I think that it’s hard to say that what feelings evoke from an attraction are without a doubt a tell-tale sign that a person is "the one"
It’s much more than just a physical attraction, or common interests. It’s bonding on a deep level (sorry if I sound like an eHarmony commercial)
It’s not being able to imagine your life without that other person in it. It’s knowing without a shred of doubt that this is the person you want to devote the rest of your life to loving.

That’s when you know they’re "THE ONE."

Anyway, most latin american dating custums are definitely a lot slower than the european and the north american custums. But you should try to communicate with her on this issue, because the world has become much smaller with the ease of travel and communication these days, and sexual mores have become much looser everywhere, it seems.

Personally, I don’t believe in dating someone with whom you can’t communicate this basic issue. But that’s just me.

Talk about yourself and your interests.

I guess you realized that are better things to do than

abusing oneself with alcohol.

The traditional way of meeting people (face to face at parties, etc.) is still probably preferred.

What is your take on this? Which method do you prefer and what proportion of your dates come from online sites?

Thanks.

In my time, I’ve met plenty of girls online but it never seem like dating. It seemed like a hook-up for sex only. However, doing more online dating than meeting a nice woman the normal way, such as in the mall or at a cafe, will make you lose your style with approaching women. Lower your percentage of online dating and increase your confidence in approaching women.