Smiles and Rants

A Mother's Day Video Greeting

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sat, 11 May 2013 16:13:00 +0000

I’m doing something different for Mother’s Day this year. You see, I discovered Inwiter, a company that lets you create and send video greeting cards and invitations.

When I got pregnant, my stepmom was in Afghanistan working. Fate worked her magic and she found herself in Atlanta a couple weeks before I had Cristian. We’ve been lucky to spend the past month with her. She got to meet her first grandson and create special memories her and I will both share. He won’t remember, but he’ll have pictures. Unfortunately, she had to go back before mother’s day. So I had an idea.

Why not create a special Mother’s Day video greeting card. I know she checks her email and Facebook. It’s much easier to communicate with her online than send her a card via snail mail. So I used some of the pictures from the past month to create an extra special Mother’s Day card.

Just by uploading special pictures, adding my own text with a loving message, some music—I created a unique and one of a kind video greeting card for my mom.

A Smile: OB-GYN Associates

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 03:53:00 +0000

Back when I first started this blog, I would either "smile" or "rant" about a variety of things. I'm going to go back to those roots for this post, which is about a month past due.

When I found out I was pregnant with my ever so cute #SmilingBaby, I just signed the lease to my house in Marietta, GA. I immediately began researching OBGYNs in Marietta. I came across OB-GYN Associates. Now, I didn't just look at their website and pick them. Nope. I researched all the physicians first and then made the call. All of the doctors came with glowing reviews. I did appreciate the fact that they had a very nicely done website. I liked that they had all the patient forms online so I didn't spend time in the office to do it.

I had to see all the doctor's in the practice and the midwives so I would be comfortable with all of them. All the doctor's are awesome. They are super nice and friendly. Being a first timer, they did a good job at putting me at ease.

Dr. Terry Kelley ended up delivering Cristian via c-section. He was great. My recovery time was super fast. I was up and walking a few hours after recovery. I was up and moving fairly normally after a week. Really, I wasn't in that much pain at all. He did a fabulous job. I almost can't even see the incision. I was very pleased.

Dr. Windom came and checked on me while I was recovering in the hospital. He also did the circumcision. He was one of my favs when I rotated through during my pregnancy. He's very well known in the medical community and just overall, super friendly and a good doctor.

Dr. Tackitt released me from the hospital. He was also the doctor I saw the appointment when I found out I was having a boy. That was a good day. Again, nothing but good things to say.

I only saw Dr. Kimberly Huffman once, but really liked her. She was very nice. I was concerned about excessive swelling in my ankles and she was good about going over ways to reduce swelling and warning signs.

I saw Dr. Chappell twice. She was the first doctor I saw there. She did a good job of setting expectations for my pregnancy, going over my history and possible complications. I thought she was funny and and very to the point. She put me at ease.

All of the doctors are fabulous. But I have to say a few things about the nurses too. You get to know them going every month and then weekly. All of them are great. I've gone back twice with Cristian for follow up appointments. It was nice to let them see the baby that they helped monitor.

So...most definitely a smile at OB-GYN Associates of Marietta, GA. As long as I'm in the Atlanta area, I'll go there.

Video Greeting Cards for the Little Brother’s Big 2-6

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sun, 21 Apr 2013 19:39:00 +0000

Today is my little brother’s birthday. He’s really not that little at 26. But in my heart, he’ll always be my kid brother. Early this morning, I posted a birthday message on Facebook. I would normally send him a card in the mail. But honestly, I doubt he read those cards, much less kept them. It was a waste of my money and resources. Being environmentally aware, I did something different this year.

I sent Alex a video greeting card with Inwiter. I saved myself some money and did my small part to save the environment y spending a few minutes to create a greeting card online.

I wish I had some sappy video of us together; but since I didn’t, I used pictures. I logged in to Inwiter using my Google account and created Alex’s birthday video greeting card in a matter of minutes. I uploaded my pictures, added text, added a song, and emailed him the card. To embarrass him even more, I posted it on Facebook. It took less than five minutes, plus it was free!

We like to do something special to celebrate each other’s birthdays. Video greeting cards are different and unique because you really do get to personalize them. No one will get the same card, or God forbid, you won’t accidently give the same card as previous years. That has happened to me. Without realizing it, one year I gave Alex the same birthday card as two years before. I doubt he realized it, but I remember because the card seemed familiar.

So this year, it was special. This is a big year for my bro. He has some big changes ahead. It seemed fitting that I do something different and extra special right before all his major life changes take place.

Mommy Changes

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 01:45:00 +0000

My little brother, Vlad asked me if becoming a mom has changed me. Of course it's changed me. Obviously, my life revolves around this new little person. I've always been pretty responsible and all that adult stuff. But having Cristian has made me dare I say calmer and more relaxed. Small stuff hasn't bothered me as much. Cristian crying and being peed and pooped on doesn't phase me. Oddly enough, I embrace it. I look at my new little one in awe at the fact that I am a mom.

Life is different. Life is good. A week after my life changed forever, I have to say that life is pretty good despite the lack of sleep. I'm recovering from the csection. I'm still in a little pain, but nothing I can't handle, even without the prescriptions. My neighbors came over today and said that I don't even look like I had a baby, which was sweet. I'm not where I was pre-pregnancy, but I'm not as big either. I am looking forward to getting the green light to start exercising again. It's getting nice outside and walks with the baby sound perfect.

The beagles have reacted pretty well to the baby. They were aggressive with each other today, but I think that has more to do with the fact that there was extra food because of Easter dinner than anything else. They are attentive to the baby and sniff and wag their tails when they sit next to him.

The Day Before

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sun, 24 Mar 2013 21:05:00 +0000

When I started this blog years ago, things were so different. Fresh out of a divorce, living on the Illinois side of the metro St. Louis area, I was fighting with my ex to get full custody of the beagles. Back then I thought I was never going to have children. My life a year ago was different. I was living in St. Louis city, beagles in tow, having a blast going to networking events, just starting to work on my doctorate. I was actually dating a really nice guy, a doctor. But it didn't work out because he didn't share my views on fostering children and with the intention of adoption (since I thought I couldn't have them). That was a deal breaker for me. Now, in Atlanta, I'm going to have a child of my own tomorrow.

The writer in me has to laugh. I'm not the writer in this story though. God is. This past year, I've learned that I may have the drive to succeed and make things happen. But it is God who is the true author. At least that's the case for me. He is for us all if we stop and listen.

Cuddles with Lyn Snuggles

I've done a lot of reflecting my last few days alone with the beagles. We took some extra time to cuddle because after tomorrow, Thursday (when I come home from the hospital for the beagles), life will most definitely be different. I think the dogs know change is in the air. I'm so thankful for every experience thus far and looking forward to the new experiences ahead.

By the way, I think it is rather fitting that #SmilingBaby is born during Holy week since I consider this little one to be my little miracle. I hope it's a good omen that Cristian will grow in faith. I hope he'll grow up to be a strong leader who leads by showing Christ's love through his actions and willingness to serve.

For updates on my little guy, check out Smiling Marketress Mama. This blog will continue to be used for other purposes.

A Few Days

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Thu, 21 Mar 2013 02:59:00 +0000

Well folks, I have a few precious days left until I become a mom...a few days left on my own with the #smilingpooches...a few days left of dealing with a gigantic belly and feet so swollen I can only wear flip flops. If you didn't hear, I'm going to have #SmilingBaby on Monday via a c-section. It's been a while since I wrote for Smiles and Rants so if you didn't know, I have a new (yes, another one) blog: Smiling Marketress Mama. You can read all about #SmilingBaby there.

So my last days...

#SmlingPooches
I think of the #SmilingPooches. Peaches and Lyn have been the center of my world for quite some time. I worry about how they're going to react to baby Cristian. I worry about not showing them as much love like I have been. I'm going to make sure to spend some extra time cuddling with them. Somehow, I want to try and include them in playtime with the baby. I'm not sure how I'll do that, but I want them to feel part of the experience. Maybe I'll talk to them while I feed the baby or change him. Sounds silly, but you have to know Peaches and Lyn to understand.

They have been EXTRA protective lately, barking and being more alert. Lyn normally sounds the alarm, but Peaches has taken over. If I'm in one room, one of the beagles will come and check on me and then go back to their previous spots.

#SmilingMarketress
I try and imagine how I'll manage balancing working and being a mom. My career has defined me until now. I can't imagine it not defining me. I'm in love with online marketing. I plan on working while I'm in the hospital. I won't be pulling 8 hour days, but I will be writing,monitoring social networks for clients and managing projects. My clients have told me they don't expect me to work, but I can't imagine NOT working.

Doctorate
I'm not in class right now, but that doesn't mean I won't be reading and researching. I'm not so worried about school. I've always been pretty disciplined. I'm pretty confident I can manage school and having a baby.

So these last few days, I want to take advantage of the quiet. I want to take advantage of extra time with the beagles. I hope to make it church Sunday if the swelling in my feet goes down enough to wear actual shoes instead of flip flops so I can thank God in His sanctuary for all the blessings He's given me thus far and pray for no complications and a healthy baby Monday morning.

I will admit that I was pretty adamant against having a c-section when I first found out I was pregnant. But now I realize that was pure fear and the best thing for me and this little boy is this procedure. With my history and family history of birthing large babies, I think it's best. I'm not as scared anymore. I have a will to recover quickly. Think good thoughts for me Monday. Procedure will take place at noon EST.

#SmilingBaby's Mama Laughs

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Fri, 15 Feb 2013 04:19:00 +0000

At 34 weeks pregnant, I have to laugh. So much of life was based on me not having children. It affected my first marriage, other relationships, my nonprofit work, why I decided to focus on my career and education...All of my decisions as an adult was based on what three doctors told me. I used to cry because I thought I'd never experience pregnancy. I grieved unborn children I never had.

Now that I am, I really am laughing. I have been so very lucky. Other than a few scares with a few contractions, my pregnancy has been "text book easy" as the doctors have told me. This #SmilingBaby is healthy. I do think he'll come before my March 28th due date. Call it intuition. Contractions are pretty regular now and stronger. The max in one hour has been four. I have this fear I'll go into labor while at choir practice or in the middle of church. Now that would be embarrassing. I prefer my life quiet and peaceful, not hectic and dramatic.

I will admit. These last few weeks, although completely normal, have been pure torture. Everyone told me the last trimester would be the most uncomfortable. That #SmilingBaby would kick me in the ribs so much it hurts. Oh yes, he's quite the socker player. What I wasn't told was that he'd squirm and play while I sing, which perhaps tells me he'll be somewhat musical.

As the end of this pregnancy draws near, I look back and laugh. I once grieved never being able to have children. And now that I'm experiencing it, I laugh. It's wonderful and terrible at the same time. I'm happy, but not overly excited. It's still a strange thought for me...being a mom to a human baby. Being a beagle mama is easy. But having to take care of a human life...well. I find myself changing the way I see the world. I'm making decisions that will impact the rest of my life.

Here's to more laughter, this time with sounds of a happy baby and thankful first time mom.

Singing a New Song

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sat, 09 Feb 2013 04:12:00 +0000

Well folks, I did it. I gave in. I joined a choir. It's really not that big of a deal. It's just a church choir. I just haven't involved myself in a choir since high school. I sing all the time...at home...by myself, where no one can hear me. I take music way to seriously to sing karaoke and I'm way to shy to sing in public unless I've practiced--a lot. But a choir is different. I had fun back in the day when I was in four choirs for school.

During the session meeting when the session of John Knox Presbyterian Church voted me in as member, Pastor Fritz said that he heard I sing. I was caught off guard to say the least. I'm not sure how he found out. I don't really advertise that in public and I didn't think I sang that loudly (or well for that matter) during church services. But since then, I was asked ever so nicely to just come to choir rehearsal and check it out. I wasn't planning on going, especially since I'm so close to having #SmilingBaby. But last Sunday, I had two choir members ask me. One of them introduced me to the choir director and I found myself saying that I would be at choir rehearsal this week. Go figure!

It, dear ones, was awesome. This choir is small, but filled with amazing voices. I was nervous because it has been so long since I sang seriously. I haven't read site read in over 10 years, much less cared to concern myself with proper pronunciation while singing. I was happy that some of that came back rather quickly.

Back in the day, I was a soprano--a first soprano at that. I used to sing those high notes without a problem. I didn't think I still had that high of range since I've been out of practice for so long. But I surprised myself when I heard some of those notes come out of my mouth on Thursday.

The overall experience was pretty awesome. I had an absolutely great time at choir practice. I got excited about some of the melodies like I used to and got all giddy when we got it just right.

Then of course, #SmilingBaby decided to move as we were singing. He's done that before when I would sing in the car. I'm hoping the little guy is musical. We'll have mommy and baby jam sessions while I make dinner and clean. Besides, I plan on sticking him in music lessons as soon as he's old enough.

It felt really good to sing again. And to sing in church, honoring the Him who gave me the ability to use my talents for good makes it even sweeter. So that's the story morning glories. I joined a choir.

I will say this. This place...Marietta, GA...feels like home. It's more home to me in the short time I've been here than St. Louis was the entire 10 years I was there. I just feel more myself here. I'm getting back to the things I love most and really taking time to enjoy being part of a community of people who love giving back and doing good as much as I do. I was asked if I plan on staying in Atlanta. The answer to that is yes. I took a risk coming out this way...a gigantic leap of faith. But my experience so far has been wonderful. I'll stay in the south and make it home. #SmilingBaby will grow up here.

I suppose you could say I'm singing a new song now that I'm making Atlanta home. I'm making it up as I go along.

#SmilingBaby Count Down

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Tue, 05 Feb 2013 01:41:00 +0000

It's not that I have been in denial, because this beach ball that weighs an extra 50lbs is a reminder, but I have been somewhat leery of talking about the #SmilingBaby I'm carrying. Considering I never thought I'd have a baby, this is taking some getting used to. I'm happy and excited, but cautiously optimistic. You never know what's going to happen, and quite frankly, I've stopped trying to guess. So I take things one day at a time and deal with the fact that in less than 7 weeks, I will have a baby...a #SmilingBaby at that, in my arms. Being that I am the Smiling Marketress, you know he (yes, it's a boy) has a hashtag already.

I have been really lucky. I am as easy as they come. The only thing that is not average is the fact that I have gained more than the 25 lbs they recommend. My doctor assured me it's normal for first time moms. And it's probably even more normal since my siblings and I were over 9 lbs at birth. I was 9 + lbs, my brother Alex was 10 + and she had us naturally. The baby of the family was a whopping 14 lbs. Needless to say, I'm expecting #SmilingBaby to be on the larger side.

Am I ready? Not really. I don't think I'll ever really be ready to be a mom. I was planning on adopting in my late 30s and focusing on work and finishing my doctorate. But I the nursery is done. Much to my dismay, there was a lack of smiley face baby gear. Instead, I opted for Dr. Seuss's, "Oh the Places You'll Go" accented with smiley faces. I'm pretty sentimental and believe in giving this little guy a foundation of positive energy. I want him to accomplish some amazing things, whatever they may be. This idea will be engrained in his head from day 1. If his mom can come from Romania and make it, get a doctorate, then surely #SmilingBaby is capable of far more. All parents think that about their kids, I'm sure. But I really am going to make sure he has the tools and opportunities he needs to do whatever he feels called to do.

Even his name is packed full of meaning. I will call him Cristian Alexandru. Cristian is my brother Vlad's middle name. Alexandru is my brother Alex's name. But it's more than just being named after my brothers. It's the meaning behind the names that I love. Cristian means anointed follower of Christ. I wouldn't be where I am or who I am if it wasn't for my faith. I also consider him God's gift to me considering I was told I was never going to have a child of my own. I do want #SmilingBaby to show Christ's love in his actions...to volunteer and show compassion and be active in the community. Alexandru means protector of mankind. I want him to be caring and live a life of service to others. How he decides to do that will be up to him. But the foundation will be there. Plus, Alex the Great spent time in my home city of Bacau, Romania.

This pregnancy has changed me. I used to be VERY type A. I had to have plans and schedules and then backup plans and schedules. Since this wasn't on my radar at all, I've learned that it's not what I want that's important. Although I should know this by now, it's really God's will that should be my focus. God's will always wins out in the end anyway. Have I stopped planning and being organized all together? No. I'm just more flexible than I was before. Professionally, I will always remain very type A because business is business, and I'm good at my job because I make big things happen. I need that organization to make everything come together just right. But personally--eehhhh...things are what they are. Life is easier when we just go with the flow.

So less than 7 weeks to go. #SmilingBaby is already in position, head down and feet up resting on my ribs. He loves it when I sing and will often kick. I suppose it's a good thing I'm being heavily recruited for the John Knox Presbyterian Church choir. I know I will be posting live on Facebook during my stay in the hospital. I doubt I'll post much on Twitter.

Just Care

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Mon, 14 Jan 2013 02:08:00 +0000

Today was Baptism Sunday at church. It's the day Christ was baptized. By the way, I attend John Knox Presbyterian in Marietta, GA. As always, Pastor Fritz delivered a message that inspired and gets you thinking about how we can use our faith to live better lives. He reminded us as we visit the baptismal and take a pebble to remind us of our own baptisms, to say thank you and also to reflect on ways we can be of service to the community. It just so happened that I, along with two other wonderful ladies from the congregation, were already planning on serving dinner at Must Ministries tonight.

Being active and giving back to the community is something I really value. I think all of us should do it. Being new to metro Atlanta area, I wanted to find a good fit. I found that fit at John Knox. Instead of going to other organizations, I decided to find ways to be of service at church, through their mission work. I figured it would help me get to know members of the congregation and also give back to a community that I am now calling home.

One of the many things that impressed me about John Knox was this feeling of love you felt once you walked in. I've visited many churches, but none of them really felt "loving." That sounds awful, I know. And maybe it's just me. The congregation at John Knox lived "love." You could feel Christ's love radiate from all them. That genuine feeling of helping your neighbor is ever so present. I felt it the first Sunday I attended and every Sunday since. I saw it when the kids worked Santa's Secret Corner at Christmas, and during coffee after worship. And then I hear Pastor Fritz give his sermons. Not only does he convey the Word of God, but he conveys a message of Christ's love every Sunday. That is what faith is for me.

The song, "They'll Know We are Christians by Our Love," is one of my favorites. It's a song I think of when I volunteer. I don't care what religion you are, but for me as Christian, the whole point of volunteering is to live Christ's love. You don't have to be a Christian show love and kindness.

Getting together with the other ladies at church, making dinner, and then feeding those at the homeless shelter at Must Ministries, on today of all days, was exactly what this Atlanta newcomer needed. The ladies and I agreed that we'll do this again together. John Knox is one of several churches that provides dinner to the homeless at Must Ministries. I am so proud to be joining (I'm meeting with the session tomorrow and then I'll be an official member) John Knox and helping them with their mission efforts.

You don't need to be a Christian to volunteer or show your community some love. You just have to care. Care that others are without a warm place to sleep, especially now when it's cold outside. Care that children are hungry and sick. Care that parents can't afford to provide medical treatment to severely ill children and are facing death. Care about your neighbor. Even if you help just one person, you'll be making a difference. You'll provide hope that not all is lost and maybe that will give them the strength they need to keep fighting to survive.

Geeking Out Makes the #SmilingMarketress Smile

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Tue, 08 Jan 2013 03:40:00 +0000

Let me let you in on a little secret. I get the most excited when I'm working. Sounds terrible because you probably think I'm slaving away in front of a computer. Although I am in front of the computer 90% of the time, when you love what you do, it doesn't feel like work. You know exactly what I'm talking about. A fun night for me is participating in a tweet chat like #SocialChat (Mondays at 9 PM EST) and #MobileChat (Wednesdays at 9 PM EST) while jamming to music, or talking shop with peeps over dinner and drinks. I know it doesn't sound exciting to you, but I have a blast. I call it "geeking out."

Geeking Out is about letting your inner geek shine through. Anyone can do it with a variety of topics...preferably tech related. For me it's Social Media and online marketing.

I think marketers have this amazing opportunity to influence others. It's kind of like a game, except that you use it to create something positive by figuring out what consumers want and then giving them quality products and services. I see it as good vs evil. And for me, it's good content vs bad which impacts SEO and Social Media. Add the fact that marketing is fluid (something you'll hear me say a lot), and you always have something new to learn. That is exhilarating. Geeking Out is about comradery, sharing, and learning...and for me...it's through marketing.

What makes this all so sweet is that I get to combine all of this with education. I love that my doctoral dissertation and work play nicely together. It doesn't make any of it seem like work because it's fun. I get my Geeking Out nights Mondays, Wednesdays, and on nights when I'm networking or researching for class. I do little happy dances when I read something I can use for work and class, especially if it proves my point. :)

That is the secret to what REALLY gets the Smiling Marketress smiling. It's also why I don't post as often (sorry!).

Silver Paved Streets: 2012 and the Big 1-3

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Fri, 28 Dec 2012 04:00:00 +0000

I suppose I'm due for one of those reflective blog posts I normally write this time of year. I've been rather private this year than I have in the past. I suppose it's because you keep the good stuff to yourself. Sorry folks. But I suppose I'll share a few things now. I'm sorry if any of you are disappointed in the lack of details, although you may not get your dish even now.

2012 has been remarkable. There is no way I could have predicted what this year had in store for me. Sure, I knew I was going to start working on my Doctorate. I knew I'd make some changes, but nothing like this.

I have a confession. I always admired people who could start their lives in a different city and just pick up and move. I thought those people had guts to leave everything they're so familiar with and go on an adventure in a new city. I never thought I'd have it in me to really try. But I guess I do because I did. I decided in June I was going to move to Atlanta, and by the end of September, I moved. I didn't have a job, but I did move and I have been "making it" as they say. I closed my eyes and took a leap of faith. So far, it's paid off. I'm happy and in a good place, which I suppose is all that matters.

I also never thought I'd have children. Those of you close to me know how painful it was for me when I was married, trying to get pregnant. You know that it hurt being told by three different doctors that I would never conceive on my own. And wouldn't you know it, I find myself pregnant. Dubbed the #SmilingBaby (yes, my son has his own hashtag), this little one is the biggest surprise of my lifetime. You see, once I accepted that I was never going to birth a child, I buried myself in work and school. And now...well...I'm going to attempt to be Super Woman, earning my doctorate, working a career I love, and being a mom. And yes, I'm doing it on my own. Only, unlike the song, I'm not pretending he's beside me and my streets are paved with silver because I make the silver.

Holiday Reunion at Pi

Throughout this year, I've learned my strengths and weaknesses. I went from being a 20 late something to feeling like a real grownup. Every year changes you, but this year really did change my life. I have met amazing people along the way, and for all you, I am so grateful and blessed. I was able to visit those amazing people over holidays at my favorite pizza joint in St. Louis--quick shout out to Pi Pizzeria on Delmar.

I have predictions for 2013. Obviously, I really will become a mom. They say that parenthood changes you forever. I've just been on my own (I really feel like busting out in song right now writing those words) for so long, imagining having such a little person to that relies on me is strange. I can't even begin to fathom what it will be like. My career will most likely see some major changes too. I am really good at what I do. Something tells me that my hard work and passion for marketing will require more hard work, but the silver paved streets will really shine once I'm done.

So that's all you get. No gushy details or gossip about my love life, sorry. This chic is cautiously optimistic and admittedly, slightly scared of what will happen in 2013 after a quite eventful 2012. No matter what happens, you can guarantee that I'll remain the Smiling Marketress always smiling and twitching when I'm not near my iPhone or laptop.

Thanks with a Grateful Heart

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Wed, 21 Nov 2012 05:47:00 +0000

I was thinking about this week. With Thursday being Thanksgiving, it's significance has not left me. This has been an incredible year for me. 2012 has changed my life in almost every way. I am thankful for so many things.

For starters, I am thankful for everyone in my life. I am thankful for my lifelong friends who I know and trust with all my heart and every fiber of my being. My dear friend Erin comes to mind along with Cindy and Ankur. These three amazing people know me better than anyone besides my family. Their love and support is so appreciated.

I'm thankful for all my new friends. I have met some amazing people this year. Although I've only known them a short while, I feel like we've known each other for years. Danni, Angie, Dana, Lindsay...these gals are amazing. I left them in St. Louis, but they will never leave my heart. I met some pretty inspiring women at this year's doctoral residency too. I believe these ladies will be lifelong friends. They give me strength as I go about my studies. Kristle, Alicia, Melissa, and Toni, I love you like sisters.

I have been blessed to reconnect with friends from my past. When I picked Atlanta for my residency, I reconnected with a family friend. If I could have had an older sister, it would have been Gabi. And a big sister she most certainly is. I am so thankful and blessed to know her! If I hadn't moved to Atlanta, I would have never reconnected with Nikki. Her and I went to high school together. We weren't close then, but we have made up for it now. She doesn't live too far away from me, which has been so nice. She too is like a sister, who gets me and makes me laugh. This gal is pretty smart. The world can expect some big things from her.

There is one thing that I'm super thankful for this year. I haven't mentioned it on here at all. I talk about it on Facebook with my friends, but that's about it. I'm not sure you'll see me talk about it much after this. I was told my entire adult life I would never have children. I had accepted that fact. It's why I started volunteering with the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition. I thought I'd adopt if I wanted children. Even then, I joked with family and friends I'd never have a family of my own...that I'd be a career gal. I'm content on my own and single. I have my two dogs and wouldn't mind being considered the dog lady. But God had another plan. Right as my life was changing, planning a move to Atlanta, I found out I was pregnant. I just signed the lease to my new home, and on the way back to St. Louis when I found out that every doctor who told me I couldn't have children was wrong. I thought I was sick. I was scared thinking I had Inflammatory Breast Cancer. I thought my instant aversion to coffee was my body telling me I was over caffeinated and that I was studying far too late into the night. Instead, I was pregnant. Finding out was a complete shock. They say that babies have their own schedule. I guess that's true. Here I am, 27, focused on my career and working on my doctorate. Needless to say this wasn't at all what I had in mind. Once the shock wore off, I began to accept that I'm going to be a new mom next year to a little boy. So I'm thankful for this blessing and really...a miracle. I never thought I'd experience this. It's a strange thought, me being a mom.

We need to express our thanks everyday, not just on Thanksgiving. With a grateful heart, I give thanks for all the blessings God has given me.

Nice and Quiet

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 01:34:00 +0000

So I feel like I need to write an update, but honestly there isn't much to update. In my world, that's great news. :) My life is normally so crazy, fabulously hectic, but since I've moved, it's been nice and quiet. It's a definite welcome change, let me tell ya.

But that's not going to last. Nope, the craziness starts again next week. I took a leave from school for the move. I start class next week so my quiet time will disappear. I didn't completely bow out from my doctoral studies. I took this time to do some reading. I figured I'd start some research for my first three chapters of my dissertation. I read Social Marketology by Ric Dragon and Marketing in the Age of Google by Vanessa Fox. Rob Garner just published Search and Social, which I'm hoping will be a gold mine for my dissertation. But enough about that. I'll update Dr. Smiling Marketress if you want to spy on my academic brilliance.

Honestly, I've been pretty chill. I'm freelancing at the moment, but I am looking for a fulltime gig. The Smiling Pooches love having me work from home. I do miss the office environment just a tad and leading a team, mentoring...that sort of thing. I have a few things in the works, so we'll see which one pans out.

And for you prying eyes looking to read some juicy gossip especially when it comes to my personal life, you can keep on hoping. It's the first thing my friends ask, and I tell them I'm not looking. I'm all good focusing on work on finishing this doctorate thing. So no more asking me, okay?

In other news, the Smiling Pooches and I took our annual xmas pics. My mom is an amateur photographer so she came up with my brothers for a visit, and we took some pics.

There is No Place Like Home

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sat, 06 Oct 2012 00:49:00 +0000

New beginnings is so cheesy, but I am cheesy, so it kind of works for me. In June I decided to move to Atlanta. Now darlings I'm here. I'm in my new house, with the Smiling Pooches. New beginnings is an understatement.

My last week in St. Louis was hard. I had to say a lot of good byes to people I'm so close to. Some people I didn't even get a chance to see. I was in St. Louis for my early adult life. I graduated high school, college (undergrad and grad school) and became a professional. I worked really hard. Leaving that behind was like loosing a security blanket. But I closed my eyes, said a prayer, and took a leap of faith. And now, I'm starting fresh here in Atlanta as a successful marketing professional embarking on so many new journeys. I always admired people who could get up and start fresh in a new city. I envied them because I didn't think I could do it and now I have. It feels good. And yeah, I'm a little proud of myself too. :)

I found a rental house just outside the perimeter back in September. The house fits my needs. It's super cute with adorable details. The kitchen is a bit tiny, but doable. I love cooking so the kitchen is a big deal. But it's really cute so it's all good. It has gorgeous hardwood floors, which is going to be so nice with my allergies. The yard is really nice. There is some vegetation in the back of the yard, like a mini forest. The Smiling Pooches love it, especially Lyn. She found a critter the first day. I let her have her way with it because I'm too much of a chicken. I didn't hear squealing so I'm guessing all is good. She loves running in and out of the foliage. Peaches loves sunbathing and relaxing while Lyn runs around. Seeing my girls happy makes me a happy Beagle mama. It makes my heart smile.

Peaches in her spot in the yard.

Location is perfect too although I didn't realize how perfect until I got here. The area is multiculturally diverse...something I really value. I love that there are restaurants from different parts of the world minutes away and a Mediterranean grocery store just around the corner. I love that I can make Romanian food and still have a piece of home even in Georgia. I love that I'm 20 minutes from Midtown and that there is a Presbyterian church right up the street. I love that I'm in a quiet residential neighborhood close to the highway and shopping. It's kind of a perfect area. My leap of faith seems to be working for me.

Looking Back 10 Years in #STL. (#MovingToAtlanta)

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 02:15:00 +0000

You know...earlier this year, I was writing all sorts of articles on the Chinese New Year for AJPanda.com. I loved it. I learned so much about Chinese culture and the significance of 2012. If you didn't know, this is the year of the water dragon. It's characterized by strength, power, sudden changes, and luck. Well darlings, I think that's a pretty accurate description of this year so far. :)

Let's see...I started my doctoral program, have been oh so incredibly blessed by the amazing people in my life, and felt a great sense of change. After returning from my doctoral residency in Atlanta, I decided to uproot my life and relocate. I fell in love with this charming, beautiful city. I felt like I was "home" when I was there that week in June.

And a home I did find. I was in Atlanta last week house hunting. I looked at a few houses, but was drawn to one in particular. It's a1950s ranch in a quiet area with good schools that's centrally located. My mom was with me and she couldn't find anything wrong with the house. I loved the built-ins in the dining room and plush backyard. The Smiling Pooches would love it. The window in the living room is divine, lots of natural light. So I signed the lease and paid for a couple months rent.

Now the fun begins. I pack the rest of my current house this weekend, into next week. My farewell party is next Thursday. I have farewell lunches planned for Wednesday and Thursday. Friday is my last day at work. I pack the truck Friday night and then we're making the drive to Atlanta early Saturday.

I have spent the last 10 years in St. Louis. I became an adult here. I graduated from Southern Illinois University Edwardsville. I got married (and divorced). I learned to become independent and how to take mere dreams and make them a reality. I have so many fond memories.

2006 graduation. Hugging my the VC of Student Affairs who was also my boss :)

All my years at SIUE, studying and working at the Vice Chancellor for Student Affairs Office were some of the best. I kind of love SIUE if you didn't know. :) I dare you to ask me about SIUE and see what happens :). The Student Affairs Office became my home away from home. I loved working there while a student. Of course I'll never forget the Student Success Center. Gosh! My (now best) friends and I worked with such passion to get that building approved. I will never forget how much fun those presentations were. Construction didn't start until after I graduated. It was pure bliss visiting and seeing the progress. And now it's built! I get all teary-eyed every time I visit.

I have some amazing friends here in St. Louis. I'll come back just for them. Some I've known for the entire 10 years. Others I met recently but it feels like we've known each other much longer.

7.27 Garbage Bag Gala

One thing is for sure. I will not forget the amazing people who work at the St. Louis Salvation Army. I love those folks. Doing the most good indeed! It was such a joy to work with them. Did anyone get tired of me talking about the Garbage Bag Gala? July 27th was such an amazing night! To see so many people support the Salvation Army help the homeless in the area melted my heart. And to almost double our goal....pure sweetness!

It's going to be hard saying goodbye to St. Louis. It's been an honor. And on top of this move, I have other big changes I'm going through. Saying that I'll start a new life in Atlanta is understatement. A new house, a new job (hopefully soon after I move), and in 3 years, a Dr. in front of my name and hopefully a published dissertation that actually makes an impact on the marketing industry. I'm so utterly excited about what's ahead. As hard as change is, sometimes it's just what you need. I think it was God's plan for me to make St. Louis home for so long. I'm definitely a better person. But I also think that Atlanta will bring me so much joy and more amazing opportunities. I became an adult in St. Louis. But I'll make my biggest impact in Atlanta. :)

Only $5 for #HomelessHelpSTL

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sat, 04 Aug 2012 04:01:00 +0000

As if I need to talk to you about the importance of giving back and being active in your community--You already know why (if you've been stalking my blogs and Twitter feed). Folks, there is yet a another wonderful opportunity to fight homelessness in St. Louis. So you missed the Garbage Bag Gala on July 27th. It's okay. I forgive you. You missed out, but you can make up for it on August 24th.

The St. Louis Salvation Army (and if you can't tell, they're my nonprofit pick in the St. Louis area although there are many wonderful organizations) is hosting a #HomelessHelpSTL Tweet Up at the super fabulous Omni Majestic Hotel in downtown St. Louis. Between 4 and 7 pm, you get to unwind after work, network, and yeah...do the most good.

You need to get your tickets for #HomelessHelpSTL online . That's free. However, when you arrive, graciously pay $5 at the door or come with 2 toiletry donations. The Salvation Army specifically needs toilet paper, shampoo, conditioner, body wash, soap, baby soap, toothbrushes, and toothpaste. Proceeds and donations will go to stocking are homeless shelters.

So really, let me tell you how easy it is to attend this event. After a long day at work, ehh...you need to unwind. Doing that with people who care about others is, I think, one of the best ways to unwind and relax. So you pay $5. That's nothing. Or you're at the store earlier in the week, and while you're picking up body wash and toothpaste for your family, you buy a few extras and bring them to #HomelessHelpSTL. Super simple. There is no reason why you shouldn't come or participate (barring the obvious life obstacles). I will see you there!

A Win for Homelessness in St. Louis

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Wed, 01 Aug 2012 00:47:00 +0000

My heart is oh so smiling. It has a been a pure joy to work with the St. Louis Salvation Army this summer. They do so much to help those in need. I think founder William Booth would be thrilled with the work of the the modern day Salvation Army. They do the most good and touch so many lives. If only everyone could help the way they do.

There are things people can do to support your local Salvation Army. St. Louis did just that this past July 27th at the Moonrise Hotel on Delmar. Wonderful sponsors, Hardees, Yelp, Patch, Moonrise Hotel, RFT, and Cruse Entertainment gave willing and graciously. The people of St. Louis who showed their support by attending and participating in the silent auction were amazing. So amazing that this inaugural Garbage Bag Gala was a huge success.

So do you want to know how much money was raised? It's kind of wonderful. The goal was $10,000. With your help, we were able to help fund homelessness programs by a super fabulous $19,700! How amazing is that? We almost doubled our goal!

Image courtesy of Michal Kilfoy with Studio X
Chris, Angie, and Danni with the St. Louis Salvation Army dancing at the gala

And what makes it so special--I think we learned that giving back to our community and doing the most good is really easy and so much fun. So you have to fork over a few extra bucks to watch a fashion show, eat, and dance. That's nothing compared to all the work the St. Louis Salvation Army does on a daily basis to help those in need.

You can be a part of this next year. Watch the blogs and Patch for news and information about the Garbage Bag Gala. Even I plan on coming back all the way from Atlanta for the second annual Garbage Bag Gala.

Dear ones, I challenge us to beat this year's $19,700. I think we can do it. I think we can get more attendees, more sponsorships and help The St. Louis Salvation Army make a bigger dent in homelessness in the area. What do you think? Are you in? Are you ready to make a difference? If I'm coming back all the way from Atlanta to do this event, I most definitely hope you'll be willing to lend a hand and volunteer and of course, attend.

This is a win for homelessness in St. Louis as The Salvation Army puts those funds to good use. I want to personally thank everyone involved and the wonderful guests who made it possible to raise such an amazing amount of money. My heart smiles because of you. Until next time... :)

Post #GarbageGala

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sat, 28 Jul 2012 22:15:00 +0000

A quick note about last night's Garbage Bag Gala at the Moonrise Hotel. This will be short since I really need to study, but I promise to continue writing about it as more pictures and videos are made public.

I showed up a little early. I wasn't supposed to get there until 4 pm, but I thought that since Rob Cruse with Cruse Entertainment was supposed to be there at 3, I should probably be there too and give the wonderful St. Louis Salvation Army crew a hand at setting up if they needed it. Plus, tweeting pre-show seemed like a good idea to keep up the buzz and maybe get a few more guests.

Laura, Chris, and Angie with the St. Louis Salvation Army getting ready

Danni Eickenhorst setting up the judges table

I think my Twitter feed yesterday was all consumed with #GarbageGala tweets. That's totally okay because that was one of my contributions to the St. Louis Salvation Army for this event.

The back of the winning design modeled by Aaron Perlut
courtesy of University City Patch.

The Garbage Bag Gala itself was amazing. I was very impressed with all the designers and their models. Aaron Perlut and his designer, June won the fashion contest. This video does show one of Mr. Perlut's outfits. Totally not surprised he won. It was very much deserved.

The video also features Brad Hogenmiller, Jenn Cloud, Bryan Womack, Elissa Plastino, Stephanie Lynch, and yours truly.

Personally, I had an amazing time. I loved the fashion show. I never thought I was the modeling type, but it was a ton of fun participating! And for my friends and others in audience cheering for me when I walked the runway, I totally heard you! Hahaha. I love you! You guys are awesome!

Almost almost all the models changed after the fashion show. I decided to stay in my dress. I did this for one reason. I wanted to draw attention to homelessness. By staying in my dress, I had gala guests and even Moonrise Hotel guests ask me about the gala and the Salvation Army. I was overjoyed to tell them that the St. Louis Salvation Army helps the homeless community in St. Louis. Plus, my designer, Erin Kilfoy, worked super hard on this and I wanted to make it worth her efforts.

I was super proud of Rob an Dashelle with Cruse Entertainment as well as DJ Epic for providing the music. They did a great job! I danced, and when I saw others not dancing, I grabbed them from the sidelines and got them to dance too. They ended up having fun so it was all good.

So I did post some pictures on Facebook. University City Patch also posted Garbage Bag Gala pictures on Facebook. I'll post more as I get/find them. In the meantime, enjoy. Michael Kilfoy of Studio X posted these pictures of the gala.

It looks like even though I may be in Atlanta, I am going to help with next year's Garbage Bag Gala. The St. Louis Salvation Army asked me if I was willing to be on the Garbage Bag Gala committee, participating virtually and coming back for the event. I, of course, said yes.

So this is it for now on the gala. More to come later as I get info and pictures. I want to personally thank everyone who participated and made the event so fabulous. Lots of love and smiles your way.

Remember the Tug: #Volunteerism

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Fri, 27 Jul 2012 04:22:00 +0000

If you haven't heard me say this before, I'll say it again. I am a firm believer in being active within our communities and volunteering. Each of us has a gift. Whether you realize yours or not, you have one. I think we can put our gifts to good use. I think we can not think about ourselves just for a few moments and do something to make our environments better. I believe in making a positive impact. It's just the right thing to do. How you choose to do it is totally up to you. But do something.

This week was about my work with nonprofits. I serve on the REFresh St. Louis committee. They are a nonprofit, St. Louis clothing resale shop in Brentwood (across from Whole Foods) that supports programs for the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition. I actually bumped into a gal in the restroom and we started talking. I met with her because I offered some pro-bono marketing for the shop. I like working with children services nonprofits, so it just seemed like a good fit for me. So she asked me if I was willing to be on this committee to offer online marketing expertise. It has been such a joy working with them. And with my upcoming move to Atlanta hopefully by the end of August, this week's committee meeting was my last. But as we were talking about my departure, we realized that I could serve them virtually. I was over joyed that I can still help. They help kids who need homes--good, loving homes. They provide support for foster parents and teach kids life lessons so they're successful. How can I not help? That's just not even an option.

This week is also the #GarbageGala. If you don't know what I'm talking about, then you haven't been paying attention. ;). I've been writing about it pretty much nonstop. The St. Louis Salvation Army needs help to continue to serve the homeless community in St. Louis. Proceeds from this event will go to programs that not only provide shelter and food, but also training and education to help homeless not be homeless anymore. The Garbage Bag Gala is a fashion show, concert (thanks to Mr. Rob Cruse with Cruse Entertainment), dinner and drinks. It's going to be one amazing night. I'm hoping it's something St. Louis talks about all year. I try to think about how I would react if all of a sudden, I lost my job, house, and maybe even family. I can't fathom that. Those people on the streets that we all walk by...they were like us once. You would want someone to help you if God forbid you were in their situation. It just makes sense to take a night off from whatever it is you're doing and have fun and give back.

See, I think we all need to feel a tug...a tug at our hearts to do the right thing and volunteer. I wrote about the tug on here before. It's about being called to serve our communities. I am asking you to think about what you're good at and find a nonprofit and do it. I happen to be really good at my profession. Marketing, specifically SEO and Social Media is something I don't even consider "work" because I love it so much. So why not offer my services to nonprofits? I think it's worked well so far. We'll see how the Garbage Bag Gala goes tomorrow night. But you get the idea though, right? Volunteer. Feel a tug at your heart and get involved in your community. Do the right thing and make a positive impact. I know you are more than capable of it, and you'll do a great job.

The First of Many in St. Louis #GarbageGala

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Thu, 26 Jul 2012 01:12:00 +0000

Yesterday, my designer and I filmed a clip for today's episode of KSDK's Show Me St. Louis. Needless to say, as Friday draws closer, we're pretty excited about helping the St. Louis Salvation Army continue their efforts to help the homeless community in St. Louis.

Danielle Eickenhorst is fabulous in the video, describing exactly how the Garbage Bag Gala will help the Salvation Army. She states that not only does the Salvation Army feed and provide shelter for the homeless in St. Louis, but they also help "restructure their lives", taking steps to get them out of homelessness.

Also in the video are Florence Dewan with her model, Kate Kerans and me and my designer, Erin Kilfoy.

Let me talk about Ms. Kilfoy for a bit. Erin Kilfoy is a senior in high school. I met her through her dad, who knows Danni Eickenhorst at Tweet the Most Good in May. I know Danni through volunteering with the Salvation Army. Erin and I had coffee before the event because I had her in mind for another nonprofit I volunteer with. Now we're working together on this event.

To say that Erin is talented is an understatement. This young lady has a pure heart and a desire to make a difference. She is a good student, super smart, and talented at just about everything she does. After we were paired for gala, I met with her and her dad to discuss design. The outfit I'm wearing in the video and picture above is exactly what she drew. This gal has an eye for design. It has been an absolute joy working with her. I'm super excited to watch her blossom and see the world through her eyes. Her passion and desire to make a difference is evident through her designs for the Garbage Bag Gala.

This is just a sneak peak of the fabulous designs we'll showcase Friday at the Moonrise Hotel. I promise that you'll be entertained by not only the designs, but also by Rob Cruse with Cruse Entertainment and DJ Epic. It's still not too late to get tickets. I look forward to seeing you all there!

$22 Fights Homelessness #GarbageGala

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Tue, 24 Jul 2012 02:10:00 +0000

Well darlings, I have some awesome news. There is a very special deal going on for about two more days. You can fight homelessness in St. Louis for only $22. RFT is selling tickets for the #GarbageGala half off the original $45 ticket price. That's quite the deal, don't you think?

Here's the deal. It's super hot out. And when it's not super hot, it's cold and disgusting. It's raining raining or snowing. The homeless in St. Louis need help to get out of the elements. They need the St. Louis Salvation Army's help. And in turn, the St. Louis Salvation Army needs our help raising funds so they can continue to service the homeless.

Helping the St. Louis Salvation Army really isn't difficult, especially if you go to the Garbage Bag Gala this Friday, July 27th at the Moonrise Hotel on Delmar. All it's going to cost you for the next two days is $22. For that ticket price, you get to dance, eat, and drink. Did I mention the trash bag and duct tape fashion show? You get to watch that too. I have actually been meeting with my designer, Erin Kilfoy, to finish up details on the outfits.

Paying $22 for a ticket and then having fun isn't hard at all. You'll have a good time helping the St. Louis Salvation Army help the homeless. Don't wait any longer. Get your #GarbageGala ticket for only $22 now! :)

Showing Some Love with the #GarbageGala

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 23:21:00 +0000

I have to take a moment...and breathe. This summer has been intense. School is the biggest culprit. I made some major life decisions (like moving to Atlanta). I started doing more with the St. Louis Salvation Army. And this last week in July is going to be pretty crazy, fabulous, and hectic. And I smile because really...it's kind of my thing. My life is active, 100 mph, smiling almost the entire time. I kind of like it. ;)

So next week, I have a doctor's appointments, a vet appointment, a REFresh St. Louis committee meeting (my last one), and the most important of all...the grand finale (almost literally)...the Garbage Gala.

You should probably know that I am a Christian. Faith is part of my daily life. I may not always go to church on Sundays, but my love for Christ is part of who I am. And I think the biggest way we can be Christians is by showing this amazing love God has for us. Jars of Clay, my all time favorite band, did a beautiful job with the song, "They'll Know We are Christians by Our Love."

Today, the world found out about the shooting in Aurora, CO. My first reaction was to pray and ask why? How could anyone do something so horrific? How can they not have love? It broke my heart as I'm sure it did many others.

We can show our love in many ways. I show it throw volunteering and fighting for causes I believe in. I believe in the work the Salvation Army does. They are there at the first sign of trouble. They are there to feed, clothe, and provide shelter to those who don't have the luxuries we have.

The Salvation Army is an organization that is built on the foundation of Christ's love. Their amazing history tells a story of a man and woman who wanted to help the poor. They showed their love by devoting the rest of their lives, providing necessities and Christ's love.

That continues today....next week even...on July 27th at the Moonrise Hotel from 7 pm to 11 pm. The Salvation Army is raising awareness and funds for programs to help the homeless in St. Louis. You see, they're are doing the hard work of feeding and providing shelter for the poor. But they need help. They need us to help spread the love with donations. I'm not asking you to write a hefty check, although that would be greatly appreciated. I'm asking you to come to the Garbage Bag Gala. Tickets are $45 in advance, $50 at the door. That will get you food, drinks, and some pretty fun entertainment. To raise awareness for such a serious cause, models will be wearing some pretty spectacular trends made from trash bags and duct tape. I'm meeting with my designer tomorrow to prepare for next Friday. To say that I'm excited is not even coming close.

Let me tell you why I got involved. It's based on the idea that we should be example's of Christ's love and do the most good. It's about not just talking about a problem (which drives me nuts by itself), but actually having the guts to take a public stand against it. It's about helping someone because it's the right thing to do.

So what are you going to do? How are you going to show love? I think you can start by coming to the Garbage Bag Gala. Order your tickets today. This is by far one of the easiest and fun ways to show your love and make difference. I'll see you there.

Homelessness Event Does the Most Good

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 04:03:00 +0000

Remember when I promised to talk about the #GarbageGala all the time back in May? I think I've tried to bring it up to anyone who will listen. Well darlings, the event is next Friday, July 27th at the Moonrise Hotel in St. Louis. I'm pretty excited about it. The goal of the event is to raise awareness for homelessness in St. Louis and raise funds so the St. Louis Salvation Army can continue to serve the homeless community.

The Garbage Bag Gala itself promises to be a blast. Models, including myself and other fabulous volunteers, will be wearing the latest trash bag and duct tape trends. I'm pretty excited about my two outfits. And from what I see from other designers, I think the fashion show will be pretty spectacular.

Lindsay Toler showcasing one of her looks for the #GarbageGala.

My friend, Rob Cruse, with Cruse Entertainment wrote two songs specifically for the gala, which he'll perform that night. The St. Louis Salvation Army will then be able to use these songs at future events. I've heard the songs, and they are powerful.

Moonrise Hotel is offering a special: Get a Night, Give a Night. They are gracious enough to allow this event at their hotel. If you have never been to the Moonrise Hotel, let me tell you it is beautiful. You should definitely stay here if you visit St. Louis. Make sure you checkout the rooftop bar.

There will of course be food and drinks. DJ Epic will be providing some of the entertainment as well. With the fashion show, food, dancing, and great music, I expect this event to be the talk of the town for awhile.

But let's talk about the real issue. Saint Louis University released the State of Homelessness in Missouri: 2011 Report. It discusses homeless as a state, but also breaks it down by city. St. Louis is one of the top cities with a growing homelessness community. That breaks my heart. We've had a scorching hot summer. To think that there those who could die because they don't have a cool, comfortable home for shelter is horrifying. We're talking children and adults. We're talking about people who are already sick and can't get treatment. I can't turn my back on that. I hope you agree that it's a problem worth addressing.

You really don't have to do much. You can start by purchasing a ticket for $45 and attending the Garbage Bag Gala July 27th. You can make a donation, either cash or purchasing canned goods and personal products and dropping it out off at your nearest shelter. You can actually volunteer at a homeless shelter. There are ways you can help the Salvation Army do the most good. Show gratitude for what you've been given and involved. I promise you, it's the worth the effort.

@Walmart Makes it Easy to #EndHunger

noreply@blogger.com (Andreea Cojocariu) — Sat, 14 Jul 2012 16:11:00 +0000

Yesterday was the first day of the St. Louis Salvation Army Turn Up the Heat on Hunger effort. Partnered with KSDK and Walmart, the goal is to help #EndHunger in St. Louis by donating canned goods at Walmart locations. This event lasts all weekend, unti tomorrow, July 15th.

My office brought in canned goods and after work, I stopped by the Walmart in Maplewood. I was pleased to see barrels almost full of canned goods already.

The barrels are located at each entrance. Of course they are! Shoppers walk in, see the barrels, and hopefully they think to pick up a few extra canned goods and on the way out, they drop off their purchase in the barrels. Darlings, Walmart is making it easy to to #EndHunger in St. Louis. That just makes my heart smile.

1 in 8 children go to bed hungry.*

The St. Louis Salvation Army feeds 269 people on a daily basis. *

Don't you think those numbers are too high? I do. It's a no brainer. We need to help organizations like the Salvation Army help those who need it most. All it takes is picking up a few extra items at the grocery store.

The Salvation Army says they do "Do the Most Good." I think they're not alone in that. I think we all should "do the most good" at every opportunity. It should be natural. You should want to help because it's the right thing to do. Honestly, I'm surprised that more people don't volunteer or donate. It's mind boggling to me to be honest. It's not hard to go to Walmart this weekend and drop off a few extra canned goods on your way out of the store.

I encourage all of you to do the right thing this weekend. I encourage you to do the right thing all the time. Get involved in your community. Make a difference. Choose to help others who need it.

*Source: https://donate.salvationarmyusa.org/midland/endhunger