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Living Compassion: The Urgent Call to Care, Appreciate, and Give Now!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Tue, 26 Aug 2025 05:46:00 +0000

Living Compassion: The Urgent Call to Care, Appreciate, and Give Now!

These thoughts were first shared seven years ago, yet the emotions behind them remain as vivid and urgent today as ever. It has been, and continues to be, my heartfelt mission to emphasize the vital importance of Compassion, Gratitude, Appreciation, Care, and Giving—not just as lofty ideals but as daily practices that shape the essence of our humanity.

In today’s whirlwind of fast-paced living, filled with endless distractions and pressures, it’s easy to overlook these simple-but-powerful traits that connect us deeply—to one another and to ourselves. Life doesn’t wait for us to “get ready” or “find the right time.” It gives us only the present moment to act with kindness and gratitude.

**Compassion** is more than empathy; it is the gentle reaching out with understanding and love when someone else suffers. It is the bridge that connects hearts. In a world that often seems cold and indifferent, compassion reminds us to pause, to listen, and to help—not because we must, but because we care.

**Gratitude** transforms the way we see the world. When we recognize the gifts in our lives—even the smallest ones—our mindset shifts from scarcity to abundance. Gratitude turns ordinary days into celebrations of life’s richness and ignites joy that radiates outward to touch others.

**Appreciation** especially for our elders, is crucial. The wisdom, patience, and sacrifices of older generations are often overlooked in the rush of modern life. Taking time to truly appreciate them acknowledges their priceless contributions and keeps their legacy alive.

**Care** is the daily expression of love, seen in small acts—a kind word, a helping hand, a moment of presence. It speaks to the dignity of every person and the value of life itself.

**Giving** is the ultimate testament to abundance. It reminds us that true wealth is not possessions but generosity—giving of our time, our resources, and even our hearts.

There is a beautiful yet sobering truth in the words: "When I die, don't come near me; because my hand may not be able to wipe your tears, even though my soul did." Why wait for the inevitable to demonstrate love and kindness? The time to be compassionate is now, while we are alive, while our hands can still comfort and our hearts can still connect.

In a society that celebrates speed and productivity, taking time to be present, to nurture connection, especially with our elders, can feel revolutionary. It requires courage to slow down, listen deeply, and act with genuine care. Yet, it is in these moments that we find the true meaning of life.

This message is a call—to live compassionately, to cultivate gratitude, to appreciate, care, and give generously every single day. Because in doing so, we not only enrich the lives of others but profoundly transform our own.

Let us choose to be the light for one another in a world that deeply needs it. The opportunity to practice compassion is here and now—let’s embrace it with all our hearts.

"The Power of Brevity!"

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Wed, 20 Aug 2025 07:28:00 +0000

"The Power of Brevity!"

If you want to get more, decide to say less.

Sorry, I know I tend to get wordy—I just have a lot of thoughts flowing out.

I have to be disarmingly honest, and acknowledge that besides my attempts at being self-aware; in my communication, either on chat or even when replying in comments or; just simply expressing my thoughts I have always had to struggle with wordiness.

Sometimes when we have a lot to share, and our thoughts just flow; the messages become long. It may just show how much you care and want to express yourself, but it does not work in all situations. For some it could even be revolting and they could just shut off or distance themselves from you!

Well, I had my days, and I am indeed grateful to so many of my friends, family, well-wishers and mentors who had constantly highlighting this to me. “Better Late than Never” as they say I gave it a serious thought especially being an Author, Writer and Wordsmith, in learning the art of brevity! And did it work? Well it was not an overnight success; I am still at it, but has it brought about a change! Yes, And How!

Let me share a few of my thoughts and deliberations!

The art of keeping messages short and being articulate in any conversation is commonly referred to as conciseness or brevity. It can also be called succinct communication—the ability to express ideas clearly and efficiently, without unnecessary words or ambiguity. In professional or literary contexts, this skill is sometimes termed laconic style or pithiness.

While both conciseness and brevity refer to using fewer words, conciseness focuses on clarity and efficiency, ensuring the message is communicated effectively with minimal words, while brevity simply means being short or using a small number of words, potentially sacrificing clarity.

Succinct communication means conveying your message using the fewest words possible while still being clear and understandable. It's about being efficient and impactful, ensuring your audience grasps the core message without unnecessary details or jargon.

Easier said than done but here are a few tips on how to achieve it:

1. Clarity First:

• Know your core message: Before speaking or writing, identify the key point you want to convey.

• Eliminate redundancy: Avoid repetition, unnecessary details, and filler words.

• Prioritize information: Focus on the most important points that your audience needs to understand.

2. Concise Language:

• Use simple words: Opt for clear, direct language that is easily understood by your audience.

• Keep sentences short: Aim for shorter, more impactful sentences.

• Break down complex ideas: If needed, divide complex information into smaller, more digestible chunks.

3. Impactful Delivery:

• Be direct and confident: Sound confident and authoritative by being clear and concise in your delivery.

• Use strong verbs and active voice: Choose action-oriented language that drives your message home.

• Consider your audience: Tailor your language and level of detail to suit your audience's knowledge and understanding.

4. Practical Tips:

• Plan your message: Before communicating, take a moment to organize your thoughts and identify the key points.

• Edit ruthlessly: Once you've written or spoken, review your message and cut out any unnecessary words or phrases.

• Use visual aids: If appropriate, use visual aids like bullet points or short paragraphs to break up text and enhance clarity.

• Practice active listening: Pay attention to your audience's responses and adjust your communication accordingly.

Laconic Style or Pithiness!

We have seen above what we mean by conciseness, brevity or what is simply called succinct communication in formal or informal communication. In professional or literary contexts, this skill is sometimes termed laconic style or pithiness.

Let us try to understand this better.

Laconic and pithy both describe the quality of using few words to express something. "Laconic" emphasizes brevity and conciseness, sometimes to the point of seeming curt or abrupt. "Pithy" highlights the cleverness and effectiveness of the concise expression, often with a memorable impact.

Here's a more detailed explanation of what they mean and what is the subtle but marked difference between them.

Laconic:

This word describes a style of speaking or writing that is remarkably brief and to the point. It can sometimes imply a lack of social grace or a hint of rudeness due to its brevity.

Pithy:

This term suggests that the concise expression is not just brief but also meaningful, clever, and impactful. A pithy statement is often memorable and to the point.

Examples:

Laconic: "Sure." (A laconic response might be brief but not necessarily insightful)

Pithy: "A penny saved is a penny earned." (This is a concise saying, but it also carries a clever meaning and is memorable)

In essence, both words describe brevity, but "pithy" adds the element of cleverness and memorability that "laconic" may not always imply.

Oh Yes! While at the outset I had humbly acknowledged my tending to get wordy; it is all easier said than done to gain control over wordiness and develop the habit of concise, laconic or pithy communication. But as they say “Where there is a Will there is a Way”. Let me help you out a bit here. The process is slow but it will work.

Here is a short and effective way to presented to you in bulleted tips; on gaining control over wordiness and developing the habit of concise, laconic, or pithy communication:

Plan your key message before speaking or writing to focus on essential points only.

• Eliminate filler words and unnecessary phrases like "actually," "basically," or "you know."

• Use simple, clear language and avoid jargon unless absolutely necessary.

• Break long sentences into shorter, digestible parts.

• Use active voice and precise words to convey your message directly.

• Avoid repetition and over-explaining—give enough information, not too much.

• Think of your communication as a dialogue, keeping your talking turns short.

• Use bullet points or numbered lists when possible to organize thoughts cleanly.

• Practice editing your message by cutting redundant words and replacing long phrases with concise alternatives.

• Assume your audience is new to the topic and communicate accordingly for clarity and brevity.

I hope these tips help make your communication impactful and easy to understand, thus embodying laconic or pithy style valued in professional and literary contexts.

Furthermore to add; I found that besides slowly and steadily trying to get over my habit of wordiness, it had a sort of subtle psychological impact on my behavior, and demeanor as well. I found myself to be calmer, more in control of my impulsive nature. That indeed was a huge lesson and experience for me, which I am sure you too may experience!

Wishing you all the best! I conclude with this “succinct” yet powerful message that motivated me to go through this whole exercise for my own betterment and I hope it will for you too!

“If you want to get more, decide to say less!”

Follow the Wind – Yet Always know your Path!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Sat, 16 Aug 2025 14:30:00 +0000

Follow the Wind – Yet Always know your Path.

As I sat reminiscing over the past, phases in my own life, those narrated by others, and the advice and inputs given by mentors I decided to make notes and pen down for my readers an articulate, inspiring, and intense write-up based on what one of my mentors had casually said to me, and also addressing the theme - "Follow the Wind, Yet Always Know Your Path.". As I spoke to my mentor about my deep attachment with the Eagle and how I had always been inspired by it and how it’s Life-Cycle had changed my very perspective towards life. I spoke about the majestic way the Eagle soars through the sky high up as they say “Where the Eagles Dare” she just said -"Follow the Wind, Yet Always Know Your Path.".

She added a whole new perspective to that simple reference to the Eagle; which I am sharing with you here!

In life, we often find ourselves tempted to simply follow the wind — to move in the direction where others lead, to mimic the footsteps of idols, or to conform to the behaviors that society expects. But there lies a peril in blindly following: losing your identity, your purpose, and the unique legacy only you can imprint on this world.

This article incorporates the nuances and serious aspects of all the above experiences, along with the eagle symbolism:

When you surrender your will to the voices around you; in a way you relinquish your power. You become a shadow of someone else’s dream, a faint echo of another’s vision. True fulfillment comes not from blindly following but from knowing your own path, defining your individual goals, and having the courage to tread where no one else has dared.

Yes, inspiration and guidance from others are valuable—they light the way, motivate us, and offer wisdom—but they should never dictate your direction. Your path is yours alone, carved through your unique values, dreams, and perseverance.

Consider the eagle—nature’s ultimate symbol of vision, courage, and transformation. The eagle’s life is a profound metaphor for the journey of self-discovery. At a critical point, the eagle must endure a painful and perilous transformation: it tears away its old feathers, breaks its beak, and claws until it grows anew.

The eagle refuses to remain grounded by past limitations or the safety of familiar skies—it knows its true place is beyond the ordinary height where others dare not fly. This difficult phase, though agonizing, prepares the eagle to soar higher and stronger, reborn like the mythical Phoenix.

The reference to the Phoenix in a way this closely connects with what I have expressed in my book - The Phoenix Rising - An Inspiration for Introspective Re-Awakening -

https://www.amazon.in/Phoenix-Rising-Inspiration-Introspective-Re-Awakening-ebook/dp/B09K79PRKJ

So too must we embrace the discomfort of self-renewal, the courage to break free from old constraints, and the determination to rise above the ordinary. Following the wind may bring ease, but knowing your path and walking it with intention and integrity creates a legacy that will inspire generations.

In the winds of change, be like the eagle: guided by your vision, grounded in your truth, and fearless in crafting a path uniquely yours. Follow the wind if you must—but never let it carry you away from your own sky.

In this article I am looking forward to balancing inspiration with seriousness, urging readers to reflect on the risks of losing their identity by blind conformity while motivating you all with the powerful eagle metaphor of transformation and self-mastery. I want to leave a lasting impression emphasizing personal legacy and courage.

There are many real-life examples and cases illustrating losing identity by following other, but I would rather share with you the more positive side; a few tips and advise you on how to define goals that resist peer pressure, focus on building strong inner foundations and actionable habits. These are only some of the key points so do build up on the message they give as applicable to you, and make it work for you.

Know Your Values: Begin by identifying your core beliefs—what is truly important and meaningful to you. Reflect on moments that made you feel fulfilled or proud, and use these insights to guide your goal setting.

Set Clear Boundaries: Define specific limits and communicate them assertively. When you know what you will and won’t accept, you’re better equipped to say no to pressures that go against your goals.

Focus on Self-Confidence: Build belief in your abilities through positive self-talk, celebrating achievements, and surrounding yourself with supportive people. A strong sense of self helps you resist the pull of conformity.

Write Down Your Goals: Make your goals visible. When tempted by peer actions or group trends, refer to your written goals and ask yourself if a choice aligns with your personal aspirations.

Practice Assertiveness: Learn to express your thoughts, needs, and boundaries respectfully but firmly. Role-play scenarios or rehearse your responses so you’re ready when faced with pressure.

Create a Support Network: Find friends, mentors, or groups who respect your individuality and encourage you to pursue your own path. Shared accountability in a positive community helps you stand firm.

Plan for Challenges: Anticipate situations where peer pressure may arise, and decide ahead how you’ll respond. Giving yourself permission to say, “Let me think about it,” buys you time to make considered choices.

Take Responsibility: Own your decisions. Acknowledge that your choices are yours alone, and use setbacks as opportunities to learn and grow.

As I conclude I would encourage readers to stay focused on their journey by honoring their values, practicing assertiveness, and surrounding themselves with positive influences—empowering them to set and achieve goals unclouded by peer pressure.

Here’s to more strength, success and growth!

Go Fly where the Eagles Dare!

If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader.

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Fri, 15 Aug 2025 02:10:00 +0000

If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader.

Especially for me; with over 46 Years of work experience behind me, I have had many moments which really stretched me to my limits and beyond. But the only thing that stood out at all times was "Teamwork" No wonder they say TEAM = Together + Everyone + Achieves + More. But more than that, one quote stuck on with me since I had read it almost 4 decades ago and it has stayed with me forever. I applied this same quote in one of the most grueling times; and that experience will lie etched in my mind forever. That quote is "If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader." Join me in that journey!

The memory of that incident, is so powerful that it always make me feel proud and I cannot hold myself back from citing that one particular incident that may literally personify the essence of the above quote and also add to the benefits of working towards shared goals with teamwork. This experience dates way back to the early eighties for me when; while working in a Precision Investment Castings Factory in Pune. I was challenged with manufacturing and successfully completing this particular delivery schedule to none other than the reputed "Spirax Marshall" now referred to as Forbes Marshall, a leading provider of steam and energy efficiency solutions based in Kasarwadi, Pune.

I was in charge of the whole unit at that time; and I had me a team of only 3 people at hand including myself; as that particular week was a week lined up with festivals. Add to that the weekly off connected with it and it was holiday time for all workers for 4 days. But as I said earlier I always believed that there should be no compromise on focus or work and goal at hand, and only sheer team work and camaraderie can work wonders! Keeping the above quote in mind I knew I had to lead from the front. I gathered up my team and we took a pledge to give our best even against all odds, and ensure that the delivery was done on schedule.

At the outset itself I would like to mention, a “Scorching and Painful Highlight” if I may call it, (you will understand why I called that after reading this full specific incident); that it would remain etched in my memory for life. During the process heat-treatment of one of the parts which was called the “Steam Trap” a component which Spirax is famous for was the hero of the incident. The wire which tied the components together snapped and one of the “Steam Traps” dropped of the long iron pipe hanger which is used to draw out castings, from the heat-treatment furnace to be dropped into the quenching oil.

In the fit of urgent enthusiasm that we experienced having reached almost at the last stage of the process, my hand reached out for the red hot casting unconsciously but as a quick reaction. Somehow for a moment I was oblivious to the fact that the casting was scorching red hot. Within second the casting had landed in my palm, searing off hot skin and the smell of burnt skin reaching out to my team members. It was split second action that I let go off the casting, as it dropped into the quenching oil, but not before it has left an impression on my palm with the markings of the embossed letters on the casting.

On priority, I immediately took preventive medical treatment, and only then did we all realize that it had left the same impression of the shape of the embossed portion on the component with the letters clearly etched into my palm. We all had a big laugh albeit my being in tears with the pain in my palm. But nothing could stop us even then. Taking pain killers and applying antiseptic soothing cream to my palm, and wrapping it in bandage, we gave high five’s to one another and continued to complete the full process and begin our packing for delivery as if nothing had happened.

When the next day lit the sky with rays of success, only then did it dawn on us that it was the early morning of the 4th day. I was running a slight fever; maybe due to the incident of burning and reactions of the medication as my body reacted to the whole incident, but did not give up. I remember clearly that we worked together for 72 hours at a stretch all 3 staying in the factory premises, sleeping there, eating there, and working for lengths of time that defied all reasoning. Come start of day 4 and that early morning all dazed, faces, arms and bodies bruised, literally burnt red due to severe exposure to the high temperatures of the furnaces, we stood strong (though shaking in our knees) and had the full order consignment delivered to Spirax Marshal.

When we somehow reached their Unit for delivery, the Operations Manager was stunned and shocked at seeing our state and without any further delay or discussion accepted the delivery, thankful and grateful that our delivery of the components had just saved them from a rare "out of stock supply line shortage of those components”. As their process was a continuous line process any further delay would have stalled the whole process. As I offered my hand to accept his “Shake Hand” I cringed and then apologetically but proudly showed him my palm; that had embossed trademark emblem of their casting. He was shocked and apologetic that it occurred during our rush to deliver the goods in time, even if it was not their fault. We had to share an ambidextrous shake hand as it was my right hand that was burnt.

They were so impressed with the delivery and quality of casting and on additionally learning about our story of the 72 hour tryst with our destiny, he was touched by our dedication and camaraderie, besides commitment to our responsibility towards our clients. It touched him so much that they offered for us to be escorted in their Company Cars to our Destination. But as we had already had our own delivery van in which we had all come to deliver the goods, we expressed our sincere gratitude and thanksgiving towards their kind gesture and returned home, proud and satisfied.

All those 72 hours of grueling and back breaking work was dissolved with the realization that we had achieved our goals and that too only on sheer dedication, perseverance and teamwork. Not the least to mention that we barely had time to rest on our laurels or even dive into a much needed rest as we had to return to the daily routines of a fresh new start of a week after the holidays.

The whole incident actually once again reminded me of that quote so deeply intertwined with the title of this post. I had read it almost 4 decades ago and had not only imbibed it as a culture and character trait but kept researching about its applications in different fields. It is only because I had applied the essence of that quote in the toughest task I have faced in my life that we could achieve our goal.

I would like to share that quote once again and also explain how important that quote is in life and what are some of the observations I had noted during the process of understanding it. I have always had the habit of analyzing a quote, breaking it down into its core ideas and interpreting it into simpler words to truly grasp its essence. Here is the exegesis of that quote.

"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader." This quote, often attributed to John Quincy Adams, highlights the impact a leader has on their followers. It emphasizes empowerment and the development of others as key characteristics of effective leadership.

Why this quote resonated with me?

Inspiring Others:

True leaders inspire a vision and motivate their followers to strive for more than they thought possible.

Encouraging Learning:

Leaders foster a culture of continuous learning and development, empowering individuals to acquire new knowledge and skills.

Driving Action:

Leaders not only inspire but also encourage their followers to take action and make a difference.

Fostering Growth:

Ultimately, a leader's success is measured by the growth and development of their followers, helping them become their best selves.

This quote encapsulates the essence of impactful leadership, emphasizing the importance of inspiring, empowering, and developing those around you. In fact in afterthought I could immediately connect my above experience with these observations which I had kept collating from searches, articles and posts of others whose own life experiences basically seemed to tell the same story; further authenticating and reiterating my belief in the quote and the outcome of applying it in life!

Let me conclude by saying I Thank you all for your patience and for walking this journey with me, so deeply intertwined with the spirit of today’s quote—as cited above. My hope is that, whenever you need inspiration, you’ll remember, this quote - ‘If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader,’ and bring its meaning into your own life and the lives of those around you." Here’s to more strength, success and growth!

Understanding the aphorism “I cried when I had no shoes, but I stopped crying when I saw a man without legs.”

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Wed, 13 Aug 2025 08:05:00 +0000

Understanding the aphorism “I cried when I had no shoes, but I stopped crying when I saw a man without legs.”

“I cried when I had no shoes, but I stopped crying when I saw a man without legs.” "I cried when I had no shoes, but I stopped crying when I saw a man without legs". This aphorism is often misattributed to William Shakespeare, but is actually said to be a Persian proverb, most notably appearing in The Gulistan of Sa'di, written in 1258 C.E.

While some sources also connect the quote to Helen Keller, Mahatma Gandhi, or Zinedine Zidane, the earliest known source appears to be Sa'di's proverb.

It is sad that even after centuries of its being penned down, we who call ourselves the “Intelligent Species” still keep reading it only as a Proverb / Maxim, quote it maybe a million times but yet do not understand or follow the deep meaning of it. Spare some time to try and understand it a little better at least now. This aphorism has always intrigued me and been an essential part of my very character and persona in many ways, so thought of sharing a few insights.

Origin of the Quote: There are many versions as to the origin of the Quote but what we understand by common consensus and established literary publications and facts is:

This aphorism is said to be considered as a Persian Proverb. Persian proverbs, phrases, sayings, idioms, maxims are famous and well documented in many literary, resources, and this one too is said to be one of the famous proverbs.

The aphorism has been cited in print since at least The Gulistan, or The Rose Garden (1259) of the Persian poet Sa'di. 'The Rose Garden'; sometimes spelled Golestan, is a landmark of Persian literature, perhaps its single most influential work of prose. Written in 1258 CE, it is one of two major works of the Persian poet Sa'di, considered one of the greatest medieval Persian poets. It is also one of his most popular books, and has proved deeply influential in the West as well as the East.

The Gulistan is a collection of poems and stories, just as a rose-garden is a collection of flowers. It is widely quoted as a source of wisdom. The well-known aphorism still frequently repeated in the western world, about being sad because one has no shoes until one meets the man who has no feet "whereupon I thanked Providence for its bounty to myself" is from the Gulistan.

I would take the liberty here to mention (With due credit to Wikipedia) and suggest you read in its entirety for the depth in the topics it deals with apart from this one specific aphorism that we are talking about.

“After the introduction, the Golestan is divided into eight chapters, each consisting of a number of stories, decorated with short poems.

1. The Manners of Kings

2. On the Morals of Dervishes

3. On the Excellence of Contentment

4. On the Advantages of Silence

5. On Love and Youth

6. On Weakness and Old Age

7. On the Effects of Education

8. On Rules for Conduct in Life

Altogether the work contains some 595 short poems in Persian, consisting on average of just fewer than two couplets each, in a variety of metres; there are also occasional verses in Arabic.”

Misattributions: The phrase is frequently misattributed to Shakespeare and similar figures on social media and commercial products, leading to widespread confusion.

Meaning of the Quote: The proverb serves as a reminder to find gratitude for what you have by recognizing that others may be worse off. It emphasizes that one's own difficulties can seem less severe when compared to the misfortunes of others.

Life is full of blessings, sometimes we don't value it.

We should try to live in a state of Gratefulness because you never know what someone else has endured or is enduring right where they are, even someone beside you, a close friend, a family member or just a passerby who still shares you a smile.

Also you may think that you "have it so bad" until you learn about your very own neighbor, who is experiencing much worse challenges than your own.

"I cried because I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no feet” in the simplest of terms means that, while one can despair about one's wealth or situation, there is always someone poorer or less fortunate.

This is too intense an aphorism to be understood by mere reading. We have to experience it in our lives, relate with it selflessly, and move a step ahead in trying to be of help to others who may not be as fortunate as us. Each and every day we come across some incident or the other I which we tend to crib and cry over our being unfortunate in being in that situation, but never give it a thought that even a mere review, introspection and deep understanding of that situation can lead you to a resolution of that problem.

For some reason; maybe because of the luxuries we have above those lesser fortunate souls, we are always wanting for more! There is never a sense of satisfaction and gratitude for what we have. I have reiterated this maxim so many times in my writing and the content that I share, but this maxim is a part of my life, my character and my demeanor in every way possible and so closely connects with the aphorism “I cried when I had no shoes, but I stopped crying when I saw a man without legs.”; which I have focused on in this post. I am sharing it below.

The maxim was taught to me by my mother and I have penned it down in a Phrase as “I grew up eating what I found on my plate and wearing what my mom could afford. That’s how I learned to be grateful and appreciative.”

There is so much to learn in life from these intense aphorism’s and phrases. I express my heartfelt gratitude to all those teachers, gurus, philosophers, writers, intellectuals, and literary geniuses, whose thoughts inspire us to “Do better, be better, and become better” human beings.

I will conclude by leaving a humble suggestion which may help us all to understand the nuances of truly “Living our Lives” in a better way and also making this world a better place to live in. Make it a simple habit to just read even one aphorism, one proverb, one phrase, one saying, one idiom, one maxim that are famous and well documented in many literary, resources; understand the true meaning of them and try to imbibe it into our lives and you will see a major difference in the way you perceive life, and live it yourself and for others.

Special thanks to resource references with due credit for the reference of Gulistan (book) sometimes spelled as Golestan.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulistan_(book)

Hoping this small and humble effort by me will go a long way in making your lives better! Take care, Stay Happy, Stay blessed, and God Bless!

Meditation Essentials, Benefits and Common Distractions in Meditative Trance States.

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Mon, 11 Aug 2025 08:44:00 +0000

Meditation Essentials, Benefits and Common Distractions in Meditative Trance States.

At the outset itself; while outlining the scope of the article, may I humbly advise you to be mindful of the length of the Post / Article due to its content overview being very exhaustive, and having the need to be complemented to one another as a continuous coverage?

Since my childhood itself I have been very attracted to and connected with understanding and following the key aspects of Meditation, Yoga, Mindfulness and various mind therapies. I found that it gave me focus, mental balance, peace and above all a profound control over my senses in dealing with the vagaries of life. At times I myself was astounded by how much I was attracted and attached to such profound mental and cognitive practices.

At the same time I noticed that due to my very hectic life cycle right from my school days to as of today, there was a very high level of mental stress, lack of time management, I was not able to concentrate on the actual act of meditation or yoga. I derived that it was due to many factors like anxiety, stress, lack of focus, external distractions of all sorts and above all internal turmoil. It was like defeating the very purpose of mediation and yoga. So I decided to research and review this topic over a very long period of time and through reading various valuable content and advise from peers and guru’s created a sort of white paper or guidelines on both the topics. One being the Key needs and aspects for meditation, and second; the part that was troubling me being common distractions in meditation and trance state.

For the convenience of the reader I will divide this exhaustive topic into two separate parts tagged as Part 1 and Part 2 and help you understand the key elements via bulleted points.

So let’s get started with Part 1 here which covers Key needs for Meditation and Meditation essentials and its benefits:

Meditation, a practice involving focused attention and intentionality, offers a multitude of benefits for both mental and physical well-being. It helps reduce stress, improve focus, regulate emotions, and enhance self-awareness. Let us focus first on the Key essentials include finding a quiet space, comfortable posture, and consistent practice, followed by the benefits of Meditation.

Essentials of Meditation:

· Quiet Space:

Find a peaceful environment where you can minimize distractions and interruptions.

· Comfortable Posture:

Sit or lie down in a way that allows you to relax and maintain focus. A straight back can be helpful for some, while others may prefer a more relaxed position.

· Focus of Attention:

Direct your attention to your breath, a mantra, a visual image, or a specific sensation. This helps anchor your mind in the present moment.

· Regular Practice:

Consistency is the key to experiencing the benefits of meditation. Even short, daily sessions can make a difference.

· Acceptance:

Don't strive to stop your thoughts, but rather observe them without judgment and gently redirect your attention back to your chosen focus.

Benefits of Meditation:

Meditation has emerged as one of the most crucial needs for people in today's world, primarily due to rapid changes in lifestyle, increased levels of stress, and the information overload of the digital age. Here are the core reasons why meditation is so important now and what are its benefits.

Reducing Rising Stress and Anxiety.

Modern life exposes individuals to constant stressors, whether from work, social pressures, or digital connectivity. Meditation is scientifically proven to reduce stress and anxiety by calming the mind, regulating emotions, and lessening the production of stress hormones like cortisol.

Improved Mental and Emotional Health.

Regular meditation practice helps in fostering emotional well-being. It has been shown to reduce symptoms of depression, enhance positive emotions, increase self-awareness, and improve overall mental resilience. This is increasingly vital as mental health issues become more prevalent in fast-paced societies.

Better Focus and Cognitive Function.

Meditation trains attention and increases the ability to focus for longer periods. It also improves memory, cognitive flexibility, and even promotes changes in brain regions associated with learning and problem-solving.

Enhanced Physical Health.

Scientific studies link meditation with a variety of physical health benefits, including lower blood pressure, improved sleep quality, boosted immune system strength, and reduction in chronic pain. These benefits complement medical treatments, contributing to all-around well-being.

Increased Self-Awareness and Presence.

Meditation encourages individuals to be present in the moment, breaking the cycle of overthinking, rumination, and distraction that characterizes much of contemporary living. This presence enhances one’s ability to handle daily challenges with a calm and balanced approach.

Greater Compassion and Interpersonal Harmony.

People who meditate regularly tend to develop more kindness, compassion, and positive relationships. Meditation fosters a deeper understanding of oneself and others, leading to happier and healthier interactions.

Coping with Technological and Societal Change.

With the world changing at an unprecedented rate, people often feel overwhelmed or disconnected. Meditation provides tools to adapt, become more resilient, and transcend the limitations of constant external influences.

Fulfillment beyond Material Comforts.

Despite advancements and comforts, many people still feel unfulfilled. Meditation helps individuals connect to a deeper sense of purpose and joy, going beyond just physical or material satisfaction.

Better Sleep.

Meditation can promote relaxation and reduce insomnia symptoms, leading to improved sleep quality.

Above all – Enhanced Relationships.

Greater self-awareness and emotional regulation can lead to improved communication and stronger relationships.

Common Distractions in Meditative Trance States. - Part 2.

As already mentioned in Part 1, it covered Key needs for Meditation and Meditation essentials and benefits.

In Part 2 of this article let us review and understand a more serious aspect of this topic which is: Common Distractions during Meditation and Meditative Trance States.

Meditation is the biggest need today because it anchors individuals amidst external chaos, enhances both mental and physical health, boosts emotional intelligence, and empowers people to live more fulfilling, balanced lives in a rapidly changing world.

A trance state is a state of consciousness characterized by heightened focus and reduced awareness of the external environment, often accompanied by altered perception and a sense of detachment from reality.

However, in today's fast-paced and noisy world, achieving a deep meditative or trance state can be challenging due to multiple distractions. These distractions can be broadly categorized into external (environmental) and internal (mental or psychological).

External Distractions:

Environmental Noise: Common sounds such as traffic, neighbors, construction work, electronic devices, and even the hum of appliances can break concentration and disrupt meditative focus.
Visual Interruptions: Flickering lights, movement seen through windows, or a cluttered surrounding environment can prevent relaxation.
Physical Comfort Issues: Uncomfortable seating, room temperature (too hot/cold), or itching can divert attention away from meditation.
Digital Distractions: Notifications from phones, computers, or smart devices are pervasive and can quickly pull someone out of a meditative state.

Internal Distractions:

Mental Chatter: The mind often drifts to unfinished tasks, to-do lists, worries about the future, or regrets about the past, making stillness elusive.
Intrusive Thoughts: Memories, especially of past traumatic experiences or emotionally charged events, may surface unexpectedly during meditation, demanding attention and disrupting calm.
Emotional Turmoil: Strong emotions (anger, sadness, anxiety, and excitement) can arise and overshadow meditative intention.
Body Sensations: Hunger, pain, or an urge to move can make it difficult to remain still and focused.
Past Life or Deep Memories: For those attuned to spiritual practices that integrate past life exploration or subconscious work, vivid images or unresolved issues from deep memory can interrupt the current session.

Strategies to Avoid or Manage Distractions:

· Optimize the Environment:

Choose a quiet, clean, and comfortable space for practice.

Use earplugs, noise-cancelling headphones, or soft background music/white noise to mask unavoidable sounds.

Set a comfortable temperature and arrange the lighting to be calming and indirect.

· Digital Minimalism:

Mute notifications, silence phones, or keep electronic devices out of reach during meditation.

· Physical Preparation:

Address physical needs beforehand—eat, use the restroom, and stretch if necessary.

Use comfortable cushions, mats, or chairs to support prolonged stillness.

· Mental Preparation:

Begin with short mindfulness exercises to settle the mind before attempting deeper meditative or trance states.

Acknowledge distracting thoughts and emotions without judgment; let them pass rather than engaging with them.

Consider journaling briefly before meditation to externalize persistent thoughts.

· Gentle Redirection:

When distracted, gently return your attention to the breath, a mantra, or a focal point you have chosen.

Use guided meditations if self-direction is challenging.

Addressing Traumatic and Deep-Seated Memories.

If difficult emotions or traumatic memories arise, practice self-compassion and grounding techniques.

For unresolved trauma, it may be beneficial to work with a qualified mental health professional alongside your meditative practice.

In Conclusion we can come to a common understanding that Distractions—whether external like noise and discomfort or internal like mental conflicts and emotional memories though an unwanted distraction — are a natural part of meditation, especially in today's environment. Obviously we cannot be like the ascetics who recede into the Himalayas and distant caves on mountains and hills. But by mindfully preparing your space, body, and mind, and by treating distractions with patience rather than frustration, you can gently deepen your practice over time, making entry into trance and profound meditative states more accessible.

I hope this review of Meditation Essentials, Benefits and Common Distractions in Meditative Trance States will help you creating a balanced routine of meditation for yourself and also focus yourself on the exercise by blocking out most of the distractions that we listed out to achieve a perfect ambiance for deep meditation and experience the perfect trance state!

Go Beyond the Breath: A Journey into the Heart of Meditation.

Paradoxical Perfection: The Quintessential Mentor/Guru!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Sat, 02 Aug 2025 13:55:00 +0000

Paradoxical Perfection: The Quintessential Mentor/Guru!

The subject of this post, in a way could be said to be a prelude to my upcoming Book (Yet to be Titled) on a very serious and exhaustive topic of how an individual slowly but steadily; tends to lose his own identity from the day of his / her birth to their moving on the realms beyond life!

From the day a life comes to birth encompassing the life cycle of all humans, they are subject to a particular protocol / routine enforced and imbibed into them to be followed as an almost blessed routine, that will make them the person the world wants and not what he is destined to be! I will not open up the suspense of my new publication now but what I want to share with you a very important part of that book, which in itself will later be published as another book. So exhaustive is this topic that I have decided to herewith only give you a precursor summary of what I would like to express.

Let us come to the core topic of the subject of this Blog Post.

Our entire life is a process of learning, imbibing, and moulding ourselves into a person who we want to be or do something that we dream to do as we grow up. All along this process we are all in need of a “Guru” or “Mentor” as we would call them. They could be our Parents, Relatives, Elders, Senior Peers, or any person belonging to the same societal group especially based on age, grade, or status or experience!

I can understand that during our very early childhood they are all a source of knowledge for the child as they have no other alternative that to follow the teachings given by these “Guru” or “Mentors” as I have aforesaid mentioned. But as we grow the concept of the “Quintessential Guru / Mentor” comes into play very strongly. Consciously or unconsciously the idea of a "misplaced quintessential guru" often arises when people idealize the concept of a guru and project their own expectations onto a teacher, rather than engaging with the process of self-discovery and personal growth.

By the time we progress along the life cycle of a human which include various stages: birth, infancy, childhood, adolescence, adulthood, and old age. Each stage involves unique physiological and psychological changes. It reflects the continuous process of growth, development, and aging experienced by individuals.

So the importance of a Quintessential Guru / Mentor all the more magnifies. Now let us go back to understanding the generic meaning of “Quintessential” applicable in different situations.

“Quintessential” means embodying or possessing the essence of something, representing the most perfect or most typical example of something, perfectly typical or representative of a particular kind of person or thing.

Quintessential Mentor / Guru:

This refers to the ideal or archetypal teacher, one who embodies the qualities of wisdom, guidance, and spiritual insight. In many traditions, the guru is seen as a guide who helps individuals overcome ignorance and achieve enlightenment.

We look forward to a “Guru” or “Mentor” to receive their guidance, inspiration and blessings to solve one’s problem’s and achieve growth; both spiritual / materialistic.

Rightly quoted: “A mentor is someone who sees more talent and ability within you; than you see in yourself, and helps bring it out of you.” — Bob Proctor.

You cannot teach a man anything or everything. You can only help him discover it within himself. A true mentor or guru does just that!

A mentor is not someone who walks ahead of you; to show you how they did it. A mentor walks alongside you to show you what you can do.

So it clearly implies that a “Guru” or a “Mentor” is an inspiration for your knowledge empowerment, in every possible way!

Sadly not everyone is lucky to get this Ideal “Guru” or a “Mentor” in their lives, so it is imperative that every person has to take a call on whom they should treat as their guiding force as we move along in our life. We will also have to be able to make a decision on what should be listened to, imbibed and inculcated to make a good and successful person and life out of our being!

Let us now delve into the bitter part of this balance between the Ideal and the misplaced.

It is like having to choose our priorities right. I would like to give due credit to Dr. Benjamin Hardy when he so rightly quotes in one of his articles on a similar issue.

There comes a time when you have to GIVE A DIRECTION TO YOUR LIFE!

• Decide what you want.

• Train yourself to want it enough to have it.

• Transform your identity, brain, and environment to ensure you get it.

• Become laser-focused and stop getting distracted by what you don’t want.

The above bulleted key and core points can be further explained as follows.

Decide what you want: There are again two perspectives to this annotation. You have to first decide what your priorities are; and what you desire in life. Secondly you have to decide whom to and how much to follow your Ideal Guru or Mentor of partaking his advices and guidance. You need to draw the line.

Train yourself to want it enough to have it: Any want is connected with an underlying more intense desire of how much you want what you desire. There has to be a passion and greed to acquire it which gives you the direction and impetus to get what you want and not waste your energies and intelligence on something that either does not suit your character or is totally unnecessary. We often tend to follow the trends without analyzing whether it suits your needs or not. Be wise in making those choices. Learn to say NO when it is needed.

Transform your identity, brain, and environment to ensure you get it: Remember that each one of us is born with a specific Identity and persona. Learn and train yourself to identify yourself from the crowd for who you are and what you are made for. You have to sharpen your brain and your intellectual capabilities and skills to define those finer nuances between what is needed for you and what is not. You need to stand out as a distinct individual who is so very becoming of you! Follow your instincts and plans thereafter and judge the environment around you. Wherever needed bring about a subtle or strong change in that environment to ensure you get what you need, and is so aptly suitable to your own persona. As much as is needed to be a part of an environment to learn and empower yourself in every aspect whatsoever; it is equally important to stay away or even break away if need be from that very same environment.

All the above is easier said than done so that is where the last but not least of your routine / protocol comes in.

Become laser-focused and stop getting distracted by what you don’t want: We have so many examples of a laser-focused approach to any event in our life. I would like to list out a few of life’s examples as they will help you in deriving that same intensity of focus.

In the epic Mahabharata, Arjuna's skill as an archer is famously demonstrated in a test set by his teacher, Dronacharya. Dronacharya placed a wooden bird on a branch and asked each of his students what they could see before shooting. Most students described seeing the bird, the tree, and other surrounding elements. However, when it was Arjuna's turn, he declared that he could only see the bird's eye. This unwavering focus on his target, the bird's eye, impressed Dronacharya, who then allowed Arjuna to shoot. Arjuna's arrow pierced the bird's eye, showcasing his exceptional focus and archery skills.

In the Mahabharata again, King Drupada held a Swayamvara (a ceremony where a princess chooses her husband) for his daughter, Draupadi. A golden fish was suspended from the ceiling, and a revolving target was placed above a pot of oil.

Arjuna's archery skill was famously demonstrated and proved earlier too. Arjuna, renowned for his archery skills, approached the task with unwavering focus. He looked only at the reflection of the fish's eye in the oil, blocking out all other distractions. During Draupadi's Swayamvara he hits the eye of a revolving golden fish which was reflected in a pot of oil, and only Arjuna, with his unwavering focus, was able to hit the target.

Similar is with any Shooting event such as the Long Range Rifle or Pistol shooting events. The Bulls eye is your aim. I will not elaborate too much but suffice to say the four fundamentals of marksmanship; include steady position, aiming, breath control, and trigger squeeze. Steady position relates to selecting a stance, position, and grip that creates a stable firing platform and follows through. These techniques provide the foundation for all marksmanship principles and skills.

I am sure the above examples will amply explain the importance of becoming laser-focused and stop getting distracted by what you don’t want: In all the above examples is was clear that the key was to not get distracted from any external elements.

I will now delve upon the paradoxical part of the experience – that of the "misplaced quintessential mentor / guru" which unfortunately if you do connect with, and how to avoid getting entrapped in this negative realm.

The term "misplaced quintessential guru" suggests a situation where the ideal or most important teacher is not in the right place or is being sought in the wrong context. It implies a misunderstanding or misapplication of the concept of a guru, often leading to a sense of disillusionment or confusion. The "misplaced" part highlights the disconnect between the expected role of a guru and the reality of the situation.

Here's how I look at it and would like you all to look at the connect between two annotations of “Quintessential Mentor / Guru” and “Misplaced” which may seem paradoxical.

Misplaced:

This word indicates that the concept of the guru is being applied inappropriately or in a context where it doesn't fit. This could mean seeking a guru for superficial reasons, in the wrong setting, or from someone who doesn't genuinely possess the qualities of a true guru.

In today’s fast pace and competitive world there is every chance that some people will; for their ulterior motives con people into believing that they possess the qualities and qualifications of a true guru / mentor. There are a few who are genuinely good at what they do, but the slip comes when they feel “They are the Know-all and Be-All” of all the knowledge in the world. They may be masters of their own trades and skill but they keep forgetting what I had mentioned earlier “A mentor is not someone who walks ahead of you; to show you how they did it. A mentor walks alongside you to show you what you can do.

There are also the ones who may build up a very flashy profile, offer webinars, training and guiding courses and even call themselves “Life Coaches”. I do not in any way mean any disrespect to the truly genuine ones but better safe than sorry when it comes to dealing with your own life. Check out for all credentials before getting involved with such professionals. It’s sad that even amongst our own families and friends we could find such unprofessional and deceitful “Gurus / Mentors”.

But most of the times we will find that it is not them who are at fault, but we ourselves have to take a call and not fall into a deceptive trap by following any or all of the steps as enlisted below, given as examples only.

• Seeking a guru for material gain or social status rather than academic and / or spiritual growth.

• Overlooking the traits and still following a teacher who exhibits narcissistic or manipulative behavior.

• Believing that a guru can solve all one's problems without personal effort. (You cannot change your persona / career / life by just chanting a few mantras or sprinkling holy ash on your body as some may seem to believe).

• Treating a guru as a celebrity or idol rather than a guide. Respect for your Guru / Mentor is of paramount importance but blindly overdoing this and becoming a “Yes-Man” without actually checking or tracking your own change as a person and in your growth.

The idea of a "misplaced quintessential guru" often arises when people idealize the concept of a guru and project their own expectations onto a teacher, rather than engaging with the process of self-discovery and personal growth.

I have in the frank expressions of my thoughts and opinions listed out the “Pros and Cons” so to say of having a mentoring in your life. It is for you discerned and valued readers to evaluate each point apply it to your life, check if and where you may have gone wrong and bring about a change to get the best out of your life.

I am sure that you will make the right decision and take a call that will make you a better person. Wishing you all the best in all your endeavors may all your dreams and aspirations come true!

"So be it, Amen"

And as is the inspiring quote that motivates me always “Reach for the moon. Even if you miss, grab a star”.

LEARN TO DRAW THE LINES IN YOUR LIFE YOURSELF!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Mon, 21 Jul 2025 15:09:00 +0000

LEARN TO DRAW THE LINES IN YOUR LIFE YOURSELF!

Life’s experiences teach you a lot. Some of them are bitter, some happy, but what is most important is that you learn from those experiences. These experiences may be like stumbling blocks in your life but we have to learn to make convert them into stepping stones to success. I have always advocated the habit of “Introspective Re-Awakening” and though; at times it may seem a bit hard or even harsh on you, trust me the end result is worth the pain. As they say there is always a bright light at the end of a dark tunnel!

Here are a few tips on how I went through those tough phases and learned to take them in my stride and convert them into positive outcomes. I will not specifically relate any incident but rather focus on giving you the positive tips to approach any such situation or even avoid it and get a positive outcome out of that situation. I hope my thoughts will help you define your goals in life, and achieve them.

What do you mean by "Drawing the line in Life" and how do you achieve it to bring about a change in your life, substantially if not totally?

My aforementioned adage “When writing the story of your life…don’t let someone else hold the pen” in itself is the very base of your success. In fact I am happy to inform that I will be shortly publishing my 15th Book (Yet to be finally named) which is based on the essence / meaning of those very lines. Knowingly or unknowingly we are so overwhelmed and influenced by “What others say” or “What will others say?” that we inadvertently tend to lose our own identity and act or follow the script written by others in our own personal life.

"Drawing the line" in life means establishing clear boundaries and making conscious decisions about what you will and will not accept, prioritize, or allow. It's about taking control of your time, energy, and focus by defining your values and acting in alignment with them.

Let us review and understand those key steps we should take, and apply to our lives to get a positive outcome:

Setting Boundaries:

Drawing a line involves identifying your limits and communicating them to others. This could be in your personal relationships, work life, or any other area where you need to protect your well-being and focus. You define your boundaries, and limits in your life, your career, your work and ensure that they are rational, achievable and not unrealistic! This will save you a lot of stress and disappointment! Take one step at a time, set simple boundaries and don’t extend the limits to a level which you cannot achieve in your over-enthusiasm.

Prioritizing and Choosing:

It's about deciding what's most important to you and allocating your resources accordingly. This could mean saying no to commitments that don't align with your goals or values, or prioritizing tasks that contribute to your overall vision. It is often observed in our fast paced life that due to lack of time to think and/or in a hurry to take a call or make a decision we disregard the importance of prioritizing and choosing your goals. Learn to say “No” when needed, and at the same time stay firm on your own stances, and be diligent in working hard towards them and achieving your goals.

Taking a Stand for Your Values:

Drawing a line is a way of living in accordance with your values. It's about making conscious choices that reflect what you believe in and what you want to create in your life. This is the most critical and important factor not only in your daily life but in every aspect of life or work. Your integrity is of utmost important and should stand foremost in your priorities. Never compromise on your values at any cost. Don’t allow any distractions or external pressures to make you change your decisions; which may cause you embarrassment and disappointment in your life!

Being Intentional:

It's not about reacting defensively to external pressures, but rather about proactively defining your own standards and priorities. Leave no space for “Chance” to take over any factor or aspect of your life. Your life is your responsibility and your integrity and actions should be framed with a steady purpose and intention or design. You cannot take “Chances” with your life!

What are the Benefits of learning to draw the lines in your life?

By drawing lines, you create space for what truly matters, reduce stress, and increase your overall sense of control and fulfillment. There should not be ambiguity about your thought process, your priorities, your choices and your plans in life. Be firm, assertive and confident!

In essence, drawing the line in your life is about:

Self-awareness: Understanding your own needs, values, and limits.

Self-respect: Making choices that honor your well-being and goals.

Self-empowerment: Taking control of your life by setting boundaries and prioritizing what matters most.

Some of the examples that we often come across when people do not draw the lines are penned down here only as a matter of reference and not as hardline theories.

We often come across people, friends, family who feel that at some point in their life you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It's not like you're giving up, and it's not like you shouldn't try. But then there is a better solution or in case sadly you have landed yourself in that situation. It's just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.

So the simple but basic lesson we should learn is rather than fall into a situation that you cannot control; it is better to define your actions in life in a way that you avoid these disappointing situations by drawing the line well before your thoughts convert into actions.

I drew great inspiration from a few lines from Moses Kuria quotes; and I am sure you too will be able to take a leaf out of those inspiring and invaluable lines from his writings:

“When Life feels heavy” At some point in life, everything around you might stop making sense. The Job you once prayed for no longer excites you. The home you used to find comfort in starts to feel heavy. You'll feel disconnected from your purpose, unsure about your business, distant from your family, tired of trying to hold it all together. It'll feel like everything is breaking at the same time. And in that weight, you'll feel this aching need to fit yourself, to fix your life, to go back to the starting point and question if you even chose the right direction. Maybe you're already there. Maybe you're standing in the middle of the chaos right now, watching your relationships shake, your finances shrink, your health shift, and wondering if any of it still makes sense.

If that's where you are, I want you to pause. Just for a second, and remember how far you've already come.

You've carried yourself through more than you give yourself credit for. You’ve survived days you thought would break you. You'll be ok. As always.”

Above all!

Don’t let anyone invalidate or minimize how you feel:

Don't let anyone invalidate or minimize how you feel. If you feel something, you feel it and it's real to you. Nothing anyone says has the power to invalidate that, ever.

No one else lives in your body. No one else sees life through your eyes. No one else has lived through your experiences.

And so no one else has the right to dictate or judge how you feel. Your feelings are important and you deserve to be heard and accepted for who YOU are.

They are inherently valid and they don't matter. Don't let anyone make you believe otherwise.

You should hold your priorities, your choices, and the quality of your life of your life at the helm of all affairs in your life, and there should be no compromise at all as far as your life is concerned.

I can only hope that my thoughts will help you in defining and achieving that happiness in your life, and my best wishes and blessings are always with you all!

I will conclude with two Quotes which always inspire me to keep learning and stand strong, I hope will inspire you too!

"You will face many defeats in life, but never let yourself be defeated." – Maya Angelou, "And Still I Rise"

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on." – Robert Frost.

Cheers to a Better and fulfilled Life!

UNDERSTANDING AND CULTIVATING STRATEGIC PATIENCE!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Sun, 20 Jul 2025 07:00:00 +0000

UNDERSTANDING AND CULTIVATING STRATEGIC PATIENCE!

It’s been some time since I had been hearing about Strategic Patience related to the Socio-Political situations in the World scenario. More specifically the term “Strategic Patience” was being connected to Wars, Sanctions, Trade Embargo’s etc. prevalent now in the volatile political atmosphere now in the world.

However while specifically trying to understanding the true meaning of “Strategic Patience” I found that it goes beyond its present perception by people to being applicable in our daily life. In fact I came to understand that it played a pivotal role in my own reviewing, and revamping my own routine in life. When I slowly applied each of the elements of “Strategic Patience” to my personal life, I found there was enhanced productivity, more peace of mind, less stress and a calmness that I had been yearning for in many years!

So I thought I should share my own experience as well as enlist a few points that will help us all get a clearer perspective of “Strategic Patience”. Each pointer is only the "Tip of the Iceberg" so to say. You my valued readers will have to go deeper into each element, and seek out the essence that will be applicable to your specific mannerisms as well as your individual needs.

Strategic patience in life is the ability to wait with intention and purpose, choosing the right moment to act rather than rushing into decisions. It's not about passivity, but rather about aligning actions with a clear vision and understanding that sustainable success often requires a deliberate pace.

Here's a more detailed explanation:

What Strategic Patience Isn't:

Indecisiveness:

It's not about avoiding decisions, but rather about delaying action until the optimal time.

Laziness:

It doesn't mean being passive or giving up; it involves consistent effort and planning, even while waiting.

Simply Waiting:

It's not about hoping for the best without taking proactive steps towards goals.

What Strategic Patience Is:

Intentional Waiting:

It involves actively assessing situations, planning, and preparing for the right moment to act.

Focus on Outcomes:

It prioritizes achieving long-term goals rather than getting caught up in short-term gains.

Clarity and Purpose:

It requires a clear understanding of objectives and a deliberate approach to achieving them.

Resilience:

It allows individuals to persevere through challenges and setbacks, maintaining a focus on the ultimate goal.

Strategic Thinking:

It involves considering the broader context, potential consequences, and long-term implications of actions.

Benefits of Strategic Patience:

Better Decision-Making: It allows for more thoughtful and informed choices.

Increased Effectiveness: By waiting for the right moment, actions become more impactful and efficient.

Stronger Relationships: It fosters trust and collaboration by demonstrating thoughtfulness and consideration.

Sustainable Success: It lays the foundation for long-term growth and achievement.

Reduced Stress and Anxiety: It can help individuals manage the pressure of constant deadlines and demands.

How to Cultivate Strategic Patience?

Define Clear Goals: Having specific objectives helps in aligning actions and waiting for the right opportunities.

Practice Mindfulness: Being present in the moment and observing without judgment can help manage impatience.

Break down Large Goals: Dividing tasks into smaller, manageable steps can make the process feel less overwhelming.

Reflect on Past Experiences: Identifying triggers for impatience can help in developing strategies to manage it.

Seek Support: Talking to mentors or friends can provide guidance and encouragement.

Embrace Imperfection: Accepting that progress may not always be linear can reduce frustration.

By cultivating strategic patience, individuals can navigate life's challenges with greater intention, achieve more meaningful goals, and build a more fulfilling life.

As aforementioned; I actually went step by step understanding, imbibing, and applying each of the above key elements into my routine of life and; trust me I was so impressed with the changes over a short period of time itself, that I then thought to pen down my experiences for the benefit of all.

A word of caution though! Even if the above pointers may have been applicable to me in a very positive manner, it may or may not be applicable in the same vein to everyone. Do read, understand and apply those elements that would be best suited to your own needs and situations in life.

One thing I can assure you is that your life will be more organized, peaceful and stress free for sure!

All the above experiences have been collated from reading, listening to quality content and teachings by great teachers, philosophers, life coaches, who themselves diligently followed these pointers in life, and experiences in their explorations in life to bring about a significant transformation and impact on their lifestyles and personalities.

My heartfelt thanks, gratitude and respects go out to all of them (though I may not have named any of them), for bringing about such an inspiring influence on my life.

Blessed to be back to my Blogging and Book Publishing after a Long Hiatus!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Tue, 08 Jul 2025 11:42:00 +0000

Blessed to be back to my Blogging and Book Publishing after a Long Hiatus!

Thank you all my dear Friends, Family, Well-Wishers, Readers, Patrons, for bearing with me in this long Hiatus from my writing, and my passion for writing to you all.

It was a really painful and heart wrenching absence from the work I love the most, but I had to due to some medical attention I need to give myself, which I am so happy to mention with your Blessings and Love I am now back to normal. Just raring to go as they say!

Lots of good news to be coming your way, including revamping and re-instating some of my best Blogs which I had discontinued / kept on developmental hold, which you will be eager to read. Will not break the suspense as I will be deciating a post each when introducing the same with a Bang!

All this would not have been possible without your Blessings, Love, Motivation and constant connection with me urging to be back to my writing at the earliest. Here I am and how! Thank you all once again, with warm regards and hugs as it meant a lot to me!

Major comeback will be my writing Blogs on various topics, continuing with the series of Books I already have published; 14 to be precise, 10 in English and 4 in Hindi. The silver lining so to say will be the publishing of my latest series of Books which will be published in English, Hindi and Marathi which has come on public demand. It will be a challenge after this long break since almost November of 2024 so I seek your best wishes and blessing in this endeavor.

Just to remind you these are my 14 Books in my Bookshelf!

A lot of thought and introspection went into my revival of my passion to write. Reviews of my past experiences, inputs from amazing friends, family and well-wishers like you all who constantly gave me the motivation to be back.

One thing I understood and realized that I had to grab myself by the scruff of my neck and pull up my socks if I had to get back to my ownself and my dearest passion for writing. I delved into my past unfinished writings, and was shocked to see so much that was left either unfinished or simply pending to be shared to you for want of time or sheer strength. But with God's grace I am not able to do justice to both.

Yes, I realized this the most that "When writing the story of your life, Don't let anyone else hold the pen". be it in the act of writing or gathering yourself up to get started after a challenge.

At my age of 66+ my short but testing hiatus due to health reasons, gave me a lesson which I would definitely like to share with you all. Take care of your health first. No wonder they say "Health is Wealth". If you are fit in mind and body everything else can fall in place with a little perseverance, patience and dedication. I did just that. With God's Grace and your Blessing I cam back from my dip in health conditions, and now raring to go!

Will not extend this post further, and leave you to wait for some super surprises coming your way.

Once again a huge Thank you to all, seeking your continued Best Wishes, Blessing, Motivation and guidance as always!

As they say "The Best Is Yet To Come"

Take care, Warm Regards, and God Bless!

Let's create a space for transformation and positivity!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Tue, 01 Apr 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Let's create a space for transformation and positivity!

Hello Everyone,

Happy, thrilled and so Blessed to be back after a extended hiatus!

I am thrilled to embark on a meaningful journey with you all, sharing Articles, Visualization Tools, Tips, Quotes, Lessons, and Audio & Video content designed to uplift spirits and inspire confidence. My goal is to support those feeling weighed down by emotional burdens and unresolved issues, helping them not only shift their perspective on life but make tangible, positive changes in their daily experiences.

As an Author, Writer, Blogger, and Wordsmith, I have always sought to weave the threads of life's experiences into the fabric of everyday living. In this new endeavor, I aim to continue this tradition by connecting with you all through thoughtful and impactful content. Together, we will explore ways to navigate challenges, embrace growth, and foster resilience.

I look forward to sharing the best of my insights and creations with you—let's create a space for transformation and positivity!

Keep a watch for my messages, posts, videos, mailers, offers and surprises that will keep you wanting for more!

Take care, Stay Smiling, Stay Happy, Stay Blessed, God Bless!

Don't disregard your parents and grandparents! A Fond Memory revived!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Mon, 19 Feb 2024 04:40:00 +0000

Don't disregard your parents and grandparents! A Fond Memory revived!

Watch this video to see how creative they can be!

😪 A NARRATION OF NOSTALGIC MEMORIES REVIVED THAT MAKES ME CRY 😪

This video of the Cute and Cuddly Grandma playing the Mouth Organ, with so much passion and love will make you feel younger and happier. Seeking her blessings and wishing her many many more musically happy years to come. But it also makes me nostalgic and revives fond memories of one of my friends Grandmother who would play "Hallelujah" so well, it would bring tears to my eyes!

I happened to hear her play quietly in her verandah one day and I was instantly connected with her. I hugged her and asked her to play it again. While she was playing, she had tears in her eyes, and there was a glow on her face that I have never seen on another face, as is she was carried away into a totally different realm. From that day onwards I would visit her at least twice a week to listen to her and she played me so many other songs like those from :Sound of Music", and many more.

😪When asked why she was so sad she told me that no one in her house used to listen to her and appreciate her. I later spoke to my friend and their family about it, and they at first said "Oh we didn't know she played so well, we thought, she was just dabbling at something to while away her time.😪

😠I was angry and dissapointed at their behaviour. 😠 But when I asked Grandma to play "Hallelujah" again they were all in tears, apologizing for their behaviour , hugging her and it all ended up in an Encore of dear Grandma giving a fantastic and emotional performance.

Since Christmas was coming up close we all planned to give her a surprise and have her perform in front of the whole extended family that was to get together on Christmas eve. Before I left for home that day, she winked at me and gave me a long hug with a pat on my back and a bonus most welcome kiss on my cheek. That Christmas eve was a day I will never forget for my life.

It also makes me send across a message, not to pass over without giving due attention, overlook or ignore your parents or grandparents just for what they are. There is much more to their life than you can ever think of. Connect once again with them and you will find heaven amongst yourselves.

Not the least to mention that Christmas Eve was one to remember for life and still stays etched in my memory; hence this post. After all were dressed up and decked up, all pleasntries layed out on the table we created a performing area for "Grandma" to perform and escorted her to that area. An announcement was made to all who were not knowing of this surprise and there she was! Centre stage, beaming away, also in tears. What a performance it was, and it actually took away the breath from all present. She performed as if she was performing at Wembley hall, and as always with tears rolling down from her eyes, but a glow on her face that made everyone cry. Well; I don't need to tell you what happened after that performance and many more on demand!

It became a sort of true family union and at the centre stage of it was our Angel Grandma!

👏"Encore, Encore, Encore" 👏

That is the Power of Music and Love

निवृत्त मी झालो,पण निवांत ती झाली

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Mon, 09 Oct 2023 15:38:00 +0000

निवृत्त मी झालो,पण निवांत ती झाली

सकाळच्या पहिल्या चहाची जबाबदारी माझ्यावर आली

दूध ऊतू जाऊ न देण्याची काळजी माझ्या शिरी आली

निवृत्त मी झालो, निवांत ती झाली ।

आजचा नाष्टा ठरवायची

आणि, करायची पाळी माझ्यावर आली

कांदा चिरताना आसवे गाळायची वेळ आता माझ्यावर आली,

निवृत्त मी झालो, निवांत ती झाली ।

कुकरच्या शिट्यां मोजण्याची आता मला सवय झाली

तव्यावरची गरम पोळीही

आताशा चटके देईना झाली

निवृत्त मी झालो, निवांत ती झाली ।

दुधाचा खाडा,पेपरचा खाडा फोन बिल,

लाईट बिल हिशोब ठेवताना माझी त्रेधातिरपीट झाली

निवृत्त मी झालो, निवांत ती झाली ।

घड्याळाच्या काट्याबरोबर

फिरण्यातून, ती मुक्त झाली

लवकर उठण्याची सवय

आता, तीने सोडून दिली

निवृत्त मी झालो निवांत ती झाली ।

माझ्यासाठी धावणारी ती आता जरा थकू लागली

थकलेल्या तिच्या पावलांची आता मला चाहूल लागली

निवृत्त मी झालो निवांत ती झाली ।

सर्व निवृत्त सदस्यांसाठी

खरंच असं होतंय का?

Short Disclaimer about this Poem:

This is not my poem. I shared it as it is for the purity of the expression without demeaning anyone. This poem was shared to me by a friend and is also on most social media platforms without knowing who has written it originally so full credits to whoever is the writer. Kudos to the writer for a frank and free expression of his thoughts which I am sure may match with many of us Senior Citizens which the poet asks at the end of the poem. I mean no disrespect to any better half of any person or women as a whole, and this whole poem should be taken on a lighter note while also enjoying the subtle way in which the writer has expressed the possible inner feeling of so many male senior citizens! Knowingly or unkowingly, willingly or unwillingly we are indeed sharing a part of the work load which our better half's were doing without a whimper. I for one do it with full enjoyment as well as gratitude for my better half. After all life is always shared in all its entirity, not parts as per our conveinence. So all due respects to them too!

The Bundle Of Life - A True Life Experience!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Mon, 02 Oct 2023 09:29:00 +0000

The Bundle Of Life - A True Life Experience!

Have you heard of a Bundle of Wood in fact being the "Bundle Of Life"? If not read on, as this will tingle a chord in your soul!

At many times in our life we come across events in life that make you think. They often touch a chord in the deepest corners of your soul and leave you dazed and thinking about the way life works for each of us. It is with gratitude that I write this post almost immediately after the incident occured with me. It left a strong sense of peace and happiness in my heart. Why? Read on!

My work from home office is in the North East corner of my master bedroom, with a window adjacent to the table I work on. That allows me to keep a constant watch on the happenings along the road which seperates my building from a childrens park on the other side.

Sometimes it is a distraction to my work but now I have learned to give a ear to only those things that may catch my attention or a sudden glance that draws my attention automatically to the happenings on the road. Sometimes they are the chatter of children passing along with their parents and it shocks me to hear them talk about so many things that leave a mark on your mind. Your heart reaches out to them to want to talk to them but obviously that is not possible with so many people criss-crossing the road.

Today as I sat gazing out into the yonder trying to work on some very critical Google Updates, but tired from constant work on the PC, I just glanced out across the window.

I saw this women who stopped by a broken and dried tree branch that was thrown out from the Garden and was lying along the wall. She immediately kept her small bag on the side of the road. Her eyes almost lit up with happiness! I realised then that for her; that dried branch was her wood for burning on her "Chulah" at home. The thought that was going through her mind almost touched a chord in my heart as I am myself clairvoyant, and I could sense what would happen.

I left my room and came out in my verandah along with my mobile. Something edged me to take a photograph of her while she continued with her work. She was trying trying to break the huge branch into smaller pieces comfortable enough for her to carry on her head. She immediately set to work breaking the larger brances into smaller ones and laying them in a bundle on the road.

She was using her foot to break the larger ones into comfortable-to-carry pieces. She then looked around to search for a string or something to tie the bundle which they normally lay on the ground first and then pile up the sticks on the thread or wire they find. She could not find anything and was looking around thoughtfully.

I felt for her and immediately picked up a small length of nylon rope that I have kept in a box in the corner of my verandah. I selected one that was long enough for her to tie the bundle of broken branches and called out to her. I showed her the rope and she came running towards from the other side with a beaming smile on her face. She picked up the rope which I threw to her from my first floor, and waved out to me a thank you.

She immediately set the long rope along the side of the road and set the already collected wood onto the rope so she could tie it together later.

She gauged the size of the bundle to ensure that it was light enough to carry on her head. There was one thick branch which you can see in the image, which she tried her best to break into smaller pieces, but her frail structure would make no mark on the strong wood. She then set that wood aside to a corner; possible hoping she could carry it away the next day if she would be coming back this side again. She cleanly broke all the smaller and thinner branches and set them up on the pile she had already created on the rope.

Tying up the finished lot of broken wood she kept it aside alongside her small bag and carefully put the long thicker wood at the side of the road. She would possibly be lucky to have it still lying there for her tomorrow or later as there are so many such women who look out for dried branches for their cooking needs.

You can see in the above image the long thick dried branch which lay at the side after she tied up all the smaller branches into her own bundle to be taken home. She glanced around and then passed a glance at the Tiger painted on the wall and gave a passing glance with a smile at me. Oh Oh! was she expecting the Tiger to take care of her branch? Who know? Maybe yes!

She finally picked up her bundle of dried wood branches which were in fact what I called a "Bundle of Life" - still a bit wet due to the rains in the morning, but I am sure they were enough for a day or two's cooking for her family. As she picked up the bundle and walked pass I took a passing image of her and it gave me a sense of peace and I was grateful that I could think of being ot at least some help to her without which she would not have been able to carry the bumdle as comfortably as she did as she passed in front of me. She gave me a smile and waved out as if saying thank you! Sadly I could not capture that moment as I had already taken the image below a few seconds before she waved out to me with a smile. But the feelings on her face were enough to express what she had achieved.

I for one was still standing and gazing at her as she walked briskly towards her home, maybe happy that her wood for cooking for a day or more was all packed up. I cannot sum up the feelings as I stood for some time before returning to my table to work.

I could not but hold back in immediately writing down this post. I then visualized a day in the life of these people who I have personally had the experience of living with. We can just cook on our Gas Stove or pipelined gas connections or microwave or even Inducion cooking but they have to go out first to collect wood for burning and only then are they even able to think of cooking something. Come rain and it is an even harder task for them as most of the wood is wet. I had earlier spoken to many such women who go through this routine every day and it brought tears to my eyes when one of them even narrated to me that her husband beat her up with the same stick she had collected to be used for cooking; only because she was late and food was not ready for him to eat. Most of them come back home from work drunk and what ensues is beyond your imagination. For them it is not a Bundle of wood but a "Bundle of Life".

All I could think of was being grateful to God for giving me the thought to try and at least help her with a piece of rope which helped her carry her "Bundle of Life" to her home.

Change is inevitable but transformation is by conscious choice.

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Thu, 28 Sep 2023 16:33:00 +0000

Change is inevitable but transformation is by conscious choice.

Change is inevitable but transformation is by conscious choice. When you change the way you look at life and things; life itself and the things around you change.

To make this happen I had to bring about a transformation of myself. Like I have mentioned in my Book - "The Phoenix Rising: An Inspiration for Introspective Re-Awakening" - I transformed my very thoughts and actions like the Phoenix to give re-birth to a new "ME".

I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change, I am changing the things I cannot accept!

Check out my new "Let's Connect" Profile and you will understand what I mean.

Let's Connect:

https://sachinsweblog.blogspot.com/2015/05/lets-connect.html

I shed a lot of weight if you can call that in terms of what I was carrying around. "Less Is More" is an adage in most culinary schools, and presenting myself and my profile was no less an experience than presenting a culinary delight!

I leave it to you to check out my new profile, all toned down to give you the best of my abilities and capabilities while also sharing the best content through my other Blogs and Pages.

I have now toned down to my main Profile Page which is at –

https://www.facebook.com/sachin.kate

My Pages are now:

My Authors Page at:

https://www.facebook.com/sachinkatewordsmith/

My Business and Performance Improvement Consultancy Page at:

https://www.facebook.com/sachinkatebizcon/

This is going to allow me to concentrate on all the topics of my liking and for which I have a deep passion for while letting my valued readers to get access to all information on one page. Therefore; my Profile Page will carry information and posts on all topics.

I hope this change and transformation will make a big impact on reaching my readers with more information. I look forward to your feedback and suggestions while seeking your best wishes and blessings as always.

Spare a thought for these Delivery Boy's and Girl's!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Sun, 24 Sep 2023 15:42:00 +0000

SPARE A THOUGHT FOR THESE DELIVERY BOYS AND GIRLS!

I'm back with my writing and what an experience I got on the first day itself which left me with no option than to write about it and share it to you all! Hope I can reach out with my message to you all!

It had been quite a long time since I was observing and interacting with the Delivery Boys and Girls who relentlessly attend to their duty. Come rain or shine, winter or summer day, late evenings or even late into the night they deliver on time and with a smile.

I had always had a soft corner for them and kept interacting with many of them. I was shocked to hear what they go through and how they are treated by their employers. I will not name any of them or neither go into the details of what they all shared with me but I thought of sharing this post only to make my readers aware of what they go through and if possible to bring about an awareness to look at their work with more respect and kindness.

Today as I write this article I happened to meet at least 3 such boys who were crossing the roads with bags full of delivery loads like the one you see in the image above. That image is only one of them I could take as he had come to deliver in our own society. The other two were even more overloaded.

What shocked me that they do all this all through the day and with a smile on their faces. We all know that these deliveries are time bound. Some employers cut a specific amount from the daily earnings of these Boys and Girls if the delivery is not made in time.

We are all aware and also gleefuly order away Pizza's and the like from These Merchants who proudly claim to offer you the Contents FREE if the delivery does not reach you in the specified time which is normally 30 Mins or depending on each merchant.

The merchant's booking associate takes the order online or on phone and the delivery is timed. I have personally checked details of the Delivery Boys orders many times to find the address wrongly typed in or a very key element missing from the Address which has the boy searching around the location, asking people around for the exact location, while his time is ticking.

I will cite an exact example that I personally experience many times. A very famous building complex say let us call it ABC HOMES. The person ordering the contents will give his address as ABC HOMES, Flat. No. 10, Second Floor, xxxxxx road, xxxxx area, xxxxxx pin code and his contact number.

Either the person taking the order does not confirm if the address is totally perfect in all ways or the people who order it (sadly many times they do it purposely) will miss out a key factor. In the above case they have not specified the Building Number where ABC HOMES has about 10 Buildings in its complex.

So there will be 10 Flats with the same Flat. No 10 in the same complex. Above all this they will not pick up the phone when the delivery person calls them and if asked later they will say I never got a call from you or there is no range etc.

The exasperated delivery boy has to some how grope around the complex asking the watchman or the other people in the society and locate them by name and god forbid if it is on a top floor with no lift has to climb all the way to the delivery point.

Surprisingly, at this point the people expecting the delivery are all ready with the door open ready to fire away at him/her for the late delivery. It is evident from my interactions with many delivery boys that the people do it purposefully as they are waiting at the door and the first thing they say is "Your Delivery is Late, we want it free and a refund for it" etc. This itself shows that the address and the calls not attended to are only ways to ensure that the delivery is late. (I say this from experience corraborated from one of the boys who said that after closing the door and while he was packing his box to leave the floor he could hear the people inside gleefully shouting away, saying "See how I got the free Pizza?". What a shame!

Sadly if it is indeed a late delivery even at the cost of the address being wrong or the person not responding to the call it becomes the supervisors call whether to give the delivery free (which in most cases they do) and furthermore the delivery boys/girls are reprimanded and fined for the late delivery.

I do not want to name any particular company or merchant but the person booking the order should ensure that the details are checked perfectly and if in doubt like the case I mentioned above where there is no building number they should call the person before even sending the delivery.

I have had these delivery boys even telling me that some of the people ordering the items are very rude, and some who are even in their high spirits when they reach them for delivery are difficult to handle and they have to be very careful in attending to them.

I sincerely salute these boys and girls who carry extremely high weights and sizes of loads, be it a courier or a food delivery merchant or a pick up service. I have seen some of them carrying loads so huge that we cannot even see them from behind.

The image of the boy in my above picture in the Blog is enough proof of how they must be managing their loads. I could manage to share only one image of the this boy who was looking so exhausted and tired with the overload and said "Sir, at least today there is no rain, but yesterday with the rain lashing at us like mad, it was very difficult to make deliveries on time". I felt sad for him, but could do nothing to lessen his burden. I have not named him or the company purposefully as the core issue is the treatment we mete out to them and this should be reviewed by all respective Merchants whoever they are! (I will be trying to write to some of them whose specific cases I have experienced, hoping they will understand).

I do this to any and all boys coming for delivery. I did offer him water if they need it but most of them humbly refuse it saying "Thank You Sir, you at least asked me for water" - "There are so many who will not do even that and bang the door on your face". Some of them eagerly accept it as it is much needed.

The Boy I met today left with a smile on his face when I told him I will write about this in my article and was surprised that this can happen at all in the first place! He thanked me, started the bike and was off to his next delivery. I could clearly see the dark circles around his eyes from the strain he may be going through but he was delivering with a smile!

A BIG SALUTE TO THEM ALL FOR BEARING ALL THE ODDS TO DELIVER OUR GOODS IN TIME.

A HUMBLE REQUEST TO ALL - Next time you order something online and especially your favorite Pizza or Burger coming with the "If It's Late - It's Free" do mention your full address clearly, with every detail, your contact number which please do pick up when called and at least show a little courtesy by doing the least you can do in asking them if they are ok and would like a glass of water (Which I am sure most would drink as they are mostly dehydrated by the sun and constant climbing up the stairs especially where there are no lifts). It doesn't cost you a dime to express our thanks and gratitude for the service they are offering. I can assure you the smile on their faces and the much needed compassion will go a long way!

Hanuman Chalisa In Hindi with meaning

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Thu, 06 Apr 2023 05:04:00 +0000

Hanuman Chalisa: In Hindi with meaning: Jai Hanuman Gnyan Gun Sagar

The Hanuman Chalisa (Devanagari: हनुमान चालीसा; Hindi pronunciation: [ɦənʊmaːn tʃaːliːsaː]; literally Forty chaupais on Hanuman) is a Hindu devotional hymn (stotra) addressed to Hanuman. It is traditionally believed to have been authored by Tulsidas in the Awadhi language, and is his best known text apart from the Ramcharitmanas.The word "chālīsā" is derived from "chālīs", which means "40" in Hindi, as the Hanuman Chalisa has 40 verses excluding the couplets at beginning and end.

Hanuman is a vanara (a monkey-like humanoid deity), a devotee of Rama, and one of the central characters in the Sanskrit epic Ramayana. Folk tales increasingly eulogise the powers of Hanuman, and he is considered by many to be an avatar of the god Shiva. The qualities of Hanuman – his strength, courage, wisdom, celibacy, devotion to Rama and the many names by which he was known – are detailed in the Hanuman Chalisa.There are more temples devoted to Hanuman than any other deity in India, and recitation of the Hanuman Chalisa is a common religious practice.(Courtesy- Wikipedia).

(The only reason I have posted this article in this Blog with the Hanuman Chalisa meaning and details is that it has had a very strong effect on my personal life, and truly as you will read in the explanation given blow, brought to me peace, strength, stability and calmness of mind when I am going through a very difficult and disturbing phase in my life. I hope other readers will also benefit from the power of the Hanuman Chalisa in making their life stronger, more peaceful and Happier.)

Take your time to read through the whole hymn slowly and absorb the meaning of "Chalisa" and you will understand why it is so strong and powerful!

Bhakta Hanuman

हनुमान चालीसा

Hanuman Chalisa

-Couplet -

श्रीगुरु चरण् सरोजरज, निजमनमुकुर सुधार ।
बरणौ रघुबर बिमल यश, जो दायक फलचार ॥
Shrii-Guru Charann Saroja-Raja, Nija-Mana-Mukura Sudhaara |
Barannau Raghu-Bara Bimala Yasha, Jo Daayaka Phala-Caara ||

Meaning:
With the Dust of the Lotus Feet of Sri Gurudeva, I Clean the Mirror of my Mind.
I Narrate the Sacred Glory of Sri Raghubar (Sri Rama Chandra), who Bestows the Four Fruits of Life (Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha).

बुद्धिहीन तनु जानिके, सुमिरौं पवन कुमार ।
बल बुद्धिविद्या देहु मोहिं, हरहु कलेश विकार ॥
Buddhi-Hiina Tanu Jaanike, Sumirau Pavan Kumaar |
Bala Buddhi-Vidyaa Dehu Mohi, Harahu Kalesha Vikaar ||

Meaning:
Considering Myself as Ignorant, I Meditate on You, O Pavan Kumar (Hanuman).
Bestow on me Strength, Wisdom and Knowledge, and Remove my Afflictions and Blemishes.
- 1 -
जय हनुमान ज्ञान गुण सागर ।
जै कपीस तिहुँलोक उजागर ॥
Jay Hanumaan Jnaan Gunn Saagar |
Jai Kapiis Tihu-Lok Ujaagar ||

Meaning:
Victory to You, O Hanuman, Who is the Ocean of Wisdom and Virtue,
Victory to the Lord of the Monkeys, Who is the Enlightener of the Three Worlds.

-2-
रामदूत अतुलित बलधामा ।
अंजनि-पुत्र पवन-सुत नामा ॥
Raama-Duut Atulit Bala-Dhaamaa |
Anjani-Putra Pavan-Sut Naamaa ||

Meaning:
You are the Messenger of Sri Rama possessing Immeasurable Strength,
You are Known as Anjani-Putra (son of Anjani) and Pavana-Suta (son of Pavana, the wind-god).

-3-
महाबीर बिक्रम बजरंगी ।
कुमति निवार सुमति के संगी ॥
Mahaa-biir Bikrama Bajarangii |
Kumati Nivaar Sumati Ke Sangii ||

Meaning:
You are a Great Hero, extremely Valiant, and body as strong as Thunderbolt,
You are the Dispeller of Evil Thoughts and Companion of Good Sense and Wisdom.

-4-
कंचन बरण बिराज सुबेशा ।
कानन कुंडल कुंचित केशा ॥
Kancan Barann Biraaj Subeshaa |
Kaanan Kunddala Kuncita Keshaa ||

Meaning:
You possess a Golden Hue, and you are Neatly Dressed,
You wear Ear-Rings and have beautiful Curly Hair.

-5-
हाथ बज्र औ ध्वजा बिराजै ।
काँधे मूँज जनेऊ साजै ॥
Haath Bajra Au Dhvajaa Biraajai |
Kaandhe Muuj Janeuu Saajai ||

Meaning:
You hold the Thunderbolt and the Flag in your Hands.
You wear the Sacred Thread across your Shoulder.

-6-
शंकर-सुवन केशरी-नन्दन ।
तेज प्रताप महा जग-वंदन ॥
Shankar-Suvan Kesharii-Nandan |
Teja Prataap Mahaa Jag-Vandan ||

Meaning:
You are the Incarnation of Lord Shiva and Son of Kesari,
You are Adored by the whole World on account of your Great Strength and Courage.

-7-
विद्यावान गुणी अति चातुर ।
राम काज करिबे को आतुर ॥
Vidyaavaan Gunnii Ati Caatur |
Raam Kaaj Karibe Ko Aatur ||

Meaning:
You are Learned, Virtuous and Extremely Intelligent,
You are always Eager to do the Works of Sri Rama.

-8-
प्रभु चरित्र सुनिबे को रसिया ।
रामलषण सीता मन बसिया ॥
Prabhu Caritra Sunibe Ko Rasiyaa |
Raamalassann Siitaa Man Basiyaa ||

Meaning:
You Delight in Listening to the Glories of Sri Rama,
You have Sri Rama, Sri Lakshmana and Devi Sita Dwelling in your Heart.

-9-
सूक्ष्म रूपधरि सियहिं दिखावा ।
विकट रूप धरि लंक जरावा ॥
Suukssma Ruupadhari Siyahi Dikhaavaa |
Vikatt Ruup Dhari Lamka Jaraavaa ||

Meaning:
You Appeared before Devi Sita Assuming a Diminutive Form (in Lanka),
You Assumed an Awesome Form and Burnt Lanka.

-10-
भीम रूप धरि असुर सँहारे ।
रामचन्द्र के काज सँवारे ॥
Bhiim Ruup Dhari Asur Samhaare |
Raamacandra Ke Kaaj Samvaare ||

Meaning:
You Assumed a Gigantic Form and Destroyed the Demons,
Thereby Accomplishing the Task of Sri Rama.

-11-
लाय सजीवन लखन जियाये ।
श्री रघुबीर हरषि उर लाये ॥
Laay Sajiivan Lakhan Jiyaaye |
Shrii Raghubiir Harassi Ur Laaye ||

Meaning:
You Brought the Sanjivana herb and Revived Sri Lakshmana.
Because of this Sri Rama Embraced You overflowing with Joy.

-12-
रघुपति कीन्ही बहुत बडाई ।
तुम मम प्रिय भरतहिसम भाई ॥
Raghupati Kiinhii Bahut Baddaaii |
Tum Mam Priya Bharatahisam Bhaaii ||

Meaning:
Sri Rama Praised You Greatly,
And said: "You are as dear to me as my brother Bharata".

-13-
सहस बदन तुम्हरो यश गावैं ।
अस कहि श्रीपति कण्ठ लगावैं ॥
Sahas Badan Tumharo Yash Gaavai |
As Kahi Shriipati Kanntth Lagaavai ||

Meaning:
"The Thousand Headed Seshnag Sings Your Glory",
Said Sri Rama to You taking you in his Embrace.

-14-
सनकादिक ब्रह्मादि मुनीशा ।
नारद शारद सहित अहीशा ॥
Sanakaadik Brahmaadi Muniishaa |
Naarad Shaarad Sahit Ahiishaa ||

Meaning:
Sanaka and other Sages, Lord Brahma and other Gods,
Narada, Devi Saraswati and Seshnag ...

-15-
यम कुबेर दिगपाल जहाँते ।
कवि कोविद कहि सकैं कहाँते ॥
Yam Kuber Digapaal Jahaate |
Kavi Kovid Kahi Sakai Kahaate ||

Meaning:
Yama (god of death), Kubera (god of wealth), Digpalas (the guardian deities),
Poets and Scholars have not been able to Describe Your Glories in full.

-16-
तुम उपकार सुग्रीवहिं कीन्हा ।
राम मिलाय राजपद दीन्हा ॥
Tum Upakaar Sugriivahi Kiinhaa |
Raam Milaay Raajapad Diinhaa ||

Meaning:
You Rendered a great Help to Sugriva.
You Introduced him to Sri Rama and thereby Gave back his Kingdom.

-17-
तुम्हरो मंत्र विभीषण माना ।
लंकेश्वर भये सब जग जाना ॥
Tumharo Mamtra Vibhiissann Maanaa |
Lamkeshvar Bhaye Sab Jag Jaanaa ||

Meaning:
Vibhisana Followed your Advice,
And the Whole World Knows that he became the King of Lanka.

-18-
युग सहस्र योजन पर भानू ।
लील्यो ताहि मधुर फल जानू ॥
Yuga Sahasra Yojana Para Bhaanuu |
Liilyo Taahi Madhura Phala Jaanuu ||

Meaning:
The Sun which was at a distance of Sixteen Thousand Miles,
You Swallowed It (the Sun) thinking it to be a Sweet Fruit.

-19-
प्रभु मुद्रिका मेलि मुख माहीं ।
जलधि लाँधि गये अचरजनाहीं ॥
Prabhu Mudrikaa Meli Mukh Maahii |
Jaladhi Laadhi Gaye Acarajanaahii ||

Meaning:
Carrying Lord Sri Rama's Ring in your Mouth,
You Crossed the Ocean, no Wonder in that.

-20-
दुर्गम काज जगत के जेते ।
सुगम अनुग्रह तुम्हरे तेते ॥
Durgam Kaaja Jagat Ke Jete |
Sugam Anugrah Tumhare Tete ||

Meaning:
All the Difficult Tasks in this World,
Are Rendered Easy by your Grace.

-21-
राम दुआरे तुम रखवारे ।
होत न आज्ञा बिन पैसारे ॥
Raam Duaare Tum Rakhavaare |
Hot Na Aajnyaa Bin Paisaare ||

Meaning:
You are the Gate-Keeper of Sri Rama's Kingdom.
No one can Enter without Your Permission.

-22-
सब सुख लहै तुम्हारी सरना ।
तुम रक्षक काहू को डरना ॥
Sab Sukha Lahai Tumhaarii Saranaa |
Tum Rakssak Kaahuu Ko Ddaranaa ||

Meaning:
Those who take Refuge in You enjoy all Happiness.
If You are the Protector, what is there to Fear?

-23-
आपन तेज सम्हारो आपै ।
तीनों लोक हाँकते काँपै ॥
Aapan Tej Samhaaro Aapai |
Tiino Lok Haakate Kaapai ||

Meaning:
You alone can Control Your Great Energy.
When you Roar, the Three Worlds Tremble.

-24-
भूत पिशाच निकट नहिं आवै ।
महाबीर जब नाम सुनावै ॥
Bhuut Pishaaca Nikatt Nahi Aavai |
Mahaabiir Jab Naam Sunaavai ||

Meaning:
Ghosts and Evil Spirits will Not Come Near,
When one Utters the Name of Mahavir (Hanuman).

-25-
नाशौ रोग हरै सब पीरा ।
जपत निरन्तर हनुमत बीरा ॥
Naashau Rog Harai Sab Piiraa |
Japat Nirantar Hanumat Biiraa ||

Meaning:
You Destroy Diseases and Remove all Pains,
When one Utters your Name Continuously.

-26-
संकट से हनुमान छुडावै ।
मन क्रम बचन ध्यान जो लावै ॥
Samkatt Se Hanumaan Chuddaavai |
Man Kram Bacan Dhyaan Jo Laavai ||

Meaning:
Hanuman Frees one from Difficulties,
When one Meditates on Him with Mind, Deed and Words.

-27-
सब पर राम तपस्वी राजा ।
तिनके काज सकल तुम साजा ॥
Sab Par Raam Tapasvii Raajaa |
Tinake Kaaj Sakal Tum Saajaa ||

Meaning:
Sri Rama is the King of the Tapaswis (devotees engaged in penances).
And You (Hanuman) Fulfill all Works of Sri Rama (as a caretaker).

-28-
और मनोरथ जो कोइ लावै ।
सोइ अमित जीवन फल पावै ॥
Aur Manorath Jo Koi Laavai |
Soi Amit Jiivan Phal Paavai ||

Meaning:
Devotees who have any Other Desires,
Will ultimately get the Highest Fruit of Life.

-29-
चारों युग परताप तुम्हारा ।
है परसिद्ध जगत उजियारा ॥
Caaro Yug Parataap Tumhaaraa |
Hai Parasiddh Jagat Ujiyaaraa ||

Meaning:
Your Glory prevails in all the Four Ages.
And your Fame Radiates throughout the World.

-30-
साधु संत के तुम रखवारे ।
असुर निकंदन राम दुलारे ॥
Saadhu Sant Ke Tum Rakhavaare |
Asur Nikandan Raam Dulaare ||

Meaning:
You are the Saviour of the Saints and Sages.
You Destroy the Demons, O Beloved of Sri Rama.

-31-
अष्टसिद्धि नव निधि के दाता ।
अस बर दीन जानकी माता ॥
Assttasiddhi Nava Nidhi Ke Daataa |
As Bar Diin Jaanakii Maataa ||

Meaning:
You can Give the Eight Siddhis (supernatural powers) and Nine Nidhis (types of devotions).
Mother Janaki (Devi Sita) gave this Boon to you.

-32-
राम रसायन तुम्हरे पासा ।
सदा रहो रघुपति के दासा ॥
Raam Rasaayan Tumhare Paasaa |
Sadaa Raho Raghupati Ke Daasaa ||

Meaning:
You hold the Essence of Devotion to Sri Rama.
You Always Remain as the Servant of Raghupati (Sri Rama).

-33-
तुम्हरे भजन रामको पावै ।
जन्म जन्म के दुख बिसरावै ॥
Tumhare Bhajan Raamako Paavai |
Janma Janma Ke Dukh Bisaraavai ||

Meaning:
Through Devotion to You, one gets Sri Rama,
Thereby getting Free of the Sorrows of Life after Life.

-34-
अन्त काल रघुपति पुर जाई ।
जहाँ जन्म हरिभक्त कहाई ॥
Anta Kaal Raghupati Pur Jaaii |
Jahaa Janma Hari-Bhakta Kahaaii ||

Meaning:
At the End one Goes to the Abode of Raghupati (Sri Rama).
Where one is Known as the Devotee of Hari.

-35-
और देवता चित्त न धरई ।
हनुमत सेइ सर्व सुख करई ॥
Aur Devataa Citta Na Dharaii |
Hanumat Sei Sarva Sukh Karaii ||

Meaning:
Even without Worshipping any Other Deities,
One Gets All Happiness who Worships Sri Hanuman.

-36-
संकट हरै मिटै सब पीरा ।
जो सुमिरै हनुमत बल बीरा ॥
Sankatta Harai Mittai Sab Piiraa |
Jo Sumirai Hanumat Bala Biiraa ||

Meaning:
Difficulties Disappear and Sorrows are Removed,
For Those who Contemplate on the Powerful Sri Hanuman.

-37-
जै जै जै हनुमान गोसाई ।
कृपा करहु गुरुदेव की नाई ॥
Jai Jai Jai Hanumaan Gosaaii |
Krpaa Karahu Gurudev Kii Naaii ||

Meaning:
Victory, Victory, Victory to You, O Hanuman,
Please Bestow your Grace as our Supreme Guru.

-38-
जोह शत बार पाठ कर जोई ।
छुटहि बन्दि महासुख होई ॥
Joh Shat Baar Paattha Kar Joii |
Chuttahi Bandi Mahaasukh Hoii ||

Meaning:
Those who Recite this Hanuman Chalisa one hundred times (with devotion),
Will get Freed from Worldly Bondage and get Great Happiness.

-39-
जो यह पढै हनुमान चालीसा ।
होय सिद्धि साखी गौरीसा ॥
Jo Yah Paddhai Hanumaan Caaliisaa |
Hoy Siddhi Saakhii Gauriisaa ||

Meaning:
Those who Read the Hanuman Chalisa (with devotion),
Will become Perfect, Lord Shiva is the Witness.

-40-
तुलसीदास सदा हरि चेरा ।
कीजै नाथ हृदय महँ डेरा ॥
Tulasiidaas Sadaa Hari Ceraa |
Kiijai Naatha Hrday Mah Dderaa ||

Meaning:
Tulsidas who is Always the Servant of Hari.
Prays the Lord to Reside in his Heart.

-Couplet-
पवनतनय संकट हरन,
मंगल मूरति रूप ।
रामलषन सीता सहित,
हृदय बसहु सुरभूप ॥
Pavanatanaya Samkatt Harana,
Mamgal Muurati Ruup |
Raamalassan Siitaa Sahit,
Hrday Basahu Surabhuup ||

Meaning:
Sri Hanuman, who is the Son of Pavana, who Removes Difficulties,
Who has an Auspicious Form,
With Sri Rama, Sri Lakshmana and Devi Sita,
Please Dwell in my Heart.

Proffering my services as a Citizen Reporter

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Mon, 09 Jan 2023 18:26:00 +0000

Proffering my services as a Citizen Reporter

On this my 64th Birthday today, the 10th of January 2023, I rise to the Challenge in proffering my services as a Citizen Reporter, primarily catering to the needs of and helping Senior Citizens. I will also be attending to Social Causes that are now disturbing our society.

Age has never been a bar for me to take on any challenge, nor has the challenges to take up something new but in line with my genre of work. I have always had the penchant and liking for connecting with causes that related to Social betterment, Civic Apathy, and reviewing them to come out with solutions that could benefit all those connected with the issue. Wherever and whenever possible I rose up to take on those challenges, whether it being a signing a petition, for a good and noble cause, being a part of that group, contributing in whatever way I could and trying to learn more, so I could contribute in a more solid part of that work.

This is my New Year resolution that I will be starting to write and publish content and information which will be helpful to all Senior Citizens, as I had a lot of them requesting me to do it as many of them do not have proper access to such information let alone know the rights of Senior Citizens. That will be the most Noble cause I can contribute to.

I will be shortly start operating as a "Citizen Reporter" and later also as a "Citizen Journalist" once I connect with the relevant associations. I am already doing some online courses in Journalism, Reporting, Mass media to help me in my work. Once fully operational I will be connecting and reporting to major ministries of the Gov.in including PMO and all relevant ministries. I had already connected, finance, home and other relevant ministries and ministers on certain issues that I felt I could give inputs on, but will now operate on a more specific and responsible platform.

It is a vast process connecting with each so I am doing it step by step. I will also be uniquely connecting even with National Cyber Crime reporting Portal, a few special Maharashtra Police Channels, PCMC, etc. I would be also connecting and trying to report to selected News papers from a list of over 40 top papers, Associations, and Federations doing Citizen Reporting. I am also connecting with a vast number of Associations and Bodies including Government Of India Sites, helping out Senior Citizens and will showcase their services through my posts.

It is a daunting task that would require total focus and application to the cause of the help for Senior Citizens, and I will leave no opportunity where I can learn something and use it for the cause. I will also be in due course of time creating a separate Page, Group for Senior Citizens help, involving the same Senior Citizens I have connected with, giving them an opportunity to share their experience and also be an integral part of this whole noble exercise.

In this noble cause and responsibility I seek the Best Wishes and Blessings of all Elders, Senior Citizens, Family, Friends and Well-Wishers, and look forward to your active participation with me in making this a success!

This is only my introductory post on my Blog and very soon I would be having a separate Blog for this work, but wanted to use this day to give my work a fitting start. Do keep a watch for my next post.

Divine Interventions of the Nirvana Experience.

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Tue, 15 Nov 2022 05:38:00 +0000

Divine Interventions of the Nirvana Experience.

Sometimes, in Life we need to go through an experience to get to know the real sense of what life and living actually means. In my promise to bring to you a sequel of posts relating to "Seeking Within", here is my first post.

Let's consider it as a test for you and as an eyeopener to what is yet to come. I may sound simple, but when you actually try it out; you will know the intensity and profoundness of this experience, in relation to practical life.

I had gone through a series of these true life experiences many times but had never collated them together in a sequence that let me actually know what these "Divine Interventions" meant for me. Here they are set before you to try and experience the same.

Let these small exercises not be a light event or "Let's try and see" sort of experiences. Take them seriously, and you will experience a Re-Awakening of yourself as never before.

I will take you back to some of your 5 main senses of any Human being, without which life becomes almost nonexistent. Sight, Hearing, Speaking, Sense of Touch, and Sense of smell. How you may say are these tests going to re-awaken me? Read on and you will see for yourself. As I said earlier, please take this very seriously.

Before you try out these experiences, I suggest you select a quiet room which will be free of any disturbances or intrusions while you are going through this sequence of experiences. It would be good to have another friend or family member with you who you could use as an aid in your divine experience who can also make notes of your behavior or or external stimuli and could later take part in the same experience which will corroborate your experiences as well.

Light a calm/soft scented incense or Dhoop stick in a corner that will create a sense of divine ambiance for you. Give yourself enough time to experience this and not rush to do it in a rushed up time or hurry to start and finish it. Now try these steps one by one and if possible make notes of each and every experience of yours. You could use your aid to help in this noting.

1. SENSE OF SIGHT: Sit in a calm "Padmasana - or Lotus Position" in a quiet room, if possible undisturbed by any one other than any other person you may want to use for this experience. Sit is very comfortable position, straight back but relaxed, and if possible each of your arms extended on your knees or if even more comfortable create a lotus stance with both hands near your belly. Close your eyes, and keep a steady breathing. Think of any divine image or anything that pleases you, but at no moment will you open your eyes.

At this moment your sense of Eyesight is closed. But you can hear everything around you. Try to absorb each and every feeling and experience you are getting. The sounds around you, including the sound of your own breath, your heart beating. Do not speak at all for some time. Enhance your sense of feeling. Try to see how much you can "Feel" the area around you! The chill in the air, or the heat, or any feeling of movement, but all this without moving any part of your body.

Do this for a few minutes. You may note down your experience or quickly share it to your aid to make notes so that you do not break your sense of concentration.

2. SENSE OF HEARING: After a few minutes of releasing your body from any stiffness, taking a deep breath, or a natures break if needed, go back to the same pose. Now keep your eyes open, but see if you can use a pair of Ear Plugs to put in your ears that will shut off totally any external sounds. Take a deep breath and continue in the same position for some time. Now your eyes are totally open, but you cannot hear anything at all. You can feel your surroundings, talk but cannot hear what the other person is saying or any sound around you. Soak in that full experience. Make those notes after you finish or ask your aid to make notes.

3. SENSE OF SPEECH: You are now back to the same position, but this time your eyes are open, you can hear, but you cannot speak a single word. Your sense of feeling is not hindered as well. Experience each small feeling or sound or what is around you, but you cannot say anything. Note down your experience but as in this test you cannot speak to your aid you will have to note it down yourself.

4. SENSE OF SMELL AND SENSE OF TOUCH: - Obviously you cannot experience these by not using them. Neither will you be able to survive without breathing or smelling and neither can you stall the sense of feeling on your skin and body. This in itself shows the importance of these two senses. They are omnipresent and cannot be detached from your body as long as you are living.

ANALYSIS OF YOUR ABOVE EXPERIENCE:

You may have made your own notes, but let me elaborate on how each of my own experiences lead to my own re-awakening and how you can relate with them too.

It is not possible that what I may have experienced would be the same or there will be a marked level of intensity of the experience, depending on the severity and seriousness with which you may have done this experiment.

I have already mentioned in the last part that no human being can in a normal situation detach himself from the sense of breathing or touch. There are Yogis however who can hold their breath or control their breathing to a level which is not possible for normal beings and even stop their heart beats. But we are not looking forward to even trying out those levels of Nirvana. The sense of Touch can be developed to a very high level by doing Yoga, wherein your body gets acclimatized to the situations around you, and there are many people who can stay for hours or even days in the freezing snow and temperatures well below freezing point. Let us not elaborate on these two elements in this chapter.

What I wanted to point out is when we are reaching out to experience Nirvana we need to understand the importance of the first three sense of Sight, Speech and Hearing. In our first experience you may have experienced that it becomes very difficult to keep your eyes closed by yourself. But this enhances your other senses. You try to imagine those things which you cannot see with your eyes open, but now you do it with your eyes closed. That was only possible because you have seen those objects with your eyes open, before you went into this trance of an experiment.

Your sense of smell is unhindered. But when your sense of hearing is stopped from being used, the whole scenario changes. You almost feel helpless, and want to reach out for something. This same experience is when your eyes are closed. But here you can at least see and speak.

Now we experience the third position where you can see, feel, hear but cannot speak. Each of those experiences will give you a very high degree of a sense of wanting that element in your body.

One more position I want you to experience is with your eyes closed, your ears closed with the ear buds, no speech, while you breath, and feel your surroundings. Trust me this may be difficult but this is the most divine of all experiences. You are reaching out to the divine Universe in way as never experience before.

I call this a sense of Cosmic Visualization or connecting with the divine. I will write about this in another post.

Suffice to say that this small but very critical experience or test was created to make you aware of how each of your sense is important to you and the absence of any one of them can turn your whole life around.

THE DIVINE REALIZATION:

What I wanted you all to realize is the importance of each of these states of realizations.

Put yourself now in the position of:

* A Visually Impaired person.

* A Hearing Impaired person.

* A Speech Impaired person.

* A person who has multiple impairments of the above faculty.

If for a moment you were to actually visualize yourself in any one or multiple situations of the above levels of impairment, you will for sure be overwhelmed and emotionally moved. You will realize the importance of each of these faculties and how their impairment also enhances the other faculty to a level you never expected.

My Divine intervention dawned on me in not one but each of these exercises that I did. I felt a sense of connect with the Cosmos and the Universe in a way that is hard to describe in words. You will be overtaken by emotions that lead you to tears, but these are not tears of fear or hurt; but they are tears of joy at having touched a faculty that you never thought existed beyond your 5 senses. I have been fortunate to have developed what we call as the 6th Sense or the faculty of Premonition / Clairvoyane and it has developed to such a level that there have been innumerable instances of "Divine Interventions" as I call them where my life has been saved.

I have mentioned these in my Memoirs - "Untold" - Memoirs of a Different Kind, which is available on Amazon. Click on the link below if you would like to reach out to my memoirs to read more about these experiences.

"Untold" - Memoirs of a Different Kind.

All I would like to say is these small exercises are only the first steps towards achieving Nirvana. It is so rightly said in simple words that "Nirvana is the state where the fires of attachment, avrsion, and ignorance extinguish, and one experiences true peace and happiness". It is only when you detach from one faculty that you are so connected with, that you realize its importance and also that of the other faculty stands out in stark contrast.

I will be publishing a series of post on this subject, but this was only a starting point of the sequel of post to follow.

I have personally read so many books about Nirvana, How to achieve Nirvana and more, but never understood the true meaning of it until I actually started practising small exercises like what I have described above to experience what it really means to achieve Nirvana.

Here are some of those books which you could read and open your minds so that your path towards achieving Nirvana will be a lot easier and smooth.

SOME AMAZING BOOKS ABOUT NIRVANA FOR YOU TO READ.

Do not read the books with an academic or literary persepctive but try to absorb each word, its meaning and how it connects with your life and your psyche, more so with your connection with the Cosmos and the Universe.

I hope this feeder post will revive a new interest for reading subjects that not only will empower your knowledge but open new avenues in your life in making your own life and that of others around you better.

KEEP READING, STAY HAPPY, STAY BLESSED!

Brahma Muhurta ब्रह्म मुहूर्त The Creator’s Time!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 07:54:00 +0000

Brahma Muhurta (ब्रह्म मुहूर्त)The Creator’s Time!

It's been many years since I have been trying to follow the cosmic clock so to say. But recently I have taken up a serious following and practice of the use of the "Brahma Muhurta The Creator’s Time!" to my benefit.

So in this post let me try to explain as briefly as I can what we mean by "Brahma Muhurta The Creator’s Time!" - Basically I will try to cover the What, When and How it can benefit anyone making use of this divine cosmic time period.

For all academic purposes the Wikipedia describes Brahmamuhurta (Sanskrit - ब्रह्म मुहूर्त, literally meaning 'time of Bramha') is a period (muhurta) that begins one hour and 36 minutes before sunrise, and ends 48 minutes before sunrise. It is traditionally the penultimate phase or muhurta of the night, and is considered an auspicious time for all practices of yoga and most appropriate for meditation, worship or any other religious practice. Spiritual activities performed early in the morning are said to have a greater effect than in any other part of the day.

You may find many specific time ranges in different sites as they refer to a specific event. But for all practical purposes - Brahmamuhurta is the morning period between 3.30 a.m. and 5.30 a.m. It is suitable for meditation. After a good nights sleep the mind is fresh, relaxed and alert. There is a preponderance of Sattva, or Purity in the mind as well as the atmosphere in the cosmic space.

Yogis, Paramahamsas, Sannyasins, aspirants and Rishis start their meditation during this Brahma Muhurta, thereby sending their vibrations throughout the world, benefiting all.

I have personally experience that I am now automatically awake well before 3.00 am irrespective of what time I sleep, and utilize that divine time to my benefit.

What you should do in that period and how to do it is explained in many sites and by many Gurus, and Ascetics in their own way. But to put it in simple terns, all you need to do is freshen up quickly, and be alert, jovial, happy and one with the cosmos. You may just sit is a comfortable Kamalasan (Lotus Pose), or as comfortable as you can. Dwell upon any divine thought or a deity of your choice or if you have been given any specific Diksha Mantra by your Gurus, that would be a best time to recite them.

It should be a totally peaceful time and not a loud recital of whatever you want to express. Say it in your mind or murmur it in a soft and divine way to connect with the Universe. Try to feel the ambiance and you will see a drastic experience like never before overcome you. I cannot describe it in words but you will for sure experience it personally.

VERY IMPORTANT:

Avoid involving yourself in any stressful mental activity as it will affect your mind and can even reduce your lifespan. Also, avoid sleeping after Brahma Muhurta to store the accumulated cosmic energy and be more productive.

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There is so much to write about the Brahma Muhurat, but to make it easier and faster for you to know more about it I have shared a few of the Best links I could find authentic and genuine content shared about this very important topic. I am also embedding a Video by Sadhguru Ji which really explains the concept so well and is little time. You can watch the video in many languages from their site or from their YouTube Channel.

Something Phenomenal Happens at 3:40 AM – Sadhguru | Brahma Muhurtam:

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Some of the Links which I found really great information for reading about Brahma Muhurat are given below.

Click on the Bold Headings to be directed to the respective articles.

Brahma Muhurta Wikipedia.

Brahma Muhurta: The Best Time For Meditation.

Brahma Muhurta: The What, When, and benefits of Waking up.

All I can say is that I have personally benefited from this experience and I am sure you too will be excited to do so. So without much ado, get started. Yes you may find it a bit difficult when you start it for the first time, but trust me, once you become one with the cycle, you will wake up automatically and what is most important is your whole day will be an experience to remember!

Happy reading and Hope you are able to become one with the Universe as I am doing!

BE BLESSED!

Life is Like a Coin - Pleasure and Pain are two sides!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 07:11:00 +0000

Life is Like a Coin - Pleasure and Pain are two sides!

Life has always surprised me all through the years of my existence and I have always learned to respect every stage and take it in my stride.

We always try and compare Life to a Coin, but never in the right perspective. Flipping a Coin is a totally different concept where in there is an element of uncertainty which we term as a sort of "Gamble" which in itself is a misnomer. We are intentionally using the two sides of the coin to come to a selection of a choice, knowing very well that each side has a different image on it. The relevance of those images or prints is more academic and symbolic , than emotional.

When we try to compare the Coin with Life, it relates to a totally different perspective. Life is certainly like a coin, where we can only see one side of it at one time. The other side is hidden, and can be seen or becomes visible only when we turnover the coin or flip it. But we cannot flip Life like a coin. Life shows its two faces only when the time comes and we can either get to see the happier side or it or the pain. We never know, very similar to the coin flip if the same side will come to face us or we may get to experience the extreme other side of it.

If you are lucky to get the happier side , there could always be the severity of that happiness, joy, happiness, ecstasy or various other levels of happiness. It could also happen that Life shows you the extreme opposite of it immediately and slip you into an experience of sadness, pain, or totally despair.

We have to learn to face both sides with equanimity, especially in difficult times.

This Hindi proverb says it so well, - "Life is like two sides of a coin! Sometimes there is happiness and sometimes sorrow, when there is happiness then do not be proud, and when you're in pain, be patient"

Over this year I had many incidents that made me look at life in a totally different perspective. It actually made me wiser, and stronger, and I would like to share some of those experiences.

We often tend to look at the sadder part and keep crying over it, but never look and both the sides and learn from it. Although major part of my life's experiences had been unsparing for me I started looking it them as a lesson rather than pain thrust on me.

One example of looking at life in the right perspective is so well expressed by this image, that matches my feelings and experiences.

"मेरी किस्मत में तो कुछ यूँ लिखा हैं, किसी ने वक़्त गुजारने के लिए अपना बनाया, तो, किसी ने अपना बनाकर वक़्त गुजार लिया।" -

I used to always complain as to why I am at the receiving end of all these experiences? Why were people using me like a doormat, or a stepping stone to achieve their motives. But my integrity and upbringing came to the fore. I was always taught the you are here in this life for a reason and with a mission. The moment you except that that is your mission, but at the same time learn from those experiences, it can change your whole perspective to life.

I started distancing myself from the pain and those people who were trying to misuse me and my kindness, my humility to make their ends meet their goals. I forgave them all, with a view to pardon their ignorance, while never shunning any opportunity to help them if they needed it in spite of their behavior towards me. That gave me peace of mind, and also made me more assertive in my choices in life.

Coming back to the few events that marked this whole period of my life this year, I looked back since the first month of the Year. I had great plans on he bench. Completing and publishing 3 of my books including my Memoirs, Picking up and starting a new chapter and profession in my life of being a Citizen Journalist, and Social Activist, to publishing my new Books in a different form of Flip Books.

All my efforts were going in vain, but I realized that at every stage I was learning something important and new. It was a stage of knowledge empowerment for me, and I accepted it in all humility and happiness.

Although as they say "Better Late than Never", I was able to publish my Memoirs - "Untold - Memoirs of a Different Kind" on 3rd October 2022. I was also able to work on many aspects of my learning and collating information for my becoming a Citizen Journalist which I would be announcing shortly. It involved learning through courses the many legal aspects as well as the very basics of Citizen Journalism, getting connected with the various Newspapers that invite the general public to be a part of their News Articles, and connecting with he various Government and Ministries that linked to this work. The work is still in progress and I will be happy to share it at the earliest.

I then realized and experienced what is called the "Heads, you're mine; Tails, I'm Yours" perspective.

I came to accept and understand that life plays he same with you. All you have to do is accept it at face value.

While the positives came in a bit later for me but ever since the month of October started there was so much positive that had happened. But then life also gave me it's two saddest moments.

12th of October I lost one of my most respected and Loved Mentors, my Ex-Boss and fatherly figure Shri. Sadandand Dattatray Shingne. I have already published a post about this as it was a chapter in my life which cannot be separated from me. It came as a rude shock at a moment when I was just recovering from a spate of happiness and positivity coming my way. But again I took it in my stride, as that is exactly what Mr. Shigne had taught me to do in life and my behaving otherwise would have been a mark of disrespect to that great personality. Very few people have made such a lasting impression on my life and in fact very few people even knew about this as I had kept him very close to my heart.

The second incident came in as a rude shock just yesterday. It triggered so many thought in my mind but I will only express the relevant ones in this Post.

In our Cooperative Society that we stay we have a very devout and learned couple Mrs. and Mr. M Shaikh; (Both well qualified Teachers). They had 2 daughters and a Son staying with them and are resident on the ground floor of our society where I stay on the 1st Floor. For the last over 20 years we have been very close, albeit maybe not so the same with the other society members.

As is normally in many societies or rather that it should be, we were all like a close knit family.Over the years their daughters were both very much attached to us especially me, calling me "Uncle, Uncle" and happily rushing to us to inform of any achievements that they had in their life. The elder daughter had been one of the first few in our area to pass out with Distinction in her 10th and the same was repeated by her younger sister as well. The Elder went on to become a Doctor, now happily married and settled, while the younger daughter was just pursuing her 11th. Her brother also was close on heels.

Many were the happy times we share moments like their Academic achievements, Id, and when they had gone to Haj Pilgrimage and they had brought from their "Holy Water" from Mecca for my daughter. Those were he happy side of he coin.

Long story short, while on one side we a home were preparing for "Laxmi Pujan" which was to be performed in he evening, I was shaken when I noticed a lot of people accumulating below. I immediately went down and got to know that the younger daughter was no more. They had lost her in tragic circumstances. I felt weak in my knees as I went towards their home to get to know that this young sixteen/seventeen year old was no more.

As not many people were informed as it was in the early stages of the occurrence of the tragedy, I rushed to convey the same to all our society members.

Without elaborating much on the other events, suffice to say that I was there with them from that moment onward until the final stages of their Burial of this young soul at their local "Kabristan". The family being very close to me personally was totally shattered and it tool me and my daughter all our resolve to try and console them, we ourselves breaking down inconsolably.

I cannot still forge those last moments when I collected the mud around the grave and poured it on the lowered remains of her departed soul. As happy smiling and joyful soul was no more and in a few hours totally merged with the Universe. It took me the whole day to grasp the intensity of the moment, and as I write this post; I am still weak and shattered by the events that came upon the family and us as well.

We all prayed for the departed soul while I can only say 🤲😪 पूरे शेख परिवार के प्रति हमारी गहरी संवेदना। ईश्वर उन्हें इस अपार क्षति को सहने की शक्ति प्रदान करें। दिवंगत आत्मा की शांति के लिए प्रार्थना। अल्लाह उन्हें जन्नत-उल-फिरदौस दे।😪🤲

The reason for my writing this post was very clearly in expressing the feeling that go through a persons mind during the course of our lives. All these events are like chapters of our life where each chapter is teaching you something.

What we have to understand and inculcate is the habit of having a perspective towards life of acceptance, humility and above all gratitude. We cannot be happy and thank life for the good things that we get and either curse or cry over the sadder part of our lives. We have to have the humility and grace to accept it as a part of our lives, and take it in our stride. It is always that we find the brightness at the end of a dark tunnel.

There have been umpteen occasions in my life that have given me immense happiness and joy, while there have also been the saddest and most searing moments in my life when my closest relatives, friends and well wishers have departed from me suddenly. While I pray for all those departed souls, and still hold them close to my heart, I thank life for giving me the lessons in a way only life can!

I conclude by once again reiterating my belief "Life is like two sides of a coin! Sometimes there is happiness and sometimes sorrow, when there is happiness then do not be proud, and when you're in pain, be patient"

I am Humbled by these experiences!

Late Shri. Sadanand Dattatraya Shingne - The Passing away of a Legacy of Compassion!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Wed, 19 Oct 2022 19:55:00 +0000

Late Shri. Sadanand Dattatraya Shingne - The Passing away of a Legacy of Compassion!

Babasaheb passed away, after a brief illness, on 12th October 2022 at the age of 75 years.

It is with a heavy heart and emotions that cannot be controlled, that I take this opportunity to dedicate this post to one of the few people in my life who have made a lasting impression on my character and career.

I was grief stricken when I got the news of the passing away of Shri. Sadanand Dattatraya Shingne - fondly knows as "Baba" or "Babasaheb" to all others in the Industry. To me and to all those who have known him Baba Personally, he was a very kind, spiritually inclined & family-oriented person with an ever-helping nature.

He was a thorough engineer with an eye for detail in whatever he did. He was a pioneer in “lead acid battery machinery” manufacturing, in the sense that, in the very early years, when everyone chose to import battery machines, he had the foresight to take up the stiffest challenges and lead as one of the finest Lead Acid Battery Machinery manufactures of those times.

I am referring to the time that I joined Shingania Services as it was called in those days later incorporated as Shingania Batteries Pvt. Limited. I had joined them in the early 90's and the very first memories of those times still linger till date in my mind and heart. That is the very reason for my creating this post.

There will be so much to write about Babasaheb as an Industrialist, profoundly thoughtful Engineer, Caring yet extremely disciplined Director and Founder and Pioneer of the Lead Acid Battery Machinery Industry. But I dedicate this post purely to share to the world two incidents in my life which leave me indebted to him for ever, and always leave me overwhelmed with emotion. Not even many of my closest friends or family even know about this as I had always held these two incidents very close to my heart!

The first incident I will never forget is the day of my Interview at their office in Mohan Nagar, Chinchwad. As I entered his cabin, a bit nervous as well as apprehensive, I felt a sudden overpowering aura of a human being who was spiritually inclined and compassionate. Even through his strong presence as a commanding and demanding Director as I was told him to be, I sensed a very soft and blessed side of him the moment I slowly settled into the seat opposite him.

He was always soft spoken, to the point, and knew exactly what he wanted, and above all he could see through your face and feelings like no other person I have met till date. The interview went well, and I was selected and asked to join immediately. While concluding the interview, Babasaheb as he was always known to be like that, shifted gears into a very personal realm. He was always known to treat business / work / home / and family in their own compartments. Never mixing one with the other, yet giving all due respect to each one of them individually. There was never a sense of compromise between any of the above.

From the stern Director / Founder to a totally Fatherly figure, he immediately put me at ease and asked me why I was so nervous and shaking during the interview. He inquired all about me, my family, and who and my home front in Pune. I told him that I was from Mumbai and staying alone with my wife and Mother. I told him that my mother, my uncles and other family members were my caretakers, and mentors all through my life as my father had separated from my mother when I was a very small child leaving me with no personal memory of my father. I myself was a bit emotional at that time as my mother used to be sick due to Diabetes and Chronic Asthmatic conditions and I was worried about her. He patiently wanted to listen to my whole story, and even asked one of the staff who wanted to talk to him to wait for a while, until I finished my narration of my life's story.

At the end of the interview and the short personal session that followed, I noticed his eyes had moistened, as were mine, and he slowly got up, came up to me and gave me a long warm fatherly hug. I was all the more emotionally overwhelmed as ever since my childhood I had yearned for that fatherly hug and it was maybe over two decades since I had got one apart from those from my uncles and aunt's. He smiled and me through those moist eyes, and said "Be strong, and if you need anything, anytime just come to me", and waved back and left the cabin, while asking me to report to duty the next morning.

I fall short of words, even today to express those feeling during that short interview session that I had and never have I had such an experience in my life till date.

Today the 19th of October 2022, one of my friends from the same company who are together in a WhatsApp Group messaged me with this Obituary message that had come up in the Newspapers, and it sent a rush of emotions once again on seeing that same divine face and reminding me that he is no more!

Memories rushed back to the 2nd of March 1991, the day my mother passed away. My mother Late. Mrs. Nirmala G. Kate had passed away at a fairly young age of 61 due to prolonged illness. I was at that time staying at Bhosari - Sandvik Colony area, with my wife and mother in a huge bungalow of my friend which he had asked me take care of. I had barely no other close relatives staying in Pune at that time apart from a distant, uncle, a Doctor himself, who fortunately stayed in the same colony. Apart from them I had no other close contacts from my family side here in Pune. I had my In-laws though staying close by.

I will cut the whole days events short and start from the moment I noticed that my mother was sinking suddenly and called for my uncle who stayed just a lane apart from my house. He immediately called for some of his other Doctor friends , and ambulance and noticing that my mother was sinking fast; asked for me to call my relatives from Mumbai and elsewhere, as he did not expect her to make it further for long.

I was totally shattered and having had no other experience apart from the passing away of my Grandfather when I was only about 12 years old, I lay shattered and motionless at home. My in-laws were informed and were on their way, and so were my family from Mumbai. I immediately let my Company and Babasaheb know about it as I had already informed them I would not be able to attend duty that morning when I found the condition of my mother very serious. Babasaheb consoled me and asked me to stay calm and he would be there personally. That itself gave me a lot of strength.

What happened that day I will never forget in my life. Within a few minutes a whole group of the staff members from Shingania Services was at my home, consoling me and seeing me totally almost lifeless, took over all the house arrangements personally. I was staring blankly into space and only looking at my mother totally oblivious of what I should do or should have done. As my relatives from Mumbai were to arrive we had to wait for some time, to perform the Cremation Ceremony but could not wait too long for medical reasons.

I felt a warmth and sudden strength coming to me when I was shocked to see Babasaheb himself, and almost the whole staff from my loving company who had gathered and were taking care of each and every needs along with my In-laws and other neighbors. Since my uncle had arranged for the Death Certificate from the MD, all other arrangements from getting the Municipal certificate for Cremation to all arrangements for the Cremation at the Bhosari Municipal Cremation grounds.

I was in a total trance during that period and the only thing I knew and felt was I was being helped by all the wonderful staff and Babasaheb all the way from home to the Cremation and back. It was only at the cremation ground when Babasaheb himself put a hand around my shoulder and lead me to perform the last rites that I could gather some senses and broke down inconsolably in his arms. This was my family for me who stood by me like a rock along with my in-laws and other family who later arrived from Mumbai over the next week or more, tending to me like a child. I will remain ever indebted to each one of them.

There is so much I could write about them and Babasaheb especially who stood behind me like a father. On the 12th when I got the news until today when I read the Obituary I was and am still shaken, weak and literally lifeless at the thought that I have lost one more divine soul from my "Family" who were more than anything to me in my life. I am shattered and torn but stand strong as I recollect those word said by Babasaheb during my interview when he had said "Be strong, and if you need anything, anytime just come to me"! Today myself at my age of 63 soon to be 64; I may try to be strong but I do not have the shoulders of the person to lean on who gave me his shoulders when I needed them the most!

All I can say now can be expressed by this tablet below! Babasaheb I will miss you a lot but you will always remain in my heart; until we meet again!

I have nothing more to say, nor do I have the strength to face the truth, but I have to accept it. Rest in Peace Babasaheb, Om Shanti!

Getting it all Right!

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 17:49:00 +0000

Getting it all Right!

In my concluding short post, I would like to collate all the information I have shared in my sequel of previous posts related to Blog Posts, Facebook Pages and Emoji’s. What I intend to do in this post is put together all the steps we read in my earlier post to get it all right!

This is no rocket science but a subtle yet serious awareness of the importance and cumulative impact of all the elements of this complete cycle.

Without going into much detail and making it very simple for the layman to understand, I would like to spell out a very simple sequence of good reading and expression of your frank views on any media platform.
Define and refine the topic of your interest when approaching any Media platform for reading a particular topic. There is a marked difference between reading a Print Newspaper, an E-Paper, and Social Media post like Blog or Website posts.

In print media you would be doing only reading of the posts from the print media and possibly making notes to be shared later with references to that post. This is an offline experience.

In E-Papers or E-News you would be online and most papers would offer you the option of sharing a particular news feed or post to various other media through their share feature. But when you share that content to a Platform like your own Facebook Profile, Page, Group or other Media Platforms it is a totally different scenario.

If it is only a share, then is not an issue as you are only sharing that post. What follows is more critical and important to note for the person sharing that content as well as subsequently for the reader who would be reading it and further commenting, liking, and / or sharing it further.

With millions of topics to read content of your choice, and if you feel it deserves a like, comment or share do so in a good way so as to not only express your frank opinion or feelings about the topic but also share it so that more like minded people can read the content. In this way you have not only connected with the writer, but also spread the good content around.

Try to connect with the writer in other ways by messenger of if available direct contact if needed to develop a rapport that will not only benefit you both but can develop a fruitful relationship in sharing like minded topics and content. No better way than through healthy communication and direct contact and word of mouth to empower our knowledge and share quality content.

If you know Pages or Groups relevant to the quality content, share the same along with your genuine comments and a tag to the writer. Avoid unnecessary comments or Emoji’s that are not relevant to the topic or expression of your feelings and thoughts. Use the right Emoji that depicts the emotion or feeling you want to convey. If you are in doubt don’t use it.

Use relevant Hashtags in your comments or shares so that the post reaches the desired target, which not only brings about healthy sharing of quality content but also allows for a healthier Social Media Presence for all. I will be writing a new post about Hashtags soon so keep a watch for that post too.

I suppose I have covered all the steps that I felt went wrong in the experience that I had and have narrated it in my opening post. I will have done justice to this whole exercise if you can now connect the dots in each post and turn full circle in getting an experience of quality reading, knowledge empowerment, and great enjoyment while readings, concluding in you’re sharing your review or emotions about it to the reader.

Do comment, suggest and post your frank reviews below and follow my Blog and posts to keep receiving quality content and enjoyment in reading.

Happy reading, Take care, God Bless!

Emoticons and the Emoji’s

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 17:42:00 +0000

Emoticons and the Emoji’s

From the very first post “What’s it about Blog Posts, Facebook Pages and Emoji’s” I had shared about my experience where a specific disconnect of the reader to these finer elements of Social Media Posting and connectivity with each other that lead to the reader missing out on the best content.

With due respect to all readers, patrons, well wishers, I have already mentioned that it is difficult to identify if this happens due to ignorance, lack of awareness, of matter-of-fact habitual behavior of many readers to act as they do. We cannot but go around correcting someone or their habits, but in my sequel of posts I have tried to make a humble effort to portray the various elements of this divine connection that allows both the writer and the reader to get the best out of the content that is shared, without hurting any emotions either ways.

In this concluding sequence of the key elements of the full cycle that was mentioned in my first post, I will deal with a rather enjoyable, but often misunderstood element of the whole process of emoting your expressions.

We have read about Blog Posts, Facebook Profiles, Facebook Pages, and Facebook Groups. In all these cases you will observe a common element that is most used albeit maybe wrongly, in excess of what is required or irrelevant to the posts or content.

It is very clear that many of them are impulsive habits of many members, to just be a part of any post by just putting Emoji’s without even commenting on it; either to save time or if they feel that suffices their expression of their reactions. Many of them I have clearly observed have put the wrong Emoji’s thereby even hurting the sentiments of the writer albeit unintentionally.

So let’s try and see what these Emoticons or Emoji’s are and how they should be used so as to freely express your reactions and emotions while ensuring that you don’t hurt someone or even may I daresay embarrass yourself.

An Emoji is a pictogram, logo gram, ideogram or smiley embedded in text and used in electronic messages and web pages. The primary function of Emoji is to fill in emotional cues otherwise missing from typed conversation. Some examples of Emoji are 😂, 😃, 🧘🏻♂️, 🌍, 🌦️, 🍞, 🚗, 📞, 🎉, ❤️, 🍆, 🏁, among many others.

Emoji’s are slightly different from their predecessors.

Emoticons - Emoticons are punctuation marks, letters, and numbers used to create pictorial icons that generally display an emotion or sentiment.

Courtesy Britannica it is so well narrated in where they so nicely differentiate and explain about the difference between Emoticons and Emoji’s. They say...

“The Internet has greatly changed the way we communicate. Since body language and verbal tone do not translate in our text messages or e-mails, we’ve developed alternate ways to convey nuanced meaning. The most prominent change to our online style has been the addition of two new-age hieroglyphic languages: emoticons and Emoji.

Let’s start with the older of the two: the emoticon.

Emoticons are punctuation marks, letters, and numbers used to create pictorial icons that generally display an emotion or sentiment. (That’s actually where the portmanteau “emoticon” comes from: emotional icon.) Oh, and because of the limits of our keyboard, most emoticons need to be read sideways.

Emoji (from the Japanese e, “picture,” and moji, “character”) are a slightly more recent invention. Not to be confused with their predecessor, Emoji are pictographs of faces, objects, and symbols. You’re probably familiar with the distinct style of Apple’s Emoji: yellow cartoony faces with various expressions, as well as families, buildings, animals, food objects, mathematical symbols, and more.”

So that suffices what we want to deal with. It is a simple expression of our reactions or emotions in graphic images that we feel convey the message you want to express.

But this is where many go wrong, in a hurry to express themselves. I will not take a training class in how and where to use which specific of those Emoji’s but suffice to say that we should be careful in identifying the right Emoji’s and posting it on the relevant post.

A common error is using the “Like” option in Facebook Posts in a wrong way. Many cannot differentiate when to use a Thumbs up Like, Love, Care, Laugh, Wow, Sad or Angry Emoji’s seen just below each post. The Thumbs up “Like” is the most used and confused to many who feel it is used to express that they have read the post, rather than to express they have liked it. The others are more specific so can be less confusing. But a subtle difference between the use of a Like, Love Heart, and Care sign can make a big difference. Incidentally what I intend to convey is that when using Emoticons, Emoji’s or even GIF’s be very careful to read the full content of the posts, and not only the Image that you see above the post.

It could make a hell of a difference between what you have in mind to express and what you have conveyed.
Many a times readers are in so much of a hurry when clicking on any of the Emoji’s that, invariable happening due to slow internet speeds or wrong clicks they happen to post a totally wrong Emoji which many a times they even may not have noticed in a hurry.

Try avoiding such errors. Take your time to read the post, decide on your views or your comments, if possible put in a short comment and add Emoji’s to enhance your expression only if needed.

Emoticons and Emoji’s have been created to make your expression faster without taking the time to comment in writing, but please ensure that you express the right emotions.

My last and concluding post will be about “Getting it all Right”.

This basically would deal with a proper connection and sequence any reader should follow in a way that you not only read the full Blog Post for its content, comment, suggest or give your review in the form of written comments or expressions in the form of Emoticons or Emoji’s and share to like minded friends and family so that the content reaches more people.

After all our intention is to share quality content to readers, irrespective of which medium you may be using.

So let’s make this an enjoyable and fruitful experience!

Cheers to good reading!

What is a Blog post?

noreply@blogger.com (Sachin Kate) — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 15:29:00 +0000

What is a Blog post?

Continuing as a sequel to my earlier post; “What’s it about Blog Posts, Facebook Pages and Emoji’s?” I would like to elaborate a little about what is meant by a Blog Post. I’m not here to educate my valued readers literally as to what we mean by a Blog Post, but more so to explain what they do not understand by it, or may have missed out.

In a generic definition - A blog post is any article, news piece, or guide that's published in the blog section of a website. A blog post typically covers a specific topic or query, is educational in nature, ranges from 600 to 2,000+ words, and contains other media types such as images, videos, info graphics, and interactive charts. Bloggers may use various platforms to create their Blogs, the top ones well known being Blogger and Word Press. There are many more such amazing platforms to create Blogs.

Each component of that post is critical to the topic in its own way. How you understand, interpret and connect the dots between the components of a Blog post is most essential to understand in know what is meant by a Blog Post.

While I am not here to elaborate on how to write a Blog Post, it would be prudent to break the components up into sub-topics that would make the reader understand the relevance of each component of the Blog Post. So let us see how we can understand this in a simple way.

What is the main point of the blog post?

While I have already given a generic definition of a Blog Post above, the purpose of a blog is to provide content on your website that answers your prospective customers' questions and helps them learn about your product, topic or service.

I will try and elaborate how many readers overlook these very essential points as had happened in my experience narrated in my earlier post. To understand this I will quickly elaborate in the shortest way Basic Essentials that go into a Blog Post. I will therein explain what is to be understood and seen to get the best essence of that element of the Blog Post.

4 Essential Elements to Writing a Great Blog Post.

An Attention-Grabbing Headline: – Any Great Blog Post needs an attention-grabbing headline. A good blog post is about one topic, one story, one idea. So the headline gets the attention of the reader as well as is indexed in the Google Search in a better way as they track for Keywords. Many a times the readers are drawn to or alienated from the post only due to a Good / Bad Headline respectively. The graphic at the top of the Blog page is very critical to the Post as it is this Image that is often seen when you share that Blog post.

In cases like mine where the graphic was so overpowering thought it was apt for the post, it could also serve as a source of distraction from the content itself. Only discerned readers can see through this very fine but critical element of a Blog and stay focused on the Content, while simultaneously soaking in the importance and essence of the graphics to the related content.

Each Blog post or Web Post obviously will have the Graphics seen (Unless in some cases where only the link of the Blog Post with the title is seen). It is therefore essential for the reader to grasp the title of the Post, understand the graphics if any and then click on the link to the post so that it would take them to the page of that particular post; where they can read the full content. The rest of the components below are given only for academic purposes to make the reader understand the core point I wanted to stress in this post.

Next comes the captivating lead paragraph: You know how much first impressions matter, right? Your lead paragraph is like a magnet that draws he reader to go further and soak in every word and sentence of the ensuing paragraphs and content. Many try to read between the lines and miss out on key components of the topic in question.

Interesting supporting points: Either in the lead paragraph or subsequent paragraphs they weave together the complete story or event of narration of the topic to the reader. This is the body of the article. This may continue in a series of paragraphs or longer paragraphs to create the full body of the Blog Post and the topic that the writer wants to narrate to the reader.

A compelling call-to-action is what makes the icing on the cake. The call-to-action may be a sequel to another post, action to join some event, or course or any further action that would require the reader to stay connected with the flow of the topic.

Most Posts would be shared on various social media platforms like Facebook Pages of the Author, Groups related to the topic of the subject, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn or other Social Bookmarking sites. These posts reach out to hundreds and thousands of ever eager enthusiastic readers who are waiting to devour the content.

Using the right hashtags in the lead post on respective social media platforms makes the post reach the core leads to which the Post is intended for.

So this whole procedure is very critical and it is only then that the reader enjoys and revels upon the content, thereby commenting on the Blog Post, and or the respective social media platforms. Those who like the post would invariably like the post, comment and further share it to like minded friends and family.

So for all practical purposes the reader should relate to, connect with, understand and absorb these key elements of the Blog Post to get the best out of it.

Coming back to what the one very critical reader lost totally as narrated in my earlier post is the very content of “The Blog Post”. She somehow never even clicked on the link of the post and was almost overawed by the impact of the graphic that supported the post aptly, but was somehow got the better of her in a different way, so as to distract her attention from clicking on the post itself, and reading it before she could rush ahead to comment on the feeder post on my Facebook Page, along with her string of Emoji’s.

So it is very important to ensure that you read through the full content of any blog post especially when the lead paragraph has mentioned clearly that it is a Blog Post. You may or may not like it and that is why your comments and suggestions are most welcome by the writer. So make use of that right, but only after reading the post.

I will in my last post following two other interlacing posts weave together a sequence that I feel any reader should follow to get the best of all worlds so to say.

Until then please do stay connected, and watch out for my next post which stressed on the second most important element of the sequence being Profiles, Pages and Groups on Facebook and how they work.

Keep reading, Take care, God Bless!