Listen up fellows, want to get laid with a woman on the first date? Well, read on with some simple guides to keep in mind.

Dodging that Awkward Hug and the Undesired Doorstep Chat

Even though most men wouldn’t believe it, nearly all women plot their next move and reaction based on how a man introduces himself, particularly within the dating atmosphere.

Accordingly, it is crucial always to transmit constructive, casual vibes in order to keep the positive energy flowing in your favor.

Stay in Control Throughout the Date

Since human-beings are somewhat innately wired to be able to sense other’s emotions, be sure that you’re projecting the internal state you want the other person to feel. If not, your will will undoubtedly receive similar offbeat feedback.

Unnecessary restlessness and indecisiveness won’t make for an enjoyable evening or a good first impression. Therefore, it should go without saying it would be wise to have a game plan to how the night should be planned out and have a “plan b” if things aren’t going so swell.

Regardless, if you aren’t the planner, the point is to always keep your cool and control of the situation no matter what, and she will surely find a way to your freshly made bed.

Expensive and Lavish NOT the Best Option for First Encounter

Even though most people believe that first dates need to be extravagant, memorable and a perfect first impression in order to win their companion over, especially romantically speaking, go ahead and knock yourself over the head to disavow that belief.

It’s more important that the woman of your affection senses a chemical connection and realizes that you’re just trying to show off, but more importantly, the sexual chemistry, she will more than likely want to take it more physical from there.

Always opt to have a good time than spoiling the woman you don’t even know that well the first few times you meet up. In some cases, she could feel a sense of obligation, a need to repay you in a way in which will not feel comfortable getting in the way of simply having good time that will lead to the bedroom.

Doesn’t Have to Be Dinner and a Movie

Let’s put it this, “dinner and a movie” as first date are pretty generic nowadays, no, take that back, very cliché. Therefore, if your goal is to get physical by the end of the night, try a more public place with lots physical stimuli, like a carnival or some forms of recreation.

Go out for a night of bar hopping or to a nightclub to dance away initial tension or awkwardness. In that way, you can be sure to get in a few “accidental” caresses and maybe even a handful of passion-provoking pecks.

Physical Gestures Are a Must

Having said before human-beings are able to pick up on others’ body language and emotions, after you tried stealing the first kiss or quick caress, you’ll know right away which direction your date is going.

This is commonly known as sexual escalation.

If you date goes for it and is into it, you’ll undoubtedly be going back to yours or her place for more action. However, if a spark doesn’t shoot off while you’re trying to make a first move, sorry bud, but your choice for the night probably isn’t suitable for the long-term or late-night quick action.

Playful and Goofy Expose Authenticity

Demonstrating seriousness and commitment on the first rendezvous is a big “no.”

The goal is to get to know each other’s fun side, discover likes and dislikes and keep one another laughing the entire time.

“Laughter” is one of the essential ingredients to keep the dating setting whimsical and airy, and if a good time is had, it will keep feeling of fun leading the way for an intimate steamy night ahead.

In conclusion, always do your part and keep things in mind for a more successful first date laid. You got this!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
SovietLover is a freelance writer based in United States who has researched several dating sites for women since 2007 and participated in the development of several dating events to share experiences and knowledge. He is a keen reader and article writer of our Hot and Sexy Sovietmate Marriage Agency (an online CIS dating site). When he has the time, he enjoys riding bicycle and swimming. He can speak and write English and Spanish languages.

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This either takes more or less effort according to our personality, the level of intimacy we have with our partner, how well we understand one another, and how much we strive to be understood.

They all add up to the intensity of our desires and our ability to express them effectively.

Be Subtle

Sometimes words are not necessary. You might give a sharp or tender look, and it can be much more eloquent than an verbal phrase. For instance, eye contact and touch are indeed very helpful when you wish to communicate something, a little embarrassing.

Try throwing out non-verbal hints that is inviting to your partner, then approach with a show of a romantic attitude that she can understand. Take the lead and never fear to look too impulsive. Let whatever lover instinct of yours flow.

Be Honest

Always be true to your intentions and be upfront about what you want. If you want to increase your intimate times together, have sex more often, incorporate some freakish techniques in the bedroom, or try out some naughty fantasy of yours, all you’ve got to do is express that openly.

Don’t ever feel the need to hide your feelings out of what you want out of fear of judgment by your partner; after all, isn’t that the reason why you two are together because both you don’t judge and love each other for who you are?

Be Blunt

Have a blunt approach will help you develop confidence and be more active when it comes to love and romance.

Remember it takes two to tango, but one of you must always make the first move. You may eventually find that one of your contribution to the relationship was all you two needed to lead some more exciting and thrilling life.

Promptly Show How You Feel

Some partners actually need to see that something is wrong to make a change.

If you are unsatisfied and unhappy with your relationship, be willing to show it instead of hiding behind in your misery!

The more instantaneous you are in doing so, the better the relationship will be better off. Work together to make your relationship as ideal as you both like it to be.

Listen to Her

Always be open to your partner and receptive to their requests.

Relationship always profits from negotiation. By understanding and showing that you are all in favor of what she needs will take the relationship a long way, provided that your needs are given attention to as well.

Focus on Her

A frequent mistake made in relationship is to refer to friends on how to deal with a certain issue. Be careful!

Being a couple in a precious union should be nurtured by addressing what’s within to each other to obtain a common goal, while taking all necessary changes to improve the quality of your relationship, as well as to take it to the next level of endless hot night as you two want.

Flirt

Put your desires into words and do not blush at the thought of talking dirty. Send highly sexual-charged messages to her at times.

When you two are together, your body language can support these intentions and indicate how excited you are. Include little touches of sexual gesture throughout the day to keep her bound and dying for you.

Never be too flirtatious when intimacy is healthy and strong.

Simple Conversation

Engage in regular conversation connected to what you both enjoy and find pleasure in, or talk for no reason regardless how mundane the topic is.

Yet such serendipity may not flow effortless at the beginning, but eventually you will get to the point where you two can talk about anything and everything all day.

Let’s Dance

Always be inviting. Do not wait for suggestions or prompts.

Initiate fun activities that you two will enjoy and have a good time. For instance, music is always a good prop to create the perfect atmosphere for kisses, romance and love.

A Flood of Gifts

Who doesn’t like gifts? They are such a great way to keep you in her mind all day making her can’t wait to see you more.

Whether it is a little token of appreciation sent to her workplace unexpectedly, or a splendid gift carefully chosen for the perfect night out, you can easily make a powerful indulging romantic impression, and have them at your feet, willing to bestow all forms of love on you as a reward.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
I’m the Co-Founder and Webmaster of several dating sites including Chicks For Dating website (ChicksForDating.com). I started in the dating area in 2005, writing articles and press releases as freelancer and helping in the envisioning and development of international dating websites (most of them from Latin-America  and Europe), believing that technology can help soul-mates to find real love and long-term relationships. I enjoy my free time reading technology articles, walking and hearing music dreaming in new dating projects.

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If you missed it, here it is:

How to Use Confidence with Women? – Part 1

Today we are going to conclude that with Part 2.

“Flirting” was one of the things mentioned on how you can actually convey your confidence with women to attract them.

Hopefully, you have at least gone out and done that.

Now first we’re going expand upon that, then show you more stuffs you can do to show your confidence with women.

The Topic of Discussion Approach to Getting a First Date

When you’re flirting with a woman once you’ve gotten to know her a little better, then politely let her know that you want to see her again.

Yes, you’re being a gentlemen but with confidence. The difference between this and being a nice-guy, is that the latter lacks confidence and supplicates out of weakness. Confident men does it from a place of strength, but never rude.

Bring up a movie topic or an event that you know is coming up soon. When she responds, invite her to go with you.

If you’re talking about great restaurants, coffee shops or art exhibits, you now have your socially acceptable opportunity that is perfect for securing a time to get together again.

When she agrees, offer to exchange telephone numbers or e-mail addresses. Now you’ve gotten her contact information, and she has yours as well. All you have to do is just follow up, keep doing what you have been doing, and don’t screw it up.

Confident Men are Leaders

Women want men to lead the way in a relationship, and they often wait for the man to make the first move.

Many confident men do not show it in this way because they may believe that they are being pushy.

Would you rather be pushy or a pussy?

There are ways to lead without appearing to be pushy or overbearing. Let’s call it gentle guidance.

Your first date is a chance to get to know her even better to find out she is someone you may want to pursue a relationship with.

Lead the conversation by asking questions to get her to share information about herself. Women love to talk about themselves.

Use the Gentle Guidance Technique with Women

When you are walking with a woman you have interest in, show that you’re confident to express interest in her by using one of these two techniques.

Place your hand on the small of her back as you are walking, or gently guide her by taking her elbow in your hand.

These two simple, yet powerful gestures have a tremendous impact upon women. It shows your interest in her and your ability to be a confident leader.

Gentle Guidance Exercise: Practice using the gentle guidance exercise with different variations as the relationship progresses to deeper stages. You could start moving your hand further up her arm and lower down her back to signal romantic interest. Wait for her response and when she follows suit, progress towards intimacy. Gentle guidance will take you all the way to the bedroom and beyond into the depth of relationship that you desire to have with her.

Only the Tip of the Iceberg

These are the steps and techniques men who are confident do to women to get into the types of relationships they desire to have.

By showing your confidence towards women, you step into your role as the natural leader, and she will follow suit with her feminine role as the lady who wants to be led.

These are the ways that confident men attract, meet and develop relationships with women.

Now if you definitely want to go way more in depth to take your confidence to the next level, you should check out Build Your Balls…to develop your inner iron man confidence with women…

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How to Use Confidence to Attract, Date, and Form Relationships with Women? – Part 2 is a post from: Social Natural

What is the number-one quality all women look for in a man?

I’ll give you a hint: it starts with a “C.”

“No, not cock! You’ve been watching too much porno!”

CONFIDENCE (…then, maybe, cock).

Women have been attracted to confident men since the beginning of time.

You may notice that the men who have their calendars full of dates or are in a happy and committed relationship are the ones who always have this aura of confidence around women. They are more successful in attracting, meeting, dating and establishing a relationship than men who do not.

Pity, right? But fear not my fellow men!

We’ll go in depth to point out the hard and fast facts on how to present your confidence to women with special attention to important details for the best techniques for getting women and keeping them.

Even better, there are also exercises that will help you improve your skills in showing your confidence to women.

Display Yourself to Attract and Meet Women

When you see a woman you want to meet, it’s time to roll into action.

You already know who you are and the attitude that strongly influences women…is a man who shows no fear. Rejection is always a possibility but if it happens, it wasn’t meant to be.

You see it, you want it, and then go for it.

But first things are first. Confidence that is easy on the arrogance, goes much further than the bull in a china shop approach.

Place yourself in a strategic position so the woman you are eying can see you clearly. It’s helpful to scout a little to make sure she isn’t with another man or wearing a wedding ring.

When you’re fairly sure that she’s single look her in the eye and smile when she gazes at you. Hold her gaze for a moment and then look away.

She may approach you first. If she doesn’t, keep yourself in close proximity to her without appearing as a stalker. When you see an opening then strike up a conversation with her, even if it’s about the weather.

Use your charming and confident smile. Ask leading questions that are easy for her to follow because women look to men for leadership.

Exercises on Strategic Placement

Go to a variety of different public settings. Practice placing yourself strategically in front of specific women that you see.

Use the techniques described and keep track of how many women come up to you and begin a conversation. You are using this process to accomplish two things…

First is to build your skills, and second is to start meeting potential girlfriends or partners who may be compatible.

Not all will go swell, so it’s good to meet plenty.

The practice will give you more finesse and polish when it really counts than instant score.

Master your Flirting Skills

Flirting is the universal language between men and women. It signals interest in an appropriate way for both parties.

Yet confidence without finesse can be a turn-off, so it’s good to stick with the rules of the dating game whenever possible.

Once you’ve met, make small-talk in a flirty way that lets her know you have definite intentions towards her. Don’t scare her off by taking it too far, just go with the flow of the situation without pushing too hard.

There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. She has feelings, values and her personal space that must be respected.

Initial flirting should be used to open up more comfortable conversation so that the two of you become more at ease with one another and get to know each other a little better. It’s a great ice breaker.

Flirting is a learned skill and everyone has their own way of doing it. Nevertheless, it is important. If it’s something you’re not used to doing…then it’s time to start practicing.

Exercises On Flirting: Practice your flirting skills with women who strike up a conversation with you. Try to extend your flirty conversation for 5 minutes or more. The more you do it the more effortless it becomes.

Confident men flirt naturally without having to think about how it’s done. It just takes practice for anyone.

Now go out and flirt!

And this concludes today. Hope you enjoy it!

Tomorrow, we will get into Part 2 on how to use confidence with women.

If you can’t wait, I have a new book that will show you how to do all this plus much, much more…

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While flipping through past high school classmates’ yearbook pictures or clicking through online rating sites to vote and determine “who is the most attractive,” our natural instinct to judge and evaluate others physically-speaking automatically turns on.

Whether we consider it or not, some sort of judgment is passed because part of the circle of life is finding our mate via the “chemistry” we share with others.

Attraction at First Sight

When we first “cross paths” with someone who attracts your attention, this “special” somebody is generally easy on the eyes, clean-cut and one of their physical features replays in our mind like a catchy tune when we revisit our “visual flirtation.”

However, the difference between “in-person attraction” and “online attraction” is important to know. It’s no longer just a “pretty face,” but rather that face has to win over its possible suitor personality-wise as well. This way if you do decide to meet in-person, you’ll both know what to anticipate physically and charismatically.

Showcasing Our Physical and Charismatic Strong Points

Online dating has transformed into the latest craze of the 21st century, hence, potential daters should learn how to meet new people virtually.

As a result, while creating your first online dating profile with the site of your choosing, you must consider not only the effectiveness of an attractive and up-to-date profile picture, but also include interesting info related to you in the “about me” section.

Furthermore, add in factual details, but in a creative way: instead of just writing “I love going out with my friends and dancing,” upload a picture of you and your friends at your favorite night club having a good time. So you’re SHOWING what you enjoy doing since TELLING while using an online messenger or just reading profile information isn’t as easy to convey since you aren’t face-to-face.

Ideally, your profile photo should be eye-catching, well-focused from your best angles, up-to-date and if possible, of you doing one of your preferred hobbies. This allows you expose some of your personality traits as well.

How to Avoid the Discomfort of a First Chat

Meeting someone on a blind date for the first time in-person can be very awkward, and the same thing can be said about online dating as well. However, there are several advantages for online dating since you don’t have to stir up the courage to go face-to-face with your date yet.

With online dating, it’s simply a matter of putting on the right smile, switching on absolute positivity mode, keeping the situation calm and collected, and most importantly, being yourself, but with confidence!

Confidence and trust are key to build any type of relationship, especially when it is an online one, being that it is difficult to express emotion so that the other person can determine if you’re telling the truth or not.

The objective of your chat should be to get to know each other’s personalities, likes/dislikes, hobbies, etc.

The first conversation should be informative and 100% you, but it definitely shouldn’t be a bragging session about all of your biggest achievements, jobs, etc. The goal isn’t to bombard the other person with endless details about your life, but rather have a light and entertaining conversation to see if the “chemistry” catalyzes or not.

From there after throwing the seed, the rest will blossom.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Ukraine Lover writes regularly about relationship and dating topics for young people and these articles get published in a variety of dating blogs and online magazines including UkraineMate Online Dating Agency (a Ukrainian Dating Website) and other dating sites. He does see a great value in online dating for connecting people from the whole world using new technologies. He spend his free time reading and learning more about human relationship to improve and share his knowledge about online relationships.

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Contact: Gabriel Angelo
Company: Social Natural Publication
Email Address: contact@socialnatural.com
Website: http://www.socialnatural.com

Social Skills for the Socially Awkward Men

New York, NY (August 25, 2014) – Men who struggle socially have trouble reaching healthy “social quotas,” and this indicates a large problem on the rise for the male population who are considered to be socially awkward in these evolving times.

Calling it “an unfortunate social phenomena” is definitely an understatement for guys being socially awkward are at a disadvantage in their dating, professional and personal life. Socially inept men everywhere are tired of being unapproachable and having trouble communicating, especially with women.

How can guys who lack this social awareness and savviness be more effective in demonstrating that he is confident, listens, and can take on leadership roles in relationships and business?

Men who struggle socially can now in fact upgrade their professional and social lives and achieve success in love, happiness and careers by improving their “social skills.”

Research shows that social skills are defined by skills learned and used to best interact with others and are reflective of a person’s overall attitude, conduct, and behavior used throughout everyday life.

Recognizing that improving social skills can effectively help men who struggle, the book “Social Skills For Men” by Gabriel Angelo, a leading pioneer social expert and dating adviser to men, presents the easiest how-to read for the “socially awkward” man looking to improve his social skills and capitalize on his best attributes, with a strong emphasis on applying social skills to dating and meeting women.

Intrigued by the fact that men apply their best social skills when looking to reach new heights, the author examines why it is important that improving socialization provides the best level of overall self-awareness, as well as gives the best and most practical strategies and new information, unseen elsewhere.

Gabriel proves that a man’s social skills can set him above the rest and ensure the best possible outcomes in any situation. With the ever-changing cultures and societies in these present times, there is an urgency for socially struggling men to maintain and evolve their social capabilities with them.

“Social Skills For Men” is undeniably pushing for the enhancement of socialization in the every day life of the everyday average man, confirming great social capabilities are possible for achieving overall success in life.

The days of the socially awkward men are nearing to the end of their cycle.

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For more information about the book, please go here Social Skills For Men.

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Apparently, this headline got your attention because you want to be funny, right? If not, you shouldn’t have come here for the other option is to die?  >:-)

Anyway, I’m here to announce that I have just launched a brand new book, that will show you…how you can be ridiculously damn funny?

“Whaaaaaattt Gabriel?”

OK, this has been something I have gotten regularly asked since I started Social Natural 6 years ago…“How I can be more funny?” particularly from guys who wondered how they could develop their sense of humor to be more attractive to women, which they can do with playful-humor.

And I must admit, it has been something of interest to me too because I’ve always been fascinated by comedy (specifically sit-coms), but I never thought about doing something exclusively on how to be funny.

However, this year when I released my most recent training course Ultimate Conversation on dealing with how to talk to women, I have gotten more questions on how to inject humor into conversation, and I realized I should have addressed that in the course…

But couldn’t get around to it being completely absorbed and busy with my book Social Skills I started working on last year, which is the first in-depth book of its kind ever released dwelling into this topic of social skills and a proud Amazon Bestseller.

Now fast forward after months and months of sweat, blood, and tears and trying to enjoy my summer then back to the grind again (thanks to you guys, but I still love you)…here’s the 1-night stand quickie guide that will make you ridiculously FUNNY, even f you’re not, like your life depends on it…or you DIE!

“Be FUNNY or DIE” (cute title, huh?)

This book covers every aspect to be funny from recipes you can incorporate into your conversation, to storytelling, to bantering witty one-liners, and to comical character archetypes you can adopt to BE funny, not just SAY funny things.

You can get it soon at available bookstores near you…or you can simply go to Amazon.com now and order yourself a copy for a ridiculous special $0.99, which is a steal, this weekend only, for the Kindle version. I guarantee you the price will go ridiculously up afterward. (FYI, there is a physical paperback version, but it won’t be available until next week.)

For those of you who have purchased my Ultimate Conversation, I’ll send you a physical paperback copy for free, or if you would prefer the digital version. Just let me know. All I ask is that you give me your honest feedback.

Now you have an ultimatum, would you rather DIE…or you can just be FUNNY, and funny with women and get laid more?

The answer is an absolute no-brainer.

BE FUNNY NOW!

AN UPDATE (08-23-14)

Thank you! Thank you!

Wow! Only after announcing its released, “Be FUNNY or DIE” has shot up overnight to an Amazon Bestsellers and Hot New Releases.

I like to thank you all you guys for making that happened! Means a lot.

You can still get it now for the steal $0.99.

Tomorrow’s the last day. It’s going to go up after that.

Don’t miss out on this!

Lastly, the paperback version is now available, for those of you prefer to hold the book in your hand.

Be FUNNY or DIE Paperback

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What is Cold Reading?

Cold reading is the art of using truisms and information you gather while talking to a person to make them feel as if you understand them better than they understand themselves. The goal of cold reading is to describe the world as the other person sees it.

With women you want to use cold reading to make the woman feel as if you understand her. This triggers one of my attraction triggers; being a man who understands women. It also builds incredible levels of rapport. So cold reading is very much a multi-use skill with women.

So let’s talk about the 3 ways we can use cold reading from meeting a woman to talking to her, and give some examples:

1st way as a transition off the opener. A great way to move the conversation off of whatever you used to start it is, is to use a cold read. Here I would use a less in-depth “mini” cold read. This is a great tactic because it moves the subject of the conversation onto the woman. Everyone’s favorite topic of conversation is themselves and mini cold reads allow us to quickly move to that topic.

Let’s look at some examples:

1. Not from here. This is a great transition cold read. If the girl is not from wherever you are, she will want to know how you knew that. If she isn’t, she’ll want to know how you knew she wasn’t from there.

2. Only/Middle/Youngest Child. This is a great cold read because you have exactly 1/3rd chance of being right. I’d say something like: You’re totally an only child right? And if she wasn’t and instead was an oldest child, I’d fix it by saying, “Oh you know how when you meet people that are really independent? I always assume those people are only children. But it makes sense you were an oldest child because you had to be confident for more than yourself.”

3. Daddy’s girl/Girls girl. Another easy to use mini cold read, is the Daddy’s girl/Girls girl cold read. I’d say something like “I can tell you’re a real daddy’s girl. You totally were a tomboy growing up right?”

The 2nd way to use cold reading is to generate attraction.

Let’s look at some examples:

The Sign Reading: This is a very cool cold read that will give you a 50-50 chance of guessing a woman’s sign as soon as you start talking to her.

Here’s how it works:

There are 12 signs:

Capricorn: Dec-Jan
Aquarius: Jan-Feb
Pisces: Feb-Mar
Aries: Mar-Apr
Taurus: Apr-May
Gemini: May-June
Cancer: June-July
Leo: Jul-Aug
Virgo: Aug-Sept
Libra: Sept-Oct
Scorpio: Oct-Nov
Sagittarius: Nov-Dec

These break down into 4 categories:

Fire: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
Earth: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn
Air: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
Water: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

So we can have a 50-50 chance of guessing her sign right by guessing if she’s either an Fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) or an Air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius). Now there are 6 other signs out there, but I’ve covered half of all signs by asking her a simple question. And if she is either of those two signs she will be amazed by how you were able to guess it so easily.

This next cold read works best with very attractive women; I’m talking 9s and 10s.

“I bet you totally attract the wrong kind of me and even though you get told you’re attractive a lot you’re your own worse critic.”

Every woman is their own worst critic especially women who are told they are attractive a lot.

Ok now let’s talk about the 3rd easy way to use cold reading with women, framing and reinforcing.

One of the great things about cold reading is that it encourages you to see the world through another person’s eyes. This is incredibly powerful because it allows you to bring out and frame the parts of her personality you like.

For example if I meet a woman and can tell she’s a strong, independent type I can bring out those parts by saying things like “I can tell you’re really independent, and you make your own rules up as you go along.” Or “I can tell you’re the kind of girl who does whatever she wants no matter what other people tell her to do.”

Now this is helpful by itself, but it’s really powerful because it allows you to apply social pressure to her. For example if I’ve used the above lines, and I invite her back to my place I can reinforce thee frames by saying something like “I know someone as independent as you isn’t going to let her friends tell her to not come with me, right?” And now because she agreed with the earlier cold read (which most people will do as long as you appeal to their vanity) she now will feel a pressure to act in accordance with that frame set using cold reading.

So those are just 3 ways cold reading can be used to talk to women; to transition into a conversation about the woman herself, to build attraction, and to frame and reinforce behavior.

Be sure to try to work some cold reading in the next time you talk to an attractive woman.

And, if you’re interested in becoming an expert at really being able to easily approach, talk to and seduce ANY woman, be sure to download my free report on the art of sexual conversation. Just CLICK HERE or head over to sexytalkpdf.com.

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Do you ever want to hang out with the powerhouse social elites?

I have previously talked about the power of “outsourcing your social circle.”

Realize that it also has another benefit…

By letting other folks do the meeting and greeting for you and then coming back doing the reintroducing, will allow you to be on the same page with everybody they know…like an insider affiliation.

Why is this important and much more effective to meet people, especially those of high status?

It becomes a “Stamp of Approval” from having the other person introduced you to the other person or group; and instantly you’re no longer the outsider stranger.

It’s actually easier to meet people and make friends this way.

I can tell you…I have met many models, social elites, successful wealthy people, and high-end crowds this way.

Basically, these high-value status folks are always on guard about who they’re letting into their space…

However, by having JUST that one person who knows them introduce you to them…hence giving you that “Stamp of Approval“…will lower their guard because that person’s status and reputation will be on the line by introducing you to them; and since they are affiliated with you…you must be cool and somebody worth knowing.

Now in dating and meeting women, this way is so much easier than doing random cold-approaching, and I have met many hot women this way.

However, you have to be able to break away from your social familiarity and expand yourself to meet these folks first to get the ball rolling…something that not everybody can easily do, especially if you rely too much on going out with the same old buddies of yours or don’t have much experience going out at all for that matter.

Let me tell you a story…

It was almost a month away from September Fall-Fashion Week in New York.  I went out by myself to a Pre-Fashion Week Show at a venue, and there…I randomly met this guy…who would later become one of my mentors and best friends.  Turned out, he was a model/model-recruiter/actor/promoter/chef/painter.

Let me tell you, this guy was a modern renaissance-man.  He knew a lot of people, and I must say…I was amazed by this guy and his level of social networks.  He hanged out with the high-roller social elites…I mean models, rich people, actors, singers, socialites, and even celebrities.  He knew a lot of folks.

He was, what you might call “a local celebrity” himself.

The reason why we clicked because I was a really chilled, authentic, reliable-guy while even though he knew a lot of people…most of them were fake; it was a fake-niceness all up for a show to maintain an image in that in-crowd world.

I was a breath of fresh-air and he introduced me to his world.  It was definitely a changed-status of the social scene I was usually in, and I started going to these high-end venues and became part of the social elite circle.

Ironically, the funny thing is…

It’s easier to social interact with other people in these types of higher-end scenes than a normal scene, not to mention the women were hotter and higher quality…because everybody in it…has to be brought in by somebody else with connection to such high-end event/venues.  They all have that “Stamp of Approval” among their own in-crowd, feeling almost like a family, where everybody can relax and have a good time…rather than having outsiders they have no clue what they’re about, resulting in guards being put up, especially for women and their so-called “bitch shield.”

Quality control at work, and that “Stamp of Approval” is your all-access key.

Just meeting this one person has changed my social scene and status, and I would not have met him if I didn’t go out that one-night by myself and been willing to meet new people, instead of hovering back to a group I came with.

Understand that going out in groups is great and will help you meet people, but you also want to stir away from dependency to have complete freedom and flexibility over your social and dating life to be social independent.

This gives you more options.

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How to Easily Become Part of the High-Status Social Elite Circle? is a post from: Social Natural

(This is Part 2 of “Social Skills Activities.”)

We talked about turning the social awkwardness TO awesomeness in the previous article.

Now to brush that up with social skills activities!

Here are some social skills activities to improve your social skills:

10 Simple Social Skills Activities To Improve Your Social Skills

1.) Solid eye contact tells others that you’re ready to listen and boosts your self-confidence.  Having a casual staring contest with your friends and colleagues help here.  Pick friends that have a competitive streak and challenge them to a staring contest.  This not only helps you maintain steady eye contact with them but helps you overcome fear and hesitation.

2.) Get out of seclusion and go outdoors more.  Visit as many public places as possible. Go to schools, parks, grocery stores, malls and clubs.  It’s not like you have to spend 1 or 2 precious hours from your busy schedule to be engaged with someone.  You can converse with different folks while carrying out daily activities such as getting food, shopping, or making a round-trip…anything will do.  This will make you comfortable with new places, ideas, and people.

3.) There’s no better social skills activity than being a host. Throw parties or invite your friends over for a get-together.  If you’re not much of a host, partake in family gatherings and office parties.  This way, you can easily warm up to others in a comfortable setting.  The point of all this is to become relaxed and casual around large crowds and grow into a social butterfly!

4.) People talk because there’s an incentive to.  Find your motivation and share it with others who have same interests as you.  Discover common topics that interest most folks like sports, politics, technology, market, shopping, health, or beauty and share your opinions with them.  This is how friendships and new relationships start off.  If possible, join social groups, like fitness groups, culinary lovers groups, etc…and hit things off.

5.) Seek the guidance and company of well-intentioned, popular and friendly people who can support you.  Friends, guidance counselors, grandparents, siblings or neighbors can act like open doors, a mentor if you will.  If you find one, you can talk to them about your issues, and they can give you suggestions for improvement.

6.) I find sport tournaments a great gateway to social interactions.  Team sports, group activities, and friendly matches make effective social skills activities for the newbie.  It’s easy as well as a healthy way to interact with large crowd of common interest.  Football and golf are my personal favorites.  They’re fun!

7.) Volunteering for a noble cause is a great way to get you social as well as realize your self-worth.  Visit an orphanage or elder’s home.  Talk to people and help them with their daily activities.  Attend sermons on weekends or help local schools raise funds for charity.  It brings added appreciation that strengthens your ties with other members of the community, exposes you to fulfilling activities and expands your social networks.

8.) Sometimes, when you want the attention OFF you in a conversation, rely on open-ended questions.  This way you won’t have to make idle chit-chats.  Part-time jobs, social conferences, and mock job interviews are where you can try experimenting.  Answer in just a few words and ask questions that don’t end in “yes” or “no” answers.  This keeps the conversation going.

9.) Find a hobby or a pastime for self-improvement.  Negative thoughts and failures can sometimes put you off.  Identify the points that are likely dragging you down, and replace them with productive activities and realistic thoughts.  Take your pets out on a walk, meditate twice a day, or read inspirational quotes to gain your lost confidence.

10.) If you’re afraid of meeting new people, you can try your luck in the virtual world. Search for people with similar interests in your area, interact with them on social networks or phones, and strike a friendly conversation.  Once you build a positive rapport with the person, then take the relationship to the next level.  Invite them out for drinks or to chill.  This type of socializing will help you improve your social skills.

Overall, consider one or two of the problems you have and take up on the social skills activities for a month.  Work on them as commitments.

Patience, practice and persistent efforts are eventually going to bring in success.

It might not be fun initially, but it’ll get better as you gain experience.  You just needed the right push in the right direction!

So, give a try to these mentioned social skills activities.

Social Skills Activities – Part 2 is a post from: Social Natural