She Can Get a Man, But Can She Keep a Man?

I Have to Give Credit When Credit Is Due!

2010-08-03T18:27:00.000-07:00

After all my bickering and complaining; my girl is working hard to to a 180 degree turn and I appreciate her efforts. I will work hard to begin praising her for her accomplishments and just for being sweet. It's funny when one person can have such extreme personality's and go from being mean as hell to as sweet as pie. But I guess we all have our good and bad days. Today was a good day, and I only have her to thank for that. Thank you Babe; I love you:)

Another Night- as I try to keep my composure:(

2010-08-01T22:06:00.000-07:00

Frustrated by her behavior I am. She views my post an insults instead of using them to improve herself. She refused to sleep in the same bed with me last night because she is upset with my post. This morning she gave me attitude. I drove her to work today and it was silence in the car. A few hours after her being there she calls me asking, "Does anyone love me enough to bring me something to eat"? Hm.... I love, but she treats me like crap. Me being the sucker I am took her some food hoping that when she came home she would pay a little attention to me. Well............

Here I am about to go to bed; she's upstairs watching t.v. and on facebook. Man; I don't even know what it feels like to be appreciated anymore. This BLOWS.

Is she always tired, but don't want you to leave?

2010-05-10T20:09:00.000-07:00

I'm not saying you should go outside your relationship, but what do you do when she is always complaining that she's tired? What happened to the days in your relationship when you could casually ask for those special request and your request were satisfied in a heartbeat? Those days seem to be gone.

When me and my girl first got together, she chased and literally ran down all the other women with her mini-van. I tried to explain to her that it wasn't the right time for the exclusive relationship, but she wasn't hearing it. That was years ago. Now, after all the women who were dedicated and loved me so, have been scared away; she is always tired! How did I spin myself into this web?

After so many nights of looking at her sleep; old girlfriends finding you on
social networking sites doesn't make it easy to resist the temptation of going outside the relationship. Try talking you say? You can, but she has more excuses then a little bit. She refers back to you mentioning your old girlfriends and uses that as her excuse for not being in the mood. Then quickly relizes they wouldn't be mentioned if she was taking care of business at home. So she jumps to the excuse that she's tired from work. We all work; some harder than others, and I do give her the due props. But when you rather eat ice cream, smoke cigarettes, and go to sleep before taking out even 10 min. or in some cases for some fellas 2min. for your man; theirs a problem. Oh my.....what do you do when she's always tired, but don't want you to leave?