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Surprise!!

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 05:02:00 +0000

Well, here it is... drum roll please... the fabulously new and improved Soul Mates Photo Blog! Please, pretty please update your RSS feeders and bookmarks. I will no longer be posting here, but at http://soulmatesphotoblog.com

A HUGE hug and thanks to Into the Dark Room for their creative genius and fabulous customer support. Again, visit the new Soul Mates Photo Blog here. Thanks to all my faithful blog followers... let's continue the friendship over to the other side :)

Big Smiles! Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

Working on a surprise.

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 23:21:00 +0000

Yep, it's true. I'm working on a surprise for my blog. This sort of present is actually not only for the blog but for my readers, clients and future people I haven't even met yet! You can understand my predicament in trying to A. wrap such a present, and B. keep it a secret in the first place. Even if you know what it is try to keep it a secret for everyone else, k?... I know, I know. I'm such a tease :)

I've decided rather then post part two of the Peru trip I'll wait till later when the surprise is compete. Oh, and don't you worry... when every thing's ready I'll share on here just like I always do :)

Until then, Happy Friday!!

Sneaky Smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo

Peru | Part 1 Machu Picchu

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 22:15:00 +0000

It was the trip of a lifetime. As I recall scenes from our time there I wonder if it was me living it or a passing daydream passing. How can I be so blessed to travel seeing more then what my imitate life has to offer? I have a wonderful life, a life filled with moments, laughter and the deepest love that are more valuable than the latest and greatest product. I treasure these fleeting moments as if they are diamonds and precious jewels.

2009 left with a bang. After my work with FACES I continued to travel in Peru with Josh. We had a memorable meeting in the Lima Airport (which surprisingly might be in one of my top 10 moments. Picture this: Me running to gate 12 toting loads of camera gear completely out of breath afraid of missing my plane and my husband. I practically run over Josh who stepped in my way with arms stretched open accompanying a grin wider than a biggest looser contestant.) Together we continued on to Cusco (or Cuzco. It's spelled both ways and I can't for the life of me figure out what is correct). The following day we hiked the Inca Trail. Lemme tell you, hands down physically the hardest thing I have done to date! 3.5 days, 25 miles beginning at 7,000 feet elevation increasing to 14,000 feet and back down to 7,000 feet into Machu Picchu. It was just like a dream... but thankfully we have photos to remember!
Day one... I still look refreshed!

At the campsite, night one.

This is one of those photographs that was SO much better in real life. I often feel that way about landscapes. Why do I bother when the real creation is so much better in experience.

Us on the trail.

One of the lookouts along the trail. Did you know in Inca days they would run this trail in a day? One day.

Original stones still make up the second half of the trail.

Not kidding. Part of the hike.

Over the last pass, Sun Pass, here's the view from the ridge. Machu Picchu in all it's glory.

Day 4. Us :) We made it!

Temple for the Sun. It was my favorite.

I'm so happy to have my photographs to relive this trip for years to come. I'll be printing one of Josh and I to display right next to our stuffed animal, Mr. Alpaca. Don't hate. I'm a tourist sometimes too!

To everyone, thank you so much for being patient with me during my time off. I'm back and ready to rumble.

I'll be posting the second half of our Peru trip later... so stay tuned!

Big Smiles!
Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

Merry Christmas!

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:01:00 +0000

Wishing you all very Merry Christmas! I hope everyone is able to take time, laugh, listen and share memories with the ones closest to your heart. Now, get off the computer! ;)

Here's Josh and I pre-sunburn on the Inka Trail. It was a truly unforgettable experience and I'm so happy to have shared it with my best friend, love, and partner in crime.

Big Smiles... filled with holiday cookies,
Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

FACES Peru Trip | Day 7, Final Day.

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:40:00 +0000

Last Day in the OR!

It's the last day in the OR. It's been bittersweet seeing the families come in, worry and wait and then see their children after the operation filled with thanks and joy. Aside from the experience of being in scrubs and in the OR watching surgery firsthand, it's the thankful emotional state of families that's been most rewarding. It's amazing what just a few people can do for the lives of others.

On the other hand here's somethin' that'll make you laugh...

Yep, that's me. Don't I look fabulous in blue? Can you see the surgery happening in the lower left corner? I would never be able to do something like this in the states. Nosiree.

Friday, the final day of surgeries was a quiet one. The day consisted of 3 patients bringing us to a total of 17 patients for the week. I can't say enough wonderful things about the team and how they each give a specific way to this trip. There are people who have skills in so many different areas, it's truly amazing to see this group of people turn into a well oiled machine in order to better the lives of others.

Rosa was actually scheduled for Monday, but when she came in doctors found it unsafe to operate because she had a cold. A little quick thinking lead to a swap in schedules adding Rosa to Friday and a Friday patient to earlier in the week. Unsure if we were going to operate or not, everyone arrived, met Rosa and checked her lungs right away. Safe! It was wonderful to be able to tell the family her surgery would be able to go through.

Meet Rosa! She's our youngest patient at 5 months old.

We also Operated on Yordy, a 16 year old boy, who has had his lip repaired but needed his nose fixed. I've recently learned that back home these types of patients may have up to 7 surgeries to repair everything begin with the lip, palate, nose, gums and teeth. It's very extensive and sometimes, depending on the case, need follow up work. I'm so happy Yordy was able to make it back for his nose.

It's been a wonderful time working with everyone this week and also being able to share with everyone back home what FACES as been up to. As this week comes to a close I know the people of Peru will be heavy on our hearts.

Before I leave I wanted to share some wonderful images from the local market. Yesterday I actually had the chance to visit for a few and capture some of the local people outside the clinic walls.

Taken right outside our hotel

At the local market

Thanks so much to everyone for following along, thanks for your support, encouragement and love. Just like the people say in Chiclayo, Ciao!

Big Smiles! Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo

FACES Peru Trip | Day 6

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 02:51:00 +0000

Today seems to be going very smoothly with two cleft pallets and one lip up on the menu. Everyone seems to be settling in the grove of the trip and yet at the same time I catch more and more people taking cat naps around the clinic.

The day started a bit more calm, we said goodbye to all our patients first thing in the morning because they are doing so well. Levi and Jorge both went home with a visual change in their face, happy as could be with the soccer balls and toys. Martina was also discharged later this morning and let with her caring sister. It's simply amazing that we can come for one week and change a patient for a lifetime.

Bye Jorge!

Bye Levi!

Bye Martina!

Delia on the right (our amazing Peruvian help), Jorge and Tammy.

We began the day with Nicol, this sweet 19 month little girl with a open palate. Oftentimes when this is the child's first surgery it can be very hard and scary fro the parents. When Nicol when into the Or mom began to cry for her daughter. It's so touching to know that Nicol's mom truly cares for her and is concerned for her daughter but just can't do anything about it. It's a blessing to know FACES can help needy children when their parents can't even help.

Here's sweet Nicol... her palate was repaired so there isn't much to see... and good luck getting a 19 month to open their mouth.

Jesse and Jackie working the music. It helps with concentration you know.

The second case was very sad. We proceeded as normal and Tammy prepped little Leonardo, 17 months, for surgery. He was brought here by his mom and grandma. While we were prepping him we learned he had been on medication earlier this week but was initially cleared for surgery for his cleft palette. While under his lungs started to react to medication given to clear them up. The medical team– who is ultimately responsible for the childs well being– did not feel comfortable continuing the operation and decided it best for the child to cancel the operation. After the child woke up and the mom and grandmother returned tears of saddened began flowing because of disappointment that little Leonardo could not be operated on... he was not well enough for the surgery. It broke my heart to see the family cry for this poor little boy.

Thanks again for reading everyone! I'm so happy to share with you all. I can't wait to decompress further about this trip. It's been so fast that I know there are more feelings and thoughts going on. Thanks for being with me every step of the way.

Big Smiles. Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

FACES Peru Trip | Day 5

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 02:16:00 +0000

It's day five and the schedule has us all going little something like this... Up at 6:20, breakfast at 6:45, clinic at 7:15. The first two cases start before lunch and the final one begins at around 3 pm depending on how long the first 2 take. Each surgery is roughly 2-3 hours which does not include prep, pre op and post op. Patients are at the clinic for about a full day and a half. Photographs are required in preop, beginning of surgery, mid surgery, final surgery, in recovery and then with parents. I need to be here for all stages to document the trip. When everything is done some of us will head to dinner (which takes a few hours cause nothing is rushed here) and then head back to the hotel to blog both on FACES blog and Soul Mates Photo Blog. Whew, talk about a big day!

Today, Wednesday, there are 3 cases on the schedule, 1 cleft lip and 2 cleft pallets. Jorge is only 10 months old and is having his lip done. Just like Evelyn was a few days ago, Jorge is as calm as can be. He's a curious little thing following everyone with his eyes.

We said goodbye to Milagros from yesterday and showed her the new nose and taught her how to care for it.

Levi came in second for his cleft pallet and boy did he have some energy... after a while he calmed down and was able to play with his new toys provided by people from home. The kids love the hats, soccer balls, stuffed animals and blankets. Here's Levi before his surgery to repair pallet work. Levi already had his lip done and is here for his pallet. Her also has a ear deformity where his left ear is completely closed and has no developed eardrum.

The third patient of today was 24 year old Martina who was raised in a remote mountains town. I teared up at her story. Brave Martina had her first surgery last year to repair her lip and is back today to have her palette done. We soon learned that Martina never went to school because of her lip, she was too embarrassed and teased too often not only by the way she looked but also because of the way she sounded when she talked. Since she had her lip done she decided to attend first grade at 23 years old. Today she is so happy she can sign her name and being to be understood by her peers. Martina now lives with her her sister in Lima which is about 2 hours south from Chiclayo where FACES is working. Cross you fingers for Martina, the hope is that she will be able to come back every other month for speech therapy with the local rep. I do hope this sweet girl can have the therapy she needs... If it all works out she'll also be a great candidate for nose reconstruction next time.

Here's Martina!

Again, thanks so much for reading. I can't believe there are only 2 more days of surgery remaining.

Big smiles. Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

FACES Peru Trip | Day 4

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 03:17:00 +0000

Isury was our first patient today. FACES saw her last year for her cleft lip– it was successful and she came back today for her cleft pallet. Little Isury is now 18 months old and the first and only child in her family. Turns out mom found FACES at the location where she gave birth.

Isury was full of energy. She recognized the doctors in blue from last year and didn't let them forget it. Her surgery was very successful! Here's a image from her surgery.

Second up today was Over. At 19 years old he's one of the older patients this week. He came in for cleft pallet.

And as you can see we all need to talk little naps when we can...
Here's Brian.

Our last patient was Milagros. She became friends with some of the staff since she spent time here last year for her pallet surgery. She's had lip and pallet done in the past and today she will have her nose reconstructed to enable better breathing. Milagros has been working on speech therapy with FACES contact here in Peru, Delia. She's been re-learning to speak her naive language and also taking on the task of learning English. "She's been doing wonderfully" reports Delia and will continue to improve because of her hard work. Thanks to FACES her confidence has grown and now she is helping parents understand what their children are going through. I've caught glimpses of her chatting with parents in the waiting room. What a godsend she is!

Here she is going into surgery...

And the final shot is from Christina, the anesthesiologist.

Thanks so much for reading the past few days! We're officially half way through the weeks cases. Stay tuned for more!

Big smiles... for me and the kids too!
Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo

FACES Peru Trip | Day 3

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 01:16:00 +0000

It's the end of day 3 and there have been 5 successful cases and one drop in that's actually still in the OR as I type. There are 17 scheduled cases for this week (5 have been completed) and if anyone happens to drop in then the surgeons will chat and see if they can add him in the schedule. And that's the way it goes!

I'd love for you to meet Erika...
Erika arrived with her aunt to the clinic early Sunday morning. This little 12 year old raises goats on her family farm with her father and her aunt. Because Erika's family lives out in the country the nearest school is too far away to travel and therefore attended only two years because of the distance. She spends her days helping her family raise the goats.

My heart went out for Erika. She was the second patient Sunday and was at the clinic at 10am when the first patient, Yessica, went in for surgery. Erika waited for a little over 3 hours and I'm sure the 12 year old was. I know I would be. Even as a patient back home I would wonder what takes doctors so long?!? But now I understand a little bit better how the inter workings work. In reality, in life, in the OR somethings just take time. I'm sure I'll be a little more patient next time I go in to get my check up.

Erika got to go home today as did Yessica. They both had successful surgeries.

Here's my favorite patient from today. Meet Evelyn and her mom!

Evelyn is 7 months old and has cleft lip. She arrived early this morning in her mothers arms. Here she is being carried into surgery with some of the doctors.

After about a hour and a half surgery is complete.

After surgery the patient is placed in a recovery room to be monitored while he/she wakes up. At that time the parents are invited to come in and see their child. Here is mom comforting Evelyn.

It makes me so happy to see the before and after within a few hours. It's awing. There have been 5 successful cases thus far on this trip. I'm excited to meet tomorrow's patients!

'Night.
Big Smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

FACES Peru Trip | Day 2

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 02:38:00 +0000

Today is the first day in the OR. Armed with nerves I arrived after the first patient was all prepped and ready to go. Yessica and her family traveled over 24 hours to come to the clinic for her pallet surgery. Traveling by bus, back of trucks and walking, her mother, father and sister all made the trip. During the consultation with the parents Yessica's Father said he was so thankful. He continued saying, his daughter would have never been able to have the surgery because he, as a father, cannot provide enough food for his family yet alone surgery for his daughter. To admit that must have put a wrench in his gut, but also let us know how extremely thankful he and his family were for what was about to happen.

As the shy girl entered the OR wrapped in Tammy's arms I could tell she was nervous. Soon she was put under and the process began. Let me interject Yessica's story for a moment to admit it would be the first time for me to be in the OR to watch surgery. Period. I have to say I was nervous, nut not as jittery as I would have expected myself to be. Secretly I was hoping my camera would act as a buffer or my adrenalin would kick into high gear as I stepped into the room. Albeit, I cannot give you technical specs or fancy medical terms, however, I can give you my account of her time here.

Yessica's surgery lasted 3 hours. It's quite a interesting process and thankfully I was able to gain access from the top observing room which is situated directly above the operating table. Having a birds eye view was perfect for many reasons, but mainly being able to have the visibility from above. The mouth is a small place to operate and there are already a lot of people in the room! Aaaaand it also gave me a buffer as what to expect when I entered the room myself. After spending a good 15 minutes up there at the beginning of the surgery. Feeling brave I ventured back downstairs, convinced someone to come in with me just in case I fainted. Armed with my camera and fake confidence I entered the room to find a much calmer situation than I expected. I was careful not to touch any of what they call "green space" and photographed the team at work. I know everyone has their jobs and responsibilities, instruments and such, but was I amazed to be in the OR and to see how seamless everyone was working together. Most of the team has met one another just a few days prior and is now functioning like a well oiled engine. Yessica's pallet was very wide as I was told. What the surgeons ended up doing was cut the roof of the mouth along the upper molars on both sides, then stretch it across the middle to fill the hole, and then tack the incisions by the molars back together while including something to stimulate the re-growth by the upper molars. During surgery I was able to get up on a step stool and look directly into her mouth to photograph the actual surgery. Gotta love that fake courage cause I did fine. No fainting for me and the process was intriguing.

As Yessica's operation carried on I noticed one thing out of place in the OR room. It sat at between her feet and acted as her little guardian... a teddy bear. At 13 years old she's still a child, but with this surgery hopes to hold the confidence of a adult.

Going into surgery....

More tomorrow!
Big Smiles! Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

FACES Peru Trip | Day 1

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 13:59:00 +0000

We've made it. 3 flight zero sleep and 24 hours later the we have made it to Chiclayo. A place where the people use their vehicle horns more then New Yorkers.

As an observer and first timer on this trip it's been quite interesting watching the team take on their roles in the clinic. Each person came over with a personal bag and a bag double that size of medical supplies. It's been quite amazing to see all the equipment needed to make these surgeries possible.

Saturday morning we arrived at our hotel, which is a beautiful place tucked away off the street. Delia, FACES contact here in Peru, did a fabulous job! After we arrived we ate a quick breakfast and were given "free time" AKA "nap time" which everyone gladly took advantage of. At this point any flat surface would do– I was beat! After a few hours we all grabbed our bags and headed over to the clinic to set everything up, understand our surroundings and make sure to had all the medical supplies needed. There are 3 main rooms we will be using– the OR, the recovery and the extra storage/computer work area. It's quite interesting to see the ins and outs of the medical situations... more on that to come. Oh, and by the way– nothing like the shows on TV.

Currently it's Sunday morning, the first day of surgeries and the team is excited to get this ball rolling. I can't wait to share my first day of surgeries with you. Wish me luck and a strong stomach!

Oh, and the people here are nothing but generous, kind, and loving. They completely go out of the way to help.

Here is the team trekking the medical supplies to the clinic just a few short blocks from our hotel.

The front of the clinic.

A birds eye view of the OR

Jeff giving a overview.

And side street right next to the clinic

Thanks everyone for reading. I hope to post daily here in Chiclayo.
Happy day and big smiles. Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

I'm leavin' on a jet plane...

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 23:24:00 +0000

... and I'm quite nervous. My house is in disarray among many other things and I'm trying to prepare my mind and heart for what's to come.

Tomorrow– way too early– I leave with a team of medical professionals to Peru for one of FACES Foundation trip. It's my responsibility to document not only the 23+ patients that are coming for cleft lip or cleft palate surgeries but also to document the trip overall. I'm equal parts thrilled, nervous, excited and unsure how everything will go. I believe we will have Internet at the hotel where we are staying and I hope to post multiple times while in Chiclayo, Peru about the my perspective of the trip. I hope I'm able to see not only with my lens, but also with my heart portraying that through my words and images

I've spent a few hours packing and I know I'll spend a few hours more, organizing not only socks, shoes and outfit, but organizing my heart. Preparing my heart for what's to come... and my body for sleeping in airports!

With that said, please keep this trip and the children in your thoughts and prayers. Surgery starts this Sunday! I will have no access to phone and limited access to email. I will do my best to respond as promptly as possible.... Adios!

Bis Smiles!
Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo

Baby Noah West | Newborn Portraits

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:10:00 +0000

Introducing little baby Noah West! With a name like that he's bound to be a rockstar, don'tcha think? Let me tell you a bit about Noah. He's a coo-er. You know, that little adorable baby cooing that just melts any females' heart to butter. In a instant. It's darling, he's darling, and his parents aren't half bad themselves. We're friends so I feel at liberty to speak my mind :) Not only was I able to photograph this little man, but I'm happy to say I'm sure I'll see him grow up as well.

Here'sssssss NOAH!

baby details make me swoon.

He's a happy little guy... it took a bit to get him there but now he's happy and asleep.

One of my favs!

N is for Noah. The books are from his great grandpa whom he's named after.

mom and dad :)

Enjoy! I just love a little baby.
Big Smlies, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo

Thanksgiving Feast Photos

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 02:56:00 +0000

Well, It's Monday. The end of Monday, Cyper Monday, that is. Did you get any good deals?
Thanksgiving was delicious and I've been reaping the benefits for the past 3 days now. Turkey and the fixings... they've lasted Josh and I that long. Here's the 3.... we ended up with.

Blueberry martini, and turkey...

... gravy and cranberry sauce...

....Italian stuffin' (gross!!) and mashed potatoes.

OK, I know that's not 3 but I didn't eat the Italian stuffing cause I think it's gross but Josh loves it, so, naturally we had to make it.... and I'm not sure that martini's and gravy count. Gravy is like a result of cooking turkey and well, Martini's are a drink. And they are delicious I might add!

Yum! Thanksgiving was surprisingly relaxing and delicious. I was curious t find out how this meal would taste, but it was delicious! Never underestimate the power of butter. :)

Big smiles! Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

Thanksgiving Feast. Which items would you choose?

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 17:08:00 +0000

I just asked this question on my twitter and facebook and am getting some great responses. I would love to hear what your planning on eating for thanksgiving... and if you had only 3 items to eat what would you choose?

Here are clearly some of the favorite Thanksgiving feast items that have been suggested (in no particular order).

turkey (duh)
mashed potatoes
wine
stuffing
cranberry sauce
pie
gravy
dinner rolls

Anyone got any other favorites... such as...

jello mold
green bean casserole
yams
sweet potatoes
salad.... does anyone even eat salad on Thanksgiving?

You should suggest your favorite items in the comment box. and while your at it... add one thing you are thankful for. I'll start the trend off (minus the favorites part cause I'll save that for later). Check the comments....

Why? Oh, because for the first year I'll be cooking Thanksgiving with the help of Josh. And for 2 people why make all the fuss? I want 3 items I should cook. That's it. So, maybe dinner rolls and wine don't count....? Maybe I'll even document our feast. And I'm even thinking we'll eat at a normal hour... like 6. Wouldn't that be nice?

Happy THANKSgiving.
Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

Foto Friday | Fine Art Gallery

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:42:00 +0000

Inspiration is a tricky thing. It comes and goes and can be found in the most random of situations. It requires you to think, analyze, and record. Mine? It comes in the most random of times. I may be walking on the street, putting on my gym socks, looking in a vintage store, shopping in general, other artists, or online. Funny how life works, isn't it?

And as Lauren states below, these things "deserve to be up in a gallery"... or I would be happy if they are out in the world. Therefore, I have hand selected a few images from the past year or two that I would love to be up in people's homes. This gallery will only be on sale for 2 weeks. They would be perfect for holiday gifts for someone you love or yourself. If you want to check it out click here to visit the Inspiration Fine Art section on soulmatesphotoshop.com

The last wedding I just posted, Lauren and Andy, was extremely inspiring to not only me but to the clients as well. I asked her if I could re-post her email from her perspective on this image. Here is Lauren, the bride's perspective.

"He literally woke me up at some god-awful hour... to come see what he stumbled upon because he knew I would love it. And I did. We both do. Andy and I agree: this photograph looks like it should be in a gallery, not just a wedding photo album.

And the more I looked at it, the more I felt like it sort of "represented" us: we had a tough road to get to where we were on our wedding day with having to be apart for work reasons, "friends" that didn't support our decision to get married, etc., so the fact the we are illuminated by a ray of light on our wedding day is simply poignant and meaningful, and furthermore the fact our shadows are cast FORWARD instead of backward means to us that... while the past is there, from where we stood on our wedding day it meant, more importantly, that all of the future was ahead of us. We didn't need to look back, we could only look forward to see how amazing our life was going to be, what sort of people were are going to become together."

As you can imagine, that's one of the hugest compliments an artist can receive. To have someone inspired by their work.

Happy Friday and Big Smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

I fear I might be going cazy.

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:00:00 +0000

I fear I might be going crazy. Might be. I'm yet to be a full fledged crazy lady. But I "might" be going crazy. This week Josh and I were going over our Strengths Finder test. I learned more on this test than on any other personality mumbo jumbo quiz. And, I might add, as I get older I seem to wiggle myself deeper and deeper into these said categories. Some are so true they are hysterical, some, on the other hand, make me fear for my friends!!! How could I be so crazy as to not notice?

Speaking of fearing for my friends, I also fear for my unborn children. I am turning into a crazy lady who not only collects random objects for which I have no use, but to top it all off I photograph them too! To make matters worse I don't even wear perfume. I try, I really do. I love the little bottles that are filled with promise to make you sexy, irresistible or attract 5 little golden Labrador puppies. Whatever it may be I still want that promise of a better life.

Because doesn't everyone want to attract golden Labrador puppies everywhere they walk? I do. Anyway, I like this image so much I might just hang it in my bathroom... the one with the bottle collection. Genius. Or maybe that much more crazy.

PS. just in case there is any confusion I'm not currently pregnant. I knew someone was going to ask :)

Big Smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photography.

Lauren and Andy | Portland, Oregon Fall Wedding

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 22:29:00 +0000

Lauren and Andy. Sigh. I can't believe my last couple of 2009 is married and I couldn't imagine a more perfect way to end the wedding season. One lovely Lauren marring one lovely Andy on a lovely November day. These two are so in love with each other words can't begin to describe. As Lauren so accurately said on her wedding day, "The gods are smiling on us." It was true... Sun was shining, she was beautiful, friends were helpful and Andy was charming. Never have I before seen a couple care so much for each other and their guests. Even I, as their wedding photographer, felt loved, fed and cared for.

Transportation has played a bit role in their relationship. Let me explain. They met on a cruise ship; Andy from England, Lauren from the US. They spent their dating days on the ship where which would seem all fine and dandy until... Lauren was transferred to another cruise ship when they became engaged. Hence, their engagement was spent on the road, in the air and out to sea. Are you getting my point yet? Having said that they decided to tie the very thing that kept them together or apart- transportation.

Lauren and Andy, Thank you for being so kind, loving people. Thank you for taking care of me on your wedding day when I was there to take care of you. Thank you for being stunning on the inside as well as the outside. I wish you all the travel and happiness one could want.

All the ladies got ready at The Nines

Love this ring shot. It's tied to Lauren's something blue which is in the bustle of her wedding dress.

The guys hanging in The Nines lobby

I really just can't stand how I love this image. The stripes match! They match! Need I say more?

And back to the girls.

Can you tell I thought the bride was gogeous... cause she is!

The first look was done in the most private spot available, a room at The Nines.

During the first look Andy arrived with a gift for his beautiful bride... a diamond bracelet.

The Party. Hayyyyyyy.

Andy and Lauren were married at The Academy in Vancouver, WA.

This was the moment after the placed the rings on each others fingers.

LOVE.

I was blessed to have quite a bit of time with Lauren and Andy on their wedding day. I'm thrilled that was important to them- time for lots of photographs!

The reception was held at Wilf's in Union Station.

Lauren is the queen of DYI wedding details. Look how creative and cute this is!

A tear-filled toast from dad.

A huge shout out to Sara Gray who assisted me. She was amazing! Thanks, thanks, thanks Sara!

Big Smiles to 2009. Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photography.

Foto Friday | Tardy

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 18:37:00 +0000

Sigh. I just had to get over the fact that I didn't make Foto Friday on Friday. I have to admit I feel like a failure. I feel I let people down and I let my self down... and I'm sorry. I realize time and time again I put too many expectations on myself, to tight a deadline, and too many plans. Sometimes, AKA all the times, I think things can get done in a hour or two when they usually take days. Why do I do this? I really don't think I'm superwoman, so why do I tell myself I can work really fast and get it all done? One of these days I'll learn... I hope! Until then...

There are a few things I learned this week listed in bullet format. I love bullet format! It's organized and clean.

Time off is fabulous! I had a real, normal person weekend and it was refreshing and rejuvenating after a full week.
Don't assume you can hike 8 miles at a moderate rate and be totally fine. Not only were my legs jello on Saturday night but since then I've been waddling around cause I'm so sore.
I was reminded how activities, when done together, really bond people. It is a completely different way of connecting.
I believe we will burn through our half cord of wood in no time. Real fires can't be beat. Smoke alarm and all.
People can forgive. I can forgive myself for not posting Foto Friday on Friday. Reality is, when it comes to my personal life I'm always fashionably late. Oops!

Anyway, here are some interesting shots from the Beavers game on Halloween. Which would have been perfect to post on Friday the 13th, but, what are you gonna do?

This is my favorite... or at least one of 'em. I love the partial story of the marching band among the sea of orange and black.

And this dude! Do you see him? He's totally wearing a costume that makes him look like he's sitting ontop of someone. RAD. Nicly done.

Ok, this IS my favorite. Just look at him! I love it. PS not a costume.

Ok. Happy Monday!
Big tardy Smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

Sneak Peek | Lauren and Andy's Wedding

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:07:00 +0000

Lauren and Andy are in love. I am in love with this image. I hope they are in love with this image too.

When I saw this stream of light and the moment the shutter fired I knew I had a fabulous photograph. For now you get this lovey. I hope it makes you smile today. This image was taken at Pioneer Courthouse Square. Portland, Oregon.

Big Smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.

Giving Back | A FACES Update

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 21:20:00 +0000

What is FACES Foundation? Well, if you've missed the last few newsletters you might be a bit outta the loop. You can visit past posts about the fundraising here and here. FACES is a nonprofit Portland, Oregon based company made up of surgeons who repair cleft lip and cleft palate abroad. As I've said before, they have asked me to join them this on their trip to Peru to document the events. You can read more about FACES on their website, www.facesfoundation.org. I am happy to announce I have completed fundraising for my trip and will be leaving on December 4th! A huge thanks and virtual hug to my supporters who made this happen. You know who you are. Please keep this trip in your thoughts and prayers as flights leave December 4th and surgeries begin December 6th.

Earlier this week I had a chance to meet with one of the founders and surgeons of FACES. Thankfully, I was able to ask him about expectations for the trip and what were the essential photographs and was happy view examples of what they are looking for. Lemme tell you this is a completely different type of photography and I'm excited to stretch my wings a bit. Of course I'm encouraged to do what I do, but pre-operation and post-operation are the most important images for the doctors to review and include in case studies upon return. It's the shape of deformity and look of repair which is needed for reference and documentation purposes. Of course I'll be photographing the events as they unfold but I just thought it was so interesting! I'm thrilled to donate my time to travel to South America, meet the people of Peru and give back this season.... Thanks again to the people who made this possible, my supporters.

Please keep the children and the FACES team in your thoughts and prayers during surgery. I hope to be updating my blog every evening from the days events. That will beginning roughly December 6th.

Just a little visual of the countryside and people...

Copyright google images and various Peru travel sites.

A big thankful smile! Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photography

Stephanie and Thomas | Engagement

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:33:00 +0000

Stephanie and Thomas are darling. As in college sweethearts darling. They met while attending Oregon State and have been attached at the hip ever since.

I'm not sure how this worked out so perfectly, but Stephanie and Thomas live in Roseburg... and seeing that I live in Portland I knew it was going to be a drive for the engagement for one or both of us. I casually mentioned I'd be at the OSU's campus on Halloween and wondered if they would like to meet half way... unknown to me that's where they met, and that was the perfect place for their engagement session. They hadn't been back since the gradated. Nothing like a walk through memory lane to trigger some excitement.

Speaking of excitement... this was no dull engagement session. As many of you know A. it was Halloween, and B. there was a game going on. A 41,000 person game. I'm no sports geek but that's a lot of people... in costumes! I'll share more on that later... I'm thinking on Foto Friday.

To Stephanie and Thomas, I had a blast with you guys! I'm so happy you showed me around campus, endured the rain, brought a umbrella, and had smiles the entire session. I can't wait to photography you again next year!

Who knew this existed inside the college buildings!

Thomas, you snagged a beauty. :)

Don't let a little rain scare you away... it was raining buckets.

I suppose it would be appropriate to say..... "Go Beaves!"

Big Smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photography.

Foto Friday | It's all about me

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:58:00 +0000

Sometimes it is all about me. Sorry. But really, it is.

I shoot what I like, I choose locations based on what I think are good, creative locations. I critique the images I take and ultimately decide what's best for my company and for my client. I truly believe any photographer should own that. With that being said, it's part of why clients hire me. For my eye. For my creativity. For my opinion. And possibility for my fabulous comedic talents which include but are not limited to me tripping over myself. Every.single.session. Moving on.

This presents a problem when I need to do things that can't possibly use my talent. Like, hypothetically speaking, having portraits of myself. Gulp. Which is exactly why I enlisted in a trusted and talented photographer, Emi of Evoke Photography.

Some of you know I'll soon be leaving this blog behind because there is something better and bigger coming. I'm not sure when it will be complete but it does require updated everything- including new portraits.

Here's just a sneak peek of the photo shoot. A huge hug for Emi. She's the best.

Happy Friday.... night!
Big smiles,
Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photography

Kali and Ethan | Boise, Idaho Wedding

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 00:34:00 +0000

Kali and Ethan.

Have you seen the closing scene in the movie "Hitch"? You know the scene where this beautiful and totally goofy couple are dancing with all their friends. You know it, I know you do. They are all doing crazy moves down the middle, like.... ahem... the robot. Yes, this is exactly Kali and Ethan. Except Ethan is a bit taller than Albert Brennaman and much better looking (I think Kali would agree) and not a accountant. But other than, that this closing scene totally wraps them up in a pretty little box.

Let me explain.

Two people totally in love that when looking at them one might be intimated by how ridiculously good looking they are, but here's the catch. They are total goofballs. That robot dancing example in the above paragraph was not a example. Literally, they did the robot together on the dance floor and ripped it up! They laughed together, they cry together the care for one another in ways that make me smile. I love these two and am so happy I know them, and am even more happy they are now Mr. and Mrs.

Kali and Ethan. You were amazing, fun and exciting to photograph. Thank you for inviting me to photograph your wedding-- I had a blast! Thank you for inviting me to capture the most intimate moments of your day. Cheers to the beginning of YOU.

The Ladies got ready at the home of a friend in Boise, Id.

The guys got ready at The Modern, a hotel in the Linen district.

I was lucky to be the only witness to this tender moment when K&E first saw each other. Ethan's praying over their day.

I had so many favorites from this wedding. This is one of them... as well as the next 20 or so images.

I was lucky enough to photograph Kali and Ethan during the 1st look as well as just them after the ceremony for some super yummy light. More of that in a bit...

Let's get married.

We had time to roam around the Linen District with the happy couple... and now happy photographer. PS their new last name begins with a "C." Sweet!

On to a pretty local park with yummy light.

Back to the Linen Building for a rocking reception filled with toasts, the robot, and dancing galore.

Happy rest of your life!

Big smiles, Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photography

Foto Friday | + a little about marriage

noreply@blogger.com (Melissa w/ Soul Mates Photography) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 21:08:00 +0000

Someone asked me last night if marriage was like it's displayed in Hollywood Movies. Of course they didn't really believe it that, nevertheless it got me thinking. How much of what we perceive of the world is built on what the media has shared with us? How have we come to trust this black box in our living room and not reach out to talk to people who have been there, done that.

The truth is marriage is so far from how Hollywood depicts it one could say it might not be the same category at all! Marriage is so much more than physical attraction, shiny rocks and new things (even thought I like those too). It's so much more then parties and coordinated His and Hers outfits and cute little puppies. Marriage is a team. Possibly in every aspect of the word.

Team Tomeoni. Occasionally, that's what I call us. It helps shift the focus from me (I know, why would I want to do that?) and onto us. I know this is so cliché, but marriage– or life in general– is about the little things, the everyday. It's about dealing with drama– together. It's about meetings regarding money, meetings about meetings, about trips, feelings, expectations, unmet expectations and the list continues. It's about discussing, deciding the route and cheering each other through that decision 'till it's complete. Even if it was not your first choice. Marriage is also about intimacy, tears, laughter, silent moments, listening, holding, screaming, compromising, working, chores, exciting and unexciting moments. I can't express how much better marriage is in real life then on TV. Really, marriage is nothing like the movies and I believe we are all better for it.

So, when on our way to Boise last weekend my teammate asked me if I would like to pull over to take a photograph. I agreed wholeheartedly because in a world full of beauty, shiny rocks and new things all I really need is my normal, everyday tree.

Here's the 2008 version of the trees if you missed it from last time.

Big smiles and cheers for Team Tomeoni.
Melissa Tomeoni with Soul Mates Photo.