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Who is behind the mess of the United States econony- the videos

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:28:02 PST

Hello everyone! I did cover some ground on my book and that I am trying to prepare for it to be a good self-help and personal development book for everyone! There I have decided to put two videos because if you live in the U.S.! Please listen to this video, it is an important video to help you understand who is behind the mess in the ecomony! To me, it's a video to listen to at all costs because it's talking about the past and leading to the present of what happened in the United States Economy! A lot of people are sleep and not aware of what was going on, just like I was before! But now, I am not at all!

By any means, I am not a politican, which I hate politics! These videos are talking about the fianancial system of the United States, not basically over political stuff, but it may sound that way, which is overall not at all!

I love yall guys so much not to hold this back from you because it's something as a people need to be aware of in the United States, and you will find out it's not the presidents at all behind this mess, it's a power over the goverment behind this mess that we don't have a clue about!These are true facts,it's the same events repeating itself again!

Then too, I am not by any means is going to do a blog on this, but I will be open for e-mails and I will answer questions only through e-mails concerning the videos to the best of my ability! I placed 2 parts on here for the viewers to listen too! Enjoy the videos!

Using vacation time wisely can fulfill personal growth goals

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 13:51:20 PST

Hello everyone this is Tyler from Self-help enrichment! I have recieved a short guest post from Shar Ray who is a representative from Dahn Yoga Company! However, Dahn Yoga Company is based on yoga, health, and beauty! You will see that it's not the representative name on the post, but it will be as Dahn Yoga Company, which she sent to me as a representative of the company! After visiting the websites, I found some good things on their sight!

Another announcement, Next week, I will have a video for everyone to watch from youtube,I really think it is important to watch the video at all costs if you live in the United States! I wil not be writing any thing new week because I am going to focus on my upcoming book that is hopefully and probably to be released very soon! Enjoy this post guys

Using vacation time wisely can fulfill personal growth goals

Dahn Yoga Company

Looking to get away for a few days? We are currently in one of the longest stretches of the year with no major holidays, which makes this the perfect time to use a few vacation days to step away from the office and recharge the batteries.

This year, instead of heading to a spa or bringing the kids to an amusement park, why not spend some time on personal development? Using a vacation to develop the mind or the spirit may help you feel even more prepared to head back to work and make it through the remainder of the winter in high spirits.

There are many ways this can be accomplished. A vacation might be an ideal time to start the yoga or meditation class you have been considering taking for years but simply haven't been able to find the time for. With no professional responsibilities, it may become easier find the motivation to get started with these practices.

Searching for spiritual enlightenment not your thing? How about working to develop your mind? Try taking some time out to visit a few museums or peruse the bookshelves of your local library. You may be surprised at some of the things you find. This may help you open up your mind to new ideas and concepts that allow you to expand your thinking.

The more adventurous individuals may want to consider taking a trip to a wilderness destination in order to get in touch with their natural side. For example, Sedona, Arizona, offers numerous hiking options that take visitors through the majestic Red Rock formations. Adventurers have reported deeply spiritual experiences after visiting these locations. Any time spent out in nature can help individuals reconnect with more natural parts of their mind.

A person has spiritual and mental needs that may become difficult to satisfy during the course of a standard 40-hour work week. The drive to improve oneself is deeply embedded within all of us, but the desire to satisfy this need can become blunted when we have little free time.

Using vacation time to work toward your personal growth goals may be one of the most effective ways to satisfy your need for spiritual and mental development. This time of year is perfect for making plans to get away.

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Dahn Yoga is one of the largest yoga and tai chi companies in the world with its own unique style and brand of yoga.

I 'm always being nice to folks, but why do I always experience people being mean and cruel to me

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 16:27:18 PST

   In this society today, some people have been so nice, but always get back people or experience who are always mean to them for no apparent reason whatsoever! In most caes, It has caused most people to be frustrated and almost give up from being nice to other folks at all!  For some people who have been so nice to folks, and always get back folks being mean to them: they will say to themselves or to other individuals, " Forget being nice to people! This is a huge waste of my time! I am always being nice to people, but I only get back or always experience folks being rude,cruel, and mean to me! This is so frustrating! Why is this happening to me! "

And sometimes,  a person can be nice to some folks and he or she will get back people always being mean to them! The person will ask the question in their head-" Why I am always being nice ,but folks are always mean to me!?"

   The possible general answers to that question- there might been a case or situation in the past in which that person doesn't remember in the past that he or she was being mean and cruel to other people for so long, and from what that person has done in the past to other people, it's a part of their reality! Why is this? What you give and do towards people, it will come back to you!

And sometimes, the problem lies with people forget what cruelity and being to mean to others in the past, and even though they change and start being nice to other people, but it doesn't exempt them from what is going to come back to them! What am I talking about?!What you give or do towards others rather it's good or bad, or being mean to folks- it will come back to you! It's a universal law, and it's a biblical concept also!

Another general answer to the question of why  some people can be so nice to other folks, but they always get back folks being mean to them!  Sometimes in a situation, a person is very  nice to some folks, but gets back being cruelity or the folks were being to them due to a one time exprience! From that situation due to that one time exprience, it causes that person to get mad and upset, and he or she goes to complain and talk daily about it to friends or family members that these folks are so mean, or people are just plain rude!

That person doesn't know  that when he or she speaks and constantly focuses on how mean those folks were to them, he or she is creating more situations of folks to be mean to them, or the same folks to be mean to them !   In other words, what you speak daily and have given your mind total attention to how mean they were, it will cause you to create more situations of the same people or other people to be mean and harsh to you as an every day experience! In other words, it's important to be aware of what coming out of your mouth!!!!

However, it's noticed in this world that there is cruelity, harsh, and mean people, but I have realized that it doesn't have to be our every day experience ! Don't get get me wrong, every now and then, we will run into a very mean, cruel, or harsh person!

I will humbly admitt that all of us sometimes will get a little upset due a person being mean to us, and that's ok, but what I am saying is that it's important to not focus all of your mind and constantly speak daily about that situation of that person or folks being so mean to us because it causes more situations of folks being mean and more harsh than ever! It's because of what we were speaking out of our mouths and how much we have gave our mind the attention to that sitation of that person being so mean to us! What you speak daily will be your focus, and what you focus on, is what entering into your mind and spirit, what going in your mind and spirit is what you are creating as your experience!

Even though if someone was mean to you that one time due to that rare experience, it's ok to be upset one time, but move on and continue to focus finding opportunities to be nice and kind to people!

In contrast , I have realized that if we are nice and kind to people, it will come back to us! In other words, when you give out kindness, you recieve or get back folks to be kind to you because it's your focus! When you focus on being nice to other people, you are creating situations and people will come along to be nice and very kind to you!

In this society today, a lot of  people are really drawn to kindness! It's a source of love, and it's a part of the fruit of love! Some of you ask what is the fruit of love - that's longsuffering, it is patient , it doesn't even boast in oneself, and it thinks about other person besides itself or oneself, it wants the best for that person, it's always a giver!   In addition, there might be more parts of the fruits of love that I have missed didn't cross my mind at all, but we all wanted to be loved and treated with kindness!

Last word- treat folks with kindness! I am not saying let people run all over you! Depending on that situation, you have to know when to put your foot down whenever people are running all over you, and knowing when to do it!

Until the next article! Have a great and blessed evening

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

How to overcome Jealousy

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 16:40:39 PST

Hello everyone! It is the start of the new year! I want to say   "Happy New Year to Everyone, and that every person who visit or subscribes to this page will have a very great year! I wish the best for you and that this year will be the most properous! I am sorry for not having prepared the new year's wrap up as I supposed to!

As the start of the new year, I want to begin with a topic to help a lot of people in an area! But before going into that area, I want to begin first talking about -Jealousy is a blessing block and then work my way in talking about how to overcome it! In other words, it's really to segments in one!

Therefore, Jealousy is a common thing in our society today and that I really noticed that Jealousy can block a whole lot of good things from coming into one's life! When a person is jealous: It indicates something that individual has that he or she wants!

Certain indications can be in a particular talent that person has in an area that they want to be very talented in so badly! Or sometimes when a person is jealous; he or she might want the body or to be muscular, or to have a toned body, or to have the similar build as that person!  Or sometimes, that person assumes that that individual have a close relationship and it's tight, and becomes jealous because that person doesn't have it! Or sometimes, a person could be in a relationship or married to someone, he or she gets jealous just because someone is talking to their love, or someone he or she likes a lot! Or sometimes, a person would get extremely jealous just because someone got a promotion he or she didn't deserve at all, which that person feels that the promotion belongs to himself or herself!

To come to conclusion of the different things that a person could be jealous about- it can be a major hinderance and a blessing blocker for things to come in your own life! Then too, Jealousy is not only a blocker, it will do every thing in it's power to destroy and tear down other folks down! In other words, it only focus on finding ways to speak death, destroy a relationship, or speaking destructive criticism towards an individual because it's something they want!  To put it in simple terms, jealousy kills and destroys!

When a person is very jealous, that person is going to do what he or she got to do to take that individual out, and to tear them down! It's the truth, Jealous people get mad at folks who did what it takes to get there, but those people don't want to ! Jealous folks will do what they got to do in order to make themselves better so that person won't make them look like a total ass hole! In other words, That's to tear down their talent, ablities, or keeping an individual from forming a tight relationship with another person! Besides, a person who has a major problem with jealously , it's a sign that they are insecure!

If one has been jealous of a person! Here are a few simple solutions that might work for you to overcome it!

1). One thing we must realize and notice that -" There is always someone better than me! There is someone who knows more than me! There is someone who is better looking than me! There is someone who is run faster than me! There is someone who is more talented in this area than me! There is someone more toned- and more musclar than me!"

2). If one find yourself getting jealous of a person ! First thing to do, Humble yourself and go that individual to ask questions, and be open minded when he or she answers your question!

3) Another method of overcoming jealously is to humble yourself, and start learning and being taught from that person of how they got it, and you will learn and do what it takes to get what you want! Show that individual that you willing to learn and be taught! Learning is one of the great keys and you might be surpised what you will learn from that person, and it will be one of your greatest blessings! It's one of the main areas to get to get what they got, it might take days or even years! It's a good way to cure from jealously!

3) The next method might be a talent, having a toned or muscular body, or being good at something! Humble yourself and ask that person to help train and push you to get where you want to be!  You have to be committed and show commitment!

I hope that these methods has helped you in the long run and it was a blessing to you!

Until the next blog, have a great day!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

The importance of being an investor and giver rather than a saver and a hoarder

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 11:56:41 PST

Hello everyone, I am finally back since it has been a long time since I have been on here in a while due to my heavy work schedule load! I really did miss being on here during the vast long period of time because of working so much!   I tell you I had to get some rest!

Therefore,I have realized that it's almost the end of the year, and it seems as if it went by so fast! As you all know, I am working on rewriting my book- why it's so hard to forgive those who hurt us, which is going to the advanced and revised version! I am very focused on this book, which has consumed a percentage of time besides working two jobs! This book I believe, it will be one of the most powerfulest books that a person who has held unforgiveness will ever read!

Now in the these days, we are being told as a society, it seems that many people are moving away from giving and investing their money. Due to the amount fear of giving and investing, we are being taught to save our money and hold on to it!

In contrast, when I was a kid -I was always told to save my money, which I didn't think it was a bad thing at first, but as realizing growing up, I realized that saving and hoarding without an focused objective is nothing but losing in the long run! It's a biblical and a unversal principle, folks who withold and savers without a focused objective, they will lose!

Does it sound like that   I am trying to compelety knock down saving and hoarding money- " No"!   If a person wants to save money, they should have a focused objective to accomplish something in life such as starting a bussiness, buying their own home, or wanting to save in order to give or invest a lot to a particular company, charity, or something that they love, then it is the way to go!

I say this again - never save unless you have a focused objective to do something! Without an objective, savers who are hoarders will always lose on the long run, which they will grind in more fear than before! A saver without a focused objective will always be in fear of losing, and not realizing they are already losing!As being a saver without a focused objective, you really are stoping the opportunties from the universe to give back to you in abundant ways that you never imagine!

When a person doesn't have a focused objective by their savings, then they are just a hoarder of cash! They are just saving for nothing! One will realize that trying to find ways to save money, it's only losing in the long run because soon of a later, it's going to have been used in some sort, or be it will be taken somehow!

In addition, I will humbly admitt that I am still breaking that type of old pattern, which I have really improved in this area when it's comes to saving!   Don't get me wrong it will take a while to break some old pattern that has been embedded in you for years!

Being a focused investor and a giver

I believe that society should have a investing and giving mentality ! In what I mean by this -They should invest or give their money towards things that they love and enjoy, or they want to see propser!!

When you are an investor- ask yourself- what is my objective for investing or giving to that charity, colleges, or company, someone whom I  like so much that could be a writer- blogger, singer, actress,full time bodybuilder?

Besides, our true focused objective when we invest in someone whom we like, or a college, or a charity, or a company - it should be based on love- this is the main key! When we invest in a company, person or chairty which we truly love, we will never get frustrated or mad with our results and never will push us back into fear!

Also when you invest or give, you are creating situations and other people that will love you- to give or invest back into you! These are the results will produce of when you invest into things that you love so much! In other words, when you have an investor or a giving mentality- you are really making happen for charities, companies, and other folks whom you decide that need help! Being an investor or a giver- you are an abundant person!

We shouldn't make investing or giving as a one time thing- we should make investing as your living! When we focus on investing into things or people whom we love as our living!

Basically Whenever a person has a investor mentality, you will never lose! Even if you invest into companies through the stock market that you love and desire to see propser, and not getting a return right then and there, YOU WILL NEVER LOSE! Even if you invest into charities or someone like a writer, author, bodybuilder, actress, dancer, singer that you truely love, and not recieving nothing in return from them, YOU WILL NEVER LOSE!  Even if you invest into charities or colleges, and they don't give back to you in return, YOU WILL NEVER LOSE!

Some people might be saying- " Tyler, why do you say that you will never lose !? You are talking so crazy right now!"   Every thing that you invest in or give - the universe will always give back to you in ways you would never thought possible! This is a biblical concept- when you give, it shall be given back to you, good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and runneth over, shall men give into your bossom!

In addtion, the Universe -or -God will create situations to do the same thing for you in what you have done in the lives of others, companies, charities, and other people! ! You will never go without, or you will never run out when you invest or give! As being a saver without a focused objective, you will lose and run out!

I hope that ever person enjoyed this message! Until the next blog! Have a great day!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

The prediction and truth about the U.S. Dollar-( Video)

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 16:07:12 PST

Hello everyone, I am back! I am so sorry that I have not been able to write a post for the last two weeks ,which is not like me! However, I have been working lately at my 2 jobs , and still rewriting the revised and advanced edition about " Why it's so hard to forgive those who hurt us" -so much! I am so excited and I can't wait to release this book so that it could get in the hands of other people!

This evening , I wanted to write a post but I changed my mind, and have delayed my new post for maybe next week! It's some information that I have been holding and keeping it myself, but I strongly believe that every person who lives in the U.S., they need to see this video of what's going on in the ecomony and their dollar, and what's most likely to happen! I

Attn: I am not a financial person, but strongly believe what Robert Kyosaki has spoken! After doing my own homework lately on the U.S. dollar and what's behind the prices, it made a lot of sense to me what Robert Kyosaki has spoken! I can't explain well, but to me, he explains very well!

Please listen to this video below and be open-minded about this! I will be back soon with a new post!

Why you should speak good things in existence Part II

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 17:22:56 PST

I wanted to continue to my second part of this serious about speaking good things in existence!   We can create in the words based on what we speak rather it's good or bad, which could be a major part of our reality!   The words that we continue to speak have a strong intrepretation of we are feeling and what's in our heart, which is in the process of becoming a reality!

One of the main reason that I have discovered to speak good things in existence because it can have an affect on your health! I have learned that when we consistently speak good, we feel good based on what we speak! Too, I have also noticed with speaking good things consistently, it has the power to change a negative thought what we're thinking!   In other words, it brings  inward peace and rest causing us to be in a good mode after consistently speaking good words!

Speaking good things not only create our reality, but it has a creation and dicate our mindset or our way of thinking and our health!

This changes our focus and brings life to our emotional state of health! Like me, I have noticed these things while speaking good things over mine own life!

One of the main things that I speak over my life

One of the main things that speak that may sound crazy to a lot of people, I always speak, " I getting younger and younger!" I have people come and tell me that I look younger than my age, and I love them telling me that I look younger than my age!

I know that it's due to me speaking it, and exercising at the gym each week!   Some people always speak that they're getting old, and not knowning that what's a part of our experience based on their words, which I was around people like that when I was a kid! however, I always knew that I always wanted to feel and look young, which I didn't never listen to such sayings of people repeating that you're getting old, or you will become old!

However, your reality is what you speak based on what you speak! Speak great things that might seems odd and weird to people, and it will become your reality! What might seem odd to the average person, it can be something to give others to think about!

I hope everyone enjoyed this! Until the next article, have a great and blessed evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

Why you should speak good things into existence

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 14:32:01 PST

I have really had this topic in mind for this week even though I was supposed to post yersterday, and got delayed! However, I am going to make this topic very short for now, and continue this in part two! That is speaking things into existence, which is good things! First, I want to talk about our words as a brief introduction!

Our words are the form of creation rather we are speaking good or bad! I believe why so many things happen in a lot of people's life's is because of the power of our words! In other words, we speak things into existence, which we speak those things as though they were rather it's good or bad!

What we consistently speak out of our mouths, it's mainly our focus! In what most of us don't understand, consistent speaking out of the mouth causes our feelings to be an aligment for that thing that we are speaking, it will come to pass!

Every one of us have heard these saying, the person who ever speaks the most of prosperity; he or she has it, the person who speaks of goodness coming into thier lives, he or she has it, the person who always speak the most of health, he or she has it, the person who speaks of sickness has it, and the list can go on and on!

The reason why because their focus is there while consisentely speaking those things into existence! What you consistently speak, you will get it!

I will continue this in part II, and this will give a little introduction about the power of our words!

Until the next article or blog! Have a great and safe evening

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

How to know the signs of company is in danger where you're working at

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 17:17:21 PDT

Hello everyone! I hope that everyone has a good week leading up to the upcoming weekened!Me personally, I want to help those recognize when a company is in great danger so that you won't be caught off guard!   This week, it has been on my mind to do this post because a lot of people don't when a company that they're working at could be in great danger! Due to the hard times in the U.S. ecomony, a lot of companies in the United States have taken a lot of people off guard and laid them off by surprise! It's very tough when a company tells you that they don't need you any more, and it's very tough not to panic! I am not going to sit here in lie to you, it's not easy!

Before talking about the signs when a company is in danger, there are some things I want to address! The certain things I recognized with a lot of companies that they're not going to tell you what's going on behind the scences! The other thing about the majority of companies in the U.S. that are in danger or in the brink of danger, I hate to be harsh, but it's true, they don't give a damn about you, they don't care about you need  to provide for your family or yourself, they don't care if you have bills and you need to pay them, and you have to provide food on the table! In other words, the majority of these companies in the U.S.  are going to do themselves first, and what I mean by that; they're going to do what it takes in order to save money, and to do all that they can to keep their contracts alive ,so that they can be paid, and they're not thinking about you!  In put it simple words, they're going to do what they got to do! Not to say, there are some companies out there in the U.S. or in otheir countries who care about their employees, but there are a lot of them that don't care!

However, I want to  address the signs that you want to be aware of!

1). How the employees and management of the company as a whole treat each other

       This is the number one sign to look out for! I even look for this when I am working for a company!Then when you have employees and managment of the companies treating other like crap; believe me, the word is going to get about that company quick about how bad it is!

Besides,I am not to talking of one person in general, because out of every good company there is always one triffling person in the bush! I am talking about employees and managment as a whole, look at how the employees and management as a whole treat each other! This is a good indication something isn't right in the company! That's a sign that they're self-focused company rather than caring about employees as a whole!

2). Do that company lie about there isn't work and they reveal later there is, and say that later on they're extremely behind on orders

     In other words, they reveal there isn't no work! They reveal that they are in jeopardy of their contract with their customer and  have to get orders out on this date, and all the workers have to work overtime!

3). Are they customer focused, or self-focused

   This is another great sign that I look for in a company! What are they doing to bring happiness in the lives of a customer!? What are they doing new and unique in the company to bring happiness to the customer? Are customers drawn to them or not? If they are, you're company isn't in danger! If they are doing things just to keep their money flow alive, you need to question that, then they are in great danger !

4) Look at the news on the internet about that company

    To me,   a lot of managment of the company isn't going to say anything to you about if the company is in danger! The first thing that they are going to tell you! Every thing is fine! Keep up with the news on the internet about that company,  the things about a majority of companies will always come to light through the news about them losing their contract, and etc! It will always hit the news in what they're going to do with a lot of companies! Most of them might not put what's going on with their company in the newspaper, but it's always important to look at the signs! If it doesn't feel right, do a background check!

5). Are they a hoarding Company

     Some of you will say," What do you mean by this Tyler?" Are they being a blessing to you? This means- do they give a raise or probably give employees a gift card to it's employees when they continue an awesome job at the company? do they do have fish fry? Do the company  bless the employees with a lunch or dinner at the workplace because the company done well? Does the company bless all employees as a reward for doing well?, even if they have temporary employees! And do companies be a blessing outside the box, what I mean by this! Do they donate to charities? Do they donate to order to help support others ?

This is my quote- A hoarding company who witholds and treats each other like dirt is doomed to fall down later, but a donating company who supports and be a blessing in the lives of others and it's employees and it's set to be prosperous!

I really hope that these five pointers helps people who are not aware of when a company is in danger! Until the next blog! I really hope that you have a great Friday! Have a great and blessed evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan



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If something doesn't feel right, you have the right the question it Part II

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 17:36:31 PDT

Hello everyone, I am back with part II, which is the last part of the short series of this section! On the short note, the purpose of both of these series are to allow people to be aware of when something isn't right whenever they meet a person!

Besides, I am not here to tell you that you shouldn't develop a close friendship, or not go out on a date with an individual, but I am here to help you be aware of when something isn't right while in the mist of meeting an individuals, and wanting to look out for your safety! This might be an unusual article to you, but it doesn't get talked about to much dealing with self-help, and I believe that every person should look out for their safety!

In this day and time, you have to be on your guard and follow your gut when it keeps nudging you, if it's in an uncomfortable situation with another individual! Usually,There are some individuals that one can meet, and he or she can tell you do things that can be very uncomfortable or you know a person could probably land in some trouble, or probably greater than that!

In that type of situation, if you are on a date, or with a group of friends who beg you to do something that doesn't feel right! It's a great time to cut their ass off- it's not because you don't like them but you're looking at what it can lead to down the road!

Then too, The one in which I am most suspicious in these days, which is giving a person a ride whom I haven't got a clue about, or bring someone in my house, whom I haven't gotten to know well enough! This might be a nice and kind thing to do, but you could put yourself at jeopardy! Especially when it doesn't feel right!

Too, whenever you're in a position to give a person a ride; it's important to always make sure and be confident that you have gotten to know that person well enough, and you feel a peace in your heart about that person! If a person flags you down saying that they need a ride, it's best to go your way and keep going !

Besides, one doesn't know if the person has a warrant out for their arest, or a felon or the run,someone who is a felon, or someone who is a serial killer! Besides, we don't know! I am not saying it's nothing wrong with it, but if your gut telling not to do, it's best not to do that! If it doesn't feel right, and it's there, then you have the right to question it!

If God or the universe is giving you a signal not to give that person a ride! God or the universe are looking out for your safety! The universe is protecting you from unseen dangers that it's sees up ahead, it's a sign from the universe or God saying- I love you, I don't want to see you in a situation of danger, or trouble, or where it can cause you to get hurt!

However, what are your opinions on this topic?! I would like to hear them! Should you give a person a right and do a kind act, or think first and look out for safety!? What your opinion?!

Until the next artcle! Have a great and blessed evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

If something doesn't feel right, you have the right to question it Part I

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 17:24:08 PDT

Hello everyone, it's been a week since I have been on here due to rewriting my 2nd book, " why it's so hard to forgive those who hurt us"-and it's been one of the greatest blessings to write again!

In contrast, I want to talk about a question that most people always say!  Well, you aren't supposed a question a particular situation or person about something! I agree to this statement to a certain extent! If it comes to the point of a situation or being with a person and it doesn't feel right; you have every right to question that person's background or a situation because it could get you in trouble or put you in some type of danger!

First, I want to begin with a meeting a person! If you meet a person and you don't know anything about them at all! If you decide that you want to become their friend, or wanting to go on a date with them! I believe that you have the right to question their background, and what are they like! As you heard of the saying, " You never know these days who you're dealing with! It could be some one who is a felon, or someone who has an warrant out for their arrest, or someone who might beg you to do something that doesn't feel right, and could get you in trouble!" The facts are true!

Like me, when I decide if I want to be friends with a guy if I start to enjoy being around that would lead to being best friends, or if it's a girl that I begin to like, or she likes me! I will question their background! And also, if it doesn't feel right; I will immediately question it!

Some might say! Well Tyler, " You are being too supicious with your feeling!" I will say this," It's better being safe than being at jeopardy!

To all you people who decide you want to develop a relationship with any person, rather it's becoming to build a friendship with someone you like, or go on a date with a person that you begin to be attracted to! If a person doesn't want to make a confession that he or she is a felon,or he or she has a warrant out for their arrest, or they're throwing out strong hints that they can't get their story straight, cut their ass off!

It might hurt their feelings, but you are doing the right thing! It's not putting your life in great danger! I will repeat again,  If you have a strong nudge that you feel something isn't right with a person rather it's starting a friendship, or a date; it's the best thing to question them!

                                                                   True Story

I was in situation with a person, and a true life story ! Besides,"I am not going to disclose the person's name due to privacy purposes!"I met this person, and started a friendship with this individual! As getting to know the individual,the I asked the individual about their birthdate!The person told me march of 1983, and was 27 years old! I had signs that something isn't right in this situation!

I could feel it very strongly! I am saying in my head, " How can someone not know their actual age, that's odd!?  If this person was born in march 1983,would this individual be 28! That doesn't make sense!" Then in addition, I asked some more questions if I felt I was on this individual's back, and the individual told me not to question it! Too, I could not escape what I was feeling, that strong gut feeling persistant nudging me and told me something wasn't right!

However later on,I came to a point to tell the individual as it was! During that evening while at work and I told the individual like it was by text! In put in simple terms, I cutt the individual ass off!! Even though the individual was angry at me because I cut him off, this individual felt very hurt by my reponse and then told me that"you need to work on yourself, you could have friendships with other people, and I try to be there for you ,may God help you!" Do you think I hand any remorse due to the fact of cutting this individual off? - " Hell no!"

To me, I don't like ( BS) from an individual who can't get their story straight at the beginning if it's going to put my life in danger or put me in some type of trouble! Even if it's a girl or guy, if they can't get their story striaght about their background, and the gut feeling persistantly nudges me that something isn't right, and hints are being thrown that they're trying to cover something up, I will cut their ass off!! Don't like it, go find someone else!

To all the viewers, if you are meeting someone in person, or a dating website, or on craiglist looking to develop a close friendship, or wanting to date so that it can lead to marriage! Always look out for your safety while trying to start a relationship with another individual, when something doesn't feel right, and you know your gut is nudging that it doesn't feel right, like you're in danger! Some of you probably say that " If you're supcious, you are being parnoid!" I say that being supicious can be your greatest blessing when it comes something that doesn't feel right! I will say this, what ever a person trying to hide from you, and you're still with them and it continues not to feel right, believe me, it will come to light soon of a later! It doesn't get pretty when it comes to light !

I would like to hear your opinions on this subject!

Until the next blog! Have a great and blessed evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

How to worry more and ruin your life

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 12:05:26 PDT

Short note: Hello everyone! I am very sorry about last week due to being so busy with things! However, I do have to give some annoucements who are subscribers or readers of this blog! As you noticed, I have finally released my services to those who are having trouble with French! You can go on the top hand corner of the page and see the guildelines! And too, I have started to rewrite my book,-(why it's so hard to forgive those who have hurt us; revised and expanded edition)- I am thrilled to rewrite this book because I felt like I was on key at times in the previous book, but I felt I was off key, and some things were missing! I made the final decision to rewrite it, and it's been exciting to rewrite this book so there will be a huge delay in my third book- ( Why it's so hard to forgive family members). I will try my best to have the revised and expanded edition of- ( why it's so hard to forgive those who hurt us) to be released sometimes between january or march of 2012! Too, there will not be new post for next week because I will be busy focusing on this rewriting this book! Thanks again everyone for visiting self-help enrichment!

However, I want to introduce the a new and specular post from Farouk Radwan who asked me to come back to guest post for my blog again! He is a guest again, and you will love what he has to say about worrying! To me, it's not sugercoated or hidden at all in what he's talking about? In my opinion, he's telling the truth! Enjoy this short guest post and hear what he's saying about worrying!

How to worry more and ruin your life

Sounds like a weird title huh?

After all, People should give advice on how to reduce worrying and not on how to worry.

In fact I am not going to tell you how to worry more but I am going to tell you about the wrong practices some people do that force them to worry more and that ruins their lives.

By learning about these incorrect practices you will be able to avoid them and so worry less about your problems.

Here are the incorrect practices that force people to worry more:

1) Chase the data each few minutes: I know a person who kept some of his money In the stock market. Each half an hour he checks the value of his stocks and then calculate the profit/loss he made even though he didn’t intend to take any decisions based on the numbers he checks. How many times do you chase data in a similar way? Do you check your blogs traffic every few minutes? Do you chase certain data that can swing your mood? The only time you should check for such data is when you need to take an important decision but if you aren’t going to do anything anyways then stop bothering yourself!!

2) Expect the worse and be pessimistic: Some people don’t need more than one negative idea in order to turn it into a large problem. Oh my god I am late to work, what if my manager became pissed off? What if this reduced my rating this month? What if I didn’t get the raise this year because of the low rating? Omg I really need the money. That was a simple example that shows how some people turn tiny events into huge problems.

3) Be impatient: Many of the problems that seem big are found to be smaller once new data arrives. You don’t need to panic or become impatient as soon as you face a big problem because you might discover few days later that the problem wasn’t that big. I once had a work problem that kept bothering me for 2 complete months and after the 2 months was over I discovered that I was worried about something that never happened. Now I wasted two months worrying while I could have enjoyed my time!

4) Don’t have a backup plan: One of the main reasons people worry is that they don’t have backup plans. Once you realize that you have another plan that you can follow in case things go wrong you will be much more relaxed. If you lost 50 dollars but had another one in your other pocket you won’t feel as bad as you would have felt if you only had 50 dollars.

5) Don’t be prepared: The less you are prepared to face life problems and the less life skills you have the more worried you will become whenever you face uncertainties. Whenever you get the chance to learn a new skill just do it and you will find that you worry less

Written by M.Farouk Radwan

Founder of http://www.2knowmyself.com

Distractions and situations that just come out of nowhere,and has knocked you down- how to handle it

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Thu, 15 Sep 2011 16:21:10 PDT

Hey everyone! I apologize about not being on here for last week because it was a heptic week for me! My aplogizies to my readers for not keeping them informed in what was going on throughout last week! Bascially, I am back on schedule for this week and to keep you informed!

However throughout the week, I was thinking about strong distractions that can catch us off guard! Most situations that has happened, or is happening in our lives, most of us don't worry or stress out over because we have developed to be mentality strong when that situation tries to show up again! Most of us think, " Oh! That situation isn't nothing to me! Therefore, that situation just rolls over our shoulders!"

Bascially, there are some situations that come out of nohwere that can knock the mess out of us! I mean that some situations and distractions can hit so hard it can get make us stop being positive or get our focus off track! It's like being in the boxing ring," One situation was easy! Another situation is like Mike Tyson, which it knocks the mess out of us!" Some situations out of nowhere can be so strong until it can cause us to start being negative for that moment!

I want to ask you question readers, " Was you feeling happy througout the day, and a strong situation just knocked you down like Mike Tyson later that day!? I mean that it was something that you have never encountered at all, but it just shows up out of nowhere and hits you very hard and causes stress, and you try to shake it off, but it like Mike Tyson, it keeps on hitting hard, and you seem to shake it off mentality!"

Another question to ask, " Have you ever happiness and peace for many of days, but focusing on the good things, and no type of distraction or situation haven't hit you in months or weeks! All of a sudden, it's like two or three things just come and hit you at one time on that particular day in which you didn't expect it! It takes your focus off seeing good things come into your life, and takes your focus off being positive off guard for that day, and then it causes us to be very negative!

Some of us can be like in these situations, " Are you serious!? Where in the hell did you come from -distraction or situation? If it's not one thing after another! I am tired of this crap! Why did you show up! I didn't ask for you- Go the hell away!" You're like, " Why did you decide to show up! What the hell is wrong with you!? Isn't this an uncertian time that you decide to show up? Nobody asked you to come here!"

My short story, and how to handle giant situations

With me, i can relate to the readers who have experienced these types of situations! I have dealt with them myself! In my own life, there have been some situations in life can hit so hard and I say to myself, " My goodness, where did this situation decide to show up! Are you Mike Tyson? " My mind don't be as strong on that day to shake it off! There are sometimes I am like, weeew wee! This is something else!"

I remember one time that I had to pay a lot to get my car fixed, and you talking about going to the cross that day, but I had to do it! I just couldn't shake it off, it knocked the living mess out of me,I could think about what was in my account in how I could survive for the week before getting my pay check at the end of the week , and I was being so negative also! It knocked the living mess out of me!

The lady at the front of the mechanic shop told me nicely of a situation with a person, which was worser than mine and it brought me to reality, and my mind got back on course after she told me of that person situation with their car! Believe me, it was worse than mine, which brought my mind back to reality!

The woman didn't know that her reminder helped me that someone has worse than me somewhere! After I left, I reminded myself of that, and it took deeply to hear in what she said! Among with reminding myself of that, I would say and think agressively that everything will work out for my good! I also spoke," Goodness has already came out of my situation" However, it worked and I felt much better at the moment, and it went away! However, I had to be agressive when my mind was menatlity weak towards that situation!

My point is how to handle a giant situation that knocks the mess out of you,- is to always remind yourself someone somewhere has it worse than you?! Or put yourself where someone tells you a story of someone has it worse!? And too, Agressively focus that good things has arrived out of this situation!

Most of you are like "Tyler"- What sense does that make!? Sometimes, we do need to hear a story of someone in a worser shape than us,but a similiar scenerio! Or sometimes with few people, it doesn't help by hearing a story, I believe that they need to see with our own eyes, and be in that worser situation than their own!Besides, I am not trying to be mean or nothing like that, but some people have different mindsets where something will help, or something won't at all !

I hope that this helps, or was a blessing to you! Until the next blog, I hope everyone have a great evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

Visitors,finance authors,and self-help authors who don't have a blog: Want to rant or do a guest post for self-help enrichment

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 12:31:07 PDT

Hello everyone, I am going to make this short! Too, I have been strongly focusing on my third book, " Why it's so hard to forgive family members!"

Thereby two weeks ago, I received an e-mail from a reader who is a subscriber of this blog, and he explained very well about suffering and some ways I didn't think about it! After reading his opinion, I sat there and thought about how many readers financial authors, financial teachers and self-help authors who don't have a blog, but just write books, they have good content to give to other readers! I mean that they have good stuff to give out to other people!

Even in the self-help world that they can give to other people, it can be a blessing to them! Also people who self-help writers, or novelist who write on issues, if you have a foundation,website of your book that can to help others, you can put it at the bottom of the page while writing the content!

Too, people who are financial teachers and authors who don't have a blog, you have the oppournity to post content based on financial information that can help a person on this blog!

Even if you have non- scam and honest home-based business to help others fiancially,nothing scam wise because I will be strongly looking out for that! Don't think you can fool me with scams because I know it! I am not going to give nothing to the audience that I am not aware of!

And readers and subscribers that you have awesome opinions and rants on issues in life!All of us want to make others laugh and relate to our issues! Or it could be some type of information that you want to give to help someone!

However, I will post a guildelines on what I won't accept! I would like readers and self-help authors to pitch in order to be a blessing to somebody else! It's you giving back, or making a person relate to your situation just as bloggers give back to you in order to be a blessing in your lives! I believe that readers, subscribers have good stuff to give to other readers who are out there!

Contact me about this opportunity!

Until the next blog! Have a great weekened!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

Would you quit worrying folks and let them have a vacation or rest on their day off

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 14:18:52 PDT

Hello, everyone!  This topic came to me during the week because of talking with some people concenring this topic! it's something that need to be addressed immediately! Now, I am not talking about emergencies!Get that straight, you need to attend to a person when it's an emergency such as a flat tire, or a car broke down, or someone is in the hospital, or someone was in a wreck! They need a ride to work or need a ride from work!A person needs someone to talk to and is very depressed! I am not talking about that ! We need to attend to those things! ! In this case, I am talking about people who refuse to give you any rest or any room to relax on a day off!

Besides, This will be another rant, and it will be funny for those who can relate, then you probably can say " Amen" ! At the same time, it won't be a feel good message for those who have been doing these things to other people! This message will be mentioned to people who have been doing this, they might get offended, but what the heck, it needs to be addressed!

Throughout this topic,I want to keep it real with my readers who can relate to things mentioned on this blog, and can laugh if they can relate or been through the same type of deal! And readers or other bloggers, I want to show you certain sides of my personality! I know most of you enjoy guest post or information on this blog that can help you out in a life's situation! Sometimes, I think that we need rants so that others can relate to in order to show that you aren't in this situation alone, but at the same time, some people will be offended, which it won't surpise me!

However, I have been noticing lately of how many people go through this type of deal, even I myself go through this type of deal! Some people have the mentality that they are their slave and or their pet! They don't want you to live, but they don't care about how tired you are mentality and emotionally by working 2 jobs, or work one job and have to ateend to your children, or vise versa! They don't want you to go and enjoy life, and live it to the fullist! What do I mean by this!? They want to call and worry the hell out of you in order to do this and that work even if you are on a vacation! They want to worry you when you are off! They want to come to your house and worry you while you are trying to get rest! They will even blow up your cell -phone worrying the hell out of you to do some work on your time or rest and day off!They think that you're super man or superwoman to do everything at one time!

Besides, It's a danger to tell folks or certain family members when your day off is! I am saying this again, "Don't let folks or certain family members know when your day is off!" Or If you work at home, don't tell them that! You will mess your life up trying to be their slave! Like me, I don't! They will come and worry the hell out of you then so that they can drain you by doing other work! When they do know your days off, believe me! They are going to blow your phone up! They don't care if you need rest or not, they only think of their matters in what needs to get done, not yours at all!

They don't understand the meaning of these terms, I am tired and need to get some rest! Or I am extremely sick, which I need to get some rest! Or I need a vacation, and I need to relax! When you say these things to most people who want power and control of you, they get mad and upset! They don't seem to comprend this statement! They want to lay a guilt trip on you and try to get you to do what they want! Or they will try make you feel bad so that you can be up under their control!

  Most of them will think in their minds and say to you, " Well, you can't help me do this and that! You are being selfish and selfcentred!" If you have been told this statement like I have! You need to put your foot down and give a reminder to them and say," Okay then, you don't care, you want me to be in the hospital, I am not trying to jepordize my health because of your mapulative and controling ways! You is putting my health on the line, and you want me to work when I am off, and I need rest! You are crazy!If I don't get rest, I will land in the hospital and get some disease that you might not want to hear about! I got two jobs, and something I do on the side,which I hardly don't get rest! Or I have a job and I have children to take care off! I have already a truckload over my shoulders!"

If they don't take heed to it, and get offended! Something is wrong with them because they want control and they don't care nothing about you! It's just as simple as that! Or folks that want to put throw that crap in your face! Oh I forgot, some folks want to use put this guilt trip or say something like, " You're a young man or woman, you're supposed to be a work-acholic whole lot!" I got news for some of the older people who have that mentality! I said, "SOME"! I didn't say all older people!!!!! Don't twist and say that I said all older people or old folks have that mentality because most of them don't!

A young person will get worn down by that, and can have very bad health problems due to lack of rest! So quit trying to throw that on younger people!They are not superwoman or superman, you know! You need to be brain washed from your slave and controling mentality!

Let me tell you this, I am not going to not suger coat this ! An acquantice of mine who was 23 years old,who went to the hospital just because of doing this and that for folks and at the same time having heavy burdens, by school work and work! He had to have operation on his brain of a small tumor just because he didn't get any rest! He had two months off where he didn't couldn't do anything!

For the people who want to relax and enjoy your selves or have a day off, enjoy yourself and life, and the things that you enjoy! You have the right to enjoy your self! You have the right to have a day off and enjoy yourself! Some of you haven't enjoyed yourself in a long time! Take a stand, Sometimes you don't need to answer your phone on your vacation or day off, let it blow up! I have done this before so that I can get rest and recuperate! If that person doesn't leave a message on your voice mail and isn't clear about what they want in order to determine if it's an emergency, don't answer it! They didn't want nothing in the first place!

I want to bring this to your attention! After I read a short statement in the book called" The laws of thinking" It says this, " Ideas create wealth and slavery destroys health!" I want to say those who are letting people control you and do this and that for them and not let you get rest You are living as their slave, and it will destroy your health! Remember, " Ideas create wealth and slavery destroys health!"

I have fussed and ranted enough! I hope that most of you have probably laughed or could relate to this type of issue! I will not have any compassion towards those who are offended and mad because that tells me that they are doing it themselves, and they need to heart examination!

Special note: Next week readers, I will be taking off from writing from my blog! I will be marketing my blog more agressively and getting back to working on little more my third book! At the same time, I will be resting and relaxing my mind! However,I will give you updates throughout the week on the self-help enrichment page, which you will see on the right hand corner! If you want to recieve updates, and keep up with the news around my blog self-help enrichment, click like on the self-help enrichment page on the right hand corner! Thanks so much!
Until the next blog, have a great and blessed day!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

What is your opinion about suffering in life

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 13:43:55 PDT

Hello everyone! This particualar subject as in fact will not be a very long subject because I would love for readers and other bloggers to discuss their opinions on here about suffering!

The other day, I went down my parents house and was reading some an article in a magazine about the subject of suffering, which it did speak about religious beliefs for the possibilties about the cause of suffering! It explained different aspects about suffering, but it was from a religious aspect! However, there were two points mentioned in the magazine about the causes of suffering or a particular bad things happening in the lives of people are true in which I agree with these statements 100%.

You probably are asking, " What are those points that were mentioned in the book Tyler?" Let me bring them out to you!

1). Did we cause suffering in the lives of other people for us to reap back suffering

This point I really liked, I find this to be really true! When one does evil, triffing, or doing lowdown things in the lives of other people, he or she will reap the conquences of our past actions! I want to add this statement also! When one gives people a hard time and creating hell in their lives, and stressing them out for no reason, one will reap back the bad situations and things due to their past actions of what he or she has done to other people!

2) Do you do things to your body to cause suffering later on

This is another point that it brought out! Even though I am not a religious actic, but I really agree with this statement! Do you smoke a lot, and later one ends up with cancer or problems with their lungs, or heart problems so that suffering can happen in the future!?

In my opinion, I believe that sometimes that we can cause suffering in our lives just by what we could be sowing bad or evil in the lives of other people, and it hold true with the body! My other opinion in such cases, we don't cause suffering, it happens in untimely events! For example, there are sometimes most of us could be in a hellish household during childhood, which we didn't qualify to be in that family and we were placed there at an untimely event in life, but most of us couldn't change it at all, but most of us had to suffer and endure those situations! At the same time, most of us probably learned from those experiences and wanted to bless other people!

That's it guys! I really want to hear from all readers and other bloggers about their opinions about suffering! Do you believe that a person is supposed to suffer!? What are your thoughts about this subject!? I would like to hear your opinions!

Until the next blog! Have a blessed and great day!

Copyright(C) Tyler J.Logan

Negative mind and life's distractions: How to fight against it

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sat, 06 Aug 2011 13:21:26 PDT

It's been just about a whole week since I have been on here! So sorry readers for the great delay of a new post! However, I have something that I want to talk about today, which most people have trouble in! That's get focused off their negative distractions!

Negative distractions in life is something that a lot of people go through, which I can relate because it a great fight against it! However, the negative distractions objective is to have us get our focus and attention towards the postive and manifesting great things in our lives!

As for me, I have learned that negative distractions don't have any power unless one gives their attention or mind to that distration long enough! That's when the negative distraction have the power to make things worse! In order words, where your focus is, you will give attention and energy to it, and when one contrentrates their mind towards what ever has gotten attention the most, it will come into manfestion or will become as your reality! To put it simple terms, what you focus on, you will get!

Basically,I want to tell a short story in order for you of what happened to me 5 weeks ago for an example so that most of you readers can understand

Five weeks ago, I was at work! A fellow coworker of mine told me that my eye was very red, which I thought, " What is going on!" After I got off work the following day, I went to the book store, and my eye begin to feel worse, and it was gooey stuff out of my eye! When I got home, I laid down for a minute and my eye calmed down, then when I open it felt worse! However, I called a fellow relative and asked her about the problem and she told me that I had the cases of the pink eye! I rushed to her house and she told me what type of eye treatement to go get! We went to get the prescription from the store and came back, I put the eye dropper in, and that stuff working, and I kept rubbing and picking at my eye, and complaining about my issue of the pink eye because of that gooey stuff coming out! I focused my energy on how the pink eye was kicking my butt, and it felt more worse! I focused so much on the distraction until it was pitful!

The next mourning, I woke up and my eye was gooey, and I looked in the mirror, I am like that's groose, I never had the pink eye before! Bascially I called in and took off from work that day! I was feeling not confident and worse,I was thinking about going to the doctor! Something lead me to put my video called the secret, and I watched it for a while, then it reminded me to focus my thinking on the best! While I did that, I focused agressive on my eye being healed while taking my prescription medicine for my eye! I begin to feel my eye getting better! I called my mom and told her ,I would be to her work place!

She didn't want me to speak negative and she gave me some lecture about not listening to negative hearted people, claim and focus on that your eye is already healed, and continue to take your prescription medicine for your eye four times a day! Don't rub or touch your eye! You are fine "son"!

After leaving her workplace, I took her advice and started to see my eye being healed while taking my eye presciption medicine 4 times a day for my eye! In the mist of that distraction to my body,I focused on that my eye was already healed! I seen the vision of my eye being as white as snow! Within 3 days, my eye was as white as snow! I was so amazed!

Special note:For most of you readers, you haven't had the same deal as me or experienced a distraction like that! This is only an example, if you feel that you need to go to the doctor concerning medical reasons, do that, but have the vision and claim that you are already healed, while taking your medicine to help you to get healed!

In order to be stop distractions, one has to get agressively focused! I mean very agressive in order to see results so that the distractions will stop! I learned that a negative distraction won't go away by condicence, you have to fight against it!

Few ways to fight against a distraction

1). Get videos of postive personal development videos like "the secret"! Listen to it over and over again! This is a main tool to fight against distraction! Or get other positive videos to get your mind of that negative distraction! This is a tool to get your mind off the distraction! Don't do it every once and while because those negative distractions in life or in the mind will make an attempt to come back!

2). Practice seeing yourself out of that bad situation! Pretend like '"you are already out of that situation! This has already happened" See a vision of yourself that the good as already came out of this situation! Give your attention to that daily and say thank you that " The good has already came out of the situation! Don't do it every now and then! Nothing will happen that way! You have to be agressive every day, and focus agressively on that every day!!

Note: Never say, " I am coming out of this situation because it will ended always being futuristic!"

3). Get away from people who are very negative! This is a very important factor! Some people don't believe the impossible! It's very important to get away from those type of people because they will make you feel down, and worser about your self!

I hope that everyone have enjoyed this post! Thanks so much!

Until the next blog have a blessed day and evening

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

This is how to say no

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 14:35:12 PDT

Special note: Hello everyone, this is Tyler from self-help enrichment ! I have a great guest post from farouk who is the founder and blogger of from 2knowthyself.com! I really loved this post because I can relate to it because it's time that we start learning how to say no to partiucar situations in life! I really ask you to comment and give your opinions on what he has to say because I think it's good stuff!

As for this week , I will be off for the rest of the week in order to do some marketing for the blog, and try and contrentrate on my new upcoming book! Thanks again!

This is how to say no

No this is not an article about learning how to say no when someone asks you for a favor that you don’t want to do or when someone tries to step on your rights but it’s an article about saying no to life when it tries to force you to live a life that you don’t want to live.

There are two types of people in this world those who escape and those who say no. When the first type of people face a problem they decide to use any of the escapement methods available to them.

Some people escape to drugs in order to forget about their problems, others try to escape by acting as if the problem is not there while a third group escapes by sleeping most of the day instead of being awake to deal with the problem.

Those who say No

The second group of people are the ones who say no to unwanted changes that happens in their lives. Those people don’t say no by shouting, screaming or crying buy they say no by working harder, learning more, developing commitment, sleeping less, being more positive, standing their ground, fighting back and deciding that they won’t take a rest until they solve this problem.

Those who say NO to life the way I mentioned are the ones who become successful and the ones who usually have the last laugh.

How to say no to a big problem

As soon as you face a big problem its ok to feel bad, down and to even cry. After all suppressing emotions is not a good idea but as soon as few days pass its time to pull yourself together and say NO.

Analyze the problem in order to come up with an action plan that could help you solve it even if you aren’t sure that this plan is going to help.

Say no by sticking to this plan even if you don’t feel like.

Say no by trying hard even if you lack the needed energy

Say no by educating yourself more and more about the problem so that you can adjust your plans

Say no by standing up once again even if your plan didn’t work

Say no by setting another plan and working on it

The next time you face a big problem or feel really bad because your life is going in the wrong direction pause for a moment then say NOOO

By M.farouk Radwan

The founder of http://www.2knowmyself.com/

Why you shouldn't trust a nosy person Part II

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Wed, 24 Aug 2011 17:30:23 PDT

This post will probably help most readers be aware of very nosy people! There is a thing that I am putting out here to the readers there is a great important into not trusting a nosy person! Will they go away? In my opinion, "No"! Should you trust a nosy person! In my opinion, " heck no!" I don't care if it's family!You shouldn't trust them if they are very nosy!!

Most of you might be asking, " Where is this going?! It's a rant and not going to be sugercoated ,  it's not going to be a feel good message to those who are extremly nosy, but can be very funny for those who can relate to this information! As to the readers, you can probably relate to what I am going to present! To a place that I can say, " I don't blame you at all!"

Actually, most nosy people don't seem to comprehend the term! " It's none of your business!"   My goodness, Most of them can get so offended when you say," none of your business!" Or most of them are so bold they want you to push the information out of them until they want you to be mean and say something harsh! To the extent, you sometimes have to say something harsh or something that's going to strike them emotionally will cause them to stop asking private questions!

Sometimes, you have to be mean and harsh to a bold nosy person! That's when they will stop! Get this straight people, that nosy person doesn't have an attractive, excited, aroused, or no interest in having a deep relationship with you, which means curiousity! A very nosy person is out to get your information in order to twist and probably even to destroy you! So, don't be thrown off or decieved by the statement when a very nosy person says,"I was just curious!"That person is throwing you for a great loop because you are falling in their trap!

Besides, when they get piece of information, they run like leperchauns like they have grabbed a piece of gold! This is how nosy people are, they are like leperchauns searching and wanting gold! Remember this, Information is like gold!

This is going to offend a lot of people! You and I have been told this statement! "Well, I just want to get to know you!" You say "Tyler" What's wrong with that statement!?

Now, there is nothing with that statement! Whenever one doesn't put the action and effort to show that one isn't interested in that person in order form a relationship or friendship, and one continues to say statement, " I want to get to know you!" This is a huge red flag, which He or she is just contridiciting himself or herself, and is faking around playing a game with you in order to get information! In order words, their words are saying one thing, but their actions doesn't show it at all!

It's like playing the game cat and mouse! You was the mouse, and the nosy person was the cat! You was the mouse caught by the cat! As my mom told me, " Actions speak more louder than words!"

Most nosy people will use that statement in order to get to the bate! If you're not careful, you will fall into their trap! The biggest trick that a nosy person will do! Most people will pull that type of trick!

Now, I want to bring out 2 more pointers why you shouldn't trust a nosy person

(1) .A very nosy person doesn't know when to keep their big mouths shut!

   In order words, they don't know when to shut their mouths when someone tells them not to tell another individual a certain piece of information! They just don't know when to stop talking to much!They just talk to damn much! They don't think about," this person might not want me to open my mouth about this!" They just open their big mouths and don't know when to shut it! They will look for ways to embrass you in front of people, which is by opening their big fat damn mouths! They will open their mouth about something in front of people to disclose your privacy! They do this mess on purpose without thinking! They will go around your back and tell other people!

  If you notices a person who runs their mouth telling other people's business, or embarassing you! You need to get away from them, because they aren't meant to be in your life! They 're not proven to be trustworthy!

(2). A very nosy person is out to spread and twist your information about you

Now, this is another thing that nosy people can do! They are out to spread and twist your information so that they can try to tear you down! They don't care how they do it, just as long as they have spreaded the infomation, peverted and twisted! They will get around their group of people and gossip about your information and twist it so much until it doesn't sound like the truth!

Final word

This is my rant for today! It might have been funny, or might have put some fire and offended some people! In the long run, if people stop being so nosy! There will be more trust in the form of developing deep relationship or friendships! Besides, I am not sorry if it offend someone! I am being real with you!

Until the next blog! Have a great evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

How to find your happiness

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 14:14:49 PDT

In today's society, we have a lot of people who aren't happy at all! It may depends on their circumstances, trials, or having hell with family members, employees, or coworkers, or maybe their religion!   It could be all types of difficult situations in life that makes us unhappy, or the things we like to have!

Usually, some people says that happiness isn't defined in money! Others might say that happiness isn't defined in the relationship that you want! However, we can observe that there are different cases where people can define their happiness!

I can relate to all the viewers who want to find happiness, and which they don't know how to find happiness and especially through trials and rough situations, which we have a lot of questions of how to get out of the situation! There is a statement most of you probaby have done just as me, which it took me a long time to change my focus!

Finding happiness in your tough circumstances

Most of you have probably heard of this known statement defined, " I will be happy when I get out of this situation or this type of circumstance, or this relationship, job, or I will be glad when I get away from this group of people!"   Besides, I have been accused of saying such things! I even done this with the some difficult people or job that I couldn't stand, which it brought more unhappiness, when I change my focus and my thinking, that's when the difficult situation changes! Besides, Let me explain this to you!

Whenever one focuses on the "When" in the difficult situation, it brings just brings more unhappines because "when" is always in the future tense, and not in the now stage, which the circumstance doesn't never change at all!

To change the difficult circumstance, change begins with you and your focus! In other words, change your outlook about the situation!This is what the universe requires of you! Or this is what God requires of you! Believe me, it took a while for me to get this! And then too, You say "Tyler"! How can you do that?!

Change your focus off the difficult circumstances, and focus your thoughts on good things! For example," If you are in a circumstance with a difficult person or an a challenge, focus your thoughts and say within yourself, " This situation has already changed for the good! There is already good out of this situation! There is already an abundance of blessings out of this difficult situation!" Focus and act that it has already happened and you will begin to feel so good! It might take work,but you will find so much happiness while focusing on those things! The situation will change!

With me, I wish that I could have known this in my earlier years! It has done so much in my own life right now! I am glad of discovering this now!

Find your happiness

In order to find your happiness, focus and think about the things that you love, which are in you, and concentrate on those things! This is where your happiness come from, the inward you, which is in your heart !When you focus on the things that you love, you will find your happiness!

I will say again that, " The things that you have a great love for and have great passions for in your heart , this is what defines your happiness!

For examples," Like if you love to travel, " Focus on different places that you will love to go!" If you love to watch football or soccer, " Focus and when the season starts, get to a the nearest television!" If you love to write," Focus on the things that you love to write about in order to be a blessing to lives of other people!" If you have a love and a passion for outdoors and hunting, " Focus and get a vision of your self in the outdoors and hunting!" If you have a love and passion for music," Focus and put your self in the vision of the music you love to create!" If you love watching a person speak, " put yourself in the position of getting that person's tapes, or dvd, and listening to them!" If love to have romance in a relationship, " Focus and image what it will be like, and be specific to the universe what you want in that relationship!" If you love to have a close friend, " Focus on what it will be like, and be specific to the universe of what you want in that relationship!" If you love to workout, " Focus yourself and visualize your self workout, and go find at gym to go workout at!"This is where the fun begins at!

Ever since doing this, I have found myself more happier when I contrentrate on the things that I love and have great passion about!

I really hoped that this has helped! I hope to hear your comments!

Until the next blog, have a great evening

Copyright(C) Tyler J.Logan

Mid-year updates 2011

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sat, 02 Jul 2011 12:20:49 PDT

Hello to all my readers, I would like to give my thanks to all the people who enjoy and liked my self-help enrichment page! My plan and vision for this blog and to give self-help and personal development information to enrich other peoples' lives, and to the people who read blog, which can relate to life's situations!

Today, I wanted to do a short outline on today's updates! First, I would like to thank again for those who clicked liked on my self-help enrichment page, it has been year and half since I started this blog!

My first update is that I am still working on different things in order to give benefical information and the best-interest to other personal development and self-help bloggers in order to raise the vision for this blog! I have been working on more marketing for this site, so that there will be more benefit and more help to more readers! Lately, I got a letter from one reader on how an article that I written, it blessed and help him a lot to which he found answers, and I was very happy about that!

This is the goal and vision for this blog is to write unique personal development and self-help articles, and write situations that you can relate to! In order words, I want to keep a for real attitude on this blog, and be myself, and not try and be a copy-cat! My next goal is connect with the readers relating to life's situations! The readers are the life of this blog!

Next, I am still in process of writing my new book, " Why it's so hard to forgive family members", which I am still focusing on writing right now! I am focusing on making this one of the most benefical books to help readers and things that they can relate to!

Once I get done with that book, there will be another book that I will be focusing on my new future book' Financial mind Order!"I have had thoughts about this book! I have been thinking about focusing on this book after I am done with previous book!

Also readers, next week, I will be taking that week off from my blog to get rest, and focus!

Stay tuned

Until the next blog, have a great evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

The Foundation of All Abundance

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sat, 25 Jun 2011 12:59:52 PDT

Hello everyone, I have a very great post by Baker Jacinto who is the blogger and founder of bakerthebrand.com, and he has written a guest post on here before and that I enjoyed his explainations concerning the law of attraction! Bascially, I asked for him to come back to do a guest post concerning the topic that is mentioned below! And later, there will be a post of his book that I have read about Baker's Recipe for Sucess, and I will give my thoughts and my opinions on his book, which was very good! Therefore, I ask you to read what Baker has to speak about abundance and lack!

The Foundation for All Abundance
By: Baker Jacinto

“When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears”

-Anthony Robbins

When you chase after something desperately, you are coming from a place of lack. This happens to a majority of people. This is okay, this is what people do in their life. You want better relationships your first instinct is to chase after it. If you are seeing lack in money the first instinct is to chase after it. This is not wrong. It is just something we all humans first instinctively choose to do, because this is how we are conditioned to think. It’s survival mode. We choose to chase after that which we feel is lacking in our life.

Paradigm Shift

However, the paradigm shift that many people are starting to develop more awareness of, is this idea of acknowledging the good that already is in their lives. This paradigm shift is the foundation of all abundance. You see the truth is that the more you try hard to chase after that which you perceive you don’t have, the more you give your power away to not having that thing. Why is it that people who are working long hours at jobs they dislike, get a paycheck every 2 weeks, but don’t feel abundant?

They are getting paid a sum of money, but they don’t feel this abundance that I write about.

Abundance is Everywhere

The truth is that abundance is everywhere. There really is no lack in this world. When you look up in the sky, and see the stars there is a plenitude of it, there is not lack of it. The list goes on. When you come from your true essence and acknowledge how abundant the world really is, then you become more open to the abundance into flowing into your life. When you do this, when you appreciate and tap into gratitude, you will know and feel abundance. This is the secret to wealth, prosperity, great relationships, and anything else in your life. Because when you come from the place of accepting what is already there, you pull more towards you. Begin now to acknowledge the good you already have. Express your joy for what you have and you will live abundantly. I urge you to begin to focus on what is already there, not on what you think is missing. From this place of awareness, abundance continues to manifest. Abundance comes when you are acknowledging the good that is already in your life.

Author: Baker Jacinto

Baker's World Blog
bakerthebrand.com

Copyright(©) Baker Jacinto

How money can buy you happiness

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 14:56:18 PDT

At first, I was very hesistant to write on such a post because I didn't want to stir up any great arguments among people or self-help authors! However, I held this information for so long and didn't want to talk about this subject at all to other people!

In the long run, I finally came to a conclusion that there will always be some people with the wrong beliefs and negative mindset about money, and they are going to say what they want to say negativity! And now at this point, I'm ready to take my crucifixion concerning this post because I don't want to hold back this information from readers who might want some answers and help so that they won't feel guilty -can money buy happiness or not?

This is a subject is very common among our society, but it's the other way around! Money can't buy you happiness! Most of you are very fimiliar with that certain subject that has been spoken by self-help authors or other people!

To get down to the answer why self-help authors or other people say, " Well money doesn't make you happy?!" My answer to this statement in why do self-help authors or other people say this," The answer to that question is because they see a lot of people with a lot of money, but aren't happy in the long run! Those categories of people are millionaries, celebrities, or people who are making a net income of 100,000 dollars a year or more at a job, and even close to that!

Why aren't these people happy!? It's simply because they haven't woke up to their calling and found their true passion in life! The passion and calling in their inner-self haven't been discovered yet! So, the fields they're making a lot of money, it doesn't connect with their passion or calling, which leads to they aren't happy at all!

Let's get down to bussiness at the couple of things of how can money buy you happiness!

Number 1

Look at the hidden treasure in your inward self, that hasn't been discovered that needs to be pulled out! In other words,one can look within oneself, and take look what do you enjoy and passionate about, what you are deeply passionate about inwardly, is your calling in life!

Number 2

After finding the the hidden treasure or more, Ask your self the question, "is it something that you can go on years without stopping to do it, which does it create great excitement for me!?" Your passion and calling creates excitement, not to be a burden!

In order words, If you have a great passion and excitment either cooking for people, sprinting, writing, investing, music, teaching, creating inventions to benefit other peoples' lives, preaching, coaching, or having mlm, and much more!! When you discover your passion and calling, and then you decide that you want to make money based on what you're passionate about, and then the money will cause great happiness and excitement!

This is where true abundance flows at inwardly and outwardly! In other words, you're giving to others what's in you, and then it comes back to you!

Stort statement:

To say this statement, some people haven't discovered their passion and calling, which they are in jobs where they are making a lot money, but they aren't happy there at all! In other words, they fuss and gripe that they don't want to be there at that job!

It's the same things with a lot of celebrities! They're making a lot of money because haven't discovered their passion or calling in what's in them, which is the inward- self ! But when they discover their passion and calling, happiness will follow, and then the money will create joy and happiness!

Final word

I really hope that this has helped somebody or blessed somebody! I would love to hear your comments on this topic! Tell me your thoughts! I believe that money can buy happiness if you are in your passion and calling!

Until the next blog! Have a great evening and day!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

Why am I going through this tough situation

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Mon, 13 Jun 2011 11:11:43 PDT

This post is for every person who might be going through a tough trial! Most of us have asked questions about why are we going through a particular situation! Sometimes, we want a deliverance from the trial or situation very bad until it doesn't make any sense!

As for most of us, we have heard of the phrase or religiously, when we get done passing one level, there is a new challenge and new devil right around the corner to try to get us off focus on the good things of life! Usually, this new challenge and new devil just shows up out of nowhere, which leads  to this question, " Why in the world am I going through this!? Where in the world did this unknown challenger come from!?Why am I in this situation? It could be any different types of situations, which are unexplainable to give glimpses!

Therefore, I want to give a glimpe one tough situation in order to cover the topic, and probably you can relate to it, just like me!

There might be one situation that someone who gets on your nerves to the teeth, and you don't want to fool with that person at all, or a group of people!

Every time, that person or group of people come around the corner, " Oh my goodness! I have got to get away from this person at all costs! It's time to escape, I don't have time to fool with that person, or this group of people! That person is like hell on earth! This group of people are like hell on earth!"

In the mist of their presence, you sometimes yell at that person, or say things to stop them from getting on your nerves- but still it doesn't help at all! That person is still persistant! You're like, " Goodness Gracess of me! Get out of my presence for goodness sake! I surely don't like you!"

Let's answer this question! Have you been in  situation where you could not get away from the person who got on your nerves? You had no choice, but to be quiet, try and ingore that person, but it still doesn't work at all! Or you speak out of anger and a low-tone voice, or probably cuss them out, but it still doesn't work! After that period of time dealing with them, there are images like, I want to get a belt and beat this person down to the teeth!

After it all, we say to ourselves, " That person might have won the battle, but he or she hasn't still won the war at all! I will ingore them more and he or she will get frustrasted! " At the same time, we are angry and hot like fire!

Besides, I can relate to these type of situation because I know how most of you readers feel, we feel like "Why is this person so hard to deal with?" This person is like a night-mare on elm street!"

Let's look at a few possible answers

At the end, most of us start asking the question," Why I am in this situation!?"

Let's look at the reasons why!

1). Start saying and focusing yourselves on!" The solutions will come to my mind about this situation! When you focus on the purpose and solutions to the situation, then the answers will come all of a sudden!  Remember, what you focus on you will get!

2) Could it be that one has probably gave other people a hard or opressive time, but one is reaping what he or she has sowed to other people! When one give a person a hard time, he or she will get it back!

3) Depending on the situation, it could be to drive that very hidden mean atittude out of us in order to make a change in your thinking ,or to develop great character in us!

Now with number 3, I have been through this one so many times till it's pittful, I am like, don't touch that button or don't try me, I am not playing!" I want to be honest with you, it's painful!

Final word

I really hope that this post helped you a lot! I would love to hear your comments on this subject! What are your thoughts and opinions! Until the next blog! Have a great evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

A person who doesn't talk to you, doesn't mean he or she has the problem

noreply@blogger.com (My name is Tyler J.Logan) — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 12:42:13 PDT

Besides, I want to let another side of my personality to my readers, which I like showing my sides to people in order to be realistic!   I want to address and bring a lot of enlightment to the immature people who think that there is something wrong with a person who doesn't talk to them!

What do I mean by this!? It's when an individual treats a person like crap, or by saying downgrading words and to stab that person in the back, or sereverly getting on a person's nerves on purpose for their enjoyment,but at the same time,that individual expects conversation out from that person! Whenever the person doesn't talk to that indvidual due to their ways, some individuals get mad and throw a fit, and say, " how come you refuse to talk to me? You're not talkative! You don't like me!What your problem?! Do you hate me?!"

These are signs that particular person is very immature and someone who is two-faced! Two-faced people act this way, which they remind me of the villian from the cartoon Batman! They act one way, but they want to act another way!  In addition, these types of people can also be as the weather! You don't know what you are going to get! A happy smiling sun-shine face, or a tornando of terror that tears and backstabbs every thing in it's path!

Why doesn't that person want to talk to me

Before going to this answer, I like to be real!When it's someone I don't like, I am not going to sit down, and have a conservation with that indvidual! I don't care if it's an employee, or someone in my family, or someone else I know!

Besides, what is the purpose of sitting down with a person whom you don't like, and chat with them? No purpose at all! If there was a purpose, that would indicate that I would be living a lie, and being a fake! That's acting as the hypocritical role!

Now, let's talk business! The reason why a person who doesn't like an individual and talk with him or her it's probably because that individual has a bad attitude, and is smart alec! That person doesn't have time to be around an individual who act as a smart alec, and their atittude stinks because he or she doesn't want it rubbing offf on him or her!

Another reason that person doesn't want to talk to you! It's because of imaturity! That person doesn't have time to for the two-faced mentality to rub off on them, this is why they get out off your presence quickly! That person doesn't have time for immature people because he or she doesn't want that presence of imaturity to jump on them!

However, a person who doesn't like nor want to talk to an individual, it means that he or she doesn't have time to be around their stinkin attitude , their two-facedness,  their immaturity, and their drama! It's just as simple as that! It means that individual has a problem!!!!Not that person, but that indivdual has a problem! If that offends you, that means you need to examine yourself!

Final word

For those who have mindet of not talking to a person whom they like, I really give you cheers, because you are being honest and for real! That's the right attitude! Besides, I enjoy people like that because it's realness!

Until the next blog, have a great evening!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

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