The hardest part of accountability is admitting when you were the one who waited too long.

Accountability is easy to believe in when someone else needs to be accountable.

It gets harder when the person who needs to own the mistake is you.

I’ve made a lot of mistakes in business. Some are small. Some are expensive. The hardest ones are not the dramatic ones. They are the ones where you knew something was wrong before you were ready to admit it. The facts were there. The signs were there. You kept hoping next month would be better.

I’ve been there.

A number of years ago, Sanctuary was growing fast. We had outside recognition. We were making lists. Things felt like they were opening up.

We hired ahead of the curve. We moved into a bigger office. We kept paying ourselves well. We used debt to support growth.

Then growth slowed.

Major clients left. Sales did not replace them fast enough. The numbers started tightening.

I saw it.

I was the one closest to the books. I was watching the numbers. I could see things were getting tighter. But I kept telling myself we were one good month from turning the corner.

Next month would be better. Then the next. Then the next.

Hope matters in business. You need optimism to get through hard seasons. There is a point, though, where hope stops being courage and starts being avoidance. I crossed that line by probably three to six months.

I thought I was protecting Chris and the team from stress. If I could just work harder, sell more, and hold the line a little longer, I could fix it before it became everyone else’s problem.

That was the failure.

Not the market. Not the client losses. Not even the over-hiring, though that was part of it. The failure was waiting too long to be honest. First and foremost, to myself.

By the time I could no longer avoid the facts, our options had narrowed. We booked a loss for the first and only time in our history. We had to refinance debt to keep going. Chris and I cut our pay. We reduced expenses. We let people go.

Before any of that, I had to have the conversation I should have had months earlier.

Chris and I have known each other for about 50 years. He has excellent emotional intelligence, and we can read each other pretty well.

So when he said, “I’m not pleased,” I knew he was angry and scared. That was Chris’s way of saying he was furious. Rightfully so.

His trust was not just shaken. It was broken.

He had fair questions. “I thought you said we were fine. We just hired people, now we need to let them go? Why didn’t you tell me sooner? If we make these changes, are they going to be enough?”

He has told me before that he really only gets worried when I am worried. So when I finally came to him and said, in effect, “I am worried,” it landed with full weight. The problem was that I should have said it earlier, when there was still room to maneuver.

If I had, he could have been part of the solution. Instead, I had spent months telling him, “It’ll be fine. We will get through it.” Then I asked him to absorb a much harder version of reality in a single conversation.

That was not respect or transparency. It was one person trying to hold the fear alone until the fear got too big to hide.

To Chris’s credit, once the reality was on the table, he moved quickly to what had to happen next. He is good in black-and-white conversations when a hard line needs to be drawn. Once we knew where we stood, he was fully supportive of the decisions ahead.

I still had to rebuild trust. Saying “I was wrong” does not make anything better on its own. It opens the door. You still have to walk through it.

After Chris, we talked to a few key people. Then we had to talk to the people we were letting go. Then we talked to the whole company.

There is no clean way to do that.

It is one thing to look at payroll on a spreadsheet. It is another thing to sit across from someone and know they are going home to tell their spouse. To rethink vacations. To rethink spending. To tuck their kids in that night with a different future than they had that morning. 

That morning, they had a job. By the afternoon, they did not. It still haunts me.

We provided generous severance. We reached out to peer companies about opportunities. We made introductions. Most of those people found work before their severance ended, which I am grateful for.

A ‘soft’ landing is still brutal however you cut it. It does not erase the responsibility.

One thing that experience clarified was the difference between a family and a team.

We had described ourselves as a family. Most companies do. Usually what we mean is that we care about each other, which we do. But families do not lay each other off.

A company is a team. A good team can still care deeply about its people. A team also has standards, roles, and a responsibility to protect the whole group. Trying to preserve the feeling of family had actually put the team at greater risk.

Today, one of our values is “Be Selfless.” It is not just your work. It is our work. What each of us does affects the stability of the whole company.

That applies to owners too.

The biggest lesson from that time took me a while to see clearly.

By trying to protect people from the fear, I had kept them from helping with the solution.

I thought carrying the weight alone was part of leadership. I thought if I could keep the fear contained, everyone else could stay focused. I was wrong.

Chris had skin in the game. The team had skin in the game. Their families, careers, and futures were tied to the decisions we were making. They had every right to the facts earlier than I gave them. And when we finally did share the truth, they did not collapse. They brought ideas. They made sacrifices. They helped us stabilize.

I had underestimated them.

That season changed how we run the business.

We built clearer scorecards and tied business rules to them. When we can hire. When we need to slow expenses. What signals tell us we are drifting toward serious decisions.

We implemented Simple Numbers and EOS as operating tools, not buzzwords, so we could see reality earlier.

We added financial guardrails. One example: no single client should represent more than 7% of our revenue. If a client grows beyond that, we welcome it. But the revenue above the threshold is treated differently. It goes toward strengthening reserves, not toward expanding permanent expenses.

We monitor client health more closely. We project attrition instead of assuming every client stays forever. We try to make decisions on facts, before fear narrows our options.

None of this makes us perfect. It makes us more honest, sooner.

I used to think of accountability mostly as something I expected from other people. Did they own the task? Did they admit the mistake? Did they learn from it? I still believe in those questions.

But leaders cannot ask for that from above, as if we are exempt from the same standard. If I expect our team to raise their hand when something is wrong, I have to be willing to do the same with mine.

Otherwise accountability becomes a one-way street, which feels less like respect and more like control.

That is why I see accountability differently now. It is not just a management expectation. It is an act of respect.

It is the willingness to tell the people around you the truth while there is still time to do something useful with it.

That is the part I missed for too long.

I am still learning it.

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TL;DR: Most B2B companies can’t tell whether their marketing agency is actually growing the business. That isn’t because the agency is bad. It’s because nobody defined success in business language before the work started. This article gives you ten questions that will separate agencies who can prove ROI from agencies who are selling you activity. It also covers what a CEO-level monthly report should actually look like, and how a good agency behaves when the numbers miss.

Here’s a small test.

Go find the person in your company who interacts with your marketing agency the most. Ask them, “What are they actually doing for us?”

If the answer is “SEO” or “social media,” you have a problem.

Not because those aren’t real disciplines. They are. The problem is that nobody, not your team, not the agency, and probably not you, has translated the work into something you can feel in your P&L.

I see this pattern all the time. A business owner comes to us frustrated with their current agency. The agency is doing things. Invoices are paid. Monthly reports arrive on schedule. And the CEO still can’t answer the one question that actually matters.

Is this investment growing the business?

This isn’t a pitch. Plenty of agencies do excellent work. My goal is to help you ask better questions so you can tell the difference between activity and actual business impact.

Whether you’re evaluating a new agency, renegotiating with your current one, or considering bringing marketing in-house, these questions will help you know what you are buying.

“Measurable ROI” is the most overused phrase in agency sales

Every agency website promises it. Almost none define it the same way.

Agencies tend to define ROI by what they can produce. Traffic. Rankings. Impressions. Click-through rates. Engagement.

You, the owner, define ROI by what shows up in your bank account. Revenue. Margin. Deal flow. Customer lifetime value.

If you haven’t explicitly aligned those two definitions in writing before work starts, the relationship is already set up to drift. The agency will hit their numbers. You will feel like nothing is happening. And neither of you will be wrong.

Closing that gap should be led by the agency. But the CEO has to insist that the conversation happens in business language, not marketing language. If your agency can’t or won’t translate the two, that is the first red flag.

The 10 questions

These are ordered from easiest to hardest. Most agencies handle the first few. The last few are where real differentiation lives.

1. What does ROI actually mean in our relationship, and did we define it together, in writing, before work started?

If the definition lives only in the agency’s head, or only in yours, it will never be the same definition twice. Get it on paper at the start.

2. Will you be able to show me the exact line connecting the dollars I spend to the revenue I earn?

Not just leads. Not sessions. Dollars in, dollars out. Can we build those numbers together?

That line will rarely be perfectly clean in B2B. Sales cycles are messy. Attribution is imperfect. Not every channel is directly trackable. But it has to exist in some form. The agency should be able to walk you through their best-available version of that line, honestly, with the caveats.

If they can’t draw any version of that line, ROI is a marketing word to them, not a measurement.

3. What are our cost per qualified lead, cost per opportunity, and cost per closed-won deal, and how has each trended over the last 12 months?

Traffic and sessions tend to go up and to the right almost automatically. These three numbers do not. They move only when the strategy is actually working.

If your agency can’t produce these on demand for your business, the data infrastructure underneath the relationship isn’t there yet.

4. How do you define a qualified lead for my business, and did I agree to that definition?

If the agency set the bar, they will hit the bar. If you set it, based on fit, budget, authority, and need, they have to earn it.

A form fill is not a qualified lead. Neither is a whitepaper download. The definition of “qualified” has to come from your sales process, not from a reporting dashboard.

5. When a campaign underperforms, what is your process for telling me before I notice?

Agencies who can actually prove ROI will flag losses faster than wins. Agencies who can’t will hope the next month pulls the quarter back into the green.

Ask them for a specific example. What is the last thing you flagged to a client that they hadn’t already noticed? A real story should come easily. If it doesn’t, that muscle isn’t built.

6. What would you stop doing tomorrow if I cut the budget 30%?

The answer tells you what the agency actually believes is driving results, versus what they are doing out of habit, headcount, or because it is in the scope.

A good agency should have an informed answer immediately, even if they want to validate it against the data afterward. A weaker one will have no working theory at all.

7. Can you show me a client where you recommended spending less, or walking away from a tactic, because the numbers didn’t justify it?

This is the single highest-signal question on the list.

Almost no agency has a clean answer, because the business model is built on expanding scope, not contracting it. The agencies who do have a clear story here are usually the ones worth keeping.

To make this concrete, we once took over paid search for a client in the artificial turf industry. In the first few months, we cut their PPC budget in half and tripled their qualified leads.

The reason wasn’t genius. The previous setup was bidding on the wrong terms at the wrong times. Cutting the waste freed up real budget to amplify their message in other channels that were actually working.

That’s response-based marketing. Start small. Measure what actually moves the needle. Build on what works. Cut what doesn’t. Every tactic and every channel has a ceiling where diminishing returns kick in, and the job is to find that ceiling and pull back before you are paying for clicks that aren’t buying.

An agency should be motivated to make you more efficient, not to make you spend more. If their incentive is long tenure through consistent results, your interests are aligned. If their incentive is billable scope, they aren’t.

8. What percentage of your clients have been with you three or more years, and what is your average client tenure?

Long client tenure is one of the few retention metrics that actually correlates with producing results. Agencies that churn clients every 12 to 18 months often hide it inside “new logo” growth. Ask for the other side of the ledger.

9. Who specifically will do the work, and will I meet them before I sign?

Sold by senior strategists, serviced by junior coordinators is the oldest agency trick in the book. If the person sitting in the pitch won’t be in the weekly meetings, you need to know that now, not after the contract is signed.

10. If I asked three of your current clients to call me unscripted, who would you put me in touch with, and why those three?

References curated by the agency are theater. References you get to pressure-test are truth.

A good agency should be able to name three clients, explain why those three, and put you in direct contact without coaching them first.

What a CEO-level monthly report actually looks like

A CEO-level monthly report should start with business outcomes, not marketing activity.

The four numbers that belong at the top:

• Leads generated
• Sales qualified leads
• Opportunities and deals generated
• Closed revenue attributed where possible

After that, we can talk about traffic, rankings, conversion rates, engagement, and ROAS. Those numbers matter, but they are evidence. They are not the headline.

Monthly reporting also shouldn’t be a ceremony. It is a diagnostic tool, for both sides.

For the agency, the report is an opportunity to reinforce the value being delivered. If the numbers resonate as a real positive impact on the business, the client will continue to invest in the strategies that are working. That is how the relationship earns its tenure.

For the client, it is a map. It shows what is working, what isn’t, and where there is opportunity to expand investment or pull back. It turns the conversation from “are we doing enough?” into “what should we do more of, and what should we stop?”

That is continuous improvement, and it only works if you and your agency are looking at the same numbers first.

The honest conversation when the numbers miss

Every agency relationship hits a moment where results are softer than planned. How the agency behaves in that moment tells you almost everything.

Here is the frame I try to hold with every client. A marketing plan is a target, not a guarantee. A goal gives us direction, but it does not eliminate uncertainty. We work toward it with cumulative progress, adjusting based on what the data shows.

No honest agency can promise when a specific number will be hit. What we can promise is that we will be transparent about progress. We will flag when something isn’t working, and we will recommend changes.

We are on the same side of the table. Your challenge is our challenge.

Sometimes our recommendation gets overruled by the client. That is their right. We will make the business case for what we believe is right, and we will tell you honestly when we think a direction won’t work. Sometimes the client still goes the other way, and that is the deal.

But when we are aligned and the plan still misses, the behavior is the same. We call it out. We look at the data. We figure out what to tweak, what to stop, and what to try next.

Marketing is an iterative process. The client has to be in the conversation for it to work.

The agencies worth keeping will sometimes say no

One last thing.

A good agency will sometimes turn down your business.

We have told prospects, directly, that we are not a good fit for their situation. This often comes up in highly competitive categories where the market is crowded, the economics are tight, or the client cannot yet clearly differentiate their offering in a way digital marketing can amplify.

That is not a rejection of the client. It is honesty.

An agency that will say no to you when the fit isn’t right is much more likely to say the hard things when you are working together. Which is exactly the behavior you want.

What to do next

If you are evaluating agencies, take the ten questions into the pitch meeting. Ask them verbatim. Take notes.

If you are already working with an agency, don’t ambush them. Send the questions ahead of your next review and ask for thoughtful written answers. A good agency will welcome the conversation. A weaker one will get defensive.

If you are managing marketing in-house, run the same questions against your own team. The diagnostic works either way.

You are not looking for the agency or the team that promises the most. You are looking for the one that will tell you the truth, define success with you in plain language, show you the line between dollars and revenue, and flag problems before you see them.

Ask the ten questions. Sit with the answers.

You will learn more in that conversation than you will in any pitch deck.

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People do good work. They have real relationships. They shake hands and agree to send referrals. And yet the referrals never show up consistently.

That gap is where a lot of frustration lives. Really, it’s more about confusion than disappointment. A sense that effort and outcome aren’t lining up the way they’re supposed to. Something everyone agrees on in theory doesn’t seem to work the same way in practice.

Most people in this position aren’t asking for favors or looking for shortcuts. They’re trying to understand why something that sounds simple, referrals, never quite works the way it’s described.

What a Referral Actually Means

Part of the problem is how casually the word referral gets used. It sounds like a transaction. A name passed along. An introduction made. A handoff. But that isn’t what’s happening for the person on the other side of the handshake.

When someone refers you, they aren’t just sharing information. They’re attaching their reputation to your work. They’re making a judgment call about how that introduction reflects on them. They’re deciding whether the outcome strengthens or weakens the trust they’ve already earned elsewhere.

That decision carries weight. And weight changes behavior.

Why People Hesitate

From the outside, hesitation can look like indifference. On the inside, it usually looks like responsibility. People protect their name because it took time to build. That protection isn’t selfish. It’s rational.

Opportunity doesn’t transfer just because relationships exist. It moves when someone feels safe enough to act, with a specific person, in a specific moment. 

The Reality of Human Capacity

When that trust and safety is there, opportunity can still break down more often than anyone likes to admit. Not because people don’t care, but simply because people are busy. They’re managing their own work, their own pressures, their own obligations. They forget things they genuinely intend to do, not out of neglect, but because of limited capacity to keep you top-of-mind. The moment where an introduction would have made sense passes, and the opportunity disappears.

Silence gets misread as disinterest when it’s often just distraction or a lack of capacity.

The Role of Staying Present

This is why staying present matters, not as self-promotion, but as support. People can’t act on what they don’t remember at the right moment. Consistency creates recall. Recall creates opportunity.

Many times, the instinct is to increase pressure by asking more often. That may increase visibility, but it changes the meaning of the interaction. It makes the risk more visible without making it safer. It asks for action before the conditions are ready.

The Paradox of Pressure

There’s a paradox here. Generally, the more you try to pull outcomes toward you, the less willing people are to move them.

Revenue matters. No one pretends otherwise. But revenue doesn’t respond well to force. The moment money becomes the point of pressure, trust tightens. People become careful. Opportunity slows down.

This is where transactional relationship-building fails. People can sense extraction, even when it’s polite, even when it’s framed as mutual benefit.

What Real Relationships Require

Real relationships stand on their own. They involve respect, curiosity, and engagement that isn’t dependent on immediate return. Without that foundation, nothing else works for very long.

Good intentions alone don’t solve this. Memory fades. Attention shifts. Even strong relationships drift without reinforcement.

Designing for Trust and Action

That’s where design comes in. 

Design means continually working to create real trust, as well as creating simple, repeatable ways for people to remember you, understand when to act, and feel confident doing it.

Structure, done well, supports and protects relationships. It reduces the chance of manipulation and keeps them from drifting through neglect. It helps people stay present and act naturally, without pressure or hesitation. It removes friction.

When Opportunity Actually Moves

Opportunity moves when trust, clarity, and timing line up. When it feels safe and obvious in the moment.

This isn’t about doing more. It’s about designing better.

Opportunity doesn’t respond to force. It responds to a system that creates trust, clarity, and presence over time.

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I’d be lying if I said AI hasn’t created some anxiety for me.

Like a lot of business owners, I’ve had that tight-chest feeling of wondering how fast this is going to move, what parts of our work might get automated, and whether competitors who adopt it faster are going to gain an edge before we’ve fully figured it out. 

There’s a real fear in that. You start to wonder whether this thing is going to hollow out a lot of the value you’ve spent years building. You wonder whether clients are going to look at ChatGPT or Claude and think, “Why am I paying for this anymore?”

That fear is real.

Moving from Fear to Practical Use

But the more we’ve worked with AI inside Sanctuary, the more I’ve come to a different conclusion.

AI can absolutely speed up the work. It can remove friction. It can improve throughput. It can help a team get more done with less drag. But from what I’ve seen so far, it still can’t replace strategy. 

And that distinction matters. What changed for me was moving from abstract fear to practical use.

At Sanctuary, we’re not treating AI like some magic answer machine. We’re using it where it can actually help. It has become useful in competitor reviews, note-taking, quality assurance, presentation development, and digesting large volumes of information from research sources, technical documents, and content blocks. It helps us gather, sort, normalize, and accelerate.

That’s real value.

Data Is Not Direction

Take competitive research as one example. AI can help us collect a discrete set of materials from a client’s competitors, organize them into a more apples-to-apples view, surface missing variables, and make it easier to compare patterns. 

That saves time. It helps us get to the evidence faster. It helps us see the field more clearly.

But that is not the same thing as deciding what matters.

The real value still comes after the data is organized. 

It comes from a strategist looking at the landscape and asking: Where is the opening? What are competitors missing? What does this target buyer actually care about? Which gap is real, and which one just looks interesting on paper? How do we thread the needle in a way that helps this specific company beat its actual competitors, not just produce a prettier report?

That’s the part I don’t think AI replaces.

The Real Opportunity: Removing Friction, Not Replacing People

If anything, AI is teaching me to value that layer of work even more.

A lot of the current hype makes it sound like the big opportunity is replacing people. I think that’s where leaders may be led astray. 

The bigger opportunity is not replacing the uniquely human parts of the work. It’s removing friction around them.

That’s a very different mindset.

It’s the difference between asking, “How do we automate strategy?” and asking, “How do we automate enough of the prep, organization, and low-level drag that our people have more time for the work that actually creates competitive advantage?”

That’s how we’re trying to approach it. In that sense, AI is not the strategy. It’s a process multiplier.

Strategy Still Requires Human Judgment

That logic isn’t new to manufacturing. It’s how you think about any process improvement worth making.

The closest analogy that comes to mind is root cause analysis. AI can help surface patterns, summarize inputs, and move through evidence faster. But root cause analysis is never just about spotting a symptom and calling it a day. It’s about asking the next question, and then the one after that, until you get past the obvious answer and closer to the real constraint.

That’s what strategy feels like too.

Information vs. Insight

A lot of companies use some version of an intake form. It captures the basics: what the company sells, who they sell to, some history, some context. That information matters. You need it to begin. But it is just the start.

The form gives you information. The conversation starts to uncover conviction.

That’s where some of the most important strategy work happens.

You hear something in the room. You see a shift in energy. A client starts talking about a product, a customer segment, a service issue, or a market angle with a level of passion they never would have put in a form. Other people on the team react. A thread starts to emerge. Someone asks a second question, then a third, then a fourth. Suddenly, what looked like background detail starts to feel like the real story.

That kind of moment is hard to reduce to a transcript. It’s even harder to reduce to a generic prompt.

The Gap in AI-Generated Output

All the information can be technically correct and still miss the point. A spreadsheet can be accurate. Notes can be complete. A summary can sound polished. And yet none of it may capture the thing that will actually help a human buyer choose one company over another.

That’s the gap.

And I think it’s one of the reasons so much AI-generated output feels fine but forgettable. 

If everyone is using the same tools and asking average questions, they’re going to get average answers. The output may be efficient. It may even be clean. But it tends to flatten into the lowest common denominator.

That’s not how competitive advantage is built.

Where Competitive Advantage Actually Comes From

Competitive advantage comes from seeing the strategic opening others miss. It comes from choosing which tradeoff is worth making. It comes from reading the room, making a judgment call with incomplete information, and sometimes spotting the emotional truth behind a buying decision before it’s obvious on paper.

That’s why I don’t believe you can outsource strategy to AI.

Better Questions Beat Faster Answers

AI tends to be most valuable when it helps you ask better questions, not just generate faster answers. 

If the questions are sharp and the context is thoughtful, AI becomes a real advantage. If they’re not, it just helps you get to the wrong answer faster.

You can outsource pieces of preparation. You can accelerate research. You can streamline production. You can improve QA. You can use AI to summarize, organize, and pressure-test.

We’re doing all of that, and we should. 

But those are not the same thing as judgment. AI output is a starting point, not an ending point, and the leaders who treat it that way will get far more out of it than the ones who don’t.

The Businesses That Will Win

The real promise isn’t that AI makes people irrelevant. It’s that it can make good people more effective.

So no, I don’t think manufacturers are going to replace real marketing strategy with ChatGPT and call it a day. 

Some may try. Some probably already are. 

But I think many of them will eventually run into the same wall: faster output is not the same as better direction.

The businesses that win here won’t be the ones that ignore AI out of fear. They also won’t be the ones that hand over their thinking to it.

They’ll be the ones that integrate it carefully, use it to speed up the work, and protect the parts of the process that are still deeply, stubbornly human.

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When most businesses think about growth, the conversation usually starts with marketing or increasing their salesforce.

And that makes sense. Marketing is essential. It helps businesses become visible, communicate their value, and attract and engage customers. Strong marketing builds awareness, engages current customers, and helps to turn customers into advocates that repeat the cycle.

But marketing is not the only way growth happens.

Another powerful path often receives less attention, even though it has fueled business success for decades: partnerships.

Partnerships offer a different angle on growth. Instead of relying solely on attracting new customers directly, partnerships allow businesses to expand opportunities through trusted relationships with other organizations. In other words, partnerships don’t replace marketing. They complement it.

Think about how many opportunities in business begin with a conversation between people.

Someone recommends your company to a colleague.
A business owner introduces you to someone who needs your expertise.
A friend invites you to collaborate on a project that requires multiple skill sets.

These moments are not the result of advertising impressions or search rankings. They simply come from relationships. They come from people who know what you do and trust you enough to connect you with someone who needs your services.

When businesses form thoughtful, intentional partnerships, those connections begin to multiply.

Every company operates within its own network of relationships. Clients, vendors, colleagues, and professional contacts all form a circle around the business. Within that circle are constant conversations about challenges, goals, and opportunities. Partnerships allow those circles to overlap. When they do, new possibilities always begin to emerge.

A partner might hear about a problem that perfectly matches your expertise. You might meet someone who needs a service your partner provides. Together, you begin to see opportunities that neither of you would have encountered on your own.

Partnerships create bridges between networks. Those bridges allow the opportunity to travel farther and faster than they would otherwise.

Being intentional and nurturing trust are key to making this possible. 

When a partner recommends your business, they are attaching their reputation to yours. They are effectively telling someone else, “I believe these people will do a good job.” That kind of endorsement carries weight because it is built on personal confidence rather than marketing claims.

Trust grows through consistent experience. It develops when partners communicate clearly, deliver quality work, and treat each other’s clients with care. Over time, reliability becomes the foundation of the relationship. As confidence grows, so does the willingness to recommend each other when opportunities arise.

Partnerships also allow businesses to serve their customers better. No company can be exceptional at everything. Every organization has its own strengths and areas of expertise. Partnerships allow businesses to combine those strengths in ways that create more complete solutions for clients.

A marketing firm might partner with a design studio, a technology provider, or a specialized consultant. Together, they can approach larger or more complex challenges with greater confidence. Clients benefit because they gain access to a network of trusted professionals who already work well together.

The most effective partnerships rarely begin with complicated agreements or formal strategies. They usually start with small, practical actions. Over time, these small actions build familiarity and trust. That trust becomes the foundation for deeper collaboration and more meaningful opportunities.

Marketing will always play a critical role in business growth. Partnerships offer another powerful path. They allow businesses to grow through trust, collaboration, and shared networks.

When marketing and partnerships work together, they create something even more valuable: a broader, more resilient engine for growth where visibility attracts attention and trusted relationships help turn that attention into opportunity.

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There’s a particular kind of Ohio manufacturer that doesn’t need much introduction, at least not in the rooms that matter.

You’ve been around long enough that the right people know your name. Your sales team has relationships going back decades. You have customers who have stuck with you through leadership changes, supply chain chaos, and every “this quarter is going to be weird” moment we have all lived through.

You’re genuinely world-class at what you do. And you know it.

A few years ago, that usually came with a pretty reasonable assumption: we’re doing fine. The people who need us already know how to find us.

But then little things start piling up.

You search for the exact service you provide and a competitor shows up before you. Your reps start saying buyers feel more price-focused. You hear “we got 3 bids” more than you used to. Longtime accounts start testing the waters. Not because you got worse, but because the people on the other side changed.

Different generation. Different habits. Same goals.

That’s usually the point this topic gets real, not because someone told you you’re invisible, but because you can feel it.

And when you talk with an agency like mine, the goal isn’t to pitch “marketing.” It’s to show you, plainly, where the visibility breakdown is happening, why you’re not showing up when buyers search, and what the highest-leverage fixes are to get you back in the game.

Here’s the thing: that old assumption used to be true. It isn’t anymore.

The Buying Process Changed While You Were Busy Running a Great Company

The marketplace is changing. That’s the one constant.

And to be clear, why people buy hasn’t changed. Trust. Credibility. Reducing risk. Confidence that the decision won’t blow up their operation. That part is timeless.

What has changed is how buyers get comfortable enough to talk to you in the first place.

Industrial buying didn’t flip overnight and it didn’t turn into social media. It just quietly changed, steadily and permanently.

The person sourcing your type of product or service at a $200M manufacturer in Texas isn’t starting by calling a contact. They’re starting by researching.

They are doing homework before they ever pick up the phone. They are building a shortlist before your sales rep knows they exist. They are comparing options, checking credibility, and looking for proof.

If you’re not findable in that process, you’re not on the shortlist. It doesn’t matter how good you are.

This isn’t just a young buyer thing either. Procurement managers, operations leaders, engineers, plant managers, and VP-level decision makers all do this now. Trust is built earlier, more upfront, and often without a single human conversation.

Put it this way: when was the last time you got an unsolicited cold call and thought, “I am excited to buy from this person.”

It’s not 1920 anymore. Door-to-door and cold-call-first selling is not how most of us want to learn, especially for high-stakes purchases.

Buyers still want trust and credibility. They just want to pull the information on their terms, at their pace, when they are ready.

Your Niche Is Not a Limitation, It’s a Superpower You Haven’t Activated Yet

Here’s where a lot of marketing conversations go sideways for manufacturers. People assume a narrow specialty means a small universe of opportunity.

It’s usually the opposite.

When you are highly specific about what you do, who you serve, and what problems you solve better than anyone else, you do not disappear online. You rise to the top of a very relevant conversation.

The buyer who needs exactly what you do finds exactly you, and they arrive with a very different mindset. Not “tell me what you sell.” More like “prove you can deliver what I need.”

That’s the good news.

The bad news is what happens when you are not clear online. You get commoditized.

If buyers can’t quickly see what makes you different, they start treating you like a line item. You feel it as price pressure. You hear it as “we’re getting shopped.” You experience it as slower growth even while your industry is expanding.

A lot of world-class Ohio companies end up here for one reason. They have been busy doing the work. They have been serving customers. They have been building capability, quality systems, and operational excellence.

They just never had to explain it publicly.

Now they do.

The Website Was Never Supposed to Be a Brochure

Let’s talk about the elephant in the room.

A lot of manufacturers have a website. Many of those sites were built years ago and function as a digital placeholder. A confirmation that yes, the company is real, and here is a phone number.

That’s not a website. That’s a missed opportunity running quietly in the background of your business.

Your website, done right, is the hub that connects and amplifies everything you are already doing.

Trade shows. Sales outreach. Referrals. Distributors. Rep networks. Directory listings. All of those efforts drive people somewhere, even if it’s just the buyer doing a quick check after your rep’s email or after they saw your booth sign.

That “somewhere” should be doing work.

It should help buyers understand:

• What you do and who you do it for
• Why you are different
• What proof backs it up
• What the next step is, and what to expect when they take it

If it doesn’t, you are leaving deals on the table. Not because your sales team is failing. Not because your product isn’t exceptional. Because the infrastructure connecting your reputation to new buyers has a gap in it.

Why the Leads Feel Like Noise (And What to Do About It)

Another common frustration we hear is, “We tried digital. We got leads. They weren’t real.”

Sometimes that’s true.

Industrial lead gen can be noisy at the top of the funnel. You get the wrong fit, the wrong geography, vendors trying to sell to you, or people looking for something you don’t even offer.

But here’s the part that matters. Buried in that noise are real opportunities. And the failure isn’t always that good leads don’t exist. It’s that the system stops working because trust breaks down internally.

Sales stops trusting digital leads, because too many of them are junk. Marketing gets defensive. Leads sit untouched. And by the time a real buyer has been waiting for four days while everyone debates whether it’s worth a call, the moment has passed. Buyers move forward when they feel momentum and confidence.

The fix isn’t “generate more leads.”

The fix is:

• Get specific enough that lead quality improves.
• Build reporting that shows what is real and what is noise.
• Create alignment between sales and marketing on what a qualified lead looks like and how fast it should be worked.

If you want to reduce commoditization, you have to protect trust. Externally with buyers, and internally between your teams.

What the Numbers Should Actually Tell You

If your agency is reporting on bounce rates and page views and you are nodding politely while wondering what any of it means for revenue, that’s a problem. Not yours. Theirs.

Industrial marketing isn’t about “traffic.” It’s about the pipeline and conversations.

The metrics should answer questions like:

• Are we attracting the right kinds of companies?
• Are inbound leads matching our ideal customer profile?
• Are we getting found for the things we actually want to sell?
• How fast are leads being followed up on?
• What is the ratio of noise to real opportunity, and is it improving?
• Can we draw a line from the digital investment to pipeline activity?

That line will never be perfectly clean. Industrial sales cycles are too complex for that. But it should exist. If it doesn’t, you are flying blind.

What “Getting It” Actually Looks Like

The best industrial marketing doesn’t feel like marketing. It feels like a practical system built to support how your business already wins.

This is not about abandoning trade shows, reps, distributors, or referrals. Those channels are still valuable. The opportunity is to amplify them and make them work together.

Trade show marketing gets stronger when buyers can prepare before they stop by the booth and follow up after. Rep networks perform better when they have shareable assets, a clearer story, and a closed loop on lead quality and follow-up. Referral relationships get stronger when you stay top of mind and give people a reason to talk about you with confidence.

In practice, the work usually comes down to three high-leverage moves.

1. Clarify Positioning: Who you are, what you do, who you serve, and why you win. Not generic. Specific.
2. Build Credibility Assets: Case studies. Testimonials. Proof. Process. Metrics. The kind of proof a buyer can use to justify the decision internally. For many manufacturers, that means quality, on-time delivery, and turnaround time, backed by real numbers.
3. Align Sales and Marketing on Lead Handling: A shared definition of what “good” looks like, a simple process for follow-up, and reporting that lets the teams improve together instead of guessing.

Why people buy hasn’t changed. How they learn about you has.

You’ve spent years becoming exceptional at what you do. You don’t need to become a marketing company to grow. You just need to make sure the market can see what you already are, understand it quickly, and trust it early.

You’re already the best-kept secret in your industry.

The question is whether staying a secret is still a strategy.

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You’ve probably heard stories about Walt Disney and how he approached customer experience. What most people don’t realize is that he didn’t just build theme parks and make cartoons. He engineered delight. And one of the core principles behind that was what he and his teams came to call “plussing”. They were always finding small, meaningful ways to make a good experience even better.

At its heart, plussing is the idea that doing something small and thoughtful can completely change how someone feels about an experience. You look for opportunities to surprise, to ease a frustration, to leave a person feeling genuinely cared about.

Those small gestures compound into loyalty, trust, and long-term relationships that your competitors can’t buy.

Walt Disney didn’t just talk about delivering a magical moment. He insisted on it. Stories from designers and experienced thinkers describe how Walt would walk through ideas with his teams and say, “Yes, and how can we take this another step further?” 

One of the clearest examples of this mindset is how every cast member (Disney’s word for employees) is empowered. If they see a family whose child has dropped an ice cream cone, they’re encouraged to walk them back to the stand and get a replacement — no questions asked. It costs the company pennies. But it saves a family from frustration, disappointment, and stress, and it creates a moment of gratitude that plants a seed for future loyalty. 

First and foremost, you do it because it’s the right thing to do. Caring can’t be faked. But as a business, that experience might cause that family to buy an extra souvenir, recommend the park to friends, or decide to plan a return visit in the future. That one small gesture could literally be the difference between someone looking back and feeling like it was a bad experience, or the most elevated, amazing experience ever. 

What Plussing Means for Sanctuary

At our company, we’ve taken that spirit and translated it into something that fits our business and values. 

For us, plussing is simply doing infrequent, small things that don’t cost a lot of time or money, but return a lot of value. We do these things without hesitation, conditions, or billing.

Our actions align directly with our #1 value, and that is striving to actually be a Sanctuary for our clients. We’re not running theme parks, but we are serving people. More than anything, we want clients to feel seen, supported, and confident that we’re in this together. 

What Plussing Looks Like in Action

Here are real examples of how you might be able to put this into practice:

• Doing work that’s needed, but not billing for five minutes of effort. If someone calls and needs a few minutes of your time to do anything, handle it without billing them. That extra support matters more than a few dollars on an invoice.
• Responding quickly, especially when it’s not expected. Nothing says “you matter” like hearing back promptly.
• Sending a thoughtful note for no reason at all. A little personal message, whether it’s congratulating someone on a milestone or acknowledging something meaningful to them, strengthens the relationship.
• Checking in without an agenda. Consider sending an email just to ask how someone is doing or if they need anything. That’s not transactional. That’s relational.
• Referring someone to a trusted resource. Sometimes the best answer isn’t something you can provide. Taking the time to connect someone to the right solution earns trust.

What Plussing Isn’t

Let’s be clear, plussing can get out of control quickly. Not only can it create scope creep and lost revenue, but it could also create friction, disappointment, or loss of revenue when you have to draw the line.

Here are just a few rules to consider.

• Plussing is not doing significant work for free. If something requires meaningful time and expertise, it should be billed. Customers should respect your craft, your time, and the value you bring to the table.
• Plussing is not a way to compensate for poor processes or unclear agreements. Small gestures should enhance a strong partnership, not patch over recurring issues or misaligned expectations.
• Plussing is not about small freebies that clients start to expect. Generosity isn’t generosity if it becomes entitlement.

The little things matter

I always say that the little things matter, and I truly believe they do. When you make that small extra effort, it’s never about the moment alone. It’s about the impression left behind. People remember how they were treated. They remember that human interaction and what you did for them with no strings attached. Over time, those little things paint a big picture: a picture of an organization that gets it and cares.

Outside of delivering on what you promised and what the customer is purchasing, this is how long-term relationships get built. Not through a single massive gesture, but through consistent micro-moments of care and thoughtfulness.

Plussing the experience isn’t just about being nice or helpful. It’s strategic. It’s a competitive advantage that’s hard to replicate unless you make it a core part of your culture.

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By most objective measures, I’m successful.

Most people who know me, know our company, or look at what we’ve built would probably say we’ve arrived, quote-unquote.

But even typing that makes me want to immediately follow it with a joke, a qualifier, or a quick pivot into what I need to work on. I want to deflect any presumptions and avoid the perception of arrogance at all costs. 

That’s the Midwest in me. If you act too big for your britches, your friends and family will lovingly take the piss out of you until you remember you’re a regular person again.

That grounding is healthy. But sometimes I wonder if I’ve confused “staying grounded” with a quieter form of negative self-talk.

Because here’s what’s true.

We ended last year with record sales. We grew again. We did it profitably. Our team has long tenure. Our clients tend to stick with us for a long time. By the classic business scorecard, things are going really well.

And yet, I found myself fixating on one measure that didn’t land exactly where I wanted it.

Not because the year was bad. Not because the company is in trouble. But because I’m still wired to believe that if it doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t count.

So, I keep moving the goalpost because I’m scared of getting comfortable.

And if the plan looks achievable, I assume I’m missing something.

Is it prudence or obsessive handwringing? 

This happened while I was working on targets and forecasts, year-end review mode. Planning for next year. Looking out toward where we want to be in the next 12-18 months. Allocating resources like a responsible adult.

Forecasts looked good. Targets looked good. Both were substantiated. Both were exciting. Both were, objectively, aggressive.

And my brain did this:

“If this lines up too cleanly… something’s wrong.”

Not “Great. Let’s execute.”

More like:

“Maybe the target is too low.” “Maybe I’m being soft.” “Maybe I’m missing a landmine.” “Maybe we should double it so it feels real.”

But it went beyond normal business prudence. It became almost pathological. Obsessive. I couldn’t let it go. I kept coming back to it—paralysis by analysis. It was distracting me from working on real things that could actually impact the business because I was trying to make the model work.

I mean, I do want it tested. Vetted. Bulletproof as possible.

But when I can’t let it go – when it’s introducing negativity and doubt in my subconscious, when I’m communicating that doubt to the team – we’re creating a negative self-fulfilling prophecy.

It was distraction. Obsession. Wildly unhealthy.

And then I stepped back, looked at the forecast again, and realized: this is actually good. And I’m manufacturing problems because of what a friend would call my own personal ‘head trash.’.

Scoreboards vs. Operating Systems

I’m what you’d call ‘goal oriented.’ I always have been – going back as far as I can remember. 

Entrepreneurs love scoreboards because they’re clean.

Revenue. Profit. Headcount. Market share. Client retention. Lead flow. Your “number.”

You hit one and immediately see the next. You reach a level and it reveals a new level you “should” be at.

It’s like walking into a gym. There’s always someone stronger. Better looking. Younger. Richer. Thinner waistline. Full head of hair.

Comparison is the thief of joy, sure. But it’s also sneakier than that.

Sometimes comparison isn’t even to other people. It’s to your own moving benchmark.

If my 25-year-old self saw my life today, he’d be impressed. He’d think I’d made it.

But at 55, you can look around and think, “Okay… what’s next?” 

I still feel like the scrappy kid from a blue collar background trying to prove I belong.

That’s not inherently bad. That’s ambition. That’s growth.

The trap is when the scoreboard becomes the only way you know how to measure whether you’re doing life correctly.

I’ve lived most of my adult life running on what I’d call productive scarcity. The belief that if I stop pushing, everything slips. It’s been a hell of a motivator. It’s also exhausting if you never turn it off.

And here’s what I’m realizing: sometimes my “humility” and self-deprecating humor, is just a mask for fear.

Fear that if I acknowledge success out loud, I’ll jinx it. Fear that if I let a win land, I’ll lose my edge. Fear that if I relax, I’ll wake up six months later and realize I took my eye off the ball.

That’s anxiety as fuel. It works. It’s effective. It’s always available.

It’s also expensive.

What Changed

I’ve had two or three conversations in the last year with peers I deeply respect—people who, by any empirical measure, would be considered hugely successful in life and business. 

And what struck me was how they talked about their “success.” They didn’t credit goals or KPIs or relentless grinding. Oh I have those friends too, no doubt. But these friends described their mindset as something else entirely: an embedded belief system that drove everything they did. Principles they operated from. 

A way of being that produced results almost as a byproduct.

It was counterintuitive for me. It ran against how I’ve lived so far.

But it resonated as real.

And it made me realize: I’ve been focusing on the wrong thing.

The goal wasn’t the reason for doing something. The goal was just the articulation of what the principle would naturally produce.

I started asking myself: if someone I respect—someone who has grown their business in a way I respect and envy—if they would approach this with a different mindset, maybe I need to rethink my approach. Loosen the grip on the bat. Follow their lead.

And I’ve noticed something about people who are empirically more successful than me. The truly successful ones, the ones who build massive things and have real impact.

They’re not doing it because they’re terrified. 

They’re doing it because it’s fun.

They have goals, sure. But the goal isn’t the purpose. The goal is an articulation of the next stage.

They’re driven because they can’t help it. Because they’re wired to build, learn, create, serve, invent, lead, teach, or champion.

They run on principles. On an operating system.

And that operating system produces a scoreboard that most people would call success.

Not because they worship the scoreboard, but because they do the right things for long enough that the scoreboard can’t help but follow.

It’s an inversion of my normal mindset.

Age Leads to Wisdom?

I turned 55 recently. My business partner did too.

This isn’t our swan song. I’m not writing this from a rocking chair. But milestone numbers do make you reflect. You start asking different questions.

Not just:

“How do we grow?”

But:

“How do I want to feel while we grow?” “What am I optimizing for?” “What fuel am I running on?” “What is this all for?”

I’m still ambitious.

I still want growth. I still want impact. I still want to create jobs and build something we’re proud of.

I’m just trying to change the fuel.

Goals vs Principles

Here’s where I’m landing.

Goals are useful. I’m not going to pretend I don’t like them. I like numbers. I like targets. I like checking boxes. I like a clean dashboard. I like the satisfaction of a dogged pursuit of a goal.

But goals make a terrible operating system.

Because if you live by a scoreboard, it’s one-dimensional. It reduces the complexity of life into a few metrics, and then it trains you to treat everything else as optional.

Principles are different.

Principles tell you how to live while you pursue the goals.

They tell you what “good” looks like even when the number is down. They tell you what not to sacrifice to hit the number. They keep you from winning yourself into burnout.

And the irony is this.

If you build a life and a business around principles, you tend to end up with a better scoreboard anyway.

Not because you obsessed over it. Because you consistently did the right things for the right reasons long enough that the results compound.

That’s what I’m trying to internalize.

Principles create a trusted system for your life. Not so you stop caring, but so you stop panicking.

The Class Exercise I Still Think About

Years ago, in a Dale Carnegie sales class, the instructor had us write our “perfect day.”

I still revisit mine at least once a year. 

I look back at what I wrote 30 years ago and it’s almost freaky how much of it came true.

Not in a “manifestation” way. I’m not trying to sell you The Secret or the Law of Attraction. But hey – maybe that’s a thing, too.

More like: I painted a picture so clearly that it shaped a thousand small decisions I didn’t even notice I was making.

My perfect day (originally drafted 30 years ago)

I wake up early. Not because I have to, but because I want to. The light is coming through the windows of a beautiful home—one I couldn’t quite picture clearly at 25, but one that feels right. Calm. Grounded. A place that reflects the life I’ve built, not the life I’m performing for someone else.

My wife is next to me. My best friend. Someone who still loves me after seeing all of it—the ambition, the anxiety, the late nights, the doubt, the failures, the moments of weakness, the wins I celebrate too quietly and the losses I carry too long. She’s there. And that matters more than anything else on this list.

I get up and exercise. A run, usually. Something that clears my head and makes me feel awake, not just caffeinated. I come back, hop on my computer, check a few numbers to orient myself. Green lights all around. And then I move on. I don’t spiral. I don’t manufacture problems. I check, I orient, I move forward.

I go to a walk-in closet—something I definitely didn’t have at 25—and I have nice clothes. Not flashy. Not trying to prove anything. Just clothes that make me feel confident and ready to take on my day. Clothes that fit. Literally and figuratively.

I head down to the garage and get into my car. A really cool car I love. One that’s reliable. At least more reliable than the brown Pinto station wagon that smelled like gasoline I was driving around at the time. I appreciate the car, but I’m not the car. It’s just a thing I enjoy, not a thing that defines me.

I get to work when I want, where I want, with a team of really smart people I enjoy working with. People whose work has meaningful impact. I’m working one-on-one with people I respect. I’m excited by what we’re working on. The people are smart. They’re fun. They challenge me. They make the work better than I could make it alone.

The work is impactful. It helps real people. My mom and dad would be proud of the work we do—even if they don’t fully understand what it is. That matters to me. Not the revenue. Not the margins. The fact that it’s work worth doing.

I work with a team that owns the details and pulls me in where I actually add value. I’m not the bottleneck. I’m not the hero. I’m the person who shows up where it matters and trusts the team to do what they do best.

Mid-afternoon, I might break for lunch. Meet my wife for lunch. Then off to an afternoon meeting or a round of golf with business associates who are also really good friends. The lines blur in the best way. Work doesn’t feel separate from life. It’s integrated. It’s part of a life I actually want to live.

We finish the day, and then I clean up. We meet some friends or family for drinks and dinner. We plan out our next vacation or adventure. We talk about what’s next, not because we’re running from something, but because we’re running toward something together.

And then we retire to our beautiful home where… well, I’ll just leave the story there.

Now, I may have tweaked it a bit over the years. But it’s pretty much what it was when I drafted it for a night class decades ago.

When I read that now, it’s almost embarrassing how simple it is. There’s vanity there. There’s 1980s consumerism in there. I probably cribbed a lot of it from the Michael J. Fox move The Secret of My Success. But it’s honest for where I was at the time.

Still  – I can’t believe it –  it’s basically the life I’m living. I mean real damn close. I should have asked for a full head of thick, lustrous hair, but hindsight is 20/20.

Not perfectly. Not every day. Not without stress. But close enough that my younger self wouldn’t believe it.

But there are a few surprises in there too. I didn’t envision children. I was a 25-year-old guy at the time. Single. I knew I wanted love and family. But I just hadn’t considered it in the calculus of my life.

I mean, as a young guy, if you would have asked me I would have said, “Oh yeah, I want kids.” But it was more that I wanted a family unit that was healthy and fun and supportive. My roadmap intuited it. But if I’d said I wanted 2.5 children—well, that wouldn’t have been right. It would have been a statistical goal.

But it still happened for us. The woman I married had a daughter. A beautiful daughter that has enriched my life more than I could have ever anticipated. It was not only compatible with my “perfect day”; it amplified it on a logarithmic scale.

And here’s the part I didn’t forecast: the best things came from left field.

The depth of family. The relationships. The people. The moments that weren’t in the plan. The kind of richness you can’t put on a scoreboard.

My Operating Principles

I’m still working this out. These aren’t carved in stone. But here’s what I keep coming back to:

Build systems that don’t require my panic to function.

If the business only works when I’m anxious, I’ve built something fragile. Real resilience comes from processes, people, and clarity—not from my ability to stay in perpetual fight-or-flight mode. EOS helped with this. So did stepping back from Integrator role and letting the team own the process. The business should run because the system is sound, not because I’m sweating.

Lead from gratitude without ceding the future.

I can appreciate how far we’ve come and still want more. Those aren’t in conflict. Gratitude isn’t complacency. It’s acknowledging that we built something real, with real people, that does real work. That foundation lets us build bigger, not smaller. Scarcity says “if I celebrate, I’ll lose.” Abundance says “because we built well, we can build more.”

Champion people, not just manage them.

I don’t want to just develop talent or manage performance. I want to actively champion the people on our team—put resources behind them, clear obstacles, amplify what they’re building. Our Marketing, Sales, and Strategy teams all have leaders who have taken what we originally started and built on the foundation to make these functions better than anything my business partner or I could have done on our own. We hired really smart people and let them tell us what we should do—and every time we trust them to do so, the result is 10X better than if we would have tried to do it ourselves.

Make decisions from abundance, not scarcity.

The numbers are real. The team is strong. The client relationships are solid. When I make decisions from “what if everything falls apart,” I make defensive decisions. When I make decisions from “we’ve built something durable,” I make smarter ones. This doesn’t mean reckless. It means confident. There’s a difference between prudent risk management and operating like the sky is always falling.

Pursue impact, not just metrics.

Revenue matters. Profit matters. But if we genuinely help B2B industrial companies transform how they think about marketing and growth, the metrics follow. The scorecard is an output, not the purpose. When we focus on doing work that actually moves the needle for clients—work that changes trajectories, not just checks boxes—we build the kind of reputation and relationships that compound. The number comes from doing the right thing consistently, not from staring at the number.

Protect space for life outside the scoreboard.

The Dale Carnegie exercise taught me this years ago, and I keep forgetting it. The best parts of life—the depth of relationships, the unexpected moments, the things that make it all worthwhile—they don’t show up on a dashboard. They show up when you create space for them. Early morning runs. Lunch with my wife. Golf with friends. Travel that isn’t a business trip. These aren’t rewards for hitting targets. They’re part of what makes a life worth building a business around.

Stay humble, but not small.

This is the Midwest tension I’m trying to resolve. Staying grounded doesn’t mean pretending we haven’t built something significant. It doesn’t mean apologizing for success or hedging every win. Humility is being honest about what we’ve built, who helped us build it, and how much luck and timing played a role. Smallness is refusing to acknowledge it at all because you’re afraid someone will think you’re bragging. I’m trying to live in the first one, not the second.

The Evidence

These aren’t the kind of principles that fit on a motivational poster. They’re messy. They’re in progress. Some days I live them. Some days I forget them entirely and revert to anxiety as fuel.

January 1st – New Year’s Day. For me, it’s probably my least favorite day of the year. The holidays are done. We’ve eaten and drunk our way through the last four to six weeks. We wrapped the last year and now—we NEED to get going on the next year.

January 1st is a weird limbo day. No one is working. We’re taking a day off when, frankly, I’m done relaxing—and I’m super anxious to get the ball rolling and start working our plan. It’s a slow start when we’ve got a TON to do. And that anxiousness just leaves me fretting because we can’t act yet because I still have to go through the motions of being on holiday.

When I just want us to get started and get ahead of them.

Truthfully, this anxiety is with me every day. I’m not past it. But I’m aware of it. And I’m consciously moving my thoughts in ways that recognize and navigate around those thoughts to a more healthy place.

But here’s what I know: the business is doing better since I started trying.

Not because I stopped caring about the scoreboard.

Because I stopped letting the scoreboard be the only thing that tells me if I’m doing it right.

By elevating above the day-to-day—by handing the Integrator role to Cortney who’s just wired to do it better than I ever could, by letting our leaders actually lead—I’m actively engaging,

attracting, and bringing new opportunities to the company that are much higher leverage than if I was worrying too much about the details.

By elevating, it’s allowed me to be a better resource for the team. To back them up beyond being another set of hands to lift the load.

I want to be the guy in the trenches willing to lift the load of a team that’s working their tail off. But it’s more important for me to survey the field and strategically figure out how to navigate the next steps in the theater of war.

They have their job to do. I have mine. Be okay with that.

The Real Flex

I want to lead with gratitude and appreciation for how far we’ve come, without ceding the future to complacency.

And I want to stop living like the universe is waiting to punish me for admitting things are going well.

Maybe the real flex at 55 isn’t bigger goals.

Maybe it’s being able to say, plainly and without apology:

We’re doing well. I’m grateful. I’m still hungry. And I don’t need anxiety to prove it.

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone. You’re probably just successful enough to realize the scoreboard isn’t the point, and driven enough to keep chasing it anyway.

The trick is making sure the chase is coming from the right place.

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When our company started in 2006, I was a young entrepreneur working out of my basement. I’ll spare you the full origin story here, but the short version is that I had to prove myself. I had to earn trust. I had to return results—or else. That mindset stuck, and it became a standard we still hold ourselves to every day, all these years later.

Over the years, those three words—We Return Results—turned into somewhat of a rallying cry at Sanctuary. Not because they sound good, but because they reflect reality. Every month, we have to show up and earn it. There’s no coasting. Our clients are investing real money into their businesses, and they trust us to make that investment matter.

Returning Results is How We Honor That Trust

Outside of our commitment to actually being a true Sanctuary for our clients and our team, our value of returning results may matter more than any other. It’s the difference between activity and impact. Between just doing the work and making real progress. At the end of the day, clear results are the simplest, most honest way to show that we’ve actually done our job.

Our guarantee is straightforward: we provide a Sanctuary to help our clients grow their businesses. But how we pursue that result is what matters. We don’t treat client goals as abstract KPIs or distant outcomes. We pursue them as if they were our own. That mindset shapes every decision we make—from planning to execution to measurement.

Impact Over Activity

Results aren’t about activity and volume. Results are about real impact and outcomes that propel the organization forward.

Marketing is crowded with tactics, tools, noisy trends, and never-ending change. It’s all competing for our attention. But keeping up with all this, and always doing more, doesn’t guarantee results and progress. In many cases, it creates confusion, wasted effort, inefficiency, and diluted impact.

Returning results means helping our clients to filter out the noise and focus on a strategy that actually moves the business forward. It means asking the hard questions early. What is the real objective? How will success be measured? And what’s the most direct route to get there?

Treating Client Goals Like Our Own

When goals feel distant or muddy, accountability is weakened. Decisions get softer. Tradeoffs become easier to ignore. Excuses are made.

We take a different approach. We treat our clients’ goals as if they were our own. That means caring about the outcome, not just the volume of deliverables. It means pushing back when something looks good but isn’t performing. It means staying focused on long-term growth, even when short-term distractions are tempting.

This level of ownership leads to better thinking, effective deliverables, and better results. It also builds trust. When clients know you’re invested in the same finish line they are, the relationship ideally shifts from vendor to partner.

Data as Proof, Not Decoration

Opinions don’t return results. Data does.

We demonstrate our value by consistently presenting factual, relevant data. Not vanity metrics. Not cherry-picked wins. Not dashboards designed to impress rather than inform. Data should clearly show what’s working, what isn’t, and what needs to change next. This last part is key.

Clear data leads to better decisions. Better decisions lead to better outcomes.

Returning results means being honest with the numbers. Sometimes the data confirms progress. Other times, it reveals inefficiencies or flawed assumptions. Both are valuable. The goal isn’t to always be right. The goal is to learn from the data quickly and adjust intelligently.

I’ve personally always tried to be honest with our clients from the very beginning. I’ve been doing this now for over 30 years, but I still don’t have it all figured out. I probably never will. But, with great data, collaborations, and a spirit of partnership, we can learn together along the way and continually improve and grow.

Our process at Sanctuary is to learn, plan, deliver, and review. This final step helps us quickly determine whether we’re achieving the stated goals by reviewing results often. We double down when it makes sense, and we pivot when the data drives us in a different direction. 

What this Value Demands of Us

“We return results” is a commitment. It demands discipline, transparency, and focus. It requires us to stay grounded in reality and accountable to outcomes—not effort, appearance, or volume.

This value guides how we think, how we work, and how we measure success. Not by how busy we are. Not by how polished something looks. Not by how many awards we receive. But by whether it delivers meaningful, measurable impact and growth for our clients.

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Last Tuesday, I sat in our weekly L10 (a structured, weekly leadership meeting format from the Entrepreneurial Operating System (EOS)) and did something that felt physically painful: I kept my mouth shut.

Someone asked a question about resource allocation. It was the kind of thing I have answered on instinct for 20 years. My brain instantly queued up an explanation, complete with my usual out-loud processing and circle-back thinking.

But I did not say a word.

I sat there, forcing myself to let the team lead the discussion. They asked clarifying questions, weighed options, and mapped out next steps. The solution they landed on was far better informed and ultimately smarter than anything I would have thrown out in the moment.

It was a solution I would not have thought of, because I was reaching for the one that worked three years ago.

That is when a line from Steve Jobs surfaced in my mind:

“It does not make sense to hire smart people and then tell them what to do.

We hire smart people so they can tell us what to do.”

The Swiss Army Knife Problem

For two decades, Chris and I have been the Swiss Army knives of Sanctuary. Visionary roles, integrator roles, operations, sales support, client work, relationships, finance, and decision-making. We did all of it.

But the truth is, we have not been the ones “keeping Sanctuary running” for a long time.

We built a great team. They picked up what we started, strengthened it, and pushed it further than we ever could alone. Yet I stayed in the middle of everything because that is what founders tend to do.

Here is what “being good at a lot of things” really bought me:

• A team that checked with me before making decisions I should not even know about.
• Great leaders asking for more responsibility, then waiting while I waited for the “right time” to hand it over.
• Client relationships that should have lived with the account team but came through me.
• A one-year plan I helped build but did not have time to think about because I was too busy fixing last month’s problems.

And the kicker was this: I kept telling myself I was being helpful.

I was not. I was building dependency.

And dependencies do not scale. They crack under their own weight.

The Training Wheels Are for Me

We are officially transitioning the Integrator role to Cortney in January. Right now, we are in what I’ll call “training wheels mode.” 

The wheels are not for Cortney or the team. They are for me.

Here is what I have learned about myself. I am a people pleaser who cannot stand watching someone search for an answer if I have one.

It is not about control.

It is not even about ego (well, maybe a little).

It is simply that someone asks a question, my brain fires, and my instinct is to help.

But every time I reflexively answer, I take the ball back. I crowd out the better thinking, insights, and ideas that emerge when the person who is actually accountable for that area is given room to lead.

That forty-five-second pause in last week’s L10, the one where I almost jumped in, ended up proving the point.

Cortney did not just answer. She reframed the issue. She spotted something I missed because I was too busy being efficient. Because she framed it better, the team contributed more effectively and found a stronger solution, faster.

The surprising part was the feeling that followed.

I felt relieved. Not validated. Relieved.

It was like I had been carrying something I did not need to carry anymore.

She is going to be a better Integrator than I ever was.

What Letting Go Really Costs (And Nobody Talks About It)

People talk about “letting go of the vine” like it is a heroic milestone.

Nobody talks about what it feels like in week three when your Wednesday afternoon has four hours of white space and you do not know what to do with yourself.

Nobody mentions the guilt, or the loneliness, or the identity freefall. Nobody mentions how uncomfortable “strategic thinking” feels at first, or how tempting it is to jump back into tasks just to feel useful.

When you have spent twenty years being the person who solves the crisis, stepping back does not feel like freedom at first.

It feels like failure.

It feels like you are letting the team down by not sweating as hard as you used to.

And that is exactly when you are most likely to sabotage your own progress by jumping back in.

The Realization That Shifted Everything

There was no dramatic moment that forced a change. It was a slow, steady realization that came from months of planning, reflection, and honest conversations with the team.

We have been preparing for this evolution for years.

But here is the truth. I had been carrying around this old, self-created pressure that I had to “keep it all running.” It came from years of operating in a mindset of scarcity, where if I did not stay vigilant, something important might fall through the cracks.

But that was not reality. It was a story I kept telling myself.

The real story is this. We have built a great team over many years. They have been leading the company, solving problems, and making smart decisions long before this transition even started. They did not suddenly become capable. They have been capable for a long time.

I was the one who had to catch up.

Shifting from a scarcity mindset (“If I let go, something might break”) to an abundance mindset (“Look at how strong this team already is”) has required rewiring habits that have been with me for decades.

Once I finally saw that the pressure to “keep it all running” was self-imposed, everything looked different.

This transition is not about making the team ready. They have been ready for a long time.

It is about making me ready.

What Is Happening Now

The team is stepping up in quiet, consistent ways that show real leadership.

• Lauren brought a six-month marketing plan that was better than anything I would have created
• Tom closed deals with clarity and momentum I would have unintentionally complicated
• Cortney is running L10s with steadiness and structure that I never reached while juggling too many roles

They are solving problems faster than I ever did.

They are removing things from my worry list.

They are strengthening the business in very real ways.

I am not sure if I feel more proud or more irrelevant. Probably both.

But mostly, I feel lighter.

It feels like I have finally exhaled after holding my breath for twenty years.

What I Am Learning, Still In Motion

I am not writing this from the other side. I am still in the messy middle, figuring it out as I go.

Here is what I am learning.

If the business only works when I am grinding, it is not a business.

It is a dependency with an expiration date.

I do not want Sanctuary’s best days to be behind us. I want our best days to be ahead. I want the team that helped build this place to be the ones leading it.

That means my role has to evolve.

It means spending time in the community.

It means building partnerships.

It means contributing thought leadership.

It means exploring new technologies.

It means developing future leaders.

It means thinking in years instead of weeks.

It means finally doing the work a Visionary is supposed to do.

It is uncomfortable.

It is unfamiliar.

And it is necessary.

Because every time I let go of something I thought only I could do, someone else does it better.

Where I Am Now

I will not end this with advice. I am still learning.

Here is the truth:

• I have more white space on my calendar than feels natural
• The team is thriving without my constant input
• I am realizing I confused being “busy” with “doing my job” for far too long
• And for the first time in years, I have space to think about what the next version of my job should be

Letting go of the vine is not about becoming irrelevant.

It is about finally being free to do the work I am actually meant to be doing.

I am still learning what that looks like.

But for the first time in a long time, I have room to learn it.

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