Sex With Emily

SWE: Dating Mistakes

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 22 May 2013 03:23:39 +0000

People are always asking Emily, “how do I get my wife to have sex with me?” Emily shares how to reignite the spark in your relationship (I hope you’re good at poll dancing!)... Emily and her cohost Menace discuss Facebook etiquette after a breakup and why self-love is the most important thing for your life (masturbation and loving yourself). Emily ends the show by breaking down the biggest dating mistakes people make, from talking about your past sexual partners to hooking up with a sibling of someone you dated.

SWE: Backdoor Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 15 May 2013 17:57:48 +0000

Emily talks about cheap date ideas, from the childhood activity of flying a kite to slugging back some beers at a pub. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a good time and try something new. Speaking of trying something new, Emily discusses people’s obsession with anal sex. If you’re interested in having backdoor sex, Emily shares how to talk to your partner about trying it and how to make it pleasurable (not painful!) for you both. If you're interested in backdoor sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl.Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Missionary Position

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 13 May 2013 18:30:24 +0000

Missionary position is anything but mundane when her legs are flailing in the air and his penis is hitting all the right places. Emily breaks down variations of missionary to turn the ordinary position into an orgasmic position.Emily also shares secrets for picking up women in bars (none of them include buying her a drink right off the bat).Also, penis rings with spikes, glow in the dark condoms, and the Viagra condom.If you're interested in good clean sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl.Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Masturbation

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 10 May 2013 21:39:05 +0000

I know you probably don't need a month to remind you to masturbate. But May is masturbation month! In honor of self-love, Emily tells you how to masturbate in way that actually makes you better at sex. Emily keeps on getting emails from women who aren't orgasming during sex! They have no problem getting it done on their own but can't get there with their partner. Emily shows you how to have an amazing orgasm whether you're on your own or sharing the love. If you're interested in good clean sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Good Clean Fun

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 08 May 2013 23:15:27 +0000

One of the biggest turn-offs for both men and women is poor hygiene. Emily shows you how to get squeaky-clean before getting dirty.Then she talks about threesomes cheating, and female ejaculation, and how to acquire a taste for semen. Things get messy in sex, but it's better if you start off with good breath, clean body, and good taste.If you're interested in the hip moves and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl.Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Wing Woman

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Sun, 05 May 2013 21:06:11 +0000

There are three types of wing women: the matchmaker, the introducer, and the reconnaissance woman. Emily tells you how to be all three and how to use your friends to get dates (and get laid). Men need to get comfortable talking to women. Don’t put her on a pedestal, rather talk to her like a real person and friend. Emily and her cohost Menace talk about the easiest conversation starters.If you're interested in wing women and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: The Hip Moves

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 03 May 2013 21:00:00 +0000

Emily instructs listeners on the hip moves to be better in bed, whether you like to shallow thrust, swivel, or screw. Instead of the old in-out, Emily offers alternative hip movements to help men and women get their pleasure groove on. As Shakira puts it, “hips don’t lie.” And we’re fairly certain Shakira is good in the sack. As the show moves along, listener’s get oral with their questions, wondering if women also do the dreaded head-push and why some men refuse to reciprocate oral sex. Also, listeners want to know if it’s normal to be attracted to older women and enjoy a Golden Shower. When it comes to sex and relationships nothing is “normal.” People just have different preferences.

SWE: How To Be Confident

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 21:15:36 +0000

Everything in sex comes down to confidence. Sex is awkward. Two naked bodies with pubes and protruding flesh, bouncing around and making strange noises. Not to mention, finding someone to bounce around with can be even harder. Emily breaks down how to be confident: what you should say when you meet someone, how to always avoid the friend zone, and how to get back in the game. If you're interested in how to be confident and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: How To Talk To Women

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 23 Apr 2013 18:51:15 +0000

Emily interviews Marni Wing Girl on how to get the girl. You don't have to be really good looking, have an expensive car, or be in a band. But you do need to know how to talk to women. Marni tells you what to say and what not to say when talking to women. She breaks down her Wing Girl Method: observe, share, and then ask questions. No women wants to be interrogated while she's sipping on a vodka tonic. Marni teaches how to approach her and give her a feel for who you really are. Women actually love nice guys, they just aren't drooling over wimps and push-overs. Marni explains how to take action, get out of the friend zone, and get the girl already! Want to learn more about Marni's Wing Girl Method that will help you get smart, beautiful women? Click here to watch Marni's video How To Talk To Women And Make Them Attracted To You. Put in your email and enjoy the video!

SWE: Sex Video

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 17 Apr 2013 23:39:22 +0000

Press record, have sex, watch, delete, and repeat. Emily talks about how to make a sex video, no matter if you're directing a Star Wars porno or just want to watch yourself do it. Emily, talks about three important elements in a sex video: lighting, lingerie, and letting go (maybe with a little liquid courage). Emily even shares how she wants her own sex video to unwind. If you're interested in making a sex tape or improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: One Night Stand

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 15 Apr 2013 20:06:52 +0000

Just because it's casual sex, doesn't mean it has to be bad sex. Emily talks about one night stands-- the excitement, build up, and anticlimactic finish. Emily shows you how to have casual sex that won't disappoint.Emily also talks about how to tell if someone is looking for a one night stand or a relationship, because sometimes it's hard to tell when the champagne is flowing.Also, how to get a power back in your relationship, little penises, and asking out a friend.If you're interested in casual sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Bondage

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 11 Apr 2013 23:13:00 +0000

Forget the whips and assless leather chaps, Emily is breaking down the basics of bondage. Make them beg for it. Tie them up, tease them, and then give them incredible oral sex with Emily's ice cube trick. If you're interested in trying out bondage or improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Nice Guys

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 08 Apr 2013 17:18:00 +0000

Do nice guys always finish last? Not in bed at least. Always try to make her orgasm first, especially if you're calling yourself a "nice guy." Why do people stay in bad relationships? Emily explains why you should never date someone and expect them to change. Emily shares how to reject people without busting out a knife and stabbing them in the heart. Also, having sex in a freezer, sex with your ex, slump busters, whip cream, road head at a car wash, and falling asleep mid-ejaculation. Sex with Emily is a free podcast. Emily no longer has the paid Friends with Benefits program because she wants everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Her Fantasy

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Sat, 06 Apr 2013 01:21:23 +0000

When an Adult Film Star is sexually frustrated, you know there's a problem with how men are doing it, or should I say not doing it? Adult Star Krista Ayne has created a program where she actually shows men how she and other women want to have sex. Her female friend helps her demonstrate.She starts with kissing, works her way down to her erogenous zones, and even teaches you the right technique for cunnilingus. Then she shows how to have sex in 50 different positions. You can take an ordinary sex position and turn it into an orgasmic sex position, just by slightly moving her legs or moving your pelvis. Krista Ayne shows you how to do it with her Fantasy Lover Formula. Check out this free video all about turning her fantasies into a reality. Warning: This video contains adult content. NSFW.

SWE: More Oral

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 04 Apr 2013 02:56:22 +0000

Are you a spitter, swallower, or avoider? Michael Guilfoyle, Oral Sex Specialist and President of Masque: Sexual Flavors talks about semen. Michael explains how men can taste better so their partner enjoys giving it more. Emily breaks down how to get more oral sex, because it's kind of the greatest thing in the world.

SWE: Where to Orgasm

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 20:50:00 +0000

Emily tells you where to orgasm because some men have no ejaculation etiquette. Now that you know where to orgasm, you just have to find someone to orgasm with... Emily talks about whether you should stalk your date on Facebook before going on a date. Also, rejection can ironically help you get a date. Nothing horrible is going to happen because you got turned down, except you don't get any action tonight. Emily tells you how to get some tomorrow. Sex with Emily is a free podcast. Emily no longer has the paid Friends with Benefits program because she wants everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: How to Last Longer

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 29 Mar 2013 20:57:58 +0000

Man's biggest fear: do I last long enough in bed? Well, if your partner has an orgasm in one minute it might not matter if you're a minute man. But let's be honest, that's probably not going to happen... Emily breaks down how to last longer in bed including pre-gaming, exercising your PC muscles, not having sex like a machine gun. And if all else fails, how to give her amazing oral sex.Emily explains how to be real with people you want to sleep with and why the last thing you should do is put them on a pedestal. Also, how to stop obsessing and get over your ex already!Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Sex Challenge

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 27 Mar 2013 23:15:48 +0000

When Emily actually commits to someone for 30 days, she plans on doing the 30 Day Sex Challenge. For 30 days you have to have try something new with your partner in bed. If you're not sure what the hell to do for 30 days, that's what Emily's Sex Drive app is for. Emily talks about how to tell your partner what you want, how to open up on dates and why you should never be too clingy. Also, Emily talks about dating men with ponytails, dating Jewish men, orgasmic monks and Kurt Cobain’s penis. Sex with Emily is a free podcast. Emily no longer has the paid Friends with Benefits program because she wants everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Her Orgasm

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Sat, 23 Mar 2013 20:00:00 +0000

Most men: "Oh my god I'm the greatest lover in the world!" Most women: "I faked another orgasm." Men are clueless about female pleasure and women are not communicating their dissatisfaction. Tantric Master Lawrence Lanoff and Emily break down all the myths about female pleasure. It's a myth that women do not want sex. Women are just fed up of having bed sex and are starving for touch. Lawrence teaches men how to stop grabbing and start touching, and how to turn your touch into her mind-blowing orgasm. Special offer for Sex with Emily listeners only: click here for a Free Report that reveals 10 Ways to Touch a Woman and Drive Her Wild With Desire.

SWE: Morning Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 21 Mar 2013 19:23:21 +0000

A podcast on morning sex, afternoon sex, shower sex, sex with virgins, bed breaking sex, sex on private jets and sex that makes you faint. Also, what you can tell about your partner from their friends.Sex with Emily is a free podcast. I no longer have the paid Friends with Benefits program because I want everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily.Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Relationship Status

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 18 Mar 2013 19:45:00 +0000

Not only is Facebook sucking up all your time, but it is also going to ruin your relationship if it hasn't already. Your relationship status, compromising photos, and lack of cyber affection might contribute to the demise of your relationship. But all hope is not lost! Emily tells you how to survive a relationship on Facebook. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Ask Someone Out Already

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 15 Mar 2013 22:51:00 +0000

Men do not ask women out enough. They are terrified that they will get rejected. Well, you might get rejected but you'll survive if that happens and you'll find someone else to ask out. Emily's cohost Menace demonstrates how to ask someone out by calling up a woman he's interested in and asking her out. You're never going to get out of the friend zone if you don't ask them out! Menace also shares he's secrets for lasting longer in bed. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE: Embarrassing Sex Stories

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 13 Mar 2013 19:00:00 +0000

Emily is Las Vegas bound and wants to go to the shooting range. Strippers are the best talkers, orgasms at the gym while using the thighmaster, and your first time having sex will probably be horrible. It’s perfectly normal.

Guest Barbie Davenporte, writer for LAWeekly's sex blog AfterDarkLA, tells embarrassing stories about balls and a threesome with two men: one gay and the other engaged.

Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men.

SWE: How to Seduce a Woman Tonight

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Sat, 09 Mar 2013 01:15:00 +0000

Emily interviews dating and relationship coach David Wygant on how to have confidence and talk to women, even if you have no confidence whatsoever and have no idea what to say. David tells you how to walk up to a woman at a cafe and hit on her without having her ruthlessly reject you. She'll even want to talk to you, go out with you, and then sleep with you. David demonstrates how he would pick up Emily at a cafe and slowly seduces her. The show turns to sex and how to cultivate the "power of the pussy." Do not put the pussy on a pedestal when you're hitting on her, but when you sleep with her you're mission is to pleasure the pussy. David and Emily explain how to crack her sexual code, and the exact moves that will make you great in bed. Want to learn more about David's special sexual techniques that give you the power of the pussy? Click here for more of David Wygant's secrets to become The Best Lover She's Ever Had.

SWE: What Men & Women Want

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 06 Mar 2013 20:31:10 +0000

1,000 women tell you what they want in bed. Emily breaks down men and women’s biggest sex insecurities and the single most important thing to them during sex. Emily tells you what they want and how to give it to them. In other news, Emily edits all her friend’s sexts before they send them and shares how to cultivate good sextiquette. Then she explains what happens to your brain when you orgasm and how to date people you actually want to be with. Emily also answers listeners emails about complimenting women, troubles ejaculating during oral sex, and how to get your wife to listen to Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations

SWE- How to meet someone

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 04 Mar 2013 20:30:00 +0000

Emily gives you the low-down on lube and why it makes sex that much better. But before you lube up, you may or may not need to find a partner. Emily and her cohost Menace give tips for meeting someone outside the bar. You might just find your next GF/BF at the laundromat. In other news, Menace tried Viagra, got waxed, and now it’s time for him to get his penis P-jazzled (decorated with rhinestones). Emily tells you how to send a naked photo, how to count condoms to see if he's cheating, and when it's time to hire a private investigator. Emily also answers listeners questions about sex toys for men, slowly undressing women, and fantasizing about someone else while having sex. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations.

SWE- Slow vs. Rough

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 27 Feb 2013 21:33:11 +0000

This show will teach you how to make sweet love or how to tie up your partner, depending on what kind of mood you're in. With a little butt slapping here, a little shallow thrusting there, and a little neck nibbling, Emily shows you how to have slow and rough sex. You have to mediate on her vagina and cultivate the perfect butt slap-- two of the most important skills in life.Emily also discusses how women can have orgasms. Once you learn how your own body works and buy a vibrator, you'll be ready to have orgasmic sex whether you're tied to the bedposts or making slow passionate love.

SWE- Titillating Tips

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 25 Feb 2013 23:30:51 +0000

A show overflowing with titillating sex tips and talk about Emily's cleavage. Emily wants to know why men don't undress women anymore. Gentleman, you need to change your lackluster ways. Emily gives tips for how men can be less boring in bed and tips for how women can initiate more sex. Emily also talks about jealousy, how Facebook has changed relationships, and your glorious inner-thighs.

SWE- Sex for Grownups

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 20 Feb 2013 22:33:48 +0000

Sex is your birthright, use it forever. Emily interviews celebrity psychologist, "sexpert," and wise elder Dr. Dorree Lynn about how to have amazing sex after 50. While you might not be able to do it on the kitchen table anymore, you can still have sex on the floor. Emily and Dr. Dorree give advice for men and women with low libido, sex after menopause, and talking to your partner about changing your sex life. Do not settle for a life without sex. The golden years are for getting it on.

SWE- Recharging Women's Sex Drive

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 19:45:06 +0000

43% of women experience low libido. Whether it's menopause, stress, anti-depressants, medical problems or something else, women often blame themselves for their slumping sex drive. Emily talks with Rachel Braun Scherl, President of Semprae Laboratories (the creators of the revolutionary female product Zestra), about why so many women experience low libido and what they can do to get their sex drive back.

SWE- Romantic or Repulsive?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 13 Feb 2013 22:42:57 +0000

Emily talks with women about what they think is cute or cliche on V-day. Emily breaks down the most romantic and repulsive date ideas, from reading each other poetry in the tub to fancy fast-food, from heart-shaped boxes to shamelessly selling yourself on eBay. Emily also talks about robberies at sex stores, elitist penises, sex with virgins, men who don’t want sex, and men who do want sex but don't know how to get it.

SWE- Singles Awareness Day

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 11 Feb 2013 01:32:03 +0000

Valentine's Day, commonly known as “Singles Awareness Day” for many Americans, is a day for laughter, tears, and double shots of whiskey. Emily answers important questions like, should you use your electric toothbrush as a vibrator? Why or why not? And what the hell should you do on V-day if you're single? Don't worry, you're going to have fun if you follow this advice.

SWE- How to get some

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 23:45:26 +0000

Emily talks with pickup artist Brad P about how to approach women at a coffee shop... and end up doing it in the Starbucks bathroom. Brad P breaks down the biggest mistakes men make while hitting on women and how to have an edge over all those other "nice guys." Don't just ask her where she's from or what she does for a living. Here's what you should say if you really want to get some.

Special offer for Sex with Emily listeners: free book reveals how to approach hot women, open up a conversation and create instant attraction.

SWE- Single or Taken?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 04 Feb 2013 17:35:52 +0000

A podcast on why it's great to be single or taken on Valentine's Day. It's a perfect night to go out and meet someone or stay in and have sex with someone you love. In case you're wondering, you definitely count as someone you love. Self-love is one of the most rewarding things in the world. Emily shares her best and worst V-day experiences, and what made them special or subpar. Her best V-day was in the third grade when her classmate gave her cash in her Valentine.

SWE- The right way to do V-day

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 01 Feb 2013 19:30:00 +0000

Today's podcast is Sex with Emily and Nikki G, the top sexologist in Australia. We talk about Valentines Day-- what you should do and what you should buy. Hint- the best things to do don't cost that much money and the best things to buy vibrate. Emily and Nikki talk about the sex pressure of Valentines Day and how you don't have to embody Christian Grey in the bedroom, at least at first. You can take baby steps to 50 Shades of Grey sex.

SWE- How to Screw

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 30 Jan 2013 20:14:41 +0000

Tips and topics include: Cloning your willy, crooked penises, Christ for Kegels, the oral sex "chin trick," and the oral sex "screw trick." Emily goes on to teach people how to function during sex. Stare lovingly into your partner's eyes without looking psychotic, have loud, ravenous sex whenever possible, and remember to breathe (yes, people forget). Emily also explains what to do if someone stops functioning during sex. People have a better chance of having a heart attack during sex than most other activities. At least they'll die happily on top of you.

SWE- What Works & What Doesn't

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 28 Jan 2013 06:01:50 +0000

A show on breast play, friends with benefits, dirty talk, and threesomes-- when they work and when they don't. Emily answers listener's questions: How long should you make out before going for the breasts? How long can you play with her breasts before it gets creepy? Do friends with benefits ever work? How do I talk dirty without offending her? And last but not least, can I have a threesome without completely destroying my relationship?

SWE- Porn Star Guest Conner Habib

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 25 Jan 2013 17:38:51 +0000

ay Adult Film Star, lecturer, and writer Conner Habib talks about making gay porn and how it's changed the way he thinks about sex. Habib talks about how porn has made him less superficial about choosing mates. Once you have sex with all the conventionally attractive macho men, you start to realize who you're really attractive to.He also talks about how being good at sex is not the the same as being good at porn (although he assures Emily he's pretty good at sex too). Habib reveals the most searched porn term on the Internet and why straight women love gay porn so much. He also gives oral sex tips for performing on a man. After all, a gay porn star is going to know fellatio better than anyone else.

SWE: Guest Dan Abrams

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 23 Jan 2013 18:11:00 +0000

Emily discusses why women are simply better than men with television host, legal analyst, and best-selling author Dan Abrams. Abram uses research to invalidate sexist cliches about the differences between men and women in his book, Man Down: Proof Beyond a Reasonable Doubt That Women Are Better Cops, Drivers, Gamblers, Spies, World Leaders, Beer Tasters, Hedge Fund Managers, and Just About Everything Else. Emily corroborates Abrams findings while her co-host Menace is skeptical, wondering if Abrams just wrote the book to get laid. But Emily doesn't think Abrams needs to write a book celebrating women to do well with the ladies (she used to date Abrams herself). Contrary to popular opinion, Abrams argues why women are better at driving and making decisions. Men on the other hand are better at parking and getting hit by lightening.

SWE: Random Acts of Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 21 Jan 2013 21:56:30 +0000

Random acts of sex are a great way to brighten you and your partner's day. Emily presents a random mix of sex tips for men, including oral sex humming, side-to-side hip movements, and how to french kiss. She also tells men how to impress women without the help of their penis. Emily also answers listeners questions about hand jobs, asking someone out, and morning sex.

SWE: Why You're Bad in Bed

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 18 Jan 2013 03:01:41 +0000

You’re not bad in bed because you don't have a huge penis that lasts forever. You’re bad in bed because-- you forget about foreplay, you don't know how to go down on them, you don’t go down on them enough, you have sex like a jackrabbit, you aren't thinking about their pleasure, or you're so scared of doing something wrong that you don't do anything at all. Listening to this podcast will make you great in bed. Or at least better than before.

SWE: Phone Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 17 Jan 2013 21:13:14 +0000

How to have great phone sex, from foreplay sexting to an orgasmic phone call finish. Emily personally demonstrates how to “sex up” your voice. Emily and her co-host Menace discuss how often men and women talk about who they’re sleeping with, and when you should stop telling everyone you know the intimate details of your sex life. Emily ends the show with a lesson on Kegels-- how to do your sexercises and why they will make you better in bed.

SWE: Clitoris & Compliments

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 14 Jan 2013 20:42:00 +0000

Emily gives tips for going down on her and tips for stimulating the clitoris during sex, because she wants women to have glorious, multiple orgasms. Emily describes how to do the "V finger technique" and discusses how to share your fantasies (even the really embarrassing ones). Emily and her sidekick Menace end the show with a heated debate on how often men should compliment women.

SWE: Ask for what you want in bed

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 07 Jan 2013 23:55:00 +0000

If your 2013 hasn't been full of mind-blowing sex and amazing relationships, this show help get you there. Emily discusses how to change your sex life in 2013 with powerful vibrators, sexercise, more foreplay, and lots more oral sex. Emily confesses what she wants to change about her sex life, and explains how to tell your partner exactly what you want in bed. Emily also talks sex trends in 2012 and answers listeners emails about irrational pregnancy fears, dating shy guys, and dealing with really big penises.

SWE: Guest Fernando and Greg

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 03 Jan 2013 05:40:00 +0000

Greg Sherrell from Fernando and Greg in the Morning discusses gay dating in San Francisco. Greg reflects on growing up gay, from hiding his porn to telling his butch brother he prefers men. He also explains his shock at finding out his Dad's ex-wife was the lesbian soft ball coach. Greg breaks down dating, from the gym locker room to the club. Emily and Greg also talk about the differences between gay sex and straight sex, the Grindr obsession, amateur porn, double penetration, and orgasming without touching your penis.

SWE: Cockfidence

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 20:37:00 +0000

Sex and relationship therapists Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel, authors of Cockfidence: The Extraordinary Lover's Guide To Being The Man You Want To Be And Driving Women Wild divulge the most crucial factors influencing sex in relationships as special guests in this episode. Emily and the women discuss passion, "faking it," and romantic encounters. Plus, how men can get more connected with selves.

SWE: Single for the Holidays

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Sun, 23 Dec 2012 00:53:00 +0000

Emily is your survival guide to being single for the holidays. How to embrace being single and why you should making a dating and/or relationship resolution for the New Years, like dating and sleeping with people you actually like. Happy holidays one and all!

SWE: Sex Facts

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 20 Dec 2012 21:53:00 +0000

Put on your spandex pants because Emily’s talking about sexercises and all the facts you need to know about sex. Emily reveals a new trend involving geography, sex, and smell. Then she gets into a slew of other topics, including: cheating, premarital sex, swinging, Kegels, oral sex, loss of desire, and Emily’s favorite phrase “Jack Rabbit Sex.”

SWE: How To Gift A Vibrator

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 20 Dec 2012 20:28:00 +0000

SWE: Truly

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 14 Dec 2012 23:01:00 +0000

Emily talks about the differences between Los Angeles and San Francisco men. Her long standing “friend with benefits” relationship comes to a tidy end and Emily breaks down Menace’s love life. Also, vibrating panties and what to do when your partner has no style.

SWE: What Women Really Want

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 02:07:00 +0000

How to make your first time with a vibrator truly special, from mood lighting and soft music to clitoral stimulation and explosive orgasms. Emily shares the number one thing women want in bed and how to tease and build anticipation without being annoying. She also answers listener letters about guys who shower immediately after sex, ejaculation etiquette, alternative sex routines, and foot fetishes.

SWE: Female Sex Lives

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 23:43:00 +0000

Get turned on in this “quickie” episode as Emily interviews a female guest, “Hope” about her sexual exploits. Hope reveals her crazy first time sex experience, thoughts on younger versus older men, and the best position to orgasm. The women also discuss sex toys, fetishes, and a secret oral sex “chin trick.”

SWE: Tips from a Dominatrix

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 23 Nov 2012 12:30:00 +0000

In these two quickie episodes Emily interviews Pro-Dominatrix Sara Miller and also answers popular listener questions. Emily and her guest divulge about first sexual experiences, lesbian sex, orgasm differences, orgies, and ejaculation on command. Listener letters cover topics such as “perfect” dating tips, online profiles, semen landing, and hand jobs.

SWE: No Shave November

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 22 Nov 2012 19:39:00 +0000

In honor of "No Shave November," Emily focuses on manscaping in this episode. Topics include: trimmings tips (not for Thanksgiving), pubic hair styles, "back pussy," vajazzle, and on-air bikini waxes. Emily addresses listener letters including a woman fallen for two men and cheating.

SWE: Special Guests Ben and Jen Rodes

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 20 Nov 2012 07:49:00 +0000

Emily is back in San Francisco before heading off to Mexico for the Thanksgiving holiday. She made new friends at the Sex Summit -Ben and Jen Rode- who join her on air. Ben and Jen explain their Explosive Sexual Healing technique whichhelps women achieve half hour g-spot orgasms (this is the way to relax!). Listener letters include: addressing girlfriends who don't like receiving oral sex and crushes in the neighborhood.

SWE: Special Guest Ted Travelstead

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 15 Nov 2012 19:21:00 +0000

Ted Travelstead, Vanity Fair reporter and co-author of Sex: Our Bodies, Our Junk, joins Emily in this throwback episode. Emily and Ted discuss religion and sex, Betty White, the gag-reflex, and the New York City versus San Francisco dating scene. Also, how nice is too nice for a "nice guy"?

SWE: Sex Tips from a Dominatrix

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 21:15:00 +0000

Get dominated by Sarah Miller, Emily's sex school classmate who happens to be a Pro- Dominatrix. Emily talks about getting naked in class, BDSM, and breast orgasms (they really do exist). Emily also talks about sex, drugs, and alchol. For a follow-up lesson on BDSM, check out Sex Tips from a Dominatrix II.

SWE: Fall Staycation

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 02 Nov 2012 20:44:00 +0000

If you're looking to snuggle up and reignite spark in your relationship, a Fall Staycation is a perfect way to spend time with you lover. Emily gives tips for planning a vacation in your bedroom. Emily also answers questions about male-female friendships, squirting, and Emily's favorite-- threesomes.

SWE: Scary in the Bedroom

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 23:51:00 +0000

In honor of Halloween, Emily talks about scary bedroom encounters, from a one minute man to anal sex. Also, what to do when your hook-up leaves underwear behind, sex with your ex, and avoiding STI's during a threesome.

SWE: The Bush

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 26 Oct 2012 01:22:00 +0000

In this throwback episode Emily talks about bushes, from George W. Bush to the 70’s hair down-there trend. She also discusses breast orgasms, bondage, and Black Swan girl-on-girl action. Also, just in time for Halloween, an Oregon couple gives out some sexual trick or treats--- “three musketeers or a condom anyone?”

SWE: First Base

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 19 Oct 2012 21:47:00 +0000

Emily and Menace talking about going to first base-- tips from first dates and first kisses. Emily also answers listeners emails about swinging, gym fantasizing, and party etiquette.

SWE: Two Quickies & an Orgasm

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 18 Oct 2012 17:49:00 +0000

In these two quickie episodes, Emily tells you how to get in on whether you're naked at the Harbin Hotsprings or on a cruise. She then describes how to pleasure women in bed, from foreplay to roleplay, with a little oral sex in between. The show comes to a strange end with Emily involved in a somewhat disturbing Fast food fantasy, dressed up as the Hamburgeler.

SWE: Sex Drive

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 21:45:00 +0000

Emily's back in sex school getting her doctorate, learning about gigantic sex machines and how the penis evolved. After school gets out, Emily goes on the Jeff Probst show to give sex advice and answer some hard questions from the audience. One lady wants to know what do you do when your guy won't go down on you. Several husbands want to know how to get their wives to have sex with them. If your not getting any with your significant other, it might be time to play Emily's Sex Drive, her new iPhone application for couples. Emily will send you an envelope everyday with a sexual assignment (she's not the only one getting schooled in sex). Emily and Menace take the Sex Drive pledge and pretend to fulfill their sexual tasks, from going to a sex shop to dirty talk. Emily gives advice for how to mixup your sex life whether you like good ol' fashion vanilla sex or something a bit spicier.

SWE: Liberate your Lust

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 07:00:00 +0000

Emily challenges you to go big or go home, and fantacize! From dirty talk to transcending the boundaries of your sex life, you need to liberate your lust. Emily's cohost Menace shares some intimate memories, prompting a discussion about men's fantasies. Emily also has a few dating tips for listeners who find themselves on the deep end of dating.

SWE: The Breasts

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Sat, 06 Oct 2012 05:48:00 +0000

On the “breast show” in support of National Breast Cancer month of October, Emily and Menace discuss ways that both women and men should not neglect the breasts.

SWE: Married Sex, Hot or Not?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 04 Oct 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Today's throwback episodes are all about YOU! We focus on listener emails that highlight problems people have with everything from stale sex and swinging to sexualizing strangers. Menace and Emily delve into the nitty gritty of monogamy, and rumors about San Francisco women being gold diggers. Menace's views on this matter may shock you. Or not, if you've listened to him for more than 5 minutes.

SWE: One Ball Wonder

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 27 Sep 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Today Emily helps out a male listener who's severely lacking in confidence, as well as one of his testicles. After returning from a 4th of July trip to Michigan, Emily starts pondering her single life. Good thing she has a "Group Sex" seminar coming up, even if it doesn't involve group sex. Menace takes on short-haired women and feels the wrath of San Francisco's ladies. Topics from listeners include the problems of asking girls out, handjobs, and sex with pregnant women.

SWE: Different Orgasms

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 21:27:00 +0000

Emily shares at least seven different types of orgasm’s for women (sorry gentleman). Oh the many orgasms yet to come! Emily gently, but not too gently, guides you through how to achieve orgasms, no matter if you prefer Combination or Blended, Multiple or Serial orgasms. Hopefully we can all agree that real orgasms are the best kind of orgasms, and fake ones don’t serve anyone.

SWE: Vajazzle

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 20 Sep 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Are your lady parts as sparkly as they could be? A listener is considering pimping out her vulva but neither Emily nor Menace can get behind the move. A listener makes a bold proposal for Emily and Menace, and the rules for breaking out fantasies in the bedroom are laid out. Adrift her man-atorium, Emily goes on a cruise and does water aerobics. Meanwhile Menace goes to a rapping wedding and doesn't get friend zoned. Emily splurges on lingerie, and gives advice to a listener regarding online dating and reality-based dating, stressing the importance of putting yourself out there. Lady Gaga claims to give herself mental orgasms, prompting much philosophizing about orgasms. And what's that? Could it be the Great Handjob Debate showing up again? You got it.

SWE: Guest Porn Star Bree Olson

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 14 Sep 2012 17:52:00 +0000

From pre-med to pornography, girl next door to sexy vixen, adult star Bree Olson talks openly about her sex life. Emily and Menace also talk about their sex lives, or lack their of. Menace wants to know how many sweaters Emily’s knitted during her Manatroium-- A hiatus from dating or even flirting with men. Menace is conducting an OkCupid experiment but isn’t having any luck finding prospective partners online. Emily answers listener’s emails about being too wet for sex, Hand Jobs, and strippers.

SWE: Digital Dating

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 07 Sep 2012 18:14:00 +0000

mily discusses how to navigate your online relationship, from the first online dating message to the unfortunate “it’s not you, it’s me” email message. Emily explores the brave new digital world of dating, and questions whether it’s possible to “Liketerbate,” E-snoop, E-hump, and digital dump with at least some human decency. After all, emoticons cannot replace real human emotion. In other news, a man semen scientist actually thinks swallowing semen makes women smarter and happier, and people are actively trying not to orgasm during sex. Sounds like reverse psychology at it’s best. Emily answer listeners emails about what to do if they don’t call, having sex with your roommate, and giving yourself oral sex.

SWE: Hot Moves For Guys

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 06 Sep 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily runs through a list of hot sex moves for guys, many of which are questionable in their hotness, even if they're well-intentioned. Menace gives some dating advice to a thirteen year old that doesn't go over too well. The pitfalls of married sex and libidos are discussed, and Emily is upset to find out the rather banal things married women want more than sex, like reading and sleeping. Emily is getting a lot more done on her man-atorium. Listeners have problems with terrible oral sex, breaking up, and dating single moms.

SWE: Turn-ons & Turn-offs

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 31 Aug 2012 18:06:00 +0000

From earlobe nibbling to men in suits, golden showers to keeping your socks on during the deed, Emily reveals the top turn-ons and turn-offs for men and women. So read a book at a cafe, fix a lamp, and try to notice the little things that make your partner happy. Emily also answers listeners questions about Baby Mama drama, dating a pimp, first time anal sex advice, and masturbating after marriage.

SWE: Pet Peeves & What Not To Do In Bed

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 30 Aug 2012 13:30:00 +0000

Emily's friend encounters "the fatal move," the head push, and Emil and Menace discuss its merits. Emily and Menace share their pet peeves about the opposite sex - from talking to not picking up signals to playing corpse in bed. The Great Handjob Debate flares up, a listener looks for nonverbal cues to move foreplay ahead. Another listener considers a four year long-term relationship and Emily weighs the pros and cons of long-term Skype sex. Other topics include: having kids, sex toys, single parent dating, and celebrity sex addicts.

SWE: Like a Virgin

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 24 Aug 2012 05:41:00 +0000

Emily's inbox has been getting swamped with emails from virgins of all ages lately, so today's episode is dedicated to helping them join the coital club, laying out what they can expect and how they should enter this new stage in their love lives. Virgins' partners get advised too, to make their lovers' first times magical. Or, at least, less awkward than their own.

Emily weighs attending Burning Man and Menace prepares for Wedding Season. A listener wonders how to find men into bondage. Another doesn't know how to ask out a waitress. A British couple is making everyone on earth throw them weddings, a new blog broadcasts creepy OkCupid come-ons, and Todd Akin thinks women have magic in their wombs.

SWE: E-humping Etiquette

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 17 Aug 2012 18:55:00 +0000

Emily shares her secret for successful relationships & marriage– spend time apart. She supports marriages where couples have healthy communication, tell each other what they want in bed, and travel to remote areas of the globe… separately. Emily breaks down Skype Sex and e-humping etiquette. How to direct a Skype scene and act in it as well. Emily and Menace discuss the top fantasies for men and women and the likelihood they will actually come true. Emily also answers listeners questions: Orgasm denial, advice for lesbians, how long should you wait to have sex, and how do you tell someone they’re bad in bed?

SWE: A Sticky Situation

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 01:04:00 +0000

The sticky subject of ejaculation is covered in painstaking detail today by Emily, Menace, and their loyal, very opinionated listeners. From the where’s and why’s to the do’s and don’t, the coming and going of male climaxes are dissected and discussed. Emily’s friend asks her for a vacation sex starter kit. Emily shares a few threesome stories and Menace shares his travel plans and outlines his enthusiasm for Asian women. In technological news, future phones will be able to detect STD’s, and men’s scrotums are being roasted by their beloved laptops. A listener with a ponytailed husband shares her first (and according to Menace, inevitable) swinging experience, another takes on Emily’s diction, and “Female Viagra” is discussed.

SWE: Fellatio Show

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 17:52:00 +0000

Emily and Menace discuss the last episode of Miss Advised and what really happened with her crush David in Napa. Emily gives the CEO of Masque: Sexual Flavors a phone call and solicits his oral expertise to pick the best fellatio tips from listeners. Be enthusiastic, pay attention to the tip, make eye contact, and use your hands. Oh and don't actually blow. Emily also answers listener emails about meeting people at bars, devirginizing men, and how to be more confident.

SWE: Do You Need a Sex Coach?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 05:19:00 +0000

Celeste & Danielle, "sexological therapists," talk about how they coach people to better sex. They stress the importance of men getting involved in their lover's emotions, sexual spontaneity, avoiding rejection when talking about sex with your partner, the G-Spot, and their book, "Cockfidence."

SWE: Embarrassing Sex Question

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 03 Aug 2012 17:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about the ten most embarrassing sex questions she gets and how to be, well, less embarassed about them. While there are solutions to many sexual issues, people need to have a sense of humor about sex and expect some hiccups, and possibly queefs. Let go of body insecurity, fears of premature ejaculation, embrace your fetish, and take a little pride in your 'walk of shame.' Emily also talks about why you don't necessarily need to bring a date to a wedding, and having sex at a wedding (or in the parking lot outside the wedding). Also, Emily describes her experience as a guest on Watch What Happens with Andy Cohen.

SWE: Breaking up & Moving On

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 02 Aug 2012 19:53:00 +0000

Emily may have just dressed up five nights in a row for Halloween and Menace was nominated to be a Prom King, but don't worry, today's show is all about grown up topics. A rather young listener has trouble leaving a relationship and entering a new one, so Emily has some advice on how to break up. Menace starts a 30 day Starbucks challenge to "see what happens," so he might not be the best source of advice for making mature decisions. Luckily Emily is around to help some married listeners maintain their healthy sex life into their golden years. Ejaculation etiquette, oral sex, and orgasm issues with a girlfriend get discussed, and a listener has a hairy problem with his girlfriend.

SWE: Escaping the Friend Zone

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 25 Jul 2012 17:09:00 +0000

What do you do if you like, "like" a friend? Emily works through the problem of a lovelorn, friend-zoned listener while she herself starts to date a longtime acquaintance. Do you perform "the reach" in a restaurant on your second date? Emily points out why you should - and don't worry, it won't get you thrown out. If your oral sex routine is getting a little yawn-worthy, Emily's got some oral sex tips to keep things exciting. Also, learn how to communicate about condoms, and how you can stop dating losers once and for all.

SWE: Put a Fork in It

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 15:00:00 +0000

Emily is going to New York to hang out with Andy Cohen as a guest on Watch What Happens Live on the 23rd. Menace prepares Emily for the hard questions she's going to have to answer. Emily and Menace discuss relationships and how spending time apart from your boyfriend or girlfriend can be beneficial for your relationship. Emily breaks down the the top ten reasons people break up including the need to feel independent. It's important to remember that your partner doesn't posses you. Emily and Menace give advice about diets, body image, and reigniting the spark. Also, oral sex advice from guest Tasha Reign -vegetarian, social activist, free spirit, yoga enthusiast, and hardcore porn star.

SWE: Sex Tips From a Dominatrix

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 03:35:00 +0000

Emily interviews Dr. Sarah Miller about her first sexual experiences, what she's learned about men by being a dominatrix, and other sex tips and tricks.

SWE: Threesomes

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 13 Jul 2012 00:32:00 +0000

In honor of Emily's many threesome proposals by a bevy of men on Miss Advised, she's giving advice on how to have a successful threesome. Emily discusses threesome rules and how to make everyone feel included in the group. Limit the liquid courage and make sure your partner feels special. Emily and Menace also discuss how men who don't understand social cues can still function in a dating world. It's important to remember that if you get rejected you probably won't die or become homeless. Emily also discusses virginity, monogamy, cockrings, and the pursuit of happiness.

SWE: Sex Parties

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 23:10:00 +0000

Emily interviews Captain Erotica - he saves relationships in a single bound and couples hire him to teach them have better sex lives. Emily also talks about her first sex party experience.

SWE: Her Big "O"

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 06 Jul 2012 21:00:00 +0000

Emily advises not going to a strip club on a first date like she did on Miss Advised. Emily gives sex advice to a 34-year-old virgin who wants to find love, to a 15-year-old girl who wants to learn how to have her first orgasm, and a 30-year-old female who has tried everything possible to orgasm to no avail. Emily shares personal stories about her first ever orgasm and what it takes to get her there.

She also shares the number one reason women have trouble reaching climax and what they can do to achieve an orgasm. Understand your body, claim your own orgasm, and never wait for a man to have the “right moves” in bed. Also, Emily is on a mission to change the world with lube and a certain sex toy.

SWE: Dirty Talk

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 03 Jul 2012 02:30:00 +0000

Honesty may be the best policy, but honesty in relationships are like deep sea diving: if you want to survive, you’ve got to know your limits. Today Emily lays out the five things you don’t want to know about your partner’s sex history.

Then it’s back to basics, and why you should just pick up the phone and ask her out already. A man whose wife just admitted that she's never had an orgasm with him, and Menace lays out his tried and possibly true method to getting over performance anxiety. Craving oral sex tips? This episode’s got ‘em, as well as one night stands and the basics of talking dirty.

Please support out sponsor: Masque: Sexual Flavors

SWE: Initiating Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 19:00:00 +0000

A lot of women out there are intimidated by initiating sex, and even more men are tired of putting in the work. Thankfully, Emily's here to explain how women can ask for it without asking for it, and how men can better set the mood. From porn and sexting to fantasies and massages, it's time to step up your game when it comes to scoring.

Emily and Menace discuss the effects of being on Bravo, being reviewed by the Parents' Council and being called "Strident", talking about cock rings on national television, and the weirdness of old flames suddenly calling them up. A Chinese village ascribes magical powers to a subterranean masturbation sleeve, and Sweden built an app to let you test out sex with your Facebook friends.

A male listener can't unwrap his head around a partner's past, and it's affecting his confidence in bed. A foot fetishist writes in to explain the sexual appeal of podiatry. When a guy who doesn't call after two dates suddenly wants to reconnect, Emily and Menace take different approaches to the dilemma. Menace uses astrology to explain a lot of Emily's problems, and Emily thinks Menace has some "early ball trauma," which prompts some personal delving on his part.

Finally, Menace would give up sex for a year for the 4 Alarm Double Decker Taco, but Emily is hard pressed to decide what she'd give up sex for. Enjoy the show!

Please support our sponsors: Good Vibrations, Jimmyjane, Masque, and Max For Men/Crazy Girl.

SWE: The Ex Factor

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Someone asks Menace: “Do you have Sex WIth Emily’s number? She said her favorite call is a booty call.” Emily may have mentioned that her favorite call is a booty call on Miss Advised. Menace is in love with Amy, the matchmaker from Miss Advised and the two give her a call. Emily talks about how to get over your ex and start new relationships. Emily also gives advice to couples who don’t connect sexually. If you don’t connect in the bedroom, it makes it harder to connect in other ways in the relationship.

SWE: Sex Tips from a Gay Man

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 08 Jun 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily announces that she will be talking about oral sex today. Menace isn’t surprised since it is her favorite topic other than her dog. Emily’s dog Daisy amazingly climbs up a tree in the dog park. Something about a squirrel...

Menace calls Emily a player for life after they talk about marriage and monogamy. Emily plans on getting married only if all her exes can attend the wedding.

Emily’s new intern Omar gives anal sex tips and oral sex tips for both gay men and straight men.

SWE: Sex Hacker

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 06 Jun 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Stepping into the studio right off the set of a porn shoot, vixen Maggie Mayhem tells Emily how she went from accidentally having a mullet in high school, to running HIV clinics, to starring in hardcore porn. A self-described "Sex Hacker", she's constantly breaking down barriers and challenging herself and others. She got her fiance into porn, pegging, and polyamory, and teamed up with him to start the "PSIgasm Project", an open-source orgasm detector that detects and analyzes orgasms.

SWE: Fear of Balls

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 04 Jun 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily recovers after her birthday party weekend and prepares for the premiere of Miss Advised in two weeks. A reason to watch: Emily makes out with a bunch of dudes.

A man gets a 2-year long boner from riding a motorcycle and a man serves up his genitals for dinner, literally. Emily discusses 50 Shades of Grey and bondage for beginners. Also, how to please a women even if you think you're horrible in bed.

How to get over your fear of balls and manscaping your man-mane to get more oral sex.

SWE: Sex With Emily Ed II

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 01 Jun 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily used the term "going to pound town" with a guy she's dating and Menace is proud. Emily makes out with unattractive dudes for the sake of research. She also got three threesome proposals on her show Miss Advised.

Dr.Ruth is getting people drunk (but not too drunk) off her new wine. Open relationships are becoming more accepted and Emily thinks people should be open to alternative types of relationships. If monogamy doesn't work for you, try something else. Also, Canadian women need their clitoris rubbed.

Menace wants men to try out being assholes and ignore attractive women. Emily isn't happy about his advice and continues her Sex Ed lessons. Also, if you can't get an erection, drink a glass of Dr.Ruth's wine and have get a deep tissue massage. Having a French Bulldog or a Siberian Husky might get you laid more often. Emily's Jack Russel Terrier doesn't make the sexiest dog list.

SWE: Best & Worst Dates

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 30 May 2012 07:00:00 +0000

Happy Hump Day! Emily takes the guy she's dating to her ex's birthday party over the weekend and is celebrating her birthday with a Kegel Kegger. Emily and Menace discuss the top ten cheap date ideas from roller-skaing across the Golden Gate Bridge to going to a dive bar. Also, the worst places to go on a first date. Never go to dinner and a movie unless you have no interest in talking to your date. Hopefully the movie will at least be entertaining.

SWE: Have Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 25 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily is trying to bring back the Hand Job and Menace is trying to bring back a taco. If Emily can get Taco Bell to bring back the Double Decker Taco from 1997 then Menace will give up his stance on the “The Great Hand Job” debate. Menace believes a man can give himself a better HJ than a woman can ever give him. Emily disagrees.

Another woman attacks a cop with a sex toy. There’s a sex toy drive through now as well as a vibrator bike delivery system. Next, a helicopter service that airdrops your sex toys on your porch.

Why he or she isn’t sleeping with you and how to have sex more often, or at least once. If your partner does not want to have sex, you should genuinely ask them what’s wrong. Emily and Menace act out healthy communication as a pretend couple and end up breaking up. Oh well.

SWE: Sex Addict

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 23 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily has a perfect weekend, bike riding and wine tasting with her mom in Sonoma. Someone is getting married in Sonoma and Emily’s mom wants her to walk down the abandoned aisle because she’s worried she won’t see it in real life.

Mark Zuckerberg tied the knot and waited seven years to change his relationship status on Facebook. Emily is following Zuckerberg’s lead while Menace thinks that not changing your relationship status means you’re keeping your options open. Also, Menace wears female deodorant and Emily thinks approves. Why not?

Pheromones parties with your dirty t-shirt, the Vamp vibrator that shimmers in the sunlight like Edward Cullen, and the video game that gives you a free vibrator.

How War of Warcrafts can destroy your sex life and how to tell if you're addicted to sex or just really, really like it.

SWE: Sex Ed With Emily

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 18 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily and her mother are spending the weekend together at a spa in Sonoma. Emily dedicated her book, Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight to her mother and Menace isn't sure what to make of it.

Why you might be able to blame your mattress for the horrible sex you've been having. How to strengthen your penis and how to go organic and orgasmic with Hot Rawks aphrodisiacs. Gaydar is proved by science and a poll shows people really want their significant other to cook. Emily has horrible Gaydar and doesn't cook. Oh well.

Should you stay friends with your ex's and people you've slept with when you're in a serious relationship? Emily's going to Mexico with the guy she's currently dating and her ex.

Emily is your sex ed teacher and shares everything they should have taught you in High School, from female masturbation to how to spot a douchebag.

SWE: Alpha vs. Beta Male

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 16 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

The first video promo for Missed Advised premiered last night (Emily makes out with two guys in it). Emily is also throwing a Kegel Kegger to celebrate her birthday and her iPhone app Kegel Camp. While you’re doing your Kegel exercises, win sexy prizes from Good Vibrations, drink some beer (or the beverage of your choice), and do a keg stand or two.

Emily discusses the crazy places people want to have sex and professes her love for hotel room sex.

Emily and Menace debate the Alpha Male vs. the Beta male-- who is better in bed and who is a better mate. Also, how to get out of the dreaded "friend zone." Nice Guys don't have to finish last, except in bed.

SWE: Dating Disasters

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 14 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily announces that her Reality TV Show on Bravo "Miss Advised" will air on June 18th at 10 pm. In the first episode. Better tune in.

Menace returns from Las Vegas and unsurprisingly did not get laid. Emily shares not only being best friends with your ex but making him your dog's baby daddy. It happens.

Also, robot prostitutes, throwing sex toys at cops, and getting married so you can register and get new knives.

From the Chameleon to the Co-dependent, from the Serial Dater to the Serial Liar, find out if you are dating one of the seven deadly dating personalities and how to get out as fast as you can.

SWE: Double Whammy

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 11 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

No one has faith in Emily's camping skills. Do women prefer the beta male or the alpha male? Menace claims to be the perfect alpha/beta hybrid. Of course he does.

Double the pleasure, double the fun. What is double penetration and how to do it. Emily also talks lesbian three-ways, strap-ons, and butt plugs. Emily has a butt plug waiting for Menace in the office. He declines.

If men are allowed to show their nipples why can't women? Emily protested the ban on female nipple nudity by riding around her neighborhood topless when she was seven- years-old. While female nipples in public are few and far between, you run into penises wherever you go in San Francisco. Also, how to give your partner a nipplegasm, candy bras, piercings and nipple clamps.

SWE: Porn Galore

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 09 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Is porn an ally or an enemy in your relationship? Emily talks about what you should and shouldn't take away from porn videos, and how to apply this knowledge to your sex life.

Separate bedrooms are making American sex better, or at least keeping guys from farting around their girlfriends.

SWE: Tweak the Twinkie

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 04 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily wants to do something more interesting than getting married and wearing the proverbial white wedding dress. Weddings are overdone but masturbation isn't. Emily gets into the fun that is mutual masturbation-- the benefits, challenges, and why men shouldn't be afraid of it.

Celebrity gossip turns into a heated debate about "hooking up." Does hooking up mean having sex or good old making out and maybe some trips around the bases? If you want to have sex there are some subtle ways to get her in the mood, from taking note of her interests to fixing her lamp. Handy men are sexy and back hair isn't. Emily and Menace share classy strip club stories and pinpoint the perfect age to get married.

SWE: Masturbation Month

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 02 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000

There's no time like now to rediscover yourself - but not in a Deepak Chopra kind of way, it's Masturbation Month! Emily reveals some sensitive masturbation statistics, and shows that there's more to male masturbation than plain ol' jerking around.

We learn about the origins of Emily's sex life, celebrities who can't stop giving their kids stupid names. and why Hooters failed to win over San Francisco.

One listener wonders why social media has destroyed the way young people communicate and another listener’s wife just won’t go down.

SWE: Don't Ask, Don't Tell

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

From your sex "number" to how much you hate their family, body, and job, Emily lays out all the things you should never share with your significant other.

Emily and Menace share bizarre early sexual encounters, German nymphomaniacs are running riot, and everyone's losing friends during a breakup.

Also, an older man who needs to pay more attention to foreplay and a game of "I've never" goes awry.

SWE: Seduction

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily is throwing a Kegel Camp Keger and Menace is having a Taco Bell truck at his future wedding. A 99-year-old man divorces his wife for cheating him in 1940, your penis is probably bigger than you think it is, and you should never introduce your ex-boyfriend to your current boyfriend.

Emily shares how to seduce women from intellectual foreplay to subtle compliments, from conversation to getting laid. Emily breaks down how women can be better in bed by initiating more sex, caring less about what you look like during sex, and acknowledging that for many men sex is much more than a casual act.

SWE: Why Aren't You Naked Yet?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

You can't have sex without taking your clothes off, but the importance of undressing is often underappreciated. Emily walks you through the art of going bare, from dealing with bra straps and buttons to awkward male strip teases.

'Carmaggedon' and its effect on Los Angelean vaginas, Vladimir Putin fights tigers and keeps his wife in a castle so he can bang models. Jack Rabbit sex gets a bad rap as it should and Menace compares Emily’s and Albert Einstein's brains.

SWE: Sex at Work

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 23 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily and Menace party together at Dolores Park in San Francisco and Emily is happy to have a dog free weekend with wine and friends.

Gay porn interrupts a Canadian news show, a night club for Mormons without alcohol (shock), the Indian Burn hand job and marrying your lesbian girlfriend.

The pros and cons of dating someone at work--sex, gossip and jealousy. It’s can be tricky idea but lots of fun when you sneak off to have sex in an empty office. It creates a happy work environment. That is until you break up.

SWE: Spicy Vanilla Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily celebrate 4/20 by doing a show on vanilla sex and sex on drugs. Emily's dog pees on everything, and when are emoticons okay-- how many smiley faces are too many smiley faces? A sex bucket list for women, how marijuana mixes with sex and what to do when your girlfriend is a lesbian.

SWE: Mom Porn

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily’s lesbian neighbors are having loud sex and a listener suggests she use a complaint form. However, Emily has Bravo camera crews going in and out of her apartment. Her neighbors might fill out a complaint form too.

There's no attractive people at the chocolate festival says an eye-witness reporter, Hong Kong isn't getting laid, and good champagne is hard to come by. Chin jobs are on the rise and to how to talk about fantasies with your partner.

Emily talks to author Rachel Kramer Bussel about the BDSM novel 'Fifty Shades of Grey,' erotica, bondage, and cupcakes.

SWE: What Men Want

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

It's Friday the 13th - are you getting lucky or screwed? April showers bring May flowers - Emily lays out the facts about female ejaculation and orgasm. Menace is skeptical about female ejaculation and objects about the messiness of it. Emily tries to explore Menace's sex life and Menace turns the tables and analyzes Emily’s relationship.

CEO's get greedy with girls and money, and the dangers of baldness medicine and boners. A newly divorced guy needs condoms, the straight talk about thread count and wine, and doing Reverse Kegels. Masturbating too much, Taco Bell's latest achievements, and the ten things all men want in bed.

SWE: The Bush is Back

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily has intense commitment issues with making weekend plans.Sharing your past sexual exploits with your current partner, cradling your clitoris, and having messy sex without a laundromat nearby.

Barbie Davenporte, writer for LAWeekly's sex blog AfterDarkLA shares her biggest anal sex tip, the top five condoms people don't know about, getting painted nude, homemade masturbation devices and pubic hairstyles.

SWE: Sex & Instagram

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily attended the Hunky Jesus Festival and teaches her dog to fetch. Menace is on a champagne kick and is in love with Hunger Games actress Jennifer Lawrence. Circumcised vs. uncircumcised penises, nice guys trying to find love, and writer Oscar Raymundo talks about gay dating and Instagram on the show. How many self-portraits are too many self-portraits and how do you actually date someone by following them on Instagram.

SWE: Miss Advised

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily is excited to announce that she is starring in a reality television series called Miss Advised on Bravo TV. She had cameras follow her around for a few months while she dated and worked. Bravo wanted to see if she practice what she preached in her personal life and professional life.

Emily debates sex rules that are out there - everything from sex on the first date to cuddling quotas.

Hearing sex through the walls, short hair on girls, yes or no?, how to get your girlfriend into strap-ons, waiting to have sex, and dating your ex’s friend.

SWE: Getting it Up

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily leaves her dog tied up outside a Mexican Restaurant (oops). The secret to keeping men happy, not being able to talk about fantasies, recreational Viagra use, the return of “Morning Wood”, and Menace's revolutionary sex toy The Dump Truck.

Emily addresses men's biggest sexual fears-Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction-what men can do to get it up & keep it up. Julie Wilson from aphrodisiac Hot Rawks calls in to talk about nutrition, stamina, erections, and working at Hooters.

SWE: Sexercise

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily gets stopped at the Las Vegas airport security because she has too many vibrators in her bags.

The new Magic Banana vibrator for your G-spot, the strongest vibrator (power tool) in the world, and "penis deadlifts.” How to effectively lower your standards and stop over-analyzing the people you date.

Sex burns calories and can be more fun than the gym. Emily is your personal trainer and leads you through the best sex exercises for sex, from cardio to kegels.

SWE: Let's Play Doctor

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 30 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily is back from Las Vegas with lots of sordid stories from the International Lingerie Show. Does marijuana enhance your sex drive? Kissing, female ejaculation, big boots and the perils of high-waisted pants. Emily instructs you how to role-play and have “makeup” sex, from sexy cop to Avatar, from schoolgirl to the Hamburglar.

SWE: The Breakup

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily talks to Rachel A Sussman, author of "The Breakup Bible," to learn how to move through breakups in a more healthy, constructive way. Rachel talks about the huge mistakes women make during breakups, taking accountability, and creating a 'Personal Love Map' to understand your breakup patterns and yourself better.

Debate: using coupons on the first date, free plastic surgery for Brazil's poor, giving up the Internet for sex, profuse sweating during sex, losing an erection, and the importance of confidence.

SWE: Sex Myths

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Never tell your current partner that your last partner was good in bed. They don’t want to hear the amazing things this person did in bed or anything about the size of anything.

Emily goes through the biggest sex myths, from penis size to female ejaculation. Plus, how men can learn to have multiple orgasms.

SWE: Dealbreakers

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily’s prom date didn’t bring condoms to the hotel room. They went to Burger King instead of having sex.Emily shares first date, relationship and sex dealbreakers, from forgetting condoms at prom to talking incessantly about your ex.

How to be a good listener, cheating during the post-birth sex slump, and Menace thinks all women can get laid if they try hard enough. Emily thinks that complimenting women is important but Menace argues that you shouldn’t over-compliment a woman or she’ll think she is out of your league.

SWE: Flirting for Dummies

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 19 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily and Menace both have sex in the same weekend, but with different people of course. Menace has sex in the shower and the girl didn’t faint this time.

A recipe for “panty droppers” a drink that might be true to it’s name, flirting techniques and the sacred duties of the wingman.

SWE: CAT position & doggie style

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily shares the biggest sexting mistakes guy makes and whether you are a doggie style person or a CAT person. CAT position is all about clitoral stimulation in Missionary Position, whereas doggie style is more rough and animalistic.

SWE: Steak and Blowjob Day

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 14 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

It’s BJ & Steak Day. The holiday where women around America give their boyfriends oral sex while making steak at the same time. The holiday was created by angry men in reaction to V-Day, a holiday supposedly for women. Why the backlash guys?

Also, oral sex tips, why enthusiasm trumps technique and humming on the hole.

SWE: Sex, Intimacy and Orgasm

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 19:00:00 +0000

Emily and Menace get wet over the Container Store, guest Wendy Strgar talks love and intimacy, everybody poops...and everybody snoops, Dick Van Dyke is alive and still getting laid, how far you should go to please your partner, and using lubricant with someone you love.

SWE: Sex Etiquette

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily shows women around the world how to prevent lipstick on the teeth and the best way to tell someone they have something on their face during a first date. Also, never prematurely “babe” someone on a date.

Emily teaches male ejaculation etiquette, including keeping her in the loop on your ejaculation plan.

SWE: Prostate Play

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 07 Mar 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily interviews Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations who teaches listeners all about the prostate, from finding it to how to treat it. Many straight men don’t realize the untapped pleasure of the prostate, or the male G-spot.

In other news, Christina Hendrick's boobs and the end of the “Great Hand Job debate” might be in sight.

SWE: Bringing Sexy Back

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 05 Mar 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about self-esteem, its effects on your sex life, and how to get your game face on. Earthquakes, sexy shoes, ruining sex for others, enjoying masturbation more than intercourse, and Emily flirts with her exes.

SWE: Just the Tip

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily discusses all things oral sex, from consummation to cleanup. A show that’s so much more than “just the tip.”

Also, couple massages, sleeping with your yoga teacher, birth control for men, and stuff you should never tell someone you’re dating.

SWE: Sex Drive

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 29 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about good guys vs. bad guys, TV vs. sex, and cocoa percentages in the bedroom. Julie Wilson, founder of aphrodisiac Hot Rawks talks about the importance of body chemistry and going organic to increase your sex drive.

SWE: Divorced Dating Tips

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily has a sexual dream about 80-year-old Oscar winner Christopher Plummer. Menace goes to Disneyland again and drunk dials Emily's assistant. Emily talks about America’s pubic hair trends and how to start dating after a divorce.

SWE: American Gangbang

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily interviews formerporn director Sam Benjamin talks about his new book American Gangbang: A Love Story. He describes what’s its like sleeping with porn stars, directing amateur porn, and the golden shower rule. Also, if he directed Emily’s dream porno it would involve a cop.

SWE: Breaking Bad (Relationships)

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 22 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

People get into the same bad relationships over and over again. Emily talks about how it’s important to recognize your patterns, whether you fall for the bad boy or a momma’s boy. Also, how not to appear needy but still tell someone what you want.

SWE: Beating around the Bush

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 21 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily discusses pubic grooming, the 70's porn bush, and two-toned pubes. Cosmo has a curious take on manscaping, and Emily journeys into a brave new world of butthole bleaching and vajazzling.

SWE: F is for Fetish

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily wants to bang a famous athlete and Menace has a furry fetish, how to have sex with a car, are you afraid of sex in the dark? How to keep it up with your penis pump...literally, how to get to O-Town and Vampire Twilight fantasies.

SWE: Do's and Don'ts

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Today Emily lays out the do's and dont's of sex and relationships, and states definitively that penis size doesn't matter... well, sometimes... Going after married men, not letting your man know how much you love your vibrator and Menace declares his undying hatred for feet.

SWE: V-Day & Night

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily and Menace discuss all things Valentine's - from self-love to better oral sex, to where not to get your gifts wrapped. A listener is still stumped about where to find porn, and Emily has a profound love for Red Lobster. Plus, learn how to finally achieve an orgasm, how to break up on Valentine's Day, and be aghast but not really that surprised when Menace reveals what everyone asks him about Emily.

SWE: Vibrating Valentine

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily lives in a hoarder’s house of sex toys and needs help. Emily also talks about Being predictable in bed, “Baby Daddy” mysteries, penis pumps, and hanging nude self-portraits in your house.
Jimmyjane founder Ethan Imboden talks about Valentine's Day gift ideas and how to introduce a vibrator into your relationship.

SWE: Date me Online

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

okCupid founder Sam Yagen shares online dating profile secrets, Louis Vuitton condoms, breaking up with someone on their birthday, the Don Drapers of the world have low sperm counts, icy hot for your clitoris, is bad sex a good reason to get a divorce?

SWE: Romantic or Repulsive?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily and Menace debate whether Valentines Day is adorable or horribly repulsive. If you are going to celebrate the Hallmark made holiday, Emily breaks down the best and worst date ideas, including fast food picnics and Costco dates.
Also, Emily talks about elitist penises, sex with virgins, men who don’t want sex, and the worrying, titillating trend of robberies at sex toy stores.

SWE: Bend over Boyfriend

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Guest Carol Queen talks about Bend over Boyfriend and first time anal sex tips. Is anal the new blow job?

Emily and Carol discuss antique vibrators. Carol’s first vibrator was a Swedish massager she stole from her father’s barber supplies. In the Victorian Era, vibrators looked like dryers and were used to treat hysteria -- a made up illness assigned to bored, sexually unsatisfied housewives.

SWE: Real Housewife Kandi Burruss

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Kandi Burruss from the Real Housewives of Atlanta talks about Bedroom Kandi, her new discreet intimate product line, and gets personal about her own sex life.

The Sex With Emily staff party leaves the entire team worse for wear. Why you should never share your "number," bicycle dildo delivery, how chocolate in the freezer will get get you laid, Steak and a BJ Day, ex-sex, chat roulette shenanigans, and myths about singles.

SWE: Casual Encounters

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily was up late last night making jello shots and Menace wants a ride to the Sex With Emily party, how to meet women, the stop and start method and casual sex etiquette: cuddling, oral sex and swapping numbers

SWE: Bitter Sweet

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily attends the wildly successful Good Vibrations store opening in Oakland, CA, Emily interviews Kandi from Real Housewives of Atlanta - show will air this week, Emily solves a listener's stamina concerns, the number one fantasy for men and women, a bitter sweet final sex story, and Valentine's Contest to launch tomorrow. And yes, you could really win.

SWE: Pornophobia

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about pornophobia- people’s fear and love of porn. Menace watched his first porn at six and understood everything. Emily watched her first porn video at 12 and was turned on, but didn’t know what it was. What porn means about your relationship and the best porn for couples.

SWE: Pleasing Teasing

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily prepares a speech for a Singles Convention and Menace is resentful of hot women (no surprise here). How Emily handles Valentines Day, "expiration dating", and teasing your partner sexually without being annoying. Emily talks about how long foreplay should last and why it’s important.

SWE: Own your O

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily is over sober January and Menace wants to find a nice girl and get married, the quest for the G-spot continues and does it even exist?, exercising the penis and how to own you

SWE: Dude, Where's my G-Spot?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

SWE: Understanding Females

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

How to know when to 'take' a woman, men with money vs. men without money, why men don't like to undress women, finding the right porn for you and your partner, guest John from OneTaste (retreat for orgasmic meditation) talks about the art and craft of the female orgasm, what OM'ing means, his first time giving a clitoral massage, what men get from focusing on female pleasure, the shared euphoric orgasm, redefining orgasm, and the importance of understanding the female body, mind, genitalia and orgasm.

SWE: Maturbation Memoirs

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily wants to become a professional wingwoman, the stop and start method, mutual masturbation, threesomes with two guys and how women like to masturbate

SWE: Freaky Friday

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily and guest Jamye Waxman apply tingly stimulation cream and Menace wants to go to “pound town.” The three celebrate freaky Friday with some light talk on shock therapy electro sex, armpit hair and bondage.

SWE: Three's Company

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily kinda, sorta preps for Valentine's Day, and reveals how you can turn your penis into a vibrator (freezing in carbonite not required), c-rings, and sexting blunders. Also, how to have a successful threesome without destroying your relationship.

SWE: No More Minute Men

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 10 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily dedicates this show to the worthy pursuit of preventing premature ejaculation and some rules about it: Never apologize for premature ejaculation. Instead stay calm, carry on and figure out how to last longer in the future. Emily shares tips.

Also, the science of infidelity, cunninglingus, swingers, and getting out of the friend zone.

SWE: Breasts and Champagne

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily goes to “classy” New Years Eve party and Menace gets kicked out of Disneyland for peeing in a phone booth. Getting married as a recovering sex addict, tantric sex, getting fake boobs at 60-years-old, wanting sex less than your partner, and why you should take a man shopping. Also, New Years sexual resolutions.

SWE: Relationship Resolutions

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about why women love talking on the phone, everyone wants to have a threesome, one size fits most penises, and the Taco Bell aphrodisiac. Also, how to have better relationships in 2012 and can men and women really be friends?

SWE: First Date Experience

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Emily gives tips on first date etiquette and the art of eye contact. Virginity, bad teeth, and men scratching down there on dates. Does having gay fantasies make you gay and where is the G-spot? Emily gives tips for having a great first date and describes how to present yourself.

SWE: Sex Toy Review

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 04 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

Intern sex toy review day. having sex outdoors, having sex with vibrators and giving your guy friends c*ckrings.

SWE: Sexual Resolutions

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 20:00:00 +0000

SWE: Single for the holidays

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Free Friday: Emily talks about being single over the holidays, why you should make a dating and/or relationship resolution for the new year, special tips, sexy wishes and happy holidays to all our listeners!

SWE: Truly

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about the differences between men in Los Angeles and San Francisco. Her long standing "friend with benefits" relationship comes to a tidy end, and Emily breaks down Menace's love life. Also, vibrating panties and what to do when your partner has no style.

SWE: The One

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily explores the notion of ‘the one” and if it really exists. Emily thinks that there isn’t one, but a few. People come into your life for different reasons and fulfill different desires and purposes. However, the idea that there is one person out there, who will complete you and make everything better, is perhaps more pervasive than ever.

SWE - Orgasmic Headache

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily gets a call from her friend about an orgasmic headache and Menace shares his “pre-gaming” ritual to prevent premature anything. Also, men who know how to talk to women, Jane Fonda’s secret for sex over 70, and how safe sex practices can’t be made safer with superglue.

Episode 356 - Friends With Benefits

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about the best way to tell someone you're not interested in dating anymore, crazy stalker ex-boyfriends, taking Viagra recreationally, sacrificial blowjobs, kegel exercises for men and women and what really are the benefits in having a “Friends With Benefits” relationship?

Episode 355 - Sex Geeks and Freaks

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 12 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily goes on a date with her crush from the fifth grade in Michigan.

Self-proclaimed “Sex Geek and polyamorous slut” Reid Mihalko talks about how to deal with jealousy in a polyamorous relationship. He invites Emily to instruct a kissing workshop with him, which means they have to make-out.

Flirt

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily is going on an OM-ing retreat and her dog is ruining her life, who should initiate sexting?, getting hit on by lesbians, nipple play for men, oral sex in the cockpit of a plane, how Emily gets out of traffic tickets, sleeping with your gym trainer, kegel exercises during sex, watching porn with your guy friends or your partner, cooking with semen, men not able to orgasm from sex, advice for virgins, the top ten signs she is flirting with you, tips for flirting with her and the biggest mistakes you can make when approaching a woman.

G-spot Locator

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily brings her dog to work and Menace is mad, should women pay on dates? a pool party and a bucket of dildos in LA, why the recession means more sex toys, how to help prevent premature ejaculation, sex between the breasts, positions for giving the best hand jobs, ejaculation etiquette, the G-spot locator and advanced finger techniques to use on women

Episode 351 - Ginger Lovin'

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily wants all the foot fetish men out there to buy her expensive shoes and Menace wants to cuddle a lot during the holidays. Emily's assistant explains why “ginger” sex is better than other kinds of sex and how she randomly got in a relationship after dedicating herself to single life.

Episode 350 - Playing Games

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily does yoga acrobatics on a first date and Menace wants to have sex in his new car. Emily gives advice on how to increase and enhance the intimacy in your relationship. Also, have you ever dumped someone before the holidays so you didn’t have to buy them a present? Also, getting with the girl next door, making love vs. having sex, sex games, and what it feels like to have an orgasm.

Episode 348 - The Future of Fellatio

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 01 Dec 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily helps teaches a kissing workshop at Good Vibrations. A guest on the show askedher to be his demonstration model. Emily agreed to kiss him in front of a classroom of people (all for the sake of helping people of course). Her advice: kiss your partner the way you want to be kissed. Ask them to kiss you back in the same way and then switch.

Also, the future of fellatio is an Masque oral gel strip that tastes like Mango. Emily gives tips on oral sex and open-relationships without jealousy.

Episode 344 - Why They Didn't Call

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily knows that men fake orgasms too but proclaims they aren’t as good as it as women. Emily talks about how to have more confidence and the stuff you should never say on a first date. Also, why they didn’t call you back - unless they have amnesia, it's usually not because they lost your number.

No on fake O

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Sorry guys, she might have faked it. Emily and her assistant Kelsi talk about why women fake it and how to tell if she's not really orgasming.

Episode 339 - Kinky

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Adult film star Pony from Kink, says she’ll try everything twice. Emily and Pony talk about polyamorous relationships, BDSM for beginners, getting shocked by tasers for pleasure (not for resisting arrest), and Divine Bitches.

Episode 336 - 7 Year Itch

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 15 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily is excited because she has lots of dates coming up. Hopefully none of them are living with their mother. Also, science gets closer to understanding the female orgasm.

Family law attorney Erik Newton joins the show and talks about the truths behind the "7 year itch” in marriage, Facebook's influence on divorce, and what you have to discuss with your partner before getting married. Also, can making a prenuptial agreement be romantic?

Episode 335 - Tips From A Sultry Vixen: Jessica Drake

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily talks with vixen Jessica Drake about Wicked Sex, anal sex tips and butt plugs. Emily and Menace debate whether men are intimidated by successful women and if the notion ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’ is true. Also, hand job fetishes, and special positions for giving fellatio.

Episode 334 - Reignite the Spark

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 11 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily’s recaps the launch party for her book, Hot Sex at Harlot in San Francisco. Guests were served up champagne and JimmyJane toys.

Also, online dating after a divorce, how a threesome could solve your relationship woes, and how to reignite the spark in your relationship.

Episode 331 - Rough Sex... and Rougher Sex!

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily has a blind date and divulges about what she really does at night. Menace plans his dream wedding and Emily talks shotgun weddings.

Also, extreme manscaping and etiquette for rough sex, including but not limited to spanking, wrist holding, hair pulling, and biting.

Episode 330 - How to Successfully Date Online

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Online dating is about marketing yourself. The first message you send someone is extremely important. Be specific and show them that you have common interests. Emily gives essential online dating advice to improve your experience and success rate.

Emily and Menace discuss the best famous landmarks to do it at, the pros and cons of dating a criminal, and should you tell her about your foot fetish?

Does Size Matter?

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Free Friday: Emily talks with guest Nicholas Sher about his Inches for Charity, what's jelqing and how does it make your penis larger, vibrating cock-rings, Kim Kardashian is getting pathetic, spider foreplay, Lindsay Lohan vagina mold, do women stop performing oral sex after marriage?, why men are obsessed with big penises and is bigger really better?

Episode 328 - She's Faking It

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Sorry guys, she might be faking it. Emily talks about the signs she’s faking it and the ultimate sign she’s actually about to orgasm. Not faking it extremely important for both women and men’s sexual experience. Emily describes her dream man and whether or not she would pose for Playboy.

Also, what someone’s profile picture says about their personality.

Episode 326 - Sex Bucket List

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 01 Nov 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily talks Halloween nights and going home to Michigan for Thanksgiving, and Menace hooks up Emily's intern in Las Vegas. Emily and Menace compare what’s on their sex bucket list and discuss the most fun places to have quickies. A man confuses a donkey with a prostitute, semen strips, female ejaculation, why porn might cause erectile dysfunction, accidental nymphos, dating on demand, female ejaculation, should a guy ask to borrow money on a date?, a caller tests out Tenga male masturbation toys, and Emily and Menace compare what's on their sexual bucket lists.

Episode 325 - Trick or Cheating

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 31 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily goes on the Today show in New York and Menace gets sex wounds on his birthday. Dating On Demand videos are taking over, and is Halloween an excuse to be slutty? Kim K files for divorce, Penis pumps enhance your member, and masturbation guilt is the curse of the jerking classes. Should Emily sign up for E Harmony? And Trick-or-cheating: what are the signs you are being cheated on?

Semen Recipes

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

We talk about sex, relationships, and everything in between.

Slump Buster

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 27 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Why women love the bad boy, why Menace isn't having sex, serial monogamy, how to talk dirty, making noise during sex, losing your virginity at 30, why you might need a "slump-buster," how to be a better kisser, what being on break really means to your relationship, how long foreplay should last, how to undress your partner, and how important is an emotional connection during foreplay?

Cougar Catching

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 26 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily's obsession with the Fyre Tv porn box, what should Emily name her new dog?, what's got Emily smiling so big, women who advertise their break-ups online, Emily's almost nip-slip, a celeb mom catches crabs, why to stay friends with your exes, a "Cross-Legged Strike," do men like the reverse cowgirl position?, how long should sex should last?, how to make a woman feel special, tips for approaching older women, dominating your partner in bed, the right way to turn a date down, the most sensitive part of the penis and taking advantage of foreskin.

Deep Orgasm

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 25 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily talks with guest Dr. Jallen Rix about stimulating the prostate.

Dirty Talk

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Free Friday: Emily is going to New York City and gives Menace his "special" birthday gift, does "sexting" qualify as cheating? Does penis size matter? Small town women vs. big city women and who won the Treasure Island Music Festival raffle for Jimmyjane products and Emily's book Hot Sex

Episode 318 - Lustless Lover

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

The elderly are getting sexy on tv, sex is connected to memory loss, and can you spot a creepy move? Emily’s trick for making your boobs looks bigger, complimenting women and is your yoga instructor easy? For asexual awareness day, Emily talks about your sexual desire.

Episode 318 - Carnal Confessions

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily reads carnal confessions from the SWE Treasure Island Music Festival Booth. Apparently, most people like it in the butt. Emily and Menace discuss if it’s ever okay to use a coupon on a first date. Also, Social networking sites that can help get you laid, dating younger men, why you should say yes to every invitation, Sesame Street gets sexy, and having sex while skydiving?

Monday Manscaping

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily talks with guest Anthony Sosnick, founder of Anthony Logistics for Men, about grooming essentials and practices, the Sex with Emily "Carnal Confessions" booth at Treasure Island Music Festival, extreme sex confessions, How do you tell your partner to groom "down there,"? Menace explains why he strongly dislikes drunk white girls and the best products to manscape your body.

Sensual Rubdown

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily's interns are listening and learning from the show, having phone sex before the first date, toy reviews, wearing sex toys on the Bart, Sex in the City vs Sex With Emily, why Emily & Menace would both like to sleep with Justin Timberlake, the winner of the 20 questions contest is announced, how to attract women despite his average looks, Menace gives advice for helping guys build confidence, Kegel Camp app is for guys too, Menace has a stalker, foot jobs, why women need to warm up before sex, the best way to ask a girl to dance, how sensual massages can spice up your sex life.

Sex Without Penetration

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily attends a class on non-monogamy, how to overcome jealousy, Emily plays with her sex school friends, Google calendars to schedule sex with multiple people, is cheating genetic?, having bad gaydar, the morning after pill and the royal wedding, what's the best kind of orgasm, how to get through a break-up, how to start a new relationship, masturbating in front of your partner, the vagus nerve that makes you orgasm, nude beaches, smoking and sexual performance, Menace's date ideas, how to have a successful long distance relationship, phone sex and sex simulation: how to have sex without penetration.

Back Door Man

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

What's sexy about having sex in nature?, Menace's worst phone sex fear, when men get bored with sex, the hottest and cheapest date idea for the weekend, how can you have sex at 85mph?, did Emily helped SF to become the most promiscuous city?, what happened with Menace's previous engagement?, Emily loves her new pet name, "Princess Emily," ways to work around foot fetishes, being in a relationship without the commitment, how to suggest anal play to your partner, the essential tool to use every time for backdoor sex, the number one rule to make it pleasurable and how to get the most out of it.

The Tao of Dating

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily talks with guest Dr. Ali Binazir about his book The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, do long-distance relationships actually work?, a little known aphrodisiac, why men love sensual women, how to have enlightened self-interest, the pros and cons of online dating, the three "C's" of dating and tips for getting the guy.

Episode 309 - Hot Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 07 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily's co-author Jamye Waxman talks about their book Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, first masturbation experiences, if you really love someone do you swallow?, pubic hair trends and armpit hair, how to get more foreplay, the two most important things for anal sex, how to touch breasts, taking it slow, men who love the vagina vs. men who don't, threesome etiquette, shower sex and can you teach someone to be a better kisser?

Ultimate Guide to O

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily talks with Mikaya Heart, author of The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women, all about orgasms including: being in your body during sex, observing your energy flow to reach orgasm, using a vibrator during intercourse, why goal oriented sex doesn't work, the biggest relationship killer, G-spot orgasms, why shallow sex can be better for women, focusing on your body during sex, the "elusive" orgasm, female ejaculation, mixing up your sexual repertoire, multiple orgasms, and hanging out in the "golden light" after orgasm.

Sex Myths

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 05 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Why San Francisco is the most sexually promiscuous city, women dressing up as sexy Star Wars characters, sexting ex's, who doesn't?, it's sex toy day at the Sex With Emily office, is a wingwoman better than a wingman?, female erogenous zones you didn't know about, G-spot parties, women who orgasm from nipple play alone, sex myths debunked.

Your Brain on Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily's new crusade to end the rise of excessive female promiscuity, Menace's crazy Nyquil sex dreams, iPhone apps to save you from scandal, Menace uses Emily's moms financial advice, sex clubs in Seattle, Stanley Siegel, author of "Your Brain on Sex: How Smarter Sex Can Change Your Life", talks about using sex to find "The One", bringing fantasies into relationships, sexual chemistry, and Emily talks about her most recent sexual experience.

Sucking Smurf Spooge

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Guest Cunning Minx (polyweekly.com) talks about polyamory, 'sucking smurf spooge', is polyamory that much different than dating?, why porn is good for your relationship, why geeks are into polyamory, gun and fire arm play in bed, how to overcome jealously, licking vs. touching and should you put his penis in a cage?

Episode 304 - Why He Disappeared

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily gets analyzed by dating coach Evan Marc Katz. Evan answers the top questions women have about dating: why he didn't call you back, why he disappeared, and why we date the wrong people. Evan talks about how not to be weak and needy, and how to send an amazing first message online. For nice guy listeners, Evan tells you how to take on the “strong, successful guys.”
Finally, some lessons in how to date without an agenda.

Episode 303 - Sex With Emily's Mom

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 29 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

It’s bring your Mother to work day as Emily's Mom joins the gang to talk relationships. She muses on money, how money affects couples, and how to talk about money in your relationship. Emily and Menace then debate the definition of a "hook up," talk first date “red flags”, and learn that better sleep equals better sex. Emily talks about what she brings to a relationship, and debates whether you can really be with one person forever.

Episode 302 - How to Make a Sex Tape

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

If Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson can do it two times, why can’t you? Today Emily walks you through how to make your very own sex tape, and most importantly, what to do with it when you’re done (hint: not leaving it on your zip drive at the office). Emily shares her favorite sex story about Menace, talks about dating bad boys, and the possibility of "ecstasy" killing cancer. Menace thinks he’d make a good part-time Teletubby, and we talk about oral sex in marriage and how to make long-distance relationships last.

Episode 301 - Breaking Up For (and with) Dummies

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 26 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

How and where should you break up with someone, the importance of the break up and how to move through it amicably. Emily attends the straightest gay wedding ever and Menace wears a teletubby suit. Then it’s onto places to have sex, like in front of a mirror, in limos, and on a jet ski. We also learn why you shouldn’t date a person who has no friends, how to make someone a better kisser, the secret Panty Dropper drink, and why you should love your labia.

Episode 300 - Bizarre Phone Sex Request

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 23 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Phone sex operator Ms. Liz talks about phone sex for beginners, the most popular male fetishes and why they exist, taboo topics, the psychology behind men’s sexual desires and her weirdest most bizarre phone sex requests. Emily talks old flames and whether you should rekindle those fires, what happens when you carry baggage from past relationships, testicle length, and good ‘ol fashioned female ejaculation.

Episode 299 - Meeting a Potential Love

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Today Emily talks about to act when you meet a potential love interest, and gives tips to you don’t giggle nervously or throw up in your mouth. Better yet, Emily suggest places you might find your next love, then Menace divulges his trifecta tip for getting laid. We talk about men being jealous of sex and women being jealous of emotions, how smiling at someone might land you a date, why 2nd marriages are predicted to fail, and why women like older men.

Episode 297 - Top Places to Meet Singles

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

It’s “National Unmarried and Single American's” Week so we’re talking how to celebrate, the top places to meet singles, and the best ways to hit those places. Emily explains why she loves being single, while Menace wants to settle down. Then it’s on to sex and intimacy during pregnancy and during 'that' time of the month. Emily shares a "walk of shame" story, and she and Menace talk about clarifying "breaks" in relationships, and the impact of Facebook on marriage.

Episode 296 - Top 10 Positions

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

It's finally summer (in San Francisco) and everyone's looking hot in the heat, so Emily’s counting down the top 10 sex positions you've never heard of, in case you bring the heat back home. A listener loves his new Fyre TV, the Bible Belt loves divorce, and we’re still wondering how long to wait before saying “I love you.” Plus, when size really does matter, sexy suggestions from a listener, and naughty places to get piercings.

Episode 295 - Walk of Shame

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 16 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

We all have to do it, so we might as well know how to do it right. Today Emily drops five big tips for how to handle your next walk of shame. We then learn how to encourage your wife to fantasize, what gives Menace nightmares, and the Panty Dropper drink recipe. Plus, a new study shows men value love more than sex.

Episode 294 - Crazy Sex Accidents

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 15 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Whether it’s vaginal prolapses or the daily habits that cause erectile dysfunction, today we’re talking the craziest sex accidents you won’t believe. In more pleasant news, Emily helps a woman achieve her first 3 orgasms (listener got tips from the show), and a new book claims Sarah Palin gets around (not the library, ironically). Tune in to learn the top reason for divorce, how to plan a threesome, where to not hide your keys or guns, and why you shouldn’t shave and drive.

The Wingwoman

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 14 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Why the majority of women fake orgasms, an awesome way to deal with mutual divorce or breakups, what is a clitoral pump?, getting too aroused before sex, what to do when your friends start dating, the biggest reason NOT to have a threesome, going green with your sex toys, how long Emily will entertain a "grenade," the best types of wingwomen, how to help your friends hookup, knowing when to walk away as a wingman, the easiest conversation starter EVER, good ways to project yourself as available, and the benefits of a guy using a wingwoman.

Episode 292 - Club Kiss

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 13 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily’s intern went to a “play party” this weekend, and she gets into all the juicy details including her first romp in public. There’s good news about infidelity, and Iran has a hot new kind of sex-ed,. We find out why being a father may lower your testosterone, and why Emily won't be speaking at Menace's yet to be planned wedding. Taking a cue from her intern, Emily discusses her history with threesomes.

Episode 291 - Bad Kissers

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 12 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Sloppy, Tonguey, and Bitey - they sound like rejects from the 7 Dwarves, but they’re bad kissing techniques. Today learn the kisses you should avoid, and how to get your partner kissing you the way you want to be kissed. There’s more celebrity sex tapes out, and nudists in San Francisco are asked to cover up. How can you take a threesome from fantasy to reality, and how small is too small? Find out on today’s show!

Episode 290 - Hand Jobs 2

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Man Up Friday

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily talks about what men should do to man up once and for all.

Episode 289 - Hand Jobs (1/2)

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

How does Emily loves Menace? Today she counts the ways and explains how to give the most amazing hand jobs on earth! Questions of the day include: Should you ‘thank your wank’? Does a Groupon deal belong on a date? We learn what lesbians want in bed, how to have sex with a virgin, and how to steer clear of indecent exposure. A bad date ends in handcuffs, a possible Miss Universe goes commando, and Cheaterville.com gets Jersey Shore's help.

Episode 288 - The Concept of Swinging

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily needs more guys in her dating rotation, all life decisions are driven by sex, Emily and Menace like to be dominated in bed, how to hang out with a co-worker without it being weird, do women prefer metro sexual or retro sexual men, how nice guys can finish first without being a jerk, Emily gets invited to a swingers party, why women are attracted to powerful men, What it really means when a girl says, "I don't want to sleep with you because I really like you", and Emily and Menace don't see eye-to-eye on the concept of swinging.

Episode 287 - Get More Sex!

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 06 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

No, it’s not an ad for hot local babes, although Emily and Menace do talk about live webcam girls today. More realistically, learn how to get your partner to have more sex, find out why your man might not want sex, and how to deal with marriage counseling and intimacy issues. Emily finally gets cable and shows off her FyreTV porn box, and Menace recaps a wild weekend after drunk tweeting. In the wide world of sex, a woman sues for sexless marriage, and a sperm donor has 150 kids.

Episode 285 - A Field Guide To Females

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Episode 284 - She Doesn't Want It

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Why isn’t she having sex with you? Is it the teddy bear collection? The acute gingivitis? Find out on today’s show. Emily and Menace prepare for a sexual weekend, so Emily needs to hide her hundreds of sex toys – quickly.
In the world of gossip, Kim Kardashian apparently loves golden showers, and Ray J claims his sex tape is worth more than $30 million. The link between bad movies and nudity is explored, as is how to keep the fire alive while co-habitating. How to fight the urge to cheat, and possible herbal remedies for lack of orgasms.

Foot Fetishes

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 31 Aug 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily's lesbian cousin Liz shares how to please a woman, how long do you really want sex to last, why lesbian sex is so passionate, strap-ons, dildos, lesbian death-bed syndrome, 24 hour date, creative ways to turn her on, female oral sex tips from the lesbian perspective, why men are afraid of touching breasts, kissing during sex, how to get into the mood, orgasms from nipple play, Panty Droppers, being the single person in your friend group, when to lose your virginity, Emily knows how to please men, the number one male fantasy, where you don't want to meet people, and foot fetishes just for men?

Episode 282 - Creepy Men 2

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 30 Aug 2011 19:00:00 +0000

No more heavy breathing on the phone guys, Emily’s onto you! Learn how you can avoid being ‘the creep’ in today’s episode. Then, Emily dishes about her orgasm meditation retreat, and she and Menace talk about their current love lives. There’s an influx of pimps coming to San Francisco. Speaking of things to be afraid of, Emily instructs you on what to do when the condom breaks, and when and how you should seek out STD testing.

Episode 281 - Your Cheatin' Heart

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Apart from going on Jerry Springer, what can you do if you suspect your partner is cheating on you? Today Emily walks you through the signs your partner may be cheating, and how you can confront them responsibly. Emily talks about her first time, and she and Menace discuss sex surrogates who sleep with your partner when you can’t, as well as “coregasm” class. Then it’s onto dirty talking, the chemistry of friends with benefits relationships, and the 30 day masturbation challenge - are you tough enough to handle it?

Episode 280 - Whaddya Want (in bed)???

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Emily gets her intern to talk candidly about what she really wants in bed, and tells you how to handle it when your partner “doesn’t know” what they want. There’s advances in 3D porn, and an $800 sex doll you can race. Men’s issues get addressed, such as orgasm dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and how to change one’s mindset when masturbating in order to have better sex. Then for the ladies, we talk about when you need to realize he's not the one, and the best breast play techniques there are.

Episode 279 - Creepy Men 1

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 25 Aug 2011 19:00:00 +0000

It’s a creepy job, but someone’s gotta do it. Today Emily attempts to de-creep our nation - one male listener at a time. In the meantime, she and Menace work out their on-air "relationship", and wonder why everyone is taking nude pics. The how to's of female ejaculation are broken down, as are the reasons why guys should clean their sheets. Learn how to prioritize your long distance relationship, then join us as we reveal the bisexuality myth.

Episode 277 - Awkward Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily debates her future with or without a man, the top ten cities for cheaters and sluts, Will Smith and Jada Pickett Smith separated?, how marriage doesn't change how much you argue, when trying to have multiple orgasms is actually necessary, why a vibrator is a gateway toy, Emily and Menace talk about their first sexual encounters (oh my!), are you asexual? and how to solve awkward sex moments, one laugh and confession at a time.

Episode 275 - The 7 Deadly Daters

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Forget gluttony, sloth, and lust, if there’s seven things to avoid, it’s the seven deadly dating personalities – find out how today. Also find out why Emily goes stag to weddings, how women set the price of sex, sperm facts, and if sexting can make you a sex offender. Emily discusses why it’s riskier to send your man to a wedding than a bachelor party, fun tips for sex during pregnancy, the basics of tantric sex, and why we date people like our parents. Finally, as a big gift to the listeners, Emily demonstrates her best phone sex.

Episode 274 - Jealousy Junction

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 18 Aug 2011 19:40:00 +0000

Today Emily’s talking tips for overcoming jealousy - unless it’s your transportation or recycling routine, there’s really no need to turn green. Also, find out why she's really moaning during sex, what to say on your first online dating message, how to deal with body image issues, and if there’s a platonic dating site for those who don’t want to get down. Emily’s dog bites people's crotches at the dog park, but to make up for it, she’s got a new Kegel Camp app that can greatly benefit their sex lives.

Episode 273 - Fit for Love

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 16 Aug 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Another new fitness fad? Not quite. Today’s guest, Billy Sunday Mars, talks with Emily about how to be “Fit For Love.” Then it’s onto celebrity penis names, how a sex doll can land you in prison, and how to find and navigate the g-spot. New frontiers of sex are explored in the best male sex toys, viagra condoms, and women who go to strip clubs. Tune in to hear who wins out in the ultimate battle royale: Orgasms vs. Diamonds!

Episode 272 - Reasons for Cheating

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Is cheating in our bones? No, that’s called marrow. But what about our genes? Today Emily talks about biological explanations for cheating, signs your partner is cheating, how to confront a possibly cheating partner, and the reasons why men and women cheat. They also discuss what not to do with handcuffs, how to evict an overstaying boyfriend, the new anti-date-rape straw, sex on Mars, how to handle a not-so-well endowed man, sexy voices, why men love reverse cowgirl, finger play for women, and female masturbation. Don’t cheat yourself by missing out!

Episode 267 - Why She's Faking It

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 05 Aug 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily welcomes special guest Nicole Daedone, author of Slow Sex - The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm. She explains the benefits of Orgasmic Meditation (OMing), and how 15 minutes a day can lead to better sex. Nicole provides us with a map to the clitoris, discussing the benefits of stroking, how to tell she's faking it, and the stroke to make her fall in love. Then, it’s onto topics like infidelity, why we love free porn, breaking down your fear of the vagina, and the joy of sex without orgasm.

Epsisode 266 - Friends With Benefits

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 04 Aug 2011 20:00:00 +0000

The first step to getting a friend with benefits is to have friends, so if you’re already at that stage, today’s show is just for you, as we navigate the murky waters between Platonic Island and ‘FWB’ Bay. Emily prepares herself for speed dating and debates whether or not she should she get an om-ing partner for an expanded orgasm. But the greater debate lies in whether it’s a good or bad idea to date a DJ. Plus, the most awkward moments between the sheets and what to do when they happen. And speaking of awkward times and nocturnal emissions, is it ok to hook up with an old high school friend? And even more plus: dealing with a partner’s abusive past, and the bare essentials of exhibitionism.

Episode 263 - Warm up Game

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Today it’s all about game plans, and getting ready for the big match – from preventing STI’s to the questions to ask your partner before sex. In the final Weekend’s scores, Emily triumphs, and Menace is crushed by his awful weekend. Emily has to decide if she wants to be OM'ed (orgasmic meditation), and why anti-depressants prevent orgasms. Also discussed are the facts about female ejaculation, initiating your first strap-on experience, and how to avoid getting caught masturbating. And just to spice things up - common herpes myths.

Episode 259 - Married Sex

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Guests Tim and Susan Bratton tell us how to revive the passion in married sex. They talk about expanded orgasm technique, the perfect spot on every clitoris, the multi-orgasmic journey, awakening your G-pot, full-bodied orgasms and nipplegasm. Susan has a ridiculous amount of orgasms and everyone’s jealous. Also, female ejaculation and how to seduce her with chocolate.

Episode 257 - The G-spot Locator

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 07:00:00 +0000

Emily goes to a pool party in Los Angeles with a bucket of dildos. The recession means more sex toys because people need to have an orgasm to feel better about their financial situation. Also, ejaculation etiquette, advanced finger technique to use on women, positions for giving the best hand jobs, and the magical G-spot locator.

SWE: Hand Job

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 20:00:00 +0000

Emily's going to a sex party and Menace is going to party with his prom date. Emily and Menace discuss the biggest first date deal-breakers, Harry Potter and the power of the V. Why you should never give your partner your email password and when is the right time to break up. Also, how to give a man a great hand job and Mneace shares how he likes to masturbate. Should Emily give Menace a hand job?

SWE: Breast Play

feedback@sexwithemily.com — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 07:00:00 +0000

Emily and Menace's assistant dissect his attitude towards women. It’s not looking pretty. Emotionally detached men, dating with kids, the best ways to meet women, how to undress a woman, and how to avoid STI's. A virgin calls into the show to ask Emily advice. Also, the do's and don'ts of breat play including but no limited to 'motor-boating.'