Sexy Love | Meet | Attract | Seduce

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♥MEET♥

■The First Minute
■Social Events Flirting
■Cellular Flirt
■How To Meet Women
■The First Date

♥ATTRACT♥

■Attraction vs Affection
■Be a Successful Player
■Show your sexual desires
■The Second Date
■The First Kiss

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♥SEDUCE♥

■Seduction Techniques
■Talk to Women
■Business of Flirting
■How To Impress A Girl?
■Calling to Ask her Out

♥SECRETS♥

■Shy Man Illusion
■Nice Guys vs Jerks
■Not to do with Women
■Calling a Girl After

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♥RELATIONSHIP♥

■Power & Confidence
■Who pays & when
■Why Men Lose Women
■How To Dump Girls
■Dating More Than one Girl

Calling to Ask her Out

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When you do finally make the call, and you have her on the line, what are you going to say? What are your goals of this phone call? Write down what you want to say to her before you call her. It helps to have a guideline for your conversation, especially if you get flustered and aren't sure what to say next. You should already have an idea for a date before you call. Allow room for compromise but always have a good suggestion to start from.

When you decide to pick up the phone to call a sexy love woman, you want to make sure that you won't be distracted. You want to be able to give her your undivided attention. Make sure the TV, roommates, or other background commotion won't distract you. Go into a private room and then dial her number. When she answers, make sure the first thing you do is say who you are. Don't expect a woman to recognize your voice right away. Say your name, then don’t hesitate to remind her where you met.

Once you are beyond introductions, make sure that you aren't interrupting her. You already know that she wants to talk to you, because she gave you her number, so make sure that it is a good time for her. You don't want to call during her favorite television program, or while she's eating dinner, and have her feeling rushed to get off the phone. You want her to be relaxed so you can have a nice, casual conversation.

Once you re-establish your connection, and make small talk, you want to stick to your goals of this phone call. You need to ask her out on a date. When you ask her, be direct and enthusiastic. The best way to ask out a woman is to suggest an activity. Suggest going for a hike, or for coffee, and ask her when she would like to meet to do this.

You don't want to be overbearing or bossy. Give the sexy love girl some control so she will have a better feeling about going out with you. Ask her how she would feel about meeting for coffee, or ask her if she would be interested in checking out a new restaurant in town for lunch on the weekend. Once she accepts your invitation, the two of you can work out a mutual time to meet. Don't be offended if it' not right away. Remember that this woman has her own life, and she may be very busy.

Once you agree when you will go out, be sure to figure out when and where you will meet. If you agree to pick her up, you should always phone before you leave to make sure you know where she lives. If you plan to meet somewhere, it doesn't hurt to call earlier that day to confirm the place and time. This will show her that you are looking forward to your date and that you will be there on time.

By this point, your conversational goals should be attained. You have talked to her, you have got her thinking about you, and you have got a commitment for a date. This is the time to wrap up the phone call: you don't want to drag out this first conversation. Save the 'getting-to-know-each-other" talk for when you are together.

Maintain control of the situation and let her know you have to get going, but that you are really looking forward to your date

How To Meet Women?

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Where To Meet

I find it’s easiest to meet sexy love girls where alcohol is involved. Therefore, bars and parties are best. The grocery store is for food shopping and chat rooms are for degenerates, go to a bar and do some cold calling man!

How to Dress

Wear whatever is hip. I prefer to shop at trendy stores like GAP or Abercrombie & Fitch, but wear something that is at least in style, especially the shoes. A couple of other items are:
• Chest Hair. If you got it, show it. Some sexy love girls say they don’t like it, but they really do. Keep two buttons open at all times.
• Jewelry. Chains and rings only work if you’re really good looking. Get rid of it all.

Talk To Them!

I usually like to get a good buzz on so I’m more outgoing. Don’t get too whacked though, pace yourself, and whatever you do don’t drink and drive. Bring a good wingman to the bar and look for good-looking sexy love women and go talk to them! It’s as simple as that. If you’ve ever been in sales, it’s like cold calling only your success rate will be much higher picking up women. This is a simple numbers game: half the girls you talk to will talk back, and half of those will give you their phone number if you ask.

Placement/The Post Up Move

It is key to properly place yourself at all times. This means that when you initially walk into the bar, don’t look for a table, or a space at the bar. Instead, look for the sexy love hotties and go stand next to them and order a drink. Eventually, you will have to talk to them. This also helps you avoid the embarrassment of having to walk over there to talk to them later. You look like cool guys just looking for a drink!

Calling a Girl After You Get the Number

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After you get a number, you should always wait two days then call the sexy love girl.

If She Answers

Be yourself, funny, talkative etc. Tell her about your great weekend, what you did etc. If she doesn’t remember you right away, don’t let it phase you…. Just keep going, she’ll eventually catch up or she’ll be curious enough to want to check you out anyway.

If No Answers

Always assume that every sexy love babe has CALLER ID! If you call back repeatedly she’ll think you’re a stalker and you ain’t getting any girl. Don’t’ leave a message. This is an advanced technique that works like a charm. If you call and get her machine, simply hang up. The sexy love chick will see your name and rack her brains to remember you. Even if she doesn’t remember you, more times than not she’ll still call you back.

If she doesn’t call you back, wait a day and then call, but be sure to block your number. Try her first at 6 PM (no message) and then at 10 PM from your cell phone. Leave a message that you are heading out for the night and if she gets in soon she can try you at...or you’ll try her tomorrow. Keep this up every other day after that with a single evening call, but don’t leave another message. She knows you called and has your number. Play the cool guy or she’ll think you’re a freak. If no response within a week, bail and convince yourself that the girl wasn’t worth it anyway.

The Second Date

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This time, you can pick her up. I prefer to try to get a little sexy love at the door to break the ice. At least give her a hug and kiss on the neck here. She’ll think you’re happy to see her…they always let you, so go for it.

You can do whatever you want for the evening. I like to take her to a bar then club dancing: sexy girls love to dance. You could also take her to a bar and then dinner if you want. I would avoid movies at all cost, they tend to put you both to sleep. You could also cook dinner for her at your house.

In any case, your goal is to get her back to your place, or hers if she wants. Don’t wait until you are ready to go home; instead, ask her early. Say “I have a really nice bottle of wine at my place…why don’t we go over there and have a glass of wine, and then I can bring you home in an hour or so.”

Once she is on your turf, she’ll be putty in your hands. An advanced technique guaranteed to speed up your time to the promise land is what I call the saving myself line. It’s quite simple. When you’re making out on the couch or wherever, try telling her (with a strait face) that you never sleep with sexy love women unless you’ve been dating them for at least a month.

Then shut up! This will process through her mind for a while and then she’ll become the aggressor. Sexy women love a challenge. Four out of five times she’ll jump your bones that night.

The First Date

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WHEN

Always go for a weeknight, Thursday is best. Most sexy love women will let go and stay out later on Thursdays. This is due to a widely held belief that there is only one more day of work left and that one can make it on less sleep and more booze. I also prefer weeknights, because if you are having fun you can stay out late with her. If it sucks you can always say “I’ve got a big meeting in the morning and have to get up early.” You can easily bail by 9 PM if she turns out to be a skank or a bitch. Have her meet you at 7 PM: that way she will have eaten already. Sexy love girls are always uncomfortable eating in front of guys they’ve just met. Never take her out to dinner until at least the third date.

WHERE

Have her meet you in a cool, funky bar that is not too loud. Never pick her up. Have her meet you there. This way she’ll feel more comfortable having her own car and you can also make an easy escape if necessary. Pick a table or corner of the bar where you can sit close to her. Avoid big booths, they make it hard to touch her.

HOW

There are several basics that every dude should follow on the first date:
1. Keep them Drinking
2. Don’t Say Anything Stupid
3. Make them Laugh
4. Touch Them Once In a While (use to emphasize a joke or point). This will show her that you are interested in her and break the ice.

I also like to buy them a shot to loosen them up for the first kiss. The easiest way to accomplish this is to wait until they go to the bathroom and order it while they’re gone. That way they can’t object. I recommend ordering something sweet and with a kick!

The First Kiss

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This is where most dudes blow it. Never, ever wait until you get to the car or you have driven her home! Kissing on doorsteps is an urban legend that only works in the movies. Instead, try the surprise attack. Once you leave the bar just grab em and kiss em.

Simple, but effective. Try brushing your lips against the corner of her mouth and then pull her close and slowly kiss her. Do not, I repeat, Do not grab any sexy love ass yet. If the surprise attack works you should break it off first.

I recommend no more than 30 seconds. Then as you walk her back to her car she’s feeling pretty good about it and you can have another makeout session or two along the way.

When you get to her car pull her waist close to you and give her a long passionate kiss. You stop it first, say good night and walk away. Don’t tell a sexy love woman you had a good time, and definitely don’t tell her you’ll call her.

Hust walk away. It will keep her wondering until you call …women like to wonder….it’s romantic and titillating for them!

How To Impress A Girl?

2007-05-02T05:14:00.000-07:00

Manners

• Always thank a sexy love woman who buys you something, no matter how trivial
• Never thank a woman for sex
• Always open the car door for the woman on the first few dates, then forget about it. Any girl who expects you to open her door is a bitch..dump her.
• Farting & burping. Don’t’ ever do it: it’s a real sexy love chick turnoff. Hold it until it comes out slowly and silently. If you’re really gonna drop ass go outside or walk at least 20 feet away first.

Impress Her With Your Culinary Skills

A sure fire way to impress a sexy love girl is to make her dinner. She will think you are the greatest and talk of you incessantly to her girlfriends.

Atmosphere

Lighting - Place candles strategically throughout the house to provide romantic lighting. Sexy love women dig candles.

Music - Soft is best. Always put the CD player on repeat. There is nothing worse than the music ending in the middle of a makeout session.

Food. - Always prepare the meal beforehand. The more time you have to spend in the kitchen, the less love you’ll get. Go with a nice salad and something you can bake that will last a while if you flip it on warm. Steaks are bad..they’ll just burn if you’re successfully making out on the couch or preferably in the bedroom.

Warning: Try not to look like a player. If she thinks you do this on a regular basis, then you’re done. Tell her “I love to cook, but never get a chance.”

How To Dump Girls?

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If you have to think about it, end it

If you are trying to figure it out, or if you’re having a tough time etc., then end it. Hanging with sexy love girls should be fun, not work. Life is too short to hang out with girls that bring you down.
Do it on the phone if possible

I know this sounds lame, and it probably is, but it is a hellova lot easier. Don't call them for two days, then they’ll call you once, then one day later they’ll call you again and give you the old........

“We Gotta Talk” line.

We gotta talk really means we gotta breakup. Now its their idea, and you have an easy way out. I also recommend you let her down easy by telling her “I really you like you, but I’m not in sexy love with you, I know what love is and it’ll be best for both of us if we continue to look for it. Life is too short etc.” This works well, cause she has to agree with this…she’s a sexy love chick after all. Sometimes you will even get the old “Come over here one last time.” This is rare and spooky, but fun. Just make sure you tell someone where you are in case she’s really pissed off and chains you to the bed for a week.

How To Know If She’s Blowing You Off

• You’ve left two or more messages and she hasn’t returned a call.
• Her cell phone gets to the third ring. (everyone has Caller ID on their cell, she knows it’s you calling.)
• She says things like “I’m watching a movie/show, can I call you back?”
• She’s vague when you talk about what you did last night. She’ll say things like “I was out with a friend(s).”
• She cancels dates regularly with excuses like “I didn’t sleep well last
night.” “I’m Tired,” or “I have to work late.”

How To Get Girls Back Again

2007-05-02T04:59:00.000-07:00

My advice is Don’t Bother. There are plenty of sexy love fish in the sea! If, however, you find it necessary to travel this road then it is quite easy.

How To Call The Sexy Love Girl You’ve Blown Off

If you run into her then this is easy. Just go where you think she might be and “happen to run into her.” This will give you an excuse to talk briefly and then call her. If you don’t run into her, then try calling her from a payphone. If you call from your home then she’ll see your name on Caller ID and won’t pick it up. Just call her from a strange number once every couple of days until she picks up. I recommend using different payphones though if you choose this route.

How Long Should You Wait

I recommend you never get back with a sexy love woman until you’ve been apart for at least a month or two. Otherwise you are crawling…screw that. Play it cool and don’t talk about it. If you get back with her, the worst thing you can do is tell her you were dating someone else or didn’t want her.

Dating More Than One Girl

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You can successfully date up to five different sexy love girls (more if they are in different cities) provided they are in different stages of the relationship. Some things to remember:

• Gated community apartments Rule!. You don’t want a sexy love babe to be able to easily drop by without calling.

• Always hide your car when you go out. Park it away from the bar or restaurant you’re in.

• Go to different parts of town. Never take sexy love women to the same place as your other bitches.

Also essential to date multiple women is the proper use of telephony:

• Only give them you cell phone number. Nothing worse than hanging out with a new sexy love chick and your home phone rings and you have to get it. Also, then they have to try you on your cell phone and you can tell if they’re getting jealous or not. If they are, you can call them from the men’s room.

• If phone rings when you are with another sexy love girl, simply hit end and say it was your sister and you don’t want to deal with her. You could take this to the next level if you want: an advanced technique is to hit end but then hold the phone up to your ear and have an imaginary conversation with your sister. Then you can return the call from the men’s room or later on.

• Throw away your answering machine and get an answering service. If you come home and a sexy love woman can see that you have a call, she will always say “aren’t you going to listen to your messages?” Then you’re busted if its one of your other ponies. What you can do is to play the message low and then quickly delete it and say “Oh yeah, I already called her back.” If the chicks says “who.” You say “Oh, it was some lady who wanted me to paint her house, but I told her I don’t do that anymore.”

• Keep your cell phone with you always, and never let a woman play with it. Never let it out of your sight either. Chicks are devious. Tell them that you use it a lot for work , so if they do happen to see a Caller ID name, you can play it off.

• Delete inbound and outbound calls regularly from both your cell phone and your home Caller ID. Ideally, you should put in a password on your cell phone to prevent use while you are out, sleeping etc. A friend of mine was busted by one of his sexy love chicks who scanned his calls received and then called the other chick. Then one of them invited him out to breakfast one day and they both showed up and laid into him. It was ugly!!! Avoid this by taking proper precautionary measures.

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Partners & Links

Attraction vs Affection

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Most men confuse Attraction with Affection. They intuitively know Affection is something you must EARN. But they don’t know how to get Attraction to work for them.

Attraction is an automatic response. Attraction is created just like in the market place of products. If a product is rare… it’s attractive. If a product is shiny, new, clean, desired by others… it’s attractive.

If you are too eager to meet and be with a sexy love woman, you are communicating that YOU are “on sale.” “Sale” items are not treasured. “Sale” items are in abundance. If you want to work the ATTRACTION model… don’t be “on sale”. With that thought in mind the following idea will make perfect sense. Don't tell a good-looking woman how hot she is, how pretty she is, how beautiful she is, or how sexy she is. She's heard it all a thousand times before. It will not make her feel attracted to you.

If you tell an average woman, she’s beautiful, she will feel attracted to you. She has not heard that message a thousand times before. To make a sexy love woman feel love to you, you must come across as RARE. We are attracted to rare gemstones… rare cars… rare flowers, etc. If what you communicate to a woman is RARE, her interest sparks.

If she’s in a class of Beethoven music lovers, she can only stand so much talk about him. If you come along and you’re the expert in Mozart, suddenly, you’re RARE. If most of the folks she knows are serious (and being serious is so damn easy) then she is to someone who has a sexy sense of humor.

But the single most important thing a man can do to make himself attractive to the opposite sex is this: A man should demonstrate to a woman he is interested in her as a person... and...convince her of this (no matter how long it takes)... before... he makes any kind of sexual move whatsoever.

Shy Man illusion

2006-11-07T21:38:00.000-08:00

The Odds Are Slim of a Sexy Love Woman Being Interested And Attracted to Me

This is the guy that has fixed opinions about himself and makes up excuses such as, "I'm not very lucky with sexy love women" or "I just don't stand a chance of picking up a woman" or "There aren't any good nightclubs where I can meet women." These are just defensive statements to avoid placing the blame where it really belongs and that's on yourself. You just haven't tried hard enough to pick up a woman. That's where the real problem lies. Make it a point to block these beliefs out of your mind because they will hinder you from seeking out women using your own initiative.

If I Stand Around Long Enough, Maybe Something Will Happen

Nothing could be farther from the truth. Waiting around for something to happen will most likely accomplish nothing. This will produce little action, if any at all. I just can't tell you how many nights I've wasted at nightclubs waiting for something to happen, that is until I wised up. If you wait for a sexy love woman to approach you and strike up a conversation, you'll be waiting all night. You have got to take the initiative and create your own action, it's not going to come to you out of the clear blue sky.

Most Guys Are Lucky That Pick Up sexy love Women

This is a very mistaken notion that picking up sexy love women happens to other guys because of luck and good breaks. Picking up or meeting a sexy love woman rarely happens just by accident. Somebody has to take that first step to initiate contact with a sexy love woman. The only difference between you and the other guy is he takes action, not because of a stroke of luck. So remember, you must go out and initiate action. You must make the effort to pick up sexy love women.

If A Sexy Love Woman Doesn't Show She Likes Me Right Away, She Really Doesn't Like Me And Will Never Like Me

This is an unproductive belief that a sexy love woman, upon first meeting her, must show complete interest in you by verbal and non-verbal communication. This is perfect example of this misconception: You ask a sexy love woman to dance and she readily accepts. After the dance is over she accepts another guys invitation to dance. You get all upset and say to yourself, "If she was really interested in me, she would have found some excuse not to dance with that guy when he asked her." What this guy doesn't know is that in the majority of cases like this, is that when interest is not immediately shown to the other, this doesn't mean that the possibility of liking you may not be there. So, don't give up on a sexy love woman if she accepts another guys invitation to dance. Just keep on pursuing her. In conclusion, it is rare when woman will show her liking and interest in you following a brief initial meeting. Prolonged communication and conversation are necessary before she can feel comfortable in showing her interest in you.

If You're Going to Make It With a sexy love Woman, You'll Both Know It When You Meet And There Won't Be Any Problem

This is the guy who is waiting for "love at first sight" to occur to initiate a relationship. Upon meeting a sexy love woman, if there are no vibrations or chemistry between them, he simply dismisses the encounter. He uses this as a defensive excuse for initiating any intimate contact with sexy love women. Waiting for "love at first sight" will prevent you from establishing real friendships with the opposite sex out of casual acquaintances. You don't have to be madly in love with a sexy woman to show interest and concern and to establish a friendly rapport.

Seduction Techniques

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A man will tell another man or sexy love woman pretty directly what he means and is thinking. Even when it seems indirect, a man is still communicating very closely what is going on. Women, on the other hand, communicate indirectly, because saying exactly what she means is considered rude by other women. This is how sexy love women like to communicate, and how you’ll have to communicate to them if you want to have success with women over the long run.

- Don’t be direct when talking to a sexy love women.
You should always hide your true meaning underneath some words that she will have to interpret. Use words that evade telling her the whole story.

- Set it up as a transaction.
When you get a sexy love woman good and frustrated, and she knows she can’t just get you to do whatever she wants, make it worth your while to give it to her when the time comes. She’ll play with you.

- Tease her CONSTANTLY.
Sexy love women need to feel played with, and verbal sparring requires that you learn how to give her a hard time (before she’ll let you give it to her hard.) The most critical element of verbal sparring is learning how to tease her in the right ways. Just remember that teasing is never mean, never about things she is sensitive about, and it’s most effective on hot sexy love women who are used to having men lie down and let them walk all over them.

- NEVER promise unless you intend to follow through.
The biggest breach of trust will occur when you fail to follow through with a promise. You never use the word “promise” unless you really mean it. If you break it, you stand to lose all the good faith and trust you’ve built up.

- Change the rules on her.
A sexy love woman has to know there are limits, and that she can’t just keep playing the same game over and over, because that would be boring. You have to change the rules of the game in the middle. If you said for example you’d tell her about what your friend said about her if she gives you a soulful kiss, you can always hold the information back a little longer. “Hey!” she yells. “You said you’d tell me if I kissed you!” You say, “I changed the rules. Man’s prerogative.”

- Know when to ignore her.
You don’t have to answer or respond to everything she says. In fact, if you do, you’ll lower her sexy attraction for you greatly. Learn when to stay strong and silent. When you refuse to give her what she expects or wants, and at the right time, you’re feeling the true rhythm of verbal sparring, and you’ll make her incredibly hot for you.

Power & Confidence

2006-11-05T11:42:00.000-08:00

Here is a magic word that will bring you loads of success with sexy love women, and get you laid like crazy. It works with all sexy love women, but the more beautiful the woman, the better it works. The word is: NO!

That's right. No! The same word that will keep a puppy from wetting the carpet will also keep a sexy love woman from shitting on you!

You must say no to a sexy love woman once in a while, when it is over an issue of importance, and when you mean it.

No matter how sexy, or great in the sack or how otherwise wonderful she may be (and who else but such a goddess could possibly begin to deserve to be in YOUR company?) you must be willing to walk away from her if you can't deal with her from a position of self-respect.

And self-respect, my friend, is mostly a matter of what you say no to. It's a boundary set by what is not permitted, tolerated or allowed. And while it may be negative from this semantic sense, in reality it is the most power and positive force you have going for you. When a woman senses it in you, she knows she's found something she's instinctively wanted since she realized she's female: A MAN SHE COULD NEVER HOPE TO CONTROL.

I know this isn't easy. It hurts, really hurts to have to walk away from someone you really dig because she isn't treating you right. But love can often be like a street fight, and remember the street fighter's number one rule: Ignore the pain and carry out your offensive with everything you've got.

If you can pull this off, you will walk with a confidence and power that sexy love women of all ages will be able to sense. And more importantly, you'll like the guy who lives inside your skin.

The First Minute

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What you say or do in the first Minute will determine many times whether or not a woman will respond to you. All you have to do is keep the sexy love woman's unconscious attention focused directly on you (and off everyone else) in a positive manner for a total of one minute from the time you meet her.

This really works, you must project something positive and appealing. Come across very humorous and very honest and you will do very well. Some of the best approaches in the first 60 seconds are the following:

-Ask for help. This is one of the best. You can go up to a sexy love woman and ask her just about anything. Sexy women love to be helpful. You can ask her questions about directions, cooking, grocery shopping, and even ask her to help you pick out a gift for your mother.

-An honest approach. Just go up to her and tell her she's sexy and that you would like to meet her. Honesty is the best policy. A sexy love woman appreciates a man who is honest.

-One of the best approaches is the humorous approach. Just go up to a sexy love girl a smile and start laughing and joking about anything, a funny movie or book, etc.

Nice Guys vs Jerks

2006-11-03T12:13:00.000-08:00

The debate of nice guys vs jerks is one of the oldest of sexy relationships and love seduction issues. The essence of being a "nice guy" however is widely misunderstood. It is believed, that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic etc is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus should be avoided, as it is the "jerk", the rude, the inconsiderate, he impolite, the rough guy who always gets to shag the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand... and waiting... and waiting...:)

It doesn't however mean, that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define, what makes the "jerks" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the sexy love girls. It is sexuality - the "jerks" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while for the "nice guys" hiding their sexuality is part of their agenda of being friendly, polite and and courtious towards sexy love women. Big mistake:)

Sexy love women fall for bastards because they don't turn off the sexuality. Nice guys think sexy love women will be terrified of their sexuality, so they turn it off and all they get is nothing!

Who Pays & When?

2006-11-01T09:31:00.000-08:00

The rules are as follows: You are the guy, so you pay 100% for the first month of any relationship. I know this sounds like bullshit, but its part of the game. Then, and only then, do you let her start carrying her own weight.

Don’t fall into the offer to pay trap. A good woman will offer to pay or possibly go Dutch on the check. Don’t let her under any circumstances. She’ll talk it over with her friends and they’ll decide you are cheap. You’ll never get any love.

After you’ve been sleeping with her on a regular basis you can start letting her pay. A good benchmark is to compare salaries, you might not know hers, but you can guess).

If she makes half of what you do, then you should probably play the sugar daddy role and suck it up most of the time.

Talk to Women

2006-11-01T09:22:00.000-08:00

Don't make the mistake of coming on with a lot of B.S. about yourself. Don't try to make a big impression by bragging about yourself or your material possessions. The trick to the whole art of sexy conversation is becoming interested in her, rather than trying to get her interested in you.

People aren't interested in you. They are interested in themselves. This is an important fact to remember. After all, why should she be interested in you unless you are interested in her first.

It is very important that when you're talking to a woman that you face her and look her squarely in the eyes. When talking or listening to her, don't look off to the side or at the ground. Maintain constant eye contact. This gives her a feeling that you care about what she has to say.

During your conversation encourage her to talk about herself and her accomplishments. Find out the things she's really into such as sports, hobbies, cooking, art, music, etc. and really zero in on those subjects. This will make her feel closer to you while she's pouring her heart out about her favorite subjects. Just concentrate on talking only about her and forget about yourself. While she's talking, listen intently, while looking into her eyes. Also, while she's talking, acknowledge her with statements like "Oh year," "Is that so," "Wow," "Your kidding." Also, while talking to her, wear a pleasant smile on your face.

To sum it up, the secret to getting a sexy love woman to fall in love with you, is to talk to a woman about herself. Try it and see how she will rattle on and on talking about herself.

Not to do with Women!

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DON ‘T Gawk at Sexy Love Women
If you stare at a sexy love woman’s body, she will automatically be turned off and decide you are someone she does not want to be with. This does not mean you can’t appreciate the rest of her - her clothing, her stride, her gorgeous facial features. This means that you must check out her sexy body with a little more discretion. The last thing a sexy woman wants to feel is like she is a piece of meat that a man just wants to have sex with. Sexy Love women want to feel appreciated for who they are, and not just what they look like. Making eye contact is extremely important when you first meet a woman. You’ll never progress your relationship with a woman if you keep looking at her chest. Despite that her clothing is sexy, and she has a beautiful, curvaceous body, you mustn’t check out her ass or breasts so that you can get caught! Direct eye contact is especially important if you are in a social environment and you are talking to this woman for the first or second time. Keep your eyes on her, not on the sexy love women walking by, or on her friends. If you are seriously interested in a sexy love woman, you should give her your undivided attention.

DON’T Curse and Swear
you as a gentleman. If you really want to give off a good first impression, don’t swear in front of sexy love women. You should always assume that sexy love women don’t approve of foul language or sexual undertone during conversation. Always lead sexy love women to think you are a gentleman, even if you aren’t. Once you become more comfortable with a woman then you can gauge levels of profanity that she will tolerate.

DON’T Physically Grab Sexy Love Women
Women do not appreciate their body parts being pinched, grabbed, slapped or fondled. If you do this, you will create hostile feelings between the two of you. Sexy love women will not tolerate any physical contact that intimidates them, or is degrading. As a man trying to score with a woman, you do not want her to be guarded or uncomfortable around you. By avoiding aggressive physical gestures you ensure she feels respected, relaxed and safe. You may want to touch her, and have some physical contact with her. This is permissible - she will appreciate light, flirty gestures, such as touching her arm, brushing against her, or sitting close to her. Flirty body language is important in the stages of seduction, but be careful not to be too aggressive.

DON’T Lie or Betray Women
If you are ever caught in a lie you might as well say goodbye to the sexy love woman that catches you. Sexy love women consider trust a major factor in a healthy relationship. If she catches you betraying her trust, she will assume that everything you have ever said is a lie, and she will no longer believe anything you say. In order to cover your bases, for example, if you are seeing more than one sexy love woman be sure you don’t commit to one woman. Be honest with her, and she may even agree with your behavior! Sexy love women want respect. When you respect a sexy love woman, she’ll give it in return.
If a sexy love woman starts to badger you about your behavior, don’t answer her questions if you are going to have to lie to her. Simply tell her that she is out of line. You aren’t obligated to tell a woman everything, especially if you are still in the dating stage of a relationship. She must also respect you and show consideration for your privacy.

DON’T Talk About Other Women
We have all done this. You are out with a sexy love woman, and the conversation turns to your prior relationships. You should be careful to avoid in depth conversations about other sexy love women for a couple of reasons. First, by discussing your past relationships, and perhaps analyzing them, you put this new woman in the category of therapist. She won’t feel any sexual chemistry for you if you are telling her what went wrong with your ex-girlfriend. She may see your need to talk as an indication of emotional baggage. You DO NOT want a sexy love woman to assume you have baggage. Second, you don’t want to discuss other women because this may make her feel uncomfortable. If you are talking about ex-girlfriends then it means you are still thinking about them. A woman wants to feel that you are thinking about her, especially while on a date. She wants to know that you like her, and you want to spend time learning about her.

DON’T Forget to Shave! This is a big issue for women. The stubble might not bother you, but it definitely bothers sexy love women! If you intend to kiss a sexy love woman, on the lips or otherwise, you must be clean-shaven. Either that, or have your facial hair grown out past the prickly stage. It can irritate a sexy love woman’s skin, and she won’t look forward to kissing you in the near future.

Be a Successful Player

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Sexy love Women want a man with these most important traits:

.Confidence
.Humour
.Smile
.Well groomed / good looks
.Ability to create an emotional connection / a feeling of romance

In addition to that, being a sexy successful player includes:

.Being patient
.Being persistent
.Being comfortable just going up and talking to a new sexy love woman
.Finding opportunities in situations where you before did not believe there would be
.Being sensitive to how she feels/responds and modifying your approach accordingly
.Knowing how to talk to a sexy love woman to build more rapport with her
.Knowing how to talk to a woman to make her start thinking in romantic directions

Having mastered all of the above, these will add the final touch:

.Mirror her physically
.Notice her trance words, remember and use them
.Rephrase everything she says and feed it back to her
.Anchor all good feelings
.Don't argue with her, be very understanding, deeply understanding - this can help .Create an immense rapport
.Use presuppositions to direct her actions
.Have and keep good eye contact - also helps to create an immense rapport
.Touch her

And always start with the cutest girl around:)

Social Events Flirting

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Benefits
Being able to flirt with many people at a social event is great for building positive connections that other people want to continue. Even when you don’t have much time with one person, you can flirt with them in such a way that they’ll remember you. You can flirt with a lot of people briefly and still manage to set the scene for further contact.

If you want to break into a group, hover on the edge and listen carefully to what they say. If it seems alien to you move on to another group. Think of them as friendly people who are just as keen as you to make new contacts. Look at the person talking if you can and make brief eye contact with the rest of the group. Smile as you do this. If a point in the discussion arrives where you have something to add that might be useful, then wait till one person’s finished, and start in. You could begin by saying ‘that’s really interesting… and agree/disagree or make your comment.

The eye contact and smiles will make the group open to listening to you and letting you in.