Being one of the crowd is the last thing you want to do when meeting women, be it for one night stands, threesomes or a long-term relationship.

So just why is style so attractive to women?

Even an hour ago when I went to lunch I had this really cute girl stare at me as she passed me by… making really strong eye contact.

We need to face the hard truth: we’re still superficial beings. We justify aligning ourselves with better, more attractive people and we try to stay away from poorer, less attractive and uncool people. This may sound a bit exaggerated but those are the traits we are looking for in our social circle. Style is just another way of standing out.

Clothes aren’t just things we throw in the laundry basket at night, they cover our body and tell a story about us, a story about how we are about our personality and our intentions.

I’m going to show you how women think about your clothes and also give you some epic fashion tips at the end.

#1: Attention to detail

When you show a woman that you take care of yourself, you sub-communicate that you can take care of her as well.

This is so true if you take the time to think about it. Women always notice the details not just in fashion but in everything in life, and they like guys who can do the same.

You probably know that the best compliment you can give a girl is to notice something unique about her, such as the way she strikes her hair or how a certain color in her outfit matches her eyes.

Men’s style is a way to give women the opportunity to actually notice a guy.  Sure, the inner stuff is more important but a cool combination of color and accessories is a good start when she doesn’t really know you.

If you ever wore a tie or a pocket square, you probably got lots of compliments from women. The funny thing is, not all accessories will gather compliments. That’s not our goal, anyway. Leather bracelets and casual rings, for instance, are towards the casual spectrum of things and they create a “bad boy aura” to whoever wears them. Women won’t compliment you on them but they’re sure as heck going to give you some pretty strong sex-signals.

#2: Commonalities

One of my favorite openers a few years back was to wear a pink tie and a blue shirt and ask the girls what they thought about guys wearing this color combination. 99% of women loved that as conversation.

A style conversation to start things off for the first moments, is non-intrusive and it resonates with the vast majority of women. Even the girls who aren’t dressed to stand out love it.

Wanna hear the sweet part? A conversation about style can quickly and easily escalate to sex-talk. Style is a way to send sex signals to the opposite sex, in a socially accepted way. It opens up so many possibilities.  But, to get there, you need to have at least the basics handled.

The reason is, you can’t talk about style with a girl and tell her how you match jeans with a black shirt and how you never wear accessories. You need to be at her level and show her with your knowledge of clothes and, of course, to not forget to keep it cool. The last thing you want to do is spend a whole hour talking about shoes, right? You’re not her girlfriend, you’re a man who likes to dress to stand out and has plenty of other *manly* hobbies.

#3: Confidence

You probably know the story about peacocking- how peacocks and fish stand a better chance of mating when they have bolder colors.

While you don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard, you still want to stand out. Do you know someone who has a motorcycle or do you have one yourself? While riding one is a sign of confidence, making too much of a big deal out of it will turn people off.

It’s the same with style. You want to show that you’re not afraid to be judged, yet you don’t want to take things too outlandishly far.

How much flare is too much? That’s for you to decide. You have to master the keys to style first. Color, print and the set of stylish items, these are the 3 things to focus on one at a time. Once you master those, you’ll then have to combine all of them. These combinations are what will get you those lip-biting sexual avatars that women crave so much.

#4: Not being cheap

Being stylish doesn’t mean spending big money and attracting gold diggers. But you still don’t want to appear “cheap”.  Wearing quality clothes shows women you’re willing to invest in your personal image and, if you know where to look, you won’t end up spending too much on clothes.

I remember this funny commercial on TV where a guy took a girl to his place and he was so cheap that, when the lights suddenly when out, he told her he set them up this way every hour at the same time, so he can save energy.

You do NOT want to shop for name-brands like Prada and Gucci, but you do need to invest a small percentage of your income into your personal image.

#5: Success

Wearing stylish clothes is a sign to women that you can either provide or that you’re a good lover or that you’re ambitious. Even if you’re not at your dream job right now, this doesn’t mean you can’t dress for success. Clothes will help you achieve that mindset that will get you there.

This last reason might seem a little vague but let me put it another way: it’s all about potential. Women are always looking for guys with potential, regardless of whether or not they actually achieve it. Remember Hank Moody from Californication? Though it’s just a TV series, this happens a lot in real life.

You’ll get there when you get there but, for now, you might as well dress like you’re already there. Take your time to visit as many stores as you can, keeping track and notes of how much everything costs and the quality of the garment.

My Best Style Secrets

Here’s some of my best tips to dressing dapper.

My first tip is to take all your clothes to the tailor for adjustments. Except for the ones that are too small, of course! I know it doesn’t sound like much fun but your clothes will fit you a lot – and I mean A LOT – better.

The second thing you’ll want to do, when you buy new clothes, is to try bolder colors. This will help you tremendously when meeting women.

Instead of buying something black, how about brown, dark blue or gray? Instead of getting a white t-shirt, how about a bright yellow one? I know it may seem like a lot but adding drops of colors here and there will make the world of difference.

To make sure you color-match your outfit the right way, just wear black, white and gray with the colors you chose. These three colors are called neutrals and they work with pretty much any other color.

Another way to dress boldly is to buy patterned fashion items that incorporate a neutral and a bold color. A few examples…

• A white shirt with thin blue stripes
• A navy blue pocket square with yellow dots (yes, navy is a neutral too)
• A dark-brown tie with yellow stripes

You can also do a what I call a “partial match”. For instance, if you’re wearing a red shirt, how about matching it with a pair of dark red chinos? There’s still a match here – red – but it’s gonna look much better.

Similarly, you can wear a pair of light purple chinos with a dark purple tie. Since we’re talking about casual attire, the color-matching rules are pretty loose.

Ok, we’re down to my last tip.

Standing out is all about wearing an interesting item, an accessory.  Accessories don’t have to be anything crazy. Just make sure you wear at least one when you go out.

Scarves, bracelets, watches, belts with interesting buckles, tie pins, ties, pocket squares, hats, cufflinks… you don’t have to have one of each, though. Just try all of them, then stick to the ones you’re most comfortable with. Stay stylish,

George

www.LifeStyleGod.com

Katie: Jesse, I have been this guy’s girl for 5 years. I would get so irritated if he would try to have sex with me, I started being mean to him even.  He started getting to the point where he was just being overly nice and would do anything for me. I liked that part, but was overall annoyed by him.

Then one day I am doing my makeup and had an attitude with him. He came in grabbed me by my hair and said in my ear “Did you forget who’s the man and who’s the woman here?”  I shook my head no.

He said “huh?” I said “No I didn’t forget”. He told me to get on my knees. I did.

Then he made me look at him and say sorry for talking back to him and I won’t do it again. He made me say sorry with his dick in my mouth and said he couldn’t hear me. I tried to say it clearly so he could hear me but every time I tried he put his dick in my mouth again. He would put it as far as he could and hold it there then give me a second to breath. Then he came on my face and told me to lick his balls and dick clean.

When I was done he told me to go wash my face and don’t forget again that I am his. He made me tell him I understand all this while I was still on my knees and look at him when I said it. Then I washed my face and never denied him again.

I’m waiting for him to get off work right now because he always likes dinner ready and oral sex while he eats his dinner. So I am about to touch up my makeup.

He ALWAYS respects me in front of others. No one would live to see the next day if they disrespected me in front of him. But I can’t help it now. I have to do whatever he wants! He always makes me tell him that while I’m on my knees in front of him while he’s sitting on the couch. And I have to look at him while I say it.

~ Katie

#2. “She was kneeling at my feet taking my…”

Anonymous: Jesse, I have to admit when I first got your stuff a long time ago I thought it was bullshit.  But I kept thinking about it, and all the things I wanted to change about my relationship.  My girlfriend had recently moved in and she had all kinds of habits I didn’t like and it caused a lot of arguments.  So I decided to give it a try.

I started telling her rules and correcting her when she didn’t follow them and reminding her of the rules.  When she did something I liked, like working out or cleaning/cooking, I praised her and told her what a good job she did following the rules and how I was proud of her.

Initially I didn’t think it was going to work.  She’d just get mad and tell me not to tell her what do to.  But I just kept at it.  I also made sure a few of the rules were things she loved doing, that way she’d follow some rules anyway.  Then when she did them I didn’t just thank her but told her how proud I was of her for following the rules… making the praise about her obedience and not what she did.

At first she laughed it off but after a couple of weeks I stopped… and noticed she seemed upset I didn’t tell her she’d done a good job.  That’s when I knew it was working and all your tips were right on.

I told her I was glad she followed some rules but I would only be proud of her if she followed them all.  It was slow going but soon I noticed she was starting to follow more of my rules, even the ones she didn’t like, like super high heels and slutty clothes at home.

Once I felt she was trained to be fairly obedient I started introducing other things like deep throating and anal… things she’d previously insisted were degrading and she’d never do.

I was sure to tell her they were new rules and how proud I’d be of her.  Before long she was kneeling at my feet taking my dick down her throat like a champ and letting me fuck her up the ass.  Then I worked her up to expecting it more often and getting rougher with her until I was finally able to be a bull and just fuck her however I wanted.

It’s been a difficult thing, training her, but once she responded positively it was pretty smooth sailing from there.  Now my girlfriend is a real mistress…sucking my dick on demand, taking rough anal and dressing sexy to serve me dinner.  Now I’m the boss and she follows my lead.

I’m sure some people will bitch and say it’s not in a woman’s best interest to be trained like this…well that’s not what guys care about… it’s in OUR best interest as couple.

~ Anonymous

P.S. Check out my program Blissnosis for the complete course, just click THIS link here! ~ Jesse

#3. “A girl in sexy lingerie wanting to serve me dinner…”

Matt: Jesse, I’ve used tons of your techniques, especially the ones about dominating your girlfriend and introducing rough sex and anal.  It’s taken quite a while and lots of training but I have the perfect mistress girlfriend now.

She works in a high stress job and used to come home stressed out and sex was more about her and only when she had time.  Now she regularly leaves work early and I come home to a girlfriend in sexy lingerie wanting to serve me dinner.  She goes to her knees whenever I say I want a blow job and she knows sex is going to rough and she’ll be taking anal when I want her to.

Your ‘training’ tips have helped me teach her submission and lets me channel my male aggression and dominate her.  We’re both happier now

~ Matt

#4. “His every sexual need is met…”

Anonymous: My boyfriend didn’t tell me about your site when he first discovered it. Once he felt he’d “trained” me enough he showed me your site.  It’s amazing, so many things on here my boyfriend uses regularly.

My boyfriend tells everyone about your site.  I’m so different from how I was when I first got together with my boyfriend and so is he.  He’s a real bedoom bull now, regularly insisting on things like anal, deep throat blow jobs, very rough fucking, etc… things I never knew women needed to do for their man often.

I would have never thought of myself as submissive until my boyfriend “trained” me…now I can’t describe the pleasure I get from knowing his every sexual need is met.  Submitting to anal, getting on my knees for him and taking him into my throat, dressing in sexy clothes and serving him dinner… it all makes me feel proud that I do a good job of meeting his needs.

In your article you write, “You show women your masculine aggression. You throw women down on the bed and ravish them without regard for her pleasure. You talk dirty to women while you roughly take what’s yours and fuck them.”  This is exactly what makes a woman understand her own needs… her need to be with a bedroom bull that takes control.

You’re teaching men how to introduce women to their real needs.  Keep up the good work.

~ Anonymous

#5. “Train me into being the mistress he deserves…”

Emma: Jesse, in response to your article that a woman should cut back on her work hours to sexually please her man… my boyfriend and I decided to give this a try.

I quit my high-stress long-hours job about 8 months ago.  We do have less unneeded toys (due to less money) but we’re so much happier.  Now I have a small part-time job I love and great hours.  I’m able to take care of my boyfriend in the mornings before he goes to the office and I’m home several hours before he gets off work.  It leaves me the time to keep the house nice, get all the chores done and work out to stay in great shape.

I find myself thinking of ways to make sure my boyfriend is happy.  I make sure to have dinner ready when he comes home and he loves coming home to me in sexy lingerie ready to serve him dinner and eager to meet his sexual needs.  And his self-esteem is through the roof as he feels like a provider and respected for his dominant role.  My self-esteem is even better now too.

Needless to say our sex life is amazing and way more active.  He is so dominant now; he’s really embraced being a true bedroom bull (and not just in the bedroom).  I find myself so much more submissive now.  Seeing how hard he works to provide for us makes me eager to show him my love and my respect for him.

This obviously isn’t for everyone (and that’s fine, to each their own) but I say give it a try. I never thought I’d love focusing on making a nice home for my boyfriend and focusing on his sexual needs instead of a career until we gave it a try.

Before my boyfriend discovered your site and your training methods I used to laugh at women who were all about their boyfriends or husbands and didn’t want their own career… now I’m one of those women, focused on my boyfriend’s needs as the most important thing.

I find it so much more emotionally satisfying than any relationship I’ve ever had.

The change in my boyfriend is amazing too.  He’s now so confident, dominant, and sexually commanding.  He says he’s never had a happier relationship, never been able to let go and channel his natural male aggression into a sexual relationship before.  He was one of those guys that were taught to never be too rough and to always put a woman’s desire first instead of putting his needs first and taking what he wanted.  Now he’s confident in his ability to take charge, lay down rules and be the boss.

And I have to say, the look on his face when he looks down at me when I kneel at his feet to take him down my throat… he looks so powerful and confident that it just spurs on my submission (which I never knew about myself until he started with your training methods).

I know we wouldn’t have gotten to this point without the complete change our relationship went through when my boyfriend discovered your methods to train me into being the mistress he deserves.

~ Emma

Note from Jesse: Check out my program Blissnosis for the complete course, just click THIS link here!

#6. “Women really do crave it…”

“Your job as a Bedroom Bull is that of the boss and the enforcer, and to make your woman feel discomfort and pain in the process – but to enjoy it overall” —Damn straight.

My girlfriend was against anal so I started with your affirm training tips, getting her to agree and beg me while fucking her.  I moved her up to rough sex, again training her to beg for it.  That’s when I started talking to her about anal, while I was fucking her and teaching her to beg for it.  Once I felt she was ready I moved on to anal sex, reminding her how she’d begged for it.

Let me tell you, women really do crave it.  It was fucking amazing for me, the best feeling of dominance ever.  And being fucked up the ass made her totally submissive.   I make sure to do it often so the lesson of submission stays strong.

~ Matt

#7. “Women love a man to take charge…”

Paul: Hi all, I’ve been a dominant man for a long time and I’ve turned every “normal” girl/woman I’ve been seeing into a submissive and I’m not kidding every one of them says I’ve changed their lives!

Don’t get the wrong idea I love and respect women and treat them with the respect they deserve and show them love affection.

But then my darker side comes out and I’ll tie them up, spank, whip, cane, gag them, talk dirty, spit in their face, (def ask about the spitting before hand!)… not for everyone but a big humiliation turn on for others.  I advertise myself as a master looking for submissive women to train and I’ve not been short of takers! And they love it time and time again coming back for more.

These are women who are intelligent and good jobs, even dominant in their work place, but love a man to take charge and punish them. Password for safety is a must and makes them feel safe and like another said you must stop at that point. Good luck all and play safe!

~ Paul

#8. “She adores the treatment…”

Anonymous: There is nothing like getting your girl into some sexual spanking, if you manage to have them in the mood, she ends up loving it as much as you. And then, the sky is the limit…

With my girlfriend we have games if she’s behaving wrongly and then I have to punish her for the misbehavior.  It’s natural at some point so she accepts me as some kind of jury.

When she wanted to be on a diet, she even suggested me to control her, so we agreed on a weekly target. We made a ritual of the scale moment, women love this kind of stuff.  She has to paint herself, pink as primary color and use a micro dress, and an exceptionally short skirt.

If she passes the mark, I invite her for dinner, if not, she is my submissive slut. She doesn’t feel guilty with herself, so she adores the treatment.

~ Anonymous

#9. “My man takes what he wants, however he wants it…”

Emma: My boyfriend took me shopping and bought me an outfit, a tight slutty hot pink micro-dress and super high platform heels.  Sometimes out of the blue I will dress up to the nines… the micro-dress, super high platform heels, hair/makeup/nails.  He comes home to find me waiting to serve him dinner dressed like that.

It’s not often we actually make it to dinner… I’m more likely to end up face down over the table getting the roughest fucking of my life!!!  The outfit is like a signal to him that he has total control and believe me he embraces that. He totally loses it… he’s so rough and dominant, taking what he wants, however he wants it.

I feel so thoroughly dominated and used when he’s finished and more often than not I’m concerned the next day that the neighbors heard me screaming in pleasure!

It’s also a great code for your boyfriend to let you know he wants it rough.  When he has a hard day at work he will call me and tell me ‘be in the pink dress when I get home’ and that lets me know what he wants and I can be ready and waiting.

~ Emma

Note from Jesse: Check out my program Blissnosis for the complete course, just click THIS link here!

#10. “Making her beg for it…”

Matt: I did the following with my girlfriend every time I fucked her; got her in the habit of saying yes to everything I did, making her beg for it.  Once I felt like it was natural for her I moved onto rougher sex, again making her agree and begging for it.  Before long she would give in to rough sex with no hesitation.    Once I introduced anal she hesitated but I kept reminding her she begged for it and soon it was a regular for us too.

Needless to say I now have a nice little sexually submissive girlfriend who knows my sexual needs always come first.  Making your girlfriend affirm and beg for your cock is a great training method.

~ Matt

#11. “Surrender yourself completely to me…”

Simone: I have only just, for the first time in my life, fully discovered and admitted I’m a submissive woman.  I met a guy online and had sex on a first date – that is something I have never done before!  All because it became very clear, very quickly that he was an experienced Dom and ‘brought out’ the slut in me!!

He said on our first date “If you go into the rest room, take off your panties, give them to me, across this table, you will be surrendering yourself completely to me and I will own you for the whole night.” How hot is that?!?!  Needless to say, I did just that- the sex was amazing and I’ve never looked back! No more vanilla for me!! Who knew?!?!

In response to your article “How To Get ‘Good Girls’ To Agree To *Anything* In Bed!”, this is all true- or else why would those crap “50 shades books” be such best sellers? All women deep down, want to be dominated in the bedroom! Read any women’s erotica- it is 99% Dom/Sub stuff! We just need to acknowledge our male female gender differences and celebrate them!  Great site Jesse!

~ Simone

#12. “We rarely argue anymore…”

Anonymous: Jesse, I had my girlfriend read this article for me. She was really surprised that a man’s #1 need is sexual fulfillment.  I was totally honest (one of the needs for her) and told her about my sexual wants and how I wasn’t satisfied with our sex life.  We ended up reading through other posts together and she was surprised by how men need to be a bedroom bull but admitted the idea turned her on.

She’s learning how to deep throat, and getting pretty damn good at it.  She’s also learned how to take anal and understands that even if it’s uncomfortable it’s important for a man’s feeling of dominance.  The post on sweet but painful sex was a real help.  She now regularly submits to anal and rough sex and I’ve never been happier with our sex life.   And she’s so sexually satisfied (and worn out) that we rarely argue anymore.

She’s even started doing things like making nice dinners and dressing super sexy for me  :)

~ Anonymous

#13. “Grabbing her pigtails and shoving down her…”

Nick: I love to do this to my girlfriend.  I have her dress in a bubble gum pink, super short see-thru dress that barely covers her ass, slutty makeup, 7 inch platform heels and her long hair in pigtails.  She knows when I have her dress like this she is submitting to everything I say.

I have her serve me dinner and then afterwards kneel before me.  I roughly fuck her face, grabbing her pigtails and shoving down her throat. I end the night with her in doggie position, holding her head down on the floor, while I roughly ass fuck her.

It’s amazing. Makes me feel totally dominant and in charge!  She doesn’t take the initiative and dress this way herself but when I tell her to she does without question.  And she falls into submission beautifully.

~ Nick

So many guys are caught up in this pornography and it really just not only saps your sex drive, but also actually saps your motivation in your drive to go out and meet women in general, independent of your sex drive. Now most guys are watching porn and it’s really going to hold them back in their lives.

The reason is, two reasons that I want to go into: Number one, is something called hedonic adaptation.

Hedonic Adaptation

Hedonic adaptation is where your brain grows accustomed to new titillating stimulation and eventually, that titillating stimulation has less and less effect, so that it doesn’t really have as much punch as it used to the first, second or third time.

For example, back in the early 1900s, if a man saw a woman’s ankles, he would get blown away. He is really turned on. To see a woman’s ankles was very titillating. Because women wore long, long dresses that covered up her legs, covered up her feet, and covered up their ankles. Woman would basically lift up her dress like this, to show on the ankle and that was amazing.

But today you see ankles and legs on television. You see women’s ankles and legs out on the streets. So it has no titillating effect on you anymore.

Instead, what men find titillating are breasts. Breasts are that titillating thing. But if you go down to a nude beach down in South Florida, for example, you see a bunch of naked breasts and at first you are like, “Wow! This is amazing!”   Your brain is getting overload stimulation. “I never saw so many breasts before!”  But after, actually, just a couple hours your brain adapts. It’s not as stimulatory and titillating.  After a few days of going to the same beach it is going to seem normal. Breasts are normal. So your brain adapts; i.e. Hedonic adaptation.

Hedonic Adaption in Watching Porn

Now bringing this into porn, for example, let’s say you discover your perfect 10 porn. You discover the perfect girl and you think, “Wow! This girl is so amazing! So awesome!  I could just jerk it to this one girl for the next year. I don’t even have to go look for other porn!”

But what happens is after a couple days of getting off to the same girl, even though she was your perfect 10, let’s say she was a tall blonde, now are you like, “I need to see some Hispanic girls, I need to see some black girls”.  So actually, after a couple of days, you get bored with the same porn star even if she was amazing. That’s hedonic adaptation.

Or let’s say you develop or collect this big ultimate porn collection- the best porn you have ever discovered and you just collect it. What happens? You never really go back and watch that collection. You never go back into the archives or anything. You are always looking for new stimulation.

Because, no matter how good the porn was, your brain adapts quickly to that titillating experience. You need something new. You need something more. So what happens is that your brain is accustomed to constantly getting new girls, new stimulation from pornography. And when you go out and meet real girls on the street, club or bar, wherever it is, the girls are not as titillating.

They’re not really sexy. They’re not what you would really want them to be and only the super fine 10s can even get you motivated or inspired. So what happens is your brain adapts to these hypersexual girls in porn and then when you see real women in real life, you are just not that motivated.  What happens is you go out, you see normal girls but you don’t feel that motivated.

You’re like, “Yeah, I should go talk to her, I should go talk to that one, I should do this, I should do that…”  But you don’t really have that drive that forces you to go do it, because your brain is not getting stimulated by regular girls. So you think, “I will just go back home and watch some porn; Get that stimulation”. So that’s one way that saps your drive.

 The Chocolate Cake Analogy

Another way that porn, really, can sap your drive is I am going to use an analogy with chocolate cake i.e. grandma’s chocolate cake. Grandma makes chocolate cake for you every week. It’s delicious chocolate cake. It’s grandma’s chocolate cake.

So every week  you put on some nice clothes, you get into your car, you drive over to grandma’s house, you say hello to grandma, you talk to grandma, she pulls out the chocolate cake, you take the fork, you put the fork into the cake, you put it up to your mouth and “Mmm….!”- Grandma’s chocolate cake is delicious.

Now your buddy says to you, “Look I have got this awesome machine. You can have all the chocolate cake you want; you can have all the desserts. In fact, you just hook up this machine, these two wires to your brain and it will give you the stimulation of eating desserts”.

So with this machine, you can press a button and you are getting chocolate cake stimulated to your brain. It feels like you’re really experiencing chocolate cake… but directly to the to the pleasure center of your brain! Then you hit another button and now you can get pumpkin pie. And you hit another button and 30 seconds later you can get ice cream and hit another button 30 seconds later you can feel like getting chocolate chip cookies, the most mouth savoring delicious chocolate chip cookies you’ve ever eaten.

And say, you just get desert pleasure for two weeks, non-stop.

And what’s great about this machine is that you don’t have to even expend any time or effort to get the pleasure.

You don’t even have to you put your fork down, up to your mouth and chew. You have to expend calories to do that. You don’t have to go drive to the store, expend gas or pay money for gas. You get it all instantly from this machine.

So what happens?

After two weeks of doing using the machine, Grandma calls you up and says to you, “Hey! Sunny, come on over and eat some chocolate cake with me”.

So you think to yourself, “I should spend some time with grandma. I should eat some real chocolate cake. I should go over there and do my obligation”. But you’ve got to get dressed. You’ve got to get inside the car. You’ve got to buy some gasoline. You’ve got to go over to grandma. You’ve got to say hello. It’s a big production, you think to yourself.

You don’t feel that motivated to do it. It just starts to feel like a hassle. Especially, since you had this machine and since you can get the stimulation right to your brain instantaneously… AND it even tastes BETTER than grandma’s chocolate cake. Because in this machine they had some sciences design what was the perfect tasting chocolate cake for you.

So you just don’t feel like going to see grandma. It’s not fun anymore because the simulation of the machine is more fun.

How Porn Kills Your Motivation To Take Action

So it’s the same way, same exact same thing with the girls and porn. Basically you jerk off to some porn and then you just don’t feel the motivation that you should to go out and meet REAL girls.

You feel like, “Yeah, I should go out… I should do this… I should do that… but I can just get pleasure and stimulation from watching pornography”.

And even if you DO go out, then because you have hedonic adaptation, the real girls are not really stimulating you in the same way, because you have been seeing tons of naked bodies, tons of naked girls in porn. You can’t control the fantasies exactly how you want. So when you see the girl in the club it’s just not as stimulating as it should be.

The Short-Term Trap Of Watching Porn

Now here is really the trap of porn.

In the very short-term, porn is awesome!

Let’s say an asteroid is going to hit the earth and you have 30 minutes. Are you going to be like, “Ah God, I got to meet some real girls”?

After all, you only have 30 minutes to live. You’re not going to get laid in 30 minutes.

If your outlook is 30 minutes from now, porn is great. Because you can get a lot of pleasure and a lot of stimulation from porn. You can expend zero time and effort to get that pleasure and stimulation.

The problem is that we tend to think very short-term. We want the short term payoff. So we’ll just watch porn.

The problem is on the long-term. Let us say, a 3 year timescale.

Take Two Guys- One Who Watches Porn, The Other Who Doesn’t…

Take one guy that’s watching porn and another guy that avoids porn. The guy who just skips out on porn, maybe three years from now he can have two or three girlfriends. He’s gotten laid like 20 or 30 times. He is socially sharp from going out. And because he’s been around girls, he feels that pressure on himself to go the gym, to look nice, be healthy, eat correctly, and have good habits.

Whereas the guy that just gives into the easy temptation of porn, gives into the quick stimulation of porn with no effort.

He doesn’t feel that pressure to look good.

He doesn’t feel that pressure to eat healthy or go to the gym.

He doesn’t feel that pressure to be social and be socially sharp.

He’s not going to have any girls around him.

And he’s not going to have two or three girlfriends. He is not going to be getting laid. So three years from now; even though there is a short-term payoff to watching porn which traps you into wanting to do it, over the long-term it’s a very negative habit. It’s really going to hold you back.

What About Cheat Days?  The Backsliding Problem

Now you might be asking, “Jesse, what about a cheat day? Can I have a cheat day where once a week I watch porn? I don’t do it very often, but I want to watch a little porn here and there.”

The problem with that is, you’ll watch porn once and then it can be very easy to backslide into that habit of watching it day after day, two or three days in a row, or worse.

You get the stimulation one day and then the next day you are like “I kind of want to see that other girl. I didn’t quite finish off to her”, so the second day you’re back to it.

It’s very easy to backslide into it if you have cheat days.

Cheat Days Aren’t For Champions

Another issue with cheat days is, if you want to be, for example, a great runner, you want to do marathons and you want to really excel at your hobby… then yes, you CAN have a cheat day eating all you can eat at McDonald’s every Saturday.  But it’s not going to make you the best marathon runner.

Doing that cheat day is really going to impinge on your results.

If you want to get the best results out of your hobby or out of your passion of women, you don’t want to have that cheat day of doing porn.

You want to align all of your habits to be good habits to give you the best results you can get. You don’t want to be cheating with bad habits.

You don’t want to be in the mindset that pornography is a positive reward. You want to see porn more like eating junk food or smoking, where you want to just avoid it completely. There’s really no reason to do a cheat day.

Watching Porn Will Kill Off Your Genes

Another thing to consider is that porn watching is a maladaptive trait, where your brain is tricked into thinking that porn is like fucking a real girl, when it’s not.

You’re wasting your time on the simulation fantasy. It’s not going to help you reproduce.

So basically you are going to have two groups of guys in society- first, guys that get sucked into porn because it’s tricking their brain. Their caveman brain can’t tell the difference between the fantasy and going after girls in real life.

Versus guys that, for whatever reasons their genes say, “I am going to skip the porn. I am going to go after real girls”.

Those are the guys that are going to be genetically successful.

They are going to have more sex.

They are going to have more children.

They are going to have more choice of women.

They are going to have more fit offspring to propagate their genes into future generations.

Whereas the guys that get all hung up on porn or spend a good deal of their days in front of porn are eventually going to get weeded out.

Which Side Are You On?

So, it’s really almost like a life-and-death struggle of your genes. Are you able to adapt to the post-1995 universe of the world, where porn is basically ubiquitous?

Can you still get the hot girls in that kind of situation, or is this new technology going to suck you into the abyss of not being able to procreate?

Because maybe you can’t not adapt to the new pitfalls in the new environment. And as you know, species go extinct or certain traits in the species go extinct when the environment changes and that species or groups within the species can’t adapt to the new environment.

So you want to be one of those guys that is adapting to modern society.  A guy who can still procreate, be successful genetically in evolution instead of being one of those guys that your lineage is going to be snuffed out because you wasted time watching porn with lack of motivation.

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And there’s nothing hotter then romping a girl with those pinup legs and fashion style.

First, I’ll explain what makes the look, and then I’ll touch on how to sleep with pin-up models and girls.

What pin-up looks like

It basically comes down to shapely, and preferably long legs and a particular makeup style.

Dani Daniels- showing off her legs in a pose

First come the legs. Pin up is all about a leggy girl showing off her legs, and I for one find shapely and long legs to be the sexiest trait on a woman.

Legs are also the last part to age on a woman, so even a 50 year old woman can look hot if she’s born with nice legs and keeps them in nice shape.

The second element is the heavy eye makeup and bright red lipstick.

Here you can see an illustrated pinup girl…

And a real pinup model. Nice how her lips smack brilliant red, and her eye makeup makes her eyes pop.

The third element of the pin up girl is wearing dresses and lingerie that harken back to the 40s, 50s, and 60s. So that her clothing has that “innocent, but naughty” vibe to it.

Betty Draper from Mad Men

The fifth element is that the girl has proper accessories- pink gel nails, and white pearls can flesh out the look.

Do it yourself

There are not many pin up models or girls out there. But because it’s mostly makeup and dress up, there’s no reason you can’t have your girlfriend or wife pull off the fantasy for you.

Dani Daniels before and after- without makeup, and with pin-up makeup

And in this guide I’m going to show you how to do it.

What a girl needs

Not every girl will have the right stuff to pull off the pin-up look. Ideally, she’ll have the following phyical traits:

Model Kelly Brook

• Shapely (muscular) legs with full calves, full thighs, and little body fat
• Log legs
• Full, cupid-bow lips that can show off the red lipstick

She would also have the following psychological traits and habits:

• Enjoys exercising her legs, with heavy weights
• Is open minded about dressing up sexy and role playing

P.S. If you don’t have a girl like that yet, you can always pickup a girl easily with my Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control program.

The “Leg Show”

It’s not enough for the girl to simply look the part- being a pin up girl is all about displaying “The Leg Show” for her man.

The greatest appeal of the pin up are her legs, and she should show them off to her man in a seductive display.

Dani Daniels, pin-up girl

Have the girl lean back against the wall or door, and show her legs to you from the side angle.

Have her knock her knees together as if she’s dripping wet.

Model Emily Adison

Have her kick and turn for you.

Have her sit on her fanny and splay her logs open, eagle style.

Or sit on a chair and splay her legs for maximum visual exposure.

Examples of pin up in pop culture

Christina Aguilera uses the vintage pin-up look a LOT in her videos. Notice the red lips, the heavy black lashes, and that 1960s vibe from her video “Your Body”.

Christian Aguilera “Your Body”

Katy Perry also employs the pin up look in her art.

Katy Perry without makeup, and with pin up makeup. Big difference, right?

How To Do It – #1. The Pin Up Clothing

Assuming your woman has the right physical characteristics to pull the look off, here’s how to go about getting her dressed to play the seductive part in the bedroom.

First, you’ll want to buy some sexy, vintage dresses and lingerie for her. There’s a lot of online stores that sell what you’d need, like Betty Page clothing.

Do the shopping together with your woman, because when she takes part in the purchase, she’s essentially saying “yes” to doing the role play with you. Or, if your woman is already kinky and open-minded, surprise her with a present.

If you can’t get ahold of anything vintage, make due with super-short skimpy micro dresses that show off and highlight the girl’s sexy legs.

Model Ember Reigns

#2. The Makeup

Next up is the makeup. Most likely you’d screw this up, so it’s largely up to the woman to apply the makeup herself.

There’s lots of pinup makeup tutorials on YouTube, like this one below.

#3. Exercise Her

Shapely and athletic legs are HUGE for pin-up look, probably the most important factor. It doesn’t mean that the girl needs to be tall (she can be very short in fact), but she DOES need full bodied, toned and muscular legs to really pull the look off.

Sheena Shaw’s athletic legs

The best way is for your woman to do heavy lifts for her legs – squats, lunges, and so on with weights. Cardio and eating correctly for fitness are also essential.

Model Candice Caridinelle is a perfect example of a woman pushing 40, who is also short, that can easily pull off the pin-up look, simply because she keeps her legs in excellent shape by lifting weights and eating right.

Model Candice Cardinelle

So there you have it; many girls can be dressed like a pin-up girl, and with the right eating and exercise habits, she can keep the body necessary to do the job.  If you don’t have enough women in your life, or you need a leggy, fun girl that will enjoy being your sexy dress-up doll, check out one of my programs, like Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control.  Have fun! 

Sometimes your sleepy home town won’t cut it; you’ve got to move to where the girls are.

Just like if you want to make it big in finance, you need to move to New York; if you want to make a living playing Poker in live tournaments, you need to move to Vegas; and if you want to date the most beautiful women, it’s quite helpful to be in the right city.

I’ve moved multiple times to be where the girls were; away from the cold North to Florida back in 2000, and sold my apartments and gave away all of my possessions to live in Latin America in a few years later. Since then, I’ve done a lot of traveling and am wary of taking on any material possessions that might only act as a hindrance. If you want the best girls, you’ve got to do what’s necessary to be able to meet them.

Which Cities Are The Best For Girls…

Here are my recommendations for some pretty cool cities with generally attractive girls I’ve travelled to or had recommended. There are certainly others, this isn’t a complete list by any means.

• South Beach Miami, Florida
• Downtown Miami, Florida
• New York City, New York
• Chicago
• Denver, Colorado
• Montreal, Canada
• Medellin, Colombia
• San Diego, CA
• Sydney, Australia
• Florianopolis, Brazil
• Tokyo, Japan
• Berlin, Germany

Any of these cities are great places to meet women and you should check them out.

Either start an online business, or start teaching English in a foreign country… either can work!

The other advantage of being in an exotic city is that you’ll stand out, girls will notice your accent, and you’ll be instantly attractive. If you’re from Australia, go to the U.S and the girls will drool over your Aussie accent. If you’re from the U.S. go to Australia… or Japan, or South America.

It’s that “wanderer” attraction effect. Women want a fresh injection of new genes into their gene pool. Having children with their own ethnicity is a little like family inbreeding in comparison to meeting an outsider.

The problem is choosing WHICH city is best; because no matter how much online research you do, it’s hard to tell which will be your best fit until you actually spend time in a city. Some have better weather; others better nightlife; others sexier girls; others are cheaper. Different cities have different combinations of qualifying factors to varying degrees, so it’s a complex choice.

(As a side note, every country has hot girls as I detail in this post, but cities will vary greatly).

Here are the factors that tend to make a city good for meeting attractive women.

Factor #1. Warm Weather

Warm weather puts pressure on women to keep themselves in physical shape.

It forces a girl to think twice about eating that pizza or ice-cream cone when she knows it’s going to be warm out and she can’t cover up her body… AND there’s competition from OTHER women under the same pressures.

That’s contrasted to colder cities where women feel easy about eating junk food and not exercising because so much of the time they’re covered up anyway, it’s just easier to give into their indulgences.

Good places for warm weather is Florida or California, South America, Asia, or Europe or North America in the summer.

Factor #2. Hopping Nightlife

Next up, a great city tends to have a great nightlife.

What night clubs and bars do is round up a lot of the more attractive, young, single women and coral them into one single place.

So if the night scene is hopping, it’s far more efficient to meet a lot of young, attractive, single girls in a short amount of time.

Whereas if you’re forced to rely purely on day game, the process of meeting single, young women can be considerably more time consuming, especially in the United States where in most cities it’s a total car culture and young ladies are generally not on foot during the daytime.

Factor #3. A Fitness Culture

Next up, does the city have a culture of fitness?

In my opinion, women that lift weights at the gym or do sports like swimming or gymnastics and have a fair amount of lean muscle on their bodies, tend to look far more attractive than women that are just stick skinny and lanky looking.

Because when a woman builds lean muscle, what she does is burn off calories en masse, sculpts her body, and her metabolism is so revved up from the muscle that she continues burning calories all day… resulting in a look that is totally hot… AND natural.

Opposed to a girl that tries to starve herself to stay thin, who only becomes lethargic without any actual energy to spare, and tends to yoyo in her weight.

So if there’s a truly exercise-centric or fitness-centric culture, you’ll tend to find far more attractive women.

What to do…

So if you’re stuck in a small town, stuck in a suburb, or stuck in a cold city where people cover up 9 months of the year, AND you want to meet the hottest girls, you’ll most likely need to make a big move. Take some risks.

For the rewards and spoils go to those men who take massive action!

Unfortunately, in the same way that most men do with ratty sneakers on their feet, most women don’t bother with their nails at all, and the resulting look is rather mediocre.

So first I’ll give you some pictures to inspire you. And second, I’ll guide you to getting your girlfriend or wife really hot and sexy fingernails and manicure.

Hot nails are a sign of health, youth, and fertility. Older women look instantly younger with a nice pair of nails, and nice nails make younger teen girls look blazingly hot.

Nails are a sign of health, youth, and fertility and hint that the woman takes care of herself.

Nice nails, particularly when they contrast the woman’s skin (white nails on tan girls, and red nails on light skin girls), draw visual attention to the woman. For instance, when she puts her hands to her face, you’ll easily notice the colorful motion of the hands, and be drawn to them.

Getting oral sex from a girl with manicured nails is hotter. Why? Simple because we men are visual creatures, and we want to see long, smooth, feminine nails instead of masculine-looking finger nails.

Attractive finger nails means more sex. When your woman is looking for feminine, you’ll simply want to boink her more. Pretty simple.

Manicure nails makes a woman look sophisticated and classy. Since most women DON’T do their nails and thus look “average”, the woman that does her nails will stand out as being “upper class”.

Hot fingernails makes the woman HERSELF more hot, sexual, and naughty. When a woman is getting more visual attention from men, she’ll simply feel more confidence and be more horny. She’ll want to romp the bed a lot more.

Hotter hand jobs. Getting a regular old hand job becomes exciting again!

Option #1: Press-On Nails

Press-on nails have a few advantages. They’re cheap and your girl can easily buy them anywhere and put them on herself with glue. But I don’t recommend them for your woman.

Press-on nails are cheap and fast, but tend to look fake.

First, they won’t fit your woman’s hands exactly, and thus they don’t look that natural. Press-on nails have a tendency to pop off, and the glue can also cause damage to her fingernails underneath.

In addition, press-on toenails are impractical so her fingernails and toenails will never match.

Press-on nails are best if you’re on an extreme budget or are lazy and want a “quick fix”. But like any quick fix, you get what you pay for.

Option #2: Painted Nail Polish

Painted nail polish nails generally suck too.

This where the girl simply applies a coating of paint on top of her natural nails. While it’s also cheap and quick, the results are generally mediocre.

First, painted nails chip quickly and the paint will generally look unevenly applied. And painted nails do nothing to extend the nails longer and more feminine.

Painted nails are generally popular with teenage girls, but teen girls are generally on a budget, but want to avoid the fake look of press-ons.

Option #3: Acrylic Nails

Acrylic nails look more natural than press-ons because they’re fitted to the woman’s hands at a salon, and they look smoother and longer than painted nails because they’re a hard overlay on top of the natural nail.

Here’s an example of acrylic nails, with the nails already begun to grow out.

Once the Acrylic material is applied to the nail at a salon, the acrylic hardens when exposed to air, and it provides a canvas for applying nail color.

But while they look superior to press-ons and painted nails, acrylic nails come with their own set of issues.

First, they cost $25 to $40 at a salon, and require periodic replacements because as the woman’s nails grow, the acrylic is pushed forward and begins to look unnatural.

But the real problem is that removing acrylic nails and putting new ones on, tends to greatly weaken the woman’s natural nails underneath. With time, the woman’s natural nails get ruined.

Acrylics are also very hard, and don’t feel natural, although they look more natural than press-ons.

Option #4: Gel Nails

Gel nails are superior to acrylics and are the best option for a woman.

Gel nails provide the strength of acrylic nails, while keeping the natural feel and appearance of regular nails, and do less damage to the nails underneath. Yet most women aren’t aware of his option.

Here are some more advantages of gel nails over acrylics:

#1. With gels, you can paint over a red for example with pink, and use nail polish remover later to remove the pink. So the woman can change colors anytime she wants without needing to visit a salon.

#2. Gels do less damage to the nails underneath during removal, than acrylics. Gel is not as harsh.

#3. Gels are slightly less expensive than acrylics, generally.

#4. Gels are odorless, while acrylics of a strong chemical smell.

#5. Gel nails look for natural and are softer than acrylics.

#6. With gel nails, it’s easier for the manicurist to file them to make them look natural, as they’re softer.

Some more tips about gel nails

Be aware that there are “hard” gel nails and “soft” gel nails. Hard gels need to be filed off by a professional. “Soft” gels can be soaked off in acetone.

But “soft” soak-off gels are the way to go for your woman. There’s no damage to her natural nails underneath and soft gels don’t require any filing.

Also gel nails should be applied by a professional, and not at home. Most gel nails require UV light to harden them, and it’s pretty easy to fuck it up yourself. Just be sure that the salon isn’t doing acrylic with a thin gel top coating- you want to make sure your woman is getting 100% soft gel nails and not acrylic.

Is it worth it to get your girl sexy nails?

Of course, your woman’s gel nails don’t stay on forever. They start breaking off and chipping after 3 weeks. She’ll need to do maintenance about every 2 weeks to keep them looking sexy and perfect.

So while they’re the most superior solution, they take more time and money to maintain them than press-ons or painted nails. But you get what you pay for.

It’s totally worth it though if long, colorful, and perfectly formed fingernails are a fetish of yours.

Also look into gel pedicure toenails. Hot pink gel toenails can look amazingly sexy… especially when they match her hot pink pumps!

How to get your woman to do her nails

This is easy.  All women like the feeling of status and being pampered.  Tell her that you’re going to treat her to the nail salon “to be pampered” as a “gift”.  Do this around Valentines, her birthday, or just make up some excuse to reward her for something good she’s done.  The vast majority of women will take you up on the offer without an argument.

At first, tell her to get a french manicure.  That’s a more conservative look that most women will go for.  Explain to her the reasons she should insist to the pedicurist that she wants soft gels.

Once she gets used to having nails, next time you can suggest to her to get hot pink or hot red if you want her in more daring, sexy colors.  It’s better to suggest daring colors once she’s more used to having the gel nails though– take small steps here so that she has time to acclimate to the new, sexy look.

If you want even more ways to sexy-up your girlfriend and wife in effective and creative ways, check out my Blissnosis Relationships and Sexual Mastery program HERE. It will show you how to turbo-charge your bedroom romps with politically-incorrect fantasies and glamming up your girl. Click here to read more!

It’s a pretty naughty technique, but girls get off on it too, because she’s used like a cheap prostitute by a powerful man – that’s the dark, secret wish of most women!

She may not orgasm during the encounter itself, but she’ll masturbate herself furiously to multiple orgasms for months to come, re-imagining the hot and dangerous encounter over and over.

You can also apply this technique to your hot wife, to your hot girlfriend, or to casual fuck buddy girls that get off being treated like hot tramps who spread their legs fast and easy for the man that demands it.

Why Hot Pink Micro Dresses Are So HOT!

To make it really hot, have your date or woman to show up at your front door, knock, and you open the door for her. She should be there dressed in a long over coat that’s covering her.

When she steps inside, she drops the overcoat – and from one moment to the next, she reveals the full glory of her hot pink micro mini dress.

That’s the thrill of it, getting the impact of the pink micro dress and you girl’s hot body in it—all in one visual shot, like a bolt of lightning.

How To Sex Up A Girl In A Super Short Micro-Mini

Next up, examine the goods. Turn her around to look at her. Grope her, cup her ass. Notice how the pink accentuates the curves of her butt.

Start thinking how hard you’re going to pleasure yourself in her.

Next, get behind the girl so that you can place your bulging crotch up against her buttside.

From behind, fondle her roughly like a perverted sex felon and grind your bulging pants against her panties. Start talking dirty to her how she’s been a bad girl for dressing so naughty, that it must mean she’s horny… and that she needs a strong man.

Keep grinding on her and dry humping her on her and talking rough and dirty until she’s really turned on (no “Mr. Nice Guy” here fellas!!)

It’s hot for the girl, because her mini micro skirt is so damn short, that she’ll feel her fine goods are dangerously exposed and can be desecrated by you at any moment.

Foreplay: Pull aside her panties and start fingering pussy here to make her super dripping wet (you can also make her pussy squirt at this point if she’s a squirter).

(Optional) get on your knees and violently lick her out.

Don’t insert quite yet, but just rub your bulge now against her steaming ripe pussy. TEASE her. Make her think, “Is he going to do it now?” Make her think, “Please, I want it inside of me.” Give her a little uncertainty. Get her womb aching to be poked. You can also start commanding her to say to you, “Please fuck me, Daddy…”

Once you’re sure she’s hot and wet, bend her over by pushing her head down.

Foreplay is OVER!

Start fucking her doggy-style, but STANDING UP.

DO NOT take off her hot pink mini dress. Leave it on!

What makes it hot to her is that you’re so eager to fuck her, you have so much urgency, that you do not bother to undress her, you do not bother to take her away from the doorway, and you do not bother to lay her down or do foreplay!

You fuck her almost immediately… like a DOG!

Bend her over and PULL HER HAIR while you fuck her, and yell dirty naughties like, “Everyone thinks, you’re a good girl, but I know the REAL you… you want to be fucked hard by a REAL man! Don’t you!”

She might cum right there!

You can also turn her to face you and continue to fuck her, with her clothes still on.

Look into her eyes and move close to her like you’re going to kiss her, but DON’T KISS HER. Leave her wanting the emotional intimacy, but don’t give it to her.

Hold the frame you’re the tyrant pimp that gives her the rough sex she craves, and tease her with the tenderness by hinting at it, but holding it back.

Instead of kissing her, just continue whispering a bunch of supremely dirty, nasty talk as you look into her eyes unapologetically like an evil bastard. Tell her hardcore stuff like, “I own that pussy,” and “You dress up like that cause you want to get fucked by your strong man…” and “You like bad men, don’t you?” and so on.

Afterwards, cuddle a little.  OR, if you really want to be a bad ass, after you cum on her, put her coat back on her and kick her out the door.  A true-blooded booty call!  (Careful though… better to only use that on girls who you acclimate wild sex to).

Why Good Girls Like To Dress Like Hot Vamp Barbie Dolls

The girl will likely cum by being teased out and then forcefully taken and fucked so urgently and aggressively. It’s thrilling excitement to her… like being on the roller coaster at Disney when she was a kid!

Girls simply find it hot to be dressed cheaply and exposed, and then just bent over and fucked. Dogged.

It doesn’t matter if the girl is super religious, a “good girl”, a company executive, barely of age, or mature… she’ll dig it.

In fact, the more of a “good girl” she is, the more she’ll get off on this.

It also allows you to be a “lazy lover”. You don’t need to warm her up much. Just have her show up at the door, and jump straight to the good parts.

Getting Advanced With Hot Pink

Once you’ve done the scenario once with a girl, you can make it hotter by adding more accessories in hot pink.

Tell her to go to the salon and get a hot pink “gel nails” manicure. Gel nails are an artificial nail, but they look the most natural and the colors will really pop.

Also buy her (or tell her to buy) a pair of hot pink pumps / stilettos that will really pop with color.

As you can see from the picture, the right shoes can make ALL the difference with the screaming-hot sexiness factor.

Once your date is wearing the hot pink micro tube dress, the hot pink pumps, and the hot pink nails… she’ll look instantly orgasmic. With this formula, just be careful not to get so hot and out of your mind that you start shooting big loads into her without protection!!!

Where to buy short clubwear, tube dresses, and micro dresses

It’s a specialty item, so you’ll want to shop online. Try the search terms “Pink” in combination with these terms:

• fishnet dress
• short dress
• clubwear mini dress
• mini dress
• tube dress
• micro dress
• halter dress
• stretch micro dress

You can even find dresses for chunky girls.

If you’re really adventurous, look for hot pink “club wear”. Take your girl to an upscale club or restaurant (or hell, even a dive bar), pull her into the bathroom and fuck her dirty there… or take her to a sleazy cheap motel room after dinner and fuck her.

Or if the girl is really kinky, invite some other female friends over. About 50% of women are natural-born freaks and will spring for some group action if they feel comfortable enough with you.

For more great tips of dirty talking girls, rough and kinky sex, and how to make a girl cum and squirt into multiple orgasms, check out my Blissnosis Program at THIS link.

Blissnosis will give you all the tools to be a great lover and give girls the kind of sex they really want!

Now before you contest my assessment, my argument is based on two observations.

#1. Carol Seleme passes the “Disney Princess Face Test”

Disney draws their female characters based on a formula; cupid bow lips, a small nose, and big, bright, expressive eyes, combining the best elements of sexual maturity with young nubileness.

They do this so that you get turned on by the character’s faces and make the heroines naturally more likeable. Belle, Jasmine, Ariel, and all the rest follow the same facial proportion formula.

Most REAL women of course don’t look that hot; they have thin lips, beady eyes, and all sorts of facial deviations that don’t conform to the attractive norm.

Full, “Cupid bow lips” because their shaped like Cupid’s bow- generally considered the ideal attractive.

Big, bright, expressive, Disney eyes- some women have them.

Carol Seleme is one of those girls that looks like she popped out of a Disney animated movie. She has an extremely rare combination of having full, cupid-bow lips AND big bright eyes- just like a Belle or Ariel.

And in this music video, there’s lots of close-up face shots of Carol, where you can see her in action.

#2. Carol Seleme has killer hot body proportions

Carol Seleme also has screaming hot body proportions.

Sometimes you’ll see a pretty girl with that Disney Princess face… BUT, typically she’s super skinny and has no T&A. Or she’s pretty-faced, but has bad habits and is chubby.

For instance a girl like Tori Black has a great face, but her body is on the skinny side.

Tori Black

Or you’ll see a girl with a killer booty-popping body- but up close, her face is just so-so.

Carol Seleme has BOTH face AND screaming hot body.

Her muscular thighs / quads are as thick as her skinny waist (again, very rare).

Her legs and calves are shapely (again, rare).

And she’s got a popping, tight, and shapely butt.

In this video you can see her show off he body from every angle.

How Carol Seleme’s body proportions conform to the ideal

When animators draw for sexy female proportions, they draw the legs (1) extra long and (2) thick thighs, thick as the waist and (3) shapely, full calves.

This is called the “Pinup Leg Look” that pinup artists use.

In this typical pinup drawing, the legs are drawn long, the thighs drawn thick as the waist, and the calves are shapely.

As you can see, Carol Seleme has got all 3 physical traits of the legs going for her.

She’s got those “pinup model leggy proportions”- also the same leggy proportions artists use in comic books when portraying sexy female characters.

Carol Seleme almost naked…!

Even with her genetic gifts, she’d look like shit if she ate junk food and was sedentary with bad habits (like oh, about 95% of all American women).

A girl only gets a toned body like that by working out (check out my post on why girls that lift weights make for the hottest bodies here).

Carol most likely has a pretty regimented fitness routine to keep that body lean and tight.

In this video watch Carol Seleme doing a physical workout out at the beach.

A Carol Seleme Fantasy

Okay, so here’s a little bedroom fantasy for this chick.

Carol gets dressed in some sexy lingerie for her man.

She comes walking to the bedroom. She’s nervous, because her man in the past has violently and roughly ripped off her clothes, pulled her hair, talked filthy to her, and violated her pussy. She’s anxious, but the rough sex of being urgently taken also excites her….

She arrives to the bedroom and is ordered to dance by her man to turn him on. Out of nervous excitement, she complies…

Unfortunately, Carol’s pics tend to be pretty tame, so you’ll have to leave the rest up to your own imagination!

Hmm… Is Carol really Persian?

Carol Seleme with lighter makeup

I don’t think she looks very Brazilian (I’ve traveled the country)… I think she looks more Persian or Middle Eastern. Think Kim Kardashian.

Kim Kardashian in her teen years

Or Persian babe Sara Lime…

Maybe more of us need to travel to Beirut or Armenia !!

Is Carol Seleme *really* the hottest babe ever??

There ARE a few girls that may have her beat.

For example, Divini Rae has both that “Disney Princess Face” of cupid bow lips and big eyes…

AND long legs, thick thighs, narrow waist—that pinup girl body. She’s also into fitness.

Divini Rae probably has Carol Seleme beat overall though, because if you’ve seen any of Divini Rae’s videos, you’ll see Divini she just MOVES sexier. Most of Divini’s videos have been taken down off the net, but there’s really hot videos of simulated lovemaking, stripping, and undressing… Divini Rae just MOVES like a hot stripper. Carol Seleme doesn’t seem to have that quality

Some advice to the REAL Carol Seleme…

Hot girls tend to get lazy. Or let’s say… complacent. Just off their looks, they can get everything provided for them. Really, at the end of the day, they don’t have to do jack shit if they don’t want to.

As a result, you see most hot girls make very half-assed attempts in their modeling careers. They do shoots here and there. They wait for offers to come. But they’re not very pro-active. And their short window passes and their 15 minutes of fame is up.

Seleme should make her own website and pro-actively get creative with her shoots and outfits; like Denise Milani. And pump out content. Don’t wait to be put on by someone else; with the Internet, you can create your own TV station.

Some advice to any guy reading this…

Want to get a girlfriend like Carol Seleme? Check out my Soul Mates Formula program HERE. It will show you how to meet and attract quality girls, but also how to MOLD them into ideal girlfriends.

And don’t get hung up on the idea of the “Perfect 10”. Because of the Coolidge effect, with time you’ll get a little tired of a girl, no matter how hot she is. Even pretty girls lose their bounce and luster after a few years. Most of them have bad habits and are lazy and “age” far quicker than they would naturally.

Instead, YOU, as the MAN, want to see yourself “as the 10” and YOU want to “be the 10”, where happiness is self-generated from within you. Workout. Eat right. Keep good habits. Be the source of good emotions for yourself and in others.

THAT is what will draw women to you and what will ultimately make you happy.

Full Transcript

Hey guys! This is Jesse Charger here and in this video I want to talk about one of my favorite topics, which is ‘Outer space and the universe’. Because I am basically an ‘outer space and universe’ nerd, I might as well put out some videos about what I find cool about the universe – some cool tips that most people aren’t fully aware of.

One of the things that most people aren’t aware of is that, when you are looking at the night sky and you see all those twinkling stars up there, you are actually looking into the past. Because those twinkling stars are so far away it takes years for their light to travel through space to bounce off your eye to the point where you see it.

If there’s a star, that is 4 light-years away and the nearest star to Earth (i.e. not the Sun) is 4 light-years away, and you look at that start, you are actually seeing it 4 years in the past. There is going to be another star next to it that might be 20 light years away and another star next to that one that is 50 light years away. So you are looking at the stars at the various points in the past history. You are not looking at how they are right now.

Even our own Sun is so far away that it takes 8 minutes for the light to travel from the Sun to Earth where it bounces off your eye(the light) and you see the Sun. 8 minutes!!! So, if the sun just went supernova all of the sudden i.e. exploded, you wouldn’t even know anything happened until 8 minutes later. Because the sun that you are looking at in the sky is actually the Sun that existed 8 minutes ago and not the Sun that is there right now.

So if the Sun just exploded you would have 8 more minutes of peaceful bliss were you dint know you’re going to immediately die. So, that is a kind of a cool little factoid.

Looking Back At the Early Universe

Extending on that idea, scientists look in a very powerful telescope like the Hubble telescope at galaxies that might be a billion light years away or 5 billion or 10 billion light years away, they are actually looking into the deep past of the universe. Because when you look at a very distant galaxy that is 10 billion light years away you’re looking at that galaxy as how it was 10 billion years ago during the early universe (the early formation of the universe). That is one way that scientists can gather clues about how the early universe actually was and looked, by just some very distinct galaxies. They are looking at the universe shortly after the Big Bang happened.

One of the interesting things is that when you look at a very distant galaxy, that galaxy right now is not there anymore. It’s at 10 billion light years. It has moved to a different place or lot of the stars have probably expired or went supernova or probably has totally new stars in it or It is in a completely new location. So when you’re looking at a very distant galaxy 10 billion years ago the galaxy is not there anymore or has different stars. If there were any civilizations they are 10 billon years ago, they are probably gone.

It’s just a kind of a weird thing to think about that you’re actually looking into the past when you look up at the night sky.

Earth’s isolation

Now we know that the visible universe is about 13-14 billion years across. But there’s a problem. If you look at even more distant galaxies some 13 or 14 billion years across you can’t, because now you are going back to the point of the Big Bang. Any galaxy that’s farther away than that wall, the light just hasn’t had enough time to reach Earth yet.

Based on measuring the curvature of the entire universe and finding that it is pretty flat, scientist actually think that the universe has to be at least 14 trillion light years across, Not 13 billion, but 14 or 13 trillion light years across or about a 1000 times bigger than what we can actually see. So, you got other galaxies out there. Not just the hundred sextillion stars on our own visible universe but hundred sextillion stars times, a million times more volume or a 1000 times across farther that we just can’t see! Light has not had time to get to us yet. But because the universe space is actually also expanding most of those stars, that light, will never reach us. Also the fabric of space is expanding and that light would just never have the time to reach Earth.

So we are effectively cut off from most of the stars out there. We will never be able see them. We will never be able see the other galaxies out there, if there is other intelligence civilizations out there, lets say, in just a different quadrant of the universe, say a trillion light-years away from us, the light from our sun, the light from the Milky Way galaxy will never be able to reach them. They will never know that we are there. All they do is infer that the universe is probably big and there is a lot more stuff out there that will never be able to see. And with our current technology, we are never going to be able to see them unless there is some kind of revolution in physics, which probably isn’t going to happen, anytime soon.

Let’s wrap up…

It is just kind of cool that we are so cut off from most of what is out there in the universe. Even what we can see is actually long been dead. So if you look at a distant galaxy probably all the stars in it have died or generated new stars. So you are just looking at the past when you look at the night sky. The very near stars you might be looking at are 4 or 5 or 10 years in the past and more distant stars billions of years in the past. Most of the stars out there, most of the galaxies are so far away we will never be able to see them from Earth. So that’s today’s ‘outer space and universe’ video. Hope you enjoyed it. Hope you learnt something. And until next time Jesse is out!

The book has made such an impact that stores started selling out of rope and zip ties, bondage toys were flying off the internet shelves of adult sex stores like Adam and Eve and BDSM sex classes at local novelty shops filled up.

But you don’t need an official class to get started, my site has plenty of articles to get you started sexually dominating a woman and make her submissive to you. (And HOT girls like it even more, because MOST guys only kiss their asses!)

BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism and is about exploring a consensual relationship of power exchange.

When starting a BDSM relationship, it’s a good policy to come up with a safe word (so that you know when to pull back and give the girl more time to get comfortable). I suggest a word like “red” or “porcupine” or whatever, doesn’t matter!

Start out using ordinary household items to tie the girl’s hands or blindfold her. This will help ease the girl into it without costing you a lot of money. Proper toys can be expensive and you want to make sure the girl is down with getting freaky before you invest any serious cash.

Just grab a tie or scarf and tie your girl’s hands to the bed posts. Girls like getting pounded while being restricted, because it takes all the responsibility for “being bad” off her shoulders.

Collars are really awesome too, because you can LEAD the girl, and nothing turns on a girl more than being led. She wants her man to direct her and tell her what to do- again, to take the responsibility for sex off her shoulders.

Look into restraining her with a pair of cuffs as well. Under the bed restraints are a great way to force your girl into an X position. Toys will help you feel like you really have control over her and being dominated over will make her orgasms harder.

Don’t just use toys, but role play as well. Have her be the horny housewife that needs to get fucked in the kitchen, or the high class escort. Have her dress up in a combination of “good girl” clothes and “bad girl” clothes. Like the June Cleaver housewife that wears dirty lingerie underneath.

There’s a bunch of websites that go really deep into the psychological aspects of dominance and submission like here and here but what’s most important is that you lead the girl, have fun doing it, and don’t react at her every little reaction- remain unreactive, unless she uses the safe word.

Have fun!