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Did You Lose Friends When You Coupled Up?

2010-10-13T10:44:00.000-07:00

I just broke up with a good friend over the weekend. Long story short: She got a boyfriend, she got serious, she canceled on plans numerous times, and I needed pals I could trust.

It was tough and we both cried, just like a real breakup. Which is why it makes me bittersweet to report on recent research from Oxford University that found that we tend to lose two friends every time we enter a serious romantic relationship.

Yikes! But also understandable, especially as we get older and our romantic partners aren't necessarily in the same social circle. When I get involved with someone, I try to make time for my pals, but some things: girls nights, Gossip Girl watching marathons, early Saturday spin classes fall by the wayside. I think the best thing is to make the concerted effort to see pals, but then also to realize that maybe your friendship worked better when you were both single.

I think that was the case with me and my friend. A large part of our friendship centered on the fact that we were single, and we weren't entirely happy about it. And I really do wish her the best. It's still . . . breaking up is hard to do!

Have you ever had a best friend breakup? And how did you keep friends when you got close to your partner?

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Who Are All the Celebs Cheating On?

2010-10-13T02:44:00.000-07:00

Tiki Barber. Ashton Kutcher and David Beckham (allegedly). And, of course, Tiger.

What is up with all these men? Is it that guys in the spotlight have more chances of being caught cheatingwhat with paparazzi cameras everywhere, the fact that women who sleep with celebs are offered big bucks to kiss and tell, and that the 24/7 news cycle is desperate for somethingor is it something more endemic in American culture?

Obviously, cheating is nothing newbut since when has cheating been a viable career path for women who crave the spotlight?

This is kind of old, but Tiki Barber's mistress, Traci Johnson, told all in her own words about her affair. Here's what she said:

This stumbling, well lets be honest, in my case, falling flat on my face, was a recurrent theme in my relationship history. Scars and bruises of my past ill-fated trips down lovers lane are ever present in my mind, so when I began dating my current boyfriend in the beginning of January 2010 I was optimistic, yet cautious.

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The Most Memorable On-Screen Kisses of All Time

2010-10-12T18:44:00.001-07:00

Tell us which of these smooches made the biggest impression on you, whether they melted your heart, fired you up, or made you blush. The results will be in an upcoming issue of Redbook!

poll by twiigs.com

(Your favorite onscreen kiss not here? Tell us what it is in the comments!)

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Sex or Sleep?

2010-10-10T23:09:00.001-07:00

It's the decision every woman faces when she climbs into bed with her guy. We'll help you choose, but either way, you win.

No Matter Which You'll Be Doing, We Can Help:
Sex Positions That Tickle Your Sweet SpotWhy Moms Can't SleepThe Foreplay Moves Men Crave5 Tricks to Help You Relax AlreadyReal Couples Confess Their Secret Sex CodesHow Much Sleep Do You Actually Need?

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Erectile Dysfunction – Causes and treatment

2010-10-10T05:38:00.001-07:00

diagnosed and untreated worldwide. Most common causes of Erectile Dysfunction: 1. Common medical conditions like Diabetes.

2. It is also associated with some medications used to treat certain conditions like Diabetes, Hypertension and Depression.
3. Life style factors like Smoking and excessive alcohol consumption.

4. Certain psychological conditions like stress and inferiority complex.

Erectile Dysfunction treatment:

1. Take the counseling from a psychiatrist, if there is a psychological problem.

2. Treatment with medication: The good news is that erection problems can always be treated medically. Sildenafil is absolutely safe and remedy for ED. Sildenafil citrate tablet is available by prescription. It is now being used in 90 countries. It has generated 26 million prescriptions in the US alone. The most common side effects of Sildenafil are: Headache, Flushing of the face, Upset of the stomach, Temporary changes in color vision (can’t differentiate between blue and green objects) and Blurred vision. In rare instances, men have reported an erection that lasts many hours. Call a doctor immediately if you have erection that lasts more than 4 hours. It should be treated immediately otherwise permanent damage to penis may occur. In a very very rare cases- Heart attacks, stroke irregular heart beats and death may occur. Source: Indian Express Tweet

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Erectile Dysfunction – Causes and treatment

2010-10-10T03:10:00.001-07:00

diagnosed and untreated worldwide. Most common causes of Erectile Dysfunction: 1. Common medical conditions like Diabetes.

2. It is also associated with some medications used to treat certain conditions like Diabetes, Hypertension and Depression.
3. Life style factors like Smoking and excessive alcohol consumption.

4. Certain psychological conditions like stress and inferiority complex.

Erectile Dysfunction treatment:

1. Take the counseling from a psychiatrist, if there is a psychological problem.

Top 50 sexiest movies of all time

2010-10-09T22:10:00.000-07:00

. Watching romantic movies enhance sex life and improve relationship between couple.

All time high grosser and my favourite movie

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Men with ED are at high risk for heart disease

2010-10-09T14:10:00.000-07:00

first in the penis but later the heart.

2. ED might have developed due to plaques in the penile arteries. Similar blocks may occur in the coronary arteries in the laster life.

Erectile Dysfunction risk gradually increases with age. Heart disease risk also increases with age. Above 60 age group men are at high risk for Sexual Dysfunction and Heart diseases.

Researchers conducted this study over 10 years and concluded that Sexual Dysfunction is a serious risk factor for heart diseases especially in middle aged men.

Health advice: If you are suffering from Sexual health problems, feel free to consult doctor without hesitation. If a person is diagnosed with ED, Physician should also conduct cardiac tests like ECG and ECHO. Doctor should advice him regarding the ED risk factor for heart diseases and gives him counselling on prevention measures.

Sexual Dysfunction Drugs like Viagra acts by dilating blood vessels.

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Oral Sex: A risk to mouth cancer

2010-10-09T06:10:00.000-07:00

Analingus’ refers to oral stimulation of a person’s anus.

Oral stimulation of other parts of the body (as in kissing and licking) is usually not considered oral sex.

What are the Risks of Oral Sex?

There is a commonly held belief among many lay people that oral sex carries little or no risk. In fact, some consider oral sex a safer sex alternative. But the truth is, like any other sexual activity, oral sex carries a risk of transmitting

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Sexual health problems – How to improve it?

2010-10-08T22:10:00.001-07:00

1. Alcohol: Alcohol not only causes liver diseases, it also affects your mood and behaviour. Alcohol consumption may lift your mood in the short run, but it causes serious effects on the sexual desire and performance in the long term.

2. Smoking: More than 10% of impotence in men/women is due to smoking. Smoking causes infertility by causing mutations in genes. It affects sex life by decreasing the desire to have sex.

3. Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs): Sexually transmitted diseases affect your sex life by causing diseases like herpes and syphilis. Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) is the major culprit by avoiding even condoms.

4. Stress:Young couples are having less desire to have sex in daily life due to high stress levels in their work life. This is the major reason for increasing impotence cases in young couples even though they have no health problems.

5. Pregnancy:There is no need for pregnant woman to avoid sex unless advised by doctor. They need to change sexual positions as pregnancy progresses.

6. Menopause/Andropause:Menopause causes vaginal dryness by decreasing Estrogens levels. As age progresses, sexual ability of men decreases due to decreases testosterone secretion.

7. Poor Body Image: This is a psychological factor due to decreased confidence levels. Who with poor bodies feel inferior when they participating in sex. Psychological counselling and encouraging words by husband help to overcome this problem.

8. Diabetes: 30-60% of men with diabetes suffer from erectile dysfunction due to damage of blood vessels and peripheral nerves. High cholesterol levels reduces blood flow to genital organs by causing fat deposits in arterial walls.

9. Drugs:Anti-hypertensive drugs like diuretics cause erectile dysfunction. One should not use drugs without doctor’s advice.

10. Extreme Commuters: People are spending more time on travelling and have no time to enjoy quality sex life.

11. Office Romance:According to survey, 60% American employees have been involved in an office romance in 2006. This rise is due to rise of working singles and increase in office working hours.

12. Homosexuality:Rise in home sexuality is another concern for traditional society and normal sex life and child bearing.

How to improve your sex life:

1. Stay away from addictions like smoking and drinking.
2. Never use medicinal drugs without doctor prescription. Over the counter drugs also have some effect on your sex life.
3. Never indulge in perverted sexual practices like homosexuality.
4. Stay away from office sex life. Don’t ruin happy family life.
5. Consult sex specialist without hesitation in case of any problem ins ex life.
6. Take psychological counselling if needed.
7. Control chronic diseases like Diabetes and high blood pressure. Inputs: Forbes and Loving Sex.Tweet

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5 Types Of People Who View Porn Regularly

2010-06-14T02:11:00.000-07:00

1.The impotent guy[married or unmarried] hoping it will cure him of sexual inadequacy.

2.The sexually disappointed and frustrated husband whose wife is prudish and sexually unresponsive.

3.The escapist who uses porn to get his mind off the pressure he is suffering.

4.The curious guy who is eager to learn new tricks,new methods of sexual experimentation.

5.Scoptophiliacs[men who achieve greater sexual gratification looking at others perfoming sex acts] who overcompensate for their own seuxal inadequacy

6 Sexual Fears and How to Overcome Them

2010-06-10T06:07:00.000-07:00

Rigid attitudes with regard to sex can cause a person to feel enormous tension up to a point where they are unable to enjoy or even participate in sexual intercouse.Therefore,it is vital to overcome them.

1.Fear of Pregnancy:All women at some time of their life are bound to encounter this fear.Denying it beacause you regard it as somehow wrong wrong.Your sex life will be greatly improved if you educate yourself.Consult your gynaecologist

2.Fear of Internal Injury:A frank discussion of this fear with your partner can result in a little extra care during active sex play and penetration until such fear is gone.

3.Fear of Failure:When you worry about your own performance or that of your partner,the fear can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.Forget such myths as the need for simultaneous mutual climax.Forget the nonsense about perform.Sex is about enjoying.Don't let unnecessary stuffs go inside your brain.

4.Guilt About Sex:Perhaps more than any other fear,feeling guilty or dirty about sex act will cause you to tighten up and destroy your ability to enjoy sex.This is difficult to overcome it alone.However,an understanding partner can help.If the problem persist,consult a sex therapist.

5.Fear of being seen:If you are a person who feels an extreme need of privacy,a locked room and room darkening shades or curtains can help.Also consider participating in nude encounter groups to overcome your shyness.

Stress Management For Better Sex

2010-06-07T22:52:00.000-07:00

1.Exercise for cardiovascular fitness three to four times a week.
2.Try slow,deep breathing to bring heart rate and respiration back to normal
3.Eat well-balanced,nutritious meal.
4.Avoid nicotine and excessive caffeine and sugar intake.
5.Get enough sleep
6.Massage
7.Mix leisure with work>take breaks and vacation and possible.
8.Talk to a friend
9.Spend time with a pet.
10.Don't take things too hard.

Have a happy stress-free life.

Dress-Up

2010-06-05T22:19:00.000-07:00

Well,after taking break for so long,I will continue with this short little tips.

1.Know your spouse
2.Dress-up as how she/he wants
3.Seduce them
4.Bring back the passion when you are dating
5.Remember to compliment he/she

Sexify:Ice Special

2010-03-06T03:52:00.000-08:00

Freezing cold against your skin stimulates both pain and temperature nerves,which are exactly the types of fibres which trigger your sex climax.The ice special takes advantage of this fact.Before intercourse,the wife places at the bedside a bowl of crushed ice wrapped in a wet towel.

Both partners strip and enjoy sex in any face-to-face posture with the husband on top.As the husband starts his final surge to climax,the wife picks up a handful of crushed ice or the cold towel.Just as the paroxysms of orgasm start,she puts the cold ice poultice against her husband crotch and keeps it there throughout.

The ice special works well in reverse also,with the wife astride and the husband performing the manoeuvre.In this position,however the technique calls for a perfectly-timed,mutual climax:the icy flood involves te husband as it cascades off the wife,and oftens upsets his erection-maintaining balance if it hits too early.

If you use ice on a preliminary female orgasm or if your timing sometimes abit off,use a method which avoids run-off.You can chill your hand in the ice bowl,then boost your wife's climax with the frigid hand instead of the ice itself,for instance.

8 Foods That Could Improve Your Sex Life.

2010-01-18T02:01:00.000-08:00

Many people believe that there is a direct relationship between the quantity and quality of your sex life and the foods you eat.The following is a list of foods and vitamins,minerals and additives that are suggested your sex life:

1.Wheat germ.You can buy this in any supermarket or health food store.This is the most nutrituous part of the wheat kernel,the germ.It is high in protein and contains several B vitamins,vitamin E,and a fair amount of iron,phosphorus,zinc and even some folic acid.These are all important for health,and deficiencies of some of them causes sterility.

2.Sesame seed.High in Vitamin E:helps to ward off fatigue

3.Honey.Contains much pollen,one of the best food in the world.Also contains gonadotropic hormone,which stimulates the sex glands.

4.Raw nuts and seeds.These converts sugar to glycogen,which is related to sex drive.

5.Milk.A potent virility food.The casein in milk helps to produce hypophyseal,a sex-stimulant hormone.

6.Eggs.Each one contains 1.1 milligrams of iron,of particular value to women

7.Kelp.Provides iodine to stimulate the endcorine glands,which when underactive,inhibit the sex drive.

8.Oyster.Yes,believe it or not,they are recommended as a sex food.They are high in protein,calcium,iron and Vitamin A.All helpful,one way or another,in sex activity.

The Sexual Symbolism of 14 Gemstones

2010-01-18T01:52:00.000-08:00

1.Aquamarine-love and affection for the wearer.
2.Beryl-hope for an encounter
3.Carnelian-friendship
4.Cat'seye-protection from evil
5.Chrysoprase-joy or gaiety
6.Diamond-fidelity and sincerity
7.Hematite-sexual impulse
8.Lapis lazuli-capacity for love
9.Loadstone-virility
10.Peal-chastity
11.Ruby-passion
12.Sapphire-preservation of chastity
13.Topaz-affection
14.Turquoise-love

P/s:Think twice about buying gemstones as each signifies something.

Sex And Man's Eating Habits

2010-01-18T01:44:00.000-08:00

Can a man's habits reveal much about the kind of lover he will be?Check it out.

1.The Exotic Eater.The man who likes to start dinner with escargots and finish with a pomegranate is adventurous and experimental and probably so in his sex life.

2.The Gourmet.He's finicky about his food and sends back the vichyssoise because its not cold enough and sweetbreads because they are not hot enough.He will probably be just as finicky in his love-making and be interested in quality,surroundings, and ambiance.If you are interested in quantity,he may not be the man for you.

3.The Meat and Potatoes Man.He is likely to be solid and dependable as a lover,but be prepared.

4.The Health Food And Vitamin Freak.He is careful about his health and his life.He probably studies the subject and will probably know enough about sex to lead a good healthy sex life.

5.The Hearty Eater.He may be a hearty and good lover.On the other hand,spending all that time eating and carrying around all that avoirdupois may make him sluggish in bed.

Number And Its Significance Part 2

2010-01-08T01:24:00.000-08:00

4.You are very serious and lacking imagination.Love-making is real and earnest,and the form of the act is more important than the act itself.The way into your bed is through patience and indirection.Whatever your mates wants to do,you are likely to want just the opposite.

5.You are as energetic and resourceful in your love life as in anything else in your life.You are also restless and fickle.Rather than a comparison shopper,you are more apt to be an impulsive rolling stone who jumps into bed without thought-and then move outs and on to new experiences.Your partner must beware of trying to hold on to you because more than anything else you fear the loss of your freedom.The person who gets to you for a mate needs open hands.

6.You are idealistic and home-loving.You are a nester.Unfortunately for you,flattery is is irresistible to you and may affect your common sense in the selection of your mate.In bed you can be dominant or very giving.Contradiction is the key to your character and keeps your mate off the balance most of the time.

7.Your approach to sex is analytical and perfectionistic.You are likely to avoid emotional commitments because you find it hard to give up an intellectual approach.Your partner is likely to find you silent and withdrawn,You need a mate with an equally intellectual approach to sex,and the missionary position will suffice most of the time.You may break out in a rare display of spontaneity in bed,but that is rare.

8.You place great demands on your mate.You enjoy watching the performance,but generally you are more concerned with your own satisfaction.You are quite willing to use sex as a weapon.You need love but are not so ready to show it to your partner.

9.You love home and family and you make a faithful mate.you are also very possessive and can smother your partner with the intensity of your desires.You are a great romantic,easily disenchanted when the mate fails to remain on the pedestal you have created.If you lay the field you can find no happiness.For you,contentment is your own fine side.

Number And Its Sexual Significance

2010-01-07T03:42:00.000-08:00

Basically,you just need to add together the day,month and year of your birth.This will always produce a four-digit number.Thus,if you were born in 12May 1978,you:

12+5+1978=1995

Then,add these four digits together:1+9+9+5=24

If you get a single digit,leave it.If the result is 2 digit,add the 2 digit again:2+4=6

Here is the Sexual Significance of your number.Just use it as a guide as it is not entirely true.

1.Your sex life will be creative and original.On the other hand,some of your partners may find you over-talkative.You want to dominate your partner.Your mate requires warmth and patience.Affection is necessary to your well being.

2.You are sensitive and modest to the point of fearful shyness.You go to the extremes that result in strong,unreasoned likes and dislikes.you can't stand any hint of coarseness in your partner.You reach for permanent relationships.No one-night stands for you.Your mate must surround you with an orderly and beautiful environment in order to reap your rich rewards.

3.You can give great joy to your partner and express yoursef bubbling fun.However,you are moody and like to indulge in extravagant gossip,which could make you a 'kiss and tell' partner.If your mate isn't wary of criticising you,you would become cold and unforgiving.You would reject a lover for a thoughtless word and mourn later for your hastiness.

Happy New Year!

2010-01-01T00:53:00.000-08:00

Welcome to 2010 to all the readers out there.Wish you guys/gals have a smooth year ahead.Enjoy yourselves^^.

Another 6 Traits Revealed By Handwriting

2009-12-29T05:59:00.000-08:00

1.If certain letters are left open,as for example,the a,the g,the d,and the o,this will indicate that the writer is talkative.

2.When characteristics 5 and 6 are found in combination,you get someone who will be a liar in love.

3.One who place heavy cross bars on the t's is subject to fit of temper.

4.One who has heavy slants off by themselves in order to dot the i's and cross the t's is dominant in sex and love.

5.One who leaves spaces between the middle lines of d's and t's will be lazy in sex and love.

6.One who writes straight up and down and ends with the final letter of each word abruptly and wihout any follow-through will be selfish

6 Sex Traits Revealed By Handwriting

2009-12-27T04:23:00.000-08:00

Wonder how handwriting shows your traits?Well it is in your genes.I will talk about 6 traits which may just show you who you are.

1.When the writing slants forward.the individual is an extrovert in matters of sex.He shows his emotions.

2.When the writing contains thick strokes,it shows the writer to be a possessor of permanent emotions.

3.When the writing is straight up and down,and not slanted in either direction,it indicates that the writer is governed by intellect rather than emotion in matters of sex and love.

4.Thin strokes indicate a cautious person who will not rush into love or sex affairs.

5.The farther the slant is forward in the writing,the more impulsive the person will be in the matter of sex.

6.If the writer has letters with a little hook at the beginning of many letters,it shows that the person will be a tease and a deceiver.

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6 Exercises for the Female Breasts

2009-12-27T04:12:00.000-08:00

1. Put your hands out in the front of you and grasp your wrist with each hand.Now push up as though you were pushing up your sleeve,but hold tight enough so that your hands do not slip.This is an isometric exercises which is a classic for pectorals.To do it properly,you should feel a movement in the breast area.Do a slow count to 5 and repeat 10times.

2.Hold an unopened soup can in each hand.Extend your arms straight forward then swing them in large circles,forward then backwards.Do this ten times.

3.Hold a towel over your head.Swing it back and forth over your head,keeping your arms straight and the towel taut.Repeat,gradually increasing it to 10 times.

4.Sit in the lotus position[preferable] or any comfortable position on the floor.Put your hands behind your head and learn forward slowly.Try to touch the floor with your forehead,but do it gently and slowly.Repeat 10 times.

5.Do push-ups if you have your doctor's permission

6.Swimming is an excellent toner for the breast.Most women swimmers have firm and well-formed breasts

3 Ways To Help Woman Become A Better Sex Partner

2009-12-27T03:57:00.000-08:00

1.While urinating,stop the flow by contracting the muscles of the vagina and hold the contraction for 3-5 seconds.Do this about 10 times a day.Do it regularly.The reason for this is that muscles involved in controlling your urine flow are the same as those involved in your sex activity.By strengthening these muscles,you will find that you can be a better sex partner.

2.Dilate the vagina.This is especially important for women who find they have pain during coitus(dyspareunia).It involves dilating the vagina with either a lubricated object or the fingers.Be sure to use a sterile lubricating jelly.

3.While flat on your back,either on the floor or in bed,with your feet stretched out straight,lift your feet about 4 inches from the mattress/floor.In the beginning hold it for few seconds.As you gain more strength,try to hold for 10 seconds or more.This can increase your entire abdominal area strength