Single Woman Having Sex

Casual Sex Study

2008-12-01T02:25:00.004-05:00

An International survey of more than 14,000 people in 48 countries through anonymous questionnaires about numbers of sex partners, one-night stands, how many people they expected to sleep with in the next five years and how comfortable they were with casual sex.

1 United Kingdom
2 Germany
3 Netherlands
4 Czech Republic
5 Australia
6 USA
7 France
8 Turkey
9 Mexico
10 Canada
11 Italy
12 Poland
13 Spain
14 Greece
15 Portugal

You can read more HERE

Masturbating for Single Woman

2008-06-16T09:55:00.004-04:00

Ok ladies, so I've told you how "Freaky" I am and how knowing what turns you on benefits you, so I thought I'd share with you a few things that might help you when it comes to Masturbating!! Ok so if you have "Toys" (dildo, vibrator, anything long sturdy) find a comfortable position and try different things. I personally like kneeling or standing, you have more control(it's kinda like being on top). If you think you don't have any "Toys" look around your house..spoons, brushes, I've even heard the old cucumber works, use your imagination!! Ok Ladies I'm going to explain in detail how I masturbate, kinda a "HOW TO"...so here I go: I have a dildo and vibrator that I switch between, just depends which I'm in the mood for..in the kneeling position I stick the dildo inside and begin to ride it like I would a dick, I use my index finger and middle finger to rub my clit (I always stimulate my clit because whether you realize it or not when your having sex it is always being touched for some kind of stimulation)..I play with my nipples(I pull, squeeze, lick, and bite..anything your partner would do) and the skin right next to my nipples is sensitive so I pinch that also..Also, ladies if you want to talk "Dirty" in bed but are afraid, do it when you masterbate!! I do a little talking when I'm having sex, but I'm like a sailor when I'm fucking myself!!
Now in the Standing position, your gonna need a chair!! I have a folding chair that I cover (to not get all messy) I use a pillow sometimes for height but usually I place the toys base on the chair and again ride it as it I were having sex..now I live out fantasies when I masturbate and in this position sometimes I act like I'm fucking a girl!! Ladies it's ok to be straight and fantasies about being with women!!! Believe it or not I think it has alot to do with control!! I usually picture my "Buddies" face and say his name when I'm masterbating, but you can think of anything that turns you on!!! No one ever has to know what you're thinking or doing so you can get as "Wild and Crazy" as you want!! I love pain during sex and it isn't any different when I fuck myself!! I've bitten myself other than my nipples because I love to be bit during sex, I've spanked myself, tied my legs and one hand...anything that you think about try with yourself to see if you are turned on by it!!! When you know what you like it's easier to get your partner to try it with you!!! O yeah one more thing!!!...A lot of times women have problems completely enjoying themselves when it comes to their orgasms...LADIES it's ok to get "Messy" if while you're masturbating or even during sex you feel like "pee" is gonna come out, LET IT!!! 9 times out of 10 (there is that 1%) that is you CUMMING!!! It's great and trust me you can clean it up later...hint...use towels under you at all times, just in case!!! Have Fun!!!

Sex Toys For Single Women Having Sex

2008-06-08T23:09:00.005-04:00

Found a cool website with lots of adult sex toys that I thought were a little different than the run-of-the-mill vibrators and fuzzy handcuffs in most adult toy stores.......so I thought I would share!

Not just for single women having sex....there is something for everyone!

Enjoying Sex

2008-04-27T19:47:00.006-04:00

Like I said earlier, I love to talk about sex, and as I've talked to women I've learned that there are more women that don't have orgasms or very few orgasms than I could believe!! Myself, I'm very blessed, maybe even a freak of nature, LOL, I have multiple orgasms pretty much everytime! Now I know women that have great sex and are very satisfied with 1 or 2 orgasms, but for those of you that are NOT satisfied, please read!!

Sex is meant to be fun and pleasureable for BOTH people involved!! Again, I don't know what it's like to be a man, but ladies if you're not having fun, something is wrong! It could be your partner, but it might have alot to do with you! Trust me, that was my case! When you aren't comfortable with yourself or sex it can make sex seem like a chore! You can have sex everday and still not be comfortable with it!! Sex is DIRTY but in a wonderful way!!! Myself, I'm pretty freaky, but you don't have to be to have fun, but I DO think you're missing out if you haven't tried it!!

It can be hard experimenting when you're single, but if you have a friend with benefits that you see often try to open up to them!! It can be hard to discuss sex with other people, but ladies believe it or not, men are MORE turned on by a woman that wants to "PLAY" and knows what she wants!! Men are simple creatures to please, but when you're playful, it's 10 times easier!! Great example: My "BUDDY" and I have been having sex off and on for about 2yrs now, in the begining we would hook up and have sex it was pretty good sex, but in the last 4mths we've opened up to each other and the sex is amazing !!! I kinda made him have sex the way I love to have sex (kinky), but TRUST me, he LOVES it too!!

Sometimes you have to "Teach" your partner, but you have to figure out what turns you on and makes you cum before you can expect your partner to! Being single you can find out what makes you hot, you just have to let go!! Get tipsy if you have to to loosen up(not drunk or fucked up), the more you're focusing on, the less you're going to enjoy sex!! You have to let yourself "go with the flow"! But if you can't let go with someone, try it by yourself!!

Single Woman Having Sex

2008-04-19T01:14:00.001-04:00

Here we are, living in 2008, where make-up and media rule the world! But, that's not what WE'RE here to talk about!! Because SEX rules my world, I'm here to talk about being a young, single, woman, and having sex!

Now we've all been told by parent's and grandparents, "Back in my day", but today sex is a common conversation! It's so common it's in movies and tv sitcoms, hell it's even in the work place, at least mine!! Some people think you shouldn't talk about sex or masterbation when you're a woman, so it makes it that much more exciting for me!! I'm usually the first person to bring it up in a converstation!! But don't get me wrong I use to only talk about it with friends and still blush!

With that being said, I am a 26yr. old , single woman that loves sex!! I started having sex when I was 13 and until about 2 or 3 years ago, wasn't comfortable with sex!! How crazy does that sound?! Now, I have no shame in being a single woman that enjoys having and talking about sex! I think if you're ashammed of anything you do, you shouldn't be doing it!!

I know women and men have very different views on sex and I can't speak from a mans point of view, so guys feel free to butt in, but here are somethings when it comes to being single and having sex...When your single it can be hard to find someone you enjoy having sex with, ecspecially if you're like me, I hate the club/bar scene, hell there are times I hate to leave my house period!! Luckily, right now I have a friend-with-benefits/fuck buddy, that knows me and what I like, but it took sometime!! I've done the online thing, and the one-night stands, trust me, they happen, usually more than once!! When you're single you're allowed to have fun, just be careful!! Ladies we don't have to rely on men to buy condoms!! For back-up (suprise guest you might bring home) have some condoms or most stores have female protection (most only keep you from getting pregnant, not from STD's). The other reason I say be careful is not everyone is looking for the same thing! You might only be looking for a fuck-buddy but the person you sleep with might be looking for more! At first have fun with it unless you feel the other person wanting more, but at some point you both need to be clear what your looking for!!
Being single gives you the freedom to expiernce life and I believe the more you expiernce, the better off you are!!! So with that being said any comments, questions, or concerns...I try my best to please!!! LOL Have a GREAT day!!! Happy Hunting!!