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LUNA MAYA : Hottest Indonesian Artist in 2010

2011-01-17T11:48:00.000-08:00

I wrote about Luna Maya before but now it I will expose her controversial relationship with one of the most wanted bachelors in Indonesia Ariel Peter Pan. Ariel is the lead vocalist of a notorious pop rock band Peter Pan. This group was officially founded on September 1st 2000 in Bandung where all the members come from. Back to Lunaâ€™s relationship with Ariel, it will not be a huge surprise if they are meant to be together. Both of them have adorable looks and successful career in entertainment and all of their fans hoped that they would make a perfect combination for husband and wife just like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. At the beginning, they did not really expose themselves to the public and very shocking news had to set them apart.
One day, the press made a big exposure of a woman called Sarah who explained that she was pregnant and the father of her baby was Ariel. This news were such a drama which triggered controversy in Indonesian entertainment industry let alone that time Ariel was still in a relationship with Luna Maya. The worst part was Ariel admitted that the baby was his and he decided that he would responsible with that reality by marrying Sarah.
Luna Maya was in a shock. In an interview with a national tabloid, she even stated that this world is cruel. Her relationship was ended and she continued her career and result in huge success. But then, the press kept stalking on her and found out that eventhough Ariel was still married, both Ariel and Luna still sneakily met each other and of course the denied that rumours. Luna Maya was always upset when the press kept asking her about her secret affair with Ariel. The fact that Arielâ€™s marriage was not in a good shape was even able to convince the public that there was still something going on with this couple. Sarah, the wife of Ariel even admitted that she knew Ariel and Luna often met each other behind her. From all the news in the television, it was quite clear that Ariel was not really happy with his marriage. He hardly slept in his house in Bandung and his gestures when he was together with his wife were too obvious that he was not comfortable with his marriage. Only Ariel who knows well what actually happened in his marriage and day by day, it was even worse and worse.
This controversial marriage was finally ended with a divorce filed by Ariel. When the case was in court, a lot of women attended the case to see him in real. There were nobody who seemed to regret his decision to end up his marriage and Ariel since then became the most wanted bachelor of the year.
After the divorce was finished, Ariel continued his work to promote his band. Some of the members decided to move out due to different principals and music concepts, and Peter Pan started all over again to make new album. Luna Maya was even more and more popular. She signed contracts with one of the biggest cellular provider in Indonesia, her contract with LUX was prolonged up to today, she also launched her new wardrobes LM for Luna Maya, she was also appointed the presenter of Dahsyat, a very popular music program which gain tremendous success, and even was appointed the legislative representative of the winning political party Democrat.
Luna Maya was never seen with other man. There was a rumour that she has been spotted with one member of Ungu, the other famous pop band in Indonesia, but she emphasized that it was not true at all. Little by little, she started to expose her relationship with Ariel by visiting an interior shop which triggered crowds on the shops and Lunaâ€™s best friends also teased them a lot when both of them were on the same shows, and Luna seems very happy about this. If before, she was always upset to the press when asked about her affair, now they both do not mind to answer the media yet still inconvenient with the pressure that everytime they find them even if they are doing their jobs, the questions are always about their relationship. Media even heard that they both have been married in Bali without confirming it to public and even Ariel bought a luxurious house for Luna Maya in Jakarta, but until now nobody is able to prove if the rumours are true. We will just see what happen to this adorable couple in the future. Will it be like in a fairy tale or just a glimpse of gossip.

how to make Touch Explosives

2010-07-10T19:30:00.000-07:00

This is sort of a mild explosive, but it can be quite dangerous in
large quantities. To make touch explosive (such as that found in a
snap-n-pop, but more powerful), use this recipe:

- Mix iodine crystals into ammonia until the iodine crystals will
not dissolve into the ammonia anymore. Pour off the excess ammonia
and dry out the crystals on a baking sheet the same way as you
dried the thermite (in other words, just let it sit overnight!).

- Be careful now because these crystals are now your touch
explosive. Carefully wrap a bunch in paper (I mean carefully!
Friction sets 'em off!) and throw them around.. pretty loud, huh?
They are fun to put on someone's chair. Add a small fish sinker to
them and they can be thrown a long distance (good for crowds,
football games, concerts, etc.) Have fun! -Jolly Roger-

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Heal The World

2010-07-10T18:50:00.000-07:00

There's A Place In
Your Heart
And I Know That It Is Love
And This Place Could
Be Much
Brighter Than Tomorrow
And If You Really Try
You'll Find There's No Need
To Cry
In This Place You'll Feel
There's No Hurt Or Sorrow

There Are Ways
To Get There
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Little Space
Make A Better Place...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

If You Want To Know Why
There's A Love That
Cannot Lie
Love Is Strong
It Only Cares For
Joyful Giving
If We Try
We Shall See
In This Bliss
We Cannot Feel
Fear Or Dread
We Stop Existing And
Start Living

Then It Feels That Always
Love's Enough For
Us Growing
So Make A Better World
Make A Better World...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

And The Dream We Were
Conceived In
Will Reveal A Joyful Face
And The World We
Once Believed In
Will Shine Again In Grace
Then Why Do We Keep
Strangling Life
Wound This Earth
Crucify Its Soul
Though It's Plain To See
This World Is Heavenly
Be God's Glow

We Could Fly So High
Let Our Spirits Never Die
In My Heart
I Feel You Are All
My Brothers
Create A World With
No Fear
Together We'll Cry
Happy Tears
See The Nations Turn
Their Swords
Into Plowshares

We Could Really Get There
If You Cared Enough
For The Living
Make A Little Space
To Make A Better Place...

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

Heal The World
Make It A Better Place
For You And For Me
And The Entire Human Race
There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

There Are People Dying
If You Care Enough
For The Living
Make A Better Place
For You And For Me

You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me
You And For Me

Testosterone

2009-11-02T21:01:00.000-08:00

Testosterone
Male hormones, particularly testosterone, are the
aggression hormones that cause men to hunt and kill
prey. Testosterone is largely responsible for human
survival, as it drove men to catch food and fight off
attackers. It is also the hormone that makes men's
beards grow, causes baldness, deepens voices and
improves spatial ability. Bass baritones have been
shown to enjoy more than double the number of ejaculations
in a week than tenors, and most people given a
course of testosterone have less difficulty reading maps
and street directories. Interestingly, left-handedness and
asthma have also been linked to testosterone and it is
now known that men who smoke or drink excessively
have reduced levels in their blood.
The downside of testosterone for modern males is
that unless it is allowed to vent itself in a physical
outlet, it may create aggression and can cause antisocial
problems. As testosterone surges through their
bodies, boys aged between 12 and 17 enter the highest
male crime bracket. Give a passive man testosterone
and it will fire him up and he'll become more assertive
and self-reliant. The same dosage given to a woman can
same degree of chemical effect as for a man. His brain
is pre-wired to react to testosterone while a woman's is
not. The reason for this is still uncertain, but it is
obviously related to spatial ability.
Women should watch out for lefthanded,
bald, bearded accountants
with baritone voices who read
maps and sneeze at the same time.
As men reach their 50s and 60s, testosterone decreases
and they become less aggressive and more nurturing.
For women, the reverse happens. After menopause,
oestrogen levels decrease giving them a bigger ratio of
testosterone to oestrogen. This is why women
aged 45-50 suddenly become more assertive and
more self-reliant. The downside is that these women
are more likely to grow facial hair and suffer stress
and strok

When They're Both Stressed

2009-11-02T19:19:00.000-08:00

When They're Both Stressed
Uptight men drink alcohol and invade another country.
Uptight women eat chocolate and invade shopping
centres. Under pressure, women talk without thinking
and men act without thinking. That's why 90% of
people in jails are men and 90% of people who see therapists
are women. When men and women are both
under pressure it can be an emotional minefield as each
tries to cope. Men stop talking and women become
worried about it. Women start talking and men can't
handle it. To help him feel better she tries to encourage
him to talk about the problem, which is the worst thing
she can do. He tells her to leave him alone and retreats
to another location.
Men need to understand that
when a woman is stressed, she
wants to talk, and all he needs
to do is listen, not offer solutions.
Because she's also under pressure, she wants to talk
about her problems, which frustrates him even more.
When he retreats to his rock she feels rejected and
unloved and calls her mother, sister or friends.

The crying game

2009-11-02T19:17:00.000-08:00

The Crying Game
Women cry more than men. Because of the way men
evolved they don't cry much, especially in public, and
social conditioning reinforces this. When a boy is
playing football and suffers a really painful injury he
might fall to the ground screaming, but a wild-eyed
coach shouts, 'Get up! Don't show the opposition they
hurt you! Be a man!'
The sensitive New Age Guy, however, is now
expected to cry any time, any place. He is encouraged
to cry by therapists, counsellors, magazine articles and
at retreats where men hug each other around camp
fires, deep in the forest. Modern men are accused
of being cold or dysfunctional if they don't 'let it
all out' at every opportunity. Because a woman's brain
can connect emotion to other brain functions it is
obvious why she can cry or become emotional under
most conditions.
Real men do cry., but only when the
emotion segment of the brain is engaged.
Real men do cry but only when they are tapping the
emotion segment of the brain, and men will rarely let
this happen in public. So be suspicious of the man who
does it regularly in public. Women have superior
sensory abilities compared to men. They receive more
detailed information than men and are more able to
express emotionally and verbally how they feel. A
woman may cry at being insulted because an insult is
usually emotionally charged but a man may not even be
aware that he has been insulted. It literally doesn't
mean much to him.

Monogamy and Polygamy

2009-11-02T19:16:00.000-08:00

Monogamy and Polygamy
Polygamy is where a man or woman has more than
one partner at one time. By now you may have reached
the conclusion that the human species is not monogamous
by nature. Certainly, during most of our
evolution, more than 80% of all human societies were
polygamous societies, mainly for survival reasons.
Some men think monogamy is
what furniture is made out of.
Monogamy means that one male is permanently paired
with one female, which is the natural state for a number
of animal species, such as foxes, geese and eagles.
Monogamous male and female animals are generally the
same physical size and parenting responsibilities are
divided 50/50. In polygamous species, the males are
usually bigger, more colourful, more aggressive and have
minimal involvement in parenting. The males of polygamous
animals mature sexually much later than the
females so that competitive conflicts are avoided between
the older males and younger, inexperienced males who
are less likely to survive a fight. Human males fit the
physical specifications of polygamous species; it's no
wonder men have a constant battle to stay monogamous.

Men are Microwaves, Women are Electric Ovens

2009-11-02T19:08:00.000-08:00

Men are Microwaves, Women are
Electric Ovens
Male drive is like a microwave - it ignites instantly
and operates at full capacity within seconds, and can be
turned off just as quickly when the meal is cooked.
Women's drive is like an electric oven - it heats
slowly to its top temperature and takes a lot longer to
cool down.
The following graph shows the sex drives of average
men and women throughout their lifetimes. It has not
been adjusted to reflect the various periods in life where
drives may be higher or lower based on environmental
factors such as births, deaths, courtship, retirement,
and so on. To demonstrate sex drive differences we've
simplified this graph to illustrate the differences.
A man's testosterone level slowly decreases as he gets
older and his sex drive decreases accordingly. The
average woman's sex drive gradually increases so that
her sexual peak is between the ages of 36-38, which
explains the 'toy boy' syndrome of the older
woman/younger man. Younger men have the physical
performance level an older woman craves. A man's
sexual performance level at age 19 is more compatible
with a woman in her late 30s to early 40s. You will also
notice on the chart that the sex drive of a man in his 40s
is compatible with a woman in her early 20s which
partly explains the older man/younger woman combination.
There is usually a 10 to 20-year age difference
between these older/younger combinations.
When we say a man's sex drive peaks at age 19 and
falls in later life, we are talking about his physical performance
level. His interest in sex is usually high for most
of his life, meaning that he can be just as interested at 70
as he was at 30 but his performance level is not as high.
A woman can be very interested in sex in her late teens
(because of its relationship to love) but feel limited desire
for sex. She can have the same interest in her 30s but at
that time she also has a greater desire for it.

The Case of the Flying Crockery

2009-11-02T19:07:00.000-08:00

The Case of the Flying Crockery
Author Barbara Pease was unaware that the new contraceptive
pill she had been given contained a high level
of testosterone. Her husband, Allan, quickly learned
the valuable art of ducking from flying plates and other
airborne objects during Barbara's PMT phase, and
rediscovered his childhood facility for the shortdistance
sprint. Interestingly, her parallel parking
abilities - or lack thereof - no longer started arguments.
They improved dramatically on this pill.
Blood tests eventually revealed Barbara's testosterone
excess and she changed to a pill without it. Within a
month, her mood swings had virtually ceased, but now
Allan felt he was living with a librarian studying to be
a nun. Another change of pill raised her testosterone
level back up to a happy medium, much safer both for
their marriage, and the household crockery.

The aphrodisiac myth

2009-11-02T19:05:00.000-08:00

The Aphrodisiac Myth
Of the hundreds of popularised aphrodisiacs around,
none have been scientifically shown to work. They
work on what is called the placebo effect - if you
think it will work, it probably will. Some socalled
aphrodisiacs can even help inhibit or
constrain sexual desire, particularly when they irritate
the kidneys, and cause itching and rashes. The only
aphrodisiacs guaranteed to work are those on the list
of what turns us on.

Testosterone and spatial ability

2009-11-02T19:03:00.000-08:00

Testosterone and Spatial Ability
You may have already reached the conclusion that
because spatial skill is one of the strongest male attributes,
it is linked to testosterone. In Chapter 3 we saw
how testosterone is mainly responsible for configuring
the brain of the genetic male foetus (XY) and installing
the 'software' related to the spatial abilities required for
hunting and chasing. Consequently, the more testosterone
the body produces, the more male-orientated the
brain's behaviour will be. Male rats which are injected
with additional male hormone find their way out of a
maze quicker than normal male rats. Female rats also
improve their navigational performance, but not as dramatically
as the males. The aggression level of both
sexes increases.
In the Brain-Wiring Test, high testosterone males score
between -50 and +50 and usually have less difficulty
with map-reading, orienteering, playing video games or
hitting a target. They have fast-growing beards, love
'hunting' sports like football, billiards and motor racing
and are good reverse parkers. Testosterone is also the
hormone that aids single-mindedness and helps avoid
fatigue. Studies show that volunteers injected with
testosterone show greater endurance in physical activi
ties such as walking and long-distance running, and can
concentrate for longer periods of time. Not surprisingly,
lesbians also have many of these attributes. Susan
Resnick of the Institute of Ageing in the US reported in
her findings that girls who received abnormal amounts
of male hormone in the womb also had far superior
spatial skills compared to their sisters who did not
receive the hormone.

Some surefire romance tips for men

2009-11-02T19:00:00.000-08:00

Some Surefire Romance Tips for Men
Women don't have a problem when it comes to love and
romance, but most men are in the dark about it so they
simply make sure they're ready for love any time, any
place. A man's romantic skills (or lack thereof) play a
significant part in whether a woman will feel like having
sex with him, so here are six tried and tested things that
work as well for men today as they did 5,000 years ago.
He's breathing:
1. Set the environment. When you consider a woman's
sensitivity to her surroundings and the high receptiv
ity of her senses to outside stimuli, it makes sense
that a man pays attention to the environment.
Women's oestrogen hormones make her sensitive to
the right lighting - dimly-lit rooms make pupils
dilate, so people look attractive to each other and
skin blemishes and wrinkles are less noticeable. A
woman's superior hearing means the right music is
important, and a clean, secure cave is better than one
that can be invaded by children or other people at
any moment. Women's insistence on sex in private
explains why most women's private fantasy is of
having sex in public, while a man's private fantasy is
sex with a stranger.
2. Feed her. Having evolved as a lunch-chaser, you'd
think it would occur to a man that providing a
woman with food stirs up primal female feelings.
This is why taking a woman to dinner is a significant
event for her even when she's not hungry because the
provision of food shows his attention to her wellbeing
and survival. Cooking a meal for a woman has
an even deeper intrinsic meaning as it brings out
primitive feelings in both a man and a woman.
3. Light a fire. Collecting wood and lighting a fire to
give warmth and protection has been done by men
for women for hundreds of thousands of years, and
appeals to most women's romantic side. Even if it's a
gas fire that she can light easily herself, he needs to
light it if he wants to set a romantic atmosphere. The
pay-off comes from the act of providing for her
needs, not from the fire itself.
4. Bring flowers. Most men do not understand the
power of a bunch of fresh flowers. Men think, 'Why
spend so much money on something that will be dead
and thrown out in a few days?' It makes sense to a
man's logical mind to give a woman a pot plant
because, with constant care and attention, it will
survive - in fact, you could even make a profit on it!
However, a woman doesn't see it that way - she
wants a fresh bunch of flowers. After a few days the
flowers die and are thrown out, but this presents an
opportunity for him to buy another bunch and once
again bring out her romantic side by providing for
her needs.
5. Go dancing. It's not that men don't want to dance,
it's just that many of them don't have the location in
the right brain required to feel rhythm. Go to any
aerobics class and watch the male participants (if any
turn up) trying to keep time. When a man takes
dancing lessons for basic rock 'n' roll and waltz, he
will be the hit of the party with all women. Dancing
has been described as a vertical act of horizontal
desire and that's its history - it's a ritual that evolved
to allow close male/female body contact as a lead-up
to courtship, just as it did with other animals.
6. Buy chocolates and champagne. This combination
has long been associated with romance, although few
people know why. Champagne contains a chemical
not found in other alcoholic beverages which
increases testosterone levels. Chocolate contains
phenylethylamine which stimulates a woman's love
centre in the brain. Recent research by Danielle
Piomella at the Neurosciences Institute in San
Diego discovered three new chemicals called Nacylethanolamines,
which attach themselves to the
cannabis receptors in a woman's brain, giving her
sensations similar to being high on marijuana. These
chemicals are in brown chocolate and cocoa, but not
in white chocolate or coffee

Modern man hunting

2009-11-02T18:55:00.001-08:00

Modern Man's Hunting
Sport is the modern replacement for hunting. Most
sporting activities began after the year 1800; prior to
that, most of the world's population still hunted animals
for food or recreation. The Industrial Revolution of the
late 1700s and advanced farming techniques meant that
it was no longer necessary to chase and catch food.
Thousands of years of men being programmed to hunt
suddenly came to a stop and had nowhere to go.
Sport became the answer. More than 90% of modern
sports were created between 1800 and 1900 and a few
new ones appeared during the 20th Century. Most
sports involve running, chasing and hitting targets and
allow high testosterone individuals to burn up excess
hormones. Research shows that boys who are physically
active are the least likely to be involved in crime or
aggression, and that young men with criminal records
showed the least involvement in sports. Simply, if it's
not burnt up on a playing field, it can show up in antisocial
ways. On motorways and freeways, road-rage
has been almost entirely a male offence. Men compete
with each other on the road - women just happen to be
there at the time.
Before enrolling in a sports club, examine the objectives,
values, role-models and leaders of the club. If
they're in it 'for the game' and the game is allimportant,
then these people are still slaves to their
biology - so join a fishing club. There are many clubs
like yoga or martial arts that still teach the principles
for effective living such as health, relaxation and sound
life values. Avoid any clubs that emphasise the financial
gains members might make.

Why men are promiscuous

2009-11-02T18:39:00.001-08:00

Why Men Are Promiscuous
Where does marriage fit into the lifestyle of an animal
species that has a biologically promiscuous male?
Promiscuity is wired into a man's brain and is a legacy
of his evolutionary past. Throughout human history,
wars greatly diminished the numbers of men so it made
sense to add to the size of the tribe as often as possible.
The number of men returning from battle was usually
lower than at the start. This meant that there was
always a large number of widows, so creating a harem
for the returning males was an effective survival
strategy for the tribe.
Giving birth to boys was seen as a wonderful event
because additional males were always needed to defend
the community. Girls were a disappointment because
the tribe invariably had an excess of females. This is the
way it was for hundreds of thousands of years. In
addition, modern man is still equipped with a large
hypothalamus and enormous amounts of testosterone
to fulfil his ancient urge to procreate. The reality is that
men, like most primates and other mammals, are not
biologically inclined to complete monogamy.
The huge male-oriented sex industry offers pertinent
proof. Practically all pornography, erotic videos, prostitution
and X-rated Internet images are directed at men,
showing that while most men can live in a monogamous
relationship, their brain-wiring demands polygamous
mental stimulation. It has to be understood,
however, that in discussing men's urge to be promiscuous,
we are talking about biological inclinations. We
are not promoting promiscuous behaviour or providing
men with an excuse for infidelity. We live today in a
world that is completely different to that of our past,
and our own biology is often completely at odds with
our expectations and demands.
Human biology is
dangerously out of date.
The fact that something may be instinctive or natural
doesn't mean that it's good for us. The brain circuitry
of a moth gives it an instinctive attraction towards
bright lights and this allows the moth to navigate at
night using the stars and the moon. Unfortunately, the
modern moth is also living in a world that is dramatically
different to the one in which it evolved. We now
have moth and mosquito zappers. By doing what is
natural and instinctive, the modern moth flies into the
zapper and is incinerated instantly. In understanding
their biological urges, modern men have a choice of
avoiding self-incineration as a result of doing what
comes naturally.
There's a small percentage of women who are as
promiscuous as men, but their motivation is usually
different to that of men. To be turned on sexually, the
brain circuitry of the nest-defending human female
responds to a range of criteria other than just the
promise of sex. Most women want a relationship or at
least the possibility of some emotional connection
before they feel the desire for sex. Most men don't
realise that once a woman feels an emotional bond has
been created, she will happily bonk his brains out for
the next three to six months. With the exception of the
rare percentage of nymphomaniacs, most women feel
the strongest urge for physical sex during ovulation
which can last several days or several hours.
If unrestrained, most men would fall into a bottomless
pit of mindless fornication to guarantee survival of
the tribe. A survey conducted by the American Health
Institute showed that 82% of boys aged 16-19 said
they liked the idea of participating in an orgy with
strangers, while only two percent of girls felt the same.
The rest found the idea appalling.
A woman wants lots of sex with the man
she loves.

What men need to do

2009-11-02T17:19:00.000-08:00

What Men Need to Do
One of the best compliments a man can pay a woman is
not to 'ogle' inappropriately at another female, particularly
in public, but to give his partner a simultaneous
compliment. For example, 'Sure, she's got great legs, but
I'll bet she doesn't have a great sense of humour ... she's
not in the same league as you, darling.' When this type
of complimentary approach is used in the presence of
other people, especially her friends, it pays big dividends
to the man with the courage to try it. Women need to
understand that a man is biologically compelled to look
at certain female shapes and curves, and that they
shouldn't feel threatened by it. An easy way for a
woman to take the pressure off a man is for her to notice
the other woman first and make the first comment. A
man also needs to understand that no woman appreciates
inappropriate ogling.

Using spartial to solve problem

2009-11-02T16:25:00.000-08:00

Using Spatials to Solve Problems
The different ways men 'sit on their rock' include
reading a newspaper or magazine, playing squash,
fishing, tennis, golf, fixing something or watching television.
A man who is under pressure is likely to invite
another man to play golf and when they play, there will
be limited conversation. The man with the problem goes
into his right brain to use his spatial skills to play golf
and can use this area to simultaneously work out
solutions for his problem. It seems that stimulating his
spatial area speeds up the problem-solving process.

The complate shout out

2009-11-02T16:24:00.000-08:00

The Complete Shut-Out
This is one of the least understood stress differences
between men and women. A man will completely shut
everyone out when he is under extreme stress or needs
to find a solution to a serious problem. A man totally
disconnects the part of his brain that controls emotion,
goes into problem-solving mode and stops talking.
When a man uses the complete shut-out, it can be terrifying
for a woman because she only does this when she
has been hurt, lied to or abused. A woman assumes that
this must also be the case with a man - she must have
hurt him and he doesn't love her anymore. She tries to
encourage him to talk but he refuses, thinking she
doesn't have faith is his ability to solve his problems.
When a woman feels hurt, she shuts off and a man
thinks she needs space and so he goes to the pub with
his friends or cleans the carburettor in his car. If a man
completely shuts off, let him do it, he'll be fine. If a
woman shuts off, there's trouble brewing and it's time
for deep discussion.

What it's happens in the wanb

2009-11-01T03:20:00.000-08:00

It's What Happens in the Womb
If, during the early stages of pregnancy, testosterone is
suppressed and the foetus is male, the chance of giving
birth to a gay boy dramatically increases because
female hormones become the hormones used to
configure the brain. One German study in the 1970s
showed that mothers who suffered severe stress during
early pregnancy had six times the chance of giving birth
to a gay son. Research by Professor Lee Ellis of the
Department of Sociology at Minot State University in
North Dakota also showed that stressed pregnancies
equal gay babies. If the foetus is a girl, a baby daughter
may become super-feminine and will probably have
poor spatial ability. In other words, she's very
mothering and nurturing but can't reverse park or find
North. Brian Gladue of North Dakota State University
has shown that heterosexual men have better spatial
skills than homosexual men, and lesbians have better
spatial skills than heterosexual women. Why? More
male hormone was involved in the wiring of their
brains. So what suppresses testosterone? The main
factors are stress, sickness and some medications.
We have known for some time about the dangerous
effects of alcohol and nicotine on the unborn baby and
of the positive effects of the right diet and stress-free
living. New research by experts such as Dr Vivette
Glover at London's Chelsea Hospital shows that
pregnant women who suffer stress give birth to babies
who are also unable to deal with stressful situations. Dr
Glenn Wilson of the Institute of Psychiatry in London
has also studied this area extensively. He concluded,
'Certain chemical drugs can interfere with testosterone
function and the result can be the birth of a gay baby.'
If the foetus is a genetic girl (XX) and the brain is
dosed in male hormone, the result is a female body
with male brain circuitry. As children, these girls are
usually called 'tomboys' and they play rougher and
harder than their female peers. They are likely to grow
more body and facial hair than other girls at puberty,
they are better at hand-eye and ball skills and as
adults are sometimes described as 'butch'. A high percentage
become lesbians. Accidental dosing of male
hormones can occur if the pregnant mother is taking
certain medications that contain high levels of male
hormones, like some contraceptive pills, diabetic drugs
and other medications.
One study of diabetic women who were pregnant
during the 1950s and '60s shows a high ratio of baby
girls who became lesbians after adolescence because
their brains received too much male hormone from the
diabetic drug at the critical period of brain development
of the foetus.
Similarly, another study showed that women of the
same era who received female hormones such as
oestrogen in the belief that it would help pregnancy had
a five to ten times greater chance of giving birth to a gay
baby boy. It's not until adolescence that the brain
circuitry is switched on by the massive surge of
hormones that race through a teenager's body and the
real sexuality of the teenager becomes apparent.
Echoing these findings, researchers at the Kinsey
Institute in America found that mothers who had taken
male hormones during pregnancy had daughters who
were described as having high levels of self-reliance,
self-assertiveness and were likely to be involved in
aggressive sports such as kickboxing or football. As
children, many were described as 'tomboys'. Mothers
who had taken female hormones had more daughters
who were described as more 'feminine' and sons who
were softer and gentler than their peers, were more
dependent on others and were not physically active.

How give a woman sincere compliment

2009-11-01T03:18:00.000-08:00

How to Give a Woman a
Sincere Compliment
When a woman tries on a new dress and asks a man,
'How does it look?', she'll probably receive a simple
response like 'good' or 'fine' which does not score any
points. To score good points a man needs to respond
the same way a woman would, by giving details.
Some men cringe at the thought
of responding in detail, but if
you are prepared to try it, you will
score big points with most women.
For example, if he said, 'Wow! Great choice! Turn
around, let me see the back. That colour really suits
you! The cut flatters your figure. Those earrings match
your outfit perfectly, you look wonderful,' most women
would be extremely impressed.

How to find the right partner

2009-11-01T03:16:00.000-08:00

How to Find the Right Partner
Love starts with lust which can last a few hours, a few
days or a few weeks. Next comes infatuation which
lasts, on average, 3 to 12 months before attachment
takes over. When the blinding cocktail of hormones
subsides after a year or so, we now see our partner in
the cold light of day and those little habits we found so
endearing at first begin to become irritating. Once you
thought it was cute that he could never find things in
the fridge, but now it makes you want to scream. He
used to love hearing you talk about every little thing
but now he's contemplating murder. You silently ask
yourself, 'Can I live like this for the rest of my life?
What do we have in common?'
The flower of love is the rose. After
three days all the petals fall off and
you're left with an ugly, prickly thing.
Chances are you don't have much in common or much
to talk about. Nature's objective is to throw men and
women together under the influence of a powerful
hormonal cocktail that causes them to procreate and
not think. Finding the right partner means deciding
what things you will have in common with someone in
the long-term, and to do this in advance of nature's
blinding hormonal highs. When infatuation has passed -
and pass it will - can you maintain a lasting relationship
based on friendship and common interests? Write a list
of the traits and interests you want in a long-term
partner and then you'll know exactly who you are
looking for. A man will have a list of qualities for his
ideal mate but when he goes to a party, his brain is fired
up by testosterone. It then searches for the 'ideal'
woman based on hormonal motivation - nice legs, flat
stomach, round bum, good breasts, and so on, all
features connected with short-term procreation.
Women want a man who is sensitive and caring, has a
V-shaped torso and a great personality, all things
connected to child-rearing, lunch-chasing and protecting.
These are also short-term biological needs and have
little to do with success in a modern relationship. When
you write a list of the desirable long-term characteristics
in your perfect partner and keep it handy, it helps you
to be objective about a new person the next time nature
tries to control your thoughts and urges.
Nature wants you to procreate as often as possible
and it uses powerful drugs to push you into it. When
you understand this and are armed with a job description
of your ideal long-term mate, you are less likely to
be tricked and more likely to be successful in your hunt
for that elusive perfect partner with whom you'll be
finally able to live happily ever after.

How men get a raw deal

2009-10-04T06:18:00.000-07:00

How Men Get a Raw Deal
The things that turn men on are often described as
dirty, disgusting, crude or perverted, particularly by
women. Overall, women are not aroused by the items
on a man's turn-on list and men show little reaction to
the items on a woman's list.
The public generally glorifies women's turn-ons in
movies, books and advertisements, and condemns
men's as pornographic or crude. From a biological
standpoint, however, each needs these factors to feel
aroused. Public criticism of men's turn-ons is what
drives men to hide their Playboy magazines and deny
they have secret fantasies. Many men's needs remain
unfulfilled and many feel guilt or resentment. When a
man and a woman understand the history and
evolution of their desires, it makes it easier to understand
and accept, without anger, resentment or guilt.
No person should do anything they do not feel comfortable
with but having an open discussion about
each others' needs can help to enhance a more loving
relationship. A man also needs to understand that it
takes less effort for him to organise a romantic dinner
or weekend away than it is for a woman to dress in
suspenders and swing from a chandelier.

How men alienate woman

2009-10-04T06:16:00.000-07:00

How Men Alienate Women
If a man suspects that a woman is stressed or has a
problem, he does what men do to other men - he walks
away and gives her some space to solve her problems.
He says, 'Is everything OK honey?', she replies, 'Yes,
fine...' which is indirect talk for, 'If you love me you'll
ask me about it'. But he says, 'That's good', and goes
off to work on his computer. She thinks, 'He's uncaring
and heartless' and calls her girlfriends. They talk about
how she feels and how insensitive her man is.
In the old days, men never had to face the problems
that modern men face. To show his love for his wife and
family a man did what men have always done - he went
to work and 'brought home the bacon'. This is the way
it has been for thousands of years and it comes naturally
to most men. In most countries the workforce now
averages around 50% females so many men are no
longer expected to provide completely for their families.
A man is expected to communicate: a skill that does not
come naturally to him. But the good news is, these skills
can be learned.

How hormon control us

2009-10-04T05:09:00.000-07:00

How Hormones Control Us
In the past, it was thought that hormones only affected
the body and not the brain. We now know that
hormones programme our brains before birth, dictating
our thinking and behaviour. Testosterone in teenage
boys is 15-20 times higher than in teenage girls and the
hormone flow in boys is controlled and regulated by the
brain as the body needs it.
At puberty, testosterone surges through an adolescent
boy's body, giving him a dramatic spurt of growth and
a body ratio of 15% fat and 45% protein. As he turns
into an adolescent, his body physically changes to match
his biological job description as a lean, mean, lunchchasing
machine. Boys are excellent at sport because
their bodies are hormonally constructed for effective
breathing and they have excellent oxygen distribution
via the red blood cells to allow running, jumping and
grappling. Steroids are male hormones that build additional
muscle and give athletes extra 'hunting' abilities
and an unfair advantage over non-steroid takers.
Female hormones have a different effect on teenage
girls. They are not regulated like a boy's hormones but
come in huge waves over a 28-day cycle and can cause
havoc for many girls and women due to the rise and fall
of emotions that go with it. Female hormones change a
girl's body into a ratio of 26% fat and 20% protein,
much to the frustration of females everywhere. The
purpose of the extra fat is to give additional energy for
breastfeeding and is insurance against times when food
may be scarce. Because female hormones fatten the
body, they are used to fatten livestock. Male hormones
reduce fat and build muscle so they're unsuitable for
animal fattening.

Mathematic and hormones

2009-10-04T05:05:00.001-07:00

Mathematics and Hormones
Boys use their right front brain to solve mathematical
problems. The spatial area for girls is located on both
sides of the brain and tests show that many females use
the left front verbal side of the brain to attempt to solve
mathematical problems. This is the likely explanation
for so many women counting aloud. It also goes a long
way to explaining why girls are generally better than
boys at basic calculus and their co-operation and commitment
to study often gives them the edge over boys in
arithmetic or mathematical exams.
Brain development in girls occurs much earlier than in
boys, which partially explains why they do better
earlier. But after puberty boys catch up and excel in
mathematical reasoning as testosterone boosts their
spatial ability. Tests of mathematical ability were
carried out by Johns Hopkins University in Boston on
gifted children aged between 11 and 13. They discovered
that the more difficult the tests became, the more
the boys' ability exceeded that of the girls. At the easier
levels, gifted boys beat gifted girls on a ratio of 2:1; in
the middle levels the ratio increased to 4:1; and at the
highest degree of difficulty it reached 13:1.
In 1998, Canadian brain research authority Dr
Doreen Kimura found that if you double or triple the
amount of testosterone in a male, it does not necessarily
double or triple his mathematical reasoning skills. This
shows that there is probably an optimum level for
testosterone effectiveness somewhere in the low to midrange
levels. In other words, King Kong will not necessarily
show better mathematical reasoning ability than
a man with a slow growing beard. Interestingly, testosterone
does improve women's mathematical reasoning
more dramatically than it does for men. A woman with
a moustache is therefore much more likely to make a
better engineer than one who looks like a Barbie doll.
Men score higher in map-reading ability in the autumn
when their testosterone is at its highest levels.
Girls suffering PMT get lower
scores in mathematical exams.
The education system favours boys and disadvantages
girls in mathematical exams because studies show that
girls suffering PMT have testosterone levels that are significantly
lower during this phase. One study showed
that girls with PMT scored 14% lower in mathematical
exams when they had PMT than girls who weren't
suffering PMT. A fairer system would be to arrange
exams to take place at a time that is biologically more
suitable for girls. Boys can take the tests at any time.

Hormonal chemistry

2009-10-04T05:03:00.000-07:00

Hormonal Chemistry
Oestrogen is the female hormone that gives women an
overall feeling of contentment and well-being, and plays
a major role in a woman's nurturing and nest-defending
behaviours. Because of its calming effect, it is also given
to aggressive males in prisons to control violent
behaviour. Oestrogen also aids memory, which explains
why so many women suffer memory problems after
menopause when their oestrogen levels drop. Those
who are on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)
have better memory retention.
Experiments in June 2000 by Dr Agnes Lacreuse of
Emory University in Atlanta showed that as the ratio of
testosterone to oestrogen changes most women will
experience an enhancement in spatial memory. This
can make it easier for them to remember where car
keys, glasses or handbags have been left - or where
they parked the car.
Progesterone is the hormone that releases parental and
nurturing feelings and its purpose is to encourage a
woman to carry out her child-rearing role successfully.
Progesterone is released when a woman sees a baby and
research shows it is the baby's shape that triggers the
release of the hormone. A baby has short, stubby arms
and legs, a round, plump torso, oversized head and large
eyes, and these shapes are known as 'releasers'. The
reaction to this shape is so strong that the hormone is
also released when a woman sees these shapes in an
object like a stuffed toy. This is why toys such as teddy
bears and baby animals sell so well to females and long,
gangly-shaped toys don't. A woman or girl will pick up
a teddy bear and sigh, 'Ahh ... isn't it beautiful!' and
progesterone is released into her bloodstream.
Most men, lacking progesterone hormones, can't understand
a woman's over-reaction to a piece of high-priced
stuffed merchandise. This could also explain why women
who are the mothering type marry short fat men with
chubby cheeks.
Look at these three illustrations. Seeing the baby causes
the release of progesterone hormone in women and the
toy bear has the same effect. There are no releaser
shapes in the third example so it will not release progesterone
in a woman. The best selling toys have always