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		<title>Happy 4th</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/07/04/happy-4th/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 13:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy 4th of July, y&#8217;all! This is what I&#8217;m wearing today. Shame it&#8217;s so hot.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy 4th of July, y&#8217;all!</p>
<p>This is what I&#8217;m wearing today. Shame it&#8217;s so hot.</p>
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		<title>It’s almost time…</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/23/its-almost-time/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2011 16:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Winner winner, but no chicken dinner</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/22/winner-winner-but-no-chicken-dinner/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2011 12:45:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nothing brings me more joy than sharing bits of trivia. But I hate those bar trivia games. Not because they&#8217;re bad, just because I don&#8217;t really like organized activities. Too much time spent on sports teams and lessons as a kid I guess. Plus, I can&#8217;t bring myself to feel competitive about things that aren&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nothing brings me more joy than sharing bits of trivia. But I hate those bar trivia games. Not because they&#8217;re bad, just because I don&#8217;t really like organized activities. Too much time spent on sports teams and lessons as a kid I guess. Plus, I can&#8217;t bring myself to feel competitive about things that aren&#8217;t important. </p>
<p>Anyhoodle, I have a note pad I always keep with me where I create lists of whatever. Grocery shopping, recipe ideas, to do items, and a ton of things to &#8220;look into&#8221; at some point. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s fun to look through and try to figure out why I chose something. Like I remember being in the car and wanting to find out what <a href="http://www.hitchdepotusa.com/">curt hitches</a> are. But I have no idea why I was interested in soil density in the mid-Atlantic region. Or where the thought came from. </p>
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		<title>Awesomesauce</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/21/awesomesauce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2011 19:38:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Authors hating on other authors, classic style. Some favorites: Dylan Thomas on Rudyard Kipling “Mr Kipling … stands for everything in this cankered world which I would wish were otherwise.” Truman Capote on Jack Kerouac “That’s not writing, that’s typing.” Mark Twain on Jane Austen “Every time I read ‘Pride and Prejudice,’ I want to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://flavorwire.com/188138/the-30-harshest-author-on-author-insults-in-history">Authors hating on other authors</a>, classic style.</p>
<p>Some favorites:</p>
<p><strong>Dylan Thomas on Rudyard Kipling</strong></p>
<p>“Mr Kipling … stands for everything in this cankered world which I would wish were otherwise.”</p>
<p><strong>Truman Capote on Jack Kerouac</strong></p>
<p>“That’s not writing, that’s typing.”</p>
<p><strong>Mark Twain on Jane Austen</strong></p>
<p>“Every time I read ‘Pride and Prejudice,’ I want to dig her up and hit her over the skull with her own shin-bone.”</p>
<p><strong>William Faulkner on Ernest Hemingway</strong></p>
<p>“He has never been known to use a word that might send a reader to the dictionary.”</p>
<p><strong>Ernest Hemingway on William Faulkner</strong></p>
<p>“Poor Faulkner. Does he really think big emotions come from big words?”</p>
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		<title>Truckin’</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/20/truckin/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 13:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a little sad. After the 4th of July I start a month of extensive work-related travel. Most of it will be in my car by myself. No fun. Two trips will involve planes (both are for conferences). The boyfriend is probably going to tag along for one of those, which will be nice. In [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a little sad. After the 4th of July I start a month of extensive work-related travel. Most of it will be in my car by myself. No fun. Two trips will involve planes (both are for conferences). The boyfriend is probably going to tag along for one of those, which will be nice. </p>
<p>In preparation I&#8217;ve been decking out my ride (heh) a bit. Finally got a guidance system installed. I got a deal for a few months to try it. Since I&#8217;m terrible at reading maps and directions I hope it will keep me from getting lost. Nothing fancy like  <a href="http://www.thesource.ca/estore/category.aspx?language=en-CA&#038;catalog=Online&#038;category=GPS+Systems">gps for truckers</a>, but something to help keep me sane. </p>
<p>Oh, and tons of music and books on tape (er, CD. But books on CD sounds dumb, doesn&#8217;t it?)</p>
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		<title>Song of the Day – Holler Edition</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/19/song-of-the-day-holler-edition/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 00:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because I just heard this coming from the car next to me in traffic. Complete with couple rocking out.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because I just heard this coming from the car next to me in traffic. Complete with couple rocking out.</p>
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		<title>Gadget insanity continues</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/18/gadget-insanity-continues/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 17:53:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Er, yeah. We have a new house problem. We found a set of outlets in the backyard that reach nicely under the deck off our kitchen. So, now that area is the warm weather family room. Cool because it never gets sun, we can say we&#8217;re outside but still chill on a sofa like the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Er, yeah. We have a new house problem. We found a set of outlets in the backyard that reach nicely under the deck off our kitchen. So, now that area is the warm weather family room. Cool because it never gets sun, we can say we&#8217;re outside but still chill on a sofa like the lazy bums we are. </p>
<p>And thanks to the nice folks at <a href="http://www.jr.com/brand/turtle-beach/">turtle beach</a>, we can play games and whatever without disturbing the neighbors. So far we&#8217;ve been able to resist buying a mini fridge, but it&#8217;s only a matter of time, I&#8217;m sure. </p>
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		<title>Quick and yummy</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/17/quick-and-yummy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 13:54:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s another fun recipe-less recipe. It came about because I had some shrimp I wanted to use, and needed something fast. Ingredients: 1 lb extra large shrimp (don&#8217;t use anything smaller than 21/25s) 4 cloves garlic 2 lemons 1 bunch of scallions 1 pint grape tomatoes 4 tbsp olive oil 1 tbsp coconut oil (optional) [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s another fun recipe-less recipe. It came about because I had some shrimp I wanted to use, and needed something fast. </p>
<p><strong>Ingredients:</strong></p>
<p>1 lb extra large shrimp (don&#8217;t use anything smaller than 21/25s)<br />
4 cloves garlic<br />
2 lemons<br />
1 bunch of scallions<br />
1 pint grape tomatoes<br />
4 tbsp olive oil<br />
1 tbsp coconut oil (optional)<br />
Parsley (to taste)<br />
Dash of red pepper flakes (optional)<br />
3 ears of corn (removed from cob &#8211; don&#8217;t forget to scrape out the extra tastiness &#8211; can use frozen)<br />
1 lb pasta (whatever you like is fine &#8211; I used linguini)</p>
<p><strong>Directions:</strong></p>
<p>Remove shells and tails from shrimp. Boil shells and tails in a small pot with 2-3 cups of water for at least 30 minutes (I did this ahead of time right when I brought the shrimp home). Once the stock is nice and shrimpy and reduced about 50%, strain it and set aside (can be refrigerated, but get it back to room temp before using).</p>
<p>Combine 1/2 cup of corn kernels, garlic, handful of tomatoes and 3 tbsp olive oil in blender or mini mixer and blitz until smooth. </p>
<p>Boil water for pasta and slice shrimp in half lengthwise and set aside. </p>
<p>Slice tomatoes in half lengthwise and chop scallions (separate the white and green).</p>
<p>Sautee 1/2 of the remaining tomatoes, rest of corn and white parts of the scallions in 1 tbsp of olive oil and 1 tbsp of coconut oil until skin of tomatoes is wilted and slightly browned.</p>
<p>Right before putting pasta in (if not fresh, of course), add the tomato garlic mixture and juice of one lemon to the tomatoes and cook on medium/high until bubbling. Add little bits of the shrimp stock to loosen sauce. Cook for 5 or so minutes, keep adding stock as you like (make sure you&#8217;re not salting anything &#8211; shrimp stock is very briney).</p>
<p>When pasta is almost done, add the shrimp and toss/stir to get the cooked. It should only take 2 minutes or so. Turn off heat and add the rest of the tomatoes, scallions, parsley and juice of other lemon. Drain pasta and toss together with sauce right away. </p>
<p>Yum yum yum. The directions make it sound harder than it is.</p>
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		<title>That man of mine</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/16/that-man-of-mine/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2011 16:16:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As usual, the boyfriend provides much of the entertainment in my life. He&#8217;s in total manly organization mode, and is hilarious about it. We&#8217;ve gone to building supply stores three times this week so he can &#8220;work on the basement.&#8221; So far that means trying to find places to put his new toys. I drew [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As usual, the boyfriend provides much of the entertainment in my life. He&#8217;s in total manly organization mode, and is hilarious about it. </p>
<p>We&#8217;ve gone to building supply stores three times this week so he can &#8220;work on the basement.&#8221; So far that means trying to find places to put his new toys. I drew the line at a <a href="http://www.posmicro.com/">barcode scanner</a>, though it was pretty fun. There are a lot more uses than I&#8217;d thought at first. Maybe for his birthday. </p>
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		<title>Killed it</title>
		<link>http://sassyblackfriend.com/2011/06/15/killed-it/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 19:51:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Buying copies for everyone I know with kids:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buying copies for everyone I know with kids:</p>
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