Summer of 1996 - Sacred Secrets

noreply@blogger.com (Roxy Harte) — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 18:29:00 -0700

Twenty Summers Ago, Celia started a conversation in my head...

...that makes this year, 2016, a very special year.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY

CHRONICLES OF SURRENDER!

Shouldn't I get a gold watch or something?

Celebrating my twenty year anniversary should not feel so melancholy... but it does...so I am writing this post in Courier font as all mailed manuscripts were ... back in the day.

Then holy moly... along came ebooks... and writer's brave enough to embark on such a terrifying and dangerous path were not only discouraged but disdained by the establishment. An e-book on one's resume would be a career ender.

psst...

Roxy Harte is still here, still writing erotica, and still publishing e-books

(and several print)

Meet Celia, aka Kitten

aka Lost Kitten

Reward: Contact Garrett Lawrence if Found

Meet Celia...my very first submissive...starring in SACRED SECRETS, a Chronicle of Surrender. Introverted, a journalist who hid behind frumpy clothes, and collected antiques, she was perfect to go undercover to provider her readers an insider's look at the wild world of BDSM and San Francisco's most scintillating night club: Lewd Larry's. She may have gotten more than she bargained for when the owner, Garrett Lawrence ie Lewd Larry, bought her at a BDSM fundraising auction and turned her into the most Notorious Kitten in San Francisco...

I'm going to be honest, this has been one of the hardest blog posts I've ever written. An anniversary shouldn't make me cry...

The Chronicles of Surrender number six published books, and a few not written because I saw the way the wind was blowing with the publisher who currently holds my publication rights. Friends told me I was crazy to use said publisher... but I had just been diagnosed with RA and I was too sick and too tired to do more research...and so I leapt blindly and now have a lesson learned the hard way to my credit...

I will not advertise or even encourage anyone to buy the e-books from their current publisher;

As a matter of fact I would beg you to not buy any form of the e-book. Buy the print versions...yes, they're expensive... they've become collector editions of a short run BDSM classic. Or contact me and I will see if I can find you a copy in print.

I've been told I have to wait out my contract. I'm looking for a literary lawyer, if you know a good one, please, send them my way. Because although I have stood behind this publisher, and championed them even when everyone else was ready to hurl them under the bus, my loyalty has not been rewarded, and why should I continue to hold them in esteem when my emails are answered by an auto-reply that states they're overwhelmed. They don't know the meaning of the word.

My melancholy and disenchantment is not because I have a publisher selling my books, yet refusing to pay my royalties; money has never motivated me. I am sad because today, the day I should be celebrating a twenty year career with happiness and joy, I can't even ask you to buy my very first book, and you may never get the chance to fall in love with Celia the way I have.

I promise, she's fabulous.

I apologize in advance for typos, mispelling, and grammar fouls... I'm a little too emotional right now.