Daydreams & Misadventures

Kota Kinabalu | It’s not the place but the company that matters.

2017-09-02T19:25:00.000+08:00

This blog entry was supposed to be entitled “Don’t tell my mom I paid $400 to climb Mt. Kinabalu”. But I guess every travel has its own course of surprising us with more exciting events than one has ever planned.

If you aren't interested with my story, you can now skip from here and proceed down below for our Kota Kinabalu budget breakdown and sample itinerary.

Rising 4095+ MASL in the island of Borneo is Mt. Kinabalu, considered to be the highest mountain in Southeast Asia.

My travel buddies and I have been chatting about climbing three major mountains in Asia before arthritis hits us. First on our list obviously is Mt. Kinabalu since it’s the most EAR (Easy, Affordable and Realistic) next to Mt. Fuji and Mt. Everest. Very timely, Cebu Pacific Air announced a piso fare promo and right away I invited two of them to ‘a yet to be memorable trip’ to Kota Kinabalu.

I’m certain that we’re fit to climb so I booked a round-trip ticket in June, and we’re excited at the same time because it falls on our birthday. We barely have 4 months to prepare for the trip and we had this notion that relatively it’s easy to climb Mt. Kinabalu compared to the major climbs we’ve done here in the Philippines. However, one of my friends who already climbed Mt. Kinabalu shared that it’s technically tough because of the high altitude, the temperature and the climb fee will cost us a bit of fortune.

Well, we didn’t lose hope until our most anticipated day arrived. But our flight schedules got moved to later dates and the weather seems to be in conspiracy too. Hence, summiting Mt. Kinabalu up to this date is still on our bucket list.

Celebrated my birthday for the first time in the airport.

Since we have a couple of days left unplanned, we thought we might just hit the beach and explore nearby scenic spots. Fortunately, I found a generous host through Couchsurfing and we were also joined by old and new friends we met along the way that really made this trip one for the books.

I love KK.

Most people think travelling abroad is a luxury. It's true but there are also many ways to manage your expenses and avoid spending beyond your budget. Want to know the secrets? Well, that would be in another blog post. But a great example to that was our recent trip to Kota Kinabalu, except from climbing Mt. Kinabalu, here are some valid reasons why you should come explore Kota Kinabalu someday without worrying about the cost.

A laid back vacation

Considered as the capital of the state of Sabah, Kota Kinabalu is located Southwest of the Philippine archipelago and just a 2-hour flight from Manila. We arrived at around 1:30AM at Kota Kinabalu International Airport and decided to wait until morning before we head to the city.

I slept well at the airport and yeah I can now tick off another item on my bucket list.

At 7:00AM, we were picked up by Vanessa’s sister, Danica, who drove us from the airport to their home. We spent a few hours to rest and fix ourselves while waiting for Vanessa who came all the way from Sandakan just to meet us. Soon as Vanessa arrived we set off to start the adventure but since she hasn’t secured her license yet, her cousin Alfredo drove for us.

Abby, Me, Vanessa and Alfredo. Thanks Nez for taking the photo.

First stop is Ranau. A town located in Sabah on the island of Borneo about 2hrs drive to East of Kota Kinabalu. There we saw the foot of Mt. Kinabalu, a quick stopover at Kinabalu Park, visited a World War II memorial site, bought some milk and yoghurt ice cream at a farm, and lastly tried their famous Sabah tea. All locations require a very minimal entrance fee between 5-10RM.

Desa Cattle Dairy Farm offers a breathtaking view of Mt. Kinabalu.

The real attraction is the cattle farm that produces fresh milk & their yoghurt ice cream is a must try.

Kundasang War Memorial, a park dedicated to soldiers who died during their death march to Ranau.

No trip to the Sabah Tea Garden would be complete without a taste of Sabah's finest tea.

At night, we ate dinner at UpperStar Cafe & Bar and to celebrate new friendships we drank a few ounces of beers. Vanessa also introduced us to her best friend Tan who’s currently on vacation as a seafarer and an engineer.

Friendly reminder, alcoholic drinks are generally expensive in Malaysia. Vanessa for it anyway.

Of course, dinner first before anything else. Forgot what it's called but worth your money.

Next morning, Vanessa had to leave for work but asked Tan to accompany us going to the beach. Being the good friend and by our request Tan could no longer say no.

Island hopping in Kota Kinabalu may be the most recommended thing to do if you’re not into hiking or long drives. The city of Kota Kinabalu itself is surrounded by small islands that offer clear water, sandy beaches, snorkelling experience and other water sports activities. Moreover, island hopping allows tourists to see more than one island in a day for only 150RM. The 20-minute speedboat ride from Jesselton Point (thought it was just normal speedboat but heck no, it’s super-fast) will take you to explore Manukan Island, Sapi Island and Mamutik Island.

Jesselton, former name of Kota Kinabalu. At Jesselton Point is where you take the boat to the islands.

You can judge the beauty of Sapi island by looking at my face. Kidding, just look how clear is the water.

One can explore the islands by taking a short hike and get a better view of the coast.

At Manukan Island, unfortunately the waves are quite strong so we didn't get to enjoy swimming.

If nature tripping isn't really your thing, worry not because there are other places you can visit around the city and that are accessible by walking. Some sites includes: the Gaya Street Sunday Market, Grand Mosque, Signal Hill, City Clock Tower and the Sabah Museum.

Back in the city, we were later joined by my old friend Rosy and her new found friend Tom. Rosy has been travelling Asia for months already hoping to fill her passport with stamps one country after the other. Meanwhile, Tom is an English teacher in Vietnam who is currently on vacation and exploring Sabah for the first time. These two completed the trip and made every conversation extra fun.

The Kota Kinabalu City Mosque is surrounded by man-made lagoon which gives a dramatic look,

Wondering what's in our background? That's a Bryde's Whale Skeleton & the biggest of its kind.

Atkinson Clock Tower was built in 1905, an all-wood and no-nails structure.

Held every Sunday, the Gaya Street is closed off to traffic to make way for local vendors.

Signal Hill is highest point in KK with an amazing view that extends to its outlying islands.

Food exploration

It's no surprise that apart from its natural wonders, Kota Kinabalu boasts a wide variety of food choices that will surely satisfy everyone’s pallete. From Malay to Chinese cuisines you can be adventurous with your order and all at very affordable prices.

Right down our hostel is a local food house where we mostly dine during our stay.

Kitchai -- lemonade with sour plum, and fried Kiew Tiaw. Best combi everrrrr!

Good food and good company.

Traditional Hainanese Chicken Rice.

I don't eat pork but they said it's really good. Sasau -- roast pork in sweet sauce.

Saunyuk -- one of our favorites.

Malaysia's largest halal-certified kopi tiam restaurant chain, and one of the best.

Don't look at me. Find that food house behind me, they cook the best Bah Kut Teh in KK.

Pork rib dish cooked in broth infused with herbs. You don't want to miss this, swear!

We took photos but we didn't try Sayap Bakar, and I'm asking myself why?

Aside from being so generous with his time and driving us around the city, Tan might consider an alternative career while off duty – a food guide. He knows very well where are the best restaurants and what food to order that suits our big stomachs. He treated us also to an exotic meal at D'Place Kinabalu. Who would have thought live worms can be this delicious? Also, you should not miss eating ‘butod pizza' and try their local rice wine called ‘tapai’.

Welcomed by a colorful cultural performance at D' Place Kinabalu restaurant.

Game face on! While waiting for the 'butod' to be served.

Want the truly exotic? Give the sago worms, or butod, a try! Not for the faint hearted.

The more fancy way to serve 'butod'.

Local rice wine known as Tapai.

It’s always the people you’re sharing the experience with...

I have been to quite number of places local and abroad but what I would remember after every trip are the anecdotes and the misadventures. The place was just the background. Indeed, there is no perfect vacation. In every trip, something would really go wrong but as long as you enjoy the company of your travel buddies, every trip would be a pleasure. Wherever you are, wherever that place may be, no matter how expensive or cheap, the company of happy and generous people will never fail.

Wish we had more time with Danica and her cats. Thanks for the warm welcome.

Couldn't be more thankful to Vanessa and Alfredo for the amazing tour.

Tom, Rosy, Nez, Me and Abby. Til our next travel guys!

We hate to say goodbye to Tan *sepanx* but he'll surely have friends when he visit PH.

BUDGET BREAKDOWN:

Particulars	Amount in Philippine Peso
Airfare	1,474
Travel Tax	1,620
3 Nights Lodging (Xplorer Backpackers)	654
Food Expenses (4D/3N)	1,840
Tour Expenses (Entrance fees)	690
Pasalubong (Coffee)	330
Unaccounted Expenses	370
TOTAL	6,978

SAMPLE ITINERARY:

June 23 (Friday)

TIME	LOCATION / ACTIVITY
08:00PM	Meet up NAIA Terminal 3
11:30PM	ETD Manila to Kota Kinabalu Terminal 1

June 24 (Saturday)

TIME	LOCATION / ACTIVITY
01:30AM	ETA Kota Kinabalu International Airport Terminal 1
02:30AM	Sleep Airport
08:00AM	Shuttle service to city proper
09:00AM	Check-in Hotel / Wash up / Breakfast
10:00AM	Meet Vanessa and drive to Ranau (Kinabalu Park)
12:00NN	Lunch
01:00AM	ETA Kinabalu Park
06:00PM	Back to the city
06:00PM	Night market / Dinner / Socials
10:00PM	Back to hotel

June 25 (Sunday)

TIME	LOCATION / ACTIVITY
06:00AM	Call time / Breakfast
07:00AM	Gaya Street Sunday Market
09:00AM	Island hopping at Tunku Abdul Rahman Park (Sapi Island, Gaya Island, Mamutik Island, Manukan Island and Sulug Island) * The TARP is accessible via 15-20mins. speedboat ride from Kota Kinabalu. The departure and arrival point for the boat transfers is at the Jesselton Point Ferry Terminal, situated next to the Malaysia Royal Custom Department. Boat transfers to the islands are available daily from 7.30am to 5pm.
06:00PM	Night market / Dinner / Socials
09:00PM	Back to hotel

June 26 (Monday)

TIME	LOCATION / ACTIVITY
07:00AM	Call time / Breakfast
08:00AM	Kiulu White Water Rafting Centre or Tanjung Aru Beach, The Police Beach and the likes
12:00NN	Lunch
01:00PM	City Tour · Tun Mustapha 2^nd tallest building in Sabah · Sabah State Museum (includes the Heritage Village of traditional houses, a Museum of Islamic Civilization, a science center, and an art gallery) · City Mosque & Chinese Temple Signal Hill (highest point in Kota Kinabalu)
07:00PM	Last minute tour around the city
10:00PM	Travel to Kota Kinabalu Int’l Airport Terminal 1

June 27 (Tuesday)

TIME	LOCATION / ACTIVITY
12:00AM	Check-in Kota Kinabalu Int’l Airport Terminal 1
02:15AM	ETD Kota Kinabalu to Manila
04:15AM	ETA NAIA Terminal 3

Most photos if not all were taken by Nez. And to see more of our travel photos follow us on Instagram @nicodino.ph @wheretonez and @abibaaaaay. Terimah kasih and hope this inspires you to travel more. See you around!

Start the Year Right with CMR5

2017-01-31T22:24:00.001+08:00

Color Manila Run Year 5

08 January 2017

Mall of Asia Grounds

Hello! It’s 2017 and for me it means taking things in to the next level. Told myself to be committed in various fitness activities, join a half or maybe a full marathon, maintain my healthy diet, plan a year-long weekend travels and completing 6-8 hours of sleep everyday. Well, what could be a better start but to simply run while having some fun.

Since it was launched in the country 5 years ago, I’ve been wanting to join the Color Manila race. So in its 5^th year anniversary, and yet to be the grandest with American Native Indian inspired theme, I promised to join. And, I must say it was the most colorful run of my life.

It was not an ordinary but a festive race. It was filled with music and, not to mention, celebrities. Participants wore sunglasses and colorful head gears, some even dressed up for fun. Organizers and volunteers have also gone extra mile to make sure that runners will have a good time as they pass by each color station while being poured with bright color powders. Each station is unique and some runners prefer to stop in every station just to take photos.

More than finishing the race, it’s the running itself that really made the race a memorable one – from the gun start to crossing the finish line. It did not require us to compete with the other runners, you just have to give your best and run, jog, or walk without the pressure of being the first to finish the race. At the end of the race, all of the participants received their own medals whichever category they participated. So there was really no pressure at all, and yet I was able to finish at my best time with the unofficial time of 47mins for the 10km race category.

Crossing the finish line without stain of either pink, blue, yellow and green color powders would make you look like a total loser. But well, the fun doesn’t end after you reached the finish line. The real fun is just about to start with the after-party, and in fact, more color powders and more music awaits. The heck! It was crazy and super-duper awesome; it was a dance revolution. I had the best party of my life together with my friends and cousins.

Oh well, looking forward to next year’s Color Manila race. See you there! But before that here are some outtakes during the after-party.

I Got Lost and Found Myself Wandering in Thailand

2017-01-22T18:06:00.000+08:00

It’s not me physically, it’s my inner self who needed a change of environment. The daily grind at work was eroding away my desire to get up in the morning. Working in media ever since was something that did not sit very well with my passion, the novelty of being a producer and getting paid enormously to create informative programs failed to retain its appeal several months down the line.

Besides, the everyday backlash against our government, Filipinos turning themselves into murderers, social media bombarded with hate crimes, foreign capitalists continuously ruling the economy, workers fighting their way through horrendous traffic every single day... hell yeah what a great time to be alive in the Philippines!

Well, what could be a better solution but to travel, and to me, Thailand seemed like the most obvious destination. Sun, sea, sand, shopping, but most importantly somewhere quite far from home. It would be improbable that I would want a quick return so I booked (luckily there’s a promo fare) an 8-day vacation. This is not to escape reality but I heard that those who go traveling sometimes do so in an attempt to find a new purpose in life, or to simply regain whatever they may have lost. Moreover, I was thrilled because I signed up for a marathon, but was apprehensive at the same time because apparently it’s my first time to travel solo offshore.

Hence, Thailand itself is renowned for first-time backpackers where inner zen can be found for those who are said to become enlightened within their own existence -- exactly what I needed! So I bet my life and months of savings to pursue this trip with just one backpack and vitamin C.

Walking is the best way to explore

Weeks and eventually days passed by, I’m off to go. Roughly three hours and twenty minutes from Manila’s Ninoy Aquino International Airport before I finally set foot at Suvarnabhumi Airport in Bangkok. I was jittery at first, but thankfully I was able to manage my way through the immigration and find my ride to start this yet to be memorable adventure -- I have a good feeling.

First of all, I decided not to spend my days in Bangkok, my initial plan was to immerse myself in one of the cultural heartlands of the country, after all, I did not see the point of arriving somewhere a thousand miles away and the time zone an hour late to where I had come from, to simply carry on living as I would do at home. So I began my journey and took another one-hour land travel in the eastern province of Chonburi. I did not mind plotting my itinerary, after all, I was just in pursuit for a fresh milieu to signify a break from my dreary daily routine.

My first day ended as it had begun with an endless walk on the streets of Chonburi City. As I explore it became difficult to admire the beauty of my surroundings as I found myself fighting a constant battle against the sweat from my forehead and the forces of gravity. I decided to find a local food house where I can find shade and eat my very first authentic Thai dish. I was looking forward to eat big (something which comes with rice) but to my dismay the menu was in weird Thai characters, no visual descriptions and their helpers couldn’t speak other known foreign languages. To be safe I just ordered Tom Yum which is probably one of the most well-known Thai food and perhaps it’s a good starter for a tourist like me. I was informed that the name simply means hot and sour soup, and that it can contain all manner of things from beef to prawn -- but not chicken feet to my surprise. Setting aside the unwanted part it’s not that actually bad, it’s a dose of fresh, dare I say "zingy" flavour in the form of a clean, aromatic soup to shake up my hibernating palate.

After eating, I began to walk a few miles again. I found the whole day exhausting as I traversed Buddhist and Chinese temples, a cemetery guarded by hounds, a couple of mid-rise business establishments and long paved roads while attempting to admire the natural beauty of the place and its colorful residents. Hours passed the seductive sunbeams now flowed between the branches of trees, and as I get closer to the shore the sun started to drift in the water. I began to soak up in its beauty and for a while my mind wandered. For the longest time, I have never been so happy. I have never felt so alive. That moment was mine. It was me, just me.

Good guys go to heaven, bad guys go to Pattaya

The following days began in much the same vain as I became accustomed to the weather and surroundings. I began to communicate and get along well with the locals and my spirit was still high. Sadly, the marathon event was cancelled and rescheduled in February. To maximize my time, I decided to travel to Pattaya -- a resort city situated on the eastern seaboard of Thailand and an hour away from Chonburi City. It is home to a growing number of cultural and action-packed tourist attractions like the Sanctuary of Truth, Silverlake, Nongnooch Garden, Wat Phra Yai, Mini Siam, Pattaya’s Floating Market to name a few. So why not?

A friend, however, who’s been to Pattaya told that the city’s reputation as a nightlife hub is well deserved; with hundreds of adult bars, strip clubs, colorful katoeys or lady boys, massage parlors and tattoo shops. This mile of madness in South Pattaya caught me nosily! I was curious why it is popular for tourists and expatriates, and of course, I have to experience myself the famous islands and beaches of Pattaya. Full of excitement and a bit of angst I became one of the bad guys.

Pattaya is a place you will either love or hate and as to my experience, “I love it!” From accommodations to the cost of food, everything was relatively affordable. Their effective means of transportation via “songthaew” allows you to roam around the city for just 10 baht -- making living in Pattaya easy on the wallet. Despite bad reviews claiming Pattaya to be filthy or chaotic I found it lively and more likeable than expected. Although, admittedly, the Beach Road, the Walking Street and some parts seem to be sleazy. Nonetheless, nearby islands like Koh Larn provides a respite from Pattaya’s night vibe with emerald green water and various recreational activities. You can either get a day-tour package for as low as 700 baht or shipped yourself by riding a public ferry for only 30 baht. Being alone in Pattaya for the last two days was a smart choice and would likely to come back if I could. But before this initial euphoria fades I decided to return to Chonburi City to bond with my sister-from-another-mother.

Get a taste of the local culture

Having been in Chonburi for some time, I already like the peaceful life here and I am glad to have gotten the chance to immerse myself in this cultural, yet convenient city. The nightlife is non-existent, well there are a few scattered bars but there isn't much happening unlike in the night markets. Aside from floating markets there’s also plenty to see and do in a Thai night market and it’s another way to get up close and personal with the locals. Anyhow, night markets are within every mile and a great place for picking up some decent souvenirs, knock-off items or anyone looking to mix in some exotic or cheap eats, or maybe some evening drinks.

If shopping at night isn’t your thing, an alternative place to relax will take a 20-30 minutes ride via red songthaew for only 20 baht. Bangsaen Beach is an interesting place to enjoy strolling while tasting freshly cooked seafood from vendors that line the beach pavement. Later, if you’re already tired of walking, you may rent a bicycle for 50 baht. You can already go anywhere you want and one that you shouldn’t miss is to bike around Khao Sam Muk Hill -- the perfect place to see a panoramic view of Bang Saen. Just a gentle precaution, there are a lot of monkeys with greedy eyes and quick hands inhabiting the hill so be careful with your valuables and avoid feeding them as it just makes them more aggressive and playful. On your way back you can drop by either in a Taoist or Buddhist temple and wish for good fortune. In the evening, there’s another night market near Bangsaen beach which is relatively bigger than the others. Well, I must say going to Bangsaen is truly worth the time and energy.

Touring Thailand can be pretty tiring at some point but worry not because there are a lot massage parlors always ready to give relief to those aching muscles. For the record, I never had experienced a body massage, but this trip will never be complete without an authentic Thai massage. A first for me! Cai, my therapist, was gentle enough during the one-hour massage though seriously I was just laughing the whole time because I have tickles all over my body.

Given the time I’ve spent in Thailand, so far, what I like about it are its calmness, clean atmosphere, the people who are very disciplined, and definitely the delicious and healthy cuisines. My favorite dishes are Khao Pad Talay, Pak Boong and Som Tum. Of course, there are also funny trivia that I would like to share and just to mention a few…

It’s a custom in Thailand to use plastic straw whether drinking in a bottle or in a cup. Once, I bought a lemon juice and after paying I drank it straight from the bottle -- big eyes all looking at me.
Instead of soy sauce and vinegar, fish sauce is provided in every table if you want to enhance the flavor of your food.
Ice cubes are served in buckets every meal, it’s not for free but you can just refuse to take them.
At KFC they don’t have gravy, instead they have ketchup and sweet-chili sauce. But their chicken always comes in two-piece or more, depending on your order. Also, you need to order separately if you want to eat the chicken with rice.
Thai people can hardly pronounce words with letter “R”. For example, there’s a mall in Chonburi named “Forum” and if you want to visit the place you must tell the driver to drop you not at “Fo-rum” but at “Fo-lam”. Another example was a woman selling strawberries but how she pronounced “straw-ber-ry” was different, she kept on saying “sat-ro-ber-ry”.

The King and Krung Thep (City of Angels)

As much as I was attempting to find change for a couple of days already, I thought that perhaps I can learn more things from the Thai culture by exploring its capital city – Bangkok. From Chonburi I took a bus for 100 baht -- buses leave every hour. Soon as I arrived back in Bangkok I feel the deep sense of loss among the people of Thailand. Mourners and even tourists continue to flock into the Grand Palace to pay respect and see the King for the last time. Thus, whether locals or foreigners are demanded to wear black or dark colored shirts to signify the death of their beloved King Bhumibol. The national outpouring of grief has inspired a wave of volunteerism with marquees offering free food, medicines, even haircuts, and transportation services to thousands of mourners. Not taking advantage of the situation, I got to avail of the free water, bread and bus transfer. As a person who doesn’t worship anything or anyone, the patriotism and love of the Thai people for their King gave me a strange sense but in a good way.

Giving the city another mood, the “City of Angels” is undeniably a one-stop shop especially for first time travellers. It houses from high-end shopping malls to cheap bazaars, from top-notch dining to street food, and of course those impressive ancient monuments and temples. I went to take photos at Wat Pho and Wat Arun. Dine at Central World Mall, shop at the famous Pratunam district, and ride a BTS just for fun. Bangkok trip was indeed jam-packed!

“We are all one. In human form we are pioneers embarking on a wonderful journey. Exploring and experiencing the physical world.” –Osho

My remaining days in Thailand passed without major occurrence although I got lost and end up walking in circles when it looked easier to navigate the place. Confusion and laughter often ensued but after 8 days, I welcomed the return of familiarity. As I breathed in the fresh air and relaxed in the warm temperature while biking around Bangsaen, I concluded that already on some level I had begun to achieve the purpose of this trip. I may not be able to express it in words, yet being aware of my own existence was already enough for me.

It had only taken a few days to realize that . There is no doubt that with hindsight I enjoyed the short excursion to the relatively unknown, and when I wake up tomorrow I am back to my regular programming. The familiar cultures of the Philippines were on the horizon and although I may not entirely like where I am, somehow I already filled the gap to continue and move forward.

Sawadee kap!

I Had Enough

2016-06-24T10:00:00.000+08:00

Once you truly love someone you can no longer unloved the person

It's either the feeling grows fonder or the feeling only subsides

The memories will never fade coz it will forever leave a mark

This is true to your first love when love was all but blind

I always thought love is easy
I always thought love is kind
I never thought love can be selfish
I never thought love can change me

Love taught me a lot about people and life
Love gave me memories both happy and sad
Love taught me to stop when it's enough
...and that's enough.

Sixteen Challenges to Self for 2016

2015-12-08T12:48:00.001+08:00

07 December 2015

Dearest Nico,

The year was indeed great for you. You’ve been to many places, explore new things, met a lot of new friends (more than you did for the last five years) and learned some very valuable life lessons. But know that there were also things that hurt you and almost made you cry. Nevertheless, keep the ones that made a good impact. So for 2016 let go of some loads and help yourself achieve a better version of ‘you’. So here are 16 challenges for you this coming 2016.

Spend more time with nature (Travel as much as you can. Forget about the money, you’re not working to save a million but to earn life-long memories)

Become 60% vegetarian (It’s not that really hard, you’re still allowed to eat meat and fast-food but only twice a week)

Be organic and natural (Avoid the use of products with excessive chemicals. Change your shampoo, conditioner, lotion, facial moisturizer, sanitizer, etc. to all-natural products. Exception to this – master facial scrub and toner)

Commit yourself to getting fit (You’re not getting young and of course you always wanted to look good. Take regular exercise at least thrice a week, or you might want to enroll to dancing/swimming lessons)

Manage the use of Facebook (You’re only wasting a lot of time on this site trying to stalk other people’s lives. No limit on Twitter and Instagram though)

Read more books than watching movies (I know you love watching films but isn’t it good to play with your imagination by reading?)

Join a volunteer group (Share yourself by helping and making this world a little better for others)

Find a new hobby (Look for something that you’ve never tried before and make it as a hobby)

No more piercing and tattoo (Respect your body. Two piercings and one tattoo is enough)

Never have sex until you find the right and deserving person (Always remember that sex is not your thing and you don’t know anything about it. So save it for ‘the one’)

Say no to dating apps and pornography (You’re not in high school anymore. It only consumes your fucking time and storage device)

Don’t look for love (Let love find you without you trying so hard. If it doesn’t come, so what?)

Don’t make promises because liars go to hell (Stay true and don’t exaggerate things)

Be kind and be patient (I know you’re trying really hard, keep trying until it becomes you)

Forgive and move on (Whatever they did to you is already in the past)

Do not compare (You are unique in your own ways. Just be happy for them and be thankful for what you have)

I might be asking for too much. But believe me, someday you will be very grateful you did and realized all these. Keep your spirit up and begin to work your ass out.

Cheers to the great person you will be!

With all the love,

Your own self

Heartwarming Illustrations Show That Love Is In The Small Things

2015-12-04T15:23:00.001+08:00

True love isn't always about the big romantic gestures. Sometimes it's about sympathizing with someone whose tea has gone cold or reading together and sharing a quilt. When two people move in together, it soon becomes apparent that the little things mean an awful lot. The throwaway moments in life become meaningful when you spend them in the company of someone you love.

The wildly popular web comic SOPPY--with more than half a million notes on Tumblr--is the illustrated love story of author Philippa Rice and her real-life boyfriend. Philippa Rice is a multi-talented artist who creates simple but beautiful comics about the everyday joys of living with someone you love. The title of her comic book, Soppy, is unapologetically fitting! Rice forgoes the usual stuff like hearts and roses, going instead for the everyday ways we share love with our significant others – be it our morning routines, a hug and a snuggle, or finishing the day in each others’ arms.

SOPPY is Philippa Rice's collection of comics and illustrations based on real-life moments with her boyfriend. From grocery shopping to silly arguments and snuggling in front of the television, SOPPY captures the universal experience of sharing a life together, and celebrates the beauty of finding romance all around us.

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Sometimes, love can be found in the simplest things, like spending a blissful morning in the kitchen

You can be in the same room without having to do everything together

It is hugging each other accidentally while sleeping

Even the most mundane tasks are more fun when you do them together

Even shopping for food can be exciting

True love means putting everything aside just to hug

The biggest dilemma is often what to eat for dinner

Even if you’re feeling a bit blue, there’s always someone that will hold your hand

Love is about the little things

Happiness is when both of you read in bed after an exceptionally tiring day

Building IKEA furniture is like playing with LEGO when it’s just the two of you

Sometimes, you have to ask hard questions

Cooking together often becomes the most challenging and the most fun task

Even the tiniest problems matter to your loved one

It’s having those long talks in bed about everything and anything

It’s when you know your favorite cuddling positions

It’s having a favorite cafe, where only you two matter

The cold autumn wind can’t touch you because your heart always stays warm

Love means knowing when you need to say sorry

There is nothing more comfortable than falling asleep on your loved one’s lap

It is about exploring new things, even if it’s just your neighborhood park

It’s knowing that it’s not always rainbows and butterflies, it’s compromise that moves us along

As long as both of you are headed the same way…

…Everything will be just fine

Original post in: www.boredpanda.com

The Pain Of Loving Someone You Should Let Go Of, For The Both Of You

2015-07-05T12:09:00.003+08:00

If there's one thing I learned from love and heartbreak is that -- if you know how to handle your emotions, at the end of the day it actually makes you a better person. So here's something for you.

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Written by: Paul Hudson

Original post: Elite Daily

I met a woman once who changed my life. Without her, I couldn’t possibly be the person I am today. That’s what true love does to a person — it changes you and sets your life on a different track.

Some love stories do come with a happy ending, the two spending their lives together, growing old together, and departing this world together. In such instances, the change that they create for each other is clearly visible: without them spending their lives with each other, their lives wouldn’t be what they are.

What I came to learn is that regardless of whether or not you end up spending your lives together, when you find true love, it sticks with you. It changes you and continues to change you as the years go by.

True love can be overwhelming — especially if it’s your first time experiencing it. I remember how incredibly exciting it all was. Every waking moment was filled with loving and pleasant thoughts. The day was brighter. The world, more colorful. Life seemed to be more alive than it had ever been before.

It was the happiest I had been in my life and I am certain that I’m not the only person in the world who recalls a similar experience.

But it wasn’t the good times that left that lasting impression. Of course, I continue to revisit all those great memories from time to time… but it wasn’t the laughs and smiles that changed me most. It’s those more painful memories underlining the good times that changed my reality.

They say it’s better to teach with a carrot than a stick. Yet, though you may not be able to teach someone with pain or punishment, when you manage to inflict pain on yourself, you learn rather quickly.

The problem with the pain that comes from true love lost is that it takes time to form, to build upon itself and become realized. You don’t just break your heart and learn your lesson. Heartbreak itself doesn’t live in a single moment — hearts have the ability to chip and break apart almost infinitely.

What good does come from all this unpleasantry is the opportunity you get to learn more about yourself each passing day. As long as you’re honest with yourself — which can often be difficult — you’ll get an incredibly insightful look into the person you have become.

What this thankfully allows for is the chance to begin constructing the person you want to be. Love lost really does show you the real you.

It shows you what you need to work on and improve on before you’re ready to be a part of a loving and committed relationship. As with all great things, however, there comes a catch.

When you decide to change the way you see the world because of a man or woman you loved, the new reality you create for yourself has that individual imbedded in its framework.

Our minds form chains linking cause and effect — and the life you create for yourself literally ends up hanging on the fact that you were once incredibly in love. Without that love, the joy and pain it made you feel, you couldn’t possibly be the person you are today.

Somehow, while trying to move on with your life, you may find that you’ve managed to make the memory of that past love a permanent fixture.

One that you are forced to look upon indefinitely. You never come out of love unscathed — no matter how the relationship ends. It’s neither good nor bad, it simply is what it is. All you can do is try and find love again.

You know you need to let your past love go — for both of your sakes — and the only way you can possibly do that is to find another love. Your lost love will likely never entirely leave your mind, memories coming to the surface from time to time, but that’s not a bad thing.

The relationship you once had made you the better version of yourself you are today. You loved, you laughed, you cried, you changed your life. You don’t want to ever forget the past that taught you those necessary lessons.

Although it may take time, there is always hope to once again find love. New love has a way of shrouding older, lost loves. One day, that pain will hopefully turn into fond memories you can revisit with a smile and sense of nostalgia.

YOLO-ing in Padre Burgos, Quezon Province

2015-06-28T19:53:00.000+08:00

Note: This write-up has been long overdue -- our trip was last 21-22 February, so pardon me if i'm not going to be accurate with the details of this trip. But I promise to make it brief compared to our last trip in Burot Beach

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HOLA QUEZON!

Are you looking for a quick weekend getaway just to relieve your stress and pressure from work? It's time to recharge and rest. Whether summer or during off-peak season, Quezon Province particularly in Padre Burgos is a must go because it's a home for three spectacular beaches -- Borawan, Dampalitan and Puting Buhangin or Kwebang Lampas (we weren't able to visit this island).

Dampalitan from a distance

Welcome to Dampalitan

Shoreline in Dampalitan

Boat ride to Borawan

One of the many rock formations on the way to Borawan

Borawan Island from afar

Welcoming view in Borawan

Borawan and Dampalitan may not as enchanting as Boracay or Palawan yet they can offer equally memorable experience -- if you just make the most of your stay. To make it more fun, bring with you your most awesome friends and indulge yourselves in white sand, high-definition backdrop (not to mention the sunset is almost perfect here), and a noteworthy camp.

Sunset in Dampalitan Island *speechless*

Cezarah! (Nakaharap o nakatalikod?)

Me. "Just wow!"

HERE WE COME!

After Burot, me and my travel buddy Cezarah couldn't just get enough of the sun and the sands, so we decided to embark again into another YOLO adventure. We came across good reviews about Borawan which said that it was named after Boracay and Palawan because of its almost-fine white sand and limestone formations.

Make sure to wear your step-ins

Camping under the rock formations is more fun than renting a cottage

Feels like reaching the summit already

Water is much clearer here compared to Dampalitan

However, we ended up picking Dampalitan over Borawan. It's a very wise decision though because Dampalitan is a perfect camping ground with its wide stretch of sands. Dampalitan is like Anawangin Cove in Zambales, most part of it were covered in pine trees. Though its sand may not be that fine, the location is perfect for sunset lovers. Dampalitan is also the perfect venue if you wish to have bonfire at night while having some booze.

On our way to Dampalitan

Just a perfect weather

This is actually the view on the other side of the island

You can walk through this islet during low tide

Cottages are for rent -- though camping is more fun.

Yun oh!

Yes?

Hammocks are everywhere

MINGLING WITH THE FOLKS!

Arriving in the island, it felt a little gloomy. We are just glad that everyone is very accommodating and friendly. We were kind of lost the moment we arrived in Padre Burgos because we were not able to contact any boatman ahead of our trip. But fortunately, in our search for a boat ride in the middle of a community in the other side of Dampalitan Island, we were able to come across a local, with her child, who were headed somewhere in the farm nearby. They helped get our boat ride to Dampalitan and even carried some of our stuffs.

Mangroves. Mangroves. Mangroves.

We have to walk in the mud to reach our boat since it's low tide

Yes, you see it right. The boat was too small -- can only carry 3-4 persons. Oh well, this is adventure.

The boat ride was about 15-20 minutes -- in our case since our boat was too small. Arriving in Dampalitan there were only very few tourists, we don't know if it's good or bad news. After setting up our tent and eating our first meal for the day we decided to tour ourselves in the island. We found out that Dampalitan is actually a quite big island connected to another island during low tide.

Campers come and go

Rock formations in Dampalitan are also perfect for picture taking

What a great view but sad to see dead corals -- if you just look closely

What else to say?

Uh-uh!

The other side of Dampalitan

We also met these two energetic and smart kids named Yuri and Lawrence and spent the rest of our stay in the Island with them. Adding more to the fun were Badjo, Honesto and the other kids who are really cute and innocent. Apparently, because of them, we had a youthful trip, full of high hopes, ambitions and of course, puppy love stories! Eventually we gained additional two friends in FB!

Hanging out with the boys

Yuri and Lawrence playing with the bangka

Too cute and innocent

Bahay-bahayan with the kids

Just like little brothers, indeed.

The next day, we really had no money to rent a boat for island hopping. But, another fortune striked us -- Tatay Yow who is the caretaker of the island invited us to join his other guests heading to Borawan. Who are we to refuse? Yahoo!

Off we sail!

Couldn't be more happy to get a free ride

Always love to sit at the edge of the boat

Tatay Yow and his co-pilot

Too bad, we were still hoping we could drop-by Puting Buhangin but the guests just decided to stay in Borawan. Still, because of this not-so-well-planned and super-tipid-trip that we were able to appreciate those simple things.

Indeed, this trip was very special and memorable for us. We would definitely be back not only for the place but moreover because of the people we get to share our story.

Hmmmm!

Last hurrah!

Before we left, they handed us free souvenir bracelets

Until next time

Sun-kissed skin

Must try resto at the jump off point

HOW TO GET THERE?

Just before dawn (February 21) we decided to leave Manila and catch the earliest bus to Lucena (Jac Liner Buendia), the fare cost P220. We arrived at Lucena Grand Terminal in roughly 3 hours (the dawn trip was pretty fast, so better leave Manila around this time). From the Grand Terminal, you can ride a van or an ordinary bus to Marau, Padre Burgos. A bus ride costs P30 while a van costs P70. Considering it was just 5 o’clock in the morning, buses were not yet available so we had no choice but to ride a van. Well, according to van drivers, a bus ride will take a lot of time compared to a non-stop van trip. In 45 mins, we reached Padre Burgos. From there, we rode a boat to Dampalitan Island. (WARNING: The bangkeros are not available yet early in the morning the water level is still low. While an early morning travel from Manila will save you some time from traffic, it is better to wait until the sun rise before heading to Padre Burgos to have a less hassle boat transfer to the islands.)

And the fun starts as you step into the rough sand, the salty and cold water. Take those shirts off and feel the heat of summer sun!

Boat Transfer:

P800/boat (Borawan only up to 10 pax)

P1,200/boat (Borawan + Dampalitan up to 10 pax)

P1,800/boat (Borawan + Dampalitan + Puting Buhangin up to 10 pax)

Budget Breakdown:

	Our Expenses
Bus fare (Manila – Lucena)	220
Van fare (Lucena – Padre Burgos)	70
Boat rental (Dampalitan)	600/2 = 300
Entrance fee (Dampalitan)	75
Entrance fee (Borawan)	Free
Camping fee	200
Water (Per gallon)	50
Food	Baon
Bonfire	Free
Bus fare (Padre Burgos – Lucena)	30
Bus fare ((Lucena – Manila)	220
TOTAL	P 1,165.00

Contributing writer: Cezarah Caldit (Thanks for filling the blank spaces)

Do not go gentle into that good night

2015-05-06T13:23:00.000+08:00

By: Dylan Thomas, 1914 - 1953

Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Though wise men at their end know dark is right,
Because their words had forked no lightning they
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright
Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,
And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,
Do not go gentle into that good night.

Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight
Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

And you, my father, there on the sad height,
Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.
Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

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Dylan Marlais Thomas, born October 27, 1914, in South Wales, was the archetypal Romantic poet of the popular American imagination—he was flamboyantly theatrical, a heavy drinker, engaged in roaring disputes in public, and read his work aloud with tremendous depth of feeling and a singing Welsh lilt.

Just in my mind

2015-04-06T20:40:00.002+08:00

Just when life stops right in the middle,
I thought everything's going smooth sailing.
My mind's all set -- don't waste your time waiting,
Most days are spent, working and dreaming.

Just when I thought you're just somebody else,
I was carried away by your presence,
Moments and minutes I count your absence.
My heart says -- you're someone of my likeness.

Just when I'm beginning to see and prove,
I found out -- soon you are planning to move.
My mind is on the brink of losing it,
Maybe because you've touched it a lil bit.

Just so you know we have lots in common --
Introvert, reserve, movie enthusiast.
Many times I ask, will this feeling last?
My dear, is this love or JUST IN MY MIND?

-ND [2015]

Jealousy Is A Noun

2015-02-28T07:00:00.000+08:00

I feel jealous from the air that touches your skin every single second,
the air that gets to wander inside you -- that makes your body alive.

I feel jealous of your blanket and pillows that gives you comfort when you sleep
-- the pillow that you cuddle so tight, the blanket that keeps you warm on cold lonesome nights.

I feel jealous of anything that meets your glances, and those things that caught your blank stares
-- be it ugly or beautiful, sad or happy.

I am jealous of your past and your present.

I'm jealous of your hobbies.
I'm jealous of your favorite foods.
I'm jealous of colors and numbers you consider lucky.
I'm jealous of the music you like.
I'm jealous of movies -- you love watching movies.
I am jealous of everything, everyone and anything that connects to you.

Yet I know that jealousy is a mental disorder, a fatal one, and that only you yourself can cure.

So I have decided to let it eat me from the inside and let the pain be felt until it subsides.

You seem so near but it feels like you are twenty-two million light years away.

I'd rather endure it, than destroy one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen/had.

Jealousy is a total bitch. Cheers!

A Valentine Trip to Burot Island

2015-02-20T21:35:00.000+08:00

So two similarly situated individuals (Nico and Cezarah) met on a very typical Sunday afternoon to watch the ever trending “That Thing Called Tadhana”

Even before the movie started, we have already shared about our travel plans and what not for the coming vacations.

And as the movie ended, we unexpectedly realized that we share the same interest and enthusiasm towards travelling.

More so, thanks to the movie, we even realized that we want to really make them happen this year

We started off with planning for a “Valentine’s Day Celebration” which fell on a Saturday, the following weekend.

To make this journey even more exciting we decided to have a sort of “checklist” of places which we will aim to crash out in the coming vacations.

A travel website made our lives easier as this featured a list of nearby places in Metro Manila which wanderlusts and budget-conscious travelers may want to include in their list. Check Pinoy Adventurista

So first in our checklist after several deliberations was -- Burot Beach, an island hidden in the peaceful town of Calatagan, Batangas. And as described by some bloggers: Burot Beach has a stretch of semi-fine cream sand beach kissed by calm waters, beautiful rock formations and dotted with trees. It is one of the nice beaches near Metro Manila, and a favorite destination among weekenders and those who seek for a quick weekend getaway. It's raw and rugged charm is truly inviting.

And tadaaaa!!! This is where our journey began...

So Saturday came, February 14, 2015 - Heart’s Day as they say. We woke up past 04:00 in the morning, and finished packing and prepping for our travel at around 06:00AM. Then, we left Quezon City going to our first destination which was the bus terminal at Coastal Mall bound to Calatagan.

Since it was a weekend, it only took us an hour to reach Coastal Mall -- where Celyrosa (ordinary) buses are stationed. The bus fare costs 140 pesos. So at around 07:00AM we were able to rode the bus and left Metro Manila

The route was exactly the same going to Tagaytay. So you better be ready with your jackets or malong or scarf or anything which would keep you warm as you pass by Tagaytay.

We arrived in Calatagan proper at around 11:15AM. The place was like a typical rural area where you can find a public market, a multipurpose covered court, and a number of tricycle for hire. Not to mention, the tricycle drivers were all aggressive and willing to help the moment you alight the bus.

We already contracted a tricycle driver beforehand. It was Manong Johnny (09212779015), we found him online offering for a friendly ride to Burot -- the fare costs 200 pesos (As I remember that day). But it was Manong Rudy who fetched us in the terminal because he said Manong Johnny was busy that day. However, a friend whom we met in the island told us that they got their service for only 150 pesos -- which is actually the right price as I recall. (Oh well, hindi naman namin ikakayaman ang singkwenta pesos)

Anyway, Burot Beach was a 25-minute ride from Calatagan proper. The trip was like a roller coaster ride and the “scenic view” along the road was so relaxing and uplifting as you can smell the breeze from a palayan -- or see tall green grasses at the edge of the rough road.

A few meters away from the beach is a gate where we had to pay 20 pesos which serves as environmental fee in exchange for a black garbage bag and the list of house rules. As we arrived at the entrance of the beach, we already saw a number of colorful tents standing on the long stretch of the island.

There, we paid the entrance fee and the tent fee to the security personnel of Burot, as we arrived at the beach. The entrance fee costs 130 pesos per head for an overnight stay, and we need to pay additional 30 pesos tent fee for setting-up our own tent. (If you plan to stay overnight and you do not have your own tent, a tent rental will cost you 400 pesos.

You can freely set up your tent anywhere. The beach is overlooking at any spot. Tip: Better choose a spot where you can make friends. After setting up our tent for 8 minutes (Yahoo!) we ate our brunch since it's already noon time. We packed our baon to minimize the expenses -- we brought rice, hotdogs, burger patties, breads, easy-open canned goods,chips, bottled waters and disposable utensils. If you prefer to have light baggage, don't worry because there's a sari-sari store in the island, only that, all items are doubled the price.

It's low tide in the morning, and the water level starts to rise during sunset.

While in Burot, you can enjoy a boat ride or a floating cottage. The boat ride will bring you to three underwater attractions which our bangkero and the locals called: White Sand, Starfish and Coral reefs. Meanwhile, we were not able to experience the floating cottage.

The boat ride is a P540-trip. One of the bangkeros we talked to said that the trip is actually good for a group of 5, at the minimum. Since it was only the two of us, we were advised to look for another 3 people who will join us in the trip. Luckily, we found 3 couples who were out and about to ride the boat and who wholeheartedly accommodate us (Yay! Medyo OP lang.)

It was 02:30PM, we put our life vests on and off we go!

First stop: White Sand. The water was slightly colder than the water near the shore. The water was more disturbed on this part of the sea. There was a lot of waves and along with it is a school of sea urchins, which might sting you at any moment. So our bangkero advised us not to go further and not to stay for so long underwater.

So this spot is divided into two parts: the white sand part and the deep water. The white sand portion was like a long stretch of a 20-step wide sand flooring, where you can walk and enjoy taking photos projecting the entirety of the sea. The sand was just white but not that fine. The gradient of the sea was so fascinating, the wind, was so strong, the view was a so wide horizon which would make you feel empty, relaxed and peaceful.

So you cannot definitely swim on the white sand, go to the deep water if want to take a deep.

Next stop: Starfish. The water got even colder and deeper (like about 3 ft. high). To better appreciate the starfish underwater, you will need a pair of goggles. Goggles were also available for rent at P40. Here, you really have to make sisid the starfish at the sea floor. There's a lot of these colorful sea creatures, scattered at the sea floor. You can pick them up and see how their tiny tentacles move inside and out from the bottom of the shell. Be sure to bring them back to the water. You are not allowed to take them back to the shore!

Final destination: Coral reefs. Put again those goggles on and enjoy diving into the deep water to witness the majestic coral formations and marine animals! Though it is not as astounding and rich compared to the marine sanctuaries in Palawan, but still you will still enjoy the beauty that's hidden under. Clown fish and (baby sharks?) are all over, however, it's best to wear rash guard or a wet suit to keep you from those invisible-mild-stinging-creatures in the water. For those who doesn't know how to swim but eager to see the corals and the fishes -- life jackets are provided just hold on to the "katig" of the boat and then sink your head underwater. Among all the spots, I think this was the best part if only we had more time.

All in all the boat ride was fun! We love Burot even more because of these beautiful attractions. Plus, we got to make friends! Our new found friends were a very cool couple, Jack and Jov, who decided to spend their Valentine's day away from the glamorous restaurants and high-end hotels. According to them, they wanted that day to be simple but full of excitement. Jack was a travel enthusiast according to Jov, and she was the one who found Burot Island in one of the blogs.

We spent the rest of the afternoon with this couple. Both of them were very intelligent and we really had a very sensible conversation with them throughout the afternoon, while Jov was grilling hotdogs and fish for dinner. The sun is about to set, the sky was like burning up because of the sundown, and the sun slowly disappeared from the horizon. It was...uh-mazing! Everybody was like breathless.

And so they even invited us to eat with them over dinner and until lunch the following day.

Our Burot trip had been so much fun and memorable because of these two. It's really more fun to meet new people as you travel, because you will never know how amazing the experience can be with these people.

After dinner, we wash ourselves up in the shower area of the beach. There was no electricity in the area and so in the shower rooms, so better be ready with flashlight. The shower rooms were not properly maintained, but the water from the faucet is overflowing. You just have to be "madiskarte" on how to make yourself comfortable inside the shower room and patient enough while waiting in the long queue of people.

And so were fresh and ready to sleep. To keep us warm, we decided to have a bonfire. A bundle of firewood is available for sale at P200 and the bonfire guy will lit them for you. The bonfire was worth it if it's your first time, but then, nothing beats a good/fun conversation with your friends and some music before capping the day,

That ends our Day 1.

It was a rainy night. Luckily, we didn't get wet! Though it even made the night more cuddle-some (Haha in our dreams) So we really had to put on our jackets and cover ourselves with blankets just to keep us warm. We were able to get a good sleep that night, enough for us to recharge for the following day.

We waited for Mr. Sunny to appear early that morning, but we fail to see him. At around 07:00AM, we woke up, stretched a bit and off we stroll the shore that morning. It was gloomy, low tide again, boats were anchored along the shore, a fishing boat is about to sail and the sun was not yet up.

New visitors have arrived, setting their tents up, while those who stayed overnight were cooking and preparing for breakfast.

We went to the other side of the beach, took up-close shots of the entire blue sea, and took more photos of ourselves with the different rock formations.

Some group of friends were also taking photos on that spot, others were taking selfies, while some were already dipping into the water (We even heard one screamed "Ang lamiiiig!")

The rising sun was overlooking from where we were, and so we were still able to witness Mr. Sunny that morning.

We ate our breakfast at the beach and stayed until lunch time. We decided not to swim anymore that morning due to the inconvenience of washing up. So we just spent the last few hours of our stay in Burot sharing stories again with our NFF (New Found Friends) Jack and Jov and make friends with another group of people playing volleyball just right in front of our tents. That morning was fun-filled and stress-relieving.

The beach was more vibrant that day, even more relaxing and astounding. We left the beach with somehow tired muscles and a bit of painful backs and so on, but on top of these, we were refreshed, we enjoyed and we were relieved from our own anxieties.

On our way back, we informed Manong Rudy, our contact tricycle driver, the time he would fetch us. And so he arrived at exactly 11:47AM, Jack and Jov joined our ride and together we went back to Manila.

We met a bus going to Manila along the road, even before reaching Calatagan proper. You might experience the same on your way back. WARNING: The bus kept on picking up passengers along the way and even stopped for some time at bus stops to wait for possible passengers. This made our travel time much much longer -- I think it took us 6 hours before we reached Metro Manila. Better yet, ride the bus at Calatagan proper. The fares were just the same. And the bus will also stop at Coastal Mall.

So that was it! We can proudly say that our Valentine trip to Burot Island was well-spent with new found friends and with re-energized spirits.

By the way, here's the budget breakdown for your guide.

	Our Expenses	Tipid Tip Budget
Bus Fare (Quezon City - Coastal Mall)	40.00	--
Bus Fare (Manila - Calatagan)	140.00	140.00
Tricycle Rental (Calatagan Terminal - Burot Beach)	200.00	150.00
Environmental Fee	20.00	20.00
Entrance Fee	130.00	130.00
Accommodation (Bring Tent)	0.00	0.00
Food (Bring Food)	0.00	0.00
Boat (Spot/Island Hopping) + Goggles	120.00 + 40.00	--
Bonfire	200.00	--
Tricycle Rental (Calatagan Terminal - Burot Beach)	100.00	150.00
Bus Fare (Manila - Calatagan)	140.00	140.00
Bus Fare (Quezon City - Coastal Mall)	40.00	--
TOTAL	PHP 1,170.00	PHP 730.00

If you want to see all photos we've captured please click the link Burot Island Photos

Written by: Cezarah Caldit
Edited by: Nico Dino

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Dead Poem 007 - I'm talking about love

2014-10-31T22:16:00.001+08:00

More often than not, i am bitter.

The thing is, foods and friends are better.

[ND, 2014]

Love is a choice.

2014-10-30T16:12:00.000+08:00

Sharing this blog entry I found randomly which speaks so much of reality. Posted October 13, 2014 at SETH ADAM SMITH.

I could not agree more with Seth, except for his concept of marriage (i'll explain about this some other time) Anyway, love is indeed a deliberate choice. Love is something that is human and natural.

I do not believe that love is a fairy tale -- that we are all destined to someone, and that we are all bound for a happy ever after. Curse all those lies fed by mainstream media! When all the shining, shimmering, splendid things in every love story ended, comes the real truth.

This is unbelievably moving and powerful. True, real and practical. Love does not come with a template of success. It is real. It is challenging, it fails, it works, it lives, it dies, it resurrects. All we can do is, be alive in it.

FORGET ABOUT FEELINGS,

REAL LOVE IS A DELIBERATE CHOICE

My wife and I have known each other since high school, but didn’t date until much later. We had only dated a couple of weeks before we realized that we were madly in love and wanted to get married.

I was all for it! I even suggested a spontaneous, immediate wedding in Vegas. (Seriously.) Kim, however, was a bit more practical about the whole thing. She wanted to take time to plan it all out.

I felt deflated. “We’re so different,” I said. “You like to plan, while I like to be spontaneous.”

Kim’s eyes widened. “I can be spontaneous!” she said, hurriedly. “I can totally be spontaneous. You just have to tell me in advance when you want to be spontaneous, and I will write it down in my planner…”

I gave her a strange look. She was totally serious! Clearly, Kim did not understand the meaning of spontaneity.

Funny as it may seem, the more I think about this conversation the more I’ve come to realize that planning to love someone—orchoosing to love someone—is actually one of the most beautiful things about love.

I’ve heard it said that real love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person.

It’s true.

When all the butterflies have fluttered away and your wedding day becomes a distant memory, you will discover that you’ve married someone who is just as imperfect as you. And they, in turn, will come to learn that you have problems, insecurities, struggles, quirks—and body odor—just as real as theirs!

Then you will realize that real love isn’t just a euphoric, spontaneous feeling—it’s a deliberate choice—a plan to love each other for better and worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health. Of course, you don’t choose who you’re attracted to, but you definitely choose who you fall in love with and (more importantly) who you stay in love with.

Our society places a lot of emphasis on feelings. We are taught that we should always follow our feelings and do whatever makes us happy. But feelings are very fickle and fleeting. Real love, on the other hand, is like the north star in the storms of life; it is constant, sure, and true. Whenever we’re lost and confused we can find strength in the love that we have chosen.

Besides, life already offers us plenty of spontaneity: rejection, job loss, heartache, disappointment, despair, illness, and a host of other problems. We simply can’t abandon ship every time we encounter a storm in our marriage. Real love is about weathering the storms of life together.

When my grandma was in her fifties, she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, a degenerative disease that disrupts the body’s ability to communicate with its nervous system. Within a few short years, Grandma had lost the ability to walk and was confined to a wheelchair. Grandpa, who was then the chief of police, retired two years earlier than planned in order to take care of Grandma. He helped her do everything—from getting around the house and visiting the doctor, to helping her take her medicine and bathe.

In speaking about my grandma, Grandpa once told my mom, “It hurts me to see her like this. You know, when I got married I thought that everything would be smooth sailing. I never imagined that I would have to help her change her catheter every day. But I do it and I don’t mind it—because I love her.”

Love is so much more than some random, euphoric feeling. And real love isn’t always fluffy, cute, and cuddly. More often than not, real love has its sleeves rolled up, dirt and grime smeared on its arms, and sweat dripping down its forehead. Real love asks us to do hard things—to forgive one another, to support each other’s dreams, to comfort in times of grief, or to care for family. Real love isn’t easy—and it’s nothing like the wedding day—but it’s far more meaningful and wonderful.

I recently came across this wonderful quote: “No one falls in love by choice, it is by chance. No one stays in love by chance, it is by work. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice.”

Whenever my wife and I run into a problem in our marriage we do our best to choose love. While we’re certainly not perfect, the love we share today is more real and more wonderful than anything we had ever anticipated.

So, whatever spontaneous storm may come our way I plan on loving my wife.

If you truly love someone (and they truly love you), commit to that love and plan on it being hard work.

But also plan on it being the most rewarding work of your life.

Dead Poem 006 - Life S_cks

2014-09-21T01:47:00.001+08:00

Who said life's going to be easy.

Obtuse, it's nothing but fallacy.

[ND, 2014]

Dead Poem 005 - Mama

2014-09-20T23:04:00.001+08:00

A lot of me now is because of you,

A fine young man who forever loves you.

[ND, 2014]

Dead Poem 004 - Unforgiven

2014-09-19T14:36:00.001+08:00

You broke my heart and ask me why i could hardly forgive.

T'was genuine love, it's painful can't find any relief.

[ND, 2014]

Dead Poem 003 - Valar Morghulis

2014-09-18T22:56:00.001+08:00

Death is constant, even gods will not deny.

It is the rule of life that all men must die.

[ND, 2014]

Dead Poem 002 - Carpe Diem

2014-09-18T22:39:00.001+08:00

Seize the day, and never be confronted with fears inside.

In the end it is you who will rejoice or suffer, so don't mind.

[ND, 2014]

Dead Poem 001 - The Sun

2014-09-18T22:31:00.001+08:00

To dream big, as big as the sun.

You can see but you can never touch.

[ND, 2014]

The Pain Of Being In Love With Someone You Can Never Be With

2014-06-24T19:51:00.002+08:00

And so I am back, for the mean time. Sorry for neglecting this blog for how many months. I can't promise to keep posting (as if someone's reading my blog). Anyhow, just like to share an article I found while browsing my Facebook feeds. I do think this is worth reading and I found it very enlightening. So please take a moment of your busy life to read this.

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THE PAIN OF BEING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE YOU CAN NEVER BE WITH

Love is a tricky thing. It varies in intensity and in the specificity of emotions. It is sometimes the most beautiful thing in the world and, at other times, it’s the most horrid thing we’ve ever come face-to-face with.

It’s odd how one thing could be the cause of so many contrary feelings. But that’s what makes love so beautiful – it’s the closest thing to perfection that exists in the world, the only thing that can easily and comfortably encompass both good and evil, beautiful and ugly.

It’s the closest thing to a flawless whole that man has ever claimed to have been part of.

When we think of love, we think of the happy kind of love, the kind that is the beginning of something beautiful – something that breathes life.

There is, however, another kind of love, a much darker and sadder kind of love. It’s the love one feels when one loves someone he or she can never and will never have.

It’s the kind of love that doesn’t signal the beginning of something beautiful, but rather the end of something that might have been beautiful, but will never amount to anything more than what it is.

Contrary to popular belief or popular wishful thinking, love doesn’t always end happily. It doesn’t always result in the joining of two people, the fusing of two lives into one.

Sometimes, on rare occasions, it results in the wedging apart of the two who love each other the most. You can love someone with all your soul and never get a chance to be with that person. Even worse, you can know that you love him or her, understanding there is no possibility that the two of you will ever be together.

Some people cannot and will not ever end up together, even if they do love each other. It’s a sad truth, but a truth, nonetheless.

The fact is, love is not enough. All those fairytales, all those stories and movies you’ve heard and watched growing up, lied to you. Love is never enough because love is not rational.

You hear that love is irrational all the time, yet you still hear the same people saying that love is enough to keep two people together.

Unfortunately, we live in a world governed by rationality, and while love may be irrational, and we may manage to make it work for some time, the real world always catches up with us and our irrational illusions dissipate into thin air.

Then we are left with reality and reality doesn’t always reason the way lovers do.

Some people don’t work out together. They have habits or beliefs that make it impossible to co-habitate with the person they love. There isn’t a couple out there that loves every little thing about one another.

Sure, they may find certain quirks cute or unique, but they don’t love them; they simply accept them. There are some people who have such habits, tendencies, or thinking patterns that really do make them incompatible with the other person.

The two may love each other fully, because remember, love isn’t rational, yet not be able to live and deal with each other forever. This is why relationships require compromise.

You’re not going to love everything about the person you are with, but you love enough about him or her to live with the things you don’t love. Not all people are willing to, or even able to, compromise. Sometimes it just doesn’t work, regardless of what our emotions tell us.

Compromising, of course, is a choice. You either choose to make it work or you choose not to. I believe this fully. As long as something doesn’t go against your nature, over time you can make it work. But there are still some cases when compromising isn’t enough.

Sometimes there are other reasons two people cannot and will not ever be together. In fact, this is usually the deciding factor of whether or not two lovers will be capable of spending their lives together: if they are able to forgive and forget.

Because love is as intense an emotion as one gets, it occasionally leads us to make poor choices – choices that are hurtful to the ones we love.

They may be poor calls of judgment, lies we told or things we said. When it comes to love, our pasts haunt us. We move from relationship to relationship, hauling all that luggage we managed to accumulate in our previous relationship.

Because lovers who can’t work together don’t like to accept this fact, they have a tendency of breaking up and getting back together repeatedly.

Each time they take a break from each other, they come back and try to start fresh. But the problem is, they’re still carrying all that luggage. And sooner or later, they start to unpack. All the demons come out.

When love scars, it cuts deep. The pain isn’t easily forgotten and usually cannot be willfully forgotten. When you hurt the woman you love enough, she won’t come back to you. And because you still love her, you wouldn’t take her back even if she asked you to.

You don’t trust yourself not to hurt her again and even if you did, she wouldn’t trust you not to hurt her again. Relationships are built on trust and you shattered her trust.

Chances are, you both have bruises that have never fully healed and likely will never fully heal. And that’s just something you decided that you’ll have to live with. Why?

Because you really don’t have any other options. You just hope that the two of you find others to love so you can think about each other less and so you don’t have to worry about her happiness anymore.

You wait in hopes that new love can take the place of the old — which it can. But that doesn’t mean you will ever stop loving each other. Some people will love each other until the day they die, spending the majority of their lives apart. And so is the darker side of love.

Originally posted at http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/means-love-someone-can-never/

Vision 2014

2014-01-01T12:18:00.002+08:00

2013 went by so fast...

Now, hello and welcome 2014...

Last year may be the most unfelt or should I say coldest year of my existence. Though a lot of exciting adventures happened. There were also a lot of things to be thankful and at the same time to be sorry for.

The improvements and bad habits that makes now the new me; the numerous counts of new experience and friends added to my list; and of course the progress and learnings in my beloved work -- All these made my 2013.

Yet, it seems that it wasn't special and remarkable at all because most of those events i am not with my family and true friends. Being away from home and working in the urban jungle maybe the reason why I feel this way. Nevertheless, I could still say "Cheers! Let's continue to live and fulfill our dreams."

Moreover, I hope that this year it would be better and be much favorable to me. I am not getting younger, I should work and aim for more. For now, let me share this article to you and hopefully I can manage to achieve this little by little this year. Again, HAPPY NEW YEAR and cheers for a life filled with love, food, and happiness!

8 Ways To Have The Best 2014 Possible

Originally written by: Jessie Garber
Originally posted in: Thought Catalog

1. Begin to eliminate all of the negativity from your life.

People come in our lives to serve a certain purpose and teach us a lesson, but sometimes we allow those people to stay in our lives far longer than we should. If anyone in your life brings you down more than they make you laugh or smile, or if you treat them like a priority when you are only an option to them–let them go. You can be cordial but they don’t have to be a front-runner in your life.

2. If you want to feel stronger, find your personal best way to do so.

Realize that the gym is not always the place for everyone to do this (for example, you’d need to dangle a cookie in front of the treadmill for me to get up and want to run in the morning). Taking a dance class at a local studio, or a kickboxing or yoga class at a local rec center may serve you far better than running and weight lifting. If you pay for a class, you can be sure you’ll want to go and get the most out of it, and won’t duck out as often as you would hit the snooze button for the gym.

3. Take time to learn about what’s going on in our country and the world.

Not everyone is interested in the news and politics, but I think most people wish they could jump in on discussions about what’s happening in our world with something valuable to say. I learned from a friend that the best way to do this isn’t to sift through a dozen confusing political articles, but to download the NPR app for your phone, or go to http://www.npr.org. I listen to the Morning Edition news nearly every day while I’m in the shower or eating breakfast. It is literally like having a friend explain the news to you, in a way that’s interesting and easy to understand. Plus, I think hearing it makes it much easier to comprehend!

4. Don’t post negative things on social media.

A lot of people think this is a great medium to make fun of the latest celebrity scandal or to subtweet about a rough patch with a friend/significant other (I’m guilty here, too). However, this is not the best route. How about this? Every time you get the urge to tweet or post something like this on Facebook, type “inspirational quotes” into Google and post one of these instead. Reading these quotes will help you to feel better and focus on the positive aspects of life. Plus, you’ll help to brighten up the days of those who read your posts and inspire them to see the good in everything, as well.

5. Stop listening to what everyone else wants for your life, and decide for yourself.

Always wanted that haircut, to travel to another country, or to go back to school? Find a responsible way to do everything you’ve wanted to do. While some things probably can’t happen right away, you can start to save money for them, or work to get there. If it doesn’t work out, at least you tried and it you’ll know. But if it does work out, it could end up changing your life for the better and helping you to feel more confident in your life’s path.

6. Define what you want to do in life, and how you’re going to get there.

Write down your goals or create a bucket list, and do something every single day that helps you get closer to these goals. Dreams are often achieved through a lot of hard work and time dedicated to them, and breaking them down into smaller steps can help you to see the results faster and more efficiently.

7. Say “no” to overflooding your schedule, and say “yes” to more opportunities for personal growth.

Often, if you like to be helpful, you probably say yes to every favor everyone asks of you. I’m here to say that it is completely alright to say no (politely) every once in a while when you are feeling overwhelmed. We need to start saying yes to the valuable things that will help us to grow, like volunteer opportunities or donating time or any money we can afford to causes we believe in, so we can ensure a better future for those that will come after us.

8. Never underestimate the importance of alone time.

It’s fun to be with friends and family, but it is often crucial to your mental and emotional health that you relax and do things that you like to do. Whether you like to have Netflix marathons (a.k.a. ice cream, party of one), meditate, read a good book, or cook dinner for yourself, make sure you set aside time to do whatever makes you happy. It’s a great way to unwind and learn more about what you love in life, as opposed to what everyone around you does.

Him vs Her (Wants and Needs)

2013-12-17T21:27:00.000+08:00

Read across the web and found it very funny but indeed true. Maybe this is one of the many reasons or the best explanation why i can't stand a relationship for too long. I hope this will not offend anyone from the opposite sex.

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements

So whats so hard about that?

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY

It's really not too difficult but....

To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

44. give her compliments regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes.

BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes.

Yet still, you're all in my high respect girls...

When Ignorance is Bliss

2013-12-08T21:42:00.000+08:00

I deplore
being ignored.

For---

I am not a bore!

But it's perplexing sweet,
and quite sexy too---
to be ignored,
ignored by you.

-Lang Leav

Again...

2013-12-08T21:38:00.003+08:00

Again...
And again.

I could not put into a clear context what i am feeling right now. After a weekend of stress-free life and bonding with our new found friends, i could not grasp what's happening again with my own psyche.

The feeling is heavy. The feeling is exhausting. The feeling is f*cking helpless and disturbing.

*Arghh*

I just want to go home, or ride a longboard, that would be awesome. Maybe i'm just having my seasonal mood change again and i think it's getting worst.

I want to know!