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		<title>Christmas in August</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 16:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Willa and I were invited to attend a private party at Radio City Music Hall to kick off this season of The Christmas Spectacular staring the Rockettes.
We had so much fun. There&#8217;s something almost magical about the Rockettes, and Willa is mesmerized by them.

Willa was not shy about showing the Rockettes her moves, and I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Willa and I were invited to attend a private party at Radio City Music Hall to kick off this season of The Christmas Spectacular staring the Rockettes.</p>
<p>We had so much fun. There&#8217;s something almost magical about the Rockettes, and Willa is mesmerized by them.</p>
<p><a title="Rockettes7 copy by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/4916004171/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4102/4916004171_efc92d6544.jpg" alt="Rockettes7 copy" width="334" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>Willa was not shy about showing the Rockettes her moves, and I&#8217;m so thankful that this event was the day before Willa broke her ankle. (That&#8217;s a long story. Maybe I&#8217;ll write a post about it.)</p>
<p><a title="Rockettes by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/4915985559/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4136/4915985559_1303c8dfa9.jpg" alt="Rockettes" width="334" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>Then, we got to see the Rockettes perform. Always so amazing.</p>
<p><a title="Rockettes3 copy by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/4915990159/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4118/4915990159_fa5fb8db5e.jpg" alt="Rockettes3 copy" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p><a title="Rockettes4 by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/4915991951/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4097/4915991951_61ee1543a9.jpg" alt="Rockettes4" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p><a title="Rockettes6 copy by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/4916603300/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4121/4916603300_a7bae0f41f.jpg" alt="Rockettes6 copy" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p><a title="RockettesAlt by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/4916612108/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4120/4916612108_7c1c2cae12.jpg" alt="RockettesAlt" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p><em>*Thanks to the people at MSG who hosted this event. You guys are great hosts.</em></p>
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		<title>Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 12:23:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Will I ever feel rested again? I ask myself this question every day.
I can&#8217;t remember the last time I wasn&#8217;t tired. I wonder if it&#8217;s just because of my physical issues (Fibromyalgia, Epstein Barr, etc.), or if most adults feel this way?
I find that if I don&#8217;t rely on caffeine (I used to have a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Will I ever feel rested again? I ask myself this question every day.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t remember the last time I wasn&#8217;t tired. I wonder if it&#8217;s just because of my physical issues (Fibromyalgia, Epstein Barr, etc.), or if most adults feel this way?</p>
<p>I find that if I don&#8217;t rely on caffeine (I used to have a cup of black tea every morning), and I drink green juice in the morning (Apples, carrots, kale, spinach, grapes, and whatever berries I have in the house), that it helps me get through the day, but I still wake up every morning feeling exhausted.</p>
<p>I feel like if I could just figure out this one part of my life- how to be less tired, then everything else wouldn&#8217;t seem so overwhelming. Being tired can make you crazy.</p>
<p>Also, do you think there are different kinds of tired? Because I swear I&#8217;m more tired now than I was when Willa was an infant. I wonder- Do the hormones secreted when you breastfeed help you deal with the lack of sleep?</p>
<p>Are you tired all the time? Did you used to be tired, but now you have more energy? What&#8217;s your secret?</p>
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		<title>Recovering</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 14:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>shiftinglife</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;d love to tell you all about the Blogher 10 conference I attended, but I am EXHAUSTED.
I went to bed at 3am the first night and 2am the second night. I am obviously too old for that.
So, until I recover, I will leave you with this picture I took of Willa and her Daddy in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d love to tell you all about the Blogher 10 conference I attended, but I am EXHAUSTED.</p>
<p>I went to bed at 3am the first night and 2am the second night. I am obviously too old for that.</p>
<p>So, until I recover, I will leave you with this picture I took of Willa and her Daddy in Central Park yesterday:</p>
<p><a title="Best Picture Ever by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/4874144522/"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4115/4874144522_0008c55deb.jpg" alt="Best Picture Ever" width="334" height="500" /></a></p>
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		<title>I can’t get out of the car if one of the following songs is on the radio</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 19:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Superstitious by Stevie Wonder
Wanted Dead or Alive by Bon Jovi
Living on a Prayer by Bon Jovi
25 or 6 to 4 by Chicago
Groove is in the Heart by Deee-Lite
Love Shack by The B52&#8217;s
Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen
Are You Gonna Go My Way? by Lenny Kravitz
Blister in the Sun by the Violent Femmes
Hey Ya! byOutkast
Creep by Radio Head
Electioneering [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Superstitious by Stevie Wonder</p>
<p>Wanted Dead or Alive by Bon Jovi</p>
<p>Living on a Prayer by Bon Jovi</p>
<p>25 or 6 to 4 by Chicago</p>
<p>Groove is in the Heart by Deee-Lite</p>
<p>Love Shack by The B52&#8217;s</p>
<p>Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen</p>
<p>Are You Gonna Go My Way? by Lenny Kravitz</p>
<p>Blister in the Sun by the Violent Femmes</p>
<p>Hey Ya! byOutkast</p>
<p>Creep by Radio Head</p>
<p>Electioneering by Radio Head</p>
<p>Crazy by Gnarls Barkley</p>
<p>Gold Digger by Kayne West featuring Jamie Foxx</p>
<p>Graceland by Paul Simon</p>
<p>Happiness is a Warm Gun by The Beatles</p>
<p>Hard to Handle by The Black Crows</p>
<p>Jump Around by House of Pain</p>
<p>Fix You by Coldplay</p>
<p>Politik by Coldplay</p>
<p>Lose Yourself by Eminem</p>
<p>Mr. Mastodon Farm by Cake</p>
<p>Never is a Promise by Fiona Apple</p>
<p>Piano Man by Billy Joel</p>
<p>Scenes From an Italian Restaurant by Billy Joel</p>
<p>Roxanne by The Police</p>
<p>Scenario by A Tribe Called Quest</p>
<p>SexyBack by Justin Timberlake</p>
<p>What I Got by Sublime</p>
<p>Closer to Fine by The Indigo Girls</p>
<p>Crash by The Dave Matthews Band</p>
<p>Those are the one I could come up with in the last 24 hours. I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m forgetting a ton.</p>
<p>What are yours?</p>
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		<title>Inspiring/Funny/Interesting Links</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 12:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A mom shows us what she thinks her infant daughter is dreaming about via Design Mom
Robot shows us that humans have compassion
Hours of entertainment
The new David after the Dentist
Perhaps the funniest thing I&#8217;ve ever seen
What happens when you tell your mom that you&#8217;re really high via Melissa at Sarcomical
Every woman should read this
Are less calories [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://milasdaydreams.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">A mom shows us what she thinks her infant daughter is dreaming about</a> via<a href="http://www.designmom.com/" target="_blank"> Design Mom</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.zenyc.info/art-and-design/robot-brings-out-new-yorkers-softer-side/" target="_blank">Robot shows us that humans have compassion</a></p>
<p><a href="http://fail-roulette.com/" target="_blank">Hours of entertainment</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ohtaCich0co" target="_blank">The new David after the Dentist</a></p>
<p><a href="http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&amp;VideoID=15833904" target="_blank">Perhaps the funniest thing I&#8217;ve ever seen</a></p>
<p><a href="http://comedians.jokes.com/joe-matarese/videos/joe-matarese---paranoia" target="_blank">What happens when you tell your mom that you&#8217;re really high</a> via Melissa at<a href="http://www.sarcomical.com/" target="_blank"> Sarcomical</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.girlsgonechild.net/2010/06/in-defense-of-happiness.html" target="_blank">Every woman should read this</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-mercola/americas-deadliest-sweete_b_630549.html" target="_blank">Are less calories worth this?</a></p>
<p>Have any inspiring/funny/interesting links? Leave a comment or send me an email, and if I choose to feature it in my next link post I&#8217;ll link back to you.</p>
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		<title>Still Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 12:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>shiftinglife</dc:creator>
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My kitchen windowsill this morning. Taken with my iphone.
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<p>My kitchen windowsill this morning. Taken with my iphone.</p>
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		<title>Virtuoso</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 12:21:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>shiftinglife</dc:creator>
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		<title>Violin</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:33:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, remember this?
Well, after many phone calls back and forth, and an in person visit to the school, Willa is finally taking violin lessons.
They usually don&#8217;t give lessons to kids until they are four years old, but when they heard that Willa has been asking us to play the violin every day for almost a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, remember<a href="http://shiftinglife.com/2010/02/advice/"> this</a>?</p>
<p>Well, after many phone calls back and forth, and an in person visit to the school, Willa is finally taking violin lessons.</p>
<p>They usually don&#8217;t give lessons to kids until they are four years old, but when they heard that Willa has been asking us to play the violin every day for almost a year, that her father and her grandfather are accomplished musicians, and that she can pick out the violin when she hears music, they were willing to give her a trial lesson.</p>
<p>One day a couple of weeks ago, we met with the teacher for her first lesson. I thought she would say Willa wasn&#8217;t ready, to come back in a year or two, but she didn&#8217;t. She told us Willa was ready, and that I should rent a violin too, so that I could work with her at practicing at home.</p>
<p>I never had a desire to play the violin. I played drums in junior high, but that&#8217;s the only instrument I&#8217;ve ever played. I&#8217;ve always wanted to play the guitar (see #1 on my <a href="http://shiftinglife.com/life-list/" target="_blank">Life List</a>), but suddenly I&#8217;m really excited about learning to play the violin. To be honest, I&#8217;m just excited to be doing SOMETHING- my life has been pretty boring lately.</p>
<p>So, we are currently renting a regular size violin for me and a teeny-tiny violin for Willa (so cute!). I&#8217;m really looking forward to learning something new, and to sharing it with my kid.</p>
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		<title>The cuteness, it hurts</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 13:59:17 +0000</pubDate>
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Taken with the IPhone.
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<p>Taken with the IPhone.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Willa was a baby I had control over what she was wearing, so she was usually covered in blue.

There are two reasons for this 1) It&#8217;s my favorite color and 2) I never wanted to &#8220;force&#8221; gender specific things on her. I cringe when I see tiny baby girls with bows stuck to their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When Willa was a baby I had control over what she was wearing, so she was usually covered in blue.</p>
<p><a title="Lets go..... by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/887243696/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1189/887243696_e75e579903.jpg" alt="Lets go....." width="334" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>There are two reasons for this 1) It&#8217;s my favorite color and 2) I never wanted to &#8220;force&#8221; gender specific things on her. I cringe when I see tiny baby girls with bows stuck to their heads.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying I never put her in a dress, or anything pink, but I gravitated towards overalls, and blues and brown.</p>
<p><a title="Fresh by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/2890593320/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3074/2890593320_41d2014f4e.jpg" alt="Fresh" width="345" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>This combined with her lack of hair caused her to be mistaken for a boy until she was about two and her hair started coming in.</p>
<p><a title="Curly by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/3439333531/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3309/3439333531_491f93bea0.jpg" alt="Curly" width="334" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>This also happened to be about the time that Willa started to really show an interest in &#8220;girly&#8221; things- necklaces, skirts, hats, party shoes, etc.</p>
<p><a title="Fashionista by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/3565146360/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3336/3565146360_d2d728001f.jpg" alt="Fashionista" width="375" height="500" /></a></p>
<p><a title="Egg Hunt by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/3442674481/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3607/3442674481_dc19ac5c3b.jpg" alt="Egg Hunt" width="334" height="500" /></a></p>
<p><a title="Dressup by Torrie, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/torrie/3469032774/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3654/3469032774_0f9c9b6a3a.jpg" alt="Dressup" width="334" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>I still had some control though, until recently.</p>
<p>Now, Willa only wants to wear skirts, dresses, and party shoes when I would rather her wear jeans and sneakers. She wants everything to be pink and purple. At first I fought her sometimes, but then I remembered my parenting mantra- pick your battles. Why do I care so much if she is covered in pink? It makes her happy. It&#8217;s how she expresses herself. That&#8217;s all that matters. It&#8217;s one of the many situations where my kid is different from me, and that&#8217;s ok. I need to let go, and let her be her own person.</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;ve started buying some more pink and purple clothes. And when she outgrew her green rain boots, I let Willa pick out pink polka-dot ones to replace them.</p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-218" href="http://shiftinglife.com/2010/07/embracing-the-pink/pink2/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-218" title="Pink2" src="http://shiftinglife.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pink2-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-219" href="http://shiftinglife.com/2010/07/embracing-the-pink/pink4/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-219" title="Pink4" src="http://shiftinglife.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pink4-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-220" href="http://shiftinglife.com/2010/07/embracing-the-pink/pink5/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-220" title="Pink5" src="http://shiftinglife.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pink5-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-221" href="http://shiftinglife.com/2010/07/embracing-the-pink/pink6/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-221" title="Pink6" src="http://shiftinglife.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pink6-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-222" href="http://shiftinglife.com/2010/07/embracing-the-pink/pink/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-222" title="Pink" src="http://shiftinglife.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pink-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>I&#8217;m embracing the pink, and making my kid happy in the process.</p>
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