SOULFUL VAGINA

Why Black Women shouldn't shave their Vaginas - Guest post by Nubian Love Doctor

2013-09-25T15:37:00.000-07:00

I woke up this morning with Black Women on my mind. My dreams have always been a source of spiritual awakening and wisdom for me. Below is what I was told and saw in my third eye last night.

Note: my ideas and concepts are often times unique (to the masses) because I see thru the third eye (it is not "my" third eye. it is "the" third eye) and I see things on a different esthetic level than most. Yes, I take naps in the Stars when I sleep (as you put it) but when awake I an renewed in them. More particularly I bask often and ritualistically in the melanin conduit energy and wisdom (thru the third eye) of our own brilliant, earth sustaining, heavenly Star, the other "Sun" of God - RA!

Amen!

Title: Why Black women should be hairy, not bald “down there”: a metaphysical message to Black women (and men).

Snakes roam boldly and naturally thru grass. Worms however wiggle on smooth dirt and pavement under rocks. Eurocentric culture is shaped by worms (men with closed minds and small dicks but big power to control the mores’ of society thru socialized rewards and punishments (e.g., mainstream media). These men promote White women to shave their pussy hairs and sees (natural feminine pussy hair) as unattractive. That is currently the American and Eurocentric norm. Many Black women have bought in this euro-norm and their sexual practices thus, mimics the white woman by constant shaving.

However, African cultures are shaped by snakes, not by worms (Big dick Black men) and so natural, African (Black) women should be natural like the natural grass snakes roam in. This is the reason why.

Natural hair whether on the head or on the vagina is bushy but neatly trimmed. A raw meat pussy (also usually bumpy from so much shaving is unattractive to most African (and real Nubian) men unless they have been psychologically Euro-canonnized and unfortunately too many have been. In fact most African American men and women are socialized into the Eurocentric frame of reference for beauty and shaved pussy hair. However, today, many black women are returning to the “natural”, like in the 60’s when the black power movement was the predominant socialization norm for Blacks, until we sold out to the "worm mindset" that contributes to the subjugation and emasculation of too many Black males and the unnatural hair (and unnatural mental state) of the Black female. It all starts at an early age because we (Black people) unfortunately do not have our own community and cultural institutions, nor family and community consciousness, to promote healthy cultural identity, self knowledge and true sexual awareness.

The gateway inside a sweet Black pussy should be “discovered” not euro-bald and superficially (artificially) visible to the naked eye. The brisk curly black pussy hair on a black woman was made by God to hide and protect her most sensitive parts and then once sexually engaged, to “tickle” the Black man’s shaft up and down as he thrusts gently but forcefully in and out of her wet pink inner, life giving, slippery sweet and juicy ebony honey pot. Many women purchase dildos with “ticklers” on the shaft. Pussy and dick hair are natural ticklers (no need for artificial euro-worm bull shit! but in today's times, I understand the need the love affair between a woman and her vibrator).

Like the weave on their heads, our Black women today are literally struggle with keeping their pussy hair shaven even thought it often comes back prickly and bumpy (from being shaved and cut so much). That is rather “unnatural” and uncomfortable to men so they (black men) “think” they rather have it shaved too. However, when a women is natural, her briskly well developed God given pussy hairs are still soft and curly yet firm, (not sharp and thorny as when it’s cut and barely growing like thorns only to be cut again and made very uncomfortable to both man and woman during the sacred sex act.)

So go "natural" black woman and return to the source of your beauty and your sensual power of allure and mystery. If you do, than perhaps black men will also return to his "senses" and appreciate what God naturally blessed him with; a natural black woman with a deliciously "hairy" fat dark “baked to perfection” sweet and juicy pussy, big fat juicy black ass (which comes with the Black woman’s body) and soft succulent bosoms to give “him something that he can feel”.

The all too often “unnatural” bald state of sex for Black men and women is analogous to the biblical story of Sampson getting his hair cut off by Delila, except in reverse. It actually robs women of their mystery, allure and appeal for "keeping", not just "fucking", a real black man in the thralls of this very spiritual and ritualistic, yet animal (i.e., snake in the grass) act. No snake (animal or dick) really enjoys roaming on dry land, but they will, if necessary, but it’s not truly natural for the Afro-snake as it is for the Euro-worm. For the Afro-snake, it is a dangerous and vulnerable place to be. Both black snake and black dick are stronger and wiser in their natural grassy habitat. The natural habitat for a big black dick is in a hairy (not bald) sweet nourishing tight black pussy hole (or "vagina" if you prefer that term). That is the way God made it, otherwise she would not have hair down there in the first place for feminine women to prim, comb and keep neat and "pretty" just like she does the hair on her head. In the bible it reads: “A woman is a man’s glory. A woman’s hair is her glory”. What (Black) people don't understand is that a woman’s “glory” includes her hair above and "down below". One is public (the head) and one is private (the pussy) but they both are divinely and intelligently designed by the Almighty to be seen, admired and appreciated as part of the natural beauty of real Black women for real Black men.

Unfortunately White men (across generational, institutional and economic oppression and power) have conformed many, if not most, black women to their Euro-worm standards of beauty and the Black hair care industry is a living testament to the difficulty and "down right craziness" of this unnatural act of Black women trying desperately (and failing most of the time) to be something other than what you are (and were meant to be). This near impossible dilemma limits what black women can do (can't swim: "my hair will get wet (and it'll cost me another $100 and 5 hours of my time to get it "right" (e.g. "White") (i.e., unnatural) again"; can't sweat: "my hair will get nappy"; can't fully enjoy sex "you can fuck me but don't touch or pull my hair (weave, extensions, etc)! Say what?!! Bitch! (is the usual, yet all too unfortunate, conscious or unconscious sentiment and reaction of the man desperate for some of that good pussy). This unnatural state of affairs keeps Black women (and men) off balance and never in their right minds or spirits, or more importantly in sexual harmony, with one another or to truly fulfill one another. Thus Black women don't exercise, swim or do many of the things other (e.g. White) women do naturally and the saddest part of it all is that, you have many Black men complaining about it, but not understanding the true cause and nature of this unholy dilemma for Black women and the whole Nubian race.

One final note: The commonly used term “snake in the grass” is considered a bad thing in most cultures because by being in the grass it (the snake) is in control; it's presence is unaware and undetected by humans and that is potentially (but not usually, unless poisonous) dangerous (to humans). That is why humans prefer to see snakes first in the open (bald) field or open ground (usually to kill them out of fear). However, in nature, a “snake in the grass” is in it’s natural state as a safe and secure terrain to go back and forth to hunt food and return home to it’s family. In the same sense, a naturally hairy pretty (well kept (not euro-bald) black hairy pussy is a safe spiritual and sexual terrain for a Black man and his big Black dick snake to live in (as he's appropriately drained and nurtured by the sweet tight warm (sometimes hot pink!) accommodating pleasure orifice (i.e, pussy or vagina) of his beautiful Black woman in the sacred act of "planting that seed" or just (more commonly) in the secular act of "busting that nut"). Perhaps if Black men (and their black dick snakes) had such a naturally hairy safe place “down there” between their Black women’s thighs, they would feel more comforted residing there permanently as a temporary respite for when they inevitably must return to a euro-dominated white worm-world which too often leaves them (Black men) vulnerable on a daily bases in the concrete (hard bald) jungles of a racist America. The end.

This came to me in a dream last night. I never thought of this before until last night. I must attribute it to what i wrote to you, for you, last night, so thank you for priming me for this vision! I (since childhood) has always preferred hairy pussies and now I know why. Even when viewing some porn in my adult life, I never look at, or care for bald pussies and I've even argued with my friends (and girlfriends) about it over the years. Now I know why.

A message from the Nubian Love Doctor

Upcoming Erotic Fiction Workshop

2013-02-19T11:15:00.004-08:00

Exciting Workshop To Expose The Secret World Of Erotic Fiction

For the aspiring author or inquisitive voyeur, understanding what it takes to keep your reader’s interest is a necessary skill to acquire for literary success.

Write Well - Sex Sells is more than just your average writing workshop. Local author FBK will be conducting an hour long discussion on the exciting world of erotic fiction, and will lay out exactly what it takes to break into this rapidly trending niche industry.

The world of adult literature is unlike what it was a few years ago. Gone are the days of over-dramatic story lines and books filled with useless adjectives. Sure that stuff still drives some die hard fans. However, erotic fiction has become larger than one story fits all. Today there is growing demand for seductive erotic fiction from both males and females that are truly looking for an escape from reality that they can engross themselves into.
At Write Well - Sex Sells (writing workshop) attendees will be introduced to a wide variety of tips, tricks, and knowledge that will take even the most novice of writers to the next level. The workshop will share insider knowledge from a variety of sources to give you everything you need to get started writing erotic fiction. Topics discussed will include:

- An introduction to erotic fiction and how to bring your inner desires out through writing
- A behind-the-scenes look at how sex scenes are conjured up by such Authors as Zane.
- excerpt from my upcoming new ebook

Whether you are an aspiring author or simply looking for a way to spice up your love life, Write Well - Sex Sells will be sure to give you all the inspiration you need to begin writing and possibly even living out your wildest fantasies.
Write Well - Sex Sells will take place at the 9th annual WDBZ Buzz bookfair on Saturday February 23rd from 2-3PM at the Sharonville Convention Center.

Eat me - Case of the posionous Vagina

2013-01-29T13:00:00.001-08:00

Read all about it here.

Top men who probably wished they'd stayed out of other people's bedroom in 2012, or maybe not

2012-12-30T15:27:00.001-08:00

As we prepare to bid 2012 farewell I had to compile my top ten list of men who would have probably had a better year (or more money in their bank account) if they'd
kept their opinion and or their penis to themselves. Most of the men on this list deserve every bit of flack that their comments or penis brought them. They say the
only thing in life guaranteed are death and taxes. However; I think it's safe to add to that list men who need to stay out of OPB (Other People's bedroom).
1. GOP Missouri Senate candidate Rep. Todd Atkins said in an August interview that a woman who is a victim of "legitimate rape" can't get pregnant. In addition to
making that asinine comment which guaranteed he would not go to the US senate, he has some very outdated views on women's reproductive rights. The GOP don't usually
eat their own, but they ate this guy and threw him out with the garbage.
2. Indiana Republican Senate candidate Richard Mourdock said pregnancies resulting from rape are part of God’s plan. His asinine comment also guaranteed he would not
go to the US senate. He also joins the long list of misguided and hypocritical men with outdated views on women's reproductive rights. His comments also got him thrown
under the GOP bus.
3. Former International Monetary Fund chief and one time French presidential hopeful Dominique Strauss-Kahn was accused of rape by a former New York hotel employee,
Nafissatou Diallo. In December he reached a legal settlement with Diallo. Her accusations set off a firestorm of sexual allegations against him. In France Strauss-
Kahn has been charged with "aggravated procurement in an organized gang" To break it down he's been charged with being the ring leader of a prostitution ring. To break
it down further, he's accused of pimping. Keep in mind that it's legal to pay for sex in France - but Strauss-Kahn takes pimping to the next level. His penis problems
continue to cost him lot's of money and plenty of disgrace. By the way, why does he have a hyphenated last name? Maybe it's a french thing.
4. Former French president Nicholas Sarozy
has a laundry list of dirty deeds crammed in his closet. Adding to that list is accusations that he groped women at a party
and that he is somehow involved with Strauss-Kahn chronicles.
5. Actor and humanitarian John Travolta can't catch a break. When last checked there was alawsuit pending against him from a pilot who accused him of something sexual.
And who can forget the wild massage accusations made against him by men spa employees? Seems like good guy Travolta can't catch a break.

6. Actor and Author Arnold Schwarzeneggar easily admitted in a 60 minutes interview this year that he's cheated on his wife on several occassions. He also admitted
that he fathered a child with a woman that worked in his house. What's distubing about this sex fiend robot of a man is that he does not seem remorseful that he was
having sex with a woman that was not his wife in the family home.
7. Kevin Clash better known as the voice of Elmo character on Sesame Street at last count had 4 under age accusers make sex accusations against him. I'm not following
whose sticking to their story and who has retracted but I know this year I just could not bring myself to purchase Elmo pajamas or other Elmo toys for the youngens in
my family. I knew this guy was a little weird after watching the documentary about his life.
8. Rapper turned Reality TV personality Shawty Lo has eleven kids by 10 women and he was a reality TV show coming out on the Oxygen network to tell America all about
it. There are a few words that come to mind when I think about this rapper. Words like trifling and disturbing. If there was ever a case of someone needing to stay
out of other's bedrooms, this is the case. I hope that the rapper, the mothers and the children are educated on HIV and sex education in general. Many of us stand in
judgement of Shawty Lo, but we've all made bad choices and I wish this extended family well. I can't wish a man with 11 mouths to feed, ill will, C'mon.
9. Ex football player and reality star Chad Johnson has been around the block and apparently in a many of bedrooms. I think he has about four or five children and
frozen sperm reserved for his wife, Evelyn Lozada. In 2012 his threesome sex tape apparently surfaced and he referred to as, "old news." Chad loves the ladies and he
makes that clear which is why some of his love affairs have gotten him in trouble and in the news. Chad's an entertainer and apparently a nice guy from what I hear
from people who interacted with him when he played professional football in Cincinnati. Still, child support payments will catch up with him,if it hasn't already
and Mr. Ocho Cinco probably needs another gig fast.

10. General David Patraeus the former director of the CIA and one of America's most decorated four-star generals, work out junkie and cheater. If there was ever of
case of someone needing to stay out of someone's bedroom, it's this case. His bedroom sexescpades put too many lives at risk. Shame on this guy.

As usual, too lazy to edit. Happy New Year and don't forget about Joe Deters and the gal in Cleveland.

A Clean Vagina Hmmmm

2012-05-24T13:59:00.001-07:00

Is your Vagina Clean.

What would you do for a Big Black Butt?

2012-05-14T17:36:00.002-07:00

Would you take it this far?

Would you have sex with a robot. Sex robot?

2012-04-20T07:20:00.003-07:00

Brace yourself. You are going to be blown away, by this story or maybe not. Would you have sex with a robot? Read the story here, then report back to SV. Would you "do" a robot?

She's bad and she knows - she's BAD.

2012-04-17T17:21:00.001-07:00

2012-04-12T18:03:00.001-07:00

Today I saw Sabrina/Sybrina Fulton on the Today show. BTW, what is the correct spelling of her name? I saw a news story in a major online newspaper that spelled Ms. Fulton’s name Sybrina in the headline, than later spelled it Sabrina in the story.

On the Today show Ms. Fulton stated that she believed the shooting death of her son was an “accident.” My immediate reaction was to drop my head. Then a second later – I lifted my head proudly. My She-ro.

It takes one hell of a woman to forgive the unforgivable. In case you’ve been living under a rock – you know that Trayvon Martin was shot down like a mangy dog by George Zimmerman.

But Ms. Fulton, true to her faith in God and fully aware that hostile comments about George Zimmerman may not “play” well in the heads of certain audience members – took the high road. I also believe she was flat out exhausted from doing interviews and gave a safe answer.

Nevertheless no one could blame her if she had said, that she wanted George Zimmerman to rot in hell before he’s tried in the court of law. Anybody remember the Simpson/Goldman families?

There are countless people (especially poor people and people of color) that are tried in the media and the court of public opinion, before they are ever – if ever – tried in the court of law.

And there are countless people that want to hang “certain people” in the court of public opinion, before they hang them at high noon in the court room.

Black people – we can be some of the most forgiving – God fearing people on this earth. God love us.

Geraldo apologizes - takes hand off Hispanic cock.

2012-03-27T17:25:00.001-07:00

So Geraldo finally took his hand off his Hispanic cock and apologized. When fading personalities and politicians find themselves no longer relevant they write, tweet, or say something ridiculous-offensive-downright stupid, in the hopes that the media will pick up on their comment and thus they become relevant once again.

Geraldo’s ridiculous comment in a nutshell was to say that one of the reasons that Trayvon Martin is dead is because he wore a hoodie. His foolish comment led to a firestorm of controversy and today Geraldo apologized.

He took his hand off his cock, smelled his fingers, and now he feels relevant again. His cock is still there and so is his relevancy. Or so he thinks.

Now that he has apologized he can go back to being irrelevant.

Have a better orgasm now....

2012-02-27T05:43:00.002-08:00

Read all about it here.

Whitney Houston dies at 48, Bobbi Kristina hospitalized

2012-02-11T19:04:00.000-08:00

Life is truly not promised. Soulful Sistah didn't even make it to 50.
R.I.P. WHITNEY

Bobbi Kristina hospitalized.

Happy Sexy Valentine's Day 2012

2012-01-27T01:28:00.000-08:00

Hey Sexy.
What are you doing Valentine's Day?
Do you/

Happy "Soulful" do You New Year 2012

2011-12-31T16:43:00.000-08:00

HYN - Faithful blog readers.
You horny fools.
We will return in January with new post.
Be Safe, and as always Do You.

Best,

Sue Heffer

Waiting To Exhale – Different Decade –Same Black Man problems

2011-12-28T07:11:00.000-08:00

Ahhhhh yes… that wonderful week after Christmas –during Kwanzaa – and before New Years when one is afforded that rare opportunity to watch a few movies. As I am in the process of writing a stage play and screenplay simultaneously that has black women’s roles – don’t ask, yes I’m crazy. I decided to catch up on some “sistah” movies. First out the box Waiting to Exhale. A movie about 4 friends with relationship problems. Each sistah’s relationship with her man is worse than the next. I remember watching the movie when it first debuted in 1995, but I didn’t remember anything about the movie, except that it was enjoyable. Of course I was 15 years younger. Now that I’m 15 years older and hopefully wiser - Hello, I wrote the Soulful Vagina Playbook - that movie didn’t go over to well with me. That’s probably because I once saw myself and so many people I know, or read about, in those real life roles with the wack men in that movie.

The wack men. A drunk, drug dealer. A cheater. On the down low. Married. Married to White women. Inadequate, with ugly inward and outward appearance. Prison? Don’t recall that any of them were incarcerated.

Thankfully, I am no longer involved with a wack-black man. Can’t say the same about a few of my sistah-friends though.

Here’s to the New Year. Hoping my black, brown, yellow and white sistah-friends find true happiness – whatever that means.

Merry "Soulful" Christmas

2011-12-24T05:40:00.000-08:00

Celebrate you!
Do You!
Enjoy You!

Top Ten Lying Black men of 2011

2011-12-17T10:32:00.001-08:00

As the New Year quickly approaches; I am so ready to forget about the top ten lying black men of 2011. Combined these black men’s transgressions include involuntary manslaughter, sexual misconduct against black women, white women and black boys, drug addiction, denial, cheating and the list goes on and on, not in any particular order.

I really hated to compile this black list, because the bulk of hate in America is directed towards the black man, but these men deserve the scorn they’ve received.

Herman Cain – Former Republican candidate Herman Cain rise to chocolate walnut flavor of the month and lead in 2011 GOP polls lasted just over two months. But sexual allegations against Cain by white women will last a lifetime. Ginger White, the women who claimed she had a 13- year affair with Cain finally derailed his train. Cain claimed with much soul searching and praying he dropped out of the race, but we all know it was his white lies and his wife’s migraines that brought his campaign train to a stop.

The last black man that had that many white women come out against him was um…

Tiger Woods – The only difference between the two is that all of Tiger’s women (up to sixteen have emerged) appeared to be money-hungry willing participants. Tiger’s troubles begin Thanksgiving of 2009. But he makes this list because the curse of his Tiger, follows him nonstop. Stories of Tiger and women continued to seep out in 2011, although he is now divorced. Tiger’s biggest lie is his denial of his blackness. Remember he claimed to be Cablinasian?

Apostle Claver - Chances are many of you have never heard of Claver. AKA Herman’s side piece. Google this undercover sweet “Christian.”

Conrad Murray – It wasn’t apparent how big of a big fat liar Murray was until he did that NBC interview. After the interview and trial many asked did the doctor have more propofol or women and babies. In November Dr. Conrad Murray was sentenced to four years in jail for involuntary manslaughter in the death of Michael Jackson.

Michael Jackson – I really hope that the King of Pop is resting in propofol peace. It’s a shame he never found peace on earth. He’s was a beautiful brown boy that turned into drug addicted white women. Also, he was an accused child molester that settled. And why did MJ settle out of court if he didn’t mess with the little boys? MJ makes the list because the media will forever keep him in the spotlight.

Eddie Long – Is there anything worst than a lying man of God? Instead of mentoring

the :Longfellows – Eddie long was sexually abusing them. All the while he was pastor of a mega church. What’s most troubling is that the men he molested continue to make the news and get into trouble. Money might be able to buy silence, but it can’t repair the damage done by molestation. Long claimed he had five rocks – maybe he meant cocks.

Clarence Thomas – That was his pubic hair on that coke can. But then that was a long time ago. More recently Supreme Court Justice Thomas has been accused of failing to report his white wife’s income from a conservative think tank on disclosure forms. Hell yes Supreme court justices should be term limited.

Allen West – (R – FL), this negro with the high top fade said the Democratic Party has created a “21-century plantation” over black voters and wants to keep us on the plantation. Yet this past summer when his brother was unemployed and looking for work – he sent his brother Arlen West to the plantation – the Congressional Black Caucus’s job fair. West is a liar that speaks with a fork tongue.

Alan Keyes – (R-hell) Former candidate for the U.S. Senate once said reparations was an “insult to our slave ancestors.” Seriously Alan? I won’t even repeat what he has said about President Obama. It’s one thing to constructively criticize the president, but his comments about the president are dangerous.

Ray Carruth – Some of you may not know this disgraced former football player who was convicted of hiring a hit man to kill the mother (Cherica Adams) of his unborn child because he didn’t want to pay child support. Carruth ended up going to prison for murdering Adams . Their child, Chancellor Lee Adams survived the ambush, but was born with cerebral palsy. Chancellor should be about eleven years old this year.

Merry Christmas - Free lapdance?????

2011-12-14T03:55:00.003-08:00

Did anyone else see this story? A strip club in Chicago has come up with a very different incentive to get people to donate toys to needy kids - free lapdances! The managers of the Admiral Club have strict rules though: you can only bring a new toy, and no matter how many toys you bring, you can only get one free lapdance! If you’re wondering if folks who love lapdances also love the kids, according to one source, the club collected three carloads of toys in last year’s toy drive! SIDENOTE: Let’s just pray that they hand over their toy before they get their free dance ...

How do you deal with a non-committal relationship that ends during the holiday?

2011-11-27T10:21:00.000-08:00

Check this article out for some holiday cheer. Don't break up - break out!

Happy Thanksgiving.....we're lovin' it......

2011-11-23T17:48:00.001-08:00

"The hardest arithmetic to master is that which enables us to count our blessings" - Eric Hoffer.

Great Blog post soon.

Grow a pair, really?

2011-10-05T15:38:00.000-07:00

Foxy Knoxy - Sex sells

2011-10-02T16:42:00.000-07:00

Sex sells well.
Sex is swell.
Sex sells well.
Sex can smell.
Sex can make you yell.

Dr. Oz is a freak and a freak!

2011-09-27T17:41:00.000-07:00

Check out what he has coming up for Wed's show.

Oh my.

Schweddy balls, really?

2011-09-12T20:39:00.000-07:00

Sweaty balls, really?

Death of the Playboy - Pillsbury Dough - Saturday Fun

2011-08-06T17:04:00.000-07:00

TRAGIC NEWS: Another great icon of the culinary community, The Pillsbury Dough Boy died today of a yeast infection & traumatic complications from repeated pokes to his belly. He was 71. Dough Boy is survived by his wife Play Dough, 3 children: John Dough, Jane Dough, & Dill Dough, plus 1 in the Oven.

Services will be held at 3:50 for about 20 mins.