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		<title>5 Ways To Pump Your State And Make Dating and Pickup Fun Again</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Charger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7582.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>One of the most important principles of feeling good and feeling positive to go out and meet girls, and *maintaining* positivity is all based on this single principle:</p>
<p>Emotion follows Motion.</p>
<p>In other words, your inner emotions, your state, follows from your physical actions and motions.</p>
<p>So the way you move, the way you breathe, the way you exercise your &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7582.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>One of the most important principles of feeling good and feeling positive to go out and meet girls, and *maintaining* positivity is all based on this single principle:</p>
<p>Emotion follows Motion.</p>
<p>In other words, your inner emotions, your state, follows from your physical actions and motions.</p>
<p>So the way you move, the way you breathe, the way you exercise your muscles, the way you facially express yourself, the way you work your vocal chords, the way you hold your posture… instantly affects the way we feel, the way we think, and the way we respond.</p>
<h3>How Our Physical Motions Affect Our Emotions</h3>
<p>And it’s universal. A depressed person has a specific posture. They’re slumped over, their shoulders are down, their eyes are heavy, their breathing is shallow, and their facial expression is slack.</p>
<p>While a happy person stands tall, shoulders up, eyes alight, breathing full, with a particular facial expression.</p>
<p>And you can change your state and emotions instantly in seconds, just by changing the motion of your own body.</p>
<p>So if you force yourself to smile, even if you’re feeling blue, you’ll start to feel happier.</p>
<p>If you get up and start moving, even if you feel depressed and you don’t want to get out of bed, you’ll start to feel better.</p>
<p>If you talk and act as if you have the traits and attitudes of a happy person, quite soon you’ll begin to feel happy.</p>
<p>Think of how you feel right now, from 1 to 10. Maybe you feel like a 6 or a 7… maybe an 8 at most, right?</p>
<p>Well, now do ten jumping jacks. Even if it seems silly and you’re not in the particular mood to do so. Now, do you feel better than before</p>
<p>Even just working out by vocal chords speaking this lesson itself pulls up my state and mood.</p>
<p>Or make funny faces, stick out your tongue… THAT will pull up your mood.</p>
<p>Conversely, the more you limit a person’s physical motion, the more you limit their inner emotions.</p>
<p>Like can you think of an old person, someone who doesn’t “get around much anymore?” Getting old is not a matter of age, it’s really a matter of lack of movement. And the ultimate lack of movement is death.</p>
<h3>Little Kids Move To Have Fun</h3>
<p>And when you were a little kid, you had all this motion. You spent as much time trying to stand on your head and jumping off the stairs and doing somersaults as you spent on your own two feet. You laughed and cried and jumped around and just fucking MOVED without caring about what others thought, because you were a kid, and that’s what all kids do – they just want to PLAY physically.</p>
<p>But as adults we learn to limit our motion to be “appropriate”. But appropriate means you fit into somebody else’s box, and if you fit into somebody else’s box you’re rarely going to have an extraordinary life.</p>
<p>So moving more and moving better is an important factor in really enjoying your life and feeling good inside and having that positive state for meeting women.</p>
<p>But most people don’t move much anymore. They’re couch potatoes. Or they keep moving in the same, sedentary way, and the just recycling through the same emotions again and again &#8211; a little bit of frustration, a little bit of happiness, a little bit or boredom, a little bit of tiredness, but they don’t FEEL anything REAL and INTENSE.</p>
<p>But physical movement is energy. Physical movement is life. Physical movement is what will make you FEEL good.</p>
<p>Like just going to the gym and having a good workout with the blood coursing through your veins will make you feel that starburst state, and make the rest of your day feel great and put a smile on your face.</p>
<p>Or take dancing. Dancing involves laughing, dancing involves smiling faces, friendly voices, meeting new people, and the possibility of sex. Dancing is a physically vigorous activity on two feet. And studies show that dancing is the single greatest source of joy of all activities that a person can do.</p>
<p>Because everything that we feel is the result of how we use our bodies. It’s difficult to hold onto a frown when you’re doing the salsa with a bunch of cute girls.</p>
<h3>An Example</h3>
<p>Here’s how you can pump up your state so that you feel energetic and eager to go out and meet women.</p>
<p>One evening I helped my buddy move a bunch of furniture. It was real exhausting working. Sweating, muscles burning. Every muscle in your body STRAINS. And it’s a real cardio workout as well, your heart gets pumping.</p>
<p>Well that was a Friday evening, and right after I showered and changed, I went out. And right off the bat I was on fire, talking to and grabbing every set of girls on site with like a dangerous lunatic.</p>
<p>Something about just having that total body pumping workout set me on fire from the first moment – whereas normally it takes me a little while of being social to warm up.</p>
<p>So the key to being in a good, positive, in the moment state is physical movement.</p>
<h3>Spiking Your Emotions</h3>
<p>You’ve got facial movement – so you always want to smile, even just force it.</p>
<p>You’ve got posture, how you hold yourself – so you want to stand tall like a champ with your chest out and proud.</p>
<p>You’ve got vocal movement – so you want to speak nice and LOUDLY.</p>
<p>And if you’re feeling a little down in the bar or club, you’ve got to get your body MOVING.</p>
<p>This means opening a set of girls, or just physically pumping yourself up.</p>
<p>Like through dancing.</p>
<p>Shout ay-ay-ay-ay-ay.</p>
<p>Or clap and sing with the beat and music.</p>
<p>If you’re with a friend, you can lock arms with your buddy and jump up and down… or high five each other.</p>
<p>You spin in circles.</p>
<p>Do an Indian pow-wow war dance.</p>
<p>Make impressions of animals like elephants and gorillas.</p>
<p>Sure, doing an Indian pow-wow dance in a club *looks* foolish; but it’ll give you an incredible shot of adrenaline and boost like you just chugged a liter of Red Bull. And it will make you fearless for approaching because it will pull you out of your blah-blah emotional state and out into the sky.</p>
<p>So if you’re ever lacking for enthusiasm, remember you need to get physically moving and force yourself to do it.</p>
<p>And if you need to pump yourself up at the club, start dancing, clapping, shouting, spinning, do an Indian pow-wow dance, make funny animal impressions, make funny faces, and get your face moving, your posture in line, your body moving, your vocal chords moving, and that will really make all the difference in the world to your inner game.</p>
<h3>Talk To Girls To Pump Your State</h3>
<p>One of the best ways to get into state, is to simply walk up to girls, start talking, and start having fun with it, while at the same time physically escalating.</p>
<p>And when the girl tries to mess up your positive vibe by being too serious or by being non-responsive to the frame you’re setting, you just hold your fun, positive frame and eventually she finds it more FUN than hers, and she gets drawn in.</p>
<p>And with every girl you open, as long as you remain unreactive to hold your state, will pump up your state a little more until you reach a feeling of freedom from outcome, where it feels like nothing can hold you back.</p>
<p>And at that point, once you’re “in state” from all the social momentum, you can virtually say ANYTHING and it will work better than any kind of pickup lines or routines.</p>
<h3>Work On Your Overall Beliefs</h3>
<p>You can also work on your overall belief system. This is just how you perceive who you are, how you look at life, what kind of emotions you spend much of your time in.</p>
<p>For instance, if you perceive that you suck with girls and you go around feeling depressed, that makes it very hard to get into a great state.</p>
<p>But if you spend much your day thinking to yourself that you’re the champ and feeling happy and positive, it makes it very easy to get into a great state.</p>
<p>It’s basically how you’re feeling from day to day.</p>
<h3>Warning &#8211; Be Careful Of State Dependence !</h3>
<p>A word of caution however…</p>
<p>You’ve got state dependence when you have this belief or feeling that you need to be in a good state to do well with girls. You think you’ve got to feel awesome and positive and energetic to get good results.</p>
<p>So when you’re feeling good, you believe you’ll do well.</p>
<p>And conversely, when you feel like you’ve got no state, you’ve pre-determined that you need to get good state first before talking to any girls.</p>
<p>You think that because you’ve got a bad state, you’re game will suck, and no girl can possibly be attracted to you.</p>
<p>The problem with this belief, is that when you’ve got no state, your game will suck or you won’t even try, and then you suck or don’t try because you don’t have any state, and it becomes like a self-fulfilling prophecy or negative cycle that’s difficult sometimes to pull yourself out of.</p>
<p>You’ll either have great nights where you’re “on” or you’ll have nights where you’re “off” and you crash and you crash hard.</p>
<p>And then you won’t feel like going out unless you feel like you’re 100% on. You’ll avoid meeting girls unless you’re state “perfect” which it rarely will be.</p>
<p>The fallacy behind state dependence is that, while feeling energetic and positive will get you better results overall, great state is NOT necessary to creating hard attraction.</p>
<p>Pickup and game is NOT about being “liked” which is a subtle form of supplication, wanting to be liked all the time and always getting positive responses. Even if your state is bad, you can still approach a girl in a low key way, strike up a low key conversation, physically escalate, and still generate hard attraction – no state needed.</p>
<h3>Don&#8217;t use pickup to lift your spirits</h3>
<p>Another problem guys have is trying to use pickup and game to change how they feel.</p>
<p>The guy feels inadequate or kind of shitty, and he wants to use pickup or game to lift his spirits.</p>
<p>So when he gets good reactions, gets eye contact, makes a girl laugh, he feels his state pick up, he feels like he’s a success, he feels like he’s likable.</p>
<p>But when a set doesn’t go as well, when the girl doesn’t react in the way he was looking for, he feels unlikable, he feels like he sucks and he’s unworthy.</p>
<p>And you get this seesaw rollercoaster effect, where one moment you can be high as a kite, and another moment you can be down in the dumps, where you have no control over your internal state. Where you’re using girls validation and the game to try to change how you feel and your state.</p>
<p>This gets especially worse as you get more experienced.</p>
<p>Early on, just going up to a girl AT ALL, doing your first approach, will make you feel an incredible buzz of excitement. It’s easy to use the environment and girls’ validation to pump your state and feelings, because your expectations are so incredibly low. ANYTHING makes you feel good, because you’ve never done it before.</p>
<p>But pretty soon, just approaching a girl won’t give you the same high. Pretty soon, you’ll feel like you need to kiss the girl to succeed, or physically escalate.</p>
<p>And you start entertaining the girl, trying to please her, trying to force good reactions, so that you can get positive responses to get that same high you got from before. But pleasing girls all the time at every moment gets exhaustive and it’s not fun over the long haul.</p>
<p>At that point, you CAN’T rely on the game to determine how you feel, because at that stage of advancement you’ll get incredibly variable results from day to day and from girl to girl.</p>
<p>So you want to stay away from using the game and using girls’ validation to feel good and manipulate your state.</p>
<p>Instead, you want to set your expectations very low.</p>
<p>And when your expectations are low, that’s when you’ll start having fun because you’re not expecting anything really big and you can’t be disappointed. When your expectations are low, you’ll be able to draw state from within, from internally, and gradually build your state up over the night, not being based on positive or negative reactions, but based on being a social guy, talking, and physically putting yourself out there and meeting new people.</p>
<p>So don’t be state dependent, state is not necessary for going out to meet girls, and don’t look to the girls to amp your state.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 01:22:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jesse Charger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7572.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>Self-Amusement is a particularly important concept for nighttime game, like at bars and clubs. Less so if you’re doing day game, but the principles are still important.</p>
<p>The idea of self-amusement is that you want to have FUN meeting girls. That going out is not supposed to be so serious, and the state you want really is to be totally &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7572.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>Self-Amusement is a particularly important concept for nighttime game, like at bars and clubs. Less so if you’re doing day game, but the principles are still important.</p>
<p>The idea of self-amusement is that you want to have FUN meeting girls. That going out is not supposed to be so serious, and the state you want really is to be totally relaxed and giving out positive energy.</p>
<p>So self-amusement can be yelling, singing, busting jokes, chatting up the people around you, talking to your friends from across the room. Making silly faces at girls, poking girls, playing games with the girls like thumb wrestling. Saying things that are absurd, hilarious, offensive, non-sensical.</p>
<p>Basically have your own fun.</p>
<p>Be positive, radiate it!</p>
<p>So the key here is that you want to practice making yourself laugh. So that you can just walk up to the girls and just make yourself laugh, and the girls will instantly be into it.</p>
<p>Because if you’re going to go out, you might as well make it fun. Because if you’re not having fun, let’s face it, the club and bar are pretty miserable. So you’re number one question you should be asking yourself is, “How can I make this FUN for myself?”</p>
<h3>Why Self-Amuse? It Draws Women In</h3>
<p>Self-amusement draws the women in like crazy… because when everything is FUN for you and no big deal, everything because FUN and no big deal to the girls either, because of state transference.</p>
<p>So you can say shocking and wild things that might otherwise make a girl pissed off, but she’ll feel good about it, because YOU feel so good. Meaning she’s going to pick up on your good state, not the content of your words.</p>
<p>And that’s part of the self-amusement, is positive leading. Plow over any bullshit or negativity a girl has. Just ignore it. Ignore any bullshit or negative nonsense and plow the girl over with your positivity and what will happen is, the girl will be attracted to your better state and you’ll pull her in, she’ll want to enter your reality of fun and positivity if you just persist a little.</p>
<p>And then you never look like you’re getting rejected either. It’s more like the girls are simply leaving your party which is more fun than theirs.</p>
<h3>Don’t Be So Logical And Serious</h3>
<p>Because here’s the thing. Most guys in bars and clubs are being too logical. They’re too logical and they’re too safe. It’s like they’re giving the girl their resume. “Hi, my name is Joe, I’m a cool guy you should get to know and I have X, Y, Z going for me, and listen to this funny routine I memorized.”</p>
<p>Screw logical approaches, screw rational thinking. You want to become the party, even if it feels retarded. You want to approach, be positive, fun, and dominant.</p>
<h3>Self-Amusement Versus Reacting</h3>
<p>So let me breakdown a comparison of self-amusement to reacting to the environment.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: you control how you feel from inside, instead of letting the outside environment and outside stimulus determine how you feel. So whether you’re getting good reaction or bad reactions, it doesn’t matter, your state is internally generated.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: stronger emotions, you are where the party is at.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: you persist, you stay in set, because how you act and respond doesn’t depend on how the girl is reacting to you. You bring the fun, and you allow the girl to react to you.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: total fun and nonsense instead of being logical and calculating.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: you’re generating the fun instead of looking for other people to make you happy and bring the fun.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: you’re making fun to amuse yourself. It is NOT meant to impress the girl or convey value.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: you don’t care about the girl’s reactions, you have self-trust that all people on Earth respond well to fun and positivity through the law of state transference.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: You’re pumping your own state instead of looking to the girls to pump your state.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: You’re in your own personal universe, in your own reality of fun and positivity, sucking girls into your vortex, instead of looking to the girls to make you happy with validation.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Self-amusement</span>: You generate your own positive energy internally, you’re not pinging off the environment or girls to determine how you should feel.</p>
<p>So that’s a basic breakdown of how a guy who is self-amusing himself sees the world, versus a guy who is reacting to everything in his environment and looking for positive validation from girls to make him feel happy.</p>
<h3>Make Everything Self-Amusing</h3>
<p>So the best way to self-amuse yourself and be a cool, charismatic guy is to find everything in the world as funny and entertaining to you.</p>
<p>Instead of being pissed off or down, or walking around depressed, instead by the fun, positive guy who finds everything self-amusing and funny. And the girl will feel lit up just by being in your presence.</p>
<p>If the girl is having fun then she’ll keep coming back to you for more of it. Look at it as like you’re offering her a gift of good feelings. Not that you’re trying to pump up her feelings, but by making yourself amused and happy and feeling good, you’re giving her a part of yourself.</p>
<h3>Lower Your Standards</h3>
<p>The key to becoming self-amused then is you’ve got to lower your standards for having fun. You’ve got to be able to make everything fun and be able to have your own fun, even if you’re by yourself. You can clap your hands to the music, smile, say hello to girls in funny and strange ways to see what kind of funny and strange reactions you’ll get.</p>
<p>It’s like if your household chore is that it’s your job to wash the dishes, and you hate washing dishes. You’ve got to decide that washing dishes will be your favorite task and start to love it. You’ve got to lower your standards of happiness.</p>
<h3>Don’t Be A “Dancing Monkey”</h3>
<p>Now, here’s a word of warning.</p>
<p>Self-amusement is not about getting giggling attraction from girls or acting like a clown to entertain them and get their approval or make the girls like you.</p>
<p>It’s more about pushing the boundaries of pissing them off and breaking rapport. You’re trying to make yourself laugh, not the girls. That’s very important. This is NOT about impressing the girls and making them like you, but about having your own FUN.</p>
<p>So it’s not funny to the girls. It should be funny to YOU.</p>
<p>You’re getting your pleasure and kicks from the girl’s reactions, positive OR negative. And because you draw her into what YOU think is funny, now the GIRL will often think it’s funny.</p>
<h3>You Sill Need Sexual Intent</h3>
<p>Another thing. You also want to have sexual intent when you do self-amusement. You can have a lot of fun and shenanigans and get tons of interest from women and own the bars and clubs and have girls all over you.</p>
<p>But just having FUN itself is not enough to get you laid. You also need to have sexual intent and physical leading and persisting in the set as well. You still need to man up and push the set. So you’ve got to balance self-amusement with making a connection with a girl and moving it forward.</p>
<h3>Make Going Out FUN</h3>
<p>Focus less on the goal of “getting a girl to like me” through a trial of sweat and tears, and work, and trial by fire, and needing manly balls of steal, or needing to go through this incredible regimen of constant self-improvement to just make a girl like you.</p>
<p>But transform the process into what it should be. FUN!!</p>
<p>Transform it into a process that actually RECHARGES your batteries, and doesn’t tire you out.</p>
<p>So that you can go out in a single day or single evening and meet a bunch of new girls being very CHILL, very easily, with NO pressure, get a lot of girls instantly-on attracted to you, and having a casual FUN time doing it.</p>
<p>So that you feel better, there’s far less pressure, it feels good, you feel happy, and meeting women becomes like your time off.</p>
<p>It’s chill, it’s all cool, it’s fun, it recharges up your batteries, and as a side effect to just being this glorious aspect of your life, you get laid with cuties! As just part of the process of going out being cool and FUN.</p>
<p>Spending more time of your day happy and smiling and feeling energized and positive.</p>
<p>Itching to go outside, because you KNOW you’ll be meeting beautiful new girls, you know that they’re going to be into you, and you know you’re going to get physical with them.</p>
<p>Where going out is FUN.</p>
<p>Going out is a blast.</p>
<p>Going out is truly awesome.</p>
<p>As a great way to have new adventures.</p>
<p>And to bring happiness and aliveness and vitality BACK into your life!</p>
<p>To develop a full dating life where you can meet a hot girlfriend who’s really into you.</p>
<h3>“What To Say” to girls and self-amusement</h3>
<p>Now if you’re having issues with your conversation being boring, or not having something to say, it’s because you’re being too serious in what you want to say and trying to impress the girl.</p>
<p>Instead, you want to move toward being positive, playful, silly, not trying to impress her, and think of how you can make this FUN. How can you self-amuse YOURSELF with this girl?</p>
<p>And if you make the conversation about having some silly fun, and self-amusing, the girl will have fun too.</p>
<h3>Force The Fun</h3>
<p>Basically, you want to FORCE the fun. Be the party. That no matter what is going on, you’re going to make this fun somehow, you’re going to force it.</p>
<p>That’s what being the guy who is the life of the party is!</p>
<p>You know, the guy where everyone in the room can be tired and beat and slow, and this guy shows up and the whole energy of the room changes. Him being around, you start getting excited, laughing, it’s fun, because the guy is forcing the fun.</p>
<p>So how do you force the fun?</p>
<p>Basically having a really strong frame of positivity and that everything is awesome and any situation can be made fun!</p>
<p>Also, you did it by lowering your threshold to have fun. You see, most people set a very high bar for feeling happy. They think they can only feel fun and happiness if they’re on vacation on a tropical beach, or if they’re getting laid with a hot girl. They need all these conditions checked off before they think they can feel good and positive.</p>
<p>But really, having fun and feeling positive is always a choice.</p>
<p>You can just DECIDE to have fun in any moment.</p>
<p>And if you FORCE it, even if the girls around you are being bitchy or neutral or boring, if you FORCE the fun, they’ll enjoy your state more than they enjoy their own, and they’ll gravitate to your fun, literally getting sucked into your frame of positivity no matter what.</p>
<p>Now this forcing the fun, and self-amusement is really critical in a club environment where it’s essential to suck women into your positivity, and somewhat less so in day game.</p>
<p>But even day game you can still be laughing with the girl, joking around, and she’ll love your for that. The key is not to be canned, but to ride on the edge of chaos and let it free flow.</p>
<p>So just self-amuse yourself, enjoy life, and girls will want to be around you. Don’t look for things in your environment to tell you now is the time to be happy, don’t wait for someone else or something else to pump you up with happiness, being happy is a decision you make in every moment.</p>
<h3>Having Fun Takes Energy</h3>
<p>And that takes energy. Feeling good and having fun and sucking girls into your reality does take energy. It takes work to force that smile, to force that positive energy, to laugh, and to embrace what the moment is giving you and express that.</p>
<p>It’s really easier to sit down and fuzz out in front of the television, it conserves energy to chill out.</p>
<p>So while intellectually we think, “Yeah, I want the girls, I want the party, I want the fun and happiness,” in reality it’s easier to just sit back and check our email.</p>
<p>So you do need to take action, and massive action at that to start the self-amusement process and start changing your habits and neural circuitry to be conveying fun and positivity – to be fantastically fun throughout your day, in a way that DRAWS people in.</p>
<p>But once you’ve got that, girls are attracted to you because you exude the party, they want to be around you, and they want to be just like you.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Charger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7565.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>Qualification is simply the process of actively getting a girl to earn your approval or earn your affection.</p>
<p>You’re getting the girl to react to you, and to supplicate to you basically, and it’s a subtle form of the girl chasing after YOU.</p>
<p>And by getting the girl to qualify to you, you accomplish two very important things.</p>
<h3>Reason #1&#8230;</h3>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7565.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>Qualification is simply the process of actively getting a girl to earn your approval or earn your affection.</p>
<p>You’re getting the girl to react to you, and to supplicate to you basically, and it’s a subtle form of the girl chasing after YOU.</p>
<p>And by getting the girl to qualify to you, you accomplish two very important things.</p>
<h3>Reason #1</h3>
<p>Number one, you’re getting the girl to actively game you, you’re setting yourself up as the prize, you’re getting the girl to INVEST in you.</p>
<p>And then she’ll backwards rationalize why she’s chasing you thinking to herself, “Oh, I’m telling this guy how great I am, I must want him to like me because I must obviously like him too.”</p>
<h3>Reason #2</h3>
<p>And number two, you’re giving the girl reasons that you like her for more than just wanting sex. Like if you can get her to qualify to you that she’s a good cook, then she’ll think that you like her for more reasons than just that you want to get laid with her. Which is good.</p>
<h3>The problem: Qualifying puts you inside your head</h3>
<p>But there’s a problem with getting the girl to qualify herself to you.</p>
<p>And that’s that as a tactic, <strong><em>it tends to put you inside your own head.</em></strong></p>
<p>You’ve got this thought process inside your head and you think to yourself, <em>“Okay, now I think that I’ve got enough value that I can make her qualify herself to me, so now I’ll start qualifying and hopefully she’ll try win me over.”</em></p>
<p>But really, that’s like the last headspace you want to be in when you’re out. You don’t want to get overly stuck inside your head calculating your moves.</p>
<p>You don’t want the girl to sense that you’re thinking about what tactic you need to pull out next.</p>
<p>And besides, it’s coming from a frame that the girl is higher value than you, and you’ve got to whip out a tactic to prove that you’re worthy of her.</p>
<p>It’s a way to pump up your value to the girl so that you’re worthy of her, in other words it is a subtle form of supplicating to the girl if you pull out consciously as a tactic on her.</p>
<h3>You want to just ASSUME value</h3>
<p>Where really, you just want to ASSUME full value, ASSUME that she has to work for you.</p>
<p>And your thought process is more extroverted and feeling sexual intent like, <em>“Yeah, I’m the man. It’s on. This girl smells so nice. It’s on. I’m awesome, I’m the man. It’s on.”</em></p>
<p>And when you’re in THIS kind of headspace, not calculating your tactics, she FEEL what kind of high value you guy you are through state transference, and you’ll tend to qualify her anyway throughout the interaction because you’re assuming that you’re high value and you’re assuming that this girl has to prove herself worthy to you.</p>
<p>So if you’re talking to a girl, and you’re assuming high value, you can simply drop “game” and simply get to know her as a person, and enjoy the night.</p>
<p>And because the girl can sense that you’re assuming 100% full value, and can sense that you’re a confident guy without making all these conscious moves and having an agenda, her natural instinct will be to share herself with you, and to qualify to you automatically.</p>
<h3>Old-style qualifying</h3>
<p>One way to go about qualifying a girl, to make her chase you, to make her invest in the conversation, is almost to use planned, canned lines or little mini-routines.</p>
<p>Like you’re talking to the girl and suddenly you throw out to her, “Hey, so what else have you got going for you besides just your looks?” And she’ll start qualifying herself to you, investing in getting your approval, if she likes you.</p>
<p>So old-style game qualification looks something like this, where you tell the girl, <em>“Can you cook? Tell me, are you a good cook? Because I love a woman that cooks.”</em></p>
<p>And the girl tells you that she can cook, and then as a reward, you say, “Ah that’s awesome, I love you.” And you give her a hug.</p>
<h3>New-style qualifying</h3>
<p>But there’s another way to qualify a girl that’s more authentic, more genuine, more real… and in many ways more powerful.</p>
<p>Really, what you want to do ideally, is to just assume value, assume that the girl is massively attracted to you, and allow the girl to communicate you without judging her. And she’ll naturally open up to you about things that SHE really cares about, because in reality she probably doesn’t care about her cooking.</p>
<p>So instead you share a piece of yourself, agenda-free, and she’ll share with you a piece about herself.</p>
<p>Like you tell the girl, <em>“Yeah I’m writing a fiction book, because I love the Harry Potter movies and it’s really inspired me to become a writer because I love creating my own fantasy worlds and characters and the creative aspects of it.”</em></p>
<p>So you’re just giving of yourself, unfiltered.</p>
<p>And then the girl will tell you something like, <em>“Oh yeah, I love being creative too because I love reading books and right now I’m reading Pillars of the Earth.”</em></p>
<p>So right there, just be seeking rapport with you, she’s agreeing with you, and qualifying herself to you.</p>
<p>And she’ll share with you something about herself that’s far more meaningful to her than that she likes to cook, cooking most likely being trivial to her.</p>
<p>And as a result, you become far more REAL to the girl, rather than a guy pulling out a tactic to qualify the girl. Instead you become the guy that’s sharing with her himself, that’s to REAL to her, and that discovers and appreciates things about her that she WANTS you to appreciate.</p>
<p>And at the same time, you’re assuming value, you’re assuming attraction.. .so you become like the perfect kind of guy that she wants to meet.</p>
<p>So that’s how you can view qualification, it’s not something that you need to keep inside your head as a tactic.</p>
<h3>How To Qualify Women More Naturally</h3>
<p>First, make a list of what you’d like to find in a woman besides her looks. Write down a list of everything you’d ideally want a girl to have that you would date.</p>
<p>For example your list could be,</p>
<ul>
<li>She likes to hit the gym.</li>
<li>She doesn’t smoke.</li>
<li>She is a positive person.</li>
<li>She likes to read.</li>
<li>She speaks another language.</li>
<li>She doesn’t watch television too much.</li>
<li>She has a fun personality.</li>
</ul>
<p>So when you know what you’d like to see in a woman, when you’re in conversation with a woman, you can qualify her on any of the characteristics you deem important.</p>
<h3>Don’t Try To Make Her “Like You” – Instead, Challenge Her</h3>
<p>So if you’re talking with a girl, and she’s being negative and complaining in, like saying to you that life sucks, or men suck, you can tell her, “Hey you’re boring. We’re here in a dance club. Let’s have some fun!”</p>
<p>A regular guy would try to get all understanding and console her and make her feel better. You know, pretend he cares to get her approval and make her like him.</p>
<p>But instead of just listening to her blab on, you qualify her. By challenging her, you’re showing her that you have standards, that you don’t put up with any crap, and that you’ll will qualify her mercilessly.</p>
<p>Or if she tells you that she needs a cigarette, you can tell her, “What you smoke?! That’s gross!” Instead of just accepting it, you hold her to your high standards, and then she’ll start qualifying herself to you.</p>
<p>Just because a girl has bad habits or doesn’t meet all your standards doesn’t mean you won’t jump into bed with her. BUT you are ALWAYS conveying your standards to the girl.</p>
<h3>Also, Reward Her</h3>
<p>Conversely, if the girl has traits that you DO like that are revealed, you want to let her know.</p>
<p>Like if she starts talking about watching Star Trek, and you think that’s really cool of her, you respond with, “Hey that’s cool!” because it’s something that you really do value in the girl and you want to let her know that she’s exceeding your standards.</p>
<h3>Naturally Weave Qualifying In</h3>
<p>So instead of using some canned, generic qualification lines, it’s really better weave qualification throughout the interaction by either calling girls on their bullshit and bad habits, OR by letting them know when you’re particularly impressed by them.</p>
<p>That requires not being so needy for the girl’s approval that you just agree with everything she does and says to “make her like you”, but instead lead, contradict the girl, and make your genuine feelings known to her. She’ll respect you far more for leading her and taking charge and demanding the best from her, rather than just the subtle form of kissing ass where she agrees with everything you say!</p>
<h3>Qualifying Women Physically</h3>
<p>A more intense way of qualifying as well includes getting physical, which is what push-pull is.</p>
<p>Like you can push her away when she does something you don’t like, and then pull her back into you to give her a second chance.</p>
<p>Like she tells you she’s going to get a smoke, so you push her away, and tell her “Ewww!” and tease her about it, and then pull her in and tell that you’re going to give her a second chance. But basically you’re telling her that you don’t put up with crap and bad behavior and you’ve got high standards, and that will make her jump to meet them if she likes you.</p>
<p>Again, you don’t need to be forced, just write up a list of what you’re looking for, and what behavior is unacceptable, and call girls out on it, make them live up to your standards.</p>
<p>And don’t agree with everything they do just to make them like you. Hold them up to your standards, and that’s how you generate hard attraction.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Charger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7555.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>It’s not enough to always be chasing girls. If you want to sleep with a girl, you’ve got to get her to chase YOU. And that’s particularly true with really hot girls.</p>
<p>Take night clubs for instance.</p>
<p>It’s common when you approach the &#8220;super hot girl&#8221; in a club that her friends have decided that &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7555.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>It’s not enough to always be chasing girls. If you want to sleep with a girl, you’ve got to get her to chase YOU. And that’s particularly true with really hot girls.</p>
<p>Take night clubs for instance.</p>
<p>It’s common when you approach the &#8220;super hot girl&#8221; in a club that her friends have decided that they are going to make your life a living hell, test you, bust your balls, try to fuck with your frame, be aloof, try to brush you off, or ignore you.</p>
<p>Well don&#8217;t worry, you are not alone, and it doesn&#8217;t have to be like that.</p>
<p>I have provided you with some field tested street tips I use myself in set to bring the girl and her friends back into the palm of my hands… even those that start off with a &#8220;no hope&#8221; label.</p>
<p>There is a systematic way to handle these types of situations. You can turn every set around by employing the following six methods:</p>
<p><strong>Method #1.</strong> Bombard the set with Blitzkrieg Type Tonality and Super Fly Body language and a &#8220;I own this shit&#8221; mentality.</p>
<p><strong>Method #2.</strong> Use negs to get them chasing you.</p>
<p><strong>Method #3.</strong> Call women out on their second class behavior.</p>
<p><strong>Method #4.</strong> Use curiosity loops and tension loops to create &#8220;intrigue and mystery&#8221; that act like chick crack and will make the women &#8220;hooked.” When you’re in attraction phase, your goal before going into Screen/Accept phase is to &#8220;Hook&#8221; the set.</p>
<p><strong>Method #5.</strong> Use multiple threads. Just change the thread to another conversational thread that is totally unrelated.</p>
<p><strong>Method #6.</strong> Selectively validate women</p>
<p>NOTE: DO NOT GIVE UP GUYS. I see too many guys stalling and losing sets. Do not give up. Basically talk until you make the &#8220;Ho say no”, or until the Ho say&#8217;s OHHH!!!</p>
<p>Let me outline each tip and give you an example of each rule employed in the field.</p>
<h3>#1. Blitzkrieg style tonality</h3>
<p>Use Blitzkrieg style tonality and body language with loud vocal projection to turn the set around and get the girl chasing you.</p>
<p>I opened a girl at a mall using an indirect opener. I got her to stop but her short, club-ho, attention span led her to wander off and walk away. As she was walking away, I just kept on shouting game to her, even from 20 feet away. I did not turn around to face her, didn&#8217;t move an inch closer to follow her. Just turned my head and acted totally unaffected, and pretended that she didn&#8217;t even walk away. My tonality finally got to her and she came back all the way to where I was and started to game me. She asked me, where you from, you are very interesting, and so on.</p>
<h3>#2 &amp; #3. Negs &amp; Call Outs</h3>
<p>Negs and calling women out can be mixed in together. You can use negs to get them chasing for your attention and also by calling them on their second class behavior.</p>
<p>If she is losing interest, say, &#8220;Talking to you is like pulling my teeth,&#8221; or &#8220;Hey honey do you do drugs? I don&#8217;t talk to chicks with drug problems or Attention Deficit Disorder… which one do you have?”</p>
<p>Or I will say, “Consider yourself lucky talking to me, as there are thousands of women I can be talking to right now, so please respect my time and energy and effort to talk to you the way I am reciprocating that basic courtesy and respect back to you. If you can&#8217;t act mature and grown up, then pleasure meeting you.&#8221; They always buckle after this.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll say shit like &#8220;Okay&#8230; nah, I&#8217;m not feeling this&#8230; I&#8217;m going to go and ask someone else.&#8221; They come back.</p>
<p>As soon as a girl starts to get out of line, I say, “You&#8217;re acting really socially retarded&#8230; Didn&#8217;t your mother teach you that when you are presented with an opportunity for learning and growth to be attentive… You poor deprived child! Are you okay!?!”</p>
<p>For super hot bitchy girls who really act disrespectful and act like I want them and are trying to hit on them, I&#8217;ll then say as a comeback, “Honey get a life… too bad you&#8217;re not my type. I’m just asking you a simple question that I could have asked that cute eight year old girl and she would have been more attentive and interesting than you. So what&#8217;ll it be, are you going to pay attention to what I am saying, or am I going to have to dismiss you?” This gets them chasing you. I had this happen to me and my friend two weeks ago when a hot Portuguese hairdresser would not leave my sight.</p>
<p>I get only this harsh with super snotty, bitchy type girls who have a self perceived value through the roof!</p>
<h3>#4. Use Curiosity Loops and Tension Loops</h3>
<p>Curiosity loops always get the girl chasing after the guy.</p>
<p>For example, I&#8217;ll bait the woman I want by making cliffhanger/bait-hook comments or questions like, “What the fuck is up with your hand?” Then I segue into my palm analysis. It hooks 100% of the time.</p>
<p>Or I&#8217;ll say, “Do you know you have the most unusual hand structure, nah &#8230;fuck it. I don&#8217;t want to get you all excited&#8230;.anyways!!!” She will then say, “What about my hands&#8230; what, what&#8230; tell me&#8230;tell me!!!”</p>
<p>Women love mystery and tension. You can create this elastic band effect to reel them in and get them hooked.</p>
<h3>#5. Multiple Threads</h3>
<p>Use multiple thread theory and introduce a new thread to make her chase you. Note the new conversational thread doesn&#8217;t have to have anything to do with your previous thread.</p>
<p>For example, during my bootcamp in Toronto my student opened a hot Asian model. He was doing great when the conversational thread he was on just died and he expectedly ended the chat with her on a high note, instead of over welcoming his stay. I then showed him that the show is not over, until she says, &#8220;NO go away&#8221; or &#8220;Yes and you go away with her.&#8221; So I introduced the topic of kissing, out of the blue.</p>
<p>Me: &#8220;Hey on a scale of 1-10 how good of a French kisser are you?&#8221;</p>
<p>HB: &#8220;What?&#8221;</p>
<p>Me: “Hey look Marlee Matlin, pretty but deaf&#8230;I said, ‘How good of a tongue-downer are you?’”</p>
<p>Notice that with this hard core party, model type I had to calibrate my game to be more sexual, up front, cocky, ballsy&#8230; It worked.</p>
<p>HB: “I don&#8217;t like kissing.”</p>
<p>Me: “Well how good of a ‘Biter’ are you?”</p>
<p>Her heart starts to pound with pleasure and her buying temperature has been kicked up.</p>
<p>HB: “I don&#8217;t like to bite, but I love being bitten.”</p>
<p>Me: “I know you do.”</p>
<p>HB: “How do you know?”</p>
<p>Me: “Don&#8217;t worry about it, can&#8217;t tell you!”</p>
<p>HB: “You&#8217;re funny&#8230;what&#8217;s your name!”</p>
<p>I then use her interest signal to close the space and touch escalate.</p>
<p>So I am showing the bootcamp student all these cool massage things on her. She is loving it. Anyways the girl that we &#8220;supposedly lost&#8221; or the set that was supposed to have ended long time ago ended up making a 180 turn. She was a model and invited both me and my student to her VIP booth and offered to buy us drinks.</p>
<p>How is that for shaping a new reality for what is possible? Never let the set go, just because it isn&#8217;t panning out or working out for the first few minutes. Stay in it for the long haul, not for the two minute close. It will work. Persistence!!!</p>
<h3>#6. Selectively Validate Them</h3>
<p>Most women are validation junkies, especially the hot ones or the ones that have a lot of choice.</p>
<p>This means that they will accept anything and do anything as long as it validates her &#8220;Archetype&#8221; of herself. See, in her eyes or in her mind all high quality women think:</p>
<p>“I&#8217;m hot”<br />
“I&#8217;m sexy”<br />
“Men want me”<br />
“I&#8217;m smart”<br />
“I have choice when it comes to sex”<br />
“I&#8217;m a great friend, loyal, ambitious”<br />
“I’m a catch”<br />
“I’m a prize”</p>
<p>So whenever you validate any of these claims you are GONE!</p>
<p>Instead, you should be validating her upon her proving or doing something that deserves validation, and not undeservingly as most men do.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll give you an example.</p>
<p>Just because a girl gives you her number doesn&#8217;t mean shit. A lot of times a woman will give you her number seeking your validation (THE PHONE CALL). The minute you call her and she picks up, is all it takes for her to get that validation and then she will lose interest because by you calling her you are conveying interest. This is why before you validate her, play hard to get about calling her. Tell her maybe you’ll call, say if I have time&#8230; in a cocky and playful manner, and get her begging you to call her.</p>
<p>A woman is used to being chased and that will activate her anti-slut defenses that you are interested in her and want to sex her. Instead, when YOU play hard to get or pose a challenge, not only will it make her seek your validation more and more, it will get her chasing you for it.</p>
<p>And when she does get your validation, she will want to have sex with you because her screen/chase mechanism has been turned on to make her the pursuer and you the one who chooses who she will sleep with and the one who controls the sex.</p>
<p>Check out <a href="http://www.maaximumseduction.com">Maaximum Seduction</a> for more tips from M.C. Maax.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7538.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>Trust me guys, night club game is fucking easy breazy if you know how to play the game. I hope some of these things are helpful to you.</p>
<h3>First, Some Quick Tips For Working Night Clubs:</h3>
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<li>Ultra playful, chilled out, body language, attitude and vocal projection.</li>
<li>Entering the set with an explosion.</li>
<li>Make the social </li>&#8230;</ul>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7538.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>Trust me guys, night club game is fucking easy breazy if you know how to play the game. I hope some of these things are helpful to you.</p>
<h3>First, Some Quick Tips For Working Night Clubs:</h3>
<ul>
<li>Ultra playful, chilled out, body language, attitude and vocal projection.</li>
<li>Entering the set with an explosion.</li>
<li>Make the social circle fall in love with you while you neg the friend you want.</li>
<li>After you give her some time and say, “Ok, now you can talk to me.” Mini venue change.</li>
<li>Own the sets. Own the men and you own the women.</li>
<li>Dominate the FRAME always and show no reactivity whatsoever, like a stuck up super hot babe.</li>
<li>Tell amazing stories with cliffhanging components, open loops, and that demo’s your personality and shows higher value.</li>
<li>Always escalate the interaction physically and close the space in seconds to show alphaness, sexual awareness and confidence.</li>
<li>Make eye contact with the entire group more than the friend you want. Pretty soon you will change the dynamics and make the group march along with you against your girl who will be tongue tied and so attracted that you just walked in there and took over her whole army with your one man army.</li>
<li>Be social, extroverts, talk to everyone. Walk and talk like you own the fucking place. Forget going in there in sarge mode, or us against them.</li>
<li>Always smile when you approach</li>
<li>Bust balls, usually only to 9 and 10&#8242;s and be playful when you do it, and also bust and then go, meaning don&#8217;t wait for her reaction. Just stack the next thread. So she doesn&#8217;t have time to respond.</li>
<li>Touch escalate and initiate immediately to get her used to your touch as soon as possible and a great way to test for attraction. I would squeeze hands when talking to a girl, massaging palms, finger to finger play ,hand hold and see how she responds.</li>
<li>Always have powerful vocal projection and body language. Don&#8217;t peck in or lean in. Make people lean in to talk to you</li>
<li>Peacock with some cool pieces of clothing or jewelry.</li>
<li>Do takeaways and back turns, to get her chasing you. Chasing leads to sexual attraction.</li>
<li>Push for the isolation when you see the window. Usually after you have befriended the peer group.</li>
<li>Walk and talk like you already are a Cegas pimp and you want to see if these girls got what takes to please you.</li>
<li>Learn to merge sets. If you open a two set, you should merge them with another two that now you can isolate the friend you want since her friend will now have company.</li>
</ul>
<h3>Nightclub Rule #1. Be Social With Everyone</h3>
<p>Do not go in there with battle mode or Sarge mode.</p>
<p>Listen, there are two types of guys. Guys that get pussy and guys that don&#8217;t. The guys that don&#8217;t get any go in, with a &#8220;Me versus them, battle on&#8221; mentality. That is the wrong concept.</p>
<p>Or they think, “I will only approach women tonight.” Once again, wrong concept.</p>
<p>I would like to state that these mentalities still are those of one who is introverted and NO INTROVERT can become a master of girls. You must first become extroverted and social to EVERYONE.</p>
<p>Last night my and my wing rolled and chatted up everyone, from bouncers, hired guns, guys, groups, and lone wolves. See, this puts you in a social state, and gives you another very important power called the power of having been social proofed.</p>
<p>There is a term called “Flash Game” which means when you go into a bar or club, talk to hot girls or just any set of women and get them laughing, giggling and you will warm up the adjacent sets because they will see that you are pre-selected.</p>
<p>That is what me and my wing did last night and you won&#8217;t believe the IOIs and “come fuck me” eyes we got. You can also build a jealousy plot line. Meaning, talk to one girl and get her attracted slightly then say, &#8220;honey, be right back. We have a lot to talk about. But I got to go say hi to some friends.&#8221;</p>
<p>Then you go and open a set within viewing distance to her. She will get jealous if she is genuinely attracted to you. This happened last night with a 6-set of Italian chicks celebrating a birthday party. The target would not stop staring at me and later when I re-engaged, she was like &#8220;Baby where did you go. I was looking for you&#8221;. It is amazing the power of social proof and pre-selection.</p>
<h3>Rule #2. Use False Disqualifiers</h3>
<p>I would say to the target &#8220;OH MY&#8230;..Too bad you&#8217;re not my type, because you are really fuckin&#8217; hot.&#8221; She would be like, “What??? Well honey what is your type?” See how immediately she starts qualifying to me. I had this happen each time I delivered this false disqualifer.</p>
<h3>Rule #3. Touch Quickly</h3>
<p>Another major realization is in clubs, women love to be touched so you must initiate and escalate touch as soon as possible. I have a set number of touching routines or moves I do. If I get a good response I will then screen, or pull for isolation as I did with a hot British nurse last night to the couches within 5 minutes, because I got some really steamy touch happening with her.</p>
<h3>Rule #4. Give Your Friends Props</h3>
<p>I also befriended her friends and asked them if it was okay if I borrow her. They said “yes” because I won them over and gave a great accomplishment intro to my wing. So naturally if my wing is a high value guy, then I must be too, so they don&#8217;t mind hanging with high value guys.</p>
<p>Guys if you go out with a wing, give him a great avatar or accomplishment intro. It will make the difference between isolation and being nexted.</p>
<h3>#5. Talk To The Guys Too</h3>
<p>Talk to everyone, including mixed sets with guys. I would go up and put my hand on their shoulder and say, “HEY Bro, get this man.” This would do two things.</p>
<p>#1. Disengage him, show him that I am alpha and build instant rapport.<br />
#2. Shows the women around that you have a stronger social value structure than most men she meets, more than the guy and when you own the guys, you own the women as they will certainly follow you.</p>
<p>I also always ask, &#8220;Hey guys how do you know each other.&#8221; Must do that, before you screen or give IOI&#8217;s to the girl, because you need to know the relationship dynamics between the members in the group.</p>
<h3>#6. Be the Bad Boy</h3>
<p>I always put on the show and act and persona that I am a VEGAS PIMP.</p>
<p>I act cocky, have a loud dominating vocal projection, grab girls, pimp talk them, push them away, tell them they have to earn me, tell girls I am an asshole who is not nice, but a lot of fun, tell them that I think girls here are not up to my standards. Go up to hot girls and ask them where I can go to meet really hot women. This would immediately make them attracted and qualifying themselves to me that they have what I want.</p>
<h3>#7.Re-engage sets</h3>
<p>I’ll do one initial round of building attraction, then go game adjacent sets, social proof, then re-engage sets. If I would see my girl being gamed by another guy, I would just leave it as he is probably going to tool himself. And low and behold many guys blew themselves out last night, and then I just had to go in and say hey babe and they were so excited to see me.</p>
<p>If a girl on the other hand was being talked to and approached by a nice guy, losers trying to buy her a drink and she wasn&#8217;t feeling them, I would say, “HEY BABY, come here,” and took her by the hand and away. After that the chicks jaws dropped and then they were all re initiating me and touching me.</p>
<h3>#8. Come With A Stronger Reality</h3>
<p>These tall 6&#8242; 6’’ guys were trying to buy these two girls a drink and I went up to them and say, “Hey man. Can you buy me a drink to. You&#8217;re such a nice guy. Isn&#8217;t he such a nice guy,” I said to the girls in a sarcastic way. They got it and started laughing. Bottom line here. As long as you are more alpha and maintain the frame, not even a giant can stand up to you. Always come with a stronger reality.</p>
<h3>#9. Misinterpret Everything As A Come-On</h3>
<p>If a girl complemented me on my glasses, I would say, “Yeah you like me. You don&#8217;t like my glasses, that was just an excuse to talk to me. By the way my name is Maax if that is what you are wondering.” They would be like WTF in a good way and we would chat. Always keeping in mind that you have to be ultra high energy, vibrant and playful.</p>
<h3>#10. Open With Authority</h3>
<p>Do not open with boring shit like, “Excuse me, or can I ask you a question&#8221; but rather, &#8220;HEY GUYS CHECK THIS SHIT OUT&#8221;</p>
<p>See, when you come into a group you come like a steam roller and topple what they are saying with your upbeat, ultra positive, cool, powerful opener and body language.</p>
<p>Then you can start to play them against each other… nickname them, make friends with the group, all while negging the friend you want. You make eye contact with everyone in the group, always have a playful smile, tell them cool stories, show them cool things, tell them about your cool trip to LA or Europe. She’ll notice.</p>
<h3>#11. Use Push Pull</h3>
<p>When you neg a friend, it is to disengage the bitch shield, not to insult her character. Then you can pick her up and accept her for something else. Pretty soon you are making her security in herself ride on your wave of push/pull, negging/acceptance, screen/accept.</p>
<h3>#12. How To Wing Properly</h3>
<p>Here is how you pickup with a wingman.</p>
<p>The wrong way: You approach in tandem or together. Makes you both look like a bunch of fruitcakes that need each other. You both look like you have no confidence and convey low social value.</p>
<p>To add to this tandem approach, the PUA will talk to both friend while the wing will just hang around often behind the set. This lowers his social value and the women will see that you are hanging with a guy with low social value, so you must be of low social value and you are GONE! Or they will say, “Okay we have to go to the washroom,” or to the bar or some excuse to get away from the boredom-bringing, low value males in the club.</p>
<p>So here is the way to properly wing:</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say you see a two set. I will approach the two set ALONE and then I will do an &#8220;accomplishment intro&#8221; for my wing that will join me in a few minutes.</p>
<p>I will say, “Guys I&#8217;m going to introduce you to my friend, X. This guy is Mr. Socialite on Campus, and he always has an entourage of women around him. What a loyal guy he is too. Always there when I say ‘Hey man we gotta roll.’”</p>
<p>This does three things:</p>
<p>1. Gives him instant social proof and thus high social value<br />
2. Conveys he is an alpha male, as he is surrounded by women and that he is pre-selected.<br />
3. He is loyal to me. Conveys that there must be something special about me, that I must have high value for someone to be loyal to me.</p>
<p>And because I am hanging around with a high value guy, I MUST BE HIGH VALUE and all of this is conveyed by my accomplishment intro.</p>
<p>So guys, have an accomplishment intro for your wings.</p>
<p>Second, after my wing comes in, he will engage the obstacle and tell her how cool I am. I will do the same to the friend. Then we will switch and my wing will talk to my friend and tell her how cool I am. I will do the same with the friends. Then we will switch back.</p>
<p>This way, when my wing goes back to interact with the friend, she knows she is talking to a high value guy, because I massively beefed up his social status and she will then infer or rationalize that I too must be of high value and will not drag the friend away from me.</p>
<p>Now in case my wing and the friend aren&#8217;t getting along, or the wing screws up and the friend brushes him off and goes back to the friend, she is totally diffused because of the good things my wing told her about me when we exchanged partners. This is exchange theory and works like magic.</p>
<p>For more tips from M.C. Maxx, visit <a href="http://www.maaximumseduction.com/">Maaximum Seduction</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7526.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>I found some vintage pics of Famke Jannsen from the 1980s. But first, got any Star Trek nerds in the house?</p>
<p>There’s a really awesome Star Trek episode called “The Perfect Mate” she stars in.</p>
<p>She plays this young woman who is an &#8220;empathic metamorph&#8221;. She&#8217;s like a chameleon, becoming the perfect woman to any man she stands near too.&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7526.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p>I found some vintage pics of Famke Jannsen from the 1980s. But first, got any Star Trek nerds in the house?</p>
<p>There’s a really awesome Star Trek episode called “The Perfect Mate” she stars in.</p>
<p>She plays this young woman who is an &#8220;empathic metamorph&#8221;. She&#8217;s like a chameleon, becoming the perfect woman to any man she stands near too.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7528" title="famke-patrick-stewart" src="http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/famke-patrick-stewart.jpg" alt="" width="320" height="240" /></p>
<p>Captain Picard has to train with her in private for some alien rituals, and she nearly seduces him. Picard is a pretty icy guy no doubt.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-7534" title="Famke_Janssen-star-trek" src="http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Famke_Janssen-star-trek-500x381.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="381" /></p>
<p>What&#8217;s pretty cool about this 1992 episode is it stars Famke Janssen.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oImlSZCAPnA">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oImlSZCAPnA</a></p>
<p>Famke Janssen went on to play Jean Gray in the X-men movies about 10 years later &#8211; again with Patrick Stewart! (who played Xavier)</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-7529" title="xmen3pubmm" src="http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/xmen3pubmm-273x400.jpg" alt="" width="273" height="400" /></p>
<p>In the pic below you can see the two actors reunited and standing next to each other in an X-men promo.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7531" title="famke_jannsen-xmen" src="http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/famke_jannsen-xmen.jpg" alt="" width="485" height="323" /></p>
<p>What&#8217;s pretty cool is that her appearance on Star Trek was her first appearance ever on screen. I&#8217;m kind of thinking that on the set of filming Star Trek, Patrick Stewart boned her and just had to get some more so had her on set in the moves <img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYIvYf0wEBU">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYIvYf0wEBU</a></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff6600;"><em>Famke, vintage appearance on Conan.</em></span></p>
<p>That, and she’s a bad ass actor.</p>
<p>Anyway, check the Star Trek episode out on Netflix, or Amazon direct download or whatever. It’s hot!</p>
<p>Also, from what I understand she speaks Dutch, German and French besides English.</p>
<p>And back in 1980s she modeled for Victoria&#8217;s Secret. Pretty sweet, right? So here’s those old vintage pics I found.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-7532" title="famke-janssen-victorias-secrets" src="http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/famke-janssen-victorias-secrets-332x400.jpg" alt="" width="332" height="400" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-7533" title="famke-janssen-victorias-secrets2" src="http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/famke-janssen-victorias-secrets2.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="150" /></p>
<p>Beyond that, she’s held up pretty well over the decades since that have passed. I give her props.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Charger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7516.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>So how do you seduce a girl – what is a good formula?</p>
<p>First, it started with Inner game&#8212;&#62; which this is then outwardly expressed through body language, the sub-communication that all woman read.</p>
<p>Inner game and body language is what hits her reptilian circuitry to telegraph that we are the prize (or are of &#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<p>So how do you seduce a girl – what is a good formula?</p>
<p>First, it started with Inner game&#8212;&gt; which this is then outwardly expressed through body language, the sub-communication that all woman read.</p>
<p>Inner game and body language is what hits her reptilian circuitry to telegraph that we are the prize (or are of only miniscule size).</p>
<p>Finally comes “outer game”, which is used to tactfully lead a woman from point A to point B. Outer game is mainly used to handle contingencies and obstacles that will arise in social interactions.</p>
<p>However to execute the master plan you need attitude, confidence, and the belief that you will close the deal. So bottom line, project high status body language and an attitude nonverbally.</p>
<p>The Inner Game, or your attitude and body language, is by far the most important factor for seduction mastery in Night Clubs.</p>
<p>I want to talk about the importance of:</p>
<ul>
<li>Dominant Frame Control</li>
<li>Adding value to open, engage, and attract women in mixed sets</li>
<li>Multiple Thread Theory</li>
<li>Importance of Leading and escalating the interaction with a woman</li>
</ul>
<p>So let&#8217;s start with the most important concept,</p>
<h3>Dominant Frame Control</h3>
<p>Remember the one with the stronger belief system and reality dominates those in the vicinity.</p>
<p>What does this mean: Be contagious like cancer, suck the oxygen from the room. &#8220;All eyes on me baby&#8221; &#8230;Get it. Elvis has walked in and I am here to give all of you women my sexy offspring but first I am going to see if you have what it takes to interest me legitimately, offsetting the face value, make up and fake up induced stares that most guys fall trance to simply by a woman&#8217;s looks.</p>
<p>Also, when you walk into the club, act like you own the place. Socialize with everyone. Come as if you have your hands full already, like you’re already sexing 10&#8242;s , models, high class, A list women of exceptional quality and beauty.</p>
<p>See, what this does is when you talk to a woman, she can feel that you are pre-selected and are just here to have fun and bring the vibe and party to the others.</p>
<p>Remember, women can feel if you are sexy or not to others. When you are just out to fuck around, be playful, fluid, mis-interpret, and be ballsy, it implies a &#8220;chilled-out middle finger in the air mentality.&#8221; And believe me, women know and decide &#8220;Non verbally&#8221; before you even open them if you are sex-worthy.</p>
<p>That is why I advocate Inner Game. So beef up your body language and non verbal components. That is why the first phase of my 7 point model groups all of these nonverbal factors into their own phase called the &#8220;PRE OPENER &#8211; VALUE CALIBRATION&#8221; phase where we beef up our nonverbal value. How?</p>
<h3>How To Build Nonverbal Value</h3>
<ul>
<li>Chat up everyone.</li>
<li>Flash Game &#8211; Have girls in your near vicinity engaged by you, embracing you.</li>
<li>Laugh and vibe with your wing.</li>
<li>Talk to everyone &#8211; ADD Value to other people’s lives.</li>
<li>Remember the mentality “Don&#8217;t look for the party.” You bring the party to their lonesome soles.</li>
<li>Talk to and engage women, then merge that set with a hotter set or just next the &#8220;Pivot&#8221; set for the set with the hotter women and it will open so much easily.</li>
<li>Act as if you are already sexing two or three model-type women. You already got your hands full and are just here because you are bored. Let me ask you, if you had 9 bottles of coke in your fridge, would you care about scoring the tenth bottle? No.</li>
<li>Misinterpret everything a woman says as wanting you, as wanting to take you home.</li>
<li>IF a woman shit tests you or acts rude, then laugh it off.</li>
<li>Add value to the group; Remember you are the party and are bringing it to them, not going to them for the party.</li>
<li>So, when you approach a group, bring value to them. Tell them cool stories that have DHV spikes that demonstrate your alpha traits indirectly to the women and subtly convey that you have higher value than the males in the set.</li>
<li>Make the guys feel good about themselves but in a very smooth way that simultaneously raises your value in relation to theirs.</li>
<li>Make the friends or cockblocks feel great about themselves.</li>
<li>Actively show disinterest to the target, but at the same time&#8230; do not ignore her. That is not what group theory is about. You need to &#8220;bait her and keep her in set&#8221; by bait &amp; hook comments like &#8220;Oh shit what is up with your hand&#8221;. Or &#8220;Hey let me ask you something daddy&#8217;s girl&#8230;&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<p>A lot of guys make the mistake of completely ignoring the Object Of their Desire. This will make her bored and she will think that,</p>
<ul>
<li>you like the males and are gay or</li>
<li>like her average friends</li>
</ul>
<h3>How To Touch Escalate</h3>
<p>Also lead the interaction and touch escalate. How do get a nice gradual touch escalation curve? Here is how:</p>
<p>First, touch her from the very beginning. SO you appear to be just a touch guy from the start and so when you touch her later, it doesn’t surprise or freak her out.</p>
<p>Also remember, you must escalate the interaction and LEAD HER.</p>
<p>She expects nothing less from you when given an open window. If you don&#8217;t take that window, you will be in the LJBF (Let&#8217;s just be friends) or even worse &#8220;DMS&#8221; (Dancing Monkey Syndrome).</p>
<p>A lot of guys spend too much wasted time and energy on attracting a woman. That is not needed. Especially in clubs, you don&#8217;t need long ass routines, just RFT (Rapid Fire Threads). A lot of it is your attitude, your playful vibe, your charismatic tone, body language and your non-excusing personality to get close to a woman and touch her that will attract her. Also smile, have piercing eye content, engage all sets, groups, win them over, be the loudest, coolest mofo on the block, and that’s it!</p>
<h3>How To Build Connection And Comfort</h3>
<p>And remember that attraction is only a means to get her to want to connect with you. It is not an end in itself.</p>
<p>For instance, when I get a positive vibe from a woman, I always lead her to the bar and move her around to get her used to the idea of…</p>
<ul>
<li>Building comfort with me.</li>
<li>&#8220;Venue changing with me&#8221;</li>
<li>We get drinks together.</li>
<li>Or lead her by the hand to a couch.</li>
<li>Also you must lead her all the way around and through obstacles.</li>
</ul>
<h3>How To Lead A Woman</h3>
<p>For instance, on Monday at this upscale lounge, I took my girl by the hand to the bar where a couple of lamo&#8217;s were trying to talk to her. So I grabbed her by the hand and turned her to face me and her back to them. She expected that, to be lead by touch and body movement. She went to buy a drink for her girlfriend at the bar and instead of letting her give her girl the drink, I said, “Here sweety I’ll give it to her”. This way I &#8220;locked her in&#8221; with the beer bottle. I know she will not go away. We went up to her girlfriend and after giving the drink, I had to disarm the obstacle. So after vibing with her for a bit, I said &#8220;Okay we (me and my girl) will be there. Come join us”</p>
<p>She was cool with that. Now my student, due to his lack of experience, wasn&#8217;t able to engage the friend and on top of that she was mercilessly being hit on by a crew of drunken&#8217; British boys, so the logistics got a bit sticky. But here is the point.</p>
<ul>
<li>Always lead your woman</li>
<li>Guide her</li>
<li>Dominate the situation for her</li>
<li>It is your job to keep you and her in a &#8220;bubble,” and move her down the seduction tunnel.</li>
</ul>
<p>Another example, I ran into the two hot Vegas Deluxe show girls type models and just grabbed them and said, “Hi remember me. How are you guys. Come let&#8217;s finish our photo.” They were so into it. Then a whole bunch of guys started seeing me doing it and wanted to get their picture with the hotties, so I said girls &#8220;Go make &#8216;em happy&#8230; it will make his day I am sure&#8221;.</p>
<p>So after a quick snapshot, the other guys were trying to game them. I just grabbed my hotties by the arm, arms around both waist, led them close to me and SNAP! It was on. DO you guys see this&#8230; that you must lead, a woman is very turned on by a guy who</p>
<ul>
<li>Dominates the situation with her</li>
<li>Demonstrates more alphaness and survival value and &#8220;infectiveness&#8221; to male competition.</li>
<li>Remember, lead the men and the women will follow.</li>
</ul>
<p>Bottom line, I just took them, guided them, led them away, all with a stronger frame. I didn&#8217;t acknowledge anybody else in the vicinity or other guys, or anything else.</p>
<h3>Multiple Thread Theory</h3>
<p>The whole goal of a pick up is to move the girl from a non-sexual disposition to a playful, flirtations, and sexual direction. How do we do this without creeping her out? Multiple threading.</p>
<p>Here is what most men do:</p>
<p>Guy: “Hey girls, what color do you like pink or blue?”</p>
<p>Girl: “I like blue.”</p>
<p>Guy: “But why, blue is boring.”</p>
<p>Girl: “Yeah, but it is also&#8230;”</p>
<p>See how the guy is talking logically and boring her. He is setting up a very bland, friendly frame with her. So what he will do is sequence into asking her for her number&#8230; but with no sexual innuendos being implied, no flirtation, and no playfulness. She will feel awkward and will think he is socially inept.</p>
<p>Remember, you must turn the conversation from the opener into things that will make you flirt with her, turn it into a sexual direction, and make you close the space with her and touch her. Here is how it works:</p>
<p>Guy: “Hey girls, what color pink or blue?”</p>
<p>Girl: “Blue.”</p>
<p>Guy: “Oh my god&#8230; you are conservative aren’t you…? Goody two shoes…”</p>
<p>Girl: “Why do you say that?”</p>
<p>Guy: “I can see it in your water hands. Do you know you have water hands?”</p>
<p>Girl: “What is that?”</p>
<p>Guy: “Here give me your hands, let me show you&#8230; but first let me ask you… what do you have going on for you more than your looks? I mean you are cute but so what&#8230;”</p>
<p>See how you are multi-threading from the opener with each thread slowly getting closer to getting her contact info, an isolation, turning it sexual, intimate, and flirtatious?</p>
<p>For more tips from M.C. Maax, visit <a href="http://www.maaximumseduction.com/">Maaximum Seduction</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Jesse Charger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7508.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>I find that a lot of us are used to seeing a hot chick with many people around her like a complete entourage or something.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7508.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>I find that a lot of us are used to seeing a hot chick with many people around her like a complete entourage or something.</p>
<p>So what happens when you see a hot woman with her boyfriend or in the presence of male friends or any other friends? Let&#8217;s say in excess of two or more friends?</p>
<p>Or let’s say you’re talking to a girl and an AMOG (alpha male other guy) comes and makes you look like a dweeb in comparison?</p>
<p>Here’s 16 Amog destroyer lines and tactics, along with tons of advice and real examples of how to handle “mixed sets” – where the girl is with another guy or male friends.</p>
<h3>How To Approach Girls With Guys</h3>
<p>I am approaching girls with male friends, with mothers and fathers. Now onto a few notes and rules of thumb and some sets I opened today. You will see a cool pattern or strategy to open any heterogeneous set (meaning girl with guy).</p>
<p>Before I get into this, I just want to say that when I go out to pick up women I am not so dependent on the outcome anymore, I just want to have fun and I find that the side product or byproduct… SEX!</p>
<p>Whereas when you go out with an agenda and make picking up a focal point, women read into that desperate motive and snub you. So although it is crucial to have a goal, it’s important to ENJOY THE PROCESS. So at the mall today, here’s some of the fun playful stuff I would do.</p>
<p>I would just extend my hand and say “my name is…”</p>
<p>And most, if not all just dropped their guards and said, “OH Hi!”</p>
<p>But you have to be really congruent with it, with a playful smile. I would walk up to random girls and say, “Okay, that’s it, we’re broken up. You&#8217;re a cell phone junkie always on your phone. I&#8217;ve had it. I&#8217;m moving in with Sally!!! I want a divorce.”</p>
<p>The girls would smile&#8230; in fact this one chick was like, &#8220;Okay, go ahead divorce me.&#8221; I thought kind of pissed off, but then three minutes later she walked past me and gave me the sexiest come-get-me smile I&#8217;ve seen in a while.</p>
<p>You see, I engaged her reptilian brain that she can&#8217;t control. How many guys walk up to her and bust on her like that or role-play with her. None. It tells her that you are a sexual guy.</p>
<p>I noticed this when I would say, “You know what, you&#8217;re such a girl.”</p>
<p>The girls would all smile and say, “WHY!!! Why Do you say that?” Or “no I am not,” in a seeking-rapport way.</p>
<p>I had a blast today, with all kinds of crazy ballsy experimentations of approaches, alpha body language and a very warm, playful, indifferent mentality.</p>
<p>Just be crazy, and go all the way no-holds-barred. It will really change your reality of social norms and constraints. Once they are free, you can do anything with any woman anywhere.</p>
<p>Here is what I did and I will make certain key points of group approaches later.</p>
<h3>Example #1. Hot tall girl, two big muscle heads</h3>
<p>I approach their group and ask them a question that &#8220;BAITS&#8221; her to opening me. Why? Because it has to do with shopping. I suckered her in.</p>
<p>Once she tries to interrupt I say, “SHHH, hon. I can&#8217;t hear your friends. Her face turns red and I see major SIGNALS OF INTEREST from her. I exited, as the two dudes and the chick were on some drugs or something and I couldn&#8217;t understand what they were saying as they had strong accents.</p>
<h3>Example #2. Girl at Starbucks</h3>
<p>I walk up to a guy on a date with a girl at Starbucks and say, “DUDE, you look like Neville&#8217;s brother&#8230;.No way. This is cool.”</p>
<p>The guy is like, “Who is that?”</p>
<p>I tell him, “My long lost friend from LA.”</p>
<p>The chick says, “ARE YOU FROM LA?” See I baited her again, by talking about chick-interests like travel locales. I ignore her, and then tell him that he is cool, and that I had to come over.</p>
<p>Because, “Some energy told me to come here as you have the same energy as Neville’s brother.”</p>
<p>Because, “I am into spirituality and palm reading.”</p>
<p>Once again I hooked the girl and she asked, “You read palms?”</p>
<p>It was instant. Like here I am befriending the guy, ignoring the chick and the more I do that, the more she wants in. But I&#8217;ve given her a little acknowledgement then push her away.</p>
<h3>Befriend The Guy</h3>
<p>So guys. So far the rules to group approaches is this: Befriend the guy, show active disinterest to the girl until she opens you, then you give her a little attention and then do a takeaway… until she is chasing you!</p>
<p>So when you approach a guy with a girl, talk to him, but talk about stuff that will bait her to open you. You are actually communicating to her subconscious reptilian brain by the words you are talking to her boyfriend with. And because he is a guy, he will not make any sense as to what effect these mere words are having on the girl because he is so logical and they will just appear as nonsensical threads and topics for him.</p>
<p>But little does he know that to a woman, they are deadly.</p>
<h3>How to Out-Alpha Guys</h3>
<p>Now sometimes you’ll be in situations where you want to out-alpha the other guy, especially in a club situation where you open the girl, and an alpha guy tries to muscle is way in and take over the set.</p>
<p>This stuff is the real deal and is 100% field tested countless times. Hope this helps you guys who are stuck when you see a hot girl or girls being gamed by a big, alpha players.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #1.</strong> Just go up to a girl that you were previously gaming and put your arm around her while he is talking to her. This will make the guy look beta if he continues talking to her with your arm around her.</p>
<p>You can also say to him, “Hey man, she just came out of a bad relationship&#8230;nice effort though!”</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #2.</strong> Just go up to the girls and hug them and say &#8220;Heeyyy baby,&#8221; right in front of the guy.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #3.</strong> Tap her on the back of her shoulder if she is in a non-familiar social circle or being gamed by alpha players, so she can turn around and turn her back to the guys and face you instead.</p>
<p>Once she does that, just take her by the hand and bring her closer to you and start gaming her. Most guys won&#8217;t even believe you did that stuff and won&#8217;t even mess with you.</p>
<p>You can also just go up the guy, put your hand on his shoulder and say, &#8220;Hey man… let me show you something (do the dollar bill trick) or let me ask you something&#8230;.you look pretty trendy.” That will show the girls that you just walked up and owned him in your frame and reality. Look at the example below from last night&#8217;s game at a posh Night Club:</p>
<h3>The Posh Night Club Example</h3>
<p>I stole four chicks from eight big muscular guys, right in front of them. Just walked up to the guys, showed my dominance by putting my hands on their shoulders while talking to them, treated them like my little brothers, owned the stuff with my superior body language, and vocal projection. I taught the guys things about women and showed the guys how to read a woman&#8217;s palm and what certain things about a woman tell about her.</p>
<p>They were like my students and the women were all over me. In fact girls totally ignored the guys and were right up in my face in no time. The guys eventually ejected with their tail between their legs. It can be done gentlemen, if you have the right dominant alpha mindset and confidence.</p>
<p>But what if you see a mixed set with males who DO have a relationship with the women (like brothers, friends, chaperones)&#8230; what do you do? Read below.</p>
<h3>Handling A Girl&#8217;s Male Friends</h3>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #1.</strong> If she knows the guys, then just own the group through stories and &#8220;DHV&#8217;s&#8221;. Lead the guys and the women will follow.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #2.</strong> Show the guy cool things about women and teach him stuff, right in front of the group and in front of the women. You will convey that you are the tribal leader. The guy will then qualify himself to you and want to build rapport with you to redeem his self esteem and status within the group. This happened last night where a big body builder dude was asking me, “What&#8217;s your name dude, you are cool and stuff.”</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #3.</strong> From yesterday, a two set was being gamed by some blokes. I then see the female friend is getting away from them and checking me out, so I immediately open her and she is in love with me. I then say to her, “I need a full panel female opinion, can you call your friend over, or is she busy being picked up by those guys.”</p>
<p>This immediately activated her anti-slut defense for her friend and she called the girl you want over&#8230; and away from the other guys! So use a girl in a two-set to call her friend over, saying you need to talk to both of them, and the friend will do the cockblocking for you.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #4.</strong> Say stuff like, “You guys are cool… especially you man. I love that hair. You should become a rapper!” Only alpha male talks like this.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #5.</strong> Say to them, “You guys look like brother and sister.”</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #6.</strong> If a guy is buying girls drinks, tell him “Hey can I have free drinks too man!” I used this line a lot and got two hot chicks all over me.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #7.</strong> Trade girls off to other guys and say, &#8220;Aww, he is such a nice guy. I am sure he is willing to buy you free drinks all night.&#8221; She will automatically become more attracted to you and less attracted to all of the guys you try to trade her off to. This stuff is perhaps counterintuitive but it works.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #8.</strong> Tell the girl, “Wow, this guy is really into you. Give him a chance.” It will activate her &#8220;boyfriend prevention&#8221; system and she will blow him out.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #9.</strong> After the guy says something to the girl, tell her, “So how was he on a scale of 1 to 10… we should give him a 2 for effort what do you think?”</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #10.</strong> Own the other guy with SUPER DOMINANT VOCAL PROJECTION, BLITZKREIG STYLE.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #11.</strong> Teach him cool stuff in front of the girl about a big city and about traveling and success.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #12.</strong> Tell the guy in front of the girl, “See a woman loves to be touched like this&#8230;” and demonstrate on her.</p>
<p><strong>AMOG Tip #13.</strong> Tell a big alpha-looking guy, “Wow those are big guns dude, I&#8217;ll bet you spend a lot of time at the gym… come on flex for me. Show these girls what you got&#8230; this guy is the man. But homey, how do you work man or go to school dude, I mean you must spend your entire day at the gym right? Good for you man. We are looking for the next guy to win the Olympic body building championship&#8230;”</p>
<p>Check out <a href="http://www.maaximumseduction.com/">Maaximum Seduction</a> for more tips from M.C. Maax.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7497.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>Thought I&#8217;d write a brief field report about how I score make-outs and kisses in clubs to help those of you who are new to this game, or aren&#8217;t such novices yet have a problem escalating the interaction to a physical / sexual level. Anyways I hope you get something from this field report.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7497.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>Thought I&#8217;d write a brief field report about how I score make-outs and kisses in clubs to help those of you who are new to this game, or aren&#8217;t such novices yet have a problem escalating the interaction to a physical / sexual level. Anyways I hope you get something from this field report.</p>
<h3>First rule of club game &#8211; Walk In Like A Rock Star!</h3>
<p>So I am out with my buddy, he is a 5ft nothing&#8217; Italian dude with a shaved head, goatee. He was dressed with leather pants. A nice blazer, a shirt with a black tie and these Miami Vice wannabe, Euro trashy shades with a white frame.</p>
<p>I was wearing&#8217; industrial, blue/gray suede pants, a black top, 3 chains with gothic pendants, chunky rings, big ass Johnny Knoxville meets Dr. Jekyll glasses with a leopard print on the frame. The shade was brownish/purple on the lenses and a black, rock star&#8230;3/4 inch leather jacket.</p>
<p>Needless to say, all eyes were on us when we entered this hot Cougar bar called &#8220;Blue suede Sues&#8221; in the west end of Toronto. Surprisingly there were a lot of young hot babes in the early to mid 20&#8242;s.</p>
<h3>Getting Around The Bouncer</h3>
<p>Oh did I mention that the bouncer wouldn&#8217;t let my buddy in because he had a health card as a proof of identity and age but he didn&#8217;t regard that as a legitimate piece of data? What an idiot. I think he feels important and validated by turning down people and abusing his power.</p>
<p>Anyway, I refused to go without speaking to the manager. Once I met the manager, I immediately told him that we work for XYZ, that I was on international radio and wanted to come here to sample the venue for future clientele entertainment as I heard so many wonderful things about the place. I also complemented him on his style and we shot the shit about Montreal as that is where he was from.</p>
<p>Using this logistic &#8220;building a kinship with the guy&#8221; he said&#8230; &#8220;Pleasure to have you in our club&#8230; go right in.&#8221;</p>
<p>So remember, just because the bouncer is a wanker, go to the higher powers that be and butter them up with some sugar. It goes along way.</p>
<h3>How To Get Grabbed And Fondled By The Girls</h3>
<p>So we step inside of this club. Bright lights, loud music. Lots of MILF&#8217;s and Cougars&#8230; and all the attention is focused on my buddy and me as we were standing out with our rock star peacocking. Girls were grabbing us, asking us to take off our shades, introducing themselves to us. I must have had four girls start to dance with me and get massively physical strictly on my look.</p>
<p>Why? Because it conveyed that I was somebody unique, mysterious and important, a man of high status.</p>
<p>Also, only a person of high value breaks rapport and not seeks rapport. So by wearing shades, you are indirectly communicating that you are too cool for the crowd, that you can see them, but they can&#8217;t see you. It creates and projects a certain persona that is very appealing to the club going bar ho&#8217;s.</p>
<h3>A Great Opener Girls Respond To</h3>
<p>Anyways, we go outside and catch this 2 set&#8230; so I immediately open with, &#8220;Hey guys is this the most elite club in XYZ&#8230; I was told it is.”</p>
<p>I use this opener to imply that I am used to being in elite, A-list clubs and also that I am a traveler and transient as that is why I am asking a question that a tourist would ask.</p>
<p>It HOOKS all the time. The two hot babe&#8217;s are all over my style and look, and my buddy&#8217;s. They are also intrigued now by my question and are immediately starting to ask me rapport building questions. I know that I must now qualify as I have already attracted me, since the girls are leaning into me, and touch me and my friend heavily. So I start to dance with the cuter hot babe, but only after complementing her male and female friend for their looks and friendly attitude.</p>
<p>I won them over and disengaged them. I then turned to the hot babe and focused on her, with zero resistance. I was dancing with her, showing her cool dance moves, had her grind with me, touch me. I was smelling her hair saying &#8220;mmm..is that Chanel 5&#8230;?&#8221; then I made her smell me.</p>
<p>I then put my arm around her waist with no resistance&#8230; so I knew it was full on, but I wanted to work the room and gather massive social proof for a while. Anyways I ejected from the set politely as it is much better to leave them with something to want later. I planned on re-engaging the Blonde HB and making out with her.</p>
<h3>Here is the key to turning things physical and sexual:</h3>
<p>You must lead her down the seduction continuum. Grab her hand and say, “come here I want to show you something.” Don&#8217;t just stand idle in one spot. You must &#8220;move&#8221; her around to establish comfort ability and rapport with you. It also demonstrates to her that you are alpha and dominant and from my post a while back, women want a guy… are you ready for this…</p>
<p>&#8220;WHO IS WILLING TO CAVEMAN HER AND RISK REJECTION DOING SO.” See, she wants a guy to not just dominate her, but the interaction with her.</p>
<p>TOUCH, TOUCH, TOUCH. Escalate the touch, from less to more upon calibrating comfort levels of the woman.</p>
<p>Space invading. You must invade her personal space gradually so you end up being face to face and lip to lip eventually.</p>
<p>So anyways, back to inside the club&#8230;</p>
<h3>Going For All The Girls</h3>
<p>My wing and I are being opened like we were rock royalty&#8230; girls would touch our shades, our clothes. As soon as I would get any sort of approach signal or signal of interest I would just go up to the girl and TOUCH her massively. Like hug her, hand on ass, smell her neck. I mean why would you do anything less, they opened you and clearly saying “I want you.”</p>
<p>So guys, go get &#8216;em. This is what I do always, when I get any sort of approach signal from a woman, I take that as an “I want you&#8230;” and just go and unapologetically touch her like a caveman with zero resistance.</p>
<p>Notice guys, in a club TOUCH IS the KINGPIN of seduction and making a women open to you sexually once she gives you signals of interest. Otherwise you are just an attraction artist or an interesting guy to her. We need to cross that threshold from interesting, to attraction to sexual attraction.</p>
<p>We must have felt up like ten chicks during our raid of this club, dancing with them, grabbing their asses, having them put their hands on our asses and such. It was a blast and it just further skyrocketed our social proof in that place.</p>
<h3>The Cute Blonde</h3>
<p>This one set opens us and I am talking to the birthday girl and notice a cute blonde sitting next to them. I noticed her because she was very quiet and still so I excused myself from the birthday in real life that I was dancing with and getting very touchy-feely with and said to the blonde, “Hi. You seem alienated from this place.”</p>
<p>She agreed, and said that she hates clubs. I said I do too because people don&#8217;t really exude their true personas. I then told her that she has a sexual gracefulness that I just had to comment her on. It was no line, it was a genuine complement. She ate it up. We then got closer and I ran my whole touch routine on her:</p>
<ul>
<li>Smell her hair.</li>
<li>Make her guess what cologne I am wearing.</li>
<li>Hold her hands while talking to her and saying, “You don&#8217;t mind that I use your hands to warm mine, do you? They are freezing.” She didn&#8217;t mind.</li>
</ul>
<p>See, touch her tactfully to test her comfort levels.</p>
<p>NOTE: I ran the same sort of touch escalation routine on the blonde girl form before and she was massively sexually attracted and responded very well also. We&#8217;ll get back to her in a minute.</p>
<p>So the blonde and I are getting close, but my buddy is not able to hold or run interference on the friends, so instead of running dry, we left on a high note.</p>
<h3>Outside The Club</h3>
<p>So we walkout outside talk to some more people. They loved us. I was complementing people and really adding value to the patrons of this club.</p>
<p>The owner came by and actually shook our hand and said, “You guys can come by anytime. I like your style.”</p>
<p>He saw how people, especially the women were eating us up, like a deep throat blow job queen.</p>
<p>We then go inside and want to go outside, and who appears behind me?</p>
<p>The blonde. I immediately engage her with a hug (TOUCH!) and say, “Hey sweety.” I hold her hand.</p>
<h3>The Second Club</h3>
<p>The bouncer is blocking the entrance to the outside with a rope and is letting only me and my buddy in, so I then grab the blonde’s hand and say, &#8220;She&#8217;s with me&#8221; to the bouncer and he lets all three of us in. That was another test for me to see if she was:</p>
<ul>
<li>attracted</li>
<li>comfortable with my touch</li>
</ul>
<p>So we go outside and at this point I want to build some genuine commonality. So we start fluff talking and vibing. I do recommend guys to just &#8220;VIBE and be yourself with a woman.&#8221; She needs to know that you are only human. This also strengthens the comfort between the two of you.</p>
<h3>Touch Escalation Sequence To Kiss And Make-out</h3>
<p>Then I smelled her hair and asked her if she was a good dancer to which she replied “yes.”</p>
<p>I said, &#8220;Let me see. Turn around.&#8221;</p>
<p>Then I told her, “I can tell by judging the arch of her spine&#8230;” so I lead my finger in a gyrating motion down her back just above her tailbone.</p>
<p>See how I am slowly escalating the touch here guys? I got no resistance. Then I put my arm around her waist and massaged her thighs inside just above and beside her ass. NO resistance. Once again I am right now calibrating her comfort levels and she is very attracted to me and very comfortable with me.</p>
<p>So in the midst of a fluffy conversation thread, I say to ger, “Shhh&#8230;True or Dare!”</p>
<p>She says &#8220;Truth&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>I then ask her what part about my face she likes attractive. What I am doing her is to make her look at my face and focus on the attractive traits. She mentions lips.</p>
<p>I then answer one of her truth questions then asked her again truth or dare. She picks Dare&#8230; This is a key sign she is adventurous.</p>
<p>So I take her hands put them around my waist, grab the back of her hair, and lead her into me and we make out and kiss… with no resistance whatsoever. Then I move away, vibe with her and then I am back in there making out some more. All the other guys can&#8217;t believe this. I then tell her that I have to go back to my friends but it was nice meeting her and to tell her friends that we will be back next week so we can all hang out.</p>
<p>So as I am walking I see my blonde girl with her friend being gamed by another guy. I then walk up right behind him and make funny faces to her. She starts laughing and then I say, “Hi Baby! Miss me?”</p>
<p>She said, “of course.”</p>
<p>I then immediately say hello to the guy and befriend him. He was very shocked that I just walked into a set like that with another guy. I guess he doesn&#8217;t know who he is dealing with. The Blonde hot babe’s friend is all over me because I won her over. This guy didn&#8217;t disengage her. I did. So she was all into me and because of that, the blonde girl left the guy to talk to me.</p>
<p>So here I am, with the two girls from my first set. My friend needs to go to the washroom and also wants to leave so I say, “Go get your coat and meet me out here in 10 minutes.”</p>
<p>I then build more comfort with them together. I am talking to both girls and after a minute the same guy comes back but I kind or eclipse him and form a bubble around me and the blonde hot babe. He then is forced to talk to the friend which is great because he is doing me a favor and distracting her while I continue to game the hot babe blonde girl.</p>
<p>Remember what I said about I left them earlier high and dry. Well, she wanted more because of that. She was touching me, and I was hugging her while gently rubbing her ass saying, “Mmmm nice ass!”</p>
<p>She was like, “You&#8217;re so bad.”</p>
<p>Then I told her, &#8220;Listen babe, I have to go, but it was really nice meeting you. Now I always have a traditional temporary leave ceremony&#8230; would you like to see it?</p>
<p>She says “sure.”</p>
<p>I then just caveman her, and we full fledged make out with no resistance.</p>
<p>My buddy comes back and we kiss both of the girls goodbye and they still hang on to my hands as I am shaking their hands. They were hooked. We could have isolated them, but my buddy had to go home. It’s okay though, we had fun.</p>
<h3>So here are the sticking points for the club make-outs guys:</h3>
<p>Once you have attracted her, usually no more than 5 minutes&#8230; lead the interaction, isolate&#8230; touch, touch, touch.</p>
<p>Then just GO FOR IT. CAVE MAN her.</p>
<p>Be outlandish with your style and be larger than life. Play an archetype when you enter a club. I play the rock star! And as a result, get treated like one.</p>
<p>When you get an approach invitation from women or a signal of interest, just take ADVANTAGE OF IT. She wants to have sex with me, not just giving me basic signals.</p>
<p>Have short sets, and re-engage them with touch.</p>
<p>Check out <a href="http://www.maaximumseduction.com/">Maaximum Seduction</a> for more tips by M.C. Maax.</p>
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		<title>Negging Tips And Why ‘Good Girls’ Secretly Masturbate To Bad Boys</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 02:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jesse Charger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7487.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>Negging is not meant to devalue another human being. It is only to disengage a woman&#8217;s bitch shield which has nothing to do with her as a human.</p>
<p>A hot girl’s bitch shield is strictly a natural reflex or conditioned mannerism developed to ward off &#8220;beta males” who are trying to hit on her. Women &#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src='http://www.seductionscience.com/wp-content/themes/default/tops/7487.jpg' width='500' height='205' border='0'></p><p><em>Originally posted by M.C. Maax</em></p>
<p>Negging is not meant to devalue another human being. It is only to disengage a woman&#8217;s bitch shield which has nothing to do with her as a human.</p>
<p>A hot girl’s bitch shield is strictly a natural reflex or conditioned mannerism developed to ward off &#8220;beta males” who are trying to hit on her. Women are conditioned to respond to alpha males and want to sub-consciously mate with alpha or high status males because they will procreate alpha progeny or sexy offspring who will in turn massively and successfully attract the female of the species in their generation to ensure survival.</p>
<p>So a woman&#8217;s bitch shield is an alpha male screen. So when you neg you DO NOT TAKE VALUE from her, but simply disengage her bitch shield.</p>
<p>At the same time, with a neg, you raise your value in her eyes. Remember we do not take VALUE FROM others&#8230; we only make them feel better about being around us, we win their respect, love and admiration. Let me give you two examples, the improper and proper ways.</p>
<h3>The wrong way to Neg</h3>
<p>The beta male will think that by negging a girl, that it should mean being very mean, negative and insulting. He is dehumanizing her and trying to de value her. This is beta driven, super macho, insecurity-compensating behavior and most high quality women can detect a glitch in the system. Not only will she loath you, but she will not want to be around you ever.</p>
<p>So let&#8217;s say her value is a 9. Why on earth would you try to devalue her to a 7? This is the wrong way. An example would be:</p>
<p>“So what else do you have going on for you besides your looks, hah!&#8221; in a mean, serious way.</p>
<p>WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!! This is to be delivered in a very tongue and cheek, non reaction seeking way.</p>
<h3>The Proper Way to Neg</h3>
<p>When talking to her friends, you smiling and playful&#8230; non reaction seeking&#8230; say &#8220;Holy shit… how do you roll with this girl&#8230; does she always hog the conversation like this?&#8221; In fact she will laugh too!!!! Then just go onto the next thread.</p>
<p>Be playful, subtle, and nonchalant about the neg, and then immediately go onto your next thread. I call this the &#8220;Neg and Go&#8221; method. It is a great way to prevent any chance for a reaction.</p>
<p>Negs are 1) A socially intelligent form of flirtation so it should also have a positive energy about it, not negative and 2) A way to make you ride under her bitch shield by disengaging it and at the same time, making you a POSITIVE challenge and a guy with higher value.</p>
<p>So when you neg a girl who is an 8, your value rises to a 10. Isn&#8217;t it better that a woman gets to experience a VALUE INCREASE by knowing you, not a VALUE DECREASE by knowing you, the beta way?</p>
<p>Women want status and want to associate with men who will increase their status in society, so make sure you come with HIGH VALUE and NEG TO SHOW HIGHER VALUE THAT SHE CAN ASPIRE TO. In this manner you both win. Alphaness is about CHARISMA, CHARM and SELF CONFIDENCE that will attract others… not BRUTENESS, AGGRESSIVENESS AND HURTING OR INSULTING OTHERS that will repel others.</p>
<p>You are a CHALLENGE and someone she should get to know, not the other way around. The goal is to make people fall in love with you, not to despise you!</p>
<h3>Why all Women Want a Cave Man</h3>
<p>Most men and beta males walk into a bar and they see two hot women with two guys. They automatically assume &#8220;BLACK AND WHITE&#8221;. The guys are evil and the women are saints. Women can&#8217;t possibly want sex. Remember girls are sugar and spice and everything nice and boys are snakes and snails and puppy dog tails right? Think again!</p>
<p>Remember this: All women want to be lead and dominated and have their white picket fence fantasy destroyed. Don&#8217;t believe me… read Nancy Friday&#8217;s My Secret Garden and you will discover the true psyche of the female mind. ALL WOMEN WILL TURN INTO WHORES AND GANG BANG THE WHOLE FOOTBALL TEAM if you can engage her emotions and ATTRACT HER and bring down her anti-slut defense. One of the biggest characters that attracts a WOMAN is a strong, physically dominant, mentally challenging ALPHA MALE.</p>
<p>In modern times that is</p>
<ul>
<li>The rebel</li>
<li>The bad boy</li>
<li>The pimp</li>
<li>The player</li>
</ul>
<p>One thing to note is that just like the female or any mammalian species, the female of our species is not only very territorial, jealous, possessive, including manipulating us with her sexuality and beauty, but also always judging us on where we fit into the social hierarchy. The woman determines are we low status and lower on the social ladder or high status and higher on the social ladder?</p>
<p>Guys who are lower treat women with supplicating respect, compliments and like equals on all levels. The result is that these guys who for the most part are real good and nice guys, who can offer a woman a lot, can&#8217;t offer her the one thing that turns her on and that is value and status. They let her put a flag on their ass and kiss her ass.</p>
<p>Now what does an alpha male do?</p>
<ul>
<li>He respects and treats women fairly, but also sees himself as the prize</li>
<li>He leads the interactions with women</li>
<li>He’s not afraid to touch her, grab her by the waist, lead her to the dance floor, go for the kiss</li>
<li>He puts her in her place if she disrespects him</li>
<li>He calls her a bitch when screwing her</li>
<li>He doesn&#8217;t supplicate</li>
<li>He challenges her</li>
</ul>
<p>What do you think this does to a woman? It creates a challenge, a void in her own identity that she can only fill by winning this guy’s approval and acceptance, i.e. negging.</p>
<p>It leads to her chasing you for validation. It also tells her that you are of higher value and high status, even though the behaviors are not necessarily LOGICALLY GOOD or POLITE. They do convey at the primal level that you are a MAN who will fight, defend, sex her right, protect her, honor her, take what is yours, and lead in social situations.</p>
<p>All women react to certain CAVE MAN, ALPHA DOMINANT BEHAVIOUR and the best way is to treat them is a little subordinate to you. Just look at the documentary &#8220;AMERICAN PIMP.” The pimps call their girls bitch, ho and the girls actually love it, get turned on and never leave the pimps who are often their boyfriends. How is that for a reality check?</p>
<p>Be alpha and convey a little bit of superiority and dominance in all of your interactions with women, especially super hot, bitchy women. Let them know that their looks don&#8217;t phase or overwhelm you, but you are screening for your HAREM like HUGH HEFNER and &#8220;what else you got going on for you besides looks.” This should be your message to all of the women who try to shit on you and treat you like low value male slaves born to cater to their every request.</p>
<p>It is a woman’s job to make it next to impossible for us to lay her, and it is our job to get her chasing us for sex (using negs for example).</p>
<p>It is a woman&#8217;s job to take power away from us, but it is our job as alpha men never to let that happen.</p>
<p>I know there are a lot of men who seem to think that doing small little subtle things like letting a woman insult them, disrespect them, being giving all the time, when picking up being too giving with material and not let her game you are okay, but remember women are very good at detecting subtleties in body language, voice, posture, and nonverbals, and even on the slightest disruption in alpha behavior or high value behavior will get you slotted with the rest of the guys on &#8220;WUSSY ROW.&#8221;</p>
<p>I really believe in the mentality that most women are subordinate to an alpha male. I honestly believe and have ingrained in my sub conscious mind that I have higher value and status than women as most women don&#8217;t have a lot going on for them besides looks. In fact the very hot, bitchy looking, divas you see in magazines often have issues, personality disorders, superficial mindsets which reek of massive insecurity and I have about 1000 times more going on for me than them.</p>
<p>So I don&#8217;t feel any regret or guilt when I am busting chops, touching them, or escalating because deep down inside every women wants a DADDY LIKE figure, a real alpha male to CAVEMAN the hell out of her, to lead her, to dominate her, to teach her things about life and that is where we come in as alpha males. As far as I am concerned I am offering a woman a GIFT which is a chance to be in my wonderful, dynamic life and take part in my goals and dreams and partake in conversations with me that will teach her things about her body, the workings of her female mind, life, culture, travel, how to explore her sexuality to the max, how to experience and embrace her femininity and sexuality at the highest level.</p>
<p>Now I know there are many intelligent, well rounded women of exceptional quality out there who are of drop dead gorgeous physical appearance but they are far and few and even these are lower on the social ladder than me and you know the anomaly is that because I project that I am higher on the social ladder, women want to aspire and meet me there and the only way they can do that is by getting to know me, touching me and ultimately by becoming sexually attracted to me.</p>
<p>Why? Because by getting to know me, by associating with me, HER SOCIAL VALUE IS GETTING HIGHER and remember women are social status junkies and are motivated by value or rather perceived value. We as alpha men can present to women that we are of higher value than them and their reptilian brain that is always seeking for that alpha male to procreate sexy, high value alpha offspring will make sure she becomes sexually attracted to us at the deepest, subconscious level and there isn&#8217;t nothing she or anyone else can do about it.</p>
<p>So I treat women with respect but not equals because if I see them as equals then they see me as on the same level and there is no reason to push that elevator button to go up. So always be dominant in inter-sexual relationships guys present and come with higher value for a woman to aspire to.</p>
<p>Check out <a href="http://www.maaximumseduction.com">Maaximum Seduction</a> for more advice from M.C. Maax.</p>
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