Steps I take in my Life...

Happy Chinese New year 2012

2012-01-23T00:04:00.000+08:00

A time that full with happiness, firecrackers, foods, cny cookies, cny cakes! snacks, angpao, drinks, wine and many others! * saliva drop* =D Everyone will wear new clothes, shoes, dress, blouses, and get ready to visit many relatives especially the eldest family members!! Most important is the reunion dinner when all the members can sit together and enjoy the foods which is full with laughter and joy!!

Sibu !

Friends! Happy Chinese New year 2012!! =)

* Wish your each day is full with happiness and joy! *

CNY preparation!

2012-01-22T00:02:00.000+08:00

Wow... I had such a fruitful day with family especially full with laughter and I managed to smile more!! hehe even though , few days ago having sleepless night but enjoy! ^^
Early in the morning went to wet market with parents and sisters to buy cooking material! * foods* chicken, pork, duck, fish, vege... impossible can't make me become fatter =p
I so enjoy the time spending time with parents and sister for doing some cleaning and packing the stuffs that we bought! Yes we got homecook 'siao bi' haha

I Just want to thanks God for this lovely and caring family that I have. I just hope they will always be happy and have healthy body!! love you all =)

Will keep my family and all of the reader's family in prayer too!!

* The love of a family is life's greatest blessing! *

Life

2012-01-18T22:45:00.000+08:00

Life is short, time is limited. Treasure everyone around you.

Yesterday just heard mum's friend passed away because of lung cancer. She just so young and still got small kids in family. It lets me reflect back my life once again and thanks God for His Grace and mercy in my life.

In life, we like to use the word 'WAIT' but do you know how long you still can go in your life? May be only left few more days or months or years? I don't want any regret anymore. Don't everything wait! I want enjoy every moments in my life.

Life just like a roller coster, there is always up and down. There is time for happy, discourage, and disappointment and valley. But God's words always remind us, we must be joyful always and give thanks in all circumstances. In the time of happy, Don't forget to give thanks! Even in the time of valley, Don't forget to give thansk as well. God always has His plan and purpose for everything! Sometime we might denied and blame God why bringing us through all those hard time. You may be fall or get tired when in trouble but take a rest and do come back to Him because God is there waiting for you and He will give you strength. You will never know that you become stronger than before.

'Why do you complain, Jacob? Why do you say, Israel, “My way is hidden from the LORD; my cause is disregarded by my God”? Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.' Isaiah 40:27-31

Everyone face trouble in life. We also may face different kinds of gossip or discouragement from the people around us. It just like a devil that using them to pull down us. Why we must let the devil steal the things in our life that God has given to us?? Be strong!!! people may not know what we are going through and the reason behind. They might say how bad and terrible is you. May be you feel that no one understand one and know what you are thinking in the time of need. Friends, Don't forget we still have a BEST friend who is our God that know everything in our life. He knows the real person of you. He is our peacemarker and shelter like no other can provide.

Personally, happiness is so important in my life! When young, I don't like to smile because I have rabbit teeth hahaha This few years, I found out that a simple smile and laughter that is priceless can just brighten up people day. A smile can't bring any pain and no need any skill I quite regret this 2 months i don't really smile and bring happiness to the people around me. Time can't go back again. So from today, I must continue to smile and bring laughter bacause I have God in my heart =) In this world , there is too many things for me to be sad or worry but I choose to be joyful. It just so waste my life if pull down by devil ^^ I just want to be myself, the real me!! hehe

"Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength." Nehemiah 8:10

"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!" Philippians 4:4 -God says ALWAYS!! =)

* A day without smile is wasted *

Straining Toward

2012-01-17T15:41:00.000+08:00

Thanks God for His words =)

'Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead.' Philippians 3:13

* When one door close, there's always another door opens *

'Doctor's Note'

2012-01-15T14:51:00.000+08:00

Found this 'Doctor's note' in the Facebook.

It was approximately 8.30 a.m. on a busy morning when an elderly gentleman in his eighties arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9.00 a.m.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat. I knew it would take more than an hour before someone would to able to attend to him. I saw him check his watch anxi...ously for the time and decided to evaluate his wound since I was not busy with another patient.
On examination, the wound was well healed. Hence, I talked to one of the doctors to get the supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

We began to engage in a conversation while I was taking care of his wound. I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment later as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no and said that he needed to go to the nursing home to have breakfast with his wife.

I inquired about her health. He told me that she had been in the nursing home for a while as she was a victim of Alzheimer's disease. I probed further and asked if she would be upset if he was slightly late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was and she had not been able to recognize him since five years ago.

I asked him in surprise, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?"
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is."
I had to hold back my tears as he left.

I had goose bumps on my arm, and I thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life."

True love is neither physical nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be...

Friends, Don't rush to get into relationshp just because you feel lonely or desprate. Love is such a wonderful gift from God. Don't miuse it! You will always found out there is always better one outside the world. True love is not about appearance, but is kind of commitment! Love yourself, people around you and God , then you will know how to love the one loved =) Sometime i think is better for us deeply get hurt in relationship because it able to make us see clearly bigger picture in life and moving forward for the special one in the future. ^^ If only you willing to LET GO your past and LET GOD in charge your future! God will not let you wait for too long, He is the provider. When it is right time, everything will be perfect.

* Being hurt in love doesn't mean stop loving, but learn from the experience. Let you know what love really is! *

有一天

2012-01-13T18:01:00.000+08:00

有一天，你若覺得失去勇氣，有一天，你若真的想放棄，
有一天，你若感覺沒人愛你，有一天，好像走到谷底。
那一天，你要振作你的心情，那一天，你要珍惜你自己，
那一天，不要忘記有人愛你，那一天，不要輕易說放棄。

這個世界真有一位上帝，祂愛你，祂願意幫助你，
茫茫人海雖然寂寞，祂愛能溫暖一切冷漠。
這個世界真有一位上帝，祂的雙手渴望緊緊擁抱你，
漫漫長夜陪你走過，祂愛你，伴你一生之久。

I love Spending time with God everyday. It just so great! Fall in love to His words =)

* 'Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong. Do everything in love ' 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 *

Stick to your words...

2012-01-12T17:23:00.000+08:00

Unless you are ready to prove it. If not don't simply say it !

*A true man does what come out from his mouth*

Our God never fail

2012-01-11T16:02:00.000+08:00

A girl named Delia Tan just make my day today! =D

" Hi Hi, Tiong Yieng!^-^/ Hehheh. nt sure if u knw me, bt i ever saw u in swinburne:) nothing much actually, juz wana say a simple 'thank you'~ \^0^/ thr's been something in my heart 4quite some time, n wud like 2juz say dem to u xD Haha. i rmb d 1st time i saw u was during a drama club performance. well, i was in d choir performance den:) haha

Well, many ppl may not knw. bt im d kind of person who arent confident enuf and smtms behaving weirdly or becum uneasy, especially in events with lotsa ppl. oops. haha XD

Tat time i was suuper uneasy xD u din knw me though, bt u came and talk 2me anyway:D Thanks so much yea. I appreciate it a lot^^ it did make me feel more relaxed & less weird anymore. XD not sure whether it's ur smile? or ur friendliness?.. haha. cant explain. u jz hav d attractions laah. juz different frm anybody else, reli xD

Only after adding u in fb, i get 2knw that u're a Christian too~ xD no wonder u're different. Haha. im sure ppl will also b hapi & joyful whn they c u. :D u've made me understand something too... rmb in the Bible, God says we are the salt n light of the world?:D yep, i think Jesus' light reli shines in u, my fren~♥^^

hehe also thanks 4being such a gud example in my life. I shud learn more frm u^-^ May u attract more n more souls to Jesus, Tiong Yieng~! \(^0^)/ All d glory back to Jesus! Hoooray~ n Hallelujah~~!♥ \\\^-^/// "

Such a sweet and lovely message =) I was so encouraged by you, Delia Tan! You set a very example for me as well. Thank you for another girl, Jayne for sending me lovely message too! ^^

Just want to give thanks to God that sending someone to encourage me. Our God never fail! Let us continue be the salt and Light and shine upon Him! Don't let anyone look down on you =) Don't let any discouragement or trouble pull u down.. be strong and courage because You have God with you and you will never know how many people care about you!

* Always remember to be happy because you never know who's falling in love with your smile *

Silence

2012-01-10T15:44:00.001+08:00

* 哭的时候没人哄，我学会了坚强；
怕的时候没人陪，我学会了勇敢；
烦的时候没人问，我学会了承受；
累的时候没人可以依靠，我学会了自立...... *

外表开心的人...

2012-01-09T17:04:00.000+08:00

总有一些人，他们看上去整天都很开心，嘻嘻哈哈的，没有烦恼，像个小孩，他们会说玩是我最大的乐趣，我很喜欢玩，我什么都会玩人多的时候他们脸上总挂着笑容，好多人都会羡慕他们，然而这其实是他们最悲哀的地方，他们不想让别人看到自己难过的一面，更没有能力一个人独处，因为当夜深人静的时候，他不知道一个人会发生什么事，坐在窗前冥想走过的点滴。

没有人读的懂他们，想着想着貌似快乐的他们就会黯然流下一脸的悲伤，然后自己对自己说：其实也没什么，命运吧！所以他们就整天逼自己笑，以此来逃避那些常人所不能不承受的痛苦！

他们貌似很坚强，因为在别人看来，他们什么事都能微笑着去面对，但事实上他们长着世界上最脆弱的心灵，只是长期的伪装使得别人很难发现他们内心深处的创伤。他们其实非常孤独，虽然看到他们时都是在跟一群人谈天说地，那是因为他们实在不能承受一个人时的折磨！

他们只想简简单单、快快乐乐的活着，期待并且相信每个人给的笑容都是真心的，希望身边的人都是真正的喜欢自己。即使别人小小的意见，也会另他们难过好久，他们真的真的很介意，介意自己不被人喜欢。因为，他们总是为别人想的很多，对别人总是比对自己好；把能对喜欢的人好当做幸福，喜欢别人比喜欢自己多。

他们总是那样，前一秒还伤心的流着泪，后一秒出现在朋友面前的时候，已经满脸溢着灿烂的笑容。有人说他们是向日葵，是的，他们在意的人就像是太阳，在面对太阳的时候永远是明艳的花瓣，而太阳照不到的背面，那悲伤藏得那么好，不愿被看见。

他们向往放纵自由的生活，却必须为了谁很努力的朝另外的一个方向活着，很累很累，却仍是心甘情愿。离自己的梦境越来越来远，不得不面对从未想过的争夺和复杂，恐慌、不知所措。只有面对最信赖的人时，才会卸下盔甲，委屈的流下眼泪。因为在他们心里，笑就是开心，哭就是难过，接近就是喜欢，远离就是讨厌。但其实不是，他们明白了，心好伤，眼泪就没忍住。哭过之后，笑笑得擦干眼泪，说，没关系，我可以做的很好的。

他们好像无所不能，好像总是不会有烦恼，好像什么问题都能轻而易举的解决，总是喜欢喜欢出现在流泪的人面前，笑嘻嘻的逗着笑。而面对自己的问题，他们却茫然无措，面对自己的悲伤，他们只会躲在人们看不见的角落里慢慢由伤口越裂越大。
他们的想法非常简单，说出来的就是心里所想的，肚子里不会拐七道八道的小弯，无心的话可能会引起别人的误解。所以，请别记恨他们，他们从不愿伤害谁，小小的错误就能让他们懊悔很久。

他们其实非常单纯，甚至你曾经给了他一个微笑他也会一辈子记得你的好，因此他们的世界观其实也很简单，他们很容易受蛊惑，请不要轻易的伤害他们的感情，因为一旦伤害了，那就将永远弥补不回来！如果你身边有这种人请你给予他（她）那怕是凤毛麟角的那点关怀，让他（她）知道这个世界没有抛弃他们。

hahaha.....Jia you ...=D

*Each day is a special gift from God, and while life may not always be fair, you must never allow the pains, hurdles, and handicaps of the moment to poison your attitude and plans for yourself and future. You can never win when you wear the ugly cloak of self-pity, and the sour sound of whining will certainty frighten away any opportunity for success. Never again. There is a better way =) *

With all I am

2012-01-08T17:49:00.000+08:00

A song that always encourage and remind me how great is our God! All this while, this song is my favourite song since the day i start listen to christian song. Always listen back this song especially the time of troubles ot time valley! It is not too late that God spoke to me remember this song! Thank you, my BEST FRIEND, JESUS! You are the reason that I live and sing. I will always follow wherever that You go, no matter through tears or joy. IYou hold in the palm of Your hand and let me always feel the love from You! LOVE, Lord...

' Do not be overcome by evil, but over evil with good.' Romans 12:21

Music: With All I Am

Into Your hands

I commit again

With all I am, for You, Lord

You hold my world

In the palm of Your hand

And I am Yours forever

Jesus I believe in You

Jesus I belong to You

You’re the reason that I live

The reason that I sing

With all I am

I’ll walk with You

Wherever You go

Through tears and joy

I’ll trust in You

And I will live

In all of Your ways

And Your promises, forever

I will worship

I will worship You

* A person who truly loves you will never let you go no matter how hard the situation is *

Girls, love yourself!

2012-01-07T12:27:00.001+08:00

<女人不要用「身体」去留男人.. >

一个男人，他可以不接受一个女人的爱，

可是他不会拒绝这个女人的身体..

也就是说，对于男人而言「情」和「性」

其实是可以分离的，没有必然的纠葛..

女人们往往是天真的..

她们想..

以为只要一个男人还肯和她上床，

还饶有兴致地和她缠绵..

还会在做爱的时候表现得体贴和开心兴奋..

那么，这个男人就是还对她有留恋..

有感情.. 还有留住这个男人的希望！

其实，事实并不是那个样子..

可能大多数的男人，

都不会排斥女人主动的投怀送抱..

倘若这个女人出於自愿肯和他们上床，

那就更好不过了..

他们会毫不吝惜地施展自己的床上功夫..

还可能..

会在那样的时候有片刻的温柔和承诺..

会有迷离的眼神和温柔的拥抱..

表现得像个勇士..

无往而不利，可是，这只是一个男人的性欲，

与他内心深处的感情波澜，没有任何的关系..！

男人的「感情」和「性欲」

是可以分得很清楚的

他们对於自己爱的女人：「重情重义」

可是对於自己不爱的女人却只会：「玩弄和游戏」

他们是绝对不会因为和某个女人发生了关系就会爱上这个女人！

也不会因为继续和某个女人上床而对这个女人重新产生爱情！

对于男人而言，思维更加直接，

「爱」或者「不爱」，这是一个简单的问题。

没有模糊，也没有犹豫..

可是对於性爱，他们永远都不会放弃追求，

好一些男人，

爱一个女人，可以跟她上床..

不爱一个女人的时候，也可以跟她上床..

女人们总会心存幻想的..

妄图通过和自己喜欢的男人发生关系，

而让这个男人成为自己的..

或者

把这个即将离去的男人挽留住，这其实根本就是徒劳。

如果你们还没有爱过..

那么，请不要试图用自己的身体做实验，

让这个男人爱上你！

如果你们爱过了又不爱了，

更不要试图通过再一次的温存就让这个男人回心转意，

这都是妄想！！

如果爱上了一个男人..

不妨明确地告诉他，得到他一个明确的态度，

不要用一种含糊不清的方式来界定你们的关系，

也不要想用牺牲自己的身体来唤起这个男人的暧昧和爱情。

这一招，对男人而言求之不得，

对女人而言，却是徒劳无益..

如果已经失去了一个男人的爱，

不要去卑微的用身体迎合和唤回他的爱..

就算你们依然保持著关系，

你们的爱情也永远回不到从前..

最终受到更多伤害的那个，永远是「女人」..

所以「女人」，真的应该把自己的身体，

牢牢地看好，让她远离男人的视线，

这个身体，她应该在更自由..

更自在的方式下，尽情舒展。