tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15618434309556410882024-08-29T06:35:19.857+01:00This is a blog about our experiences and thoughts on sex and sexual orientations. It explores fantasies, answers questions and provides links and reviews of useful websites. This site does not contain illicit material, but may include appropriate links where relevant.Excelsi0rhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11163982699498161163noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561843430955641088.post-43614884826915665232010-03-25T22:33:00.001+00:002010-03-25T22:33:53.856+00:00

I've been testing this thesis for a few years and it's definitely true. Take my boyfriend for example. Long fingers that make a pint glass look small and lonely ... with lovely rounded fingernails, always perfectly cut. Correlates perfectly to a scrumptious penis that drives me insane. Just can't stop touching it day and night. Sucking it is in-saaane. What about those slight smaller fatter

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Sometimes we’re alone and there’s no-one to have sex with but we so must shoot one out. The best times I’ve had going it alone are either in public or private. Privately I’ve only found one way of having an amazing orgasm. It involve having a condom and filling it with a bit of oil (any oil suitable with contact with skin is fine). And then just put it on. Do be gentle and slow. The best orgasm

Excelsi0rhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11163982699498161163noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561843430955641088.post-69839123563377404752010-02-07T20:52:00.002+00:002010-02-09T02:23:18.350+00:00

Ok. I admit, there was definitely a small thrill being commando in the gym. The best part was in the changing rooms, just knowing there was nothing between the "important bits" and the nylon of my shorts. Feeling that everyone knew I was free-balling. The whole gym also smelled "hornier" ... of that used gym shorts aroma. I was a little self conscious at the beginning, but then I realised ...

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Why is it that some older men (in their 60s and 70s) in the gym love wafting around without towels, and always get just that little bit too close for comfort. Ok. I'm sure we'll all agree ... it's great when a nicely toned naked man accidentally slips into your shower cubicle needing help reaching those awkward to wash spots (er erm). But it's just not the same when he's a little too old or badly

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It's a thought that just won't go away. I know we've highlighted the benefits of commando. We've also spoken before about the gym as a sex "taster" (I'm sure half the men are gay). But we've not yet experimented with commando at the gym; bringing these two themes together. I'm gonna "just do it" tomorrow. Was thinking about it non-stop today, lying on the bench-press, doing abs and hanging leg

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I admit. I'm still in recovery. Writing this from bed. Last night was too wild. I tested the powers of commando and it got on top of me (er erm, wasn't the only thing that got on top of me). We went for dinner, and were planning on coming home immediately after. Instead, ended up going out for a few more drinks, building tequila towers, getting felt up under the table (way in public, but don't

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Omg. Its so hot.Him touching me inside the bar. Ok. It's a bit cold to fuck outside. But it's amazing wot u can do under a talble. Even the smallest touch makes me insane. More tomorrow ...- Posted from iPhone

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A lot of misinformation is written about how to get abs. It is possible to get abs fast but requires a lot of dedication. You need a correct stomach architecture before you start doing any exercises because any crunch, leg raise, side raise, flag, you name it, will be so much less effective. Good stomach architecture is flat. The muscles of the stomach must all be able to be pulled in. If you

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As we scanned the "talent" in our local bar ... we had a thought that our favourite muscles must be the glutes. Nothing better than a great butt in jeans, especially when they cling just a little too tightly. Other great muscles (heart, pecs, abs and our true favourite ... the penis) are never quite as visible in day-to-day life. The glutes are great for so many reasons. First, they look "wow" (

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Sometimes relationships are more difficult than we'd like to admit. Everyday remains "perfect" ... but not everday is "easy". Some days (or events) are sent to test us, how strong we are together and how much we love each other. DIY is definitely one of those events (or series of unfortunate events). I'm sure it's the same in relationships of all orientations. One being the DIY afficionado, the

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Most erotic massage is very subtle. Anything to aggressive is either S&M or you’re not being subtle enough. Giving erotic massage is best first without oil and then with oil. You can begin on the small of the back, just above the butt, either sides of the spine with both hands. A light basic stroke from there upwards towards the neck is good. You can use a variety of objects like a hair brush

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It's weird because our regular bar is always filled with men (hardly ever any women). Tonight there are three women and about 30 men. Is this cos it's a "sports" bar ... or is there some strange dynamic happening that I don't know or understand? A football team came tonight. Can you imagine! Well built, strong, solid, bulging and that was just the team. Could see and feel the hardness on the

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We eat and drink everyday, but how often do we stop and think about the erotic potential and the hidden symbolism of what we put in our mouths? Of course there's the innuendo that comes when borrowing someones nuts, or the one liners associated with eating a banana at work e.g "enjoying that are you?" (usually accompanied with a chuckle or a wry grin). Even the name of our fridge is somehow

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Some men and women find the art of shaving down below both erotic foreplay and an enhancement towards deeper sensual arousal during sex. Shaving the male is done by electric shaver alone or after with a wet shaver. I find the electric shaver to stimulates an immense vibe that after, when having sex, my orgasm is invincible. Shave around the pubis first, above and either side where the cock meets

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The age-old debate. They both have benefits. There's something about an uncut cock that just looks so erotic, natural and unbelievably horny. Even just seeing one awakes the wildest sensations and thoughts ... that entirely consume me. Admittedly they look better soft or semi-hard, with the skin just starting to peel back. Preferably thick with a bulging head. OMG. Stop. Sucking my boyfriends

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The single most important item must be communication. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with each other, not being afraid to be honest or vulnerable or to be clear on your expectations. Gay relationships are often stereotyped as promiscuous, sex-oriented or shallow. This is definitely true in some cases, and isn't always a bad thing ... especially when both parties share the same aims (sex).

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I couldn't help it, catching (more than) a glance of the guy next to me at the urinals. Nice jeans, purposeful confident action, great smell (with a hint of sweat) and underwear and most significantly ... a gorgeous thick, uncut cock and a strong stream. It's not the urine that's interesting, more the thoughts of what we could do together ... of dropping to the floor and sucking him off right

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There's the tight ones that hug your arse (or the arse of that gorgeous guy). There's the baggy ones, that somehow make you obsess about the bulge in front. Then ... there's that rare breed that fits just perfectly ... cups each butt cheek, folds neatly around the thighs, slinks (like an illicit manic lover) into the butt crack (just the horniest thing). And they feel amazing on the body. Best

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I love going to the gym after sex ... still feeling dirty and horny, with ruffled hair and unshaven. Its like going shopping for food when you're full, because exercising and sweating around so many hot guys just drives me insane. Bulging biceps and veins, tight shorts on the squat machine or free weights ... bulging tracksuit bottoms, tackle moving up and down on the jogger. My heart beats

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Going commando is awesome! It brings a sense of liberation, a feeling of riske and excitement as well as "quick access" if things get racy with your partner while out-on-the-town. I find commando most exciting in jeans, preferably a softer older pair nicely worn-in. Somehow it doesn't quite feel right in a suit. The best thing about going commando is the sense of secret and knowing what others

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S&M is a sub-group of the three groups of BDSM: Bondage & Discipline, Dominance and Submission and Sadism and Masochism. S&M is a wide and varied activity alone that can be from mild gentle smacking to extreme whipping until bleeding. It is generally considered as “role-playing” sex and is more of a fantasy element to act out and can be low in STD transmission because it often doesn’t

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Group sex involves three or more participants. If more than four members engage in sex and it becomes an orgy, then sex choices such as what you do become blurred through peer pressure. Always remember to assert your right not to take part in activities that make you feel uncomfortable. Group sex can take many forms. A classic example is where no one knows each other … usually at a sex party

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Blow jobs form a critical part of a healthy sex life. Blow jobs or “head” can be seen as both a form of sex in itself or as foreplay towards penetrative, anal sex. In addition to being enormously pleasurable to both parties, blow jobs are also a safer form of sexual activity than anal sex, mainly due to the reduced likelihood of STD transmission. Despite these "pro's", head is often given with

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Anal sex is increasingly popular amongst both heterosexual and gay individuals. It eliminates the risk of unwanted pregnancy and also yields more tactile pleasure for the penis; due to the anus being tighter than the vagina. How to prepare for your first anal sex experience? Unless you're an exception, your first experience will almost certainly be painful. The best ways of reducing pain are to (

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I recently had the most amazing orgasm. We've all had good or even great orgasms that come from deep inside and that leave you breathless and thinking "whew, wow ...". This was different. It felt like my whole body was literally melting and exploding at the same time. As it was building, a tingling sensation emerged and spread throughout my spine and into my head. Every thought was consumed in

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