Star City

Heartache

2016-03-14T10:45:00.002+08:00

Hi there readers,

It has had been really a while since i've posted anything here. I've also noticed that the moment i update my blog, that is the time i am facing some life problems. Remember previous time I was more like a loner, a goner and i reject people due to reasons, but now I am facing problems on my love life. TO start of with, actually i really had no idea what is going on. At first it was smooth and fine but out of nowhere things just went out of place.

Being a newbie in this sector, I have no idea what to do. I've tried to talk it over in a good way, but i have had got no reply from that person. It hurts so much though, since i just want to understand why is it that suddenly things just got idled and cold. I am still learning, so i asked. I might have pressed the limit button myself but I really didn't know. I rather been scold than being treated coldly. I am confused, really confused. I just want someone to lead me.

"I know you wont be reading this, but i really do care about you."

I was hoping for a reply, but now it just gets painful and suffocating. Yeah, you might find me being all drama queen, but i won't deny that that is the facts on how i am feeling. right now. I am still holding on hope that a reply will be send to me, deliver to me, talk to me in the face, I don't care how bad the news is, I've braced myself and I am ready. I know my heart will not be able to take it but I will take it as a process of learning and life.

SO GOD~ please, don't let me wait for too long~

signing off..

XOXO

Hey! Hi! Hello!

2015-07-23T22:43:00.001+08:00

Dear readers,

It has been such a long long time since i last blogged. My last blogpost was like august 2014.. well hello almost a year yo. How are you all? I bet half of the peeps are like gone.. anyways, i'm here to update anything that comes to my mind at this moment. A brief updates on what had happened and yada yada .....

Okay first thing first, i've been in West Malaysia for almost a year. What was my first intention again? Oh yeah silly me.. i was here to study. Nope i am just acting stupid. Doesnt most bloggers do this? You tell me... okay back to the point. There had been upssss and downsss throughout this year. I've made friends here and there.. met some stranger and then became facebook friends, instsgram friends and so much more. People are crossing my path. Some stop, and lend me a hand. Some just crossed path and walk away. I don't really initiates move but when i do it is too late. I barely even hardly trust people but when i do you are like really important to me. What i wanted to say is that if you try once in approaching me and you really wanted to be my friend, bug me with good intention. I will like it. I just have this attention seeking side sitting inside of me in the corners of me, wanting to be notice but i'm just scared. Some people are just naturally good at socialising but uh-uh, im not. I'm like the awkward starfish sticking out of water. Lolol. "Take a chance" ...

Following up would be..... be.... erm. Wait. Let me think. I really have nothing in mind right now while typing this sentence..
Oh yeah.. i went to a mall in town called "Berjaya Times Square" for ONLY the 3rd time since I first step into West Malaysia. Beat that.. the feeling i got this time during the trip was fun since i'm actually going with people who will shop with me and not people who are just there and not following the game. My game would be shopping and talk and just have fun. Yeap yeap my kind of game... nah.. most people would just ignore me, seriously. I like the feeling of travelling with friends using public transports. It is fun and more eco friendly as we are using car pooling technique and rdducing carbon footprint. What am i even saying but you cannot deny it because it is true. Ok moveing onnnn...

OWH YEAH!!! I HAVE ALMOST FORGOTTEN ABOUT THE REAL DEAL FOR THIS BLOG POST...
Okay so i am going for internship AGAIN. Yes again... but this time is better since i'm doing it here and not Singapore. So let me talk about the differences of having internship locally and internationally.

600 hours local v 6 months international

I am only required to complete a 600 hours internship in hotel compared to what i had 2 years back, a 6 months internship in Singapore alone. This time, it would be a hell lot easier as i will only work 8 hours a day and not 18 hours a day. So i will have to work for around 4 months only. Yes.. only.

Somemore halfway through the internship i am going to fly to Australia for 10 days. No replacement needed for the trip yo since it is labeled as school trip. I'll update on the details of trip soon. So far what i known is that the trip was set to be on 10th october 2015.... so stay tune.

I still have lots more to say and type down... but i'm hungry.. so imma gonna stop here and continue tomorrow,... no wait. I think i will do it later on and post tomorrow.

For those who followed my instagram, thank you very much .. i know it is slike sooo late but still thank you.
And to those who added me and followed me on facebook. Thank you too.
And those on twitter... thanks too...

Signing off now.. ♡♥♡♥♡♥

Regards,
Romulus
Xoxo miss me not..

Counting days and down to earth

2014-08-10T18:15:00.001+08:00

Hi readers.

Just as what the title says, i'm counting down and getting back to reality. The dreadful day is finally here. 2 and a half day to be exact.

Part of me is nervous, scared, and there is a little tiny weeny bit of me is excited. New challenges and new obstacles are bound to come. And as if i'm alright with it, the world don't. They hate me to disrupt my dream. *here we go again*... fine. I ain't want to touch that topic anyway.

And to mend my dream a bit, just a bit, i want to see if there is this singing club or maybe dancing club ( wtf! I cant even dance and sing well... but i do dance and sing in shower.. that count right??? )
Yeah that might mend my broken heart a bit before society ends me 2 years later.

Just as you know, i am very extremely sensitive and emotional. I ain't being called girly and cry baby for no reason. And i wonder why people even bother to care and tease when others are in a miserable stat. That is just so immoral. Like u drop ur ice cream and i step on it and eat mine in front of your face. You like that huh? I just somehow cannot understand how these people think. Making fun of others is ther specialty??? Well.. maybe..

Everything's gonna be alright. I know I know. I experienced before. Remember i went for a 6 months internship in Sinagapore alone too? Yup. I can manage. But only this time it includes a big sacrifice. My dream job. Just so to satisfy my family. Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I feel so bad for myself as i cant even get myself what i want. Like fight for it. That is all bullshit. When your current condition don't allowed you to, no matter how hard you fought for it, you'llnever get what you want. Unless there is miracle.

And oh, someone told me "miracles do happen, jusy keep believing."
And then i was like "am i suppose to? I believe in them then and it breaks me."

Dream is always and forever beautiful. It forms and becomes whatever you want and how you want it. You are free. Free from restriction. Free from constriction. You don't need facade. You are just momentarily you. That is why it is beautiful.

Call me stupid for saying that means you are trap under the curse of the society, unable to dream happy dreams. It is partially true, hands up and agree with me. Society changes people.
Not to say everyone is evil and bad. But u get the hang of it. We watch out for every step we take. Never look back. They told me. Never.ever.look.back.

At first i never understand what does it really means. But as time goes by, i get a hang of it and i realise i should never have look back.
Depression and regrets is what attack you first. Even though u got succession in the past but those will get overshadowed by those mistakes and things you regret you have had done. It is a dark path behind you. That's why there is always this saying "there is no turning back" ....

Why am i even saying all these? Yeah yeah. I am not some counselor. Just i feel like sharing.since this is a blog and it was meant to share thoughts and feelings.

Got a surprise for ya!!!

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Yup. Ooops. Friendzone. Yup. No turning back. Imma gonna be the best friend and wish and walk with this friend till the days we are going to break apart. I will always be there to support... i just hope our blossoming friendship last long. :) i'm not sad. Just surprise that i actually manage to crush on this friend. Too sudden and the urge is still strong. Hahahaha.. pathetic.. lets just stay friends and since there is no forever, then let us stay friends as long as we can manage. :)

Worst feeling ever huh!? But i am getting use to it. I've crushed few times before it is nothing new. So don't worry.. maybe it'll go way after a few years.. let us all hug and make peace.

Wish me luck...

Love.,
rom
Xoxo

Breaaking news

2014-07-29T01:01:00.000+08:00

Hi readers.

Mr. crappy-paranoid-pants is back.

and I have just reformatted my precious computer. and i swear i almost cried during the backup process.
500GB hard-disk and what!? FULL in an instant. In.A.Instant.
and I found I have got a lot of files and trash and craps that I have no idea existed in my computer storage till this morning.
And then my mum beside me keep chanting on how much junk i have and how those are rubbish.
And i was like "hello!? excuse you! THOSE ARE GOLD!" (i'M NOT BEING RUDE, I'm being sarcastic and she knew)...

And oh if you find the adfly thingy annoying, I'm sorry? but I wanted to give it a try.
AFTER 5 SECOND, just click SKIP AD on the right hand side top corner.

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Okay enough of my crap. Now to the real topic of the day. TOTD
I'm finally going over to study.Over to where?
I'm going to Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia for my degree(postgraduate).
I'm excited yet I'm worried because I don't really like Kuala Lumpur. Heard that it was a place with chaos and yeah more to chaotic side though there's still a small good part about it and I can hardly tell you what is the good part. You tell me? Lol.

For those who have like no idea where Kuala Lumpur is, It is located at the west part of Malaysia. Though I'm a Malaysian, I never really travel within my own country and Kuala Lumpur being one of the country I never been to. Wait, not to say never been to. I've been to there once for our Student Government inter-school conference meeting. As a Vice President Admin(Typing this shamelessly) I have been given opportunity to lead my team there. Though not for travel purposes so I assumed I've never been there before.

I'm going to be studying in INTI University Subang. University under Laureatte. And from what I heard, if I can manage to study well and get good results, they'll send us off as exchange student to BLUE MOUNTAINS in Australia. And that catches my attention so much. Since I can't pursue my dream course(Linguistic) and being stuck at the same field, why not give it a try right? although it wasn't an exchange course I wanted but being able to be exchange is a prideful matter. I can be proud for it, for myself. Think of all the good and positive side and I decided to give it a try although I still have no good feeling about Kuala Lumpur.

To be frank about Kuala Lumpur and why I don't really like it is because I keep comparing it with Singapore, another home of mine. WHICH IS SO SAFE AND JUST SO DISCIPLINE. I don't know, call me bias or what, but the vibe that Kuala Lumpur gave me just sickened me and made me so ill about it. ~~AND IF YOU ARE OFFENDED BY HOW I THINK, YOU CAN STOP HERE NOW~~. don't want to offend you more.

I've never really been a loyal supporter for my own country. A good citizen who defend their country. Yeah I bet most people are like me so don't bash me. And to think that I am at a legal age to vote, It just scares me so much. It was like I'm still so young the day before and BAM reality hits you so hard that you feel like you just got run over by a truck. ~~Remember I said I'm not a loyal citizen right? And yeah you can mostly guess where my votes go to then~~. :D (Don't worry, I'm not into politic at all. So I don't give a fuck shit about that)
My political view be like ....

POLITIC = K-POP

cliche... very ciche... You know you love me anyway...

And oh. If any of you reader see me in Kuala Lumpur mall in the coming days, PLEASE DO NOT CALL ME. Just leave me alone. :D ~~I'm shy~~

I'll just write till here. YUP.. signing off.
Will update tomorrow on my shopping haul if i manage to get what I originally wanted on my shopping list.
Bye.

ROM
XOXO

Graduation

2014-07-22T22:13:00.001+08:00

I have officially graduated..

I wanted to thank my parent for bla bla bla bla..

*Acting much*

Okay so yes as said above, i have graduated 2 days ago. It was really grand.. because it was just a diploma graduation so i did nit invite any guest . Not even my parents. They agreed not to go so don't accuse me for not inviting them... does that sentence make sense?? Kkkkk

And so i will post the photos we took that day.. not the official one though. Its all selfie and shyts. Hahaha..

Signing off.
Better congrats me or else i will end you in your dream.. ok nope. Joke?. Kkk

Xoxo
Rom

Rom pov on :" dawn of the planet of ape"

2014-07-16T00:20:00.001+08:00

I'm back with another blabbering post.

I'm not gonna be sad this time so don't worty or cringe your face when you read. Haha.

I just came back from movie. Watched "Dawn Of The Planet Of Ape".

My POV:
The storyline is very very straight forward that I can know what will happen next. Its not a bad thing though.
The ape was very very surreal. The movement, the way they talk, the appearance when closeup... all was superb. Salute to the production crew.
The movie, for me, consisted of a lot of suspense. This moment they are talking then BAM! On the next second. Its not those scary type but still got me to sink lower into my seat. *yeah go ahead and laugh at me*
The only thing i don't like about the movie is that there's a tad bit too much of fight scene. But. That was the main selling point of the movie i guess. It was good but i dont really like it because blood blood blood. I hate blood.

I actually learnt a few marale from the story itself.

"Your closest teammate might be your worst enemy."
"Think before you act"
"Humanity and their fear"

Though some does not make sense but they made a hell lot of senses to me, at least.

So if i was to rate this movie, I'll rate this movie a 3.8/5 .... *dont hate me* that is just my personal point of view....

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See.. i am not sad today. Though i might get sad anytime. Lol. Thanks to my friend though. He keot me distracted enough most of the time and kept me thinking positive. Im not going into details cause i scared i might get sad.. lol.. i'll tell you all how he helped me when i write again. Okay? Kkkkk..

Signing off now... but first let mr. Paranoid take a selfie.

Rom
Xoxo

Blabbering nonsense

2014-07-12T19:16:00.001+08:00

Hi there to all silent reader,

I am becoming active on my blog once again. Yup cause i just installed blogger apps on my phone. And yes again i am updating from my phone. It is so easy and convenience.

As you all know, things had been tough on me lately and i have not much of a choice for my life. And well i don't really embrace it well. Reality hurts, and it hurts like a bitch on period.

*sigh*

I wanted to be someone successful
* who doesn't, unless you are weird*
Hereby, imma gonna reveal my dream i had mentioned previously.
It is either I wanted to be a writer or an artist.
I know it sounds downright rediculous.extremely stupid.
Firstly my english is weird and being artist is way more rediculous.
Well what can i do? I love to read and write.
I love to perform on stage. I really do.
But as i said. Reality hurt like bitch on period.
Yup and i am not the kind to embrace it with motherly hug or whatnot.
Im those kind who drill myself deeper down the hole of despair... make sense? Good.

I need a mentor and someone who will lead me. Thats all i ask for. I seriously need to move on from my broken dream. I feels so bad that my heart quench every time i wake up.
*i sound like someone who just got a heartbreak*
Which is partially true. Only that i lose something not someone.
Talking about someone, when will my soulmate appear. But i am scared like shyt because like i said i cant accept that person... urghhhh this is very confusing and cost me so much of self restraining and not giving into that temptation. I vow to not let it come true but i craved for it so damn badly. So bad that it is worst that Godzilla visiting the city.

*sigh sigh*

I just hope everything will be alright after i started my class this coming mid of august. Gonna be a freshman once again. But i am hoping that i will just go through life normally amd not falling head over heels over someone.

Yup. Wish me luck?

I'll write till here and off i go now.. tadada..

Buh bye. I might update again tonight if i feel like continuing my blabbering. :)

Rom
Xoxo

Thoughts vomit

2014-07-11T23:27:00.001+08:00

Hi there!! It's me again *yeah yeah since it's my blog of course it will be me*
Mr thoughtful decided to pay me a visit.
Amd
That
Makes
Me
Think
So
Much
Like
Right
Now.
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I still cannot decide what am i going to be in the near future which will be in 2 years time. Since that will be when my degree be finishing.
I don't want to regrety whole life knowing that i chose to gave up everything just to live a normal life. What i mean is that i do not want to regret in giving up my dream , my passion just to live a life that people wanted me to.
A part of me wanted to proof them wrong. But i am scared of wasting my time away and i am scared that even if i do, no one will even support me because they will think that it will be such a stupid decision to make. I dont want that..
I've always been special.
I think differently.
I act different.
I can read faces.
I'm full of secrets.
I am so different from my frirnds because they are going the right way in which im lacking off. They don't bend the way i do and i'm ashame of myself. I blamed and still blaming myself. I'm such a black sheep of the family. I can never say it out loud. I can never act what i want. I have to stay strong to keep my family name clean.

It is that serious. I guess you figured out mydarkest secret?

I don't want to be call names. I wont do it to others because i know how painful it can get deep inside and no one can help you because it is meant to be kept and suffer for ownself.
People like me deserve to suffer though because i am a walking sin. A mortal sin. I've admitted to myself not long ago and realised i have no turning back. So my friend. My dear friend. If you are reading this, please do me a favor. Keep it a secret and never let me know.
Even if i die, or disappear, promise me to forever keep it.

I feel like dying? Yes. When you figured out something and admit defeat to ownself, and that sonething is bad, you want to live but its hard because all you can think is death.

It's not i wanted to be like this. Act this way. I was born this way. I will always hate myself.

Thats why my friends ask me why am i helping others so much.

My answer : i know how painful it is deep inside when u need help and support. Even a silent support is desperately needed.

They gave me questioning look. I know i might not make sense. But i will never going to see the light after my death because i walk and sin mortally. Therefore i will help people to live a happier life and reduce pain. I help all i can. I pray for them. I'm not putting up a show now. I just really hope i can help.

People think im a freak and a loner and anti social.

I cant do what normal people do though. Im not telling why because the reason is obvious.

I am not ready to tell me best friend about myself though i suspected that they knew. I am just a coward who is afraid of losing and being abondened.

So please forgive me.

I think i had vomitted enough thoughts.

Till here then
Im signing off..

Rom
Xoxo

Photo retweeted from @relatablequote from twitter.

Inner me. Inner Rom.

2014-07-10T21:51:00.001+08:00

Hi silent readers.

As you all know my self declare crisis... its still ongoing only thing is its getting better.

I've been through a lot. Asking herr and there. What i got was, people who are not borned with silver spoon and silk cloth, have to postpose their dreams before they try to catch them again.

As for me. My dream only allowed me to grab them while i am still young. Age matters for my dream and i am very sad and hurt to say at least. I cant reach them. I watched them slipped away. I cried and i could not and cannot do anything.

I'm embracing the truth bits by bits. The reality. The pain. I know i am always those dramitic type. Making a big fuss over something. But that's me. That' s what the topic today is about.

There is thi voice inside of me telling me to try. Ty and catch my dream. But who am i kidding with. That dream is so far away and without any support i can't reach it.

It is getting farer now. I can barely see it now. Some people just do not understand the pain and they kept on saying things that hurt and pained you like bitch. Life is hard. But it is too hard for me. I can barely breathe. Kept stuck inside a room with four walls. Cant get out and fly. I wanted someone to tell me :-
"it is okay to try, come back home when you fall, i will help you stand again."
No one seems to really know me.
I'm scared of being forgotten and abondened.
I cannot be alone.

He is lack of love, they said.
He is stupid, they said.
He is so insecure, they said.

I am wondering about those too. What have i done to deserve such life with so many thoughts while my driends live and stay carefree, of course some trouble here and there but nothing like mine.

I am babbling again. Well that's why i'm here anyway. Friends and families read my blog. I know but they just kept as quiet as an empty room. Even empty room gives echo.

I'm really hoping someone would be there everytime i fall. Someone who could be there to support me. I told them this.
They told me i think too much. All you need is either a boyfriend or girlfriend.

But they dont do that. They might be there but they cant always stand you unles they really do care about you like they care for themselves.

I am not desperate. I vow to walk alone. I just need support. I believe in hope.
Though a sinner like me should never really hope much.
I tried hope and hope high and huge. I ended up falling so hard that i dont even dare to tell anyone. And here i am again hoping high and huge. Soaring through the sky with just one little dream. I can see myself falling though. I just hope i land safely.

Beautiful stranger.
Crossed my life mysteriously.
Beautiful stranger.

I just hope that everything will turn out fine.
I just hope that i get to find a job after this.
I just hope i get to be normal.
I just hope i can get a peaceful life.
I just hope that i will be fine soon.

Thabks for reading this. Its like reading this with me and being here for me spiritually.
Drop me some comment if u want too. A smiley will do. :)

I'm signing off. See you soon.

Isaacrom
Xoxo

Life and misery

2014-06-10T22:22:00.001+08:00

Hi readers..(not sure if anyone's reading this, maybe i am just talking to my blog itself)

I know im not a really loyal blogger. :) sorry for that. If you really finish reading my misery, i thank you with everything.

Its gonna be me rambling about my worries again. I'll get straight to ramble.

It is eating me inside out. Every moment every ticking second, i am having this internal self war. I have no clue and i am not sure what i want to do in my life. My future.

I am not talking about love. I have never love and probably never will love. Yeah yeah. I am a coward. Im just afraid of getting hurt. I never like getting hurt even physically. I know i should not be talking about love but i cant stop after getting in this stupid thing called love. Watching my crush stepping out without making a sound and still keeping my smile on. Yes. I have had several crush. Both genders included. I am not ashamed of saying this but i am afraid. Afraid of how people will see me. Afraid of how my friends will react. But i hope that to those who really trust me will not hurt me with words. Saying it here is better than the real confrontation. I never like confrontation because its either i get hurt or the other party get hurt.

Internal war of thoughts. Not thoughts of success. I am so scared of what is going to come into my life. What am i in the near future. Where will i be. Will it bey dream job or will i be what i think and dream of what i will be.? Everything is a mess. And by every passing second, the goal that i originally held on to starts to fade and diaappear. It is getting blurry. The road ahead used to shine so bright but now it is getting foggy. Seeing how my friends move on and walk down their path smoothly scares me. I thought giving up life once or twice. But the thoughts of disappointingmy parents and best friends halt my action. I am thankful for that. Maybe it was one part of the spiritual support they sent me unconsciously.

Have you ever thought of leaving this world so that you will have never to suffer from being a mess in life and being a mess in others people life where they have to watch out for youeven when they have their own partner and family to take care of? I did. And it is cutting me slowly and painfully. I do not want to be a load for my friend and family. I wanted to be independent. I wanted to be succesful. But i cant do it now. Maybe the me in the past few months can. But not now. I'm a weakling, a coward and someone who loses his goal slowly. You might think i wrote this and realiaze and gonna do changes to my own negative perspective. The answer is YES. I did and it was not working. All thoughts of strenghten up leads to one decision... death. I am scared. I wanted to live on. But something is holding me back. It's like i've been chained up and i don't like that. I wanted to spread my wings and fly. I wanted to be free. I wanted to give my dream a try. I wanted the people i love to support me. I wanted the people i love to tell me it's okay to fall. I wanted them to catch me. I wanted a shoulder to cry on. It scares me when i think there will be no one at the bottom of the cliff when i try to fly and i drop.

Dear people i love so much. Can you see me through the shining journey of yours.?Can you see me who is now surrounded by fog of despair.?
I won't expect too much. But i really hope you'll be there when i need you most. Any of you who really do care. I know i am pathetic and silly for even questioning the bonds and tie between us. But i just want assurance.

I love you all. And i will try to think straight. I need time. But time dont need me. They fly so fast so smooth that i cant catch up.
I am always the one that left behind.
Hahaha
Pathetic i know.

You never probably will know how it feels like to smile when your heart hurt so much from the wounds that you yourself just stiched up. It still bleed but not much. It hurts to smile. I am not as strong as you think i am. My facade will not break in front of anyone. Maybe a little but it wont get off completely. I am sure there is really no one who knows anyone deep to the core of their heart.

If i ever look through this post again in my near future, i will comment here and tell you all how succesful i am.

Smile. They said. I smile. Live your dreams. They said.... but its not true. I'm living now to catch my dream but people keep pushing me down and let my dreams flutter away.
I am really sad....

So if anyone of you is now reading this line and you are not thinking of how stupid i am, i love you. If you are thinking of how stupid i am for posting this and all those thoughts, i love you too for giving your attention to me.

I love you all.. thank you for listening. I really do.

Xoxo

thoughts on the go

2014-04-27T13:12:00.000+08:00

Hello peeps! It had been awhile since i really did any updates. I'm just forgetful like that.

I'm back from my internship training for almost two months and wheres the update? Well, im slacking on my bed most of the time in my dreamland.. yeah eu get what i mean.

Last night(26th april) was a great night. I attended a grand wedding dinner... i can feel the happiness. And then that feeling got me thinking. I tell you, that is a seriously pathetic thinking.

I was like i would love to have someone standing side by side, supporting me, love me, ..... etc too. And then another side of me was like stronger saying i can stand alone. Ibhave been all these while. What's the purpose of that wall you built around you.? You saw and read lots. You wouldnt want to get hurt.

But i've never gotten hurt! That was what i replied to.

Inner self battle is what some sad person will do. I don't know now.

I mean i am strong enough to stand and battle alone till my death. Aquantice not, i am okay. As long im not hurt. It is selfish but what can i do. Seriously even sucker or moron gets to love and two became one.

I vow to not love and then when i got crushes over crushes last time, i feel like dying. Breaking my vow. But then i still stood strong.. rediculous thoughts took control. I can die. These things are eating me alive.

Well the small light telling me that maybe that person have yet to arrive.. yet. Haha.

Confuse confusion. But i never want him or her to appear.. cause im a scared. Hahaha.. excuses but true. I DONT WANT TO.

I read too much. I've seen too much. And i dont want to be the next victim of cupid.

Yeah i've rejected few people secretly too. And now that i've said it out i'm sure some who read this is going to ask me question especially my fwen. Hmmmm..

So yeah so much for my babbling. Here i end it with a selfie..

Much love from me.

(I wish everyone all the best)

이카이

xoxo

PROMISED WHAT!?

2013-08-18T19:12:00.000+08:00

HI READERS!

LIKE I PROMISED!

So here are some of the photos that I collage ...

A/N : We had 3 shoots at the same location so that's why 3 different sets of outfits.

I am the one in
- denim top
- orange color (CHOSE RAINBOW BECAUSE EVEN though 7 different colors but still they are together as one)
- white color top with scarf on my hand

NG NG BTS~ LOLOLOL

this is more like BTS shot~ LOL

CANDID...

another BTS SELF SHOT! I AM VAIN!

yet another~ as you can see others are a mess behind me. -_-

And yeah , I will try collage more and post it up here in the future~ -_-

and read my previous post! THANK YOU!

REGARDS,
ROM

XOXO

Current fears, worries, & issues

2013-08-18T18:50:00.001+08:00

HI dear readers.

I'm here to let my heart out.

I have been paranoid and worrying over some issues since last week and I am currently in a some what bad condition.

I am going to have my internship in Singapore this coming Tuesday(20/08/13) for 6 months long.

I am scared and literally scared. I am paranoid and I have not been eating properly. I am so down that I don't even really smile when I am at home, unless you take me out cause I really needed fresh air.

When I am out from home, I feel more relieved and I don't think so much. All those thoughts of things that are possible to happen kept flashing through my mind. I just can't stop it. I am frustrated too.

6 months seems long, 25 weeks seems fast. but they are the same thing. I just hope that everything goes smoothly and time pass by fast. like super fast. After that, then I will be back here.

I really do hope that everything will like pass by without me knowing much. And as mush as I work, I hope I have time to actually go online and not be like someone who get off work late and back home and sleep. I don't want that.

I know it is gonna be tough for people are employing us. 6 months. Please pray for me and my friends. I don't ask for much. I just want everything to be okay and smooth, safe and time flies.

What is on my mind right now??

INTERNSHIP!

The worst thing that I fear most is something I have no idea what am I worrying about. It's just there that makes me hard to breath, I can cry anytime,and I have no mood.

Like every time when I am down, I used to listen to music. But now, I can't even play those musics that i like so much, because they remind me of those times I am at home. carefree.

Yes! main problem is that I am gonna be so HOMESICK. I will definitely miss my mum.

Another thing, it would be the colleagues and Housemate. yes, we are sharing apartment with others. I really do hope that my colleagues and housemates are friendly and nice people. People who are willing to teach and accept us. (LORD GOD, PLEASE HELP ME)

I know time flies, but it was before, I have no idea if I will have that feeling of time flying so fast when I am there in Singapore. Singapore is a safe country, I know that, but it is still a foreign country for me. I mean I have been there a lot a lot of times but This will ever be my first time going there ALOE for 6 MONTHS for WORK.

I know some of you might laugh at me even before you read till here, but I am just scared.

I have safe issues. I am insecure.

But think about my 3 months in Selangor alone. I managed to overcome too.

*FLASHBACK*

I was being assigned to the army camp in SELANGOR for 3 months and I went alone. NO friends nothing.

I managed to survived 3 months without internet in the jungle. Waking up at 5.30A.M to freshen up before fall in for morning exercise. (I overcome lack of sleep)

I managed to stay in a dorm of 30 people in a room(cause it was an army camp) which I do not and didn't have any idea who are they for 3 months and I managed to survived either. (I overcome the fear of trust)

I've never been in to Selangor before. That was my first time there and 3 months for a first timer was longer than expected. Time in there passed by so much slower. What I did there was pray and wrote diary.

The day never ended fast and it was mostly filled with drama. DRAMA as in things happening. mostly bad things because some teammates just can't think.

I still remember the moment I was at the airport, I bid my parents goodbye and to board the plane, I never once turned back and bid them good bye for the second time, and they understood why. WHY!? I might cry even harder. I am a homely guy. Well mostly because I have safety issues like I said before, insecure.

EVERYTHING THAT HAS PASSED! I OVERCOME!! i am sure I can make it this time but a small part of me is still scared. that's why this post was created. I felt so much better after writing the flashback part.

- "My friend told me that I was never weak, from the time he knew me till now. He said I am a fighter, I am myself, I am someone who knows how to fight on my own way. I might not look strong on the outside, but I have my way to achieve things. "

Know what? I cried even harder after hearing that fro my friend. But in a good way. Those words really soothed me. It feels like someone is finally here lending you his shoulder. I am glad that there was people who actually cared about my pathetic excuses of life.

*FLASHBACK ENDS*

SO yeah, it will be nice if you pray for e and my friend who are having internships too. Pray that everything goes smoothly, everything is fine, everyone is safe and sound, and the day we reunite it will gonna be he best day of my life.

The truth is that, I am gonna miss my parents so much, miss home, miss my friend...

NEW ADVENTURE ahead of me, I know it must be the obstacles of life that people said. It must be something that I must overcome. I KNOW I CAN DO IT! i really want full faith in myself but I will try to build up the other half of it.

****Lord god, Please hear me, I hope that my employer will be someone nice and understanding and colleagues are nice and understanding as well. Send your Guardian Angel guide me and my friends who are in other countries having internships as well.May all of us be safe and good condition. The moments there will be something that we should remember and take it as example for our life as it will be our first step. Let us have enough rest each day. I know that enough rest are not really possible sometimes. Amen.****

May my journey begins~~

regards,
ROM

XOXO.

(I will try to update when i have time, I can make use of my blog as a diary too)...

I lied

2013-08-11T11:15:00.001+08:00

Ooooh ma gawd.. so i lied about updating those photo shoot albums...

Nope actually i am not lying... it was like i cant post it because they dnt allowed.. -_-
But i am posting those i make collage.. it is basically the same only a tad bit smaller... hahah...

Tbc_xoxo

ATTENTION!

2013-07-23T21:12:00.000+08:00

HI READERS!!!

HERE COMES TROUBLE!!
EXPECT a major updates of me and my teammates normal album shoot soon~

we are crazy. we know. but it was all for remembrance. Since we are leaving college soon~ so yeah major updates tomorrow~ :3

XOXO

Born this way

2013-07-23T00:45:00.001+08:00

Hi readers!!

Recently i have been a bit unstable. I got moodswings a lot and i am not even a girl with pms *no pun intended*

I just feel so down whenever some song started playing...
Or some scene on tv or stories i read...
This little things can get me to be so down the whole day... sometimes even when waking up the next day it still somehow remains.

I know one of the reasons why am i being like this.
But that reason is just so private till i myself do not have the courage to open up.

In this world and era, those kind of thoughts are acceptable based on races and thoughts. It isnt safe to just expose nakedly to the world.. you have to be well prepared when trying to let the world know.. so it is that big matter.. i am worried sick...

I know this post seems random and very unorganized because one moment i am talking bout this and the next moment about that....

But you are still reading though.. thank you.

I might post up the reason one day though.. i will let everyone know. I have to sure that i am ready... hmmmm...

I sometimes wonder if i am born to be this way becaus ei have had realised this when i am in grade 4 in secondary school... i think this is kind of obvious to what i am refering already... but please do not point out for me.... thanks ...

I will write more these coming days.
Miss me not!
Xoxo

Explaination bla bla bla

2013-07-21T11:43:00.001+08:00

Aloha... dear readers....

So i am here to do some freaking explaination about my post yesterday.
It seems that there is someone who misunderstood about it.
Sigh...... i was just letting out my frustration okay!?
For your information i am not going to remove the post.

Do you even know how hard is it to keep all those emotions from being frustrated to being happy so long inside you and no one to talk to!?
I bet you don't ...
I am not saying that you are too good for whatever it is, but i kind of envy you for being able to talk to someone so easily about your inner thoughts.

Please do not misunderstand me. I mean no harm, no means of causing any trouble.
The feeling of trying to be strong in front of people and the truth is that i am really scared. I trembled sometimes. Sure i would not want others to see that side of me but surely there are people who knew. And i am thankful that they dont make fun of me. Phewww~~

I know there are a lot of silent readers here. And hey! I am thankful for that. And i know some even followed me on twitter and instagram. Kekekeke....

Owh okay back to the topic..

Its not like i have no one to talk to. It is just that i am scared they cant accept for who i really am.. they are just that kind and type from what i observed...
Telling them will only be a dare in life.. its like a 50/50 situation. Its either they accept or reject you.
Of course everyone hope for acceptance. Me too. But but but..... there is always this hint of rejection that causes you to believe that they will reject for who you are.

What can i do?let the time decide when it is the right time to tell?
HMMMMMMMMMM..... :(

I have no idea...

Till here i write..

Thanks for reading.
Xoxo

My trust

2013-07-20T18:01:00.001+08:00

Hi everyone...
It had been a while since i updated.
Today topic, we will talk about my trust to my friends.

This is gomna be a touchy topic. I am sure that few of them will be reading this. And i am aware that i am putting myself in what kind of situation. But i cannot care much anymore. I cannot bottled up more of these emotions anymore. It hurts facing reality.

I realised that although i knew alot of people, but i am only sticking out with just a few of them.
2 totally different gangs actually.
One gang where i have to be a calm person, and the other gang where i can show my colors.

Being with the group where i have to be calm is sometimes tiring. Chat topics are so limited. In the group, i feel so leftout sometimes because they do things i think it is not rational and some are just plain stupid. I have no power to voice out because i am the only one that opposed. I dont dislike them. I just cannot really cope with their footsteps. It seems like that they are on a boat and i am on the other trying to tie two boats together on a stormy rain out in the sea. Everything is not stable. We can be full of topics and suddenly we would even split into sub groups. I just dont know if it is alright to just start distaning myself.
But there is this one person which i consider and make as my most important person. I care about that person alot. And i am just worried about that person every single time.

~~sigh ~~

The second group will be where i can really shine as me, myself. Its like i dont have to be tense being with them. They dont judge me for who i am. They talk about things i can mix myself in. They do things that i can participate. Its just all good things happened here. Most. There will be times where they do things that i cant take part but they will really tell me in advance or warn me first.

.....

I am tired of all this. Being so dramatic. I am sensitive. Some wouldnt know and never will know. Seeming that distaning myself will be the best solution out there, for me, for everyone.

I have been observing everyone of them very closely without beeing noticed. And hell i even jotted down sometimes. Its just kind of upsetting seeing the results. So far only 3 are able to reach certain higher levels and gain more trust from me. And i wanted them to reach the highest level as soon as possible. I have a lot to tell. So please. I am pathetic i know. I really know.

Besides that, when we are growing up, our bonds tends to tighten. That is only if we grew up together. But why!? Why is that we are breaking and now hanging loosely?
Or am i being delusional? Can i cry? Or should i laugh about it?
I know what you think about me. No, more like i understand how you all think.
Sometimes i even wonder that why am i even bornmand why am i living this shitty life where all i wanted was like the opposites. It is not about what i need and wants. It is about the upside down of my life. It was not supposed to be this way. I just dont understand.

Can you feel my frustration? Can you?

I am a loner in real life. I tends to hide myself. I am not confident enough. I am not manly build enough. I tends to get laugh a lot. And yeah like i said i am very very sensitive.

I dont know if there will even be people who would really give a shit to really know me.
And that is when i hope that one day i will be able to tell you all of my bottled up files of secrets. From darkest and to the core of me. Bringing you to the island of secrets within me.

I am sorry for babbling so much and if this post hurt you, please forgive me.

Thank you for reading......
Xoxo.

EXO official event

2013-06-02T13:31:00.001+08:00

Hello there!!!

There is this official event from SM ENTERTAIMENT STAFF & EXO THEMSELVES...

HELP BY WATCHING THEIR MV(WOLF) TILL 2.5M VIEWS... korean version

THEN BY THEN FANS WILL GET A SUPRISE..
*MIGHT BE THE DRAMA VERSION OF THE MV OF WOLF*

WHAT TO DO.
1. DO NOT PLAY THE VIDEO USING REPLAY BUTTON, REFRESH THE PAGE AFTER FINISH
2. USE HEADSET IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO LISTEN(LOL)

I JUST HOPE WE GOT TO SEE THEIR MV ALTHOUGH I AM GONNA SKIP THE KISS PART... LOLOLOLOL

XOXO
MISS ME NOT

EXO Comeback

2013-05-29T19:41:00.000+08:00

HI readers! I know I have not been update for a long time.

and here I am. UPDATES!

The King of Rookie K-pop(Korean pop) group is going to have a comeback on the 30th May 2013.

That will be their comeback stage, and their full music video will also be release on that day(30th MAY)

at 5 ~ 6 pm (KST).

Physical album will release on 3rd JUNE 2013.

This will be thei first album with 10 songs, 4 songs from their debut teasers (baby don't cry, black pear, let out the beast, my lady)

Their title track "WOLF" (늑대와 미녀) will be an upbeat hip hop and some dub step element in it, its quite wild and heaty. so do anticipate a lot from them.

DO vote for them at MNET

http://mwave.interest.me/poll/video/vote.m?poll_seq=29

*create an account and vote for them during their performances and also vote for them every 24hrs*

And also preordered for their album are now available.

get them on Yesasia.com or other online music shops.

I-tunes, Genie, Soribada, .....etc will be available after album release.

The album was name "XOXO - Kiss & Hug"

Kiss for Korean version

Hug for Chinese version

tracklist as below.

Track List:

CD (Kiss Ver.) Korean

01. 늑대와 미녀 (Wolf)

02. Baby, Don't Cry (인어의 눈물)

03. Black Pearl

04. 나비소녀 (Don't Go)

05. Let Out The Beast

06. 3.6.5

07. Heart Attack

08. 피터팬 (Peter Pan)

09. Baby

10. My Lady

11. 늑대와 미녀 (Wolf) (EXO-K Ver.)

12. 늑대와 미녀 (Wolf) (Chinese Ver.)

CD (Hug Ver.) Mandarin

01. 狼与美女 (Wolf)

02. Baby, Don't Cry (人鱼的眼泪)

03. Black Pearl

04. 蝴蝶少女 (Don't Go)

05. Let Out The Beast

06. 3.6.5

07. Heart Attack

08. 彼得潘 (Peter Pan)

09. Baby (第一步)

10. My Lady

11. 狼与美女 (Wolf) (EXO-M Ver.)

12. 狼与美女 (Wolf) (Korean Ver.)

_________________________________________________________________________

EXO official SMTOWN website:

EXO-M: http://exo-m.smtown.com/Intro

EXO-K: http://exo-k.smtown.com/Intro

All the photos and images below are from the official websites. Members HQ photos can be download from there as SME prepared a rar. file for fans to Download.

*DO note that photos below are arranged according to time released*

*photos of members are labelled as : group name_birth name_aka_stage name*

EXO

EXO-K

EXO-M

EXO

EXO-K_Kim Jongin_aka_KAI

EXO-K_Kim JoonMyun_aka_Suho (Leader)

EXO-K_Do KyungSoo_aka_D.O

EXO-M_Zhang Yixing_aka_Lay

EXO-K_Oh Sehun (Maknae)

*stage name same as birth name*

EXO-K_Byun Baekhyun

*stage name same as birth name*

EXO-M_Wu Yi Fan_aka_Kris(Leader)

EXO-K_Park ChanYeol

*stage name same as birth name*

EXO-M_Luhan

*stage name same as birth name*

EXO-M_Kim Minseok_aka_Xiu Min

EXO-M_Huang Zi Tao_aka_Tao (Maknae)

EXO-M_Kim Jong Dae_aka_Chen

EXO

________________________________________________________________________

Below are the teasers .

*Do note that teasers are arranged according to date released*

Teaser video from SMTOWN youtube webpage:

EXO_늑대와 미녀 (Wolf)_Music Video Teaser

EXO_The 1st Album 'XOXO (Kiss&Hug)'_Highlight Medley (Korean ver.)

EXO_The 1st Album 'XOXO (Kiss&Hug)'_Highlight Medley (Chinese ver.)

EXO_늑대와 미녀 (Wolf)_Music Video Teaser 2 (Korean ver.)

EXO_늑대와 미녀 (Wolf)_Music Video Teaser 2 (Chinese ver.)

Stay tune for more updates regarding EXO.

Thanks for reading.

XOXO.

promoting

2013-04-23T18:03:00.000+08:00

A Boy's Life is a fanfic surrounding Luhan and Sehun from EXO.

Please do give it some support~~

It's is the author first try and i am helping to promote~

Thank yo~

all you need to do is
-signup for a AFF account and subscribe and comment on the story~

it is now in chapter one and the author will update chapter 2 soon~

THank you once again~

Crush no more.

2013-04-21T23:40:00.001+08:00

You are never mine to start with.
I envy you, i admire you, but,
We are not fated to be.

We were strangers to begin with.
One who would never care.

Someday we became friends.
Not more, never less, just friends.
We are just not meant to be more than friend.

Attracted to how you observe the world,
The way you would speak,
Your figure would always shadow me,
Your footsteps printed on my heart.
You never know..

Maybe you never know how i feel,
Maybe you never considered me before,
Maybe i am really just a friend.
To start with maybe, my heart long for hopes.

Silent night, lonely night,
When came rain, i solemn.
Midnight came, i'm wide awake,
When i close my eyes, i see your face.

You my angel have yet seen me,
For i hope i'll be your side one day,
As day passed and i've realized,
That we were never meant to be.
Never meant to be....

Blog Post Comeback

2012-12-18T12:39:00.001+08:00

SO yeah HI!! I'm back!!
OWH YEAH! I KEPT MY PROMISES~~ *time to celebrate* WOW!

I'm in my semester break nao. :3 I hate to admit this but it is some kind of "boring"??
Except the part that you can wake up naturally and spend shyt lots of time in front of the computer doing basically nothing...

So I stepped out of my house 2 days ago for my 1st shopping after finals...

(OOTD that day)

(I blurred out the background BECAUSE it was messy, yes it was... now it is CLEAN AND TIDY)

And for your information, I have list down what to buy for my NEW YEAR collection series..

<.< seems like a big project.. duhhhhh

BTW, yeah as i said I list down the concepts for my outfits..

Then I was like I CANT WAIT TO GET THEM!!! o_o

So basically this time I go for more colors~ yeah basically colors colors everywhere!! <3 p="p">

owh wait Christmas haven't over yet.. WTeffffffffffff....

*just stay tune*

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Did Someone ever told you that someone looks like an artist you LOVE?? YES LOVE NOT ADMIRE OR LIKE....
Well yeah, recently This person, which is FLOR!! My fwen... told me that someone looks like LUHAN! At first I was like How can it be.. mehhh.. then When I first met HIM, I was like awestruck~ WTF!! so alike.. of course from some angle and parts of face... 75% alike.. I won't rate too high if not later if someone found out who he is then I'm deadmeat... GONNA GET KILL BY FANS!

so I'm going to upload some picture of LUHAN and not that person.. for the sake of privacy and it's against the law if I post it without the intention from the parties. An agreement made without the intention from the contractory parties are void.

(This is EXO-M Luhan)

(aww!! look how cute he is)

I can't find all of the and upload here because the album for EXO is like freaking large and contains a lot of pictures.... I'll take some time to sort it out and post it in the next updates

BUT then my hand very itchy, feel like hyperlink his profile here... =.=

NONONO~~ i won't hahaha.. yeah.. I won't???

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So because EXO s coming back, I might as well repost this from my weibo and facebook album.

EXO MAMA album for EXO-K and EXO-M.

White = EXO-K

Black = EXO-M

Here's the link to My unboxing album in Facebook.

CLICK HERE

I have no idea what happens to blogger but when i upoad my pics, it became retarded... ==

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So yeah, I'll just end my post here!

See you guys few days later or maybe sooooooon!!

XOXO
KAYBAIENJOY!

Blank Promises or White promises or WHATEVER

2012-12-12T11:33:00.002+08:00

So yeah hi!
I made a blank promises ages ago. like uploading prom pictures... = .=

yeah i know i sucks.. But hey I just forget to update my blog. No, I just remembered I have a blog.

Yeah. I did upload it in Facebook. Not much of my personal shots. but yeah I'm putting the link below.

PROM NIGHT 2012 PHOTOS LINK

(click on the wording above)

Yup, that link link straight to my Facebook album.

I'm sorry for neglecting this blog as i can say i was busy?? hehe

btw. I just wanted to tell you guys that FANFICTION IS SUPER AWESOME~!!

(okay..>.> that was random)

But hey i actually improved a lot in writing by reading that.
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Christmas is coming soon.

AND ONE GOOD THING BOUT IT IS RECEIVING PRESENTS!!!

and i overheard my aunt last night.

She told my mum that she didn't know what to get so she decided to give ang pau(red packets) instead.

then i was like "OWH YES" HAHAHAHA~~

okay anyway I'll update soon.. as soon as POSSIBLE! since i am having my college finals now.

AND I REMEMBEREED my blog halfway studying.

So yeah, will be back soon with photos. I WILL REMEMBER THIS TIME!! for sure...

till next time.. tadaa~~

XOXO..

PROM NIGHT!!

2012-11-05T01:20:00.000+08:00

HI TO YOU ALL!!

I know I've broken my promised. I'm sorry kay? Forgive me?

AWWWW~ don't be mad! :3

Kay so I just attended PROM NIGHT on the 3rd of November 2012.

And guess what, I"m the OC (organising Chairperson)

It was not an easy job!! ya know?

NEGATIVE feedback and positive feedback can fill up my bank...

ya that's what happened the next day after PROM...

complaints complaints complaint~~

I've tried my very best to make this happened but ya.. everything just went wrong and out of people expectation.

Students expectation are differ from each other....

I'm sad, and to be blame....

But i have my teammates which are GREAT~!!

Since I'm in charge, Ill just carry everything rather than letting them to get shoot~ :X

Not trying to be hero here... lol

okay, so here's me in tux last night.
*p/s : i drew eyelinerLOLOLOLOL*

Prom night will be our last event for my batch serving as the Student Council member of my college.

I'm happy cause I need not to do anymore event, sad cause I've no idea what am i gonna be and do when i'm in college.... zzzzz

so let us proceed to the photos~ i just upload a few here... all official photos will only be released next sunday~ so i'll have to wait for the photographer to pass me then i'll upload here(my blog), weibo, facebook ...

me and IRENE

me and JANET

me and KARLO

Janet again~

lol.. janet again~~

ME giving speech with my VOC(vice organising chairperson), JIN KAI

so yeah~ basically this post ends here~~

stay tune for next week photo album~~

follow me on twitter and weibo! :3

see you guys soon!!!

miss me not!!

XOXO