Simply Do You.

Is Simply Doing You A License To Do Whatever?

Kimberly Virdure-King — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 00:45:48 +0000

Is Simply Doing You A License To Do Whatever? Some say, “I’m just being me…”, as they fall back on their childhood and other past experiences to justify lying, cheating and stealing. Some people blame others for violations they know to be dishonorable by saying, “hey, they made me do that, what else could I [...]

Get Out Of Your Head And Do It!

Kimberly Virdure-King — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 16:57:01 +0000

Get Out Of Your Head And Do It! What is the one thing you see yourself being, living and doing, but haven’t done yet? You’ve been dreaming this dream, tapping your foot to your own special melody, just beaming at the thought of being your vision of accomplishment. Some of us want our names on [...]

Your Acceptance Grants Permission

Kimberly Virdure-King — Tue, 26 May 2009 20:34:51 +0000

Your Acceptance Grants Permission What is it that you don’t want, yet have been accepting from yourself? If you’re granting procrastination the space and time to become a part of your identity, you’ve accepted a reality that doesn’t reflect your potential. If you’ve decided you don’t have enough left over to save, you’ve given yourself [...]

Time To Face Your Funk

Kimberly Virdure-King — Tue, 19 May 2009 18:57:23 +0000

Time To Face Your Funk Ever notice how hard it is to breathe with your head buried in the sand? Losing your sense of sight is bad enough; well, not so bad - you were willing to sacrifice clarity of vision when you dug that hole. As time moves on that thing you’re trying desperately to ignore [...]

You’ve Already Got It

Kimberly Virdure-King — Tue, 12 May 2009 20:32:45 +0000

You’ve Already Got It First we want a thing, and then we pursue the thing. When we get it, we want the thing to be another thing or we want a new thing all together. Wanting, pursuing, then wanting again keeps life fresh and inspires us to continually reach new levels of contentment and satisfaction… [...]

What Does Simply Do You Mean?

Kimberly Virdure-King — Sun, 19 Apr 2009 19:58:58 +0000

What Does Simply Do You Mean? “Simply do you? What does that mean?” “What does simply doing you mean to you?” “… that I do whatever I want to.” I’ve had the conversation many times and I’m always amused at the furrowed brows I see when I reply with, “How often does what you want [...]

She Says, He Thinks

Kimberly Virdure-King — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 18:23:11 +0000

She Says, He Thinks “We need to talk”. I’ve certainly approached more than a few relationship dilemmas that way. As a woman, I am biologically wired to talk (and write) through my feelings. Society and conditioning have taught us women that talking things through is the best way to bring about any love-related change we crave. [...]

Check Your Perceptions Of Others

Kimberly Virdure-King — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:28:31 +0000

Check Your Perceptions Of Others How many of your perceptions of others have come from a third, fourth or fifth party? Be honest. No one else can hear your thoughts, so have a moment of Truth. Here’s an example that will take you to where I’m going… Let’s say Person B told you Person A [...]

All That I Am Is You

Kimberly Virdure-King — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 20:43:41 +0000

All That I Am Is You This post is in honor of an especially special Soul. I’m writing about an energy, a source, that never lets me down. This Soul keeps me on my feet by challenging me to my greatest potential and knocks me off my feet with constant doses of the purest love I’ve ever [...]

When the Love of Your Life Leaves

Kimberly Virdure-King — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 19:39:52 +0000

When the Love of Your Life Leaves The question of what to do when the love of your life leaves was asked of me recently. This one is easy as within the question lies a blaring contradiction. The phrase ‘love of your life’ implies a mutual commitment. Love is commitment, plain and simple. As you [...]