Hell, in certain cultures and states, there were laws against using anything else! That’s a topic for another time, though. The main problem some people have with this position is that the woman does not get to have much control or activity. However, that is rather far from the truth!

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The one thing missionary has on other sex position is face to face, as well as full body contact. This is an extremely intimate and romantic position, and lends itself to a variety of sensations. Sex isn’t only about how deep you can get it, after all! On that topic, however – if you want some of the deepest possible penetration, the woman can fold her legs, holding behind the knees, and drawing her legs back, allowing the man to get very very deep.

A variation called The Anvil involves the woman propping her legs up on both shoulders of her partner. The man pushes forward and lifts her butt off the bed, while penetrating her. This is one of my personal favorites, and it allows for both a breadth of sensation, as well as deep penetration. It is also comfortable no matter what speed you want to go at, and while it might seem like the woman does not have much control from this position, there are many ways in which you can shift and control the angle and speed of intercourse.

Just like with the woman on top, a few other man on top variations make use of various bits of furniture around the room. Sliding the woman’s legs off the edge of the bed, then having the man support himself on his arms as he holds himself over top, is another fun position.

If you have ever heard of the Perfumed Garden, an ancient sex manual (similar to the Kama Sutra), you might have seen this position. The woman lies on her side, and has one leg straight up in the air (supported by the man’s shoulder). He straddles her lying leg, and penetrates her in this way. The sideways angle allows for different types and areas of stimulation.

This position is better for slower rhythms of sex, as movement is somewhat impaired by the angle. The unfamiliar sensations also lend itself to a slower pace, in which to enjoy the new areas being stimulated.

One last one for the man on top, also from the Perfumed Garden! This one is referred to as Touching Soles (a nice play on words for them). The woman needs to slide slightly down, in order to have the soles of her feet on the same level as the man’s. Your mileage may vary for this one, depending on the difference of heights between you and your partner. Your legs are intertwined as well, and this position is said to help with clitoral stimulation, in the way you are positioned while trying to reach the feet.

Man On Top Sex Positions: Face To Face

Dual penetration vibrators come in a few different varieties, and you can choose between several depending on your situation.

If you want to enhance your masturbation or sexual fun, the dual penetration toys that offer both vaginal and anal insertion are worth their weight in gold. Some also have clit stimulator attachments, adding yet another wonderful feature.

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The other type of dual penetration vibrator has ends for two people. Sometimes these can also give anal and vaginal penetration ends to both sides as well. It depends on the design, but it can be a ton of fun. Whether you’re having some fun with another woman, or your partner is interested in a new form of stimulation, this is the toy to bring you closer together.

What makes those types of dual penetration toys fun is that you can feel every movement they make rather intimately - when they shift, you feel it in all the right places. However, this does give the toys a bit of a learning curve, as you have to adapt to the different ways of using the toy to stimulate each other.

If you are interested in adding your own touch, there are also dual bullet set ups. These allow you to pick your own type of sleeve and material, and even switch it up when the mood takes you.

If you are using this toy for only yourself, take care to clean it properly before switching around the sides that you insert - it wouldn’t be the best idea to put the anal insertion side into the vagina right after using it.

Dual penetration vibrators are definitely interesting, and once you get used to them, you might not want to use another type of vibrator ever again.

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Two Is Better Than One - Dual Penetration Toys

To start off with, you would basically be in a reverse missionary position, with the woman on top, legs outside of the man’s. This allows for a much deeper penetration than the normal missionary, on top of the woman having full control on how deep and fast the penetration is. She would support her weight on her hands, placed on either side of the man’s body.

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A few variations from that is the woman sitting up and leaning back, arching her back and supporting her weight with hands on ankles or floor behind her feet. This also deepens penetration, as well as giving the man one hell of a view of her body. This position is commonly called Madame Butterfly. The man can help control her movement with hands on hips or butt, depending on how athletic you are.

Another variation is Reverse Cowgirl. This is when the woman turns away from the man, so that her back is towards him. It’s basically a reverse of the butterfly, where you arch your back, support your weight back onto your hands, and go to town.

Kangaroo Shuffle is one really strange name, for a really interesting position. This position has the woman crouching over the man, who has his legs propped up on her shoulders. She basically supports herself by half standing, half supported by her partner, and allows for great positioning of g-spot stimulation.

Double Trouble is a position that involves the woman, once again, leaning back and supporting herself, but the man also leaning up and supporting himself. The angle of both’s lean adjusts the angle of penetration, making it a very interactive position to have fun with.

Star Gazing is a position that utilizes the edge of the bed along with a woman on top position for great results. Like reverse cowgirl, the woman will want to be on top of, and facing away from, the man. Have him position himself near the edge of the bed and lift his upper body up, supporting himself with his arms. The woman half sits, half stands, using the floor for support, and arches her back up so that she’s looking up at the ceiling (star gazing, as it were).

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Woman On Top Sex Positions: The Ultimate Feeling Of Control

You will want a portfolio and comp cards. If you are looking to go into lingerie modeling, make sure that these reflect that. Choose tasteful pictures (nude or semi nude) since companies are going to be looking at your body and seeing if the lingerie would be a good match for you to model.

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If you are invited to go to a test shoot or an open call for spicy modeling types, make sure you follow the rules of safety. Let a friend know where you are going, bring someone along with you, or better yet both. There are some really scary folks out there so it’s better to be safe than sorry. Just make sure that if you bring someone with you to the photo shoot that they know the proper rules of etiquette. Your significant other might not be the best person for this job if they either do not know, or do not fully approve of your choice in lingerie modeling.

Lingerie modeling will have you working in a variety of mediums - catalogs, websites, magazines, runway shows, and many more. Sexy assertive models are needed to model lingerie and you can add your own special flair and personality to the industry.

Here are a few ways that you can make yourself more desirable to modeling agencies and casting agents:

• Show Up Early
• Be Prepared for long hours
• Be pleasant to be around
• Come prepared - have your portfolio and comp cards at the ready
  Try to do some research about the companies and agencies before you show up - let them know there’s more than just a pretty face to look at
• Offer a helping hand - while you don’t want to mess up careful hairstyling or makeup work, if it seems like they need some help setting up beforehand don’t hesitate to ask.

You only have one chance for a first impression, and the last thing you want to do is blow it. The modeling industry is heavily influenced by the networking you do - give a stellar performance and word gets around. So don’t mess up or everyone will be hearing about it. It’s like high school all over again.

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Picking up a new hobby or catching up with friends that you’ve put off to focus on your relationship (which normally isn’t a good idea to begin with!). Here’s a list of hobby ideas. I’ll try to focus on ideas running on the less expensive side.

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Working out - Most areas will have at least some type of gym around. Focusing on your physical fitness will not only improve your health, it will keep you looking good for your partner when you are reunited. Depression lends itself to packing on pounds, so prevent that ahead of time!

Astronomy - All you need is a telescope and a few books to take up star searching. It might not be as social as some hobbies, but trying to pinpoint a constellation or remember a star’s name is mentally taxing, and educational.

Crafting - A number of different hobbies fall under this designation - jewelry making, models, crochet, knitting, carving, woodworking, scrap booking, painting, and candle making, among many many more. Most crafts require both mental focus and manual dexterity, and can help to fill in hours while you make something worthwhile.

Collecting - Whether it’s action figures or antiques, some people get a kick out of collecting things. This is probably the most expensive of hobbies that are listed here, although it all depends on what you choose to collect.

Competitive Games - These can take place on either the Internet or at local events, but there are a number of games and sports that you can participate in. Not only will this get you much needed social interaction, a focus on competition will keep you from moping! You might be athletic, or you might want to checkmate someone, but either way a healthy sense of competition can be fun and friendly.

Bird Watching - Just like astronomy, you don’t need much to get started with this! Some guide books and a pair of binoculars and you’re set. Take this time to get acquainted with the natural world. Most likely you won’t know just how much variety there is in the wilds around you!

Pets - This is another form of social interaction and distraction. This will also give you a focus for responsibility to help keep yourself in line while your partner is gone!

Gardening - Gardening can be almost meditative. It might be slow going to see your plants and flowers grow and bloom, but getting out and working in the dirt just has a soothing influence on a troubled mind.

Genealogy - Some people devote their entire lives to working their way through their family lineage. Put on your detective hat and work your way through the family tree, and present your partner with your efforts when they return!

Free Stuff - A somewhat off the wall hobby, some people like to see how many free offers and trials they can find on the Internet and other sources. There are a large amount of sites devoted to finding all the best free stuff, you just need to look!

Volunteer work - Most cities welcome volunteers for a myriad of jobs, and you will get to meet many new and hopefully interesting people. Plus you can’t have enough good karma.

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LDR: 11 Things To Do When You’re Stuck On The Home Front

There are two types of long distance relationships - initial separation and mid term separation. The first is when you start out long distance - this is what I did - then eventually plan to come together. The second is when you or your partner has to leave for an extended period of time after a relationship has been established.

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There is another type of long distance relationship, in which the couple can almost certainly never meet together or have a real life relationship with each other. While I don’t look down on those that have this type of relationship, there is only so much you can do while you are a distance apart. If there is no intention to physically consummate the relationship, it seems to only give more stress and frustration on each couple’s part, as well as denying them a chance to go after a relationship that they can pursue.

Humans are a social animal and not ever being able to move the long distance relationship to the physical level denies almost too much in the person’s life for it to be workable. Love knows no bounds, and I salute you if you are in this type of relationship, but a good percentage of the time these types of relationships are simply casual Internet encounters that have no chance to progress to anything more meaningful, and are often destructive on the emotions of those involved.

Initial Separation

Initial separation is both easier and harder than the second type for a variety of reasons. You won’t have as bad a sense of longing as you do if you had to separate after a period of time with your partner.

However, you will be anxiously awaiting the day where you can see each other, feel each other, have wild orgasmic sex with them… and it can drive you quite batty. For both types of relationships, think of your last normal relationship, then add in communication problems, arguments over trust issues, long hours of staring at a calendar, pent up emotions, and a plethora of other issues that, while not unique to long distance relationships, are often compounded by them.

Mid Term Separation

For the second type of long distance relationship, mid term separation, you’ll often find yourself beset by loneliness and a wish that they could be by your side once more. Regret about past arguments and annoyance over certain habits will sometimes crop up as well. You’d be willing to put up with anything you couldn’t stand about them before, just to have them back with you. Long distance relationships are not all doom and gloom, however.

Sometimes stronger communication, trust, and an overall more committed relationship comes about because of long distance.

Communication is number one in both types of long distance relationships, and many times it’s a problem in every type of relationship. With the heavy focus on honest talking and open discussion, you can build the grounds for a much stronger relationship when you are together once more.

Making Your LDR Work!

You also might want to keep in mind that it’s not as dire as long distance relationships have been in years past. Cell phones, the Internet, and web cams help out with lessening the impact of being miles apart.

If you are lucky, you will have some time to visit and be together even during your time apart. Make these visits count! Go to your favorite places, have spectacular sex, be as romantic as you can, and just lose yourself in the moment. Don’t spend the entire time dwelling on the fact that they have to leave once more.

Life throws many challenges at you, so just grin and bear it. Your patience, persistence, and perseverance (I am running out of p words!) will reward you once your loved one is back in your arms… and bed.

There are a number of ways to take the pain of a long distance relationship away, and at bay. Distracting yourself from your partner’s absence is key - you don’t want to be moping around, as this can have a negative impact on your personal and professional life. So whether it is you that’s leaving for a new place, or your partner, there’s a number of steps you can take to avoid loneliness.

If you think I’m going to suggest getting a bit of fun on the side (and I know you know what I mean!) forget it. You aren’t faithful enough to this relationship to make it work if you jump on the first person that walks by after your partner leaves.

Next post I will have a few tips for when you’re staying on the home front.

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Does A Long Distance Relationship Work?

So once you have arrived at the amusement park, where should you head first to start getting amused? It’s generally a good idea to warm up to the idea of public frolicking, so start out fairly tame and take a trip on the Ferris wheel. This is a perfect time to start some gentle kissing and have some private moments with your man while you are enjoying the view. While you are sitting on the top of the Ferris wheel do not forget to take the opportunity to scope out the view of the fair grounds for exciting places to go next.

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If you have taken your man by surprise with your theme park shenanigans he will really enjoy a trip to the fun house. Have him chase you through the crazy mirrors, allowing him a quick feel every time he catches you. Take advantage of quiet corners to get hot and heavy.

You cannot forget about the classic tunnel of love. If your theme park doesn’t have a tunnel of love, find a ride that allows you to be close together and prolonged periods of darkness away from too many prying eyes. Use the opportunity on this ride to get down and dirty with your guy. You can always keep it fairly tame by offering him a preview of what’s to come later on when you get home. But the beauty of the tunnel of love is that you have time for a quickie if that’s what you need.

Every theme park is different and offers a wide variety of opportunities to experiment with your guy and see how far you can go to spice it up without getting caught. Why not make it your mission to pay a visit to a new theme park whenever you spot one, and invent your own theme park shenanigans?!

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Getting Frisky At The Town Fair - Theme Park Shenanigans

From the tried and true, to the truly wild, here are some ideas to use in your role playing.

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Strangers in the Night

We’ll start out simple. The basic concept around this role play is that of being complete strangers to one another. You will simply tell your partner where to go, and at what time to be there. When you arrive at the bar, act as though you don’t even know your lover. Order your drink, then work out a plan in which to slowly seduce that luscious stranger that caught your eye.

Send them a drink, or go over and start off with a (possibly corny) pick up line. Start off with some casual touch - a brush of their hair, an arm around the shoulders.

If you are at a dance club, you might want to get your partner to dance - or you might be planning your next seductive move. Slowly begin working your partner up as you send more drinks their way. Soft, subtle caresses work well here.

Before you both get too drunk to do anything coherent, suggest that you drive your partner home, because you’re worried about how much they drank.

Park in a secluded area, and just go to town, letting the anticipation that you both built up go. Then drive back to the bar and make sure to get your partner’s car too!

Light Power Play

This is going to encompass a great many of the more cliché roles people think of when engaging in sexual role play. The majority of these are a strong factor of the power play - one dominant, and one submissive. You can also turn these roles around completely. After all, sometimes the student gets an upper hand on their teacher.

These are some of the most popular in light power play:

French Maid/Boss: You come home to find a beautiful French maid doing anything but cleaning - she’s pleasuring herself on the job. Ripe for power exchanges, and a great introduction to sexual role playing, this is one of the fun roles to play around with. Plus, who wouldn’t want a chance to use a feather duster quite like that.

Student/Teacher: The misbehaving student and the teacher - whether you really want to see your lover in a school girl outfit, or if you want to get spanked by a ruler, this will be a good role for you! If the student wants to turn the tables, just take control and get your way. A definite A plus grade!

Cheerleader/Football Player: Going back to high school all over again, and is a great excuse to see a mini mini skirt! Whether you meet outside the football field, or have a bit of ‘tackle’ football in your living room, this is a role that either person could take dominance in. This makes it very flexible, and is a good choice for starting out with.

Police Officer: This is a definite role of authority, but be careful. You can succumb to the wiles of the naughty person you are arresting. Bonus points if you act out arresting them for indecent exposure. This is a great way to use props like handcuffs, a squirt gun (squirting cold water over your partner while they’re handcuffed and unable to get away is yummy), and gives you the thrill of the unexpected.

Bartender/Drinker: This works great if you have your own bar in your house. Play bartender for your partner as they attempt to make you forget that you shouldn’t be mixing business with pleasure. This is also a great way to get sloppy drunk and attempt to have sex on a barstool without falling over. At the very least, if you remember it the next day you can laugh about it!

Pimp/Prostitute: This might be a bit unconventional, but role playing is all about trying out different things! Demand that your prostitute pay you, and when they can’t, you take things into your own hands by getting any number of sexual favors. This works great in a hotel room where you can also act as though you paid to get your lover to do these things. But play fair, and let her ‘hire’ you out too!

Stripper: Give your lover a strip tease they can’t stand! Dance up on stage and see if you can’t get them to go crazy. See if you can do a good enough job to have them try to stuff dollars onto you, and maybe even try to jump you right on stage. If your partner does get driven wild enough to do that, drive them even crazier by denying them until they take their place up on the dance stage.

Secretary/Manager: If you have a home office, or if you work together, this scenario would be greatly heightened. Try to seduce your secretary or let them come on to you, then get busy with the ‘work’ on your desk or meeting room table. Try to seem like you don’t notice they are trying to seduce you at first - after all, you can’t be sexually harassing people on the job! Give in gradually then give your lover all that they desire.

Model/Artist: This works great if one of you actually is an artist. But even if you aren’t, the artist gets the model to pose exactly as they want. They can start painting a perfect nude, or start painting on the nude. Using body paints or the aforementioned chocolate body frosting is great fun for this role.

Doctor/Patient: Playing doctor was a fun game when you were a child, and it’s even better when incorporated into sex. You can use a variety of fun props, and do a lot of touching, ‘examining’, and playing while checking up on your patient. You can also do doctor and nurse, it’s all a matter of preference.

If you want to act out less uncommon roles, or want to try a few things that are outside your normal sexual realm, here are a few more ideas. Some of these serve to break down sexual taboos and some can be just strange, but they are all taken from actual fetishes and role play experiences.

Master/Slave: This is taken from BDSM (Bondage Dominance Submission and Sado Maschocism) and is where one person is completely subservient to the other. This is often a very big fantasy for more people than you would think. Being completely controlled seems contrary to what people might think is normal in sex, but the power play between a master and slave is a very intricate one.

If you like whips, being tied down, being ordered around, or being the one that does all of that, this would be a good scenario to try out. Remember though, that your slave can always turn it around on you, making you the slave - isn’t the thought delicious?

Gender Bending: This one definitely isn’t for everyone, but there are people that are interested in it. Taking on the role of the other sex can be a fascinating look into the mentality of your partner. Being the woman or man when you’ve never done anything like that before can make you feel ridiculous or sensual. It depends on your preferences and how open minded you are. You will want to talk about this a lot before you do it, and make absolutely sure that you and your partner really do want to try it.

These are just a few ideas for you to play around with. Feel free to experiment with some of your own ideas, or make up scenarios that are even more wild than these. It will do your love life wonders to open yourself up to new emotions, experiences, and arousal.

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14 Hot Fantasies For Your Sexual Role Play

Anal beads are a series of little balls or pearls that are attached in a row. Each bead is inserted into the anus one at a time using generous amounts of lubrication. The sensation of slowly, precisely inserting each bead into the anus can be extremely arousing, and is often one of the most enjoyable parts of this sex play. The beads are positioned on the strand in increasing sizes.

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Each bead is slightly larger than the last which slowly increases the pleasure and anticipation for the wearer. The beads are inserted slowly until they are all inside the rectum, allowing the tight muscles of the anus to contract around each bead providing an incredibly intense sensation all of it’s own.

While anal beads are inserted you can continue with sex play enjoying giving your partner oral sex and even receiving oral sex yourself. You can even participate in some reciprocal anal play with your partner. Many people forget that they are wearing anal beads during sex, until the crucial moment that is! When it is time for the anal beads to come out, you can be in charge of the task, or you can leave it up to your partner to send you over the edge with pleasure.

There are two ways to remove this simple little sex toy, both are equally pleasurable but they provide very different sensations. The first method is to remove the beads quickly in a fast pull. It is important to be sure that you are still well lubed for this maneuver. By removing the beads quickly during orgasm, you are guaranteed to lose your mind and take your orgasm to new heights. This method is particularly effective when the wearer has forgotten that they are wearing the anal beads because they are so involved with everything else!

The second method for removing the anal beads is by using a slow and deliberate action. This is a fabulous way to send the wearer over the moon with ecstasy, and if you are the wearer, you may actually beg your partner to just do it! With this method you slowly pull the string until each ball slowly pops from the anus with very deliberate slowness. The intense pleasure that comes from this slow and deliberate action will have you cumming all over again! It is important for your partner to remember to go very slowly for this method even as you cum, to increase the sensation and duration of your orgasm!

Just like other sex toys, anal beads are made from a variety of materials; you should choose the material that best suits your budget and your needs. Just be sure that you choose anal beads that are made from a smooth material, or it could be painful. Otherwise enjoy the mind blowing orgasms that come from the intensely erotic anal beads!

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Nothing spices up the bedroom like a few costumes and with the festive season approaching; why not take it to the next level with some adult Christmas costumes? There are so many choices available to you when you are looking for sexy Christmas outfits, so use your imagination and start playing!

You can really heat up the night dressing in a red velvet bustier trimmed in white fur, attach your garter to some red fish nets for that naughty look and don’t forget to finish off the look with your Santa hat! There are many variations on this theme, so take a bit of time to look for the look that will really make his Christmas wishes come true.

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Some of your choices for the traditional adult Christmas costumes include a red velvet mini dress, trimmed in white fur. Or a mini skirt with a hooded crop jacket for a different look. Instead of the red velvet, you can choose red satin or silk as well. If you want something a little different in an adult Christmas costume, you could dress up as a sexy Santa’s helper with a sexy elf costume instead and really trim his tree!

But don’t make the mistake of thinking that your adult Christmas costumes have to center around the big guy and his little helpers! Not at all. In fact, why not appear angelic and innocent and appear as an angel to your man. With a sexy, white angel costume, you can make sure that all of his Christmas wishes come true.

If you want to keep it simple, consider ditching the costumes altogether and wrap yourself up as a present. The best Christmas present that he ever receives will be you, with nothing but a bow on. In fact, you can actually buy a festive g-string with nothing but a big red bow on the back. He won’t be able to contain his excitement when he unwraps his special gift!

And don’t forget about your man when it comes to dressing up for your festive night! Santa will definitely put him on his naughty list when you give him a sexy red g-string to wear. Dress him up as Santa’s little helper in a naughty little elf costume and he can deliver his special package to you. Or keep it simple with only a pair of antlers so he can be reindeer that drives your sleigh all night long!

Give your man a bow to adorn his Christmas package, and have him give it to you under the tree.

Whatever adult Christmas costumes you wear, remember it’s all about fun and being festive. Any time is a good time to get down and dirty with your man. Why not celebrate the magic of Christmas and use your imagination to make all of your Christmas wishes come true!

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Holiday Magic With Adult Christmas Costumes