Sex in My 40's

Sex With A Married Man As Wife Requested

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 22:20:00 +0000

Last night was lovely. First some chat over a bottle of wine then three hours of mind-blowing sex. Who needs foreplay when you're already horny and dripping for him?

We had three hours of playing around, penetration in lots of different positions and he soon found that I like it hard and furious. Very few men can keep up with me but he certainly can. He loves talking dirty to me, pulling my hair, treating me like a slut then cuddling & kissing, succumbing to massage.

I loved the fact that his wife knew he was with me, told him how horny that made her feel and he took lots of photos and a film of us in action. It also makes me horny to know that tonight they will be looking at that film and having loads of sex thinking of me.

He stayed over so we had another 90 minutes of waking up and fucking this morning.

Married Man Staying Overnight At Request of His Wife

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 20:59:00 +0000

I wrote about my sexy Valentine's Day evening with a married couple.

Well, she gets really horny thinking about her man with another woman. She is away at a friend's tonight so asked me to look after her man. The prospect was too much to resist. A sexy guy all to myself and he is going to sleep overnight. I've been so horny thinking about it. I've got a new little number on: a tiny black string, black lacy baby doll and black stay-ups.

I have this fantasy of him pulling down my sportspants just a short way, feeling how wet I am and thrusting into me over the dining table. So that is before we even go upstairs.

My heart is pounding thinking of this delicious possibility.

I'll let you know. Wink.

Valentines Day Sex With a Couple

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:24:00 +0000

I treated myself to a Valentines Day sex date with a very attractive younger couple.

She told me that she gets very horny seeing her guy with another woman. Whilst she was fetching us drinks, he joined me on the sofa where we started kissing and caressing. We knew she was watching us which made it even more delicious. We moved on to the bed where we stripped and carried on kissing. She was enjoying watching us but we invited her to join us. Oh she was so tender, so soft, her hair so silky. I loved kissing her, stroking her breasts and feeling her man massing my back, licking my pussy whilst I concentrated on her. He climbed over me making it obvious that he wanted his cock in my mouth.

Then I asked her if it was ok for her husband to fuck me. She could hardly wait. First on top of me, then from behind while I played with her, then doggy. I was so wet that he had to stop for a while. She sucked my juices off his cock.

We played for about two hours, fucking in various positions, lots of kissing, massage, stroking. It was such fun and a wonderful experience.

She wants me to visit her when he is out at work. We also talked about going to swingers' clubs together and potential partners for group sex.

Older Woman Fucks 25 Year Old

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:09:00 +0000

Today two people's fantasies were fulfilled. I wanted sex with a good-looking 25 year old and he wanted sex with an older woman. He said he was nervous but I relaxed him with lots of stroking and cock-teasing. He was muscular and in good shape with naughty blue eyes. I appreciated his shaven cock and he went wild about my semi-shaved pussy. I keep a triangle of hair because otherwise I find jeans irritating but the licking area is definitely hair-free. I don't want a man stopping the action to remove little hairs from his mouth!

I'm good at licking and sucking, making a man groan with desire and this young guy was also good with his tongue. We were both so ready for penetration.

First, the missionary position, really deep thrusting then I stopped him to suck him some more. Some shallow penetration side-on then I sat on him, astride then squatting. He could hardly contain himself.

He wanted me from above again but this time with my feet on his shoulders, my legs still in black stay-ups as you can see in this photo.

He turned me round on all fours then fucked me from behind, always the deepest and most fulfilling position. I played with myself but didn't need to do much as he had already done such a great job with his tongue and his cock was doing the rest. He asked me if he could come inside me and as he did, I brought myself to orgasm with my clit.

OMG, what a time we had.

First Time Sex With A Couple Today

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 22:05:00 +0000

After so much anticipating, I finally had sex with a couple today having met them online. She was blond and petite like me but with D cup boobs which I enjoyed immensely.

We sat on the bed looking at each other, kissed softly, started to hug and stroke. Gently we reached for a boob and played with the nipple. As we kissed, I reached out for her husband and kissed him too so that he was included from the start. We removed our clothes and lay down in just our lingerie. I asked him to take photos of us entwined which started to turn him on.

She reached inside my string and fingered my pussy which was already wet. She moved down to kiss me there. I stroked her boobs and also went to discover what was inside her string. Her pussy was shaven and very neat and contained whereas I was so swollen with desire that my pussy lips were sort of hanging out!

Then I said we should include her husband so we removed his pants and started work on his cock, both tongues, both mouths, every now and then meeting to kiss but still including his cock in the kiss. This had been a fantasy for me in itself and I really enjoyed it although probably nowhere near as much as he did.

He moved down to lick my pussy and did that very well. She said he had a 'golden tongue'.

More licking, more kissing then she said she wanted to see me ride his cock so I was only too happy to do so. Whilst I moved up and down on top of him, she kissed him then climbed onto his face. He must have thought he was in Heaven!

I climbed off saying it was her turn and whilst she rode him, I sucked her breasts then moved behind her and sucked his balls.

Whilst the ladies enjoyed 69, we wanked his cock. I brought her to climax with my tongue.

Then he pushed me on my back and climbed in while she watched and played with me. We kept swapping and sucked his cock after the other woman had been there. Another fantasy of mine.

She is not willing for anal sex but I want it so she licked my pussy while he strobed my ass with an anal dildo. I had the most explosive orgasm and rolled over onto my back completely satisfied.

I pulled him back inside me for a final pounding but he didn't come. I think he was concerned about the time because their kids were due home soon.

It was a great first experience of sex with a couple. I felt completely relaxed and safe with them. We took some very naughty photos just for our enjoyment.

Anticipating Sex With A Couple Tomorrow

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 23:57:00 +0000

I'm meeting the married couple for sex with a couple at 10u30 so I'd better get some sleep. I'm going to wear lovely sexy lingerie, black with gold and ivory detail, a plunge bra with a string, black stay-ups and high heels.

I'm imagining kissing a woman, fondling her size D breasts, licking her pussy and have her do the same to me. We'll make the man shudder with pleasure as we both lick and suck his cock together, sometimes meeting with a kiss, his cock in one of our mouths.

I want to feel him inside me then pass him over to his rightful owner and keep swapping over. As we change over, well suck his cock again.

Oooh, can't wait.

Then the good-looking 26 year old on Thursday. Double treats this week.

I Postponed the Italian Lover but Flirted With Others Online

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 22:28:00 +0000

As I had a screw on Saturday and I'm having sex with a couple tomorrow, I decided to give my pussy a rest and cancelled, or at least postponed, the Italian lover from Sunday night.

Since then, I've been emailing several men and a couple of couples and women. Some live within 70km or so but some are in other countries and we're just flirting online. Either way it's fine. You should see how some men can describe our sexual encounter. They can really get me throbbing. I've had an incredible seduction story from one man about meeting him in the men's clothing department of an upmarket store and being led into a changing cubicle. The story is continuing...

As well as the couple on Wednesday, I'm seeing the good-looking 26 year old man on Thursday. He will be my youngest so far and I'm really anticipating that meeting with desire.

Meanwhile, I wonder how sex with a couple will be. This will be my first time with a woman. She is blond like me.

Lovely Lesbian Photos

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 01:44:00 +0000

Lovely Videos of Lesbian Sex

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 01:15:00 +0000

I've enjoyed watching these YouPorn videos:

Two Chicks Trib

Zoe and Stacy Lesbian Tribbing includes 69

3 Girls Tribbing and Rubbing

Double-dildo . they start with one vibrator on one girl then move on to a double/mutual dildo plus vibrators

Double dildo in various positions - two blondes try out a double dildo both lying on their back, then doggy style, bum to bum, then more positions

Enjoy - 2 blondes in black lingerie, kissing, licking, 69, vibrator, rimming, finger fucks

Choosing My Next Sex Partner

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 00:55:00 +0000

I've found a brilliant site with loads of available men, women, couples, even transsexuals, all within easy driving distance. There are always messages from men in other countries who either want to videocam, chat online or jump on a plane but I will have more than enough possibilities with the selection nearby.

The man with a male friend who want to come over for a "sex with two men" threesome contacted me for Friday evening but I was at home with my kids so that was not possible.

One sexy 33 year old I've met twice before was out of the country this weekend. He's just texted me to ask when we can meet up? He'll have to go on the waiting list!

There's a sexy 26 year old who thinks I look hot (and he's not mistaken) but we have to work out a when and where as his place is not possible. He said he can take a day off on Thursday and come here during the daytime. 26 will be my youngest so far and I'm keen for the experience. He says he is open for anything so anal sex might even be on the menu. I've used my vibrator on my ass a couple of times recently and really want the real thing in there.

I've been chatting online with a hot guy in Amsterdam who is 35. He's been writing me a seduction tale which takes place in a changing room cubicle in a man's clothing store. First I have to dress him in a suit then slowly remove it but only after he was held me naked and done wonderful things with his tongue and hands.

I've arranged to meet a 32 year old Italian tomorrow night. He'll be my first Italian lover so I'm curious. We're going to meet in a sex motel for complete anonymity.

It's funny because people know I am choosing not to be in a relationship and may wonder how I am surviving without any physical contact. If only they knew!!!

Sex With a Stranger on a Saturday Afternoon

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 00:40:00 +0000

As the married couple had to postpone from Friday until Tuesday, I was so horny that I needed to find an alternative. None of my options were available on Friday but I found a fit guy for Saturday afternoon.

He said he was 40 on the site but turned out to be 46 and I do prefer guys in their 30s. I could see he was nervous when he poured me out a drink. He immediately started French kissing and thing is, I don't really like kissing a sex date stranger. That is more intimate for a real partner, not just a couple of hours amusement. He loved my black and red lingerie. I asked him to take some photos of me for my files which he was happy to do. First, photos in the lingerie, later photos of my pussy and one of his cock in my pussy.

He was so fervent in his desire that he did everything too fast. He licked me a lot but too much against my clit which was tender after I brought myself the night before. When I told him that I had to have him fuck me, he got out of bed and went to look for a condom. By the time, he'd found one and fumbled with putting it on, he lost his erection.

We chatted for a bit although I kept really anonymous. He told me about his ex - why do men do that when they are on a sex date?

With half an hour before I had to leave, I asked him if he wanted another go. I sucked him to make him hard, more fumbling with the condom but this time some successful fucking. First, him standing against the bed pounding into me lying on my back with my legs up against his shoulders. That was good. Then he rolled me over into doggy style and really pumped me hard. I really don't like sex with a condom as it takes away the friction and texture. I much prefer bareback but you have to be careful with strangers. I think some might be clean and ok but he was not someone I would risk without a condom.

So we had some hard pumping but neither of us came. Never mind. I came for the fucking and that lasted a good while.

Sex With the Married Couple Postponed A Few Days

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 00:18:00 +0000

I was supposed to go to the married couple's house on Friday but their child was sick so had to postpone until Tuesday. The husband sent me two text messages from his work saying that he was looking at my photos and getting horny. I wonder what the wife would think if she knew about that?

To be honest, she looks cute and "my type" whereas he is overweight and doesn't turn me on. However, they want a woman for both of them and I want an experience with a woman plus I need some cock so badly so I'll just turn round so he can fuck me doggy style then I don't have to look at him. I'm going to concentrate on licking her pussy and caressing her boobs, in the way that I like done to me. Maybe when her husband sees how women do this to each other, he might learn some technique. She says he has a "golden tongue" so he is welcome to lick me all he likes. I'm not complaining!

As it is their first threesome, I just hope he doesn't chicken out about screwing another woman in front of his wife. I asked her in a chat how she felt about that and she said they had talked about it and both wanted it. But I felt she wanted the bisexual experience and agreed to a threesome without necessarily wanting her man with another woman. If he is not psychologically ready, he might go limp and not be able to screw me which would be disappointing to say the least. If I do enough exciting things for both of them, then hopefully he will be so worked up that he won't be able to hold back.

As preparation for this experience, I did some homework by looking at videos on YouPorn. There is so much on there that I don't know why people need to buy porn. I even found clips of women "tribbing" ie they lock their pussies together, rubbing and pushing against each other as if penetrating but without using a mutual dildo. Looks fun. Hope the wife and I can do that together. Another fantasy is to use a mutual dildo with a woman so we are fucking and being fucked at the same time. Why not go the whole hog and have a hard cock in my mouth and another one in my ass at the same time? I'll see whether I can work out the logistics of who lies how on that foursome...

I think it's clear that I'm really horny about the prospect of sex with this married couple.

Another two married couples have contacted me who both look interesting.

Finding My Next Sex Partner Online

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 22:56:00 +0000

There are some very explicit sex blogs out there but most of them are pro porn photos, not of real situations of everyday people who just want sex. I'm for real and I'm also a mum so I'm very careful about sharing photos and videos are out. I'd be mortified if a film of me ever showed up on the internet!

I'd rather describe my sexual exploits and let your imagination work it out.

I was on chat with the wife of the couple who is bi-curious. We've sent each other photos and find each other attractive. We're both mums so want the same - an experience but no pain or risk. That's the problem with finding sexual partners online. There is always the risk of finding weirdos or danger.

I was once licked by a woman but I've never licked another pussy. The idea really excites me. Gently caressing each other, letting our boobs run over each other then fingering and licking.

As we are planning a threesome with her husband, I'm looking forward to being the extra hand and mouth on her while he fucks her. I fantasise about having a woman do that to me. Then we can swap over. I haven't had any cock now for about six weeks so I need some. Masturbation and sex toys are fun but I prefer the real thing.

We're going to meet during the day while our kids are at school so I'll choose some pretty and sexy lingerie which the wife can remove while I caress her boobs.

Who Will I Choose For My Next Sex Date?

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:21:00 +0000

So let's review who wants to meet for sex.

First there is the Frenchman who lives in Paris but visits my area every now and then. He wants to take me for a champagne dinner to warm me up.

Then a sexy 29 year old Dutchman in Holland.

A 45 year old woman who is bi-curious and wants to explore her potential bisexuality with a woman, preferably blond like me.

A married man whose wife is pregnant and too big to be interested in sex. He has offered to come over with a male friend so I could fulfill my fantasy of sex with two men. I've only had anal sex once and really enjoyed it. So the question is would I have one cock in my pussy and the other in my mouth then swap them over or go for DP ie double penetration, cock and ass at the same time. I've watched some clips on YouPorn and it looks great.

Oh, I've also ordered a Sean's SexDong from Pabo. It has testicles and can be stuck on surfaces so I can sit on it or stick it on a cupboard and enjoy rear entry, maybe some anal with lube.

My other sex offer is a Dutch couple in their 30s. She is bi-curious and wants to explore with someone attractive and gentle, at the same time having a threesome with her husband. I'm up for that.

I'll keep you posted.

Sex With The 45 Year Old

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 20:56:00 +0000

I haven't posted in a while because I couldn't find my log-in password!

My last sex date, the 45 year old, was pleasant enough but didn't turn me on. He sought to give me pleasure and was gentle enough but there was no electricity. The oral sex was good but the intercourse was not fulfilling. Now he wants to meet again but I'm not motivated.

The good news is that the gorgeous lover who took care of me on my birthday wants to meet again. Actually we made two appointments but he had to postpone due to work.

Sex Date With a Stranger Booked for Friday

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:16:00 +0000

So I have another sexdate booked for Friday with a 45 year old man who looks quite tasty. I asked him to start with an erotic massage which he is more than keen to do. He will come over to my house and we'll see how we get on. On his listing he said he is warm, passionate, tender and likes to have a woman crawling up the curtains with desire. Hmmm, we'll see.

Horny on a Monday Night

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 00:31:00 +0000

So the gorgeous guy I saw on Friday is going away tomorrow until after Christmas and then I will be going away for a week so it will be a while before we can meet up. Well worth waiting for but in the meantime?

Two new men contacted me today, a 29 year old and a 45 year old. They both look quite good so I've written to see if either wants to meet up on Friday daytime.

I am amazed how many men go on the sex dating sites looking for a fuck yet don't pay for the upgrade so cannot send emails. They are relying on the woman sending them an email. You'd think it would be worth paying the US$30, wouldn't you? Cheapskates.

Likewise all the couples in my country looking for a woman to make up a threesome are all standard members so again, no go.

I've just had an online chat with an ex-boyfriend. We might share some bodily warmth one night next week if we can find a time when we are both available. "Friends with Benefits" ie having sex with a friend without being in a relationship. At least we know what to expect from each other.

I'm a little frustrated now so I'll crawl under the covers with my rabbit sextoy which can always be sure to bring me with an incredible orgasm.

I Advertised Online for a Birthday Fuck

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 22:55:00 +0000

I wrote previously that I had advertised online for a birthday fuck. I chose a 35 year old, dark hair, blue eyes and he said we would start with an erotic massage.

He was absolutely gorgeous, striking blue eyes. Somewhat nervous to start with but a bottle of bubbly helped to relax us both.

He prepared my bedroom draping towels over the bed and placing tealights all around the room. Sheer magic. He complimented me on my lingerie before slowly removing it whilst kissing me all over. Then he picked me up and laid me on the bed. He started massaging the front of my legs and when he reached my pussy, he started feeling and stroking me, occasionally a finger exploring me inside.

Then he asked me to turn over onto my front and used one of my vibrators on my pussy. By now I was really hot and turned on. I reached over and took his cock into my mouth, teasing him with my tongue and alternately letting him thrust deep into my mouth while he moaned. I am very good at blow jobs. He carried on with a lovely back massage then said he wanted to fuck my butt.

He turned me on to my back, applied some lube and slipped his hard cock into my butt. At the same time, he used my rabbit sex toy in my pussy and on my clit. So exciting and it was not long before I had the most incredible orgasm.

He wanted to go back into my mouth now and asked if he could come on my chin. Of course, that is so exciting. He said I was so hot and I enjoyed it. I licked him off. He tasted good.

We took a shower together then just cuddled and chatted. What a blissful couple of hours.

Follow Michele's adventures of Sex In My 40s at http://sexinmy40s.blogspot.com

Tantric Vagina Massage Tips

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:45:00 +0000

In tantric massage, the vagina is called the yoni. This description sounds wonderful. I am looking for someone who would like to practice on me.

Relaxing Tantric Massage 1/3

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:40:00 +0000

Begin the tantric massage with the Namaste greeting: I welcome and respect you.

Relaxing Tantric Massage 2/3

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:39:00 +0000

Relaxing Tantric Massage 3/3

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:33:00 +0000

Tantric Penis Massage Tips

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:32:00 +0000

I've Found a Good Looking Guy for My Birthday Fuck

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 22:32:00 +0000

It's my birthday on Friday and I wanted a good time so I wrote on my online profile that I was looking for a birthday fuck. I had several offers and chose one 35 year old with dark hair, blue eyes, 6' tall and I think he will do very nicely. He wrote that he is planning soft light, candles, massage oils and a slow erotic massage. Sounds great. He wanted to know what my interests and off limits are so I gave him some idea with the corny wrap-up "we'll see what comes up."

I am really looking forward to Friday!

Delicious Masturbation with My Dildo

noreply@blogger.com (My name is secret!) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 12:04:00 +0000

Although I had sex yesterday, I came too quickly so was not really satisfied. I had difficulty falling asleep so decided to masturbate. I used my purple marble effect dildo, first enjoying the vibration al over my pussy area then plunged it into my pussy and brought myself through clitoral stimulation. Delicious!

I bought the dildo from Pabo, a good online supplier of sex toys, clothing, porn - anything fun to do with sex.

They have a wide selection at very reasonable prices. You can order a catalogue which will arrive in discreet packaging and order online, by post or over the phone.

You can also download porn, either for 24 H use or buy it permanently. There is an exciting collection.

Don't forget the sexy lingerie and sexual role play clothing: