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2008-05-26T02:51:00.000-07:00

Masturbation & Medical Science...

2008-05-09T01:18:00.000-07:00

Masturbation & Medical Science...
by Marina Benjamin Ph.D

The myths that masturbation leads to blindness, or causes you to grow hair on the palms of your hands, or will cause someone to be impotent later in life, or leads to mental illness, have all been debunked many times; but they seem to have a life of their own and crop up again and again. I get letters from young men worrying that masturbating is causing their penises to curve when erect, when in fact some curvature of the erect penis is a common and unimportant thing. Common themes from women are that masturbating will cause them to no longer be considered a virgin, in societies where virginity is still highly prized, or that it will somehow make them infertile. I remember when I was in high school the entire track team vowed to stop masturbating before our big meet, in the belief that it would somehow sap our strength. Masturbation causes none of these things.

I suppose that these worries stem from the almost universal guilt that people seem to feel about masturbating — guilt that makes it a secretive practice, that makes them vow to stop doing it, and that is then multiplied when they start doing it again. Masturbating is perceived to be a weakness, something that a really strong person can and should stop doing.

In fact masturbating has been an almost universal practice since history has been recorded. Probably 90 percent of men have masturbated at some time (and many would say the other 10 percent are lying); and it is also very common among women, especially since women’s liberation began to enable women to know and appreciate their bodies.

With so many people doing it, medical science would certainly have had a lot of opportunity to determine if the practice causes any medical problems, and in fact, no blindness, misshapen penises, infertility, mental illness or other problems large or small have ever been attributed to masturbation. Many researchers, including Kinsey, reported on people who masturbated 4 times a day or so for years, and suffered from no diseases as a result. Many married men and women masturbate, not because they don’t have satisfactory sex with their partners, but because they occasionally like the alternative of giving themselves pleasure. And that’s the whole point — masturbating is one of the few pleasurable things in life that we can do almost anytime and anywhere, as often as we want, without gaining weight, getting lung cancer, being arrested or causing ourselves to become ill. There is no down side, if one can avoid that guilt so many people have.

If you are someone who masturbates, finds it pleasurable and wants to continue, pay no attention to TV show jokes about it causing blindness, or rumors of other terrible things that it can bring on. If you are a parent worrying about whether your child masturbates, start worrying if he or she doesn’t. It is common and normal for children to find pleasure in fondling themselves, and this will naturally evolve into masturbating when they are mature enough. All of our body parts perform better if used or exercised, and our sexual functions are no different. Many urologists believe that regular sexual activity is beneficial for the prostate gland, and it doesn’t matter if that is activity with a partner, or solo.

2008-05-09T01:09:00.000-07:00

Shower Massager for Masturbating.....
by Marina Benjamen Ph.D

Using a shower massager is one of the tried-and-true ways of reaching orgasm for many women. In fact, one study showed this method to be the third most common way that women discovered orgasm (just after hands and rubbing against an object).

It is very hard to cause damage to your body by masturbating, no matter how you do it. Just use your body as a guide: If something feels painful, then stop. But there is no harm from using a shower massager. About the worst thing that could happen is that if a lot of water were to enter your vagina it could upset the natural balance and make you susceptible to a yeast infection. If you want to avoid this, concentrate the water on the outside and don’t put the shower massager directly up against or inside your vagina.

Otherwise, relax and enjoy!

2008-05-09T00:52:00.000-07:00

Why Women Like Married Men.....?

Why? Why would a single (or even attached) woman chase after a married man when she knows that he's attached to another woman? Easy, it starts off because, as is the human condition, the food on someone else's plate always looks (and sometimes tastes) better than what you're having.

According to a study conducted by the University of Louisville, many women tend to engage in something the study referred to as "mate copying." In other words, such women tend to believe that if another woman is either after a man or with a man, there must be something he possesses that's worthy of pursuit.

It happens all the time. When I'm out with male friends, whether it be at a club or restaurant, the instant women think I'm with them, they begin flirting with said gentlemen like piranhas. Maybe it's because they assume that if a good-looking woman is with such a man, they need to prove that they're just as hot as her.

Maybe it's because these women love a challenge, drama, no strings, or even simply the thrill of sin. Whatever the case, many a woman has revealed that sex with attached men is usually incredible. Why? Because he's been eating chicken every day, and when these women give them a piece of their action, it's like feeding them duck a l'orange -- something exotic.

2008-05-08T03:17:00.000-07:00

You Can Satisfy a girl without Intercourse also...

You Know Sex is a Art,a Game ,so Play from Every Corner.

If you have fingers and (especially!) a tongue and know how to use them, absolutely YES! She will quite probably get much more enjoyment in fact. Lots of women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone (although almost all women do enjoy it!) Sex is certainly not limited to intercourse and her fingers and (especially) her mouth can give you great enjoyment too, as you probably already know! Experiment and enjoy!

well u can go for oral sex u can suck ,rub and lick her clitfingure her vagina pree her boos and a huge stuff u can go for anal it wont cause a pragnency

Using a vibrater can be very stimulating for the both of you as well.

2008-05-08T03:08:00.000-07:00

Study of Erect Penis Length...

There are four studies that are well respected in the penis size world. These are their results.
1. The first one is the famous Kinsey Sex Institute study. In the 1960s they asked over 3500 college males to measure themselves.
*average penis length: 6 inch (15.2 cm)
*average penis girth: 5 inch (12.7 cm)

2. Then there is the now famous Richard Edwards' Definitive Penis Size Survey Results with over 3000 participants. (not online anymore)
*average penis length: 6.3 inch (16 cm)
* average penis girth: 5.1 inch (13 cm)

3. Another survey is the one done by Durex (just under 3000 participants):
*average penis length: 6.4 inch (16.3 cm)
*average penis girth: 5.2 inch (13.3 cm)

4. A more recent study was performed by Lifestyles Condom Co. in Cancun Mexico in March 2001 (see ABCNEWS.com). They measured 300 college-aged students:
* average penis length: 5.9 inch (15 cm)
** average penis girth: 5 inch (12.7 cm)

* The exact figures of the Lifestyles study are 5.877 inch forlength and 4.972 inch for girth.

2008-05-08T02:46:00.000-07:00

Tips to Stay longer for climax....

Try to divert your mind at such time, but keep hard.
wear condom with anti climax control.go down on the girl first for some time before you go in that way she might come sooner and you wont have t opump so long.think about your mom, o rosie odonnel or football or soemthing.solve math problems in your head.dont look at her gyrating breast, thats if you WANT to come earlier .The first time is always the shortest the second third and forth times take longer.
The easiest answer, if it works for you, is an anesthetic ointment easily found in drug stores. It should delay orgasm.(but only for the begenning,later you should stop this)
But no one thing works for everybody. An alternative is a prescription pain medication such as Tramadol. It desensitizes everything!
Try masturbating alone first, when you near climax stop for a few minutes until the feeling goes away, try again and stop before climax. Do this a couple of times and you will see the difference.(stop after some period)
Good luck.
control yourself

2008-05-08T02:33:00.000-07:00

You can Stop Masturbating...

As you know Masturbating is not bad,but too much is very bad,its better to do sex.
Get a hobby, sports or other social activity where you'll meet other people, hopefully women, and find yourself a partner to play with, and you can dump your right hand.

2008-05-08T02:25:00.000-07:00

No More Premature Ejaculation(PE)..

Premature Ejaculation (PE) is a very common and serious problem suffered by 1 out of 4 males. The causes of PE range from person to person and from psychological to physical. The average time a male suffering from PE is less than 5 minutes of intercourse before they ejaculate.There are many supplements and techniques that are good for this issue. There are also medications, but those have side effects. I would recommend using 5-HTP 200mg, which is a serotonin precusor. A low serotonin level has been linked to PE, that is why doctors prescribed anti-depressants, 5-HTP will boost the serotonin levels naturally. You can also practice the Natural Ejaculation Control Tecnique.

2008-05-07T15:13:00.000-07:00

Make love all Night ...
How To Achieve Male Multiple Orgasms
by Corry Silverberg

The process of learning to have multiple orgasms for men is partly a matter of unlearning beliefs about male orgasms and male sexual response. Because sexual response and orgasm tend to come easily for men, they rarely explore other options (if it ain’t broke don’t fix it). But there are plenty of reasons to check out what’s under the hood, even if the engine is just fine. The key is to understand that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate experiences for men.

Time Required: Learning to be a multi-orgasmic man takes time and practice over many sessions.

Here's How:

Breathing and male multiple orgasms.
If you haven’t already learned about using your breath to explore your body, you may want to brush up on the importance of breathing for sexual exploration. For the exercises below you should be breathing deeply and focus on how your breathing changes as you go through sexual response, get turned on, build your sexual excitement, and experience climax, orgasm, and ejaculation.

Your PC muscle and male multiple orgasms.
Your PC muscle is the one you use to stop the flow of urine when you pee. Your PC muscle is also involved in the experience of orgasm and learning to use it helps in developing multi-orgasmic capacity. Find your PC muscle, and make sure you know what it feels like to squeeze and release it (called Kegel exercises ). If you've never done them before, learn about how do male Kegel exercises.

Discover your “point of no return”.
This is the moment during sexual excitement after which ejaculation is inevitable. The best way to identify this is to masturbate and pay close attention just as you are about to ejaculate. You may notice a tingling feeling, which is the sign that you are about to hit your point of no return. Knowing what this feels like will help you know when to pull back from an orgasm. This is the process you

Before you learn something new, take some time to understand your baseline.
The work here is simple and fun: pleasure yourself (masturbate) as you would regularly, and pay close attention.

What things do you do to get turned on?
What happens to your body and your breathing as you become even more stimulated?

What does it feel like just before an orgasm? Just before you ejaculate?

What happens to your body after orgasm?

Practice when alone, and when you have time to focus.
Learning to distinguish your orgasm from ejaculation takes time and a keen attention. Don’t do these exercises when you have to rush off to work, or make dinner for your family. I would also recommend doing these exercises on your own at first. If you have someone else there, part of your attention will be on them.

Relax and tune into your body.
This process is all about awareness. As you begin the exercise get relaxed, you may want to get naked also, and try to tune into how your body feels in the moment. Run your hands up and down your body, and really feel your body. You can touch your genitals and any other part of your body that turns you on, but don’t start masturbating right away.

Masturbate slowly, paying attention to changes in your body.
Now you can masturbate however you like to, but pay attention to the energy in your body.

Are some parts of your body much warmer than others?
Does the warm energy move up (or down) your body, or stay in one place?

As you get closer to a climax how does the energy in your body change? Don’t bring yourself to orgasm or ejaculate yet.

Start and stop your stimulation, play with the point of no return.
If you feel yourself reaching the point of no return stop the stimulation and take some deep breaths. Once you’ve pulled back from the point you can begin to stimulate yourself again. Do this at least twice. Do this to get a more detailed sense of what your point of no return is like, and discover how you can control when you cross that point.

Use your PC muscle to pull back from the point of no return.
As you feel yourself coming closer to climax stop the stimulation as you have in the past, but this time squeeze your PC muscle and hold it for a few seconds. Notice how this feels. This is the technique you can use to prevent yourself from ejaculating and create the opportunity to have several orgasms in a row.

Use your breath to increase the orgasmic energy flow.
Having multiple orgasms is not just about using your PC muscle, it’s also about allowing the energy that usually flows out of you at the point of orgasm, to flow elsewhere in your body. When you’re nearing the point of orgasm, notice the build up of energy (heat) in the lower part of your body, and begin to do deep breathing while visualizing the energy up towards your chest and head.

Let yourself go, see where it takes you.
The final stage of this exercise is to let yourself have an orgasm, while using the techniques learned above including breath, awareness, and squeezing your PC muscle. The first time you try this, let yourself orgasm, but squeeze your PC muscle just as you feel yourself going “over the top”. It might not work the first time, but the worst that happens is that you’ve had an orgasm and you have to try again.

Use your breath, PC muscle, and awareness to orgasm without ejaculating. As you practice the last step above, you may find that you can get to the point of no return, pass it, and experience a tingly orgasm without ejaculating. Don’t expect the orgasm to feel the same as an orgasm you have with ejaculating. Non-ejaculatory orgasms feel different, but they can be very pleasurable

How do i find my PC muscle ?

Many people begin doing kegel exercises, which are exercises designed to strengthen the pubococcygeus muscles (PC muscles), but are squeezing the wrong muscle. It’s important to make sure you are exercising the correct muscle.

Here are two tips to finding your PC muscle:

The easiest way to find your PC muscle is to stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow. This muscle is your PC muscle.

You can also check you’ve got the right muscle by inserting a finger (for women in the vagina, for men in the anus) and squeezing your PC muscle. If you feel pressure around your finger, you’re using the right muscle.

2008-05-07T14:53:00.000-07:00

Is Anal Sex Dangerous ?

No, but with any kind of sex, you do need to take some precautions. Unlike the vagina, the rectum has no natural lubricants. Make sure you use plenty of lube for any penetration. And if it hurts, stop. Also, HIV is easily spread through anal sex, so be sure to use a latex glove on your hand or condom on any sex toys you use. Also, unlike the vagina, there's no "end" to your rectum and things really can get lost up there. So be careful.

The anus has bacteria that can cause illness. So be sure to clean your sex toys with disinfectant soap after anal play, even if you use a condom. Don't allow bacteria from the anus to enter the vagina.

2008-05-07T08:13:00.000-07:00

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2008-05-07T07:03:00.000-07:00

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2008-05-07T04:44:00.000-07:00

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2008-05-07T04:39:00.000-07:00

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2008-05-07T04:02:00.000-07:00

Exercise and try the following for staying up long:

(a) breath slowly
(b) penetrate slowly
(c) masturbate before
(d) Try different position
(e) When nearing ejaculation, take a pause, withdraw and re-enter after 30 seconds
(f) Wear a condom
(g) Use more foreplay

2008-05-07T03:10:00.001-07:00

How Long For Good Sex? 5 Minutes Will Do
by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. April 6, 2008

If you’ve ever wondered how long is “enough” for good sex, you may now have your answer.
In a survey of 34 sex therapists (who should know better, right?), researchers discovered that anywhere between 3 and 13 minutes was optimal for good sexual intercourse.
In a 2005 study of 1,500 couples, 7 minutes was ideal, but as little as 3 to 5 minutes (not including foreplay) will do according to the current study. (We couldn’t find the 2005 study mentioned in the newspaper article — we wish they’d actually include a reference when reporting on such data!)
Seven minutes? Five minutes? What does it matter? If you’re having a good sex life and can talk honestly to your partner from time to time about sex and any issues that arise, I don’t understand the preoccupation some have with “how long is long enough” and similar data.
It’s never been about quantity, anyway — it’s all about quality. It takes as long as it takes. If you’re not enjoying sex and it’s over “too quickly,” then please talk to your partner about the issue. Don’t lead a life of quiet frustration and resentment over these sorts of issues.
The new study can be found in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine.
Read the full article: Sex Therapists: a Few Minutes Is Best