Fact: According to a recent survey and article from Parade magazine, 48% of men don’t have sex more often because their spouse isn’t interested.

It’s natural to lose a little sex drive as we age due to changes in hormone production. Combine age with possible medications that one of you may be taking, and you have a down home crisis building. “If you don’t use it you’ll lose it” may be the tag line for your relationship soon.

Medications? Does anyone actually read all those warning for possible side effects? You’d think that your friendly neighborhood pharmacist would put a big orange warning sticker on the side of the medicine bottle bringing the “I’m not interested in sex”  side-effect to your attention, but apparently “Take With Food” is more important… And then there are the football games to watch, busy schedules, children in the house, grass to be cut, etc. etc. You get the picture.

I’ve put together 10 Top Ways To Get Your Love Life Back:

One: Take a look in the mirror. Are you the ’stud’ that you once were? I know these buff actors look great with their 5 O’Clock shadow - but seriously, think about what that feels like against her skin. Clean yourself up a bit and throw away those tacky Fruit of the Looms. Those streaks up the back are a real turn off. Try to refrain from prancing from room to room in the nude. A little suspense goes a long way with most of the ladies.

Two: Could it be she’s self conscious about how she appears to you? Combine a job, a couple of kids, an inattentive husband and days spent picking up after your sorry ass, and it’s no wonder she could care less about “Mr Big”! When was the last time you told her she’s beautiful or sexy?

Three: You need to get serious and talk to your partner about how you’re feeling. You might be amazed that your partner is feeling the same as you!

Four: Spice it up. Part of the turn-off of long-term monogamy stems from monotony-doing the same old sexual routine every single time. He kisses you here. Then you touch him there. Point A goes into slot B. Oh, so been there, done that. Try new locations. For instance, try out all of the rooms of your house. Then move to the backyard. Try new positions. Try new outfits.

Five: Try new foods and new places. Get out of the house and do something as a couple!

Six: Try a little adult videos or toys

Seven: Hold your breath folks - consider finding yourselves a “Swing Club”. Just being around other sexy people, will get the blood flowing.

Eight: Why not cough up a few bucks and get a hotel room. Can’t afford it? Send to kids to Grandmas for an evening.

Nine: Get yourself some books on lovemaking. It’s time you both learned a few tricks that may be turn-ons for one another.

Ten:  If you you or your partner are on medications, speak with you doctor about the potential side-effects. They might be able to change your prescription to something that will not affect your sex drive.

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If you’re overweight and considered a BBW (big, bold & wonderful), it can be even more difficult. Finding someone to look past your weight and see the “real” beauty is always a challange.

Donna Hayward, a Toronto woman has discovered just how cruel people can be. The man who stole her heart has been accused of keeping the most terrible of secrets — not just from her, but from so many of his other lovers as well.

Lester Felix, the handsome 28-year-old she has been sleeping with for more than a year, has just been charged with aggravated assault for allegedly having unprotected sex without disclosing he has HIV — a medical condition he has had since 2005.

Ms Hayward met Felix online and there will be many who will blame her for her misfortune, but no one does more than herself. Hayward wanted to use condoms, but says Felix told her he was allergic to latex and assured her he was “clean” — so she agreed to unprotected sex, a mistake she ‘ll always regret.

She now anxiously awaits the test results to see if she’s been infected, but Hayward felt she had a duty to go public and encourage Felix’s other partners to get tested and speak to the police as she has.

“It’s embarrassing to come forward, to admit that I was with him, but hopefully me being strong enough to do this will help other people,”

“I know there are other girls. I don’t want him to be able to do this ever again.”

Here’s hoping this BBW lover sees some jail time!

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Here are a few stats:

• Orgasms releases chemicals in your brain which can reduce anxiety, depression and even aging. An orgasm a day may keep the doctor away!
• According the Daily Mail and Newcastle University, women’s orgasm frequency increases with the income of their partner!
• Men have them while they sleep…
• Women seem to need self help literature to find that elusive orgasm as statistics are showing that over 30% of women do not experience orgasms during sex.
• Millions of people spend countless hours on the internet looking for it…..
• Most people never find it….   Many lose it…..
• Some orgasms are silent…Some are dry…Some are really noisy and really wet.
• Great foreplay can make up for a missed orgasm!
• Mornings are the best time for orgasms, as your body has produced sex hormones, including testosterone, overnight and, by daybreak, they are peaking.

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What started out as media hoax that claimed the Bluetooth mobile phones were being used to arrange random sexual encounters, has blossomed into one of Britain’s hottest fads.

Originally dozens of news organizations were duped by pranksters claiming to be practitioners of “toothing,” in which strangers in the U.K. were meeting up on commuter trains for clandestine sexual encounters. The liaisons were supposedly organized through messages broadcast via Bluetooth phones and handhelds. However, one of those involved now says the story was an elaborate hoax. After first creating an online forum, the pranksters persuaded friends to fill the site with scores of salacious, but fictitious, stories.

The principle is very simple Strangers on trains and buses and at bars and concerts hook up for clandestine sex by text messaging each other with their Bluetooth-enabled cell phones or PDAs. The sexual encounter usually takes place on some form of transport or enclosed area such as a conference or training seminar…. Users ‘discover’ other computers or phones in the vicinity and then send a speculative message. The usual greeting is: ‘Toothing?’”

Toothing takes advantage of the capabilities of Bluetooth, a wireless technology that allows two devices to communicate with each other over short distances. Many mobile phones and PDAs now have built-in Bluetooth functionality and allow users to automatically locate other such devices in their vicinity.

Another great little hoax from the Brits…..

Find Yourself A Lover…using your phone

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There’s no doubt that today is one of the busiest in the floral and chocolate industry. I know you’re just bragging like mad to your friends about those gorgeous flowers that arrived this morning.

A word of note  - chances are he’s send other “declarations of his love” to a number of ladies he’s met on the Internet. The anonymity of the web gives your cheating husband million of opportunities to do a little online flirting or to find a quick hook-up for the next night you’re out with the girls.

Let’s face it, what can be more exciting that you knowing you’re married, the web site you’re cruising knows you’re married and everyone is looking for a little sex on the side. It’s married dating at it’s best!

If you think the Love Of Your Life may be dipping his ink in other inkwells, consider buying some software to hunt down the bastard. The software allows you to track every web page he’s visited, and his emails.

Sad but true!

Find A Married Lover!

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Is there any truth to the “Seven Year Itch” theory regarding relationships?

Research is showing that it takes between 3 to 7 years into a relationship before partners need to increase their levels of stimulation to obtain the same amount of interest in one another. This is usually the time that infidelity occurs within a marriage.

Couples who find a way to stay emotionally and physically connected during this “Itch” phase, are much more likely to make it through this period, and it’s no wonder that the “Lifestyle” is becoming an increasingly popular pastime.  An estimated four to eight million people in North America are swinging in the suburbs — mostly middle-class folks from all walks of life. More and more people are finding that swinging can be a creative solution to this problem, and the internet has proven to be one of the most popular ways for like minded couples to meet one another.

• Swinging couples bond better in a relationship than monogamous couples
• Swinging is best experienced by a couple that us able to talk to each other and share with each other
• Swinger couples are generally happier in their relationship than the average person.
• Many couples into the “Swinging Lifestyle” like the ability to live out virtually any sexual fantasy over and over again.
• Experienced swingers don’t try swinging for sex but for the experience
• Swinging isn’t cheating since the couple have decided to share this experience together

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The Networks have managed to saturate the airwaves with Reality TV shows and the public seems to have had enough as the majority of these “larger than life” shows seem to be hitting the skids with viewers sliding into no man’s land. Along comes [The Lingerie Football league!  Half-naked women and football. Does it get any better than that? This is Fantasy Football at it’s best.

What was once just a Pay-Per-View stunt - beautiful women running around in uniforms that would make Victoria Secret models blush - trying to compete with the bland, politically correct halftime show of the Super Bowl is now being turned into a 10-team league that will debut in the fall of 2009.

The new league, with women playing full-contact football in helmets, sports bras and panties - will feature a two conference format. The Atlanta Steam, Chicago Bliss, Miami Caliente, New England Euphoria and the Tampa Breeze will compete in the Eastern Conference. The Western Conference features the Dallas Desire, Los Angeles Temptation, Phoenix Scorch, San Diego Seduction and the Seattle Mist.

In the meantime, while we wait for the debut of the full league, make sure you catch Lingerie Bowl VI in Tampa on Februay 1, 2009 and the Football After Dark on January 30th. Check out the leagues site for more information

Don’t you just love America?

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We are a generation of webcams and dvd’s so phone sex pales by comparison. But photographer Phillip Toledano has released a new book called Phonesex which gives us a look at the faces (and bodies) behind an industry that seems to be losing it’s punch.

Why look at pictures when you can have the real thing? All it takes is a telephone — and the ability to give good voice and Toledano has documented 30 or so men and women who are BBW’s, others are thin; some are men who talk dirty to women, or lesbians who hot-talk to straight men.

Toledano’s Phonesex book puts a face to the voice and gives you a glimpse into the personalities of men and women who are constantly asked to be someone they are not. They might differ in shape or age or sexual orientation, but they all earn a living giving life to someone else’s fantasy

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I'm 60 years old, have a BA in Cultural Anthropology from Columbia University, and married for 25 years. I make twice the money I made in the corporate world.

Be careful what you wish for….

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Every Tuesday at 9:15 a.m. this August the Plano Senior Bowling League have been practicing their skills and searching for new members.

Roy Taylor, 85-year-old Plano resident and league president, said the league is all about having fun and meeting new people.

Ginger Landry, 76, and her husband Gabe, 78, have been members of the league for 11 years. According to Ginger, the couple’s first date was at a bowling alley. Both have been hooked on bowling ever since.

Jean Elliott, an 80-year-old Plano resident and avid bowler, said she started bowling back when duckpin bowling was popular — a miniature version of bowling with small pins and balls that originated on the East Coast in the early 1900’s.

“We are all in the same boat. We are all getting old,” Ginger said. “A lot of these people don’t ever give up. It is the fun of bowling. But it is also the camaraderie.”

Some senior leaguers believe the sport is growing in popularity in people of all ages.

“I think bowling is coming back. You see all these young kids bowling,” said Rudy Varney, 65 of Plano. “It is cheap. Where else can you come in an afternoon and spend hours having fun.”

Gabe, who has survived open heart surgery, a knee replacement and rheumatoid arthritis, said hitting the lanes with his wife and friends is better than turning into a couch potato.

“It is a whole lot better than sitting at home watching TV,” Gabe said.

Gabe steps into the lane, begins his wind up and releases a ball with a nasty spin.

The result is a perfect strike and a round of applause from fellow leaguers.

“I’ll take that one,” Gabe said.

Someone asks, “How did you do that?”

Gabe replies, “I don’t know.”

Well, it certainly isn’t beginners luck.

Date A Senior - Find A Senior In Your Town

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