SeXXXcapades

One On One

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 14 Jul 2011 02:00:00 +0000

So a few nights ago, Evan and Rachel came over to hang out with us. We went out for dinner, then came back and watched some True Blood and just hung out for a bit. It started getting late, and we all knew what everyone wanted, but no one was making the first move. Finally I shut and locked the door and we all knew what that meant! I went and sat next to Evan and Brett went to sit next to Rachel. A few seconds later, Rachel suggested we try something different and she and Brett left Evan and I alone while they went to sit outside for a bit.

Evan wasted no time removing my clothes and tossing them on the floor. Then he laid me down on the couch as I opened my legs for him and he began licking my waiting pussy. It wasn't long before he stopped and grabbed a condom and put it on and began fucking my tight pussy. Over and over, he slammed his hard cock in me while I laid on my back, clenching the mattress. I then turned over and laid on my side while he held one leg up in the air and thrust his cock in me some more. I moaned with pleasure, over and over as his cock slid in and out of my now soaking wet pussy. A few minutes later and I was on my knees as he entered me from behind, grabbing my hips as I clung to the mattress. A few minutes later and I was on my back once again. He kept thrusting his cock in me over and over until finally he couldn't take it anymore and he blew his load.

Now it was my turn. Evan came and kneeled beside me, parting my wet pussy lips with his finger and finding my rock hard clit. His finger circled my clit over and over until finally my body began to tremble as I gave in to a great orgasm.

Rachel and myself gave Alisha and Evan a 15 minute head start since we're usually done before them and waiting, so we waited out on our porch and talked for a bit. Finally we decided we gave them enough time, and we were ready to start our fun, so we headed inside. As we came in the house we met Alisha in the kitchen with a big smile on her face. We asked what was going on and she said that her and Evan were both all done and were just coming to get us. So Rachel and I didn't waste much time before heading in my room to start pleasuring each other. We sent Alisha and Evan outside while we had our fun, which started with us making out.

It wasn't long before my hand was reaching down Rachel's shirt to feel her nice titties. She decided it would be easier if she just removed her shirt, so she whipped it off and exposed her great tits and then she quickly removed my shirt as well. The whole time we were alone, I was eagerly waiting to be able to sink my tongue between her pussy lips to get a taste of her great pussy. I began rubbing her pussy through her shorts and then slipped my hand in to part her lips and found her hard clit with my finger. She was pretty wet and I wanted to eat her out in the worst way, but she removed my shorts and boxers and had me lay down instead. Rachel started kissing my lips, and then worked her way down my body to my hard cock, which she then took in her mouth and caressed with her tongue. She's always given great oral and I was pretty turned on and didn't want to blow my load before I was able to sink my cock in her tight pussy, so I told her to stop and lay down not too long after she started.

I too started off by kissing her lips and slowly worked my way down between her legs. I parted her pussy and sunk my tongue in, and easily found her hard clit. My tongue flicked her clit up and down, side to side and in circles and in no time she was tapping out after cumming. After taking a second to recuperate, she was back down sucking my cock, but I wanted to do more, so I asked her if I could fuck her, which she was very willing to do. She passed me the condom which I hurried up and put on and then she slipped my cock in and started riding me. That felt absolutely amazing but I wanted to be in control so I asked her to lay down and I slid my cock in her. Grabbing the back of both her legs, I slammed my cock in her over and over again as her moans got louder and louder. Her pussy was stroking my cock as I slammed it in her and pulled it out. Before I knew it, I was blowing my load in such relief. Since were both done, we got dressed and headed out to see Alisha and Evan with big smiles on our faces.

After Rachel and Evan left, Alisha and myself headed up to bed. As we laid there exchanging stories about what happened with each of us that night, we got turned on all over again. I asked Alisha if I could fuck her and she didn't even reply, just started removing her clothes. As I kissed her I slid my hand down to her pussy which was still soaked from her sexcapade with Evan. My cock quickly grew hard so I had her move to the edge of the bed and started slamming my cock in her. She was so wet I could feel her juices drip down onto my balls as I fucked her. There's nothing I like more than a dripping wet pussy, so I got down on my knees and stuck my tongue in between her juicy lips. After a few minutes my cock needed more, so I had her turn over and back her ass up to the edge of the bed so I could slide my cock in her from behind and started fucking her as hard as I could. She started moaning louder and louder while grabbing onto the bed sheets, and before I knew it, I was blowing my load in her pussy. She rolled over and laid down on the bed and I laid beside her and slid my finger in her wet pussy. Within minutes of playing with her she was cumming again.

It was another amazing experience with our swap couple and we both hope to have many more in the near future!

Review: 7 Piece Fantasy Restraint kit

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Tue, 14 Jun 2011 09:00:00 +0000

Eden Fantasys was kind enough to send us another goodie not too long ago. We decided to go with the Fantasy BDSM Kit by Sportsheets, as it was something we had not tried before.

This awesome kit comes with 7 pieces and is made of leather and latex. It has four velcro wrist or ankle cuffs, which are very comfortable and easy to get on and off. It also comes with a blindfold and two multi-purpose lengthy straps. The kit is very versatile and we were able to achieve many different positions with its help. It's made with very high quality material and is very comfortable to use. We're definitely considered beginners to bondage and we had no problem achieving many interesting and erotic positions all while being comfortable with the aid of this kit. Eden Fantasys carries this product in three different color combinations, purple/black, red/black, and black/black.

The first time we used the kit, I tried it on Alisha. I had her blindfolded and both her hands and feet bound while performing oral on her, as well as straight sex. The sensory deprivation seemed to turn her on a lot and she was able to orgasm very quickly. The next time we used it, Alisha decided to blindfold me and bound my hands while she had her way with me. I have to say, at first I was very skeptical about this being used on myself when Alisha originally brought the idea up to me, but after thinking about it for a bit, I was very intrigued. I was very turned on by the sensory deprivation and the not knowing what she was going to do next.

Like we mentioned above, the kit is made out of high quality material and was very comfortable for us to use, and the only drawback we found was the blindfold is made a little too small. When Alisha used it on me we had to improvise because my head was too big for the blindfold. This was something minor and was easily overcome, but we just wanted to point that out. We highly recommend this product for people who are interested in getting into some BSDM stuff and are new to it.

Don't forget to check out Eden Fantasys for a great selection of sex toys, lubricants, adult DVDs and lingerie. They have fast, discreet shipping and very competitive prices as well!

Alisha and myself both agree this is a great kit and we give it 9 out of 10 stars!

Lending a helping hand!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 15:24:00 +0000

A couple of weeks ago Alisha surprised me with an amazing hand job with a little dick sucking mixed in. I recorded it as long as I could until I couldn't focus on anything but her pleasing my cock. Enjoy!

e[lust] #26

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Tue, 24 May 2011 19:27:00 +0000

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Worth Waking Up For

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Wed, 18 May 2011 22:00:00 +0000

So, Sunday night Brett was pretty tired and couldn't stay awake any longer and he decided to head to bed before me (I was caught up in the Survivor finale and had to see who won before going to bed!!). When I got to bed about 30 minutes later, Brett was fast asleep. I decided to cuddle up to him anyway and pressed my body against his, while gently touching him, hoping to 'accidentally' wake him up.

After about 20 minutes, I gave up, rolled over and got out of bed to set the alarm. Doing this caused him to wake up, so I got back in bed and backed up to him so he could put his arm around me. I started lightly caressing his arm and after a few minutes I was so turned on that I had to roll over. I began kissing his face all over and breathing in his ear (which drives him fucking wild!) and then made my way to his lips. I kissed him for a couple seconds on the lips, then made my way back to his ear, all while running my fingers up and down his back (which also drives him crazy - in a good way). After about a minute of this, Brett rolled over and my hand made its way down to his hard cock. I began stroking it and playing with his balls for a few minutes before he stopped me and removed all of my clothes faster than he ever has before.

Once I was naked, I repositioned myself so I could suck his cock. I began by slowly going up and down his shaft with my lips loosely pressed around it, then moved onto sucking it as hard as I could and going up and down quickly, all while playing with his balls. From the sounds of his moans, I know he was enjoying it! At the same time, he had two fingers inside my wet pussy, stroking my G-spot, which felt fucking amazing. I kept sucking and licking his cock for a few more minutes, but all I wanted to do was ride it, so I hopped up on top of him and slid his hard cock between my wet pussy lips.

Brett grabbed ahold of my hips and slammed his cock in me over and over again. The headboard was banging into the wall so loudly, I was sure we'd wake the kids. After several minutes of riding his cock, Brett ordered me to lay down and spread my legs. In an instant, his head was between my thighs and his tongue was licking my hard clit. I moaned so loud I had to cover my face with a pillow. I was almost ready to cum when Brett stopped licking my clit and slammed his hard cock in my pussy again. With my legs on his shoulders, he pounded his cock in me over and over for several more minutes until he couldn't stand it anymore and he had to blow his load. Since I wasn't done yet, he laid beside me and began rubbing my hard clit with his finger until my whole body tensed up and started to shake until I finally came.

Brett and I have had a lot of sex over the years, but I've got to say, that rates up there in the top 3 for sure!! He will tell you it was definitely worth waking up for!

Alisha
XoXo

Rachel giving Evan a blowjob!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Mon, 16 May 2011 17:59:00 +0000

Our swap couple, Rachel and Evan, sent us this steamy video the other day and got us all hot and bothered so of course we wanted to share it with everyone else! I've always said how amazing Rachel's blowjobs are and here's proof. Enjoy!

Oh, What a Sight!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Wed, 04 May 2011 22:23:00 +0000

So a couple weekends ago, Evan and Rachel came over to hang out, like they do most weekends. We hung out and watched some TV, drank a few drinks and talked. At one point, the guys had made their way into the other room and were gone for quite awhile when Rachel went to go check on them. I followed a few minutes later and found her butt ass naked on the futon with Evan playing with her pussy. Brett was in a very horny state and couldn't keep his hands off her any longer. He went over to the futon and began rubbing her pussy while Evan kissed her lips and played with her tits. Unfortunately, I wasn't feeling very well, so I just sat and enjoyed the show!

After several minutes of Brett licking her pussy, Rachel had him come up and stick his cock in her mouth which, from the sounds of it, they both enjoyed very much. While Rachel was sucking Brett's cock, Evan was happily licking away at her pussy. This went on for several minutes until Rachel begged someone to just please fuck her. Evan was happy to oblige and began fucking her while she continued to suck Brett's cock. A little while later, and Rachel was on her knees sucking Evan's cock while Brett fucked her from behind. This was so hot to watch and I gotta say, I was a little jealous. :p

Many position changes later and somehow I ended up with my face in between Rachel's legs, licking her hard clit, while the guys each sucked on her stiff nipples. As I licked her clit, I slipped two fingers in her juicy pussy to finger fuck her at the same time. While I was busy playing with her pussy, Brett took out the double dong she and I use together and I slipped that inside her wet hole and began fucking her with it. At the same time, Brett was rubbing her clit with his finger and Evan was still playing with her tits.

After awhile, Brett told me it was his turn again, so I went to lay up beside her and suck on her tits while he licked and sucked on her clit. Several more minutes went by and finally, Rachel couldn't take it any longer, and her body started shaking with pleasure while she came.

That night was a lot of fun. I hope to have a night like that sometime soon myself!

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 14:11:00 +0000

OK Ladies, this week I have a pic of Brett's cock and a little video of me sucking it as well! Hope you enjoy and please leave him lot's of naughty comments!

XOXO

Alisha

Coming Soon: Site Makeover!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 11:47:00 +0000

Alisha and I are currently working on a new makeover for our site, please excuse the mess while we bring you a new fresh look to our site, thanks!

Brett

Birthday Bang

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Fri, 15 Apr 2011 03:17:00 +0000

In honor of Rachel's birthday, the four of us decided to go out and celebrate. We started the evening off with a great meal at one of our favorite restaurants, then headed back to our place to decide what to do next. We all agreed that we wanted to go out, so we headed out on foot to a local bar. When we arrived, we went right to the bar and ordered some drinks, then decided to play some darts. Brett and I won the first round and Rachel and Evan spanked us on the second round. Unfortunately we weren't able to do a tie-breaker as other people were waiting to play. We moved to a table in the corner and drank a few more drinks and talked and laughed and had a great time. About an hour later, we left the bar and headed back to our house.

At this point I was fully feeling the effects of the alcohol and found everything to be hilarious. Rachel, Evan, Brett and myself were sitting/standing around the kitchen talking and laughing and drinking some more when I got out the cookies I had made a few days before. I gave one to Rachel, who was sitting in front of the stove and then as I was trying to hand one to Brett, I dropped it and it rolled down Rachel's face and hit the floor. Being drunk, that was the funniest thing ever and we laughed our asses off!

Another drink or 2 later and I couldn't really stand up any longer, so I had a seat on the floor with Rachel until we all decided to go to the living room to watch some TV. I was on the couch with Evan, while Rachel and Brett were on the loveseat. It didn't take long before we all started making out and us girls were bottomless. Evan removed my pants and immediately began licking my pussy with his hot tongue. I looked over to the other couch and saw Brett was happily licking away at Rachel's pussy as well. After a few minutes of this, we somehow ended up in the other room on the futon.

We were about to get busy when we realized we didn't have any condoms. Brett, being the most vocal of the 4 of us, suggested Evan go to the store and get some. Evan was a little hesitant at first because it was snowing and he was obviously drunk, so he'd have to walk. With a little coaxing from the rest of us, Evan took off down the road in his PJs and Brett's coat, which was about 2 sizes too big. You would have had to have been here, but this was a hilarious sight to see! While he was gone, Brett wasted no time getting busy pleasing both of us girls. With one hand in each of our pussies, he was happier than a pig in shit! lol After fingering us both for a couple minutes, he took turns licking our pussies. This didn't last long before Rachel got up and moved him aside and stuck her tongue in my pussy. Brett got behind her and continued fingering her pussy while she licked mine. A few minutes later, Evan returned and walked in to find Rachel's face in between my legs. Evan quickly got naked and joined the rest of us on the futon while Rachel came and laid beside me and Brett immediately dove back into her pussy face first.

Evan came and laid down beside me and slipped a finger inside my pussy. He quickly found my clit and rubbed it as I moaned louder and louder. After a few minutes, he made his way down and stuck his tongue in my pussy once again. He licked my hard clit as I moaned and moaned from the pleasure. It wasn't too long before we switched it up again and Evan was thrusting his hard cock in my juicy pussy. I was in the doggy position and Evan was nailing me from behind, while Rachel and Brett were fucking right beside us.

Moments later, I was on my back and Evan was on top of me fucking me some more with his hard cock. While I was laying there, I reached over and began fingering Rachel while Brett fucked her. It didn't take very long before she came and then laid Brett down and began sucking his cock. Brett loves Rachel's blow jobs and as usual, it didn't take very long for him to cum. While they were getting each other off, Evan had made his way back down between my legs and was licking my pussy again. It wasn't long before my body tensed up and I finally orgasmed as well. It was another fucking awesome time had by all and I can't wait until we can do it again!

So Fresh, So Clean

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 13:16:00 +0000

So a couple of weeks ago, Alisha and I got together with our best friends and swap partners, Rachel and Evan, to go out and see our favorite local band play. The night out was filled with lots of drinks and good times but eventually we decided to head back to Rachel and Evan's place. When we got back I had to take some pills that made me pretty drowsy and I was almost asleep on the air mattress when Rachel came over and started tickling me. Evan and Alisha were on the couch and already messing around and I kept hearing them to tell me to wake up and go take a shower with Rachel. One of my fantasies has been to take a shower with Rachel (I love seeing the water run down a sexy woman's body as she lathers herself up with soap). So I got up and went to take a shower with her and I wasn't let down. In my opinion it was great and very erotic, at the end, Rachel started sucking my rock hard dick that had been poking at her pretty much the entire time we were in there. It was feeling amazing like it usually does, but I didn't want it to end there so I asked her if we could continue it out of the shower, which she agreed to, so we went back to the living room.

When we got out of the shower, Alisha and Evan were still going at it on the couch. Since there wasn't room for 4 there, one of us suggested moving the air mattress to their room next to the bed so we could all play together, and of course we all agreed on that. When we got in there, Rachel and I got the bed while Evan and Alisha were on the air mattress. Anyone who has read our other stories knows I absolutely love eating pussy so I immediately went down to eat Rachel's juicy pussy while Evan did the same to Alisha. Little did we know, but while moving the air mattress we popped a hole in it, so within a matter of minutes, Alisha and Evan were basically on the floor. We couldn't have that, so Rachel and I suggested they came up on the bed with us. That's when I suggested Evan give Alisha his cock, which he was definitely up for. At this point, Rachel wanted to switch positions so I laid down and she went down and started sucking my cock. Rachel is great at blow jobs and I can only usually last 3 minutes or so with her sucking my dick and this time was no different. I didn't want it to end there though, so I tapped her on the shoulder to tell her to stop.

Rachel came up beside me and asked what I wanted and that's when I said I wanted to stick my dick in her but didn't think we had enough room on the bed, so we went back to the living room where the couch was all ours. She asked what position I wanted her in, so I grabbed her hips and bent her over and slid my cock in her wet pussy. Holding her hips, I continued pumping my cock in her until I suggested she ride me. I laid down on the couch and she slid my hard dick back into her nice tight pussy. She worked her hips as her pussy stroked my cock. After a couple of minutes I got on top of her in missionary position for a few minutes, then we went to reverse cowgirl which was more than I could take. Seeing my cock disappear into her pussy was an amazing sight as her ass went up and down. Before I knew it, I was blowing my load. At this point she suggested we go back into the bedroom.

We returned to the bedroom and found Evan licking Alisha's pussy again so I laid Rachel down so I could do the same to her. After a couple of minutes she was moaning loud and signaling to me that she just came. We laid there for a couple of minutes while Evan and Alisha continued doing their thing and then Rachel asked me if she should go eat Alisha's pussy and of course I told her to go for it. Evan moved over and Rachel dove in Alisha's pussy with her tongue. I definitely got turned on by this and wanted my turn licking Alisha's pussy too, so Rachel and Evan started messing around as I licked Alisha's soaked pussy until she came.

This was another amazing night with our best friends and swap couple. It honestly just keeps getting better and better and I can't wait until our next encounter!

Getaway Wild G-spot Vibrator

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 01:00:00 +0000

Our good friends over at Eden Fantasys recently sent us the Getaway Wild G-spot vibrator to try out. Eden Fantasys has a large selection of Sex Toys, Lingerie, Adult DVDs and much, much more!

The first time I tried this vibrator out, Brett was actually using it on me. Neither one of us had read the directions and I really didn't care for it much at all. It just didn't seem to hit the right spot, and the vibrations wouldn't stay at the same speed. Knowing I had to write a review about it, I decided to give it another try first, on my own.

While Brett was working out, I snuck off to our bedroom and retrieved the box from the top shelf in my closet. I opened the box and found the vibrator just how I'd left it, wrapped in it's pretty satin bag. I pulled the vibrator out of the bag and set it on my stand while I read through the directions. The Getaway Wild G-spot vibrator is a lot different from any other vibrator I had ever tried before. It has an on/off button that you push, as well as a touch slider that is motion-activated. The slider works with just the touch of your finger and will change the vibrations from steady, to pulsating, and back again. Once you press the power button on, you then just slide your finger down the slider away from you for more vibrations, or up towards you to lessen the vibrations. This can be a little confusing at first, so definitely read the directions before you use it for the first time.

Once you have found the setting you like, you can press the NT logo on the slider which will lock your setting in so that it does not accidentally get switched during use. Be careful though, as it only takes a couple seconds of holding that spot again to unlock the setting. There is also a light to indicate which setting you're on. The light glows steady when it is on a steady vibration, and it will blink when on the pulsate setting. When you lock the slider, it will turn red.

The Getaway Wild is a pretty a unique vibrator. It has a curved shaft with a G-Spot angled head at the top. When I used this vibrator, I couldn't quite reach my G-spot with it, but it still felt great, as most vibrators do. :o) The angled-head is also great for clitoral stimulation! This vibrator has a total length of 8.5 ins, with an insertable length of 6 ins. Depending on your own anatomy, this vibrator might be perfect for reaching your G-spot.

The Getaway Wild is made out of silicone and feels very comfortable when inserted inside the vagina. With a diameter of only 1 1/8 ins, it does lack a little in the girth department though.

This vibrator is also waterproof and can be submersed in water up to 3 feet deep. The control panel on this vibrator will automatically lock when placed in water, so you will have to dry it off completely before changing the settings again. Also, you should always make sure the vibrator is completely dry before opening the cap to change the batteries so that water does not get inside. When you are finished playing with The Getaway Wild, it can be cleaned with soap and water, or a toy cleaner.

Functions: Vibrating/Pulsating

Special Features:

* Multi-speed
* Waterproof
* Multifunction
* Light indicators

Control type: Pressure activated

Color: Pink

Length: 8 1/2"

Insertable length: 6"

Circumference: 4"

Diameter: 1 1/8"

Weight: 12 oz

Powered By: (2) AA batteries

Overall, I thought this was a decent vibrator and would give it a 7/10 stars!

Alisha
XOXO

When Sex Leaves the Marriage

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 03:49:00 +0000

When Sex Leaves the Marriage
By Tara Parker-Pope

Why do some couples sizzle while others fizzle? Social scientists are studying no-sex marriages for clues about what can go wrong in relationships.

Married men and women, on average, have sex with their spouse 58 times a year, a little more than once a week, according to data collected from the General Social Survey, which has tracked the social behaviors of Americans since 1972. But there are wide variations in that number. Married people under 30 have sex about 111 times a year. And it’s estimated that about 15 percent of married couples have not had sex with their spouse in the last six months to one year, according to Denise A. Donnelly, associate professor of sociology at Georgia State University, who has studied sexless marriage.

I recently spoke with Professor Donnelly about how much researchers really understand about no-sex marriages. Here’s our conversation.

Q. Is there any indication that the sexless marriage is becoming more common? Or are we just hearing about it more?

A. I suspect that we just hear more about it. Back in the days before reliable birth control, having a sexless marriage was one way of limiting family size. Those were also the days when women were not supposed to enjoy sex and often used it as a bargaining tool in their marriages (because they were socialized to do so). Plus, unhappy couples (who are less likely to have sex) were more likely to stay together because of social expectations, or because they had children they were raising.

Q. Why does a marriage become sexless? Does it start that way? Or does sex fade?

A. The answer to that one is both. Some of the people in our sample never had much sex from the beginning, while others identified a particular time or event (childbirth, affair) after which sex slowed or stopped. Some people become accustomed to their spouse, bored even, and sex slows. For others, it is the demands of raising a family, establishing a career, and mid-adulthood. And there are people who have very low sex drives, and may even be asexual. They may have some sex with their partners to begin with, but it becomes unimportant to them (and usually not so unimportant to their spouses). These folks may also be dealing with guilt, issues with the human body, or feel that sex is “dirty” or only for procreation. A small number of couples showed a mixed pattern, where they would have periods of “feast” and of “famine.”

Q. Are couples in sexless marriages less happy than couples having sex?

A. Generally, yes. There is a feedback relationship in most couples between happiness and having sex. Happy couples have more sex, and the more sex a couple has, the happier they report being. But keep in mind that sex is only one form of intimacy, and that some couples are fairly happy (and intimate) even without sex. In my 1993 study, I did find that people in sexless marriages were more likely to have considered divorce than those in sexually active marriages. There is no ideal level of sexual activity — the ideal level is what both partners are happy with — and when one (or both) are unhappy, then you can have marital problems.

Q. Can people in a marriage that has become sexless rekindle their sex lives?

A. Some do. But once a marriage has been sexless for a long time, it’s very hard. One or both may be extremely afraid of hurt or rejection, or just entirely apathetic to their partner. They may not have been communicating about sex for a very long time (if ever) and have trouble talking about it. Couples who talk over their sex lives (as well as other aspects of their marriages) tend to have healthier marriages, but it’s hard to get a couple talking once they’ve established a pattern of non-communication.

There are mixed opinions about what to do to rekindle marital sex. For some couples, it may be as simple as a weekend away from the kids, taking a vacation or cruise, or just having some time off, alone. Others may need help in re-establishing communication and may seek professional assistance. The sad fact is that there are few counseling professionals that deal with this issue. Often, marriage counselors focus on other aspects, rather than sex. While these other aspects may play a big role in sexual inactivity, talking explicitly about sex is essential.

Q. Are people in sexless marriages more likely to get divorced?

A. In my studies, as well as others, people in sexless marriages report that they are more likely to have considered divorce, and that they are less happy in their marriages.

Some of our former respondents have kept in touch with me, and the happiest ones are actually those that have moved on to other partners. It may be that lack of sex is a signal that all intimacy in a marriage is over, and that both would be happier in other situations. I know that this may not be a popular idea with the religious and political right, but it may be a better solution than staying in a marriage that is hurtful and unfulfilling.

In sum, these situations are just so complicated. Each couple has to examine their specific histories, their motivations and goals, and whether it is worth it to them to work on putting sex back in the marriage. It can be a difficult task and require that people take emotional and physical steps that aren’t comfortable for them.

Q. What else are you trying to learn about sexless marriages?

A. I’m hoping to begin some longitudinal work which follows couples over time, to try and understand better the processes they experience, how they make decisions, and how these decisions affect their future happiness. Ultimately, I’d like to know how those who were able to repair their sexual relationships did so.

I thought this was an interesting article. How does your sex life rate compared to the article? Do you have sex more or less than 58 times a year. Leave us a comment!

XoXo
Alisha

P.S. Don't forget to take our sex poll over there ---->

Happy Valentine's Day!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 03:00:00 +0000

We hope everyone had a great Valentine's Day!

What does Valentine's Day mean to you? Guaranteed sex? Flowers and chocolate? Or is it just another day to you? For us, Valentine's Day usually includes Brett getting me flowers and a little gift, and I get him a little something and then later on, there's usually some sex involved! We don't go all out, but it's nice to do a little something sweet for your partner.

So, how was your V day? Leave us a comment telling us what Valentine's Day means for you!

SeXXXcapades / Mrs Siren Autographed DVD Giveaway!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 05:00:00 +0000

That's right guys (and gals), we'll be giving away an autographed DVD of Mrs. Siren's 'My Huge Holes #15' to one lucky contestant.

Mrs. Siren is a beautiful blonde-haired, blue-eyed hotwife from the Lone Star state. She has her own sexy site of her doing anything from anal to group sex and everything in between so make sure you stop by and check it out!

Now there will be two ways to enter, the first being by sending out Tweets on Twitter. Just copy and paste this tweet below...

Check out @SeXXXcapades and @MrsSiren's contest, winner gets an autographed copy of 'My Huge Holes #15' http://bit.ly/gmPPgs #SeXXXcapades

You can tweet this once a day to receive one entry (per day).

The second way to enter is to go over to MrsSiren.com to find out the 'secret' word, then come back here and leave a comment with the secret word. You'll be able to do this once to get an extra bonus entry into the contest.

Last chance for entries will be February 16th at Midnight, so get them in as often as possible now!

Double the Penetration, Double the Fun

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 13 Jan 2011 03:00:00 +0000

Hey everyone, this is Brett and here's one of my fantasies involving Alisha, myself and our swap partners Rachel and Evan... Enjoy! :o)

Alisha and I would be hanging out with Rachel and Evan out at a bar listening to one of our favorite local bands. We'd all be enjoying some nice alcoholic beverages while dancing and having a good time. There would be a lot of flirting and touching between Alisha and Evan, as well as between Rachel and myself. Eventually we all decide we've had enough and make our way back to Rachel and Evan's place.

When we get back to their place Rachel's clothes come off almost instantly as she's not a big fan of clothing, and I can't help but stare at her sexy body. Eventually she throws on a pair of pajama pants, no panties, and a tank top while we all get in our PJs as well. Evan offers me a beer and I gladly accept. Rachel and I are sitting on the floor while Alisha and Evan are on their couch. We're all sitting around talking when I lean over and lay a kiss on Rachel. It's one of those great kisses that seem to go on forever, the alcohol might have something to do with that. During the kiss I can feel Rachel's hand sliding up my leg towards my hardening cock. About the same time my hand slips up her tank top, her hand slides into my shorts finding my cock fully erect. At this time I look to see if Alisha and Evan need a little motivation to get started as well, but Evan already has Alisha's shirt off and is sucking on her nipples as he fingers her wet pussy.

I turn my attention back to Rachel as I'm playing with her nice titties and she's stroking my cock. I ask her to lay down as I remove her pajama pants. I start kissing her neck and work my way down towards her juicy pussy, stopping for a minute to suck on her nipples. With my head between her thighs I run my tongue up and down her slit, teasing her. I can immediately taste her sweet pussy juices as my tongue finds her hard clit. I look over and Evan has his head between Alisha's thighs as well, pleasing her as she moans louder and louder. I start playing with Rachel's clit, working it up and down, then in circles as she gets wetter and wetter. Eventually I slide two fingers into her tight hole which makes her moan louder and get even wetter. As all our readers know, I'm a huge fan of eating pussy so I continue pleasing Rachel until I feel her tap me on the arm. I stop to see what's wrong and I hear her whisper that it was my turn, so she lays me down and removes my shorts and starts sucking my cock.

Rachel gives great head and at this point I'm definitely enjoying it. I take another peek and I see Alisha with Evan's cock in her hand as she's stroking and sucking on it. Rachel continues to suck on my cock, deepthroating it at times, as I'm fully enjoying it. At one point she stops sucking, spits on my cock and starts to stroke it which feels amazing! My cock is rock hard at this point and I know it won't be long before I cum if I let her continue, so I stop her and tell her I want to fuck her now. Rachel gets into the doggystyle position as I slide my cock into her wet, waiting hole. Her pussy is stroking my cock as I fuck her. I have my hands on her hips as I sink my cock deeper and deeper into her tight pussy while I see Evan fucking Alisha nice and hard in the missionary position. My cock feels so good in her pussy and I know she's enjoying it because she's pushing her pussy back on my cock as I slide it out. At this time Evan suggests we take the activities into their bedroom and we're all for it.

When we get in there, Evan lays on the bed and Alisha starts riding his cock. I lay Rachel down and get her in the Leg Glider position which is one of my favorites with Alisha. I love this position because as I fuck Rachel, I have easy access to her tits, clit and ass which she seems to be enjoying as well. After a couple minutes of this, Rachel has me lay down and she starts to ride my cock. As she's riding my cock, I slip a finger in her pussy and start playing with her clit while my other hand is playing with her tits. Rachel asks if I mind trying something new, and I gladly approve without knowing what it is. Rachel asks Alisha if she minds if she borrows Evan and Alisha happily obliges.

Rachel tells Evan to get behind her as she continues to ride me. Before I know it, Evan is fucking Rachel in the ass as she continues to ride my cock. This is really turning me on and I see Alisha enjoying watching, but I don't want her to be left out so I have her come and sit on my face so I can eat her pussy. As I eat Alisha's pussy, her and Rachel are making out and Evan continues to fuck Rachel's ass. After awhile, Evan can't take anymore and blows his load in Rachel's ass as he comes! Shortly after that, Alisha comes on my face as I eat her pussy. Rachel continues to ride my cock and when I feel my load coming, I tell her and she asks me to blow it on her tits and I'm more than willing to! After I cum, I lay her down and eat her pussy until she cums again and taps out because she can't take anymore pleasure.

Sex or Food?

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 20:00:00 +0000

While looking for something sexy to post, I came across this article. The article says women think about food more often than sex. Do you agree?

Survey Finds Women Think About Food More Often Than Sex

Shape Smart, which is a group that creates personal health plans for individuals based upon their “EATERtype” recently conducted a survey that yielded some interesting results. After surveying 5000 men and women, Shape Smart found that there are some significant differences between men and women when it comes to their thoughts and feelings about food. Some of the results from the survey include:

• 25% of the women surveyed think about food every half hour, compared to only 10% of women who think about sex every half hour
• 60% of women who are in a relationship are unhappy about eating in front of their partners
• 50% of women who are in a relationship are not comfortable with undressing in front of their partners
• 40% of women feel as if they dieting on a regular basis
• 13% of women select a low-calorie meal rather than what they would really like to eat when dining out

According to some experts, these results further demonstrate that many women are facing significant body image issues. Furthermore, they show that many women may need assistance with controlling what is being referred to as “demoralizing” eating habits.

“You need to be realistic about your personal diet weaknesses,” said Mary Strugar, who is a nutritionist and behavior therapist, in a recent Time.com article.

This post originally posted here...
http://www.blogsbywomen.org/blog/survey-finds-women-think-about-food-more-often-than-sex/#more-1578

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 20:30:00 +0000

**CLICK**

We felt kind of guilty that we got busy around the holidays and didn't have time to post anything, so we thought we'd give everyone a special click-through pic(make sure to click on the pic to get an extra surprise!).

Alisha and I had an amazing Christmas which started off with us exchanging gifts, and a little more, with our swap partners, Rachel and Evan, two days before Christmas. Then on Christmas we enjoyed the company of our family as we exchanged gifts and had a nice meal. There's nothing better than seeing your children's faces as they open their gifts, just priceless!

For New Year's Eve Alisha, Rachel, Evan and myself hit a bar where one of our favorite local bands was playing. We enjoyed drinks and dancing before calling it a night. As always, a great time was had by all and it was a great way to ring in the New Year!

Anyway, we hope all our readers had a safe and happy holiday season and we look forward to sharing many more pics, stories and other stuff with you guys this year!

What Women Love & Hate About Anal Sex

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 06 Jan 2011 18:16:00 +0000

Better Man in brief ...

* Lubrication, anticipation and protection are all essential precursors to rear-entry.
* Though it can feel great and a little naughty, anal can hurt and may be messy.
* The most important tip for pleasurable anal is that both partners are comfortable.

"Anal sex has a tang of taboo attached to it, though this is disappearing: The taboo status of anal sex gives it better credence among the adventuresome and timid alike, and this adds to its attraction."

Anal sex is just one of those things: She either loves it, or she hates it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, and a fair few of them will never dare again despite their hankering to be one of the "lucky ones" who love anal sex. The reason for this avoidance is clear: pain. If there was no pain, there was probably pleasure. Hence, love or hate.

It is true, however, that while you're trying to "get it right" there are likely to be some painful moments; however, practice makes perfect and it’s the ability to maneuver oneself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.

We've decided to let you in on what women love and hate about anal sex so that you can enter the situation sufficiently informed and ready to rock her world.

The allure of anal sex
For men and women, anal sex is a different, tighter sensation -- it’s a little bit naughty and it provides some variety to normal sex. Anal sex has a tang of taboo attached to it, though this is disappearing: The taboo status of anal sex gives it better credence among the adventuresome and timid alike, and this adds to its attraction. Once tried, however, anal sex can quickly lose its appeal for women (and some men). Here we will discuss some of the reasons why women love and hate anal sex.

Why does she love anal sex?

Let’s start with the positives:

Because anal sex feels good
Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It's different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before -- it's deep inside, it's not her clitoris and it is not in her vagina, but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of her body. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. The back passage transforms itself into a sexual playground. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while you are inside of her, it can take her to another sexual realm. Anal orgasms are possible.

Because anal sex is naughty
People love to be a little bit naughty sometimes, and anal sex is one of those things you can do completely privately, and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your partner -- which is part of the fun. It is also often a "first time for everything" type of activity that can also be nice -- doing something you've never done before, ever.

Why does she hate anal sex?

Now for what goes wrong:

Because anal sex hurts
Anal sex is not easy to master when you haven’t done it before. For a man it may seem straightforward -- in, out -- but it isn’t this simple. Women hate anal sex primarily because it hurts. It can cause cold sweats, shivers, extreme agony, and a massive chemical release into the blood stream that causes pain. This is highly unpleasant, but may be endured because A) She wants to like it; and B) She wants you to like it.

If you're not very careful, if you don’t warm her up properly, if you don’t go slowly enough, you will probably hurt her. This really minimizes your chances for trying anal sex again. Do your best every time and you have at least a fighting chance at having another go.

Because she's worried about a mess
Anal sex is obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea that you could penetrate her butt and come out in a sticky situation is hugely embarrassing for her before it’s even happened, and for this reason she may avoid anal sex altogether. Women spend so much time making themselves look and smell beautiful that to have something ruin her hard work can be mildly devastating. Worrying about mess can be alleviated by using an anal douche before engaging in any anal play. Try taking a shower together too, and make sure her bowels are emptied at least an hour before starting.

"Get her to the point where she is begging you for it, and do this without putting a single thing in her -- tease, tease, tease."

Important facts about anal sex

Lubricant is essential

The anal canal does not produce its own lubricant, so it is imperative that you use a good quality lubricant in all your anal adventures. It is advisable to use a silicon-based lubricant because it tends to last longer and doesn't dry up very quickly like some water-based lubricants do. Don’t use sticky petroleum-based products like Vaseline, as they clog up the walls of the rectum and are much too sticky.

Tease her

It is important that she is very turned on before you even go near her butt. When she's turned on, her body is much more open to you than if she is only mildly turned on. She needs to be aching for you to touch her there. Then, when you start to touch her closer to her anus, she will respond with moans and groans instead of a tense grimace. Rub her body all over with oils, relax her, love her, adore her, and caress her. Get her to the point where she is begging you for it, and do this without putting a single thing in her -- tease, tease, tease. Anticipation is one of the greatest sexual tools you have -- use it to your advantage.

Condoms and hygiene

Disease can be passed through unprotected sex -- this includes anal sex. The wall of the rectum is very thin and permeable. However, using condoms can be better for both partners, for other reasons. Women may not like to have a bottom full of semen, which quite frankly is a fair call. After the disruptions of anal sex, the semen mixes with the contents of the rectum and it can get a little "upset" in there. Using a condom avoids this trouble.

Condoms may also protect the penis from any stray fecal matter, though this is generally not a problem, and if it does occur can be washed off easily with no harm done. Men may like to wear a condom so they last a bit longer -- the condom desensitizes the penis somewhat, and allows for longer lovemaking.

What not to do:

Do not ever put your penis into a woman’s body without her express permission. Do not treat her body like a scoring device. She is not an object for you to ejaculate in or on, and if she is kind enough to share her beautiful butt with you, treat it with respect and be happy you were allowed close enough to breathe her in at all. Don’t ejaculate inside of her if requested not to. Don’t slam, jackhammer or be forceful either.

What to always do:

Always use lube. Always wear a condom if requested to without acting like a baby. Do as you are asked at all times -- anal sex is a delicate situation and she needs to be able to trust you.

Gender presumptions and anal sex
When a heterosexual couple thinks of anal sex, it is generally man-in-woman anal sex. To get a good understanding of what it's like -- and how to improve your performance -- it is necessary and helpful for you to open your mind to the possibility that anal sex is not something that only you do to your female lover, but something that you could do to each other.

Scared yet? Don’t be. If it’s good for the goose, it’s good for the gander. Anal sex takes a lot of practice to perfect, and experimenting with one another is a fantastic way to deepen your connection and enhance your sex life and relationship. It does not have to involve sex toys. You can use fingers, tongues, oils, lubes, and any number of other things. Experiment, and let your own body be loved. It will pay off.

Backdoor shenanigans

Anal sex is many things to many people. Do it right, and you’ll get to do it again. Do it wrong, and you may be doomed forever. Well, probably not forever -- but until she forgets how bad it was the first time around.

There are hundreds of anal sex guides online -- explicit instructions on how to do it right. If you read at least a dozen of them, you’ll probably have a good idea about how to start off. The best piece of advice we can give you is to make sure she is hot for it before you start. Then you really can’t lose.

Story originally posted here...
http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa/28b_love_secrets.html

Merry Christmas!! (2010)

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Sat, 25 Dec 2010 18:00:00 +0000

Finally, Christmas day has arrived and if you are like us, you have been busy giving and receiving gifts, cooking lots of yummy food and eating way too much of it! We'd just like to take a moment to let all of our readers know how thankful we are for you. If it wasn't for you guys, this blog would have no purpose, so thank you!

We've had such a great 2010 with Evan and Rachel. Not only did we find swap partners with them, but we found the best friends anyone could ask for. We've all been through a lot of ups and downs this year, but the good far outweighs the bad and we hope to enjoy many more years of great sex and awesome friendship with Evan and Rachel.

We hope everyone has had a wonderful holiday season and has a very safe and happy new year as well!

Alisha and Brett
XOXOXOXO

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday (Happy Holidays)!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 23 Dec 2010 10:00:00 +0000

So Christmas is finally upon us and at times it can be a little stressful, but what better way to relieve some stress than getting your pussy eaten? Here's Brett doing an amazing job of eating my pussy until I reached an awesome, body-trembling orgasm. He's always more than happy to sink his tongue into my or Rachel's pussy and get us all worked up.

Anyway, we wish everyone a safe and happy Holiday season and may you get whatever you wish for!

Gift Exchange

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Thu, 23 Dec 2010 04:30:00 +0000

So today Rachel and I got together to finish wrapping our Christmas gifts. It's always more fun to wrap a ton of gifts when you have someone to talk to. ;o) After supper we swapped gifts with Evan and Rachel and then once the kids were in bed, we decided to swap partners too.

Evan and I got started first and I was naked in less than 5 minutes. As soon as he had my pants off, Evan's head was between my legs and his tongue was parting my pussy lips. Evan licked and fingered my pussy for what seemed like forever until Brett told him to 'give me the dick'. At the same time, Brett had his head between Rachel's legs and was happily licking her pussy. Evan licked my clit a little longer, then came and laid beside me and I immediately grabbed his cock and started sucking it. After a few minutes we couldn't wait any longer and had to fuck.

Evan put a condom on and turned me over and began fucking me doggy style. I couldn't help but moan loudly and constantly. Evan's hard cock always feels so great and tonight was no exception. After about 5 minutes of fucking me from behind, Evan laid down and I hopped on and began riding his hard cock. It felt amazing! While on top of Evan's cock, I glanced over and saw that Rachel was riding Brett's cock at the same time. After several more minutes of fucking, Evan pulled out and blew his big load. At this time, Brett and Rachel were also done and Evan and Rachel decided to head home.

It was another fucking awesome good time with our good friends and as always, we can't wait until the next time. :o)

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday (XXXmas)!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Fri, 17 Dec 2010 03:37:00 +0000

Alisha's really been getting into the Christmas spirit more and more the closer we get to the big day, so we wanted to spread a little holiday cheer (and a little more) to all of our readers, and wish everyone the happiest and safest of holiday seasons! We're very appreciative of all the support and readers we have and hope you guys keep coming back for more!

SeXXXcapades' Naughty List

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Tue, 14 Dec 2010 05:01:00 +0000

As the shopping days until Christmas get down there, we thought we'd try to help out by suggesting some awesome products that we enjoy. These products will definitely help you get on Santa's naughty list, but in a good way!

First up is some awesome non-piercing nipple jewelry from Nipplecharms.com...

Nipplecharms non-piercing nipple rings are a great way to get the pierced look without having to go through the pain and discomfort of actually getting it done. They are made up of industrial rubber bands placed inside a metal casing to give the appearance of an actual piercing. The only downside to these is they work best with nipples that aren't too small.

Temporary Swarovski Crystal Tattoos & Bindis are also a nice way to dress up and draw attention to your tits. They are self adhesive and temporary reusable, after each use just return to backing sheet. These are great for tits and nipples of all shapes and sizes.

Next up is some of Alisha's favorite toys from our friends over at Eden Fantasys who has a large selection of sex toys, lingerie, adult dvds and much more...

One of Alisha's favorite toys is her Gina orgasm deluxe G-spot vibrator, this toy gets her where she's going fast! It's very smooth and bendable to get the right spot. It features multi-speed with vibrating, escalating and pulsating functions. This toy is also Pthalates, Hypo-allergenic and Latex free.

Also at the top of her list is her Hot rabbit vibrator. This toy is also really quick to get Alisha in the orgasmic state that she's looking for. It's made up of a jelly material, is waterproof, has multi-speeds and dual vibrator. The rabbit's ears massage and vibrate the clitoral area while the 7" shaft vibrates.

Of course you could always go with the big ticket items such as Xbox 360 Kinect, iPod Touch 4G, Kindle or a 3D LED TV this Christmas season like everyone else but we think you'd enjoy any of the other items a lot more. They are gifts that will continue to give all year long...!

All I Want for Christmas...

noreply@blogger.com (Alisha and Brett) — Fri, 10 Dec 2010 22:00:00 +0000

Throughout our many encounters with Evan and Rachel we have done many different things and fulfilled a few fantasies. One other fantasy that I would like to check off my list would be to have Evan fucking me doggy style while I am sucking Brett's hard cock and Rachel sits on Brett's face. We could even mix it up a little and trade positions with each other half way through so everyone gets to experience the same thing. I think that would be so fucking hot, but we'd have to get it on camera though! ;o)

Another variation of that fantasy would be myself (or Rachel) riding Evan's (or Brett's) cock while the other one of us sits on his face and then one or both of us sucks on the other cock until it comes. Rachel and I could be facing one another and make out a little too. ;o)

Any encounters with Evan and Rachel are always a great time. I just wish we lived closer so we could play more often!