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Blake)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2691</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/SoAboutWhatISaid" /><feedburner:info xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" uri="soaboutwhatisaid" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><feedburner:emailServiceId xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0">SoAboutWhatISaid</feedburner:emailServiceId><feedburner:feedburnerHostname xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0">http://feedburner.google.com</feedburner:feedburnerHostname><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-239343190741559254</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 20:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-25T16:27:00.466-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Photographs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">link love</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Entertainment and Media</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Inspiration</category><title>Have a relaxing Memorial Day weekend</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14421500/14421915_b676_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 485px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14421500/14421915_b676_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Happy Friday, friends! What do you have planned for the long weekend? We always have our first barbecue of the summer over Memorial Day weekend (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;it's a great way to kick off the summer!&lt;/span&gt;), and have invited some friends over to enjoy the charbroiled goodness with us. Should be a fun time! Have a fun weekend, and here are my favorite finds from the wonderful Web...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just in time for summer: &lt;a href="http://www.theshortandthesweetofit.com/2012/05/easy-breezy.html"&gt;Nautical style&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How can &lt;a href="http://mamawatters.blogspot.com/2012/05/happy-first-birthday-stella-vivienne.html"&gt;babies&lt;/a&gt; be so adorable?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyone want to hop on a plane to the &lt;a href="http://sageisland.blogspot.com/2012/05/travel-fantasy-french-riviera.html"&gt;French Riviera&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An awesome &lt;a href="http://fancylauren.blogspot.com/2012/05/do-it-yo-self.html"&gt;DIY modern lamp&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://heartthrobs.blogspot.com/2012/04/toting.html"&gt;Summery totes&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love you, &lt;a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/awesomer/survival-tips-from-bear-grylls"&gt;Bear Grylls&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This &lt;a href="http://www.jessicaquadra.com/2012/05/23/adam-julie-baby-chloe/"&gt;family shoot&lt;/a&gt; is so full of love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Found: The &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/75876195/air-plant-in-blue-bird-cage-distressed"&gt;perfect centerpiece&lt;/a&gt; for a summer wedding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which city's &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/23/san-francisco-public-parks_n_1541105.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000003"&gt;public park system&lt;/a&gt; ranks best in the nation? Will you be visiting a lot of parks this summer?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Umm, doggy &lt;a href="http://www.refinery29.com/nail-art-for-dogs"&gt;nail art&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An &lt;a href="http://topics.blogs.nytimes.com/tag/after-deadline/"&gt;entire blog&lt;/a&gt; on grammar and style. I'm in heaven!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;New trend: &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/27/fashion/younger-boys-more-respectful-high-school-girls-say.html?_r=1&amp;ref=style"&gt;Young cougars&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These &lt;a href="http://www.thebootblog.net/2012/05/magic-hazelnut-muffins.html"&gt;hazelnut muffins&lt;/a&gt; are making my mouth water.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://dancingbranflakes.blogspot.com/2012/05/i-have-good-news-no-i-have-great-news.html"&gt;You go, Tiffany&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All 19 international editions of &lt;a href="http://nymag.com/daily/fashion/2012/05/vogue-makes-pact-to-use-healthy-models.html"&gt;Vogue magazine have formed the Health Initiative&lt;/a&gt;, a pact to use healthy models. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is your date &lt;a href="http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-05-22/6-signs-your-date-is-interviewing-you-for-marriage/"&gt;interviewing you&lt;/a&gt; for marriage?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hey look, it's a &lt;a href="http://www.mymodernmet.com/profiles/blogs/pirate-technics-baobab-tree"&gt;fabric tree&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Glowing &lt;a href="http://iwastesomuchtime.com/on/?i=30798"&gt;Japanese firefly squids&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everyone's favorite '90s fashion stable is back...&lt;a href="http://fabulousfashions4sensiblestyle.blogspot.com/2012/05/happy-scarf-jelly-shoes.html"&gt;jelly shoes&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So many blog posts are getting me psyched for summer, like &lt;a href="http://www.styledbylaura.com/2012/05/fridays-fancies-summer-style.html"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.schuelove.com/2012/05/friday-fanciesmemorial-day-madness.html"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://peanutpearls.blogspot.com/2012/05/friday-fancies-3.html"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://mo-pieplease.blogspot.com/2012/05/its-vacation-time.html"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;*And don't forget to enter the &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/corilu-designs-giveaway.html"&gt;Corilu Designs giveaway&lt;/a&gt;. A winner will be chosen at random on Monday! :)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;P.S. Get 25% off stationery from &lt;a href="http://www.magnetstreet.com/"&gt;MagnetStreet Weddings&lt;/a&gt; from now until May 29th. Just enter the code WMDAY25 at checkout.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Photo via &lt;a href="http://witanddelight.tumblr.com/post/23684051383/yes-please"&gt;wit + delight&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-239343190741559254?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/oj6khNHrktk" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/have-relaxing-memorial-day-weekend.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><thr:total>7</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-7005603286122306969</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 17:25:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-25T12:33:55.374-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer fashion trends 2012</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer 2012</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">beauty</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">hair</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fashion</category><title>Fashion Friday: Would you dare wear ombre lips?</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14419000/14419422_a8cb_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 600px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14419000/14419422_a8cb_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14419000/14419346_d011_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 600px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14419000/14419346_d011_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;We all know the ombre trend is nothing new (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;it's made an appearance on everything from &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/04/10-creative-easter-egg-designs.html"&gt;Easter eggs&lt;/a&gt; to &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/03/fashion-friday-ombre-tights.html"&gt;tights&lt;/a&gt;, for example...&lt;/span&gt;). But did you know that the trend is poised to make its next beauty mark...&lt;a href="http://www.glamour.com/beauty/blogs/girls-in-the-beauty-department/2012/04/ombre-lips-a-good-or-bad-idea.html"&gt;on your lips&lt;/a&gt;? Thanks to ombre lip appliques from&lt;a href="http://www.violentlips.com/"&gt; Violent Lips&lt;/a&gt;, you can add some additional va-va-voom to you lips in such shades as &lt;a href="http://www.violentlips.com/products/cherry"&gt;black cherry&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.violentlips.com/products/honey-dew"&gt;honey dew right&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.violentlips.com/products/midnight-glitteratti"&gt;midnight&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not sure I'd be adventurous enough to go for the full-on darker look, above, but I'm really loving the &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/search/?q=ombre+lips"&gt;subtle pink hues&lt;/a&gt;... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-SdIaZxtpiEg/T7_AJqSghDI/AAAAAAAAOww/kv6Wct43xQ4/s1600/ombre%2Blips2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 315px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-SdIaZxtpiEg/T7_AJqSghDI/AAAAAAAAOww/kv6Wct43xQ4/s400/ombre%2Blips2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746522921751315506" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14419000/14419468_e71a_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 599px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14419000/14419468_e71a_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;What about you, friends? Have you tried the ombre look on your lips? Would you? Which color would you choose? xoxo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. &lt;a href="http://www.violentlips.com/products/american-flag"&gt;Two&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.violentlips.com/products/union-jack"&gt;more&lt;/a&gt; wild lip looks (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Hint: Perfect for the Fourth of July...&lt;/span&gt;).&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-7005603286122306969?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/xLvHRPsPrL8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/fashion-friday-would-you-dare-wear.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-SdIaZxtpiEg/T7_AJqSghDI/AAAAAAAAOww/kv6Wct43xQ4/s72-c/ombre%2Blips2.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>4</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-6325610981724777178</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 13:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-25T08:30:02.565-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gift guide</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">dream home</category><title>Found: The perfect housewarming gift</title><description>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-KHc70esXncY/T76RN0I7mKI/AAAAAAAAOwg/8xUnLhIcHGU/s1600/key%2Bholder.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 271px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-KHc70esXncY/T76RN0I7mKI/AAAAAAAAOwg/8xUnLhIcHGU/s400/key%2Bholder.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746189841091762338" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;It looks like any old, boring rock, doesn't it? But wait...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eskqtxt2G4Q/T76RNmwC9xI/AAAAAAAAOwU/nGcjkNR3HF0/s1600/key%2Bholder2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 271px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eskqtxt2G4Q/T76RNmwC9xI/AAAAAAAAOwU/nGcjkNR3HF0/s400/key%2Bholder2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746189837497726738" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;it's a &lt;a href="http://www.spoonsisters.com/product/1023000/78301.html"&gt;key holding rock&lt;/a&gt;! Wouldn't this make such a fun (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;and functional...&lt;/span&gt;) housewarming gift? So much more exciting than a blender or a toaster, don't you think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. And these &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/02/found-perfect-luggage-tags.html"&gt;luggage tags&lt;/a&gt; would be great as a going away present... :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Via &lt;a href="http://www.swiss-miss.com/2012/05/key-hiding-rock.html"&gt;Swissmiss&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-6325610981724777178?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/3bYDJE6Vw_M" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/found-perfect-housewarming-gift.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-KHc70esXncY/T76RN0I7mKI/AAAAAAAAOwg/8xUnLhIcHGU/s72-c/key%2Bholder.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>5</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-6714513455476616323</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 20:03:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-25T18:37:06.960-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Shopping</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gorgeous giveaways</category><title>Umba Box Giveaway!</title><description>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6_wLVznPdaA/T76FURnVVKI/AAAAAAAAOwE/_x5KDw42NGA/s1600/umba%2Bbox.png"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 281px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6_wLVznPdaA/T76FURnVVKI/AAAAAAAAOwE/_x5KDw42NGA/s400/umba%2Bbox.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746176757943588002" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Today's giveaway is from &lt;a href="http://www.umbabox.com/index.html"&gt;Umba Box&lt;/a&gt;, an amazing subscription boutique that delivers a new handmade surprise right to your doorstep every month. From home decor to jewelry to stationery to bath products, the Umba Box team loves scouting out handmade finds for its subscribers. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They're offering a one-month subscription (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;$25 value&lt;/span&gt;) to one lucky reader. How exciting would it be to find a surprise package on your doorstep -- there's something so fun about opening a package, isn't there? It sort of makes me feel like a kid again. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For your chance to win, simply visit &lt;a href="http://www.umbabox.com/index.html"&gt;Umba Box&lt;/a&gt;, and leave a comment below, along with your email address and what you'd love to see in your box. You can also &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/umbabox"&gt;LIKE Umba Box on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/umbabox"&gt;FOLLOW them on Twitter&lt;/a&gt; for extra entries. A winner will be chosen at random tomorrow. Have fun! xoxo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Update: Congrats to winner &lt;a href="http://lifecraftsandwhatever.blogspot.com/"&gt;Jen&lt;/a&gt;. Thanks so much! :)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-6714513455476616323?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/OM3C-NbI2rc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/umba-box-giveaway.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6_wLVznPdaA/T76FURnVVKI/AAAAAAAAOwE/_x5KDw42NGA/s72-c/umba%2Bbox.png" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>35</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-5452516784739812167</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 18:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-24T13:10:00.332-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Disability</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">disabilities in the media</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Inspiration</category><title>Disabilities In The Media: How do you spell winner?</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14399500/14399704_a038_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 270px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14399500/14399704_a038_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;If you look up the word &lt;em&gt;winner&lt;/em&gt; in the dictionary, chances are you'll find a photo of &lt;a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20596891,00.html"&gt;Richelle Zampella&lt;/a&gt; next to it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Oklahoma fifth grader is headed to Washington D.C. next week to participate in the &lt;a href="http://www.spellingbee.com/"&gt;Scripps National Spelling Bee&lt;/a&gt;. She'll join some 275 others -- all armed with a love of Orthography (&lt;em&gt;get out that trusty dictionary again...&lt;/em&gt;) -- in her quest to be crowned spelling champ.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just another ordinary weekend for Richelle, right? Not exactly, considering the 11-year-old is anything but ordinary. Her trip to the National Bee comes on the heels of her March victory in the Eastern Oklahoma State Spelling Bee -- after 16 rounds, she defeated the reigning champ by correctly spelling the word &lt;em&gt;stollen&lt;/em&gt;, a German fruit cake.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, and she's also legally blind. Richelle began learning to read and write in Braille when she was five and won't let anything stand in her way. "At the school, they teach you, you can do anything you want," she says of the Oklahoma School for the Blind. She'll be studying two hours a day to prepare for the Bee, using a PACmate laptop computer that displays Braille. Good luck, Richelle!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-5452516784739812167?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/30T0KE4DMiA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/disabilities-in-media-how-do-you-spell.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><thr:total>4</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-8147435172552590192</guid><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 15:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-25T15:01:48.608-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Dating</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Singlehood</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Love Lessons</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Decade Love</category><title>Tips for single women from 1938</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14398000/14398319_b6fa_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 540px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14398000/14398319_b6fa_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Can you imagine opening the new issue of &lt;em&gt;Glamour&lt;/em&gt; magazine and finding these tips inside? My mind nearly exploded over the one that advised women to "&lt;em&gt;flatter your date by talking about the things he wants to talk about.&lt;/em&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5pVDwUlyiPE/T75P3TGkU8I/AAAAAAAAOv0/LkVHYND1QOM/s1600/tips2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 301px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5pVDwUlyiPE/T75P3TGkU8I/AAAAAAAAOv0/LkVHYND1QOM/s400/tips2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746117986010551234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14398000/14398421_9798_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 434px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14398000/14398421_9798_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6KpLItZhBrU/T75PqPsBpkI/AAAAAAAAOvY/bRK0SJzX4rQ/s1600/tips4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 236px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6KpLItZhBrU/T75PqPsBpkI/AAAAAAAAOvY/bRK0SJzX4rQ/s400/tips4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746117761755620930" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lZoVPgfR1VE/T75PptoJfgI/AAAAAAAAOvM/k55efzeimtE/s1600/tips5.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 238px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lZoVPgfR1VE/T75PptoJfgI/AAAAAAAAOvM/k55efzeimtE/s400/tips5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746117752612552194" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-aTBx6TTZs20/T75PpIDqxRI/AAAAAAAAOvA/hsLs8hJqQwc/s1600/tips6.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 305px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-aTBx6TTZs20/T75PpIDqxRI/AAAAAAAAOvA/hsLs8hJqQwc/s400/tips6.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746117742527431954" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Gi7d0objsMk/T75Poh4sIDI/AAAAAAAAOu0/ryRtbeKbCyg/s1600/tips7.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 315px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Gi7d0objsMk/T75Poh4sIDI/AAAAAAAAOu0/ryRtbeKbCyg/s400/tips7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746117732280836146" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-e7J4obruKbc/T75Pod3iyoI/AAAAAAAAOuo/_uVghrjH1M8/s1600/tips8.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 279px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-e7J4obruKbc/T75Pod3iyoI/AAAAAAAAOuo/_uVghrjH1M8/s400/tips8.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5746117731202288258" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Thank goodness my grandmother &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2010/02/gifts-from-grandparents.html"&gt;never followed&lt;/a&gt; these rules! It makes you wonder if we'll look back years from now and say, "&lt;em&gt;Wow, women in 2012 were so archaic...&lt;/em&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;What dating "rules" do you think are crazy nowadays, friends? Do you follow them? Why or why not? xoxo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. A new &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/search/label/disabilities%20in%20the%20media"&gt;Disabilities In The Media&lt;/a&gt; is coming your way soon! :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Via &lt;a href="http://www.retronaut.co/2011/10/tips-for-single-women-1938/"&gt;Retronaut&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-8147435172552590192?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/MaS1d54Hpx8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/04/tips-for-women-circa-1939.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5pVDwUlyiPE/T75P3TGkU8I/AAAAAAAAOv0/LkVHYND1QOM/s72-c/tips2.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>10</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-7022400181851632263</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 19:40:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-23T14:40:00.124-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Shopping</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">jewelry</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gorgeous giveaways</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fashion</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">etsy love</category><title>Corilu Designs Giveaway!</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14384000/14384187_9b95_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 406px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14384000/14384187_9b95_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YDolilhrzhw/T705wWdphdI/AAAAAAAAOuM/ayhdoIOvoRc/s1600/ring2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 379px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YDolilhrzhw/T705wWdphdI/AAAAAAAAOuM/ayhdoIOvoRc/s400/ring2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745812202421061074" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Today's giveaway is from Kathy of &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CoriluDesigns?ref=si_shop"&gt;Corilu Designs&lt;/a&gt;, the Etsy shop filled with &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CoriluDesigns?section_id=7412857"&gt;bracelets&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CoriluDesigns?section_id=7412960"&gt;necklaces&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CoriluDesigns?section_id=7414084"&gt;earrings&lt;/a&gt;. Kathy, a self-taught jewelry designer with a background in graphic design, says that each piece in her shop comes from "passion, care and a great attention to detail." What's your favorite piece (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;I'd go for &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/61845491/genuine-leather-topaz-and-sterling"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/74512046/druzy-quartz-agate-teardrop-and-sterling"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/67118488/pebble-ring-sterling-silver"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;)?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She's offering this &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/90780214/silver-wrap-ring-sterling-silver-ring"&gt;sterling silver spiral wrap ring&lt;/a&gt; (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;$57 value&lt;/span&gt;) to one lucky reader. The ring is one of her most popular items and will be made to fit the winner's ring size. It's the perfect simple ring for a casual summer day, don't you think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For your chance to win, simply visit &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CoriluDesigns?ref=si_shop"&gt;Corilu Designs&lt;/a&gt;, and leave a comment below, along with your email address. You can also &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Corilu-Designs/175281702485408"&gt;LIKE Corilu on Facebook&lt;/a&gt; for an extra entry. A winner will be chosen at random &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;next Wednesday, May 30&lt;/span&gt;, so you've got a week to enter! Have fun, friends! xoxo&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-7022400181851632263?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/awMQKBD10aY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/corilu-designs-giveaway.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YDolilhrzhw/T705wWdphdI/AAAAAAAAOuM/ayhdoIOvoRc/s72-c/ring2.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>34</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-4182339714940032980</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 17:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-23T14:35:28.278-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">movies</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Photographs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Entertainment and Media</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Decade Love</category><title>First Look: The Great Gatsby</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;iframe width="400" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/OULhlaX6JY4" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;The new trailer for &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OULhlaX6JY4&amp;feature=player_embedded"&gt;The Great Gatsby&lt;/a&gt; has been making the blog rounds this morning, but I couldn't resist sharing it. I remember my father explaining the symbolism of the final scene to me in high school and just falling in love with the book. The jazz! The fashion! The high society!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-zATqjbpzwsk/T70V4q82umI/AAAAAAAAOt8/VK8Q4ercfjI/s1600/gatsby2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 207px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-zATqjbpzwsk/T70V4q82umI/AAAAAAAAOt8/VK8Q4ercfjI/s400/gatsby2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745772762941012578" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-PvYg6JN7y3k/T70V4S_YuJI/AAAAAAAAOtw/p4FeRNSIeAg/s1600/gatsby3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-PvYg6JN7y3k/T70V4S_YuJI/AAAAAAAAOtw/p4FeRNSIeAg/s400/gatsby3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745772756509178002" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14381000/14381141_2779_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 500px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14381000/14381141_2779_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;...and &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2009/11/man-candy-monday_09.html"&gt;Leonardo DiCaprio&lt;/a&gt; as Jay Gatsby? &lt;em&gt;Perfect&lt;/em&gt;. The movie opens in December. Are you excited, friends? xoxo &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. Aren't these &lt;a href="http://www.thefrisky.com/2011-06-11/the-great-manicure/"&gt;Gatsby nails&lt;/a&gt; amazing? And remember the &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2010/07/inspiration-jazz-age-lawn-party.html"&gt;Jazz Age Lawn Party&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-4182339714940032980?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/BItvUugO_3M" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/first-look-great-gatsby.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://img.youtube.com/vi/OULhlaX6JY4/default.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>14</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-7372219085165624271</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 14:15:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-23T09:15:00.159-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Photographs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Inspiration</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">How I Feel (In 5 Photos) Wednesday</category><title>How I Feel (In 5 Photos) Wednesday.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-e9fPBc_fGSU/T7wxQ61-vjI/AAAAAAAAOtg/KLtoJNnx4r4/s1600/aa.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 265px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-e9fPBc_fGSU/T7wxQ61-vjI/AAAAAAAAOtg/KLtoJNnx4r4/s400/aa.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745521391361244722" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kwoIgVeINn4/T7wxQi4ECSI/AAAAAAAAOtU/djC4D6JDQzo/s1600/aa2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kwoIgVeINn4/T7wxQi4ECSI/AAAAAAAAOtU/djC4D6JDQzo/s400/aa2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745521384927529250" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MDKTvM8yA-U/T7wxQGSLcaI/AAAAAAAAOtI/u9qJKZKubB8/s1600/aa3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 254px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MDKTvM8yA-U/T7wxQGSLcaI/AAAAAAAAOtI/u9qJKZKubB8/s400/aa3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745521377252438434" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9GTpd_4vY_o/T7wxPrmm7vI/AAAAAAAAOs8/c8Jxlkxv21Q/s1600/aa4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9GTpd_4vY_o/T7wxPrmm7vI/AAAAAAAAOs8/c8Jxlkxv21Q/s400/aa4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745521370090368754" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-97vUSiHneo4/T7wxPUyDgeI/AAAAAAAAOsw/g-JqH97gTes/s1600/aa5.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-97vUSiHneo4/T7wxPUyDgeI/AAAAAAAAOsw/g-JqH97gTes/s400/aa5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745521363964363234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt;"And I remember how you loved me. Time was all we had until the day we said goodbye."&lt;/em&gt; --Richard Marx&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Photos via &lt;a href="http://mysummertwist.tumblr.com/"&gt;My Summer Twist&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-7372219085165624271?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/wU5G0J0wqDU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/how-i-feel-in-5-photos-wednesday_23.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-e9fPBc_fGSU/T7wxQ61-vjI/AAAAAAAAOtg/KLtoJNnx4r4/s72-c/aa.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>7</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-8475544404440112381</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-22T15:36:32.971-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Dating</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Disability</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Love Lessons</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Memo To Men</category><title>MEMO TO MEN: The Peter Pan Complex</title><description>MEMORANDUM&lt;br /&gt;TO: Men all over the planet&lt;br /&gt;FROM: Melissa&lt;br /&gt;RE: On growing up&lt;br /&gt;DATE: May 22, 2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14362000/14362304_a512_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 518px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14362000/14362304_a512_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I've never cared much for the story of Peter Pan. In fact, it always seemed like the opposite of a fairy tale to me. Aside from the scary, creepy pirate with a penchant birds and hooks and the gaggle of misfit boys who are decidedly, well, lost, the story sends quite a terrible message. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Peter Pan. The boy who never, ever wanted to grow up. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A boy who refuses to grow up? Sounds like a horrible nightmare to me. To this day, I have no idea why Wendy was so taken with Peter. If I were her, I would have run the other way the first time he even mentioned Never, Never Land. Didn't she see the agonizing, confusing and frustrating years ahead in dealing with the man-child -- not to mention all those Lost Boys, remember? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I know this might sound a bit strange (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;and hypocritical...&lt;/span&gt;) coming from me, boys, seeing as how I've openly declared myself &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2009/01/heres-to-me-mrs-robinson.html"&gt;Team&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2009/08/open-letter-to-my-fellow-mrs-robinsons.html"&gt;Younger&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2009/09/open-letter-to-chace-crawford-and-all.html"&gt;Guy&lt;/a&gt; before, but saying goodbye to my twenties has made me want to say hello to a different sort of guy. He doesn't suffer from what I've dubbed the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Peter Pan Complex&lt;/span&gt; -- symptoms include a love of late-night parties, a tendency toward evading responsibility and a preference for video games over, well, any sort of job.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gdJeuaoxJ6U/T7vSZgZYjrI/AAAAAAAAOsU/-ibYo2e5l9w/s1600/peter%2Bpan2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 168px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gdJeuaoxJ6U/T7vSZgZYjrI/AAAAAAAAOsU/-ibYo2e5l9w/s400/peter%2Bpan2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745417085276163762" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;That whole rebel-without-a-cause thing? Well, it's intoxicating when you're younger, but here's the thing: It has, like those Ramen noodles Peter Pan would probably eat, a shelf life. Whether you like it or not, boys, it is finite. There comes a time in life when you have to turn the Xbox off, get up off the floor, make your Spider-Man-sheets bed, get dressed (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;not in a pair of baggy pants, though&lt;/span&gt;) and pour your own bowl of Lucky Charms. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because, really, a man who shows maturity is perhaps the sexiest thing in the world. A man is someone who doesn't play mind games, but wants to connect with your mind. A man is someone who calls right after a date if he's really into you, regardless of those stupid dating rules. A man is someone who is excited to meet your parents and learn about where you came from. A man isn't afraid of those relationship-defining conversations. And for me, especially for me, a man isn't afraid of my disability -- or to date someone with a disability, for that matter. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As The Office's Mindy Kaling says in her recent memoir, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Everyone-Hanging-Without-Other-Concerns/dp/0307886263/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1337708085&amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;"I’m giving you this bit of wisdom: When you turn 30—maybe even before—a fun thing to try is dating men. It’ll be like freshly ground peanut butter, times a million."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-nhzlIGFNUmQ/T7vSZ0klb_I/AAAAAAAAOsk/iOWNfETlEQw/s1600/peter%2Bpan.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-nhzlIGFNUmQ/T7vSZ0klb_I/AAAAAAAAOsk/iOWNfETlEQw/s400/peter%2Bpan.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745417090691854322" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Like Mindy, I need a man, not a boy. So, I hope you understand, boys, if I don't immediately jump at the chance to fly with you to the second star to the right and straight on 'til morning. I guess that's just never really been my speed. xoxo&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-8475544404440112381?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/UiOowSReffI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/memo-to-men-peter-pan-complex.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gdJeuaoxJ6U/T7vSZgZYjrI/AAAAAAAAOsU/-ibYo2e5l9w/s72-c/peter%2Bpan2.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>16</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-1387344097958523472</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 17:35:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-22T14:01:57.841-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">family</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">question of the week</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Inspiration</category><title>Question of the Week: Question #26</title><description>&lt;em&gt;One of my favorite parts of &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/04/do-you-work-from-home.html"&gt;being a writer&lt;/a&gt; is being able to use my creativity and imagination every day (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;remember when I mentioned my snazzy, burgeoning InDesign and Photoshop skills?&lt;/span&gt;), and here's the best part: Creativity, I'm learning, is one of those truly infinite things. Have a question? I'd love to hear it, so feel free to email me (mellow1422 [at] aol) or ask me on &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/soaboutwhatisaid"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/melissablake"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;, friends! Today's question...&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;What inspires you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14360000/14360025_3447_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14360000/14360025_3447_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;On a Sunday afternoon walk with my mother a few years ago, I felt particularly drained. The sun shining (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;how's that for irony?&lt;/span&gt;) and the grass finally turning that green hue that reminds us of summer, my brain felt like one giant puddle of left-over-from-spring mud.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"What's wrong with me?" I asked my mother, hoping she'd say something warm and encouraging and cuddle me up in a giant bear hug.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"You just need to do it," she said, and by do it, I'm pretty sure that translates to "stop thinking so much..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She had a point, even if I didn't get my hug.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't we all feel this way at some point in our lives? There will be times when we need a little dose of inspiration thrown our way - those times when we just need to sit back and remember the little thing in life that we love. I find it helpful to list a few of my inspirations to get myself out of that rut and back into the light. Here are a few of my inspirations. What inspires you? I'd love to read your list.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gE5O1rOZidI/T7uzaU28RwI/AAAAAAAAOrQ/Xp_7J-_Qcic/s1600/inspiration3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 254px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gE5O1rOZidI/T7uzaU28RwI/AAAAAAAAOrQ/Xp_7J-_Qcic/s400/inspiration3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745383014498322178" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Favorite Place in the World&lt;/span&gt;: My home. I'm a homebody and have always been one! There's something so comforting about just staying home, curling up with a cup of cocoa and watching my favorite show, Frasier, with my mom. Plus, I get some of my best writing done at home; my room is a great place for thinking! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Lz7nPSkDExw/T7uzfGC0PgI/AAAAAAAAOro/pa11DvTN44M/s1600/inspiration.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Lz7nPSkDExw/T7uzfGC0PgI/AAAAAAAAOro/pa11DvTN44M/s400/inspiration.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745383096420941314" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14359500/14359654_959e_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14359500/14359654_959e_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Favorite Fashion Statement&lt;/span&gt;: I'll be the first to admit that I'm just now getting a sense of style. I never really cared much before, but I'm finding it fun to discover pieces such as vintage jewelry. I'm really, really into that right now. I (&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;shamefully?&lt;/span&gt;) have quite a few boxes lying around the house, much to the annoyance of my mother and sister.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3stwkBpy7-A/T7uzaKrvCJI/AAAAAAAAOrE/GrnBDXqBUkQ/s1600/inspiration4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 263px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3stwkBpy7-A/T7uzaKrvCJI/AAAAAAAAOrE/GrnBDXqBUkQ/s400/inspiration4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745383011766962322" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5iG8pp-GWDs/T7uzZtCrUPI/AAAAAAAAOq4/7cHvffrwYD4/s1600/inspiration5.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 263px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5iG8pp-GWDs/T7uzZtCrUPI/AAAAAAAAOq4/7cHvffrwYD4/s400/inspiration5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745383003810124018" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Favorite Movie&lt;/span&gt;: I'm probably the only person on the planet who has seen this movie over 100 times, but the '80's film, Shag, is my absolute favorite! It's a great coming-of-age movie about 4 friends set against the backdrop of the sands and surf of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina in 1963. The film chronicles their last summer hurrah before they all go their separate ways. It's got great music too, which I love. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xN0EUSu9bjE/T7u4WRdX_OI/AAAAAAAAOr4/L7-FZSASEgY/s1600/inspiration7.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xN0EUSu9bjE/T7u4WRdX_OI/AAAAAAAAOr4/L7-FZSASEgY/s400/inspiration7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745388442424442082" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Favorite purse&lt;/span&gt;: I fear my mother passed on her &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2008/11/sunday-column-dreaded-purse-curse.html"&gt;purse curse&lt;/a&gt; to me. I recently started using a very small, green bag, and more often than not, I've got way too much stuff in there, which is another sign I'm turning into my mother. At any one time, you could probably find a dollar's worth of loose change, a couple Hershey's kisses and occasionally, the random PEZ dispenser.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14359500/14359537_cfd4_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 534px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14359500/14359537_cfd4_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Favorite animals&lt;/span&gt;: Hands down, our cats. Because, really, who wouldn't be inspired by their cuteness? :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Now it's &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;your&lt;/span&gt; turn, friends: What inspires &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;you&lt;/span&gt;? xoxo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-1387344097958523472?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/LCHRcn2IQlg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/question-of-week-question-26.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gE5O1rOZidI/T7uzaU28RwI/AAAAAAAAOrQ/Xp_7J-_Qcic/s72-c/inspiration3.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>9</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-71968753514225703</guid><pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 14:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-22T09:46:40.542-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Photographs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">mad men</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Weddings</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">television</category><title>Mad Men wedding</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14357500/14357836_3ff7_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 600px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14357500/14357836_3ff7_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14358000/14358018_b4ca_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 600px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14358000/14358018_b4ca_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Oh my goodness, can you imagine getting married in the offices of Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce? Jason and Taylor dreamed of a classic '60s-style wedding, and with the help of famed wedding planner, &lt;a href="http://www.wetv.com/shows/my-fair-wedding"&gt;David Tutera&lt;/a&gt;, the couple celebrated their special day...&lt;em&gt;on the set of Mad Men&lt;/em&gt;! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-T8Dj8oNZpbY/T7udgQvnvtI/AAAAAAAAOp8/vUYq1RrsWHc/s1600/mad-men-wedding.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-T8Dj8oNZpbY/T7udgQvnvtI/AAAAAAAAOp8/vUYq1RrsWHc/s400/mad-men-wedding.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745358927217278674" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-S9F7yTofepg/T7uPJE2By2I/AAAAAAAAOpI/HpI8vzy0-1Y/s1600/mad-men-wedding7.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-S9F7yTofepg/T7uPJE2By2I/AAAAAAAAOpI/HpI8vzy0-1Y/s400/mad-men-wedding7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745343135723146082" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-n_hCN864FLc/T7uPfHcdlUI/AAAAAAAAOpg/Siz0AMsy7SM/s1600/mad-men-wedding8.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-n_hCN864FLc/T7uPfHcdlUI/AAAAAAAAOpg/Siz0AMsy7SM/s400/mad-men-wedding8.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745343514378343746" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dRAtw-iIDa8/T7uPext92SI/AAAAAAAAOpU/_lxIfaCdv3Q/s1600/mad-men-wedding9.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dRAtw-iIDa8/T7uPext92SI/AAAAAAAAOpU/_lxIfaCdv3Q/s400/mad-men-wedding9.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745343508546181410" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;"When I saw Jason at the end of the aisle, tears were instantly in my eyes," Taylor says. "Jason and I have been together for 8 years. It was long overdue because I have known that he was “The One” since our first date. David and his team made Jason far more handsome than Donald Draper ever could be. Every tear shed was of pure happiness and love."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-XskeY1zUU1M/T7ugQFpPfjI/AAAAAAAAOqY/aVaqOfsc9lg/s1600/mad-men-wedding4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-XskeY1zUU1M/T7ugQFpPfjI/AAAAAAAAOqY/aVaqOfsc9lg/s400/mad-men-wedding4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745361947894709810" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-gtHThO0bSS4/T7uknH8ERGI/AAAAAAAAOqo/bN8wMc1oHmI/s1600/mad-men-wedding6.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-gtHThO0bSS4/T7uknH8ERGI/AAAAAAAAOqo/bN8wMc1oHmI/s400/mad-men-wedding6.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745366741694039138" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pkObF-C2j8g/T7uMsPXCHjI/AAAAAAAAOoY/JYpjb6DUTeA/s1600/mad-men-wedding3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pkObF-C2j8g/T7uMsPXCHjI/AAAAAAAAOoY/JYpjb6DUTeA/s400/mad-men-wedding3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745340441306471986" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9bsLeYgZqTs/T7udgIWCELI/AAAAAAAAOpw/NZdmWGfQ__E/s1600/mad-men-wedding2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9bsLeYgZqTs/T7udgIWCELI/AAAAAAAAOpw/NZdmWGfQ__E/s400/mad-men-wedding2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745358924962468018" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14357500/14357969_f472_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 600px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14357500/14357969_f472_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;"Jason and I are big into retro fashion, especially the sixties, so the concept just kinda snowballed from there," Taylor says. "I thought I could make the whiskey and cigar bar have a lounge feel like in Mad Men. I wanted it to feel like the place they take clients for drinks and dinner."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4mvsnJmGOYE/T7ugP1CUbCI/AAAAAAAAOqM/61uig9j9-LQ/s1600/mad-men-wedding3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4mvsnJmGOYE/T7ugP1CUbCI/AAAAAAAAOqM/61uig9j9-LQ/s400/mad-men-wedding3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745361943436487714" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Isn't that amazing? You'd really feel like you'd stepped back in time for the day. What television or movie set do you dream of getting married on, friends? xoxo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/03/mad-men-poster.html"&gt;Five&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/03/man-candy-monday-and-thank-you.html"&gt;more&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/03/would-you-rather-be-best-friends-with.html"&gt;Mad&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/03/fashion-friday-mad-men-spring.html"&gt;Men&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/posing-like-don-draper.html"&gt;posts&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.P.S. And how sweet are these Mad Men-inspired &lt;a href="http://www.weddingchicks.com/freebies/save-the-dates/mad-men-inspired-save-the-date/"&gt;save-the-dates&lt;/a&gt;? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Photos by &lt;a href="http://mathieuphoto.com/"&gt;Mathieu Photography&lt;/a&gt;, via &lt;a href="http://www.weddingchicks.com/2012/05/16/real-mad-men-wedding/"&gt;The Wedding Chicks&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-71968753514225703?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/v_95odUfYUA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/mad-men-wedding.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-T8Dj8oNZpbY/T7udgQvnvtI/AAAAAAAAOp8/vUYq1RrsWHc/s72-c/mad-men-wedding.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>7</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-7686822706562584601</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 19:15:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-21T14:15:00.204-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Breakup/Love Letters</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">grief</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">family</category><title>An Open Letter To Mary Kennedy's children</title><description>To Mary Kennedy's four children: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-19MdWRoS_0w/T7pr7iN5jPI/AAAAAAAAOn8/qmvI4jSUtk8/s1600/02.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-19MdWRoS_0w/T7pr7iN5jPI/AAAAAAAAOn8/qmvI4jSUtk8/s400/02.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745022945206045938" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I've been sitting here for a few minutes now trying to think of the perfect way to start this letter -- the perfect words, the right anecdote, the perfect formula. But sometimes life doesn't afford us with the perfect instruction manual, does it? I know that now, more than ever, you could use an instruction manual. You're in shock. Your world has just been ripped out from under you. The unimaginable has happened. You feel alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, sadly, you're not alone. I say sadly because I wish you didn't have to be in this club. I wish I didn't have to be in this club. I wish no one had to be in this club. It's a club we didn't want to join. In fact, we had no choice in our initiation into said club. Instead, this club and a whole new world was thrust upon us as the result of a single, life-defining moment. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The suicide of a parent. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can only imagine the confusion and sadness you're going through right now. I can imagine this because I've been in this club for some nine years now, and I remember those first few months all too well. You're trying, as best you can, to wrap your head around something so scary, something so horrific, but it's nearly impossible to rationally wrap your head around something so irrational and senseless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And although I won't pretend to know exactly what you're going through, I thought I'd offer a few gems of comfort that I wish someone had given to me nine years ago. Here are four things I hope you never forget...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6l2G3N7c_Og/T7pr74xDRkI/AAAAAAAAOoI/gdcovQIrsG0/s1600/01.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6l2G3N7c_Og/T7pr74xDRkI/AAAAAAAAOoI/gdcovQIrsG0/s400/01.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745022951259063874" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;It's normal to feel numb&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My body was running on auto pilot, especially during the first six months, and I'm not sure I was even really feeling anything at all. I just went through the motions, and honestly, I was just going and going and saw no point in stopping, at least at the time. Your emotions are probably so raw right now that your body will only let you experience them in small doses -- feeling numb is the body's way of protecting you. So just trust it. It knows what it's doing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;It's not your fault&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even now, I sometimes wonder if things would be different if I had woken up just 30 minutes earlier on that fateful Monday morning, or if there were some obvious signs that we missed. Yet no matter what you said, did or didn't do, I hope you never feel even an ounce of guilt over your mother's death. It wasn't your fault, so never let that all-too-common feeling of guilt swallow you whole. It can be a powerful force, tempting you to fall into its trap. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;It's OK to be angry&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In fact, I'd even go so far as to say that it would border on abnormal if you weren't angry. Never before had I experienced the kind of anger I did after my father died. At first, it was this all-encompassing rage over the fact that he would willingly choose to leave his family. What was he thinking? Didn't he love us? My anger was also directed at the powerlessness I felt about the whole situation. I didn't sign up for this. It was never part of the plan. Where am I supposed to go from here? All those feelings? Just know that they are normal -- being angry doesn't mean you hate your mother; it means you hate what she did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;It's OK to keep asking "&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Why?&lt;/span&gt;" for as long as you need to&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I still find myself asking this question every once and awhile, but I never beat myself up over it. I suppose it's all part of the journey we're on -- a journey together toward reconciling our loved one's death and integrating it into our lives. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dyNHSYerONs/T7pr7bfALcI/AAAAAAAAOnw/cS2Jc8amHTc/s1600/03.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dyNHSYerONs/T7pr7bfALcI/AAAAAAAAOnw/cS2Jc8amHTc/s400/03.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5745022943398735298" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I'll be be sending you good vibes as you begin your journey of healing, and remember: Your mother will always be with you. xoxo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Photos via &lt;a href="http://www.leloveimage.blogspot.com/"&gt;Le Love&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-7686822706562584601?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/dGExm_GqZ3U" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/open-letter-to-mary-kennedys-children.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-19MdWRoS_0w/T7pr7iN5jPI/AAAAAAAAOn8/qmvI4jSUtk8/s72-c/02.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>7</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-7983294880136915541</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 17:22:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-21T12:22:00.284-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">typography</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">art</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">movies</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">design</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">illustration</category><title>Minimalist movie posters</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327589_cc71_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 566px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327589_cc71_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327655_da0f_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 572px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327655_da0f_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327690_ba5d_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 566px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327690_ba5d_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327749_8c9e_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 564px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327749_8c9e_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327783_2eea_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 566px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327783_2eea_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327819_44af_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 566px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327819_44af_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327860_c9e5_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 569px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327860_c9e5_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327890_305e_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 518px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14327500/14327890_305e_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;How genius are these minimalist movie posters? I love how each one takes a little piece from the movie (&lt;em&gt;like the cup of water in Jurassic Park...&lt;/em&gt;) and uses it as a way to visually describe the movie. xoxo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. These posters have me itching to watch &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2011/10/letters-to-my-future-husband-letter-137.html"&gt;Back To The Future&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2011/11/holiday-gift-guide-2011-part-2-your.html"&gt;Jurassic Park&lt;/a&gt; again! :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Via &lt;a href="http://www.12thblog.com/awesome-minimalist-movie-posters/"&gt;12th Blog&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-7983294880136915541?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/Elho5Cbnxd8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/minimalist-movie-posters.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><thr:total>10</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-6599915699865556012</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 15:25:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-21T10:25:00.053-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">guest post</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">art</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Shopping</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">A Woman's Word</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">sponsor spotlight</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">jewelry</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">design</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fashion</category><title>Sponsor Spotlight: Umba Box</title><description>&lt;em&gt;I've always loved getting surprises in the mail, so I was excited when I got the chance to interview Allison of &lt;a href="http://www.umbabox.com/"&gt;Umba Box&lt;/a&gt;, an online boutique that sends a new handmade surprise every month to its subscribers; past boxes have included bath products and tea towels. Read on for more handmade inspiration and Allison's favorite item in the boutique! xoxo&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Keep in touch...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Official Web site: &lt;a href="http://www.umbabox.com/"&gt;Umba Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Become a fan on &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/umbabox"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Follow on &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/umbabox"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Get inspired on &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/umbabox/"&gt;Pinterest&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14326500/14326563_b8cc_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 286px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14326500/14326563_b8cc_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;So tell me a bit about you and your shop.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are a little different in that &lt;a href="http://www.umbabox.com/"&gt;Umba Box&lt;/a&gt; delivers a handmade surprise each month to our subscribers. Our customers have been raving about our finds and love the element of surprise! We also introduce them to new artists every month and share a little about each artist's story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What inspired you to start the shop?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We were inspired to start Umba Box after finding frustration in searching through over-saturated sites like Etsy. It is getting more and more difficult to find quality, unique handmade items. We wanted to provide a curated, handmade surprise to our customers. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Vg3L36Y9NTI/T7lowqm8adI/AAAAAAAAOng/cr2l2FlkJZk/s1600/umba%2Bclutch.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 333px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Vg3L36Y9NTI/T7lowqm8adI/AAAAAAAAOng/cr2l2FlkJZk/s400/umba%2Bclutch.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5744737984968419794" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What is your favorite item in your shop and why?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is hard to pick our favorite box, but if we must, it is the handmade, color block clutch from the February Umba Box.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-6599915699865556012?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/3Ye8hJT1828" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/sponsor-spotlight-umba-box.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Vg3L36Y9NTI/T7lowqm8adI/AAAAAAAAOng/cr2l2FlkJZk/s72-c/umba%2Bclutch.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-2575880739826467949</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 13:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-21T08:45:00.152-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Random Fun</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Photographs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Entertainment and Media</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Man Candy</category><title>Man Candy Monday.</title><description>Happy Monday, friends! Did you have a good weekend? I thought we'd go back a few years for today's guy. He's one of those triple threats (&lt;em&gt;hello, singing, acting and dancing...&lt;/em&gt;). He's tough. And he once hung around with a rather funky bunch...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MARK WAHLBERG!!!!!!!!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14325500/14325688_1a27_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 600px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14325500/14325688_1a27_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yZ6x7J5pWzg/T7lXPY47EcI/AAAAAAAAOnQ/c0ESXRWLhB0/s1600/aa.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yZ6x7J5pWzg/T7lXPY47EcI/AAAAAAAAOnQ/c0ESXRWLhB0/s400/aa.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5744718721578635714" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FkTmEkJlMFo/T7lXPAL_2zI/AAAAAAAAOnE/QZ9QrtqxrKE/s1600/aa2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 256px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FkTmEkJlMFo/T7lXPAL_2zI/AAAAAAAAOnE/QZ9QrtqxrKE/s400/aa2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5744718714947754802" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wpNQVXAHThg/T7lXO2666pI/AAAAAAAAOm4/rUZqtLAMtXQ/s1600/aa4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wpNQVXAHThg/T7lXO2666pI/AAAAAAAAOm4/rUZqtLAMtXQ/s400/aa4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5744718712460208786" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14325500/14325795_6678_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 602px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14325500/14325795_6678_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt;"All that running around in my underwear put money in my pockets. I can focus on working in interesting movies without having to worry about supporting myself."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-2575880739826467949?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/tlzfHMWIFwU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/man-candy-monday_21.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yZ6x7J5pWzg/T7lXPY47EcI/AAAAAAAAOnQ/c0ESXRWLhB0/s72-c/aa.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>10</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-3569155445217762536</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 21:25:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-18T16:26:48.116-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Photographs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">link love</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Entertainment and Media</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Inspiration</category><title>Have a fun spring weekend</title><description>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ppSS7kvAlf8/T7a-WW6pzvI/AAAAAAAAOmo/csbK99FEyic/s1600/weekend.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ppSS7kvAlf8/T7a-WW6pzvI/AAAAAAAAOmo/csbK99FEyic/s400/weekend.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743987666075635442" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Happy Friday, friends! What are you up to this weekend? I'm excited to see &lt;a href="http://darkshadowsmovie.warnerbros.com/index.html"&gt;Dark Shadows&lt;/a&gt; (&lt;em&gt;have you seen it?&lt;/em&gt;), and the weather is supposed to be beautiful -- I'd day that calls for some games and a tall glass of root beer on the patio, don't you? I hope you all have a fun spring weekend, and here are my favorite finds from the wonderful Web...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mesmerizing &lt;a href="http://www.stylelist.com/2012/05/11/amazing-gardens-flower-owls-taiwan_n_1507502.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000003"&gt;flower owls&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How gorgeous are these &lt;a href="http://adorn512.bigcartel.com/category/constellation-necklaces"&gt;constellation necklaces&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love the &lt;a href="http://jhaish.blogspot.com/"&gt;new look&lt;/a&gt; of Jessi's blog!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Etsy Love: &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/98524943/gold-swallow-bracelet-on-antiqued-brass"&gt;Dainty bird bracelet&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These &lt;a href="http://organizeyourstuffnow.com/wordpress/dictionary-pages-butterflies"&gt;dictionary page butterflies&lt;/a&gt; would look great in a summer sun room, wouldn't they?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Start your engines: &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/food-republic/grilling-traditions-around-the-world_b_1500648.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000008"&gt;Grilling traditions&lt;/a&gt; around the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The most &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/15/most-well-read-cities_n_1517859.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000003"&gt;well-read&lt;/a&gt; cities...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Photos from &lt;a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/infocus/2012/05/50-years-ago-the-world-in-1962/100296/"&gt;around the world&lt;/a&gt; in 1962.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;a href="http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-05-15/we-want-grandchildren-dammit-parents-are-paying-to-freeze-their-adult-daughters-eggs/"&gt;future&lt;/a&gt; of fertility?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've never been a huge fan of spicy food, but these &lt;a href="http://www.acookgrowsinbrooklyn.com/2012/05/pint-of-pickled-peppers.html"&gt;pickled peppers&lt;/a&gt; look delicious!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Incredible &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6twFHqJ03_k&amp;feature=player_embedded&amp;noredirect=1"&gt;time-lapse video&lt;/a&gt; of the Northern Hemisphere.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A blog all about...&lt;a href="http://www.soapisbeautiful.com/"&gt;soap&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A &lt;a href="http://www.heyladygrey.com/2012/05/eat-your-way-through-paris.html"&gt;pastry hop&lt;/a&gt; through Paris? Yes, please...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Never underestimate the &lt;a href="http://www.thebookofjimmy.com/the-book-of-jimmy-the-thesis/"&gt;power of watermelon&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What a &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/16/jacob-8-year-old-boy-autism-street-performer-tyler-gregory_n_1521162.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000003"&gt;touching video&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Would you &lt;a href="http://koruwedding.blogspot.com/2012/05/trash-dress-equestrian-style.html"&gt;ride a horse&lt;/a&gt; in your wedding dress?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Illustrations of &lt;a href="http://cargocollective.com/tamsynmystkowski/Bodies-of-Water"&gt;bodies of water&lt;/a&gt; like you've never seen them before.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Warning: &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/61009769921545354/"&gt;Cuteness overload&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A &lt;a href="http://www.gallup.com/poll/154685/Stay-Home-Moms-Report-Depression-Sadness-Anger.aspx"&gt;new Gallup poll&lt;/a&gt; shows that stay-at-home moms are more likely to be unhappy than working mothers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How romantic is this &lt;a href="http://www.oncewed.com/58032/wedding-blog/a-springtime-wedding-in-the-garden/"&gt;garden wedding&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Photo via &lt;a href="http://bippityboppityboo.tumblr.com/post/22892002555"&gt;bippity boppity boo&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-3569155445217762536?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/lBlZ1QPwnQ8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/have-fun-spring-weekend.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ppSS7kvAlf8/T7a-WW6pzvI/AAAAAAAAOmo/csbK99FEyic/s72-c/weekend.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>10</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-6403861263783616914</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 19:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-18T15:05:04.726-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer fashion trends 2012</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer 2012</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">beauty</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer pleasures</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">jewelry</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">nail polish</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fashion friday</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fashion</category><title>Fashion Friday: Anthropologie's neon collection</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14296500/14296688_31c8_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 518px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14296500/14296688_31c8_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Have you heard? Neon is in this season! I've always been in love with those loud and proud colors -- they sort of match my personality. I'm loving everything about Anthropologie's &lt;a href="http://us.anthropologie.com/anthro/category/CLOTHES-NEON-NEWS.jsp?cm_re=May_12-_-051512neonmag-_-shop_neon"&gt;neon collection&lt;/a&gt; of everything from watches to nail polish. Here are some of my favorite accessories...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*&lt;a href="http://us.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/24795999.jsp"&gt;Viscid watch&lt;/a&gt;, $58.&lt;br /&gt;*&lt;a href="http://us.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/24476970.jsp"&gt;Rhetorical shades&lt;/a&gt;, $58.&lt;br /&gt;*&lt;a href="http://us.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/25055948.jsp"&gt;StrangeBeautiful Library of Color Nail Polish&lt;/a&gt;, $85.&lt;br /&gt;*&lt;a href="http://us.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/25133604.jsp"&gt;Vivid Wrung bracelet&lt;/a&gt;, $28.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looks like my &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2009/12/decade-love-80s.html"&gt;favorite decade&lt;/a&gt; is making a long-awaited comeback! Will you be sporting this trend, friends? xoxo&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-6403861263783616914?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/tqqAog45c_o" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/neon-fashion.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><thr:total>3</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-8898225226032437653</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 14:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-18T09:32:26.374-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Entertainment and Media</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">family</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">TV</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">television</category><title>Keeping Up With The Kardashians season premiere</title><description>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gjrfnnXSE9Y/T7ZM_rni3SI/AAAAAAAAOmI/Ovh46x6svMs/s1600/kardashian.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 344px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gjrfnnXSE9Y/T7ZM_rni3SI/AAAAAAAAOmI/Ovh46x6svMs/s400/kardashian.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743863031681703202" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;It's no secret that my mother and I are &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2010/01/happy-birthday-mom.html"&gt;pretty&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2011/10/letters-to-my-future-husband-letter-139.html"&gt;big&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2011/11/letters-to-my-future-husband-letter-140.html"&gt;fans&lt;/a&gt; of &lt;a href="http://www.eonline.com/shows/kardashians"&gt;Keeping Up With The Kardashians&lt;/a&gt;, so I'm pretty excited about this Sunday's season premiere. Kourtney's pregnancy! Kim and Kanye! The Momager! The trailer alone is full of surprises...&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;iframe width="400" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/H_D36SyxUpg" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Will you be watching, friends? What other guilty pleasures are you loving lately? xoxo&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=which%20kardashian%20are%20you&amp;source=web&amp;cd=8&amp;sqi=2&amp;ved=0CGkQFjAH&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fideas.thenest.com%2Fquizzes-and-games%2Fquizzes%2Fquizzes%2Fwhat-kardashian-are-you.aspx&amp;ei=3Ve2T7iMPMKg2AWUsJG6CQ&amp;usg=AFQjCNG5zF-mt5swAvqLve-82ccG-z1fMQ"&gt;Which Kardashian are you&lt;/a&gt;? Look for mine in the comments... :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-8898225226032437653?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/Ix8znRgNJgA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/keeping-up-with-kardashians-season.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gjrfnnXSE9Y/T7ZM_rni3SI/AAAAAAAAOmI/Ovh46x6svMs/s72-c/kardashian.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>12</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-7710483283613937795</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 18:52:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-17T13:52:00.240-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Disability</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Letters to my future husband</category><title>Letters To My Future Husband: Letter #156.</title><description>Dear Mr. Melissa Blake:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14271500/14271532_8beb_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 609px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14271500/14271532_8beb_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Does embracing who you are ever become a hindrance to who you could be? I've been thinking a lot about this question lately, Sweetpea, especially when it comes to &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/search/label/Disability"&gt;my disability&lt;/a&gt;. We all have parts of ourselves that we readily embrace more than other parts. Maybe it's because we're more comfortable with them and other parts are simply too scary to confront -- at least for the time being. Or, maybe the opposite is true -- we work extra hard to embrace, well, the thing that at first feel so embraceable to us, and before we know it, that one thing has become the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;only&lt;/span&gt; thing. Everything else has seemingly been tossed aside.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't get me wrong, Sweetpea. I'm proud that I've gotten to a place in my life where my disability is just &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;one&lt;/span&gt; part of me, not all of me. But sometimes I wonder if all the work I've done has come with a rather heavy price tag. Just think about it: How would your life be different today if you'd chosen to focus on a different aspect of yourself, cultivating it and watching it blossom? Would you be a different person? Though maybe you were able to strike a better balance than I was. I never want to forget who I am despite my disability because that would sort of negate everything I've worked so hard to do, you know? But at the same time, I do want to show that I've integrated my disability into the person I am today, which is someone who isn't ashamed of who she is. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-r5Ywdjt07aU/T7UgoNX9qJI/AAAAAAAAOls/Bcex0X2xh-c/s1600/02.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-r5Ywdjt07aU/T7UgoNX9qJI/AAAAAAAAOls/Bcex0X2xh-c/s400/02.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743532774937962642" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Sometimes, it feels like &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;embracing&lt;/span&gt; is confused with &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;settling&lt;/span&gt;. Embracing who you are doesn't mean "OK, this is who I am and there's nothing I can do about it." Instead, it means -- at least to me -- that "OK, this is who I am right now and I am happy with the person I've become." So maybe when you look at things that way, embracing who you are is sort of like the on-ramp in the journey to the person you could be, to the person you are meant to be. So are we left accepting parts of ourselves at the expense of other parts? Something tells me all good things come in time. Wouldn't you agree, Sweetpea? Until we meet...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Photos via &lt;a href="http://www.leloveimage.blogspot.com/"&gt;Le Love&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-7710483283613937795?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/wVgNDN8IX_0" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/letters-to-my-future-husband-letter-156.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-r5Ywdjt07aU/T7UgoNX9qJI/AAAAAAAAOls/Bcex0X2xh-c/s72-c/02.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>12</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-4268888203627358945</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 17:21:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-23T14:51:02.737-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer fashion trends 2012</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer 2012</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">beauty</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer pleasures</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">hair</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fashion</category><title>Let's talk summer hair!</title><description>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qE4FMcSV1kM/T7T9UTkZapI/AAAAAAAAOlc/8Xo7zusvCjA/s1600/summer%2Bhair.png"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 302px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qE4FMcSV1kM/T7T9UTkZapI/AAAAAAAAOlc/8Xo7zusvCjA/s400/summer%2Bhair.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743493950096370322" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Y3yZu9lZ7mE/T7T9T3A-daI/AAAAAAAAOlQ/e4qcPGwLXIQ/s1600/summer%2Bhair2.png"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 302px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Y3yZu9lZ7mE/T7T9T3A-daI/AAAAAAAAOlQ/e4qcPGwLXIQ/s400/summer%2Bhair2.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743493942431610274" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Remember when I talked about my big dreams of &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/01/lets-talk-hairdos.html"&gt;wanting big hair&lt;/a&gt;, the kind that cascades down your back, is tousled without looking like you just rolled out of bed and doesn't get in the way of everything (&lt;em&gt;bangs, I'm talking to you...&lt;/em&gt;)? Well, I've realized that summer and long, flowing hair just don't go together very well. So a few days ago, I got a shorter 'do in preparation for the hottest months of the year, and I feel lighter and breezier already (&lt;em&gt;and no, that is not a stool growing out of my head; my sister had just washed our kitchen floor&lt;/em&gt;). And if my short hair wasn't enough to get me pumped for summer, a peek at some summer hairspirations sure did the trick. Short 'dos seem to be all the rage. Here are six lovely looks I'm loving...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14273500/14273988_e9b0_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 1055px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14273500/14273988_e9b0_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;(Clockwise from top left: &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/106679084893649402/"&gt;Bangs-free chic&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/106679084893234608/"&gt;red bob&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/106679084893601059/"&gt;subtle bob&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/106679084892818868/"&gt;wavy cut&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/106679084893532503/"&gt;short pixie&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/106679084892820817/"&gt;playfully tousled&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;I'd love to know, friends: Do you change your hairstyle for summer? A new cut? A new color? What are you dying to try? xoxo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. A new &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/search/label/Letters%20to%20my%20future%20husband"&gt;Letter To My Future Husband&lt;/a&gt; is coming up! :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-4268888203627358945?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/ZmJZHVltjlg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/lets-talk-summer-hair.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qE4FMcSV1kM/T7T9UTkZapI/AAAAAAAAOlc/8Xo7zusvCjA/s72-c/summer%2Bhair.png" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>15</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-6151509853849000503</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 14:03:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-17T09:03:00.492-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">art</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer 2012</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">summer pleasures</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">dream home</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">design</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">flowers</category><title>Dream Home: Rainbow flowers</title><description>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-kH9h7XrwPpA/T7Qhb44963I/AAAAAAAAOlA/dZb_WDFzwGI/s1600/rainbow%2Bflowers.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 381px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-kH9h7XrwPpA/T7Qhb44963I/AAAAAAAAOlA/dZb_WDFzwGI/s400/rainbow%2Bflowers.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743252187815734130" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Wouldn't these &lt;a href="http://alpenstrasse.tumblr.com/post/20287895606"&gt;rainbow flowers&lt;/a&gt; look great in a window sill basking in the summer sunshine? Do you have a favorite summer flower, friends? xoxo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. A gorgeous &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/01/wedding-bouquets.html"&gt;wedding bouquet&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/03/dream-home-bathing-hydrangeas.html"&gt;bathing hydrangeas&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-6151509853849000503?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/sUsyFJ3cGnI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/dream-home-rainbow-flowers.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-kH9h7XrwPpA/T7Qhb44963I/AAAAAAAAOlA/dZb_WDFzwGI/s72-c/rainbow%2Bflowers.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>9</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-3774785515114635389</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 19:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-18T16:40:57.503-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Shopping</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">jewelry</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gorgeous giveaways</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fashion</category><title>Summer Earrings Giveaway!</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14248000/14248223_6ce0_625x625.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://rookery9.aviary.com.s3.amazonaws.com/14248000/14248223_6ce0_625x625.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LYbOEF5Ki_4/T7Oxlqfx9zI/AAAAAAAAOkw/MI525DrXDxc/s1600/nautical%2Bearrings.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LYbOEF5Ki_4/T7Oxlqfx9zI/AAAAAAAAOkw/MI525DrXDxc/s400/nautical%2Bearrings.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743129210448377650" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Today's giveaway is from Katie of &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/"&gt;One Delightful Button&lt;/a&gt;, the whimsical shop that incorporates buttons into everything from &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/category/earrings"&gt;earrings&lt;/a&gt; to &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/category/necklaces"&gt;necklaces&lt;/a&gt; to &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/category/bookmarks"&gt;bookmarks&lt;/a&gt; (&lt;em&gt;I love this &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/product/personalized-scrabble-ring"&gt;personalized Scrabble bookmark&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/em&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Katie is offering 3 pairs of earrings of her choice to one lucky reader. The pastel-colored &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/product/seersucker-button-earrings"&gt;seersucker button earrings&lt;/a&gt; are perfect for summer, don't you think, friends? And the &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/product/red-white-stripe-earrings"&gt;nautical button earrings&lt;/a&gt; are awesome too. What would you choose?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For your chance to win, simply visit &lt;a href="http://www.onedelightfulbutton.com/"&gt;One Delightful Button&lt;/a&gt;, and leave a comment below, along with your email address. You can also &lt;a href="http://onedelightful.blogspot.com"&gt;FOLLOW&lt;/a&gt; Katie's blog and &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/onedelightfulbutton "&gt;LIKE&lt;/a&gt; One Delightful Button on Facebook for extra entries. A winner will be chosen at random tomorrow. Have fun! xoxo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Update: Congrats to winner &lt;a href="http://thesmallesthappiestthings.blogspot.com/"&gt;Ami&lt;/a&gt;. Thanks so much! :)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-3774785515114635389?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/vYsWru2cA6Y" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/summer-earrings-giveaway.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-LYbOEF5Ki_4/T7Oxlqfx9zI/AAAAAAAAOkw/MI525DrXDxc/s72-c/nautical%2Bearrings.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>21</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-2895227530280661814</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 16:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-16T11:30:00.735-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">art</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">work</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">design</category><title>iPhone business cards</title><description>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nr-s4rJxxNc/T7OnauBAFLI/AAAAAAAAOkg/h3u0nW7iUdY/s1600/iphone%2Bbusiness%2Bcards.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 375px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nr-s4rJxxNc/T7OnauBAFLI/AAAAAAAAOkg/h3u0nW7iUdY/s400/iphone%2Bbusiness%2Bcards.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5743118027298182322" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Oh my goodness, how genius are these &lt;a href="http://dribbble.com/beastydesign"&gt;iPhone business cards&lt;/a&gt; by graphic and Web designer Frederic Tourrou? So fitting for someone in the tech world. Having business cards made for my blog has been on my to-do list for the longest time. Do you have some? Any suggestions? xoxo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Via &lt;a href="http://www.swiss-miss.com/2012/05/iphone-business-cards.html"&gt;Swissmiss&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-2895227530280661814?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/SKvvV_1JFiQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/iphone-business-cards.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nr-s4rJxxNc/T7OnauBAFLI/AAAAAAAAOkg/h3u0nW7iUdY/s72-c/iphone%2Bbusiness%2Bcards.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>14</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773709208108297978.post-7514549502449348375</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 13:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-05-16T08:50:00.310-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Photographs</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Inspiration</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">How I Feel (In 5 Photos) Wednesday</category><title>How I Feel (In 5 Photos) Wednesday.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2EzFIuuUa_s/T7LDp8QO7YI/AAAAAAAAOkQ/n4-E57PWhpg/s1600/aa.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 247px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2EzFIuuUa_s/T7LDp8QO7YI/AAAAAAAAOkQ/n4-E57PWhpg/s400/aa.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5742867600167071106" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-N1bDFUKbM5c/T7LDp397vmI/AAAAAAAAOkE/xx1jclXcXyI/s1600/aa2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-N1bDFUKbM5c/T7LDp397vmI/AAAAAAAAOkE/xx1jclXcXyI/s400/aa2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5742867599016574562" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-asQHF66z05g/T7LDpaijMXI/AAAAAAAAOj4/iI6jzoYSOaY/s1600/aa3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-asQHF66z05g/T7LDpaijMXI/AAAAAAAAOj4/iI6jzoYSOaY/s400/aa3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5742867591117091186" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TdXWMOWHdC8/T7LDpPTULXI/AAAAAAAAOjs/Yfi3B6KQLLc/s1600/aa4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 298px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TdXWMOWHdC8/T7LDpPTULXI/AAAAAAAAOjs/Yfi3B6KQLLc/s400/aa4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5742867588100402546" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-WmflMayh2IE/T7LDo42eD6I/AAAAAAAAOjg/5vtpqX9TxCE/s1600/aa5.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 0px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-WmflMayh2IE/T7LDo42eD6I/AAAAAAAAOjg/5vtpqX9TxCE/s400/aa5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5742867582073835426" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Loving you isn't the right thing to do..."&lt;/em&gt; --Fleetwood Mac&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Photos via &lt;a href="http://mysummertwist.tumblr.com/"&gt;My Summer Twist&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8773709208108297978-7514549502449348375?l=melissabxoxo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SoAboutWhatISaid/~4/G0QMku7PC2s" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/2012/05/how-i-feel-in-5-photos-wednesday_16.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Melissa Blake)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2EzFIuuUa_s/T7LDp8QO7YI/AAAAAAAAOkQ/n4-E57PWhpg/s72-c/aa.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>8</thr:total></item></channel></rss>

