“A truly resilient talent strategy isn’t generational… it’s intergenerational.”

Credit where credit is due, Carson… because I think there’s a much bigger conversation hiding inside those words. We spend an enormous amount of time trying to understand generations in the workplace. What does Gen Z want, why are they leaving, how do we retain Millennials, how do we manage Boomers? Entire consulting practices, research reports, and corporate initiatives have been built around answering questions like these. But perhaps we’re asking the wrong questions.

When employees are moving quickly from one organization to another, labeling them disloyal doesn’t tell us very much. We should be asking what they aren’t finding where they are… is it Alignment, Flexibility, Opportunity, Purpose, Recognition? Do they feel heard, do they feel valued, do they believe there is somewhere for them to go within the organization? Those aren’t really generational questions. They’re people questions.

And while companies are investing enormous amounts of energy trying to decode younger workers, I believe many are simultaneously overlooking one of the richest talent pools available to them… experienced professionals in their 50s and 60s. These are people who may have spent decades navigating business cycles, building teams, managing crises, developing relationships, making mistakes, recovering from them, and learning the difference between knowing something and having the judgment to know what to do with it. That distinction matters.

We talk constantly about the skills gap, leadership shortages, mentoring, institutional knowledge, and the need for employees who can operate with less supervision. Then too many organizations screen out precisely the people who may possess those qualities because they don’t fit someone’s picture of an emerging workforce. That makes very little sense to me. But this isn’t an argument for older workers instead of younger workers. That would simply replace one form of generational thinking with another. The opportunity is in bringing them together.

Imagine organizations deliberately building teams where someone beginning a career works alongside someone who has spent 30 or 40 years navigating one. Where digital fluency and fresh perspectives meet experience and context. Where mentoring isn’t simply senior people teaching younger people, but knowledge moving in both directions. That’s where this gets interesting!

Someone in their 20s may understand a technology, platform, cultural shift, or emerging behavior far better than the person sitting next to them who has been working since before they were born. And that experienced colleague may recognize a business pattern, relationship dynamic, or unintended consequence the younger employee has never encountered. Neither makes the other less valuable. Together, they can make each other better.

This is also where RETURN ON RELATIONSHIP becomes a talent strategy, not simply a marketing philosophy. People are far more likely to contribute, collaborate, share what they know, and invest in one another when an organization creates an environment where they feel respected and valued. You cannot mandate that kind of culture through an HR policy. You build it through perspective, attitude, mindset and relationships.

And perhaps that is what gets lost when we become obsessed with workforce demographics. We start managing categories instead of people. We study generations instead of individuals. We create assumptions about what someone wants based on the year they were born rather than having the conversation and asking them. A resilient organization needs young people, it needs experienced people, it needs people in the middle, it needs different perspectives, different life experiences, different ways of thinking… and people willing to learn from one another.

The competitive advantage isn’t figuring out which generation has the answer. It’s creating an organization where generations share the answers they already have… and discover the ones they don’t, together. That’s not a Gen Z strategy, it’s not a Boomer strategy… it’s a talent strategy.

And as Carson so perfectly put it…

A truly resilient talent strategy isn’t generational… it’s intergenerational.

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just as toxic masculinity isn’t an indictment of masculinity itself, Toxic Capitalism isn’t an indictment of capitalism.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with ambition, entrepreneurship, competition, investment, growth, profit, or creating wealth. I’ve spent my entire career  building, and working in and around businesses built on those things. Capitalism, at its best, has created extraordinary innovation, opportunity, prosperity, and improvements in people’s lives. Profit isn’t the problem… Profit without regard for consequence is.

That’s where capitalism can become toxic. It happens when maximizing profitability stops being one important objective of a business and becomes the overriding objective… regardless of what must be sacrificed to achieve it. When the question is no longer simply, “How can we make this business more profitable?” but effectively, “How much can we extract before the consequences become our problem?” Employees can bear those consequences, customers can bear them, and communities can bear them. The environment and future generations will bear them… as long as the numbers keep moving in the right direction. That’s Toxic Capitalism.

 And I think an important distinction gets lost whenever we talk about this. High profitability isn’t toxic. A company can generate extraordinary profits while treating employees well, creating genuine value for customers, strengthening communities, investing for the long term, and behaving responsibly. In fact, I would argue those businesses represent capitalism at its best.

The toxicity begins when responsibility becomes an obstacle to profitability rather than part of how profitability is achieved. When employees become expenses to squeeze rather than people whose lives are affected by decisions made in a boardroom. When customers become transactions to maximize rather than relationships to nurture. When quality is reduced because the spreadsheet says consumers probably won’t notice, or companies knowingly make products harder to repair so customers have to replace them (planned obsolescence). When essential goods and services are priced according to what desperation will tolerate rather than simply what constitutes a healthy return. And when short-term shareholder returns take priority over the long-term health of the company itself.

None of this means companies shouldn’t make money, of course they should. Profit allows businesses to survive, innovate, invest, hire, grow, reward risk, and create opportunity… but somewhere along the way, we began treating maximizing shareholder value as though it were a moral obligation rather than a business objective. Those are very different things. Because once maximizing profit becomes the ultimate justification, almost anything can begin to sound reasonable. Lay off thousands of productive employees because next quarter’s margins could be slightly better. Reduce customer service because frustration is cheaper than staffing. Design friction into cancellation because some customers will give up before they succeed. Collect more personal data because it can be monetized. Raise prices not because costs increased, but because the market has demonstrated that people have no practical alternative. Externalize environmental damage because cleaning it up would reduce the return. None of those decisions necessarily violate the logic of maximizing profit. That’s precisely the problem. A system can be functioning exactly as designed and still produce outcomes we should question.

I recently wrote about When the Pursuit of Wealth Costs Us More Than Money. The question behind that piece has stayed with me: What have we lost by treating everything as an investment… instead of recognizing its inherent value?

Toxic Capitalism feels like the next part of that conversation, because eventually we have to ask not only how much wealth we’re creating, but what we’re willing to destroy in the process of creating it. Trust has value, reputation has value, healthy communities, employee loyalty, a livable environment, customer relationships, and human dignity all have value. And ironically, businesses that continually sacrifice those things in pursuit of greater short-term returns may eventually discover that they were destroying economic value, too.

I’ve spent years talking about RETURN ON RELATIONSHIP, and one of the principles behind it has always been that the most important returns aren’t necessarily the easiest ones to measure. Relationships require investment before you know exactly what the return will be… TRUST takes time, REPUTATION compounds, COMMUNITY doesn’t fit neatly into a quarterly earnings report… BUT that doesn’t make any of them less valuable.

Perhaps capitalism needs a similar understanding. Not less ambition, entrepreneurship, competition, or success, but a broader definition of what success actually means. Build the company, make the investment, create wealth, compete, grow, win… BUT understand that how we win matters.

Because the moment profitability becomes justification for ignoring the consequences of how that profit is created, we haven’t perfected capitalism. We’ve made it toxic. And perhaps the question worth asking isn’t how much more we can extract before someone stops us. It’s much simpler…

Just because we can make more money doing something… does that mean we should?

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Looking back, I realize those countless little moments became something much bigger than I ever imagined. Friendships deepened. Trust was earned. Memories accumulated. Lives became intertwined. Some of those relationships have lasted decades, and I wouldn’t trade the time or energy I invested in them for anything.

Lately, though, I’ve found myself thinking differently about what it means to maintain those relationships. There are many friendships that continue only because I continue to reach out. For years, that simply meant I made the call, sent the text, or suggested getting together. It wasn’t a burden… it was simply part of who I was. As I’ve gotten older, however, something has shifted. Not in how much I value those friendships, and certainly not in how grateful I am for the role they’ve played in my life. What’s changed is that I’ve stopped feeling responsible for carrying every relationship forward. There comes a point where maintaining relationships stops being about carrying the responsibility for every connection and starts being about trusting that what was real remains real, even if you’re not always the one reaching out.

That isn’t giving up, it isn’t disappointment, and it certainly isn’t a complaint… it’s simply recognizing the difference between choosing to nurture a relationship and feeling obligated to be the one who keeps it alive. It also made me realize something about a phrase I’ve shared for years…

Relationships are like muscle tissue. The more you engage them, the stronger and more valuable they become.

For years, I focused on the importance of consistent investment because that’s how relationships become strong in the first place. What I’m only now beginning to appreciate is that the analogy goes even further. Relationships, like muscle tissue, are built through consistent investment. But once they’re strong, you don’t have to keep proving their value every single day. The years you’ve spent building them continue to matter, even if you exercise them less often. Perhaps that’s the part of RETURN ON RELATIONSHIP I hadn’t fully appreciated myself.

The return doesn’t stop just because the investment slows down.

The conversations we’ve shared, the trust we’ve earned, the laughter, the adventures, and the times we’ve shown up for one another don’t lose their value simply because life gets busier or quieter. Those investments continue to enrich our lives long after the last lunch, the last phone call, or the last text message. And sometimes, despite our best intentions, the relationship itself doesn’t continue. Life moves people in different directions… circumstances change, we lose touch, we lose people.

I’ve come to realize that doesn’t diminish what we shared. Much like a love that once shaped our lives, its value doesn’t disappear simply because it no longer exists in the present. I still carry those experiences, those memories, and what they meant to me. They remain part of who I am. That’s a comforting realization. It means I can reach out because I genuinely want to, not because I feel responsible for making sure every meaningful relationship survives. It means I can appreciate what we’ve shared without feeling obligated to keep every friendship moving at the same pace forever. Maybe that’s one of the gifts that comes with getting older… not loving less, not valuing people less, simply trusting more.

Trusting that the relationships we’ve built continue to have value, even during the quieter seasons of our lives…

Because the Return on Relationship Endures.

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Stop Optimizing for Reach… Start Optimizing for Trust

Too many brands, marketers, and creators are still obsessing over who their audience is… demographics, titles, follower counts, neat little personas. That’s table stakes, and it’s no longer enough. The real question isn’t who your audience is. It’s who your audience influences…

Every audience has audiences. Everybody influences somebody. 

Today, influence doesn’t require a massive following, a blue check, or even a “creator” label. It happens in Slack channels, group texts, comment threads, Zoom calls, PTA meetings, sales huddles, DMs, Discords, neighborhood gatherings, and yes… even at the digital version of the water cooler. (it’s an old reference, but humor me 🤷🏻‍♂️).

Word of mouth didn’t disappear… it simply became faster, broader, and infinitely more connected. Yet I still see people dismissing others as “not relevant” because their reach looks small, their title isn’t impressive, or their feed isn’t polished. That’s a mistake. Don’t dismiss someone because you don’t think they’re relevant to you… ask yourself who “they’re relevant to.’

You may discover that the most valuable connections aren’t always direct… they’re one conversation away. That’s where trust lives, that’s where conversations travel, and that’s where influence actually compounds.

If you want real reach, earned reach, don’t chase the loudest voices… earn your way into the circles behind them. The most valuable introductions rarely come from the people with the biggest audiences… they come from the people whose recommendations others genuinely trust. Relationships don’t just expand your reach, they expand the reach of everyone connected to you. That’s why RETURN ON RELATIONSHIP has always been about people, not platforms.

The real return isn’t a bigger audience, it’s earning relationships strong enough that people want to introduce you to theirs… because RETURN ON RELATIONSHIP adds more to ROI than meets the eye.

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For a long time, I believed healing meant the sadness would eventually fade. If I stayed grateful, kept moving forward, and focused on the many blessings in my life, perhaps one day it would simply stop visiting. Today, I believe I was asking the wrong question. Maybe the problem isn’t that we continue to carry sadness. Maybe the problem is that we’ve convinced ourselves we’re somehow failing if we still do.

We live in a world that celebrates moving on. We encourage people to find closure, let go, and put the past behind them. While there’s wisdom in not allowing ourselves to become consumed by grief or loss, I sometimes wonder if we’ve also created the expectation that healing means sadness should eventually disappear. I’m no longer convinced that’s true. This isn’t a post suggesting that sadness is something we should seek, cling to, or allow to define us. It’s simply acknowledging that sadness can be an honest companion to love, especially when that love no longer has a place to land.

I’ve worked hard to build a life filled with purpose, meaningful work, wonderful friendships, incredible family, and experiences that continue to bring me joy. I’m genuinely happy with the life I’ve built, which is exactly why I’ve stopped believing that occasional sadness somehow means I’m stuck. Instead, I’ve come to see it as part of the price, and the privilege, of continuing to love. If you choose to keep loving, you don’t get to choose to avoid the sadness that sometimes comes with it. For years, I wished I could somehow preserve the love while leaving the sadness behind. I’ve come to believe those two things are connected in ways we often refuse to acknowledge, and I’m no longer sure we should be trying so hard to separate them.

Some time ago, I wrote that sometimes sadness needs somewhere else to go. I still believe that. What I’ve learned since then is that giving sadness somewhere to go doesn’t mean trying to make it disappear. It means acknowledging it, understanding why it’s there, and finding a healthy place for it to exist. Each of us has to discover what that looks like in our own lives, but I’ve found there’s a world of difference between making room for sadness and allowing it to quietly take over. Making room for sadness isn’t surrendering to it. It’s accepting that if we insist on protecting the love, we may also have to accept the sadness that faithfully follows. I don’t see that as weakness anymore… I see it as honesty.

For me, that love is for my daughters. It didn’t disappear because circumstances changed, because years passed, or because it hasn’t been returned. That love is still mine to carry, just as the memories are mine to cherish and the gratitude for having been their dad is mine to hold. No one gets to decide whether I continue loving them, because love is one of the few things that truly belongs to us.

The more I’ve thought about it, though, the more I’ve come to believe this isn’t just my story. It’s something many of us wrestle with, whether we’ve lost a relationship, a parent, a spouse, a sibling, a close friend, or a child. When love continues but circumstances change, sadness isn’t necessarily a sign that we’ve failed to heal… sometimes it’s simply evidence that what we loved still matters.

Perhaps we’ve been asking ourselves the wrong question. Instead of asking how to get rid of the sadness, maybe we should ask what we’d have to give up in order to eliminate it. If the answer is the love itself, I’m not sure that’s a trade worth making. Maybe the goal isn’t to judge ourselves because sadness still visits from time to time. Maybe the goal is to make room for it without allowing it to crowd out gratitude, joy, hope, purpose, and all the love that still surrounds us. We don’t have to choose between honoring what we’ve lost and embracing what we still have. Our hearts are capable of holding both.

That’s where I’ve finally arrived. If choosing to protect the love also means making room for some sadness, then so be it…

because in the end, I’d rather carry both than lose either.

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Last week I wrote that AI won’t create alignment… it may actually accelerate misalignment. The more I’ve thought about that idea, the more convinced I’ve become that we’re about to create an entirely new industry. Not AI implementation… AI remediation.

This post was also sparked by a recent exchange with my longtime friend and business partner John Andrews. I commented on a LinkedIn post that if the current pace of AI adoption continues, the next growth industry might be cleaning up the problems organizations create for themselves. John replied, “Like social media.” My immediate response was, “Way worse.” That short exchange stayed with me. As has often been the case over the past 17+ years, one of John’s thoughtful observations sent me down a path of thinking that eventually became this post.

The AI race is on. Every organization is looking for ways to deploy AI faster, automate more work, reduce costs, and increase productivity. Boards are asking about AI strategies, executives are demanding implementation plans, and employees are experimenting with new tools, often without clear governance or oversight. None of that is inherently bad. In fact, I believe AI has the potential to become one of the greatest productivity and innovation tools we’ve ever created. Used thoughtfully, it can remove friction, eliminate repetitive work, uncover valuable insights, and give people back something increasingly precious… time. What worries me isn’t AI… what worries me is the false sense of confidence AI can create when organizations move faster than their ability to govern what they’re putting in motion.

Social media changed how we interact. AI will change how companies think, decide, and operate. Just because work is produced faster doesn’t mean it’s better. Just because an answer sounds convincing doesn’t mean it’s correct. And just because AI reaches a conclusion doesn’t mean meaningful human judgment has taken place.

The danger isn’t AI itself… it’s mistaking automation for oversight, speed for alignment, and confidence for competence. That’s where I believe many organizations are headed.

As AI becomes woven into everyday workflows, people will naturally begin trusting its output because it appears competent. Most of the time, it will be good enough to move work forward. But “good enough” can also become good enough to avoid scrutiny. Over time, the habit of questioning, challenging, and validating begins to erode… not because people stop caring, but because confidence quietly replaces curiosity.

The next stage concerns me even more. Today AI helps people create work., tomorrow it will summarize it, review it, evaluate it, and increasingly become part of deciding what happens next. Some of this will create tremendous value, but it also creates the potential for AI-generated assumptions to be reviewed by AI, summarized by AI, and used by AI to make the next decision… with fewer meaningful human checkpoints along the way. That isn’t inherently a problem. In many situations, it will improve efficiency and accuracy. The problem arises when organizations begin believing that because multiple AI systems have “validated” something, it has been genuinely challenged. An automated feedback loop can reinforce bad assumptions just as easily as good decisions. Without human judgment at the right moments, errors, biases, and weak reasoning risk becoming institutionalized rather than corrected. This is why I don’t believe AI itself is the risk… the real risk is governance.

I’ve spent much of my career writing and speaking about alignment inside organizations. Alignment has never been something technology creates… it comes from leadership, communication, accountability, and people who ask difficult questions and are willing to challenge assumptions before those assumptions become accepted as truth. AI doesn’t magically solve misalignment. It scales whatever already exists.

That’s the part too many organizations are overlooking. AI doesn’t create culture, trust, or accountability… it amplifies the systems, incentives, and behaviors already in place. If those are healthy, AI can make them stronger. If they’re broken, AI can make them harder to recognize… and much faster to spread.

Organizations with strong cultures, thoughtful leadership, and clear accountability will likely become dramatically more effective with AI. Organizations that already struggle with silos, weak governance, unclear ownership, or poor communication may simply find themselves scaling those problems faster and with far greater confidence. That’s why I believe the next major opportunity won’t simply be helping companies implement AI… it will be helping them recover from implementations that prioritized speed over governance, automation over accountability, and efficiency over judgment. In other words… AI remediation.

The consultants of the next decade won’t just be implementing AI, they’ll be helping organizations rediscover where human judgment belongs, rebuilding governance, restoring trust in decision-making, and helping leaders understand which decisions should never have been handed off in the first place. I don’t believe we’re heading toward an AI crisis… I believe we’re heading toward an accountability crisis disguised as an AI revolution.

Technology can accelerate execution… it cannot replace accountability. No matter how intelligent AI becomes, judgment must always remain a human responsibility. The organizations that will thrive won’t necessarily be the ones that implement AI the fastest, they’ll be the ones that understand where AI adds value, where human judgment remains essential, and how to build cultures where the two work together instead of one replacing the other.

The next decade won’t just be about AI implementation… it’ll be about AI remediation. Because eventually every organization will have to answer one simple question…

 

Where should human judgment never have left the process?

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