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5 Types Of Challenges Faced In Schools and How You Can Conquer them

2017-03-08T05:37:00.000-08:00

The great importance of education in any given society should not be under-estimated. With people going to school and getting educated, they see the need to embrace civilization and proper style of doing things. Education in no doubt has helped a lot of people become professionals in a particular field of study.

With the global changes today, it’s expected that people take cognizance of the value of education.
Despite this inalienable right called education, most students are still faced with a lot of problems, some of which can cause obstacles to their academic pursuit. Some of these problems could be internal in the sense that it could arise from the student while the problem could as well be external in the sense that it could arise from their immediate homes and environment in which they live.

Today, I will be showing to you the problems that most students face that deter them from their academic pursuit.

5 Categories Of Problems Students Should Prepare For And How To Solve Them

Family Problems

A child first point of contact is the home. I once taught in a primary school, class 4 precisely. During my six months of teaching in that class, I always noticed an unusual behavior in one of the students which she hasn’t been doing before. During class activities, she would go sad and lukewarm, not interacting with her fellow students.

I became worried as to the sudden change in her and I called her to confirm what’s wrong. And do you know what she said? “My daddy is threatening to divorce my mummy and I’m not happy about that”.

The truth is that any student that is emotionally not balanced is bound to have problems in their studies. Most students suffer academically because the relationship of their parents is suffering.

When there are problems in the homes, children find it hard to concentrate and learn in class, instead they become sad, aggressive and disturbed.

Solutions to the family problem:

To avoid poor performance in education due to family problems, parents should be effective as to nurturing and safeguarding their relationships. Husbands and wives should spend quality time together as well as with their children.

Also, parents should be very careful as to the way and manner in which they react to problems in front of the children.
Children are happy when they know that their parents are also happy.

Financial Problems

Despite the fact that education is an inalienable right for everyone, we still see that the issue of money has held many students back from progressing academically.

Most schools both the primary and secondary are too expensive for most people to attend in order to get the quality education. What more can I say about the exorbitant fees been placed in the tertiary institutions?

When there is no money to meet up with the high and excessive demands of these institutions of learning, most parents withdraw their children and in most cases, you will see them at home doing nothing, while some will go for apprentice work and in most times, these children are found on the street hawking.

Financial problems greatly affect any student’s education and performance in class. A student whose parents are too poor to afford the money for school fees, would not pay serious attention in class because they are thinking of where and how to get the money.

This is a big problem. The boys have become thieves and pick-pockets while most girls are going into prostitution due to this financial problem.

Solutions to financial problems:

Financial problems, if not looked into, have a great negative effect on student’s performance. What should be done to avoid this? Parents are to work very hard so as to meet up with school demands. Both couples are to make financial plans so that they won’t lack in the future. Parents are also advised to make real investments that will sustain their children even after they’ve gone to glory.

This issue of financial problems is not only left on the shoulders of the parents alone, the government, as well as the owners of these institutions of learning, should help to cut down the high price of school fees. In doing so, it will help students go to school and face their studies alone.

In addition this, students who are capable of doing menial works during the holidays and the weekends should learn how to save parts of their income to supplement their parents' effort

Personal Problems

A student’s own problems could as well be a big problem to their academic pursuit. Some children take long before their brain develops. In this case, we see that it will be very hard for such students to meet up academically. They will also find it hard to compete with other sharp and smart students in class because they are dull.

The level of a student IQS can as well determine how well they can do in school. If a student is very dull and not intelligent, they won’t do well and if they are not handled with great care and concern, they would give up on their studies.

Solutions to student's personal problem:

Students who are very dull should not be forced, in most cases, it’s not their fault, and they probably were born that way. Rather, it’s expected that concerned parents should continue to provide all the academic needs. Private tutors should also be attached to such students.

Teachers are as well not left out, they understand their students. They should learn to be patient with such students. Repeating the same topic for such students would help. And if possible, teachers should sit them down during recess for more tutoring.

Economic Problems

One issue virtually facing most countries is the issue of economic melt-down. The economy is not stable as to provide for the educational needs of students. Most country’s economy is too poor to cater or provide the money for students to go to school.

In view of this economic hardship, most students get discouraged along the line. And why do they get discouraged? They get discouraged seeing unemployment in the nation; they get discouraged seeing most educated people roaming the street with files in their hands; they get discouraged seeing people do the work they never studied in school.

All this is because the economy is poor. This could greatly make a student give up on their academic pursuit.

Solutions to economic problems:

The Government should encourage students by making sure that unemployed people are given work, not any kind of work, but the work that is based on what they studied in the school.

The government should also strive to introduce free education system in the country. In doing this, people would be encouraged to go to school and even those thinking of dropping out would be forced to change their thoughts, knowing full well that the economy is stable and good.

Are you a student facing any of the challenges mentioned above? Simply buckle up your belt to get it solved right now.

Let me hear your say via the comment.

Recommended Foods For Students Who Are Preparing For Examinations - Harrison

2017-02-27T09:28:00.000-08:00

Most students don’t really know that the kind of food they eat can greatly affect their performance in an examination. Some students don’t believe in taking a well-balanced meal before an examination.

Writing an exam probably a long one for that matter is like someone who is running a marathon race. What happens if the diet he/she takes is not right at that time? They probably collapse on the way. So also, when writing an exam, the brain is seriously at work and been stressed out. The kind of food taken before that exam can determine how far and how well the brain could be able to cope.

Eating the right diet is good for the brain as it improves the level of alertness in the exam hall. It also helps in boosting your energy and makes your body system feel relaxed and comfortable. But going on the wrong diet could just make you feel weak, sleepy and sluggish in the exam hall. And am sure you don’t want to experience that when faced with an examination.

Today, I will be sharing with you on the kinds of foods you ought to take while preparing for an examination.

Fresh-water fish:

The freshwater fish contains omega-3 fats and vitamin D as well. The Omega-3 in fresh-water fish helps to reduce heart rate. The Omega-3 plays important role in the functioning of the brain. It enhances the cognitive functions of the brain. This brain food is essential while preparing for examination as it reduces memory loss.

Omega-3 also help in the structuring of brain cells as well as contributing to the flexibility of membranes, thereby enabling a well-developed brain that will aid any student in their examination, making them smarter and energized.

Omega-3 also acts as an anti-depressant thereby reducing every chance of the brain getting depressed and tired during the examination.

Eating good food like fresh-water fish which contains Omega-3 is good for any student preparing for an examination.

Beverages and Fruits

While preparing for an examination, you need to do yourself a lot of good by taking carrot juice. Carrot juice is rich in Beta-carotene which helps to reduce brain deterioration.

The green tea which also contains L-thiamine, this amino-acid helps the brain while meditating and could be good for any student preparing for an examination.

While making necessary preparations for any examination, it’s very important for your body as well as your brain that you do not go dehydrated. Going dehydrated will require more energy and power from the brain to perform the task, thereby forcing the brain to work harder as well as stressing it. And in the end, you won’t get any positive result.

Dehydration also causes a headache and lack of concentration which won’t be good while preparing for any examination.
The best way to avoid getting dehydrated is taking a lot of water regularly. It would also be good if you have a water bottle while going for the exam, because the more you work, the more water you lose in the body-dehydration.

A fruit like a watermelon which has about 91% of water is also good for the body while preparing for exams.

Having about 91.4% of water and rich in a folate-brain booster- spinach can help a lot to avoid getting dehydrated before or during exams.

One situation every student doesn’t want to experience in their academic is not been able to recall what they’ve read. Taking strawberries which contain about 91.4% of water thereby reducing dehydration can also help and accelerate thinking process in the brain.

Flavonoids which are found in strawberries enhance communication between the cells of the brain as well as increase concentration of the brain.

Get all the berries you can afford-Raspberries, blueberries, blackberries-you greatly needs them before going to write an exam.

The brain benefit of taking apple while preparing for exams cannot be undermined. Apples greatly help a lot in boosting brain memory and power. Intake of apples also helps in reducing neurodegenerative diseases like Parkinson’s.

Super Food

I call them SUPER because they help to keep the body fit, sound and steady. These super foods could do much good to the body while preparing for exams.

Some of them contain iron like beef, turkey, oysters, canned sardines and chicken liver. Regular intake of iron produces more haemoglobin-a substance found in the body cells which helps to carry oxygen to all tissues of the body thereby avoid making the body weak and tired during an examination.

Foods rich in B vitamins like pork, green pea, nuts, and vegetables can also make the body lively and active during examinations.

Students are hereby advised to take these recommended foods, especially when they approach their examination.

Do let me know if you have any question concerning this.

"No Sex" - Is That What S/he Said After Intended Kids? These Are What To Do

2017-02-24T00:49:00.001-08:00

Most couples do complain of their partner not having sex with them after having kids. The reasons to these maybe

They have a feeling of depression;
They could be having some health related problem that is probably affecting their sex drive;
Their sexual wants is been met elsewhere and so don’t feel the urge to have sex with their own partner;
Or they no longer have a feeling of emotional connection with their partner

Also, in most cases, couples are afraid of getting other kids and so might not want to have sex. The importance of sex in every marriage is not what should be over-looked by every couple. Sex brings more love and unity between the partners. Sex brings a closer and intimate relationship between couples because it is a bond. Sex is what is meant to be given to only our partners. A time of sex is also the time both couples share their feelings. It’s a time where they expose their secrets as to where to be touched and where not to. Having sex together as a couple connects the two together like no other. Medical practitioners have also confirmed the health benefits of sex in marriage.

Now, we see a situation of where the couples after having 3-4 kids are finding it hard to have sex. This sexless period might not go well with one of the partner and due to this; they no longer feel loved by the other partner. They become emotionally depressed, heart-broken and in no time, the marriage will crash as a result of one partner not agreeing to have sex again.

Here are the things to do when your partner keeps saying NO to sex after the intended kids:

1. Let them know your feelings

The more you keep hiding your feelings towards sex, the more heart-broken and hurt you become. It is better you start communicating how you feel to your partner.

When speaking to your partner about their attitudes towards sex, you don’t have to criticize or judge them. You just have to let them know how insecure you feel.

Telling your partner how deep you’ve been hurt and how you no longer feel loved as a result of their saying no to sex is a best way to approach such issues.

Revealing your need for sex in an angry mood won’t go a long way in helping matters. It will get it worsened as no one would want to have sex with an angry spouse. If you are angry that your partner is no longer having sex with you-it’s normal-but don’t communicate it in an angry tone when telling how you feel to your partner. You can share your feelings in openness of mind and in love. In doing so, their attitudes towards sex could probably change for the better.

2. Be in good shape

You will quiet agree with me that after having kids, most couples no longer see the need to look beautiful and charming. If the outlook of a partner doesn’t suite well to the liking of the other partner, it may make them say NO to sex. Your appearance matters a lot if you really want your partner to have sex with you.

After having kids, you can still look beautiful and robust as before. Take care of yourself as you used to do, go on regular exercise with your spouse, eat good meals, apply neat and moderate make-ups, and wear nice and sexy clothes. Though, you might not have all the time to do all these-the kids are there to care for, the work lying in the office for you and all that-but I must say that getting back into good shape will certainly drive your partner into agreeing to have sex with you. Having kids shouldn’t stop you from enjoying each other.

Take your time out and re-shape back your body. Do it constantly. Believe me; your partner would come asking for sex from you.

Watch out : 5 Things That Show Your Relationship Is Ending

3. Re-kindle your date nights

Another approach to getting your partners have sex with you is going on date nights. You could keep the kids with your relatives and spend the night together. During this time, you could both share your feelings as regarding the sex issue. Get to know why your partner is saying no.

A woman once complained that her husband is no longer having sex with her after having 3 kids and when she peacefully asked the man, he said that her butts was too big and he doesn’t like it. This could be the truth. After having children and you find out that you’ve started putting on much weight that isn’t appealing to your partner, you need to do something fast about it.

Re-kindling your date nights will also help you understand the kinds of styles and positions your partner desire in bed. You could find out their problem by asking them why they no longer want to have sex with you. If it’s a problem that needs medical attention, you two can encourage each other in love and sincerity of hearts. If it’s not that a serious issue and that their sex life is just down maybe due to too much stress or work load, you can re-kindle the passion and urge for sex through your mode of communication, gestures and your romantic looks.

Don’t let the fear of been neglected arise when your partner says no to you, it will only get you down emotionally, leaving you completely depressed. Be sincere to yourself and let your partner know how much of the physical affection you’ve missed from them.

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5 Things To Do That Will Lesson Your Break-up Pain

2017-01-20T15:21:00.002-08:00

Along the line, relationships could get a little bit tough and if not handled maturely could get tougher and probably break up. We get pissed off and angry with our partner during break-ups and the injury that comes with break-ups seem to have lasting effects depending on how the break-up is been taken.

Most people after a break-up gets too depressed and sad to move on with their life. Though depressions and sadness are normal after breaking up with your partner but in spite of all these, you could better your life, impress yourself by learning one or two things from your past.

What you can learn from a break-up?

A break-up mostly tells us that our partner isn’t perfect neither are we. There is no perfection in any relationship.
Every mistake in a relationship can greatly destroy a relationship and sometimes we just do what we feel not thinking of the effect it has on our relationship.
We ought to know that we are always responsible for how our relationship goes. We are responsible for the happiness in it and the sadness as well.

We could always learn something new whenever we are faced with a break-up.

When your partner has fully decided to break up with you, you don’t have to feel, ‘oh! Why me?’, ‘the world has come to an end’. No, you don’t have to feel that way. You need to pull yourself and move on, knowing very well that it is an opportunity for you to grow.

To avoid getting too depressed and heart-broken, here are the tips you could follow.

Before we go, read the 5 causes of marital break up and 14 ways to prevent them.

#1. Accept your Fate

After breaking up with your partner, don’t go forcing blames on yourself as to what you could have done to avoid the break-up. It happens and it has happened.

Don’t beat yourself up for crying and getting sad - it’s normal and natural that you get sad after a break-up. Learn to accept the feelings that come during this time. You don’t have to worry or try forcing yourself not to feel sad. In accepting your feelings that way, you will find out that in no time, you will gradually get healed from all the depressions and sadness.

#2. Don’t dwell in the past

Instead of thinking and contemplating of what happened in the past, why not focus your mind on the present and then future? Don’t keep bringing the ugly events of your break-up before you. Get your mind off it and stay focus on who you are right now and who to become very soon.

Reminding yourself of the past would only worsen the pains and sadness. Learn to always face the present situation, in that way, you would avoid getting confused.

#3. Do your normal activities

If you’ve been exercising regularly before, continue with it. If you’ve been going to shopping with friends or families, continue with it. If you’ve been going to the library or cinema or games show, continue doing that.

Your break-up shouldn’t affect your everyday activities. If some of all these activities were done with your lover before the break-up, you could ask a family member or a close friend to be with you.

The fact is that continuing with your normal activities would accelerate the healing process.

#4. Go on a wonderful trip

This is one of the best things you could do after a break-up. Instead of sitting around, thinking of what has happened; you can better decide to leave the town for a while. You could visit the tourist centers, zoos, go to see a distant family or close friend, take a trip to the beach.

You just need to take a leave so as to lessen the pains in your heart.

#5. Get them off your phone

Watching their pictures on your cell phone can only worsen the situation. You need to delete everything about them from your phone. Un-friend them from your facebook list and even delete all the chats you had with them. In doing that, you won’t have to face the pains of the past coming into your present life.

However, it's better to avoid the pains that come after break up than getting rid of it when it comes. Read the 3 main things that make your partner take a break up decision. Do let me know your thoughts via the comment section below.

On to the next article...

5 Top Signs To Note If Your Relationship Would End Up In Marriage

2017-01-20T11:46:00.001-08:00

Every relationship has its own pattern and the pattern to which it moves can greatly determine if it will eventually lead to marriage or not. Getting into a relationship is one thing, been happy in that relationship is another thing while having a strong solid and lasting relationship is totally a different thing altogether.

You could be happy in your present relationship, but that doesn’t guarantee that it is going to lead to marriage. A relationship is not expected to go smooth every time, but once it encounters an obstacle or challenge, that is when you could probably decide if the relationship will survive when it eventually gets into marriage.

Today, I will be showing to you the signs you could probably decode to know if your present relationship would finally lead to wedlock. If you have been in a relationship for such a long time and you’ve not witnessed these signs, that relationship isn’t the one for you and you need to take action.

It is guaranteed 99% that your relationship would end up in marriage if:

#1. There is Free Flow of Communication

A strong relationship is built mostly on communication. If the communication in the relationship is suppressed, either of the lovers will suffer from not having to speak their mind concerning a matter.

A relationship that focuses on expressing each other’s feeling, advising and encouraging each other will do far better in the future in terms of decision making and planning.

If your relationship is not allowing you to talk freely, you need to take note, it won’t lead to marriage. And even if it does, how will you cope in a marriage where the freedom to communicate with your spouse is not there?

Having a smooth conversation in a relationship helps lovers share their secrets as well as their opinions concerning a matter.

When your relationship clocks two years, these 5 things will happen

#2. Both lovers are in control

A relationship cannot be created by just one person and so, building and nurturing it needs both lovers. In a situation whereby one person is taking full charge of the relationship, it will leave the other person feeling worthless and useless in the relationship.

When both parties are in control, it will be very hard for outside forces to come in between them. Having control of your relationship will also make you taking decisions that are best for you and your partner.

#3. You both take the blame

We sometimes make mistakes in our relationships and these mistakes could get worse or lessen depending on how we handle it.
If you are in a relationship that doesn’t force much blame on you for every mistake, then be sure that it will surely head along to marriage.

A loving relationship ought not to be the type of complaint or pushing blames on the other. It supposes to be of love and sharing all the blames together.

#4. Both families are involved

A relationship that has marriage in view has to carry both families of the lovers along. What am I saying here? The parents and relatives of both the man and the woman ought to know each other very well.

When relatives of both lovers are well acquainted with each other, it will as well strengthen the relationship.

Read >>> 7 things smart ladies do to get their men marry them

#5. Frequent use of “when” not “if”

If for example, the man is always making use of the word “when” like ‘when we get married’… this shows that the relationship will eventually lead to marriage.

But making use of the word “if” like ‘if we get married’… this shows that both parties have not decided on how their relationship will go.

Do not forget to share your views and opinions via the comment section. I love to read comments! Have a wonderful day ahead.

TeeKing TV - The next chapter ( Website Launching soon)

2016-11-22T08:41:00.003-08:00

Dear readers,

Today, I bring to you a cool website Teeking TV which will be launched on Friday 25th November, 2016.

Teeking TV is a Nigerian website that will be live for your daily news updates, entertainment, groceries updates, sport news, campus gists and cool fictional /non-fictional stories.I'd like to tell you that this website would be one of the best websites you've ever seen on this niche.

The best part of this website is that it will keep you updated with daily change of price of foodstuffs in markets around you. It would be giving reviews on prices of commodities, as prices of commodities are not stable here in Nigeria. You need to see for yourself, reasons why you must visit this site everyday

News Updates - Teeking TV is life to feed you with the global news, in Nigeria and around the world

Entertainment - You also get the latest fashion styles, music and videos, gist and life styles

Goceries Updates - When Mr. Tunde Abdullah told me about this part, I feel very relaxed and happy about the fact that I won't be needing to go to market to ask for prices of commodities before I know their current price. Can you see, it really saves a lot of stress. It saves your fuel or transport fare. Just simply log on to www.teeking.tv and check out the prices of the commodities without spending a dime, and in fact at the comfort of you home.

Sport News - I know that most people love sport, especially football. Here is a reliable source of sport news to get your daily updates about sport.

Campus Gist - It also gets you covered on campus gists. Teeking TV gather news and gists from campuses and deliever to you at your doorstep.

Teeking Diaries - The Director himself, has made this section to put smile on his readers' face. In this section, you are going to be reading different fictional and non fictional stories. The stories, as he describe would be much interesting that you would have to order for the pdf files.

However, you can contact and follow Teeking TV via the following links :

Email - teekingtv@gmail.com
Facebook - facebook.com/teekingtv
Twitter/IG - @Teekingtv
Tel - (+234)8143443420

5 Top Reasons Why Men Don't Like To Have Sex With Virgins

2016-09-01T06:42:00.000-07:00

It sounds very strange to believe the fact that 80% of men would not want to deflower a Virgin lady.

In my previous post about the interesting facts about Virgins, where I said that most men would not want to have sex with Virgins. This fact has brought me so many queries that why did I say so? You can read it below :

10 Interesting Facts About Virgins

However, this is what you're on this page to read as I continued my research and found out the 5 top reasons why most men don't like to have sex with Virgins.

Thus goes the top Reasons :

#1. Sex With a Virgin is a Soul Sharing

Culture and norms in some places believe that, when you give yourself to somebody sexually, you give a part of your soul that can not be taken back.

Now, come to think of a Virgin, who has never had sex before - who you could probably shed blood for a man. The blood which some people term as a sacrifice.

Having sex with a Virgin really looks as if you both are now having either person's soul part becoming yours, and yours becomingj theirs too.

Haven't you imagined why it's very hard to forget women you deflower or women who deflower you? But why cab you easily forget people you have a casual sex with? It's simply because the person's soul is attached to yours, since the day you both had the sex.

Evans4life once said, "when physical act of sex takes place, there is also a spiritual union. Two spirits are being United - and that's a Soul tie'

Now, let us assume you have sex with a Virgin and later on, you couldn't make it to marry her. It'd simply means that your future wife would be marrying who is tied with another person's spirit, and so it is for the Virgin. Probably that's the main reason why some people have external marrital affair mostly with people they deflowered. And this is dangerous to the lives of your children. Check it out below :

7 Common Effects Of Divorce On Children

#2. They cannot answer the question

Most Virgins love to ask this question, "would you marry me"? Though the question looks so worthy to be asked, but men wouldn't want to answer that.

" Would you marry me"? Why is this question? It is simply because most women love to marry who deflowers them, not even minding how many men that might sleep with them. All that matters is to marry who deflowers them.

Most men believe that, they can never tell what might happen tomorrow. There may be need to change location, or either of them loose contact or something else happened that could halt their relationship - and this could make their promises seem failed. Then, answering the question may be a problem.

Saying "YES" to the question might seem to be taking oath with the woman. And once an oath is taken, the repercussion is feared.

In the other hand, saying "NO" might lead to loosing the sex they really want, as at time of issuance. So they believe it's far better to have sex with a non-virgin than a Virgin.

You might like to have sex with a woman but might not wished to marry her. When you now discovers she's a Virgin and you're asked this question, you'd definitely want to say no because you don't want to take an oath. At the end, you loose in the game.

#3. They Fear To Hurt the Virgin

Most non-virgin women believes that first sex must be painful to women who has never had it. Most men confirms this too. Is that real? First sex hurts?

Some men also confirm this too. They don't want a loud scream. Men don't want the Virgin to make them feel that they caused the pain to them. They want what they'd give to a woman and she enjoys and appreciates.

Sincerely, many men never know it's possible to have sex with a Virgin and which she won't get hurt. I shall let you know how in one of my future posts. So, stay connected to study N love.

Meanwhile, some men would still want to have sex with a Virgin, even after they take the pain the woman would get into consideration. Their take on this is that, after all its once. She needs to bear the pain since it once and for all.

Again, most men do not like that once and for all thing. They prefer having sex with women who's beared the pain already in the past.

#4. Virgins are novices and cannot meet their need

You're a novice at what you've never done before. You cannot be a Virgin, and at the same time be a sex expert.

Most men really want to have a hard core sex and with an experienced person. And not who they'd need to tutor. They want you to display your styles, dictate positions to them. Then having sex with a novice (a virgin) might not be a good idea for them.

#5. They're afraid of being cursed

Lastly, many men don't want to be cursed. When you get hurt during the sex and you get home only to find out that you're seriously wounded, you might want to curse him.

Or you later have any grudge in which you're on the receiving end. He offends you and it's to painful to you. Any moment you remember that he's the one whom you give your virginity to, you might be more hurt and curse him in the end.

So, most men likes to hide their heads from this curse. They don't want to involve themselves in problems like this, from women.

I'd really love to hear your say on this. Either you have another reasons why men don't like to have sex with Virgins, or you observe something. Just don't hesitate to make your comment.

Stay connected!

Tips To Become Popular In Your School

2016-08-28T09:37:00.000-07:00

So many students have struggled to become popular in their schools but instead, they are known as something else at the end of the day. You might be thinking "who being popular epp"? It really matters for those who know it.

I was one of the most popular nigga when I was in school, and I know the several ways that it helped me. Want to know too?

Benefits of being popular in high schools

There are several benefits one can derived from being popular in school. Among the benefits I got are :

I had a large numbers of friends.

Is that really a benefit? Yes, it is. When I started to have the large numbers of friends, I wondered what I would use them for. It got to a certain time I needed help, many hands were raised for me. Many stood for me in times of help. Had it being I didn't have large numbers of friends, what would have happened when I felt broke? I'd always find someone to ask me if I had eaten.

So many textbook were bought for me. Many school bills were paid. Many shopping I had. All done by friends.

Most staffs and students saw me as their favourite

Even freshers and new staff found it difficult not to like me, not to talk of existing staffs and students. I gained more confidence to do anything because I knew I would be supported even if I did wrong. I didn't have to worry about being bored. I didn't have to worry about not finding a partner for a class project. I would always have someone to hang out with. They would surely want to be around me. I was more confident than I had ever been.

I had a greater chance of getting a boo

If I wished to pick either short or tall, I had it all. They never said no (I didn't know why). Most ladies would even woo me themselves. Most seduced and tempted me. Most wanted me to be their love. Most would not want me to lack anything

Quickly read >>> Students, Be warned! Never Let Your Background Put Your Back To Ground

Being Popular could make you get a post in school

Find out, people who hold posts in schools are the most popular in school. You want to be a Chancellor or just a secondary school prefect/class rep, you need people to know you (popular) before you're voted for. Or when you're not popular, who else would vote you?

Are these not enough as benefits of being popular? Stop reading this post. Otherwise,

Know the tips to become popular in high school

#1. Be kindly and jovial to everyone

It is when you're kind that people will refer you to people. When people refer you to other people, you're gaining your popularity.

You also need to be friendly enough. Don't be wicked to people around you. Do goods and rights. This is how people can always have you in mind.

#2. Be a bit brilliant

If you're kind and friendly (jovial) enough and you're not brilliant in anything, you may just be known as a dollard (a negative popularity)

You don't need to know everything before they call you a brilliant person. All you need is to know something in almost everything. There are many ways to be become brilliant at your studies. It shall be discussed in the later posts.

#3. Be very funny amidst groups of people

Another key to become known in school is when people confess to you, that you're funny. When you do some funny things; make funny comments that'll put a smile on people's face, those who laugh to what you do/say severally are in higher state to remember you easily.

People who remember you could likely remember your name. People who remember your name could likely tell their friends about you. Gradually, you're becoming popular.

#4. Dress neatly to gain attention

Always dress neatly to classes and maintain a good hygiene. You can be neat to be noticed. Let them say "the guy likes forming" - a comment that supports your aim.

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#5. Walk with popular people

You can also become known when you walk with those that people know already. Be friendly enough to them. Be loyal and truthful to them. When people ask them - who is he(i.e, you)? - they know you too.

#6. Join extra curricular activities

School's extra curricular activities can also make you become known by students,especially when you're active. Do what other students do too. Many people will also know you through joining extra curricular activities.

Joining clubs like football clubs, basketball clubs, drench clubs, jet clubs would expose you to wider range of people than limiting your popularity to only your department

You can let me know how you feel about these tips to become popular in high school in the comment. Ontm to my next posts

10 Interesting Facts About Virgins. I Bet You Don't Know Most Of Them

2016-08-26T01:38:00.000-07:00

The list of the interesting facts about Virgins you're about to read is compiled by my own research. I took my time in asking some Virgins and non-virgins I know. And that was when I realised the truth that myself do not know many of these things.

I believe reading these list to the end would put some thoughts in your mind. Please feel very free to let me know via your comments. They would be highly welcomed.

Here goes the facts :

#. 1 Virgins are always in anticipation to know who would deflower them.

Virgins (both males and females) always ask this rhetoric question in their inner thoughts - who could he or she be? Is it from my state/country or another? This question might not be asked outspoken, but in the inner part - they ask.

Seriously, isn't it right to know that person that'll be one to take your virginity - what most call there PRIDE?

#2.They can never forget the person who deflower them.

I asked many non-virgins, "can you forget who deflowered you"? Most of the answers I got is" No" - mostly from women. But why is this so? The truth should be told, let's assume you have a big wound mark on your body that has leaves an unremovable mark on your body, can you easily forget who put it there? Honestly, for females, it's hard for them to forget who tore their hymen (a sacred tissue in their body)

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#3. They (females) always imagine how painful their first sex would be

Funny enough! I asked a lady of about 24 years old "why are you still a Virgin"? She said, "I don't know how painful it'd be. People do say it's painful ad I don't want to feel pains". She was telling me with fear of pain in her face.

Most female Virgins will always imagine how painful their first sex would be. And in this way, mostly still don't want to have their first sex when they are told of this pain.

#4.How enjoyable their first sex is, is what determines how much they'd love sex

When I asked some, "do you love sex after you're now deflowered"? I realised that people who said NO did not enjoy their first sex and people who said YES really enjoyed it.

I also didn't believe this is real, until I made the research. And now, I believe.

#5. Not all female Virgins bleed on their first sex

A guy once ran to me, to confirm if her lady was a Virgin. He said the lady told him she was a Virgin, and that day he got her deflowered but couldn't see a drop of blood. Out of ignorance, I supported that she was not.

Little did I knew that, not all female Virgins bleed on their first sex. Some would bleeds, while some would not. This is confirmed through the group of people I interrogated.

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#6. Most of them note the date they got deflowered

I ever wonder why most people, especially ladies still remember the date they lost their virginity. Is it that so important? Yes, of course! It is.

Losing one's virginity is something that really worths to be remembered. Why? Because, it can only be lost once and forever.

#7. After their first sex, they either feel guilty or satisfied. Conscience tells immediately.

If you have ever had a sex with a Virgin, you should know how they feel. It's either they are moody or feel excited about the sex they just had.

In one of the story books I wrote, I remembered how I described Kate when she lost her virginity to Thomas. She was like, "did I do the right thing, Hope I've not misbehaved"? And all sort of questions came through her mind.

It's really hard not to feel somehow when you do a thing for the first time.

#8. Most will not forget the place they got deflowered

I asked one woman of about 48 years old, "Ma, where did you got deflowered"? She didn't even struggle to remember before she came to a conclusion. I was astonished!

So, most people do not always forget where they got deflowered? I only thought it's only the person they deflowered them, that they might not forget. Do you also remember yours?

#9. Most Virgins masturbates unknowingly

It is real! This always happen to most Virgins who watch movies that contains sexual movements.

While they're alone and think of these movies, they touch or rub their sexual organs to give them the sexual pleasure they desire.

While some knows this is called maturation, some do not. Were you guilty of this when you were a Virgin?

#10. Most men don't like to deflower Virgin ladies

Never misquote me in this area. I did not say ALL men! The research I made let me understand that most men wouldn't want to date a Virgin.

I asked some male friends who are experts in sex (when I say experts, you should know who they are), "what would you do if you fall in love with a Virgin"? The answers I got were very funny.

One said he would give the girl permission to allow another person to deflower her, and then come back to him. Another one said he would blame himself for falling in love with such person. One even said he can never fall into such victim because, it is before he falls in love that he makes enquiry about the lady's virginity. Funny, indeed.

Whao! The list doesn't end here. There are many interesting facts about Virgins. You can add yours too in the comment section. I shall update the post after review.

Students, Be warned! Never Let Your Background Put Your Back To Ground

2016-08-25T00:00:00.000-07:00

Every serious student has the dream of reaching their desired goals successfully. But in most cases, there might be some challenges that tend to discourage most students.

These challenges will appear real, and if a student is not firm in their decision to be academically successful, they will be brought down in no time.

Most of these challenges that tend to deter a student from the journey of been successful are the challenge that comes from family background. The background of a student could greatly affect the student’s performance in school and if they are not aware about these challenges that may result from their background, could lead them to failing academically.

It’s often said that if the foundation of a building is solid, there won’t be any fear of the house falling down. Likewise a student, if the background is solid, there won’t be any fear of a final failure.

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There are some background challenges or issues you need to watch out as a student and beware of them. Some of them might appear to be a stumbling block to your academic growth. You need to know the challenges in your background before they put your back to the ground.

#1 Income background:

Some students have the interest to go to school but are not in school. This could be a background challenge to most students who are already in school but are not meeting up with the financial demands of the school.

In most cases, students are discouraged and think of giving on their studies as a result of financial challenge.

This challenge could force some students out of school causing them to abandon their dreams and planned career.

Students need to be deeply aware of this so as not to allow it affect their education

#2. Educational background:

Not all parents went to school and so, are not able to read and write. And most cases, it affects young children who are just growing up because no educated parent to guide them in their assignments, pronouncing of words correctly and making good sentences.

As a student, you need to be careful as not to allow this limitation cause you downfall in your academic life.

If both parents are educated, they will in no doubt lay a good foundation for their children. But a situation where the parents are not educated, a student needs to beware and know how to handle his or her academic problems.

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#3. Parent’s marital background:

This could go a long way in affecting a student. Students should also beware and be warned as allowing their parent’s marital issues to cripple their academic pursuit.

I talked about The 7 Common Effects Of Divorce On Children here. I also discuss The 5 Causes Of Marital Breakup And 14 Tips To Prevent Them Here. You can help your parents by referring these articles to them, maybe they might Learn

Sudents should also be warned of the effects of broken home, single parent, polygamous homes in their academic life. In my next articles, I'd dicuss with you what to avoid, as a student, when you're in a polygamous family.

Having an earlier understanding of your background will help you divert yourself from its unfavorable effects. Be warned!

However, you may have one or two things you want to add or ask, do not hesitate. Simple hit the comment box below. I'd be there to attend to you.

5 Things That Happen When Your Relationship Clocks 2 Years, No 4 Will Suprise You

2016-08-24T03:55:00.001-07:00

Getting into a relationship that is safe and secure is what everyone wishes to have. Sometimes, relationships are sweet and more romantic in the first year. During the first year, the lovers are just getting to know each other, their likes and dislikes. During this period as well, date nights never cease, as both lovers always want to be with each other.

Relationship at a start is always filled with curiosity as whether it'll eventually going to lead to marriage.

When a new relationship is able to pass the first year and heading to the second year without breakup, we see some changes begins to occur between the lovers. Both lovers no longer tend to be curious as they were, in the first year. These are some of the changes that tend to occur when a relationship clocks two years.

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1. Lovers are no longer surprised

In the first year or when the relationship is just starting, you will notice that lovers are always astonished with what the other lover does. It’s normal, because you are just getting to know each other. So, what your lover does in a new relationship becomes a surprise to you.

Sometimes, if a lover is fond of buying chocolate for their partner in the first year relationship, but when that relationship clocks two years, you will observe that buying of those chocolates will no longer be a surprise to the partners.

2. Lovers are sure of the future

Like I said, a new relationship is filled with curiosity and the question of staying together in the future is there. During this time, both lovers are not quite sure as to whether their dating relationship will lead them to marriage. And so, they are curious.

But during the second year, some changes begin to occur. Both lovers have decided and might now be sure of their decision. This time, they might no longer be curious as to whether or not they will be together.

3. Fights are no longer serious

Relationships come with a lot of problems and misunderstandings. In the second year of their relationship, lovers are no longer thinking of breaking up as it used to be in the first year when if there is a little problem, they think of breaking up.

The relationship has now become matured and both lovers have seen the need to fixing their problems in a more peaceful and quiet manner instead of thinking of ‘break up’.

4. Been naked is no longer a big deal

Most lovers who are new into a relationship find it hard to get naked in front of each other. Sometimes they are shy or never wanted their partner to see something.

But as the relationship smoothly proceeds further, we notice some changes as to getting naked in front of each other.

Lovers are no longer shy to pull off their clothes in front of each other.

During this time as well, having sex might also no longer be a new thing to both lovers. They’ve known each other for quite a long time and so, might no longer going to bother them even if they are going to have sex in a broad day light.

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5. No more secrets

Some little secrets may not be told during a new relationship, but once it pass the first year and getting into the second year, lovers probably might no longer be afraid to tell their secrets out. Everyone becomes open to each other now.

This time, the truth is told when the need arises and both lovers are happy sharing intimacy with each other.

However, there could still be more things that might happen when your relationship clocks two years. You can simply add yours in the comment section and we will update the post as soon as we review it.

Don't also forget to share this article to your friends.

Stay blessed!

Students! Reasons Why You Must Not Allow Your Parents To Choose Your Choice Of Carrier

2016-08-23T00:00:00.000-07:00

Is it really right for parents to choose choice of carrier for their children in school?

This is the little question that brings about this write up. I think everyone is going to learn from this. Tell your parents NO, if you already have a dream and yet, they want to choose for you.

"There is no doubt that parents are very important to the growth and development of their children. Parents are greatly responsible for how well a child develops both physically and mentally. Educationally, is it right for parent to choose choose of career for their children?

We all know that parents also play a big role in influencing a child’s thought towards choosing a career. Most parents get it wrong when they try forcing a career on their child’s life.

Most children’s lives have been ruined as a result of the career that was imposed on them by their parents.

When it comes to choosing a career, a child should be decisive as to what he or she wants. A child should not accept any career choice just because it came from their parents. Don’t be pressurised into choosing a career that is not of your interest because in the long-run, you may not do well in that career.

Though, parents could a lot be demanding, but in the issue of picking a career, it solely lies in the hands of the child.

Most parents forcefully impose a career on a child just to make sure that their (parents) dreams are fulfilled. While some parents look into the large amount of money that would be coming in, so they want their child to take the career at all cost.

There are many reasons why parents forcefully impose a career on their child, but whatever the reasons maybe, it is not right to force a child into taking a career out of their own personal will.

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Below are some of the reasons why you must not allow your parents to make the decision of choosing a career for you.

#1. Gifts and Talents Are Different

Naturally, not everybody is endowed with the same gifts and talents. A parent’s talents may not be the same with the child’s. Now, if parents are making the decision of your career, they will do so out of the understanding of their own talents which in most cases, the talents and gifts of the child would not be considered.

When a different career is been imposed on a child whose skills and talents are not in line with the career, you will find out that the child’s original gift becomes a waste. And believe me; you won’t do well in the career that was imposed on you.

In the real sense, a child’s talents and creativity should be properly guided by the parents.

#2. Parents' Dream Are Fulfilled Instead

Like I said, there are so many reasons why parents impose a career on their child. No matter what and how the reasons may be, don’t allow it. You know why? You will definitely end up fulfilling your parent’s dreams and not yours.

Let's look at it this way, your parents dreamt of becoming a medical doctor and due to one problem or the other, that dream was not achieved. Now it comes to you, you have a dream of becoming a lawyer. And the passion and interest are there.

Because of the lost achievement of your parents, they are forcefully imposing on you to become a medical doctor of which you unwillingly accept. In this case, you’ve ended up fulfilling another person’s dreams and not yours.

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#3. You Might End Up Failing

When you get into a career that isn’t your real intent, you will end up failing in it. Why is it so? It’s so because, the interest and passion is not there. And if the interest of an imposed career is not there in you, the zeal to work will not also be there. And this will totally lead to big failure as a result of allowing your parents to choose a career for you.

The truth is that if you don’t love a career and you probably get into it due to your parent’s imposition, you will burn out in no time, become weary and just look at your original dream dwindles away.

When it comes to choosing a career, the choice is all up to you. You make the decision knowing full well that it is based on your own interest and not on the interest of your parents.

Your parents are there to assist and guide you in the choice you’ve taken and not to compel you into choosing a career that is out of your will."

Did you now se the main reason why I don't really like it if some parents forcefully dictate choice of carrier for their children? Probably, that's the reason I followed my mind. Imagine! My dad wanted me to be a mechanical engineer while my mom supported it. Now, I'm a blogger today. I'm a motivational speaker today. And I'm living fine.

Would you just help some students out there by sharing this article to your social accounts? And don't forget, if you have any question regarding this article, do let me know via the comment section.

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Ladies!! Never Do These 7 Things If You Want Him To Marry You

2016-08-22T05:00:00.000-07:00

In the world we are today, marriage is no longer what people, especially men get into without having some second thoughts as to who they want to marry. Marriage is not like a game that you can easily quit at any time. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and devotion to each other. But some ladies do not know that there are some things they must not do, if they want their man to marry them.

When it comes to the issue of getting married to a woman, most men take their time in concluding if the woman is right or wrong for them.

A man can be dating a woman for such a long time. Their relationship is going smooth but before the man puts a ring on the finger of the woman, he must have thought deeply and come to the conclusion that the woman is the right for him. The truth is that a man can date any woman but when it comes to marriage, they are selective. Dating is quite different from marriage - it's a lifetime journey.

Believe me, every man is more concerned about a woman’s character and qualities before thinking of getting married to her. So, no matter how beautiful and pretty a woman is, if she doesn’t possess the right qualities m, she probably might not get the right man to marry her.

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As a woman, there are some things you have to avoid if you really want your man to marry you. If you want your relationship to move on to the next level, that is from ‘dating’ to ‘marriage’, you need to avoid these things :

#1. Don't be "over-dependent" on him

Most women in relationship believe the common saying - "He is the man and should provide all my needs". This belief is so wrong. The fact that he is the man does not mean he has to cater for all of your needs. Dear ladies, your relationship is not a business opportunity.

Been over-dependent, shows that you cannot meet up your needs without him. It shows that you are not even capable of providing your own personal needs let alone the needs of the family.

Men hate it when a woman is so much depending on them. It tells a man that you are lazy and cannot find ways of meeting up your needs by yourself.

If you want him to marry you, learn to work and provide your needs yourself. In doing so, you won’t have to keep begging the man to provide your needs. You will also command great respect from the man.

#2. Don't disrespect him, for any reason

Every man has his own rules and regulations and it’s the desire of every man that these rules are respected. If he's a type that sets boundaries, do well to respect them. If there are times he needs some privacy, respect that too.

No man likes it when they're disrespected. In his presence of absence, all they desire is respect. Let his people know he has someone who respects him if nobody does.

In doing so, you are telling him how valued he is to you.

If you want your man to marry you, learn to respect him.

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#3. Don't ever disappoint him

The kind of person he has known you for, that made you worthy for him to woo, don't change it. It's disappointment.

I really wonder why some women, if after they surely know that a man is interested in them, begin to behave fakery. Then after some time, they come back to their true personality.

If he has placed a complete trust on you, do well not to fail him. In doing so, he can boldly tell his friends and families how disciplined you are.

#4. Don't pressurise him to marry you

The fact that you want him to marry you does not mean you will have to force him. If you are desperate, he will know and men don’t like desperate women.

He might not want to marry you if you keep putting pressure on him, especially in a rude way. He could easily change his mind.

Do the best you can, give him some space and give him some polite reminders about your marriage. You will be surprised to see him kneel before you one day with a golden ring on his hands for you.

#5. Don't be a talkative in his presence

Relationships always encounter some problems along the way. And the reaction of the woman will tell if that relationship can still continue or not.

If there is a problem between you and him, always listen to the man first, don’t shout. After sometime when the situation is calm, you can now speak with a low and calm voice. He will listen to you.

Note that, no man would want to marry a ‘ranting’ woman.

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#6. Don't let him notice your love for money

Even after he marry you, never let your man know how much your love for money is. Some women get it wrong when they pursue men with money, without considering his love.

If you want your man to marry you, show him that his love and commitment is more important to you than the money.

If you are only thinking about what comes out from his pocket, then you are wrong. He might not marry you.

#7. Don't argue with him, especially in public

Never make the mistake to argue with him whenever he's mad at you. You should not argue with him even if you're also boiling. Calm yourself down.

I don't even know what is wrong with some men when they shout at someone and expect the person to keep quiet. Yeah, that true. But you have to accept your fate and do what they like since you still want him to marry you. Men love it when their woman calms while they're boiling.

Has he also promised to marry you a long time ago, but yet he hasn't? It might be one of these things that you're doing that's making you to doubt if he would marry you. Check yourself and balance the imbalances.

Have anything to say about these that ladies should never do if they want their man to marry them? Feel free to express your mind in the comment section. You can also use your Facebook account to comment. Have nice weeks ahead.

6 Best Ways To Fully Prepare For Examinations

2016-08-21T00:00:00.000-07:00

Examinations are mostly taken in order to ascertain a student’s performance in school. Examinations also go a long way in determining if a student is to be promoted or demoted and it mostly define if a student is serious or not.

Exams play an important role in the academic life of any student and the effort made towards it can make or mar a student’s career pursuit.

As a student who wants to excel academically, you should consider taking keen interest in the right ways you can prepare fully for exams.
You might have gotten the wrong teaching that "exams need no preparation" and that you can always pass by luck. Well, I want to tell you that a student who is more prepared for exam is better off than the one who never made any preparations.

There are many ways in which you can get yourself prepared for exams. And no matter the kind of exam it is, you can always make use of these steps below:

#1. Be Ready Before Time

A student who wants to make excellent marks in exam should not wait until the very last minute before they are ready.

Some students feel that reading before exams is a burden to them and so they tend to leave the reading on the day of exam. This kind of approach towards exam isn’t the best way at all.

There are many ways you can be ready. Among them are planning and following your time-table; getting ready all the necessities needed for the exam like textbook, work-books, pencil, pen etc; and so many other ways.

#2. Avoid Distraction

When preparing for exams, it’s important that all forms of distractions should be avoided. The distraction could come from your families, your friends at school, electronic gadgets at home like TV etc. Avoid them all.

Locate a quiet place where you read and understand. During the period before your exams, you have to be very careful as not to pick a fight with someone, which might probably result to severe injury thereby compelling you not to focus on the exam ahead.

Avoid distraction from lazy friends that depends on luck; avoid distraction from your phones and the social media as well. Avoid anything that will have much effect on your thoughts.
By so doing, you can be prepared for any exams.

#3. Work On Past Questions and Answers

Today, most examinations that are set for students are taken from previous year exams. Working on past questions is an effective way to prepare for any kind of examination. Working on past questions and answer also makes you to understand the style and format of the questions and it also provide the correct approach to every of the questions.

When practicing on past questions, make sure to work with the allotted time set. Doing this will make you prepared to answer the questions within the time limit.

#4. Join Study Groups

You can do well to form study groups with some students or better still join with some groups of dedicated students who are serious.
During this time of your reading together, you might have questions to ask, ask the group and there is every tendency that you will get a positive answer.
Joining study groups can as well be a challenge to you, because you might meet with people who are more intelligent than you are. And you have to pick this challenge to study real harder.

#5. Avoid Multi-tasking Your Brain

Take your reading step by step. Don’t go bringing out books that are not related and reading them all together. In doing so, you would be stressing the brain and giving it a hard time to focus on one.

Avoid your phones, gadgets and every other thing that might get your brain working on them.

#6. Take Enough Sleep

During every sleeping hour, your brain gets to absorb all that you’ve read. Having a good sleep also refreshes your brain and also prepares your memory to recall all that you’ve read during the examination.

Also, don’t go dehydrated, drink plenty of water, and keep fit both physically and emotionally.

Going for an examination needs a lot of your preparations and the level of your preparations can determine how well you can do in the exams.
I believe these steps are of great importance before preparing for any examinations.

You can always let me hear from you through the comment section below

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3 Main Things That Prompts Your Partner To Take A Divorce Decision

2016-08-20T07:30:00.000-07:00

A divorce decision is not a kind of decision taken and executed in an eye - blink. Before your spouse can summon the courage to tell you "I want a divorce" or "pack your things and go", there would be so many times s/he would think about it. Now what could make him/her to think about the dreadful decision in the first place? This post is designed to answer this question. So, keep reading

Divorce, which has been the song of most couples especially nowadays is very dangerous. It is dangerous to the lives of the divorcees themselves, and mostly the lives of the children. In my next article, I'll tell you someeffects of your divorce on the lives of your children. By then,you would not like your spouse to divorce you if truly you love your child(ren).

There is a fact that most people in relationship do not want to believe it exists - your spouse's plan may be veiled to you until the day he sends you out or hand over a letter of divorce proceeding from the court.
Certainly, when you know the main things that prompt most people to take a divorce decision, they can henceforth be avoided if addressed well. The 3 things are discussed below:

MONEY
THIRD PARTIES
and... S*X

#1. MONEY

As it is always said, "money is the key to happiness". It's also they first and the main key to a happy home.
A very little percent of existing relationships works without money, if possible. Living to survive in a relationship needs money. You cannot expect a woman to stay with a broke guy for long. Either you are already blessed with child(ren) or not, your marriage can never last long when your relationship lacks enough money to maintain it.

Maybe you might be thinking it's only the men that must by all means have the money to maintain the relationship. No, the women are also involved. A man who observes that whenever his wife needs anything, no matter how cheap it is, she still needs to look up to him may gets tired one day. And if he doesn't get tired, things which have been turning out right for him may turn the other way. That is why being a full house wife may be a bad idea.

There was a case of a man who publicly disgraced his wife when she asked him money to buy a match. Are you not also surprised? When she did not have the money, who else could she have turned to, if not her husband? Now, her husband was tired.

No matter your position in your home, you still need money to maintain that same home.

#2. THIRD PARTIES

You started to have third parties since the day you started to date. And your third parties increases as each day passes. They never decrease.

Third parties are the people, that are in a way or the other, involved in your relationship besides you and your spouse. Third parties could be friends, families and even enemies. Third parties could be your concubine(s), if you keep extra marrital affair. They could be your own parent or your in-laws.

In actual fact, third parties can easily break your home faster than money or any other thing. When you begin to hear strange things from third parties, you would want to find out if they are true. Even if there are no elements of truth in what you heard, the statements you heard would leave some dark traces in your mind.

Therefore, beware of what you discuss with third parties. Never talk about your relationship with a third party, especially a distant third party.

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#3. SEX

When I was young, I witnessed many discussions of different sets of people about this. One was between my aunt with her husband. My dad was the one making peace for them that day. They thought I was too young that the offensive words spoken were meaningless to me. I clearly heard everything and learned from it though.

My aunt reported that she noticed her husband having an affair with another lady after 2kids. When her husband was asked to talk, he told my dad "Your sister doesn't allow me to have s*x with her as she used to do".

Truly, his excuse was genuine though he didn't apply much wisdom as my dad told him many things he should have done instead.

I read a novel about a lady who would leave her rich husband's house and would travel a distant journey to meet her ex-boyfriend whom she had left many years ago, because her ex-boyfriend had her s*x strength.

If my aunt's husband wanted to go legal, he could easily divorce my aunt for the lady, so their relationship could have ended there. Also, had it been that the lady's ex-boyfriend had what kept her waiting in her husband's house, she would decide to quit the relationship.

S*x should not only be had to get children or to satisfy one self's pleasure. That is selfishness. Even if it is at your inconvenient time that your spouse wants s*x, grant him/her with happiness. That is why it is very advisable to go for someone who has the same s*x strength as you do.

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You Want To Pass Objective Examination Questions? Read This

2016-08-20T05:00:00.000-07:00

Easy ways to pass Objective Questions

When it comes to objective questions otherwise known as multiple choice questions, students are happy and full of hopes that all is well. Why is it so? Probably, it has options that only require you to tick one out of the some few given options.
To this fact, most students tend to believe that the principle of guessing will always work in objective questions and so they tend to neglect the good advice of ‘read the questions and understand it’.

Despite most students' perspective of how easy objective questions are, the truth is that it could be as well difficult. Sometimes, you might just get into a question whose options are all alike and you are confused. The correct option is there, but there you are faced with the challenge of picking the most correct one.

Read this : 5top reasons why students fail examinations

Objective questions require a good skillful approach when answering them.
Below are the tips you could follow when faced with objective questions.

#1. Answer the easiest questions first

Most students tend to waste much time on a single question that seems too difficult to answer. When you find them, quickly skip to the next question but always note any skipped question.

I could remember one objective exam I wrote. After I found out that the most difficult questions are the first questions, I immediately jumped to the last question and thereby started from the last question to he first.

After all, no examiner is going to penalise you or deduct your marks for this. Therefore, you need to answer the easiest questions first.

#2. Follow RUA tip

You may wonder what is RUA. Well, it’s one of the tips I use in answering any objective questions that comes my way. Here is what RUA means:

R means "READ" : When you are faced with any objective question, the first thing you should do is to read the question. It’s only an unwise student that goes into an examination hall, pick up his/her pen and begin to tick any option that rings in their head without even reading the question.

When reading a particular question, fix your eyes closely on the important words. Don’t be surprised, you might find the answer in those keywords.

U means "UNDERSTAND" : After reading the question, it doesn’t stop there. Don’t rush to pick an answer yet. Understand what you read. Understanding a particular question gives you an insight of what that question is all about.

Take for example, let’s say you understand five different languages and I now talk to you in any of those five languages you understand, it will be very easy for you to note the exact language I use.
It will be very easy for you to tell which is and which is not.

The same also apply to answering objective questions.

A means "ASSIMILATE" : To assimilate something is to deeply understand it. After understanding a question, it’s important you let it sink well in your brain. Your brain works on it to make sure it is well understood.

#3. Do an Evaluation Work

After reading the question and the options well, also learn to work on the options given to you. Form your own opinion of the options and know if they are in line with the question.

Like I said, note the important keywords like ‘NOT’, ‘EXCEPT’, ‘NONE OF THE ABOVE’, ‘ALL OF THE ABOVE’.
So, when answering your objective questions, note some of those keywords in relation to the given options and evaluate them.

#4. Always Strike Out

This method is good after your evaluation on the given options. All the options will not be the particular answer to the question, therefore it’s important that you pick an option one at a time, and if the picked option does not go in line as the answer to the question, strike it out.
Do likewise to all other options. It helps to avoid error in choice making.

#5. Don’t Discourage the Brain

There are times you will have to encounter some challenging questions. These questions seem not to have an answer. The best way to tackle such questions is to leave them. Working on a particular question for too long will take a lot of the time you would have used to answer other questions and worst of it all, it will get your brain weakened and discouraged.

If you leave the tough questions and proceed further, there are chances that you will later answer them correctly.

#6. Guess it Out

I made mention of the word ‘guess’ at the beginning of this article. I don’t advise students to fully depend on guess work.
Guess work is mostly applicable when all other method fails.

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7 Types Of Tastes You Must Have If you Seek A Peaceful Marriage Life

2016-08-18T05:00:00.001-07:00

Should I say it’s disgusting when I see some men who could approach any woman they come across, or women who say YES to any man who woo them?

The word “taste” as it is used in this context means “the values that someone possesses that you appreciate”. Honestly, everybody must have a taste, in order to avoid some bad happenings in the future. In this article, you will get to know the 7 different tastes you must have and why it is a must to have them.

I was having fun with some friends in a restaurant when a lady entered. To me, she was neither attractive nor charming at all. One of my friends was lost in concentration that he couldn’t give a reply to what I asked. Immediately I noticed that it was the lady that he was looking at, I gave him a scornful look and told him “you don’t have a taste!”. It was not really that the lady might not be attractive to him, but I knew my friend well - that was how he did for every other ladies he came across.

When he curiously asked me what I meant, I needed to explain the types of taste that he must have, if he would not want a broken home at an earlier time of marriage. Here are they:

#1."THE LOOKS" - TASTE

The first type of “taste” that is the most compulsory for everybody is “the looks”. Yes, you heard it right. Don’t you have how you want your partner to look like, before you'd ever meet him/her? The looks you may search for in that partner are just three: the “color”, the “height” and the “beauty”.

Most people do mix up “the color” with “the beauty”. No! they are different!. I once heard someone who said the entire light-skinned lady he had ever seen were beautiful. It was immediately that I corrected him that he had not been to places. If he had really gone to places, he would see many light-skinned lady who are ugly than the chimpanzees.

Also, it should be noted that people who think most “blacks” are ugly are wrong. Haven’t you seen a black man who is more handsome that the “whites”? Yes! There are. So, either black or white, the choice is yours. HAVE IT AS A TASTE AND GO FOR IT.

In other hand, “the height” as well is also an important choice that you must make. You may prefer to have a partner who is short or tall.

Read : 3 Main Things That Could Prompt Your Partner To Take A Divorce Decision And Ways To Avoid Them

#2. COMMUNICATION - TASTE

Another important type of taste is “the way s/he communicates”. Here lays UNDERSTANDING, as well. Communication also has different parts. It could be “the manner of communication”. While some people communicate rudely, others may communicate with you and your head will swell. We have different manners. Some people are bold and can communicate their feelings to you while some lacks the spirit of communication. Which one do you like? While you may also communicate with some people once and feel satisfied – because they have much understanding, you may communicate with another person in 100times and still feel bored.
In fact, communication also has a several roles to play, if you are ready to marry him/her. YOU MUST HAVE IT AS A TASTE AND GO FOR YOUR CHOICE.

#3. AGE DIFFERENCE - TASTE

Has s/he passed your looks and communication tastes? Age difference is also what you must have as a taste. For example, I loved to marry a woman whom I'd be older than she with at least 3years. Do not laugh at me! That's my own taste amd I have my reason. Some other men love to marry a woman of the same age as they, while some love to marry a woman who is older than they. Yes, there are.
In the other hand, some ladies also want to get married to someone who is older as their fathers while some said they couldn't marry a man who is older than they. We exist in different taste. But do you believe that, if you have this kind of taste, some do not have? And those are the people who this post is directed to.

#4. RELIGION - TASTE

This is one of the mistakes most people make and today, it has spoilt their relationships. When you are not an atheist, you must have your ways you worship your God. Even if you are an atheist, have an atheist partner.
Most people give the excuse that "the love is blind" and married a wrong partner. Is it the love that was blind or they? Also, most people do not give much regards to the "religion aspect" . They say "it doesn't disturb when there is love". It's true that it doesn't disturb but when the worries it'd later give comes, I pity the lives of your kids. There was a certain time I thought of having a Christian as a partner when I was a Muslim. I had my reasons and fully understood the consequences I'd be bearing. You can be a Christian and your partner religion-taste is Muslim in as much as you understand the consequences you'd be dealing with. HAVE THAT TASTE TOO.

Real also: Top 20 Signs That Shows Your Relationship Is Ending

#5. WEALTH - TASTE

You may be a man and desire to marry a wealthy lady, either her own wealth or her parent's. Again, do not say "love is above everything". That's how most people misuse the word "love". Are you telling me you won't pack out of that man's house if he remains poor for 30years of marriage when you see your friends' husbands buying cars for their wives. What spoilt my own parent's home?
Even, Islam as a religion supports considering the wealth status of a partner before you marry him/her,though it's the last on the list. Wealth-taste is also a must-have taste.

#6. SEX - STRENGHT - TASTE

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#7. BEHAVIOR - TASTE

This kind of taste is the one that most people say it's hidden. That is, each person automatically hides his/her behavior before marriage - that is, it's when the couple starts to live together that each partner's true behavior reveals with time. However, you can know the possible behavior of a partner before you get married in so many ways. Sorry, that would also be another post. So, don't forget to subscribe, like and follow easy blog blog.

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Should Family Members Or Any Of the In-laws Live With The Couples?

2016-08-18T05:00:00.000-07:00

Getting married is one blissful and enjoyable moment every persons wish to experience. Newly wedded couples are happy that they are finally together after so many hurdles. And this is the time they probably want to start knowing each other better.

But the question is ‘should your family members or your any of your in-laws live with you?’
This question might not get exactly the same answer as people’s thought and plans are quite different.
So, my thoughts might not be the same as yours. And don’t forget to tell me your thoughts on this using the comment box.

In-laws may be of great help especially to newly married couples who are just starting and are finding it a bit hard to cater for themselves. But is the idea of living with them really a good one? In some cases, it might be a good decision as you will be able to gather some assistance from them. And also, in some cases it’s not advisable to live with them.

Here are my reasons why married couples should not live with their family members.

#1. Privacy is needed

Every couple will definitely agree with me that they really need a lot of privacy in their life. But when in-laws and family members are around, you will find out that privacy won’t be guaranteed for the couples.
When in-laws are around, most couples find it hard to spend quality time together. And in most cases when family members are around, couples find it hard to tell them to give them space. So, it’s better if couples don’t live together with their in-laws.

In terms of planning on how the home is going to look like, couples need privacy. And sometimes, we see that most family members are always inquisitive to know what’s going on with the couples and what plans they are making. To avoid such interruption, it’s advisable that family members should be distant from couples.

#2. Over interference

It’s such an ugly scene when you see couples been interfered by their in-laws virtually in every matter. And you will be finding it tougher with them when kids start coming in. And then, you will notice the high level of interference family members or in-laws will start dictating to you on how you will bring up the kids. The duty of training the kids the way you desire will no longer be in your hands but your in-laws will be the one training the kids in their own style.

I'm not saying it’s not good to have them around during birth period but in the long run, it will be harder for you when you let them live permanently with you.

#3. Disrespect

In the first time, the relationship between the couples and the in-laws is cordial and friendly and everyone is happy and ready to assist anyone. But you never can be sure that this cordial relationship will continue. In the long run, couples will start getting disrespect from in-laws and likewise the in-laws will not even get any respect from the couples as well.
To avoid such, it is better that couples are quite separated from their in-laws. This will at least command a lot of respect from their in-laws.

Now you have seen some of my reasons why I don’t advise couples to live together with their family members. If there is anything I'm missing, kindly use the comment box.

Or you don’t agree with me, please feel free to say your suggestions..

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Things to Tell You're Doing The Wrong Job

2016-08-17T06:00:00.000-07:00

Most people on the first period when they get an employment are happy and full of hopes. And they start making plans as to what to do when they get their first pay check.
Along the line, you might find out that these people who were once happy when they got the job are now sad and find no pleasure doing their job anymore.

If you are in this category, then this article is for you.
Actually when people are no longer finding pleasure in their job, they are afraid of changing; they are in between making a change or remaining in their present job.

If you're really doing the right job, there is full happiness and enthusiasm to do more. That's why it's always advisable to do works you love doing most.

There is probably no job that I can say is perfect, but the truth is that there can be one that soothes you better. Your job ought to be the one that would satisfy you and make you feel you want to work more.

But what are the signs to tell you that you're in the wrong job?
There are many signs to tell you, some of them are when :

#1. You loose interest and passion

You will know that you are in the wrong job when you get this ugly feeling every Sunday evenings. You become the "I hate Mondays" person. Your prayer is that Monday should not come when you could get back to work. When you are having this feelings, it shows you are doing the wrong job.

Or you notice that the passion which you once had for the company or organization is no longer there. You no longer believe in the services or products your job gives, then that is also a good sign that you are in the wrong job.

#2. You have no or clear communication

When you are in the right job, you will find it easier to communicate with your co-workers. But when you are in the wrong job, communication with your colleagues would be a tug of war. When you're not happy, how could you communicate very clearly to people? Certainly, you must be happy if you're really doing the right job.

#3. You become a time watcher

Most times you might be eager to leave the work at hand and all the time in the office you keep watching the time and your prayer is that time should fly so fast so that you could go home.
This is definitely a sign that you are in the wrong job. It shows that your job is no longer giving you joy and happiness.

#4. There's a feeling of jealousy

When you are in the wrong job, you will know when you start fantasizing other people’s job. And you just have this feeling that their job is better than yours. You become jealous of your friends job and you might start imagining yourself in their job. And when this imagination starts, you will be dull doing your own present job.

#5. Your real talent is wasting

When you feel that your present job is not making use of your talent, then you are in the wrong job. When your talent is wasting away and you know that, then it should be a sign that you are in the wrong job.

#6. There's a feeling of embarrassment

If you always feel embarrassed whenever people ask you what your job is, that is also a sign that your present job is wrong for you. And when you feel embarrassed with their question of what your job is, that shows you are not really satisfied with it.

#7. There's poor or no advancement

When your job is not advancing or growing both internally and externally, it could possibly affect a worker. So, when your present job is not growing to benefit it’s workers, that shows you are in the wrong job.

#8. There's a feeling of been unappreciated

When you are doing a great work for your company or organization and all your efforts are not appreciated, that really shows you are in the wrong job. When your works are unappreciated, it shows that all your efforts towards the growth of that company or organization is been taken for granted.

#9. You can't develop new skills

When your present job is not helping in expanding your skills and making effort for you to acquire more skills that means you are in the wrong job.

Or if also, there's no time for you to develop new skills, you should it's time to change the job.

#10. You loose respect

When you loose respect for the management of your company or organization that is another sign that you are in the wrong job.

Are there still more signs you want us to know? Share it in comment section and it shall be updated after review.

7 Common Effects Of Divorce On Your Children

2016-08-16T20:00:00.000-07:00

Many couples who have been in wed-lock for quite a good number of years might be faced with great challenges that could eventually lead to their divorce. If these challenges between couples are not taken care of, it could break the marriage and this will in no doubt affect the children somehow.

It is said that when two elephants fight, the grass suffers it

Children feel disturbed when their parents are not living in peace and they hope to see that their parents would sort out the problem without separating. But what now happens when husband and wife are not able to fix their problems? We see that there is much tendency that the marriage will clash forcing them to divorce.

Some of the list of effects I will be explaining here might not be really found in your children after your divorce, but there is a great chance that they will. Check them out below:

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#1. They might face academic challenges

Children whose parents get divorced are been faced with academic challenges. They tend to have low grades in school as a result of no parents to cater for their academic needs like helping them with their assignment and encouraging them as well. I was a victim of this. My education was brought to a halt before I later got the money to sponsor myself.

Kids with both parents together are always happy with their studies and their brain is relaxed and focused but when there is a divorce, the children suffer academically.

#2. They might be influenced negatively

Whether they're kids or grown up adults, they are prone to social vises and all manner of juvenile crimes. Why is this so? They have no both parents to advise and caution them and so they go in the wrong path committing crimes against the law.

Also, members of bad gangs might also like to invite them since they know know one to shut them up.

#2. They might suffer child abuse

Children whose parent are apart tend to suffer child abuse from maybe their relatives or other people around. This won’t happen if both parents settled their differences amicably without involving divorce into it. They're going to be monitored well. Who would also wants to abuse them in the presence of their parent?

#3. They develop emotional problems

Children experience emotional distress and disorder which could probably last for a long time. Even as old as I am, I still feel the pain sometimes inside me. The truth is that, kids who watch their parents get divorced feel a lot of pains in their heart knowing full well that they won’t be both parents to take care of them. Though some kids might do well in school even after the divorce of their parents, but honestly they face deep emotional trauma afterwards.

#4. Marriage might be worthless to them

Hmm... And only God knows why I'm not married yet. Children who watch their parents break up view marriage as worthless and so they tend to appreciate premarital sex more than been chaste. They now have the feeling that getting into marriage would definitely be a waste of time and effort because in the end they might also break up with their spouse. But if parents are able to solve their problems in a more understanding way, the children will also imbibe that attitude and they will have no fear of getting married in the near future.

#4. They might feel unsecured and abandoned

There is always a feeling of abandonment when children witness their parents’ divorce. And this feeling worsens when either of the couple gets married to another person (a step parent). The children would have to face another home totally different from their previous homes; they would have to face another father or mother; they would have to face another stepbrothers and stepsisters and step grandparents.
When children are faced with all these, they feel unsecured and abandoned.

Going for a second marriage due to the divorce could bring emotional complications for children. When divorced parents go on pursuing another relationship, a feeling of abandonment is always seen in the life of the children.

#5. They begin to live with worries

Children don't always easily get over the effects caused by their parents divorce. The good times they used to enjoy with both parents all lost. When children look back to all the special events, going on vacations, attending marriage ceremonies, graduations, sports events and see that they won’t be able to enjoy them anymore, they feel sorrowful and mourn for the loss.

Parents could easily adjust to all these changes because it is they that take the decision, and don't always care about what happens to the children afterwards? They will always find it difficult to adjust.

#7. They might loose all hope in you

Children strongly believe that their parents are always able to find the right solutions to their differences when it arises and that no matter the weight of the problems; they believe their parents are capable of handling them.

The faith the children has on the parents gets down the drain if couples are not able to handle their problems rightly. Instead of finding the best solution to their differences, they accept divorce as the only alternative, a very bad decision.

What parents might see as the best possible way out of the problem might greatly be disastrous in the lives of children. ‘One dad, one mom’ is what every kid wants.

Do you want to create a life of discomfort for your children? Do you want them to start leaving in shock as a result of the wrong decision you're about to take?

Dear reader who intends to divorce your spouse because of a million reason, have a second thought on tour children before you do.

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5 Causes Of Marital Breakup And 14 Ways To Avoid Them

2016-08-11T08:25:00.000-07:00

5 PERFECT TIPS TO PERFECT MARRITAL BREAKUP

Marital breakup is what happens when husband and wife can no longer live together and later go for divorce. Often, there are cases of marital breakup among newly wedded couples of nowadays. After few years of marriage, either of a couple can just decide to request for divorce, for some reasons.

When the cause of a problem is known, the problem is 99% solved. Without wasting much of your time, some five causes of marital failure with some helpful ps to prevent each are discussed below:

#1. YOU DID NOT FULLY KNOW AND UNDERSTAND WHO YOU'RE MARRYING OR GETTING MARRIED TO:

When relatives or friends ask you about your fiance/fiancee, you could only tell few things about him/her like "h/she's nice, loving, h/she is gentle... and so on". You did't know who exactly s/he is before you take yourself to the alter. Not knowing who really s/he is, I mean you didn't know his/her true character, you did not know when and what makes him/her get annoyed, what makes him happy and not. Actually, there are so many things hidden about him/her you need to know.

Then, when you did not know all these, how do you think you can cope with him/her for the rest of your life? (since marriage is a lifetim jorney). You might be doing something which you, yourself thinks will make him happy, but for the kind of person s/he is you're really hurting him/her. It is when you fully understand him/her that you can come to the conclusion of marriage.

Tips to prevent #1:

Have enough date. The first mistake that most people make is "no much time to date before marriage". Yes, when you did not date for enough time, you will not likely know who really your companion is.
Be inquisitive about his/her action while you're still dating. Anytime s/he does something strange, ask him or her why. Don't be dormant to asking questions. Also, whenever you find him/her in a good mood, get closer to him and ask about his/her likes and dislikes. It'll help you when you finally get married.

#2. HAVING EXTERNAL MARRITAL AFFAIRS (INFIDELITY)

Infidelity means unfaithfulness in marriage. Another cause of marital failure is when there is Infidelity in a marriage. There is no way either of a couple will know about his/her partner is having external affairs with someone else that s/he will be pleased. Even, if your partner perseveres a lot, s/he will still have a second thought someday.

Tips to prevent #2:

Try your possible best to marry your taste. How? Read the 7 types of tastes you must have if you seek a peaceful marriage Life.
When you know his/her beauty is not up to your taste, why did you marry her or get married to him? Or is the way that she cooks that you don't like or her attitude towards sex? Then, requesting for a divorce is not the best option. Why not consulting relationship experts?

#3. FINANCIAL LEVEL OF THE FAMILY

Yes, when there is low income than the family's expenditure, thoughts like "getting someone who is financially capable" is the next thing women thinks about. Financial level of the family can reduce when there is unemployment, loss of job or business. Or when the family grows in number- having more children. This problem can also be prevented. How?

Tips to prevent #3:

While you were dating, probably some months before marriage, why couldn't you put heads together to invest in something, if there's no job yet?
When you really know what you are doing, you may apply for loan - if there's no financial assistance from relatives.
If you've already made the mistake of investing and either of you(you and your spouse) looses his/her job, the next is not to find a financial freedom. You can still put heads together and motivate each other, either to find job or start a small scale business.
Plan the number of children to have - numbers that won't eat up your financial capability. Don't be that Ronaldo who scores all goals.

#4. GOSSIPS FROM INTRUDERS

Gossip may come from relatives, friends, enemies or even people who thinks they use their gossips to help you. They may tell you they found your spouse at somewhere unpleasant to be heard such as hotels. They tell you things that yourself have never noticed. You now begin to doubt you partner's trust or start to reason some stupid facts. You begin to relate what you are told to some of his/her actions. Alas! You're moving towards divorcing him/her - the end of your marriage.

Tips to prevent #4:

Did you believe that some of those that gossips to you tell you these things to earn a good face from you? In the first place, the trust that made him or her worth to be married, have you lost it? If NO, then why giving rooms for intruders? Why can't you just shun them off? They are there to drag your thoughts to suspecting him/her.
If you don't buy the idea of shunning off your intruder, you will need to do appropriate findings and get REAL FACTS before you take any step. The next step is to carefully address him/her with your facts. Do not keep the facts inside yourself because if you do, you only want to ruin your marriage.

Check out the top 20 signs that show you're in a committed relationship

#5.NOT SPENDING ENOUGH TIME WITH THE FAMILY

A spouse may choose not to spend his/her maximum time with the family because of his/her love for money or friends. Different cases has been reported by men saying their wives do not have time to take care of their kids and cooking better foods for thrm". Also, some women has complained that there men don't always look after the family. Honestly when these complaints become incessant, your spouse can easily be bored off and tends to dump you for someone else who has his/her time.

Tips to prevent #5:

If you must do, have less friends who prefer hanging out than staying in their houses with their families.

Immediately you leave your workplace or finish you assignment, head towards home straight as your wife (if you're a man) would love you to eat her food.

During your free periods, tickle your spouse and play with your kids, sometimes in a funny way.
Reduce the love you have for money, respect your relationship.
If you're a woman, go for jobs/works that give room for cooking and taking care of the household.

To maintain a balance relationship for 20 years and above nowadays is not an easy task. But with those tips above, you can achieve more.

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Top 5 Reasons Why Students Fail Examinations

2016-08-11T08:18:00.000-07:00

Top reasons why students fail examinations

Most students wonder why they (or their friends) fail each examination they write. It is neither a curse nor their fate. EVERY CHILD IS BLESSED WITH A GOOD MEMORY, BUT IT DEPENDS ON WHAT EACH CHILD USES HIS/HERS FOR.

The fact is that, there are some certain things that are needed to be taken care of to avoid failure.

I will be stating and explaining five (5) good factors that contribute to what makes you fail examinations. Here are they:

Inadequate prepadation
Playfulness
Supplying wrong answers for the right questions
Lack of skimming and scanning
Poor handwriting

1. INADEQUATE PREPARATION

Lack of preparation or inadequate preparation is the first and the best thing that can lure students into failure. Most students believe that preparation for examinations starts some few weeks/days before the examination date. NO, it is not so! Preparation for examinations should start very early.

There are three (3) main ways to prepare for examination. When these ways are followed, it's going to be a very easy thing to pass examinations without much stress.

i. One is preparation before the lesson. This means studying the corresponding topics per subject just before the lesson/class starts. This way, it helps students a lot to gain and understand more new knowledge about the topic matters.

ii. Preparation after lesson. This refers to studying the lesson that was taught just immediately after the lesson was delivered. It helps to get a better view and assimilate the lesson taught.

iii. The third way is the routine preparation to remind. Creating a regular study periods for the lesson that has been taught, in case of forgetfulness.

Read >>> 6 Best Ways To Fully Prepare For Examinations

2. PLAYFULNESS

In the order, it is playfulness that brings about forgetfulness and forgetfulness leads to failure.

Plays are materials that detach your knowledge from your brain, especially when you have a low storage + low retrieval. "All works and no play makes Jack a dull boy". Yes, it could be true. But it is better for Jack not to play and be dull than to play and become duller everyday.

Meanwhile, the above quote does NOT advice Jack to play for longer hours. It does not advice him to play roughly.

Students are hereby adviced to minimize their play (if it's necessary) to avoid forgetfulness.

3. SUPPLYING THE WRONG ANSWERS

Another reason why most students who even prepare well fail examinations is when they supply incorrect answers for particular questions. Mere looking at some questions, they are very simple thereby giving such students more confidence to get the questions right. But those questions may be very tricky and confusing. Then, with the aforementioned confidence, they supply incorrect answers.

Hence, enough patience is needed while answering examination questions. Read, read again and fully understand the questions before you supply answers.

4. LACK OF SKIMMING AND SCANNING

What does it profit a candidate who is always the first to submit, but at the end fails the examination? No examiner or invigilator will reward you, either with marks or gift item, for being the first person to submit. You submit lately does not mean you are going to fail, neither will your marks be deducted.

Even if the questions are simple and you are through with your works before the qiven time expires, always take your time to skim and scan what you have written down. You might have supplied wrong answers or even made mistakes.

Read also >>> If You Want To Pass Objective Examination Questions

5. POOR HANDWRITING

Yes, your poor handwriting is my last point. Like one of my teacher used to say : "you write rubbish, I will mark nonsense".

How could you expect your examiner to guess what you write for you? When you write what he can't see, you should not blame him when he marks what he sees and leaves the rest for you.

Develop a better handwriting. No matter the class you are, you are not too big to develop yourself with a good handwriting. Get an handwriting book, study the way each letter is written both in upper and lower cases. Practice, practice, and practice again till you become perfect. And when you are perfect?.....still practice again.

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20 Top Signs That Reveal You're In A Committed Relationship

2016-08-11T08:15:00.000-07:00

The Researchers questioned 2,000 people to reveal the most signs that shows you are in a serious relationship. Check below the top 20 signs that reveals you are deeply in love with your partner.

Here are the explained signs you might notice:
MEETING YOUR PARTNER'S PARENT
       The first day you started to meet your partner's parent, there is a sign that you really love your partner. It means you love your partner with parent.

EXCHANGING HOUSE/ROOM KEY
      You give a chance for your partner to enter you house/room, even without you. You trust her wholeheartedly and trust is the gain for love.

DISCUSSING PLAN FOR THE FUTURE
      You might notice that, in your relationship, you are having discussion of future plans. Like, where are we going to be living in so so years, what are the plans we have for our UN-born kids, etc. It should be noticed that you are in a serious relationship with your partner.

BEING INVITED TO FAMILY GATHERING
      Your partner's family, be it sister or brother, are now inviting you to parties or any ceremony, no doubt! They really love the way you are treating your partner!

STAYING OVERNIGHT AT YOUR PARTNER'S HOUSE
      In some cases which is unusual, you started to pass some nights with your partner. whether you show love or you do not, if you do no love your partner, you will not go there. Definitely, you are in love.

SEEING EACH OTHER AT LEAST EVERY OTHER NIGHT
      If you can not afford passing night at each other's night, you just manage to see yourself every 24 hours. It also shows that you are in a serious relationship.

YOU TELL EACH OTHER ALMOST EVERYTHING
      You rarely have secret that your partner is not aware of. You tell your partner the secret you have before you meet, while you meet. You hardly keep something away from your partner.

BEING INTRODUCED TO WIDER FRIENDSHIP
      You might meet yourself in the amidst of your partner's friend, where you do not know any of them but the really know you. Do not be surprised, this is done by your partner and it shows your partner love you so much.

FIRST NAME TERMS WITH PARTNER'S DAD
      This often occurs among the female after marriage. You now change your surname to guy's family name. You know what I mean, if you do not, use the post comment box below.

YOU SHARE SECRET ABOUT FRIENDS WITH YOUR PARTNER
      You might get what is called friend secret [a secret which is not linked to anyone outside the circle]. You are just willing to share the secret with your partner with the warning [NO ONE MUST HEAR THIS O!], you are fully in love.

GOING OUT WITH PARTNER'S FRIEND/FAMILY WITHOUT THE PARTNER BEING THERE
      You move out with your partner's friend/family in which your partner might be aware of but not there with you. Love is driving you crazy........lol.

Here are the self-explained you might notice:

Letting your partner take care of you when you are sick.
Discussing how many kids you might want to have in the future.
Having clothes/other belongings in your partner's house/room.
Changing facebook relationship status to "in relationship".
Knowing each other's passwords.
You share secrets with each-other.
You call each other frequently.
Putting photos of both of you on social networks.
Sending good morning/good night texts.

You may use the comment box below to add yours or give corrections and add your views.

WATCH OUT: 5 Signs That Show Your Relationship Is Ending

2016-08-11T08:10:00.001-07:00

There are so many signs to be noticed when you are in a relationship. When you see the following signs,you should notice the relationship is coming to an end. Here are the top 5 signs you should notice:

*YOU DON'T COMMUNICATE
You might notice you are now having less or no communication with your partner, you hardly speak to each other except the normal things you discus like good morning, bye-bye, welcome and so on. It should be noticed that the relationship is coming o an end.

*YOU RARELY HAVE Sex (What you used to do before)
If your relationship is the type that you do have sex, you now notice is quit a while you have had sex. You are no longer sleeping in your partner's room let alone having sex, there is a sign that you no longer have interest in your partner. You might be getting too much fun outside house before you get home,when you get home you just sleep. If care is not taken properly,you might loose the relationship.

YOU IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER
Once you are alone, there's no sign that you are missing your partner you are in trouble. You've started to emotionally depart.

YOU PICK FIGHT EASILY
If you find your parner irritating and can't resist constantly picking them up as an habits then writing is on the wall. Relationship requires empathy, compasion and compromise to keep going, so if you've jacked all that in favour of snapping and bickering it's time to get out of there.

*YOU EASILY REMEMBER PAINFUL THING THAT YOUR PARTNER DID
Your memory easily brings what your partner did to offend you. You think a lot about your partner's bad side. This brings hatred into your heart and once the hatred is created,you will start to loose interest in the relationship and it might mean ending the relatonship.

However, Whenever this signs are noticed in relationship,the situation should be handled carefully....

Are there still more signs? Let us know via the comment section

5 Pretty Ways To Manually Change Your Sad Mood To A Happy One

2016-08-11T07:54:00.000-07:00

Positive researchers are now turning up unexpected happiness triggers that can turn your frown face upside down. Here we have four funny ays that can make your mood better.

· A FAKE SMILE:

"Grin and bear it" isn't such dumb advise after all. Faking a genuine smile-the kind that crinkles the corners of your eyes eases stress and boosts moods in a University of Kansas study. Researchers used chopstick placed in the mouths of the volunteers to create a broad smile,a standard smile,or a neutral face (that was to hide the reason for the study). Some were also asked to smile. Then they were all subjected to stressful lab tests such as plugging their hands into ice water. Smiler,even the ones who faked it,had lower heart rate afterward, a sign that they weren't stressed out.

· THURSDAYS:

After we survive Blue Monday, Terrible Tuesday, and woeful Wednesday, the 4th day of the workweek delivers a little happiness bounce. So say London School of Economics researchers who tracked the moods of 45,000 people via a smartphone app called Mappiness.

· TEARJERKER MOVIES

Put the Titanic and Attonement on your feel-good flirt list. Sure,a titanic romance makes you cry in the theater, but after the credit roll, you'll remember what's good about your own main squeese- thereby boosing happiness, Ohio state University

· GETTING OLDER

As we age, our neutrons react less to the negative things we see and hear. The result: Positively prevails. Maybe that's why, in a recent national survey, 42 per cent of those over age 50 said they felt optimistic about life 's next chapters, and 60percent thought they looked at least five years younger than their driver's licenses, said they were report. The sadder the plot, the happier you feel later, they say.

source: The Punch