In some cases, people describe something to a tee and there is no need to write myself. Well this is one of those cases.

Basically, the video starts out with a poor guy and his online dating NIGHTMARE… meeting a chick who flat out decieved him into thinking that she was hot and instead turned out to be HUGE!!!!!

Watch this video and learn about the F.G.O.P.

Picking a picture for your online dating profile can be one of the most important parts of improving your online dating success. I have recieved a lot of questions about this topic, and that is why I decided to share with you some of the bigest secrets to attracting girls with your profile.

Before I get to the strategy that can easily double even triple the amount of women that respond to you, lets cover some groundwork and basics.

By answering the following questions you will eliminate many of the pictures you may have considered.

What kind of girl are you trying to attract?

If it is a wholesome girl, then you need a wholesome picture. If it is a young party girl, then you need to look like a young party guy. It is that simple, dont think if your joe square pants that you can pull a hot gothic girl with tatoos. Girls dress and act to attract a specific type of guy, it is us males who have to adapt to them.

What is your best asset?

Maybe girls aren’t as visual based as guys, but guess what they still judge you based on your looks. Find out what your best feature is and point it out in a picture. If you are tall take a picture with someone short. If you have a nice smile photoshop those perly whites to their finest shade (don’t over do it). If you have a great sense of humor put up a picture of you laughing. Remember to dress for success since clothes can say a lot about someone.

The secret to choosing your online dating profile picture

Once you get these two things out of the way the next step is to go to HotorNot.com . For those of you who do not know what this website is, it is a place for you to upload your picture and others to rate how hot you are on a scale of 1 to 10. You should upload your top three photos and let it run for about a week before deciding the winner.

If you do not break 7 or 8 don’t worry about it since the demographic skews younger. Your goal is to see which picture is more attractive. Remember, whatever you think looks good is not what women think looks good.

Field testing your online dating profile picture

Once you have your best picture, you should test it before you decided to definately use it. I reccomend creating a free profile with a service like Mate1.com . Don’t necessarily use your real stats just yet, your goal is to see how girls react to your image. Do whatever you gotta do like “hot” people and see how many people respond back. You can create a few of these profiles to see which profile gets the best response.

Online dating love floats off the screen and into reality everyday. So why can’t you be apart of it? You have sent that first email to one lady that tickles your fancy. You have exhausted the emails back and forth and now its time to close in on the date in person.

First and foremost, never assume that they will meet you out with it being just the two of you. You don’t want to put her in that position. Talk about things in the area that are fun to do and see what her type of places are. Pick up the vibe of where she would be comfortable and where this online dating love can blossom. If she is not comfortable, you are going nowhere fast. Is she a meet for a coffee in the afternoon type of gal, or a happy hour type?

If you want to meet for drinks I would recommend doing it during happy hour. Take a look around and see that far more women are out having drinks at happy hour than at 12 midnight. That’s because it can still be light out and light out means true love online can be taken to the streets. Women want to have drinks with their lady friends from work after a hard day. And they also don’t want to be up very late during the week when they work the next day. That’s a job left to the true love online hunters. Also happy hour is nice because if you’re left buying the drinks which I don’t always recommend, it will at least be a semi cheap bill.

So we all know that true love online can happen but it soon must be taken offline. If you find that she would be up for meeting with just the two of you and depending on what it is your looking for, where you go is crucial. You don’t want overly loud music dampening your chance of online dating love .

Another good way to get a date sooner, assuming you have talked a good deal over email or text, is to say that you are going away soon for a business trip. That will make them want to set a day, or else they will lose a lot of what they put into all this at this point.

Remember that most women view time spent with you, even online, as an investment and a lot of times an emotional one. Given that the time has been invested, the thought of you going away for business could deplete the chances of meeting and sharing a connection of true love online. Therefore she will want to set the day sooner.

So you think you found you’re online dating love? Well take your wits off screen and show this lady what you got!