<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Mon, 07 Oct 2024 05:42:51 +0000</lastBuildDate><title>social eclipse</title><description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;Support bacteria. They&#39;re the only culture some people have.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;</description><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>74</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-1121614221998181293</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 15:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-05-09T23:38:04.969+08:00</atom:updated><title>Kickin&#39;</title><atom:summary type="text">I&#39;m still here. Gonna upload some photos taken in South Korea soon :-)

Next month.. Phuket!! Yeehaaaa!!!

Ooohh I love travelling... the way out of reality!</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2011/05/kickin.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-5664288999897699579</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 18:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-12-17T03:10:01.572+08:00</atom:updated><title>Great Couple Meme</title><atom:summary type="text">I stole this from Su Ann &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;nbsp;http://quaintly.net/2008/12/16/the-great-couple-meme/

I read it few months ago and thought it would be great if I ask Clifford to answer the questions.

Knowing him, I didn&#39;t. Cos he would not answer with so many questions that appear attention-grabbing to public.

Anyway, after few months of hesitation and a new deadline, I sent it to him on Tuesday. No </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2010/12/great-couple-meme.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-1336222773503218203</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 11:27:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-12-16T19:29:00.475+08:00</atom:updated><title>感觉</title><atom:summary type="text">我觉得就这样算了吧。看起来大家都累了。

这么多的不愈快，如过再撑下去结果会很难看。

爱一个人是那么地困难，不爱又那么地痛苦。我说过，如果他不开心那我走吧。

在一起以经十一年了，我们还是不了解对方。拖了那么久，我想应该有个了结。

对不起。</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2010/12/blog-post.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-7396591908029704848</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 Dec 2010 22:24:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-12-15T21:02:21.724+08:00</atom:updated><title>SOBER UP? MAYBE.</title><atom:summary type="text">Do you know? Do you know?

Do you know at all?

How my life spiral down to neverending mess?

I love a man called Clifford. I love him for all of my 11 years. Never falter even when I was at my most vulnerable moment. He left me for a younger intellectual woman two years ago. In the end he turned back, and I accepted. At that time I was at my world&#39;s end. I was literally flung to the pit and </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2010/12/sober-up-maybe.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-6959140533259347102</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2010 09:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-11-12T21:57:53.814+08:00</atom:updated><title>NAIL IT!</title><atom:summary type="text">I have taken an interest in my nails lately. It&#39;s quite a surprise if you know me well? Because for the whole of my life I never take care of my nails and my toe nails look so war-torn from all the plucking and meddling; a habit I have developed since young.

Over the recent years I painted my nails only on formal occasions. It&#39;s a hit-&amp;amp;-go method by sloshing the polish onto nails without any</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2010/11/nail-it.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLw8Utpa9_wpz77eO607fU87rOhjzPrHNGOT9P6IEPekLx6IzjOXmXDTdr_kn1MB2CacKItxqPLbhAGzY3Gs_AFErfPiLWg-XBT-OL1nKXjjzowGQJ0VFgyIgwln74beeUUc8/s72-c/dailypolish_1stprize.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-9044544465114662559</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Oct 2010 12:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-10-26T22:02:17.521+08:00</atom:updated><title>OF FRIENDS AND FOE</title><atom:summary type="text">I had a dream last night. I woke up with my eyes bright and body trembling with fear. The inexplicable sense of helplessness carried from the dreams to reality. My voice was buried deep even though it was crying out loud in the realm.


In the dream, Cliff was dumping me for another woman. He explained point by point on why he preferred her, how he likes his life to be with her in it. He said all</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2010/10/of-friends-and-foe.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-8963628111456978815</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 07:52:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-11-09T15:56:54.578+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">By The RiverBy the river stood a tree.A strong solid oak rooted deep.One day it heard the cry of a wounded sparrowthat had clipped a wing in a vicious fight.The predators of the night were circling below.Looking for prey.The solid oak reached down with a branchscooping up his new found friendcarrying her into the safety of the sky.For days they played.Until the sparrow&#39;s wing healed.And she </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2008/11/by-river-by-river-stood-tree.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-3807002844771281878</guid><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 07:05:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-11-09T15:08:56.489+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">Emotions - Destiny&#39;s ChildIt&#39;s over and doneBut the heartache lives on insideAnd who&#39;s the one you&#39;re clinging toInstead of me tonight?And where are you now, now that I need you?Tears on my pillow wherever you goI&#39;ll cry me a river that leads to your oceanYou&#39;ll never see me fall apartIn the words of a broken heartIt&#39;s just emotion taking me overCaught up in sorrowLost in the song But if you </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2008/11/emotions-destinys-child-its-over-and.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-2621825888147004809</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 04:15:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-10-07T12:18:55.789+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">AFTERWORDI wrote it on 2nd October 2008, hours before we had the talk. He had same thinking and that was how we ended our 9 years&#39; relationship....How long can our love last without causing pain to each other?When we develop negativities in our minds, we lost sight of the important thing in our lives. As I said before, perhaps love has dissipated long ago. What we have, what we hold now, could </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2008/10/afterword-i-wrote-it-on-2nd-october.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-2698488898549079457</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 08:40:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-10-01T16:51:15.620+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">LET GOI asked for space but he found another woman. Maybe this is the space he’s giving me. He tells lies after lies, coating me with promises and love. When I look back, maybe it’s time to move forward.This love is withering; perhaps it has died long ago.When I cannot believe words he said, trust has vanished into thin air. It’s painful to know he spent time with her and forgotten my presence. </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2008/10/let-go-i-asked-for-space-but-he-found.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-2382503312605742710</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 09:11:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-08-18T17:27:17.749+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">MAYBE TOMORROW /stereophonicshttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eX3KrXFAsd0I&#39;ve been down andI&#39;m wondering whyThese little black cloudsKeep walking aroundWith meWith meIt wastes timeAnd I&#39;d rather be highThink I&#39;ll walk me outsideAnd buy a rainbow smileBut be freeThey&#39;re all freeSo maybe tomorrowI&#39;ll find my way homeSo maybe tomorrowI&#39;ll find my way homeI look around at a beautiful lifeBeen the </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2008/08/maybe-tomorrow-stereophonics-httpwww.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-115575097415289413</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Aug 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-08-17T02:17:00.046+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">REFRESHED AND RENEWED, I HOPE.Ever since the saga with Cliff, i have refrained from blogging. In a way it has exposed parts of our private lives to the public, even though I&#39;m okay doesn&#39;t mean he&#39;s fine with it.Thus, I have to be careful here.I&#39;m in Singapore for almost two weeks now and will be departing on 18th evening. Initially I left KL with great reluctance because I will miss my daily </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/08/refreshed-and-renewed-i-hope.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-114708521121056494</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 May 2006 10:35:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-05-08T19:24:48.300+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">GUILT7th May 2006.Grumpie passed away. Last I checked, her feet were free from mites but she was losing feathers around the neck. We were preparing to bring her to the vet in the late afternoon but it was too late.She was such a lovely budgie yet she suffered so much. I neglected her health and my poor knowledge has caused her death. By the time my slow senses came alive that she needed help, her</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/05/guilt-7th-may-2006.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-114666010143805513</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 May 2006 12:05:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-05-03T22:27:49.800+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">A PAIR OF KITTENSSay hi to Maya and Dewey.Both of them came from the same parent and they have the same nose :)Currently isolated from my cats due to lice problem, we keep them in the guest room and play with them whenever we can. Hopefully by end of next week they will be in pink of health and able to roam freely around the house.MayaShe&#39;s the daring one, on the third day we brought them back </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/05/pair-of-kittens-say-hi-to-maya-and.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-114641473621407179</guid><pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2006 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-05-01T09:34:47.376+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">I&#39;D SAY IT&#39;S BAD KHARMAI survived the weekend with my relatives but I am guilty for not spending more time with mom. I was extremely tired on Friday and Saturday to the point I dozed off while talking to her on the couch. Sunday was good though, but my aunt took a huge chunk of quality time away from me while I had my hair cut and colored in another aunt&#39;s salon.Talking about my hair.. It&#39;s been </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/04/id-say-its-bad-kharma-i-survived.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-114614296273747313</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Apr 2006 12:26:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-04-27T21:53:11.880+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">RULES OF ENGAGEMENTMany things happened lately.WorkAfter two weeks&#39; deliberation I have finally sent word to agency to renew my contract for another year. I also learnt that instead of seeing it as a recurring stupidity, it might be actually a blessing. Two colleagues were told their services won&#39;t be needed in another 2 months&#39; time.I was shocked. Given their senority I thought the much </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/04/rules-of-engagement-many-things.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-114270930557773735</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2006 18:51:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-03-19T03:39:06.750+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">MY BABIESLadies and gentleman, meet Aramis.. the youngest member in the family.Born on 24th December 2005. Mixed mainecoon-persian (DSLH)Mild temperament but very naughty. Looked up to Stitch as his brother and regards Tiger as discipline master. Not to forget Grumpie as his constant prey.Stitch (DSH)He&#39;s currently in heat. Making awful lots of noise, restless and looking sullen since his masters</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/03/my-babies-ladies-and-gentleman-meet.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-114172187836688257</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Mar 2006 08:43:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-03-19T02:42:12.983+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">HELLO.. GOODBYEStarsky passed away last night.We found his body in the food dish. His eyes were wide-opened and the way it was positioned, seemed to me that Starsky had a sudden death. He was either enjoying his supper or maybe he had fallen from the branch right into the heaps of seeds.Cliff woke me up during the night to let me have one last look at him. As we squatted there looking at the body</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/03/hello.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-113617839412469330</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2006 04:39:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-01-02T13:42:54.906+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">FLY AWAYNew calendars, fresh page, chapters waiting to be turned, experiences to be gained and learned.. it&#39;s a bloody new year.Refreshing? My arse, smell my fart please.I want to turn back the time and go through the whole of 2005 again, and again and again. Especially to improve my time management skills, in order to spend more time with my family and amabel, my cousin.She left for states late </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2006/01/fly-away-new-calendars-fresh-page.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-113525011356427523</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2005 11:08:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2005-12-22T19:15:13.573+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">356KM AGAINWill be spending Christmas with my family in Singapore.Happy Holidays.</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2005/12/356km-again-will-be-spending-christmas.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>1</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-113393881495567279</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2005 06:12:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2005-12-07T19:52:02.916+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">HOW&#39;S LIFE?The diving trip to Pangkor is cancelled.They changed the date to the weekend that I&#39;m supposed to return home for Christmas and I chose to celebrate this festive season with my family over schools of fish and colorful corals.I know Cliff is upset; he&#39;s taking his time to get over it till Wai Meng proposed the Mabul trip in April. Without any hesitation my fella committed himself by </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2005/12/hows-life-diving-trip-to-pangkor-is.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>3</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-113162337026193905</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2005 11:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2005-11-10T20:03:46.610+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">SHOOAm in one of those foulfuckin&#39; moods.I&#39;m sick of soft-packed menthols.Visibly irritated by citibank&#39;s incompetence.Getting tired of greeting dumb-asses in the office.Pissed at maggots rubbing michelle&#39;s back.Am hating everything now and I swear I gonna slaughter anyone that steps on my tail.Watch me.</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2005/11/shoo-am-in-one-of-those-foulfuckin.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-113080418374239774</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2005 00:04:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2005-11-01T08:22:59.066+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">UPDATESBought these recently.. beadybeads... I like them!  She&#39;s my cousin and in reality she&#39;s a little jappie. Full of energy and bubbles she&#39;s never afraid to break the ice. We were in one of my many cousins&#39; wedding (unfortunately it&#39;s a shotgun&#39;s) and most of us were restless. My jappie started to holler up and down the tables nosily and I managed to snatch her for in-betweens :-)</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2005/11/updates-bought-these-recently.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-113013911911466218</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2005 06:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2005-10-24T23:55:08.370+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">SPLISH-SPLASHI&#39;m back without the PADI Open Water certificate.Instead I was given the PADI Scuba Dive because I couldn&#39;t withstand the cold temperature in the water.What&#39;s the difference between these two?PADI OW gives you the privilege of diving as deep as 18m with a buddy independently whereas PADI SD only allows you to dive to a maximum of 12m with the presence of a divemaster.It&#39;s a shame </atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2005/10/splish-splash-im-back-without-padi.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6594447.post-112934239877107018</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2005 01:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2005-10-15T10:13:18.776+08:00</atom:updated><title></title><atom:summary type="text">VACATIONComing monday I will be heading to tioman island for diving!I know I&#39;m ichthyophobia , that&#39;s why I&#39;m trying to overcome this stupid fear of mine.Hopefully I will come back in one complete piece. Pray for me!currently in love with KT Tunstall - Other Side Of The World</atom:summary><link>http://socialeclipse.blogspot.com/2005/10/vacation-coming-monday-i-will-be.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Unknown)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item></channel></rss>