Shipwrecked on Fabulous Island

WW: The 'I DO' Shoes

2013-06-19T08:00:00.000-04:00

Wordless Wednesdays

First Grade: A Chapter Closed.

2013-06-18T08:00:00.000-04:00

I have to interrupt our Vegas wedding update to report that Munch has closed another major frikkin' chapter in her life.

First grade ends today.

I know what you're wondering and no, don't worry. I'm fine this time (remember my Kindergarten moment last year? Click here for more). I am ok. Well, until I think about it.

Before I get too mushy... I'm happy to report that we are on our way to second grade. We've done a LOT this year!

I always wanted a little girl when I was younger. I dreamed of all the things we would do together.

Because of health issues, I didn't think I could have a child. When I found out that I was expecting, I made a promise to God that, if He would give me a healthy baby, I would be the best mom I could.

My Munch reminds me (even on her sassiest days) just how blessed I am.

She never ceases to amaze me. She is caring and smart and opinionated and outgoing and funny and -- well, she's mine so I could go on for days... Bottom line, she met the challenges of first grade with focus and determination to succeed.

She is excited for second grade but even more excited for summer camp!

Now, if you'll excuse me, I need to go stare at the pictures of my kid because I feel like she's grown SO much over the past year.

There may be more tears.

Masquerade Shower: The Favors

2013-06-17T15:32:00.000-04:00

Thank you for coming on this journey through the Masquerade Bridal Shower.

Let's talk about the favors, shall we?

I wanted to have cute turquoise boxes similar to the signature Tiffany's blue gift box. After all, every woman loves Tiffany's, right?! In lieu of rings and trinkets from the jewelry store, I thought it would be SO cute to have ring-shaped cookies inside. I was so excited to find mini boxes on eBay for $5/24.

To make things even better, I found these fabulous cookies on etsy:

I made a floral square (tutorial coming soon) to create a "gift box" and placed it on top of a mirrored candle stick:

We surrounded the centerpiece with the mini favor boxes like so:

Rather than the cookies (they didn't arrive in time bc I moved and didn't change my shipping address... YES, I was SO sad), I purchased color-coordinating truffles for everyone. They still turned out VERY cute. For the tags, I didn't hole punch, I simply tied the ribbon and glued the tag to the top:

Don't be too sad about the cookies. We used them in Vegas as favors for the ceremony.

Again, thanks for joining me on the recap of the Vegas wedding's events. I'll pick back up with the monogram tutorial and floral block tutorials a little later.

I'm ready to move on to more Vegas wedding updates for a few days!

Come back tomorrow!!

Masquerade Shower: The Games and Fun.

2013-06-14T08:00:00.000-04:00

Guests enjoyed the buffet while we awaited the arrival of our lovely bride. We piled by the entrance and cheered as Deb came strutting through the front door.

To kick things off, I announced that typically masquerades celebrate magic and mystery. This Masquerade is a celebration of our beloved Mrs.-to-Be (get it? MYS-TER-Y and MRS-TO-BE?! LOL, this dork was SO proud of her cheesy self).

I handed Deb her mask.

I ordered a pretty mask off eBay but I wanted to fancy it up with feathers. All it took was gluing craft feathers to the back:

She looked fabulous:

Now, we were ready to begin.

The Ice Breaker

Each guest received a checklist of how they met Deborah. The first person to complete the list won!

Bridal Walk Off

I came up with this game years ago for my sister-in-law's bridal shower. It is always a LOT of fun. Let's just say, the bridal runway walk off got real... Like, really real.

The top 3 came down the aisle in their own special way...

Deb chose a winner and then had to stomp the ~~runway~~ aisle herself:

The Purse Game

After we worked up a sweat from the walk off (you saw the blurry body parts, I told you that it got serious, lol), we played a game where guests dug into their purse for items Gloriana called off a list.

We went through the list and it came down to 2 players. The deciding factor? The picture of the bride. While Shaunita had a pic of the bride (taken with her cell phone at the bridal shower just moments before, lol):

Karen had a picture from her Throwback Thursday Instagram post awhile back in her phone. She was all, "AND WHAT?!"

*Click*

1997?? Folks, we have a winner, lol.

The Toilet Paper Dress

You may recall my Wordless Wednesday post this week:

Well, these ladies were serious about their dress skills. The funny part was the poor model's face. I heard her say, "why is my butt hot, ya'll?!"

When time was up, all of the models struck a pose for the bride to choose the lucky winners.

The team with the ring (pictured below) won:

They didn't use the hot glue gun but they borrowed décor to create accessories (like a belt, a headpiece, a ring and a necklace, lol).

Mask Competition

I set-up a small mask decorating station for guests on the coffee table. I planned to purchase plain craft masks but they were sold 3/pack for $6.00... Uhhhh, SIKE! I bought the bear-shaped craft masks which were sold by the dozen for only $3.00. If someone didn't want the ears, they could cut them off.

I positioned Deb in front of the photo booth area and had the ladies runway walk to her for judging. At the end of the aisle, each guest got their photo taken with the bride. Check out some of the pics:

Our bride chose the winner and then it was time for cake and gifts!

While she opened gifts, I put together a quick rehearsal bouquet.

The tradition is that a member of the bridal party uses supplies from gift wrapping at the bridal shower to create the bride's rehearsal bouquet. In our case, Deb wasn't having a formal rehearsal in Vegas so we used the bouquet in the group photo-op instead.

The Bride-to-be and her Maids:

It truly was a great time for all!

Tune in Monday for the bridal shower favors because we're about to wrap this party up!

Masquerade Shower: The Decor.

2013-06-13T08:00:00.000-04:00

It's time to talk décor! FINALLY!

Entryway Coffee Filter wreath (tutorial here):

Photo booth (with turquoise wrapping paper as backdrop):

Mask decorating station:

Gift table (with ribbon strips to hold circular letters):

Guest book (more information here):

Floral arrangements (tutorial here):

Food and drinks Table (read more here):

Everything turned out gorgeous!

Games and fun coming up! You don't want to miss it :)

WW: The Toilet Paper Dress Game Got Real When...

2013-06-12T08:00:00.000-04:00

Wordless Wednesdays

Masquerade Shower: The Food.

2013-06-11T08:00:00.000-04:00

Deb's Masquerade Bridal Shower was hosted at the mother-of-the-groom's home (her name is Ms. Joy). Between me, Gloriana (the maid of honor), Ms. Joy and Tiara (his sister), there was enough GOOD food for everyone.

Ms Joy (left) Gloriana (right)

Tiara wanted this to be a grown-up affair so she ensured alcohol was on deck.

We had strawberry champagne:

and Jell-O shots:

Yes, Jell-O shots. They were red and turquoise to coordinate with the event's colors. O, you didn't see them? They're over there next to the water, lol:

I hate Jell-O. Like, hate it. That wiggly texture makes me gag... Somehow, if you make the serving size really small... and add cheap alcohol, the Jell-O tastes better... Like delicious almost. I've had Jell-O shots one time before this event. Like I said, it was this tiny little thing with great flavor. Let me tell you, these Jell-O shots were fist-sized and required you to get a little messy. The steps for drinking (eating? slurping? I'm about to puke THINKING about it) grossed a ~~germ-o-phobe like~~ me out:

"Use your pinky nail around the edges to loosen it up." {GROSS}

"Squish the cup together to loosen it up." {GAG}

"Squeeze the cup while slurping the Jello down" {NASTY}

"Use your nail to dig up any excess and repeat."

I'm sorry. I couldn't. I just *pause* could not.

Rather, I sipped on the non-alcoholic punches I brought that just-so-happened (yea right) to match the event colors:

On the buffet, we had chicken wings, mac-n-cheese, green beans, fruit salad, chicken salad, mini meat ball subs and more.

We made pretzel sticks dipped in turquoise candy melts, chocolates and mask-shaped cookies:

O and I can't forget the cake:

I worked with my boo, Misty, to design a topsy-turvy cake. Would you believe that mask is gum paste? It was amazing!!

If you're looking for a talented baker in the northern Virginia area. Contact Misty and tell her I sent you.

I ~~tossed the decorative plastic plant from and dragged it across her main level~~ borrowed one of Ms. Joy's decorative columns to serve as a cake table. All it took was a white tablecloth and red ribbon to make it fabulous!

When it was time to cut the cake, I moved the column front and center. It really worked out well. Deb was able to cut the cake without forcing anyone to move. In the photo below, she is spinning the cake for everyone's camera, lol.

SAY CHEESE:

Hope your day is sweet!

Stay tuned for more shower deets tomorrow.

Masquerade Shower: The Guest Book

2013-06-10T08:00:00.000-04:00

I created a really easy guest book idea using paint chips.

Yes, paint chips.

They're free. They come in a variety of colors. They are made of a heavy card stock and, did I already mention, THEY'RE FREE?!

I used my heart-shaped hole punch to create small hearts in color-coordinating shades:

Next up was the pen.

I wanted the signature pen to make a statement so I added a big feather embellishment (hot glued to the bottom of the pen). Then, I hot glued ribbon around the pen starting just under the pen's top (to prevent it from drying out). I carefully wrapped the ribbon around the pen ensuring there were no spaces between.

Easy, right?

For the guest book table, I used what I could find at Ms. Joy's house. She had a tall candle stand with the small top for a pillar candle to sit. I borrowed one of her pretty plates, placed some tape on the bottom and set it down on top of the candle stand. To tie it in with the rest of the décor, I wrapped a boa around the top and it turned out great!

It provided an area for guests to sign right by the entrance but didn't take up nearly as much space as a table would've. PERFECT!

After the hearts were signed, I created a small little frame for her to place in her office as a keepsake :)

If there were more hearts, I would've painted a tree and used the hearts (folded for a 3-d effect) as leaves similar to this one:

For more guest book ideas, check out the following posts:

Butterfly Guest Book (click here)

Bubble Board Guest Book (click here)

Piggy Bank Guest Book (click here)

Feel to free to click around! There's lots of things to see!!

Centerpiece Tip: The Grid Method.

2013-06-07T08:00:00.000-04:00

Do you remember this photo from yesterday's post?

Today, I'm sharing an easy way to create a floral arrangement. I like to call it:

The Grid Method

1. With masking tape, create a grid on your bowl (my bowl was purchased from the Dollar Tree):

2. Place your flowers and vase filler into the slots. I purchased 1 pack of roses, 2 packs of baby's breath (because it's great filler and very affordable) to create 3 arrangements

3. Cover the outside of your vase or bowl with a piece of boa:

VOILA!

An easy and unique centerpiece without breaking the bank!

I used this same method for the smaller arrangement on the fireplace. The grid really helped to keep flowers in place because I didn't want the mess (or expense) of floral sponge.

Don't you love saving time?

I hope you have a fabulous weekend :)

Thrifty Thursdays: Boa Crafts

2013-06-06T08:00:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another edition of Thrifty Thursdays!

...

With limited time to plan the Mrs.-to-Be Masquerade Bridal Shower, I needed to make my purchases count.

I headed to Michael's with the hopes of purchasing a few boas for crafts.

PAUSE.

Does that price tag say close to $15 each??

UH-UH. NO WAY. NO HOW.

I mean, I would if I had to but I wanted to check a few other sources.

eBay to the rescue! I ordered 3 ombre boas for, get this, $3/each!! They were thick and beautiful and of a VERY high quality and, did I mention, ONLY $3?!

SOLD.

Clearly, Munch loved them!

I used these boas to unify the décor in the space. How you ask?

1. I covered a few Styrofoam balls and hung them in the chandelier above the gift table (you can see one at the bottom of the chandelier in the following pic):

2. I wrapped the base of my cake stand (the stand has polka dots that did not match the décor):

3. I covered the base of the guest book stand :

4. I created a feather monogram (tutorial coming soon):

5. I incorporated them into floral arrangements as filler (tutorial coming soon):

I even reused a boa in the photo booth at the reception. It was pretty much the craft supply that just kept on giving!

Who would've thought I'd pay 1/3 of the price, get triple the amount with a better quality SIMPLY by ordering online?

Sounds like reason enough to do a Thrifty Thursday celebration dance :)

Have you found any good deals lately?

Do share!

WW: The Masquerade Shower Cake

2013-06-05T08:00:00.000-04:00

Wordless Wednesdays

Hula Hoop Chandelier.

2013-06-04T12:55:00.003-04:00

Can we talk about lanterns?

I feel the same way about lanterns as I do about poms. All things should add to the décor and make a statement. The most powerful statements are those made when décor elements are done on a large scale or grouped together. Something about random lanterns or poms sloppily dangling from the ceiling gives me hives.

For example, if I have 5 poms, rather than scatter them all over a room, I'll hang them in a particular area to create a focal point.

Check out this lantern grouping I did for a client's wedding a few years back:

It was awesome and, focusing the placement over the dance floor only, really helped to bring the eye toward the party area.

ANYHOO...

For the Masquerade bridal shower, I wanted a focal point. I also wanted to try something new. I came up with a chandelier idea. A cluster of poms, lanterns, pinwheels and feathers over the gift table.

How could I create such a thing?

As usual, I ran to my local Dollar Tree for the answer. There were small hula hoops and it hit me!

I could use the hoop as the base for my chandelier! It's large enough to support the weight and to define the scale.

Hula Hoop Chandelier

Supplies

- Tissue Paper Poms

- Pinwheels (paper décor sold at any party store)

- Paper lanterns

- Fishing wire

- Feather boa

- Duct tape

Step-by-Steps

1. Assemble décor elements for hanging according to package instructions

2. Use duct tape to create a grid in your hula hoop's center like so:

The duct tape grid will simplify spacing and ensure ease-of-hanging for the décor elements.

3. Using your fishing wire, hang your larger décor elements within the hula hoop grid. Be careful of spacing and varying height.

Note: for some of the heavier items, place the string through the desired space but tie it securely to the frame of the hula hoop rather than the duct tape.

4. Working from the largest to smallest décor items, fill in gaps with the other décor elements.

My order went as follows:

Tissue poms

Lanterns

Feather Poms (the heaviest items)

Pinwheels

Your chandelier is DONE!

5. Use a non-abrasive clear tape to adhere it to the ceiling

6. Cover the tape with the boa, I simply tucked the boa around the edges of the hula hoop

It was a conversation piece and, rather than skimping with little items all over the ceiling, I made 1 statement over the gift table.

Remember: it's better to have the right décor make a BIG statement than it is to have a lot of décor say nothing at all.

If I'm going to spend my time and money on décor, it needs to serve my event well. In this case, I was pleased with the product but I was more pleased that others wanted to use it as a backdrop for memories.

When you make something, make it count.

So...

Have you broken the mold with a craft? Share your posts or ideas in the comments section.

You know I just loves me some comments!

Mama-Made Monday: Pinwheel Banner

2013-06-03T14:46:00.001-04:00

I've mentioned how I didn't have a LOT of time to plan the Mrs.-To-Be Masquerade Shower. I thought about outsourcing the décor and quickly changed my mind.

I was just shocked at how expensive crafty party goods are!

With the masquerade theme, I wanted to have ruffles and pleats and feathers and sparkles... I knew I wanted a personalized banner. I also knew, however, I did NOT want to pay a whole lot of money for something I could make myself.

Islanders, I'm going to show you the how-to and then tell you how-much to have one made.

Pleated Banner Tutorial

Supplies

- Scrapbook letters

- Pre-Cut circles (sold at Michael's in the paper section near pennant triangles)

- 50lb cardstock

- Hot glue/gun

- Tape

Step-by-Steps

1. Fold your cardstock paper like an accordion. Sidebar: as an ashy-kneed kid, we'd fold paper like this to create a fan (if you're like me, that's a great way to understand the folding technique):

2. Fold your "accordion" paper in half like so:

3. Line one side of the center fold (where the sides meet) with glue:

VOILA, you've create a pleated semi-circle!

4. Repeat steps 1-3 with another piece of cardstock.

5. Glue the flat sides of two pleated semi-circles to create:

6. Dab glue in the center of 1 pre-cut circle:

7. Place one letter on top of the circle:

Shall we recap?

Fold and glue for a pleated semi-circle:

Glue two semi-circles together:

Top with a circle and a letter:

Easy right?!

Rather than string them together for hanging, I simply adhered them to the wall with a non-abrasive tape. They are LARGE and made an awesome statement in the room :)

I LOVE IT!

Our bride loved it too:

After the shower, this wall became a photo-op:

I've made banners like this a few times and they're always a hit. If you decide to make one, be smarter than I - save your circles for future events!! Folding those papers is an easy task but it takes some time!

Now, are you ready for the price to have someone make it?

The photographed banner is half the size of ours and says "Bride To Be." It costs $28 plus shipping. Don't believe me? Check out the listing here.

$28?!

I know.

It's just another reason I'm PROUD to be a crafty nerd.

See you tomorrow with more Masquerade Shower updates!

Mrs.-To-Be Masquerade: The Plan.

2013-05-31T15:02:00.001-04:00

Deborah teetered on the idea of having a bridal shower. She wanted to avoid being a financial and emotional burden on those around her. She also worried the expense of having her ceremony guests fly out to Vegas was gift enough for the couple.

It wasn't until 2 weeks before the *tentatively* scheduled event that I had a final nod to proceed with planning her bridal shower. I had very little time to collect my thoughts. I knew I wanted to use her wedding colors to create a fun-filled and pretty event.

Here's what I came up with:

Colors: Red & Turquoise

Theme: Masquerade

Details: Feather poms, crafty chandelier of poms and lanterns, mask decorating, artwork guest book, photo-op area

I needed to send the word out QUICKLY. So, off to etsy I went. I found a designer (check her out here)who offered a digital file for print at an affordable price. I made a few minor tweaks and loved how they turned out!! They really set the tone for a fabulous event:

With this plan and a few sketches of my ideas, I was all set.

WAIT

THE REALITY CHECK

- I got word to proceed the week we were scheduled to close on the new house. I packed and planned simultaneously

- The event occurred the weekend after we moved into the new house. I unpacked what we needed to survive and left the rest until after I ~~crafted, planned, lost sleep and~~ hosted the bridal shower

- The event was hosted at the Mother-of-the-Groom's home. She wanted to give her dining room a fresh coat of paint to make it presentable for guests. I painted her dining room the weekend and day before the shower. WHAT?! When people are kind enough to offer their home, I make it as easy as possible on them :)

As you can see, life got crazy but rest assured it all worked out ;)

Stay tuned for the event breakdown. It's going to be fun!

WW: Mom, What Is That?!

2013-05-30T12:45:00.000-04:00

Wordless Wednesdays: It dropped in through the sunroof!!!

An inch worm, Munch.

Flowers: Keeping Them Alive.

2013-05-28T11:38:00.001-04:00

Hello, Islanders! This is my last post about the house for a week or so.

Why?!

Well, because I'm finally ready to share the Vegas Wedding's events (bridal shower, wedding, reception, etc.). That's why.

Anyhoo...

Saturday was a great day; my peonies bloomed!

We've discussed how I don't have a green thumb on either hand (check out that post here). I would, however, like to announce that I do know how to maintain fresh cut flowers. It may sound crazy to hear but I'm good at caring for flowers that will inevitably die... OK, I admit it felt weird to type it... but trust me.

Tips:

1. Use warm water. It helps your flowers continue to fully bloom before dying

2. Cut the base of the stems at an angle. Rather than cutting straight across, angle your scissors upward. It helps the stems continue to absorb the water after being cut

3. Trim 1-2 inches off the bottom of your stems before placing them in water. If your stems are long enough to spare, trim an inch off the bottom every 2 days

4. Place flowers in areas with indirect sunlight

5. Use a hydrating solution (see my recipe below)

3 Steps to Long Lasting Floral Arrangements

Combine the following into your vase, cup or jar:

- Equal parts water and 7Up

- Teaspoon of bleach

VOILA!

Follow these tips and your cut flowers will last 1-3 weeks. I know and you're welcome.

I am so excited to enjoy the blooms I've inherited in our 30 yr old gardens. As the seasons change, I love having such gorgeous flowers (peonies, roses, tulips, hydrangea, lilies and so many more)!! What makes it even better is that I don't have to really work at it; God scheduled when the flowers will bloom. Another miracle I am grateful for (especially with those cicadas buzzing around).

Check out my latest arrangement on the family room coffee table (well, before I moved 10 times and finally decided on the the kitchen table).

Aren't peonies just lovely?!

I hope you have a beautiful day blooming with happiness!

Coming Up: The Reception!

2013-05-25T08:00:00.000-04:00

Tomorrow, my dear friends, Deb and Chaz, will celebrate their union with an intimate reception. I'm helping the bride execute her vision. Some of my tasks include: creating a unique dessert display, crystal floral pom centerpieces, a few signs and banners and

A PHOTOBOOTH!

With all of my tasks for the reception, I needed to find ways to save time.

THANK YOU, INTERNET!!

Don't you love the sign? Guess what? It's FREE!!!

Download yours here.

I can't wait to share the other ideas we came up with. This reception should be loads of fun!

Hope you enjoy your weekend!

House Update - Family Room

2013-05-24T09:35:00.000-04:00

By now, you know I'm a slacker about unpacking my clothes in the new house. However, despite some crazy life happenings, I did unpack 1 bag this weekend. One bag?!

I've been speaking of the house more often here lately so I figured it's about time that I provide you guys with an official house update.

But first...

Rewind: In our last home, I rushed to furnish and to decorate. I wanted to fill the space with décor. I bought pictures and tchotchke and painted and... Honestly, I changed my mind all the time. I had to realize I was buying things for everyone but our little family. Somewhere deep inside, I worried with impressing visitors and wanted the magazine-worthy house. Reality check, Tabitha:

1. I'll never have that magazine-worthy budget.

2. It doesn't suit my family's style.

Long story short, because my purchases never made me happy, I was never satisfied. I thought my lack of satisfaction was just a result of a search for my décor style. As a result, I bought more. I've had every décor style at some point over the last 10 years - from Asian-inspired to shabby chic. I've been a little country, a little rock-n-roll, a little modern, a little traditional, a little cottage...

In this house, I'm taking my time. I'm calculating my every move. I'm thinking about how I want the space to look before I proceed to buy.

I think it's working.

We were in the new house for 6 weeks before I put my first holes in the walls. Seriously, we had nothing on the walls and no décor out until I was ready.

Ready for what? Well, ready to answer 2 very important questions for every room:

1. What is this room's purpose for my family?

2. What colors make sense for the space?

In the family room, I wanted colors that made me happy (spring green and cheery yellow) to be balanced with the comfort of soft gray and tried-and-true blue.

I didn't see this combination before I started decorating; the room just evolved. Our family room is a place where we relax, have fun, enjoy each other... It's the place where we spread Uno cards and puzzle pieces on the floor.

I want it to be perfect. For us.

The Update: In a recent Ross shopping trip, I found pillows that were comfortable yet structured and brought the sunshine in. I found some cute artwork that had a little meaning and would fill the space over the loveseat perfectly. I bought it all and excitedly started to shape the design of the family room.

It's coming together nicely.

These colors make me happy. They also brighten the space and give it a casual comfortable feel. I know it's working because, as I've settled into this room, I notice others gravitate there also.

My family room is welcoming? Mission accomplished.

Now, sure, I haven't purchased curtains yet and I have a lot of walls to cover and the t.v. isn't mounted over the fireplace but I'm excited at the possibilities. I'm enjoying it's imperfectness because I know it's potential.

I've got plans for this room - BIG ~~time-consuming and intimidating~~ plans. I'm embracing the idea that taking my time doesn't mean I'm not productive. It simply means I care enough to do it right. The first time. Well, for now.

In the meanwhile, I'll just enjoy my little pillows and pictures. Not only because they look great but because they make me feel great.

What colors make you feel great?

Have you incorporated them into your décor?

I'll be sure to post pics of the family room soon enough. Sorry!

WW: Happy Color Palette

2013-05-15T23:57:00.001-04:00

Wordless Wednesdays: this color palette makes me happy. Stay tuned to see where I'm using it in the new house!

iPod?! iCant.

2013-05-13T22:46:00.000-04:00

While waiting on my flight in the Vegas airport, I received an iMessage.

"Dear Mommy, I hope you had fun at the wedding."

I responded:

"Did Munch write that?"

The response I received was a major shocker for me:

"Yes mommy I did. Pop-Pop bought me an iPod."

WAIT. He did WHAT?! An iPod?!

iCant.

Now, back in MY day, my father would NEVER purchase me an iPod. I got my first MP3 player as a High School Senior. She is 6. MESSAGING ME?

Again, back in MY day, the ONLY thing an iPod did was play music and maybe a movie. Sure, one could easily change the views of how the information was sorted (by title, by artist, by type, etc.) but now? The iPod does everything the iPhone and iPad do EXCEPT make phone calls (though, it does FaceTime AND, with the Skype app, you can make phone calls).

At first, I gave Pop-Pop a side eye (Seriously?! 6?! With an iPod?). Then, ~~she told me he did it because he's the BEST Pop-Pop in the world and she loves him~~ I watched her sound out her words before she texted her Tati. I answered her questions about how to spell bigger words and I was happy to see those same words spelled correctly in her school stories. The iPod has reading apps, math practice, phonics lessons and brings our Munch smiles.

It's very funny. She facetimes me all the time. She will get up and run out of the room into the next one JUST to call and chat... About nothing.

The iPod enables communication between Munch and me (now the bathroom REALLY isn't an escape)...

Once, she was laying beside me and Facetimed me to ask,

"Mommy, who is that next to you?"

"GIRL, it's you!!"

"O" *giggles*

Even the iMessages have brought many laughs.

The Scene: We arrive to her before-school care facility and I'm waiting on her to get out of the car. She tosses her iPod into the cup holder and hops out. When I returned to my car, I had THIS waiting for me on my cell:

LOL. She had the nerve to look annoyed that afternoon and when I hadn't responded.

The iPod is bringing her great joy. Seeing her smile brings me great joy.

Have the grandparents (or aunts or god parents or friends) purchased a toy you THOUGHT would be a problem and it's turned out to be a GREAT investment?

I gotta go. My kid is iMessaging me.

Matters of My Heart.

2013-05-10T12:52:00.003-04:00

This past Tuesday, my life was interrupted.

I received a phone call from Patient First that my mommy:

... was rushed to the hospital.

That's about all the information they could give.

I needed more.

Which hospital?

What happened?

Who was there with her?

Panic. My lack of knowledge sent my mind into a whirlwind of questions and worry. It all came to a head when I finally heard her voice. I just sobbed and fussed that I was "WORRIED SICK ABOUT [HER] AND COULDN'T FIND [HER] AND DIDN'T KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON AND--"

"Aww, Tabby. I'm okay."

The past few days have been scary.

We kept our spirits high. We prayed. Shoot, I sounded the alarm to our church family and other prayer warriors to do the same.

Islanders, I am happy to report that my mom is home.

Yep, home.

...With her pups, her comfortable arm chairs, her junky closet, Dad (her personal chef and fussy doctor)...

Yep, she's home and just in time for Mother's Day.

Home.

My mommy gave me the best Mother's Day gift ever.

She survived. We survived.

Reminder: this Sunday, May 12, is Mother's Day.

Can I make some special requests?

If you pray, when you pray, can you send one up for my sweet mommy's heart? Also, can you join me in praying for those who do not have the opportunity to shower their mom with love this holiday?

You can?!

Consider the uncertainty of tomorrow reason enough to disconnect your electronics to reconnect with the people who matter most!

Umbrella Sharing - A Love Story Continued.

2013-05-09T08:00:00.000-04:00

Islanders, I have another sweet story from the life of my sweet parents.

Mom worked with Hubbs to surprise Dad with the car he's always wanted.

On May 1, we all had our missions. I was tasked with procuring the big red bow:

And putting the car in position:

Dad heard about a new restaurant, Bistro Bethem. Hubbs, Munch and I walked in the new restaurant (unsure of whether we should crash the dinner). When I saw how intimate the place was I ducked, snatching the kid, I ran out of the restaurant.

It was official, we crashed their anniversary.

Shh! They didn't see us. Hubbs spoke to the manager. The manager walked over the table and told Mom she had a phone call.

Disclaimer: Dad's been yelping (learn more here). He writes reviews for everything. Apparently, when the manager said someone called, Dad thought it was because his yelping was having a huge impact. Matter of fact, he announced it to the restaurant staff and those at neighboring tables.

Anyhoo...

Mom returned to the table and told him that Brian and I were fussing; we needed to talk to him right now.

He came out as if to diffuse a situation...

"Hey guys, what's going on?"

Me: Have you seen the new car he got?

Dad: Yea, it's a nice car, son.

Hubbs: Man, walk with me...

Hubbs: She's mad that I got this car ... and you got that one *points to the new car*

Do you see his face? He definitely stood like that (eyes closed, tears falling, lip puckered) for a FULL minute.

Then he stood like this:

Then, he backed up... Speechless.

Mom took the keys from Brian and said, "I got it for you, honey. I got the car for you... Happy anniversary!"

Still, no words from Dad.

Then, FINALLY, he had words.

The man said he would... uh... return the favor later... With "quality time."

Back to silence...

It was a sweet moment enjoyed by all of the staff, the patrons, passers by and, luckily, my little family.

I've never seen my Dad sob. My mom has never been able to surprise Dad. He just knows too much. Once again, however, I learned something from my parents.

In this instance, I learned romance should not be the responsibility of one party in any relationship; it's okay to surprise the guy sometimes.

My parents don't live a life without storms. They have, however, chosen to share the same umbrella during the storms.

I love love.

FYI - I also love a good laugh so, yes, I did send this picture with this face to the entire family. I just can't stop giggling at that lip pucker! We got him SO good!

I needed that smile.

Have a LOVE-filled Thursday :)

Quick and Affordable Teacher Appreciation Gift Ideas

2013-05-08T16:31:00.001-04:00

I hold teachers in the highest regard. They are up there with law enforcement, first responders, medical professionals, etc.

While I think teachers are super heroes, there is NOTHING like the dedication of a called teacher. What do I mean by called? Some people teach for the career of teaching while others have a calling to teach. It's what they love.

Munch's teacher is called. She is informative, honest, responsive, caring... She checks on us, the parents, to ensure we work to help Munch understand concepts she's learning in class. She emails every Friday with details of what the class has covered in each subject. She writes notes in Munch's agenda several times a week specific to her progress. She encourages my daughter in such a way that makes Munch rush home to announce things like, "Ms. Hopper said I read beautifully."

To show our thanks for everything Ms. Hopper does, we made a quick and easy treat. Munch gave me the low down.

Ms. Hopper likes chocolate (and loves fudge).

Ms. Hopper likes coffee (and loves Starbucks).

Ms. Hopper's favorite color is purple.

We baked Ghiradelli double chocolate brownies:

We bought a Starbucks gift card and the new Starbucks reusable cup (only $1)!

We baked the brownies according to package directions. After the brownies cooled, I used the Pam spray top and used it to cut circles in the brownie pan. I know it sounds weird but the Pam top was the perfect size for the brownies to fit in the cup and the flexible plastic top made it easy to wiggle the brownie out.

I placed two brownie circles per cupcake wrapper and stacked them before placing them in the cup like so:

I then put a wrapper on top to ensure they didn't dry out overnight.

Munch painted a picture (using craft paint and Q-tips), I used one of my scrap wedding invitations and I think it turned out really cute.

A picture, a thank you painting and a Starbucks gift card... Perfect! We tied it up pretty:

Bagged up the treats:

It was ready to go!

Munchface was so excited to take our gifts to her amazing teacher, Ms. Hopper.

Do you know a teacher? Has someone taught you something? THANK THEM TODAY.

So, how are you showing appreciation for the hard work of teachers? Need other ideas? Check out my post from last year here.

WW: KidzBop Baths.

2013-05-08T08:00:00.000-04:00

Wordless Wednesdays: Munch loves her KidzBop and plays it often.

... Sometimes while she bathes. JAMMING!

Bags, Boxes, Bins - The Disconnect.

2013-05-07T11:03:00.003-04:00

As you know, we bought a new house.

Hubbs tightening the new formal dining chair legs.

I've been traveling for work.

No one told me it's impossible to look cool with a laptop bag and a sticker nametag on.

I planned a bridal shower and a bachelorette party.

Banner tutorial coming soon!

Favor table tutorial coming soon!

Partyin' in Vegas.

I was the Matron of Honor in my sister-friend's wedding in Las Vegas.

Quick tutorial coming soon!

It's been a lot in the past 6 weeks.

A lot.

Islanders, I have a confession.

I haven't unpacked my clothes yet.

*gasp*

Hear me out! At first, it was because we purchased a new bedroom set so we had no furniture. Huh? Uh... Why yes, the new bedroom furniture arrived (like 3 weeks ago).

Pic from the store's magazine

No, I haven't put any of my clothes in the dresser. Yes, the clothes are still in bags, bins and boxes all over the floor.

Yes, I hate it.

No, my hate hasn't driven me to fix it.

UNTIL NOW.

See, I've got a horrible habit of doing the most for others and neglecting myself. As I mentioned in the Bucket List post (here), I am no longer going to apologize for taking care of me and mine.

I am going to take this week to disconnect from the world when I leave the office. I will not answer phone calls. I will not respond to emails. I will not do anything other than unpack my clothes and make my master bedroom pretty.

I've always focused on every room besides my bedroom. In our other homes, it became a hodge-podge catchall of decor and random bedding. Simply put, it became a major source of stress for me (as long as it's clean, the man could care less *eye roll*).

This time, I want our room to be our oasis. You know, our escape from life's stress... Our personal romantic getaway. To make this happen, I'm going to put some work into the master bedroom upfront.

Islanders, please excuse me while I unplug from the world in an effort to make progress around my home.
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With my work around the house, Teacher Appreciation Week and Mother's Day upon us, I'm going to pick up with the Vegas posts after we discuss some last minute gift ideas. Stay tuned!
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Are you holding yourself back?