so-yaya

2011-08-22T12:09:00.003+08:00

I've been always wanted to do a post on why I'm so crazily in love with my hubby. Sometimes I'm too lazy to write a post...Whenever I'm in the mood to start a post he just pissed me off and I'm totally not in the mood to do the post...

We are not always loving & sweet, we do scream at each other and showing "black" face when we don't agree on some issues...Did i ever mention that I HATE HIS "BLACK" FACE???I have to admit that I've ever googled "How to make my husband the sweetest guy on earth?" & "Why is my husband so irritating?" "How to kill my husband?"

He is stubborn, irritating, bad tempered & sulky...but he is my stubborn, irritating, bad tempered & sulky hubby & no one can imagine the love I have for him...Alvin Chua is the only perfect guy for me, my best friend that talks to me all the times, my brother who will take good care of me no matter what, my ideal role model father of our future children, my husband that love me unconditionally & the only guy take makes me falling in love over & over again.

The reasons for me to be so crazy in love with him:

1. I trust him..completely...peeps always say never too trust a guy cos when the betrayal comes in, I'll be super hurt...but I know he can't bear to hurt me as I'm always his priority in life.

2. My hubby is a very smart guy...(Clever!!!) He always do well in almost everything he's doing...He's taking his ATPL, and I'm so sure that he can do his best in it...

3. Peoples who doesn't know my hubby well enough, will find him a little too quiet...this make him a very charming guy..And he is a very good listener..

4. He is a funny..His jokes can always make me go LOL at home, in the car, just anywhere with him..

5. Hardworking...I always have a thing with hardworking guys..How can a girl depend on a guy that is always lazing around..He work hard so that he can provide me with a better lifestyle...
"我要给你好日子。"that's what he always tell me.

6. We are very same in some aspects..... We have the same vision on our family, relationship, future...

7. We are different enough to have our small argument & fights to make our life more "interesting"... Things would be damn boring if you are always facing someone who agrees with everything you say/do...

8. He love me as much as i love him... He cleans away the tears on my face with his ugly thumbs..He makes me laugh when he knows that I'm sad...He eats the food that i can't finish..He hug me to sleep so that I can bury my face in his chest/armpit..

With the above reason that can go on & on & on...I know I want to spend the rest of my life with the guy that constantly shower me with his unconditional love...

A father's message from beyond the grave

2011-08-03T13:15:00.002+08:00

A FATHER'S RULES FOR FINDING FULFILLMENT

Be courteous, be punctual, always say please and thank you, and be sure to hold your knife and fork properly. Others take their cue on how to treat you from your manners.

Be kind, considerate and compassionate when others are in trouble, even if you have problems of your own. Others will admire your selflessness and will help you in due course.

Show moral courage. Do what is right, even if that makes you unpopular. I always thought it important to be able to look at myself in the shaving mirror every morning and not feel guilt or remorse. I depart this world with a pretty clear conscience.

Show humility. Stand your ground but pause to reflect on what the other side are saying, and back off when you know you are wrong. Never worry about losing face. That only happens when you are pig-headed.
Learn from your mistakes. You will make plenty so use them as a learning tool. If you keep making the same mistake or run into a problem, you’re doing something wrong.

Avoid disparaging someone to a third party; it is only you who will look bad. If you have a problem with someone, tell them face to face.

Hold fire! If someone crosses you, don’t react immediately. Once you say something it can never be taken back, and most people deserve a second chance.

Have fun. If this involves taking risks, so be it. If you get caught, hold your hands up.

Give to charity and help those who are less fortunate than yourselves: it’s easy and so rewarding.

Always look on the upside! The glass is half full, never half empty. Every adversity has a silver lining if you seek it out.

Make it your instinct always to say ‘yes’. Look for reasons to do something, not reasons to say no. Your friends will cherish you for that.

Be canny: you will get more of what you want if you can give someone more of what they desire. Compromise can be king.

Always accept a party invitation. You may not want to go, but they want you there. Show them courtesy and respect.

Never ever let a friend down. I would bury bodies for my friends, if they asked me to . . . which is why I have chosen them carefully.

Always tip for good service. It shows respect. But never reward poor service. Poor service is insulting.

Always treat those you meet as your social equal, whether they are above or below your station in life. For those above you, show due deference, but don’t be a sycophant.

Always respect age, as age equals wisdom.

Be prepared to put the interests of your sibling first.

Be proud of who you are and where you come from, but open your mind to other cultures and languages. When you begin to travel (as I hope you will), you’ll learn that your place in the world is both vital and insignificant. Don’t get too big for your breeches.

Be ambitious, but not nakedly so. Be prepared to back your assertions with craftsmanship and hard work.

Live every day to its full: do something that makes you smile or laugh, and avoid procrastination.

Give of your best at school. Some teachers forget that pupils need incentives. So if your teacher doesn’t give you one, devise your own.

Always pay the most you can afford. Never skimp on hotels, clothing, shoes, make-up or jewellery. But always look for a deal. You get what you pay for.

Never give up! My two little soldiers have no dad, but you are brave, big-hearted, fit and strong. You are also loved by an immensely kind and supportive team of family and friends. You make your own good fortune, my children, so battle on.

Never feel sorry for yourself, or at least don’t do it for long. Crying doesn’t make things better.

Look after your body and it will look after you.

Learn a language, or at least try. Never engage a person abroad in conversation without first greeting them in their own language; by all means ask if they speak English!

And finally, cherish your mother, and take very good care of her.

I love you both with all my heart.
Daddy

2011-07-18T12:36:00.011+08:00

Hubby is now training to be a SQ Pilot...

So the training program will be:
- 3weeks of OBS
- half a year in Seletar
- 1year in Perth
- come back SG for a couple mths
- 3mths in Brisbane
- wait for his conversion for 777

then he will start his career as a 2nd Officer Pilot...

All these is going to take him (us) 2&half years...(!!!)

2&half years is not too long yet not too short span of time...Spending 1 full year without each other as companion will not be easy...But we are going thru' it together with faith & trust that everything will turn out fine...And right now, I'm already preparing myself to be more independent...Keeping my thoughts busy so that I won't be bothered by the fact that my hubby is not by my side...Cause my hubby need to concentrate on the curriculum planned for him so that he can fulfill his dream of being a responsible pilot...

Personally, I think the 1 year of training in Perth will be really tough for us but we will start to plan some flyover-meet up to maintain our relationship...Tell me that with technologies like "face time", "whatsapp" & "skype", communication is not a problem at all...

And for the 1 year of LDR, I can help up with my brother & "smelly" future sister-in-law wedding preparation... Ohyes, my bro proposed & their big day is on 121212...Finally, my bro is ready to settle down...So I guess the 1 year will be a fast one & we are hoping that hubby will be back to attend their wedding..

My Smelly Qingyi & Zhengqun

Seriously, I really very proud of my Hubby, he is really so amazing till I don't know why he's with me. I wonder if I am good enough for him...But I'm going to do all I can to make him the happiest man living on earth till then I think I'm already everything I want to be in this life...

So this 2&half years, all i can do is be supportive & independent so that he can concentrate achieving all the things he need to do and lessen his worries for me...

We believe with faith & trust that
"Love never fails",
we will be holding hands till old age...

F.A.M.I.L.Y.

2010-10-20T09:46:00.003+08:00

Pencil: I'm sorry...
Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.
Pencil: I'm sorry cos you get hurt bcos of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.
Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. :)

I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way... they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on). Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

"All my life, I've been the pencil.. And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day. For I know that one day, all that I'm left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have..."

This is to all the parents out there...

F ather
A nd
M other
I (Yaya & Qun)
L ove
Y ou

2010-10-05T09:30:00.001+08:00

I'd like to build the world a home
And furnish it with love
Grow apple trees and honey bees
And snow-white turtle doves

Chorus:
I'd like to teach the world to sing
In perfect harmony
I'd like to hold it in my arms
And keep it company
(That's the song I hear)
I'd like to see the world for once
(Let the world sing today)
All standing hand in hand
And hear them echo through the hills
For peace throughout the land
That's the song I hear
(That's the song I hear)
Let the world sing today
(Let the whole wide world keep singing)
A song of peace that echoes on
And never goes away

Put your hand in my hand
Let's begin today
Put your hand in my hand
Help me find a way

2010-10-04T09:42:00.001+08:00

When I was small, and Christmas trees were tall,
we used to love while others used to play.
Don't ask me why, but time has passed us by,
someone else moved in from far away.

Now we are tall, and Christmas trees are small,
and you don't ask the time of day.
But you and I, our love will never die,
but guess we'll cry come first of May.

The apple tree that grew for you and me,
I watched the apples falling one by one.
And I recall the moment of them all,
the day I kissed your cheek and you were gone.

Now we are tall, and Christmas trees are small,
and you don't ask the time of day.
But you and I, our love will never die,
but guess we'll cry come first of May.

When I was small, and Christmas trees were tall,
do do do do do do do do do...
Don't ask me why, but time has passed us by,
someone else moved in from far away.

: Read
First Of May Lyrics
here.

Take 5...and think about it...

2010-09-27T10:24:00.004+08:00

Read this article by an American stand-up comedian from Twinkle's recent entry...and want to share this and note the below content...

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. -George Denis Patrick Carlin (May 12, 1937 – June 22, 2008)

A new change

2010-09-22T10:15:00.003+08:00

"the young do not know enough to
be prudent, and therefore they attempt
the impossible -- and achieve it,
generation after generation."

this sentence got me stop for a moment... maybe i should just go ahead with my dream career although the new measures set by our PAP will definitely affect the property market... but i really have to give a try this time round... thinking too much may just lead me to miss the boat again...

So so-yaya ish really going to move out of my current comfort zone and make it BIG... =)

說了再見就真的不能后悔

2010-09-02T09:34:00.004+08:00

天涼了　雨下了　你走了
清楚了　我愛的　遺失了
落葉飄在湖面上睡著了

想要放　放不掉　淚在飄
你看看　你看看不到
我假裝過去不重要　卻發現自己辦不到

說了再見　才發現再也見不到
我不能就這樣失去你的微笑
口紅待在桌腳　而你我找不到
若角色對調你說好不好

說了再見　才發現再也見不到
能不能就這樣忍著痛淚不掉
說好陪我到老　永恒往哪裡找
再次擁抱一分一秒都好

你的笑　你的好
腦海裡　一直在繞
我的手　忘不了　你手的溫度
心碎了一地　撿不回
從前的心跳　身陷過去我無力逃跑

說再見　才發現再也見不到
能不能就這樣忍著痛淚不掉
說好陪我到老　永恒往哪裡找
再次擁抱一分一秒都好

An Entry For Reflection...

2010-08-31T12:52:00.006+08:00

It has been awhile since i "need" to write down an entry...

Taking the title from my Nana... "Having your own home.." But mine might not be as sweet as hers...Where shld i start??

Ok...Moving into a new place where I know I'll have the privacy & quietness that I need for my rest every night...Spending some time to slowly do the housework..(which i thought it will be fun doing it..) Laying down on the sofa, reading my favourite books or just flipping the magazine... But now, I'm scare of the quietness which I'll rather named it as Silence...When I reach home in the evening, it's S.I.L.E.N.C.E. I can hear myself singing to myself to create some human noise...even when he's back from his work, it's still ME making most of the noise...

U see, I can fully understand the S.T.R.E.S.S. that he's going thru' right now...Due to his new job at OCBC, he's doing SME Sales...See the word S.A.L.E.S...it means there's T.A.R.G.E.T. & D.E.M.A.N.D. which is also why initially chose not to tell him 'bout how lonely i felt...

My Place is @ Thomson with my ever loving Mummy & Daddy...Talkative Brother & GF(QingYi)...& oso my cheerful house helper Mercy...My Place @ Thomson is full of greens as my Dad is a self-claim gardener...full of good food b'cos Mum is the chief cook and Mercy is the assistant cook...Brother & QingYi will the laughters at home...I'm very used to the environment like that...We talk loudly, laugh louder...We played card games together to win our Dad's $$$ but he's always luckier to win our $$$ instead...During soccer match, we'll "Boo~~~" & "Cheer~~~" together as a F.A.M.I.L.Y.

Things now at our P@D are getting better, he made me understand that what happen now is a change...We are building our own family just like what's happening at Thomson...My Mummy & Daddy went thru' the same quietness when they just started...We are now talking very much...He's also sharing lots of info bout his new job with me...

F.A.M.I.L.Y. - We are trying very hard now...

Kiss the Rain (Yiruma)

2010-08-27T15:54:00.004+08:00

很多年前，我相信爱情，爱对了人，就会天长地久。
很多年后，我明白有些事有些人，仅仅能成为纪念。
爱在现实面前，最终选择的是沉默。
当一个女人把生命中最灿烂，最耀眼的光阴付出给等待时。
才会彻彻底的明白。
...有些人注定只是相遇，相恋，
而相守却是可望而不可及。
有一种爱明明是深爱，却说不出来。
有一种爱明明想放弃，却无法放弃。
有一种爱明知是煎熬，却又躲不开。
有一种爱明知无前路，心却早已收不回来。
在我们的世界里，你伤地我好深好深好深。
我也想快乐一点，但你留给我的只有无尽的伤害和等待。
我以为你会懂我的用心,你却把我的用心当做你伤害的资本
心里有万般的委屈，得到的不是暖暖的安慰。
你给的伤害发现已经无法用言语。
我很疼很疼很疼很疼很疼很疼很疼，
好疼好疼好疼好疼好疼好疼好疼好疼好疼。
你知道吗？你明白吗？你懂吗？

所以，爱情，请一路走好。。。

It's already half year gone......

2010-07-06T14:24:00.005+08:00

using my right hand,counting to 5...i know i know, another 5mths will b our 1st Wedding Anniversary...
ever since CNY'10...everybody have been asking...(asking 'bout wat???)

YES!!!asking 'bout our parenthood schedules...I repeating it: We are taking it easy...

But looking at it, it's nice to be in a family of 5...seriously, if it not too tight on us financially...I'M EVER READY TO HAVE 4KIDS...

It will be great if we are able to have a mix of boys & girls...as long as they 相亲相爱 (siblings love)...(健康，开心，乖乖，听话。。。）可爱，美美，帅帅，有人缘, 聪明 will be a bonus la... =P

Recipes to Share....

2010-04-01T12:10:00.010+08:00

Do you have the recipes for a happy marriage???

.....................1] start with a big bowl of TRUST!!!

..........2] pour in a cupful of PATIENCE!!!

.....................3] add a dash of FORGIVENESS!!!

........4] stir in a spoonful of KINDNESS!!!

.................5] sprinkle a handful of ENCOURAGEMENT!!!

..6] sweeten with plenty of COUPLE TIME!!!

..................7] throw in some slices of APPRECIATION!!!

..........8] spice it up with lots of SURPRISES!!!

...9] top it all with a generous serving of PASSION!!!

DA-Dah~~~ And a Happy Marriage is right beside you...

Stepping into the stage of being a man's wife, it's a lot more than what a girlfriend need to do. The above list is really what you need to practice on a daily basis. You see, knowing it is 1 thing and doing it is totally a different issue.

One important thing is COMMUNICATION, and i don't mean the lady doing the talking till she hit her daily 50000 - 80000 words quota. Although generally the girls tend to talk more than the guys. For Mr & Mrs Chua, communication is sharing our dreams, and also tally our future we want to see and strike a balance from there. I have a very logical hubby and I'm a "fairy-tales -do-exist" wife, add us together there's *LOGICAL FAIRY TALE*..hehehe~~~ Talking 'bout our daily activity over dinner(sounds boring huh?), but making the effort to know what's going on his side will let you understand his reason of being so moody & touchy, likewise for him. It will reduce the quarrel statistic.

Another big word in relationship will be EXPECTATION. Normally... ...
we will hear complains like:

The sobbing lady continued her sentence with a soft voice, "I didn't expect him to be so unromantic/unsentimental..."
"Oh man, I didn't expect that woman at home is so demanding." said that agitated guy to his group of friends.

I would only comment "Set Realistic Expectation"...

Example: Guys, don't expect us to be not naggy... hahahaha!!!

In this Concrete Jungle...

2010-03-25T13:06:00.005+08:00

*Blowing away the thick layer of dust...*
Oh...it's March already...so it's a quarter of the year GONE...
which also means that I'm a year older...soon...I'm young at heart, "steel"...hehehe...
This year, we are going to celebrate our birthday as Mr & Mrs Chua...

AND WE ARE GOING TO UNIVERSAL STUDIO SINGAPORE!!!

Back to the Title:---

In this concrete jungle, all living things here is a transforming robot...Everything is computerized with instruction to follow... That's so sad isn't it??

I have to say that I'm already used to this robot life...We are all having a new accessories on us...That's a Masquerade Mask...Some of us do have a multiple layers of masks so that we can change & create a new identity whenever there's a new group of peeps...

I wonder the reason for us doing it...and my reason for it must be - hiding the insecurities of my imperfections...

There are moments when i really hate the mask on my face...The effort to peel out the mask on my face was a struggle...These are the times when i choose to keep quiet n be alone...and i choose to believe that the mask has overcome us and became our identity...

And I start to ponder: Is the masks there for the different stages of life???And how true am i towards all my love ones around me??? or....

Has the mask becomes us as we becomes our mask???

I'm so proud of you...

2010-02-22T12:04:00.004+08:00

The only job I want ish to be a Pilot...My bestie told me...and from that day onwards, i know he's going to be...

His dream came true...He called Chua's Family last week and told us bout his interview...And his schedule for his training...From his laughter when i disturbed him with the usual "Wa~wa~WAH~~~Pilot si bo~~" We can sense his joy & excitement...We hide abit of our sadness cos it's hard to part with some1 that shares everything with us...But we are really proud of him...

加油，加油，加油！！！*Screaming our lungs out~~~*

He got his career above the rest and got what it takes to be close to the clouds...

I love this....

"You may not always see me but you will always feel me...I am here for a
HIGHER PURPOSE..."

恭喜发财！！！发啊！！！

2010-02-08T12:22:00.003+08:00

Chinese New Year ish coming soon...This year 初一 ish also Valentine's Day... ♥♥♥

This year, it's quite different for Our Chua's Family because we are going to give Ang Baos...The Joy of Giving...

I've learnt how to bake Suuper Yummy Pineapple Tarts...And Mr Chua ish so proud of me... =)

Recipes to share:

- Pineapples

- Brown Rock Sugar

- White Rock Sugar

Grate all the pineapples...There will be alot of juice after grating...

I've tried squeezing the juice and use only the pulp, but the end result the pineapple was too dry...

So instead, i boiled the pineapples, brown & white rock sugar over a slow fire...Stirring all the time until the juice ish almost dried up...(not too dry arh)

Stirring also prevent the pineapple from being burned...because once it's burned the pineapple will have a bitter taste...

Leave it aside to keep it cool...

- 1kg plain flour

- 500g butter

- 4 egg yolks

- 2 teaspoon baking powder

- 4 teaspoon vanilla essence

- Ice water if required

Cut cold butter into the plain flour...

Rub until the mixture become crumbs...

Add the Vanilla Essense n egg yolks to the crumbs...

Massage the mixture until it's form into a dough...(add ice water if the dough ish too dry arh)

Bake the end product for 200C for about 15 to 25 mins...

Our 1st Step to our Love Castle...

2010-01-26T15:25:00.006+08:00

On 31st January 2009, when over to HDB for our "handing over keys ceremony" at 8.10...there was so many information from the officer assigned to us...The information he gave was flooding our mind..or maybe only i was flooded...Hub was listening attentively with that very serious look...and glad that he remembered almost all the details...

After HDB we went over to Ang Mo Kio to get everything ready for our 1st Step to our 1st Castle on the 1st day of 2010...(qiang right???)

We did the "rituals" mentions in some previous post...You know the rice, green beans, pineapples, Huat Kueh...scroll down for more information..... =b

We also did the defects checking...2 tiles in the living rooms was MATT...which ish very obvious cos it's in the centre of the hall...The skirting was lifted if no amendments made, it will become the HOUSE FOR THE ANTS...Immediately, we went to our Building Service Contractor...Glad to know that the problems above can be solved within 2weeks...

We really thank the one above for making everything that happened feel so right to us...We always got the very strong feeling that we were meant to be...(errrmmm, that feeling like we MUST be together lor...)

Alot of people commented that we look alike...(it's Hub's Fu Qi to look like me lor)

2010-01-04T12:48:00.002+08:00

HUH???!!!! it's 2010 liao...oright...

It's a new year...A new beginning for us & also for our career...

I wish that this year will b better than last year...hope that it will b a smooth year for everybody...Let's HUAT ARH~~~

Also wish that We will always b loving and happy together...Pray that We will b a step closer to our Dream Future...(you know, the future that we had been talking about???Remember???)

Eversince after Mr & Mrs Chua Big Day...Our group of friend had this word "HUAT ARH" for almost all occasions...

Our way in ending 2009 & Welcoming 2010

2009-12-07T17:17:00.005+08:00

It was a daily routine for me to go in HDB website to check our New Flat Status...& today i saw this msg...

Good news! Your flat is now completed. We have scheduled for you to
collect the keys to your new flat on 31 Dec 2009 at 8:10 AM.

I smiled and immediately called my Hubby...

I was so happy and i want the whole world to share my happiness... =)

Search on the webby for some Geomancy Advise...rituals performed is symbolic of "throwing wealth" into the home...

Initial Opening of the Door for the 1st Time...
1. Wear RED colour clothes as Chinese believe that RED is a LUCKY colour...

2. Rolling in of PINEAPPLE, best to roll to the centre of the living room so that the wealth ish well spread to all areas...when rolling shout loudly "Huat AH!!!~~~" =) DO NOT ROLL THE PINEAPPLE TO THE WINDOW AREA or BALCONY AS IT MEANS THAT THE WEALTH ISH ROLLING OUT OF THE WINDOW...

3. Sprinkling the RICE around the house means that there will be enough food forever. Because RICE ish the most stable food for the Chinese...

4. Scattering of GREEN BEANS symbolise Seeding, the growth of Wealth and having Children. Take a handful of GREEN BEANS put it into a container with cotton wool and sufficient water. Let it grow, remember the growth of wealth & from the bean to beanspout also means having children. Eg. From Sperm to Children... =)

5. HUAT KUEH aka THE RISING CAKE ish suppose to be place in the centre of the living room together with the PINEAPPLE & GREENBEANS...Why Huat Kueh???i think there's no need for more explanation...for those who dont know...the word HUAT in Hokkien means 发...and RISING CAKE also means the Rise in Promotion & Raise in Salary..

Avoid sweeping floors on the same day as doing the above rituals..It's best to sweep the floor 3 days after the above rituals...

Getting my keys on 31st December ish the best way for Mr & Mrs Chua to end 2009 and Welcome 2010...

We are really blessed~~~

Miss Yaya Bachelorette's Night...27th November 2009

2009-11-30T12:49:00.005+08:00

I'm really fortunate to have a group of bimbotic girlfriends that planned a memorable Bachelorette's Night just for me...With this group of girls, there's always so much for us to talk about: Wedding Stuffs, Girly Talk, Gossiping, Shopping....there's so much more to the list...

Ask me how i'll describe my girls: Lameness, 38ness...And i really wish to name these group as Bimbo in the City...hahahahahaha...I'm Siao again....

It makes me go think about...It really doesn't matter how long we got to know each other or how many times we really sit down for a decent coffee and chit chat..It's those small things that counts...It's this mutual understanding that make me smile... =)

Talking bout that night, most of the time we were drinking, dancing and talking like some Siao Cha Bo and punctuating ourselves with loads of loud & bitchy laughters...

I did quite a number of silly acts for the night...

the funniest1 to me was:

The girls: ok...u go up to that black adidas guy and get his number...

Me already dressed up with Bachelorette's Sash, Veils... ...went up to that guy...

Me: Ermmm, can i have your number???

B.A.Guy: But u getting married liao leh...

Me: (-_-''') yah...but my gfs told me to get your number...

B.A.Guy: 9________, so u wont call me....

Me: yah..im not calling you...

Went over to Goo You Factory and started completing the tasks the girls prepared for me...

Tasks like:

Find a guy with a mole on his face and get him to buy you a Ladies Drink...

Me: Couldn't find a guy with that mole on his face (sowwie lor, who can find at these type of place)... so i drew a mole using a black marker on this french guy's face...Rofl...

Get a cute guy and sign on his stomach...

Me: We saw Chen Long's son there...i didnt get his signature but i got mine on his stomach... *proud*

I'll update more here after i got all the pictures...Need to do some QC ma...

Some new guyfriends we got to know at Goo You Factory...

There's something I want to change...

2009-11-12T14:16:00.003+08:00

I REALLY WANT BIG EYES mah!!!

still waiting for his approval...how long more do i need to wait huh???

Maybe I should just go ahead with it???Then surprise him...???

My feeling right now

2009-10-22T14:52:00.003+08:00

upbeat ------------------ antsy ------------------ breatheless
------------- eager ------------------------- merry
----- jittery ---------------------------------------- jolly
--------------------- troubled ---------- glad
---------------- calm -------------------------- unsure
esctatic ----------------------uptight ------- happy
------------------ upset ------------- lost
-----------high ---------------------------- convivial
----------------------------- excited
------anxious ------------------------------rejoice
----------------- overjoyed -------- loved

2009-10-22T14:07:00.003+08:00

I had a secret affair...

I've betrayed Alvin's trust...

1 part of me is dying to go back for Alvin's love...but.. .. ..

there's this part of me having unknown reason to stay with this partner...

This partner of mine is totally nothing compare to Alvin...

The urge of going back to Alvin ish getting stronger...

I can hear my Inner Voice screaming...

I seriously HATE myself in this damn situation...
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I heard Alvin's alarm ringing..(me singing Wakie song)

I slowly open my eyes... Whee~~~I'm Dreaming...

Immediately i leaned on his back...

I told myself it's going to be a "Dream That MUST Never Come True"

Cause to have Alvin with me every night..

is a total indescribable feeling...*it brings me back to our Love Slogan: SIMPLE HAPPINESS*

so I smiled to myself and think how lucky I am...

19th December 2009

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This is the day that the Lord hath made
And I’m so glad He made you
With each rising sun you are here by my side
You are more than a dream come true

Oh, to have you, to hold you, to love you, to pray
To share with, to care with, to hold hands and say

This is the day that the Lord hath made
And I will rejoice, I will rejoice
I will rejoice with you

This is the love that the Lord hath made
That you and I, we are one
Love's mystery is unfolding today
Written for us in the sun

Oh, for better, for worse, for rich or for poor
Each day that passes, I love you more

Cause this is the day that the Lord hath made
And I will rejoice, I will rejoice
I will rejoice with you
This is the day!!! =)

The problem lies with....

2009-09-23T22:57:00.002+08:00

We had been having lots of arguements recently...Small issues can lead to big quarrels..I really hate to bicker with him...Cause it will ended up "not talking to each other the whole journey home" or "friends around us will feel uneasy"
It really makes me wonder "Is it you or Is it me???"

According to Juju, we always quarrel 'bout the same old things...She mentioned: "You guys dont talk it thru' after the arguements??" errmmm, we do talk things out but a few months later we'll quarrel AGAIN...over the same old issue...

Going over to Kallang Cage of his Soccer Session with pals...

At a very unfamiliar junction along Sims Ave..
Him: Go Straight ot Turn Right??
Me: I'm not very sure leh...Go straight, maybe...
Him: Driving very fast............zoom....
Me: I think wrong liao le leh..Continue going straight we are reaching Suntec liao...
Him: THEN JUST NOW WE SHOULD HAVE TURN RIGHT LOR....zoom zoom zoom....
Me: Harlow....i alrdy told u that i'm not sure...if u want to blame me, NEXT TIME DONT ASK ME LLLLAAAAAAAA....
Him: kept quiet, did a illegal U-Turn...and ZoomXamillion faster...(exaggerated la)

Sometimes, i really wish i can just keep my mouth SHUT whenever he's pissed...till now, I CAN'T..i know i'm naggy and noisy..but how 'bout listen to the msges that i'm trying hard to bring across to u???Mayb to you, whatever i said ish nonsensical...

Or is it me being too petty and sensitive???Or mayb i should stop being so naggy???i need to do alot of self-reflection???
Think of it, mayb i should be STUBBORN, PETTY, UNREASONABLE & VERY DEMANDING!!
cos it's so-yaya huh???

I really hope that all these quarrels will be our "case-studies" for future references...