Hi Sexies – I know, I know it’s been a while…But don’t think for a second I’ve forgotten about you guys! Actually I’ve been intensely busy on a brand new sexuality project that’s turning out to be a huge and wonderful undertaking. (Think Speak Sexy is hot? Just wait till you see this. Can you tell I’m excited? - hehe.)

Unfortunately I’ve been sworn to (legal and painful) secrecy about the name until it goes live on the web in a couple months, so I can’t tell you that just yet. If I do I might be tied and flogged (oh wait – that’s not exactly a punishment now is it?).

Anyhoo, the site itself is going to have a lot of different aspects to it – blogs, erotica, advice by yours truly, original photos galleries, stuff to buy, things to do, people to meet, videos, etc. Here’s where I really need your help! I’m looking for content submissions in return for your everlasting web infamy and my overwhelming gratitude. 

What? That’s not enough? OK fine…*sighs, grins wickedly*…I’ll also give you a direct link to your blog/personal site and other goodies if you’re really really good. So here’s what I’m looking for:

Calling All Exhibitionists! 

I need your Naked or Semi-Naked Pics for my photo galleries. These will link to the blog or personal site of your choosing. BONUS – If you send me 6 or more sexy/tempting/risqué pics I’ll also write a 2-3 sentence blurb about you and/or your blog along with the link. Plus, you should always feel free to send me more on an ongoing basis if you like (and I know you like it – Mmmm, just admit it!)

Calling All Erotica Writers! 

I need your Hot, Dripping, Sensual Words for my erotica blog. Like the pics, you’ll get a link to the blog or personal site of your choosing as well as an automatic author bio if your story is featured. The story should be original and not published elsewhere – the dirtier the better. (No illegal acts though, are you trying to get me in trouble already?! I get myself into enough as it is…)

But Wait, There’s More! *cheesy television voice and all*

So, think you or someone you know can help me out? I tell you what – to make this deal even sweeter I’m going to set up a page right here on Speak Sexy that links to all of your blogs/personal sites. Yep – if you send me a Pic or a Story you will get a link back from here AND the new site.

Go ahead, what are you waiting for?! Spread the word, send me your sexy-licious stuff and let’s get this party started. =P

Still have questions? Email me at Rose (@) speaksexy (dot) org. Also, don’t forget to include the best email address to contact you at – I’ll be sending you the details of when the site launches so you can see your pics and/or stories on the spankin’ new site as soon as it’s up. You’ll be able to proudly say “I was there when…” and show your stuff off to your friends, sex-mates, etc.

I’m very much looking forward to your submission. In fact, I’m wet already…

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“As we started dancing around the floor, I reached my hand up under her hair and grabbed a hand full at the back of her neck and held it tightly. She looked up at me, and as I held tight onto that grip of her hair, pulling her head back just the slightest, she closed her eyes, smiled, made a soft noise, and in that moment the question was asked and answered; “Are you? Yes, and yes I am.” ~Excerpt taken from Can You Spot a Dominant or submissive?~

It’s not often I come across a blog so beautifully and powerfully written that I feel immediately compelled to tell others about it, but “A View from the Top” is truly a remarkable reading experience.

I’ll admit, I only found David’s blog because it linked back to a previous post on Speak Sexy, and I was able to track some of my own visitors back to his latest post entitled “What is shi-shi-toi.” I’d like to thank those visitors that blog-hopped between us because they led me back to such a wonderful place. (And in case you’re wondering, David has no idea I’m writing this surprise review!)

A View from the Top focuses on the mental dynamics of D/s relationships - sometimes from a personal point of view, but more often from a very intellectual/analytic perspective, using examples from his every day life and chats with others to illustrate his ideas. Topics range from what “humiliation” really means to sensual erotic encounters. What really impressed me was David’s ability to capture those intense and fleeting moments between Doms and subs that make this lifestyle so unique and intriguing. The “things” associated with D/s (bondage gear, leather, etc.) are never the focus of his discussions as they really don’t matter - it’s the emotional connections, the desires, the utter satisfaction a Dom and a sub can give to each other that is conveyed. In fact, even the “sex” is ancilliary to the core of what he’s trying to speak about. You can tell by the way he positions the characters in his erotic fiction that he fundamentally understands what a sexually submissive woman needs in those moments (the encounters are of the heterosexual, male Dom/fem sub variety). It’s also evident how much pleasure the Dom gets from watching her submit to him fully.

 The intangible emotional exchange is made explicit through his writing, and portrays the true depth of such experiences - a poignancy that videos, no matter how carefully crafted, can’t convey.

So, if you are at all inclined to explore the world of D/s further, or if you would simply like to connect with someone who obviously has a deep respect and thoughtful approach to these matters, please take a look at A View from the Top. It’s a rarity to find these kinds of provoking, open minded, adult discussions in a web unfortunately awash with sexual superficiality.

Thanks for blogging David!

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Closing the door, Francois left the bitter cold of the Montreal winter behind him and was embraced by the warm, nearly tropical air of the club. He breathed deeply and every herb that man smoked entered his nose in one solid stream, and he smiled softly as he made his way to the back of the club where he knew she would be waiting for him. He saw her almost instantly as he rounded the corner near the front door, her body was something that sculptors idolized for centuries and he was just as transfixed as they.

She stood roughly around five and a half feet tall, her legs were supple in their femininity and the thighs they connected to were designed to draw the eye of any man, or woman, who had the fortune to cast a glance at them. As you looked up, and you always did, the breasts stood high and firm on her chest, nothing grotesquely large, but enough that Francois always had both hands full when he touched them.

Her neck was slender and stood with a swan’s grace and her cheekbones, high and proud were offset by the deep, pouting lips that adorned the center of her face. Her eyes, sweet brown almonds that cast their gaze into you and reeled you in inch by delicious inch.

Tonight she was dressed in white, from high heels to the pearl necklace about her throat.

No words were ever spoken as he slipped his hand around her waist and pulled her softly from the wall she was leaning against. He pressed his mouth to hers and she opened to him, a soft and wet flick told him that she was more than happy to reciprocate his offer this chilly evening.

Their mouths still locked together, she led him slowly and carefully down a hallway where they always made their rendezvous on evening such as this. An office, or at least it used to be, sat unused at the end of the corridor and they made the best of it.

The door closed behind him and she broke the kiss, placing a finger to his lips to silence his protest as she slowly backed to the table and sat softly upon it, displaying her body for him to admire, to worship.

She ran a hand over her shoulder and caught the strap of the dress there. A thin, spaghetti strap and as she pulled, her breasts in all their splendor spilled from the dress like ambrosia to the people of the world. The deep tan only served to arouse Francois more, the brown aurolae hardening as his glance swept over her time and time again.

He stepped forward softly, her dress now around her ankles, her gorgeous perfection was flaunted for all to see. Her hips flared outward and her hourglass figure was presented to him, and he decided that he had allowed her to put herself on display for long enough for a single evening.

He placed his hands softly on her breasts and caressed them with a fierce passion. His fingers found her hardened nipples and pulled them ever so slightly, eliciting a gasp from her as he did.

His hands were soon replaced by his lips and his tongue flicked over the swollen pebbles of flesh, his lips gently moved over the skin of her breast, and he tasted all of her with his hungry mouth.

His arms wrapped about her waist and pulled her closer to him, the palms of his hands running over the super fine and smooth skin of her lower back, his hands moving lower still and cupping her supple buttocks in his hands as he lifted her, pulling her to his chest, her legs wrapping around him as his mouth finally moved from her breast and found her mouth again. He explored her mouth with flair and slowly laid her back on the desk, her legs around him as he moved his head to the moist heat of her core.

His nose was assailed by the sweet fragrance of her womanhood and his tongue gently moved to touch the soft pink folds. She shuddered at his touch and it was the catalyst he needed for his action. With both hands he pulled her to him and placed his lips and tongue over her mound and furiously tasted all of the sweet nectar that flowed from her. The hard nubbin of flesh at her center was his target and over and over again he attacked it with his tongue.

 Her hands pulled at his hair, both pulling him in and trying to push him away with both hands at once. Her screams, muffled somewhat, echoed across the stone walls of the office as he dug into her with a gusto, his mouth making noises that made her shudder.

As he felt her tighten, her muscles like iron around his face and neck, he delved deeper into her core and drank deep from the spilling cup of her womanhood. The juices ran down his throat in a torrent as her thighs threatened to squeeze all sense from his mind.

And then, as if there were a switch, her muscles relaxed and went slack, her breathing and his, loud and bestial filled the room as the passion of the moment filled the air.

***About the Author***

James is a 28 year old husband and father of two living in a sometimes overly-French town near Montreal, Quebec. He loves to write erotica and has been doing it for quite some time now. He is a poet and an artistic designer as well, although the latter is more of a hobby than anything else. He runs a website that is devoted to the wonder of women who are considered outside of the social norm, the Big Beautiful Woman.

“I plan on contributing, with the help of our lovely Rose of course, a great deal of content to SpeakSexy.”

***
We look forward to it James! Thanks!

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Does Your Woman Ejaculate?

When a woman reaches orgasm, she may actually ejaculate. This is especially true for orgasms as a result of G-spot stimulation.

This happens because of the Para-Urethral Glands, which is a female version of a man’s prostate gland.

The fluid the para-urethral glands produce is similar to that produced by the male prostate and, as in the male, passes into the urethra – and in some cases may pass into the vagina. The glands fill with fluid during sexual arousal and may be felt through the vaginal wall.

As it turns out, many people who experience a squirting orgasm think that this liquid is pee, or even vaginal lubrication. But studies of the fluid ejaculated through the urethra have shown a different chemical composition than urine…it’s clear, and if you actually smell it, you’ll find that it doesn’t smell like urine at all! The fluid produce from female ejaculation is odorless.

What If She’s Really Worried That She Might Pee?

Women sometimes will get the feeling that they need to urinate when their G-spot is stimulated. This is perfectly normal; however, the problem comes in when she becomes concerned and self conscious about wetting the bed.

This can drive her in a state of arousal and relaxation, to the point of stress and anxiety. If this happens, she may not be able to have an orgasm at all at this point. If she’s trying hard to hold it in, she’s not focusing on the sexual pleasure you’re giving her.

I can’t stress enough that in order for a woman to reach orgasm, she needs to be completely comfortable with you. This means that you’ll need a strong enough emotional bond for her to feel safe “letting go.” If she feels inhibited, she probably won’t be able to ejaculate.

She needs to be completely relaxed, and be perfectly comfortable if she does happen to ejaculate. If she gets the feeling that she needs to pee, let her know that she can “let it all out”. She won’t be peeing the bed, but it will still be really wet once the ejaculate gushes out.

If she’s still concerned, you can try stimulating her in the bathtub so any fluids that do come out doesn’t soak up the bed.

Female Ejaculation Training

A trick you can use to “train” your partner into become more comfortable with “letting go” is to go with her to the bathroom whenever she’s urinating.

If she hasn’t urinated with you in the same room, she might feel anxious, and have a hard time urinating. Let her get comfortable with you to the point where she can easily pee while you’re there.

Once she releases her PC muscles and starts urinating, reassure her and comfort her by saying, “Good girl” (or whatever line you want to use).

Associating the encouraging words along with your presence will allow her to feel comfortable enough to let go and urinate. Do this until she’s perfectly comfortable with you being there when she’s urinating.

Now, whenever you’re stimulating her G-spot, say “Good girl” (or whatever line you used in the bathroom). Because you’ve already trained her to the point where she feels relaxed urinating in your presence while you’re encouraging her, she won’t have the previously held inhibitions, and she’ll end up “letting go” and possibly ejaculating!

Lastly, another way to “train” a woman to ejaculate is by strengthening her pubococcygeus muscles. Check out the Special Report “How to Guarantee Orgasms” included with the Female Orgasm Black Book where you’ll find a detailed guide.

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This week’s Sugasm has an over abundance of nude, sexy, and sometimes raunchy ladies and gents in the “NSFW Pics, Vids, and Audio” category. Don’t ask me why I feel the need to put up links to so many naked people, just go ahead and enjoy yourself. (I know I did!)

Consider it my April Gift to you.

Like ice cream melting over your nipples on a hot Summer day…Mmmmm…

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1. My life as a Female

“His reply was instant: “You are a man”.”

2. Crisp - S.S. Pick! Super HOT!

“I found my eyes unable to leave the curves of her ass, everything else out of focus.”

3. Ripping Yourself a New One

“What’s the most ludicrous porn scene you ever saw?”

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• Hardcore double penetration in gangbang
• Hot Blonde from Petter Hegre
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Sex Humor

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I can feel Her again. (Finally.)

She must’ve been waiting. Right there. Under my skin. So patiently, so quietly I thought She was gone.

My only hope was Her infrequent Caresses. A tortured lick up my spine. A glimpse between dirty sheets. Cornered lovers curling their lusts around each other in unending flurries of tongues, teeth, and hands.

But just as suddenly as those moments would begin - they’d fade into emptiness, pure unadulterated nothingness.

Not the darkness that creates sensuality, nor the pungent silences between gasps - but Nothing.

Maybe it’s the lack of feeling that bothered me so much. The distinct absence of passion. It’s not like me to feel so…

- disconnected -

After all, I’ve gotten used to the torrents of need unexpectedly stabbing at my core, the effortless way my mind glides into the murky abyss of sexual imaginings…Amoral though they may be.

So to not feel that way - to lack the fire burning me from the inside out - was like not living at all.

But now, on my thankfully heated breaths, I think of You.

Well, Think is probably the wrong word. The truth is somewhere closer to Indulge.

I indulge in You.

Like the moment you let that last piece of rich silky chocolate melt against the roof of your mouth. You know you shouldn’t, but the pleasure of it is too much.

The enjoyment of temptation is the temptation itself.

That’s how I want to be with You. Lush, decadent, bold.

It’s the Seductress, the Feline, the Witchy Sorceress in me that wants to consume the very essence of who you are…And take selfish pleasure in your ultimate loss of control.

I want to bring you to the edge - kissing - worshiping - drowning.

Women have been killed for less, I know. I understand them - and the fear of those around. I’d happily sacrifice myself for that kind of life too.

Every woman inherently knows the power of her own sexuality, naked flesh bathed in the ethereal glow of moonlight as her lover secretly watches…

Of course she knows he’s there, desiring her in the shadows that aren’t as concealing as he believes. She can feel the waves of his lust caressing her hips, breasts, lips.

Her skin crimsons with it.

In fact, it’s his energy that tells her how to move, how to use her fingers, what he wants to see - Perfectly she entices him to the depths of his own carnal madness (and eventually her own).

So it’s no coincidence women have a reputation for wielding the heavier kinds of sensual magic. It’s always there, hidden in us. We just have to let it out, be willing to accept the consequences - Because there are always consequences…

And getting hopelessly lost in Bliss is one of them.

But for those of us who are consumed, we know what it’s like to feel overtaken by a clawing, swelling that threatens to shred us internally if we don’t acquiesce to its sinister demands.

And although we can’t survive in the inferno for long, its brevity is poignant. Its memory dangerous.

Finally, I can feel Her again.

The Temptress has reawakened…It must be Spring.

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Yep, you heard right…

I was interviewed live this morning on the famous La F.M. radio station based in Columbia about a sexual needs article I wrote a few months ago that was originally published on AskDanAndJennifer.com!

Isn’t that exciting?

What’s even better is you can listen to the entire interview:

**Listen to Interview Now! click here**

The lovely people at La F.M. were kind enough to conduct the interview in English, and it was translated on the spot into Spanish for obvious reasons.

So, regardless of which language you speak you can go ahead and click over if you’re so inclined.

I’d also like to send out a Big Welcome to anyone visiting this site for the first time from South America!

Hope you enjoy the interview!

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You know your life has become somewhat corrupted by society’s relentless need to “time-manage” things when it’s 10:05 on a Saturday night and your partner yells:

“Honey, we should’ve been having sex five minutes ago! If we don’t do it soon we’ll have to wait until next week!”

Yet even as bizarre as that yell may seem, many people will read those lines and laugh - not because it’s ridiculous, but because it’s True.

Busy, Busy Little Bees…

In the midst of children, work, and household chores frivolous pleasures like sex and passion understandably slip to the very bottom of your priority list. After all, what’s more important - having an orgasm or sending your children to school in clean clothes the next day?!

Obviously laundry wins, but always catering to the responsible side of yourself doesn’t leave much room for spontaneous romps in the hay - or piles of dirty clothes as the case may be.

So what’s a concerned Guy or Gal to do?

Playful, Playful Little Birds…

Well, you seem to schedule everything else in. Why not schedule in your sex life to?

I know, you’ve heard it all before. Some experts call it “Date Night” others call it “Couple Time”. But regardless of what it’s called people roll their eyes and snort at the suggestion because the whole idea is utterly crazy.

Sex is supposed to be firey, alive, electric. It’s supposed to make your heart beat faster and your blood run hot.

It’s NOT supposed to be contrived, plotted, and calculated to the minute.

“It’s sex, not a space shuttle launch!” ~ (One of my favorite movie quotes ever…Anyone know where it’s from?)

And aside from being totally unnatural, scheduling sex creates a situation that’s just plain weird. Imagine it, both of you standing there at 10:00 pm, staring at each other, waiting for the Sex to start. Ha.

You Know What Desperate Times Call For…

Despite the weirdness and skepticism, it seems many couples are more than willing to give scheduling their orgasmic bliss a shot.

According to a recent Speak Sexy Poll 67% of men and 92% of women admitted to penciling in some time for their love lives.

Apparently most people are desperate enough to try anything that might help reconnect them to their parters - even something as strange as prearranged passion.

But are all the experts who suggest these sorts of things really wrong? Is there a way to set a time and a place for truly satisfying sex?

The Truth About the Birds and the Bees…

The short answer is - YES - IF done correctly.

There is a right and wrong way to approach scheduled sex, and the approach you take makes all the difference.

The key to having successful Sex Time is prolonged foreplay that builds up anticipation for both people.

For example, teasing should start hours before the sex is supposed to happen. This could include simple things like intimate hugs, little stolen kisses, naughty notes left in hidden places, or whispering something hot in your partner’s ear before work. It could also include more involved games, like not allowing your partner to wear panties or tucking an egg vibe into her while she’s doing some other mundane task.

The idea is to make sure you are both thinking sexy, grown-up thoughts long before it’s actually Time. The sexual tension should be killing you! When 10:00 pm finally rolls around you should both be ready to tear the clothes off of each other and sink your teeth right in.

The more effort you put into tantalizing yourself and your partner, the better your sex will be. I know, it sounds like a lot of work, and it is.

But aren’t some things actually worth working for?!

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Hello my sexy, hot, lickable readers! I’ve decided to dedicate this week’s Sugasm to BDSM fun.

Yes, all the usual goodies are still here - but at the end is a special section with four fun toy kits for under $30. I’m trying to corrupt those of you who haven’t yet taken a walk on the wilder, kinkier, and more exhilarating side of sex. (Not the regular vanilla sex isn’t exhilarating in it’s own way too!)

So if you’ve been treading the should-I-or-shouldn’t-I line of kink, check out the starter sets below, read the full user reviews, and then decide.

A little tying up and sensual smacking isn’t as intimidating as the leather clad folk make it out to be!

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As most of us know, there are a lot of heterosexual men out there who enjoy watching lesbian porn.

Whatever their reasons, many men get turned on when they see two beautiful women kiss, fondle, and dildo each other to orgasmic bliss.

Some men even find lesbian porn more exciting than “regular” straight porn!

But what about women? Do they feel the same way about gay male porn?

Do they get all hot and bothered watching two men caress, suck, and f*** each other? And if they do, what, if anything, does it mean?

The Question:

I’m starting to wonder if something is wrong with me. Lately I’ve noticed that I’m extremely turned on by gay sex. I don’t no how to label myself, (Bi, etc…) because I don’t feel any attraction to females. Is it normal for women to be turned on by watching gay men in the act?

~ Brandy, North Carolina, USA ~

Am I Gay?

First of all, let’s clear up the unnecessary confusion you are experiencing regarding your sexual orientation - Being turned on by gay male porn does not make you gay, bisexual, or a lesbian.

Unless you, as a woman, are sexually attracted to other women, you are neither homosexual nor bisexual.

You can still consider yourself completely heterosexual regardless of your preference for gay porn.

Think of it this way, no one believes that men who watch lesbian porn are homosexual. As a matter of fact, when heterosexual men admit to not liking lesbian porn, they are often made fun of because they are “supposed” to like it as heterosexual men!

Why would it be any different for a straight women who likes to watch gay men?

Is Something Wrong With Me?

No!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Instead of worrying about “why” you like gay porn or what the deeper meanings and implications are, just go with it.

We all have odd likes, dislikes, and personality quirks. It’s what makes us so interesting. Your enjoyment of gay porn certainly isn’t hurting anyone, so don’t worry about it.

Be happy you’ve discovered something new about yourself that brings you pleasure.

Do Most Women Like Gay Porn?

Well, honestly I don’t know the answer to that question.

Although men’s interest in lesbian porn is common cultural knowledge (think of all the jokes and pictures associated with it), we don’t hear very much about women who like gay porn.

I’m sure this has a lot to do with the fact that traditionally women have not been the main consumers of porn since most people believed, and many still do believe, that women don’t like porn as much as men. Of course, this isn’t true and more and more adult companies are realizing that their is a big and growing market for women-oriented porn.

Having said that, there’s not much research, scientific or otherwise, that gives any definitive numbers on the percentage of women who get turned on by watching two male lovers.

However, if you look a little deeper into a lot of written erotica that is meant for women, there are a lot of male-on-male scenes…

So even though I can’t tell you if most women get turned on by gay porn, I have a feeling there are many women, just like you, who certainly do get aroused by watching “gay men in the act“!

It Makes Sense for Straight Women to Like It

As a straight woman, you love men. You adore men. You want to have sex with men. Right?

Then it makes perfect sense that watching not one, but two men engaged in sexual activity would be very exciting to you.

Sure, this isn’t the case for all straight women, but it is a very understandable turn on.

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  Male nudes that actually turn ME (a straight woman, not a gay man) on!

  And it’s about F’n time.

  From the moment I clicked on the secret preview link to photographer Nancy Murrian’s brand new erotic site, The Garden of Adam, I knew it would be different from anything I’d seen before.

  How did I know? Because the men were, well, MEN!

  Rather than being posed effeminately or giving off the “submissive vibe” that I’ve sadly grown used to (and tired of) seeing in erotic male nudes, these photos featured men in ways that I found - shockingly - sexy.

  Besides their classic good looks, these men displayed their bodies with pride and were secure enough in their skins to reveal to the camera a truly masculine seductiveness that almost always eludes this kind of art.

  But I’m getting ahead of myself…

  Let’s start with the sleek, elegant home page. I curiously meandered from one easily navigable photo gallery to the next, each page captivating me a little more than the last.

  I was intrigued by the superior quality of the models, the mysterious shadows that seemed to emotionally reveal more that they physically concealed, and the stark contrast between the sensual subtleties of some photos and the blunt, provocative rawness of others.

  After spending much more time than I’d like to admit wandering around, my excitement growing, I decided it was worth getting personal with the woman responsible for bringing such visual pleasure to early afternoon. I contacted Nancy Murrian directly, and quickly realized the photographer was just as open and approachable as her photos.

  To my great delight, she graciously agreed to my interview request!

  So here, in Mrs. Murrian’s own words, is her sumptuous vision for the delectable Garden of Adam…

  

  Speak Sexy’s Exclusive Interview with Erotic Photographer Nancy Murrian!

  ***

  Nancy, why did you choose to create a site featuring erotic male nudes designed specifically to arouse heterosexual women?

  I decided to open The Garden Of Adam (GOA), because when I became interested in shooting male nudes, I searched for photography books and websites that had male nudes.

  Although I discovered some great photographers, it started to become clear to me that I just wasn’t going to be able to find neither books nor websites that had the kind of photos I, and I believe other heterosexual women, would find arousing or made specifically for us.

  I wanted to create a place were women could come and see photos of men and say, “Wow, that really turns me on!” or just be able to look at beautiful men presented in a strong masculine way.

  I want them to feel like that finally someone understands what they’d want to see.

  What makes your nudes different from the usual male nudes?

  Well, first I’m a woman shooting erotic male nudes, not many out there!

  And second is that I have not and will not limit myself to shooting men in the “accepted” manner of semi-nude, with no full frontal nudity, or presented in an effeminate way. When I was searching for photos I would come across things that said they were for women, but instead really were geared towards gay men.

  But what a gay man is going to find arousing is not the same as what a heterosexual women will.

  There seems to be this taboo on the nude male body and it’s especially focused on the penis. I think part of this taboo too is the idea that women wouldn’t want to look at nude men, or that men’s bodies are ugly.

  To me both of those thoughts are sexist.

  For example the feedback that we have received from women has been, how great to see nude men and to see a penis. They also say they want more erect penises - the more the better!

  

  How do you find your incredibly gorgeous models? Were they surprised when you first approached them with your site idea?

  I find some of my models through Model Agencies, referrals from other models, and some by just approaching them.

  I have to tell you that when I tell my models about the site they have all been very interested in the concept behind GOA, erotic male nudes through a women’s eyes.

  They all ask to see the site and comment on how they think it’s a good concept.

  I also think it creates an extra excitement for them, to think that there will be women looking at their photos and fantasizing about them. I mean who wouldn’t like that or be turned on by it?

  OK, so tell me the truth. Are they really straight men?!

  Yes, they really are straight men!

  I think this is very important for both the models and myself. It helps a lot because the two sides are feeding off the energy and sexual tension of one being nude and an attraction to the opposite sex.

  I think if you don’t have this the photos would be flat, no real emotion and just missing that “umph”.

  

  I know your husband, Richard Murrian, has his own erotic site called M-U-S-E, and has been photographing women for quite some time. Do you get a lot of help from him? Is it fun or difficult working together?

  Yes I do, I am very lucky to have such a wonderful husband who is always there to help.

  He is very supportive, encouraging and I have learned so much from him. This is all means so much to me.

  We have been married for almost 10 years and we’ve always worked well together. There is such a comfort level and intimacy, modeling for him was always fun. I’m so proud of the book, Baby Doll, and all the photos he shot of me.

  And of course, I have to ask…What’s the sexiest thing someone has ever said to you?

  The sexiest thing, by a model or anyone?

  “Your lips were made for one thing!” - I like it!

  ***

  Hmm, I wonder what that “one thing” could be…?

  So now that you know all about Nancy and her imaginative, unique, and enticing Garden, be sure to stop by and see for yourself everything her spanking-new site has to offer us ravenously sensual heterosexual women.

  Because it’s about time someone took naked pictures of sexy men that really turn me on!

  And I’m very happy that someone turned out to be such a sweet and talented woman herself.

  Nancy, my sincerest Thank You’s for taking the time to do this interview. I wish you great success, and am looking forward to following the growth of your erotically inspired Garden of Adam!

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  The Voyeur

  Written by Roger, AKA DirtyBoy

  “I… I heard you touching yourself last night…”

  She just comes out and says it, right out of the blue, just like that. Something about hearing her say it makes you immediately wet.

  You’re not sure how to answer, and you can feel yourself blushing.

  “Oh god…” you reply. “I’m really sorry… I guess I thought you wouldn’t be able to hear me at the top of the house here…”

  You’re lying, of course. You wanted her to hear you. It’s what you intended.

  She’s been staying with you for a few days now, and you haven’t been able to get her out of your head since she arrived.

  She’s just so damn beautiful - the way she looks, the way she dresses, even the way she walks… you’ve tried not to look at her, not to think about her that way, but the more time you spend with her, the more you want her.

  It’s become a delicious, pulsing ache.

  You’d gone up to see her in her room, just for a girly chat, you’d told yourself, and okay, so what if you were wearing that tiny, tight little t-shirt that showed off your belly, and the clingiest, sexiest, slinkiest hipster jeans that you had in your wardobe, the ones that made your legs look incredibly long and fabulous - that was just a coincidence, of course.

  So you’d been talking for a while, and you’re both now sat on her big bed, pretty casually, your friend leaning against the head of the bed, wearing a tight black vest and the shortest of skirts, with you sitting cross-legged opposite her, just talking about clothes, and shoes, and guys and stuff… and suddenly she just says it:

  “I… I heard you touching yourself last night…”

  “Oh god…” you hear yourself lying, wondering if she’ll notice the dishonesty, “I’m really sorry… I guess I thought you wouldn’t be able to hear me at the top of the house here…”

  Of course, you knew she could hear you. You’d had your bedroom door open, after all, knowing the sounds would drift up the staircase.

  Knowing she’d hear you.

  Wanting her to hear you.

  

  There had been a moment, immediately after your delightfully intense (and rather vocal) orgasm, when you’d suddenly felt embarrassed at your behavior, regretting your actions, wondering what she’d think of you.

  That feeling , however, had passed quickly, when you heard her come too, moments after you - a much quieter orgasm than yours, a sudden urgent movement of the bedsprings, a soft, stifled groan of pleasure.

  You knew then that she’d heard you, and you knew it had excited her intensely.

  “It’s okay…” she replies, and she blushes too, wondering if perhaps she shouldn’t have said anything. “It wasn’t a complaint or anything… I mean, it’s not a big deal… and I really don’t mind… it’s just that I thought I’d better tell you… you know… that I can hear you…”

  “I think I might have been a little loud last night,” you admit. “I sort of forgot you were here staying with me once I got into the thick of it…”

  “No, really, I don’t mind, honest…” she answers. “I mean… I quite like being loud too, so it’s really not a problem - I just thought I ought to tell you, just in case you’d rather I couldn’t hear…”

  For a moment you almost apologize again and move the conversation on - but it suddenly occurs to you that she didn’t have to mention it - if it didn’t bother her, why tell you?

  Is she really concerned about your privacy, or is there something else behind the comment…? There’s only one way to find out, and that’s to take the bait - with your heart beating a little faster, you come up with the best response you can think of…

  “I don’t mind if you can hear me… if you’re sure it doesn’t annoy you…?”

  “No…” she blushes again, “I mean… can I be honest with you…?”

  “Of course you can.”

  “Well… it’s the first time I’ve ever heard anyone… you know… doing it… I mean, I’ve seen a couple of films and stuff, but just Hollywood, just pretend, you know? So that was the first time….”

  “The first time you’ve heard anyone actually masturbating…”

  

  She shifts a little on the bed - is she feeling uncomfortable with the conversation, or aroused…?

  You’re almost certain it’s the latter.

  “Yes…” she says, “and you were going for quite a while… and I didn’t really mean to listen… I was gonna put on the tv or something… but I didn’t… I listened to all of it… everything… and I wasn’t sure whether to tell you, but I kind of feel guilty ’cause you’ve been so good putting me up, y’know… and now I kind of feel like I’ve been spying on you or something…”

  She’s so damn sweet you could keep her in a box… or is she?

  She’s so practiced about this, so skilled at getting people on her side, is she really as innocent as she pretends? Or has she mentally rehearsed this conversation? Is she testing you just as you’re testing her?

  “You weren’t spying,” you smile, “I mean, it’s not like you were hidden in the wardrobe taking photos or anything”. She laughs gently, seeming a little relieved, so you decide to push it a little further. “You’re sure it wasn’t off-putting? It didn’t make you feel uncomfortable or queasy or anything? I don’t want you feeling uncomfortable…”

  “No, really…” she smiles, blushing again just a little, “I mean… to be honest…… are you sure you don’t mind me talking about this?”

  “No, really,” you smile, “carry on…”

  “Well, it turned me on, y’know? It feels funny telling you this… but… well, that’s why I kept listening… I couldn’t stop listening… so… y’know… it was really exciting for me…”

  You can feel yourself getting very wet. She’s looking a little flushed too, and you know it isn’t embarrassment this time.

  “Did you come…? Do you mind me asking…? I know it’s a weird question, I was just wondering…”

  You already know the reply, of course.

  “No…” she smiles, looking you almost in the eye. “No, I don’t mind you asking… and yes… yes I did come…”

  You both go quiet for a couple of moments - there’s a tension in the room now.

  

  “Well…” you begin, wondering how to phrase it without sounding too slutty, “you can listen whenever you want to… I don’t mind… if it excites you…” There’s a pause for a moment. “Do you want me to change the subject?”

  “I think you’d better,” she grins, “I’m getting turned on here.”

  “Me too,” you smile, teasingly, “but it’s a nice kind of turned on.”

  “Same here,” she smiles, “sort of warm and wriggly and nice and stuff. Sort of embarrassing too, admitting it…”

  “You don’t need to be embarrassed,” you smile. “I don’t mind you getting turned on if we talk about sex, it’s normal”.

  “Yeah, I know,” she giggles, “but much more of this and I’m gonna have to chuck you out of the room so I can see to myself.”

  “You’d throw me out of your room?” you smile. “So cruel! I’m a good girl!”

  She laughs again. “Well alright, maybe not throw you out, but you’d have to turn away and cover your ears for a bit”.

  “You wouldn’t let me listen?” you smile, “after you’ve listened to me? What kind of deal is that?”

  “You’re terrible,” she grins. “Okay, well maybe you could listen - and then I’d throw you out!”

  “That’s not so bad,” you smile, “I definitely like the idea of listening…”

  “Are you serious?’ she grins. “You’d want to listen to me, while I… y’know… while I masturbate…?”

  “Definitely,” you smile, “I mean, it’s only fair…”

  She goes quiet for a few seconds. What started as a tease is suddenly becoming a little more serious.

  “And would you watch…? Would you want to watch me…?”

  Another pause. It’s quite the most erotic question she’s ever asked you.

  “Yes,” you reply. “I’d want to watch you. Very much. I love to watch…”

  The room goes quiet again. She looks you right in the eye, and you both hold the gaze. She looks like she’s making a decision.

  You’re about to change the subject, to let her off the hook for a while… but before you can speak, she sits back against the head of the bed, still looking at you, flushed and nervous all at the same time, and as you watch, your heart now beating very very fast, she slowly tugs up her short skirt, all the way up to her small white knickers, parting her legs just a little.

  She looks towards you, nervously…

  

  You can’t look away - you don’t know what to say - and as you watch, your heart beating faster, she slides a hand down between her open thighs, touching herself gently through her panties - just a slow, gentle rubbing, still watching you… her fingers barely moving… and then as quickly as she began, she slips her hand away again, her face a little flushed as she tugs her skirt back down.

  “I’m sorry…” she blushes, “I don’t know why I did that… I feel silly now…”

  “No, it’s okay,” you reply, “you looked beautiful… I didn’t want you to stop…”

  “Really…?”

  “Yes, really… please… carry on… I don’t mind… I want to watch you…”

  “I don’t know… I’ve never…”

  “Please…” you insist. “You looked so beautiful… show me… please…”

  She smiles at you again, looking a little shy, settling back down and leaning against the head of the bed, slowly tugging up her skirt again. She watches you all the time, still slightly embarrassed, but clearly getting very aroused.

  She slides her hand back down between her thighs, sliding over the crotch of her panties, and as you watch, she begins to rub… slowly… firmly… her fingers moving in a gentle rhythm, round and round, rubbing herself through her small white panties.

  You can’t take your eyes off her - your lips are dry, your heart pounding, watching her fingers trace round and round… watching her face… her delightful body laid back as she strokes, slowly, rhythmically.

  You’re getting so, so wet.

  You can’t resist - still watching her, you slide a hand up to your breasts, cupping one of them through your t-shirt, squeezing gently. She’s starting to look very turned on - a nervous, excited expression of intense arousal - she wants this - she wants to come for you - you squeeze your thighs together rhythmically - you know you’re going to have to touch yourself soon, watching her is getting you so hot…

  She sees your hand at your breast - she makes another decision, and sits up for a moment, tugging up her small black vest, pulling it off over her head, leaving her naked from the waist up.

  She smiles at you, blushing again a little as she leans back, her hand back at her crotch, her panties visibly dampening.

  She looks so beautiful, so sensual, her hair draped on the pillow, one hand down between her thighs, stroking slowly, the other at her naked breasts, stroking, squeezing, her nipples hard as she caresses herself deliciously.

  You need to reciprocate - you want her to see you naked - tugging up your small t-shirt, you pull it off over your head - she gasps deliciously, looking at your naked breasts, her fingers rubbing a little harder - she makes another decision, unzipping her skirt, pulling it quickly down her long thighs, kicking it onto the floor, now only wearing her small white panties, which are visibly wet as she rubs harder at her cunt through the thin cotton of her knickers.

  

  You can’t take much more - this is turning you on so much - you unzip your jeans, knowing she’s watching you as you slip your hand down inside, down to your sex, surprised just how wet you are, dipping your finger into the warm wetness, spreading it up to your clit, rubbing round and round, watching her, so turned on now.

  She gasps, trembling a little, quickly tugging down her small panties, dropping them onto the floor by the bed, leaning back again, her eyes never leaving you, spreading her legs a little more.

  You can see everything now - her gorgeous breasts, her smooth, firm belly, dusting of pubic hair between her open thighs, her fingers sliding round and round her clit, her cunt swollen, visibly wet, drop of her wetness dribbling down the inside of her thighs.

  It’s all you can take - you pull down your jeans and panties, tugging them off, leaving you naked too, spreading your thighs for her, sliding your wet fingers over your cunt, stroking, teasing, so wet.

  She gasps as you slide two fingers slowly into your sex, getting them wet, stroking, rubbing, and she’s getting closer to her own orgasm, her fingers skidding gorgeously around her deliciously wet clit…

  You can feel yourself trembling - you’re not sure you can hold it back much longer - she’s rubbing hard now, a hand cupping one of her breasts, stroking, rubbing, squeezing - she’s so close… so wet… she groans deliciously… “Ohhh God… Ohhh God I’m gonna come…”

  It’s all you can take - you can’t hold it back any longer - you start to convulse, trying to keep watching her, delicious pulses of pleasure surging through your body - so hard - so intense - you feel a sudden gush of wetness from your cunt - and that’s it - you come, hard, urgent, groaning with intense pleasure - she gasps deliciously - it’s all she can take - she thrusts her fingers into her cunt, rubbing so hard, her back arching, her thighs trembling, crying out intensely as she comes:

  “Fuckk…. Fuckkk… I’m cominnggg…. UUNNHHHHH!” - she convulses hard - her wetness streaming from her cunt as she comes… both of you trembling on the bed… hot and wet…

  Your fingers still deep inside your cunt, squeezing around them, teasing yourself, greedy to touch her, needing to taste her, not wanting the sensations to end, your gaze wandering over her naked body, taking it all in, wanting her so badly…

  ***

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  For most couples, sexual attraction is at the heart of their intimate relationships.

  In fact, it’s usually what brings couples together in the first place…

  Your eyes meet, your pulse races, and all you can think about it getting the object of your desire naked and in your bed as quickly as possible!

  And while this is a very important and glorious part of the coupling process, its intensity is often equaled by its brevity.

  The duration of this “Constantly in Lust” state varies from person to person, but typically lasts anywhere from a few weeks to a few months, and often depends on how often the couples is able to see each other.

  The more time they spend together, the faster their initial excitement seems to fade.

  But what happens when you’ve been with your partner for six months, eight months, a year and still the mere sight of him or her wreaks havoc on your nervous system? Should you just give in and enjoy your hyper-sexuality, or is your never-ending sexual attraction to your partner cause for serious concern?

  

  The Question:

  Every time I am in the presence of my girlfriend or hear her voice on the telephone I get an erection. Is this common? I’ve been in this relationship for 2 years. This has happened since around the 2nd week we met. It doesn’t bother me until I’m with company. Is this a dysfunction?

  ~ Ashley, United Kingdom ~

  The Good News:

  It’s not a dysfunction!

  Unless your erection is constant, painful, and/or for no apparent reason (ie - you’re not thinking about anything sexual or in the presence of anything that could turn you on) you really have nothing to worry about.

  Your Girlfriend Should View Your Arousal as a Compliment

  Considering the amount of women out there who WISH they could still turn on their lovers so easily after being together for years, your girlfriend should feel very loved and desired by your instant erections!

  It is true that your body’s positive reaction to even the slightest sound of your lover’s voice isn’t exactly “normal” since this doesn’t happen to most men after being with the same woman for a prolonged period of time.

  However, just because it isn’t “normal” doesn’t mean you have a problem. And it certainly doesn’t mean this is something you should worry about.

  But since you are concerned, here a few reasons why you may be getting aroused so quickly and what you can do about it.

  

  Possible Reasons for Your Instant Erections

  1. You Don’t See Each Other Often

  In today’s high-tech world of communication, long distance relationships are more common than ever. This means that even though two people have been in a relationship for a long time, even years, they may not have physically been around each other very much at all.

  Because those initial feelings of super-charged lust tend to fade little by little the more we see our partners, being in a long distance relationship could prolong the “fading” period. Furthermore, when an extended period of time goes by that we don’t see our lovers, the feelings of lust we have for them builds until the moment we do see them again.

  This is true even for couples who have been together for years and years!

  In the case of an online relationship, a couple might only meet in person once a month (or less). If this couple has been together for two years, that’s a total of only 24 “in person” meetings. It’s very reasonable to assume that even though they’ve been together for two years they are still very much “in lust” every time they do see each other, and become instantly aroused.

  But online relationships aren’t the only ones with this kind of few-and-far-between meeting schedules.

  Even living together doesn’t necessarily translate into seeing each other very much considering how busy everyone is.

  If you only see your partner briefly at dinner or on your “date night” once a week there’s plenty of time for your body to build up its lust reserves so that when you do see your partner your arousal can’t help but “pop up”.

  So my first question would be, how often do you see your girlfriend?

  

  2. You’ve Been “Trained” to Get an Erection

  I know this may sound strange at first, but it is possible that your body has become “trained” to get an erection every time your girlfriend is around - whether physically or just in your thoughts.

  In the same way Pavlov proved that dogs could be “trained” to salivate every time they heard a bell once the sound of the bell was associated with being fed, you could have accidentally “trained” yourself to become erect when in the presence of your lover!

  This is particularly true if every time you see your girlfriend you end up doing something sexual together.

  Essentially your brain now recognizes your “girlfriend” to mean “sex” and prepares itself accordingly.

  It’s like your brain says, “Oh, Girlfriend’s here so we better make an erection now because we’re going to need one!”

  Obviously this association can cause all kinds of awkward social situations, but luckily your training can be “undone” if you make a habit of NOT having sex (or doing anything sexual that might cause an erection) while you’re with your girlfriend. Play board games, go for a walk, see a non-sexy movie - anything that will make your erection go away.

  The point is to retrain your body so that it no longer jumps to the ready just because your girlfriend has stepped into the room.

  My second question would be, do you routinely engage in sexual activity when you’re with your girlfriend?

  **As a Side Note - This type of body/sexual response training is used a lot in BDSM play and D/s relationships. In fact, training can be so intense that some partners are trained to orgasm on command (Wow) - all via Pavlov’s association techniques!**

  3. What Else Arouses You?

  Finally, what’s your arousal like when you’re away from your girlfriend?

  For example, is your erection pattern normal (erections when you wake up, view porn, etc.)? Do you get “uncalled for” erections often and for no reason? In general, are you easy to arouse?

  Age should also be taken into consideration since wayward erections are much more common during men’s 20s and 30s than later on.

  Also, how long does your erection last? Does it stay the entire time you’re around her regardless of how much time you spend together? Does it just happen when you first see/hear her, and then quickly go away? A lot depends on these answers.

  

  My Best Advice - Relax and Enjoy It!

  Barring the possibility of any physical erectile problem, immediate arousal while in the presence of your girlfriend really isn’t a huge issue.

  Sure, it can be understandably embarrassing when you’re both around other people, but I’d suggest trying mental erection-reducing techniques. Other than that, there’s not much that you can do.

  Just take it one day at a time and enjoy your erections while they last - because someday your body might not be this sexually cooperative!
  

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  **Update**

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  On Santa’s Lap

  Written by Six
  
  She sat down on Santa’s lap, feeling the fuzzy, red, fleeced cotton against her bottom.

  “Have you been a good girl,” she heard him ask. “Or, a bad one?”

  Her hand went to Santa’s chest, resting against the white fluffy cotton trim. She pressed in hard enough to feel his body beneath the bulky suit before answering.

  “You tell me, Santa. I thought you knew when we all were good or bad.”

  She wiggled her butt on him, spreading her legs just a tiny bit to balance herself. Her panties were wet, and she felt them mash up against his thigh, right above the knee. The suit was thick, but would he notice?

  “Well…” he replied. “I’m going to give you a chance to make everything right.” The white gloved hand gently rested on her knee, palm up. She placed her hand in his. “One chance to show me if you’re naughty or nice.”

  Her hand in his, she wiggled some more, feeling the wet fabric grow wetter as she squirmed on his lap. “Santa,” she whispered. “My panties are wet.”

  “Oh?” the response jolly.

  “Yes, Santa,” she said, before turning away from him, her leg slipping over his, so that she was now straddling his thigh. Her back to him, and both her hands on his knee, she arched her back and rubbed herself - her wet panties - along the length of his thigh. She closed her eyes and let a sigh escape her lips as she felt the contact on her pussy.

  

  She continued to rub, feeling the panties start to roll up, the wet fabric brushing against the red cotton pants.

  As she pushed back, she felt something other than his thigh, the rolling fabric of her panties, and the warmth of the Santa suit. Her hand reached back as she nestled higher against his thigh - and she felt something hard, poking out from the leg of his pants.

  She grasped it through the fabric as her pussy continued to grind against him.

  “I want this candy cane, Santa,” she said, twirling her legs around and spinning back to face him. She slid off his thigh, pooling between his legs and on her knees. The red pants had an elastic waistband and she tugged them quickly down to his ankles, around the white-fur-tipped-black-boots.

  She giggled at the sight of his boxer shorts - navy blue with a reindeer printed pattern on them. But her giddiness didn’t mask her desire for his cock, her hand reaching right through the fly of the boxers, finding it stiff and ready.

  She pried it free from the boxers and held it by the head, the pre-cum smeared against her palm. Looking up one last time, she opened her mouth and puckered her lips around its red shiny head.

  Her tongue flicked out and swabbed it, her jaw loosened, and she felt her cheeks press in as she sucked on him. Her hand moved down lower and lower, down the shaft of his cock, and finally resting on his balls as she took him deep into her mouth. Her tongue swaying side to side as she felt him against the back of her throat.

  Her hands went to the insides of his thighs and she let her nails dig in as she steadied herself, and pulled her neck back, her lips traveling up the length of his cock before she swallowed hard and buried her head back down.

  

  She purred and moaned her pleasure, his cock in her mouth only making her pussy grow wetter. She grasped his balls and felt them heavy and warm, squeezed in her palms. She let his cock escape past her lips, making an audible pop. Her hand went to the shaft, wet with her spit and rubbed it up and down.

  “I’m a bad girl,” she said, her eyes low.

  “Why?”

  “Because…” she let herself trail off. “Because I told Santa I had wet panties but I didn’t show him. I got greedy Santa.”

  She let his cock go and turned around, still on her knees. Bending over at the waist, she turned her head and let her face fall on the white carpeted floor. Her ass was in the air, and she spread her knees apart. One hand reached between her thighs and she felt her fingers on the wet - no, soaked - fabric.

  “Do you see now?” she asked, waiting for his response.

  She didn’t hear it. She felt it.

  Her panties pushed aside. The fabric suddenly cold against the skin of her ass. And suddenly something wet, warm, pushing against her swollen pussy lips. She gasped as it made its way from her clit all the way up to her ass. It swirled and slithered along the length of her slit and pressed into her wetness.

  She felt hands at her hips and his nose pressing into her ass as she knew he was licking, sucking, savoring the taste of her juices. Her hands went on his, spreading her ass wider, giving him better access.

  

  The beard had been tossed to the floor, the pants too gone, the coat also discarded. She felt him push her ass to the side, and she rolled over onto the coat, scrambling, her eyes wild with lust. She pounced on him, straddling his hips and lowering herself onto his cock. She reached out and grabbed his hat, placing it on her as her pussy enveloped his cock.

  It stretched her wide and rubbed against her insides, the wetness pouring out and around the stiff cock buried deep within her. Her hands went to his chest, her arms pressing her breasts together and she started to buck, rocking her hips up and down before using her legs to bounce up and down.

  His cock felt so good, digging deep within her pussy, drawing out even more wetness, the noises slick and wet escaping every time she lifted and crashed back down on his hips. She held onto his chest, feeling his cock rub against the walls of her pussy, slamming deep and scraping as she pushed up.

  The white ball at the end of the Santa hat flung and flew from side to side, front to back as she rode his cock hard, feeling the wave of her orgasm building in her pussy.

  She grasped and clenched at his cock, convulsing, spasming, cumming hard and fast, squeezing and urging him to cum too. And the first spray making her yelp, the hot cum bathing her pussy, the next splashing deep within her. Over and over each time he twitched she came again, rapid fire, like popcorn kernels bursting one after another.

  

  And as if one final explosion, the flash bulb popped.

  The picture was taken, the faux winter scene complete with fake trees, fake snow, giant candycanes, and the elaborately decorated chair Santa sat on. And little by little, the muffled sounds of the mall, the murmur of people talking, the Christmas music spilling into the background, all swarmed and rose back into consciousness.

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  How Much Would You Pay for Used Panties, Stockings, or Lingerie?

  Believe it or not, selling women’s pre-worn, unlaundered underwear is a big and growing business here on the internet.

  Women who are willing to indulge this rather unusual “fetish” are setting up personal websites, naming their own prices, and mailing their dirty panties to anyone who wants them.

  Although this may be the first time you’re hearing about “panty fetishism”, it’s been around for quite a while - probably for as long as women have worn undergarments.

  What Exactly is Panty Fetishism?

  There seems to be two main parts to this fetish: the sexualization of women’s underwear itself and the sexual enjoyment derived from the used underwear.

  The first part refers to the fact that panty-lovers would rather see women in their panties than out of them. The panty, or other intimate female garment, is a fetish object that is the source of sexual arousal. Without the panty, the woman loses her sexual appeal, either partly or completely.

  The second part refers to the enjoyment people, mostly men, derive from smelling, licking, fondling, and/or masturbating with the dirty panties.

  But before you write this off as a truly “weird” and incomprehensible fetish, think about this:

  “Panties are the item closest to a woman’s body. They hold all the scent that makes a woman a woman. Every woman has her favorite pair. Every day they are discarded, dirty, into the hamper. They are seldom handled by anyone other than the woman who owns them. And panties are one of the most intimate items a woman owns. To have a woman’s panties is like having a little piece of her.” ~eBay Panty Fetish Guide~

  Aawww, put that way it sounds down right romantic!

  Of course, not all panty fetishists care about who wore the panties, and there certainly does not have to be an emotional connection between the fetishist and the panty wearer for the fetishist to get sexual pleasure from the underwear.

  However some fetishists are very loyal, and only the scent of their beloved will do.

  

  How Much Does a Normal Used Panty Cost?

  Like most things, the price of a used panty depends on many factors:

  1) How long they’ve been worn…

  2) Their fabric and style…

  3) If they come with or without pictures of the woman wearing them…

  4) Whether or not the woman was sexual (masturbated) while wearing them.

  For example, one UK site** varies its panty price between 26 and 36 pounds (roughly $50-$70). The lower range is for panties that were “squirted” on (via female ejaculation at orgasm) but have no accompanying pictures and were not worn prior to the squirting. The higher range is for panties that were worn for 24 hours, have pictures, and were “squirted” on.

  I’ve also found U.S. based sites that offer panties for as low as $20 and as much as $500!

  Panty Fetishists in Japan

  No where is it more widely accepted than in Japan. According to the all-knowing Wikipedia, the business of panty fetishism is widespread. In fact, the market for used panties is established enough to warrant actual legislation.

  “Burusera shops in Japan sell used girl panties… The clothes are often accompanied by genuine photos of the girls wearing them. The clients are Japanese men who smell or otherwise experience the panties for sexual stimulation. Vending machines were once used to sell packaged used panties…

  …Underage schoolgirls participate in sale of their used panties, either through burusera shops or using mobile phone sites to sell directly to clients.

  When laws banning the purchase of used underwear from under-18s were introduced in Tokyo in 2004, it was reported that some underage girls were instead allowing their clients (called kagaseya or sniffers) to sniff their underwear from directly between their legs. Others chose to sell photos of themselves, throwing in the used panties for free.” (Wikipedia)

  There are so many disturbing things packed into those few sentences that I’d like to go through them one by one.

  

  First - Used Panty Vending Machines?!

  I questioned there existence too, so went searching the internet for further proof.

  Unfortunately, I didn’t come up with anything conclusive. Many people believe these vending machines to be an urban legend. Other people who live in or have been to Japan claim that although these machines were banned in 1993, they are still available for people “in the know”.

  But if they do exist, I wonder how long it’ll be before these eyebrow-raising machines make their way onto the streets of sexually conservative American towns…

  Second - Teen Girl Panties?!

  Offering up dirty women’s panties to adult fetishists is one thing, but isn’t there something very pedophilic about selling panties worn by underage girls to adult men for their sexual and masturbatory pleasures?

  OK, so it’s certainly not as bad as actual pedophilia since these girls are not being touched or abused, but lusting after their panties isn’t much better.

  Third - Pictures of Teen Girls Wearing Their Panties?!

  Now we’ve entered real problem territory. Half naked pictures of teen girls being exchanged for money is usually a very big No-No in any part of the developed world.

  It seems strange that the law cited above prevents these entrepreneurial young women from selling their panties, but the pictures of them wearing their panties are still being sold? That wasn’t included in the overall ban?

  To answer this, I poked around for more information on Japanese porn/sex laws and found that since 2003 Japan has enacted very serious laws regarding sex with minors - including child pornography.

  Apparently teen girls are notorious for selling “indecent” pictures of themselves via their cell phones and police are having a very hard time prosecuting everyone involved. I guess it’s less risky to sell your pictures than your undies…

  

  Forth - Sniffing Panties from Between Their Legs?!

  Although this might be a fun and sexy thing to do with your own adult lover, sniffing the underwear of underage girls while they are wearing said underwear crosses what ever flimsy line of propriety there might have otherwise been for this fetish.

  No matter how “hands off” it might be, this is not a healthy thing to do!

  And speaking of health…

  What are the Health Risks of Panty Sniffing?

  Simply put - Not Many - if you’re just sniffing.

  If you’re licking, rubbing, and fondling the dirty duds there’s still very little risk involved.

  Most sexually transmitted infections and viruses don’t last very long once outside of the body. Both HIV and herpes viruses can survive little more than a few minutes, so by the time you get around to “enjoying” the undies any such microbes would be dead.

  However there still might be other bacteria-based concerns that you should be aware of. (For example there are many different kinds of bacteria that live in and around the anus that could cause you to become very ill if ingested, but this is another discussion altogether. If you are a panty fetishist I advise you to thoroughly look into these possible health risks).

  

  Well, What Do You Think?

  By now you should have a fairly good idea of the underground used-panty market. How do you feel about it? What’s your reaction? Is it an easy way for a woman to make some extra cash, or is it just “gross”?

  Tell me, I’d LOVE to know!

  **Notes ** I am not affiliated with nor do I endorse any of the online panty shops mentioned in this article. They are included for general reference purposes only.

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  Before you head out to your local sex shop, or begin browsing through online adult stores, stop and consider how your partner will react to this kind of gift. Ask yourself questions like:

  Are they sexually open?

  Are they very religious?

  Are they easily embarrassed?

  It takes a certain kind of person, as well as a certain kind of relationship, to make giving an adult-themed gift a positive experience for both the giver and the receiver. If you misjudge how your lover will react, or get them a gift that ends up offending them, your devilishly sexy surprise could ruin your Holiday altogether.

  Below are some things to keep in mind while shopping for your partner that should help you to avoid any unpleasant present-opening situations!

  You Know Your Lover Best - Think Before You Buy

  Although this vibe or that whip might look like a great play thing to YOU, remember you are buying this gift for your lover’s enjoyment - not necessarily your own.

  Don’t buy your husband a prostate anal massager if you know how “touchy” he is about that area of his body - regardless of how much you’d love to open him up to other sexual experiences.

  Now is not the time to try to push your partner into trying something they are uncomfortable with.

  The Holidays are supposed to be light-hearted fun, so give them a sexy gift you’re certain they will really appreciate based upon their current sexual likes and dislikes.

  This isn’t to say you shouldn’t surprise them with a gift that will allow them to try something you know they’ve always wanted to try (because they’ve told you so in the past). Maybe she’s expressed an interest in spanking, so a beginner’s paddle might be just the thing!

  

  Respect Their Religious and Moral Beliefs

  Make sure an adult gift is something your partner would appreciate at this time of year.

  There are lots of people who would NOT consider a dildo to be an appropriate present for Christmas, particularly if they are traditionally religious. Respect their morals, values, and beliefs around this time of year - the last thing you want to do is offend them and put them in a bad mood!

  Instead, save your sexy gift ideas for another, more appropriate, occasion such as their birthday or Valentine’s Day. Non-religious holidays might be much better times to gift wrap that bondage set…

  But if you’re sure your lover is the type of person who would enjoy a little adult spice mixed into their egg-nog, then follow these simple Do’s and Don’t’s when shopping for their little erotic surprise!

  Ho! Ho! Ho! It’s Time to Play Santa!

  So, you’ve decided to give your lover at least one special present that cannot be opened in front of anyone. Now what?

  You might find yourself looking for something romantic, kinky, or even something that will seduce your lover. No matter what you are looking for it’s important to keep in mind that there are some things you will not want to give your other half this Christmas.

  First, you need to assess the person you are buying this adult-themed present for.

  Are they somewhat straight-laced? Are they adventurous, romantic, or downright wild?

  It is important you keep this in mind because not all people are going to like all adult-themed gifts. Some people are going to like roleplay ideas while others might end up blushing at a common vibrator. Buy something based on the sexual appetite and adventure ranking the person already has.

  

  Buying for Your Woman

  If you want to avoid a disastrous event when you watch her unwrap her present this year you should consider your gift giving goals.

  If you want to romance her, penis shaped candles and dicky soap on a rope is not going to be a good idea. While, these make good light hearted or gag gifts they do not fit in well in the romance department.

  Similarly, if you are attempting to buy her lingerie, buy her something in a fabric that flatters her. If you are not sure what she likes to wear try looking in her closet. You should be able to get a general idea from what you find.

  If you see an abundance of satin do not go out on a limb and buy lace. Chances are she has that much satin for a reason.

  Go with what you see! Also, make absolutely sure you buy her the right sizes. Sneak into her panty drawer and check before you buy. Buying her something in the wrong size will make it virtually useless and she probably will not be too thrilled you thought she was bigger (or smaller) than she is.

  When You Are Trying to Romance Her…

  Avoid the Following:

  • Whips for Honestly Good Girls
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  • Dicky Soaps & Other Gag Gifts

  Get Her These Instead:

  • A Waterproof Toy
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  • Something that Looks Sexy and Will Fit
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  Buying for Your Man

  When it comes to sexy gifts for men there are only a few things you need to avoid. These are fairly common things.

  For starters, avoid things you know he won’t like (obviously!). If he doesn’t own any thongs do not assume this one is going to be the one to convert him. Most men are very underwear loyal. If he wears boxers then find him a sexy pair, but do not assume you can convince him to wear something else.

  If you are toy shopping, do not focus on things you can use on him.

  While you might think these things are romantic they could actually be a turn-off. If he is not interested in anal toys, restraints, or whips then you will either end up buying him something that he can use on you or something like massage oil, which is nice but not something just for him.

  Consider buying him a masturbatory toy such as a love doll, and inflatable doll, or a handheld device for private moments alone.

  When You are Trying to Romance Him…

  Avoid the Following:

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  If you can’t decide what to get your lover, why not buy something you can use together? This way you can pick out something you know you’d both enjoy. There are lots of options here - from massage sets to adult board games.

  Additionally, a nice couple’s gift might be sexual furniture. You will find that no matter what you buy him or her, this furniture will definitely enhance any sexual experience so the different forms of furniture are worth the consideration.

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  The Scenario:

  It’s early evening, your children are at their friends’ houses, and you’re just putting the last of a delicious dinner’s dishes away. You wrap your arms around your lovely wife’s waist, nuzzle your lips against her neck, and begin what you believe to be tonight’s sexual preface.

  But then suddenly, as if completely out of the blue, your wife asks - “Sweetie, do you remember that movie we saw on our second date, after getting back from seeing your family in Florida, when I wore my black dress with the spaghetti strap shoulders and you had a toothache…?”

  Your mind begins to race for an adequate response, stunned as you are by her mood-killing and utterly ridiculous interruption. Having lost her train of thought way back at the “that movie we saw” part, and not exactly sure what the question was to begin with, silent seconds go by.

  You quickly realize that the longer you don’t say anything, the more she’ll believe you don’t remember an incident that was obviously very significant to her. Why else would she bring it up NOW? Just when wonderful sex was about to begin?

  So your brain fights to come up with something - anything! - to end the silence.

  “Of course I do, Honey…It was a great movie!” You say grinning.

  *Good one!* - You think to yourself - Vague enough to cover almost your entire movie-going past together. But instead of smiling back, she frowns and looks hurt.

  She Pulls Away!

  *Warning! Warning!* Flashes through your mind.

  “Ugh, you don’t remember do you?! I missed the birth of my only niece because you insisted on seeing that stupid movie!” She says with contempt.

  *Man Down! Man Down!*

  End of Possible Sex Here.

  

  Why Do Women Talk So Much Before Sex?

  Although it may seem baffling at times, women talk to their partners before sex because it actually puts them in a sexual mood.

  Talking is foreplay to most women.

  When you lean over to plant that suggestive kiss on her neck, she responds by doing the one thing she knows will make her feel emotionally closer to you - she starts up a conversation!

  Since emotional closeness is a key element for women during those initial moments of sexual arousal, her chattiness really does make sense. While you’re trying to turn her on in ways that would turn you on (you’d probably love it if your wife spontaneously began to nibble at your neck!), she’s trying to do the same thing to you (she’d love it just as much if you’d spontaneously say something thrilling and/or romantic!).

  In general, men will kiss, lick, fondle and suck their way into arousal. Women, on the other hand, will smile, talk, look, and think their way into bed.

  Regardless of how hard feminist try to argue that there are no differences between the sexes, and that any displayed differences are learned, there are some differences that are real and undeniable. The path to sexual arousal is one of them.

  Does Needing to Feel “Close” Mean Needing to Feel “Love”?

  Please note that I did NOT say women need to feel LOVE in order to get turned on. No, no, no!

  Women only need to feel CLOSE to the person they are about to sleep with. And this doesn’t have to be the “Spooky Soul-Mate” kind of close either. A warm memory, an intriguing common interest, or learning something new about their lover after years of living together - any of these little connections can work.

  Sometimes, the words don’t even matter - just the tone of his voice could do the trick!

  However, since most women in relationships do LOVE their partners, they often want to feel that love before having sex. So although it’s not necessary for women to feel love in order to want to have sex, it is very common since most sex happens within a loving relationship.

  

  Why Do Women Equate Closeness and Love With Talking?

  OK, so women need to feel some sort of connection, some sort of closeness, to become aroused - and often times this does mean they want to feel loved by their partners as a prerequisite to sex.

  But why talking? Why don’t women get this sense of “closeness” in other ways?

  Because women equate Talking with Love.

  When you talk to your wife or girlfriend, she interprets that as you expressing your love for her. Even though to you it’s just a conversation about what type of grass you should buy for your lawn, the fact that you’ve asked her opinion about it and actually want to know what she thinks is Love to her.

  In other words:

  “Coming home after a hard day, sharing innermost feelings about it, asking about your day - that’s love. Cooking dinner or refilling the windshield wiper fluid in your car while she’s telling you all that - that’s not love.” ~Sex: A Man’s Guide, Page 184~

  When you talk to her and listen to what she’s saying, you’re showing her that you appreciate her as an individual. Women like to know that they are special in your life, and honestly talking to them demonstrates this.

  (That’s why it doesn’t count when you are “talking” and doing other things at the same time. You’re not paying attention to her. You’re not validating her uniqueness. You might as well just stop talking altogether!)

  If you are trying to make her feel close to you and loved in the hopes of getting her into your bed later, then make sure the “talking” happens in a relaxed environment with very little distractions. Focusing on her and giving back constructive responses (not random Uh-huh, Uh-huhs) will almost always make her feel loved.

  

  Talking -> Love -> Closeness -> Sex!

  So the next time you begin cozying up to your lover and she starts to babble on about something completely off-topic, just go with it! Don’t let her chattiness fool you into thinking she’s not interested in your physical sexual overtures.

  Think of talking as yet another foreplay technique in your ever-expanding repertoire.

  She talks. You make her feel special by talking back. She feels loved (or feels close to you in some way if you’re not in a serious relationship with each other). And this feeling of love opens her up to becoming physically aroused by your eager kisses and groping hands!

  Now that wasn’t so hard, was it?

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  One of the most misunderstood and mystifying aspects of female sexuality is the phenomenon commonly referred to as “squirting.” Female ejaculation, the officially recognized term for this behavior, is still in its medical infancy. Most of the research on female ejaculation was conducted in a flurry of studies in the early 1980s. Since then, not much has been published about it, though it continues to gain a steady fetishistic following within certain porn communities.

  Recently Rae, a blogger herself, asked me if I could expound upon some of the misconceptions surrounding “squirters.”

  “I’m actually curious about those porn videos one can access…well, pretty much anywhere, that show these women staying very true to the term “squirt” and whether that is really real. I do NOT do that, it’s more of a small waterfall/gush rather than spraying down my sheets and the walls of my bedroom.

  Since I’m fairly new to this whole female ejaculation thing, I was just curious if there are different “levels” of squirting, or if the professionals really have the right of it and it’s like that from the get go. I don’t put a great deal of faith in professional porn actually representing the average sexual experience for the most part, but I’m just curious.” ~Rae~

  There are a lot of questions wrapped up in there, so I’ll do my best to break them down.

  What Exactly is Female Ejaculation?

  Female ejaculation is marked by an expulsion of cloudy white or clear fluid from the urethra at the moment of orgasm. Despite what most people believe, the fluid does not come from within the vagina.

  How Much Fluid Has to be Ejaculated to be Considered a “Squirter”?

  There is very little consensus on this issue because it seems some women only “squirt” between 1 - 5 mls of liquid while others expel much more (Whipple, 2002). If you experience any expulsion of liquid during orgasm, it’s safe to consider yourself a “squirter.” Because of this it’s reasonable to assume that many women are “squirters” and don’t know it, since the amount of liquid could be relatively small and may go completely unnoticed. Have you ever been “very wet” after an orgasm? Then you are probably a squirter.

  

  Do Women Really “Squirt” Across the Room, Like in Porn Movies?

  Yes, some women do - but my best guess is that they are more the exception than the rule. No doubt porn movies exaggerate the “squirting” factor, much like they exaggerate almost everything about sex - But isn’t that exactly why we love them? There are, however, well documented cases of women who do ejaculate that dramatically.

  Another possibility is that what is being “squirted” is not female ejaculate at all, but intravaginal secretions - ie what makes women normally wet. For example,

  “Sally’s problem started when she masturbated with a vibrator and, at orgasm, ‘‘a lot of white stuff shot right across the kitchen floor’’. She was 14 years old at the time. Whilst it is not possible to be certain about the nature of this white substance nor its origin, it is most likely to have been intravaginal fluid mixed with desquamated cells. Kinsey et al. (1953) noted that ‘‘muscular contractions of the vagina following orgasm may squeeze out some of the genital secretions, and in a few cases eject them with some force’’. Since this experience Sally had held back from experiencing orgasm or avoided sex altogether for fear of ‘‘peeing the bed’’. (Riley et al., 2005, 220)

  In other words, during a powerful orgasm the muscle contractions within the vagina can be strong enough to force a woman’s normal “juices” out - perhaps even across the room. Have you ever experienced “forcing” your partner’s penis out during an orgasm? That’s exactly what this is talking about.

  Where Does Female Ejaculate Come From?

  Again, this is still being debated, but most researchers believe it is produced by the Skene’s paraurethral glands because female ejaculate contains many of the same components that are typically found in male ejaculate, some of which is produced by the male prostate. In fact, some scientists argue that the female Skene’s glands should be renamed to the female prostate because it appears to be a much smaller version of the male prostate. Furthermore, just like the male prostate, the female Skene’s glands empty into the urethra, not the vulva as was originally thought (Whipple, 2002).

  

  What’s the Connection Between “Squirting” and the G-Spot?

  Female ejaculation only happens when the G-spot on the front wall of the vagina is stimulated, either through penile penetration or the use of a sex toy. It does not happen with clitoral stimulation alone. Women report feeling a “ball” grow behind their G-spot, which disappears at orgasm. It’s theorized that this “ball” is actually the Skene’s glands filling with ejaculatory fluid that is then expelled at orgasm. If this is true, this finding could explain why women enjoy having this spot, their G-spot, stimulated during intercourse. (Much like men enjoy prostate stimulation).
  Can Women Learn to Become “Squirters”?

  Honestly, I don’t know. None of the official research suggests that this is possible, since it tends to occur spontaneously. There are some unscientific manuals, books, and instructional videos that claim to be able to teach women how to “squirt”, but I can’t personally vouch for their effectiveness.

  Do “Squirters” Have Better Orgasms?

  Much of the desire to learn to ejaculate stems from the belief that women who do ejaculate experience more intense orgasms than women who don’t. Because the overall enjoyment of an orgasmic experience is so subjective, it’s very hard to know whether this is true or not. I will say that for many women G-spot stimulation, especially in combination with clitoral stimulation, leads to more powerful orgasms than with clitoral stimulation alone. Also, some women (around 30%) can have an orgasm via G-spot stimulation without needing clitoral stimulation at all. Does that necessarily mean “squirters” have better orgasms? I’m not sure, but go ahead and try - you’ll probably have fun either way!

  

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  References:

  Riley, Alan. Riley, Elizabeth. Gibbin, Jane. (May, 2005). “Sexual desire inhibited by urethral expulsions: Two female cases with different aetiology.” Sexual and Relationship Therapy. Vol 20, No. 2. 215-223.

  Whipple, Beverly. (2002). “The Human Female Prostate: From Vestigial Skene’s Paraurethral Glands and Ducts to Woman’s Functional Prostate.” Archives of Sexual Behavior. Vol 31. Issue 5. 457.

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